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I'm glad you forgot all those questions.
I forgot.

I'm not even looking.

We're not living. Do you feel like the
pace is outrunning

us, forgetting to just breathe?

I think they're breathing, otherwise
they would be somewhere else.

Because in your drama, you're the
director, you're the producer, you're

side actors, everything.

That stupid drama should run your way.

No, I'm going all over. No, it's a
conversation, you can go where you want.

What's the last thought that you feel
constantly tends to enter your mind just

before you doze off to sleep?

People come and ask, Sadhguru, how to
sleep?

It's like, God damn it, if you cannot
even sleep, what can you do in your

huh? The easiest goddamn thing is to
sleep. This is a serious problem in the

world. When I go to bed, whenever it is,
I don't sleep, I fall dead.

And sometimes chasing dreams means
success.

But a lot of the times it means seeing
failure.

You can also talk about my failure. Yes,
please do.

So my father asked me after some time,
what does it feel like being a mother?

And I said, it's a combination of joy
and worry.

A worried parent is not a good parent.

I was very glad that I had a girl, not a
boy. Because when I was 10 years of

age, I would do all kinds of things.
When I thought, if my child does this,

will I handle this?

Fortunately, it was a girl.

She never did those things.

Namaskaram to all of you.

Namaskaram. Yeah, I said namaskaram.

I thought you're not on talking terms
with me.

Namaskaram to you ma 'am. Namaskaram.

Okay, so I had the honor of having a

conversation with you before we came on
to this stage.

And one thing that Sadhguruji mentioned
to me is, forget the questions.

Let's just have a conversation.

And I was instantly at ease because I
can prepare all the smart,

intelligent, all those questions I can
prepare and come.

I'm glad you forgot all those questions.
I forgot.

I'm not even looking.

Everything is written here but I'm not
going to look at it.

Because otherwise I'd be wasting a
moment to have a genuine conversation

maybe some of the doubts that I have in
life or some of the questions.

That I perhaps would ask the universe.

I really would like your opinion on... I
always feel as women,

we have so many rules.

There's so much pressure.

So many responsibilities.

So many opinions on how we should be.
How we should conduct ourselves.

What we should do. I don't like this
word should. But it comes up pretty

in conversation.

But I think the women of today are
thriving, growing,

learning.

I want to know from your perspective,
where do you think women are today?

Truth. There are a lot of them here.

See, we need to understand and
appreciate this fact that life,

physically at least, the physical part
of the life has never been as good for

women as it is today.

Otherwise, being a woman on this planet
has been hard, very hard, physically

I'm saying.

Today, because of variety of
conveniences, technologies and many

has leveled the physical field between
man and woman.

It's leveled it simply because of what
is available to us in these times, 21st

century.

I think never before life has been this
comfortable and easy for a woman as it

is today.

All of you women should celebrate this.

Hello?

I'm saying...

I'm not just talking about spacecrafts,
computers, great technology, this one,

that one, all those things are there,
definitely they're all big deals.

But I'm saying simple things, if you
turn a tap, water comes. It's not a

thing, otherwise you had to walk two
miles to get a bucket of water, all

Still unfortunately, for some segment of
the population it's still like that,

but for a large segment, we have taken
this for granted, if you turn the tap,

the water will come.

If you flush the toilet, everything is
gone. These are not small things.

We think this is granted.

Just imagine, those who don't have such
facilities, every day what they go

through. So, life is better than ever
before, but in our experience, we have

make it fantastic. That's important.

In our arrangement, it's better than
ever before.

In our experience, have we made it
fantastic?

Unfortunately, I don't think so.

We should make it fantastic.

When arrangement is so good, experience
should be made wonderful, isn't it?

Our experience should not depend on the
arrangements, but if the necessary

conveniences are not there, your entire
life goes in making those little things

going.

Today, all those things are taken care
of.

It's important how a human being is
within himself or herself.

That must be taken care of, but I feel…
We have not given enough focus to that.

Ladies all getting together and wanting
to learn, the most important thing to

learn is how to be.

How to be? How am I right now?

What's my experience of just sitting
here and breathing? If you don't change

this, even if you put you in a palace,
you will suffer.

Lot of people in palaces have committed
suicide, hello?

Right through history, not just today,
all the time.

Because human experience is caused from
within.

If you take care of that one thing, then
we can enjoy the outer things that we

have created. Because everything that we
have created today in our pursuit of

comfort and convenience, it has all come
at a great cost for every other

creature on the planet.

From a microbe, to a worm, to an insect,
to a bird, to an animal, to a tree,

every one of them have paid an enormous
price.

I'm saying just to build this hall,
there's a genocide of worms, insects and

other life which is the basis of our
lives.

So, when we are burning the planet like
this, at least it must be a celebratory

bonfire, not a funeral pyre.

Because most people, if you look at
them, how they're going on the street,

looks like they're going to a funeral.

They're driving their dream car. I don't
see them driving joyfully, unless it's

a stolen car or something.

Most people are going, you know, grumpy
like that, sitting in their dream car

and in case the Chennai traffic stops
you and makes you enjoy your dream car a

little while longer, you freak and go
through the ceiling.

So I'm saying this needs to change. Life
has never been this good physically.

Rest of it we must make it wonderful,
isn't it?

And I just want to take off from that a
little bit. You said we should… forget

women, we should just… Learn how to be.

Do you feel like we are all just running
in a direction?

And actually while we're running, we're
not breathing.

We're not living. Do you feel like the
pace is outrunning us?

Whether it's the youth, whether it's
adulthood, whether it's even... I don't

know. Is there a pace that we are kind
of constantly putting up ourselves

against and we're...

forgetting to just breathe?

Oh, I think they are breathing,
otherwise they would be somewhere else.

I understand what you're trying to say.

They're not enjoying their breath.

They're definitely not.

Because most people don't know that they
are breathing.

Doctor has to check and see whether
they're not breathing or not breathing.

This is because fundamentally, your
focus on life is gone. Your focus

is on our...

in your psychological mess.

You think what nonsense is happening in
your head is life.

It's not life, it's your drama.

You don't know how to run your drama,
then how will you know how to run your

life? Because in your drama, you are the
director, you are the producer, you are

all the side actors, everything.

That stupid drama should run your way.

When you get out into the world, you
will do one thing, I'll do one thing,

may do something that I don't like, he
may do something that I don't want.

There are thousand people, they will all
do many things in the outside world.

But within yourself, your own drama
doesn't happen your way. You are a bad

actor, bad producer, bad director, bad
everything.

Time to fix that, isn't it? At least
your drama, your dream at least should

well.

Well, I mean, I can definitely say that
there are days when I wake up with some

sort of energy and it's amazing.

And there are days where I feel like
I'm… Oh, those days the sun came up on

day. That one?

To me the sun is always shining. I like
to look at life like that.

Yeah, the sun is shining and even if the
clouds come in, it's when the sun comes

back you learn how to appreciate the
light, right? So that's what I like to

at life like that.

But I, speaking from my experience and
speaking from where I am today, I'm a

mother to a three and a half year old.

And she's the joy of my life.

But I'm so worried at all time.

So my father asked me after some time,
what does it feel like being a mother?

And I said, it's a combination of joy
and worry.

I'm always worried if I'm being a good
mother.

Am I being a good enough mother?

Am I saying the right thing?

What would your advice be to...

me or any parent today, because children
are so beautiful, they're so curious,

they're living and they're engaging, but
they learn life through you, at least

for the first couple of years.

And of course, on their own, but what
would your one advice to a parent who is

worried if they're being a good parent
be?

A worried parent is not a good parent.

I don't think you can take a worry out
of it. I mean, you would admit.

I'll come. I was very glad that I had a
girl, not a boy, because when I was ten

years of age, I would do all kinds of
things. When I thought, if my child does

this, how will I handle this?

Fortunately, it was a girl. She never
did those things.

I did totally wild things, which were
dangerous many times, very dangerous,

I couldn't be stopped from that.

When you said, I would like to look at
life like that, that you must take it

away from your life. The most important
thing about life is to see it just the

way it is. Not my way, not your way, not
somebody else's way. This is the

problem. In this hall, there are one
thousand worlds.

Each one have their own world in their
head and they will clash at some point.

It's very important we see life just the
way it is.

Only if you see life just the way it is,
effortlessly you will navigate your way

through life.

If I see it in my own way, I will bump
into your walls. If you see it your way,

you will bump into my walls.

No, we must see it the way it is.

Eyes are given to us not to see
something, to see what's there.

Hello?

So just take it as it is.

No, no, don't make a philosophy out of
it. It's an active life process is that

if you look, You must see what is there.

You must not think, oh, they're great,
they're beautiful, they're this, they're

good, they're bad, they're ugly. No.

You must see just what is there.

I'm saying, your eyes are like a camera,
let's say.

A camera should capture what is there.
It shouldn't Photoshop you by itself.

So right now, because you're
contaminated by your own memory,

you will Photoshop it.

I would like to see… I'll put a filter.

More than that, it's Photoshopped.

Filter just changes the color.

You can change the form, everything.

So then, what about my parenting advice
thing that I asked you?

See, when you have a child, first thing
is drop this idea that you have to teach

something.

I know you are a wonderful woman, but
between you and your three -and -a -half

-year -old, what's her name?

Raha. Raha.

Between you and her, who is more joyful?

She. Who should be a consultant for
life?

She. Then what's there for you to teach?

You must listen, you must watch, you
must see how a child is, because a child

far closer to life than you are.

So your advice to me would be?

You don't give her any advice, you take
from her.

You must learn how to be life.

Because she is just life.

You become mental case.

Yeah. No, I am not saying that to you.

Yes, no, of course. Every human being.
Yeah, I totally agree. They are all

psychological cases.

They got their own stuff going, they see
it in their own way.

If you are seeing it your own way,
that's called hallucination.

That is called a psychological ailment.

If you go by the standards, really by
proper standard, really 99 % of the

population should go into the
institution.

Because there are not enough
institutions, we let them free.

But I'm saying, when they were all
children, when they were all three and a

half, not even three and a half, even up
to five, six, seven, many of them, they

were like this, bursting with joy, you
can't put them down.

They still have children, they know.

You had… somebody had to work hard to
make you unhappy.

Today, somebody has to work hard to make
you happy.

This is very difficult.

Can I tell you a joke?

Please do. Is it okay? Yes, of course.

One day, Shankaran Pillai was sitting in
the backyard of his house, grumpy and

miserable.

His neighbor, another guy came and said,
Hey, what's the problem? Why are you

sitting with this end -of -the -world
look on your face?

He said, you know, one of those womanly
questions.

I got the answer wrong.

So, what was that?

He said, my wife came and asked me, when
I get old, fat, unattractive,

will you still love me?

So, that neighbor said, hey, that's not
a problem. You just have to say, yes, I

will.

He said, I know, but I said, I do.

to actually now pivot a little bit to
this age that we are living in, which is

the internet age.

I'm very curious as to what your opinion
is on the various opinions

that is very easily available out there.
I'm not made of anybody's opinion.

Some people say you're God. I'm not
impressed by that. Some people think

a devil. I'm not bothered about this
because who I am is who I am.

I know exactly what I am doing.

Every step, every breath, every step is
conscious for me, so I'll do what I have

to do. But for everybody else, this
problem… See, first thing is to learn

ease. It's very hard for people to
understand. It takes lots of discipline

come to this place, that if I sit here
with you, if you sit here with me here

for twenty years, thirty years, forty
years, I won't form an opinion on you.

Because the moment I form an opinion, my
work is defeated. My work is human

transformation. If I say, Alia is like
this, I have destroyed my own work.

My work is to see human beings can be
transformed.

It doesn't matter who they are, where
they came from. If they are willing,

can transform themselves.

So I have put myself to extreme
discipline.

People who have been with me for thirty,
forty years, working around me every

day, I don't have an opinion on them.
When I look at them, I look at them just

the way they are right now.

This will take lot of work. This is some
work that every one of you must do.

When you look at somebody, you look at
them how they are today, not what they

were doing yesterday.

The whole… See, for many companies we
are changing this. We are changing the

nomenclature of their… what is this?

Human resource.

No, human resource department.

I'm changing that name for them. It's
called human potential.

Because a human being is a potential.

Can you nurture it to its fullest
possibility?

See, I'm saying, not to insult you,
you're a very good actress and all that.

us say, in this Chennai city, there may
be thousand possible alias, but they may

never become that because nobody
nurtured it, there was no situation for

Absolutely, yeah. That possibility does
not get the needed nurture.

So that is so in every field, in our
world, everybody, whoever we are right

is because of many things that happened
to us at the right moment.

Our own capabilities are there, but
still, it's the times in which we exist.

what happened?

A thousand years ago, if you were here,
you wouldn't be an actress.

You would be something else.

So I'm saying, many things nurture us.
That nurture, if we can provide to every

human being, because this is what you
call equal opportunity means.

We can never bring equality to human
beings, but we must bring equal

opportunity. So, self -transformation is
that possibility, no matter who you are

today. I see tomorrow, if you want, you
can be an absolutely spectacular human

being within yourself.

So, I will never form an opinion about
anybody around me, even if I know them

for twenty, thirty, forty years.

I don't form an opinion.

It will take a certain discipline.

Everybody should work on this, because
the moment you form an opinion, You have

closed that human being. It's like a
grave, you close it.

No possibility.

Human is a possibility.

Human is not a resource.

Resource means it has some defined
quality.

You can exploit it in a certain way.

A possibility means it needs nurture.
You have to nurture and see where it

go.

That is excitement of life.

People come one way, if you work with
them, you will see in three, four, five,

ten years' time, they've become
fantastic.

That is the beauty of it. That is the
beauty of raising a, you know, bringing

a child in your house because it is
nothing, two selves.

Just two selves to start with.

Today it's three and a half. We don't
know.

But do you feel somewhere now, today,
we've kept aside this nurturing.

you know, only people who mattered to
us, their opinions would be something

we take very, you know, seriously and
close to our heart because they matter

us. Now all kinds of people making
comments on me.

See,

but the advantage of this is, see,
suppose you lived in a neighborhood

years ago, those five people, your
mother, father, your aunt and

mischievous another person, their
opinions you could not escape because

were right there.

Today, somebody is commenting about you
from Timbuktu, if you don't like it, you

can cut him off.

It's wonderful, huh?

So you're saying use the...

Use the wall to your advantage, actually
put up a wall. No, you don't have to

put a wall. I'm saying, that guy who's
talking rubbish about you, he's not

to come and sit next to you anywhere.

What are you bothered about?

That's not what you're seeing.

Yes. So don't get bothered about it. And
if you see it, that's what you're

seeing. Maybe that guy doesn't even
exist.

He may be an online existence.

He may be a bot, you don't know. That's
true. So just ignore him. Move forward.

But I'm saying, even if a donkey speaks,
listen.

Because sometimes donkeys speak
intelligent things.

They do.

You must listen.

You don't have to, you know, take it as
the truth.

But you must listen.

I think one thing that you said has
really stayed with me, that you see what

you're actually seeing. There's no need
to put a Photoshop version of it and

deal with it as the day goes.

It is what it is.

Life is not to be dealt with.

It's not a… it's not a problem to be
dealt with.

This is because… See, this has become
such a common lingo, oh, we'll deal with

it, oh, we'll take it in, take it in
your stride. That's just now how people

talk to each other. Because they're all
thinking they're targans and phantoms.

They're not.

All the time they think, let's fight it
out.

Why are you fighting?

What are you fighting?

If your navigation is good, without any
friction you must go through this world,

isn't it?

If your navigation skills are good, if
you're a bad navigator, you're hitting

everything, then you think you must grow
muscle, you must bump everybody.

There are certain fields and arenas of
life, maybe there it matters.

But for most human beings, you don't
have to get into any fight.

Your intelligence is in not getting into
a fight, isn't it? Hello?

That you never get into a fight, that's
an intelligent thing. You got into a

fight and you won, that doesn't mean
anything.

You never got into a fight, that's a
good thing.

Though everybody is trying to pick fight
with you, you didn't get into a fight.

They're fighting from their end, that's
their problem.

Yeah, you can't fight if you don't
indulge in the fight.

You know, one of the things that Jito
has done so successfully is empowered a

lot of the youth to chase their dream.

And sometimes chasing dreams means
seeing success.

But a lot of the times it means seeing
failure.

I want to talk a little bit about
failure.

I want to talk a little bit. I can also
talk about my failures.

Yes, please do.

I feel we fear failure.

Even now, as my daughter is growing up,
she's always trying to

win. I came first. Even if somebody else
came first, she said no, but no, she

cheated. I said no, she came first.

Fear of failure

is real.

So what would you say to the youth that
is, you know, wanting

to chase their dreams and wanting to
succeed and perhaps not seeing success?

I'll cry on your shoulder a little bit,
please.

Okay?

Nobody's seen me crying, so let me cry a
little bit. Please do. I think crying

is very healthy.

Oh, don't tell me that.

No, it is not.

We'll come to that.

See, when I was twenty -five of years of
age, I'm just a few years older now,

okay?

So, when I was twenty -five, one day I'm
sitting in one place and suddenly I

realized, if I take my hands off my
psychological process, every cell in my

bursts forth with ecstasy, literally.

Every cell in the body drips ecstasy.

Today, we have done lot of scientific
research to show in the top universities

in the world, the Harvard Medical
School, the Beth Israel Hospital, which

teaching hospital for Harvard Medical
School, has done a lot of research and

other universities to show simple things
that I have taught them, the bliss

factor changes in the body to a point
where it's 70 % higher than normal.

The endocannabinoids are on by
themselves. You're feeling… all the

wonderful. The measurement shows,
there's something called as BDNF, which

about 230 % higher than normal in the
brain.

And the bliss factor in the body is 23 %
higher for just

doing six weeks of practice, 23 % higher
than what happens in a sexual orgasm,

just sitting here.

So if you're like this within you, What
is working, what is not working is not a

concern. You'll do everything to your
best.

But when I was twenty -five, I realized
if I keep my hands off my psychological

activity, I burst into ecstasy.

Then after a few weeks of
experimentation, what am I doing, why is

happening to me, when I understood the
mechanics of what is doing this to me,

then I sat down and made a plan.

And that day, the world's population was
4 .82 or 8 .4 or something like that. I

sat down and geographically I made a
plan in the world that in two and a half

years' time, I will make the whole world
blissful.

Because who wouldn't want to be
blissful?

No price, no cost, no drink, no drug,
simply sit here and boom, you're gone.

Who wouldn't want it? In two and a half
years, I'll make the whole world

blissful. See, it is 43 years.

Here I am, working seven days of the
week, 365 days, non -stop on, 18 -20

a day, and making a few thousand people
work like that every day.

In spite of that, today people say we've
touched over 2 billion people, but

that's not my idea of the world. Now the
world's population is 8 .5… 4… 8 .4 or

5 billion people.

So I know I will die a failure, but I am
a blissful failure.

This is my blessing to everybody.

You must be a blissful failure.

Because you set up petty goals for
yourself and say, I did it, I did it.

what's that?

For human potential, you must think what
you cannot do in this lifetime.

You must aim for something that cannot
be done in this lifetime.

If you take a few steps, next generation
will take the next step.

So, my blessing is, May you be a
blissful failure. If you're blissful,

hell cares?

Somebody thinks you have failed,
somebody thinks you're successful,

the point.

May we all be blissful failures, that's
a… Yes, let's be blissful failures.

Because what we want, because human
capacity to imagine, human capacity to

aspire is such that it cannot be
fulfilled if you live here for five

years or a thousand years, unless you
have a piece of your brain.

Random question.

Yes. How many hours do you sleep?

Well, for almost 27, 28 years, I managed
with two and a half, three hours.

But, you know, last two years ago, I
broke my head twice.

I cracked my head twice. I went to… went
to emergency surgeries.

After that, they gave me lot of
sedatives and stuff, only for about four

So I got used to sleeping and now I am
sleeping four and a half hours, four,

four and a half hours, depends on the
day.

That's it.

What do you mean, that's it?

Four and a half hours.

That's a fourth of the day.

I sleep for nine.

Oh. Or like eight. When will you live?

No, but all we are told is sleep and…
rest and sleep and it's where your body

repairs itself, right? Everybody's
nodding away. That's all we're told. No,

no. Why did you damage your body first
of all?

See, people ask me, Sadhguru, what do
you do to unwind?

See, I don't wind myself up.

Why do you wind yourself and why do you
go and unwind?

Oh my God!

That's true actually.

Why are we so wound up? But we are
always wound up. Okay, I can speak for

myself. You reach the end of the day and
you're tired and you want to sleep. And

in fact, even after I've slept eight
hours, I want to sleep more.

Then I have to wake up. I have to wake
up.

So I love sleeping.

Nobody loves sleeping because when
you're really sleeping, you don't exist.

So what's there to love about it? You
don't love your existence.

You may like the restfulness it creates
for you. But if I teach you a way, if

you sit here for 15 minutes, you feel
like you have slept for 3 -4 hours. If I

teach you something like that, would you
like that?

Yeah, I mean who wouldn't?

Then why the hell you are all in Tamil
Nadu only? Why have you not come and

learnt? No, but… No, so okay, so what
time to what time do you sleep?

Like say 12 a .m. to 4 a .m.?

Okay, fine. What are you doing? It's a
very busy day.

Sorry. Now I'm going all over. No, it's
a conversation.

You can go wherever. I want to know just
before sleep.

When you shut your eyes, I feel like I
ask these people this question a lot.

What's the last thought that you feel
constantly tends to enter your mind just

before you doze off to sleep?

Is that thought for you consistent?

Is it no thought?

Is it just, you know, what is it?

See, that's what I tried to articulate
in the beginning.

See, when you have no opinions, you have
no thought also.

When you have no conclusions.

See, right now I'm looking at you, I'm
just looking at you.

I'm not thinking all your butt, this
one, that one, that one.

No, just looking at you.

That's all.

And I know you're like a scenery, you
keep changing.

I'm just looking at it.

So if I make an opinion, she's like
this, she's like that, then my mind gets

busy.

I don't make an opinion, I'm just
looking at what is there.

Okay, can I tell you what I'm doing,
thinking right now? I'm sitting here,

looking at you, I'm looking away, I'm
thinking, okay, there's a flight to

oh no, we have to leave, what am I doing
tomorrow, I have to wake up at this

time. This is my brain.

All the time. No, no, that is not your
brain. That's the way you're conducting

your brain. That's the way I'm
conducting my brain.

It's like this, you're a bad driver. You
go take your car and bump into

everybody and go.

And then you say, this is what my car
does.

You're a bad driver, it's as simple as
that.

So I'm not driving well right now.

No, it's not just about you.

90 % of the human beings most of the
time are thinking some rubbish that

mean a damn thing to them. If they
thought what they want, they would have

created something wonderful for
themselves and for everybody, isn't it?

I'm saying using 5 to 10 % or 15 % of
the brain, they are doing so many

If they use 100%, they would be
spectacular human beings, everyone.

Because everybody's got the same brain.

Reasonably, reasonably everybody has the
same brain.

See, I don't know most people, you know,
they're all city people, they might not

have spent… In my life, I've spent so
much time with animals, small animals

ants, a grasshopper, a bee, like this
I've lived with them, I've spent so much

attention. They live a brilliant life.

They are so focused, so organized, what
they want, they will do.

They will not do anything other than
what they want, unless they are

threatened and something.

Human beings are not doing what they
want.

If they had the brain of an earthworm,
they would all be peaceful.

They got this big brain and they're
struggling with it.

So people are not struggling with
stupidity, they're struggling with

intelligence, isn't it? Tell me, is
intelligence a solution or a problem?

Should intelligence be a solution or a
problem?

It should be, but… Everybody is making a
problem out of it.

This is why in the evening everybody is
soaking it in alcohol or drug or

something because otherwise it will
freak the hell out of them.

Your intelligence should make your life,
not destroy your life, isn't it?

This is the greatest thing we have.

But it's turned into enemy for most
human beings, this miracle that we call

mind. has become a misery manufacturing
machine.

Tell me, where is all the human misery
manufactured? In Chennai?

Hello? In human mind or no?

Hello?

Hello?

It's manufactured in your mind.

For what?

Your mind should work for you, for your
well -being.

But constantly it's bothering you.
People come and ask, you're telling me

sleep for nine hours?

People come and ask, Sadhguru, how to
sleep?

I say, God damn it, if you cannot even
sleep, what can you do in your life,

The easiest goddamn thing is to sleep.

You can't even do that.

This is a serious problem in the world.

Without a drink or a drug or a tablet or
something, they cannot sleep.

No, one thing is you don't use your body
enough. When I go to bed, whenever it

is, I don't sleep, I fall dead.

Yes. You're supposed… See, these are all
things, your body, your brain,

everything, it gets better with use.

With use it gets better. If you're
trying to preserve it to go to heaven,

sorry, they're not allowing this body
there.

Should I tell them what's in heaven?

You know what's in heaven? Oh yeah.

Please. I think that will be a great way
for us to end this conversation. What

is in heaven?

See, in Hindu heaven, food is very good.

Food is good?

Yeah.

There Akshay Patra is there, Nala
himself cooks for you gourmet Indian

In another kind of heaven, those white
-gowned ladies, legless ladies, they

float in the clouds.

If you like that kind of ambience, you
can go there.

In another kind, there are virgin
problems that you'll encounter.

If you wish to go there, that's what
you're seeking, you can go there. But

thing is, when you die here… See, first
thing is you got to die, isn't it?

Hello? To go to heaven, you got to die.
You never heard of anybody living going

there.

So you got to die. When you die,
depending on your culture, customs,

either burn your body or bury it or…

make it into pieces and throw it to the
birds, whatever, different ways of

getting rid of it.

But the important thing is we put it
back into the earth because what we call

our body is just a piece of this planet,
isn't it?

What we've eaten is just a piece of this
planet, we have to put it back. If

you've not done anything eco -friendly,
that's one goddamn thing you must do,

put the body back into the planet
because that's a contribution. We took

we must put it back.

So you left your body here.

Then now what do you do with good food,
virgins and other nonsense?

You don't have a body.

Hello? No wonder they remain virgins
forever.

And the Akshaya Patra is always full
because nobody went with the body.

Food is cooked and kept, it's always
full only. Only if you eat, it gets

I'm saying we're doing a lot of con job
with ourselves, lying to ourselves in a

thousand different ways.

So if there is one thing you can do
about your life, all of you are mostly

Jains, I believe, Mahavir.

He's called Mahavir, a very valiant man,
not because of the battles he fought.

Because the most significant battle that
you can fight is the investment

that you made in ignorance.

To defeat that, when I say, You know, I
thought I'll make everybody blissful

because what's the problem? Who wouldn't
want to be blissful?

But the way they're invested in their
misery, even if you show them a great

possibility, they will not go.

And I'm asking you, do you have any
proof that you're not already

in heaven and making a mess out of it?

Do you have any proof?

Hello?

You're already in heaven making a mess
out of it.

It's your choice. You don't have to make
a mess out of it. As I said, the

physical comforts and conveniences we
have, no generation ever knew.

Yes or no?

We as a generation. Did any generation
have this kind of things?

And now we're still complaining, still
cribbing like cavemen and women.

It's time we understand everything that
we have. A light bulb burns, it's coming

at a great cost.

to every other life.

When that is the nature of our life, at
least we must live in absolute gratitude

and joy.

Otherwise, everything is burnt for
nothing.

Absolutely.

Thank you so much for speaking with me
today.

Ladies and gentlemen, can we please have
a huge round of applause for you.

Thank you so much.

I think we all took home something
today. Thank you.