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Hi.
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Would you like
To come in?
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Listen, oliver,
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This is the last chance
You're gonna have
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To talk to paul
Before we move away.
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Don't you at least want
To say goodbye to him?
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Oliver, your mom and I
Are gonna be
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In my office, talking.
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So if you feel like it,
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Just come in and join us
Anytime you want, okay?
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Whatever.
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( theme music playing )
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I know you hate me.
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Why would you
Say that, bess?
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I'm doing everything
You told me not to do.
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So you have--
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You have decided to leave?
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First thing
Saturday morning,
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Packing up the u-haul
And driving upstate.
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Can I ask you how oliver is
Taking all this?
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Very badly.
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Thanks for asking.
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He's barely spoken
To me all week.
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And when he does,
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Well, he's finding more
And more colorful ways
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Of telling me
To fuck off.
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If you've accomplished
Nothing else here,
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You've certainly helped him
Get in touch with his anger.
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Do you feel that I have
Disappointed you?
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It's embarrassing
To admit this now,
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But when he first
Started coming here
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I was sure
You'd be on my side.
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Were you?
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Well, you're so smart
And reasonable,
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I thought
For sure you'd be able
To get through to oliver
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And maybe even knock
Some sense into luke.
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Well, you had
High hopes for me.
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Then that night when I came
To pick up oliver's turtle
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It was so clear to me
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That you live here
All alone.
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And something about,
You know, the empty place--
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It just seemed
Familiar to me.
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And I thought--
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I thought when I told you
About my new job,
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You'd be more sympathetic.
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It's not that I'm not
Sympathetic to you,
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But my job is to advocate
For oliver.
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So if I feel that you're not
Acting in his best interest,
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I have to tell you.
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Believe me, I know that
Where oliver's concerned,
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I'm making a bad situation
Even worse.
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But I can't wake up
In that house anymore.
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And all I'm saying is
That oliver needs
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Familiar things
Around him now.
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And if he doesn't get
Those things,
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There may very well be
Consequences.
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You know that announcement
They make on planes
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About oxygen masks?
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You know how you should
Secure your own mask first
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Before you help your child
With his?
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I feel like that's what
I'm doing now.
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Well, if you want my advice,
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I'd say that you should
Adjust your mask immediately,
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Because your son really
Needs your help.
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You know,
The way you're talking,
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It makes me wonder
If I've spent oliver's
Whole life
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Finding different ways
To be selfish with him.
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What do you mean?
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Well, I mean I had
Oliver in the first place
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Partly because
I was graduating.
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I didn't know
What else to do.
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And then I spent
The next 12 years
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Entirely devoted to him,
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Which helped me forget
That I was
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Pathologically incapable
Of finishing my degree
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And that my husband and I
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Weren't really
Getting along anymore.
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And now here I am
Violently uprooting him
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All because I need
A change of scene.
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I think it's one
Of the hardest things
About being a parent--
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Trying to weigh
Your own needs
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Against those
Of your kid.
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It's a constant
Balancing act.
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Oliver told me
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Last week
On the playground
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He asked if he could
Come live with you.
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And when I said, "Why?"
He said
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Because he's happier with you
Than he is with me or luke.
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Is that right?
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Well, that's what he said.
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It's probably the truth.
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I don't think
It's the whole truth.
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What he really needs now
Is a home
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Where he can feel safe.
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You need to build that
For him.
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That's what you've got
To remember.
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He also said
He was very angry
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That you wouldn't take him in
When he asked you to.
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Well, I think he's got
Every right to be.
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I think you're
His best friend.
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And I'm taking him
Away from you.
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I don't think he's ever
Gonna forgive me for that.
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I don't think he should.
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( knocks on door )
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Come in.
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Oh, luke.
I wasn't expecting you.
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I was in the neighborhood.
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Why don't you join us?
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I've--
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I've been
At our old apartment
All afternoon,
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Packing things up
To put in storage.
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And suddenly
I just felt
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The need to talk
To somebody.
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And then I remembered
It was wednesday at 4:00,
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So I figured I'd already
Paid for the hour, so...
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When you were knocking
We thought it was oliver
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And that he was finally
Ready to talk.
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No such luck.
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He's sitting there
Like he's getting ready
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To strangle somebody.
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Well, at least he hasn't
Run away again.
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Small blessings, right?
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You know, I'm taking
The next couple of days off
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To be with him before
He and bess move away.
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But since he's not
Speaking to me,
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I don't know what kind of
Activities we're gonna do.
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I guess we could play
A lot of charades, you know?
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You said you wanted
To talk about something.
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What is it?
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I don't know,
Just this memory
I was having
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Of the three of us
Moving into that place
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When oliver was a baby.
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I don't know
How we thought
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We could afford a whole
Brownstone floor.
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We were living
So far beyond our means.
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And the place was
A complete wreck.
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The plaster
Was crumbling.
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The walls were
Just buckling.
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There were exposed wires
Everywhere you looked.
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Yeah, we were so deluded,
We thought
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We could actually
Fix it up ourselves.
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There was this pipe
In the bathroom
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That kept spurting
Little drops of hot water
Into the air.
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I never could fix it,
So we had to keep the window
Open all the time
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'cause it was
Like a sauna in there.
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Except it was
The dead of winter.
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And so one morning
I was brushing my teeth
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And the warm air
From the water pipe
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Met the cold air
From the window
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And it started raining
On me inside.
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( laughs )
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The two of you
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Have an ease
With each other
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That I've never
Seen before.
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Why do you think
That is?
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'cause it's over.
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You knew it
A long time before I did.
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And then even when
It was really clear to me,
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I was just too stubborn
To let go.
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I was pretty stubborn
Myself.
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I was trying
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To get you to be
Somebody you weren't
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In a marriage
I didn't want.
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Yeah.
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We were just children
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Playing house.
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If we didn't
Have oliver...
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All this time and effort,
And that's all we are--
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Just two people
Who should have never
Gotten married.
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Look, I'm sure
That your understanding
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Of what you are
To each other
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Will continue
To evolve and change.
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But now that you've
Reached this point,
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Perhaps we can stop
Blaming each other
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For all the ways that
You've failed your son.
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And maybe you can finally
Work together
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To be his parents.
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Because even if you feel
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That you've always been
Wrong for each other,
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He is the one thing--
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The one
Extraordinary thing
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That you have
Built together.
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I'd better get back
To the apartment
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'cause I have a lot
Of packing to do.
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You want me
To come over later,
Help you pack up?
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Actually, I thought
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Maybe you'd like
To take oliver tonight.
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Well, I thought I wasn't
Supposed to get him
Until tomorrow.
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Yeah, it just occurred to me
That maybe you'd like
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To spend some more time
With him before we leave.
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Okay.
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Okay, I'm going to see
If I can get oliver
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To come in and talk.
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Bess, I just want to say
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That I know that I've been
Harsh at times,
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But I really admire
Your courage.
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Thank you.
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( door opens and closes )
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So...
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Now I get the next
Two and a half days
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To make up
For the past 12 years.
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Are you worried about
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What's gonna happen
Once oliver moves away?
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Bess will be trying
To take care of oliver
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While she's starting
A new job.
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I'll be driving
Up there and back
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Twice every weekend.
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00:12:18,038 --> 00:12:21,408
Oliver will probably be more
Miserable than he is now.
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It'll be a disaster.
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Are you absolutely sure
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There's nothing else
That you can do?
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I've gone over it
A million times in my head,
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And I just don't know
What else to do.
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What, you think I'm excited
About being a divorced dad,
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Only seeing my kid
On the weekend?
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It's not the way
I wanted it.
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Do you feel like
You've failed oliver?
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Of course I do.
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I know what it felt like
To have my father erase me.
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It's the main reason
Why I stayed married
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All these years,
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Trying to avoid what's
Happening right now.
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It's not too late
To undo all this, you know.
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Yes, it is.
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I've already lost him.
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That's become clear over
The past couple of months.
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Oh, yeah, he'll let me
Buy him some sneakers
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Or take him to see
The knicks,
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But he won't come to me
When he has problems.
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Look, he may be
Pulling away from you now
Because he's angry,
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But he still needs you
Very much.
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I never really learned
How to take care of him.
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I always passed him off
To bess.
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Truth is,
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I probably never
Wanted to be a father
In the first place.
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Do you love your son?
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Yes.
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Of course.
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But look what I did
Last week.
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I mean, bess says
She's moving away,
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And I didn't lift a finger
To fight for oliver.
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I practically forced her
To take him...
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Because I didn't know
How to handle him.
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I understand
There's a lot of things
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That you wish
You'd done differently,
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But that's in the past.
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The only thing
That really matters now
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Is the kind of father
You're going to be to oliver
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From here on out.
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Right, so what do we
Have to look forward to?
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I'll see him
Less and less.
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Right?
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I'll become the man
Who writes the checks.
254
00:14:31,738 --> 00:14:33,440
Look, it doesn't have
To be that bleak.
255
00:14:33,540 --> 00:14:36,343
You have a lot of control
Over how big a part
256
00:14:36,443 --> 00:14:38,045
You play in his life.
257
00:14:38,145 --> 00:14:40,647
Because the truth is,
Your relationship with oliver--
258
00:14:40,747 --> 00:14:43,283
It's never going
To be over.
259
00:14:43,383 --> 00:14:46,519
He'll always want you
To be his father.
260
00:14:46,619 --> 00:14:49,189
So you can't ever
Give up on him
261
00:14:49,289 --> 00:14:51,091
Or yourself.
262
00:14:53,526 --> 00:14:54,794
All right.
263
00:14:54,894 --> 00:14:56,563
I understand.
264
00:14:58,165 --> 00:15:01,401
So do you have
Any tips to give me,
265
00:15:01,501 --> 00:15:05,138
Any words of wisdom
Before you punch out?
266
00:15:05,238 --> 00:15:07,440
Nothing that you really
Want to hear.
267
00:15:07,540 --> 00:15:09,642
The truth is, luke,
There's a good chance
268
00:15:09,742 --> 00:15:13,013
Things are going to get worse
For oliver and for you.
269
00:15:13,113 --> 00:15:17,350
For a long time he is
Going to be very angry at you.
270
00:15:17,450 --> 00:15:19,419
And you're gonna have to
Keep loving him
271
00:15:19,519 --> 00:15:21,854
No matter what.
272
00:15:21,955 --> 00:15:24,791
You're gonna have to let him
Have his anger.
273
00:15:24,891 --> 00:15:28,928
And you're gonna
Have to take it,
Just let him be who he is.
274
00:15:29,029 --> 00:15:32,065
- so just take it?
- and keep showing up.
275
00:15:34,034 --> 00:15:35,768
All right, I think
I can do that.
276
00:15:35,868 --> 00:15:37,304
And take it
Step by step.
277
00:15:37,404 --> 00:15:39,772
Right now you've got
Two and a half days with him
278
00:15:39,872 --> 00:15:43,210
All to yourself.
Take advantage of that.
279
00:15:49,549 --> 00:15:50,917
All right.
280
00:15:51,018 --> 00:15:52,419
Uh...
281
00:15:54,821 --> 00:15:56,223
You know, before we go,
282
00:15:56,323 --> 00:15:57,790
I think you and oliver
Should talk.
283
00:15:57,890 --> 00:16:00,427
Yeah, let's join him.
284
00:16:08,868 --> 00:16:12,372
Hey, oliver, it's almost
Time to head out.
285
00:16:12,472 --> 00:16:15,142
Do you want
To go into the office
And say goodbye to paul?
286
00:16:27,420 --> 00:16:30,290
I understand why you might be
Mad with everything,
287
00:16:31,558 --> 00:16:34,261
But you know
None of it is paul's fault.
288
00:16:35,395 --> 00:16:37,697
And I know
You like him a lot.
289
00:16:37,797 --> 00:16:39,699
And he really cares
About you too.
290
00:16:43,570 --> 00:16:46,406
Maybe you're feeling
Too angry to talk right now,
291
00:16:47,574 --> 00:16:49,142
But someday
292
00:16:49,242 --> 00:16:52,445
I bet you won't be
So angry anymore
293
00:16:52,545 --> 00:16:55,315
And you'll miss him.
294
00:16:55,415 --> 00:16:57,717
And you'll be glad
You had the opportunity
295
00:16:57,817 --> 00:16:59,319
To see him today.
296
00:17:01,754 --> 00:17:03,356
So what do you say?
297
00:17:13,833 --> 00:17:15,135
Okay.
298
00:17:17,470 --> 00:17:18,805
All right.
299
00:17:22,742 --> 00:17:24,211
Thank you, luke.
300
00:17:41,561 --> 00:17:43,696
How are you?
301
00:17:43,796 --> 00:17:46,099
You didn't help me at all.
302
00:17:48,901 --> 00:17:50,503
Look,
303
00:17:52,805 --> 00:17:54,807
I'm sorry
I let you down.
304
00:17:54,907 --> 00:17:56,709
Everything got worse.
305
00:17:56,809 --> 00:17:59,312
I wish I could solve
All your problems, oliver,
306
00:17:59,412 --> 00:18:02,615
But I just-- I can't.
307
00:18:02,715 --> 00:18:05,785
But one thing I can do
308
00:18:05,885 --> 00:18:08,255
Is talk with you
309
00:18:08,355 --> 00:18:10,990
About everything
That's going on.
310
00:18:11,090 --> 00:18:13,126
So what?
311
00:18:13,226 --> 00:18:15,094
Well, for one thing,
312
00:18:15,195 --> 00:18:17,430
Maybe it will help you
Feel less alone.
313
00:18:17,530 --> 00:18:18,631
I am alone.
314
00:18:18,731 --> 00:18:21,000
And I'm not gonna
Get to see you anymore.
315
00:18:21,100 --> 00:18:22,402
I know.
316
00:18:22,502 --> 00:18:25,805
And that's why
I'm really glad
317
00:18:25,905 --> 00:18:27,774
That we had this chance
318
00:18:27,874 --> 00:18:29,842
Just to talk.
319
00:18:34,514 --> 00:18:36,048
Why don't you tell me
About your week?
320
00:18:36,149 --> 00:18:38,084
Let's begin there.
321
00:18:38,185 --> 00:18:40,820
Today was
My last day at school.
322
00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:44,224
Oh, and how did that go?
323
00:18:44,324 --> 00:18:46,759
They had a going-away
Party for me.
324
00:18:46,859 --> 00:18:48,695
My teacher made brownies.
325
00:18:48,795 --> 00:18:51,798
And eric wasn't there,
So that was good.
326
00:18:51,898 --> 00:18:53,200
Why wasn't eric there?
327
00:18:53,300 --> 00:18:55,302
He was in the hospital.
328
00:18:55,402 --> 00:18:57,504
What's eric doing
In the hospital?
329
00:18:57,604 --> 00:19:00,573
He was lighting
Some m-80s
330
00:19:00,673 --> 00:19:03,810
And they exploded
And blew his pinkie off.
331
00:19:03,910 --> 00:19:06,078
Oh.
332
00:19:06,179 --> 00:19:09,216
That's pretty awful for eric,
Don't you think?
333
00:19:09,316 --> 00:19:12,352
Why do you think
He picked on you so much?
334
00:19:12,452 --> 00:19:14,287
Do you think
It might have been
335
00:19:14,387 --> 00:19:16,856
Because he had so many problems
Of his own, you know?
336
00:19:19,592 --> 00:19:20,827
Maybe.
337
00:19:20,927 --> 00:19:22,729
So how is maya doing?
338
00:19:24,364 --> 00:19:26,266
She got me
A going-away gift.
339
00:19:26,366 --> 00:19:28,935
Cool.
What did she get?
340
00:19:30,870 --> 00:19:33,273
( chuckles )
That's sweet.
341
00:19:36,142 --> 00:19:38,245
You're gonna miss her,
Right?
342
00:19:45,385 --> 00:19:48,488
I'll miss my house.
343
00:19:48,588 --> 00:19:51,824
Your dad told me
That he came over today
To help you pack.
344
00:19:51,924 --> 00:19:53,893
How was that?
345
00:19:53,993 --> 00:19:55,662
Weird.
346
00:19:55,762 --> 00:19:57,897
Like he was living
With us again,
347
00:19:57,997 --> 00:20:00,467
Except he wasn't.
348
00:20:00,567 --> 00:20:03,770
He and my mom both
Started to cry a little.
349
00:20:03,870 --> 00:20:06,172
Both of them?
350
00:20:06,273 --> 00:20:09,609
So what was that like?
351
00:20:09,709 --> 00:20:11,544
I hated it.
352
00:20:11,644 --> 00:20:13,246
You know, once when I was
About your age
353
00:20:13,346 --> 00:20:16,716
I saw my dad cry.
354
00:20:16,816 --> 00:20:20,287
He was having a big fight
With my mom.
355
00:20:20,387 --> 00:20:22,422
They were yelling
At each other.
356
00:20:22,522 --> 00:20:25,024
I just wanted them
To stop.
357
00:20:25,124 --> 00:20:29,296
I guess I wanted them
To be just happy.
358
00:20:29,396 --> 00:20:32,965
And it made me so pissed
359
00:20:33,065 --> 00:20:34,967
When I found out
360
00:20:35,067 --> 00:20:37,904
That they weren't.
361
00:20:38,004 --> 00:20:41,408
So what did you do?
362
00:20:41,508 --> 00:20:44,311
Well, I stayed pissed at them
363
00:20:44,411 --> 00:20:46,979
For a long time.
364
00:20:47,079 --> 00:20:49,282
And then I realized
365
00:20:49,382 --> 00:20:51,418
That even though
366
00:20:51,518 --> 00:20:54,020
My mom and dad got upset
367
00:20:54,120 --> 00:20:57,223
And they made big mistakes
Sometimes,
368
00:20:57,324 --> 00:21:01,394
They still loved me.
369
00:21:01,494 --> 00:21:04,997
What am I supposed to do?
370
00:21:05,097 --> 00:21:09,101
Okay, if you're not getting
Something that you need,
371
00:21:09,201 --> 00:21:11,338
Tell them.
372
00:21:11,438 --> 00:21:13,640
If you don't understand
Why something is happening,
373
00:21:13,740 --> 00:21:15,942
Say, "Can you please
Explain this to me?"
374
00:21:16,042 --> 00:21:19,178
And if things get really
Upsetting and confusing,
375
00:21:19,278 --> 00:21:21,581
Call me.
376
00:21:21,681 --> 00:21:23,316
That way we can
Work together
377
00:21:23,416 --> 00:21:25,552
To try and solve
The problem.
378
00:21:27,654 --> 00:21:29,456
( sighs )
379
00:21:33,426 --> 00:21:35,595
Does your son live
Far away?
380
00:21:35,695 --> 00:21:37,897
Mm-hmm.
381
00:21:37,997 --> 00:21:42,535
I go visit him
On weekends.
382
00:21:42,635 --> 00:21:45,237
This saturday I'm taking him
To the air and space museum
383
00:21:45,338 --> 00:21:47,206
In washington, d.C.
384
00:21:47,306 --> 00:21:49,275
He likes to look
At the rockets
385
00:21:49,376 --> 00:21:51,878
And the satellites
Especially.
386
00:21:53,913 --> 00:21:55,815
Do you miss him?
387
00:21:55,915 --> 00:21:59,786
Yeah, all the time.
388
00:21:59,886 --> 00:22:02,054
But, see, I'm with him
389
00:22:02,154 --> 00:22:06,593
Whenever I can be.
390
00:22:06,693 --> 00:22:11,197
And I'm always thinking
About him.
391
00:22:11,297 --> 00:22:13,600
I mean, we talk
On the phone every day.
392
00:22:13,700 --> 00:22:16,769
So I get to hear
What he has to say
393
00:22:16,869 --> 00:22:19,872
And I get to tell him
What's going on with me.
394
00:22:24,010 --> 00:22:25,044
That reminds me--
395
00:22:25,144 --> 00:22:27,380
I've got to make a call.
396
00:22:29,482 --> 00:22:31,584
Can you give me a sec?
397
00:22:42,562 --> 00:22:45,432
( phone ringing )
398
00:22:51,037 --> 00:22:51,871
Hello.
399
00:22:51,971 --> 00:22:53,906
Hey, oliver.
400
00:22:54,707 --> 00:22:57,544
It's paul in brooklyn.
401
00:22:57,644 --> 00:22:59,311
I just thought
I'd check in
402
00:22:59,412 --> 00:23:02,348
And see how things
Were going upstate.
403
00:23:02,449 --> 00:23:05,017
- this is dumb.
- ( chuckles )
404
00:23:06,152 --> 00:23:07,954
So how are you?
405
00:23:09,088 --> 00:23:10,790
When did you move in?
406
00:23:12,992 --> 00:23:14,461
Last week.
407
00:23:14,561 --> 00:23:16,963
And how has it been
Going so far?
408
00:23:19,398 --> 00:23:20,399
Okay, I guess.
409
00:23:20,500 --> 00:23:22,234
Where's your house?
410
00:23:22,334 --> 00:23:24,336
In the middle
Of nowhere.
411
00:23:24,437 --> 00:23:25,872
Do you like your room?
412
00:23:25,972 --> 00:23:27,239
Not really.
413
00:23:27,339 --> 00:23:29,442
In brooklyn, my room
Is painted blue.
414
00:23:29,542 --> 00:23:31,944
What if you and your mom
Go to the hardware store
415
00:23:32,044 --> 00:23:34,180
And buy some blue paint?
416
00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:37,416
That way your room
Can look
417
00:23:37,517 --> 00:23:39,418
The same as it did
In brooklyn.
418
00:23:39,519 --> 00:23:40,787
I guess.
419
00:23:40,887 --> 00:23:43,255
How are you and your mom
Getting on these days?
420
00:23:43,355 --> 00:23:45,958
She's really busy.
421
00:23:46,058 --> 00:23:47,727
She's teaching a lot,
422
00:23:47,827 --> 00:23:49,629
So I don't get
To see her very much.
423
00:23:49,729 --> 00:23:52,364
But you have dinner together
Every night, yeah?
424
00:23:52,465 --> 00:23:53,866
Yeah.
425
00:23:53,966 --> 00:23:57,637
And then you tell her
All about your day.
426
00:23:57,737 --> 00:24:00,172
Yeah.
427
00:24:00,272 --> 00:24:02,975
Has your dad come up
To visit you?
428
00:24:03,075 --> 00:24:04,944
Not yet,
429
00:24:05,044 --> 00:24:07,146
But this weekend
He's coming to get me
430
00:24:07,246 --> 00:24:08,280
And we're going
To the city.
431
00:24:08,380 --> 00:24:09,782
Cool.
432
00:24:09,882 --> 00:24:11,651
But I'm not sure what
We're gonna do there.
433
00:24:11,751 --> 00:24:14,253
When you talk to him,
434
00:24:14,353 --> 00:24:16,556
Maybe you could just
Make a list
435
00:24:16,656 --> 00:24:18,558
Of the things
That you want to do--
436
00:24:18,658 --> 00:24:21,661
Maybe, I don't know,
Go to a basketball game,
437
00:24:21,761 --> 00:24:23,663
Maybe even go back
To that restaurant
438
00:24:23,763 --> 00:24:25,431
Where you had
The paella.
439
00:24:25,532 --> 00:24:27,867
That'd be fun.
440
00:24:27,967 --> 00:24:30,637
So how are things
Going at school?
441
00:24:30,737 --> 00:24:33,840
All the kids are strange.
442
00:24:33,940 --> 00:24:36,643
I bet there's
One or two kids
443
00:24:36,743 --> 00:24:39,078
That you kind of like.
444
00:24:42,448 --> 00:24:45,384
It's gonna take a while,
Oliver.
445
00:24:45,484 --> 00:24:49,321
Everything's gonna be
New and strange for a bit.
446
00:24:49,421 --> 00:24:51,858
But I think
You're gonna do okay.
447
00:24:51,958 --> 00:24:54,360
I think things are
Gonna work out
448
00:24:54,460 --> 00:24:57,096
And you're just going
To be fine.
449
00:25:01,333 --> 00:25:02,501
I have to go now.
450
00:25:02,602 --> 00:25:04,671
Oh, it's dinner time?
451
00:25:04,771 --> 00:25:07,006
Yeah, I'll call you
Next week.
452
00:25:09,008 --> 00:25:10,643
Goodbye, oliver.
453
00:25:32,565 --> 00:25:34,266
I should go now.
454
00:25:35,802 --> 00:25:38,137
Well, we still have
A little bit of time.
455
00:25:39,806 --> 00:25:42,809
Is there anything else
456
00:25:42,909 --> 00:25:44,944
That you want
To talk about?
457
00:25:59,726 --> 00:26:02,762
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