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Hi, I'm Lacey, and this is my husband, Dan.

Today's scene is one of our kinks and one of our fantasies. To have me

blindfolded. Oh, hello.

Have someone come in and have sex with me and then leave and me not ever see

person. Yeah.

Oh, fuck you.

We're living it out live on the YC Studio.

And you're watching YC .com.

All right, baby, we're almost there. We're here.

How are you feeling?

I'm excited.

Are you excited?

Yeah, what's going to happen? I don't know.

Are you nervous?

Anxious. Anxious? Yeah.

It's the unknown.

How many guys are you?

You don't know. I know.

You're about to find out. I'm so excited. You ready? Yeah. All right,

it. Okay.

Here we are. We'll get the wifey, the W, stage one.

Oh, it's happening.

Look at it.

Oh, that's so beautiful.

Look at the time.

I know.

The bed.

Is it fun?

I can't wait.

You got that look to it. You got that walk crazy.

Full icon energy.

Working the angles. One, two, three.

You got that look to it.

You got that walk crazy.

Full icon energy.

Working the angles. One, two, three.

She won't stop smiling at my camera. I can't help it.

That's what you do.

It's a hard job you have. I know, right?

Does your wife know what you do here? She knows what I do.

But don't tell her. Don't tell her anything.

It's my girlfriend. We've got to worry about her.

What's up? It's Hollywood Cash.

Greg Dicknick.

Dan Damage.

Jimmy Knox.

We're here at Wifey Studios.

Today we're with Lacey and Dan.

It's going to be a big surprise.

They haven't seen us yet. She don't know. She's blindfolded, but she'll know

it's going to be us guys.

We're here for a big treat, a big surprise.

That's right.

Y 'all ready?

Let's go. Let's do it. And give her a fantasy.

You got that look through your teeth. You got that walk crazy.

Beautiful. Perfect with the ring.

I'll let you start. Where are we from?

I was born and raised in Southeast United States. So, yeah, born in the

South. And I actually grew up in New England. I'm from Maine. And so I was in

the military in her area, and that's how we crossed paths.

We were both singles in the lifestyle.

And I was on a swinger website, and I messaged him.

And I thought he was cute. So I was like, how are we in the same city and

same age, and we don't know each other?

Yeah. And so I got the message, and I'm like, this is definitely a dude that's

probably trying to get pictures of my dick.

And so I don't think, there's no way this beautiful woman is on a dating site

online messaging me.

But just in case, she actually was, I messaged her back a little bit. And we

eventually agreed to meet. And when she showed up to my hotel room that night,

it turned out she was very real.

I proposed to her during COVID, right? And it was on Lookout Mountain in

Chattanooga. And so I got a photographer to find us a nice spot with a nice

view. And she went ahead of us and met us there.

And so once we get up to the top of the mountain, where the photographer had

messaged me to show up at, it was actually closed because of COVID. There

like a big sign there that says, do not enter.

And so...

I'm now trying to convince her that we have to jump the sign and go out to the

lookout spot so that I can ask her to marry me.

And I'm, like, messaging the photographer, like, are you here? Is it

she's like, oh, yeah, just jump the sign. I have heels on.

Like, I was not wanting to. So she was, like, mad at me. She's like, what are

you doing? Why are you making me do this?

But then once she got there and she figured it out. Yeah. It was

So I found out about the lifestyle because I was dating a guy and he had

about this lifestyle club in Nashville, Tennessee, that you could go and people

could watch you have sex. And that's not something that I'd ever thought of, but

the thought of it was extremely hard. I had no idea it was swingers or anything

like that. I just thought it was a place where people could watch.

And we went and he was extremely uncomfortable. He was like, I don't want

part of this.

I was like, okay. So we left because we had made the agreement to leave if one

of us felt bad about it. And I just kind of stored it as something that maybe

one day I would like to do.

And a few years down the road, I found myself single. And I was like, what

that lifestyle? And so I started doing research and found out that you could be

a single in the lifestyle. And that's when I made my profile. And now here we

are. Yeah, so similar for me. I came out of a 13 -year marriage. I wasn't

looking for a long -term relationship.

And I actually started dating somebody. And in conversation with her, it came up

that her and her ex -husband were swingers.

And I was like, that's something people still do? I thought that was something

people did in the 70s with key parties and things like that.

So me and her actually explored it a little bit together. And then me and her

broke up for reasons that have nothing to do with the lifestyle. But same

I was like, I actually really enjoyed.

that part of it.

So I made a singles profile on one of the dating sites and, you know, fast

forward like a year or two and that's how I met Lacey. Love it.

We are definitely probably more of a full swap couple, but we have engaged

like single guys for me and single girls for him.

It can be fun.

Yeah, we're open to pretty much anything.

The nice thing about starting our relationship as non -monogamous, we've

been very open to each other about what we want to do and things we want to try.

And we even kind of, I think, push each other a little bit to try new things.

So hot wifing, again, like Lacey said, isn't something that we do very often,

but it's something that we dabble in there every once in a while, and it's

for us.

I think most people go try swinging for the first time.

because they're interested in the sex. They want to have a threesome. They want

to do a couple swap.

They want to do a gang bang or whatever the thing is.

But I think what a lot of people don't realize is that when they explore that,

they then find a whole community of people that are open -minded, that

judgmental, that you can feel safe to explore any of your fantasies with and

communicate with. And I think a lot of people come for the sex, but I think a

lot of people stay for the community.

Agreed.

Me and Cynthia just got married, and we're not even living together yet,

actually. And so when I got put on orders for deployment, we had a long

conversation about what is that going to look like for us? Because we met in a

swinger's lifestyle, we were very sexually active, we knew we were both

people and needed that kind of fulfillment in our life. So before I

overseas, we had a conversation about, well, if you do have those needs, how

we going to meet those?

And so we kind of, you know, Lacey had some friends that we knew from swinging

that were local that, you know, we kind of like, well, if you really need

somebody to fuck, you can hang out with our friends and do that. And she kind of

said to me, well, if you meet a cute girl over there and you get an

just let's have a conversation about it before you do anything.

So that's kind of how we went into it going overseas.

Well, once I got over there, I was texting her every night.

And I was asking for pictures and videos and send me all the stuff.

He was blowing my phone up, like, do this, send me this picture.

Go on the back porch and masturbate. Yeah.

He did it, though, like a trooper. I did. I did do it.

But at some point, I was like, something's got to give. You're driving

This is during COVID, so this is when OnlyFans really started.

And you were like, why don't we make an OnlyFans?

Because, treat this, swingers take pictures, and they take video. They

like they don't, but they all do. So we had all of these pictures and videos of

ourselves together.

So we had a lot of stuff, and he was asking me to film this stuff for him.

So he was like, let's do it. So I agreed.

One of the things that came up when I started researching how to get people to

your page was TikTok.

And so I said, Lacey, you need to make a TikTok. And from what I've read, you

need to have a niche.

And I'm like, and we're swingers. And that's kind of a cool niche. And there's

not many swingers on TikTok.

So if you go and you make a page about TikTok or a swinger page on TikTok,

be kind of sexy.

Then people will click through our links and find your OnlyFans page.

And so I talked to her about it. And she's like, OK, yeah, I'll try that.

So I think we made two or three videos and it was like the third one She took a

just a pineapple sticker and put it on the back window of her car upside down

and I think I put some text on it something like You know how you let

people know you're a swinger or something like that and posted that

think overnight It hit like five million views within a week. It had like 11

million views

So we went from we were private swingers living normal lives. We had full -time

careers. It was major.

Everybody in the world knew that we were swingers. We had a lot of conversation

about, hey, do we want to do this now that everybody knows?

And Lacey was like, you know what? Fuck it. Everybody knows at this point. Let's

just embrace it and just be who we are.

So that's kind of how the podcast was born because I would go live on TikTok.

And this is during COVID when people just wanted information.

And people would say, what do you do when you're jealous? What do you do

you know, something doesn't or you can't get it up? What do you wear to the

clubs? How do you find clubs? How do you meet people? People just wanted

information. So we, the idea was thrown around about a podcast and really from

the people that were following us, not really us.

They were like, you should do a podcast. We do nothing about podcasting.

But Dan did some research, watched some YouTube videos, and...

The podcast was born.

Yeah, so I came back from deployment.

We went on Amazon and bought some equipment, and then we started doing

And that was over four years ago, and that whole thing has blown up. It's

how far all that's gone. Now we do two podcasts a week.

It's kind of crazy.

When we started all this, we had no idea where our lives would take us.

Our content journey has been kind of crazy.

I feel like we definitely have it dialed in now where pretty much all of our

content is with people that we have connected with, that we've fucked off

camera, that we genuinely swing with and swap with.

In the beginning, we kind of just were going with the flow and doing what

everybody else was doing. And it took us a little bit of time to kind of figure

out what...

Was good for us, you know, we joke about it sometimes and I think wifey is doing

an excellent job But that the adult content is educational in itself I mean,

think if somebody is curious about having an orgy or having a threesome,

know I think of a video like this where you sit down with a couple you talk

about why they're into those experiences And then you actually get to see them

have an experience.

I mean, that's that's the perfect intro into the lifestyle. Yeah

I feel like Dan gets turned on talking to guests on the podcast quite often.

So I feel, and in your defense, we interview a lot of very hot sexual

Yeah. Most of the men that we've, we've, like, old men. Yeah. Or, like, doctors.

That's true, yeah. Except they're not, like, super sexual beings.

We've interviewed probably a lot more women than men, too. For sure.

Yeah, and they're usually, like, young, cute doctor, like, or, like, sex

experts. Like, intimacy coaches and things like that.

So I have a habit of flirting with them. I don't know if I actually have got a

heart on. The only time I can think of that I got a heart on the podcast is one

time we did a dick size podcast.

And Lacey actually got my dick hard and then measured it live on the air. Yeah,

because we were determining what the average dick size was.

So we kind of broke it all the way down. We actually recently just did an

episode where we had a former pastor who had been a pastor of a church for 16

years. And he was talking about, you know, the lifestyle.

Now he's in the lifestyle.

And Christianity and how those two can kind of coexist.

And he actually said that in a lot of ways he felt like the lifestyle and

in the lifestyle was a lot of things that he thought that the church was

supposed to be for him. The community. Right. Yeah. The community around the

lifestyle.

was really what he thought he would find in the church, but he had not found

that. We can always tell when a podcast hits a nerve because we start getting

emails and texts.

And so there's been a few podcasts that as soon as we send them out, we start

getting blasted. People have such an opinion on people and their lifestyle

swingers.

It's kind of crazy.

We are just normal people that live our lives.

What I don't think people realize is that their teachers are swiggers.

They could even be the pastor.

They're nurses.

People are pretty harshly judging us and being pretty vocal about it. It's hard

to believe that the people that they know in their lives are probably also

this, living a non -monogamous lifestyle.

and they don't realize it. But because we're public and because we're out,

these terrible, awful people.

Yeah, I think it's a double -edged sword. I think we encounter a lot of

that will message us and say, thank you for saying what you say. Thank you for

speaking out.

We went to our first club for the first time because we found you guys on

TikTok, or we just had our first vacation, and oh my gosh, it was life

for us and our marriage.

I think for me, the biggest positive side is I don't think there's too many

people

that get to live life as their true authentic self.

And we've somehow found a way to be able to do that.

And it's very rewarding that we have no secrets. Our parents know, our kids

know, everybody in our life knows that we're swingers. They know what we do.

We're pretty loud and proud about it these days.

And so there is no hidden secrets, not between me and Lacey, not between us and

anybody. And to be able to live your life authentically and openly and not

to apologize for that, I think not too many people get to experience life that

way. And it really is. I wouldn't go back. You couldn't force me to go back

the way it used to be.

You're prettier than me.

For me, watching Lacey, I experience compersion, which, you know, compersion

getting joy from seeing your partner have joy or getting pleasure from seeing

your partner get pleasure.

And so I can hear.

There's been times where we've been having sex in an orgy, and I can just

the noises she's making, and I know what the experience is that she's having.

And so I get authentic pleasure and joy from...

seeing her get pleasure.

And it's one of the hottest things about swapping and hot wifing. So my favorite

thing about Lacey in bed is that she's a dirty girl.

And I was going to say, you might not know it, but everybody out here is going

to know it at some point if they're watching this video.

You know, she comes across as this sweet, innocent Southern belle, but then

get her into a room with a bunch of people and start having sex, and she

into somebody completely different. And I love that person as much as I love

this person. Aw, it's like the best of both worlds.

A hundred percent, yeah.

I think the lifestyle has helped me grow as a person because I've learned how to

communicate.

No other relationship prior to this have I been so open and free with my

partner. I've not been able to share all my wants and desires.

I think doing this with you has taught me that it's okay to be myself and

to tell you anything and everything that I want or need.

That has made me feel so accepted and loved.

I appreciate that.

I really think this lifestyle

you either have to grow or get out. You know what I mean? Yeah, yeah. Because if

you have insecurities, if you have jealousy issues, if you have

body image issues, if you have anything like that, it's going to ruin the

experience for you. And you're going to experience those things. At some point

in time in your journey in this lifestyle, you're going to hit those

and really your only two options are to grow from that or...

get out of it and move on.

And for the most part, most of the couples that we meet grow from it. There

people that have bad experiences and they decide to go a different route, but

there's a lot of growth in this lifestyle and community.

And again, because it's a community, there's people around you to then, when

hit those road bumps, to help you work through them and to help you grow. Yeah.

For me, I immediately tell him if I have any jealousy, any insecurities,

I don't wait until two days later. I tell him immediately.

And honestly, usually just saying it out loud is enough. And him validating

those feelings is enough for me.

to kind of be, okay, I've said it, I'm okay, and now we can move on. And that's

what helps me. I feel if I bottle them up and don't speak on them, it just kind

of festers into something much bigger.

When you hit those insecurities, whether it's jealousy or some other insecurity,

you have to communicate it, and you almost have to then dive deeper. Like,

I felt jealous when you said he had a...

he was really hot and you loved his abs like well why did that make me feel

jealous well it made me feel jealous because i don't have abs like you know i

mean so okay well what are my choices well maybe it's just okay that lacy

abs with some guys that actually work out and eat healthy or maybe i should go

to the gym and get abs myself so that i don't feel that way but you know it kind

of if you go that next step and figure out okay i feel this way but why do i

feel this way and what can i do to make it better i think that's really then

where the growth comes from

In the beginning, we had these boundaries because that's what people

do. But we just, sometimes they go out the window. Sometimes we forget to tell.

I mean, now we are much better.

I think if this is something that you want to explore together, I would say go

slow. You do not have to rush into anything.

I think a lot of people see us and see other swingers and they just think, I

just got to do it the first night. I got to jump in there and do it. And you

don't have to.

You can go. You can observe.

You can go and just dance with someone. You can go and kiss.

You don't have to jump all the way in and have full -on sex immediately.

Go at your own pace.

We always say that you can always back up. I mean, I think there's baby steps.

And I'm giving you permission to take the baby steps.

So I think the biggest reason that couples should see couples like us is to

that they're not alone, that they're not weird, they're not strange.

I think it's estimated somewhere between 5 % and 10 % of America is non

-monogamous, but it's still one of those subgroups that isn't public, that can't

live out of the shadows.

And so I think seeing somebody like me and Lacey on TikTok or, you know, seeing

us on social media and seeing us kind of be loud and proud, I think it almost

gives them permission to do that. You know, and we've been doing this for,

public for like five years now.

And when we first started on TikTok, I think there was one or two other couples

that were on TikTok talking about swinging.

Now I see new faces every single day. I think there's hundreds, if not thousands

of people that are sharing their lifestyle journey publicly.

And so I think the more that you see that, the more you normalize it and say,

it's okay to be kinky. It's okay that you can love somebody and still have sex

with multiple people.

We got a little surprise for you.

Today's scene is one of our kinks and one of our fantasies. So I actually,

I was single in the lifestyle, was sleeping with this guy. And he had a

to have me blindfolded and have someone come in and have sex with me and then

leave and me not ever see the person.

I would have no knowledge of it. And so I did that. And I can't remember being

very nervous.

But it was almost a control thing. I had to trust him and trust that the person

that he picked out, you know, I'd be safe.

And it ended up being really a lot of fun. And I really enjoyed it. And then

fast forward, you know, I would tell him about this experience. And I'm like, I

feel like that's the ultimate, like, trust. Like, I'm trusting you to pick

this person for me.

Here we are. Now we get to do it. So this is really like our top number one

thing that we haven't done. We're living it out live on the wifey studio.

Oh, hello.

That was one thing that I loved about when I would watch other wifey episodes.

When I was making the decision to come and do this, I was like, this is

educational. Yes, you get to see hot sex at the end.

But I love that the bulk of it is about the couple and the interview.

And I think for people that are thinking about joining the lifestyle, I think

this is a really good resource for them to kind of see like true authentic

couples and what it actually is like in some of these scenarios. So it made me

feel more comfortable to be here and be a part of it.

We have some amazing talent ready in the way. Yeah. Are you ready to share your

wifey experience with the world? Yes.

We're ready.

We got a little surprise for you.

Are you ready?

Love you. Love you.

Thank you.

Keep looking for more.

Thank you.

They're all so big.

Good girl.

She's hungry today.

Let's get that mouth open.

It's time to try that pussy out.

I like the way you think.

Take that.

the other guys are.

I don't want to forget about y 'all.

Getting big drunk already.

They're doing a good job.

I don't take this at all.

He's taking turns.

I love it.

Oh, fuck.

This is a good job.

You can fold her up like a pretzel, man. She'll be all right.

There you go. There you go.

There you go. There you go.

There you go.

Yeah, there you go.

Oh, so deep.

Oh,

kiss that dick.

You picked the biggest one for me to get... Get on them toes.

Yeah.

This one? Both?

Just lay there and relax and take it.

Thank you.

Fuck you.

Between the leave and the guarding.

Yeah, keep your face right there in this lap.

Yeah.

There we go.

That's what I'm talking about.

Good girl.

Stay right there and take it.

You made my dick look so pretty.

Oh, God.

It's true.

Never a date far away.

Oh,

put it in deeper, baby.

That's right.

Now we're having a party.

Like it's somewhere to hair you.

He's a good chair.

Amen.

It's nice to know.

Want more?

I feel good.

How's your pussy feeling? It feels great, yeah.

It was hard to figure out how many guys were there. Yeah, it was just all the

dicks, all the dicks.

It was kind of crazy to figure out who all was here, and it was neat. I had a

good time.

Oh, I get to keep it. Yay.

We had a lot of fun coming.

We'll take this home. There you go. Yeah, we'll take this home.

We just wrapped on Wifey. Lacey did an amazing job handling all the big digs.

Everybody here was so nice, and we really enjoyed it. So we hope to, maybe

do it again someday.

But she definitely put on a show, and I definitely enjoyed watching.

It was so much fun. It was four guys. I had no idea, and it ended up being four

guys, and it was so much fun. I even squirted.

Anyway, bye.

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