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- FEMALE NARRATOR: It's a crime that shook us all to the core.
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- FEMALE NEWSCASTER: A Colorado man gets life in prison
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for killing his pregnant wife and two young daughters.
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- Trying to stuff your daughter into this little, tiny hole
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is really beyond comprehension.
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- NARRATOR: And shattered the carefully curated image
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posted online.
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- Hey guys, I'm here with my little munchkins.
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- They just seemed like they were like
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the perfect, happy American family.
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- SHERYL ZIEGLER: You have this middle-aged couple,
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married, young kids, pregnant wife,
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and you get to be kind of like a voyeur, you get to peek in.
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- I mean, you really felt like you were her friend.
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I mean, she took photos of everything.
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Recorded everything, posted everything.
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- Ho ho ho.
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- NARRATOR: But as we've seen recently,
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what happens online isn't always real.
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- MALE NEWSCASTER: Investigators believe Brian
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holds vital information on the disappearance of his girlfriend,
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Gabby Petito.
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- There's a mismatch between what you share
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and your real life.
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- FEMALE NEWSCASTER: Houston Instagram influencer
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who disappeared was scared for her life.
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There have been reports that she wanted a divorce.
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- Everybody's performing, and the pressure to keep that up
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is a 24-hour job.
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- NARRATOR: Now our experts examine all the media
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in the Watts case to reveal what was really happening
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behind the scenes.
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- LENA DERHALLY: That's a unique thing
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that I don't think we've really ever seen before.
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We were watching everything as it really happened on video.
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- He didn't normally come out through the garage. Why?
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- MATT FRANCIS: If you look at, you know, his mannerisms,
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I think there's signs there that there's a lot of frustration.
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- STEFFAN TUBBS: The real Watts family
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was not what social media portrayed.
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- REBECCA OSEI: He had spent so much time in front of the camera
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to some degree acting. - I just want them back.
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- It's like, "What did I miss? Let's look at it again.
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Is there something that we're not seeing?"
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- I just, I just want them to come back.
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- STEFFAN: Frederick, Colorado,
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is a beautiful, bucolic, middle America-type town
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in the northern suburbs of Denver.
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It's a place where I bet you every neighbor would say,
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"All of the bad stuff, that happens somewhere else.
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Not in our backyard."
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- VONDA KNOX. This is definitely not a high crime area.
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The area that I live in, it's very...
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it's quiet, it's secluded.
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There are children playing, you know, riding their bikes
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and their skateboard and shooting hoops.
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- NARRATOR: But on August 13, 2018,
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a dark reality casts a shadow
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over this picture-perfect neighborhood.
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- FEMALE NEWSCASTER: Shanann Watts and her two girls,
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three and four years, old are all missing.
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Watts is 15 weeks pregnant.
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- Shan, if you're hearing this or you're out there,
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please, please let somebody know you're okay.
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- I got the phone call that said my neighbors are missing.
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And everybody was kind of just in shock.
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- NARRATOR: 34-year-old Shanann and her two daughters,
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Bella and Ce-Ce, have seemingly disappeared.
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- VONDA: Shanann and the baby girls were precious.
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I saw them many times in the backyard,
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swinging and playing and they were the happiest little things.
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They just seemed like they were like
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the perfect, happy American family, living the dream.
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- Hey guys.
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So I'm here with my little munchkins.
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Hi.
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- NARRATOR: Shanann Watts has lived in Frederick, Colorado,
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for six years with her husband, Chris
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and their two daughters.
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The missing mom is also pregnant.
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- SHANANN: Mommy has a baby in her belly.
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- Again!
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- HEATHER ASHLEY: There was so much evidence on Facebook
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and social media that everything was wonderful.
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The girls were always put together.
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Shanann was always upbeat
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and talking about how wonderful her husband was.
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- He's the best thing that has ever happened to me.
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- NARRATOR: But scrolling back 10 years
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on Shanann's social media page
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shows life wasn't always so easy for the North Carolina native.
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- Shanann was definitely driven as a person.
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I think it came from a deep down desire
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to get out of her own holes and hard places in life.
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- LENA DERHALLY: She went through a really dark time
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in her life previously and she was really unhappy.
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She struggled with her health.
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- SHANANN: I thought my life was crumbling underneath me
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and I didn't know which way to turn.
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I didn't have a lot of friends at the time,
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because a lot of my friends, friends I did have,
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I lost because they didn't understand
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that I looked perfectly fine, and I felt horribly inside.
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Horribly.
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I quit my job of nine years.
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I just said, "I'm done, I can't do this anymore."
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- NARRATOR: In May 2010,
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Shanann's lifelong health issues are diagnosed as lupus.
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That same year, she meets fellow North Carolinian Chris Watts.
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- SHANANN: I met Chris because of my friend,
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sent me a friend suggestion.
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- HEATHER: What really got her was on their first date,
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she got a migraine and Chris let her lay down on his lap
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and then she woke up like three hours later
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and she was still in his lap, he hadn't moved,
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and that was it for her. Like, he didn't judge her,
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he accommodated her needs without being asked.
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- Well, one thing led to another and eight years later
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we have two kids, we live in Colorado,
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and he's the best thing that has ever happened to me.
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He knew me at my worst and he accepted me.
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And you know, through your vows,
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like through sicknesses and everything,
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he's been there.
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- REBECCA: Chris had been essentially marketed
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as this really sweet guy who came to her when she needed him
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and had been an amazing husband,
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and still was an amazing husband,
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I mean, as far as social media was concerned.
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- NARRATOR: Shortly after marrying in November of 2012,
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Chris and Shanann moved to Frederick, Colorado,
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where Chris finds work as an oil field worker.
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- HEATHER: Chris got a new job.
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They decided they were going to follow their American dream
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and start new in Colorado.
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- SHERYL: It's a kind of small town.
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I think people probably felt great about living there.
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Felt like this was a safe, beautiful place
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to raise a family.
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- NARRATOR: A year after the move,
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the couple welcomes their first child, Bella.
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19 months later, Shanann gives birth to another daughter,
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Celeste, nicknamed Ce-Ce.
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- VONDA: They were lovely children.
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They were like, "Hi lady, hi lady."
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You know, we would have just a verbal interaction
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because our porches are so close.
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They would have their little wagon out in the front
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and Chris would be pulling them around in the wagon.
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They were outside doing the family thing.
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- NARRATOR: Shanann also finds work again
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as a marketing representative for a weight loss supplement
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called Thrive.
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- LENA: She had lupus, she had some other conditions,
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and she wanted to be home with her kids
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and also work and bring in income for the family.
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She was a go-getter.
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It was actually kind of fitting for somebody like her.
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- MARK: Because of her job, online sales,
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Shanann is regularly posting, she's a huge Facebook person.
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She's got a lot of followers.
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Every day, basically, her life is on Facebook
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and it all looks great.
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- MATT: She really saw a connection
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with what she could do online, making sales and revenue,
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but also more importantly, like, to really truly just
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help other people achieve a better life
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for themselves, and a better identity.
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- NARRATOR: But Shanann's job requires frequent travel.
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Just before 2 a.m. on the morning of August 13, 2018,
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she returns from a two-day business trip to Arizona,
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captured here on her home's doorbell camera.
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- It was later than they had expected,
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she wasn't gonna get as much sleep as she wanted to get.
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She rolls her suitcase up and inside and, and that's it.
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- She was supposed to go to a doctor's appointment,
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and she hadn't updated her friend
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about this doctor's appointment.
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She's trying to get a hold of her, but her phone is off.
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The girls were gonna have their first day of school.
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You would expect to hear an update on social media like,
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"Oh my gosh, they were so cute. Here's a picture."
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This was a day that you would expect
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all sorts of updates online
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from somebody who already regularly updates everyone,
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and there was nothing.
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- VONDA: A lot of people were very concerned.
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You know, "Where are they?"
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You know, it's a pregnant woman and her two small children.
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- STEFFAN: The community, the neighbors were wondering,
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"What happened? We just saw her."
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- OFFICER: How you been?
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- NARRATOR: When police arrive,
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they are met by Shanann's friend Nickole Atkinson,
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and Nickole's son, Nicholas.
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- HEATHER: Her friend was worried about her blood sugar,
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because Shanann hadn't felt well the night before.
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And you know, they were worried at first that maybe something
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had happened and she was sick at the house
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and nobody knew and no one could help her.
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- [ringing phone]
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- NARRATOR: Chris Watts is at work on an oil site
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when he learns from a friend Shanann is missing.
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He tells them he will be home in 45 minutes.
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- NARRATOR: The house is locked tight.
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- NARRATOR: Three hours after the news
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of his wife's disappearance,
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Chris Watts finally returns home.
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- OFFICER: Scott, how you doing? - How's it going?
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- OFFICER: So this is the only vehicle she would have?
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- CHRIS: Only one that, yeah.
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- OFFICER: She would drive? Okay.
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- MARK: When Chris gets there, if you watch the video,
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Chris runs into the garage,
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and he looks into the car as if they might be in the car.
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Then, he actually opens the car door
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and he bends down and he reaches around under the front seat.
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It happens very fast.
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But you ask yourself, what is he doing?
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What is he looking for under the front seat?
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Is he gonna find his wife or daughters
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under the front passenger seat?
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- We still don't know exactly what was going on.
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- WOMAN ON SPEAKERPHONE: Nicky, I'm giving you permission
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to walk in my daughter's house.
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- NARRATOR: Frederick Police find the house empty
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and the first floor apparently undisturbed.
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- MARK: He lets the officers in,
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he's not calling out for his daughters and for his wife.
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It's the officers
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who actually start to go and search for Shanann.
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- NARRATOR: At first glance, nothing appears out of place.
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But then Nickole spots something.
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- Why would she not take her phone?
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- EXAVIER POPE: People are now sleeping with their phone.
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They are getting directions with their phone, ordering food.
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So people, now, lives are so dependent on phones.
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- She had just vanished into thin air.
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- NARRATOR: Shanann Watts has been missing
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for nearly 24 hours.
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Not only have she and her two young daughters
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seemingly disappeared,
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but the 34-year-old marketing entrepreneur
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who makes her living posting almost nonstop online
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hasn't done so for nearly 18 hours.
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Now her husband and friends have uncovered one reason why.
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- There's a conversation, once they've searched the house,
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the police officer is having with him
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and they're talking about like, so where would she go?
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- OFFICER: Did she tell you anything about leaving?
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Moving out? - Not moving out.
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I mean, the last time I talked to her was this morning,
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she said she's gonna take the kids to a friend's house,
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and that's where she was gonna be.
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- MARK: This is Monday when the police have arrived.
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The girls were supposed to be attending school.
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- HEATHER: Bottom line was that two children
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and a pregnant woman were missing.
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And at this point, with all communications ceased,
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because of the amount of communication there usually was,
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it was clear that something was wrong.
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- NARRATOR: As the group investigates
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the rest of the house, they find even more reason for alarm.
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- NARRATOR: In addition to Shanann's own health issues,
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both Watts children have severe food allergies.
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But inside Shanann's purse,
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police find their medications have been left behind.
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- Shanann left her purse, her phone, her keys,
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her children's medications.
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The car was still in the garage with the car seats.
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Anyone who has half a brain cell knows that that's not normal.
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A woman does not leave with her children
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without any of these critical things.
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- NARRATOR: As more officers file into the house,
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and the search continues upstairs,
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one thing immediately stands out.
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- In the master bedroom, the sheets are off the bed.
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The pillows are off the bed.
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It's like, why are the sheets off the bed?
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- Shanann was really a fastidious housekeeper.
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If she was the last one at the house,
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she just simply would not have left the room like that.
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So the likelihood of something bad having happened
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is really high.
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- NARRATOR: When word of the family's disappearance spreads,
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the Watts' typically serene neighborhood is left spiraling.
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But neighbor Nate Trinastich thinks he may have an answer.
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- LENA: The neighbor comes by, he sees what's going on.
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Police are at the house,
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and there's a missing pregnant woman and children and he says,
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"Hey, you know, I have a security camera
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that looks right upon their driveway."
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- NARRATOR: Police are hopeful the camera can provide a clue.
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- VONDA: My son was like,
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"Oh, somebody's missing. Well, let's look and see.
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"Did somebody come and pick them up and where did they go?
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You know, let's look."
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- EXAVIER: We're at a society
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that we're recording every event of our lives.
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There are some trade-offs with that.
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The more cameras we have in our world, the less privacy we have.
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- NARRATOR: Inside the neighbor's home,
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Chris Watts and police review the security footage with Nate.
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- What we see in the videotape
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is that about 5:17 in the morning,
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Chris comes out through the garage.
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He didn't normally come out through the garage.
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Why? Because the kids' rooms were above the garage
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and the garage door opening up would wake the kids up,
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because they slept very lightly.
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But Chris comes to the garage door, and he goes to his truck,
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and then he backs his truck into the driveway.
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- NARRATOR: But Chris has an explanation.
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- Chris usually did not ever park in the driveway,
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and so that seemed a little bit unusual.
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- His neighbor knows what Chris does every day
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when he goes to work, right?
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How he acts, how he brings stuff to and from the truck.
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- MARK: What's really interesting
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is she would have had to have been seen
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coming out of the house with the kids on camera.
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There's no evidence that they ever left the house.
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- VONDA: Chris was just very uncomfortable.
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Like, "This is not my comfort zone.
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I'm not comfortable with this."
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- VONDA: And when the officer finally did say,
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"Go ahead and leave,"
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looked like to me that he bolted for the door.
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- NARRATOR: When the neighbor's left alone with the police,
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he's quick to call out that something's off.
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- MARK: The police officer, well, steps in and goes,
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"Well, yeah, but you know,
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his wife and daughters are missing,"
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and you know, kind of expect that he might be, you know,
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anxious and nervous,
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and so he sort of, in a sense, defends Chris.
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- NARRATOR: As the search for Shanann and her daughters
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continues through the night and into the next day,
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local news outlets soon pick up the story--
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with Chris Watts leading the charge to bring them back home
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and even pleading his case.
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- HEATHER: He was all over the media like,
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"Oh yeah, I just want... I want them back, I want my girls back,
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"I just want him to come home.
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If you have them, just let him come home."
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- Again, you see this objectively handsome, tan guy
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in front of this beautiful suburban home.
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But even though it appeared perfect on the surface,
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there was something with how he presented himself to the world
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that gave everybody this really intense gut reaction
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that something is not right with this guy.
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- REBECCA: One might think that
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he would have acted more emotional, but of course
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the role he had always played thus far
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had been relatively sober, you know, calm individual.
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- He's got this, you know, confidence that, you know,
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"I'm being cooperative. I'm talking to the news.
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I'm not trying to hide from anything."
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- [knock on door]
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- NARRATOR: In the wake of his pregnant wife
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and two daughters' disappearance,
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Chris Watts welcomes a sea of media into his Colorado home.
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- The police then get a search warrant for the house.
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- It was absolutely chaotic.
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It was bombarded with the police drones and the canine.
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The dogs came, they did all of these investigations.
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- NARRATOR: But there's no evidence in the house
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to indicate where Shanann and the girls are
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or what might have happened to them.
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As news of their disappearance continues to spread,
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alarm grows within this tight-knit community.
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- There were people up and down the streets handing out flyers.
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The cops had set up, like, areas outside of the neighborhood
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to see if anybody had seen them.
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They were handing out flyers, too.
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- These were attractive people that you imagined living
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next door to you with these two beautiful children.
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And as more and more came out, then there was the feeling of,
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"Wait, what happened here?"
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- NARRATOR: Now in the second day
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since Shanann Watts' and her daughters' disappearance,
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the public turns to their only outlet for answers,
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Shanann's social media.
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- MARK: You've got Shanann,
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who has a really high social media presence
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because of her job, her online sales job.
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So she had a huge Facebook following,
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not only for her business, but also for her personal life.
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- LENA: Shanann had a lot of friends
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and a lot of people in her life.
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And social media is something that allows us
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to share with all those people at once.
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She was pregnant with her third child,
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she was figuring out her career,
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she had a beautiful house in Colorado.
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So I think she was really happy
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and wanted to share that with the people that she loved.
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- Hey guys.
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- SHERYL: The more visuals we have,
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the more we can relate to people,
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the more we feel like we know them, right?
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And so I do think that the country
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got particularly invested
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because we could see these images and hear their voices
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and hear them singing and, you know,
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just seeing them in their kitchen,
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it was all very relatable.
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- REBECCA: Maybe it did start out as just a way
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to keep her family in the loop, and it grew from there.
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We're not really sure what her motivation was,
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but we can see very clearly from her behavior
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that Shanann felt the need, for some reason,
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to be constantly keeping everybody in the loop.
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- NARRATOR: Even the family's intimate moments
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are on display for the public to see.
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Like the instant that Chris learns
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they are expecting a third child.
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- SHERYL: And I think that was the intention.
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"Let me invite you into my very normal world
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with my very happy life that we can all connect on."
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This is what the dangers are of social media.
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All you have to do is capture just a minute or two
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of smiling faces to convince the world of something,
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everything's okay. Maybe everything's not okay.
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- You could tell when Chris came in about the announcement
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that he was...
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he had a hard time reacting, like, the way that, you know,
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I'm sure she was hoping he'd react.
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She was so excited to share with him that she was pregnant.
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But if you look at, you know, his mannerisms,
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I think there's signs there that there's a lot of frustration
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in the relationship, for sure, and with him.
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- OBARI CARTMAN: I think there's something
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about the human experience that requires a level of separation
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from being viewed,
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and the cameras are sort of taking that away from us.
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There's a judgment attached to the camera lens.
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So there's this sense of being right or wrong, or good or bad.
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- SHERYL: There's also an intimacy that gets lost.
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I think in these videos it shows that she envisioned
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this whole thing playing out a certain way.
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She probably thought about it for a good amount of time
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and staged it.
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And that's exactly what staging is.
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I mean, this is... it's a performance.
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- NARRATOR: Despite the sunny home life
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Shanann puts forward on social media, there are problems.
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- The real Watts family life, internally,
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was not what social media portrayed.
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- NARRATOR: As police dig into their finances,
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they discover the Watts are $70,000 in debt,
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and their homeowners' association is suing them
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for unpaid fees.
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- REBECCA: A lot of people, especially around Chris's age,
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grew up with this idea
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that the man is supposed to make the money,
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so you're supposed to be financially stable.
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You know, the man is supposed to keep the family together.
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The man is supposed to be the reliable one,
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and his family is falling apart. The money is disappearing.
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In a lot of ways, you know,
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Chris's identity as the masculine male
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was being questioned at that time.
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- He's not the dominant one in the relationship.
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You get the sense that Shanann kind of really ran that family.
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She ran the household, and she ran the kids,
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and she essentially ran Chris.
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- NARRATOR: Still, Chris doesn't lack self-confidence.
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He even begins a serious workout regimen.
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- REBECCA: He'd lost a significant amount of weight
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while also toning significantly.
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There's been multiple videos of him working out,
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getting in shape.
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We do know that on the social media side of things,
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Shanann seemed to be happy with his physique.
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- NARRATOR: But again,
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there's another angle to Shanann's posts.
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- HEATHER: He was using the products that she sold.
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And him working out with his shirt off, you know,
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would have been good advertisement
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for Shanann's business.
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"Look at my husband's transformation."
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- NARRATOR: Overweight at the time of his wedding,
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Chris has lost more than 60 pounds in the last few years.
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- I think Chris, definitely, once he started losing weight,
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he started caring about his macros and his diet
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and he was working out.
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I think that gave him a new confidence
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that he didn't have before.
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He became more objectively attractive to women
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as he lost his weight and he bulked up.
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- STEFFAN: So he goes from this dad bod
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to addicted to working out.
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Well, you can either look at it one of two ways.
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He's either working out for all the right reasons.
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He wants to be healthier.
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"Look at me, I can do it. I've transformed."
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00:31:12,837 --> 00:31:15,640
Or, probably a story that's played out
504
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:17,942
millions of times in our country--
505
00:31:17,942 --> 00:31:20,912
he's wanting to look better for somebody else.
506
00:31:25,516 --> 00:31:27,719
- NARRATOR: It's now been more than 34 hours
507
00:31:27,719 --> 00:31:30,588
since a pregnant Shanann Watts and her two young daughters
508
00:31:30,588 --> 00:31:34,259
disappeared from their Frederick, Colorado home.
509
00:31:34,259 --> 00:31:38,196
As the Colorado Bureau of Investigations and the FBI
510
00:31:38,196 --> 00:31:39,597
join the search efforts...
511
00:31:42,567 --> 00:31:45,003
- NARRATOR: ...investigators are beginning to realize
512
00:31:45,003 --> 00:31:48,039
there are two very different Watts families.
513
00:31:49,374 --> 00:31:51,509
The one online,
514
00:31:52,810 --> 00:31:54,612
and the one in real life.
515
00:31:59,284 --> 00:32:02,453
When investigators gain access to Shanann's cellphone,
516
00:32:05,957 --> 00:32:07,859
they discover the couple had been
517
00:32:07,859 --> 00:32:09,994
spending time apart in recent weeks.
518
00:32:14,132 --> 00:32:16,701
- Shanann had been away in North Carolina
519
00:32:16,701 --> 00:32:18,403
with family for about six weeks.
520
00:32:18,403 --> 00:32:20,705
- NARRATOR: Both Shanann and Chris' parents
521
00:32:20,705 --> 00:32:22,707
live in North Carolina.
522
00:32:22,707 --> 00:32:24,976
While Shanann and the girls spend the summer there
523
00:32:24,976 --> 00:32:27,378
with their grandparents,
524
00:32:27,378 --> 00:32:31,182
the expectant mother makes every effort to keep Chris,
525
00:32:31,182 --> 00:32:33,751
who is home in Colorado, in the loop.
526
00:32:35,386 --> 00:32:38,456
- STEFFAN: Chris blows her off completely.
527
00:32:38,456 --> 00:32:42,126
There's no text of, "I miss you. I love you."
528
00:32:42,126 --> 00:32:46,230
It's, "Oh, I was working out," or "Oh, I was asleep."
529
00:32:46,898 --> 00:32:48,700
- NARRATOR: This lack of attention
530
00:32:48,700 --> 00:32:51,736
seemingly leads Shanann to post more while she is away.
531
00:32:52,704 --> 00:32:55,640
- SHERYL: There's a reason why people put posts out there,
532
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:58,376
whether it's conscious or not.
533
00:32:58,376 --> 00:33:00,978
You're seeking praise, you're seeking validation,
534
00:33:00,978 --> 00:33:04,816
you're seeking relatableness, connection, maybe you're lonely.
535
00:33:04,816 --> 00:33:06,651
There's something that you're seeking
536
00:33:06,651 --> 00:33:08,119
when you put it out there.
537
00:33:10,688 --> 00:33:12,256
- JESSICA SHELTON: Oh my God.
538
00:33:12,256 --> 00:33:14,559
I mean, you really felt like you were her friend
539
00:33:14,559 --> 00:33:16,661
or her family, or you maybe even lived with her.
540
00:33:16,661 --> 00:33:19,130
I mean, she recorded everything, posted everything,
541
00:33:19,130 --> 00:33:21,199
took photos of everything.
542
00:33:21,199 --> 00:33:23,368
- REBECCA: There are a lot of people
543
00:33:23,368 --> 00:33:25,136
that we might think of as being over-sharers.
544
00:33:25,136 --> 00:33:27,405
We probably all have someone we know or follow online
545
00:33:27,405 --> 00:33:29,841
that we feel shares a lot of information
546
00:33:29,841 --> 00:33:31,409
and maybe things that we are like,
547
00:33:31,409 --> 00:33:33,411
"Ooh, that didn't need to be online."
548
00:33:35,313 --> 00:33:39,951
- I think Shanann really started using that as her outlet
549
00:33:39,951 --> 00:33:42,253
and ignoring some of the things that were going on at home.
550
00:33:47,325 --> 00:33:51,829
- NARRATOR: On July 31, 2018, Chris flies to North Carolina
551
00:33:51,829 --> 00:33:53,364
to be with his family.
552
00:33:54,432 --> 00:33:56,768
Shanann is eager to record the moment of reunion.
553
00:33:58,870 --> 00:34:00,872
- REBECCA: When her husband was getting off the plane
554
00:34:00,872 --> 00:34:02,573
and she's texting him,
555
00:34:02,573 --> 00:34:04,876
"Let me know when you're coming down the escalator
556
00:34:04,876 --> 00:34:07,278
so that I can film the kids,"
557
00:34:07,278 --> 00:34:09,647
you know, and this was for content.
558
00:34:09,647 --> 00:34:12,817
This wasn't because we miss you and I want the kids to be ready.
559
00:34:12,817 --> 00:34:14,552
It was this...
560
00:34:14,552 --> 00:34:16,421
I mean the kids were authentically happy to see him,
561
00:34:16,421 --> 00:34:17,755
I imagine.
562
00:34:17,755 --> 00:34:22,860
But her motivation seemed to be so that I can film it.
563
00:34:22,860 --> 00:34:25,463
She seemed to feel some type of need
564
00:34:25,463 --> 00:34:29,333
to be making these videos and having this content available
565
00:34:29,333 --> 00:34:33,171
frequently so that the world would see her happy family.
566
00:34:33,171 --> 00:34:36,507
- I can hug you. Come here. Come here, little girls!
567
00:34:37,375 --> 00:34:39,744
- LENA: Even if he was unhappy or stressed out
568
00:34:39,744 --> 00:34:41,379
with what was going on,
569
00:34:41,379 --> 00:34:43,881
even if he wasn't comfortable being on social media,
570
00:34:43,881 --> 00:34:46,017
he went along with it anyway.
571
00:34:46,017 --> 00:34:48,453
He never expressed displeasure to Shanann.
572
00:34:50,955 --> 00:34:54,292
- NARRATOR: But some emotions did slip through the cracks,
573
00:34:54,292 --> 00:34:56,327
which investigators discover
574
00:34:56,327 --> 00:34:58,796
when they speak with Shanann's friends.
575
00:35:34,131 --> 00:35:38,970
- HEATHER: Chris's mom had asked for a list of peanut-free foods
576
00:35:38,970 --> 00:35:40,438
that they could have in the house,
577
00:35:40,438 --> 00:35:42,140
and so Shanann sent them a list.
578
00:35:42,140 --> 00:35:44,408
And they have kind of an ice cream night
579
00:35:44,408 --> 00:35:48,279
for all the grandkids, and one of the ice cream
580
00:35:48,279 --> 00:35:53,584
has nuts in it, and Stacy cannot have nuts,
581
00:35:53,584 --> 00:35:57,788
and Shanann catches it and she's like, "No, no, no!"
582
00:36:01,526 --> 00:36:03,194
You know, she had asked Chris, like,
583
00:36:03,194 --> 00:36:04,562
"You need to talk to your mom."
584
00:36:08,933 --> 00:36:11,435
- NARRATOR: When investigators sit down with Chris,
585
00:36:11,435 --> 00:36:14,405
he admits this feud between his mom and Shanann
586
00:36:14,405 --> 00:36:16,340
has been longstanding.
587
00:36:34,492 --> 00:36:36,427
- NARRATOR: As police continue to probe Chris
588
00:36:36,427 --> 00:36:39,397
about his relationship with Shanann,
589
00:36:39,397 --> 00:36:42,300
the weary husband becomes increasingly open
590
00:36:42,300 --> 00:36:45,469
about the troubles in their marriage.
591
00:36:45,469 --> 00:36:49,307
He admits to investigators that he and Shanann had a fight
592
00:36:49,307 --> 00:36:51,876
the night before she disappeared.
593
00:36:58,282 --> 00:37:00,518
- And that--that was it.
594
00:37:00,518 --> 00:37:02,286
He had left the house to go to work
595
00:37:02,286 --> 00:37:04,021
and she was still in bed with the girls,
596
00:37:04,021 --> 00:37:05,489
and that's the last he knew.
597
00:37:19,270 --> 00:37:21,906
- MARK: In all these cases that I've worked on
598
00:37:21,906 --> 00:37:24,575
over the years, we sort of have this saying
599
00:37:24,575 --> 00:37:26,644
when we were watching these kind of interviews,
600
00:37:26,644 --> 00:37:29,914
"If you don't see snot, then you've got a problem,"
601
00:37:29,914 --> 00:37:34,552
because parents who are truly believe that something
602
00:37:34,552 --> 00:37:37,455
has happened to their children and it's not good
603
00:37:37,455 --> 00:37:41,325
are grieving, and they are crying, and they are begging,
604
00:37:41,325 --> 00:37:43,494
and they are pleading,
605
00:37:43,494 --> 00:37:47,565
and their eyes are all puffy from having cried so much.
606
00:37:47,565 --> 00:37:50,468
You don't get any of that from Chris.
607
00:37:54,705 --> 00:37:56,674
- NARRATOR: Colorado investigators are starting
608
00:37:56,674 --> 00:38:00,478
to uncover cracks in Chris and Shanann Watts' marriage.
609
00:38:01,679 --> 00:38:03,848
Still, with a pregnant Shanann and their young girls
610
00:38:03,848 --> 00:38:07,618
now missing for two days, the lone husband continues
611
00:38:07,618 --> 00:38:09,754
to attract sympathy from the public.
612
00:38:11,422 --> 00:38:14,492
- People were calling my show in tears.
613
00:38:14,492 --> 00:38:16,661
They were incredibly upset.
614
00:38:19,063 --> 00:38:22,900
So many people had prayed for Chris Watts himself.
615
00:38:22,900 --> 00:38:24,635
This poor man.
616
00:38:24,635 --> 00:38:28,506
What it must be like to have a wife pregnant,
617
00:38:28,506 --> 00:38:31,442
missing kids, this poor guy.
618
00:38:32,777 --> 00:38:34,645
- LENA: If you look at all the interviews
619
00:38:34,645 --> 00:38:37,181
with everybody who was interviewed by the police,
620
00:38:37,181 --> 00:38:39,316
the FBI,
621
00:38:39,316 --> 00:38:42,086
nobody has one bad thing to say about this guy.
622
00:38:42,086 --> 00:38:44,789
I have not found one person, before this happened,
623
00:38:44,789 --> 00:38:47,458
who had one bad thing to say about him.
624
00:38:48,526 --> 00:38:52,997
- MARK: There's no evidence of any family violence.
625
00:38:52,997 --> 00:38:56,534
Shanann never reports any kind of violence
626
00:38:56,534 --> 00:38:59,236
to either her or the children.
627
00:38:59,236 --> 00:39:03,107
And Shanann was pretty upfront with a lot of her friends.
628
00:39:03,107 --> 00:39:05,109
She had a lot of close friends.
629
00:39:06,043 --> 00:39:08,079
- STEFFAN: I didn't think this was a kidnap.
630
00:39:08,079 --> 00:39:09,447
So then you start thinking,
631
00:39:09,447 --> 00:39:10,881
well, maybe, some marital problems,
632
00:39:10,881 --> 00:39:12,483
maybe she took the kids.
633
00:40:02,233 --> 00:40:05,503
- When we think about midlife crises, for example,
634
00:40:05,503 --> 00:40:07,738
and the things that men are stereotyped to do,
635
00:40:07,738 --> 00:40:09,073
going out and finding a young girlfriend
636
00:40:09,073 --> 00:40:11,475
is one of the ones we hear often, right?
637
00:40:41,872 --> 00:40:45,843
- NARRATOR: Digging deeper into Shanann's text messages,
638
00:40:45,843 --> 00:40:49,580
investigators find evidence suggesting she suspected
639
00:40:49,580 --> 00:40:51,482
Chris was having an affair.
640
00:40:54,718 --> 00:40:57,688
- LENA: She was floored when he came to North Carolina
641
00:40:57,688 --> 00:41:00,391
and he was disinterested in her,
642
00:41:00,391 --> 00:41:04,094
romantically, sexually, emotionally,
643
00:41:04,094 --> 00:41:05,763
everything like that,
644
00:41:05,763 --> 00:41:11,569
because he had always had such a strong sexual attraction to her.
645
00:41:11,569 --> 00:41:14,405
So, it was really confusing and really horrible.
646
00:41:14,405 --> 00:41:17,541
And you know, she was making note of it.
647
00:41:19,176 --> 00:41:21,145
- HEATHER: I think she was trying to figure out
648
00:41:21,145 --> 00:41:22,613
what was going on with him.
649
00:41:22,613 --> 00:41:24,248
She was talking to her friends about it.
650
00:41:24,248 --> 00:41:25,783
You know, at one point he's like,
651
00:41:25,783 --> 00:41:28,085
"Oh, I don't even want this baby."
652
00:41:28,085 --> 00:41:30,454
And she's like, "What do you mean you don't want this baby?
653
00:41:30,454 --> 00:41:33,190
Like, "I'm 15 weeks pregnant."
654
00:41:33,190 --> 00:41:36,026
Like, "This is not the time to have this conversation.
655
00:41:36,026 --> 00:41:39,797
"You wanted this baby. I agreed to have this baby,
656
00:41:39,797 --> 00:41:42,600
"we are having a baby boy.
657
00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:44,235
"And now you're saying all of a sudden
658
00:41:44,235 --> 00:41:45,903
you don't even want this baby."
659
00:41:45,903 --> 00:41:47,538
And that really freaked her out.
660
00:41:51,141 --> 00:41:54,378
- NARRATOR: Still, the face Shanann presents online
661
00:41:54,378 --> 00:41:55,713
doesn't change.
662
00:41:56,947 --> 00:41:58,482
- HEATHER: All of Shanann's videos
663
00:41:58,482 --> 00:42:02,353
were about how wonderful Chris was, how understanding he was,
664
00:42:02,353 --> 00:42:06,257
how he took on the medical struggles that she was having,
665
00:42:06,257 --> 00:42:08,759
how great of a father he was.
666
00:42:08,759 --> 00:42:11,896
Everything she did, she was singing his praises,
667
00:42:11,896 --> 00:42:15,132
and he seemed like a loving, doting father
668
00:42:15,132 --> 00:42:18,702
who loved Shanann for everything that she was.
669
00:42:19,403 --> 00:42:21,038
- MATT: I think deep down Shanann
670
00:42:21,038 --> 00:42:25,175
had a had a lack of self worth that she held on to
671
00:42:25,175 --> 00:42:26,944
throughout the years.
672
00:42:26,944 --> 00:42:29,113
And I think there are certain things she would put up with,
673
00:42:29,113 --> 00:42:30,681
certain people, because she didn't think
674
00:42:30,681 --> 00:42:32,616
she deserved better.
675
00:42:32,616 --> 00:42:34,485
- REBECCA: Social media adds to the pressure
676
00:42:34,485 --> 00:42:37,521
that people have to perform,
677
00:42:37,521 --> 00:42:41,358
to look better than maybe is realistic within their lives.
678
00:42:41,358 --> 00:42:44,328
You know, we all have struggles, struggles are normal.
679
00:42:44,328 --> 00:42:46,063
In general, as a therapist,
680
00:42:46,063 --> 00:42:47,698
I would say struggles are healthy, you know?
681
00:42:47,698 --> 00:42:49,300
They build who you are.
682
00:42:49,300 --> 00:42:51,669
But, I think social media adds this pressure to be perfect.
683
00:42:51,669 --> 00:42:54,171
This pressure to show your best self all the time.
684
00:42:55,472 --> 00:42:56,807
- SHERYL: Burnout is a real thing.
685
00:42:56,807 --> 00:42:58,709
Is there a coincidence that we are now
686
00:42:58,709 --> 00:43:00,377
in a mental health epidemic?
687
00:43:00,377 --> 00:43:01,946
Is it a coincidence
688
00:43:01,946 --> 00:43:04,715
that there are epidemic levels of anxiety and depression?
689
00:43:04,715 --> 00:43:07,384
It totally coincides with the smartphone.
690
00:43:07,384 --> 00:43:09,253
Everybody's lives on display.
691
00:43:10,988 --> 00:43:13,958
- MATT: She looked at divorce as a possible failure, and I think
692
00:43:13,958 --> 00:43:17,261
she was worried it might even hurt her brand with Thrive.
693
00:43:17,261 --> 00:43:20,230
She was willing to do anything to save the marriage.
694
00:43:21,231 --> 00:43:24,268
- NARRATOR: In public, all is well with Shanann.
695
00:43:24,268 --> 00:43:29,006
In private, with her close friends, it's anything but.
696
00:43:29,006 --> 00:43:31,742
And it only gets worse after Shanann and the girls
697
00:43:31,742 --> 00:43:34,979
return to Colorado from their North Carolina trip.
698
00:43:36,447 --> 00:43:39,049
- I think they were in a very toxic relationship at the time.
699
00:43:39,049 --> 00:43:40,384
For sure.
700
00:43:40,384 --> 00:43:43,654
Little did we know, right? How toxic it actually was.
701
00:43:46,190 --> 00:43:47,825
- NARRATOR: With Shanann and the girls
702
00:43:47,825 --> 00:43:49,593
now missing for two days,
703
00:43:49,593 --> 00:43:51,662
investigators are coming to the conclusion
704
00:43:51,662 --> 00:43:53,964
that they didn't simply run off,
705
00:43:53,964 --> 00:43:56,767
and that Chris might have had something to do
706
00:43:56,767 --> 00:43:59,169
with their disappearance.
707
00:44:01,238 --> 00:44:04,208
But Chris is determined to prove his innocence
708
00:44:04,208 --> 00:44:05,442
with a polygraph test.
709
00:44:57,027 --> 00:44:59,229
- NARRATOR: Investigators know that Chris Watts
710
00:44:59,229 --> 00:45:03,133
is hiding something behind his cool, calm demeanor.
711
00:45:08,305 --> 00:45:10,574
- In the polygraph, what they're detecting is,
712
00:45:10,574 --> 00:45:12,643
are you being truthful or not?
713
00:45:12,643 --> 00:45:15,679
Not really whether you're lying or not.
714
00:45:15,679 --> 00:45:18,215
First, we get a baseline of Chris's behavior.
715
00:45:29,026 --> 00:45:32,062
- And then of course they ask the really difficult questions,
716
00:45:32,062 --> 00:45:35,499
watching for a change in that baseline behavior.
717
00:46:05,395 --> 00:46:07,898
- You see he struggles even early on, like,
718
00:46:07,898 --> 00:46:09,933
"Hey, you're gonna have to calm down a little bit."
719
00:46:42,399 --> 00:46:45,402
- NARRATOR: If a subject scores minus four on this examination,
720
00:46:45,402 --> 00:46:47,938
it indicates they are not being truthful.
721
00:46:50,507 --> 00:46:56,346
Chris Watts doesn't know it yet, but his score is minus eighteen.
722
00:46:57,347 --> 00:47:00,150
Aside from answering his name correctly,
723
00:47:00,150 --> 00:47:04,087
he's found to be deceptive on every question.
724
00:47:05,155 --> 00:47:07,491
- Chris fails the polygraph, miserably.
725
00:47:08,926 --> 00:47:11,328
- LENA: I think he was under immense pressure,
726
00:47:11,328 --> 00:47:14,064
and he believed he could be convincing enough to pass it,
727
00:47:14,064 --> 00:47:16,767
but he was not smart enough to understand
728
00:47:16,767 --> 00:47:18,368
the perspective of other people.
729
00:47:19,903 --> 00:47:21,471
- STEFFAN: I mean, he's in that room,
730
00:47:21,471 --> 00:47:26,109
and he's talking with the detectives, then the polygraph.
731
00:47:26,109 --> 00:47:30,447
Chris Watts knew everything was closing in on him.
732
00:48:02,913 --> 00:48:05,115
- Self-sabotage is when you do something knowing
733
00:48:05,115 --> 00:48:06,984
that it's not going to work out,
734
00:48:06,984 --> 00:48:09,686
sort of as a way to hold yourself accountable.
735
00:48:09,686 --> 00:48:11,955
So did Chris self-sabotage?
736
00:48:11,955 --> 00:48:14,091
Did he know he wasn't going to pass?
737
00:48:14,091 --> 00:48:17,127
Or did Chris really think that he could pass the polygraph?
738
00:48:34,211 --> 00:48:35,479
- They're really suspicious
739
00:48:35,479 --> 00:48:37,581
about everything that's going on.
740
00:48:37,581 --> 00:48:40,784
I think they really believe that Chris is involved in this.
741
00:48:40,784 --> 00:48:42,219
What they need for him to do
742
00:48:42,219 --> 00:48:47,958
is establish the facts as he knows them, as he saw them,
743
00:48:47,958 --> 00:48:49,693
to establish what he did.
744
00:49:33,837 --> 00:49:35,405
- He's backed into a corner.
745
00:49:35,405 --> 00:49:38,275
He doesn't know what to do and they're skilled investigators,
746
00:49:38,275 --> 00:49:42,045
so they had to use several strategies.
747
00:50:19,950 --> 00:50:23,487
- LENA: After he fails the polygraph, he's saying, "Okay,"
748
00:50:23,487 --> 00:50:25,522
he's trying to change the story around.
749
00:50:25,522 --> 00:50:27,224
"I did lie to you,
750
00:50:27,224 --> 00:50:29,159
but I lied because I've been having an affair."
751
00:50:29,159 --> 00:50:31,161
- STEFFAN: The news comes out about the affair,
752
00:50:31,161 --> 00:50:33,964
and I think even those of us in the media,
753
00:50:33,964 --> 00:50:35,399
skeptical as we may be,
754
00:50:35,399 --> 00:50:39,269
maybe going, "Wow, that's a shocker."
755
00:50:41,638 --> 00:50:43,440
- NARRATOR: For the last two months,
756
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:46,910
Chris has been having a torrid affair with a coworker,
757
00:50:46,910 --> 00:50:50,380
29-year-old geologist Nichol Kessinger.
758
00:50:50,380 --> 00:50:53,350
But investigators already know this.
759
00:50:53,350 --> 00:50:57,654
Nichol reached out to them herself earlier that day.
760
00:51:42,065 --> 00:51:44,234
- LENA: Chris had a secret app in his phone.
761
00:51:44,234 --> 00:51:46,102
This secret calculator where, you know,
762
00:51:46,102 --> 00:51:47,537
it looks like a calculator,
763
00:51:47,537 --> 00:51:49,873
but it's actually a place where he would store photos
764
00:51:49,873 --> 00:51:52,776
of him and Nichol Kessinger,
765
00:51:52,776 --> 00:51:54,611
along with the selfies,
766
00:51:54,611 --> 00:51:57,047
even some of the more provocative photos
767
00:51:57,047 --> 00:51:58,815
that she would take for him.
768
00:51:58,815 --> 00:52:00,750
- HEATHER: They were visiting each other's houses,
769
00:52:00,750 --> 00:52:02,352
having all the sex,
770
00:52:02,352 --> 00:52:04,554
they were very emotionally involved,
771
00:52:04,554 --> 00:52:06,523
they were invested in each other.
772
00:52:06,523 --> 00:52:09,059
They felt like they were soulmates for each other.
773
00:52:09,059 --> 00:52:11,328
They finally found their person.
774
00:52:12,262 --> 00:52:13,763
- NARRATOR: According to Nichol,
775
00:52:13,763 --> 00:52:16,099
things really start heating up with Chris
776
00:52:16,099 --> 00:52:20,670
about six weeks before Shanann's disappearance,
777
00:52:20,670 --> 00:52:23,607
which police now know is the exact same time
778
00:52:23,607 --> 00:52:26,576
that Shanann was away in North Carolina.
779
00:52:30,380 --> 00:52:32,883
- HEATHER: Chris gets this amazing opportunity
780
00:52:32,883 --> 00:52:37,020
to live out his fantasy with his new girlfriend when his wife
781
00:52:37,020 --> 00:52:40,690
decides that she's gonna stay in North Carolina for six weeks.
782
00:52:44,828 --> 00:52:47,731
- HEATHER: He has this bachelor life with this girl
783
00:52:47,731 --> 00:52:53,403
who has a totally different vibe than Shanann.
784
00:52:53,403 --> 00:52:56,573
I think that Kessinger had this damsel vibe about her,
785
00:52:56,573 --> 00:52:59,776
she didn't have any kids and she was kind of a do-over
786
00:52:59,776 --> 00:53:02,946
and he could kind of swoop in and save her
787
00:53:02,946 --> 00:53:05,215
and he got to be everything for her
788
00:53:05,215 --> 00:53:07,651
that he wasn't in his marriage.
789
00:53:22,632 --> 00:53:24,701
- STEFFAN: They made no bones about it,
790
00:53:24,701 --> 00:53:28,071
at least with each other, taking pictures, going on trips,
791
00:53:28,071 --> 00:53:29,739
going to the sand dunes.
792
00:53:29,739 --> 00:53:32,976
I mean, this was this guy rolling the dice.
793
00:53:34,911 --> 00:53:38,281
- We know that around the same time he started working out,
794
00:53:38,281 --> 00:53:40,283
you know, there's a picture of her in a bikini
795
00:53:40,283 --> 00:53:42,218
posing against a wall,
796
00:53:42,218 --> 00:53:43,920
and I think the majority of people would agree
797
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:47,090
that she herself appears to be in very good shape.
798
00:53:47,090 --> 00:53:49,859
Meanwhile, his wife is 15 weeks pregnant
799
00:53:49,859 --> 00:53:53,396
and is maybe showing what tends to go with that.
800
00:54:04,641 --> 00:54:08,878
- Nichol told the police that she had absolutely no idea
801
00:54:08,878 --> 00:54:10,814
that Shanann was pregnant,
802
00:54:10,814 --> 00:54:13,617
and that she was disgusted when she found out,
803
00:54:13,617 --> 00:54:15,719
and that's why she came to the police.
804
00:54:32,202 --> 00:54:33,903
- NARRATOR: Having finally admitted
805
00:54:33,903 --> 00:54:36,773
he cheated on Shanann, Chris provides more details
806
00:54:36,773 --> 00:54:39,576
about his relationship with Nichol Kessinger.
807
00:55:20,784 --> 00:55:23,620
- STEFFAN: Nichol was completely led on.
808
00:55:23,620 --> 00:55:28,024
He lied to her throughout that affair,
809
00:55:28,024 --> 00:55:32,829
like he lied to the media every time he came out.
810
00:55:32,829 --> 00:55:36,132
And, quite frankly, he lied to law enforcement.
811
00:55:53,450 --> 00:55:55,552
- MARK: Police are actually saying,
812
00:55:55,552 --> 00:55:59,589
"Okay, Chris, we know you killed your family."
813
00:55:59,589 --> 00:56:01,725
They're accusing him of killing his family.
814
00:56:01,725 --> 00:56:04,794
Now, if you didn't kill your family,
815
00:56:04,794 --> 00:56:08,798
how should you react to that? With indignation.
816
00:56:08,798 --> 00:56:12,635
Like, "This is ridiculous. Why are you looking at me?
817
00:56:12,635 --> 00:56:14,671
"Why aren't you out there getting the bad guy?
818
00:56:14,671 --> 00:56:17,874
This is crazy. I didn't do anything."
819
00:56:17,874 --> 00:56:19,709
Do you get any of that from Chris? No.
820
00:56:23,246 --> 00:56:24,981
- NARRATOR: Hours into
821
00:56:24,981 --> 00:56:27,183
the Colorado Bureau of Investigations' interview
822
00:56:27,183 --> 00:56:29,185
with Chris Watts, the stoic husband
823
00:56:29,185 --> 00:56:32,388
continues to deny any knowledge about the disappearance
824
00:56:32,388 --> 00:56:36,593
of his pregnant wife and two young daughters.
825
00:56:36,593 --> 00:56:41,197
- Chris Watts' whole persona was crafted around this idea
826
00:56:41,197 --> 00:56:43,933
of the ideal father and husband.
827
00:56:43,933 --> 00:56:46,703
So the forefront of his mind was always like,
828
00:56:46,703 --> 00:56:49,906
"I want to be seen as this great guy."
829
00:56:51,775 --> 00:56:53,810
- REBECCA: He got to be seen as the victim.
830
00:56:53,810 --> 00:56:58,214
This poor, amazing father who had just lost his little girls
831
00:56:58,214 --> 00:57:00,450
and his wife and we didn't know what had happened
832
00:57:00,450 --> 00:57:02,085
and, you know, poor Chris.
833
00:57:03,386 --> 00:57:04,854
- NARRATOR: That's when investigators
834
00:57:04,854 --> 00:57:07,824
offer Chris a possible way out.
835
00:57:24,541 --> 00:57:26,843
- LENA: They asked, "Oh, did Shanann hurt the girls?
836
00:57:26,843 --> 00:57:29,579
And then did you do something to hurt her?"
837
00:57:29,579 --> 00:57:31,648
They planted that seed in his head because they wanted
838
00:57:31,648 --> 00:57:33,249
to get him to confess to something.
839
00:57:44,928 --> 00:57:46,996
- NARRATOR: At Chris's request,
840
00:57:46,996 --> 00:57:50,466
investigators bring in 60-year-old Ronnie Watts,
841
00:57:50,466 --> 00:57:54,771
who has just arrived in Colorado from North Carolina that day.
842
00:58:18,428 --> 00:58:20,029
- LENA: I would say the one person
843
00:58:20,029 --> 00:58:22,532
Chris had some attachment to was his dad, Ronnie.
844
00:58:22,532 --> 00:58:25,335
Ronnie adores Chris,
845
00:58:25,335 --> 00:58:27,103
and that was why
846
00:58:27,103 --> 00:58:29,939
he wanted Ronnie in the room with him.
847
00:59:55,024 --> 00:59:58,828
- He blamed Shanann and said that she killed the girls,
848
00:59:58,828 --> 01:00:02,098
which I do not believe could even be possible.
849
01:00:02,098 --> 01:00:05,068
- MARK: I think he wants to run this by his dad first
850
01:00:05,068 --> 01:00:07,971
to see if his dad sort of buys this,
851
01:00:07,971 --> 01:00:11,607
and then if his dad buys it, then he can, you know,
852
01:00:11,607 --> 01:00:13,109
give it to the police.
853
01:00:56,819 --> 01:00:59,322
- VONDA: Once he admitted that he did it,
854
01:00:59,322 --> 01:01:02,925
then there was just this flush of huge sadness,
855
01:01:02,925 --> 01:01:06,763
because then everybody was like, "Okay, she's not coming back.
856
01:01:06,763 --> 01:01:09,399
And those babies are not coming back."
857
01:01:09,399 --> 01:01:11,868
And the sadness just...
858
01:01:11,868 --> 01:01:13,936
it started there, and it just built.
859
01:01:24,147 --> 01:01:27,083
- MARK: His dad actually believes that something
860
01:01:27,083 --> 01:01:28,751
has happened to the family,
861
01:01:28,751 --> 01:01:31,187
and Chris isn't responsible for any of this.
862
01:01:31,187 --> 01:01:33,823
I mean, this is probably the normal reaction for a parent.
863
01:01:35,792 --> 01:01:37,660
- Again, he didn't want people to believe
864
01:01:37,660 --> 01:01:39,862
that he could do something like this.
865
01:01:41,097 --> 01:01:42,832
- NARRATOR: But investigators don't believe
866
01:01:42,832 --> 01:01:45,001
Shanann killed her girls.
867
01:01:45,001 --> 01:01:47,437
They can assign guilt later.
868
01:01:47,437 --> 01:01:50,840
For now, they just want to find the bodies.
869
01:02:43,025 --> 01:02:44,894
- Yeah. Unimaginable.
870
01:02:45,962 --> 01:02:47,897
Then it gets crazier.
871
01:02:51,234 --> 01:02:53,402
- NARRATOR: As police race to the oil fields
872
01:02:53,402 --> 01:02:55,505
where Chris Watts claims to have hidden
873
01:02:55,505 --> 01:02:57,340
his murdered family's bodies,
874
01:02:57,340 --> 01:02:59,842
the guilty husband is more concerned
875
01:02:59,842 --> 01:03:02,311
about what people think of him.
876
01:03:31,007 --> 01:03:32,742
- REBECCA: He did not break down
877
01:03:32,742 --> 01:03:34,911
until he was actually confessing.
878
01:03:34,911 --> 01:03:37,880
Which begs the question of who he was crying for.
879
01:03:37,880 --> 01:03:40,149
Was it for his children and his wife
880
01:03:40,149 --> 01:03:42,752
because he felt guilty or sad that he wouldn't see them?
881
01:03:42,752 --> 01:03:44,387
Or was it for himself?
882
01:03:44,387 --> 01:03:46,489
Knowing that he was now going to jail,
883
01:03:46,489 --> 01:03:49,926
knowing that now this version of himself was the real version
884
01:03:49,926 --> 01:03:51,694
everybody would know,
885
01:03:51,694 --> 01:03:54,363
knowing that the fantasy and the fairy tale was now over?
886
01:03:56,232 --> 01:03:59,135
- I believe Chris Watts is a type of narcissist.
887
01:03:59,135 --> 01:04:02,905
They don't have feelings and attachments to people.
888
01:04:02,905 --> 01:04:06,576
So they have to learn to mimic other people
889
01:04:06,576 --> 01:04:08,110
to fit into the world.
890
01:04:09,412 --> 01:04:11,247
- STEFFAN: You know, everybody following this story,
891
01:04:11,247 --> 01:04:13,416
you're forming your own opinion.
892
01:04:13,416 --> 01:04:17,019
And there were even people that thought, "Poor Chris.
893
01:04:17,019 --> 01:04:20,089
"She was very controlling and demanding
894
01:04:20,089 --> 01:04:22,959
and look at all the stuff, and her life's on social media."
895
01:04:22,959 --> 01:04:24,927
- My husband's a genius.
896
01:04:24,927 --> 01:04:26,762
- LENA: That then really unfairly
897
01:04:26,762 --> 01:04:28,898
painted Shanann in a bad light.
898
01:04:28,898 --> 01:04:31,067
There's still people who believe that
899
01:04:31,067 --> 01:04:34,670
and will go at great lengths to defend Chris.
900
01:04:35,538 --> 01:04:38,241
- NARRATOR: But investigators don't buy Chris's explanation
901
01:04:38,241 --> 01:04:41,611
that Shanann killed the girls, and then in a fit of rage,
902
01:04:41,611 --> 01:04:43,179
he killed her.
903
01:04:45,748 --> 01:04:47,316
As their hours-long interview
904
01:04:47,316 --> 01:04:51,254
with the 33-year-old father continues, they're determined
905
01:04:51,254 --> 01:04:54,156
to break through his self-serving web of lies.
906
01:05:45,408 --> 01:05:47,443
- NARRATOR: Looking at the evidence, however,
907
01:05:47,443 --> 01:05:51,314
investigators are convinced that Chris is a monster,
908
01:05:51,314 --> 01:05:53,949
a rare and specific form of killer
909
01:05:53,949 --> 01:05:56,385
known as a family annihilator.
910
01:05:58,521 --> 01:06:01,057
- REBECCA: Family annihilators in general do tend to be male.
911
01:06:01,057 --> 01:06:02,958
They're most often in their thirties.
912
01:06:02,958 --> 01:06:05,261
These things often happen at the end of summer.
913
01:06:05,261 --> 01:06:06,796
They often happen on weekends.
914
01:06:06,796 --> 01:06:08,497
There are a number of correlations
915
01:06:08,497 --> 01:06:12,535
between when and who commits family annihilation.
916
01:06:12,535 --> 01:06:16,072
As far as why, that may go back to the stressors.
917
01:06:16,072 --> 01:06:20,276
Finances being one. Affairs being another one.
918
01:06:20,276 --> 01:06:24,113
- For most family annihilators, it is an event
919
01:06:24,113 --> 01:06:28,317
that is thought out, it's planned, it's organized.
920
01:06:28,317 --> 01:06:33,322
It's done, if not days, weeks in advance.
921
01:06:33,322 --> 01:06:38,127
I think in this five-week period where Shanann and the girls
922
01:06:38,127 --> 01:06:41,664
go to visit her parents in North Carolina
923
01:06:41,664 --> 01:06:44,800
is what solidifies this in Chris's mind.
924
01:06:44,800 --> 01:06:46,502
"This is what's gotta to happen,"
925
01:06:46,502 --> 01:06:49,271
because he's spending all of his time with Nichol.
926
01:06:49,271 --> 01:06:52,241
And it's like, "This is the relationship I want."
927
01:06:53,175 --> 01:06:54,844
- LENA: He had no use for Shanann anymore
928
01:06:54,844 --> 01:06:56,579
once he had found a new woman.
929
01:06:56,579 --> 01:06:59,248
In the narcissism world, we use the word "discard"
930
01:06:59,248 --> 01:07:01,951
for when the narcissist is done with someone
931
01:07:01,951 --> 01:07:04,286
who they no longer have value from.
932
01:07:04,286 --> 01:07:07,123
This was a literal discard in every sense of the word.
933
01:07:10,326 --> 01:07:12,228
- NARRATOR: After Shanann and the kids returned
934
01:07:12,228 --> 01:07:15,131
from their summer trip to North Carolina,
935
01:07:15,131 --> 01:07:18,467
Shanann soon left again for Arizona on a work trip.
936
01:07:19,802 --> 01:07:22,271
She could tell that things weren't right with Chris,
937
01:07:22,271 --> 01:07:24,774
so she gave him a note to read while she was away.
938
01:07:26,409 --> 01:07:28,144
- LENA: Shanann poured her heart out to Chris,
939
01:07:28,144 --> 01:07:29,745
telling him how much she loved him,
940
01:07:29,745 --> 01:07:32,415
how much she wanted to make the marriage work.
941
01:07:32,415 --> 01:07:34,383
Everything she loved about him.
942
01:07:34,383 --> 01:07:36,385
What she was willing to do, you know,
943
01:07:36,385 --> 01:07:38,120
even though she didn't like his family, she said,
944
01:07:38,120 --> 01:07:39,822
"I'm willing to work with them for you."
945
01:07:39,822 --> 01:07:43,592
She was trying to do everything to save her marriage.
946
01:07:45,461 --> 01:07:47,463
- JESSICA SHELTON: In the text messages she sent to her friends
947
01:07:47,463 --> 01:07:50,166
before she passed, you know, she was realizing that,
948
01:07:50,166 --> 01:07:52,468
"Maybe I was hard on Chris, maybe, you know,
949
01:07:52,468 --> 01:07:55,171
I'm such a go-getter and a perfectionist,"
950
01:07:55,171 --> 01:07:58,140
and she made things, you know, difficult for herself
951
01:07:58,140 --> 01:07:59,875
trying to achieve so much.
952
01:08:01,277 --> 01:08:02,711
- LENA: She got self-help books.
953
01:08:02,711 --> 01:08:04,680
She tried to persuade Chris to go to counseling,
954
01:08:04,680 --> 01:08:06,816
and those are called prosocial solutions.
955
01:08:06,816 --> 01:08:09,084
The difference between a psychopath and, you know,
956
01:08:09,084 --> 01:08:11,320
a normal person is that
957
01:08:11,320 --> 01:08:15,624
psychopaths turn to antisocial solutions to their problems.
958
01:08:15,624 --> 01:08:19,829
So an antisocial solution to a problem like marital problems
959
01:08:19,829 --> 01:08:21,864
would be murdering your family.
960
01:08:23,232 --> 01:08:25,534
- NARRATOR: Investigators believe it was while Shanann
961
01:08:25,534 --> 01:08:28,137
was away on a work trip in Arizona
962
01:08:28,137 --> 01:08:30,573
that Chris put his plan into action.
963
01:08:32,274 --> 01:08:34,143
- LENA: He was plotting, you know, over the weekend,
964
01:08:34,143 --> 01:08:36,212
exactly what he was going to do.
965
01:08:36,212 --> 01:08:38,881
He knew that he was going to kill his wife
966
01:08:38,881 --> 01:08:41,750
and so he didn't care anymore. And so in a lot of ways,
967
01:08:41,750 --> 01:08:44,987
I believe that Chris was toying with Shanann on purpose.
968
01:08:46,055 --> 01:08:48,724
- NARRATOR: The investigators confirm their suspicion
969
01:08:48,724 --> 01:08:52,761
when they interview Shanann's best friend, Nickole Atkinson.
970
01:09:30,399 --> 01:09:32,968
- JESSICA: Chris just swiped his card
971
01:09:32,968 --> 01:09:35,504
knowing Shanann would see it.
972
01:09:35,504 --> 01:09:37,873
She was on top of all their finances.
973
01:09:37,873 --> 01:09:41,510
He calculated this, he knew what he was doing.
974
01:09:44,113 --> 01:09:46,882
- NARRATOR: On the night of August 12, 2018,
975
01:09:46,882 --> 01:09:50,786
the Watts' home security log shows Chris returning home
976
01:09:50,786 --> 01:09:53,088
at 10:30 p.m.
977
01:09:53,088 --> 01:09:55,391
Shanann, still in Arizona,
978
01:09:55,391 --> 01:09:58,327
is now all but convinced something's wrong.
979
01:10:04,767 --> 01:10:07,202
- NARRATOR: At the airport, Shanann finally reveals
980
01:10:07,202 --> 01:10:09,872
her mounting frustrations to her friend.
981
01:10:28,958 --> 01:10:30,626
- NARRATOR: Throughout the trip,
982
01:10:30,626 --> 01:10:32,728
Shanann continues to try to make contact.
983
01:10:46,842 --> 01:10:49,912
- LENA: She's walking into what her safe haven was with
984
01:10:49,912 --> 01:10:53,849
the person that she believed would protect her
985
01:10:53,849 --> 01:10:55,017
and her children the most,
986
01:10:55,017 --> 01:10:57,553
and she was walking, literally, into her death.
987
01:10:58,988 --> 01:11:00,356
- NARRATOR: After weeks apart,
988
01:11:00,356 --> 01:11:03,525
Chris and Shanann are finally home together,
989
01:11:03,525 --> 01:11:05,794
but the night soon takes a frightening turn.
990
01:11:07,029 --> 01:11:08,631
- MARK: Chris is saying,
991
01:11:08,631 --> 01:11:11,433
"Well, I told Shanann I didn't want to be married anymore."
992
01:11:11,433 --> 01:11:13,002
You know, "That I had this girlfriend
993
01:11:13,002 --> 01:11:16,071
and I wanted a new life,"
994
01:11:16,071 --> 01:11:19,008
and then Shanann strangled the girls.
995
01:11:20,676 --> 01:11:22,911
So this doesn't even make sense behaviorally.
996
01:11:22,911 --> 01:11:25,714
You tell your wife that you're having an affair,
997
01:11:25,714 --> 01:11:27,883
so she goes and kills the kids.
998
01:11:27,883 --> 01:11:29,918
Nobody believes this.
999
01:11:29,918 --> 01:11:32,254
- NARRATOR: Now investigators want to know,
1000
01:11:32,254 --> 01:11:35,024
will Chris ever admit what really happened?
1001
01:11:35,024 --> 01:11:40,663
And where are his pregnant wife and their two daughters' bodies?
1002
01:11:45,434 --> 01:11:47,503
- NARRATOR: Investigators reach the remote site
1003
01:11:47,503 --> 01:11:49,805
in the Colorado desert where Chris Watts claims
1004
01:11:49,805 --> 01:11:54,543
to have dumped his pregnant wife and daughters' bodies.
1005
01:11:54,543 --> 01:11:58,180
But the sprawling 35,000-acre oil facility
1006
01:11:58,180 --> 01:12:00,983
is simply too large to search.
1007
01:12:00,983 --> 01:12:05,754
They need help from the killer himself to locate them.
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01:12:52,835 --> 01:12:57,172
- NARRATOR: Investigators on site make a startling discovery:
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Chris stuffed four-year-old Bella
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01:12:59,508 --> 01:13:05,280
and three-year-old Ce-Ce's bodies into the oil wells.
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01:13:05,280 --> 01:13:07,316
- HEATHER: Police, they're shocked.
1012
01:13:07,316 --> 01:13:09,451
The hatches on the oil tanks,
1013
01:13:09,451 --> 01:13:12,554
they're about the width of a paper plate
1014
01:13:12,554 --> 01:13:17,526
and they can't figure out how you would get a child
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01:13:17,526 --> 01:13:19,595
through them, let alone two.
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01:13:45,254 --> 01:13:50,325
- MARK: Just the nature of trying to stuff your daughter
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01:13:50,325 --> 01:13:53,762
into this little tiny hole
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01:13:53,762 --> 01:13:56,031
and put her, drop her, into this
1019
01:13:56,031 --> 01:13:59,401
really just horrific mixture of oil and water,
1020
01:13:59,401 --> 01:14:01,937
is really beyond comprehension.
1021
01:14:01,937 --> 01:14:03,505
It's just...
1022
01:14:03,505 --> 01:14:06,642
goes against so much of the hardwiring
1023
01:14:06,642 --> 01:14:08,644
we have as parents.
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01:14:10,579 --> 01:14:11,980
- HEATHER: Once their bodies are recovered,
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01:14:11,980 --> 01:14:14,516
they were able to say, "Okay, we found them."
1026
01:14:14,516 --> 01:14:16,285
You know, "She was wrapped in this.
1027
01:14:16,285 --> 01:14:18,454
She was wearing this."
1028
01:14:18,454 --> 01:14:20,823
And when you give him the facts
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01:14:20,823 --> 01:14:22,991
and he has to re-live what he's done,
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01:14:22,991 --> 01:14:25,627
you hope he's got some kind of remorse.
1031
01:14:33,535 --> 01:14:35,737
- NARRATOR: But even as he is taken into custody
1032
01:14:35,737 --> 01:14:38,240
and charged with the murders of his wife and children,
1033
01:14:41,844 --> 01:14:45,247
Chris Watts refuses to accept responsibility
1034
01:14:45,247 --> 01:14:47,149
for his daughter's deaths.
1035
01:14:50,352 --> 01:14:53,021
It is only to escape the death penalty
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01:14:53,021 --> 01:14:56,291
that he agrees to plead guilty on all charges.
1037
01:14:59,294 --> 01:15:03,866
In November 2018, Chris Watts receives five life sentences
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01:15:03,866 --> 01:15:06,835
without the possibility of parole,
1039
01:15:06,835 --> 01:15:09,771
plus an additional 84 years
1040
01:15:09,771 --> 01:15:12,641
for the unlawful termination of a pregnancy
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01:15:12,641 --> 01:15:15,244
and tampering with deceased bodies.
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01:15:19,748 --> 01:15:22,718
- OBARI: A man with conviction, even after, you know,
1043
01:15:22,718 --> 01:15:25,053
messing up so bad, may have said,
1044
01:15:25,053 --> 01:15:28,690
"Okay, let me just fess up, let me just come clean.
1045
01:15:28,690 --> 01:15:30,158
I can't get away with this thing."
1046
01:15:30,158 --> 01:15:34,630
But somebody like a Chris had the audacity to not do it,
1047
01:15:34,630 --> 01:15:36,231
but to think he can get away with it.
1048
01:15:36,231 --> 01:15:38,734
And so that's the problem is that we don't really know
1049
01:15:38,734 --> 01:15:41,670
who he was because he spent so much time
1050
01:15:41,670 --> 01:15:44,072
in a play, performing this act.
1051
01:15:45,340 --> 01:15:48,043
- So basically he pleads guilty, gets life in prison,
1052
01:15:48,043 --> 01:15:49,611
and the end.
1053
01:15:49,611 --> 01:15:52,881
There's no trial, there's no presenting evidence.
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01:15:52,881 --> 01:15:56,184
He never has to say anything more.
1055
01:15:57,319 --> 01:16:00,088
- NARRATOR: But four months after his conviction,
1056
01:16:00,088 --> 01:16:03,725
Chris Watts decides he does in fact have more to say.
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01:16:04,960 --> 01:16:07,863
He sits down with investigators a second time,
1058
01:16:07,863 --> 01:16:13,201
and this time he finally decides to tell the truth.
1059
01:16:13,201 --> 01:16:16,038
- He's in prison when then he makes the,
1060
01:16:16,038 --> 01:16:20,142
sort of this final confession, where he says,
1061
01:16:20,142 --> 01:16:22,377
"Okay, here's what really happened."
1062
01:17:10,492 --> 01:17:12,694
- REBECCA: I mean, as far as social media was concerned,
1063
01:17:12,694 --> 01:17:14,863
he was an ideal husband, essentially.
1064
01:17:14,863 --> 01:17:18,300
So for him to have come forward with,
1065
01:17:18,300 --> 01:17:22,304
"I'm having an affair and I'm leaving you," or even just
1066
01:17:22,304 --> 01:17:25,040
"I'm leaving you, we're getting a divorce, period,"
1067
01:17:25,040 --> 01:17:29,244
is certainly a big swing from the perfect family that,
1068
01:17:29,244 --> 01:17:31,980
you know, he had basically been up part of
1069
01:17:31,980 --> 01:17:35,651
presenting to the world for a number of years at that point.
1070
01:17:35,651 --> 01:17:38,120
We don't know how that may have
1071
01:17:38,120 --> 01:17:42,190
played into his ultimate decision to kill
1072
01:17:42,190 --> 01:17:44,960
his children and his wife instead of simply leaving.
1073
01:18:09,918 --> 01:18:14,222
- He just strangled her, until he said he watched
1074
01:18:14,222 --> 01:18:16,691
her eyes fill up with blood and then, you know,
1075
01:18:16,691 --> 01:18:22,064
your body releases all of its withheld fluids when you pass
1076
01:18:22,064 --> 01:18:24,299
and that's when he knew she was dead.
1077
01:18:26,435 --> 01:18:28,170
- SHERYL: He truly killed her
1078
01:18:28,170 --> 01:18:30,272
very shortly after being intimate.
1079
01:18:30,272 --> 01:18:34,009
It's just, it's almost like none of this makes any sense
1080
01:18:34,009 --> 01:18:36,278
to a common person, a layperson,
1081
01:18:36,278 --> 01:18:38,180
or somebody who studies psychology,
1082
01:18:38,180 --> 01:18:40,148
it's just really difficult to understand this.
1083
01:18:42,184 --> 01:18:45,487
- NARRATOR: But what's even more confounding is what Chris does
1084
01:18:45,487 --> 01:18:47,422
when his daughters wake up.
1085
01:19:28,864 --> 01:19:33,935
- I think the horrific, really evil, nature of the acts
1086
01:19:33,935 --> 01:19:38,340
is that he brought his daughters alive out to the location.
1087
01:20:22,617 --> 01:20:26,855
- The autopsies show that Bella and Ce-Ce were likely smothered.
1088
01:20:45,974 --> 01:20:50,846
- The fact that someone could do this to a pregnant woman
1089
01:20:50,846 --> 01:20:52,914
who is your wife,
1090
01:20:52,914 --> 01:20:56,218
the two little girls,
1091
01:20:56,218 --> 01:21:00,722
Chris Watts, in my opinion, deserved the death penalty,
1092
01:21:00,722 --> 01:21:02,224
should have been executed.
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01:21:05,460 --> 01:21:09,364
- MATT: To do that to your own children,
1094
01:21:09,364 --> 01:21:11,800
and then to be a coward enough to, like,
1095
01:21:11,800 --> 01:21:14,135
take the first plea that they give you
1096
01:21:14,135 --> 01:21:17,105
so that you didn't have to be put to death,
1097
01:21:17,105 --> 01:21:19,074
it just says a lot about him.
1098
01:21:19,074 --> 01:21:21,710
It says a lot about how far he had gone in his narcissism.
1099
01:21:21,710 --> 01:21:23,278
He's a true sociopath.
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01:21:24,679 --> 01:21:29,117
- MARK: Family annihilators are a very rare type of killer.
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01:21:29,117 --> 01:21:34,089
And thank God, because you can't predict men like this.
1102
01:21:34,089 --> 01:21:36,458
Even the family members would say,
1103
01:21:36,458 --> 01:21:39,661
"He could never hurt me, he could never hurt our kids."
1104
01:21:39,661 --> 01:21:44,699
You do not know what lies in the hearts of some men.
1105
01:21:44,699 --> 01:21:47,302
If you study familicide
1106
01:21:47,302 --> 01:21:50,939
and men that commit these types of crimes,
1107
01:21:50,939 --> 01:21:53,275
most of the time they suicide.
1108
01:21:53,275 --> 01:21:56,144
But I think Chris thought he could get away with this.
1109
01:21:56,144 --> 01:21:59,080
He just thought he was gonna be that good.
1110
01:22:00,515 --> 01:22:02,751
- HEATHER: So he could maybe get away with it
1111
01:22:02,751 --> 01:22:04,452
and live with Nichol forever?
1112
01:22:04,452 --> 01:22:07,022
I mean, that's the prize for all this?
1113
01:22:07,022 --> 01:22:09,591
It's horrible.
1114
01:22:10,659 --> 01:22:12,827
- LENA: Chris Watts destroyed so many lives
1115
01:22:12,827 --> 01:22:14,963
by these really selfish actions.
1116
01:22:14,963 --> 01:22:16,431
It's not just the immediate family,
1117
01:22:16,431 --> 01:22:20,168
it ripples out into the community.
1118
01:22:20,168 --> 01:22:23,972
The main detective on the case did retire from PTSD,
1119
01:22:23,972 --> 01:22:26,441
specifically because of this case.
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01:22:27,342 --> 01:22:29,744
- VONDA: The ripple effect is just huge.
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01:22:29,744 --> 01:22:31,446
At the time when it occurred,
1122
01:22:31,446 --> 01:22:34,382
the children were a main concern in the neighborhood,
1123
01:22:34,382 --> 01:22:36,918
because, you know, daddies don't kill their babies,
1124
01:22:36,918 --> 01:22:38,987
and how do you wrap your mind about that?
1125
01:22:40,288 --> 01:22:43,825
- ♪ My daddy is a hero
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01:22:43,825 --> 01:22:47,195
♪ He helps me grow up strong
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01:22:47,195 --> 01:22:52,167
♪ He helps me [unintelligibile] ♪
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01:22:52,167 --> 01:22:54,569
♪ He reads me books
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01:22:54,569 --> 01:22:58,406
♪ He ties my shoes
1130
01:22:58,406 --> 01:23:03,745
♪ You're a hero through and through ♪
1131
01:23:03,745 --> 01:23:07,615
♪ My daddy, daddy, I love you ♪
1132
01:23:09,951 --> 01:23:17,359
- ♪
1133
01:23:17,359 --> 01:23:20,362
- My name is Chris Watts. Welcome to Broomfield, Colorado.
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01:23:20,362 --> 01:23:23,832
It's about 70 degrees, and it's awesome outside,
1135
01:23:23,832 --> 01:23:26,267
so welcome. I'm doing my speech on
1136
01:23:26,267 --> 01:23:28,303
relationship deterioration and repair
1137
01:23:28,303 --> 01:23:31,039
and this is my PowerPoint to help me.
1138
01:23:31,039 --> 01:23:33,108
Deterioration.
1139
01:23:33,108 --> 01:23:34,843
The relationship technology nowadays,
1140
01:23:34,843 --> 01:23:38,813
you'll be on your iPhone, your Blackberry, at a restaurant,
1141
01:23:38,813 --> 01:23:42,083
and you'll just--you'll see two people at the table,
1142
01:23:42,083 --> 01:23:43,451
and you'll see both of them on their phones,
1143
01:23:43,451 --> 01:23:48,323
either Facebook comment status or maybe playing a game,
1144
01:23:48,323 --> 01:23:51,359
and there's no communication at all.
1145
01:23:51,359 --> 01:23:52,861
You have to ask yourself three questions
1146
01:23:52,861 --> 01:23:55,130
when you're in a relationship:
1147
01:23:55,130 --> 01:23:57,966
Do I have the desire to keep this relationship going?
1148
01:23:57,966 --> 01:24:02,270
Do I have a moral obligation to stay in this relationship?
1149
01:24:02,270 --> 01:24:07,142
Or is it a necessity for me to stay in this relationship?
1150
01:24:07,142 --> 01:24:08,443
Sometimes when you have children
1151
01:24:08,443 --> 01:24:10,345
and your relationship starts to deteriorate,
1152
01:24:10,345 --> 01:24:14,783
a child could help repair it.
1153
01:24:14,783 --> 01:24:16,951
All relationships are held together, in part,
1154
01:24:16,951 --> 01:24:19,988
by form of commitment.
1155
01:24:19,988 --> 01:24:24,259
And in conclusion, I have to say that relationships are hard,
1156
01:24:24,259 --> 01:24:26,628
but they're worth it in the end.
1157
01:24:26,628 --> 01:24:31,833
And as the Swedish proverb says, "A double joy is a shared joy
1158
01:24:31,833 --> 01:24:36,204
and a double sorrow is not a shared sorrow." Thank you.
1159
01:24:36,871 --> 01:24:38,506
- [applause]
1160
01:24:40,275 --> 01:24:45,013
- ♪♪ - [clock ticking]
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01:24:45,013 --> 01:24:46,414
- [streetcar bell rings]
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