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I'm gonna pour
my drink on her.
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Can you muzzle your woman?
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You're not coming
for my husband.
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Dinner is served.
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Welcome to MAFS:
After the Reunion.
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Different names, same recipe.
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I'm Jules, here with
Laura and Brittany.
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The experiment might be over,
but we ain't done yet.
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There is still so much
left unsaid.
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And tonight, let me tell you,
it is all coming out.
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We're back with unseen footage,
all the tough questions,
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and no one is going to get
a free pass.
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We have a jam-packed show.
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We've brought
all the big players.
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Bec was left high and dry
at reunion.
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And tonight she wants
answers from Danny.
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And hell hath no fury
like Bec scorned.
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Then Steph will front up
to the texting drama
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that caused so much chaos
at the reunion dinner party.
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They broke the nation's heart,
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but Rachel and Steven
will unpack what really happened
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after final vows.
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And if there is any hope left,
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then Alissa and David
come face-to-face.
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They've still got a score
to settle,
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and they'll do it right here
on this very couch.
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And last but certainly not
least,
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Stella is here with some very
special bling on her finger.
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And she's also brought
her fiancé along as well.
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And, I mean, honestly,
I'm just exhausted
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just thinking about it all.
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Yeah, I thought maybe
the relationship dust
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would have settled, but there's
just more twists and turns.
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Settled? I feel like it's just
starting to kick back up again.
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It's insane.
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I also kind of feel
pretty sad that, like,
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I mean, I'm so happy
for Stella and Filip,
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but I do feel sad that Rachel
and Steven didn't work out
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and that there's
no other couples!
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It's not over.
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I reckon we could get them
over the line tonight.
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That's what I'm thinking!
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I think we play
matchmaker again.
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I think there's
still love there.
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I'm not convinced it's over.
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Well, look, Danny was due
to arrive 30 minutes ago,
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but let me tell you,
he is still not here.
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We booked his flights.
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We're just not sure
if he's on it.
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The last we heard,
he wanted to negotiate
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a little bit of moolah,
which is a big no from us.
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Feels like he's taking
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something out of the
Gia playbook, right?
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Like, I'm gonna come,
no, I'm not.
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I think it's rich because
Danny was the one who sat here
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and said that the people
who don't show up
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are the people who can't
take accountability.
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And it seems like he now,
who's in the hot seat
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he can't take
the accountability.
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He needs to be accountable
for his unaccountability.
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Yeah, well, the mask
has officially slipped
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and now you can't face
the music, Danny.
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We hope you show up,
but we must forge ahead.
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Well, let's kick it off
with Rachel and Steven.
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They had the whole nation
behind them
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as they navigated
the experiment.
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But despite walking away
together at the final vowels,
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things quickly turned sour.
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- This is it.
- I know.
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Oh, going to cry.
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Long distance is one of
our biggest challenges.
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I'm going to have some
serious thinking to do.
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Being away from Rachel,
I've realised that,
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yeah, I do have deep feelings
for her.
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My biggest fear is that
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I will not meet
Rachel's expectations.
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Oh, my god. Wow.
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You look beautiful.
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I've never felt for
anyone what I feel for you.
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I want this.
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I want you.
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I choose you.
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And I'm diving in.
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Like a fairy tale ending,
isn't it?
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Steven and I have broken up.
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I'm single again.
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Oh, girl.
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- Darling.
- Oh, Rachey.
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- No!
- Oh, no.
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I can't believe
we've broken up.
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I'm hurt. I mean,
I am hurt, I'm devastated.
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I'm not wearing my ring,
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but I do have it
on me just in case.
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Guys, I...
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I have to ask, where are you at?
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His work is busy.
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All, like, basically
throughout the year,
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and winter's his free time.
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So that's when he can give
the relationship more.
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But that's not how
relationships work.
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It's not seasonal.
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I think it's a cop out
and here's why.
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You're saying, I think this is
the one for me,
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but I'm not prepared to make
any sacrifices.
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You're telling her all
the things
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that will give her hope
and then doing nothing about it.
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Now, do you want
to be with Rachel?
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- Yes or no?
- Just own it. Just own it.
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Come on, Stevo,
be honest.
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Set her free.
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Too much.
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This is really unfair now.
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I'm just going to...
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put a bullet in it
and just say no.
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Rachel. Stevo.
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Oh!
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Guys, welcome back.
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Thanks. Thanks for having us.
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It's heartbreaking to see.
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And we have all been
rallying for you guys.
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Honestly, that came
as a huge surprise.
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How are you feeling now?
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It's really sad.
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It's not normal, guys,
you don't want to break up
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with someone, then watch
your beautiful love story back.
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Watching our final vowels, like,
going back to that moment.
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And I was like, I was a girl
in love and you could see it
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all over me, right?
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And so that's hard to relive.
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And I think that's where
the emotion comes from.
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Well, it's an emotional
roller coaster
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watching everything back.
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And I always have that,
you know, regret of, like,
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yeah, I sort of think I could
have done things
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a little bit better.
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Of, like, actually let me,
let me resay that a lot better.
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Stevo, you saying, I'm just
going to put a bullet in it,
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which I think was more
like putting your foot in it?
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It was very hard to watch.
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Yeah, bad choice of words.
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I tend to do that.
However...
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Look, it was a very emotional
moment, high-pressure moment.
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And part of me
just didn't want to
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really say no either.
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To this day, I still think,
you know,
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was that the right decision?
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Could have I done
things differently?
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To this day, I've still got my
regrets and the what-ifs.
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But what is it over?
I'm so confused by this.
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Like, you came onto this show
for love. You got love.
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Do you not want a partner
or do you not want Rachel?
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I'm confused.
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Part of me thinks that
I wasn't good enough for Rachel.
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I've sort of set her free.
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And to find someone
better than me.
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I think that's really unfair.
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I'm so sorry.
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I spent three months with you,
lifting you up, celebrating you.
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I was going to pick up
my life and move for you.
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You were the one
I wanted to be with.
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How many times did you
actually see each other when,
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after final vows?
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Once.
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And that's when
you broke up?
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For less than 48 hours.
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But that doesn't really
feel like giving it a real go
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in the real world.
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I wouldn't say
it's not a lot of effort.
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Like I said, I flew down,
I flew down to Melbourne
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three weeks after final vows
and we spent two days together
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and it was on the second day,
the energy just felt really off.
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And that's when that
conversation sort of happened.
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But I think it's the build up
to what happened
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before we saw each other.
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I was begging you
to come to Melbourne.
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I literally had to beg you.
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And then you rang me
the next day
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and were like, I want to come.
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But my concerns are if we come
and have a fight,
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I'm going to be really
uncomfortable.
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And I was like, well,
that's not fair
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because I went to
your home with your family.
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That could have happened
there too.
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I put myself in that position.
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But you'd already rang Danny
and planned beers with him.
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You told Danny you
were coming to Melbourne
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before you had even told me.
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You had essentially
been caught out.
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And then it got flipped
into your insecurities
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and how you're scared.
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And I'm there begging you
on the phone to just,
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babe, please.
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The only way we can get through
this is to come back together.
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And you could only give me
less than 48 hours
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because of all your
other commitments.
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It wasn't enough.
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So your relationship
was confusing
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going into the reunion
dinner party, even for you two,
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as demonstrated in
this unseen footage.
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- Yeah.
- I can't wait.
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Part of me doesn't even want
to say hello to Rachel.
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But that wouldn't be
very gentleman-like of me.
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And that's not in my nature.
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I'm sort of really upset
it's gone to this
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sort of below the belt
sort of moment.
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I've got a feeling that
Rachel's going to be after me.
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I feel like her not contacting
me, not messaging me
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is a bit out of character
for her.
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I don't know if Bec
has given her a plan.
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I just don't know what to think.
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I just actually want
to see Steven.
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I can't help it, I miss him.
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You know, like, the feelings
haven't gone away.
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You know, I have spent days
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and you're, like, have we
done the right thing?
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Have we not tried hard enough?
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Like, is there, like,
I don't know,
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but I just want to see him.
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I just want to make sure
that he's OK.
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I'm not OK.
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I think you would know
that I'm not OK.
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But I don't know how he is.
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And I just want to know.
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So the plan was that
me and Rachel
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were going to walk
in together, hand in hand.
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But you didn't. And, Steven,
you were really angry about it.
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Why were you mad?
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Well, because this
all sort of fell apart
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the night before.
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What happened
the night before?
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So Steven and I had agreed
the night before we were
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going to reunion that we
spent the night together,
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and we had a conversation
about where we were at.
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Things might have changed.
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You know, like maybe we
could have been walking in
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together, hand in hand.
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And it happened again.
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Work became the priority
and I hit my limit.
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I hit it and I was just,
like, well, I'll go,
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we're going separately.
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Had you told production
that you'd broken up?
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No?
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Rach!
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So if production asks you, did
you just flat out lie to them?
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Yeah, we just were like...
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Yep.
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They don't need to know
everything.
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Why? I'm so confused.
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No, no, no. Of course, we
were going through a confusing
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time of like, we didn't know if
we had made the right decision,
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if we saw each other.
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It was... It was a mess.
253
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Look, it probably wasn't
the right decision,
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but the emotions were running
so high with me and Rachel.
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Like when we decided we're
not going to continue this.
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We cried for two hours,
pretty much.
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When you put your ring back
on, at that point in time,
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were you like, yes, I'm back in?
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Or were you like, actually,
I'm putting this back on
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because we're now back into
this agreement
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that we've had where we're in
good territory with each other?
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- Pretty much. So I think...
- Pretty much which one?
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Pretty much
with the we're back
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in this agreement.
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Back in the agreement, not
back in a relationship together.
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Confusing, I know.
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Very confusing.
268
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And Rachel, your
reaction was visceral just then.
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Like, is that news to you then?
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Because as, as a viewer,
it seemed like
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putting the ring back on
is a statement of
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we are back in this
relationship together.
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Putting the ring back on
for me,
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I knew that we weren't back
together because we weren't.
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But I saw it as more
of, like, a reach out,
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a hope, a hopeful moment.
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So to hear that, it's like I put
it back in because we're back in
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this agreement
to do this thing,
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I'm just kind of like,
that's not fair.
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You see that, like, putting
the ring on is a pretty big
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statement of, even if you're
not saying we're back together,
282
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it's like, I have
enough feelings for you that
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we're going to get out of here
and we're going to work on it.
284
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At the time, I thought
a little, you know,
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there's thoughts in my,
little voices in my head going,
286
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just maybe it may work out.
287
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So I put the ring back on,
thinking there's probably
288
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some still sort of hope
here for this.
289
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What point did you realise
for you there was no hope?
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I seriously thought
after the commitment ceremony
291
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and me saying those
ridiculous words, I thought
292
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just me saying that alone
was enough to fuck it all up.
293
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- And it was, evidently.
- I think it was.
294
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What would you do differently?
295
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I would...
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Realistically, my communication
skills after final vows,
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that was quite shit.
298
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Um, watching it all
back, it's the just keep it
299
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a bit more of a priority.
300
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Don't just go back into my life
and go, that's my comfort zone.
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You've got to make
that a priority.
302
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With everything that
has happened,
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everything that's gone on, if
you're honest with yourself,
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do you believe that when
Steven stood there at final vows
305
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and made a promise to you
and a commitment to you
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that he actually intended
on following through with that?
307
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A part of me feels like
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Steven didn't want to hurt me,
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so he did what
he thought was right.
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Because I think deep, deep
down,
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he didn't actually
want to be with me.
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He didn't want to hurt me.
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- And then you ended...
- I never do.
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And then you ended up
destroying me.
315
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So...
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That tears me apart.
317
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How close to the pin is she?
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Final vows,
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I wasn't 100% convinced.
And...
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What percent
do you think?
321
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Out of five, I was
about three and a half, around,
322
00:12:51,958 --> 00:12:54,938
out of five, four, out of five
thinking, yeah, this,
323
00:12:55,038 --> 00:12:57,338
let's see this into
the real world.
324
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It's a really sad
story for both of you.
325
00:13:00,998 --> 00:13:02,658
It is a sad story.
326
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I've grown from it.
327
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And like I said, a lot of
positive has come from it,
328
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but I feel like I've fucked
up at the end big time.
329
00:13:09,879 --> 00:13:11,879
Can this work?
330
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If we had another
shot, possibly. Yeah. If we...
331
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Who would you be?
332
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Be a man. I would step
up and put Rachel first.
333
00:13:19,999 --> 00:13:21,219
I'm so sorry.
334
00:13:21,319 --> 00:13:23,179
There is no part of me
that will go back to
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a relationship with Steven.
336
00:13:24,999 --> 00:13:29,379
Um, because words and actions
didn't align
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and done this before.
338
00:13:31,399 --> 00:13:33,459
I've had the...
339
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a part of me wants to be with
you, but we live long distance.
340
00:13:36,239 --> 00:13:38,779
I want someone who
wholeheartedly wants me.
341
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So I can't go back to that.
342
00:13:40,759 --> 00:13:46,399
And so while I'll always, always
have love for you in my heart.
343
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You have a very special, very
special place in my heart.
344
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I would never go back.
I'm sorry.
345
00:13:55,319 --> 00:13:56,779
I hope that you
take from this,
346
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you know, you put
yourself out there.
347
00:13:58,559 --> 00:13:59,899
You did it again.
348
00:13:59,999 --> 00:14:03,139
And you should be so proud
of yourself. Genuinely.
349
00:14:03,239 --> 00:14:04,419
I know we've already
said it, like...
350
00:14:04,519 --> 00:14:06,899
And also, the two of you
have been a joy to watch.
351
00:14:06,999 --> 00:14:09,219
Your relationship
was an absolute joy.
352
00:14:09,319 --> 00:14:11,459
Thank you for coming
and for being vulnerable.
353
00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:14,219
And like I said, we have been
all so invested
354
00:14:14,319 --> 00:14:15,539
in the both of you,
355
00:14:15,639 --> 00:14:17,859
and we can see that this is
something that is still very raw
356
00:14:17,959 --> 00:14:19,659
and very fresh
for the two of you,
357
00:14:19,759 --> 00:14:21,979
and it's going to take
time to get over this,
358
00:14:22,079 --> 00:14:24,779
but we wish you the best of luck
in your next relationships.
359
00:14:24,879 --> 00:14:26,379
Thank you all so much.
360
00:14:26,479 --> 00:14:27,979
Now, look,
we did have Danny
361
00:14:28,079 --> 00:14:29,579
who was supposed
to be coming today.
362
00:14:29,679 --> 00:14:32,379
However, surprise, surprise, he
was a no show at the reunion
363
00:14:32,479 --> 00:14:34,779
and he is a no show
for his flight this morning.
364
00:14:34,879 --> 00:14:36,819
And he also stopped
answering our calls.
365
00:14:36,919 --> 00:14:38,619
Funny that he had such
an issue with Gia
366
00:14:38,719 --> 00:14:39,899
not facing the music,
367
00:14:39,999 --> 00:14:42,139
yet the second that he has
copped a little bit of heat,
368
00:14:42,239 --> 00:14:43,859
he's also nowhere to be seen.
369
00:14:43,959 --> 00:14:45,859
However, Bec is here,
and I know that she's got
370
00:14:45,959 --> 00:14:47,959
a lot to get off her chest,
so let's bring her on out.
371
00:14:55,039 --> 00:14:57,039
- Oh, my god. Stop.
- Hi.
372
00:14:57,959 --> 00:14:59,960
Hello, baby.
373
00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:02,660
What the hell?
How are you?
374
00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:04,760
Oh, Bec.
375
00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:07,180
How are you?
376
00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:09,900
You all look so hot.
You make me feel inferior.
377
00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:12,420
- Take a seat.
- Danny didn't come.
378
00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:13,660
Does that surprise you at all?
379
00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:17,540
No. I woke up to
a essay of, um, a message
380
00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:18,860
from him this morning.
381
00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:21,500
Um, it's my fault that, um,
382
00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:24,460
the country doesn't
like him at the moment.
383
00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:26,540
So you guys have been in
contact then recently
384
00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:27,940
for you to still be messaging?
385
00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:33,060
Yeah. So, we had
a bit of communication
386
00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:34,620
like here and there.
387
00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:37,580
Yesterday I messaged him
and said, are you OK?
388
00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:39,540
I know that there's a lot
of press that's come out.
389
00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:41,980
And I did say to him,
I was going to be honest
390
00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:43,180
about my experience.
391
00:15:43,280 --> 00:15:45,940
Bec, why do you think he's
maintained, I guess,
392
00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:49,300
a friendly relationship with you
up until last night's messages?
393
00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:53,540
He was wanting to keep his,
you know, us sweet a little bit
394
00:15:53,640 --> 00:15:56,340
because he wanted me to
speak highly of him in press.
395
00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:58,580
And the moment he saw
a couple of articles
396
00:15:58,680 --> 00:16:00,860
come out yesterday,
397
00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:02,780
he launched.
398
00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:04,300
It was pretty intense.
399
00:16:04,400 --> 00:16:06,400
I still thought he'd show.
I don't know why, like...
400
00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:10,140
It's the commitment ceremony
all over again
401
00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:11,980
when I was like,
Danny, you need to come,
402
00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:14,860
you need to come and like
sit with Bec and like,
403
00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:16,140
talk about your experience.
404
00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:17,860
I thought he would come back.
405
00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:23,100
Bec, this whole MAFS journey
for you has been a rough ride,
406
00:16:23,200 --> 00:16:26,780
some horrific behaviour,
but we are starting to
407
00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:30,280
better understand where a lot of
that tension was coming from.
408
00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:32,860
And this moment from
tonight's episode
409
00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:34,960
is actually quite telling.
410
00:16:36,440 --> 00:16:38,440
Alright, Danny.
411
00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:45,060
The future without Bec is,
would be bright.
412
00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:47,160
- Oh!
- What the fuck?
413
00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:48,780
You know what I mean?
414
00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:51,221
After this, gonna be
women queuing up for me.
415
00:16:51,321 --> 00:16:52,621
Holy shit.
416
00:16:52,721 --> 00:16:54,461
Won't be able to
walk down the street.
417
00:16:54,561 --> 00:16:56,381
They'll be throwing
their pantyhose at me.
418
00:16:56,481 --> 00:16:59,801
So either way,
it's gonna be alright.
419
00:17:01,361 --> 00:17:03,841
Fucking hell.
420
00:17:07,321 --> 00:17:08,541
No.
421
00:17:08,641 --> 00:17:10,301
Deserve so much better
than that, babe.
422
00:17:10,401 --> 00:17:12,141
I know. I love you.
423
00:17:12,241 --> 00:17:14,241
That's a wrap.
424
00:17:14,721 --> 00:17:16,721
Are we going to the pub now?
425
00:17:20,641 --> 00:17:24,141
Oh, it's so difficult
to watch that.
426
00:17:24,241 --> 00:17:31,061
So difficult because he had told
me five days before final vows,
427
00:17:31,161 --> 00:17:32,381
I'm falling in love with you.
428
00:17:32,481 --> 00:17:34,461
We're 100% leaving together.
429
00:17:34,561 --> 00:17:35,981
We're the strongest couple.
430
00:17:36,081 --> 00:17:38,301
And I'm like, stronger together,
rah-rah-rah.
431
00:17:38,401 --> 00:17:40,941
But they were the conversations
I was having with him.
432
00:17:41,041 --> 00:17:43,221
It seems like a lot of these
conversations were happening
433
00:17:43,321 --> 00:17:46,181
off-camera, like, there was
a lot of affirmation
434
00:17:46,281 --> 00:17:47,461
that you were getting,
435
00:17:47,561 --> 00:17:49,421
but we weren't seeing it
as an audience.
436
00:17:49,521 --> 00:17:51,981
Yeah. When it was just
Danny and I,
437
00:17:52,081 --> 00:17:54,501
the conversations
were beautiful.
438
00:17:54,601 --> 00:17:56,341
You know, we're so strong.
439
00:17:56,441 --> 00:17:58,421
You know, I wouldn't be here
if I didn't have
440
00:17:58,521 --> 00:18:00,221
these really strong feelings
for you.
441
00:18:00,321 --> 00:18:01,821
You know, I'm not
good with words.
442
00:18:01,921 --> 00:18:05,941
So when I don't affirm you
in front of the cameras,
443
00:18:06,041 --> 00:18:07,701
it's because I'm not good
with words.
444
00:18:07,801 --> 00:18:09,861
I look like an idiot now, right?
445
00:18:09,961 --> 00:18:14,021
I look like a fool because in
front of the cameras, he wasn't.
446
00:18:14,121 --> 00:18:17,381
But I was believing what he was
saying and not his actions.
447
00:18:17,481 --> 00:18:20,261
It must be very confusing
watching all of this back.
448
00:18:20,361 --> 00:18:21,861
It blows my mind, Jules.
449
00:18:21,961 --> 00:18:25,541
It blows my mind because
he told me that he'd been
450
00:18:25,641 --> 00:18:28,081
telling the cameras
he was falling in love with me.
451
00:18:29,601 --> 00:18:31,101
Well, look,
speaking of confusing,
452
00:18:31,201 --> 00:18:32,381
at the final dinner party,
453
00:18:32,481 --> 00:18:34,021
there was all the
discussion around whether or not
454
00:18:34,121 --> 00:18:36,301
Danny actually said that he
was falling in love with you.
455
00:18:36,401 --> 00:18:39,821
You said that he had said it,
and he kind of downplayed it.
456
00:18:39,921 --> 00:18:43,302
We do have an extended scene
from the reunion dinner party,
457
00:18:43,402 --> 00:18:45,182
which will give us all
a little bit more clarity on
458
00:18:45,282 --> 00:18:47,382
that exact matter.
459
00:18:47,482 --> 00:18:49,102
You said you were
falling in love with me.
460
00:18:49,202 --> 00:18:50,302
Don't lie. I said...
461
00:18:50,402 --> 00:18:51,622
You were falling in love
with me.
462
00:18:51,722 --> 00:18:53,102
I said I had
strong feelings for you.
463
00:18:53,202 --> 00:18:54,742
You said you were
falling in love with me.
464
00:18:54,842 --> 00:18:56,022
Bec, Bec.
465
00:18:56,122 --> 00:18:57,422
Daniel, do not sit here...
466
00:18:57,522 --> 00:19:00,022
Bec. Yeah, I said that.
Yeah, I said that.
467
00:19:00,122 --> 00:19:01,542
I didn't say I'm in love
with you.
468
00:19:01,642 --> 00:19:05,622
Daniel. I believed you
when you told me you were
469
00:19:05,722 --> 00:19:07,022
falling in love with me.
470
00:19:07,122 --> 00:19:10,062
I believed you when you
told me categorically,
471
00:19:10,162 --> 00:19:11,582
Bec, we are leaving together.
472
00:19:11,682 --> 00:19:13,222
I trusted you.
473
00:19:13,322 --> 00:19:14,462
I walked down the path...
474
00:19:14,562 --> 00:19:16,782
- Bec. I never...
- You did on that Saturday.
475
00:19:16,882 --> 00:19:18,182
Bec. Can I talk? Fuck me.
476
00:19:18,282 --> 00:19:19,542
Otherwise, I'm just
going to walk away.
477
00:19:19,642 --> 00:19:21,862
Because there's no point
in this if we can't just
478
00:19:21,962 --> 00:19:23,142
have a conversation.
479
00:19:23,242 --> 00:19:24,782
I said I was falling
in love with you.
480
00:19:24,882 --> 00:19:26,502
I was falling in love with you.
481
00:19:26,602 --> 00:19:28,542
Sometimes love isn't enough.
482
00:19:28,642 --> 00:19:30,782
And by that, I mean, right?
483
00:19:30,882 --> 00:19:33,062
There was problems
with our relationship.
484
00:19:33,162 --> 00:19:35,742
For the record,
everything I said was true.
485
00:19:35,842 --> 00:19:38,302
- You should have told me.
- I didn't want you...
486
00:19:38,402 --> 00:19:40,022
You should have you told me...
487
00:19:40,122 --> 00:19:42,822
You should have told
me beforehand
488
00:19:42,922 --> 00:19:44,022
that you had reservations.
489
00:19:44,122 --> 00:19:47,262
But instead, on the Tuesday
when we were packing, you said,
490
00:19:47,362 --> 00:19:48,902
babe, don't divide everything.
491
00:19:49,002 --> 00:19:50,782
- How many times...
- Excuse me.
492
00:19:50,882 --> 00:19:52,102
Don't divide everything.
493
00:19:52,202 --> 00:19:53,742
We're moving into
the same house.
494
00:19:53,842 --> 00:19:58,542
What you did was let me
walk down a path to you
495
00:19:58,642 --> 00:20:02,662
in a wedding dress,
knowing you knew that I was
496
00:20:02,762 --> 00:20:04,782
of the understanding that you
were falling in love with me
497
00:20:04,882 --> 00:20:07,622
and we were leaving together
to see how it would go.
498
00:20:07,722 --> 00:20:10,802
And instead, you dumped me.
499
00:20:11,442 --> 00:20:15,002
Boom. The puzzle pieces are
coming together. And look...
500
00:20:15,802 --> 00:20:18,542
I mean, he definitely told you
and admitted there
501
00:20:18,642 --> 00:20:20,462
that he was falling in love
with you.
502
00:20:20,562 --> 00:20:22,182
So you're not completely crazy.
503
00:20:22,282 --> 00:20:23,982
- Thank you, thank you.
- Completely.
504
00:20:24,082 --> 00:20:26,082
Completely.
505
00:20:27,162 --> 00:20:29,822
There's still a little
bit of crazy in there, Bec.
506
00:20:29,922 --> 00:20:31,342
I mean, like we
literally just saw it.
507
00:20:31,442 --> 00:20:32,782
He said he's falling
in love with you.
508
00:20:32,882 --> 00:20:35,623
And then two days later
we see him saying,
509
00:20:35,723 --> 00:20:36,943
thank god she's out of my life.
510
00:20:37,043 --> 00:20:38,143
It's wild.
511
00:20:38,243 --> 00:20:41,443
We showed footage last week
of him telling you, Steven,
512
00:20:41,923 --> 00:20:43,143
that he did not say that.
513
00:20:43,243 --> 00:20:47,143
So there's two
parallel narratives.
514
00:20:47,243 --> 00:20:48,383
Do you see that?
515
00:20:48,483 --> 00:20:50,023
I can see, yeah, I can see it.
516
00:20:50,123 --> 00:20:51,823
And at the time when, you know,
he's your mate,
517
00:20:51,923 --> 00:20:54,063
I believe every word
that Danny says to me.
518
00:20:54,163 --> 00:20:57,843
Seriously, he's probably had me
fooled as well that I
519
00:20:58,403 --> 00:21:01,143
believed him when he was trying
to work on his relationship.
520
00:21:01,243 --> 00:21:02,983
Just to validate you for
a second, Bec,
521
00:21:03,083 --> 00:21:05,023
he pulled the wool over
all of our eyes
522
00:21:05,123 --> 00:21:06,263
to hear him say that.
523
00:21:06,363 --> 00:21:08,823
He gaslit you in that
one conversation, then undid it,
524
00:21:08,923 --> 00:21:10,223
admitted himself
that he said it...
525
00:21:10,323 --> 00:21:11,463
And then re-gaslit me again.
526
00:21:11,563 --> 00:21:14,223
Yeah, but you
must feel so validated
527
00:21:14,323 --> 00:21:15,863
that Australia has seen that
now?
528
00:21:15,963 --> 00:21:18,983
I do and look, like,
I do feel validated
529
00:21:19,083 --> 00:21:21,063
that that's come out, because
I knew that that conversation
530
00:21:21,163 --> 00:21:22,743
had happened
at that dinner party.
531
00:21:22,843 --> 00:21:24,543
- What do you think was his M.O?
- Fame.
532
00:21:24,643 --> 00:21:26,103
Like, when you said,
you know...
533
00:21:26,203 --> 00:21:28,423
Fame. He knew that
I was controversial.
534
00:21:28,523 --> 00:21:29,783
I put my foot in my mouth.
535
00:21:29,883 --> 00:21:33,643
I think that he knew being
with me would get him airtime
536
00:21:34,163 --> 00:21:35,903
and he wanted to long it out.
537
00:21:36,003 --> 00:21:39,703
I think at the start he
wanted to be into you,
538
00:21:39,803 --> 00:21:41,623
but your behaviour
turned him off
539
00:21:41,723 --> 00:21:43,063
and he stopped playing
for love.
540
00:21:43,163 --> 00:21:46,623
He started to play for himself
and the worse you looked,
541
00:21:46,723 --> 00:21:48,703
the better he would look, right?
542
00:21:48,803 --> 00:21:50,903
You sensed all of that.
543
00:21:51,003 --> 00:21:53,023
And rather than take it
out on him
544
00:21:53,123 --> 00:21:54,783
because he's a black belt
in bullshit,
545
00:21:54,883 --> 00:21:56,783
you exploded on everyone else.
546
00:21:56,883 --> 00:22:00,303
Meanwhile, he got exhausted
and he did not have the energy
547
00:22:00,403 --> 00:22:03,143
to hold the mask up for anyone
but the one person
548
00:22:03,243 --> 00:22:06,703
who could take him to the
final vowels, which was you.
549
00:22:06,803 --> 00:22:08,463
I've achieved my goal.
550
00:22:08,563 --> 00:22:11,183
All the while,
it has cost you.
551
00:22:11,283 --> 00:22:13,463
Mm-hm.
It's cost me everything.
552
00:22:13,563 --> 00:22:15,463
Well, look, things really
started to fall apart
553
00:22:15,563 --> 00:22:18,383
for the both of you
during the final test week.
554
00:22:18,483 --> 00:22:21,063
You had a pretty big argument
after Danny watched the video.
555
00:22:21,163 --> 00:22:22,823
Now, Bec, what we're
about to show you is
556
00:22:22,923 --> 00:22:24,703
going to be incredibly
hard for you to watch.
557
00:22:24,803 --> 00:22:25,903
OK.
558
00:22:26,003 --> 00:22:27,623
Telling me that's the best
you could bring me?
559
00:22:27,723 --> 00:22:29,724
You want to be
ashamed of yourself, MAFS do.
560
00:22:31,164 --> 00:22:32,864
I can fucking walk in
Coles and get
561
00:22:32,964 --> 00:22:34,784
a better bird than that.
Fuck me.
562
00:22:34,884 --> 00:22:36,544
I gave up my life to be here.
563
00:22:36,644 --> 00:22:38,824
I've got a fucking
cushy little life.
564
00:22:38,924 --> 00:22:40,584
I gave up my life to be here.
565
00:22:40,684 --> 00:22:42,704
And I could roll
in Coles right now,
566
00:22:42,804 --> 00:22:44,264
walk up to,
oh, there's a bird in there,
567
00:22:44,364 --> 00:22:45,624
she'd be better than Bec.
568
00:22:45,724 --> 00:22:47,804
Can't be no worse.
It's impossible.
569
00:22:48,444 --> 00:22:49,784
Fuck me.
570
00:22:49,884 --> 00:22:51,104
Shit.
571
00:22:51,204 --> 00:22:52,944
So shit.
572
00:22:53,044 --> 00:22:54,584
Are the execs watching this?
573
00:22:54,684 --> 00:22:57,184
You're fucking shit at your jobs.
574
00:22:57,284 --> 00:22:58,664
Bring me better women.
575
00:22:58,764 --> 00:23:00,884
You can do that if you're about
a 15 out of ten
576
00:23:02,684 --> 00:23:04,684
and she's not.
577
00:23:06,004 --> 00:23:08,004
Fucking annoying.
578
00:23:12,564 --> 00:23:14,184
Yep.
579
00:23:14,284 --> 00:23:15,584
Sorry. I don't want to cry.
580
00:23:15,684 --> 00:23:17,684
- I'm here.
- Sorry.
581
00:23:19,004 --> 00:23:21,784
What we just watched
was disgusting, and we all,
582
00:23:21,884 --> 00:23:25,224
when we saw that footage,
were horrified,
583
00:23:25,324 --> 00:23:26,704
like, actually horrified.
584
00:23:26,804 --> 00:23:28,144
All of it was revolting.
585
00:23:28,244 --> 00:23:29,624
- All of it.
- All of it.
586
00:23:29,724 --> 00:23:31,724
Who do you think you are?
Who do you think you are?
587
00:23:32,204 --> 00:23:34,544
This is why I say
he's come on for fame, guys.
588
00:23:34,644 --> 00:23:35,744
I'm sorry.
589
00:23:35,844 --> 00:23:39,104
Because if that's how you feel
about me, why did you sit there
590
00:23:39,204 --> 00:23:40,304
for three months straight?
591
00:23:40,404 --> 00:23:42,464
So he told you he was falling
in love with you after this?
592
00:23:42,564 --> 00:23:44,544
- That afternoon.
- I'm falling in love with you.
593
00:23:44,644 --> 00:23:46,544
As soon as those cameras
left, that's when he told me
594
00:23:46,644 --> 00:23:47,864
he was falling in love with me.
595
00:23:47,964 --> 00:23:49,624
He said to me,
I'm falling in love with you.
596
00:23:49,724 --> 00:23:52,264
I've been telling the cameras
this for a week now.
597
00:23:52,364 --> 00:23:54,104
I'm saving those words
for final vows.
598
00:23:54,204 --> 00:23:55,864
Rach, what was your
reaction to that?
599
00:23:55,964 --> 00:23:57,144
I'm disgusted.
600
00:23:57,244 --> 00:23:59,184
If I knew Danny was that way,
601
00:23:59,284 --> 00:24:00,464
I wouldn't be mates with him.
602
00:24:00,564 --> 00:24:02,584
- No way.
- I would not be mates with him.
603
00:24:02,684 --> 00:24:03,784
Stevo?
604
00:24:03,884 --> 00:24:05,504
Yeah, it's a bit...
605
00:24:05,604 --> 00:24:06,864
Can't protect him now, Stevo,
after that.
606
00:24:06,964 --> 00:24:08,704
No, it's pretty disappointing.
607
00:24:08,804 --> 00:24:10,664
There's nothing gentlemen
about that at all.
608
00:24:10,764 --> 00:24:13,104
I never saw any...
I didn't see any of that.
609
00:24:13,204 --> 00:24:14,384
Well, none of us did.
610
00:24:14,484 --> 00:24:16,064
- None of us.
- That's the real Danny.
611
00:24:16,164 --> 00:24:18,344
Do you watch that
video and think
612
00:24:18,444 --> 00:24:20,465
that's just Danny's bravado?
613
00:24:20,565 --> 00:24:23,585
Like, because he does have
this, like, larrikin,
614
00:24:23,685 --> 00:24:25,785
makes a joke of everything,
says things off the cuff.
615
00:24:25,885 --> 00:24:29,905
Do you think that that is him
trying to, like, put on a thing?
616
00:24:30,005 --> 00:24:32,345
That's the other side of Danny
that Australia hasn't seen.
617
00:24:32,445 --> 00:24:34,665
Do you think he
felt untouchable?
618
00:24:34,765 --> 00:24:38,145
Absolutely. I think he thought
Australia would love him because
619
00:24:38,245 --> 00:24:39,985
he's the funny guy and that
620
00:24:40,085 --> 00:24:42,225
that sort of stuff
would never be used
621
00:24:42,325 --> 00:24:46,585
and that I was the nutcase
and Australia would praise him
622
00:24:46,685 --> 00:24:48,265
for finally leaving me.
623
00:24:48,365 --> 00:24:49,825
Obviously some of your
behaviour throughout
624
00:24:49,925 --> 00:24:51,745
this experiment has been
horrible,
625
00:24:51,845 --> 00:24:53,665
but there is something
to be said
626
00:24:53,765 --> 00:24:55,625
that when someone is feeding you
one thing,
627
00:24:55,725 --> 00:24:58,345
but they're not telling
the truth in another instance,
628
00:24:58,445 --> 00:25:01,145
it makes you
a crazy version of yourself.
629
00:25:01,245 --> 00:25:05,145
It made me wild because
when we were by ourselves,
630
00:25:05,245 --> 00:25:06,705
we never argued.
631
00:25:06,805 --> 00:25:08,185
Everything was hunky dory
632
00:25:08,285 --> 00:25:10,145
and then the cameras
would come up
633
00:25:10,245 --> 00:25:13,425
and it was like
a completely different story.
634
00:25:13,525 --> 00:25:15,745
It's like that dinner party
where I wore the red dress.
635
00:25:15,845 --> 00:25:17,465
He was like, babe,
I so understand.
636
00:25:17,565 --> 00:25:18,905
Like, you wrote these
text messages.
637
00:25:19,005 --> 00:25:20,225
They were so long ago.
638
00:25:20,325 --> 00:25:23,025
I wish everyone would just leave
it alone now you've apologised.
639
00:25:23,125 --> 00:25:25,585
And then we sat there
and he's like,
640
00:25:25,685 --> 00:25:27,065
I don't give a fuck
about how many...
641
00:25:27,165 --> 00:25:29,945
Now I understand that what
I wrote, abhorrent,
642
00:25:30,045 --> 00:25:31,785
my behaviour, abhorrent,
me, abhorrent.
643
00:25:31,885 --> 00:25:35,945
But every single dinner party,
he validated me.
644
00:25:36,045 --> 00:25:38,665
Then I'd sit there
and he'd go, rah!
645
00:25:38,765 --> 00:25:41,185
And I'd be like, well,
what the fuck is going on?
646
00:25:41,285 --> 00:25:43,145
I'm never going to blame anyone.
647
00:25:43,245 --> 00:25:45,705
Never an edit, never another
person for my behaviour.
648
00:25:45,805 --> 00:25:47,025
I make choices.
649
00:25:47,125 --> 00:25:48,785
They're fucking shit choices.
650
00:25:48,885 --> 00:25:49,985
But I made them.
651
00:25:50,085 --> 00:25:53,265
But he made me fucking nuts,
guys. He made me nuts.
652
00:25:53,365 --> 00:25:56,185
Looking back now,
do you think it was all a lie?
653
00:25:56,285 --> 00:25:58,285
Yep. The whole thing
was a lie.
654
00:25:59,245 --> 00:26:01,425
- I feel like an idiot.
- No no no no no.
655
00:26:01,525 --> 00:26:03,105
What makes this
even worse, Bec,
656
00:26:03,205 --> 00:26:05,705
and I'm really sorry,
but after we saw him say
657
00:26:05,805 --> 00:26:07,145
those vile comments,
658
00:26:07,245 --> 00:26:10,905
you recorded this video diary
yourself 24 hours later.
659
00:26:11,005 --> 00:26:13,426
- I'm here.
- I just feel like a fool.
660
00:26:13,526 --> 00:26:15,526
Yesterday you would
have seen
661
00:26:16,246 --> 00:26:19,446
Daniel and I have quite an
argument, to be honest with you.
662
00:26:19,966 --> 00:26:22,106
Um, after watching the videos
663
00:26:22,206 --> 00:26:27,266
of us going to the
alternative match lunches,
664
00:26:27,366 --> 00:26:28,906
we came home.
665
00:26:29,006 --> 00:26:31,726
We sat down, we talked.
666
00:26:32,486 --> 00:26:34,486
He told me he's falling
in love with me.
667
00:26:35,406 --> 00:26:41,426
I love him. Um, and we just...
it's been months, you know,
668
00:26:41,526 --> 00:26:43,706
and we're tired.
669
00:26:43,806 --> 00:26:46,386
But yeah, I came home
670
00:26:46,486 --> 00:26:48,826
after seeing my cousin
for a little while,
671
00:26:48,926 --> 00:26:52,006
and I'll show you
what he did for me.
672
00:26:55,086 --> 00:26:57,466
I'm happy we're good again,
with photos of us.
673
00:26:57,566 --> 00:26:59,066
It's really cute.
674
00:26:59,166 --> 00:27:00,826
Um, so we're OK.
675
00:27:00,926 --> 00:27:02,026
We're great.
676
00:27:02,126 --> 00:27:04,386
Like, we just
can't wait to go and live
677
00:27:04,486 --> 00:27:05,786
in the real world together.
678
00:27:05,886 --> 00:27:08,306
And you know,
679
00:27:08,406 --> 00:27:10,406
none of this other stuff
going on.
680
00:27:11,406 --> 00:27:13,786
You know, it's funny
because he's calling me
681
00:27:13,886 --> 00:27:17,886
a liar and a manipulator,
but that's manipulation.
682
00:27:18,886 --> 00:27:22,706
It is no wonder you walked
into those final vows believing
683
00:27:22,806 --> 00:27:24,866
that the two of you were going
to be together,
684
00:27:24,966 --> 00:27:27,866
and it is no wonder
that you thought
685
00:27:27,966 --> 00:27:29,466
he was falling in love with you.
686
00:27:29,566 --> 00:27:32,226
Yeah. I get it.
My behaviour disgusting.
687
00:27:32,326 --> 00:27:34,786
Do I need to work on myself?
Absolutely.
688
00:27:34,886 --> 00:27:36,146
Am I?
Yes.
689
00:27:36,246 --> 00:27:38,326
But I don't deserve this.
690
00:27:38,926 --> 00:27:40,826
I don't deserve this.
691
00:27:40,926 --> 00:27:42,866
I don't.
692
00:27:42,966 --> 00:27:44,966
- You really don't, Bec.
- Sorry.
693
00:27:45,526 --> 00:27:47,466
- No, no. No-one deserves it.
- I'm so embarrassed.
694
00:27:47,566 --> 00:27:49,826
You don't have to be
embarrassed because someone
695
00:27:49,926 --> 00:27:52,546
made you believe that they
were falling in love with you.
696
00:27:52,646 --> 00:27:54,586
That's not your
embarrassment to carry.
697
00:27:54,686 --> 00:27:56,066
That was done intentionally.
698
00:27:56,166 --> 00:27:57,546
And I'm sorry that you're
sitting here
699
00:27:57,646 --> 00:27:59,186
and you're feeling like that.
700
00:27:59,286 --> 00:28:00,386
Yeah.
701
00:28:00,486 --> 00:28:01,666
You OK?
702
00:28:01,766 --> 00:28:03,466
Yeah.
703
00:28:03,566 --> 00:28:05,567
It's just really harsh, man.
704
00:28:07,927 --> 00:28:11,267
I'm gonna be OK.
I deserve so much more.
705
00:28:11,367 --> 00:28:13,187
I just hope that he watches
this and realises
706
00:28:13,287 --> 00:28:15,467
that he's got work to do, too.
707
00:28:15,567 --> 00:28:17,587
Bec, look, I know this
has been really intense,
708
00:28:17,687 --> 00:28:19,947
but there is something else
we need to discuss.
709
00:28:20,047 --> 00:28:23,267
Messages that came to light
between Danny and Steph.
710
00:28:23,367 --> 00:28:25,467
Bec, I know you're probably
not going to like this,
711
00:28:25,567 --> 00:28:26,987
but Steph is here,
712
00:28:27,087 --> 00:28:29,087
so let's bring her out.
713
00:28:37,807 --> 00:28:38,907
Hello.
714
00:28:39,007 --> 00:28:40,827
- Oh, my back.
- How are we?
715
00:28:40,927 --> 00:28:42,467
- Hi, honey.
- Gorgeous girl, hello.
716
00:28:42,567 --> 00:28:43,867
Nice to see you.
717
00:28:43,967 --> 00:28:45,067
- Hi.
- Hello. How are you?
718
00:28:45,167 --> 00:28:46,267
Mwah.
719
00:28:46,367 --> 00:28:48,107
- Hi, guys.
- Take a seat, my love.
720
00:28:48,207 --> 00:28:50,347
- Nice to see you again.
- Thanks for having me.
721
00:28:50,447 --> 00:28:51,747
- Steph, thanks for joining us.
- Pleasure.
722
00:28:51,847 --> 00:28:53,427
Well, let's just cut
straight to the chase.
723
00:28:53,527 --> 00:28:55,507
Why were you and Danny
messaging each other?
724
00:28:55,607 --> 00:28:57,467
I saw that he was following
me on Instagram,
725
00:28:57,567 --> 00:28:59,347
so I was just like, hey, man,
how are you?
726
00:28:59,447 --> 00:29:01,187
Like, how's life
post-experiment?
727
00:29:01,287 --> 00:29:04,347
Why did you feel like you
had to share that with Bec?
728
00:29:04,447 --> 00:29:06,787
Well, I just because
I didn't want to lie.
729
00:29:06,887 --> 00:29:10,347
I'd rather be up front
and show Bec my phone.
730
00:29:10,447 --> 00:29:12,067
I gave her my phone
and said, look,
731
00:29:12,167 --> 00:29:13,747
here's the whole conversation.
732
00:29:13,847 --> 00:29:15,267
You had enough time
to delete a few.
733
00:29:15,367 --> 00:29:17,347
Not saying that they were saucy.
734
00:29:17,447 --> 00:29:19,427
And the phone call. You never
told me about a phone call.
735
00:29:19,527 --> 00:29:20,907
The phone call was
right at the end.
736
00:29:21,007 --> 00:29:22,387
OK.
737
00:29:22,487 --> 00:29:23,947
There were no
deleted messages.
738
00:29:24,047 --> 00:29:25,707
We don't know what
the content of those messages
739
00:29:25,807 --> 00:29:28,787
were at this point in time,
what was the content?
740
00:29:28,887 --> 00:29:31,987
So there were, like, there
were some photos exchanged,
741
00:29:32,087 --> 00:29:34,107
one of which I was wearing
a bikini top
742
00:29:34,207 --> 00:29:35,547
because he was like,
how was Hamilton Island?
743
00:29:35,647 --> 00:29:37,707
I've never been there.
So I sent him some photos.
744
00:29:37,807 --> 00:29:39,547
Selfie of you in the office.
745
00:29:39,647 --> 00:29:42,107
Voice notes. She rang him.
746
00:29:42,207 --> 00:29:43,547
What were
the voice notes?
747
00:29:43,647 --> 00:29:45,427
So there was a voice note
in there as well,
748
00:29:45,527 --> 00:29:47,787
and I was like, oh my god,
it's so good to hear your voice.
749
00:29:47,887 --> 00:29:49,307
Like, you know,
how have you been?
750
00:29:49,407 --> 00:29:51,787
I don't, I haven't even gone
back over to listen to them
751
00:29:51,887 --> 00:29:54,067
because it wasn't that deep.
752
00:29:54,167 --> 00:29:55,627
Well, Bec, why
were you so angry?
753
00:29:55,727 --> 00:29:59,668
Like, what about this made you
furious or so deeply hurt?
754
00:29:59,768 --> 00:30:01,148
I'm going to start off
by saying
755
00:30:01,248 --> 00:30:02,788
the way I spoke to you
wasn't OK.
756
00:30:02,888 --> 00:30:04,148
No, it wasn't it.
757
00:30:04,248 --> 00:30:08,248
The way you talking to Danny
wasn't OK.
758
00:30:08,888 --> 00:30:12,148
As my friend, who knew that
he had just broken my heart,
759
00:30:12,248 --> 00:30:14,988
and you'd been supporting
me so graciously,
760
00:30:15,088 --> 00:30:17,748
why you felt the need to, A,
lie to me
761
00:30:17,848 --> 00:30:19,348
and say he reached out
to you first,
762
00:30:19,448 --> 00:30:22,308
but B, to even
engage in that conversation.
763
00:30:22,408 --> 00:30:24,788
- He broke your friend's heart.
- Yeah.
764
00:30:24,888 --> 00:30:26,668
And that's what
upset me so much.
765
00:30:26,768 --> 00:30:29,868
Did it ever move from
a sort of networking
766
00:30:29,968 --> 00:30:32,108
to a friendship,
to flirt?
767
00:30:32,208 --> 00:30:33,428
I don't think so.
768
00:30:33,528 --> 00:30:35,548
Like, I was never
attracted to Danny.
769
00:30:35,648 --> 00:30:37,348
Did Danny make it flirty?
770
00:30:37,448 --> 00:30:38,828
No. No.
771
00:30:38,928 --> 00:30:40,908
I never felt like he was
trying to flirt with me.
772
00:30:41,008 --> 00:30:42,908
Did it feel like
a friendship betrayal to you?
773
00:30:43,008 --> 00:30:44,188
Yeah, a lot.
774
00:30:44,288 --> 00:30:46,228
Because, like, I didn't
get out of bed for six days.
775
00:30:46,328 --> 00:30:49,028
All I did was cry
and stay in bed.
776
00:30:49,128 --> 00:30:51,428
And I didn't understand
why he'd done it.
777
00:30:51,528 --> 00:30:52,828
And he wouldn't speak to me.
778
00:30:52,928 --> 00:30:54,948
- But he was talking to her.
- I am really sorry.
779
00:30:55,048 --> 00:30:56,708
Sorry.
780
00:30:56,808 --> 00:30:59,228
It blew up on both sides of
you because, you know,
781
00:30:59,328 --> 00:31:03,108
clearly we saw that things were
tense between you and Danny,
782
00:31:03,208 --> 00:31:05,428
but what we didn't see was
actually what happened
783
00:31:05,528 --> 00:31:07,308
once the dinner party
had ended.
784
00:31:07,408 --> 00:31:09,408
Yeah.
785
00:31:28,488 --> 00:31:30,488
OK. That's alright.
That's all good.
786
00:31:42,648 --> 00:31:44,648
That's OK, Danny.
787
00:32:18,769 --> 00:32:20,769
Yeah.
788
00:32:21,329 --> 00:32:23,269
I'm so sorry you had
to deal with that.
789
00:32:23,369 --> 00:32:25,029
Oh, it's not for you
to apologise.
790
00:32:25,129 --> 00:32:26,789
I just find it so funny
because I...
791
00:32:26,889 --> 00:32:28,109
But it's not...
That's not funny.
792
00:32:28,209 --> 00:32:30,229
Calling someone a little skank
is not funny.
793
00:32:30,329 --> 00:32:32,069
I think the reason why
maybe I'm laughing
794
00:32:32,169 --> 00:32:34,389
is because he was like,
you've done this for air time.
795
00:32:34,489 --> 00:32:37,829
And I'm like, do you think
I want to get screamed at
796
00:32:37,929 --> 00:32:40,229
by this woman for air time?
797
00:32:40,329 --> 00:32:42,589
Like, I'm happy just sitting at
the fucking end of the table,
798
00:32:42,689 --> 00:32:43,989
minding my own business.
799
00:32:44,089 --> 00:32:45,229
He called you a skank.
800
00:32:45,329 --> 00:32:46,589
An effing little skank.
801
00:32:46,689 --> 00:32:49,909
I'm disgusted by the way
that he spoke to you.
802
00:32:50,009 --> 00:32:53,469
To think that you can speak
about a woman or anyone.
803
00:32:53,569 --> 00:32:54,669
To a woman!
804
00:32:54,769 --> 00:32:57,269
Actually, you're correct.
To a woman that way.
805
00:32:57,369 --> 00:33:01,749
And, oh, I'm not being recorded,
so it's going to be fine. No.
806
00:33:01,849 --> 00:33:05,069
So it just shows further
that what we've been given
807
00:33:05,169 --> 00:33:09,829
of Danny is a manufactured
version of Danny.
808
00:33:09,929 --> 00:33:11,509
You guys were friends.
809
00:33:11,609 --> 00:33:14,509
And all of this has obviously
put a massive wedge
810
00:33:14,609 --> 00:33:16,709
in that relationship
and in your friendship,
811
00:33:16,809 --> 00:33:18,909
how do you feel
towards each other now?
812
00:33:19,009 --> 00:33:21,009
Oh, look, I mean...
813
00:33:21,529 --> 00:33:23,509
We're never going to
be good friends again.
814
00:33:23,609 --> 00:33:25,629
No. And that's OK.
815
00:33:25,729 --> 00:33:27,909
The way that I behaved
toward you was not OK.
816
00:33:28,009 --> 00:33:30,889
I was deflecting my anger
on him to you. And I'm sorry.
817
00:33:31,889 --> 00:33:34,669
Guys, we do really wish you
all the best. And I mean that.
818
00:33:34,769 --> 00:33:35,949
Every single one of you.
819
00:33:36,049 --> 00:33:37,549
We hope you find
the loves of your life.
820
00:33:37,649 --> 00:33:39,629
We hope you had a wonderful
time in the experiment
821
00:33:39,729 --> 00:33:40,829
from whatever happened.
822
00:33:40,929 --> 00:33:42,750
And we hope most of all that
you learn something
823
00:33:42,850 --> 00:33:44,630
and take something away from it.
That's what it's all about.
824
00:33:44,730 --> 00:33:46,430
Well, there is still
plenty more to come tonight.
825
00:33:46,530 --> 00:33:49,910
They had the country crying
happy tears at the final vows,
826
00:33:50,010 --> 00:33:52,150
and now Stella and Filip
are here to share what's next,
827
00:33:52,250 --> 00:33:55,030
including the all-important
wedding plans.
828
00:33:55,130 --> 00:33:57,270
Plus, after their explosive end,
829
00:33:57,370 --> 00:33:59,670
Alissa and David
still have a lot to say.
830
00:33:59,770 --> 00:34:02,190
And we are not talking
about Alissa's vows.
831
00:34:02,290 --> 00:34:04,270
But before we get stuck
into all of that,
832
00:34:04,370 --> 00:34:06,710
it is time to hear what the
trolls had to say this week.
833
00:34:06,810 --> 00:34:08,810
So here is Posted and Roasted.
834
00:34:21,650 --> 00:34:23,790
Listen, Mysy9,
I considered it.
835
00:34:23,890 --> 00:34:26,130
I'm still considering it now,
to be honest with you.
836
00:34:32,730 --> 00:34:34,110
Well, I definitely need
a kidney
837
00:34:34,210 --> 00:34:36,210
after how many times
I just got punched.
838
00:34:42,490 --> 00:34:44,810
I don't even get that.
What do you mean?
839
00:34:46,090 --> 00:34:48,090
What does that mean?
840
00:34:48,730 --> 00:34:50,730
Oh, that's lame as though.
841
00:35:12,490 --> 00:35:14,530
Honey, he's taken.
842
00:35:21,890 --> 00:35:23,510
Look, I'll give you
that one too, buddy.
843
00:35:23,610 --> 00:35:26,270
Look, I've probably kissed
too many fish in my life,
844
00:35:26,370 --> 00:35:29,370
so I might have to, uh, practise
on some more humans, hey?
845
00:35:33,890 --> 00:35:35,351
I do!
846
00:35:35,451 --> 00:35:37,811
How do you know
the gays are here?
847
00:35:49,571 --> 00:35:51,431
Now you can say what
you want about my gift.
848
00:35:51,531 --> 00:35:53,531
But don't come for my girl
Tay Tay.
849
00:36:03,571 --> 00:36:05,711
Look, now I'm watching
it back, I can see that.
850
00:36:05,811 --> 00:36:08,211
But you should have heard what
the pillow talk was like, babe.
851
00:36:08,971 --> 00:36:10,311
I actually like these tweets.
852
00:36:10,411 --> 00:36:12,551
Keep them coming.
That wasn't that bad.
853
00:36:13,851 --> 00:36:15,151
I mean, there was
actually some kind of
854
00:36:15,251 --> 00:36:16,351
nice ones this time.
855
00:36:16,451 --> 00:36:17,751
Surprising, isn't it?
856
00:36:17,851 --> 00:36:20,071
Well, David and Alissa
are waiting in the wings
857
00:36:20,171 --> 00:36:22,151
itching to get their sides of
the story out
858
00:36:22,251 --> 00:36:24,871
after a dramatic end
to their relationship.
859
00:36:24,971 --> 00:36:26,311
Now, before we get
into it all,
860
00:36:26,411 --> 00:36:28,411
let's look back
at how it unravelled.
861
00:36:30,091 --> 00:36:33,631
The ball is in my court today,
and it breaks my heart
862
00:36:33,731 --> 00:36:36,831
knowing that I'm going to be
breaking his heart
863
00:36:36,931 --> 00:36:38,351
at the end of this.
864
00:36:38,451 --> 00:36:41,911
What I've come to understand
is that with you,
865
00:36:42,011 --> 00:36:44,011
there was no version of me
that could win.
866
00:36:44,771 --> 00:36:48,271
I'm walking away
because loving you
867
00:36:48,371 --> 00:36:50,371
shouldn't mean losing myself.
868
00:36:59,451 --> 00:37:01,451
You're not gonna
listen to my vows?
869
00:37:02,331 --> 00:37:04,231
That was the most
disrespectful thing
870
00:37:04,331 --> 00:37:06,331
that anyone has ever done to me.
871
00:37:07,211 --> 00:37:09,791
You're a coward, and your
ego got the better of you.
872
00:37:09,891 --> 00:37:11,311
And you walk away
like a little boy
873
00:37:11,411 --> 00:37:13,231
because you couldn't face
the music.
874
00:37:13,331 --> 00:37:14,431
I walk in today,
875
00:37:14,531 --> 00:37:15,991
and the first thing
you wanted me to do
876
00:37:16,091 --> 00:37:17,231
is apologise to you.
877
00:37:17,331 --> 00:37:19,071
You spat on my face.
878
00:37:19,171 --> 00:37:20,871
She calls me walking away
spitting on her.
879
00:37:20,971 --> 00:37:22,151
You spat on my face.
880
00:37:22,251 --> 00:37:24,631
I don't want to bring
all the dirty laundry out.
881
00:37:24,731 --> 00:37:26,271
You told me you went to
Adelaide.
882
00:37:26,371 --> 00:37:28,392
On the flight back,
did you or did you not
883
00:37:28,492 --> 00:37:30,912
get some friend's number?
884
00:37:31,012 --> 00:37:32,792
You got a man's number?
885
00:37:32,892 --> 00:37:34,152
Can I just say?
886
00:37:34,252 --> 00:37:35,992
Can I finish my spiel?
And then you can go.
887
00:37:36,092 --> 00:37:37,672
You've been talking
for the last ten minutes.
888
00:37:37,772 --> 00:37:39,432
You've been talking more than
everyone here
889
00:37:39,532 --> 00:37:41,072
for the last 20 minutes.
So let me speak.
890
00:37:41,172 --> 00:37:43,172
Moving on. You're not my
person. I'm moving on.
891
00:37:44,532 --> 00:37:48,892
It really hurts because I was
falling in love with him.
892
00:37:50,252 --> 00:37:51,632
But I don't know.
893
00:37:51,732 --> 00:37:53,732
I don't know that man.
894
00:37:54,412 --> 00:37:56,592
I don't know who he is.
895
00:37:56,692 --> 00:37:59,912
Oh, Alissa and David,
welcome first.
896
00:38:00,012 --> 00:38:02,352
This has been a really hard
two weeks to watch back.
897
00:38:02,452 --> 00:38:04,112
Has it been hard
for you guys to watch?
898
00:38:04,212 --> 00:38:05,712
I haven't been watching it.
It's been a lot.
899
00:38:05,812 --> 00:38:07,312
Yeah, it's a lot of emotions.
900
00:38:07,412 --> 00:38:09,272
Like I've watched bits
and pieces,
901
00:38:09,372 --> 00:38:12,192
but it's just it's really hard
to watch. Yeah, it's...
902
00:38:12,292 --> 00:38:14,112
Is it the emotions
around the break-up?
903
00:38:14,212 --> 00:38:15,992
Are you not watching
it because you don't,
904
00:38:16,092 --> 00:38:18,912
the behaviour, like, what is it
about what we're seeing
905
00:38:19,012 --> 00:38:20,632
that's too hard
for you to watch now?
906
00:38:20,732 --> 00:38:22,632
It's a very unhappy
version of myself.
907
00:38:22,732 --> 00:38:24,672
Is it hard to watch
back the behaviour?
908
00:38:24,772 --> 00:38:28,192
Um, it's... I wouldn't
say it's the behaviour.
909
00:38:28,292 --> 00:38:31,272
It's just not a happy version
of myself.
910
00:38:31,372 --> 00:38:33,672
It's hard, it's just
really hard to watch.
911
00:38:33,772 --> 00:38:35,552
I'm trying to find my words.
912
00:38:35,652 --> 00:38:37,072
I'll phrase it differently.
913
00:38:37,172 --> 00:38:40,272
Do you watch it back
and feel proud
914
00:38:40,372 --> 00:38:41,952
or OK with your behaviour?
915
00:38:42,052 --> 00:38:43,832
Oh, no. Like, I've learned
so much.
916
00:38:43,932 --> 00:38:45,872
Like this happened
six months ago
917
00:38:45,972 --> 00:38:48,832
and you watch back on things
and...
918
00:38:48,932 --> 00:38:51,912
oh, gosh, that was not a version
of myself that I'm proud of.
919
00:38:52,012 --> 00:38:54,912
Alissa, I want to hear
from you
920
00:38:55,012 --> 00:38:58,032
how you feel
this deteriorated.
921
00:38:58,132 --> 00:38:59,872
There was just something
inside me
922
00:38:59,972 --> 00:39:01,672
that I couldn't put
my finger on it.
923
00:39:01,772 --> 00:39:03,032
Like, there was something wrong.
924
00:39:03,132 --> 00:39:04,672
It was just a feeling.
925
00:39:04,772 --> 00:39:07,232
Do you think that you
were looking for something
926
00:39:07,332 --> 00:39:08,752
to pin a reason onto?
927
00:39:08,852 --> 00:39:11,912
Because it really did feel like
at home towns, you spiralled.
928
00:39:12,012 --> 00:39:13,912
And when it was the test,
929
00:39:14,012 --> 00:39:17,152
the whole fight with
the ring being taken off.
930
00:39:17,252 --> 00:39:19,073
It was like you had something.
931
00:39:19,173 --> 00:39:21,953
Have a reason to be so angry
and you could not let it go.
932
00:39:22,053 --> 00:39:23,193
I couldn't let it go. No.
933
00:39:23,293 --> 00:39:24,713
I think everything
was just heightened
934
00:39:24,813 --> 00:39:26,393
in that moment.
935
00:39:26,493 --> 00:39:28,493
And I was just like, uh, nah.
936
00:39:28,813 --> 00:39:31,313
I know that we started
to cling to things
937
00:39:31,413 --> 00:39:33,153
once it unravelled,
938
00:39:33,253 --> 00:39:35,473
but actually,
in its very essence,
939
00:39:35,573 --> 00:39:37,713
why did it not work?
940
00:39:37,813 --> 00:39:41,153
I feel like over time,
I think Alissa just realised
941
00:39:41,253 --> 00:39:42,793
it wasn't the right fit for her.
942
00:39:42,893 --> 00:39:45,113
If I look back, I don't know
if you were fully into it
943
00:39:45,213 --> 00:39:47,153
from the start and that's fine.
944
00:39:47,253 --> 00:39:48,793
That's my... that's what I think.
945
00:39:48,893 --> 00:39:50,993
If it wasn't for that
commitment ceremony,
946
00:39:51,093 --> 00:39:53,193
I think that's where it really
crumbled for me.
947
00:39:53,293 --> 00:39:54,713
OK. That's fair.
948
00:39:54,813 --> 00:39:56,793
I was going in there and I'm
like, let's get the tools
949
00:39:56,893 --> 00:39:59,113
that we need from the experts
to be able to move forward.
950
00:39:59,213 --> 00:40:01,993
And I don't know about you, but
I remember we both were like,
951
00:40:02,093 --> 00:40:03,393
what tools did we get?
952
00:40:03,493 --> 00:40:04,833
Mel gave us a great tool.
953
00:40:04,933 --> 00:40:07,313
She said, talk this through.
954
00:40:07,413 --> 00:40:09,633
What happens when I get home?
Alissa moves out.
955
00:40:09,733 --> 00:40:12,513
My frustration after that
commitment ceremony was
956
00:40:12,613 --> 00:40:15,513
babe, like, why is this the last
commitment ceremony?
957
00:40:15,613 --> 00:40:18,953
And it's like this,
this, this, this, this.
958
00:40:19,053 --> 00:40:22,233
But watching it back now,
can you I guess, Alissa,
959
00:40:22,333 --> 00:40:24,073
see the times where David
tried to speak
960
00:40:24,173 --> 00:40:27,073
and you weren't
giving him the space
961
00:40:27,173 --> 00:40:29,153
in the communication to do so?
962
00:40:29,253 --> 00:40:31,153
Oh, there were definitely
areas
963
00:40:31,253 --> 00:40:33,593
that I could do better
listening for sure.
964
00:40:33,693 --> 00:40:36,073
And I watched back and
I'm like, gosh, Alissa,
965
00:40:36,173 --> 00:40:37,473
just let him talk.
966
00:40:37,573 --> 00:40:39,273
You know, just let him speak.
Let the man speak.
967
00:40:39,373 --> 00:40:40,753
We were screaming at the TV.
968
00:40:40,853 --> 00:40:43,033
You were saying,
"Why won't you talk to me?"
969
00:40:43,133 --> 00:40:45,513
over the top of him
trying to talk.
970
00:40:45,613 --> 00:40:47,113
Did you feel that
at the time, David?
971
00:40:47,213 --> 00:40:48,993
But yeah, I definitely
felt like there were times
972
00:40:49,093 --> 00:40:51,233
where I tried to bring up
something, and I don't know,
973
00:40:51,333 --> 00:40:53,993
if it didn't sound too good
to you, it'd get shut down.
974
00:40:54,093 --> 00:40:57,353
What's sad about this is by
the time the truth came out,
975
00:40:57,453 --> 00:40:59,873
you didn't have enough time with
the experts to work through it.
976
00:40:59,973 --> 00:41:01,353
It was a horrible time
to unravel.
977
00:41:01,453 --> 00:41:02,553
It was the worst.
978
00:41:02,653 --> 00:41:04,233
We did have great times
together, you know,
979
00:41:04,333 --> 00:41:05,553
we made so many
memories together.
980
00:41:05,653 --> 00:41:06,873
But you know what?
981
00:41:06,973 --> 00:41:09,393
Like, he just wasn't
my person, you know?
982
00:41:09,493 --> 00:41:10,753
And that is OK.
983
00:41:10,853 --> 00:41:13,034
And when you get that gut
feeling and you're feeling like
984
00:41:13,134 --> 00:41:15,874
there's something missing
for me, that is OK too.
985
00:41:15,974 --> 00:41:17,634
Sometimes when you have
that gut feeling
986
00:41:17,734 --> 00:41:18,834
but you don't have a reason,
987
00:41:18,934 --> 00:41:21,594
it's what makes you clutch onto
those reasons even tighter.
988
00:41:21,694 --> 00:41:23,954
So then when there was
something that David did,
989
00:41:24,054 --> 00:41:26,074
instead of being able to
get over it, it was like...
990
00:41:26,174 --> 00:41:27,314
It was heightened.
991
00:41:27,414 --> 00:41:28,754
And I look back on that
992
00:41:28,854 --> 00:41:30,554
and I've learned so much
about myself.
993
00:41:30,654 --> 00:41:33,754
Alissa, I know that you
haven't watched it back,
994
00:41:33,854 --> 00:41:36,314
but how do you feel you
might have responded
995
00:41:36,414 --> 00:41:38,594
in the final test date?
996
00:41:38,694 --> 00:41:42,314
And is that behaviour
acceptable in your eyes now?
997
00:41:42,414 --> 00:41:45,274
Oh, no. I was definitely
just on the wines
998
00:41:45,374 --> 00:41:48,314
and I did cross boundaries
definitely with my jokes.
999
00:41:48,414 --> 00:41:50,914
But also following
Conor on Instagram
1000
00:41:51,014 --> 00:41:53,354
felt like a bit of a betrayal.
1001
00:41:53,454 --> 00:41:54,634
Yeah, and you know what?
1002
00:41:54,734 --> 00:41:56,074
That probably wasn't
the wisest thing.
1003
00:41:56,174 --> 00:41:57,274
Probably?
1004
00:41:57,374 --> 00:41:58,994
Wasn't the smartest move
for sure.
1005
00:41:59,094 --> 00:42:00,234
You live and you learn.
1006
00:42:00,334 --> 00:42:02,554
The reality was, is that that
whole thing was a final test
1007
00:42:02,654 --> 00:42:04,634
and like going away
and then adding that person
1008
00:42:04,734 --> 00:42:07,714
on Instagram does feel like you
failed the test in some ways.
1009
00:42:07,814 --> 00:42:09,154
You know what I mean?
Like, that...
1010
00:42:09,254 --> 00:42:12,434
The test was to test
if the grass was greener.
1011
00:42:12,534 --> 00:42:14,314
If it was like a random girl
1012
00:42:14,414 --> 00:42:16,834
who was going to give me
perspective on my relationship,
1013
00:42:16,934 --> 00:42:18,554
I'll sit there all day,
every day.
1014
00:42:18,654 --> 00:42:20,894
But these girls obviously...
1015
00:42:21,734 --> 00:42:24,634
I'll be honest,
I left the experiment
1016
00:42:24,734 --> 00:42:26,314
and three of them
were in my DMs, so.
1017
00:42:26,414 --> 00:42:27,514
They've been in our DMs.
1018
00:42:27,614 --> 00:42:28,714
They've been in everyone's DMs.
1019
00:42:28,814 --> 00:42:32,074
Yeah, they... Not in Jules's.
Not on Jules's DMs.
1020
00:42:32,174 --> 00:42:34,154
It's at Jules Lund
lowercase...
1021
00:42:34,254 --> 00:42:37,034
So all I'm saying
is I would go back
1022
00:42:37,134 --> 00:42:38,234
and do the same thing again.
1023
00:42:38,334 --> 00:42:40,834
In that moment after the final
test when he brought it up
1024
00:42:40,934 --> 00:42:42,994
and he said he felt really hurt.
1025
00:42:43,094 --> 00:42:44,234
Yeah, I wasn't hearing him.
1026
00:42:44,334 --> 00:42:47,474
And I will I would
admit that I shut off
1027
00:42:47,574 --> 00:42:49,154
and I pushed back and I...
1028
00:42:49,254 --> 00:42:50,554
I was mad.
1029
00:42:50,654 --> 00:42:51,954
You turned it against him.
1030
00:42:52,054 --> 00:42:55,794
And whilst he took his ring off,
then you grabbed on to that.
1031
00:42:55,894 --> 00:42:59,474
Yeah. And that's not...
I look back on these clips.
1032
00:42:59,574 --> 00:43:02,634
I'm like, girl, that's like,
you're way blowing that shit
1033
00:43:02,734 --> 00:43:03,995
out of proportion, like...
1034
00:43:04,095 --> 00:43:07,355
David, we saw you declaring
your love every which way,
1035
00:43:07,455 --> 00:43:09,475
on your knees, standing up,
walking around the room.
1036
00:43:09,575 --> 00:43:11,715
Then it was only a couple of
days later that we saw you
1037
00:43:11,815 --> 00:43:13,995
deliver your vows and walk away.
1038
00:43:14,095 --> 00:43:17,075
What happened in those two days
for you to make that switch?
1039
00:43:17,175 --> 00:43:20,435
The last sort of straw for me
was the last dinner party.
1040
00:43:20,535 --> 00:43:24,515
I was really trying and fighting
for the relationship,
1041
00:43:24,615 --> 00:43:27,715
because I came into this
experiment to change my ways
1042
00:43:27,815 --> 00:43:29,235
and actually dropped my ego
and be like,
1043
00:43:29,335 --> 00:43:30,995
yo, I'm giving you everything.
1044
00:43:31,095 --> 00:43:32,395
Let's see what I can get back.
1045
00:43:32,495 --> 00:43:34,775
So that last dinner party
was my last plea.
1046
00:43:35,455 --> 00:43:37,435
It breaks my heart
knowing that, you know,
1047
00:43:37,535 --> 00:43:40,075
I'm going to hurt this man
that told me he loved me.
1048
00:43:40,175 --> 00:43:41,395
And I just couldn't say it back.
1049
00:43:41,495 --> 00:43:44,035
We have. We said it
off-camera a couple.
1050
00:43:44,135 --> 00:43:45,675
David! Woah!
1051
00:43:45,775 --> 00:43:48,555
- Alissa, did you?
- I didn't say I love you.
1052
00:43:48,655 --> 00:43:49,755
I never said I loved him.
1053
00:43:49,855 --> 00:43:51,035
- It's happened.
- When?
1054
00:43:51,135 --> 00:43:52,355
In the apartments.
1055
00:43:52,455 --> 00:43:54,795
I know you probably
had a little to drink.
1056
00:43:54,895 --> 00:43:57,155
How many times
has this happened?
1057
00:43:57,255 --> 00:43:58,675
I'd say twice it's happened.
1058
00:43:58,775 --> 00:44:00,235
I never said "I love you."
1059
00:44:00,335 --> 00:44:02,435
I said I was falling in love
with you.
1060
00:44:02,535 --> 00:44:03,835
But I didn't say I love you,
David.
1061
00:44:03,935 --> 00:44:05,235
That's alright.
1062
00:44:05,335 --> 00:44:09,555
David, why do you think
it pissed off Alissa so much
1063
00:44:09,655 --> 00:44:10,915
that you walked away?
1064
00:44:11,015 --> 00:44:14,355
I don't know, I feel
like maybe you wanted
1065
00:44:14,455 --> 00:44:15,595
to have the final say.
1066
00:44:15,695 --> 00:44:17,075
I didn't want to
have the final say.
1067
00:44:17,175 --> 00:44:20,075
Like, I have enough respect
for what we built.
1068
00:44:20,175 --> 00:44:21,875
Were you pissed off that
1069
00:44:21,975 --> 00:44:23,835
you weren't going to
be able to deliver those?
1070
00:44:23,935 --> 00:44:26,795
Or that you were sad because
you were breaking his heart?
1071
00:44:26,895 --> 00:44:27,995
No, I wasn't pissed off.
1072
00:44:28,095 --> 00:44:29,675
You were pissed off
because you wanted an apology.
1073
00:44:29,775 --> 00:44:31,635
Oh, when I got to
the dinner party.
1074
00:44:31,735 --> 00:44:33,875
And that was
three weeks later,
1075
00:44:33,975 --> 00:44:36,475
after processing how
I felt after that moment.
1076
00:44:36,575 --> 00:44:38,395
And so you arrived at anger?
1077
00:44:38,495 --> 00:44:40,715
Well, what happens,
first, you hurt.
1078
00:44:40,815 --> 00:44:43,075
And then the anger
comes after the hurt.
1079
00:44:43,175 --> 00:44:45,915
What comes after anger?
And where are you now?
1080
00:44:46,015 --> 00:44:47,715
I'm so happy
in my life right now.
1081
00:44:47,815 --> 00:44:51,235
You know, I feel like you
learn a lot about yourself
1082
00:44:51,335 --> 00:44:52,635
within that environment.
1083
00:44:52,735 --> 00:44:55,235
I could have done better.
I could have let him speak more.
1084
00:44:55,335 --> 00:44:57,276
And I should have just
articulated myself
1085
00:44:57,376 --> 00:44:58,556
in a better way.
1086
00:44:58,656 --> 00:45:00,676
And obviously, I've been
able to move forward
1087
00:45:00,776 --> 00:45:03,476
and am so in love and so happy.
1088
00:45:03,576 --> 00:45:08,196
And I wouldn't be here
if I hadn't have gone through
1089
00:45:08,296 --> 00:45:10,076
what I went through last year,
you know.
1090
00:45:10,176 --> 00:45:12,476
Alissa, we have seen that
you're in a new relationship
1091
00:45:12,576 --> 00:45:14,816
and we are so excited for you.
1092
00:45:15,416 --> 00:45:17,596
How does it feel and where
are you at in your life?
1093
00:45:17,696 --> 00:45:19,836
I am so in love.
1094
00:45:19,936 --> 00:45:23,036
Never felt like this before
in any previous relationship.
1095
00:45:23,136 --> 00:45:24,956
Block your ears.
1096
00:45:25,056 --> 00:45:27,276
I thought I knew what
love was and that feeling.
1097
00:45:27,376 --> 00:45:29,476
But this is a connection
I can't even describe.
1098
00:45:29,576 --> 00:45:34,516
And I feel so lucky to have
this man by my side.
1099
00:45:34,616 --> 00:45:35,956
David, are there any
lucky ladies?
1100
00:45:36,056 --> 00:45:39,876
Oh, um, I am dating.
Um, I am dating.
1101
00:45:39,976 --> 00:45:41,196
Dating multiples or one?
1102
00:45:41,296 --> 00:45:44,316
I'm in the dating market.
Let's put it like that.
1103
00:45:44,416 --> 00:45:45,596
- The DMs are open!
- Multiples.
1104
00:45:45,696 --> 00:45:46,876
Life is great.
1105
00:45:46,976 --> 00:45:48,156
That's all I'm going to say.
1106
00:45:48,256 --> 00:45:50,636
Well, David and Alissa, thank
you so much for joining us.
1107
00:45:50,736 --> 00:45:52,436
We really appreciate your time.
1108
00:45:52,536 --> 00:45:54,316
Look, while it didn't work
out for you guys,
1109
00:45:54,416 --> 00:45:56,116
there of course, was one couple
1110
00:45:56,216 --> 00:45:58,036
that kept our faith
in love alive.
1111
00:45:58,136 --> 00:45:59,836
And that was Stella and Filip,
1112
00:45:59,936 --> 00:46:02,116
who will be joining us
in just a moment.
1113
00:46:02,216 --> 00:46:04,856
But first, let's take
a look back at their magic.
1114
00:46:06,696 --> 00:46:08,396
Can't believe we're
at the end here. Like, just...
1115
00:46:08,496 --> 00:46:09,596
Yeah.
1116
00:46:09,696 --> 00:46:11,876
It's crazy. Like, I actually
do not want to
1117
00:46:11,976 --> 00:46:13,976
spend a day without him.
1118
00:46:16,736 --> 00:46:20,036
I asked the experts
to be the love story
1119
00:46:20,136 --> 00:46:22,136
and my wish got granted.
1120
00:46:22,896 --> 00:46:26,436
Decision process for the final
vows is non-existent for me.
1121
00:46:26,536 --> 00:46:28,436
I have very clear writing
on the wall.
1122
00:46:28,536 --> 00:46:30,536
He's my man.
That's it.
1123
00:46:32,736 --> 00:46:34,756
I thought that I was
never going to experience
1124
00:46:34,856 --> 00:46:36,856
a love like this.
1125
00:46:37,176 --> 00:46:39,636
And I want to be with her
for the rest of my life.
1126
00:46:39,736 --> 00:46:41,736
- Hi.
- How are you going, baby?
1127
00:46:42,456 --> 00:46:43,636
I came here to look for love.
1128
00:46:43,736 --> 00:46:46,196
And what I found
was far more profound.
1129
00:46:46,296 --> 00:46:48,296
I found home in you.
1130
00:46:48,617 --> 00:46:52,577
Stella, I love you more
than I ever thought possible
1131
00:46:53,217 --> 00:46:55,937
and have never felt more
certain of anything.
1132
00:47:03,657 --> 00:47:05,657
Stella,
1133
00:47:06,017 --> 00:47:08,017
will you marry me?
1134
00:47:18,017 --> 00:47:19,797
Tonight I'm not just
walking in with someone.
1135
00:47:19,897 --> 00:47:21,797
I'm walking in with my fiance.
1136
00:47:21,897 --> 00:47:23,397
Uh, we've been keeping a secret.
1137
00:47:23,497 --> 00:47:25,197
I got down on one knee.
1138
00:47:28,657 --> 00:47:31,557
Cheers.
1139
00:47:31,657 --> 00:47:34,317
When you look at
Stella, what do you see?
1140
00:47:34,417 --> 00:47:36,417
My future.
1141
00:47:36,737 --> 00:47:38,797
And you, Stella?
1142
00:47:38,897 --> 00:47:40,897
Home.
1143
00:47:42,337 --> 00:47:46,597
It's been such
a pleasure to witness this
1144
00:47:46,697 --> 00:47:48,697
for all three of us.
1145
00:47:49,497 --> 00:47:50,837
You're an incredible team,
1146
00:47:50,937 --> 00:47:54,117
and we wish you both
all the very best.
1147
00:47:54,217 --> 00:47:55,757
- That you very much.
- Thank you. Appreciate it.
1148
00:47:55,857 --> 00:47:57,857
Thanks for everything.
Seriously.
1149
00:47:58,737 --> 00:47:59,997
I'm actually crying.
1150
00:48:00,097 --> 00:48:02,157
I'm not crying.
You're crying.
1151
00:48:03,977 --> 00:48:06,137
- Stella and Filip!
- Everyone's crying.
1152
00:48:07,177 --> 00:48:09,597
That squeal
when you looked at your ring.
1153
00:48:09,697 --> 00:48:11,197
I still can't believe it
1154
00:48:11,297 --> 00:48:13,797
because I couldn't wear it for,
like, four months?
1155
00:48:13,897 --> 00:48:15,277
No, five? I don't know how long.
1156
00:48:15,377 --> 00:48:17,197
- It was just sitting in...
- Show me.
1157
00:48:17,297 --> 00:48:18,997
It was just sitting
in the shelf and I'm like,
1158
00:48:19,097 --> 00:48:20,677
yes, finally on!
1159
00:48:20,777 --> 00:48:23,037
And also there's something,
you have to keep this secret
1160
00:48:23,137 --> 00:48:24,437
that you've had for so long.
1161
00:48:24,537 --> 00:48:26,877
And like, you know, most people
are keeping a secret of, like,
1162
00:48:26,977 --> 00:48:28,397
are we or aren't we together?
1163
00:48:28,497 --> 00:48:31,197
And you're keeping a secret of,
like, not only are we together,
1164
00:48:31,297 --> 00:48:32,717
we're engaged.
1165
00:48:32,817 --> 00:48:33,957
It's really hard.
1166
00:48:34,057 --> 00:48:35,197
It was really hard.
1167
00:48:35,297 --> 00:48:36,917
Like, yeah, we just had to
literally keep hush hush.
1168
00:48:37,017 --> 00:48:38,557
We were hoping that
and we were hopeful that
1169
00:48:38,657 --> 00:48:39,837
it wouldn't come out.
1170
00:48:39,937 --> 00:48:42,598
The number one rule was do
not just get caught with it
1171
00:48:42,698 --> 00:48:44,438
wearing it out in public.
And that's what we did.
1172
00:48:44,538 --> 00:48:45,758
I actually forgot
what it looked like.
1173
00:48:45,858 --> 00:48:47,558
Now we get acquainted again.
So it's all good.
1174
00:48:47,658 --> 00:48:48,798
We can just rock it.
1175
00:48:48,898 --> 00:48:52,278
When did you know? Because
I feel like at the end,
1176
00:48:52,378 --> 00:48:53,758
it must have been
this moment of like,
1177
00:48:53,858 --> 00:48:55,118
I know I'm committed to her.
1178
00:48:55,218 --> 00:48:57,398
Like, I know I want
a future with Stella,
1179
00:48:57,498 --> 00:48:58,918
but when were you like,
holy moly,
1180
00:48:59,018 --> 00:49:00,318
I'm leaving this with a fiance?
1181
00:49:00,418 --> 00:49:01,958
I was talking to Mum and Dad,
1182
00:49:02,058 --> 00:49:05,038
Dad's, like, Filip,
she's your person.
1183
00:49:05,138 --> 00:49:08,438
Like, when I saw mum,
this is how it was
1184
00:49:08,538 --> 00:49:10,278
like, you know, like,
when you know, you know,
1185
00:49:10,378 --> 00:49:11,678
don't look at what
could go wrong,
1186
00:49:11,778 --> 00:49:12,998
what could go right
kind of thing.
1187
00:49:13,098 --> 00:49:14,798
And, that was it. Like, after...
1188
00:49:14,898 --> 00:49:17,598
Yeah, after the hometown visits,
that's when I really knew that,
1189
00:49:17,698 --> 00:49:18,838
yeah, she's my person.
1190
00:49:18,938 --> 00:49:20,638
Like, this is happening.
1191
00:49:20,738 --> 00:49:23,318
Like, I'm so giddy with, like,
how cute this is.
1192
00:49:23,418 --> 00:49:25,558
Yeah. Sometimes you get lost
in the sauce with all the drama,
1193
00:49:25,658 --> 00:49:27,318
all the high school stuff.
But it's real.
1194
00:49:27,418 --> 00:49:29,358
What we were building
from day dot was real.
1195
00:49:29,458 --> 00:49:32,518
You nailed it because,
like, at the end of the day,
1196
00:49:32,618 --> 00:49:34,078
very real couples come out
of this.
1197
00:49:34,178 --> 00:49:37,158
This changes
your life forever.
1198
00:49:37,258 --> 00:49:38,838
It must have been such
an incredibly hard thing
1199
00:49:38,938 --> 00:49:40,118
to keep a secret.
1200
00:49:40,218 --> 00:49:41,678
But also, I can only
imagine that the nerves
1201
00:49:41,778 --> 00:49:42,878
you must have been feeling.
1202
00:49:42,978 --> 00:49:45,438
The team did come across this
off-camera
1203
00:49:45,538 --> 00:49:46,638
and very unguarded moment
1204
00:49:46,738 --> 00:49:48,118
just before you popped the
question.
1205
00:49:48,218 --> 00:49:50,498
I was pissing so hard. I was
pissing like a racehorse.
1206
00:49:58,418 --> 00:50:00,418
Yeah. So I don't know
if it's... Yeah.
1207
00:50:37,219 --> 00:50:39,219
Oh, my god!
1208
00:50:44,819 --> 00:50:46,819
Oh, my god.
1209
00:50:52,659 --> 00:50:54,479
I love that.
1210
00:50:54,579 --> 00:50:55,679
Oh, Lord.
1211
00:50:55,779 --> 00:50:57,679
How many nervous wees
did you end up doing?
1212
00:50:57,779 --> 00:50:58,919
Eight or nine.
1213
00:50:59,019 --> 00:51:01,919
I was standing there
and I'm like, I was so nervous.
1214
00:51:02,019 --> 00:51:04,119
Like it was just,
a lot went into it.
1215
00:51:04,219 --> 00:51:05,479
I wanted it more than anything.
1216
00:51:05,579 --> 00:51:08,599
Like, I just, yeah, I just
wanted it, her to as well,
1217
00:51:08,699 --> 00:51:10,079
not think that it was
for the cameras.
1218
00:51:10,179 --> 00:51:11,719
Can I just input.
1219
00:51:11,819 --> 00:51:13,319
What we saw at the wedding
1220
00:51:13,419 --> 00:51:15,919
and what was the big thing of my
friends basically,
1221
00:51:16,019 --> 00:51:17,639
are you here
for the right reasons?
1222
00:51:17,739 --> 00:51:19,759
That really planted a big
seed in my mind.
1223
00:51:19,859 --> 00:51:21,159
For probably half of
the experiment,
1224
00:51:21,259 --> 00:51:22,959
I was like, are you here
for the right reasons?
1225
00:51:23,059 --> 00:51:26,319
Because it was so in my brain.
1226
00:51:26,419 --> 00:51:28,279
But I think that that's
a normal part when you,
1227
00:51:28,379 --> 00:51:30,719
especially when you're
a couple that's met on MAFS
1228
00:51:30,819 --> 00:51:32,599
or in any reality TV,
1229
00:51:32,699 --> 00:51:34,319
you're going to go through those
moments where you're like,
1230
00:51:34,419 --> 00:51:35,679
are you here
for the right reason?
1231
00:51:35,779 --> 00:51:37,159
Is this real?
1232
00:51:37,259 --> 00:51:41,119
And like, actually, oh, it makes
me so emotional because
1233
00:51:41,219 --> 00:51:44,079
I got this, you know, like,
I have three beautiful girls
1234
00:51:44,179 --> 00:51:46,599
because I got this from
a reality TV show.
1235
00:51:46,699 --> 00:51:49,799
And there is a period where
you question and you're like,
1236
00:51:49,899 --> 00:51:52,399
is it possible
that this could be real?
1237
00:51:52,499 --> 00:51:54,999
Because it feels like it's
an unbelievably lucky thing
1238
00:51:55,099 --> 00:51:56,279
to come across.
1239
00:51:56,379 --> 00:51:58,039
It makes it feel like
it's you against the world.
1240
00:51:58,139 --> 00:51:59,639
And that's what
I have in my husband.
1241
00:51:59,739 --> 00:52:02,919
And honestly, like the most
beautiful family I have,
1242
00:52:03,019 --> 00:52:04,999
an incredible husband.
1243
00:52:05,099 --> 00:52:07,239
And like, that's going to be
you guys in ten years' time.
1244
00:52:07,339 --> 00:52:09,319
- How good. Yes.
- Quicker, quicker!
1245
00:52:09,419 --> 00:52:11,919
Can I congratulate you
on the new bundle of joy?
1246
00:52:13,339 --> 00:52:15,079
Got a puppy!
1247
00:52:15,179 --> 00:52:16,399
Where is he?
1248
00:52:16,499 --> 00:52:18,499
- It's not a puppy.
- Got ya!
1249
00:52:18,939 --> 00:52:21,039
- I just died, OK?
- Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
1250
00:52:21,139 --> 00:52:23,359
Love the reaction. Love it.
1251
00:52:23,459 --> 00:52:24,799
But we know
you don't have the snip.
1252
00:52:24,899 --> 00:52:26,000
So it could be real.
1253
00:52:26,100 --> 00:52:27,520
It could be real, hey?
We don't know.
1254
00:52:27,620 --> 00:52:28,840
- What?
- Nothing.
1255
00:52:30,580 --> 00:52:32,080
We got a timer,
we got a timer.
1256
00:52:32,180 --> 00:52:33,800
- Someone got this...
- 40.
1257
00:52:33,900 --> 00:52:35,400
The dog got the snip.
1258
00:52:35,500 --> 00:52:38,080
Someone had to get the snip
Someone's getting the snip.
1259
00:52:38,180 --> 00:52:39,280
You know?
1260
00:52:39,380 --> 00:52:41,040
Do you feel like this is
a dream come true?
1261
00:52:41,140 --> 00:52:43,160
- Yeah.
- I can't believe it.
1262
00:52:43,260 --> 00:52:44,560
I actually can't believe it.
1263
00:52:44,660 --> 00:52:47,480
But look, we did work
really hard at it, though.
1264
00:52:47,580 --> 00:52:49,920
And in saying that, it wasn't
all kittens and rainbows.
1265
00:52:50,020 --> 00:52:52,000
Uh, we had serious
discussions at all the time.
1266
00:52:52,100 --> 00:52:53,480
We were constantly tested.
1267
00:52:53,580 --> 00:52:55,800
It set us up for success,
you know?
1268
00:52:55,900 --> 00:52:58,720
Guys, Congratulations.
We love love.
1269
00:52:58,820 --> 00:53:01,360
We are absolutely thrilled
for you guys
1270
00:53:01,460 --> 00:53:03,880
and we cannot wait to
see what happens next.
1271
00:53:03,980 --> 00:53:05,320
And you guys are so lucky.
1272
00:53:05,420 --> 00:53:06,600
Not only that you fell in love,
1273
00:53:06,700 --> 00:53:09,640
but you can watch your love
story back whenever you want.
1274
00:53:09,740 --> 00:53:11,120
I can't wait to see the wedding.
1275
00:53:11,220 --> 00:53:12,400
I'm sure it's going to be
spectacular.
1276
00:53:12,500 --> 00:53:13,760
- Yeah, can't believe it.
- Such a gift.
1277
00:53:13,860 --> 00:53:15,720
Well, that is all we
have time for tonight.
1278
00:53:15,820 --> 00:53:19,240
But never fear, we have one more
MAFS special up our sleeve.
1279
00:53:19,340 --> 00:53:21,320
It's going to be
a mammoth episode
1280
00:53:21,420 --> 00:53:22,560
with fan favourites returning
1281
00:53:22,660 --> 00:53:24,040
and a few faces
you never thought
1282
00:53:24,140 --> 00:53:25,440
that you were going to
see again.
1283
00:53:25,540 --> 00:53:29,280
Tea will be spilt, grievances
aired and rumours debunked.
1284
00:53:29,380 --> 00:53:33,280
It will be the juiciest take on
Where Are they Now yet.
1285
00:53:33,380 --> 00:53:36,040
That's next Monday,
right here on Stan.
1286
00:53:36,140 --> 00:53:37,280
See you then.
1287
00:53:37,380 --> 00:53:38,480
Alright.
1288
00:53:40,580 --> 00:53:42,580
Jules, take the lid off!
1289
00:53:43,300 --> 00:53:44,920
Ahhhh!
1290
00:53:47,220 --> 00:53:48,880
Let's go.
1291
00:53:48,980 --> 00:53:51,180
- Congrats!
- Thank you very much.
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