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A wedding, there's no better symbol of love
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than two people joining together in holy matrimony
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before God, before their family and friends.
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For the bride it means the perfect dress, the perfect cake,
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the perfect day, and of course, the perfect groom.
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It's everything she's prayed for for her entire life.
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But how do we know if God hears our prayers?
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Does he even care?
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On this day a bride-to-be finds out what true faith is,
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and that sometimes we don't see the answers to our prayers,
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even though they're right in front of our eyes.
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Wow, you look amazing.
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Thank you.
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I'm so glad that Dennis popped the question
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and made an honest woman out of you.
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There.
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Well, um.
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Look at you.
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He didn't, I did.
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Oh, you never told me that.
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It's not something that I brag about.
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Well, maybe he just needed some time
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to make sure it was the right thing.
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It is the right thing, right?
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Of course it is.
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We get to finally do married couples stuff together.
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You know, game nights,
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couples prayer group,
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kids in preschool .
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Dennis won't be doing prayer group any time soon.
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He'll come around once you guys start having kids.
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And he doesn't wanna rush the kids thing.
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Why not?
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Are you pregnant?
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Yeah.
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What, you are?
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I wanted to wait until after your big day to tell you.
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I'm so excited for you.
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For us, so hurry up,
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so we can raise our kids together, okay?
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Okay.
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I'll be out there.
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All right, see you soon.
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Oh, wait, wait, wait.
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Yeah.
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One more thing.
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When you got married,
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did you know you were making the right decision?
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Lil, it's too late to bail now, okay?
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Yeah, you're right.
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All right.
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Okay.
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Knock it off, Dennis.
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Honey, I have bad news about Dennis.
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I just don't know what to say, honey.
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Don't worry, Lil, I'm hunting Dennis down.
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I should've seen this coming.
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I just wanted you to be happy.
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She'll be happy.
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I'll make her happy.
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He's not answering.
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Maybe it's just cold feet.
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Oh wait, I got his voicemail.
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Dennis, what's going on?
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You can't just take off like that, you coward.
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You get back here this minute and you make things right.
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I don't know if that helped.
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Anyone hungry?
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Remember, all things come together for good.
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How is this good, Mom?
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Lily, keep your head up.
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He's gonna call.
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I just need a minute.
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Have faith that God's in control.
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He'll call and we'll get this wedding back on track.
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Just give it a few weeks.
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You'll feel better.
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Everything's gonna be great.
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He'll come to his senses.
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Stop, please, don't tell me to have faith.
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I have waited and prayed for a husband my entire life.
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Don't tell me to be okay.
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Did you chase Dennis away?
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Don't be ridiculous, you're father--
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Did you?
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He left on his own.
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Honey, just be patient.
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I'm sure this is just one big misunderstanding.
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He can't possibly--
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Don't worry about it.
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We'll get him back, you'll see,
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and then we'll get on with everything, it'll be--
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Everybody out.
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Now, everybody out!
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Lily, we're just trying to help.
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You can't, not with this.
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But, Lily.
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What kind of catering refund do you think we can get?
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It's locked.
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Just leave her alone.
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There's one more door down the hall, come on.
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Lil, come on, this is silly.
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We'll get through this.
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Lil, come on.
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I lost 20 pounds for what?
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You promised, you pinky promised
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that you would never leave me.
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How could you do this?
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How could you do this to me
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in front of all my family and friends,
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in this dress?
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I have never been so humiliated.
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Who's gonna marry me now?
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God, how could you let this happen?
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Throwing your own party?
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How did you get in here?
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I kicked everyone out.
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I never left.
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Well, in case you didn't hear,
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the wedding's over, you can go.
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I didn't come just for the wedding.
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I came for you.
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You seem familiar.
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I've known you since before you were born.
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Hmm, a friend of the family?
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You could say that, yeah.
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I've seen all the ups and downs.
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Well, you're a witness to the worst day of my life.
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Or perhaps the best.
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Lily.
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Stop knocking, you're giving me a headache.
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I'm not giving up on our daughter.
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Give her some space.
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She'll be out any minute.
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She's not answering.
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Dennis seemed like such a nice man.
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He was trouble.
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Well, then why didn't you say something?
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I wanted her to be happy just like you did.
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Your shirt's a mess.
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That'll never come out.
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Lily.
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Well, it looks like my future's
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not the only thing I wrecked.
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How was the cake?
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I don't even know what I was thinking.
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I never deserved this wedding.
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You deserve an abundant, joyful life.
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That's what everyone says.
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They want me to be happy.
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I didn't say happy.
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Is there a difference?
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Oh yeah, I've seen a lot of weddings in my day.
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Most of them joyful, but ah, sadly, not all.
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Tell me about Dennis.
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Maybe I can help you sort things out.
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I'm a good listener.
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You mean the man who abandoned me,
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shattered my heart, and destroyed my future?
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What originally led you to him?
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Nice smile, hair, straight teeth.
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Was he a gentleman?
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We got along.
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Hmm, and then what?
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It got harder the longer we dated,
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but I just chalked it up to growing pains.
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And you were afraid of losing him.
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All my life, all I've ever wanted was a good guy.
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I thought that this was my last chance.
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Do you know what it's like to be the single one at my age?
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Actually, I do.
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It seems like every time I meet a new guy,
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I work really hard, you know, to make it work,
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and my dad, he'll never understand.
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Maybe your dad is just a protective father
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who wants what's best for you.
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He has a funny way of showing it.
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And what about your mother.
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Why'd you shut her out?
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I just couldn't take everyone at once.
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It was, it was just a bit much.
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That's fair, but you know, there's value in good counsel.
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I'm sure they mean well.
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I just wish they would try to understand
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what I'm going through.
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I have an idea.
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Bring your parents and Sally in one at a time.
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Let's hear what they have to say about Dennis.
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What kind of advice, what kind of comfort.
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It'll just get out of hand.
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No, no, I'll be the arbiter.
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It'll be fine.
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Why are you doing this.
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Because they know you.
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Like I said, yes, this could be the worst day of your life,
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but it can also be the best.
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It all depends on what you do with it.
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I guess it's better than venting
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to someone I hardly know, no offense,
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None taken.
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When are you expecting?
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Five and a half months.
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I guess I'll have to wait longer to be a grandmother.
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Oh, don't give up on Dennis yet.
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Did you know him well?
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He seemed stable.
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Well, maybe you could convince him that--
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What?
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That he made a mistake.
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By leaving, seems like he's
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the only one with a clear head.
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Don't talk like that.
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Your little girl's in there crying her eyes out.
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You're her father for goodness sake.
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I am her father and I only want what's best for her.
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Dennis wasn't good for her.
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We all know it.
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Why am I the only one saying it out loud?
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He didn't want kids.
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He didn't want God.
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He didn't even wanna get married.
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Lily did the proposing for crying out loud.
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And worst of all, he didn't want your meatloaf.
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Well, that was just because of his religious beliefs.
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Veganism is not a religion.
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Lily.
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Your dress.
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Just you.
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You get used to it.
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Was that the deejay?
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Hello, I'm Lily's mom.
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Don't I know you from somewhere?
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I'm the deejay, friend of the family.
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Do you have something you wanna ask your mother?
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I'm getting to it.
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This wallowing in self-pity stuff is new for me.
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Well, I wouldn't say that.
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Mom.
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I'm sorry, I'm not trying to be mean.
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It's just I've known you longer than anyone.
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Do you have any idea why Dennis left?
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Honey, I know it hurts to hear it,
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but maybe Dennis wasn't the one,
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but God still has a plan.
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A plan to torture and embarrass me.
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We can't blame god for everything.
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Oh, I know, Dad deserves some of the blame too.
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[Lily's Mom} Oh, come on, Your Father--
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Don't defend him.
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He's never been supportive of anyone I've ever dated.
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Well, a lot of those relationships weren't good,
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and you didn't always make the best decisions.
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All I'm saying is sometimes God
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takes those relationships away from us,
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because we're not living for him.
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He only punishes those he loves.
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So, God is punishing me.
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Well, I wouldn't necessarily say punishing
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as more correcting those he loves.
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What do you think mister deejay?
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Do you think Dennis was good for Lily.
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She changed for him.
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How so?
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She started missing church, and missing Sunday dinners,
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and sometimes I'd see her car parked
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in front of his house in the early morning.
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You were spying on me?
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What, I can't drive where I wanna drive?
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Off of Steltzer Road?
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I took the long way.
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I worry, you're our little girl.
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Mom, it , it's not always easy
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being your perfect little girl.
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God, I'm always afraid I can't live up to some standard
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that you expect of me.
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Don't be silly.
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We just want you to love Jesus,
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and you met him at an early age.
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We just want you to be thankful for that.
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Your father and I, we didn't become Christians
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until after we were married.
282
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See, maybe I could've gotten
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Dennis to church after we married.
284
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Oh, I wouldn't encourage that.
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Well, I can't wait for a good man forever.
286
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You don't seem to realize that.
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You've got your women's group,
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your choir practice, your water aerobics.
289
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What do I have?
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I have an empty apartment and a cat.
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I'm sorry, just know I love you.
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Just leave me alone.
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Should I bring your father in?
294
00:17:42,010 --> 00:17:45,043
No, I don't wanna see him.
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She used to be such a sweet tempered little girl.
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She still is.
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She's just hurting.
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00:18:10,450 --> 00:18:12,250
I still can't get ahold of Dennis.
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That daughter of ours,
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00:18:14,940 --> 00:18:17,809
she's definitely got your stubbornness.
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That's what I'm afraid of.
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00:18:20,340 --> 00:18:22,709
Sally, she's ready for you.
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Okay, deejay man.
304
00:18:28,310 --> 00:18:29,393
How's it going, Lil?
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How do you think?
306
00:18:34,500 --> 00:18:36,350
Wow, you really trashed this place.
307
00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:42,813
So, did my gift survive your rampage?
308
00:18:44,390 --> 00:18:46,889
Did you hear anything from Dennis?
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00:18:46,890 --> 00:18:50,123
No, not yet, um, I will though, I will.
310
00:18:51,630 --> 00:18:53,623
Sorry I kicked you guys all outside.
311
00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:58,493
I just needed a minute to compose myself.
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00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:00,863
Yeah, I can see that.
313
00:19:02,430 --> 00:19:05,579
So um, what'd your mom have to say?
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00:19:05,580 --> 00:19:07,439
We love you, blah, blah, blah.
315
00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:09,099
God has a plan, blah, blah, blah.
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00:19:09,100 --> 00:19:10,113
He's punishing you.
317
00:19:10,970 --> 00:19:13,570
You know, all the same stuff you and I grew up with.
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Here it is.
319
00:19:16,700 --> 00:19:18,399
You can take that back for a refund.
320
00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:20,283
I know, just open it.
321
00:19:33,510 --> 00:19:36,393
Thanks, this is nice.
322
00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:39,499
It would've looked perfectly in the place
323
00:19:39,500 --> 00:19:41,539
Dennis and I were moving into.
324
00:19:41,540 --> 00:19:44,240
You know, it's gonna look perfect in your place now.
325
00:19:48,500 --> 00:19:50,473
So, how honest do you want me to be?
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00:19:53,260 --> 00:19:54,510
Don't hold back.
327
00:19:56,110 --> 00:20:00,749
Okay, so, just like the towel says.
328
00:20:00,750 --> 00:20:02,429
Like the Bible says.
329
00:20:02,430 --> 00:20:04,653
Yeah, the Bible.
330
00:20:06,460 --> 00:20:07,943
Love is patient.
331
00:20:10,130 --> 00:20:15,130
I know, I've heard it all before, but I'm in my 30s,
332
00:20:17,170 --> 00:20:19,329
and I am tired of waiting.
333
00:20:19,330 --> 00:20:21,539
I'm tired of God not hearing my prayers.
334
00:20:21,540 --> 00:20:23,919
No, that's not what I mean.
335
00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:26,143
You need to be more patient with Dennis.
336
00:20:28,382 --> 00:20:29,215
What?
337
00:20:31,564 --> 00:20:36,564
Lil, you focus on your own wants and needs so much.
338
00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:37,949
I mean it's only natural.
339
00:20:37,950 --> 00:20:39,899
You've been single for so long.
340
00:20:39,900 --> 00:20:41,359
You're kind of set in your ways,
341
00:20:41,360 --> 00:20:44,423
but you need to think about what Dennis wants.
342
00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:46,613
Set in my ways?
343
00:20:47,886 --> 00:20:49,599
What're you talking about?
344
00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:52,289
First off, you insist on having
345
00:20:52,290 --> 00:20:54,569
Sunday lunch with your family.
346
00:20:54,570 --> 00:20:55,433
So?
347
00:20:56,410 --> 00:21:01,410
So, maybe just let Dennis sit home and watch football.
348
00:21:02,570 --> 00:21:03,759
You know, and then you kept hounding him
349
00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:05,489
about going to church.
350
00:21:05,490 --> 00:21:07,803
You know, maybe just ease up a bit on that.
351
00:21:08,750 --> 00:21:11,879
Same thing with the kids.
352
00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:13,339
And once Dennis freaked out,
353
00:21:13,340 --> 00:21:15,423
you know, maybe just chill out a little.
354
00:21:17,220 --> 00:21:18,583
So, this is my fault?
355
00:21:19,624 --> 00:21:21,809
No, that's not what I'm saying.
356
00:21:21,810 --> 00:21:23,933
It takes two people to make a marriage.
357
00:21:25,030 --> 00:21:27,639
But me and Vanessa, and Rachel, we were talking,
358
00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:32,519
and we don't wanna see you single at 40.
359
00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:33,663
That would be tragic.
360
00:21:34,550 --> 00:21:36,493
Are you trying to cheer me up?
361
00:21:37,730 --> 00:21:40,409
Maybe God gave you singleness to teach you something.
362
00:21:40,410 --> 00:21:42,639
You know, so just hurry up and learn it,
363
00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:44,653
so that you can get pass this point.
364
00:21:45,673 --> 00:21:46,506
You can move on.
365
00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:50,203
What am I suppose to learn?
366
00:21:54,570 --> 00:21:58,199
Call Dennis, tell him that you're sorry,
367
00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:00,209
and that you'll change.
368
00:22:00,210 --> 00:22:01,879
Change ?
369
00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:06,880
Yeah, you know, to be more like me and Vanessa and Rachel.
370
00:22:07,410 --> 00:22:09,249
We weren't so uptight about everything,
371
00:22:09,250 --> 00:22:11,109
and we're all married now,
372
00:22:11,110 --> 00:22:12,413
and you're still waiting.
373
00:22:13,998 --> 00:22:16,023
Yeah, do you hear yourself?
374
00:22:17,910 --> 00:22:20,629
You're telling me to change everything about myself
375
00:22:20,630 --> 00:22:23,639
if I wanna get married, if I want Dennis back.
376
00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:25,344
You make it sound so negative.
377
00:22:25,345 --> 00:22:28,139
Get out, just get outta here.
378
00:22:28,140 --> 00:22:29,459
What, why?
379
00:22:29,460 --> 00:22:31,619
You're supposed to be my best friend.
380
00:22:31,620 --> 00:22:36,369
I am, I just want what's best for you and you know that.
381
00:22:36,370 --> 00:22:37,899
Are you sure about that,
382
00:22:37,900 --> 00:22:40,159
or do you just want what's best for you?
383
00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:42,083
What is that supposed to mean?
384
00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:46,663
You're married, pregnant,
385
00:22:48,350 --> 00:22:49,809
and it would be a lot more convenient
386
00:22:49,810 --> 00:22:51,383
if I was just like you, right?
387
00:22:52,570 --> 00:22:53,770
That's what your saying.
388
00:22:54,700 --> 00:22:55,995
Baby play dates.
389
00:22:55,996 --> 00:22:56,828
No.
390
00:22:56,829 --> 00:22:58,983
Couples Sunday school, family game nights.
391
00:22:59,830 --> 00:23:04,469
Lil, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to make it sound like that.
392
00:23:04,470 --> 00:23:06,779
I just, I thought that's what you wanted.
393
00:23:06,780 --> 00:23:08,330
Yeah, well, I thought so too.
394
00:23:09,390 --> 00:23:10,520
Now I'm not so sure.
395
00:23:11,435 --> 00:23:12,369
Lil.
396
00:23:32,237 --> 00:23:34,437
I just couldn't seem to say the right thing.
397
00:23:35,710 --> 00:23:37,160
I'm sure you did your best.
398
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:40,990
I'm gonna keep trying Dennis.
399
00:23:45,590 --> 00:23:47,290
Where do you think you're going?
400
00:23:52,050 --> 00:23:53,879
Apparently, God is punishing me,
401
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:56,763
and I'm single because I haven't learned my lesson yet.
402
00:23:58,270 --> 00:23:59,470
Where are the meatballs?
403
00:24:00,790 --> 00:24:03,709
They really do have your best interest at heart.
404
00:24:03,710 --> 00:24:06,909
Even though it doesn't seem that way sometimes.
405
00:24:06,910 --> 00:24:08,460
I don't know what to believe.
406
00:24:13,420 --> 00:24:14,820
Those meatballs are great.
407
00:24:16,220 --> 00:24:18,183
Your mother will have to get the recipe.
408
00:24:20,982 --> 00:24:22,849
I don't remember inviting you in.
409
00:24:22,850 --> 00:24:23,809
I paid for this spread.
410
00:24:23,810 --> 00:24:25,660
I don't remember needing to be asked.
411
00:24:31,300 --> 00:24:32,961
Meatballs?
412
00:24:32,962 --> 00:24:34,795
Please.
413
00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:43,619
Glad to meet you.
414
00:24:43,620 --> 00:24:44,669
Do we know each other?
415
00:24:44,670 --> 00:24:46,233
Yes, we go way back.
416
00:24:47,330 --> 00:24:48,929
Tennessee, you at the last
417
00:24:48,930 --> 00:24:50,630
family reunion over in Morristown?
418
00:24:53,010 --> 00:24:56,069
Actually, I think Lily needs your insight into something.
419
00:24:56,070 --> 00:24:58,839
There isn't even anything to talk about, okay.
420
00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:01,159
You never liked Dennis.
421
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:03,009
What makes you say that?
422
00:25:03,010 --> 00:25:06,449
Come on, Dad, you hated him from the moment you met him.
423
00:25:06,450 --> 00:25:10,449
Not true, although I'm not a big fan of his right now.
424
00:25:10,450 --> 00:25:12,600
Back then he seemed like a nice enough boy.
425
00:25:13,540 --> 00:25:15,669
Besides, if you loved him, then I guess--
426
00:25:15,670 --> 00:25:17,179
Be honest.
427
00:25:17,180 --> 00:25:18,823
Okay, I'll be honest.
428
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:20,869
Dennis is trouble.
429
00:25:20,870 --> 00:25:22,269
I knew it from the beginning.
430
00:25:22,270 --> 00:25:25,772
He just didn't seem like a man who could take care of you.
431
00:25:25,773 --> 00:25:27,369
You know, not having a real job and all that.
432
00:25:27,370 --> 00:25:28,839
He's an entrepreneur.
433
00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:29,979
Not a very ambitious one.
434
00:25:29,980 --> 00:25:31,969
It's not easy to start your own business.
435
00:25:31,970 --> 00:25:33,659
True, takes awhile,
436
00:25:33,660 --> 00:25:36,249
but you gotta have some skin in the game.
437
00:25:36,250 --> 00:25:38,069
Meaning?
438
00:25:38,070 --> 00:25:40,099
You just can't run away when things go bad.
439
00:25:40,100 --> 00:25:42,149
He wasn't gonna run away from his business, Dad.
440
00:25:42,150 --> 00:25:43,850
So he ran away from you instead.
441
00:25:45,570 --> 00:25:46,849
Hate to say this, princess,
442
00:25:46,850 --> 00:25:49,659
but you're lucky he ran away now.
443
00:25:49,660 --> 00:25:51,839
I'd rather pay for a messy reception,
444
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:54,619
then get tangled up in a messy divorce.
445
00:25:54,620 --> 00:25:55,619
But more importantly,
446
00:25:55,620 --> 00:25:58,429
he doesn't share your faith or go to church.
447
00:25:58,430 --> 00:26:01,069
You're unequally yoked, pure and simple.
448
00:26:01,070 --> 00:26:04,020
If you want a blessed marriage, you need to give it to God.
449
00:26:04,900 --> 00:26:06,889
Is that why you met Dennis last week,
450
00:26:06,890 --> 00:26:09,229
to convince him to call off the wedding?
451
00:26:09,230 --> 00:26:10,302
I did no such thing.
452
00:26:10,303 --> 00:26:12,479
Then why did you meet him?
453
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:13,929
Just to talk.
454
00:26:13,930 --> 00:26:15,123
About what?
455
00:26:16,250 --> 00:26:18,603
The wedding, his future plans.
456
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:23,469
I wanted to make sure he loved you as much as I do,
457
00:26:23,470 --> 00:26:25,970
and I wanted him to know exactly how much that is.
458
00:26:27,912 --> 00:26:30,029
Well, were you satisfied with his answer?
459
00:26:30,030 --> 00:26:32,289
Tell you the truth, princess,
460
00:26:32,290 --> 00:26:34,590
I don't even think he understood the question.
461
00:26:37,090 --> 00:26:37,923
I see.
462
00:26:39,540 --> 00:26:41,429
I'm as sorry about this as can be.
463
00:26:41,430 --> 00:26:43,719
I wanted this to work as much as you did,
464
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:45,663
and certainly way more than he did.
465
00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:51,720
Dad, I'm gonna be alone.
466
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:56,963
Lily, you'll never be alone.
467
00:26:58,370 --> 00:27:01,572
Well, can't you talk to Dennis and ask him to come back?
468
00:27:01,573 --> 00:27:05,737
I, I don't think that's for the best.
469
00:27:29,443 --> 00:27:31,563
Oh no, what did you do?
470
00:27:32,420 --> 00:27:34,449
She said she wanted honesty.
471
00:27:34,450 --> 00:27:35,623
I gave her honesty.
472
00:27:37,793 --> 00:27:40,243
Now, why would you go and do a thing like that?
473
00:27:45,350 --> 00:27:46,583
That was a bust.
474
00:27:47,850 --> 00:27:50,389
There's one more thing I'd like to show you.
475
00:27:50,390 --> 00:27:53,129
I'm done, I wish this day was over.
476
00:27:53,130 --> 00:27:54,413
Just one more thing.
477
00:27:56,290 --> 00:27:58,369
You got five minutes before I either skip town,
478
00:27:58,370 --> 00:28:00,770
or binge watch a hundred hours of Gilmore Girls.
479
00:28:04,740 --> 00:28:07,179
Is that the slideshow from the reception?
480
00:28:07,180 --> 00:28:10,039
The last thing I wanna see right now is my depressing life.
481
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:13,619
There are some things you probably never noticed before.
482
00:28:13,620 --> 00:28:15,239
Your favorite outfit.
483
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:17,299
Do you remember saying someday you'd marry
484
00:28:17,300 --> 00:28:19,763
a handsome prince and become a princess?
485
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:23,043
How do you know that?
486
00:28:24,380 --> 00:28:26,430
I know your life better than you think.
487
00:28:32,444 --> 00:28:35,194
And this, what happened that day?
488
00:28:38,470 --> 00:28:41,789
That was the day that I accepted Jesus into my heart.
489
00:28:41,790 --> 00:28:43,113
Do you remember why?
490
00:28:44,390 --> 00:28:47,429
Because I knew how much he loved me.
491
00:28:47,430 --> 00:28:49,319
At least I thought he did.
492
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:50,153
And now?
493
00:28:51,710 --> 00:28:53,233
Now, not so much.
494
00:28:58,040 --> 00:28:59,329
Who was there to catch you
495
00:28:59,330 --> 00:29:02,163
every time, your parents.
496
00:29:03,010 --> 00:29:04,959
I feel like you're trying to manipulate me.
497
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:07,560
God loves you even more than your earthly parents.
498
00:29:10,422 --> 00:29:12,459
Then why does he wanna hurt me?
499
00:29:12,460 --> 00:29:14,053
Why won't he let me be happy?
500
00:29:15,552 --> 00:29:17,119
Is that what you think is happening?
501
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:19,859
Whether it's God or my dad,
502
00:29:19,860 --> 00:29:22,259
they both seem to make my life miserable.
503
00:29:22,260 --> 00:29:24,442
I don't think you believe that.
504
00:29:24,443 --> 00:29:28,699
I don't know who you are or how you know so much about me,
505
00:29:28,700 --> 00:29:30,419
but I do know this.
506
00:29:30,420 --> 00:29:35,420
Today, my dad ruined my life, and God ignored my prayers,
507
00:29:37,020 --> 00:29:39,369
and if that's their idea of a wedding gift,
508
00:29:39,370 --> 00:29:41,713
I don't wanna have anything to do with either of them.
509
00:29:46,730 --> 00:29:50,229
You've asked your heavenly father for a good husband.
510
00:29:50,230 --> 00:29:52,173
What if he protected you today?
511
00:29:53,940 --> 00:29:55,489
How's that?
512
00:29:55,490 --> 00:29:58,319
If you ask you father for a fish,
513
00:29:58,320 --> 00:29:59,799
will he give you a snake?
514
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:03,089
If you want an egg, will he give you a scorpion?
515
00:30:03,090 --> 00:30:05,913
If your dad here on earth gives you good gifts,
516
00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:10,383
think how much more your heavenly father wants to give you.
517
00:30:11,290 --> 00:30:15,329
Remember, every good and perfect gift comes from above.
518
00:30:15,330 --> 00:30:19,513
Your husband then is a good gift worth waiting for,
519
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:21,993
and so are you.
520
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:32,010
How are you doing that?
521
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:34,833
I think you know.
522
00:30:41,101 --> 00:30:45,733
Please, Lily, give me a chance.
523
00:31:10,297 --> 00:31:13,316
Do you recognize this place?
524
00:31:13,317 --> 00:31:14,617
Is that Camp Joy?
525
00:31:17,130 --> 00:31:19,929
Your father waited all day across the lake
526
00:31:19,930 --> 00:31:21,427
just in case you needed him.
527
00:31:23,220 --> 00:31:24,053
He did that?
528
00:31:28,530 --> 00:31:30,759
Your prom night.
529
00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:32,053
Okay, I, I get it.
530
00:31:34,820 --> 00:31:38,773
You were a sophomore, and you had a fever of 101.
531
00:31:39,770 --> 00:31:42,463
Sally stayed up all night beside your bed.
532
00:31:44,510 --> 00:31:45,680
I never knew that.
533
00:31:46,980 --> 00:31:48,330
No wonder she got sick too.
534
00:31:52,170 --> 00:31:54,379
Your mother's prayer journal.
535
00:31:54,380 --> 00:31:57,863
She's prayed for you everyday since the day you were born.
536
00:31:58,697 --> 00:31:59,976
Everyday?
537
00:31:59,977 --> 00:32:01,560
Mm hmm, everyday.
538
00:32:04,330 --> 00:32:06,943
Do you think her prayers for you weren't heard?
539
00:32:08,230 --> 00:32:11,883
The people in your life, they care much more than you think.
540
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:15,713
They love you as God does.
541
00:32:17,780 --> 00:32:19,343
God gave them to you.
542
00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:23,953
He's heard your prayers.
543
00:32:27,570 --> 00:32:30,029
Even my prayer about getting married?
544
00:32:30,030 --> 00:32:31,413
Especially that prayer.
545
00:32:37,180 --> 00:32:39,393
Oh, that's Haiti.
546
00:32:40,970 --> 00:32:43,239
We were building orphanages.
547
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:44,393
I loved that trip.
548
00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:48,919
Late night brainstorming.
549
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:50,709
We were planning something.
550
00:32:50,710 --> 00:32:54,289
I um, I'm not exactly quite sure.
551
00:32:54,290 --> 00:32:56,799
Looks like you were having a good time.
552
00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:58,283
I loved those times.
553
00:32:59,350 --> 00:33:01,303
Being single is not a curse.
554
00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:06,079
You're at a time in your life with more freedom
555
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:08,323
than you'll probably ever have again.
556
00:33:09,850 --> 00:33:12,713
Paul even talked about the virtues of being single.
557
00:33:14,820 --> 00:33:18,407
Because, let's face it, families are pretty time consuming.
558
00:33:19,927 --> 00:33:21,177
In the best way though.
559
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:28,149
There's a story about a group of treasure hunters
560
00:33:28,150 --> 00:33:31,719
that went out West and hired a guide
561
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:34,483
to take them to find gold.
562
00:33:37,410 --> 00:33:39,879
Early one morning they suited up
563
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:43,119
with their backpacks, their bags,
564
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:45,993
followed the guide up into the mountains,
565
00:33:47,150 --> 00:33:50,059
and into a river where they sunk up
566
00:33:50,060 --> 00:33:54,269
over their knees with mud and muck
567
00:33:54,270 --> 00:33:55,359
till they started asking,
568
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:58,109
when are you gonna take us to dig for gold?
569
00:33:58,110 --> 00:33:59,989
And he just kept going,
570
00:33:59,990 --> 00:34:01,569
and then circled back around,
571
00:34:01,570 --> 00:34:03,899
and eventually they came back to the camp
572
00:34:03,900 --> 00:34:07,083
covered in mud, soaked in water.
573
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,849
And there's anger with the group and they demanded,
574
00:34:11,850 --> 00:34:13,469
when are you gonna take us
575
00:34:13,470 --> 00:34:17,003
to the gold they so desperately sought.
576
00:34:18,850 --> 00:34:23,403
The guide just smiled and he said reach into your pockets.
577
00:34:24,780 --> 00:34:26,153
And guess what they found?
578
00:34:27,330 --> 00:34:28,623
Lots of dead fish?
579
00:34:30,220 --> 00:34:35,220
Gold, once they rinsed away all the mud and sand,
580
00:34:36,170 --> 00:34:38,199
they found their pockets and their shoes
581
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:39,583
were filled with gold.
582
00:34:41,290 --> 00:34:44,293
All the time they were complaining about the mud,
583
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:46,710
but they were standing in gold.
584
00:34:48,410 --> 00:34:49,660
They didn't even know it.
585
00:34:51,570 --> 00:34:53,720
Are you saying that I'm standing in gold?
586
00:34:54,660 --> 00:34:55,960
You have a blessed life.
587
00:34:58,060 --> 00:34:59,833
Use it to glorify God.
588
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:04,659
Live your life abundantly and with joy.
589
00:35:04,660 --> 00:35:08,059
One day you'll look back on these days, very fondly.
590
00:35:08,060 --> 00:35:08,910
You'll miss them.
591
00:35:09,810 --> 00:35:11,573
Is my marriage important to God?
592
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:15,623
Yes, it's crucial.
593
00:35:18,550 --> 00:35:21,299
Husbands are commanded to love theirs wives
594
00:35:21,300 --> 00:35:26,300
as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her.
595
00:35:28,050 --> 00:35:31,959
That he might sanctify her having cleansed her
596
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:35,639
by the washing of water with the word.
597
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:38,897
Yes, marriage is beautiful.
598
00:36:00,731 --> 00:36:04,009
Let your parents and Sally in.
599
00:36:04,010 --> 00:36:06,360
I hate that they've seen me like this.
600
00:36:07,602 --> 00:36:09,019
Like what?
601
00:36:09,020 --> 00:36:12,290
Ashamed, silly, dumb, a mess.
602
00:36:17,180 --> 00:36:19,530
That's not how your heavenly father sees you.
603
00:36:22,350 --> 00:36:23,939
I prayed for a good man,
604
00:36:23,940 --> 00:36:27,563
but I didn't think that I was worthy,
605
00:36:29,723 --> 00:36:31,303
and I didn't wanna wait for him.
606
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:38,793
I messed up.
607
00:36:43,523 --> 00:36:44,713
I settled for less.
608
00:36:51,780 --> 00:36:55,729
You were made in the image of your heavenly father.
609
00:36:55,730 --> 00:36:59,439
Before you were born he knew every day of your life.
610
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:01,713
He finds joy in you.
611
00:37:02,890 --> 00:37:04,529
The hard times were not wasted,
612
00:37:04,530 --> 00:37:06,653
but opportunities for you to grow.
613
00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:09,699
Use them to make you the beautiful,
614
00:37:09,700 --> 00:37:12,423
kindhearted, caring person that you are.
615
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:15,749
You are his perfect creation.
616
00:37:15,750 --> 00:37:20,429
Absolutely loved beyond any love on this earth.
617
00:37:20,430 --> 00:37:23,723
Your sins are washed away, white as snow.
618
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:27,229
You're holy and without blemish,
619
00:37:27,230 --> 00:37:30,433
without spot, without wrinkle.
620
00:37:43,749 --> 00:37:47,499
And that's how your heavenly father sees you.
621
00:37:48,629 --> 00:37:51,462
You're .
622
00:37:53,910 --> 00:37:58,910
I'm so sorry for my doubt, my lack of faith.
623
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:03,533
You heard my prayers.
624
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:09,880
Everyone, and I've never left nor forsaken you.
625
00:38:12,270 --> 00:38:15,554
So, you're not out to punish me for all I've done wrong?
626
00:38:15,555 --> 00:38:16,388
Of course not.
627
00:38:17,770 --> 00:38:20,203
I took all the punishment away at the cross.
628
00:38:23,990 --> 00:38:26,259
Will I see you again.
629
00:38:26,260 --> 00:38:31,260
Yes, I'm always here, always ready to hear your prayers.
630
00:38:36,900 --> 00:38:39,103
Even it it doesn't seem that way sometimes.
631
00:38:41,916 --> 00:38:44,537
You prayed for a good man in your life.
632
00:38:47,733 --> 00:38:50,137
Your prayers have been answered, trust me.
633
00:39:22,318 --> 00:39:23,151
Lily.
634
00:39:33,130 --> 00:39:34,923
I'm so sorry for everything.
635
00:39:39,470 --> 00:39:41,849
Honey, we love you no matter what.
636
00:39:41,850 --> 00:39:43,929
Even if Dennis doesn't come back,
637
00:39:43,930 --> 00:39:45,393
I know you'll find someone.
638
00:39:46,410 --> 00:39:47,693
It won't be Dennis.
639
00:39:48,610 --> 00:39:51,059
By the way, he finally texted me,
640
00:39:51,060 --> 00:39:52,509
and he said he was sorry.
641
00:39:52,510 --> 00:39:54,629
Well, that was thoughtful of him.
642
00:39:54,630 --> 00:39:56,939
You can tell him I said, I'm not sorry.
643
00:39:56,940 --> 00:39:59,073
Actually, I already deleted him.
644
00:40:00,016 --> 00:40:02,183
Something I should've done a long time ago.
645
00:40:03,350 --> 00:40:05,429
I guess our kids won't be together any time soon.
646
00:40:05,430 --> 00:40:08,729
That's okay, I just want you to be happy, Lil.
647
00:40:08,730 --> 00:40:11,129
Actually, I am.
648
00:40:11,130 --> 00:40:12,999
It'll happen for me when it happens,
649
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:17,629
but as of right now, I'm happy, joyful.
650
00:40:17,630 --> 00:40:19,239
I'm glad to hear that,
651
00:40:19,240 --> 00:40:22,269
because who else could be Godmother to this little baby?
652
00:40:22,270 --> 00:40:24,053
Me, are you serious?
653
00:40:26,470 --> 00:40:27,789
You still hungry, Dad?
654
00:40:27,790 --> 00:40:29,349
Of course.
655
00:40:29,350 --> 00:40:30,183
Let's eat.
656
00:40:36,934 --> 00:40:38,769
That deejay still here?
657
00:40:38,770 --> 00:40:40,509
I still gotta pay him.
658
00:40:40,510 --> 00:40:42,709
I don't think he's gonna take your money, Dad.
659
00:40:42,710 --> 00:40:43,959
You sure about that?
660
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:44,943
I'm pretty sure.
661
00:40:48,231 --> 00:40:49,481
Is this the same dress?
662
00:40:50,570 --> 00:40:52,620
I don't remember it looking this amazing.
663
00:40:54,060 --> 00:40:55,649
I love you, Daddy.
664
00:40:55,650 --> 00:40:56,500
I love you too.
665
00:40:58,380 --> 00:41:00,680
I'm sorry this turned out to be the worst day.
666
00:41:03,610 --> 00:41:07,097
Actually, Dad, it's the best day.
667
00:41:10,740 --> 00:41:13,340
It's hard to always see the big picture.
668
00:41:14,220 --> 00:41:18,029
If we think our wishes and prayers go unanswered,
669
00:41:18,030 --> 00:41:20,359
we may miss the blessings of the journey
670
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:22,873
and the love of the people traveling with us.
671
00:41:24,240 --> 00:41:27,879
But there's joy in knowing that each day has purpose,
672
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:29,703
every person has value,
673
00:41:31,897 --> 00:41:35,207
and our prayers never fall on deaf ears.
674
00:41:49,287 --> 00:41:51,106
♪ Something happened on the way ♪
675
00:41:51,107 --> 00:41:56,107
♪ When I was going to the place to make amends ♪
676
00:41:57,107 --> 00:41:59,006
♪ I couldn't make it out between ♪
677
00:41:59,007 --> 00:42:00,673
♪ The black and white and gray ♪
678
00:42:00,674 --> 00:42:05,186
{\an8}♪ Even though I needed a friend ♪
679
00:42:05,187 --> 00:42:09,156
♪ Tick tock beat like four on the floor ♪
680
00:42:09,157 --> 00:42:14,157
♪ I tickle your ears 'cause I am afraid ♪
681
00:42:17,127 --> 00:42:19,563
♪ The stars tipped over the sky ♪
682
00:42:19,564 --> 00:42:24,564
♪ Came closer your words like fire, sharp like lightning ♪
683
00:42:25,461 --> 00:42:28,127
♪ Chemicals captured in flight ♪
684
00:42:28,128 --> 00:42:30,833
♪ Dissolved in the night ♪
685
00:42:30,834 --> 00:42:34,584
♪ When the stars tipped over ♪
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