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NARRATOR: With the experiment
in its final stages...
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I really want to thank Mel
for her advice
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to focus on the emotional safety.
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That was just like a penny-drop
moment for me.
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..guidance from the experts
helped Stella and Filip
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get their relationship
back on track...
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I wrote, "Stay."
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And the same.
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..and last night saw some continue
to celebrate
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their love for one another.
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I feel really connected to Rachel.
We're getting closer.
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I would like to leave.
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NARRATOR: Chris blindsided Sam.
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"Stay."
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In this experiment,
if one person says, "Stay",
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and the other person says, "Leave",
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the couple stays.
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He asked me to be his girlfriend.
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What inspired you
to ask Bec that question?
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NARRATOR: And when it was time
to open up
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and reveal his true feelings...
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It was important to Bec.
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Why was it important to you?
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..Danny squirmed his way through
an uncomfortable couch session.
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The question - what was it?
Like, it was a bit...
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"Could you see yourself
falling in love with me?"
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It's a pretty black and white
question.
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I don't think you can promise that
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before you're in love
with someone.
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NARRATOR: Tonight...
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The experiment goes
across the country.
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Welcome home!
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Wow!
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NARRATOR: Homestays week has arrived
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Over two big nights,
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our couples get a glimpse of what
married life will look like...
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Cheers!
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..beyond the experiment.
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Whoa! Passenger princess!
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NARRATOR: Steven sets sail
on an exciting new future
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with Rachel.
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RACHEL: This is such a special place
for him.
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How lucky am I for him
to have welcomed me into this?
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I kind of like holding a rod
and getting kissed. (LAUGHS)
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(LAUGHS)
Oh, hang on! (LAUGHS)
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My vibes on the wedding day
weren't really positive,
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and I'm here to protect her.
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NARRATOR: Stella's outspoken guests
from her wedding day are back.
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So, like, I've more information...
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I'm getting - sorry
to interrupt you.
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I'm getting some not so confident
vibes from over here.
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NARRATOR: And then...
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Welcome.
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NARRATOR: Scott shows off to Gia,
his waterside home.
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Oh, it's a bit messy.
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So random.
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Weird. This wouldn't be big enough.
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It'd be better if that wasn't there.
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NARRATOR: Is Gia the most high
maintenance house guest
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Scott's ever seen?
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Um, my house is way cleaner.
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Oh, yeah, I couldn't...
I couldn't live here.
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If the roles were reversed
and I was at Gia's house,
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I wouldn't say anything
but nice things.
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(LIVELY MUSIC)
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NARRATOR: It's the beginning
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of one of the most exciting phases
of the experiment,
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homestays...
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Can't believe I'm actually
going to Adelaide.
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I know, I think you're gonna
love it.
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..and this year,
each of our couples
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will be going to the destination
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where they plan to live
beyond the experiment.
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Ready to go. What you pack?
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Ready to go to Adelaide.
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Radelaide.
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The homestays have always been
an essential part
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of the Married at First Sight
experiment,
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as it allows our participants
valuable insight
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into their partner's world.
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Yeah, I'll have to blindfold you
on the way to the fishing spot,
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but once we get there, I can
take the blindfold off
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and catch a few, uh, flatties.
Yeah?
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And, oh, there might be
a blindfold in the bedroom, too.
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Oh, no, babes, not at your parents
house. Sorry!
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(LAUGHS)
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This week is also the perfect
opportunity for our couples
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to put into practice
all that they've learned
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from the experiment so far,
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and apply it to the outside world.
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NARRATOR: As most of our couples
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are packed and ready to embark
on their individual journeys...
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..Filip is feeling the pressure
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as homestays could make
or break his future with Stella.
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He is the one expected to make
the move from Melbourne to Sydney.
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All you need to have
is some board shorts.
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Some boardies, some shorts.
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That's it.
Shorts.
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Yeah.
Anything else like toothbrush?
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Nah.
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Nah, we don't brush teeth
out in Cronulla, do we?
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I just want to see Stella kind
of in her natural environment
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outside the experiment.
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I'm obviously from Melbourne.
I love it there.
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The pressure's going to be on
my decision to move to Sydney.
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Since we first got together,
we were always talking about it
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and, you know, kind of spending
some time out there,
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particularly even after
the experiment.
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So, it feels like it's come
around in like two seconds.
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We obviously work
in this experiment,
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and this is just the further
validation
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that our relationship
will work on the outside,
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if I can see myself there.
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Super keen to get out
of this concrete jungle.
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Yeah, I know.
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And we're gonna switcheroo
for some beach action.
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Yeah.
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Done.
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NARRATOR: Across the hall, however,
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Gia and Scott are still recovering
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from last night's tense
couch session.
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(TENSE SOUNDTRACK)
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I don't like drama.
I don't like any of that.
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I don't want it in my life,
and I know Gia's been involved
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in some inside the experiment,
and I have to know
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whether it's the pressure in here
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or whether this is outside as well.
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It's about how you carry yourself.
That's just common knowledge.
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I would never do that.
Yeah, I know.
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But that's what I'm saying.
I would never do that.
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From the stuff that's happened
in the experiment,
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I don't want to see that
outside the experiment.
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OK.
That's all it is.
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I'm not saying anything bad.
Cool.
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It's just what I've seen.
Yeah, just -
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you don't know me well enough then.
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Babe, I'm only helping.
It's just not who I am.
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I'm just helping. OK.
I just do not do that in life.
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I do nursing, like...
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I'm not saying
that you're like that.
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I'm a kind person. I would never...
But anyway.
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I'm not saying you're like that.
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I'm trying to just say...
Yep, yep.
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..what I'm feeling.
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It was very hurtful last night.
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We've never had this conversation.
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He's never said, "Hey, I'm concerned
of drama in the outside world."
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He's never.
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So, yeah, I just felt like it was
just unnecessary, last night.
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I was already copping it
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and it was just another fuel
to the fire moment from Scott.
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So, yeah, that is a blindside to me.
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How was last night for you?
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It was a tough session.
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You gonna tell me
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that you felt like I threw you
under the bus,
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which I apologise
to make you feel that way.
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It wasn't my intention.
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Well, yeah. You apologised
for how I felt.
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You didn't apologise
for what you did.
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I felt attacked and I feel really
hurt by what happened last night.
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I do think he's empathetic,
but I think there's a limit
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to his empathetic-ness,
if that makes sense.
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I just want him to know that,
like, I can't just get over this
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in five minutes
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because I don't want to be put
in a position like this again.
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Everyone is entitled to feel
how they want to feel
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and work things out...
And I'm not stopping you.
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..how they want to.
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I'm not saying that you are...
I'm not controlling your feelings...
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..right now.
..Gia.
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I let you do yourself.
I'm just saying, right now...
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I'm just saying right now,
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it was brought up last night.
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I didn't feel, like, heard
and that you understood
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where I was coming from.
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So, throughout this whole
experiment,
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do you feel like I have been
listening to any tough problems?
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I'm just saying, I would like it
if you look at it
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at a different person's point
of view and not your own.
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Yeah.
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If I'm going to say anything that
I'm struggling in our relationship,
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it's because I want to fix it
to make us better.
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I'm not here to try and make
my partner look bad.
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I'm trying to help us.
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But she immediately just gets
into defensive mode.
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I'm at the point where I don't
know what to do,
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and I feel like I can't speak.
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OK, I apologise.
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It's obviously been a lot.
It's why at the start...
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So, I didn't need a grilling
last night from my husband
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on the couch either.
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OK. Well, I apologise that you feel
like that I gave you a grilling.
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I'm just trying to help, Gia...
Right.
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..because I care about
our relationship.
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I genuinely care about us.
That's why I'm still here.
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And I'm getting frustrated.
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I'm just - I don't know
what to do anymore.
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What else am I supposed to do?
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This is why I can't fall in love
right now.
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Because there's constant pressure.
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There's constant arguments.
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OK, should we go pack,
get the hell out of here?
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Yeah.
Cool.
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Like, to argue and debate
about something so bloody simple,
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what's it going to be like outside
this when we face a little hurdle?
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NARRATOR: Down the hall...
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..Bec and Danny are busy
packing the essentials...
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All packed.
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I went to Chemist Warehouse
quickly and got some bits.
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It'll be so fresh.
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Yay!
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..as a Melbourne based Danny
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prepares to head to Bec's home
in Adelaide for the first time.
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I'm also excited to like,
go for a big walk with you
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and so you can actually see like
the surrounds of where I live.
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NARRATOR: During last night's
commitment ceremony,
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Danny made a reluctant revelation
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about the official status
of their relationship.
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And he asked me to be
his girlfriend.
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That's quite a move.
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But what inspired you
to ask Bec that question?
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But, like, it was important to Bec,
you know, 'cause, like...
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Why was it important to you?
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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Well, 'cause it... 'Cause it gives
Bec security.
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Why was it important to you
to ask her that?
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'Cause I knew it would
be special to Bec.
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But why was it important to you?
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(TENSE SOUNDTRACK)
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Well, because I want her
to be my girlfriend, like...
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You know?
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Obviously, as we know,
like I told him, I love him
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and he's not quite there yet,
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but I just hope that when he sees me
in my natural habitat,
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that he's like, you know, everything
I've told him about my life,
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he can see and envisage
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and, you know, maybe gets him
that one step closer
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to loving me too.
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You will see why I say it's
the perfect place to raise kids
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because it's pretty, it's safe.
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You've got a lot of space,
you know, good schools,
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but everywhere's 20 minutes
to get to. It's the best.
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That's good. Yeah.
It's really good.
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I'm excited to see it.
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I've known Bec inside the experiment
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where obviously there's
a different side to Bec
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which is when she's at home.
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You don't know a gorilla
until you see the gorilla
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in its natural habitat
is what they say.
251
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So, not comparing Bec
to a gorilla,
252
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but yeah, it'll be nice to see her
in her natural habitat.
253
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Should we shoot off?
254
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Let's go.
255
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Yay! How exciting!
256
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Shall we?
Shall we?
257
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Oui, oui!
We shall.
258
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Oui, oui!
259
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NARRATOR: While most of our couples
are packed and ready to leave...
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Adelaide, here we come!
Let's go!
261
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Adelaide, here we come!
262
00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:57,440
..one couple is yet to depart,
having just woken up
263
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in separate apartments
264
00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:02,680
after Chris wrote, "Leave",
at last night's commitment ceremony,
265
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leaving Sam blindsided.
266
00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:10,000
I've been going back and forth
the last couple of days.
267
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Um, and I've actually decided
268
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that I need and I want
to go put my dad hat on
269
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and I would like to leave.
270
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I just think that I need
to concentrate on this next thing
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that's coming,
272
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and he's going to be - he's
an amazing guy
273
00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:28,480
and he'll be amazing for someone.
274
00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:30,680
I just don't think it's me
for the moment.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
276
00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:37,840
It sucks to see him right, "Leave."
277
00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:41,560
And it's just really disappointing
because a week ago,
278
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we were in such a good spot.
279
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I can see a magical,
amazing life with Chris.
280
00:11:47,680 --> 00:11:49,720
I would hate for our last
interaction
281
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to be that couch session.
282
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One person says, "Stay."
One person says, "Leave."
283
00:11:54,560 --> 00:11:56,440
You're meant to stay for another
week and just see
284
00:11:56,560 --> 00:11:59,040
and like, going out to Chris's farm,
285
00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:00,960
This is something Chris and I have
been looking forward to
286
00:12:01,080 --> 00:12:02,360
through the whole experiment,
287
00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:06,760
so I'm trying to stay open
and lean in.
288
00:12:08,560 --> 00:12:09,960
There's always a glimmer of hope.
289
00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:16,560
NARRATOR: Next door, Chris has
also spent the morning reflecting.
290
00:12:17,480 --> 00:12:21,080
Obviously, last night's couch
session was brutal.
291
00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:24,560
I got defensive, but this
is part of the experiment.
292
00:12:24,680 --> 00:12:25,880
They do hold a mirror up to you,
293
00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:28,480
and maybe there was
some behavioural issues
294
00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:31,160
that I was doing that I wasn't
aware of.
295
00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:33,120
I've realised that I not only came
on this experiment
296
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to find love and a husband.
297
00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:36,960
But, you know, I do want
to grow as a person,
298
00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:41,240
and I've realised that I need
to work on a few things on myself.
299
00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:46,080
So, I'm going to move forward
and give this another crack
300
00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:49,800
to see if Sam and I can turn
it around at homestays,
301
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have some fun at the farm
302
00:12:51,960 --> 00:12:54,400
and see where I'm going to be
raising the children
303
00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:59,000
and see if we can rekindle
what we had in the beginning.
304
00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:10,600
Here we go. Central Coast
homestays.
305
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Let's go!
306
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NARRATOR: Our couples
are now en route
307
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to their respective homestays...
308
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(FILIP SINGING)
# We're going to Bonnie Doon! #
309
00:13:20,720 --> 00:13:25,240
..and while most make a beeline
for their destination...
310
00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:29,120
Hey, babe, can we stop at KFC
to get some food for the road trip?
311
00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:31,200
Sounds like a plan to me.
Let's pull in.
312
00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:33,080
Hi, there. What can I get for you
today?
313
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Two Go Buckets, please.
314
00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:37,120
Do you want a chip
before we turn out?
315
00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:38,120
Yeah, why not?
Chippy, chip.
316
00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:39,280
Get it in there.
317
00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:43,640
NARRATOR: The first to touch down
are Gia and Scott,
318
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where Melbourne based Gia
319
00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:48,920
already has plans in place to move
to the Gold Coast
320
00:13:49,040 --> 00:13:51,200
immediately after the experiment.
321
00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:52,280
Cute!
322
00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:53,920
This is where we can play tennis
at night,
323
00:13:54,040 --> 00:13:56,880
but whenever, you play
tennis in your bikini.
324
00:13:57,000 --> 00:13:59,440
(CHUCKLES)
Get a tan while I'm playing.
325
00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:04,760
This morning was really tense,
but since we've been off the plane,
326
00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:06,320
I'm feeling really good.
I'm really happy.
327
00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:07,480
I'm just happy to be home.
328
00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:09,520
We're in Scotty's place
on the Gold Coast.
329
00:14:09,640 --> 00:14:10,760
That's where we are right now.
330
00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:15,240
And I am bloody excited
to introduce my wife to my place,
331
00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:17,240
my couch, my bedroom, the whole lot.
332
00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:21,080
And you can't be angry on the Gold
Coast. It's bloody sunny.
333
00:14:22,120 --> 00:14:23,760
It's hot. That's what we want.
334
00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:25,400
I'll just show you around.
335
00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:30,040
Welcome.
336
00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:35,200
Should I take my shoes off?
Yes, please.
337
00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:36,840
'Cause I know you don't like shoes
in the house.
338
00:14:38,240 --> 00:14:39,120
Good?
339
00:14:39,880 --> 00:14:41,480
Oh, it's a bit messy.
340
00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:42,640
Messy?
341
00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:45,960
Is there stuff over there?
342
00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:47,440
That's just my bike helmets.
343
00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:49,000
OK...
344
00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:52,200
I'd be lying if I didn't say,
I'm coming in here
345
00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:53,960
looking for a problem or looking
346
00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:55,360
for something to not be happy about.
347
00:14:55,480 --> 00:14:56,480
Like, that's just what women do.
348
00:14:56,600 --> 00:14:59,320
Why are you walking around like
you're just sussing or something?
349
00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:00,840
I'm looking for problems.
350
00:15:00,960 --> 00:15:02,160
Why do you have a rug on a rug?
351
00:15:02,280 --> 00:15:03,400
Put your feet on it.
352
00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:06,560
Yeah, like, yeah, nice,
but it looks strange.
353
00:15:06,680 --> 00:15:07,960
It looks like a pee pad
or something.
354
00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:09,280
Like on a rug. It's like,
why is it there?
355
00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:10,760
Oh...
356
00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:12,760
This is upstairs.
357
00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:14,920
So random.
358
00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:16,680
You can look at the water
when you're in the spa.
359
00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:19,640
OK. Do you game?
360
00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:20,720
I work.
361
00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:22,680
You're so picky.
362
00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:23,960
What are they?
363
00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:25,240
It's more of an ornament.
364
00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:26,760
Don't know why that's there.
365
00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:27,960
I didn't know where
I was going to put it.
366
00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:29,120
Be better if that wasn't there.
367
00:15:29,240 --> 00:15:30,360
Oh, my gosh!
368
00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:31,920
Weird!
369
00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:33,680
Yeah, you'd have to move that.
370
00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:35,760
My tree's dead.
371
00:15:35,880 --> 00:15:38,160
You know, my uncle gave that to me
before he died.
372
00:15:38,280 --> 00:15:40,840
Oh, shit. He died and the plant.
373
00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:41,920
(LAUGHS)
That's not nice.
374
00:15:42,040 --> 00:15:44,000
If the roles were reversed
and I was at Gia's house,
375
00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:45,800
I wouldn't say anything
but nice things.
376
00:15:45,920 --> 00:15:48,680
It's definitely not
as clean as I thought.
377
00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:49,920
Um, my house is way cleaner.
378
00:15:51,720 --> 00:15:53,200
End of story.
379
00:15:53,320 --> 00:15:55,600
I could spend a couple of hours,
like, just fixing a few things.
380
00:15:55,720 --> 00:15:57,320
That's alright, you can do that.
Yeah.
381
00:15:57,440 --> 00:15:59,440
I would make Gia feel happy
and comfortable
382
00:15:59,560 --> 00:16:01,400
knowing that I'm in her home,
383
00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:03,720
and she's proud of what she's done
and what she's made.
384
00:16:03,840 --> 00:16:05,600
I wouldn't go, "Oh, yuck.
385
00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:07,440
"This is shit. That's shit."
386
00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:09,320
I'd be like, "Wow, you've done
such a good job."
387
00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:10,560
Like, if the house is a mess,
388
00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:12,640
yes, I would say something,
but I know she's like me.
389
00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:15,960
She's a clean person,
but I wouldn't go nitpicking. No.
390
00:16:17,120 --> 00:16:18,800
This is the walk-in robe.
391
00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:20,800
(LAUGHS)
Are you coming?
392
00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:25,120
What's that?
393
00:16:26,200 --> 00:16:27,400
It's a neck brace.
394
00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:28,440
Why is it pink?
395
00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:30,880
Why is it pink? Why not?
396
00:16:31,640 --> 00:16:33,480
Look at you, trying to find
a problem.
397
00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:34,920
Well...
Because of my neck...
398
00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:36,680
I'm wondering why it's pink.
399
00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:39,600
Gab and Maria...
400
00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:41,800
Oh, yeah. Sure.
Gab and Maria bought it.
401
00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:42,880
Yeah.
If I had...
402
00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:45,040
Where's mine then if I had another
one? If there was one for me.
403
00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:46,280
No, I'm asking why it's pink.
404
00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:48,280
I don't know. That was weird.
405
00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:49,600
That was a bit of a red flag
to me,
406
00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:52,560
because he told me he's never had
a girl at this house.
407
00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:55,160
So, why is that there?
408
00:16:56,920 --> 00:16:58,080
OK, so what we're gonna do
409
00:16:58,200 --> 00:16:59,200
is we're going to call
Gab and Maria,
410
00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:00,400
and we're going to call them
411
00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:02,200
and I'm going to say, "Did you
guys buy me this neck brace?"
412
00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:03,280
And they're going to say, "Yes."
413
00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:06,240
I just - doesn't make sense.
414
00:17:06,360 --> 00:17:08,200
The math isn't mathing for me.
415
00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:15,920
(LAUGHTER)
416
00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:17,800
What the hell?
417
00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:20,240
Are you OK?
No, I'm not OK.
418
00:17:20,360 --> 00:17:21,880
Because I want to know more
about that thing in here.
419
00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:23,320
Let's go have a look.
420
00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:29,440
It's like I need to give reason
for everything I have.
421
00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:32,920
I have not done anything
to make Gia not trust me.
422
00:17:33,040 --> 00:17:34,560
I'm trying to find problems.
423
00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:35,520
You're trying to find a problem.
424
00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:37,360
So, you look at a bloody neck brace
for a plane.
425
00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:39,440
But it's pink.
426
00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:40,920
A normal thing to think.
427
00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:44,040
I don't think there's not one thing
I could say that I've made her feel
428
00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:45,080
like she shouldn't trust me.
429
00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:46,840
I've been very honest
and vulnerable
430
00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:49,080
this whole relationship
and experiment.
431
00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:51,240
Imagine if you came to my house
and you saw some dude stuff.
432
00:17:51,360 --> 00:17:53,640
I wouldn't judge you because
I know you were single.
433
00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:54,480
Hmm.
434
00:17:54,600 --> 00:17:56,040
Can I put up with this every day
of the week?
435
00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:58,360
Trying to find a problem.
436
00:17:58,480 --> 00:18:01,040
You shouldn't need to find
something if you trust the person.
437
00:18:01,160 --> 00:18:03,000
So, if you don't trust me, tell me.
438
00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:10,840
NARRATOR: Further north,
439
00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:14,640
Rachel and Steven are arriving
at Steven's parents' holiday home
440
00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:17,480
on the Central Coast
of New South Wales,
441
00:18:17,600 --> 00:18:21,400
where Steven plans to introduce
Melbourne based wife, Rachel,
442
00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:23,280
to the coastal lifestyle...
443
00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:25,120
Am I getting on first?
You get on first.
444
00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:26,400
OK.
445
00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:29,120
You can hold my hand if you want
as you get in.
446
00:18:29,240 --> 00:18:30,720
Is this little seat for me?
447
00:18:30,840 --> 00:18:32,960
Front seat's for you.
Whoa!
448
00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:34,560
Passenger Princess!
449
00:18:35,320 --> 00:18:38,400
..and Steven has wasted no time
taking Rachel out
450
00:18:38,520 --> 00:18:41,000
to enjoy his favourite pastime.
451
00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:42,960
Do I look cute?
452
00:18:43,080 --> 00:18:44,200
(LAUGHS)
Yep.
453
00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:45,520
Fisherman wife vibes.
454
00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:47,000
(LAUGHS)
455
00:18:52,120 --> 00:18:54,200
The last time I was on a boat
456
00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:56,840
was definitely well over
a decade ago...
457
00:18:58,440 --> 00:18:59,840
..and I was extremely seasick.
458
00:19:01,680 --> 00:19:02,840
We are off.
459
00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:09,280
Oh, my god. LOL!
460
00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:12,760
So, the last time I was on a boat
was when I got married.
461
00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:18,640
Alrighty. So, tell me, tell me,
Rachel,
462
00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:21,360
where's the fish at? Where's the...
I don't know, you're the...
463
00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:23,360
You're the captain. You lead me.
464
00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:26,480
I'm very nervous about this.
465
00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:27,800
Yeah. I'm nervous.
466
00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:30,400
So much is falling on homestays
467
00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:34,600
because me and Rachel have discussed
locations outside the experiment,
468
00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:36,440
and I've bluntly put it to Rachel.
469
00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:40,000
Look, I probably can't compromise
on anywhere else at the moment
470
00:19:40,120 --> 00:19:41,120
besides Sydney.
471
00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:46,040
I mean, this is all about seeing
if Rachel can fit into my life
472
00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:50,080
and if this doesn't work out
for this small snippet...
473
00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:54,000
..what's it going to look like,
you know, in the real world?
474
00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:56,400
We're here!
Alright, the secret flatty hole.
475
00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:58,160
(LAUGHS)
476
00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:01,120
And, you know, romance happens
in all different sorts of ways.
477
00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:03,480
It doesn't have to be
candlelights and drinks.
478
00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:06,120
You just sit there
and be pretty for a sec.
479
00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:07,960
Alright. I got your
weapon right here.
480
00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:12,160
I may not express my feelings
to her and go, "Hey, Rachel,
481
00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:15,680
"I like you this much today
or I like you this much",
482
00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:18,360
but I sort of show it in gestures.
483
00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:20,720
Because your passenger princess,
484
00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:21,920
I'll even put the bait on for you
485
00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:24,600
so you don't have to get your hands
all dirty.
486
00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:27,480
Taking her out in the boat
and showing her my fishing spot.
487
00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:30,560
Things, that's how I show
my love towards someone.
488
00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:34,040
And let me know when you
get the nice little tug on it
489
00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:35,560
because I'll be very excited.
490
00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:38,800
(LAUGHTER)
491
00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:41,400
Oh, I'm on! (LAUGHS)
492
00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:42,920
It was definitely flirty
and cheeky today.
493
00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:45,960
(LAUGHS)
494
00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:49,800
And it's really nice to see
Steven in his element as well.
495
00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:53,000
Alright, and this is fishing.
You sit here like this.
496
00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:57,400
What? No wine and snacks
for the passenger princess?
497
00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:59,720
Far out. I am a bad husband,
aren't I?
498
00:20:59,840 --> 00:21:01,040
I know. I'm glad you...
499
00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:02,400
But I'm responsible as well.
500
00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:04,520
No alcohol on a boat.
I'm not driving.
501
00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:10,080
Hang on. Wait, wait. Whoa.
Is that a thing? No.
502
00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:11,600
You tell me.
503
00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:12,960
I don't know, babe.
504
00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:15,440
I can see Steven and I together.
505
00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:17,400
That's simple. That's easy.
506
00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:18,720
We do that every day.
507
00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:22,040
But can I see myself a part
of his broader life?
508
00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:23,040
Oh, ooh!
509
00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:27,840
You know, we've come so far
since our wedding,
510
00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:30,240
our honeymoon and all of that,
you know?
511
00:21:30,360 --> 00:21:32,760
So, I'm really grateful to be here
and also grateful to be here.
512
00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:36,280
You might need to do a re-bait.
It might've baited you.
513
00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:39,000
This is such a special place
for him and his family.
514
00:21:39,120 --> 00:21:42,880
So, how lucky am I for him
to have welcomed me into this?
515
00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:45,200
Oh, she's on!
516
00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:47,400
I got one, I got one!
517
00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:49,800
Oh, no, I did, I really did!
518
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:51,200
I really got one.
519
00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:53,760
Oh, my god, Steven!
520
00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:55,320
Steven, I got a fish!
521
00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:56,560
OK, I don't know what to do now.
522
00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:58,160
You're gonna have
to come and help me.
523
00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:00,320
OK.
OK. Hi.
524
00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:02,040
Bring him in.
Bring him in?
525
00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:03,160
Yep.
526
00:22:06,120 --> 00:22:08,360
I think, yes, me going out there
527
00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:10,240
and showing that I know
how to handle a rod
528
00:22:10,360 --> 00:22:12,720
was absolutely an aphrodisiac
for him.
529
00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:14,240
(LAUGHS)
530
00:22:14,360 --> 00:22:16,120
There you go.
531
00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:18,880
Why would you put him
in there to flick?
532
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:22,080
I'm not gonna hand him to you.
Steven!
533
00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:23,720
Alright. Hang on.
534
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:25,720
'Cause if he flicks, you can drop
him back in the bucket.
535
00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:27,640
I'm so scared.
536
00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:29,720
Come here, babe.
They are spiky.
537
00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:32,160
Yay!
There you go.
538
00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:35,520
Hey! (LAUGHS)
539
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:36,680
Giant!
540
00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:40,560
Hi, baby. Thank you.
541
00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:44,360
Yes, it is impressive.
542
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:46,960
It's not every day you meet
a woman that's willing to do that.
543
00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:49,280
Appreciate it.
544
00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:51,760
Pulling in the fish and touching
the prawns.
545
00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:53,000
I didn't have to babysit her.
546
00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:57,920
Yeah, it's sexy.
547
00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:01,920
I must admit, I kind of like holding
a rod and getting kissed. (LAUGHS)
548
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:03,400
(LAUGHS)
Oh, hang on!
549
00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:05,720
(LAUGHTER)
550
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:14,280
NARRATOR: Having settled
into Scott's home
551
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:15,640
on the Gold Coast,
552
00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:19,800
Melbourne based Gia has made
another shocking discovery.
553
00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:21,120
I just don't even know,
554
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:23,320
like, my stuff wouldn't
even fit in that closet.
555
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:25,360
You won't need to.
What do you mean?
556
00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:28,240
Like for now, until we find
another place.
557
00:23:28,360 --> 00:23:29,480
Do you know what I mean?
558
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:32,520
For now, this will do for whatever
until we sort our stuff out.
559
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:36,960
But like, for me to move in...
100%.
560
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:40,480
Like just the closet and stuff,
like, just be too stressful.
561
00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:41,760
For me, personally,
562
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:43,960
and I don't want to be like
a princess or like annoying,
563
00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:48,800
but like his closet is big, but I'd
have to share that closet with him,
564
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:50,280
and it's like just all my stuff
565
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:52,640
will be crammed in one like shelf
in one area.
566
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:54,280
It's just like, that's not
comfortable for me to live.
567
00:23:55,360 --> 00:23:57,280
Yeah, like I just have a lot
of stuff.
568
00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:00,080
Like, I have two closets for myself
and a whole beauty room
569
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:01,640
with shelves of more stuff.
570
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:06,400
We've already discussed that,
in time, that we'll get a house
571
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:07,920
because we have your daughter
and stuff. So...
572
00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:12,200
This wouldn't be big enough,
like my - the other room for her.
573
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:14,360
Like, like where would my mum
stay if my mum visited?
574
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:16,000
Because my mum lives in Melbourne.
575
00:24:16,120 --> 00:24:19,240
So, yeah, like it just like
wouldn't logistically work.
576
00:24:19,360 --> 00:24:21,120
I'm saying temporarily.
577
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:22,920
Apparently, there's no positives
578
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:24,880
and this is the problem.
579
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:26,720
It's my house. I'm proud of it.
I've done everything here.
580
00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:27,920
I've built everything myself.
581
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:29,800
For a guy before I met you...
582
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:31,960
No, this is great for a guy
for himself, 100%.
583
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:33,200
Like it's great.
584
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:35,080
But I don't want to cram all my shit
585
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,040
in one little section
of your closet.
586
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:38,840
Like, that's like, I can't do that.
587
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:40,080
Raises a few questions.
588
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:42,160
Like, is she like that
with anything that's around me
589
00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:43,480
or that I introduce her to?
590
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:47,200
It's just probably not big
enough for what I'm used to.
591
00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:49,840
But for you, it's good.
592
00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:55,240
It is a bit scary thinking that
like, what is life going to be like
593
00:24:55,360 --> 00:24:56,360
outside the experiment?
594
00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:58,360
Great. Already feel better.
595
00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:00,680
These are little things
that I can see
596
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:02,560
may be a bit of an impact on us.
597
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:07,120
Cute. So, cute.
598
00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:14,600
NARRATOR: South of Sydney,
599
00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:18,160
Stella and Filip are meeting
with Stella's chosen family,
600
00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:19,400
Joe and Leila.
601
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:20,840
Hi!
Hey!
602
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:23,560
How are you?
603
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:26,040
I know!
604
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:28,160
It's really nice to see you again.
605
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:29,600
You good, you good? You well?
606
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:31,840
Thanks for having us.
607
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:36,000
We're really excited to see
how Stella's going with Filip.
608
00:25:36,120 --> 00:25:38,760
We've given them their space,
their time.
609
00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:42,600
I'm hoping that he is the right guy.
610
00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:44,280
What is happening?
611
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,360
I love you! (LAUGHS)
612
00:25:47,120 --> 00:25:50,160
My vibes on the wedding day
weren't really positive.
613
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:54,240
NARRATOR: At Stella
and Filip's wedding,
614
00:25:54,360 --> 00:25:57,200
Joe had his doubts
about Stella's new groom.
615
00:25:57,320 --> 00:26:01,840
Who in their vows talks about
their YouTube channel
616
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:03,960
and this and that?
617
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,480
Impress her in private. You don't
need to tell the general public.
618
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:09,480
What's your vows to your partner?
Your vow is this.
619
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:10,520
Is this.
620
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:13,960
That's why a red flag.
621
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:19,680
..and after expressing these concern
to Stella and bridesmaid, Leila...
622
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:23,440
However, and I'm going
to be completely transparent.
623
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:24,920
I'm getting red flag.
624
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:26,120
Absolutely.
625
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:29,080
I'm telling you now.
626
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:33,880
I don't think he has entered
on the right foot.
627
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:35,040
I agree.
628
00:26:36,120 --> 00:26:37,920
..Leila confronted Filip.
629
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,280
Stella didn't come here and talk
to you about her business.
630
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:42,600
It just adds to my story
as how I changed my life.
631
00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:45,080
But I don't care, I don't care.
I know.
632
00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:47,240
I'm telling you...
I'm going to stop you
633
00:26:47,360 --> 00:26:48,280
just for a second.
634
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:49,320
You're irritated.
OK.
635
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:50,480
It's OK.
636
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:51,960
I'm just listening
to what you're saying.
637
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:54,440
No, no, no. It's OK. Breathe.
638
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:55,840
No, I'm relaxed, I'm breathing.
Breathe, breathe.
639
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:57,080
No, you're getting really worked up.
640
00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:58,200
No.
I can feel it.
641
00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:00,320
I can feel it. I can feel it,
you don't have the tell me.
642
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:01,520
I feel your energy.
643
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:03,600
You are agitated.
644
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:07,000
Guys, take a seat.
Let's take a seat.
645
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:09,920
That's just being
the protective friend.
646
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:12,480
Yeah, I hope they enjoy the food.
647
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:14,680
Thank you. (LAUGHS)
648
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:16,080
You taking it or what's happening?
No, no!
649
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:17,080
You pretty much did it.
650
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:20,000
And it's going to be
a good way of catching him
651
00:27:20,120 --> 00:27:22,880
in his sort of off-guard, you know?
652
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:25,280
I haven't really been in touch
with Stella.
653
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:28,120
I've been trying to keep up
with everything.
654
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:30,160
Coming in here, um, yeah.
655
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:31,560
I'm excited. Nervously excited.
656
00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:32,960
Yeah.
657
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:35,480
But I'm definitely not going
to be disrespectful.
658
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:37,880
I'm going to listen and absorb
659
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:39,880
because, you know, you don't
mess with someone
660
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:41,040
that's making your food, you know?
661
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:43,160
No dietaries, right?
Yeah.
662
00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:45,400
Or the person that does your tax,
you know? So...
663
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:48,440
So, yeah.
Oh, yum!
664
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:49,440
How's it going?
665
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:51,720
Like, I haven't seen you
since the wedding day.
666
00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:52,760
The wedding. Yeah.
667
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:54,360
How are the living arrangements
going?
668
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:57,760
How are you? Are you - is there,
is there a connection there,
669
00:27:57,880 --> 00:27:59,360
like with the whole...
670
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:01,400
Yeah, of course, with us, there is.
671
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:02,520
Of course.
Amazing.
672
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:04,720
It was from like the get-go,
I would say.
673
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:06,640
Get-go? Amazing.
Yeah, that's right, that's right.
674
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:08,440
'Cause, I'm not gonna lie to you,
675
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:10,000
I did have...
Tell me about the wedding.
676
00:28:10,120 --> 00:28:12,440
I wanted to ask about the wedding.
Here we go, here we go.
677
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:13,920
This is what I wanted
to ask about the wedding.
678
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:15,440
But you asked another question.
OK, OK.
679
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:17,160
Let's talk about the wedding.
Let's go.
680
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:23,840
My concern for her
is she's giving up so much.
681
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:28,000
She's come out to Australia...
We're not selling me here, guys.
682
00:28:28,120 --> 00:28:30,480
No, but I am selling you here.
683
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:33,720
She's given up a lot of her life.
684
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:38,640
You know, she's given up her family,
her friends and everything.
685
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:41,640
And my only concern is I know
what she's looking for.
686
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:45,320
She's looking for longevity.
687
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:48,880
And I'm here to protect her.
688
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:53,960
Filip got grilled by Joe.
689
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:57,120
Um, he put his really,
like, protective, you know,
690
00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:00,040
father figure hat on.
691
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:02,640
I don't want to be putting pressure
on Filip to move to Sydney.
692
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:06,720
I want him to make this decision
on his own, in his own mind.
693
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:10,640
And that's where, you know,
I'm reserving myself
694
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:12,760
from asking hard, hard questions.
695
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:16,600
So, hard questions
that came from Joe's mouth,
696
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:20,720
it's almost like he's asking
what I'm feeling.
697
00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:26,320
Yeah. So, he was doing, you know,
I guess, the screening for me.
698
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:31,480
(SINGING CHEERFUL TUNE)
699
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:33,920
(LAUGHTER)
700
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:35,720
Hey!
701
00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:37,200
Cheers! Salud!
702
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:39,720
So, what is the plan?
703
00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:42,520
Are you moving to Melbourne?
Are you moved to Sydney?
704
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:45,680
From the get-go, he said
that he would be moving.
705
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:49,280
I've always been open,
uh, to moving,
706
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:50,840
providing I met the right...
707
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:52,800
Providing I met the right person.
708
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:54,880
Um, I think, I don't know.
709
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,240
Sorry. Do you think you've met
the right person?
710
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:01,320
Well, well, this is the thing,
like, well...
711
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:02,440
No, like feelings. Like, yeah.
712
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:04,000
Like, feelings, it's on the way.
On the way.
713
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:06,800
Yes, I need more information.
I'm getting excited about you.
714
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:10,520
I'm getting some not so confident
vibes from over here.
715
00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:18,280
I am not convinced, Stella,
that you have complete confidence.
716
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:20,520
I don't, at the end of the day.
717
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:24,760
And unfortunately,
at this given stage,
718
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,760
you know, we do have
the wishy-washy situation
719
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:32,040
and like, I don't want to ask
and impose myself too much.
720
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:35,520
I don't want to put more pressure
on him
721
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:38,320
because, you know, he did
mention a couple of times,
722
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:40,560
you know, it's also a lot
of pressure on him.
723
00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:41,600
And...
Yeah.
724
00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:45,600
Like, I don't want to pressure
him into giving me any answers.
725
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:47,360
OK.
726
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:50,040
Love is not enough. Like I don't
think like Leila does.
727
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:53,840
They're a beautiful couple.
728
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:55,600
Like, he's a good looking guy.
729
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:57,640
She's an incredible,
good looking woman.
730
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:01,520
I know Stella, she's a great rock.
731
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:05,400
I know that she's quite
serious about it.
732
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:07,680
I think he is as well.
733
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:13,280
But I think their foundation
is unstable at the moment.
734
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:17,520
So, out of 100.
Yeah.
735
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:20,560
Joe, Joe, Joe!
(LAUGHS)
736
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:22,560
We're getting into, like...
No, no, no, no, no.
737
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:26,400
Well, they both came into
this experiment for a reason.
738
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:28,000
Yeah, we did.
Yeah.
739
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:31,920
Stella, where do you see yourself
out of 100?
740
00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:33,760
Um, if he would be here in Sydney...
741
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:35,360
No, no, you need to give me
a number.
742
00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:36,800
Just a number.
743
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:40,600
It would be 100 if I know...
Wow!
744
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:41,880
Wow!
Wow!
745
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:44,640
Well, let me bow to you.
746
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:46,040
That is incredible.
That's a good man.
747
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:47,160
That is a huge call.
748
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:49,800
I do see growth in him.
I do see stability with him.
749
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:53,480
He gives me reassurance,
emotional safety.
750
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:55,680
I do see him as the father
of the children.
751
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:56,760
Well...
752
00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:59,560
You've just reassured me
and reassured us.
753
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:01,080
Yeah.
You know?
754
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:05,120
So, Filip, Where do you see
yourself
755
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:07,480
out of 100 right now as a couple?
756
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:10,240
And be completely honest
and I will not judge you.
757
00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:13,920
In this current, in this current
form, like,
758
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:15,400
like right now, where we're at,
759
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:18,960
so, like out of 100, like,
760
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:22,040
I'd - honestly, 75 out of 100.
761
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:26,040
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
762
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:33,960
NARRATOR: In Queensland,
763
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:38,440
Melbourne based Gia is settling
into the Gold Coast lifestyle.
764
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:43,400
Do you wanna help me with the bed?
765
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:49,360
I'm here temporarily
until we find a bigger place.
766
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:52,640
I just don't know where
all my stuff would go.
767
00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:55,840
I have a four bedroom
worth of house, like stuff.
768
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:57,360
Like, I have so much stuff.
769
00:32:57,480 --> 00:32:58,480
Like, what am I gonna do with it?
770
00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:01,080
Can you grab the...
771
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:04,160
No, take them off completely.
772
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:08,280
I don't want to live
out of a suitcase.
773
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:11,640
Like, I'd rather just go
from my house to another house
774
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:13,920
of that size or bigger.
775
00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:15,600
Like, that's just what I'm used to.
776
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:19,800
My bed has like two sets of these.
777
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:21,480
Another big Euro
778
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:23,640
and like three other ones
across here.
779
00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:25,920
I have like a big thick,
like furry mink
780
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:27,640
that I fold and have on
a certain way.
781
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:31,440
I have like heated blanket
underneath because I'm always cold.
782
00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:32,880
Geez, Louise.
Yeah. Like have so many things.
783
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:35,680
I have like three mattress toppers
because I want it like a cloud.
784
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,480
It's not going to be
full pink though, is it?
785
00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:38,880
It's all white.
OK. That's alright then.
786
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:40,240
It's all white and cream.
787
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:43,920
No, I don't - like my beauty room
is like pink and purple.
788
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:46,800
Everything else in my house
is white and beige.
789
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:47,880
Everything is white and beige.
790
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:49,400
So, we are not allowed
any my sheets.
791
00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:52,160
Yeah. For the spare room.
Yeah, for the guest room.
792
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:56,440
So, I'm the type of guy where, like,
I look at why someone's upset.
793
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:59,520
Is this something that's going to
be carrying on every single day?
794
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:01,640
Gia's not a go-with-the-flow
kind of girl. No.
795
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:04,360
But everyone has their opinion.
Gia is very picky.
796
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:05,800
We all know that. That's alright.
797
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:07,120
(LAUGHS)
798
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:12,000
Yeah, I couldn't,
I couldn't live here.
799
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:16,000
NARRATOR: South of Sydney,
800
00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:18,760
Stella and Filip are facing
some harsh truths
801
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:20,680
in front of Joe and Leila.
802
00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:26,000
So, Filip, where do you see
yourself
803
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:28,320
out of 100 right now as a couple?
804
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:31,640
And be completely honest
and I will not judge you.
805
00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:34,840
In this current, in this current
form, like,
806
00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:36,280
like right now, where we're at,
807
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:39,000
so, like out of 100,
808
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:41,520
like, honestly,
809
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:42,840
75 out of 100.
810
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:50,040
What was said by me on the couch
when experts asked,
811
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:51,960
"Oh, but he's giving you
reassurance.
812
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:54,440
"He's telling you, he's telling you
that he's going to move to Sydney."
813
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:58,240
I'm like, it is telling, it's words.
It's not actions, right?
814
00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:02,480
What he said today, like, you know,
I'm 75% sure
815
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:04,240
and like, he's not yet there.
816
00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:09,160
Yeah. It's just you're putting
yourself on the line
817
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:11,160
again and again and again.
818
00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:16,240
I'll tell you why
and I'll tell you why.
819
00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:18,600
Like, I've always had this
over my head,
820
00:35:18,720 --> 00:35:21,120
coming into this relationship,
going, if I don't move to Sydney,
821
00:35:21,240 --> 00:35:22,240
this is not going to work.
822
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:23,880
If I don't move to Sydney,
this is not going to work.
823
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:25,160
You know what I mean?
That's pressure.
824
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:30,560
I need to know where I fit
in her lifestyle.
825
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:33,240
Just saying, I need to know
where I fit in it.
826
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:35,520
Because if I'm moving and I'm
moving my whole social...
827
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:37,160
I leave everyone behind.
She will give.
828
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:38,440
She will throw...
She is the priority.
829
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:40,920
I need to see that back as well,
which I am. Like...
830
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:43,120
I'm just saying I need
to see more of that.
831
00:35:43,240 --> 00:35:44,360
It's not - we don't do it
on promises.
832
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:45,480
Of course.
We just need to...
833
00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:47,560
We just need the time
aspect to happen.
834
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:50,360
I don't want to say something
that I don't feel,
835
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:52,400
which would be disingenuous
to Stella.
836
00:35:53,240 --> 00:35:54,760
If I was 100 out of 100,
837
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,640
I'd be literally moving
in all my stuff already.
838
00:35:57,760 --> 00:35:59,160
You know, that's where
I think we're at.
839
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:02,400
A lot of things - you were
saying before
840
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:04,360
that Stella's given up
heaps to be here.
841
00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:07,680
And I would argue
that I've given up a lot,
842
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:10,600
and I'm willing to give up more
to make this happen.
843
00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:14,720
Moving forward,
like post-experiment,
844
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:17,320
I just need to be sure.
Do you know what I'm saying?
845
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:21,440
Like, I need you to, like, as much
as I'm showing up for you,
846
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:23,120
I need you to show up for me.
847
00:36:23,240 --> 00:36:24,280
You've got to give me
the reassurance
848
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:25,320
as much as I am.
849
00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:26,520
Like, I'm happy to be a rock,
like I've been doing,
850
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:27,880
have patience and stuff like that.
851
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:30,400
But I need you to kind of
meet me there as well.
852
00:36:31,720 --> 00:36:35,440
So, I don't have 100% guarantee.
853
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:38,000
I wish I had a guarantee,
854
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:40,760
but I just wanted to be truthful
and just no BS.
855
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:45,640
Look, he's very convincing.
856
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:49,920
Um, has he told me
what I want to hear? Yes, he has.
857
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:52,280
Is that enough for Stella?
858
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:54,080
I'm hoping I'm wrong.
859
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:57,680
And I'm hoping the experiment
has got everything right.
860
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:01,160
Hey, I hope I'm wrong.
861
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:05,680
I appreciate you showing
up for me, because...
862
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:07,480
Yeah.
We're glad to be here.
863
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:09,880
(DARK SOUNDTRACK)
864
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:11,160
NARRATOR: Still to come...
865
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:12,880
(LAUGHS)
866
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:16,320
..Rachel and Steven's homestay
continues to progress.
867
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:18,480
I mentioned the affection
last time we met.
868
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:19,760
Yes.
Has that improved? Like...
869
00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:21,360
It has improved a lot.
870
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:24,240
Where our focus is sort of heading
towards now
871
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:25,560
is outside the experiment.
872
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:27,440
You've come a long way.
873
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:31,640
NARRATOR: And will Scott be able
to voice his concerns with Gia?
874
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:34,720
Oh, like, yeah, just like...
875
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:36,160
OK.
876
00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:38,040
I'm saying like, do you trust me
100%?
877
00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:41,080
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
878
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:50,800
What's it like living with Steven?
879
00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:53,000
(LAUGHS)
880
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:54,800
NARRATOR: In New South Wales,
on the Central Coast,
881
00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:58,920
Steven's parents, brother,
and sister-in-law, Bianca,
882
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:02,320
are getting up to speed
on their relationship.
883
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:04,240
So, Rach...
Yes.
884
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:05,880
Please enlighten us.
885
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:08,720
We've come into a good, like,
886
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:10,280
I don't know, what would you call -
rhythm.
887
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:13,360
You know, I know that Steven
has quirks,
888
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:16,280
and I've just showed them patience
and learned to live with them.
889
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,920
NARRATOR: The last time Rachel
met with Steven's family...
890
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:22,360
To us!
891
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:25,680
..brother, Dylan, highlighted
Steven's struggles
892
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:27,760
with intimate affection
and connection.
893
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:31,000
Do you think Steven
is affectionate enough?
894
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:33,800
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
895
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:39,200
No.
(LAUGHTER)
896
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:42,960
Obviously, I mentioned the affection
last time we met.
897
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:44,320
Yes.
Has that improved?
898
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:45,520
It has improved a lot.
899
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:48,680
I'm a very affectionate person.
900
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:53,520
But now, I've noticed his hand
will come wandering for mine.
901
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:55,200
Yeah.
You know, he'll come to me
902
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:58,640
for a hug and all these little
things. It's nice.
903
00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:00,080
As far as the experiment goes, yeah,
904
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:01,760
We've had our highs and lows
905
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:05,120
and our highs are a lot higher
than our lows.
906
00:39:05,240 --> 00:39:07,680
So, it's going in the right
direction.
907
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:10,640
I think you've come a long way
since family stay
908
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:11,560
or whatever it's called.
909
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:13,000
Yeah, look at this.
Rachel's the same.
910
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:14,960
Arm around. Oh, my gosh.
That's right.
911
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:20,280
It feels really natural,
welcoming Rachel and Steven.
912
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:22,560
Oh!
913
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:25,880
As a mum, seeing Steven
in a relationship,
914
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:30,240
I feel fantastic because that's
what I've always wanted for him.
915
00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:33,160
But we're great inside
the experiment.
916
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:35,800
Sort of where our focus
is sort of heading towards now
917
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:37,080
is outside the experiment.
918
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:40,040
OK. Different states.
919
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:41,960
So, what are we thinking?
920
00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:43,840
Do you want me to tell the plan?
I've got the plan.
921
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:45,040
We're thinking Sydney?
You've got the plan.
922
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:46,000
I've got the plan.
Tell us the plan.
923
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:48,600
You, Steve. Let Steve tell me
the plan.
924
00:39:48,720 --> 00:39:51,560
Come on, Steve, 'cause I want
to hear your plan.
925
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:54,760
So, to start with,
926
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:57,040
we're sort of going to just do
long distance
927
00:39:57,160 --> 00:40:00,520
and we're going to give it a time
limit of roughly around six months
928
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:02,360
and see where we go from there.
929
00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:06,240
Yeah. So, I need six more months
with the love of my life,
930
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:07,240
which is Melbourne.
931
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:09,520
You know, I built that life
for myself.
932
00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:12,200
I made all my friends,
built my career,
933
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:13,960
everything in Melbourne.
934
00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:15,280
Yeah, I get that.
935
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:16,640
I know that it's got
to come from me
936
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:19,760
because Steven's business
isn't as flexible.
937
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:21,000
Yeah.
938
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:24,160
And at the end of the day, like,
I want this to work
939
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:27,240
and I want our relationship
to like grow and go forward.
940
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:29,600
So, that's fine. That's all good.
941
00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:34,640
But at the moment it looks like Rach
pushes the relationship along.
942
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:36,720
So, I don't want Steven to feel
like,
943
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:39,600
well, I've got to sacrifice
everything that I've worked for,
944
00:40:39,720 --> 00:40:40,760
everything that I've built.
945
00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:44,280
I felt like Steven never
really said,
946
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:46,960
"I'm going to sacrifice..." anything
947
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:49,400
How does that make you feel, Steve?
948
00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:52,520
She's basically saying she's going
to move her whole life.
949
00:40:55,720 --> 00:40:57,640
It makes me feel lucky
950
00:40:57,760 --> 00:40:59,960
and, you know, very happy about it,
you know?
951
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:02,160
And, um...
952
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:03,960
This feels amazing.
953
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:06,760
But also, at the same time,
it actually sort of makes me feel
954
00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:11,360
a little bit bad that I haven't
compromised that much as well.
955
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:13,440
I feel like the butt-hole
in the relationship.
956
00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:15,280
I'm like, "Yeah, I'm just gonna
chill here in Sydney
957
00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:17,120
"and Rachel's going to come to me."
958
00:41:17,240 --> 00:41:19,560
Yeah, it's a massive,
it's a massive thing.
959
00:41:20,720 --> 00:41:22,680
You don't put too much
pressure on each other.
960
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:24,760
Six months transition time.
961
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:28,000
Steven might realise, "Well, maybe
I'll give Melbourne a go."
962
00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:30,200
And I've never said never either.
He's never said never.
963
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:31,800
I've never said never.
He's never said never.
964
00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:33,280
Yeah, I get that.
965
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:36,440
Oh, but look, I'm really happy
for you guys, to be honest.
966
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:38,040
Here's cheers and all this.
967
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:39,400
Thank you all so much.
968
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:40,520
Cheers.
Cheers.
969
00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:44,280
Family dinner with Rachel
and Steven was great.
970
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:45,760
We just got to learn a lot,
971
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:48,240
which for us as a family,
was very reassuring
972
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:50,040
that things are heading
in the right direction.
973
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:51,560
They complement each other.
974
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:53,280
They bring different things
to the table.
975
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:55,680
And I definitely think Rach
976
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:58,000
has had a positive effect
on Steven's life.
977
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:11,000
Excited?
Yeah.
978
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:12,200
NARRATOR: On the Gold Coast,
979
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:14,840
Gia and Scott are spending
the day on the water.
980
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:18,760
Nice boat, eh?
Yeah, it's nice.
981
00:42:20,240 --> 00:42:23,000
NARRATOR: Joining them today
are Scott's best friends,
982
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:26,160
Matt, Paige, Jackson and Bianca.
983
00:42:27,240 --> 00:42:28,640
I'm feeling nervous.
984
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:32,960
Last time with Matt and Paige
was family friends at the apartment.
985
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:36,160
Matt put his foot in his mouth
and was saying some things.
986
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:39,640
It was just a bit, you know,
disrespectful or inappropriate.
987
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:42,880
Is Gia a better version
of your ex?
988
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:47,280
Don't compare me
to his ex-girlfriend.
989
00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:48,680
You want to be controversial?
990
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:50,240
I'll give it back because
that's what I'm like.
991
00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:52,920
I don't think you can compare
992
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:54,400
because I would never start
an OnlyFans.
993
00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:58,560
Good to see you, bro.
Good to see you, bro.
994
00:42:58,680 --> 00:42:59,520
Gia.
995
00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:00,920
I mean, the last commitment
ceremony,
996
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:04,600
Alessandra did say, "How do you
think it's going to go, Gia,
997
00:43:04,720 --> 00:43:05,880
"with your friends in real life?
998
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:08,800
"Do you think she's going
to maybe have drama?"
999
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:10,680
Because obviously I have
in the experiment.
1000
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:12,280
Hello!
1001
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:15,560
So, yeah, I mean, I've probably
got to prove myself today.
1002
00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:18,400
Cheers to the good life
and Gia and Scotty.
1003
00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:19,680
Cheers!
1004
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:22,280
Yeah, like, I hope everyone's
on their best behaviour today.
1005
00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:25,000
I reckon we'll hit the water,
go for a cruise.
1006
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:26,720
Done.
Cool.
1007
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:29,760
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1008
00:43:41,720 --> 00:43:43,000
He's going to ask me questions, eh?
1009
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:44,400
(LAUGHTER)
1010
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:45,640
That's the name of the game.
1011
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:46,680
That's the whole name
of the game, isn't it?
1012
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:48,200
Got to get to the bottom
of everything, mate.
1013
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:49,840
Oh...
Yeah.
1014
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:52,000
I'm not quite sure
if they're the right fit.
1015
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:54,480
I want to see where they're at.
1016
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:57,160
But for the past week,
1017
00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:59,600
Scotty went a bit quiet on me,
so I know something's up.
1018
00:43:59,720 --> 00:44:00,600
Yeah.
Hmm.
1019
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:05,120
Have youse - anyone dropped
the L word yet?
1020
00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:07,760
Not yet.
Yeah.
1021
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:10,040
We've had arguments over it,
to be honest.
1022
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:11,320
What, like, "You love me first"?
1023
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:13,960
No, it's like she's just waiting
for me to say it.
1024
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:18,000
But I don't want to feel
like I need to say it
1025
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:20,880
just to make Gia feel comfortable,
you know?
1026
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:23,440
And you want it to be real.
You don't want it to be forced.
1027
00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:24,960
Yeah, it's...
1028
00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:28,800
So, what's the what's the next step,
plug, you know?
1029
00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:30,840
I'm 100% moving. Yeah.
1030
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:34,400
Like, so, I'm going to come
with him to the Gold Coast.
1031
00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:36,440
Like, bring all our stuff
as soon as we leave.
1032
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:38,360
Look for a place and then move.
1033
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:42,320
Yeah, we started looking
at, like, bigger places
1034
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:44,640
'cause obviously, like, yeah,
I need more.
1035
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:45,640
A bigger home.
1036
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:47,800
In other words, she's saying
Scott's place is, you know...
1037
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:48,800
You need, you need one...
1038
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:49,960
It's good, it's good for one man.
1039
00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:52,400
Bachelor pad, bachelor pad.
It's great for a bachelor!
1040
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:55,320
Like, as soon as the experiment
ends,
1041
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:56,240
she's going to move to Queensland.
1042
00:44:57,480 --> 00:44:59,400
You shouldn't just rush
things too quickly.
1043
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:03,280
They haven't even told each other
that they love each other yet.
1044
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:08,880
I feel like they should be knocking
that off before they make,
1045
00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:10,360
you know, the big move in together.
1046
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:12,840
It's just more for us now,
the timing.
1047
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:16,640
I want to go back a few times
and then look at places
1048
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:18,720
and decide like what date we move.
1049
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:20,240
But she wants to do it
before the end of the year.
1050
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:23,520
It felt like a lot of pressure.
1051
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:25,640
No, should go somewhere, like...
1052
00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:26,760
We've planned like,
1053
00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:28,480
because her daughter needs to be
enrolled to a school.
1054
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:30,160
Well, she's going on school
holidays.
1055
00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:31,920
Yeah.
We'll have the time
1056
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:35,320
to, like, move and get a new
school organised and all that.
1057
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:36,520
Yeah. Yeah.
1058
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:39,160
I felt the pressure and I'm not
even in the relationship.
1059
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:42,760
I said like, I wanted to have
like one or two more kids.
1060
00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:46,560
Um, like have a big house,
have this certain car. Like...
1061
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:48,280
He might be happy discussing it all.
1062
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:49,720
But I think behind the scenes,
1063
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:52,320
and when we question him
one-on-one about this,
1064
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:54,680
this is when we really will be
getting the true colours.
1065
00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:56,680
Yeah.
Yeah.
1066
00:45:56,800 --> 00:45:58,120
So...
1067
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:02,000
NARRATOR: Next...
1068
00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:04,640
I feel like I see you
being pressured.
1069
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:07,920
I wasn't seeing 100% real out there.
1070
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:17,840
Well, how much longer
does it go for?
1071
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:19,320
Three weeks, I think.
1072
00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:20,720
NARRATOR: On the Gold Coast,
1073
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:23,920
Gia is getting to know Scott's
childhood friend, Jackson,
1074
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:25,960
and partner, Bianca.
1075
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:27,840
After that, we like separate
1076
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:29,560
and we deliberate our decision
1077
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:31,040
if we're going to stay together
outside.
1078
00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:33,600
NARRATOR: Downstairs,
Scott is debriefing
1079
00:46:33,720 --> 00:46:35,560
with Matt and Paige.
1080
00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:41,080
Alright, Scotty. So, being
your friend, knowing you so well,
1081
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:44,040
I feel like I see you
being pressured.
1082
00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:48,800
I feel like I wasn't seeing
100% real out there.
1083
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:51,240
Well, this is the thing.
1084
00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:54,280
When we have our really
good moments,
1085
00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:57,000
that makes me feel like
I'm falling in love with her.
1086
00:46:57,120 --> 00:47:02,200
But then when we have tough
situations or arguments,
1087
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:03,760
that pulls me back.
1088
00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:08,200
There was nothing in my house,
but there was a pink neck pillow.
1089
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:09,480
Yeah. Travel pillow?
Yeah.
1090
00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:12,400
"What's that? Who's that from?"
1091
00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:14,160
Pretty much saying,
like, "Who is this from?"
1092
00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:16,160
Like there's another girl
that's given it to me.
1093
00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:18,520
Has any other girl worn it
around their neck?
1094
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:19,600
No.
1095
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:25,000
Little things like that makes me
feel like she doesn't trust me.
1096
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:27,680
It's all these little hurdles,
like it's just a pillow
1097
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:29,000
at the end of the day.
1098
00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:31,320
And if that's a little small subject
that could affect someone,
1099
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:33,640
what else out there
could trigger her?
1100
00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:35,640
So, right now, I feel so much
for her
1101
00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:37,240
because we're so good and strong.
1102
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:40,320
But then as soon as we hit a bump
like that, it retracts me.
1103
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:44,040
I can't, I just - this is what's
so bad about me.
1104
00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:45,520
I - things happen probably
once a week
1105
00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:46,640
and I'm like, I forget about 'em.
1106
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:50,000
Some of the behaviour
throughout this experiment,
1107
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:52,120
the drama, the fighting.
I don't like that stuff.
1108
00:47:52,240 --> 00:47:53,280
Yeah.
1109
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:56,160
Does she get a little bit into it?
1110
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:57,240
100%.
1111
00:47:58,160 --> 00:47:59,160
Don't gaslight me!
1112
00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:00,520
Watch your mouth, girl!
Watch your mouth.
1113
00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:02,000
I'm being honest!
1114
00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:04,760
Don't lie about me.
Be accountable!
1115
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:07,960
Absolutely not. You're not going
to gaslight a woman right now.
1116
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:09,320
You know what you said.
1117
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:11,080
Why the hell would I make...
Gia, Gia, Gia...
1118
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:12,200
Stop. I'm talking.
1119
00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:15,800
Because you're a mean girl
1120
00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:17,600
and all you do is go around...
Oh, I'm a mean girl!
1121
00:48:17,720 --> 00:48:19,320
..and talk shit about every girl!
Mean girl!
1122
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:21,360
(LAUGHS)
1123
00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:23,680
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1124
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:26,720
I showed screenshots
to a girlfriend. Sue me. Like...
1125
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:29,400
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1126
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:32,400
Alessandra said something
along the lines
1127
00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:33,800
of, "You know, Scott, do you think
this is something
1128
00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:35,280
"you could put up with outside
the experiment?"
1129
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:36,800
I said, "No, I wouldn't
tolerate it."
1130
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:39,320
Which is true because she has been
in a lot of drama.
1131
00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:43,120
Can I put up with this outside
the experiment?
1132
00:48:43,240 --> 00:48:44,520
Yeah.
Is she like this
1133
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:46,680
outside the experiment?
I don't know.
1134
00:48:48,240 --> 00:48:50,880
Where I'm like (BLEEP),
like, is this normal?
1135
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:52,680
Yeah.
I don't, I get so confused.
1136
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:56,360
Because I have so much hope
because I see so much good in her.
1137
00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:00,960
I want Scotty to like,
really think about
1138
00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:03,200
is this going to actually work
for him?
1139
00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:08,840
Scotty doesn't get involved
in that kind of drama. He doesn't.
1140
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:12,160
You know, his life is just so -
he's a cruisey guy.
1141
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:14,400
You know, I feel like
you're in two minds.
1142
00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:16,280
When it's good, you're very happy.
1143
00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:18,320
But then when it's bad,
like that is something
1144
00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:20,320
that you would run away from
in the real world.
1145
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:23,680
That's my concern.
1146
00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:25,720
That's why I don't understand
1147
00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:27,160
why you need to rush
when you get out.
1148
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:28,880
Because...
I don't want to rush.
1149
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:29,720
Yeah.
1150
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:34,320
She wants to move within the month,
and I don't want to do that,
1151
00:49:34,440 --> 00:49:36,080
but I'm trying to make
her feel secure.
1152
00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:37,680
Like, because if I say to her
I want longer,
1153
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:39,520
she thinks I'm leading her on,
but I'm not.
1154
00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:40,840
Yeah. What I heard out there
1155
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:42,600
is that she thinks
that she's moving up.
1156
00:49:42,720 --> 00:49:44,200
Four bedroom house.
1157
00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:45,840
School, kids, boom.
It's just you need...
1158
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:47,520
You need to be more honest
with yourself.
1159
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:49,920
I could see it out there.
I see you being pressured.
1160
00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:52,520
If this is everything right now,
1161
00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:55,600
do I think they would work
outside the experiment?
1162
00:49:55,720 --> 00:49:58,080
No. 'Cause I know Scotty so well
1163
00:49:58,200 --> 00:49:59,640
to know that he would go
running for the hills.
1164
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:02,600
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1165
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:05,200
Gia's giving excuses
1166
00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:08,440
that the experiment is what's
setting her off all the time
1167
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:11,320
and once we're in our
four bedroom house
1168
00:50:11,440 --> 00:50:13,000
and everything's all running
perfect,
1169
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:14,960
it's all going to be happy ending.
1170
00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:17,480
But I still think there'll
be external triggers
1171
00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:19,440
that they'll have to navigate.
1172
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:20,680
Right. So, you're scared to say,
1173
00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:22,600
"Hey, I don't want to move
so quickly."
1174
00:50:22,720 --> 00:50:24,200
Like, are you scared
about her reaction?
1175
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:25,240
Pretty much.
1176
00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:28,520
And that's when I feel
like I'm on eggshells.
1177
00:50:29,720 --> 00:50:31,880
Like you need to be able
to voice your concerns.
1178
00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:34,640
How is a relationship
going to work on the outside
1179
00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:36,040
if you're in an experiment
right now
1180
00:50:36,160 --> 00:50:37,480
and you can't even voice
how you feel?
1181
00:50:38,720 --> 00:50:40,440
Yeah, I have these doubts
and concerns
1182
00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:43,360
and like right now,
I can't be 100% certain.
1183
00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:47,000
There's a lot of things I want
to talk about with her privately.
1184
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:50,000
I just wanted to be able
to talk about anything,
1185
00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:51,880
not feel uncomfortable
1186
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:55,560
and not Gia feel like it's going
to be an argument.
1187
00:50:56,600 --> 00:50:58,160
It's just a lot for me to process.
1188
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:02,760
Like, moving forward. What do you
guys think I should personally do?
1189
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:05,080
Paige?
1190
00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:07,840
I just - you're up there telling me
that you guys are great,
1191
00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:08,960
but then down here you're saying,
1192
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:10,360
"Well, actually, like, you know,
once a week,
1193
00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:12,120
"I'm having issues."
1194
00:51:12,240 --> 00:51:15,760
To be honest, don't worry
about walking on eggshells.
1195
00:51:15,880 --> 00:51:17,360
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1196
00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:19,880
There's so many things
I need to address.
1197
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:23,520
Just overlook our relationship
in general and our behaviours,
1198
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:25,200
how we interact, how we communicate.
1199
00:51:26,480 --> 00:51:28,840
There's so many things we need
to get through
1200
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:30,440
before I can make a final decision,
1201
00:51:30,560 --> 00:51:32,080
because I'm not 100% there yet.
1202
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:35,320
I feel like you do have feelings
1203
00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:39,040
and there are good times
and you do feel like you're falling.
1204
00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:41,240
But then there's the other side
1205
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:43,760
and, I don't know, I just feel
like, yeah, you're turning
1206
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:45,720
a blind eye to everything else
right now.
1207
00:51:45,840 --> 00:51:48,800
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1208
00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:57,480
NARRATOR: As the sun sets
on another day of homestays...
1209
00:51:57,600 --> 00:51:58,840
I'm happier than ever.
How does it feel
1210
00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:00,160
having a girl in your house?
1211
00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:02,360
It feels quite juicy.
1212
00:52:02,480 --> 00:52:04,080
Juicy? (LAUGHS)
1213
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:06,520
..our couples are settling in
for the night.
1214
00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:08,200
(SNORING)
1215
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:19,120
NARRATOR: And on the Central Coast
of New South Wales,
1216
00:52:19,240 --> 00:52:21,640
Rachel and Steven tuck into bed.
1217
00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:23,560
You've got a sleepy face.
Sleepy face?
1218
00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:25,640
You've got sleepy face.
Sleepy face! (LAUGHS)
1219
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:27,920
NARRATOR: But not before
saying good night...
1220
00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:29,960
Let's call it a night, shall we?
Yeah. Let's get some sleep.
1221
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:31,680
Alright.
(KNOCK ON DOOR)
1222
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:33,360
..to Mum.
1223
00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:34,520
I'm going to bed.
1224
00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:35,880
I hope you enjoyed dinner.
1225
00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:38,080
So, have a good night and we'll
see you tomorrow morning.
1226
00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:39,400
Thanks.
Have a good night.
1227
00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:40,560
Night!
Good night!
1228
00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:42,800
(LAUGHS)
1229
00:52:45,720 --> 00:52:46,800
Alright.
1230
00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:48,520
Alrighty.
1231
00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:51,280
Not as big as our bed in...
1232
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:54,720
I know! This is a lot smaller
than what we're used to, but...
1233
00:52:54,840 --> 00:52:56,000
(LAUGHS)
1234
00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:57,520
Close quarters around here.
I know!
1235
00:52:57,640 --> 00:52:58,560
What's that touching me?
1236
00:52:58,680 --> 00:52:59,880
(LAUGHTER)
1237
00:53:07,200 --> 00:53:10,120
NARRATOR: With homestays drawing
to a close...
1238
00:53:10,240 --> 00:53:12,840
It's been a whirlwind of emotions!
1239
00:53:12,960 --> 00:53:15,440
..Stella and Filip are heading
to lunch
1240
00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:18,240
after some difficult conversations
yesterday,
1241
00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:22,920
where Filip expressed his 75%
assurance in the relationship.
1242
00:53:24,200 --> 00:53:27,760
Joe asked, "Out of 100,
how do you feel?"
1243
00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:29,880
Filip said 75.
1244
00:53:30,000 --> 00:53:33,880
I said 100% and like, for me,
I really need to stop my brain
1245
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:35,160
going into overdrive.
1246
00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:40,520
I really do, but it doesn't feel
resolved, if that makes sense.
1247
00:53:40,640 --> 00:53:43,640
Like, yeah, yeah.
1248
00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:48,480
Um...
1249
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:52,400
Joe asked, obviously, you know,
a very hard question.
1250
00:53:52,520 --> 00:53:55,960
You know, where out of 100,
1251
00:53:56,080 --> 00:53:57,360
how certain you feel.
1252
00:53:57,480 --> 00:54:00,760
And you know, I said, yes,
I do see a future.
1253
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:03,120
I'm very thankful for Joe
that he asked that question,
1254
00:54:03,240 --> 00:54:07,080
because I would have never dared
to ask it directly like that.
1255
00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:11,680
So, these are the, you know,
the difficult parts.
1256
00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:13,480
Not having...
1257
00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:17,680
Certainty.
..certainty. Yeah.
1258
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:20,920
It's not a rejection.
1259
00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:22,320
No. Of course.
1260
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:24,480
Yeah, it definitely wasn't
a rejection.
1261
00:54:24,600 --> 00:54:26,840
I'm feeling it as much as you are.
1262
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:29,280
There's a few moving parts.
That's all it is.
1263
00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:34,400
The big ticket items are good.
1264
00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:36,360
Like we love each other.
1265
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:37,520
Like we've got good respect,
1266
00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:40,280
like there's good potential
for a future, you know?
1267
00:54:41,360 --> 00:54:43,880
So, 100% committed, right?
1268
00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:46,440
75% sure how it's all going
to work,
1269
00:54:46,560 --> 00:54:48,040
the nuts and bolts.
1270
00:54:48,160 --> 00:54:50,360
Stella's definitely
the right person for me.
1271
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:53,560
I just hate it when I don't
have anything sorted,
1272
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:54,880
how it's going to work
1273
00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:57,360
and all that kind of stuff
that's yet to be sorted.
1274
00:54:57,480 --> 00:55:00,240
Like, you've got everything
that I want in a partner.
1275
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:06,480
I'm just a realist here
and I just think through logistics
1276
00:55:06,600 --> 00:55:07,960
and stuff like that.
1277
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:10,640
There's, there's obviously living
arrangements,
1278
00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:12,520
how we're going to go
moving forward,
1279
00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:14,360
uh, how I'm going to be
working here,
1280
00:55:14,480 --> 00:55:16,360
uh, what I'll do for work
in the meantime,
1281
00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:17,480
all that kind of stuff.
1282
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:19,920
That's kind of, that was
my all-round out of 100.
1283
00:55:20,720 --> 00:55:24,600
You've always told me like, "Don't
come here to Sydney for me."
1284
00:55:24,720 --> 00:55:28,160
And I'm just like, well,
deal with it.
1285
00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:32,200
I'm open to moving now.
1286
00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:34,480
Yes, I can see myself here.
1287
00:55:35,200 --> 00:55:38,200
She told me that she's already
100 out of 100, like in this,
1288
00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:39,800
like, ready to go.
1289
00:55:39,920 --> 00:55:41,160
So, like she's ready to go.
1290
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:44,040
So, now it's just kind of...
I need to sort my shit out.
1291
00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:45,800
You as a person...
1292
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:48,120
Yeah. It's like pretty much
flawless.
1293
00:55:51,600 --> 00:55:53,480
Oh, I almost cried.
1294
00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:55,680
I got what I needed.
1295
00:55:55,800 --> 00:55:57,240
I got my reassurances.
1296
00:55:57,360 --> 00:56:01,440
Just let me lead sometimes.
Just let me lead, you know?
1297
00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:05,440
Like I needed for him
to put the plans in motion,
1298
00:56:05,560 --> 00:56:07,840
what he's going to do
after the experiment.
1299
00:56:07,960 --> 00:56:10,280
This is... This is it.
1300
00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:14,840
He's shown up for me
over and over again
1301
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:17,760
and it's a successful end
of the homestays.
1302
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:22,720
I can cry now. (LAUGHS)
1303
00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:27,040
We are coming out stronger
than we came in.
1304
00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:30,320
NARRATOR: Coming up...
1305
00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:31,600
Well, do you even trust me?
1306
00:56:32,680 --> 00:56:34,040
NARRATOR: Scott finds his voice.
1307
00:56:35,760 --> 00:56:37,680
OK, so, but do you put
yourself in my shoes?
1308
00:56:39,240 --> 00:56:40,960
I feel like sometimes
I'm walking on eggshells.
1309
00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:43,520
I feel like you might get
defensive and then me like...
1310
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:44,520
OK, Scott.
1311
00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:46,040
No, no, what I'm saying is,
like, I...
1312
00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:47,480
I didn't know you wanted
to argue today.
1313
00:56:56,120 --> 00:56:58,760
NARRATOR: On the Central Coast
of New South Wales,
1314
00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:03,480
for Steven, homestays has helped
him envision a future with Rachel
1315
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:05,080
outside the experiment...
1316
00:57:07,080 --> 00:57:10,040
..and has decided to take her
on a special date
1317
00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:12,760
to share exactly how he feels.
1318
00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:15,240
Ah, yeah, that's good stuff.
1319
00:57:15,360 --> 00:57:16,640
So good.
1320
00:57:16,760 --> 00:57:20,720
So, I thought I would, uh, bring out
Rachel to the local venue,
1321
00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:22,800
and we'd have a little bit
of a lunch,
1322
00:57:22,920 --> 00:57:26,200
a bit of a drink, and maybe
verbalise my emotions
1323
00:57:26,320 --> 00:57:27,760
towards Rachel a little bit more.
1324
00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:28,920
Cheers.
1325
00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:29,760
(CLASSES CLINK)
1326
00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:31,080
Oh, ding!
1327
00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:34,200
It's pretty hard to speak
about my feelings.
1328
00:57:34,320 --> 00:57:35,800
It's hard for me to be vulnerable.
1329
00:57:35,920 --> 00:57:38,040
It stresses me out.
1330
00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:39,560
I do adore Rachel.
1331
00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:42,200
I do want her to know that.
1332
00:57:42,320 --> 00:57:45,160
Can you believe it?
Last day of homestays.
1333
00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:48,800
It goes quick, eh?
Really does. It really does.
1334
00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:51,040
It's even crazier that, you know,
it only felt like yesterday
1335
00:57:51,160 --> 00:57:52,720
that we were getting married.
1336
00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:54,960
On that boat.
1337
00:57:55,080 --> 00:57:57,240
Literally felt like the floor
was moving
1338
00:57:57,360 --> 00:57:58,520
and turned around
1339
00:57:58,640 --> 00:58:00,600
and I met you for the first time.
1340
00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:03,040
Under the word 'I like you',
1341
00:58:03,160 --> 00:58:04,960
I've got so many reasons
why I like Rachel.
1342
00:58:05,680 --> 00:58:08,760
So, today is a day to express
those feelings to her.
1343
00:58:10,280 --> 00:58:15,040
I may not spell it out for you
verbally,
1344
00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:18,120
but just seeing you yesterday
on the boat,
1345
00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:20,080
having a go, casting the rod.
1346
00:58:20,200 --> 00:58:24,800
For me, what I see is a wife
outside the experiment.
1347
00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:29,200
Thank you, and I'm really happy
how homestays went...
1348
00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:31,840
Me too.
..and speaking about feelings...
1349
00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:36,720
..I like where this relationship
is going and I like you,
1350
00:58:36,840 --> 00:58:39,920
and if it keeps going
in the right direction,
1351
00:58:40,040 --> 00:58:42,400
I can see myself falling in love
with you one day.
1352
00:58:44,200 --> 00:58:47,240
Um, me being vulnerable here.
(CHUCKLES)
1353
00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:49,040
About to...
You're going to make me cry.
1354
00:58:49,160 --> 00:58:50,600
So...
1355
00:58:53,720 --> 00:58:56,760
I'm feeling so good. (LAUGHS)
1356
00:58:57,800 --> 00:59:00,440
What better than to have your man
tell you that he likes you
1357
00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:03,160
a couple of times, and he's
reassuring you
1358
00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:06,640
about where his feelings are.
It was beautiful.
1359
00:59:07,720 --> 00:59:10,680
The way that we interact,
the way that we are together
1360
00:59:10,800 --> 00:59:13,400
now versus the start line.
1361
00:59:13,520 --> 00:59:15,120
So different.
1362
00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:21,480
But I really appreciate you
verbalising and reassuring me
1363
00:59:21,600 --> 00:59:24,440
that, you know, like, yeah,
maybe we are a little bit
1364
00:59:24,560 --> 00:59:26,640
more on par than what I think.
1365
00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:28,760
Yeah.
It makes me really happy.
1366
00:59:29,640 --> 00:59:31,680
And I've got to stress that one
to you.
1367
00:59:31,800 --> 00:59:34,600
And I sort of need to reassure
that and spell it out for you.
1368
00:59:34,720 --> 00:59:39,040
I do like you and I have caught
up in my feelings for you.
1369
00:59:40,560 --> 00:59:41,680
I think it's...
1370
00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:47,720
This is amazing.
1371
00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:51,000
Like, I just - it really reaffirms
that I'm not out here by myself.
1372
00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:52,360
Like the feelings are real.
1373
00:59:52,480 --> 00:59:53,680
The feelings are mutual.
1374
00:59:54,600 --> 00:59:55,880
(LAUGHS)
1375
00:59:57,720 --> 00:59:59,480
We're leaving here stronger.
1376
01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:02,920
It is making me really excited
about moving to Sydney
1377
01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:04,600
and being a part of this life,
1378
01:00:04,720 --> 01:00:09,920
and that's exactly where I wanted
Steven and I to be.
1379
01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:13,120
Homestays has been great.
Yep.
1380
01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:14,200
Cheers, babe.
Cheers.
1381
01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:18,640
Holy shit. This is real. (LAUGHS)
1382
01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:33,400
So, last night of homestays,
do you think it was successful?
1383
01:00:33,520 --> 01:00:36,800
Did you think it would go
this way or are you surprised?
1384
01:00:37,800 --> 01:00:39,120
Um...
1385
01:00:39,240 --> 01:00:41,600
NARRATOR: Armed with feedback
from his friends,
1386
01:00:41,720 --> 01:00:45,960
Scott wants to address his concerns
with Gia about life together
1387
01:00:46,080 --> 01:00:48,120
after the experiment.
1388
01:00:49,200 --> 01:00:52,520
I need to be 100% certain
before final vows,
1389
01:00:52,640 --> 01:00:56,080
and I feel like I want to be able
to communicate 100%,
1390
01:00:56,200 --> 01:00:57,920
be open with my feelings
1391
01:00:58,040 --> 01:01:00,040
without feeling like
I'm on eggshells.
1392
01:01:00,760 --> 01:01:01,880
I mean, there's a couple
of little things
1393
01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:03,080
I think we still need to address
1394
01:01:03,200 --> 01:01:05,800
and for me to think about
within this experiment
1395
01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:08,800
and outside this experiment,
for us to be 100%.
1396
01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:11,200
Oh, like, yeah,
1397
01:01:11,320 --> 01:01:13,760
just obviously we had a rough week
and stuff,
1398
01:01:13,880 --> 01:01:15,800
so I didn't know how it was going
to go.
1399
01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:18,000
I didn't know if you didn't want
to be here, but like...
1400
01:01:18,120 --> 01:01:19,680
OK.
1401
01:01:19,800 --> 01:01:21,600
We all have our moments,
we're human beings, like...
1402
01:01:21,720 --> 01:01:23,600
(TENSE SOUNDTRACK)
1403
01:01:23,720 --> 01:01:26,240
I just want you to like get that,
that's all.
1404
01:01:26,360 --> 01:01:29,360
Well, sometimes it is difficult
to have conversations with Gia
1405
01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:33,360
because I think sometimes Gia
can still repel
1406
01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:34,920
and get defensive
1407
01:01:35,040 --> 01:01:37,360
when I'm just trying to talk about
a subject.
1408
01:01:38,560 --> 01:01:41,640
My biggest question to you, like,
I know we like trust one another,
1409
01:01:41,760 --> 01:01:43,400
but sometimes I feel like...
1410
01:01:43,520 --> 01:01:46,120
Do you like fully 100% trust me?
1411
01:01:48,920 --> 01:01:50,600
With what? In what way?
1412
01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:53,200
Every way.
1413
01:01:55,760 --> 01:01:57,240
With - I don't understand.
1414
01:01:57,360 --> 01:01:59,040
Do you trust me?
Like, do you trust my words?
1415
01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:00,960
Do you trust me as a person?
1416
01:02:01,080 --> 01:02:04,240
Do you trust me 100%?
1417
01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:07,240
Say, for example, say,
the neck pillow.
1418
01:02:08,600 --> 01:02:10,440
When I get the response of like,
"Who's is that?"
1419
01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:13,120
The way you ask that,
1420
01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:14,680
it's like, well, do you even
trust me?
1421
01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:18,640
OK. So, but do you put
yourself in my shoes
1422
01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:19,760
and see how it may look...
I do.
1423
01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:21,560
..from an outsider coming
into your home,
1424
01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:23,920
when you said you've not had
a woman in your house for years
1425
01:02:24,040 --> 01:02:26,080
in this house ever, and then I see
a woman thing.
1426
01:02:27,640 --> 01:02:30,160
Do you see how from my point
of view, how it could look?
1427
01:02:30,280 --> 01:02:31,680
Yeah, I know.
1428
01:02:31,800 --> 01:02:33,960
But, like, I don't know.
1429
01:02:34,080 --> 01:02:35,680
Just...
1430
01:02:35,800 --> 01:02:37,680
Like it's not like, oh, my god,
I went looking,
1431
01:02:37,800 --> 01:02:39,560
but it was just there when I turned
the corner in the closet.
1432
01:02:39,680 --> 01:02:40,960
Yeah, I know what you're saying.
It's not like I opened the drawer
1433
01:02:41,080 --> 01:02:42,520
and was like, "Oh my god,
what's in his house?"
1434
01:02:43,600 --> 01:02:46,960
From my point of view,
like it looked a certain way.
1435
01:02:47,080 --> 01:02:50,000
(TENSE SOUNDTRACK)
1436
01:02:51,240 --> 01:02:53,320
I feel like sometimes I'm walking
on eggshells
1437
01:02:53,440 --> 01:02:55,040
because I feel like if I want
to bring up something,
1438
01:02:55,160 --> 01:02:57,840
I feel like you might misinterpret
it the wrong way...
1439
01:02:59,280 --> 01:03:00,120
..get defensive and then me like...
1440
01:03:00,240 --> 01:03:01,160
OK, Scott.
1441
01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:02,600
No, no, what I'm saying
is like...
1442
01:03:02,720 --> 01:03:04,120
I didn't know you wanted
to argue today.
1443
01:03:17,280 --> 01:03:19,040
I feel like sometimes I'm walking
on eggshells
1444
01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:21,080
because I feel like if I want
to bring up something,
1445
01:03:21,200 --> 01:03:23,640
I feel like you might misinterpret
it the wrong way...
1446
01:03:25,240 --> 01:03:26,880
..get defensive and then,
do you know what I mean?
1447
01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:27,800
OK, Scott.
1448
01:03:27,920 --> 01:03:28,920
Like, no, no, what I'm saying
is like...
1449
01:03:29,040 --> 01:03:30,320
I didn't know you wanted
to argue today.
1450
01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:32,600
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1451
01:03:33,440 --> 01:03:35,000
Walking a bit on eggshells?
1452
01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:37,680
I don't really know
what that was about.
1453
01:03:39,080 --> 01:03:41,480
I wish you told me that you
felt like you were on eggshells
1454
01:03:41,600 --> 01:03:42,800
'cause I had no idea.
1455
01:03:44,120 --> 01:03:46,320
I know you love to focus
on the positives all the time
1456
01:03:46,440 --> 01:03:49,040
and so do I, but in life,
it's not always positive.
1457
01:03:49,160 --> 01:03:50,480
100%.
There's going to be moments
1458
01:03:50,600 --> 01:03:51,400
where I might lose my shit.
1459
01:03:52,480 --> 01:03:54,800
Like there's going to be moments
where I am a bit fiery
1460
01:03:54,920 --> 01:03:56,040
about something.
1461
01:03:56,160 --> 01:03:58,080
Like, do you accept that that's me
as a whole? Like...
1462
01:04:00,160 --> 01:04:01,360
I'm very self aware.
1463
01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:02,880
I would have listened
and I would have been apologetic
1464
01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:03,800
if I needed to be.
1465
01:04:03,920 --> 01:04:05,280
I don't know why you feel...
1466
01:04:05,400 --> 01:04:06,760
No, this is...
..unsafe to like,
1467
01:04:06,880 --> 01:04:08,160
say what you want to say.
1468
01:04:10,240 --> 01:04:14,640
But even like trusting me
as a person and marking my word,
1469
01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:17,880
like what I'm saying, like,
do you trust me 100%? That's all.
1470
01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:19,760
(TENSE SOUNDTRACK)
1471
01:04:19,880 --> 01:04:22,640
No, I trust you. But can I commit
to moving and everything
1472
01:04:22,760 --> 01:04:26,600
if you never feel like, you know,
that you love me.
1473
01:04:29,800 --> 01:04:31,360
Where I'm at emotionally,
moving forward,
1474
01:04:31,480 --> 01:04:35,080
like I'm just obviously I'm falling
for you every day
1475
01:04:35,200 --> 01:04:38,200
and I, and I feel like
we're on that path.
1476
01:04:38,320 --> 01:04:40,160
Yeah, we've been on that path
for a while.
1477
01:04:40,840 --> 01:04:43,320
So, he's still falling.
When's he going to hit the floor?
1478
01:04:43,440 --> 01:04:44,920
I don't know, he's been
falling for a while.
1479
01:04:45,040 --> 01:04:46,920
Like how far is the (BLEEP) sky?
1480
01:04:47,880 --> 01:04:49,760
The things that I've been
concerned
1481
01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:50,760
that I need to address
1482
01:04:50,880 --> 01:04:52,440
is the pressure, the love, the...
Yeah, yeah.
1483
01:04:52,560 --> 01:04:55,600
That's the stuff that I've just -
we've been talking about...
1484
01:04:56,760 --> 01:04:58,720
..this whole end of this experiment.
1485
01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:03,240
And you know me, I don't like
to push things.
1486
01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:04,080
I don't like to rush things.
1487
01:05:04,200 --> 01:05:05,320
I don't like pressure.
I like to go with the flow.
1488
01:05:06,920 --> 01:05:10,760
Like I don't like being pushed
or rushed or setting a time.
1489
01:05:10,880 --> 01:05:13,600
But we do have our rough time,
like when to do it all.
1490
01:05:16,880 --> 01:05:19,600
I need to feel safe and secure
enough in this relationship,
1491
01:05:19,720 --> 01:05:22,640
and I need to feel that he is
feeling the same way,
1492
01:05:22,760 --> 01:05:25,880
or I don't think I could
continue this on.
1493
01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:28,920
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1494
01:05:29,840 --> 01:05:33,280
That last step of all-in,
being in love...
1495
01:05:35,400 --> 01:05:36,800
..I'm not there yet.
1496
01:05:39,720 --> 01:05:42,640
I just want to let my own
feelings do its thing
1497
01:05:42,760 --> 01:05:44,760
and my feelings aren't being heard.
Like...
1498
01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:48,400
That's what affects me
and pushes me back.
1499
01:05:58,440 --> 01:05:59,920
NARRATOR: Tomorrow night...
1500
01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:01,280
Yay!
So good.
1501
01:06:01,400 --> 01:06:02,880
..homestays continues.
1502
01:06:03,000 --> 01:06:04,320
Welcome home!
1503
01:06:04,440 --> 01:06:07,480
You should be able to say something
nice and be genuine about it.
1504
01:06:07,600 --> 01:06:09,280
You're abusing me over a joke.
1505
01:06:09,400 --> 01:06:10,840
It pisses me off.
1506
01:06:10,960 --> 01:06:14,640
NARRATOR: What comment has Danny mad
that leaves Bec seeing red?
1507
01:06:14,760 --> 01:06:15,840
I'm done.
1508
01:06:15,960 --> 01:06:17,200
NARRATOR: In Adelaide...
1509
01:06:17,320 --> 01:06:19,520
The biological clock is ticking.
1510
01:06:19,640 --> 01:06:23,960
You want to have a family and you
don't want to keep putting it off.
1511
01:06:24,080 --> 01:06:26,560
..Alissa's mum shares words of wisdo
1512
01:06:26,680 --> 01:06:28,720
from her own life experience.
1513
01:06:28,840 --> 01:06:30,480
It's really stressful now.
1514
01:06:30,600 --> 01:06:31,640
A lot on the line.
1515
01:06:31,760 --> 01:06:33,920
DAVID: Alissa is spiralling.
1516
01:06:37,960 --> 01:06:41,880
NARRATOR: Could this be the most
awkward homestay ever...
1517
01:06:45,120 --> 01:06:46,640
(CATTLE MOOS)
1518
01:06:46,760 --> 01:06:50,240
..as things for Chris and Sam
go from bad...
1519
01:06:50,360 --> 01:06:52,400
Do you accept full responsibility
for your defensiveness
1520
01:06:52,520 --> 01:06:54,040
and the aggression I felt from you
last week?
1521
01:06:54,160 --> 01:06:55,400
..to worse.
1522
01:06:56,720 --> 01:06:58,040
Um...
1523
01:06:59,440 --> 01:07:01,120
(CATTLE MOOS)
1524
01:07:01,240 --> 01:07:04,160
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