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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,080 --> 00:00:02,160 NARRATOR: Previously... 2 00:00:02,280 --> 00:00:04,280 I want to go put my dad hat on and I would like to leave. 3 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:06,600 ..Chris wanted to leave the experiment... 4 00:00:06,720 --> 00:00:07,760 SAM: Stay. 5 00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:10,560 ..before the experts gave some sound advice 6 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:12,560 for the pair to turn it around. 7 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:14,800 But with awareness can come change. 8 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:17,240 Treat each other in a friendly way. 9 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:22,120 And then, all around Australia, 10 00:00:22,240 --> 00:00:26,800 Homestays Week saw our couples take what they've learnt in the experimen 11 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:28,720 into the outside world. 12 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:30,840 RACHEL: Passenger Princess! 13 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:35,960 A successful visit to his home town saw Steven give Rachel reassurance 14 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:37,280 for their future. 15 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:39,920 I have caught up in my feelings for you. 16 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:41,640 I can see myself falling in love with you one day. 17 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:44,480 It really reaffirms the feelings are real, 18 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:46,200 the feelings are mutual. 19 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:47,480 (LAUGHS) 20 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:51,280 You've always told me, like, "Don't come here to Sydney for me." 21 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:53,200 Well, deal with it. 22 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:55,400 Filip confirmed he would move from Melbourne 23 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:57,920 to live with Stella in Sydney. 24 00:00:58,040 --> 00:00:58,880 This is it. Like... 25 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:01,880 STELLA: We are coming out stronger than we came in. 26 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:03,720 GIA: Be better if that wasn't there. 27 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:05,120 My house is way cleaner. 28 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:06,280 I couldn't live here. 29 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:09,000 It was a tense few days at Scott's home on the Gold Coast. 30 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:10,920 What's that? 31 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:13,560 Why is it pink? Is it your ex's or something? 32 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:15,280 Makes me feel like she doesn't trust me. 33 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:16,760 You're in an experiment right now 34 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:18,000 and you can't even voice how you feel. 35 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:22,880 Scott finally asked Gia the hard questions about their relationship. 36 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:25,320 Do you, like, fully, 100% trust me? 37 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:26,720 Do you know what I mean? Yes, Scott. 38 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:28,680 No, no, what I'm saying is, like... 39 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:30,600 I didn't know you wanted to argue today. 40 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:32,360 Tonight... 41 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:33,720 RACHEL: Yay! STEVEN: So good. 42 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:35,040 ..homestays continues. 43 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:36,760 ALISSA: Welcome home! 44 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:39,920 You should be able to say something nice and be genuine about it. 45 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:42,880 BEC: Pisses me off. 46 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:46,800 What comment has Danny made that leaves Bec seeing red? 47 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:48,280 I'm done. 48 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:49,640 In Adelaide... 49 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:51,960 The biological clock is ticking. 50 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:56,400 You want to have a family and you don't want to keep putting it off. 51 00:01:56,520 --> 00:02:01,160 ..Alissa's mum shares words of wisdo from her own life experience. 52 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:04,080 It's really stressful now. There's a lot on the line. 53 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:06,000 DAVID: Alissa is spiralling. 54 00:02:10,640 --> 00:02:14,400 Could this be the most awkward homestay ever... 55 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:19,120 (COW MOOS) 56 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:22,680 ..as things for Chris and Sam go from bad... 57 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:24,960 "Do you accept full responsibility for your defensiveness 58 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:26,480 "and the aggression I felt from you last week?" 59 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:27,840 ..to worse? 60 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:30,480 Um... 61 00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:33,680 (COW MOOS) 62 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:42,240 With destinations far and wide, 63 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:45,720 our remaining couples are on their way to homestays, 64 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:49,240 where they will road-test life together outside the experiment. 65 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:52,800 We're here. We are here. 66 00:02:52,920 --> 00:02:55,720 The homestays have always been an essential part 67 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:57,600 of the Married at First Sight experiment. 68 00:02:57,720 --> 00:02:59,200 We've just landed. 69 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:02,000 I'm so excited to show David around my home town! 70 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:06,240 As our couples get a taste of their partner's natural environment, 71 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:07,960 questions will arise. 72 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:10,560 This is their chance to get to those answers 73 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:13,040 before they head to their final vows. 74 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:19,840 Brisbane-based David and wife Alissa 75 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:23,600 are arriving in her home town of Adelaide... 76 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:26,200 Can't believe I'm finally here, babe. 77 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:27,600 Oh, look. 78 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:30,200 ..and for the nurse and social media businesswoman, 79 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:34,640 the return to home turf is being met with a very special greeting. 80 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:36,400 Look. Look who it is. Look who it is. 81 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:40,720 Oh, my... That is nuts. Look who it is. 82 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:42,640 It's me. Wow. 83 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:43,720 That's me. 84 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:47,880 DAVID: Yeah, well, the pressure of this homestay has just doubled. 85 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:51,360 I didn't realise how big of a deal Alissa was 86 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:53,920 until I saw a massive poster with her face on it. 87 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:57,560 I was stunned and I'm still trying to take it all in. 88 00:03:57,680 --> 00:03:59,880 Like, are we going to walk down the street and get mobbed 89 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:02,920 by a group of teen girls wanting to get Alissa's autograph? 90 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:05,640 Like, I feel like I'm with a celebrity in Adelaide. 91 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:09,520 This is where I live. Is that it? 92 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:11,000 Yeah, this is it here. 93 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:12,880 ALISSA: I am Queen Adelaide. 94 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:17,520 I live a very busy life, from nursing to all my client meetings, 95 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:19,080 campaigns, deliverables. 96 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:21,520 Welcome home! 97 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:23,200 Wow, look at this. 98 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:26,000 I'm so excited to be able to bring my husband here... 99 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:27,720 OK, here's our bedroom. 100 00:04:27,840 --> 00:04:31,800 ..and for him to be able to get a taste of, you know, my life. 101 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:33,160 Massive couch. 102 00:04:33,280 --> 00:04:35,440 I don't even know where to sit. 103 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:37,760 It's bigger than our apartment in Sydney. 104 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:41,640 Lots of room for extra kids. (LAUGHS) 105 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:43,880 I'm excited to show you around. 106 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:46,040 I'm excited to go around too. 107 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:49,800 Tell me more about this huge billboard. 108 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:51,040 I was literally stunned. 109 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:53,000 I was, like, "Is that my wife, 110 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:54,520 "literally the face of Adelaide Airport?" 111 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:55,720 Yeah. 112 00:04:55,840 --> 00:04:57,160 Do you know what, that was a campaign I did 113 00:04:57,280 --> 00:04:59,160 like, three years ago, with this big king-sized bed 114 00:04:59,280 --> 00:05:01,120 that we wheeled around on the tarmac 115 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:04,080 and it was just me modelling on this bed by a plane. 116 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:06,480 And it was just such a fun campaign. 117 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:08,760 You know, that's only just one thing that I've done 118 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:13,560 and, you know, a part of, like, my career. 119 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:16,040 Seeing that at the airport, it was just like a wild moment. 120 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:19,800 But despite Alissa's clear connectio to her home town, 121 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:25,040 the couple has no plans to move here after the experiment. 122 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:28,800 I know Alissa is very close to her mum. 123 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:32,040 She's got her family here, her businesses and everything she does. 124 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:34,440 But me and Alissa spoke during feedback week 125 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:36,880 of living in Sydney for a few years 126 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:40,120 before we ultimately move to Adelaide to start a family. 127 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:44,800 I am a big city boy, so I feel way better about the Sydney idea. 128 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:47,960 I'm from Brisbane, so we kind of meet in the middle, 129 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:52,680 but right now our relationship is hanging on the fact that, you know, 130 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:56,120 Alissa ultimately wants to raise a family in Adelaide. 131 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:58,680 And, you know, if I can't see myself being here, 132 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:01,920 there's no point leaving everything I've built in Brisbane 133 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:05,000 to go on this journey to Sydney and then to Adelaide. 134 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:09,160 Yeah, you have to get on one knee. 135 00:06:09,280 --> 00:06:10,520 When they met at the altar... 136 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:13,520 We're not doing the vows until...until I get down? 137 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:17,280 ..Alissa and David found themselves in an unexpected stand-off. 138 00:06:17,400 --> 00:06:20,960 You know, I gotta, you know... We'll see. 139 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:23,600 But after an intense battle of wills 140 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:28,400 it was David who caved to pressure to give his wife what she wanted. 141 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:30,360 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 142 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:35,040 ALISSA: Are you nervous for the experiment to end, babe? 143 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:37,280 I mean, look, I definitely don't take it lightly. 144 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:43,040 Now the plan for the Brisbane-based groom to relocate first to Sydney, 145 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:45,640 then to Adelaide to raise a family 146 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:49,320 is proving another uncomfortable test. 147 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:52,280 DAVID: Figuring out where to live, it's not easy. 148 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:55,080 Brisbane is definitely not on the cards for Alissa. 149 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:58,480 She said no, you know. And I mean, it is a sacrifice. 150 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:02,080 My family and my friends and everything I've built 151 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:04,040 is in Queensland, you know. 152 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:11,320 I hope that, yeah, you can see... potentially see yourself here, 153 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:15,320 you know, and if you can't, then, yeah, that's just something 154 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:16,840 that we're gonna have to navigate. 155 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:19,360 I don't know, I hope that you just enjoy it, because... 156 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:21,720 Yeah. ..long term, you know, I just... 157 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:24,360 I want to have a family and that is, you know... 158 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:26,280 I want to be back here with my mum. 159 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:29,400 ALISSA: It is... It's a huge deal. 160 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:33,040 If David can't fit his life within my life, 161 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:35,080 like, that's going to cause troubles. 162 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:41,000 Also in Adelaide... 163 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:42,760 BEC: Oh! DANNY: Oh, god. 164 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:44,880 I'm stuck. Are you OK? 165 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:50,800 ..Bec and Danny's homestay is already facing its first major test, 166 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:52,680 as the Melbourne-based husband 167 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:55,960 prepares to meet his wife's other great love. 168 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:58,840 Are you ready to meet Coco? Where is she? 169 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:02,760 Everything I do in life is for Coco. She's my daughter. 170 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:04,800 She's my child. She is the most important thing to me. 171 00:08:04,920 --> 00:08:06,720 So if they don't get along... 172 00:08:06,840 --> 00:08:08,560 She's right here. 173 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:10,520 ..that'll be a huge spanner in the works for me. 174 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:12,840 I need them to love each other. 175 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:20,000 Hi! Come here! 176 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:21,960 There's Daniel! 177 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:23,440 You want to say hello to me? Oh... 178 00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:25,000 That's Daniel! 179 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:26,680 Hi. 180 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:28,440 Oh, you're gorgeous, aren't you? 181 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:31,280 She's trying to make her mind up. 182 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:35,640 Oh, is that kisses? Oh, that's very nice. 183 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:38,840 Oh! Yay! That's very nice! 184 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:41,320 Give me a cuddle! Give me a cuddle! I got a kiss. 185 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:46,440 I'm not joking, she's just not like that with men, ever. 186 00:08:46,560 --> 00:08:49,320 Hello. It's a really, really good start. 187 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:52,320 Like, I could not have asked for it to go any better. 188 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:54,640 Look at this place. This is my living room. 189 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:57,120 Comfiest couch. Sit on the couch. 190 00:08:57,240 --> 00:08:58,800 The comfiest in the world. 191 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:02,560 It's such a good feeling just to see the love that Danny has for Coco. 192 00:09:02,680 --> 00:09:04,120 Is that nice? 193 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:06,920 This is my garden, boo. 194 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:08,360 This is so nice. 195 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:09,960 Now he will hopefully fall in love with the idea 196 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:11,680 of what his life could look like here. 197 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:14,440 This is my bedroom. Jesus. The size of this room. 198 00:09:14,560 --> 00:09:16,640 (LAUGHS) 199 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:19,560 Listen, this is a nice bedroom, isn't it? 200 00:09:19,680 --> 00:09:21,280 It feels good being in Bec's home. 201 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:26,400 She just seems softer, more relaxed. 202 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:29,120 Obviously, some of the experiment, there's been a bit of drama 203 00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:30,720 and stuff like that, 204 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:33,320 whereas seeing Bec in her own home, she's very peaceful. 205 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:35,440 It's nice to see Bec like that. 206 00:09:35,560 --> 00:09:38,440 You like that I buy my bed sheets to match my dog's colour, 207 00:09:38,560 --> 00:09:40,200 the aesthetic of it? 208 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:43,120 I really do want Danny to like Adelaide. 209 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:45,440 She loves a chest rub, don't you? 210 00:09:45,560 --> 00:09:47,840 This really is the time where we're going to decide 211 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:52,280 where we're going to live after the experiment ends. 212 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:55,960 Daniel's been really vocal in telling me 213 00:09:56,080 --> 00:10:00,800 that he wants to come and move here, because my family is here, 214 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:04,040 you know, I've got a big house, and, you know, with the dog 215 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:05,240 and stuff like that. 216 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:07,840 Feel comfy here, boo? Yeah, I feel very relaxed. 217 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:09,840 I can picture him being here. 218 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:12,920 I can't picture my life without him now. 219 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:15,480 It's really scary to say, to be honest with you, 220 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:19,680 but I can't imagine a world where he and I aren't together. 221 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:22,240 I told you I was going to go find you a daddy. (LAUGHS) 222 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:25,520 Thanks for the kiss. 223 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:30,600 As homestays gets off to a positive start in Adelaide, 224 00:10:30,720 --> 00:10:36,120 Sam and Chris are heading to Chris's southern New South Wales farm... 225 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:41,960 in silence. 226 00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:55,680 In the city, I run a very successful PT business. 227 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:58,400 Are they my vows? I know, right? I know. 228 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:01,920 In the beginning, Sam and Chris's uncanny compatibility 229 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:05,280 set the course for steady growth in their relationship. 230 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:09,160 You've just, like, made a decision on how this is going... 231 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:11,280 No... Actually, no, that's not true. 232 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:15,240 But in the past week, a disagreement about future plans 233 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:17,000 proved impossible to resolve. 234 00:11:18,560 --> 00:11:21,000 It wasn't the first time I've witnessed you shutting me down, 235 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:23,720 but it's the first time that I've spoken up about it. 236 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:28,680 I am genuinely sorry that I hurt your feelings. 237 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:30,720 I did not want to put pressure on you. 238 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:32,080 Why are you laughing? 239 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:33,520 Because I asked you to do this this morning... 240 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:35,400 I'm doing it again. I'm doing it right now. 241 00:11:37,560 --> 00:11:42,200 A communication style has contributed to the real crisis 242 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:43,520 that you're in now. 243 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:48,480 After an intense commitment ceremony Chris came to an abrupt decision. 244 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:52,440 I've actually decided that I need and I want to go put my dad hat on 245 00:11:52,560 --> 00:11:53,960 and I would like to leave. 246 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:58,280 Now, with both husbands required 247 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:01,080 to stay in the experiment for one more week, 248 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:04,800 their issues remain as unresolved as ever. 249 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:10,120 (REFLECTIVE MUSIC) 250 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:19,440 SAM: Uh, yeah. Like, it's a bit awkward in the car. 251 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:26,600 (REFLECTIVE MUSIC CONTINUES) 252 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:38,680 CHRIS: How are you feeling about going to the farm? Like... 253 00:12:40,680 --> 00:12:41,840 I'm excited to see the animals. 254 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:43,120 Yeah, cool. Yeah. 255 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:54,000 SAM: This is the last way I thought we'd be going into homestays. 256 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:56,880 I mean, Chris and I, you know, we had a pretty smooth sailing 257 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:58,560 the first few weeks 258 00:12:58,680 --> 00:13:02,040 and then all of a sudden we had one speed bump 259 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:05,560 and a week later he wrote 'leave'. 260 00:13:05,680 --> 00:13:08,840 And having him show me that he's done with the experiment 261 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:12,000 kind of was a kick in the guts. 262 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:15,400 Have you reflected much on, like, what the experts said and stuff? 263 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:16,400 Of course. Yeah. Yeah. 264 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:18,320 Yep. Yeah, nice. 265 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:19,760 (CLEARS THROAT) 266 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:28,360 The energy between us is awkward. 267 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:31,440 (TENSE MUSIC) 268 00:13:31,560 --> 00:13:33,760 CHRIS: Obviously, I understand there was a lot of shit 269 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:35,000 that went down last week. 270 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:37,200 I had to apologise five times in total 271 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:38,960 after our first little fight. 272 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:41,600 But that's OK. I'm still here in the experiment. 273 00:13:41,720 --> 00:13:42,920 I took it on the chin 274 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:44,360 and I've realised that I need to make some growth. 275 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:47,680 But, yeah, let's have some fun the next couple of days. 276 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:53,080 It's been a bit heavy, you know what I mean? 277 00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:55,280 But it's one of those things that is going to be a process. 278 00:13:56,400 --> 00:14:00,080 I need us to not dwell on the past. 279 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:03,120 You know, I've been pummelled enough for it. 280 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:05,560 Probably do need to have some tough conversations at some point, 281 00:14:05,680 --> 00:14:09,520 um...you know, just about everything the experts said. 282 00:14:09,640 --> 00:14:10,400 Mm-hm. 283 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:15,080 CHRIS: So, yeah, hopefully we can move forward through homestays 284 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:16,840 and see if we can try and change the energy 285 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:19,400 and go down a positive route, yeah. 286 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:23,560 And now, having arrived at Chris's farm 287 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:25,640 in the Southern Highlands of New South Wales... 288 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:27,640 (COW MOOS) (TENSE MUSIC) 289 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:30,800 ..the energy is still anything but positive. 290 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:35,560 (CAR DOOR CLOSES) 291 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:38,120 CHRIS: The car ride was super awkward. 292 00:14:38,240 --> 00:14:41,040 I said to Sam that I just want to try and have some fun 293 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:42,760 over the next couple of days. 294 00:14:46,800 --> 00:14:51,400 But he did mention that he wants to have some tough conversations 295 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:53,160 about my couch session. 296 00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:56,480 So, yeah, it's not...it's not great. 297 00:14:56,600 --> 00:14:59,520 (TENSE MUSIC) 298 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:06,360 Alright, I'll give you the tour. 299 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:08,240 Um, there's a bathroom in there. 300 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:09,640 Nice. 301 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:14,440 Yeah. 302 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:18,880 Oh, look, I just... 303 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:22,200 Just not in the best space, obviously. 304 00:15:22,320 --> 00:15:24,480 And this is the second room. 305 00:15:24,600 --> 00:15:25,840 Oh, yes. Bunk beds. Yeah. 306 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:27,080 Nice. 307 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:39,280 SAM: Yeah. It looks like we are not sharing a bed. 308 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:41,160 You know, you could tell he didn't want to do that. 309 00:15:41,280 --> 00:15:42,560 CHRIS: Main room's in here... 310 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:45,040 SAM: So, yeah, I'll be in the spare room. 311 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:47,760 ..yeah, which is good. 312 00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:50,280 Nice. 313 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:51,600 Yeah. 314 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:54,360 Great. Yeah. 315 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:58,040 I said in the car that I want to have some big conversations 316 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:00,560 and he didn't seem down for the idea 317 00:16:00,680 --> 00:16:02,880 and was, like, he just wanted to have fun this weekend. 318 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:05,520 These flowers are for you. 319 00:16:05,640 --> 00:16:07,880 And a little welcome to the farm card. 320 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:09,280 Wow. 321 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:11,920 But then I saw some flowers and a thankyou card sitting there 322 00:16:12,040 --> 00:16:13,280 and I just had a glimmer of hope. 323 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:16,440 This is why he hasn't said anything yet. 324 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:17,880 He's written it all into this card... 325 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:21,880 because he tells me... told me he's reflected a lot 326 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:23,080 over the last few days. 327 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:28,800 But it just said, "Welcome to the farm. Sam." 328 00:16:28,920 --> 00:16:32,120 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 329 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:36,040 What do you want to do first? 330 00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:39,960 See that land over there? Yeah. 331 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:42,880 That's where the cows usually are. 332 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:45,480 Yeah. 333 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:46,640 Look, Chris wrote 'leave', 334 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:48,760 but I think he kind of wants to sweep it under the rug... 335 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:51,120 Whatever you have planned. This is your place. 336 00:16:51,240 --> 00:16:52,200 Yeah. 337 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:54,680 ..and I can't just float through this weekend and be, like, 338 00:16:54,800 --> 00:16:56,880 "Everything's fine" when it's not. 339 00:16:57,000 --> 00:16:59,280 I'll introduce you to the cows and the horses and then... 340 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:00,400 Yeah, let's do that. 341 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:01,960 ..yeah, we can just go for a bit of adventure. 342 00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:03,040 Cool. 343 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:04,440 I need to see him be like "I did... (BLEEP)" 344 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:06,560 and I need to see him, like, suck up to me a bit. 345 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:07,880 Alrighty. 346 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:14,680 Instead, it was, like, "Anyway, come see my cows." 347 00:17:14,800 --> 00:17:15,880 Like... 348 00:17:17,600 --> 00:17:19,600 (COW MOOS) 349 00:17:23,080 --> 00:17:25,240 DANNY: Jesus, the size of this place! 350 00:17:25,360 --> 00:17:28,720 BEC: Can I come in? It's like a mansion in here. 351 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:30,960 How are you? Good to see you. Good to see you. 352 00:17:31,080 --> 00:17:32,920 NARRATOR: In Adelaide, 353 00:17:33,040 --> 00:17:37,280 Bec has brought husband Danny to mee Aunty Helena and cousin Danielle... 354 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:39,280 Hello. Lovely to meet you. Hi. Lovely to meet you. 355 00:17:39,400 --> 00:17:41,120 You too. Champion. How are you, mate? 356 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:42,440 How are you? You good? 357 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:46,640 ..along with dad Lee for a family get-together over lunch 358 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:48,400 He's never met my cousin Danielle before. 359 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:51,440 She's a little bit older than me, but we've grown up together. 360 00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:54,200 Thanks so much. There you go. 361 00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:55,720 We treat each other like sisters. 362 00:17:55,840 --> 00:17:57,400 Cheers, Danny. Cheers. 363 00:17:57,520 --> 00:17:58,960 Nice to meet you. You too. 364 00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:00,280 Cheers. Cheers. 365 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:03,840 It's one of the most crucial things for me 366 00:18:03,960 --> 00:18:06,880 that my family like, love, accept Danny. 367 00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:08,360 Let's sit down. 368 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:12,360 But I know that Dad and Aunty Helena liked him already. 369 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:14,360 When Bec's family last met Danny, 370 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:20,400 the relationship was in crisis over an allegation made by Gia. 371 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:23,160 One of the other brides here 372 00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:25,920 said that she asked Daniel "What is your type?" 373 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:28,520 and he said, "Someone like you, that looks like you." 374 00:18:28,640 --> 00:18:30,040 FAMILY MEMBERS: Oh! 375 00:18:30,160 --> 00:18:32,400 It didn't happen? Never happened. 376 00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:34,720 But after accepting Danny's word on the matter, 377 00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:37,480 dad Lee came to his son-in-law's support 378 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:42,320 over concerns about Bec's outbursts during the crisis. 379 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:44,280 I did have a chat with Bec and say, 380 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:46,240 "You're swearing" and things like that. 381 00:18:46,360 --> 00:18:47,640 Yeah. Good. 382 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:50,080 "I feel it's a bad reflection of you." 383 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:53,240 Remember that those words aren't necessary. 384 00:18:55,440 --> 00:18:58,720 Last time I saw my family, I said to Dad, 385 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:00,240 "I'm just not too sure if Danny's into me." 386 00:19:00,360 --> 00:19:02,080 DANNY: Where's everyone sitting? 387 00:19:02,200 --> 00:19:04,280 I know Danny was worried about my behaviour. 388 00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:06,560 I'll sit at the end. You two sit here. 389 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:07,920 You're the head of the table. 390 00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:10,360 But ever since that moment, we've just come leaps and bounds. 391 00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:13,960 We've sort of gone through so much together 392 00:19:14,080 --> 00:19:18,000 that I actually have zero worries or doubts in my mind at all now. 393 00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:22,040 DANIELLE: So, Danny, how do you feel about Adelaide? 394 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:24,280 I actually really like Adelaide, to be honest. 395 00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:25,960 Yeah? Yeah, it's been nice so far. 396 00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:28,160 This is the first time I've ever been to Adelaide. 397 00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:30,600 It's only been, how long, just over 24 hours. 398 00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:33,120 Yeah. Just over 24 hours. 399 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:35,280 But so far, so good. HELENA: First time? 400 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:36,680 First time, yeah. LEE: You've never been? 401 00:19:36,800 --> 00:19:38,240 Never been to Adelaide before. 402 00:19:38,360 --> 00:19:40,240 Bec gave me a tour of the city and stuff, 403 00:19:40,360 --> 00:19:41,880 but I like Adelaide, yeah, it's nice. 404 00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:45,160 Could you see yourself living here? 405 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:46,800 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 406 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:50,600 I could, yeah. I'd say so, yeah. 407 00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:52,400 (TENSE MUSIC) 408 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:53,720 We've kind of talked about it 409 00:19:53,840 --> 00:19:57,280 and Daniel says that because my family is here 410 00:19:57,400 --> 00:20:01,000 and my friends are here and stuff, 411 00:20:01,120 --> 00:20:04,240 that it would make most sense for him to move here. 412 00:20:04,360 --> 00:20:08,240 HELENA: Big change. Is it, though? 413 00:20:08,360 --> 00:20:09,960 I don't know. All your friends in Melbourne. 414 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:12,480 And I've got my mates, but I can always fly back. 415 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:14,000 It's only... How long's the flight? 416 00:20:14,120 --> 00:20:16,000 Less than an hour. Yeah, it's nothing. 417 00:20:16,120 --> 00:20:19,560 Less than an hour. It doesn't really sit well with me. 418 00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:22,000 Like, imagine if I was to say to Bec "Come to Melbourne" 419 00:20:22,120 --> 00:20:24,880 and she leaves her whole family and her life, 420 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:27,440 where I've not got family in Melbourne... 421 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:28,880 Yeah. ..do you know what I mean? 422 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:31,360 So... You do have family. They're here. 423 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:35,200 Absolutely. He's definitely moving to Adelaide. 424 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:37,320 Very important. 425 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:40,480 We have a big family and we have a great time, 426 00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:42,920 so there's no way she's moving to Melbourne. 427 00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:45,320 He's definitely moving here if they're going to work out. 428 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:47,840 We've talked about long distance 429 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:49,720 and it's not really an option, is it? 430 00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:52,160 I'd never do long distance, to be honest with you. 431 00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:55,320 Not for... I don't see the point. No, I tend to agree. 432 00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:58,280 You know, like, it's not really something I'd want to do. 433 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:02,640 At the commitment ceremony, I told him I loved him. 434 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:06,040 Right. Dad's dying. 435 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:07,520 Right. (LAUGHS) 436 00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:08,480 Yeah. That's OK. 437 00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:11,280 And now he calls himself Black Caviar. Do you know why? 438 00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:12,240 No. 439 00:21:12,360 --> 00:21:14,240 Because every single woman he's ever been with 440 00:21:14,360 --> 00:21:16,960 has told him that they love him first 441 00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:18,160 and that's like Black Caviar. 442 00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:20,440 Never missed. Never lost a race. 443 00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:23,480 No, but it was... (LAUGHTER) 444 00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:27,760 25 Group One wins in a row. (LAUGHTER) 445 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:30,680 It's a nice horse, though, isn't it? 446 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:33,480 (LAUGHTER) 447 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:37,280 And then... Danny doesn't love me back. 448 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:39,560 (TENSE MUSIC) 449 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:41,840 Yeah, well, I'm not gonna sit there and lie. 450 00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:44,800 I'm not in love with Bec yet. 451 00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:48,640 You can't say to someone you love them if you don't. 452 00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:50,200 Yeah... I think that's very rude... 453 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:51,960 and not a good thing to do. 454 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:54,880 (TENSE MUSIC) 455 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:57,000 Danny, let's go, boy. (LAUGHTER) 456 00:21:57,120 --> 00:22:01,440 Come out here, son. (LAUGHTER) 457 00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:03,800 Here we go. Are we going for a drink, Lee? 458 00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:05,800 Come out, 'cause it's not that far for me to fall. 459 00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:08,440 (LAUGHS) Yeah. 460 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:10,120 Honestly... I'll be honest. I hope it works. 461 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:13,120 She's a great girl. She's a good girl, yeah. 462 00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:14,320 Yeah, she's lovely. 463 00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:16,200 She's a bloody good wife, to be honest with you. 464 00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:18,120 She's a... She dotes on me. 465 00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:20,040 Well, a couple of weeks ago, 466 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,200 she's like, "What's your favourite pie?" 467 00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:24,280 I said, oh, "I love a chicken and mushroom pie." 468 00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:27,080 The next day she's made it and, like, she's... 469 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:28,800 She dotes on me, like, almost... 470 00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:31,000 Sometimes it's almost too much, to be honest with you. 471 00:22:31,120 --> 00:22:32,480 (LAUGHS) 472 00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:38,880 You told Danny that you loved him. Oh, here we go. Yeah. 473 00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:42,040 And Danny didn't say it back. Yes. 474 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:44,960 How do you feel about that? I'm OK with it. 475 00:22:46,360 --> 00:22:48,080 We had a... I'm OK with it. 476 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:50,720 I'm OK with it. 477 00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:53,920 He shows me that he loves me in so many different ways. 478 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:58,200 Did I tell you that he asked me to be his girlfriend the other day? 479 00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:02,240 It's like...it was just that little level of security. 480 00:23:02,360 --> 00:23:04,960 BEC: Danny asking me to be his girlfriend, 481 00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:06,360 it's really important. 482 00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:10,560 Is it important to you or not? Not that important. 483 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:13,320 'Cause it, like, in the experiment, it means you're really, like... 484 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:15,320 This is really, really serious. 485 00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:18,880 What inspired you to ask Bec that question? 486 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:20,760 Uh, I'm trying to think... 487 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:24,720 He is so attentive. 488 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:27,720 All my previous partners have said I've been really hard 489 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:29,720 to, like, live with and deal with. 490 00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:30,920 Not at all. Not him. 491 00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,720 You know, sometimes you do get to the back of your mind. 492 00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:35,640 "Shit, is he genuine?" 493 00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:39,000 Not anymore. I don't think that anymore. But I was. 494 00:23:39,120 --> 00:23:42,520 It's very hard to go into this and think "Is he genuine?" 495 00:23:44,360 --> 00:23:46,600 Yeah. But I know the type of person he is. 496 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:48,840 And he would not be here right now if he wasn't. 497 00:23:52,360 --> 00:23:55,880 Look, I think she probably likes him more. 498 00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:59,080 But he's charismatic, he's warm. 499 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:01,160 He likes to have a good time. 500 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:06,520 We're a family of, you know, fun, warmth and closeness. 501 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:08,600 He seems to bring all those elements. 502 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:10,120 We like him, right? 503 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:11,920 Yeah, he seems lovely. 504 00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:14,560 It's the first time I've met him and I really like him. 505 00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:16,280 Of course Danny's charmed them. 506 00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:20,040 He's chucked on his maroon dinner jacket 507 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:24,200 and popped his Black Caviar brooch on and he's on his way. 508 00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:28,280 I would love him and his friends to be in our family. 509 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:29,520 I would too. 510 00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:31,200 He's one of them already. 511 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:33,120 Like, I didn't think that I could feel stronger, 512 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:36,800 but now it's like... "Oh. no. 513 00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:39,960 "Like, I really, really, really, really want this." 514 00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:41,480 And I think he wants it too. 515 00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:43,560 I don't know, I just feel like this is it. 516 00:24:50,120 --> 00:24:54,520 Also in Adelaide, Alissa is bringing David to mum Belinda's 517 00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:56,840 and the home where she grew up. 518 00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:58,520 ALISSA: Hello. DAVID: Hello. 519 00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:00,560 (LAUGHS) 520 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:02,560 Despite being close, 521 00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:05,640 it's the first time Belinda's seen Alissa since the wedding. 522 00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:07,520 Good to see you. Nice to see you. 523 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:09,520 Hi, Belinda. Good to see you again. 524 00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:12,800 Aw! Thank you for having me at your home. 525 00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:14,240 I'm looking forward to having an opportunity 526 00:25:14,360 --> 00:25:18,840 to speak to Alissa and David about how their relationship is going 527 00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:22,160 and what tomorrow might look like... 528 00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:23,480 Oh, babe, do you want to get the platter? 529 00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:24,480 Yeah, of course. 530 00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:26,240 ..because it's all coming to an end 531 00:25:26,360 --> 00:25:32,360 and I would be very disappointed to not have my daughter here. 532 00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:34,600 Honestly, I'm so, like, glad we can catch up again, 533 00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:37,240 because on the wedding day... Yeah, I know. 534 00:25:37,360 --> 00:25:39,600 We didn't get a chance to chat. Yeah. 535 00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,600 The wedding. Oh, my gosh. 536 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:45,840 I couldn't believe that you both were at a stand-off. 537 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,720 ALISSA: I'm a shit-stirrer. I'm just reckless. 538 00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:50,920 (LAUGHS) 539 00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:53,080 I couldn't believe she was digging her heels in 540 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:54,400 and that you were digging your heels in. 541 00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:57,360 (DAVID LAUGHS) What was going through your mind? 542 00:25:57,480 --> 00:26:00,560 Oh, honestly, when she told me to get down on a knee, 543 00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:01,920 I didn't want to do it 544 00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:03,920 'cause I didn't want to show her that I was a pushover... 545 00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:05,080 Yeah. ..on the first day. 546 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:05,920 Yeah. 547 00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:07,600 So, yeah, I was, like, "No, surely she's joking." 548 00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:09,840 And then I looked at her and she wasn't flinching. 549 00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:11,400 No. She... I couldn't believe it. 550 00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:14,760 I love her dearly, but she can be too much for me. 551 00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:15,960 (LAUGHS) 552 00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:19,800 I'm happy to admit that I'm now my husband's pain in the arse. 553 00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:21,000 (LAUGHS) 554 00:26:21,120 --> 00:26:22,760 You know, he's having to put up with me now. 555 00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:24,400 (DAVID LAUGHS) (BRIGHT MUSIC) 556 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:26,760 It's actually amazing to be here. 557 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:31,160 I get a good vibe from Alissa's mum, 558 00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:33,320 which is very important to me because family is important. 559 00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:36,240 Is she too much? I don't think she is too much. 560 00:26:36,360 --> 00:26:41,440 I think she is... For me, It feels like someone that, you know... 561 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,240 that I can see so much potential in, you know. 562 00:26:44,360 --> 00:26:48,240 I know she has her hard days, but that's why I've got two hands, 563 00:26:48,360 --> 00:26:49,960 so I can carry her on those days. 564 00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:52,480 And I feel like the fact that we're still here, 565 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:56,400 it just...it's a testimony to the connection we have. 566 00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:57,440 We have been through a lot. Yeah. 567 00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,080 But, yeah, I am excited for the future. 568 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:01,560 But it's scary too. I am 33 years old. 569 00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:04,680 Obviously I want to settle down in Adelaide, but... 570 00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:07,240 What are your thoughts about me moving to Sydney 571 00:27:07,360 --> 00:27:09,800 just for a couple of years? 572 00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:15,520 I would hate that. (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 573 00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:19,440 There you go. You asked, I said. 574 00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:22,720 (TENSE MUSIC) 575 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:26,120 Yes, I have concerns 576 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:31,600 about having a plan to... to move for a year or two. 577 00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:35,200 You know, that has its risks. 578 00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:39,960 I worry about the fact that, you know, you want to have a family 579 00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:43,320 and you don't want to keep putting it off. 580 00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:48,680 You know, the goal is to find a forever partner 581 00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,200 and one day have a family. 582 00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:55,800 Unfortunately, the biological clock is ticking 583 00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:58,040 and we can't wait forever. 584 00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:03,480 A couple of years, you can say just a couple of years 585 00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:05,360 and the next thing you know, it's five. 586 00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:09,440 I like David. He seems really nice. He's very respectful. 587 00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:11,960 But we don't want to be wasting time. 588 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:15,760 We don't want to be playing games 589 00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:21,640 because that could possibly... take away the opportunities you have 590 00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:23,680 of having a family one day. 591 00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:28,960 Coming up... 592 00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:30,640 People sometimes take ten years to fall pregnant. 593 00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:32,440 That's the truth. Yeah, I know. 594 00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:34,520 ..Alissa's mum doubles down. 595 00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:37,240 I just feel torn and pulled and pushed. 596 00:28:37,360 --> 00:28:39,720 And Alissa finds herself spiralling. 597 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:41,520 It's really stressful now. 598 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:44,120 I'm feeling so overwhelmed right now. 599 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:47,760 It's all just hit me. 600 00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:55,480 (TENSE MUSIC) 601 00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:56,880 BELINDA: That doesn't make any sense to me. 602 00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:58,240 ALISSA: It does. 603 00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:02,080 NARRATOR: In Adelaide, Belinda has taken Alissa aside for a one-on-one 604 00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:03,800 after hearing about her daughter's plan 605 00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:05,360 to move to Sydney 606 00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:09,240 and delay settling in her home town to raise a family. 607 00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:12,520 People sometimes take ten years to fall pregnant. That's the truth. 608 00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:14,440 Yeah, I know, but, Mum, I don't know... 609 00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:16,080 I've never tried it. That's right. 610 00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:18,040 But you don't know that. 611 00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:20,160 So you don't have a couple of years 612 00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:22,880 to just take it easy and see how you go. 613 00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:28,840 I just see that year or two turning into five years or ten, 614 00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:31,920 because I've seen it - I've seen it before. 615 00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:34,880 Not with Alissa, but I've seen it with other people. 616 00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:37,640 You know, time goes quickly for us all. 617 00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:41,080 A couple of years... A couple of years. 618 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:43,120 I don't think you've got a couple of years to wait. 619 00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:45,720 She's very honest. 620 00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:47,640 She's down the line. Like, she's very direct. 621 00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:52,480 She's like me in a lot of ways and she knows me at my core. 622 00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:56,280 And also, if you start somewhere else for a little while, 623 00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:58,160 you could lose what you have here. 624 00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:00,600 And that is the catch 22. This is where I'm at. 625 00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:03,000 So then I'm having a mini mental breakdown 626 00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:04,760 thinking "This is getting really real 627 00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:06,480 "and there's a lot on the line." 628 00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:10,320 Like, I know there's... I just feel torn and pulled and pushed. 629 00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:15,440 Ultimately, I want to start a family here, so this... It's... It's a lot. 630 00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:18,960 There is just... I'm feeling so overwhelmed right now 631 00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:23,360 and because it's getting so close to the end, it's all just hit me. 632 00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:28,480 He's so calm and so kind. 633 00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:30,760 You know, so calm and so kind. 634 00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:32,920 They're pretty good attributes. I know. 635 00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:34,480 And, like, as much as I've been 636 00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:36,160 maybe a little bit of a pain in the arse, 637 00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:37,720 like, I can't shake him off. 638 00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:42,200 He just... He's, like, "I know that I'm good for you." 639 00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:45,040 He stands by me and I'm, like, "Oh!" 640 00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:48,520 I am definitely getting strong feelings towards him. 641 00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:50,480 Like, I'm definitely falling for David, 642 00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:52,440 like, falling in love with this person. 643 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:57,680 And I might have to pack up, move to Sydney and make that sacrifice. 644 00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:00,040 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 645 00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:06,920 It's really stressful now. There's a lot on the line. 646 00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:08,480 OK. 647 00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:13,040 (CRIES) 648 00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:22,120 (COW MOOS) 649 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,040 CHRIS: Yeah. Visit the cows. 650 00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:34,480 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 651 00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:39,560 (COW MOOS) 652 00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:42,560 In the Southern Highlands of New South Wales... 653 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:47,320 following an underwhelming welcome to the farm... 654 00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:48,360 (COW MOOS) 655 00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:52,400 ..the vibe between Sam and Chris is as awkward as ever. 656 00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:55,440 (TENSE MUSIC) 657 00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:06,280 (REFLECTIVE MUSIC) 658 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:11,560 CHRIS: Come on. Come on. 659 00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:13,360 Come on, guys. Come on. 660 00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:15,640 (COW MOOS) 661 00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:19,880 CHRIS: Yeah, it's not what I wanted, you know. 662 00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:20,960 I didn't want to come out to the farm 663 00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:22,320 and have this awkward energy. 664 00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:27,200 So how are you liking the farm so far? 665 00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:29,080 Yeah, it's a beautiful place. Yeah. 666 00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:30,640 Beautiful part of the world. 667 00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:32,560 It's stunning. Hey? 668 00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:39,840 I've also got, like, added pressure from outside the experiment, 669 00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:41,840 like the kids coming and, you know, the farm. 670 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,000 Yeah, it's very heavy. 671 00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:48,800 But I want to take accountability and I want to make growth... 672 00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:55,000 so that's what I'm doing. 673 00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:00,400 I know we had a rough week last week, 674 00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:02,160 so I just wanted to make sure that you feel at home 675 00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:03,440 as much as you can. 676 00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:04,640 and, you know... 677 00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:06,600 SAM: Um... 678 00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:10,160 I think we're a long way from me feeling at home here. 679 00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:15,600 I can't just float through this and be like, "Everything's fine." 680 00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:21,000 I'm pretty hurt. Like, last week, like, seeing you write 'leave' 681 00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:25,240 so quickly, like... it's going to take a lot... 682 00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:26,600 Yeah, sure. ..to come back from that. 683 00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:32,160 Um... Yeah, it's, like, left me in a really, really tough place 684 00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:34,000 and it really sucks, because coming out of the retreat, 685 00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:35,840 I thought we were in an awesome place. 686 00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:37,080 Yeah. 687 00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:39,680 Well, you said you've done some reflecting and stuff. 688 00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:42,600 What have you worked out? 689 00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:46,440 I mean, I heard the experts loud and clear 690 00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:49,120 and I've taken on board what they've said. 691 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:51,440 Yeah, I realised that I probably could have been a bit calmer 692 00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:53,080 and not got...not got as defensive. 693 00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:57,560 And...they did hold a mirror up in my face... 694 00:33:57,680 --> 00:33:59,920 and they actually made me realise as well, 695 00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:01,320 like, I've got a lot of work to do. 696 00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:09,080 And my reservation is whether, you know... 697 00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:11,160 whether it is going to be too much pressure for me, 698 00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:12,280 but I just... Yeah. 699 00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:14,600 I'm just trying to, without putting too much pressure on it, 700 00:34:14,720 --> 00:34:16,960 I just want to try and see if you and I can clear the energy 701 00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:18,200 over the next couple of days. 702 00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:21,160 I'm working as hard as I can to make you feel welcome. 703 00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:23,280 I mean, I'm trying my best. Yep. Awesome. 704 00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:24,680 That's awesome to hear. Yeah. 705 00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,080 I'm proud of you. That's big. Thanks. Yeah. 706 00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:29,280 Well done. Thank you. 707 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:31,560 SAM: Yeah, it was really nice to see Chris 708 00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:33,440 actually has really had some time to reflect 709 00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:35,640 and really think about what the experts said 710 00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:39,520 and is starting to take that on board, which is great. 711 00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:42,280 I actually can be heard by Chris 712 00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:46,640 and he does have the ability to listen and to take in 713 00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:49,000 and look at another person's perspective, 714 00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:52,160 because I hadn't seen that side of him until now. 715 00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:55,840 Should we have a hug through the horses? 716 00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:56,960 We should hug that out. Yeah. (LAUGHS) 717 00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:58,680 Group hug. (LAUGHS) 718 00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:00,880 CHRIS: That was really amazing. 719 00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,120 Sam and I just had a little... cute little therapy moment... 720 00:35:03,240 --> 00:35:04,600 (BOTH LAUGH) 721 00:35:04,720 --> 00:35:06,840 ..and, you know, I could feel his guard come down a little bit. 722 00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:09,240 It's the horses. They calm my energy. 723 00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:10,400 Yeah. OK. (LAUGHS) 724 00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:11,720 Good to know that. 725 00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:13,800 Obviously, I love the farm so much - this is my happy place 726 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:15,960 and I just want to have a bit of fun now 727 00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:17,720 and see that playful side of him. 728 00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:20,280 If I'm bringing you out to the horses, you know what's coming. 729 00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,480 If you need to chat with me, just take me to the horses. 730 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:23,920 Yeah. Like, we've got some fresh air. 731 00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,160 We're surrounded by animals and good vibes, 732 00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:27,880 so, yeah, maybe tomorrow we'll wake up in a better space. 733 00:35:30,720 --> 00:35:31,720 Thank you. Yeah. 734 00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:40,320 While Sam and Chris are enjoying the benefits of time in nature... 735 00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:42,840 BEC: So far, so good, hey? You happy, boo? 736 00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:43,960 So far, so good. 737 00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:46,520 ..Bec and Danny are settling into city life 738 00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:48,600 and all that it has to offer. 739 00:35:48,720 --> 00:35:50,440 Here's to Adelaide. 740 00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:51,960 Yeah. 741 00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:54,760 I don't know why you're laughing... 742 00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,400 Yeah, obviously, seeing family... We've had a really good day today. 743 00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:00,600 Um... Adelaide's been nice so far. 744 00:36:00,720 --> 00:36:03,480 Her aunty lives three minutes away. Her dad lives three minutes away. 745 00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:06,840 Her cousin lives five minutes away. Like, they're all so close. 746 00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:10,160 It's like a family... close-knit family here in Adelaide. 747 00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:14,880 Is Coco allowed a bit of... Cabana? 748 00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:16,120 .,cabana? Yeah. 749 00:36:16,240 --> 00:36:18,000 She loves a piece of salami as well, though. 750 00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:19,800 Coco, she's a sweetheart. 751 00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:22,600 So, yeah, I'm just... I'm just enjoying it. 752 00:36:22,720 --> 00:36:25,640 Do you feel like there's a lot of pressure? 753 00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:27,760 I don't really feel like there is. 754 00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:29,880 Because if you don't want to live in Adelaide, I'll move... 755 00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:31,520 I'll live in Melbourne. 756 00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:34,120 Like, I don't really feel like there's pressure. 757 00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:38,120 Do I look like a man who feels pressure? 758 00:36:38,240 --> 00:36:39,880 I'm an animal. 759 00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:42,200 (TENSE MUSIC) 760 00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:46,560 Like, sometimes, you... 761 00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:47,960 Because we're still in this experiment. 762 00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:50,880 No, but sometimes your brain can... can block out pressure. 763 00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:53,120 (PLANE FLIES OVERHEAD) 764 00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:56,640 Nice and peaceful here, though, isn't it? 765 00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:59,320 (LAUGHS) 766 00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:05,560 (BLEEP). Now what? Is there another plane? 767 00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:08,480 It's a flight path. 768 00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:13,440 I feel like... I'm, like, seriously... 769 00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:18,520 I actually feel like we've worked so hard to get to this point. 770 00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:23,240 Get a good night's sleep at least, though, wouldn't you? 771 00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:26,320 (LAUGHS) 772 00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:28,880 You wouldn't... You wouldn't want to be a night-shift worker 773 00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:30,360 living here, would you? 774 00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,200 (BLEEP) me. (LAUGHS) 775 00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:33,720 (IMITATES DANNY'S LAUGH) 776 00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:35,120 (BLEEP) hell. 777 00:37:35,240 --> 00:37:36,400 (LAUGHS) 778 00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:39,680 BEC: Point of contention in mine and Danny's relationship 779 00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:44,680 is that in some serious situations, he will crack a joke. 780 00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:47,520 But I know that it's a defence mechanism. 781 00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:50,240 100%. 782 00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:51,800 Definitely. 783 00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:52,880 Why do boys do that? 784 00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:57,360 And look at us in comparison with some of the other couples. 785 00:37:57,480 --> 00:37:58,880 Honestly... Mmm. 786 00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:00,240 ..you know... 787 00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:01,640 I'm proud of us too, 788 00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:06,560 because, like, the...the patience I've had to have to stick with you, 789 00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:08,520 do you know what I mean? 790 00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:10,000 I've got the patience of a saint. 791 00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:14,200 BEC: Boys are just annoying and they mess with your head. 792 00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:17,200 But for me, I definitely feel like Danny's probably holding off 793 00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:19,480 on telling me he loves me. 794 00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:22,920 I think he's very much hoping to find the right time. 795 00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:29,440 I mean, I know he loves me already. I know he does. 796 00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:39,560 (REFLECTIVE MUSIC) 797 00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:43,320 NARRATOR: As the sun sets on another day of homestays... 798 00:38:44,720 --> 00:38:46,360 ALISSA: It was a lot. DAVID: Yeah. 799 00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:47,720 I can imagine. 800 00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:49,480 ..Alissa is still reeling 801 00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:53,040 following an emotional lunch with mum Belinda. 802 00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:55,440 Yeah, it was a lot today... Yeah, it was. 803 00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:57,240 ..but I'm glad that you got along with my mum 804 00:38:57,360 --> 00:38:58,720 and she had nothing but, like, praise. 805 00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:00,960 Oh... You know, she really likes you. 806 00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:03,920 I can see a lot of positive, like, traits 807 00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:06,400 she's...she's given you, for sure. 808 00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:08,360 And that's... that's definitely one of them. 809 00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:10,440 She's just a straight shooter. 810 00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:13,320 She knows who I am and...and what I need. 811 00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:16,520 Yeah, there's definitely things that Mum's brought up today 812 00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:21,800 that I know that I need to, you know, really consider. 813 00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:24,360 Yeah, like, it's...it's huge. Yeah. 814 00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:28,080 It's a lot. Like, I... I just forgot... 815 00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:30,040 I forgot how much I have here. 816 00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:32,840 And, like, I can't just pack up and go. 817 00:39:34,240 --> 00:39:39,200 I think I'm just getting very overwhelmed with what, you know... 818 00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:42,640 what I have at stake here 819 00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:45,080 and what I could potentially be walking away from. 820 00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:47,480 So I'm in a bit of a catch 22 right now 821 00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:50,280 and I've got to mentally take it one day at a time right now, 822 00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:52,160 because otherwise I'm gonna overwhelm my brain. 823 00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:56,280 Alissa is literally spiralling. 824 00:39:56,400 --> 00:40:00,120 She's already freaking out about having to move to Sydney. 825 00:40:00,240 --> 00:40:03,920 I don't take it lightly. I've got a lot to consider as well. 826 00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:06,280 I know Alissa doesn't have much time. 827 00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:08,320 You know, she wants to be a mum, 828 00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:15,160 but I feel like this marriage could work if we both just stop stressing 829 00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:17,880 and just keep doing what we're doing. 830 00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:21,800 I know that the clock is ticking and all that, you know, 831 00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:24,520 but all I can do is say, like, you know, day by day, 832 00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:28,240 I'll show, like, that I am here for the long haul 833 00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:30,160 and we're just going to have to take it as it comes... 834 00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:31,200 I know. ..you know. 835 00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:32,320 Just like... It's just everything. 836 00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:35,440 It's... It's just the way our relationship works. 837 00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:37,520 You know, I have to normally be the one 838 00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:40,760 to emotionally anchor Alissa a lot of the times. 839 00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:43,600 And that's what's happening here again. 840 00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:52,280 Across town at the end of a long night, 841 00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:54,920 Bec and Danny are still reflecting 842 00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:59,440 on the success of time spent with Bec's loved ones. 843 00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:03,360 You appreciate the family dynamic? 844 00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:06,040 Of course, 'cause I haven't got no family out here, 845 00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:07,400 so of course I appreciate it. 846 00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:13,400 On that note, I wanted to obviously say thank you 847 00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:17,400 for showing me Adelaide and letting me into your world. 848 00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:19,240 Obviously, you've took me into your house 849 00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:21,360 and that's not an easy thing to do. 850 00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:23,280 Um... It was easy for me. 851 00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:27,600 Well, some people might have found it harder. 852 00:41:27,720 --> 00:41:31,280 But, yeah, I wanted to thank you for showing me your city 853 00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:32,800 and welcome... 854 00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:34,960 welcome me into open arms with your family. 855 00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:38,680 One thing I've never told you in the past is, like, with... 856 00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:40,880 because I haven't got no family out here, 857 00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:46,080 when I'm with a partner, I take their family on as, like, my own. 858 00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:49,280 Yeah, so, honestly, it means the world to me 859 00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:50,760 and I really want to thank you for that. 860 00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:54,040 Really? 861 00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:56,160 What do you mean "really"? Of course. 862 00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:58,120 Thank you. Cheers. 863 00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:01,480 (LAUGHS) Come here. 864 00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:03,400 (LAUGHS) 865 00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:06,720 Really? 866 00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:09,240 Why are you 'really-ing' me? 867 00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:11,920 It's a nice night next to the fire, isn't it? 868 00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:15,240 (LAUGHS) 869 00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:19,000 That's cute, boo. 870 00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:21,160 (LAUGHS) 871 00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:22,680 BEC: When Danny opens up to me 872 00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,880 and tells me how he feels about his time in Adelaide, I love it. 873 00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,280 It's beautiful. It's what I want to hear. 874 00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:31,840 It's how I feel. It's how he feels. It's amazing. 875 00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:36,800 I... Like, I relish in those moments. 876 00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:40,760 The way your family has been... welcomed me with open arms, 877 00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:44,120 they've been really respectful and really, like, generous... 878 00:42:44,240 --> 00:42:48,440 I feel like probably the luckiest girl in the world at the moment 879 00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:51,720 to have homestays going as well as they are going. 880 00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:58,680 Danny loves my family and my family loves him, so... 881 00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:01,400 So now all I need is for Danny to tell me he loves me. 882 00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:03,360 That would be the most amazing thing ever. 883 00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:06,680 (WARM MUSIC) 884 00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:15,120 BEC: But, like, if my family felt the need 885 00:43:15,240 --> 00:43:19,600 to have hard conversations with you, they would. 886 00:43:19,720 --> 00:43:24,200 But you give them a sense of comfort and stability 887 00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:25,760 that you give me 888 00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:26,920 and they can see that. 889 00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:29,720 (WARM MUSIC) 890 00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:40,880 What? (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 891 00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:45,360 (LAUGHS) I'm joking. I'm joking. 892 00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:47,320 It's, like, a serious moment. (LAUGHS) 893 00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:51,520 Oh, my god. It's gone down like a lead balloon. 894 00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:53,040 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 895 00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:58,160 Sometimes we need, like, a moment where, like, it's not all a joke, 896 00:43:58,280 --> 00:43:59,960 you know. 897 00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:04,400 We've talked about it over and over. 898 00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:06,400 It's a defence mechanism of Danny's. 899 00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:09,480 He... He feels really strongly 900 00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:12,600 and then all of a sudden he wants to throw in a joke 901 00:44:12,720 --> 00:44:15,000 and make a mockery of the situation 902 00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:16,400 and it pisses me off. 903 00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:19,920 I cracked a joke. I always crack jokes. 904 00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:22,080 I crack jokes 24/7. 905 00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:25,440 You're acting like I'm Mr Serious, I'm Mr Albert Einstein 906 00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:27,880 and then I cracked an out-of-pocket joke. 907 00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:30,120 It wasn't like that, Bec. (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 908 00:44:30,240 --> 00:44:31,280 Who's going get... But, like... 909 00:44:43,850 --> 00:44:43,960 Good 910 00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:47,800 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 911 00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:55,480 What? (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 912 00:44:55,600 --> 00:45:00,080 (LAUGHS) I'm joking. I'm joking. 913 00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:02,040 It's, like, a serious moment. (LAUGHS) 914 00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:06,080 Oh, my god. It's gone down like a lead balloon. 915 00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:10,000 Sometimes we need, like, a moment 916 00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:14,680 where, like, it's not all a joke, you know. 917 00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:18,640 I cracked a joke. I always crack jokes. 918 00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:19,720 Who's gonna... 919 00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:34,400 He's more worried about how he looks on camera now 920 00:45:34,520 --> 00:45:35,640 'cause he knows he made a mistake. 921 00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:36,760 This is you and me. 922 00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:38,680 There's a camera in my (BLEEP) face and you're abusing me over a joke. 923 00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:40,440 Dude, there's a camera in my face 924 00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:42,120 and you're making a joke of what I'm saying. 925 00:45:42,240 --> 00:45:45,600 It's serious for me. This relationship is serious for me. 926 00:45:45,720 --> 00:45:52,040 So when he is making a mockery of the situation that we're in, 927 00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:53,600 it pisses me off 928 00:45:53,720 --> 00:45:57,600 and it's those moments where he doesn't take things seriously 929 00:45:57,720 --> 00:46:00,520 that makes me second-guess and go, 930 00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:04,080 "Oh, god, like, what if he's not into me?" 931 00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:07,440 I might be looking like a fool who's just, like, 932 00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:11,280 grasping onto those tiny bits of seriousness. 933 00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:12,960 I'm Danny. 934 00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:16,240 I always crack jokes 24/7 and I cracked another joke. 935 00:46:17,720 --> 00:46:22,280 It diminishes it. Don't do that to me. Don't do it. 936 00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:27,400 If you feel that it's good, say it's good and then don't joke about it. 937 00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:28,720 I just said it was. 938 00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:30,360 I know, but you joked about it at the end. 939 00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:32,360 But Bec... It doesn't matter. I don't care. 940 00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:33,800 There's a time for serious 941 00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:35,640 and there's a time for joking. Yeah, I know that. 942 00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:42,800 I tried to open up and show my more vulnerable side, 943 00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:44,280 which I'm not good at. 944 00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:46,720 I find it a bit cringe, but I wanted to do it for her 945 00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:48,680 'cause I knew it would be special for her. 946 00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:51,520 And so I cracked a joke to sort of lighten my mood. 947 00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:55,040 You can say something really nice... Babe, let's talk about it later. 948 00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:57,160 Hang on. Wait. Listen. Just listen. Let's talk about it later. 949 00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:58,040 No. 950 00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:02,720 And then the joke was just met by her just coming at me. 951 00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:06,840 You say something really nice... Mmm. 952 00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:09,560 ..and then I go to respond and you make a joke about what I'm saying... 953 00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:12,240 Mmm. ..diminishes the whole situation. 954 00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:13,760 Yep, OK. The joke is the joke. 955 00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:15,240 But, like, the moment was... 956 00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:17,160 Maybe we're both bad at cracking jokes. 957 00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:19,640 No, you crack jokes when you shouldn't be. 958 00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:22,040 There's a time and a place. And you haven't done that! 959 00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:27,600 Yeah, I'm actually a bit mind-blown. 960 00:47:27,720 --> 00:47:29,760 BEC: Can I have you guys over here, please? 961 00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:33,000 DANNY: At the retreat, she cracked a bad joke... 962 00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:35,000 We've had 'I love you's 963 00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:36,720 and we've had finger bangs, so, like... 964 00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:38,720 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 965 00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:41,920 ..and it landed wrong in front of the whole group. 966 00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:45,400 No, no, no, no, no. I think it was inappropriate. 967 00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:47,400 But I backed her wholeheartedly. 968 00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:49,160 I went against the whole group for days. 969 00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:50,360 Pull your head in. 970 00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:52,120 Moving forward... We can't go back. 971 00:47:52,240 --> 00:47:53,800 But moving forward, let's try and be better. 972 00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:58,680 And then for her to do the exact same to me, 973 00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:02,320 to, like, go at me over a joke, is so frustrating. 974 00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:05,320 (TENSE MUSIC) 975 00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:08,920 You should be able to say something nice and be genuine about it 976 00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:11,160 and then not say, "Oh, your cousin wants to (BLEEP) me." 977 00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:13,160 Like... I never said that. 978 00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:16,200 I know... Don't put words in my mouth. 979 00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:20,720 I never said your cousin wants to F... (BLEEP) C-K me. 980 00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:23,680 DANNY: When she's in that mode, I can't speak to her. 981 00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:26,360 I just feel lost. Like, I can't speak to her. 982 00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:29,800 And I thought that side of her had left because we've spoke about it 983 00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:31,960 and she's put so much work into herself, 984 00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:34,080 but to see it just come out, 985 00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:37,320 it's obviously still there, still fully alive. 986 00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:39,760 It's a poorly timed joke, dude. 987 00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:44,720 Like, just take on board and... I'm taking it on board. 988 00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:48,200 ..and take...take what I'm saying... Mmm. Thank you. 989 00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:50,560 Don't say thank you. I'm taking it on board. 990 00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:54,680 But take what I'm saying... Thanks, babe. 991 00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:55,760 ..as seriously... 992 00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:57,760 Stop saying thank you. 993 00:48:57,880 --> 00:49:00,200 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 994 00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:06,440 Yeah. I'm done. 995 00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:09,680 (BLEEP). It's fine. 996 00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:10,640 Maybe... 997 00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:13,280 This is what I mean. (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 998 00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:19,920 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 999 00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:21,440 I don't want to be here right now. 1000 00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:23,320 I don't want to be here with her right now. 1001 00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:27,160 I feel very uncomfortable being here 'cause I'm in her realm... 1002 00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:28,680 uh, her house. 1003 00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:31,720 I'm just here by myself. 1004 00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:34,360 I've got none of my friends here, none of my family here. 1005 00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:36,320 And if she can just turn on me like that, 1006 00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:38,760 I'm not sure if I'd want to move here. 1007 00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:45,000 And I was very open to the idea, but I don't know about that now. 1008 00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:52,760 NARRATOR: In Adelaide... 1009 00:49:52,880 --> 00:49:54,240 WOMAN: I just, like, miss her so much. 1010 00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:56,480 ..bridesmaids Bec and Adriana 1011 00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:58,080 are on their way to meet 1012 00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:00,120 a still-spiralling Alissa 1013 00:50:00,240 --> 00:50:01,320 and husband David for drinks. 1014 00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:03,480 Oh! 1015 00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:06,960 I'm (BLEEP) terrified. 1016 00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:08,520 Everything's just too much for my head. 1017 00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:14,360 DAVID: Last night, Alissa started literally spiralling. 1018 00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:18,720 Hello. How are you? Hey, guys. 1019 00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:21,520 Hi, gorgeous. Mwah. So good to see you. 1020 00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:23,680 It will be good to talk to Alissa's closest and nearest, 1021 00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:25,640 Adriana and Bec. 1022 00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:27,640 Have you been well? I've been well, yeah. 1023 00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:28,560 Yeah. I'm good. 1024 00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:30,080 DAVID: We are both putting on a brave face, 1025 00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:32,440 but right now, the vibes are not vibing. 1026 00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:36,520 And, you know, I'm hoping that today will change that. 1027 00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:38,280 Tell me, what's been going on? Uh... 1028 00:50:40,920 --> 00:50:42,440 It's all been going, like, really well for us. 1029 00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:44,840 But now we're getting to the end of the experiment. 1030 00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:47,000 And I feel like, you know, 1031 00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:50,240 we've been living in our little bubble in Sydney and now it's... 1032 00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:52,840 It's like it's hitting you guys a little bit more. 1033 00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:55,360 Yeah. Yeah, big-time. 1034 00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:57,520 I will be honest with you. 1035 00:50:57,640 --> 00:51:00,680 Like, I... I started to spiral... 1036 00:51:02,800 --> 00:51:05,160 because, you know, we said we'd move to Sydney 1037 00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:06,280 if it was going well. 1038 00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:10,720 What the (BLEEP) did she just say? No, sorry, I haven't... 1039 00:51:10,840 --> 00:51:12,280 Sydney? 1040 00:51:12,400 --> 00:51:13,840 I haven't even spoken to you girls about it. 1041 00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:15,160 You could've actually, like, softened that. 1042 00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:16,920 I know. So... And that's something we discussed. 1043 00:51:17,040 --> 00:51:21,280 But the thing is, landing in Adelaide, it's hit home. 1044 00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:22,720 I have so much here... Yeah. 1045 00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:25,000 ..and so much that I'm putting on the line. 1046 00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:27,440 You know, I have a career that I've built, 1047 00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:29,360 a business that I've built. 1048 00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:31,840 The other thing that I've got, like... I want to have a family. 1049 00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:35,600 I don't want to miss out on being a mum. 1050 00:51:35,720 --> 00:51:38,520 And if we're going to make this thing work after the experiment, 1051 00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:40,240 David might have to move to Adelaide. 1052 00:51:41,320 --> 00:51:42,320 Like... 1053 00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:45,160 You know... And would you at the moment? 1054 00:51:45,280 --> 00:51:49,120 Like... Could you see yourself living here? 1055 00:51:49,240 --> 00:51:51,160 (TENSE MUSIC) 1056 00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:54,200 To be honest, yeah. 1057 00:51:55,720 --> 00:51:58,400 I'm not going to lie, I feel like I...I'm at the point 1058 00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:02,160 where, you know, if I had to, you know, take that risk, 1059 00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:03,360 I'm ready to do it. 1060 00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:05,280 Right now, I feel like she's the one. I'm ready to go all in. 1061 00:52:07,240 --> 00:52:08,840 DAVID: It is slightly overwhelming. 1062 00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:11,480 You know, moving to Adelaide is not a small feat, 1063 00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:15,800 but I have sacrificed so much to come on to this experiment 1064 00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:18,400 and I want to see it through. 1065 00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:21,560 I'm (BLEEP) shit-scared and I even said that to him today. Like... 1066 00:52:21,680 --> 00:52:24,680 The big question for me now is, is that enough for Alissa? 1067 00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:28,520 I've laid all my cards out, 1068 00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:31,120 but I can only meet her as far as she's willing to meet me. 1069 00:52:34,720 --> 00:52:39,200 I know that you're willing to move here, which is great, 1070 00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:40,760 but I don't know, 1071 00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:42,240 I feel like I'm getting overwhelmed with it. 1072 00:52:42,360 --> 00:52:44,400 You're, like, literally overwhelmed. 'Cause you're overwhelmed. 1073 00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:48,400 I am, I am, I am because it's, like, a lot. 1074 00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:49,960 Like, it's a lot. (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1075 00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:52,120 I'm spiralling because I'm scared... Yeah. 1076 00:52:52,240 --> 00:52:55,760 ..and I'm spiralling in my head because it's becoming very real. 1077 00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:58,040 And I want to make sure David's, like, the right person. 1078 00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:01,880 I want to make sure that, you know... I guess we'll just... 1079 00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:03,120 Time will tell. 1080 00:53:03,240 --> 00:53:07,480 Alissa, I'm really sorry, babe. I have to ask this to you. 1081 00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:09,160 You sat here and you've talked a lot 1082 00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:11,680 about what your wants and needs are... 1083 00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:13,360 Mmm. 1084 00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:15,200 ..and you've talked a lot about your career progression. 1085 00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:16,640 Mmm. 1086 00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:19,960 What about... Mmm. Yeah, David. 1087 00:53:20,080 --> 00:53:21,680 What about David, 'cause... And that's the other thing. 1088 00:53:21,800 --> 00:53:23,480 Because, like... That is the other thing. 1089 00:53:23,600 --> 00:53:25,760 Right now, this is too good to be true, 1090 00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:29,360 like, and that is also another reason why I'm (BLEEP) scared too. 1091 00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:31,320 Alissa is definitely self-sabotaging I think. 1092 00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:34,320 And I think David is a very patient person, 1093 00:53:34,440 --> 00:53:37,240 but everyone has their limitations. 1094 00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:40,960 I don't... I just... 1095 00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:42,800 Just... I'm overthinking everything. 1096 00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:45,000 DAVID: 100%. 1097 00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:47,400 Alissa's friends pointed out very honestly 1098 00:53:47,520 --> 00:53:51,440 that, you know, Alissa has made it all about her. 1099 00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:54,440 When you've put all your cards on the table for someone 1100 00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:58,160 and they're still unsure and they need more confirmation, 1101 00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:00,280 it's sort of, like, "Wait a minute, you know. 1102 00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:02,760 "I have sacrificed a lot already 1103 00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:05,640 "just by telling Alissa that I'm ready to come to Adelaide, 1104 00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:07,920 "I'm ready to do this, I'm ready to do that" 1105 00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:10,920 and if Alissa still questions my intentions 1106 00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:14,920 at this point in the experiment, then we're just not for each other. 1107 00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:18,480 It's, like, just take it down a notc for yourself for a second, right? 1108 00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:22,960 But I think what he's proven to you is he is stable, he is calm 1109 00:54:23,080 --> 00:54:25,520 and he's here and he's shown up for you, 1110 00:54:25,640 --> 00:54:27,680 which are three things... Yeah. 1111 00:54:27,800 --> 00:54:29,240 ..that you have not had... I know. 1112 00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:31,400 ..in a really long time. 1113 00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:33,160 So, first of all, take that win. OK. 1114 00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:34,560 Second... It's a win. 1115 00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:36,040 It's a big win. It's a massive win. 1116 00:54:36,160 --> 00:54:37,040 It's a big win. 1117 00:54:37,160 --> 00:54:39,320 Obviously there's a bit of, like, you know, this and that going on, 1118 00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:41,280 a bit...a bit of sort of, like, "We're unsure," 1119 00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:44,720 but I think there's actually... they're falling for each other. 1120 00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:47,360 I think you need to stop putting the pressure on. 1121 00:54:47,480 --> 00:54:51,600 Right now, you just have to keep the spark going between the two of you, 1122 00:54:51,720 --> 00:54:54,600 see how your lives integrate in time 1123 00:54:54,720 --> 00:54:57,320 and remember that if you have something special, 1124 00:54:57,440 --> 00:54:59,400 this is the point of life. 1125 00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:02,480 I think he's handling it all really well 1126 00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:04,280 and I think they could go all the way. 1127 00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:06,520 But I think there's got to be some give and take 1128 00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:09,840 from, like, probably Alissa to make that happen. 1129 00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:13,520 David actually is everything that you've asked for. 1130 00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:14,560 I know. 1131 00:55:14,680 --> 00:55:16,680 You will be loved and supported. 1132 00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:18,520 That's going to be the test for both of them. 1133 00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:21,560 (REFLECTIVE MUSIC) 1134 00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:28,520 As Alissa and David navigate a crisis of confidence... 1135 00:55:31,160 --> 00:55:32,080 (ROOSTER CROWS) 1136 00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:35,840 ..back at the farm, Sam too has found himself spiralling 1137 00:55:35,960 --> 00:55:38,480 following a difficult start to the day. 1138 00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:42,280 SAM: Uh... I'm not... I'm not feeling great. 1139 00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:44,800 I woke up and, like, Chris wasn't here. 1140 00:55:44,920 --> 00:55:49,080 Like, he went to the gym and didn't even message my phone. 1141 00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:51,600 Yeah, I guess just being here 1142 00:55:51,720 --> 00:55:54,080 and knowing how beautiful this place is 1143 00:55:54,200 --> 00:55:56,120 and how much I would love to live here, 1144 00:55:56,240 --> 00:56:00,040 but then not feeling that I'm really a priority, 1145 00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:02,120 it's a bit of a concern. 1146 00:56:02,240 --> 00:56:05,480 I don't know, like, I find that very selfish behaviour. 1147 00:56:05,600 --> 00:56:07,400 Coming up... 1148 00:56:07,520 --> 00:56:10,200 "Do you accept full responsibility for your defensiveness 1149 00:56:10,320 --> 00:56:11,600 "and the aggression I felt from you last week?" 1150 00:56:11,720 --> 00:56:15,960 ..Chris's misdemeanours resurface... Yeah... 1151 00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:18,160 ..in the form of a book. 1152 00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:20,840 "Do you see that breaking this behaviour means letting go of ego?" 1153 00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:23,080 I honestly felt like I was 15, 1154 00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:25,720 getting in trouble by a teacher or something. 1155 00:56:25,840 --> 00:56:27,200 Yeah, you can take the list for someone else. 1156 00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:28,640 It's not my vibe. (LAUGHS) 1157 00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:36,360 SAM: Ah! 1158 00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:40,120 NARRATOR: At the farm, Chris has returned from a morning at the gym 1159 00:56:40,240 --> 00:56:41,840 and attending to the animals... 1160 00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:43,720 SAM: Look at this. What a day! 1161 00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:45,040 You've already set up. Yeah. 1162 00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:47,400 ..and has set aside the afternoon 1163 00:56:47,520 --> 00:56:49,840 for some quality time with husband Sam. 1164 00:56:49,960 --> 00:56:51,320 Chin-chin. Chin-chin. 1165 00:56:51,440 --> 00:56:52,800 (GLASSES CLINK) Yeah. 1166 00:56:52,920 --> 00:56:54,440 So we're about to have a Scotch by the fire. 1167 00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:56,200 Two of my favourite things. 1168 00:56:56,320 --> 00:57:00,520 I'm so excited. It's been such a big day today. 1169 00:57:00,640 --> 00:57:02,200 You can probably tell I'm a little bit happier. 1170 00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:04,120 It's just my vibe. I love it out here so much. 1171 00:57:04,240 --> 00:57:06,360 I'm not a city boy and this really helps my mental health. 1172 00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:08,000 It gives me clarity. 1173 00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:12,040 You know, last night I was making Sam dinner 1174 00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:14,240 and I kind of had a reminder of what those feelings were like 1175 00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:15,360 in the beginning, 1176 00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:18,360 looking at his face and just, you know, wanting to, like, kiss it. 1177 00:57:18,480 --> 00:57:21,480 So, yeah, it's been great for me. There's a glimmer. 1178 00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:24,120 But, I mean, I'm having the best time 1179 00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:25,520 and I love having you here and everything. 1180 00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:27,080 So... Yeah. 1181 00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:31,200 But while life on the farm appears to be working its magic on Chris, 1182 00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:33,960 Sam is still struggling with doubts 1183 00:57:34,080 --> 00:57:37,440 after being left to fend for himself all morning. 1184 00:57:39,720 --> 00:57:41,920 How was your day? 1185 00:57:42,040 --> 00:57:43,440 Um... 1186 00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:45,600 (TENSE MUSIC) 1187 00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:50,320 Yeah. No, it's cool here. 1188 00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:52,960 Yeah. I'm glad you like it. 1189 00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:55,720 It's not for everybody, but, um... 1190 00:57:55,840 --> 00:57:57,080 Yeah. Yeah. 1191 00:57:57,200 --> 00:57:59,480 ..it's a nice life. Yeah. 1192 00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:02,080 (TENSE MUSIC) 1193 00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:03,800 Yeah. 1194 00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:07,120 It's the last night at homestays, right? 1195 00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:08,680 Um... I think we need to, like, really... 1196 00:58:08,800 --> 00:58:10,840 I don't know if it's... like, cut the bullshit 1197 00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:13,040 and just make sure we're being super, super honest with each other. 1198 00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:14,160 Yeah. 1199 00:58:14,280 --> 00:58:15,760 Obviously, like, last week, 1200 00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:18,240 I think both of us were pretty checked out from each other 1201 00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:19,600 for obvious reasons 1202 00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:21,600 with the whole commitment ceremony and stuff like that, so... 1203 00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:23,600 I mean, I don't think I checked out. 1204 00:58:23,720 --> 00:58:27,720 I think the reason I was so hurt is 'cause I was very checked in. 1205 00:58:27,840 --> 00:58:30,240 Yeah. Um... 1206 00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:36,960 So I wrote some questions down and maybe we could just be, like, 1207 00:58:37,080 --> 00:58:40,520 really raw and honest with each other about all the answers. 1208 00:58:40,640 --> 00:58:43,960 Um... Would you mind if we went through the questions? 1209 00:58:44,080 --> 00:58:46,240 Yeah, of course. Cool. I'll go get them. 1210 00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:47,880 Yeah. 1211 00:58:48,000 --> 00:58:49,120 CHRIS: Sam loves to really dig deep... 1212 00:58:51,600 --> 00:58:53,520 whereas I was actually just looking forward to kicking back 1213 00:58:53,640 --> 00:58:54,960 and relaxing. 1214 00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:56,160 I don't know what's coming. 1215 00:58:56,280 --> 00:58:57,520 Oh... 1216 00:58:57,640 --> 00:58:59,400 My glasses. 1217 00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:00,800 OK. Ready. (LAUGHS AWKWARDLY) 1218 00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:02,760 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1219 00:59:02,880 --> 00:59:05,440 Um, yeah... 1220 00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:08,240 So, the first question is, 1221 00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:11,160 do you accept full responsibility for your defensiveness 1222 00:59:11,280 --> 00:59:13,360 and the aggression I felt from you last week? 1223 00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:16,640 Um... What are you referring to? 1224 00:59:16,760 --> 00:59:19,480 Uh... Like, the way you treated me at the dinner party, 1225 00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:24,200 the rolling your eyes, the, like, I guess, sass you were giving me 1226 00:59:24,320 --> 00:59:26,160 about what happened even on the couch before. 1227 00:59:26,280 --> 00:59:27,600 Yeah. 1228 00:59:29,920 --> 00:59:31,400 Do you think it was fair 1229 00:59:31,520 --> 00:59:33,760 what the experts said to you on the couch? 1230 00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:35,960 Because for me, their feedback felt accurate. 1231 00:59:37,760 --> 00:59:38,680 Yes. 1232 00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:43,120 Do you realise my awkwardness and silence towards you 1233 00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:45,000 was a direct result of your behaviour, 1234 00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:46,520 not me being cold for no reason? 1235 00:59:46,640 --> 00:59:47,720 Yes. 1236 00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:52,360 Do you understand why I raised that issue at the dinner party? 1237 00:59:52,480 --> 00:59:54,480 I was scared to bring them up with just the two of us 1238 00:59:54,600 --> 00:59:56,120 because of the way you've been reacting. 1239 00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:58,680 I do now. Yes. 1240 00:59:58,800 --> 01:00:00,200 Um... 1241 01:00:00,320 --> 01:00:02,160 Do you see that breaking this behaviour 1242 01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:03,560 means letting go of ego 1243 01:00:03,680 --> 01:00:06,120 and actually unpacking why you react like that? 1244 01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:08,400 Uh, yes. And I feel like we've gone through this. 1245 01:00:08,520 --> 01:00:09,440 Yeah. Yeah. 1246 01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:13,840 I'm (BLEEP) so over it. Like, honestly, I'm so over it. 1247 01:00:13,960 --> 01:00:16,160 Like, you've seen how hard I work on a daily basis. 1248 01:00:16,280 --> 01:00:17,920 I've got so much shit going on. 1249 01:00:18,040 --> 01:00:19,280 Um... I'm so (BLEEP) over it. 1250 01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:22,680 Can you promise me that if I bring up my feelings 1251 01:00:22,800 --> 01:00:24,960 and give you feedback, you won't speak to me like that again? 1252 01:00:25,080 --> 01:00:26,320 Yes, I promise. 1253 01:00:26,440 --> 01:00:28,720 You don't have to agree. Yeah, no, I agree. 1254 01:00:28,840 --> 01:00:30,240 Yeah. I just feel like we've just... 1255 01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:32,960 I've already suffered enough from this. 1256 01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:35,240 Um... It's not cute. 1257 01:00:35,360 --> 01:00:39,480 No, I hate... I hate that and I hate that it was written down. 1258 01:00:39,600 --> 01:00:42,680 I honestly felt like I was 15, 1259 01:00:42,800 --> 01:00:44,040 getting in trouble by a teacher or something. 1260 01:00:44,160 --> 01:00:46,160 I mean, we can stop this. 1261 01:00:46,280 --> 01:00:47,840 No. Keep... Let's go through it. 1262 01:00:47,960 --> 01:00:49,240 OK. Yeah. 1263 01:00:49,360 --> 01:00:50,760 Um... 1264 01:00:50,880 --> 01:00:52,760 (TENSE MUSIC) 1265 01:00:52,880 --> 01:00:57,000 Do you... Um... Do you have feelings for me? 1266 01:00:57,120 --> 01:00:58,320 Um... 1267 01:00:59,640 --> 01:01:01,360 OK. Um... 1268 01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:04,680 You know, um... 1269 01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:06,600 (TENSE MUSIC) 1270 01:01:06,720 --> 01:01:09,200 I don't want to dwell on the... the negatives of the past 1271 01:01:09,320 --> 01:01:12,120 and I just want to put my dad hat on 1272 01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:14,160 and I just want to focus on the positives. 1273 01:01:14,280 --> 01:01:19,720 Um... Yeah, I mean, I feel like with you saying 1274 01:01:19,840 --> 01:01:21,840 "I want to put my dad hat on," 1275 01:01:21,960 --> 01:01:24,160 like, I kind of want to be someone's number one priority. 1276 01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:25,120 Yeah. 1277 01:01:25,240 --> 01:01:26,560 And I think I've realised... I understand that. 1278 01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:29,720 I think I've realised that being here... 1279 01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:36,480 I think my feelings are like... they're pretty gone. 1280 01:01:36,600 --> 01:01:38,360 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) I... 1281 01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:44,040 I can't see this working. 1282 01:01:44,160 --> 01:01:47,640 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1283 01:01:56,440 --> 01:02:01,920 I think my feelings are like... they're pretty gone. 1284 01:02:02,040 --> 01:02:04,280 (TENSE MUSIC) 1285 01:02:04,400 --> 01:02:06,760 I can't see this working. 1286 01:02:10,680 --> 01:02:13,640 Um, Sam and I have just broken up. 1287 01:02:13,760 --> 01:02:17,200 Yeah. I appreciate you being honest. I think this is what we needed. 1288 01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:18,520 Mmm. 1289 01:02:18,640 --> 01:02:20,480 I feel like... Yeah, I wasn't expecting that. 1290 01:02:20,600 --> 01:02:23,720 But also, I'm actually kind of glad. 1291 01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:25,800 It's all good. 1292 01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:28,320 I'm not used to someone bringing out a book with, like, 1293 01:02:28,440 --> 01:02:31,240 a list of questions for me. 1294 01:02:31,360 --> 01:02:32,840 It's not how I roll. 1295 01:02:32,960 --> 01:02:35,480 Look, I've apologised seven times in total for that now. 1296 01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:36,680 Yeah. 1297 01:02:36,800 --> 01:02:39,480 It's probably the answer that we both knew was, you know... 1298 01:02:39,600 --> 01:02:40,840 we both knew it in the back of our mind. 1299 01:02:42,760 --> 01:02:45,000 It's bittersweet, you know. 1300 01:02:45,120 --> 01:02:46,720 Sweet part is I think we learned a lot about ourselves, so... 1301 01:02:46,840 --> 01:02:47,880 Yeah. 1302 01:02:48,000 --> 01:02:49,840 ..it's sad, but it's also... it's also a touch of sweet. 1303 01:02:49,960 --> 01:02:52,280 Yeah, I'm letting it go as well, just to be clear. 1304 01:02:52,400 --> 01:02:53,480 Yeah. It's like... 1305 01:02:53,600 --> 01:02:54,360 It's all good. 1306 01:02:57,080 --> 01:02:58,720 Yeah. 1307 01:02:58,840 --> 01:03:01,040 It's not how I envisioned it would end. 1308 01:03:01,160 --> 01:03:03,600 I'm a little annoyed, to be honest. 1309 01:03:06,240 --> 01:03:07,480 Yeah. 1310 01:03:07,600 --> 01:03:12,160 SAM: I really thought Chris would fight for me a bit. 1311 01:03:12,280 --> 01:03:14,040 Yeah, anyway, look, it is what it is. 1312 01:03:14,160 --> 01:03:16,160 (TENSE MUSIC) 1313 01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:23,520 Want a hand packing? No, I should be fine. 1314 01:03:27,200 --> 01:03:30,000 SAM: Um... Yeah, it kind of sucks. 1315 01:03:32,680 --> 01:03:35,480 And I still wonder what the real reason is 1316 01:03:35,600 --> 01:03:36,640 that he didn't fight for it at all. 1317 01:03:38,320 --> 01:03:39,440 Um... 1318 01:03:39,560 --> 01:03:40,600 Do you want my honest opinion? 1319 01:03:40,720 --> 01:03:43,440 Uh... (LAUGHS) I've tried my hardest. 1320 01:03:43,560 --> 01:03:47,360 Um... I have made growth, but, yeah, that wasn't good enough. 1321 01:03:47,480 --> 01:03:51,400 So, yeah, there is a part of me that's looking forward to 1322 01:03:51,520 --> 01:03:53,120 the next journey 1323 01:03:53,240 --> 01:03:56,160 and my next love and that's my children. 1324 01:03:56,280 --> 01:03:58,280 But, yeah, you can take the list for someone else. 1325 01:03:58,400 --> 01:04:00,400 It's not my vibe. (LAUGHS) 1326 01:04:07,440 --> 01:04:09,000 Tomorrow night... (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1327 01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:11,840 DAVID: Throughout this experiment, I have been patient. 1328 01:04:11,960 --> 01:04:14,520 But when you're dealing with the mum, the family, friends, 1329 01:04:14,640 --> 01:04:17,440 they all said that I'm a great guy for her 1330 01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:19,280 and she still sees negatives, 1331 01:04:19,400 --> 01:04:20,800 there's nothing else I can do. 1332 01:04:20,920 --> 01:04:23,000 ..has David reached his limit? 1333 01:04:23,120 --> 01:04:25,920 That's the first time I've ever heard you say that you need space. 1334 01:04:26,040 --> 01:04:28,440 You never say 'space'. (GLASS TINKLES) 1335 01:04:28,560 --> 01:04:32,960 It's the second-last dinner party of the experiment. 1336 01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:34,720 I can see we can do life together. 1337 01:04:34,840 --> 01:04:36,240 I feel a lot more confident now 1338 01:04:36,360 --> 01:04:39,200 that we can take this out onto the outside. 1339 01:04:39,320 --> 01:04:42,560 Have Rachel and Steven become this year's new power couple? 1340 01:04:42,680 --> 01:04:45,720 Who would have thought? Who would have thought? 1341 01:04:45,840 --> 01:04:47,680 The person that he has these feelings for 1342 01:04:47,800 --> 01:04:50,200 was quite aggressive to him... 1343 01:04:50,320 --> 01:04:52,560 But, babe, you've been aggressive too at the dinner parties. 1344 01:04:52,680 --> 01:04:56,440 Tensions rise when Sam and Chris air their concerns. 1345 01:04:56,560 --> 01:04:58,640 You're in no position to be giving someone feedback 1346 01:04:58,760 --> 01:05:00,320 about their behaviour, honey. 1347 01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:01,920 And you... I've never been aggressive to you. 1348 01:05:02,040 --> 01:05:03,280 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1349 01:05:03,400 --> 01:05:04,320 And then... 1350 01:05:04,440 --> 01:05:06,960 I think, like, for me as a man, I feel like... 1351 01:05:07,080 --> 01:05:10,800 MEL: Oh, god. ALESSANDRA: Oh, my god. 1352 01:05:10,920 --> 01:05:12,560 What are you on about? 1353 01:05:12,680 --> 01:05:16,680 ..it's the shock debate that will divide the table. 1354 01:05:16,800 --> 01:05:17,960 That was not what I was getting at. 1355 01:05:18,080 --> 01:05:20,080 Are we serious with this? 1356 01:05:23,320 --> 01:05:26,320 Captioned by AI-Media ai-media.tv 106857

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