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I've never experienced anything even
comparable in terms of pain.
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This is an extraordinary
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thing to put yourself through,
especially when in order to become a man
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community, you have to do it 20 times
throughout your life.
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I'm Ed Stafford. As an explorer and
survivalist, I've made a career out of
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mucking about in the wild.
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If I'm honest, I've never really grown
up. Look at that!
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So now... Ready, guys?
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I've set myself a mission.
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See how cultures across the world
navigate the messy business of becoming
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adult.
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I believe many of us in the modern world
have lost our sense of identity.
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But I'm hoping by immersing myself in
the often extreme trials that young
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face, I can figure out how these rituals
make us better members of our
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communities.
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I've never experienced anything even
comparable in terms of pain.
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By joining them on their journey, I hope
I'll learn to become a better man.
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Maybe even grow up.
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Okay, he wants me to jump out. I'm going
to jump out. And successfully pass my
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own.
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Right of passage.
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I'm heading deep into the Amazon jungle
to visit a people called the Sataremowe.
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I'm on the final leg of my journey, a
two -hour boat ride up the Amazon to
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their remote village.
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They live on the Andira River, 80
kilometers from the nearest city.
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This community has a unique rite of
passage ceremony that involves them
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their hands in gloves full of bullet
ants.
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The bullet ant of all insects has the
most painful sting in the world.
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Juan, I'm waiting for you. I'm waiting
for you.
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Thank you.
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That all felt rather stiff, if I'm
honest.
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I think the guys knew that I was coming,
but I think they were a little bit
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nervous.
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My name is Ed.
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Mine is Adriana. Adriana?
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Yes. Nice to meet you.
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You know, let's face it, it's not every
day that a camera and a man comes into
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their village wanting to partake in this
sort of ceremony. So I'm hoping that
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things relax a little as this day goes
on.
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Just
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been
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given a necklace.
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officially welcome to the tribe. That is
a good start.
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Obrigado.
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So
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I
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believe we're going to the centre of the
community.
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Not sure what my Portuguese is good, but
it's not amazing. I'm understanding the
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majority, but not everyone.
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In terms of sort of architecture,
there's quite a lot of traditional
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there's a lot of concrete structures as
well.
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Despite their remote location, the
community's position on the river means
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they are open to the outside world and
the modern influences that brings.
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Every time we stop, I keep getting
bitten by ants, but they're these tiny
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ones, and I'm trying not to react to
them at all because, obviously, compared
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bullet ants, they're absolutely nothing,
and yet they're infuriating because
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they're biting on my ankles, and these
guys are starting to laugh because I'm,
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like, literally picking these tiny
little, minute ants off my ankles.
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But they hurt.
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I might be in trouble.
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The centrepiece of the Sassarema way
right of passage is the incredibly
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Tucandera ritual.
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Young men get stung by close to 100
bullet ants on each hand.
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And they have to do it at least 20
times.
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And one of those times is about to kick
off.
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OK, so this is the central area where
they conduct the ceremony.
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OK.
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My understanding of the ceremony today
is that these guys are veterans.
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One of them has done it 34 times.
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It's all becoming a little bit real.
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It's been likened to walking on hot
coals.
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Insect venom is scaled in terms of the
pain from a one to four.
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And the bullet ant is number four, which
is obviously the highest level of pain.
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To put that into perspective, the sting
of an average honeybee is generally just
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a two.
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Does something to the pain pathways
within the body and stops the body
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that pain. So it keeps the pain pathways
open longer than you would normally
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feel pain in any other situation in
life.
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This is an extraordinary thing to put
yourself through.
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From what I understand, it's the dancing
and therefore the sweating that
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allows the toxins to disperse and this
is to help them manage the pain.
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And now his hands are shaking badly.
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You've literally got a veteran crying,
shaking, trembling,
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experiencing a level of pain that I know
I have never felt in my life before.
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It's scary.
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OK.
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This is the first time that I've seen
him put his hands on her.
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Glove like this.
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So the ants have all been sort of
secured into this with their abdomen
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inwards, and obviously the stings are on
the abdomen, which is why it's on the
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inside.
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Danico has been through the ritual more
times than anybody else, and he will be
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my mentor for the week.
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Do
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women
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ever go through the ceremony?
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No.
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They might not have to physically deal
with the pain but the women do seem to
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help the young men throughout the
emotional ordeal.
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It's an extreme rite of passage.
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So why do they do it?
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We've done it many
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times.
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I mean,
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this is an incredible number.
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Why have you done it so many times?
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While there's no
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scientific evidence to show that
repeated bullet ant stings improve the
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system, I can see how it could make the
boys understand and manage pain much
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better.
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Is it okay with both of you that I take
part in a ceremony in a few days?
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I can't believe this is day one.
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I feel like I've experienced so much
already.
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The truth is, the ante's been hooked.
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I'm under no illusions just quite how
painful this is going to be.
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I've never experienced anything even
comparable in terms of pain.
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That was a pretty terrible first night
of sleep, I have to admit.
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The bullet ant ritual is still playing
on my mind.
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It's a mix of emotions. It's a blender
of butterflies and knives and all sorts
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of things going around my chest.
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I feel like the next few days are vital
for me to nuance exactly my approach to
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how I'm going to...
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Conduct myself during the ceremony, but
it's occupying every part of my being
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right now.
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I'm so aware of something coming that is
enormous.
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Absolutely enormous.
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I guess my spidey senses were tingling
as a morning storm quickly engulfed the
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area. So, while we wait for it to pass,
Adriana asked me to help prepare some
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food for their meals.
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Farina is a carbohydrate made of manioc
root.
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And is a staple part of the Amazonian
diet when there is no fish or meat to
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It's quite flamboyant, isn't it?
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Is it always the women that do this kind
of job?
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Okay,
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we're done?
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Yes.
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Excellent.
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Golden nuggets of pure joy.
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I took the moment with Adriana to find
out what she thinks about the rite of
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passage.
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How painful do you think it is for the
man?
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I guess this ritual is basically the big
equaliser.
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You didn't want him to do it initially
and you've now decided that you do want
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him to do it. Why have you changed your
mind?
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Yeah, so she's 15.
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I think if a 12 -year -old can do it,
I'm hoping that at 49 years old I can do
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it as well.
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I am touched by Adriana's promise to
help me through the ceremony.
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At this point, with the bullet ant
ritual only four days away, I'm going to
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all the help I can get to overcome the
pain.
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Jose is helping to teach me the steps
needed during the right as a way to help
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deal with the pain.
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You'd think that would be easy, wouldn't
it?
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It's because it ends on a right foot.
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And then it starts with the right foot.
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And so I'm like, I want to do my left
foot.
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I know it's not complicated, but that's
quite imbalanced.
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I'm not really renowned for my dancing.
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I think I've got it.
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You were really stamping hard.
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Was there a reason for that?
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I watched him almost come apart, you
know, tears streaming down his face,
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convulsing and shaking.
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Obviously, it's somewhat intimidating,
to say the least.
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There's no rules or expectations
surrounding crying.
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There is no hiding the fact that this is
going to be extraordinarily more
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powerful than anything I will have ever
felt through my nervous system before.
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I'm aware that my mind state will make
all the difference.
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I think I just need to reset, recharge.
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Sleep will give me the resilience that I
need.
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Morning.
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and traditional preparations are in full
swing for tomorrow's rite of passage.
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It's making the gloves sort of making it
hit home.
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So what I'm doing is cutting the little
strips that end up being woven together
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in order to make the inner gloves, the
ones that the ants are actually woven
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into.
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The outer gloves are permanent and
they're held within the village hall.
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Gloves woven.
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The boys and I also need to get
ourselves prepared, and it's suddenly
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becoming very real.
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How
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long
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will they stay on the body?
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The boys being painted will do the right
with me.
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Danico's grandson, Etaú, is 12 years
old. And like me, he's doing the bullet
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ritual for the first time.
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Are you nervous about doing it for the
first time?
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I can see it in your eyes.
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It's your mum or your
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dad giving you any last -minute advice?
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They gave it to me so I wouldn't cry in
the glove and scream.
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Because that makes the singer sick.
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She can only cry when she's already
without the glove.
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Okay? Yes.
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Are you okay? Thank you.
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Thank you very much.
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My body is ready, and for the first time
I'm starting to feel more confident
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about the rite of passage.
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But Tonico is asked to meet.
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It dries the throat.
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From time to time you have to drink a
little water.
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But the other thing is that our hands
have no conditions for anything.
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That pressure of pain, we don't have to
force it.
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We have to relax.
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Just hold on.
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It gets slow, then the blood comes and
goes.
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In terms of the order of the ceremony,
Jose indicated to me that the reason he
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was in so much pain was because he went
first.
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Obviously, I'm only going to do this
once in my life. Would it be okay if I
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first?
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That's it.
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There's no backing down now.
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I just hope I don't live to regret it.
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It's my last meal with the family.
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And Adriana has made sure we're all well
fed for the ceremony.
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But it also
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feels a bit like a condemned man's final
meal.
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How do you feel about tomorrow?
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Now that I have more anxiety about
tomorrow, I'm going to put my hand
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in for the first time.
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Yes, yes.
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And you, sir?
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I'm ready.
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I think so.
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I think so.
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Big day tomorrow.
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It has involved a lot of mental
preparation. It has involved
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feel like I'm there.
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And it may well be the last time in my
life that I ever experienced that
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sensation. So I want to experience it. I
want to relish in it. I want to revel
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in it.
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I want to explore it.
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And dare I say it, I don't want it to be
over.
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It's the day of my rite of passage.
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And it wouldn't be much of a ceremony
without the star of the event.
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Chinico is blowing a musical instrument
at the front, which is part of the
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ceremony in terms of attracting the ants
and drawing them out of their home.
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The tobacco smoke and rubbing of the
tree aggravates the ants and drives them
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out of their nest, ready to sting.
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Wow, that's quite a lot on the pole.
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There's a lot of ants going into the
tube.
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Huge amount.
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Every one of them has a sting.
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Considerably worse than a scorpion.
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Back in the village, while the boys and
I steal our nerves,
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Taniko sedates the ants using leaves
from the tapabera plant.
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It's a skillful art, and Tanika must
work fast to weave the anth into the
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before they wake up.
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This is it. The sedative has worn off
and the ants are ready to attack
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and anyone that goes near them.
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Undeniably, there's this surge of energy
that is rising in my body.
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It's kind of a mesh of excitement and
elation and fear.
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I think, actually, in my life, the
closest I've come to this is a boxing
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You know, somewhere where there's
nowhere to hide, somewhere where if you
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up, it's going to be very visible to a
lot of people.
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Once the gloves go on, I'll be entering
a world of pain that I've never felt
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before.
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So the ants are going into the gloves
now, being tied up.
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And there will be nothing I can do to
stop it for over 12 hours.
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He roda. Voy a rodar.
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I may look composed, but the pain is
excruciating.
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Somehow,
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it's almost making me feel high.
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I'm charged with adrenaline and
completely focused on the dance.
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repetitive steps are giving me something
to focus on, but the searing pain is
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like nothing I've ever felt before.
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i've never experienced anything to this
intensity in my physicality literally
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like my hands are on fire right in the
right in the heart of the fire
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If you were to spiral into a panic with
this level of pain,
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it would be awful.
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It would be then unmanageable by
definition.
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If it's this hard
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for me, a grown man, I have no idea how
the boys are going to cope.
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Now it's all about withstanding the
incredible pain.
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Tanika warned me there would be intense
peaks to this pain.
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It feels like I'm hitting the first of
these now.
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I guess this is now the phase where
there's no abatement.
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The pain, if anything, it's growing
slightly.
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Then I think it's getting more painful
and it's managing that.
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An hour after the ritual and the pain is
only increasing.
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The decision is made to move us to the
village hall so that we can be closely
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monitored.
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But it's close to as unbearable as I can
contemplate right now.
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Hats off to these people who do it 20
times.
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You can watch it.
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It's an ordinary way of facilitating
them to turn from young boys into
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A little bit of panic that the pain is
still as bad as it is.
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That I'm just trying to calm.
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Within my shell.
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Which is kind of the darkest part for me
now.
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As I put my hand in the gloves first,
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and for a longer time, I received more
venom.
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Now, I'm struggling to cope.
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and my team are concerned.
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Okay. Okay.
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After taking in fluids and being
carefully monitored by the doctor, I'm
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back on my feet.
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But the pain was way more traumatic than
I had ever anticipated.
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It's kind of changed from burning fire
to have been
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smashed with a sledgehammer.
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In the dance, I just sort of found
myself next to another guy whose hands
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completely messed up so that we couldn't
kind of link arms.
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and this quite young girl called Fran
came up and linked arms.
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There was just something so special
about the fact that she'd noticed and
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she cared enough.
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I think their role is vital, absolutely
vital, and it's funny, isn't it, you go
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through all that pain, and the thing
that makes you close to tears is the
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that you've been presented with.
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Offered.
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Adriana, I mean, literally constantly
helping me, feeding me, binding my
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hands.
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I've never been presented with so much
care and love and I would never have got
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through that ceremony if it wasn't for
you all.
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I'll never forget it.
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I will remember it.
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Thank you.
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Thank you very much.
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It is very good that you and Eric are
here with us to rescue our culture,
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to take it forward.
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It is very good that we are speaking
here.
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I think I came here thinking that this
ceremony was all going to be about
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proving how tough I was, you know,
proving how I could do this on my own.
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And it's not true, is it?
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It's not true of the ceremony, but it's
also not true in general.
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You don't have to do it all on your own.
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You can let people in.
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You can let them help you.
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It's beautiful.
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It's absolutely beautiful.
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I feel a bit butted and bruised this
morning, if I'm honest.
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That level of pain for that amount of
time just almost doesn't feel natural.
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I think I've started to get an
understanding of how rites of passage
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essential to communities because on the
face of it, they look like things that
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allow young boys to show off, to prove
that they're tough, so they can become a
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man.
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The ceremony last night changed my
opinion on that.
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It was about the community come
together. It's the very soul of the
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and it's what pulls everything together.
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I've finished.
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fighting my whole life, fighting to
prove that I'm tough enough to survive
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own. And the inherent epiphany of last
night seemed to be that you don't have
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to.
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You can come into a village and seven
days later they're calling you part of
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their family and giving you so much love
and support that you're reduced to
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tears. I mean, I don't know of many
things in life more powerful than that,
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really.
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Sounds like a cartoon anvil falling from
the sky.
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