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Mom, you be careful, all right?

All right.

I do think this is longer
than it used to be.

Oh, what a lovely day.

Dad is looking so well.

Well, he is, isn't he?
Yeah.

He always was a fighter.

I know.

Look at Mahtob.

She's such a daddy's girl.

Well, so were you.

Moody! Mahtob! Dad!

Come on!
Fresh homemade lemonade!

Come on!
Come on, everybody!

Mom, Daddy's teaching me
how to fish, again!

Dear, can I see today's catch?

Oh, one of these days, O ye
of little faith. Wait and see.

Are you having a good time?
Yeah.

Here you go.

Dad, you want lemonade?
Yes.

Okay.
Thank you.

Ah!

Sour?
A little.

Not enough sugar?
No.

I never can get that right.

Hey, there you are.
Hey, Mahtob. Honey.

Mahtob.

What vitamins
do we get from lemons?

Mahtob, what vitamins
do we get from lemons?

Vitamin C.
Right.

And what vitamins do we get from,
uh, bananas?

Vitamin C, vitamin B, and fiber.

Right! Right!
Wonderful.

None of my kids were
as smart as this little cutie.

That's great.
Thanks, Mom.

And what are you going to be
when you grow up?

A nurse.

Well, you can be a doctor as well,
you know?

A doctor and a nurse.

I wanna know how you expect
to teach Mahtob to fish.

You've never
caught a fish in your life.

Honey, it's the best way.
This way I'm totally unprejudiced, either way.

He bought all this fishing equipment.
And a book on how to fish.

He's had her out there every day for a month.
Nothing.

Yeah, well, if it's a choice between
your lemonade and my fishing,

I know where I stand.

I want to sit on Daddy's lap.

Well, it's my turn.
You always sit on Daddy's lap.

Don't fight over me, girls.
I think you should find another available lap.

And, uh, then we have...
Thank you.

A 30-year-old woman
with a class 3 pap smear for a TAH.

So, I think, yeah, so I think...

The thing about the Iranians

is that they prayed themselves
right back into the stone age.

What I can't understand is

why anybody would come to the States
to study medicine?

They can get a degree in Iran
in, what, two weeks?

Seven days.
Yeah.

I understand the Ayatollah's got some
great ideas about medicine.

Soldier gets wounded in the field,
just let him die.

He's gonna go to paradise anyway, right?
Certainly.

Did you see
that newspaper over there?

Hmm, the Iranian funny page?

How can he read that thing, man?

Jesus Christ, it's not even written in words.

It looks like one
of my prescriptions.

I've read that prescription.

I wouldn't mind going to Iran.

Oh, no, no, no. Don't turn it off.
It's okay.

Honey, what's wrong?

Nothing's wrong.
I'm fine.

What's wrong?

Have you talked to the family?
Is everything all right?

Oh, everybody's fine.
They're fine.

Oh, by the way, uh,
Mammal phoned.

He and Nasserine
have had a baby boy.

That's great.

A couple of the doctors were making cracks
at the hospital again.

Who were they?

What does it matter?

It matters, Moody.

It matters.

We moved here to get away
from all of that.

God, it's just so awful.

Oh, honey, forget it.

Honey, forget it.

There are dumb people
everywhere.

Forget it, honey.

"And the genie roared with laughter.

"'O thou poor thief of 1,000 alleyways,

"'do you think you can marry
the sultan's daughter

"'when all the princes in Persia
are seeking her hand?'

"'You foolish slave, '
replied Aladdin, boldly.

"'Have you forgotten
the jewels in the cave?

"'You have the wits of a donkey.

"'I should put you back into the dirty old lamp,
where you belong.'"

Is there really Aladdin's cave?

I'm sure there must be.

Could we find it?

Well, I'm not sure
if I know where it is, but...

You know, I was born in Persia.

Well, they call it Iran now.

If I took you there,

maybe we could look for it together,
couldn't we?

You know, Iran's got caves
and mountains and deserts,

just like in the story.

And mosques.

They're so beautiful,
they're like jewels.

You know, when the sun shines on them,
they dazzle your eyes.

Would you like to see those?

Okay, where were we?

Daddy?
Uh-huh?

Do I hate Americans?

What do you mean?
Of course not.

Lucille says I hate Americans

because you're from Iran.

Sweetheart,

Lucille doesn't really know
what she's talking about,

so we shouldn't pay
too much attention to her.

I've lived in America
for 20 years.

I'm as American as apple pie,

and so are you.

Give me a kiss.

Mmm, big hugs.

Mmm, big hugs.

Oh, that was Ameh Bozorg.

It's always the same.

She cries and cries
on the phone.

"You're like a son to me.

"When your mother died,
I was the one that raised you.

"Now I'm sick, I'm dying,
you're a doctor.

"You're not here
to look after me."

Is she sick?
No, no. She's not sick.

She's 58.
She feels old, but she's not sick.

It's the same old guilt trip.

Oh, honey, come on.

She's your sister.
She misses you.

You have to phone her
more often.

Phoning's no good.
She wants to see me.

And now that
Mammal and Nasserine have had their baby,

everybody's there
for the celebration except me.

It's been 10 years.

I haven't seen
my family for 10 years.

Mammal and Reza have been here.

Why doesn't she just get on a plane
and come over here for a visit?

She wouldn't do that.
She's hardly been out of Teheran.

She wants to see me over there.
They want to see us.

They've never met you or Mahtob.

She keeps asking
why can't we go over for a vacation.

You'll just have to
explain it to them.

Explain what?

We can't go to Iran.

Why not?

I'm not about to take Mahtob to Iran.
It's much too violent.

We're not gonna go sightseeing
to the Persian Gulf or anything crazy.

We're gonna spend two weeks on vacation
with my family.

Moody, there's too much
going on over there.

Look, your family is welcome here anytime.
You know that.

Well, if you feel
that strongly about it,

maybe you should
just go there yourself.

No, I don't mean that, either.

None of us should go.
It's just not safe.

Mommy!
Look.

I'm coming!

You're getting it
all out of proportion.

Look, I haven't seen
any of them for 10 years.

Mommy!
Honey, I know how you feel.

All right, I'm coming!

No, it's okay.
Go ahead.

Honey, I want to go
more than anything.

I miss them so much.

You're always talking about
how important family is.

All I want to do is go for two weeks
with you and Mahtob

and visit my family.

Moody, it scares me.

What scares you, honey?

Look at me.

Do you honestly think
for one moment

that I would take you
and Mahtob anywhere

that I thought
would be dangerous?

I love you both more than
anything in the whole world.

Listen,

Mahtob's got her vacation.

She starts a new school.

It's a good time.

I swear to you

on the sacred Koran,

you won't be in any danger,

that we'll be back
after two weeks,

and that I wouldn't do anything

to jeopardize
yours or Mahtob's safety.

Come on, honey.

It's not such a big deal.

Look at what they're doing.

Hello, Betty.
Hello.

Nasserine, it's so good
to see you.

Fereshte, Zoreh, this is Mahtob.

Betty! Betty!
It's Ameh Bozorg!

Sweetheart,
that's Daddy's sister.

For you and Mahtob.

Oh, my goodness!
Look!

Mahtob!
Mahtob!

Moonlight.

You are moonlight.

I know.
Mahtob means moonlight.

Mahtob, Mahtob.

Betty?
Hello.

I am so happy. Now you can be with us.

Oh, yes, I'm so glad.
It's only for two weeks, but I'm very pleased.

I remember your house
in America very well.

Mammal, so good to see you.

At last, finally
you are here, Betty.

Yes, I'm so glad we could come for a visit.

Congratulations on the baby.

Thank you.

What?

No, nothing.

She say Mahtob look like
almost exact to Moody

and to Ameh Bozorg.

Some reception, huh?

- Oh, my gosh.
- It's amazing.

Do you know all these people?

All of them.

Oh, boy. This is
all my family.

Obviously,
they really missed you.

The car's just over here.

Go ahead, unwrap it. It's a gift.
Oh!

Thank you.
Isn't that nice?

Oh! Thank you.
Thank you.

Go on. Put it on.

Put it on.
Now?

Yeah, well, it's a...

They've gone to
a lot of trouble.

It would make her very happy.
All right.

You know, it's pretty good quality.
Okay.

Go ahead.

Get in the car, okay?

God.

It all looks so different.

I thought you said,
foreign women don't have to wear Islamic dress.

Yeah. I know.
I made a mistake.

It's all changed.

Anyway, it's only when you leave the house or
when you go outside.

You saw the women
at the airport.

I didn't recognize
half my family.

They were all covered.

Last time I was here,
only half of them wore chador.

It's all new.

What would happen
if I didn't wear this?

She says you'd get arrested.

I have to go to the bathroom.

Just wait.
We're almost there.

Hi.

No, no!
They're hurting him, Mommy!

They're hurting him!

Mommy, they're hurting him,
Mommy, they're hurting him.

It's their way of saying welcome.
It's a great honor.

They give the meat to the poor.

Honey, honey,
we have to step over it.

It's a custom.
It's expected.

Just hang on to me.

It's the Friday prayer.

From the Teheran University.

Prayers.
Mmm.

Honey, don't forget,
we got to get some things for your mom and dad.

Okay.

So hot.

Thank you.
Now let me do you. Okay?

All right?

- Fix your scarf!
- Fix your hair!

Cover your hair!

Honey, I'm sorry.
They didn't know you were a foreigner.

If they'd had known,
they wouldn't have been so harsh.

A little bit of hair fell out.
I know. I know.

Honey, you gotta be careful.
They're very strict about the dress code here.

You must to cover all.
You must not to be careless.

Every single hair that is not covered
is like a dagger

that you aim at
the heart of our martyrs.

Come on.

Just give it time, sweetheart.

It's okay.

Look at these hands.

Mom.
Shh.

Guess that means we can eat.

Come on.
Sit up straight.

Is it because I didn't
wear a chador?

Honey, you misinterpreted.

She wasn't looking at you.

Honey, you didn't see.
She looked at me.

It was the same feeling today

when the police stopped me.

There was such dislike.

It just seems so
primitive sometimes.

Yeah, well,
all religious beliefs seem primitive

when they're not your own.

But to cover them up
and hide them away.

Are they so afraid of women's sexuality
or what?

No, no. That's not the reason.

Iranian women like to wear the chador.
It's a mark of respect.

You know,
when the Shah tried to ban them,

they had demonstrations
in the streets.

Most women wanted
to bring it back.

I'm sorry. I know
it's a different culture.

I guess I just
don't understand it.

Why is Mammal angry at you,
and the others?

They seem to be going
at you all the time.

Yeah, well...

You know, my family,
they're very religious.

They're not sophisticated.
They're basically country people.

It's all changed so much.

It's all back to the Koran.

It's been that way
since the revolution.

You know, when they moved into this house,

they got rid of all the furniture. All of it.

Now they see me, and

I seem so Americanized.

And you have an American wife.

Yeah.

I'm sorry.

The last thing I wanted to do was come here
and insult them in any way.

I know, I know.

Honey, it's going to
seem strange for a while,

but believe me,
they want to love you.

They will.

I promise.
Okay.

What?

Nothing.
No, no, nothing.

What's so funny?

You know they think we make love
all the time.

Who?
The family.

Why?
Well.

Well, because here, you know,
after they make love,

they have to take a shower because,
you know, they can't pray unless they do.

You know,
it's considered unclean.

You know, we're taking
two, three showers a day.

Oh, God, what, they think
we're two rabbits or something?

I'm not taking another shower
the whole time we're here.

You knew that the whole time.

They didn't know you were such a swinger.
You know what I mean?

Yeah, but you knew that all along.

You were out in the hall giggling.
Every time I took a shower.

Don't go.

I have to.

Oh, Moody, please stay.

I can't.

Honey, you've been getting up early
every morning

for a week and a half.
Don't go.

What's the matter with you?

I'm with my family.

They're Sayyids.
You know what that means?

They're direct descendants of Mohammed.

They deserve a little respect.

Oh, of course, to the sophisticated American,

that must all seem so incredibly primitive.

Betty.

Oh, God, you scared me.

I wondered where you were.

I think I got
the most beautiful picture

if I had this thing set right.

The lights have gone.

Are you coming in?
Yeah.

Betty.

What?

Something happened
before we came out here.

What?

Well, you know,
I didn't want to tell you about it.

We were coming out here, so...

What, Moody, what happened?

I got fired from the hospital.

You got fired?

It happened just before we left.

Literally, two days.

I can't believe it.
They can't do that.

Yes, they can.

If they can find someone
who'll do the job for less money.

Oh, no.

And who isn't an Iranian.

Oh.

Moody, I can't believe that.

Your work was going so well.

Oh, you think they like
Iranians in Michigan?

It's always there, you know

just under the surface.

You know, not one
of my colleagues

has ever stood up for me
whenever there was any trouble.

Honey, that's not true.

Yeah. We're talking about
the medical profession.

It's supposed to be
an educated group of people.

What are we going to do?

Well,

I'll tell you what
we're gonna do.

We're going to go home tomorrow

and we're gonna find out
how this happened.

We'll appeal. It's America. We've got laws.

We've got friends.
You've got lots of friends.

And this just can't happen.

Hey!

Hey, will you stop that?

Look at you
messing everything up.

Now, get your own stuff
together, please.

I don't think they're
gonna let this through.

Maybe Mammal can ship it.

Sweetheart, listen to me.

Do you want to pack Toby Bunny
or do you want to carry him?

It's gonna be awfully hot.

Pack him.
Okay, pack him.

Sit down here right now

and fold up all those clothes you messed up.

Can I put him in the suitcase?
Yes, you may.

Sweetheart, you haven't packed anything.

You want me to do it for you?
No.

You must take passport to the airport
three days before

to get approval.
You have not done this.

Approval?
What approval?

It is no time.
You must to get stamp.

You cannot leave today.

Well, when can we leave?
When's the next flight?

I don't know.

Moody, what is this?

I don't know.

We'll have to wait for the next available flight,
I guess.

How could you not take care of the passports?

Didn't somebody tell you
about this, Moody?

How could you let this happen?

It's a mistake.
Nobody thought about it.

Well, then, we'll go to the airport,
and we'll tell them

we didn't know about
the three-day requirement.

Maybe they'll just
let us through.

And if not, we'll just sit there

and we'll wait
for the next flight.

I don't know
how to say this to you.

We're not going back.
We're staying here.

What do you mean?
How long?

I want to get a job here,

in a hospital.

What?

I want us to live in Iran.

No.

No.

There's nothing
for me in America.

No.

No. What...
What, are you crazy?

We're Americans.
Your daughter's an American.

Moody, honey,
you're upset about your job and everything,

I understand that.
We're gonna go back today and we're gonna fix it.

I want Mahtob to grow up here.
No!

I think she should become a Muslim.
No!

No!

You lied to me.

You lied to me.

You held the Koran and swore to me that
nothing was gonna happen.

Mommy.
You were planning this all the time.

You lied to me.

Mommy, aren't we
going home today?

Yes, we are, honey.

I want you to go downstairs

and I want you to say goodbye to everybody.
All right.

Moody, I know
what's been going on.

They've got no right.
You've got to resist it.

Moody, I know how much
you miss your family,

how guilty they make you feel.

I know the kind of pressure
they're putting on you.

I know you want to
spend some time here.

I promise you we'll come back,
we'll spend time here.

But we can't stay here.

This is a backward,
primitive country.

I won't live here.

I won't bring up
my daughter here.

How can you even consider
raising Mahtob here?

Don't you see
how they treat women?

I know it's the right decision

if you just give it a chance.
No.

For all of us.
For you and for Mahtob.

No, Moody, you can't mean this.

I'm a highly qualified doctor.

They're desperate
for doctors in Iran.

I could do a lot of good here.
Please.

Besides, I'm a Muslim.
Please.

This is where I should be.

This is where
my family should be.
Please, please don't do this.

Look, I know it seems harsh,

but it's best thing
for all of us.

Mahtob could learn
real values here!

No! I won't stay here!
You can't keep me...

Now, you listen to me.

You're in my country now.
You're my wife.

You do as I say.
You understand me?

We're staying here.

Mammal, would you
translate for me?

Please excuse me if I don't
get my words straight.

I'm a bit shaken up.

I wanted to come down here
and talk to you

to see if you could
understand my feelings.

Moody and I have been
married for seven years.

We've loved each other
very much.

And we have trusted each other.

Trust was always very important.

I didn't want to come here.

Moody knew that.
I made it very clear to him.

The only reason I came was to visit
with all of you

and so that you could meet our daughter.

But I was frightened.

And so Moody swore to me on the holy Koran
that nothing would happen.

That nothing like this could happen.

He held the Koran, and he swore to me.

Isn't that true, Moody?
Isn't that true?

I had to.
You wouldn't have come with me if I hadn't.

Baba Hajji, you're a religious man.

How can Moody swear on the Koran

and then do this to me?

Allah will forgive him.

No, no!

Ameh Bozorg, Ameh Bozorg,

please help me, please!

No! You can't do this!

God damn you!
God damn you!

You can't keep me here!

You had this planned all along!

Damn you!

I'll be with you.

I'll help you.

Will you try to go to sleep?

Where are the checkbooks
and credit cards?

And I'll need the house keys
and the keys to the car.

They're in the small bag,
I think.

Moody,

talk to me, please.

There's nothing more to say.

Oh, Moody, please!

Please talk to me!

Moody!

Moody, please!

I told you to stop calling here.

No, she's not available.

Yeah, well, she's also my wife,

which means she wants
to do what I want.

Look, you're not helping him by doing this.

Yes. I know that very well,
and I'm very sorry,

but this isn't going to
help his illness go away.

So please leave us alone.

No, I will not discuss...

Look, I really don't
care about that.

The State Department can do
what the hell it likes!

Betty, you've got to eat.

You can't keep this up.

You're going to
make yourself very sick.

You know, if I thought you really wanted
to stay here,

we could have such a great life.

You know,

when I first heard
the Shah was leaving Iran,

just after Mahtob was born,

I couldn't believe it.

It was just amazing.

They had everyone
on the streets,

millions of people.

I should have been here.

For the first time,

we could say to everyone,

"This is our faith.

"This is our way of life.
This is who we are.

"And nothing can stop us."

You can't imagine
what that was like.

I know things
have been hard for you.

They'll get better.

I promise you.

Dear Lord, hear our prayer.

Dear Lord, hear our prayer.

Please help us leave Iran
and get back to America.

Please help us leave Iran
and get back to America.

Please let nothing separate us.

Please let nothing separate us.

And keep us always safe
in your care.

And keep us always safe
in your care.

Amen.
Amen.

- Hello.
- Hello, Betty.

Mom!

Don't talk. Just listen.
Mom. Oh, God!

You are to go to
the American Interests Section

of the Swiss Embassy.

There is no US Embassy in Iran anymore.
Okay.

It's on Kiribah Fereshteh Street.
Kiribah.

Their number is 625475.

625475.

What are you doing?
I knew from the beginning...

It was ringing.
I answered it.

Something dangerous...

Why do you want to humiliate me
in front of my family?

I've told you before,
you don't touch the phone!

And you don't leave the house!

Now do you understand me?
Yes!

Swiss Embassy.

American Interests Section.

I can't hear you calling.
You'll have to talk louder.

I can't talk louder.

I can't hear you, caller.

Are you there, caller?

Are you there, caller?

Please, help me.
I'm being held hostage.

You'll have to talk louder,
caller, you're very faint.

I can't.

I'm being held hostage.
Please help me.

I'm sorry
I can't hear you, caller.

Who were you talking to?

When?
Before, on the phone.

No one.
It was nothing.

Now don't lie to me.
I know you're lying to me.

Stop it, Daddy!
Stop it!

It's okay, honey.
It's between Mommy and me.

It was nothing, really.

I tried to call Nasserine,
I got the wrong number.

What do you think, huh?

You think you can lie to me?

You think you can do
anything in this house

without me knowing about it?

My family tell me everything.

They're watching you
all the time.

So, please, don't be stupid.

Mommy isn't stupid.

By the way,

she's gonna have to
start school pretty soon.

We'll have to get her
the right clothes.

I don't want to go to school.

Moody, what school?
When?

American Interests...
Uh, the Swiss Embassy.

Swiss Embassy.

Kiribah Fereshteh is
the name of the street.

Kiribah Fereshteh.

Swiss Embassy.

My name is Betty Mahmoody.

I'm an American citizen.

Show your passport inside.

Thank you.

Passport.

We don't have our passports.

My husband has them.

We're American citizens.

You can go.

We can go.
Mommy, we can go home!

My name is Nicole Ajamian.

Betty Mahmoody.

This is my daughter Mahtob.
Please, do sit.

Thank you.

We're so glad to see you.

Um...

I spoke with my mother
in the United States.

And I know that the State Department
is into this.

We're just very happy
to be here.

We'll sleep anywhere
for as long as it takes

until you can get us out.

What are you talking about?

You cannot stay here.

I can't go back to my husband.

I want to go home
to the United States.

That may be,
but you are in Iran.

You are married to an Iranian?

Yes.

Then you are an Iranian citizen.

No, no, I'm not.

I'm an American citizen,
and my daughter is an American citizen.

We were born
in the United States.

We have American passports.

I mean, we don't...
We don't have them with us.

My husband has them.

We've never changed
our citizenship.

If you marry an Iranian man,

you automatically become
an Iranian citizen.

The laws regarding women
are very strict.

You cannot travel anywhere
without written permission.

You have no rights
to the children.

They go to the man in a divorce.

I'm sorry,
but you will have to go back to your husband.

But we'll never get out of Iran.

We're being held hostage.

It was almost impossible
to come here.

Mrs. Mahmoody, there are many
American women here

in similar circumstances.

May I ask you
why you came to Iran?

I don't know.

I don't know.

I was afraid to come.

I wanted to please him.

I trusted him.

I was frightened to come,
but I never thought this would happen.

I thought of him as an American.

He's changed.

Oh, God, he's changed.

Look, Mrs. Mahmoody,

many came back
after the revolution

feeling guilty about being away,

about turning
their backs on Iran

and on Islam.

Now Iran is an Islamic state,

and that's a wonderful thing
for many Iranians.

Well, if there is
anything I can do,

maybe if you need to organize
telephone calls to the US,

or you want to
write letters home...

So, if Daddy asks,

we went for a walk
and got lost, okay?

Mommy! Mommy!

Where were you, huh?
I went for a walk! I went...

I went out for a walk, and I got lost!
Where were you?

We went for a walk...
Shut up!

You try anything
like this again,

I'll kill you!

Oh, my God.

? Happy birthday to you

? Happy birthday to you

? Happy birthday, dear Mahtob

? Happy birthday to you

? Happy birthday to you

? Happy birthday to you

? Happy birthday, dear Mahtob

? Happy birthday to you

Hi.

Hi.

Nasserine said
you wanted to see me.

I can't believe
she's five, can you?

No.

Thank you for today,

the doll and everything.

I miss her.

It seems I haven't spent much time
with her lately.

Moody,

I want to make it work.

You were such
a wonderful father today.

It brought it all back.

Honey, I want you to be happy.

I want to make you happy.

I need you to help me.

Oh, Betty.

I didn't want it
to be like this.

I love you.

I never want to hurt you.

Oh, Moody.

Moody, I need you...
I need you to help me.

We can't stay in this house.

It's my sister's house.

She'd be insulted
if we went away.

No, no, she doesn't
really want us here.

She doesn't like me.

We've got nowhere else to go.
Yes, we do.

We could stay with
Mammal and Nasserine.

We helped them when
they were in the States.

Nasserine goes to classes.

I could baby-sit.

I could help.

Please.

Oh, Betty...

I don't want to lose you.

I want you to tell me
anything I can ever do.

The kitchen. Kitchen.
Kitchen.

You teach me.
I'll cook for you.

I'm so grateful, Nasserine.

Thank you so much.

I was just telling him

that, uh, the same rules
apply as before.

Mammal.

You have to wear chador tonight.

Oh?

My uncle's a Mullah.
He's highly respected.

He's a very influential man.

He's written books on Islam.

Maybe he's gonna
help me get a job.

Betty, you are
a very good Iranian cook.

Thank you.

You are lucky people.

Why you wear chador?

I thought I had to.

But why?

Chador is Persian tradition.

It's not necessary
to wear it inside.

It is exaggerated
with some people now.

Mahmood told me you read Koran.

Yes. I try.

I like to.

Very good.
You go to Koran class?

No.

Mahmood must send you there.

They are in English language.

Would you like?

Yes, very much.

The Hadith, or reports,
of the collected sayings of the Prophet

with additional commentaries
by devout and learned men.

In our readings from the Koran,

we'll pause to consider
the Hadith when appropriate.

What page are we on?
I don't know. She just...

You're American.

Yeah.

Since the death of Adam
without there being on it

an imam guiding
the people to God.

You're kidding?

I'm from Chicago
but I lived in Michigan.

Where in Michigan?
Near Lansing.

Where near Lansing?

Oh, it's a little place.
You wouldn't know it. Owosso.

Are you... I lived there for five years.
I went to grammar school there.

I lived on the corner
of Linden and Noleen.

My husband's a doctor.

He had his own practice there.

- My husband's a doctor, too.
- I can't believe this!

And now I work for an English language magazine
for Islamic women.

Have you become Muslim?

Mmm-hmm.

Did you convert?

Well, I wanted to, I guess.

My husband was happy I did.

It made things a lot better.

Uh, I'll...
I got to go.

Ellen, it's been so...
No, really.

Moody.

You'll never guess.
I just met an American woman in class.

She's from Owasso.
Her husband's a doctor.

Are they here?

No, they just left.

She's invited us over.
Is that all right?

Yeah, that's fine.

I want you to ask questions
when you're out with your daddy.

Uh-huh.

I want you to ask him questions
about taxis and buses.

And how much things cost.

Okay.
All right?

Ask him questions
about the signs.

What the signs mean,
what they say.

All right.

And then you'll be
able to teach me.

Why do you want
to learn all that?

I'm gonna have to
if we're gonna get out of here.

It's got lentils and beans.
And what's that?

That's his name on the sign.

What's he selling?
That's sabzi.

See, it's all kinds of things
that they sell here.

These are pictures of all the people
that died in the war.

They put the pictures up
so everybody remembers them.

Yeah, that's one, too.
Why all these questions, honey?

What's that?

Well, that's
the rest of the market.

And look,
here's some fruit here.

What do they do?

They sprinkle sugar on the beets,
and it's almost like a candy.

The moment the Shah left,

I wanted to go back to Iran,

but Ellen didn't want to.

So I said, uh, "Fine.

"I'll go without you."

So, uh, she came.

The first year in Iran,

things were very bad between us.

She couldn't adjust.
Could you, Ellen?

I took quite a time before she understood
how to be a good wife.

Ooh.

Warm, isn't it?

Yes.

Why did you come back?

I mean, my God!
He let you go hometo the States,

and you came back.

Maybe, at the beginning if...

Of course there was the custody problem
with the kids, so...

It was tough for me.

You know, I had no experience.
Small American town.

Was he violent?

Not in the States, never.

You're not supposed to,
you know. It's not Islamic.

Marriages do work out here.

They can be good.

It's been hard for me at times,

but you've got to
give it time, Betty.

Islam has such beauty in it.

I mean, I'm glad my kids are growing up
as Muslims.

Ellen, I'm so happy we've become friends.

I mean, you told me you were from home.
I was so thrilled!

It's like a miracle.

Ellen.

I have something
I want to tell you.

If I do, can you keep it a secret?

Not tell your husband?

I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

Ellen, I'm sorry.
Please, please forget I spoke.

No, it's okay.

Go ahead.

I won't tell him.

That's a promise.

Would you take
this letter for me?

I'm trying to get back home
to America with my daughter.

My family is working on it,
but there's nothing I can do.

Moody knows where I am
every single minute.

Are you crazy?

Don't you realize
what can happen?

Terrible things.
You just can't, Betty.

You know, if you were caught,
they could execute you.

It's for the Embassy.

Can you believe that?

They're desperate
for doctors in Iran.

They got thousands of casualties
from the war.

But because I trained in America,
no one will give me a job.

That is not the reason.

I'm telling you,

hard to believe that
this country was getting

quite sophisticated before the revolution.

I mean, we were building
chemical plants,

oil refineries.

Multi-million dollar
installations.
And what's happened?

They're all rotting
in the desert because nobody
knows how to operate them.

It's all so primitive!

Honey, somebody needs
to go to the market.

We're out of meat and things.

Yeah, I can't go.

But it's for tonight's dinner.

Well, I can't go.

It'll have to wait
till Nasserine gets back.

But she's home so late,
what'll we do tonight?

I don't know.

Can't you go by yourself
for a change?

Yeah, I can, really.

I know the way, it's not far.

I'll take the children.

You give me a list
of everything you need,

and I'll tell you
exactly how long it'll take

and what time
for you to be back here.

Take the baby with you.

Mahtob can stay here with me.

You are American?

Yes.

I need dosari for the telephone.

I was in America many times.

Uh, New York,
uh, Amarillo, Texas.

You want to telephone?

Please, come, please.

Thank you.

American Interests Section.

Nicole Ajamian.

Nicole, it's Betty.

Have you heard anything
from the State Department yet?

No! I can't.

I can't... Because
he watches me all the time,

or he has somebody watch me.

I didn't know that.

Will they let us go
if I get a divorce?

What?

I can't do that.

I can't do that.

I won't leave her.

Nicole, Nicole,
I won't leave her.

All right. I will get
to the Embassy if I can.

Thank you.
You're very kind.

You can use the telephone
when you want.

No problem.

Thank you.

I like America very much.

My son was, uh,
with University of Texas.

That is my son.

He's a martyr for the war.

My name is Hamid.
Anytime for telephone, you come here.

I'm Betty.

Who's gonna take me
to school tomorrow?

I don't know, honey.

It'll either be me,
or it'll be Daddy.

But I want you to.

I don't know if I can, Mahtob.

Why can't you?

Honey,

I promise you I'll be there,

and everything
will be all right.

Okay?

Come on.

Dear Lord.
Dear Lord.

Hear our prayer.
Hear our prayer.

We beg you to
help us leave Iran.

We beg you to
help us leave Iran.

And get back to America.
And get back to America.

Please let nothing separate us.

I know, honey.
I know.

I'll be back this afternoon,
sweetheart, I'll be back.

I'll be back, sweetheart.

Sweetheart, I'll be back,
I'll be here, sweetheart.

Don't worry, baby.

Mommy, please!

Take the baby.
I'll get the rice.

Hamid, I can't stay.

You must to come inside.
There is someone here.

Miss Nassimi.
She came to help you.

Hamid told me
you wish to leave Iran.

You know
it is extremely dangerous.

I have to get back
to the United States.

Why don't you try
to get a divorce?

No!

No, if I get a divorce,
then my husband will get custody of my daughter.

I can't do that.

If they catch you trying to escape
with your daughter, they could execute you.

I can't leave her here.

Look, I have...
Please.

Wait.

I think we can help you.

My brother has helped
many people here.

I will be here Wednesday and Thursday
at this time

if you can come.

Here is my telephone number.

Memorize it.
Please, don't keep it.

Thank you.

I got the rice.

I'm sorry.

What happened?

She was crying all day,

and I had to go pick her up.

We can't make her do this,
Moody. She's frightened.

I know.

Tomorrow they want you
to go to school with her.

Okay.

They want you to
stay with her every day.

Of course.

Of course, I'll stay with her.

They're all devout women there.

You'll be watched.

Okay.

I just want Mahtob to be happy.

I want her to have
a happy childhood.

Don't you want to give her that?

Islam's the greatest gift
I can give my child.

You said there'd be no danger.
Do you remember, Moody?

Mahtob could have been killed.
America's doing this!

Who supplying the bombs
who supplies the planes?

Whose backing Iraq?

Don't be so naive,
America's responsible for this war! No one else!

You should not behave this way.

I had to tell Hormoz.

It is your duty as a wife
to tell your husband everything!

You cannot have secrets.

Very nice, very nice.

Mahtob. Very nice.

Very nice.

I am very sorry.

It's bad in Iran.

Bad for you and your husband.

I'm sorry.

We help you.

We help you, help you.

Could I use the telephone?

Telephone?

Husband, no telephone.

You, inside, you, inside.

Right.

You come after morning.

11, after morning.

I can come late with Mahtob?

Thank you.

There are three principal
ways out of Iran.

You could go to Baluchistan
and then across the mountains into Pakistan.

In the southwest
to Bandar Abbas,

then across the gulf
by boat to Oman.

This is
the most dangerous route.

From Teheran
across the Zagros mountains

through Kurdistan into Turkey.

There are checkpoints
everywhere,

and the border crossing's
very heavily armed.

Which way do you think is best?

The gulf.

How much will it cost?

When you and your daughter
are safely back in America,

then if you can,
perhaps you will reimburse me.

Dollars would be of more help to me
than Iranian currency.

Keep in touch with my sister.

Right.

Run, run, run.

Where were you, hmm?

- Stop it, Daddy, stop it.
- Where you been?

Mommy! Mommy!

Get up! Get up!

Get up!

I'm gonna kill you.

I'm gonna cut you up.
You're gonna be dead!

Get out.

Betty!

Betty!

Nicole Ajamian.

Nicole Ajamian.

Nicole.

He's gonna kill me.
He's gonna kill me.

He said he was gonna kill me.

This woman is from the Embassy.

I need to take Mahtob.

Impossible.
Child goes to father.

You don't understand.
He's gonna kill me.

I have to get my daughter.

Madame, you wait.
Husband come.

I want my baby!

Madame, madame.

I want my baby.
Madame.

I want my baby!

Betty, they won't
let you take her.

The State Department
wants you to go

to the Iranian Foreign Minister
and ask for his help.

No!

The State Department
can't do anything.

They can't help me now.
Don't you know that?

They don't even understand the culture.
They'll only make things worse.

Madame, you wait
for your husband.

Tell her I want my baby.

I want my baby!

I cannot.
Please, please, please.

Please.

Listen, honey.
Don't talk right now.

Because I have to tell you

you can't talk about Hamid
or the Embassy.

Because if you do,

they'll never let us get away.
Don't say anything.

Do you hear me?

Mommy, don't leave me.

Don't go away.

I promise you.

I promise you I won't leave you.
Do you hear?

I won't leave you.

Where are Mammal and Nasserine?

You, don't ask questions.

Is that enough for you
sweetheart?

They've moved in
with Ameh Bozorg.

Moody, what're you doing?

Moody, Moody, please, please.

Please don't take her, Moody.
Please don't take her.

Moody, Moody, Moody, please!

Moody!

Moody!

Moody!

Moody, don't take her!

Don't take her.

Does Mommy ever
take you on adventures?

Come on.
Where does she take you?

To Koran class.

We saw some camels.

Yeah?

You go anywhere else?

How come you were late for school yesterday?
Where were you?

We got lost.

No, you didn't, Mahtob.
I know you didn't!

We did, we did!

Where the hell were you?

- Where were you?
- We got lost!

Stop you lying to me. Where were you?
We got lost!

Moody.

Moody, please don't leave.

How is Mahtob?

Please. Please tell me.

Is she all right?

Mahtob.

Mahtob.

Betty?

Betty?

Mahtob! Mahtob!

You brought her back to me.

Thank you. Thank you.

Thank you.

Thank you.

? Happy birthday to you

? Happy birthday to you

? Happy birthday, dear Mahtob

? Happy birthday to you

Will you be all right?
Yes, but when will you be back?

I'll be back as soon as I can.

All right.
All right.

You be brave.
I will.

We will fly you to Bandar Abbas

and then take you by speedboat
across the gulf.

I'll never be able to thank you.

Please, Betty,
there's really no need.

Just make the journey safely.

I wish you could have
seen this in the summer.

All the flowers are gone now.

Gardens have always had
a special place in Persia

throughout our history.

In fact, the word "paradise"
is a Persian word.

It's hard to believe, isn't it,
that the idea of paradise

will always be intimately connected
with Iran?

Whenever I think of what's happening
to my country,

I try to remember its gardens.

You must try and phone me, now,
whenever you can.

By Christmas you'll be home.

? Joy to the world

? The Lord has come

? Let Earth receive her king

? Let every heart

Merry Christmas.

I'm sorry, Betty, but
the gulf got too dangerous.

There are warships everywhere,
and they're checking all the civilian boats.

Zahedan is safer,

so I booked a flight
for you and Mahtob

on Wednesday, 29th January,
10 days from now.

Wednesday.

Good, Moody's at the hospitals
on Wednesdays.

On the 29th, I'd like you to take Mahtob
to the school bus as usual.

We will pick you both up
from the bus stop,

take you to a safe house
until it's time to get you to the airport.

Was he in pain?

Is he now?

How much?

How long has he known?

So he's not responding
in any way to the treatment?

What is it?

And they all felt that way?

What?

Mother, would you
hold on for a moment?

It's my father.

He's not doing well.
They feel they should operate...

Tell her we'll go
to America to see him.

Tell her you're going.

Go on.

Tell her you're gonna see him.

Tell her now.

Mom, Moody says
we can come home.

I'm sorry about your father.

Thank you.

Moody, will you be able
to come home with us?

No, I can't go.

I'd lose my job at the hospital.

But it's all right
for Mahtob to come?

No, she can't go either.
She's got school.

You'll have to go on your own.

I can't go without Mahtob.

Why not?

Of course, you can, you'll see your father.
What's the problem?

I won't go without her.

Betty.

You'll leave
as soon as possible.

You'll see your father,
and then you'll liquidate all our assets in the States.

It's my money, and I want it!

Don't do it, Betty.

If you go,
you'll never see your daughter again.

He won't allow you
back into the country.

My father is dying,
I've got to go see him.

I don't think
he'd want you to, Betty.

If he knew that it meant
losing your daughter.

Why can't I go now,
and then come back?

Maybe later try to get out.

You can't leave Mahtob here.

Not with Moody's family.

They're from the provinces.

They're more fanatical
than most.

This regime
only encourages them.

Look, there are
some people in this country

that consider a girl ready for marriage
at nine years of age.

Child brides are not unknown.

If you want to
be free with Mahtob,

then you've got to leave on
the 29th, as we agreed.

But he may send me out before,

maybe even tomorrow,
I don't know.

He hasn't said.

For the war.

They take them
younger and younger.

Twelve years old, some of them.

They give them plastic keys to paradise,
made in Taiwan,

and tell them that they'll
go straight to heaven

if they die for their country.

They use them sometimes
to clear the mine fields.

Children run across the field
and get blown to pieces.

Okay.

We've only a week to go.

He's got to get
your passport validated.

He can't do it in the time.
Believe me, it's just not possible.

He trusts you now.

Try and do anything
you can to delay him.

Where were you?

Moody, I went to the market.

I wanted to buy
my father some gifts,

but I couldn't find
anything I liked.

Huh. The one day
I come home early.

I've let you go.

I've given you freedom.

Okay, now listen to me.

If you don't do
exactly as I say,

I'm gonna have to lock you up
for the rest of your life.

And that means you'll never, never see Mahtob again.
You understand me?

Now, on the 26th,
you get on that plane to America.

You do exactly as I say.

You send everything back here,
and then you return.

And in the meantime,
you do not touch the phone,

and you don't step one foot
outside this house!

Now is that clear?
Yes.

Moody?

You booked for the 26th?

What do you mean?

Of course, I booked.

You got the validation?
Remember last time?

Zia knows people.

It's all been done.

I hope your father gets well.

I'm sorry I can't
see you off tomorrow.

Please come back to us.

We love you.

Your father will be
very happy to see you.

There's an emergency.
They want me to go back to the hospital.

I've got to go.

I have to go to the market.

There's a few things
that I need for the khoresht.

It'll take me about 20 minutes.

Uh, I'll go... Oh, no, no, no.
It's all right.

I need some fresh air anyway.

I'd like to buy
some gifts for my father.

There's just been no time.

Honey, Mahtob.

Wanna get your scarf
and your jacket?

Houssein.

Houssein.

Houssein, I have her with me.

Houssein, listen to me,
this is the last chance I have.

We have to leave now.

Betty, come.

My brother wants you to call
your husband and delay him.

But first, I must call Houssein
and tell him you're safe.

I forgot Toby Bunny.
What?

I forgot Toby Bunny.

Honey, honey,
do you wanna go home to America?

Mahtob,

stop crying.

Stop crying.

Listen now,

if we go back
and get Toby Bunny,

we have to stay there with Daddy.
Now do you want that?

When will I see my daddy again?

I don't know.

Stop crying now.

I love you.

I love you.
You be my big, brave girl.

All right, now.

No, Moody.
I'm not gonna get on that airplane.

Why not?
What are you trying to do?

What are you planning, Betty?
Nothing.

I'm not planning anything.
I'm gonna call the police.

Well, then you go ahead
and call the police.

Because there are a few things
I'd like to tell them, too.

Like what?
Like,

I know the clinic isn't legal.
You don't have an operating permit.

How do you know?
I know. I found out.

I found out.
What, I sit there all day long.

You think I wouldn't notice
a thing like that?

What do you want to do to me?
I'm only trying to be good to you.

You want to be happy, don't you?
Yes.

Well, then we don't need
the police, do we?

I agree.

It's not gonna be necessary...
That won't be necessary.

Now, once we get together,
we'll talk about this, Betty, huh?

Um...
Betty.

Well, I'll have
to think about it.

Yeah, yeah. Well,
you better think about it,

because I don't believe
a word you say anymore.

How could you do this?

How could you take Mahtob away?
You're stealing my child.

No, no, no, no.
I'm not gonna promise you anything, Betty.

You're my wife!
Now get your ass back here!

Hello, Betty.
This is Zia.

Zia,

I want you to tell Moody

that I have a lawyer.

Tell Moody I won't
meet with him alone.

If he wants to talk with me,

I'll be there between 11:00 and 12:00
tomorrow morning,

and 6:00 and 8:00
tomorrow afternoon.

You tell him that.

We're ready.
We must go now.

They'll find you if you stay
any longer in Teheran.

Okay.

Okay, let me get my things.

We've had no time
to organize any paperwork,

so you may have some difficulty
in Turkey.

But at least they won't send you
back here.

Try to get to the US Embassy
when you get to Ankara.

We'll drive you to
the Zagros mountains.

Tribesmen will take you across.

They're Kurdish.
Most of them are friendly.

They know the route
and how to avoid all the checkpoints.

Now, you must not let anybody know
you're American.

First you must be very careful of the checkpoint
outside Teheran.

Betty,

very soon, I hope,
you will be strolling again in your own garden at home,

in America.

Hurry.

What?

What are you doing?

Oh, God.
What are you doing?

No.

Please.

Please.

Mommy. Mommy. Mommy.

Mommy, wake up. Wake up, Mommy.
Mommy, Mommy, Mommy!

Don't! Don't! Get off me!

Mommy.
Don't, don't! Get off me!

Get off me.

Mommy!
Shh! Don't. No, it's okay. It's okay.

We're home, baby.

We're home.
Mommy.