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Hi, you are Penelope? Yes.
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And Anthony, your brother? My
stepbrother.
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So can you, I'm Dr. Barber.
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I've been practicing family therapy for
a few years now.
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And did you want to have a seat?
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Exactly.
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Just a second.
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Turn that on.
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Oh, I didn't know our sessions would be
recorded.
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Oh, I mean, it's just, it's sort of like
a note -taking thing. It's nice to have
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a digital file. Like, I do still take
written notes, but I get a lot of paper.
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Okay. It's private, you know. It's just
me. And I was here anyway.
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Okay.
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Well, it is lovely to meet both of you.
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Melody, why don't you tell me a little
bit about yourself?
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Well, I'm...
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Just about ready to go to college. I'm
18.
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I'm thinking of going into art major,
either with traditional art like
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or theater or something like that. I
don't know yet.
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Cool. Thank you.
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Okay.
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So, Anthony, tell me a little bit about
yourself.
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I'm also 18.
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I'm still kind of unsure about college
right now. I kind of want to go, but I'm
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just... I'm a little nervous.
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I don't know.
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Yeah. I don't know what to expect.
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Well, what do you like to do? Like, what
would you say your hobbies are?
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I like crafting art and stuff, but, you
know, I don't know how I would go about
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that in college or, you know, really a
career.
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Fair enough. You know, it can be a
little challenging, but it can also be
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rewarding.
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But that sounds great.
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Sounds really cool. You look like a
couple of, like, you know, great kids.
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Um, so, which one of you would like to
tell me a little bit about
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what brings you in here today?
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Can I get a volunteer?
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Our relationship.
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Okay.
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Uh, he really gets on my nerve.
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Sisters can do that.
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Yeah. I don't know. I just feel like any
time I go talk to a girl or try to get
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a girlfriend or, you know, like, I'm not
telling you about the score, like, she
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always, like, seems to come in and mess
everything up.
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Okay.
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Could you, like, give me an example of a
specific time? Yeah, there was this one
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girl I was talking to.
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If I'm being honest, I didn't really
know her for very long.
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But, like...
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We were kind of talking back and forth
and stuff, and I asked her out on a
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and she ended up finding her and
messaged her
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about some lies about me and her being
my sister and all, where she decided to
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believe her over me.
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And she, like, started blocking me from
everything and wouldn't talk to me
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anymore.
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Okay. Um, did you know the instance that
he's talking about?
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Yeah, she was a total fucking slut. So I
was doing my best to save him from her.
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I don't know about that.
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She didn't cheat on you anyways, like
she did with her boyfriend.
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Would you say that you were dishonest
about the things that you told him?
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Yeah, I was dishonest, but my intentions
were to protect my brother.
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Okay.
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I don't see anything wrong with it. Do
you feel like you have a protective role
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towards your brother?
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Well, yeah, he's my brother, so I gotta
be protective.
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What do you think would happen if you
weren't protective?
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He would get a girl pregnant, or he
would end up with an STD, because you
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have a terrible taste in women.
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I do not.
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Yes, you do.
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But, I'm just doing my part up.
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Yeah, this is weird. Because I know all
the girls. I know all their drama.
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And I'm just trying to save them from
it.
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All right. Well, in that case, Nellie,
why would you say that you're here
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Do you feel there's... I don't think
there's any problem personally.
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Mm -hmm.
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Yeah. But you still agreed to come in.
Yeah. Yeah.
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He wanted to because it's going to
better our...
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relationship, and I'm like, okay, sure,
there's nothing wrong with it, but is
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there something that you might want to
try to get out of therapy?
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Like, there's no changes that you'd like
to make?
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I don't really have anything that needs
to change.
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Just call me, you know, maybe back up a
little bit, you know, let me let me,
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like, talk to your girl about scaring
her off so fast.
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What about other relationships? Are you
able to have, like,
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Friendships are... No.
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It pushes them away too.
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So what?
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You're losers.
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They're not going to get you anywhere.
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You're just going to be smoking weed all
day, playing video games, gaining 50
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pounds. I don't want that for you.
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I'm saving you from that.
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So maybe a little bit of respect would
be nice for all the effort I put in to
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help take care of you and help keep you
away from all this shit.
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We're good friends.
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We have a difference of opinion here.
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Anthony, can you tell me a little bit
about what you kind of wish that her
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was? Like, do you like feeling like
she's protective?
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No.
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It can be a little powerful, you know,
like I'm trying to live my life and, you
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know, potentially do some more adult
things like, you know, some other people
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have done.
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And I feel like they just keep getting
blocked everywhere and every
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attempt I try to make to get with
someone.
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What's the kind of girl you think you
should be with?
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I personally think he should be with a
girl who cares about, you know, nature
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and, you know, events.
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Just a fun, you know, a girl who's, you
know, waiting until the right time.
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But he just wants a girl for him.
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Okay.
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Well.
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So this might be kind of a...
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An interesting question, but I want you
to really think about it before you
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answer me.
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Do you think that you are jealous of the
girls that your
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brother's interested in?
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No. No, I don't think so.
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You don't think so?
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No. What do you think jealousy would
look like or feel like?
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Kind of like anger.
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Kind of like anger.
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But I don't feel angry about it. Do you
think that jealous people can be a
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little controlling sometimes?
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Sometimes, yeah.
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Is that the way that it can kind of
manifest?
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Maybe being a little bit controlling of
situations?
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True, but I'm not necessarily being
controlling.
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Making some decisions for him, but maybe
not being controlling.
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Yeah.
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Well, what would the difference be?
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If I was being controlling, I would show
up there, tell the girl off, and drag
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him home by the ear.
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Yeah, I've done that, though.
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Okay,
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so, Anthony, how does that, what if...
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If someone were to say, I think your
sister is jealous over you, would that
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accurate?
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I don't know. I feel like that would be
kind of weird. I mean, I don't know.
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I guess I never really thought of it
that way.
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Like, I don't question it in that way.
Do you think that your sister would be
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jealous of you dating?
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Yeah. I mean, like, I guess it's a
possibility, but.
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I don't know.
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You know, this is definitely a very
judgment -free zone.
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You know, I've been doing this for a
little while.
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And, of course, with my training and
everything.
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I work those two a lot of things. And,
honestly, sibling jealousy isn't even
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that real.
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It's not even unusual.
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I don't think she's jealous.
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Honestly, I think she's just trying to
mess up my life.
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Like, she just wants to, like,
completely ruin me and doesn't want to
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grow.
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Where would that be coming from?
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Just, I mean, every opportunity I get to
talk to someone new, she always pushes
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them away and stuff. And it's like, I
feel like I'm not going anywhere.
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Well, how was your relationship before
all of this got started? Did you say you
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were close or?
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Yeah, a little bit, yeah.
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A little bit close?
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Yeah? Do you agree with that?
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I agree.
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Mm -hmm.
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Okay.
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Well, I have an idea.
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And it's a little bit unusual, but it's
nice if we think of it as being like a
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game. Okay? Would you guys be willing to
do this with me?
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Sure. Yeah? Okay.
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So, here's how it's going to go.
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Not quite yet, but Anthony, I'm going to
have you stand right here.
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And just, like, straight attention, not
moving.
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Okay? That's what you do. You just stand
there.
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You can close your eyes if you like or
keep them open. Whatever you want to do,
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just standing straight.
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And Penelope, I want you to tell me on a
scale between
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one and five how anxious or upset you're
feeling.
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Okay. At the time. Okay?
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All right?
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Okay, so that's all you have to do. This
is easy, right?
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And we'll say that one is completely
comfortable and five is I want
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to stop immediately.
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Okay? Okay.
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All right. So, Anthony, X marks the
spot.
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And that will be one to five. Okay?
Okay.
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Can you give me a number? How are you
feeling?
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I'm feeling okay.
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Okay, cool.
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That's good.
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Of course, I can ask you how you're
feeling. You can let me know later.
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Okay. And all you have to do is just
stand there.
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Now how are you feeling?
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Are you still at a one?
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Yes. You're still at a one?
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That's good.
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I'll keep checking in with you every now
and then, okay?
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That's totally normal.
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We're doing good?
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We're doing a one?
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Yeah?
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Right there at a one?
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Yep. That's good.
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This is enough.
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I don't know where you got your license
to be a therapist, but we're out of
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here. Let's go. We're all done? Are you
sure you don't want to stay? You know, I
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feel like it would really help you to
work through some other issues. I think
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should do this.
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I don't think it's appropriate for you
to be sucking my stepbrother's dick in
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front of me.
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Why don't you just come over and have a
seat, okay? I think that I know what's
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going on here.
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Come. It's okay. I promise.
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Totally did.
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So, that will be.
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You're not too upset with me, but how
did that make you feel watching that?
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Because I feel like we went from a one
to we're leaving real fast.
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There's not like a two, three, or four
in between there. We went right to a
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Yeah, we did.
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I didn't know this was the type of thing
we were going to be experiencing today.
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But how did it make you feel?
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Like, I mean, really, you can just tell
me how it made you feel. You can tell
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Anthony how it made you feel.
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I think he wants to know.
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It made me feel a little.
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Justice, I guess.
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Maybe. Okay.
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Let's get down here to like the roots of
your emotions, to naming them.
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You mentioned jealousy briefly, but I
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don't know.
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I don't know.
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Is there anything you'd like to say to
Anthony right now?
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I'm sorry she sucked your dick in front
of me.
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Is there anything you'd like to say
back, Anthony?
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I enjoyed it.
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Obviously,
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you would enjoy it if anybody sucked
your dick.
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Anybody.
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Based off of your choice of women, you
would be happy if even a fish sucked
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dick. Have you had boyfriends before?
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No.
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Not yet?
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No. Never planned on having a boyfriend.
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Okay.
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What do you think your ideal boyfriend
would be like?
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Tall, strong, take care of me in any
way, open doors for me.
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Gentleman. Does your brother do any of
those things?
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Yeah. He takes me to school. He drove us
here.
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He opened doors for me earlier.
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Mm -hmm.
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He makes me breakfast sometimes.
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That sounds very nice.
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It is very nice, and I appreciate it.
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Mm -hmm.
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Does that make you feel... Makes me feel
happy and appreciate it.
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My brother never made me breakfast.
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I had fun all morning in the bathroom,
so that's the only way to get me out of
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there.
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Well, I think that possibly,
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Penelope, you do have a little bit of a
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crush.
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your brother, which, again, actually
pretty common.
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Not unusual at all.
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But he can't date anyone else, and he
can't
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have other friends, and...
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Would you like it
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if he hung out with you?
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Like if he was hanging out with my
friends because they're good people who
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smoke weed all day in their parents'
basement, then yeah.
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My boyfriend hangs out with my friends
as well.
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Not my husband, but you know.
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Back then he was hanging out more with
my friends.
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I feel like you're taking on more of a
girlfriend role.
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in your relationship with your brother.
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You want to have influence over him.
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And, you know, maybe select who's going
to be around him.
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And just kind of, you know, keeping him.
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Keeping him for yourself. And there's
really no problem with keeping somebody
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you're keeping them with fences, you
know, within an area.
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But to me, it seems more like you're
trying to keep Anthony on a leash, which
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much tighter, which originates with you.
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And generally, when I see that type of
behavior between people who married
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couples who are in here for a different
type of therapy, some
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of those groups are in jealousy and
romantic feelings and wanting to...
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wanting to elicit a feeling of security,
even where, you know, what isn't being
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given freely.
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If you can take that security, it's
maybe a little bit different.
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But, you know, you're both getting
older.
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If you're going to go off to college, if
your brother is going to be able to do
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pretty much whatever he wants, you know,
this could be your chance to...
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Work through those emotions.
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And so.
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However you decide to work it out. If
maybe.
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We want to move over the fences.
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For keeping the relationship.
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Do away with them all together.
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Or.
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Maybe. We learn to.
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Enjoy that leash.
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A little bit more.
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Do you understand sort of what I'm
saying?
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Got like circles of intimacy.
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And he says you want a very tight circle
of intimacy.
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And he has been wanting a larger circle
of intimacy.
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But I think that all successful
relationships are based on, first of
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knowing what we're doing in the first
place and then compromising and finding
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way to work it out. So, Anthony, maybe
if you were willing to shrink.
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that fear of intimacy with your sister a
little bit.
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And it can help if you are willing to
widen that fear of intimacy a little bit
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more.
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And, you know, from there on, they can
adjust over time wherever we think it
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wants to be or, you know, wherever it
takes us. But I think that acknowledging
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it and exploring our feelings is a
really great first step.
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So I do think that there is a type of...
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therapy, but again, maybe not very
conventional, that might work, that I
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love for you to just give a chance.
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And Alfie, can I get you to, can I get a
yes please, or a sure, or sure,
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okay, I'll take a sure.
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All right, let's have both of you stand
up right there facing each other, maybe.
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Sorry.
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Sorry. Okay.
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Good. Maybe look into each other's eyes.
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It's probably been a while since you two
did this, especially if you weren't
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screaming at each other.
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He's been screaming at me.
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Okay. Let's maybe focus on appreciating
each other, not just
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indulging in that emotional pain. Maybe
indulge in him.
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emotional pleasure.
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Okay, so we're eye gazing, we're eye
gazing.
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I know my office is very interesting,
but we're eye gazing.
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Isn't your sister beautiful, Anthony?
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Look at those eyes, oh my goodness.
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Lovely.
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Penelope is a very handsome young man.
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So he hangs out with his friends all
day. He looks like he's in pretty good
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shape to me.
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00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:53,660
Well, that's because Mom makes him work
out.
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Mom makes him work out.
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Let's think of something nice that we
can say about Anthony.
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I know it's in there.
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Would you say that you like?
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They have any arms.
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00:24:17,410 --> 00:24:18,730
Yep. Yeah.
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And Anthony, she gave you a compliment.
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Does that feel good?
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Yeah.
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It feels nice?
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Well, why don't you give your sister a
compliment?
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00:24:34,510 --> 00:24:35,810
She's so beautiful.
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She's got that long hair.
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00:24:38,290 --> 00:24:40,090
Yeah. Amazing breath.
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I like her.
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Did you say breasts?
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I did say breasts. I mean, they're
gorgeous.
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00:24:48,410 --> 00:24:51,810
I know you're just wearing a little t
-shirt, but... Yeah.
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I'm a little jealous, to be honest. They
are pretty nice.
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They're lovely.
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They're quite beautiful.
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Doesn't that feel nice, to be nice?
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00:25:02,170 --> 00:25:05,530
I feel like when people are feeling
nice, it's nice.
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00:25:07,710 --> 00:25:12,530
How did you two feel about maybe
appreciating, like, all of each other?
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00:25:13,290 --> 00:25:19,130
I keep that good feeling going. For
example, Anthony, how do you feel about
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taking your shirt off for me?
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00:25:22,190 --> 00:25:25,930
I can do that. You can do that? Yeah.
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00:25:28,910 --> 00:25:29,930
There you go.
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00:25:35,550 --> 00:25:38,710
Uh -oh, I still got some lipstick prints
on there.
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00:25:38,970 --> 00:25:39,970
Oh, my.
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00:25:44,330 --> 00:25:47,010
Well, you know who doesn't have lipstick
prints under her shirt?
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00:25:51,750 --> 00:25:53,670
Yeah, one of the pennies.
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The little one.
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00:25:55,470 --> 00:25:57,250
Do you want to take your shirt off for
me?
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I know that you've been a little shy.
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00:26:11,210 --> 00:26:12,210
You don't have to be shy.
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00:26:12,330 --> 00:26:14,750
I'm sure that your brother thinks you
are very attractive.
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00:26:16,830 --> 00:26:21,730
Is there anything that Anthony could say
that would help you feel more
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00:26:21,730 --> 00:26:23,230
comfortable putting your hands down?
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00:26:24,730 --> 00:26:27,130
Just put them down.
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00:26:29,290 --> 00:26:30,290
Wow.
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00:26:32,490 --> 00:26:35,910
It's okay to say what you're thinking. I
can think of some words that I would
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00:26:35,910 --> 00:26:38,750
use to describe your sister's body.
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00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:42,040
It's pretty hot.
381
00:26:42,940 --> 00:26:43,819
Pretty hot?
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00:26:43,820 --> 00:26:47,320
I was going to say beautiful, but I
don't speak boy.
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00:26:49,500 --> 00:26:50,500
Pretty hot.
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00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:51,920
That's a gorgeous bra.
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00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:53,440
Did you pick that out yourself?
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00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:57,720
Yeah. It's very pretty. It's very
attention -getty, don't you think?
387
00:26:58,160 --> 00:26:58,999
Mm -hmm.
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Mm -hmm.
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00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:04,920
Now, would you like to put your hands
maybe on your brother's chest and wipe
390
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:06,300
away some of those little kiss marks?
391
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:20,520
You want to, like, run your hands up and
down him. You really don't like those
392
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:21,700
kiss prints being on there, do you?
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00:27:22,100 --> 00:27:23,100
I don't.
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00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:27,600
You should keep some makeup remover in
here.
395
00:27:30,120 --> 00:27:33,780
Or, you know, kiss your patient. Or not
kiss your patient.
396
00:27:34,260 --> 00:27:35,320
That doesn't sound right.
397
00:27:37,660 --> 00:27:41,180
You said that you were appreciative of
his arms. Do you want to use your hands
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to kind of appreciate his body a little
bit more?
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00:27:58,350 --> 00:27:59,590
Maybe a little.
400
00:28:00,890 --> 00:28:04,370
You know what? I bet if you knew what it
felt like from the other side, it
401
00:28:04,370 --> 00:28:05,370
wouldn't feel so silly.
402
00:28:15,570 --> 00:28:18,830
And put your hand on her body as well.
403
00:28:23,820 --> 00:28:26,760
If it makes you super uncomfortable, you
can say something.
404
00:28:26,980 --> 00:28:27,980
Anthony, same deal.
405
00:28:31,380 --> 00:28:32,380
Good.
406
00:28:38,180 --> 00:28:40,320
Look at how sweet you two are being.
407
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:43,760
You almost got each other's throats
earlier.
408
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:47,780
You're being so sweet and tender.
409
00:28:51,790 --> 00:28:54,130
How do you both feel about stripping
down to your underwear?
410
00:28:57,250 --> 00:28:59,570
I'm okay.
411
00:29:01,330 --> 00:29:03,570
Okay. So Anthony's down.
412
00:29:03,850 --> 00:29:05,610
Penelope is a little concerned.
413
00:29:08,670 --> 00:29:10,190
Are you feeling a little shy?
414
00:29:12,630 --> 00:29:14,230
Yeah. Are you a little?
415
00:29:14,830 --> 00:29:17,830
We're all just people. It's totally
normal, you know.
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00:29:26,220 --> 00:29:28,780
Are you still feeling a little shy,
Penelope?
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00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:31,520
A little bit?
418
00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:37,460
Yeah. Yeah, it really is totally normal.
Like, here.
419
00:29:38,860 --> 00:29:41,160
There's nothing to be embarrassed about.
420
00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:46,040
It's actually quite usual.
421
00:29:47,700 --> 00:29:48,700
Okay,
422
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:51,980
here's what. Anthony, let's have you
turn around for just like a second.
423
00:29:52,610 --> 00:29:55,150
Okay, so you turn around just for like a
second.
424
00:29:56,470 --> 00:29:57,470
Okay, good.
425
00:29:57,990 --> 00:29:59,090
You're already turned around.
426
00:29:59,490 --> 00:30:02,690
You can come back over here if you're
distracted.
427
00:30:03,270 --> 00:30:05,510
All right, let's focus on you for like a
second, okay?
428
00:30:06,330 --> 00:30:07,330
All right.
429
00:30:07,670 --> 00:30:13,690
If he's gone, I really do want you to
feel more comfortable with yourself,
430
00:30:13,710 --> 00:30:20,110
with communicating with your brother,
with your own body, with your own
431
00:30:20,110 --> 00:30:21,110
feelings.
432
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:27,200
Even if they're not, like, put out into,
like, media and stuff.
433
00:30:27,780 --> 00:30:30,140
I still want you to feel very
comfortable, okay?
434
00:30:32,460 --> 00:30:33,820
And it really is.
435
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:35,880
What?
436
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:42,260
Just a little bit of nudity.
437
00:30:44,660 --> 00:30:45,660
Totally fine.
438
00:30:46,060 --> 00:30:47,940
Just like being in a women's locker
room.
439
00:30:50,129 --> 00:30:51,129
Exactly the same, right?
440
00:30:53,190 --> 00:30:54,990
You can do it. I know you can do it.
441
00:30:56,490 --> 00:30:59,350
You've had the internet for years. I'm
sure he knows what a naked lady looks
442
00:30:59,350 --> 00:31:00,350
like.
443
00:31:07,630 --> 00:31:08,630
Oh, it matches.
444
00:31:09,070 --> 00:31:10,390
You look so cute.
445
00:31:13,490 --> 00:31:16,350
You don't even have to get all the way
in. You can just, like, in your
446
00:31:16,350 --> 00:31:17,350
underwear.
447
00:31:18,830 --> 00:31:20,430
So here, do you want to turn this way?
448
00:31:22,190 --> 00:31:25,590
And here, I want you to do something
that might be a little bit difficult for
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00:31:25,590 --> 00:31:26,970
you, but I want you to do it, okay?
450
00:31:27,270 --> 00:31:29,450
I want you to show me that you can, all
right?
451
00:31:30,130 --> 00:31:33,230
I want you to ask your brother to turn
this way.
452
00:31:33,870 --> 00:31:34,930
Can you turn around?
453
00:31:37,970 --> 00:31:42,710
Look how beautiful she is.
454
00:31:44,530 --> 00:31:47,510
Can you use three words to describe your
sister's body?
455
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:51,300
Nice word, but I'm sure that would be
anyway, right?
456
00:31:51,660 --> 00:31:52,940
Yeah. Of course.
457
00:31:53,980 --> 00:31:55,400
Coming up next, though.
458
00:31:55,940 --> 00:31:56,940
Sexy.
459
00:31:57,200 --> 00:31:58,200
Sexy.
460
00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:00,080
Hot.
461
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:01,440
Hot.
462
00:32:02,300 --> 00:32:03,300
Fill up shoes.
463
00:32:03,700 --> 00:32:06,060
Fill up shoes. That's nice. I like that
one.
464
00:32:08,140 --> 00:32:10,260
And, Penelope, now it's your turn.
465
00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:13,560
What are some words that you would use
to describe your brother's body?
466
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:17,440
Muscular. Mm -hmm. Let's see where you
get in that one.
467
00:32:20,780 --> 00:32:22,540
Hands up. Hands up.
468
00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:25,680
So
469
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:32,980
let's
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00:32:32,980 --> 00:32:35,740
maybe keep lipstick stains in reserve.
471
00:32:36,780 --> 00:32:37,960
It's still there.
472
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:39,320
It's still there.
473
00:32:41,380 --> 00:32:45,240
I don't know. I wish that I had some
lipstick for you to put on so you could
474
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,180
your own mark on there somewhere.
475
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:55,280
The two of you have gotten very
intimate, very close, but there's still
476
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:57,760
little something in the way.
477
00:32:59,100 --> 00:33:00,100
Isn't there?
478
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,920
You're going to answer me and I'm going
to trust you. I'm not going to try to
479
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:09,960
get anything out of you, okay? You're
just going to answer me and you're going
480
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:12,200
to know on your own that you're telling
the truth.
481
00:33:12,940 --> 00:33:14,020
Yep. Okay.
482
00:33:14,380 --> 00:33:16,260
Is there a part of you?
483
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:24,200
That wishes that your brother maybe
wasn't wearing those actually really
484
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:26,720
boxers. Maybe that he was naked.
485
00:33:28,260 --> 00:33:29,260
I guess.
486
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:30,680
You guess?
487
00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:35,780
Yeah. Well, let's work on our
communication skills.
488
00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:39,480
What would you say?
489
00:33:40,180 --> 00:33:42,880
I think they look better on the clothes.
490
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:45,300
That's very enough.
491
00:34:04,650 --> 00:34:05,650
It's beautiful.
492
00:34:06,770 --> 00:34:07,890
It's really pretty.
493
00:34:10,690 --> 00:34:11,690
No.
494
00:34:14,850 --> 00:34:16,110
You are.
495
00:34:16,690 --> 00:34:17,690
Tit for tat.
496
00:34:17,989 --> 00:34:19,409
This for this. Something for something.
497
00:34:20,070 --> 00:34:26,630
So, you know, you show me yours. I'll
show you... What?
498
00:34:29,530 --> 00:34:30,530
Mine?
499
00:34:37,159 --> 00:34:39,659
You're just going in. I thought I was
going to have to do more. Good. Great.
500
00:34:42,460 --> 00:34:43,460
Congratulations.
501
00:34:45,060 --> 00:34:46,179
What a little breakthrough.
502
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:51,360
Is that quite even, Anthony, do you
think?
503
00:34:52,020 --> 00:34:53,020
Even situation?
504
00:34:54,159 --> 00:34:55,159
No.
505
00:34:56,040 --> 00:35:02,360
No? Is there something, some highlighter
pink, neon?
506
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:06,020
Yeah. Something.
507
00:35:06,260 --> 00:35:07,340
Hot pink panties.
508
00:35:08,720 --> 00:35:12,860
Right. There are some hot pink panties.
You're not wearing hot pink panties. No.
509
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:14,640
No.
510
00:35:15,220 --> 00:35:19,820
So let's again practice our
communication skills. What might you
511
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:23,480
I also think those would look better on
the floor.
512
00:35:27,240 --> 00:35:28,240
Have it.
513
00:35:29,060 --> 00:35:30,060
Okay.
514
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:34,360
Gorgeous.
515
00:35:36,940 --> 00:35:38,960
We were using words to describe things.
516
00:35:40,240 --> 00:35:47,220
I would use certain words to describe
Anthony's penis
517
00:35:47,220 --> 00:35:53,140
right now, such as erect, chymethin,
elevated,
518
00:35:53,620 --> 00:35:57,360
inflated, engorged, aroused.
519
00:35:59,060 --> 00:36:01,040
What do you think about that, Penelope?
520
00:36:01,340 --> 00:36:02,700
Your brother has a heart?
521
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:04,920
He does.
522
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:06,000
He does.
523
00:36:09,420 --> 00:36:10,420
How does that make you feel?
524
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:14,300
Good. It makes you feel good?
525
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:15,560
Mm -hmm.
526
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:20,340
Would you like to help him with that
situation?
527
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:22,900
And Anthony, would you like her to help
you with that situation?
528
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:25,940
Yeah. Yeah.
529
00:36:27,260 --> 00:36:30,720
Well, you need to be very specific. Help
can be different things for different
530
00:36:30,720 --> 00:36:31,720
people.
531
00:36:32,340 --> 00:36:36,660
So, for example, Penelope, I would like
you to play with my...
532
00:36:43,460 --> 00:36:44,460
There you go.
533
00:36:46,020 --> 00:36:47,400
It's actually not that difficult.
534
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:50,160
I know penises can be scary.
535
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:53,660
I got it. You got it? You can do it?
536
00:36:54,260 --> 00:36:55,260
Okay.
537
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:56,820
Well go ahead and show me.
538
00:36:57,580 --> 00:36:58,580
Show your partner.
539
00:37:17,930 --> 00:37:18,930
Aren't you enjoying that?
540
00:37:19,670 --> 00:37:21,170
Yeah. You're very vocal.
541
00:37:23,590 --> 00:37:27,690
If you're enjoying something, it's okay
to say that you're enjoying it, and it's
542
00:37:27,690 --> 00:37:32,830
okay to phone and express all your
feelings and connect with each other.
543
00:37:49,230 --> 00:37:51,650
I bet you two are mostly using your
hands.
544
00:37:56,710 --> 00:37:59,610
You guys have been so brave today,
Anthony.
545
00:38:02,010 --> 00:38:03,170
So adventurous.
546
00:38:06,510 --> 00:38:13,350
I think that's actually
547
00:38:13,350 --> 00:38:15,970
really helped your sister be more open,
too.
548
00:38:26,860 --> 00:38:28,860
We're talking about how things feel.
549
00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:31,020
Like that.
550
00:38:31,820 --> 00:38:33,400
That feels good.
551
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:36,220
More please.
552
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:52,180
Would you be okay with me putting in
headphones?
553
00:39:01,100 --> 00:39:03,700
I'm enjoying all this cooperation and
communication.
554
00:39:05,580 --> 00:39:06,580
That's right.
555
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:09,300
Look up into your brother's eyes while
you do that.
556
00:39:10,700 --> 00:39:11,700
That's right.
557
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:13,880
You're so good at that.
558
00:39:17,220 --> 00:39:18,220
I'm working
559
00:39:18,220 --> 00:39:25,520
on
560
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:29,740
one issue here, which is honesty.
561
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:31,800
about what we want.
562
00:39:33,500 --> 00:39:38,200
But there is one more subject I'd like
to broach today.
563
00:39:40,720 --> 00:39:47,300
I would like to, if we can, talk about
how
564
00:39:47,300 --> 00:39:52,160
jealous somebody needs Melody about her
brother.
565
00:39:54,880 --> 00:40:00,690
So, you know, you've told him kind of
how you feel. I mean, You are filleting
566
00:40:00,690 --> 00:40:01,690
him.
567
00:40:02,370 --> 00:40:03,890
And he's okay with that.
568
00:40:05,950 --> 00:40:09,470
Maybe let's try a little tiny
experiment, okay?
569
00:40:11,270 --> 00:40:14,450
All right. Okay. Let's just see how it
feels, okay?
570
00:40:15,750 --> 00:40:17,230
Can you get that back to me?
571
00:40:17,830 --> 00:40:19,650
Okay, good.
572
00:40:22,110 --> 00:40:24,070
Oh! Oh, my gosh. Okay.
573
00:40:25,610 --> 00:40:26,770
That was good.
574
00:40:28,799 --> 00:40:29,799
Free communication.
575
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:34,320
Maybe, you know, I'm not a threat to
you. It's okay.
576
00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:36,400
It's okay. You got a little heated.
577
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:37,840
Got a little hot.
578
00:40:37,900 --> 00:40:38,900
It's all right.
579
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:41,620
Okay. I'm going to go back in, okay?
580
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:45,680
I tell you to put your hands in your
pockets, but you don't have any.
581
00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:47,320
Okay. All right?
582
00:40:47,860 --> 00:40:50,420
We're just going to, do you want to
maybe do it with me?
583
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:52,880
Can you do it with me a little and I'll
be okay?
584
00:40:57,460 --> 00:40:58,460
There we go.
585
00:40:58,700 --> 00:40:59,700
down.
586
00:42:36,230 --> 00:42:38,590
Is that nice that she's doing for you?
587
00:42:38,830 --> 00:42:39,830
Yeah,
588
00:42:39,950 --> 00:42:40,970
she's so good.
589
00:42:42,930 --> 00:42:45,410
And you tell her she doesn't have to be
challenged?
590
00:42:45,790 --> 00:42:51,750
Mm -hmm. You love her very, very, very
much.
591
00:42:52,110 --> 00:42:53,290
Of course.
592
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:02,740
You can work on creating space out of
the two.
593
00:43:03,340 --> 00:43:08,340
And she can work on creating naturally
bigger space for you.
594
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:09,760
Yeah.
595
00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:12,840
You're closer together.
596
00:44:21,150 --> 00:44:27,990
I'm talking about nailing our feelings
and saying what we want.
597
00:44:52,830 --> 00:44:54,730
Aw, that's beautiful.
598
00:44:56,410 --> 00:44:59,330
Your sister just heard how she felt
about you.
599
00:44:59,530 --> 00:45:01,770
How she found that pretty little pussy.
600
00:45:04,870 --> 00:45:07,730
Gorgeous. What color would you say that
is?
601
00:45:08,310 --> 00:45:10,490
Very pink.
602
00:45:11,050 --> 00:45:13,070
Look at that. How would you describe
that?
603
00:45:13,490 --> 00:45:15,630
A little bit creamy.
604
00:45:16,490 --> 00:45:17,490
Well,
605
00:45:19,430 --> 00:45:20,750
I think it's just lovely.
606
00:45:58,410 --> 00:46:01,870
And everything that's mouthy isn't
having as much trouble with the
607
00:46:02,150 --> 00:46:03,150
Her knees are being met.
608
00:46:06,170 --> 00:46:08,450
That's very interesting data, isn't it?
609
00:47:12,490 --> 00:47:18,610
Oh my goodness.
610
00:47:21,410 --> 00:47:22,650
Somebody's so wet.
611
00:47:23,790 --> 00:47:26,550
Look at that. Somebody's happy to be
here.
612
00:47:28,870 --> 00:47:32,610
I feel like your attitude has really
changed from all of you.
613
00:47:34,410 --> 00:47:37,890
Can you tell me a little bit about how
that feels?
614
00:47:41,050 --> 00:47:42,050
Yeah.
615
00:47:42,590 --> 00:47:45,110
Get you more open.
616
00:47:46,850 --> 00:47:48,090
Yeah, more open.
617
00:47:49,070 --> 00:47:50,070
Mm -hmm.
618
00:47:55,010 --> 00:47:57,010
Oh, my God, that is creepy, puppy.
619
00:47:57,310 --> 00:47:58,310
Oh, my goodness.
620
00:48:03,070 --> 00:48:04,910
Look at that. It's creepy.
621
00:48:56,300 --> 00:49:01,280
It's a joke in therapy, but you know
that saying that they should just
622
00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:02,280
get it over with?
623
00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:06,100
Yeah. Yeah, have you heard that? No.
624
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:14,200
It's usually, you know, not meant
verbatim, but in this particular case,
625
00:49:14,500 --> 00:49:20,900
it's hard to imagine you feeling more
secure
626
00:49:20,900 --> 00:49:24,200
in your relationship with your brother.
627
00:49:44,410 --> 00:49:45,910
That might be nicer.
628
00:49:46,670 --> 00:49:47,670
Look at me.
629
00:49:57,740 --> 00:49:59,580
What do you think that's going to feel
like, Anthony?
630
00:50:00,460 --> 00:50:02,560
I think it's going to feel really tight.
631
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:03,840
Yeah?
632
00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:06,060
Really tight? Pretty nice?
633
00:50:06,260 --> 00:50:07,260
Yeah.
634
00:50:07,700 --> 00:50:12,660
Well, maybe in a couple of minutes you
can let me know if you're right.
635
00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:15,560
I suspect that you are.
636
00:50:16,660 --> 00:50:18,420
You ready to receive your brother?
637
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:20,080
Yeah.
638
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:22,420
Do you want to ask for it, please?
639
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:26,420
What's he doing with that?
640
00:50:37,700 --> 00:50:43,580
There we go.
641
00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:47,120
Wonderful.
642
00:50:52,100 --> 00:50:53,100
Make you happy.
643
00:50:53,640 --> 00:50:55,800
Yeah, just make you what we wanted all
along.
644
00:50:57,120 --> 00:51:01,720
Yeah. You were giving him what you
wanted. Maybe we could really push a
645
00:51:01,720 --> 00:51:05,060
bit of control over our brother's life.
Yeah.
646
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:09,400
Maybe we asked him before we walked into
his Instagram account.
647
00:51:09,900 --> 00:51:11,400
Yeah. Okay.
648
00:51:15,180 --> 00:51:18,160
Yeah. I'm not asking you to trade
something for nothing.
649
00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:23,260
I'm asking both of you to trade
something for something better.
650
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:29,020
You're better than fighting.
651
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:32,100
Yeah, you're better than fighting.
652
00:52:00,720 --> 00:52:02,120
Letting him make some decisions.
653
00:52:04,460 --> 00:52:07,460
All right, thinking about his needs, his
desires.
654
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:18,160
Yeah, a lot of controlling, but it still
feels really good.
655
00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:51,860
I thought it would be.
656
00:52:56,260 --> 00:52:59,420
Oh, you're so sweet together.
657
00:52:59,720 --> 00:53:02,480
This is exactly the kind of loving,
loving relationship.
658
00:53:20,490 --> 00:53:21,490
There you go.
659
00:53:22,970 --> 00:53:23,970
Lovely.
660
00:53:26,090 --> 00:53:27,590
Are you feeling more secure?
661
00:53:28,310 --> 00:53:29,310
Yeah.
662
00:53:29,990 --> 00:53:33,810
Okay. Let's see. Can you try, like,
maybe, like, one more little pass?
663
00:53:35,010 --> 00:53:38,150
Okay. All right. Let's have you hop up.
664
00:53:54,410 --> 00:53:56,010
I want you to look into your brother's
eyes.
665
00:53:56,650 --> 00:53:58,250
Okay? Anthony?
666
00:53:58,830 --> 00:54:04,870
I want you to take me while you're
reassuring Penelope.
667
00:54:05,150 --> 00:54:07,190
Okay. Can you do that for me? Yeah.
668
00:54:07,670 --> 00:54:09,790
Now? This is kind of my best.
669
00:54:10,050 --> 00:54:11,990
Where are you?
670
00:54:13,090 --> 00:54:16,050
With you back there somewhere.
671
00:54:16,490 --> 00:54:17,490
Oh, there you are.
672
00:54:19,030 --> 00:54:22,210
I'm looking into your brother's eyes. I
know it's a pretty show back there,
673
00:54:22,230 --> 00:54:23,230
but...
674
00:54:23,420 --> 00:54:24,420
There you go.
675
00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:32,380
Are you okay with this?
676
00:54:53,360 --> 00:54:54,299
You know what?
677
00:54:54,300 --> 00:54:55,380
I want to be a mommy.
678
00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:57,360
Oh, yeah?
679
00:54:57,400 --> 00:54:58,400
Mm -hmm.
680
00:54:59,080 --> 00:55:04,380
Well, I mean, we got to work on the
jealousy, you know?
681
00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:06,900
I was just bugging you for a little bit.
682
00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:11,400
Maybe it's going to be good for us to
get over that.
683
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:15,360
Is this the last time you think that
you're ever going to mess around with
684
00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:16,360
sister?
685
00:55:16,700 --> 00:55:19,420
Is this it? She has nothing else to look
forward to?
686
00:55:19,780 --> 00:55:22,540
No. This has been really fun.
687
00:55:23,180 --> 00:55:24,800
Yeah. Kind of eye -opening, honestly.
688
00:55:25,540 --> 00:55:28,900
Maybe she's going to get some more later
so she doesn't have to be jealous now.
689
00:55:29,180 --> 00:55:30,098
Oh, yeah.
690
00:55:30,100 --> 00:55:31,100
Yeah. Yeah.
691
00:55:31,360 --> 00:55:34,100
Because it's not like you and I are
going home together and you're going
692
00:55:34,100 --> 00:55:34,859
with your sister.
693
00:55:34,860 --> 00:55:35,499
Mm -hmm.
694
00:55:35,500 --> 00:55:36,500
Yeah.
695
00:57:25,200 --> 00:57:26,200
I'm sorry.
696
00:57:27,180 --> 00:57:29,320
What's on there? Is that another woman
on there?
697
00:57:31,120 --> 00:57:33,460
There is another woman on there.
698
00:57:34,320 --> 00:57:38,820
Just like your brother made an effort to
make you feel nice and appreciated and
699
00:57:38,820 --> 00:57:39,820
accepted.
700
00:57:40,860 --> 00:57:43,100
It's a long way to get the same thing.
701
00:57:44,680 --> 00:57:45,680
What did I say?
702
00:57:46,480 --> 00:57:49,700
The thing in your mouth, even though
you've just been with someone else.
703
00:58:41,610 --> 00:58:45,090
So open about sharing your weather
today.
704
00:58:45,350 --> 00:58:48,190
You clearly love it very, very much.
705
00:58:52,270 --> 00:58:53,790
You can practice stuff like this at
home.
706
00:58:54,070 --> 00:58:57,010
Whenever you're feeling jealous, you can
tell them how you're feeling.
707
00:58:58,150 --> 00:58:59,890
Yeah. You can do it like this.
708
00:59:00,170 --> 00:59:01,170
Yeah.
709
00:59:01,890 --> 00:59:05,570
Whenever you need her to show you that
she really does care and she's just not
710
00:59:05,570 --> 00:59:09,850
being controlling, you can say you could
ask her for a certain thing, like very
711
00:59:09,850 --> 00:59:10,850
specifically.
712
00:59:11,230 --> 00:59:12,550
Yeah. Yeah.
713
00:59:15,130 --> 00:59:16,130
Good.
714
00:59:18,310 --> 00:59:20,710
Naming our feelings. We're asking for
it.
715
00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:22,780
Exactly what we want.
716
00:59:24,220 --> 00:59:26,840
Okay? We can both do that, right?
717
00:59:27,840 --> 00:59:28,840
Like,
718
00:59:30,260 --> 00:59:32,260
I want you to suck my dog.
719
00:59:32,960 --> 00:59:38,320
I want you to lick me. I don't want you
to go out with your friends. I want you
720
00:59:38,320 --> 00:59:40,060
to stay home and have sex with me.
721
00:59:44,380 --> 00:59:49,500
Just a little bit more honesty is really
going to change your dynamic entirely.
722
01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:02,000
Can you hold on?
723
01:01:08,650 --> 01:01:09,650
Thank you so much.
724
01:01:52,680 --> 01:01:53,680
Thank you.
725
01:02:35,990 --> 01:02:37,750
So much connection.
726
01:02:38,850 --> 01:02:40,490
I love you.
727
01:02:40,690 --> 01:02:42,350
I love you. I love you.
728
01:02:42,770 --> 01:02:44,210
I love you.
729
01:02:44,910 --> 01:02:47,810
I love you. I love you.
730
01:02:48,650 --> 01:02:50,070
I love you. I love you. I love you.
731
01:02:50,990 --> 01:02:51,609
I love you.
732
01:02:51,610 --> 01:02:52,610
I love you.
733
01:02:52,950 --> 01:02:53,408
I love you.
734
01:02:53,410 --> 01:02:54,408
I love you.
735
01:02:54,410 --> 01:02:57,970
I love you. I love you. I love you. I
love you. I love you. I love you. I love
736
01:02:57,970 --> 01:02:59,130
you. I love you. I love you.
737
01:02:59,610 --> 01:03:01,030
I love you.
738
01:03:02,210 --> 01:03:03,670
I love you.
739
01:03:59,210 --> 01:04:00,250
I wish it wasn't mine.
740
01:04:00,470 --> 01:04:03,550
I don't think my sisters have asses like
that. Oh, no.
741
01:04:40,950 --> 01:04:42,170
Perfection. Oh, yeah.
742
01:04:44,410 --> 01:04:47,730
Oh, you know, Penelope, that just looks
like so much fun.
743
01:04:48,050 --> 01:04:50,270
That looks like a lot of fun.
744
01:04:51,310 --> 01:04:53,250
You think that I could get in on that?
745
01:04:54,550 --> 01:04:55,710
Mind if I cut in?
746
01:04:56,130 --> 01:04:57,130
Okay.
747
01:04:57,590 --> 01:05:02,320
Yeah? Thank you. I really appreciate
that. I know how much this is for you.
748
01:06:42,440 --> 01:06:43,440
Thank you.
749
01:07:24,810 --> 01:07:26,530
Oh my God.
750
01:07:28,230 --> 01:07:31,030
Oh my God.
751
01:09:08,880 --> 01:09:09,880
Oh my God.
752
01:11:17,390 --> 01:11:18,510
Thank you.
753
01:12:03,790 --> 01:12:04,790
Oh, yeah?
754
01:12:06,910 --> 01:12:08,010
It's beautiful.
755
01:12:34,709 --> 01:12:36,150
Thank you.
756
01:13:43,700 --> 01:13:46,500
Thank you.
757
01:14:48,110 --> 01:14:49,630
Oh, that's right.
758
01:14:50,250 --> 01:14:51,570
Oh, that's okay.
759
01:14:52,910 --> 01:14:54,090
Oh, my God.
760
01:14:54,330 --> 01:14:55,390
Oh, my God.
761
01:14:55,730 --> 01:14:56,750
Oh, my God.
762
01:15:25,610 --> 01:15:26,610
Hey.
763
01:15:27,710 --> 01:15:31,430
Do you feel like you two learned some
stuff that you can practice this week?
764
01:15:31,790 --> 01:15:33,270
Communication and honesty.
765
01:15:33,850 --> 01:15:38,030
Yeah. You know, being a little bit more
emotionally giving.
766
01:15:38,330 --> 01:15:39,330
Uh -huh.
767
01:15:40,490 --> 01:15:43,810
Well, then it sounds like you two have
some homework.
768
01:15:45,170 --> 01:15:47,290
Well, I'm a little bit excited.
769
01:15:48,450 --> 01:15:49,450
I'm a little bit more.
770
01:15:49,630 --> 01:15:54,530
How do you two feel about maybe having
like a regular session every week or so?
771
01:15:56,780 --> 01:16:02,240
Just kind of check in and see how things
are going and make sure it's in
772
01:16:02,240 --> 01:16:03,780
progress. Okay, that's lovely.
773
01:16:04,260 --> 01:16:07,460
Mom, you can make an appointment with
Sasha on your way in.
774
01:16:07,860 --> 01:16:08,779
You got it.
775
01:16:08,780 --> 01:16:09,780
All right.
776
01:16:10,880 --> 01:16:12,240
We should probably get things up, right?
777
01:16:12,480 --> 01:16:13,860
Yeah. Probably.
778
01:16:14,420 --> 01:16:15,420
All right.
779
01:16:16,880 --> 01:16:19,020
There is a restroom right outside.
780
01:16:20,080 --> 01:16:22,980
Right. You got it. Okay. All right.
781
01:16:27,880 --> 01:16:31,760
I'm so impressed by both of you. I don't
know if this is the last time, but I
782
01:16:31,760 --> 01:16:36,580
thought anyone, much less a couple of
siblings, makes so much credit in just
783
01:16:36,580 --> 01:16:37,580
position.
784
01:16:38,700 --> 01:16:40,740
I'm very proud, and I'm very impressed.
785
01:16:42,520 --> 01:16:46,700
Yes, there's obviously some stuff there
that we never really saw.
786
01:16:48,800 --> 01:16:50,000
I'm glad we got it out.
787
01:16:50,740 --> 01:16:52,080
It's good.
788
01:16:52,440 --> 01:16:53,440
It's healthy.
789
01:16:55,280 --> 01:16:56,280
I'm sorry.
790
01:16:58,180 --> 01:16:59,180
Okay. That's okay.
791
01:16:59,540 --> 01:17:01,520
We're going to work on that behavior.
792
01:17:02,040 --> 01:17:03,040
Okay.
793
01:17:05,800 --> 01:17:06,800
Happens all the time.
794
01:17:09,020 --> 01:17:09,460
You
795
01:17:09,460 --> 01:17:16,420
ready to
796
01:17:16,420 --> 01:17:19,300
go? I'm just going to put this in the
bathroom. Okay, yeah.
797
01:17:20,320 --> 01:17:23,600
Bye. Bye. It was lovely to meet both of
you.
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