All language subtitles for The.Real.Housewives.of.New.Jersey.S8E11

Previously on the Real Housewives of New
Jersey.

Oh,

my God.

Hello. We're from Jersey.

Buongiorno, senorita.

That was half Spanish, just saying. Ow.

I judge my friends on the way that they
treat me. But, Ziggy, Hitler would have

not killed me. Does that make him a good
person?

Hitler's name should not come up. You're
anti -Semitic. That is bulls**t. That's

bulls**t.

Let me just start off by saying to you
how sorry I am for dismissing you. No, I

do not think you're anti -Semitic.

There's got to be a way that we can talk
to Siggy. Because the cancer has your

life, okay? Come home. That's my advice
to you. Okay, honey. I'm coming home.

Look loyalty up in the dictionary, and
you'll find my face.

The only life I envy is my own.

I bring the power, the pigtails, and the
party.

My motto is, know your worth.

Leave the rest to your plastic surgeon.

If you're not about to namaste, get the
hell out of my way.

Did you taste this? You have to taste
this. Yes, everybody tastes everything.

Oh, I'm in heaven. It's so beautiful
here. I love it. Listen, I'm going bike

riding with Siggy and Danielle.

Starts in like 10 minutes. So I'm going
to meet them, and then I will see you

guys for dinner tonight.

I hope they show up. I know.

I am a happy person. I want this to be a
happy trip. And we have two days left,

and I really, really want them to be fun
and exciting and memorable.

See you guys later. Enjoy.

All right, let me tell you guys, I
organized this thing, and all three of

going. I found this local private chef
that he's going to show us the authentic

way of cooking in Milan.

Well, I've always wanted to do that.
We're going to cook dinner for the girls

tonight, for all of us.

I used to cook with my mom all the time.
First we're washing the tomatoes.

Right, you marry and then you do the
tomatoes, eh?

Authentic Italian food cooked right does
have the power to heal all wounds.

So I hope everyone comes together
tonight and our food works magic on

Margaret. So I think it'll be fun for
us. All right, that's going to be good.

Okay, let's go.

I feel big, can't finish your food.

My stomach's bigger than my eyes. Your
eyes are bigger than your stomach.

I'm Melissa on the bike tour. Nice to
meet you. I'm Tomas. These are your

Oh, okay, good.

I think I have two friends coming to
meet me. No problem. I think. They're

supposed to meet me here, so I guess
we'll just wait. Yeah. And if not, it's

just me and you, kid.

Okay. Okay.

We're going to meet this guy named
Alberto, and we're picking out

Ingredients. Ingredients.

Ingredients. That we're going to cook
tonight.

First we buy food.

This is one of my favorite places to buy
food.

So we need one kilo of pasta today.

Ten eggs because we made eggs pasta.

Oh, you put the eggs in a bag?

Yes, you put directly.

Okay, I don't want to break the eggs,
but okay.

You got the egg? They put the eggs in a
bag. I never saw that. Really?

Okay, farina. I better brush up on my
Italian.

Ah, good idea!

Okay, say it to us.

Okay, try it.

I come

from a huge Italian family.

My mother made 50 meatballs on a Sunday
that never made it to the table.

Oh, thank you. Oh, great.

I wish I could speak Italian.

I think that my other life I was an
Italian lady that stayed home and cooked

cleaned. I loved it.

Caciocavallo. The traneso is cacio, is
cheese, or cavallo is horse. Yeah, but

it from a horse?

No. Why is it called caciocavallo?

It means when you ride your horse, what
do you do? Oh, it hangs.

Okay,

is it too high for me?

Don't fall, missy.

Thank you.

Wait, Ziggy. You little sons of bitches.

I'm so glad you're coming.

You know, I had my bags all packed.

And then I'm like, you know what, Ziggy?
I'm going to stay in Italy with the

people that I love.

What is this? Paisley baskets.

Oh, good. I just drank a wonderful glass
of wine. Oh, I want wine. I'm going

junk biking.

Oh, my God.

Thank you.

Have a nice tour going on that way and
pass through the park. Okay, let's go.

I love this. This is so much fun.

I'm so excited about seeing if I can
have a nice day. No drama.

Look how pretty.

Can we stop and take pictures?

Yeah, let's do it.

It's going to be a nice break for me.

Thank you so much. Thank you. Let's keep
riding, and then we'll stop and have a

glass of champagne.

Yeah. Let's go, baby. All right, let's
do this.

Today, I'm an honorary Italian. That's
right, honey.

I introduce you my house. Come. You
never can cook good in good way if you

buy nice food.

That's the way my father cooks.

Everything, he buys everything fresh. So
pretty. So, I have something for you

before cooking.

You take this, one for you.

This is really not my look.

We start with the pasta.

Who wants to start?

Me, I guess. You, come.

Okay, first, you put the flour on the
table, and you make the big hole.

In the middle, okay? Mm -hmm.

Perfect. More, more, more, more, more,
more, more, more, more, more, more,

more, more, more. Like this.

You just make a hole, and you put the
eggs in the middle. I know how to make

pomelo pasta.

Look how orange the eggs are.

I've learned from the best from my mom,
but I enjoy cooking with other people.

Mix the eggs. Okay.

Just keep doing it, right?

Perfecto. Okay. Okay. And now? I do it
by the machine.

Yeah, no, no, no machine today.

Okay, I'm coming. You got to get all the
flour in there. You guys are good

mixers.

Only one part, okay? I'm not doing good.
I mean, people really didn't marry me

for my cooking ability. I don't know if
anyone figured that out yet.

Dinner's coming tonight, and you know
what?

Typically, I got a pit in my stomach.

Dad. Well, you guys are doing a good job
of that.

Beautiful job. I'm over worrying about
who's going to fight, who's going to

who's going to get... I'm in Italy. I'm
making homemade pasta. I don't care if

they kill each other at this point.

I cut.

Tagliatelle is ready.

Please, do your job.

We are having a great time. We're trying
not to think about the night before.

I'm going to cut everybody's fingers
off. If I have a little piece of a

don't get offended.

But I'm actually a little concerned
about being in the same room with Ziggy

again because she is a loose cannon.

And then we made tartare.

Oh, I love a good steak tartare. I want
one of you really strong, okay? That's

her. Oh, he fought, so yeah.

Okay, my turn. Go.

Perfect, perfect.

This is the way.

You're scaring me.

She's getting out a lot of sexual
footage.

It's the only piece of wood that I've
seen in a long time.

What is that?

The wood.

We can't eat that. She chopped the wood.
Oh, my God. The whole cutting board was

in the meat.

Teresa, it's like a wood chipper.

Not good cooking skills.

Oh, my God. Too strong.

You're too strong.

Coming up. You know what I would love to
do? What? I think that's a good idea.

No, really. I see light. I see light.

It is so pretty.

I mean, seriously?

Wow. This is phenomenal.

Yay. I think it's wine time.

Didn't that feel good?

Uh -huh.

Do we have a blanket? Oh, yeah.

Oh, I love this. This is so cute.

Hold on, ladies.

We're doing babies.

I'm glad you got dressed and you guys
talked. How was it? I think it went

well. Don't you? Yeah.

You know, I feel bad because Danielle
and I never had issues. I have a fight

with one person. Her name is Margaret.

That's it.

But the one thing that I cannot get over
is meanness.

And I just feel like Margaret has been
very insensitive with me.

I think she's harsh. I think she's
harsh. For me.

Not for you guys. She says things very
sharply, and you get extremely offended

instantly. But she does not have a hate,
and she is not anti -Semitic.

I can't. Melissa, it's... I don't know
how to explain myself to you guys.

To me, it's insensitive.

I've never had friends treat me like
this. I've never had people who

bad behavior and were like, nope.

Siggy, or better known as Soggy Flicker
with all the crying.

I want you guys to stop. You are making
me nervous. My expectations of my

friends were here.

And I'm starting to realize I expected
too much.

From the time I was a young girl.

Like, the Holocaust is part of who I am.
I gave her an opportunity to say, hey,

maybe I did use that in poor taste. But
that's what you wanted her to say, but

she didn't.

You have a script for what you believe
people should behave like. Kind of what

you're asking Margaret to do is go
according to your rule book, and she

know your rules.

Listen, my rule book is that in life,
There's just certain references that

should not be made.

Don't think that we're, like, dismissing
your feelings at all. But I need you to

admit that Margaret's feelings are
valid, too, and she's upset also.

Okay. She is. Right. Yeah, but she came
at me first. I didn't come at her.

To really fix the situation, Ziggy needs
to meet Margaret halfway.

And I honestly don't think she's ready
for that yet.

We are having dinner together tonight,
and you are coming. Yes, I'm going to go

to dinner.

And let's not bring up anything. You
don't need to speak to each other. I'm

with that if you guys don't speak. I
think the best we can hope for tonight

that things don't get any worse. I mean,
we're in Milan.

If you want to cry, cry on the way back
when we get back to Bergen County, New

Jersey. All right, guys, let's get this
stuff and let's head back.

Someone's wine went down. It's never a
meal unless we spill some wine.

And we need wine glasses.

Oh, my God. You know what I would love
to do? What?

Squirt them when they come in. Shake
this.

I think that's a good idea.

Danielle, please be careful. Go slow.
Let me go slow.

Are you really going to do it? You're
going to pop in there? Really? I see

light. I see light.

We cooked dinner for you guys. You see
how much we love you?

Ziggy walked in the door and I didn't
even know what to say because I was

traumatized from the night before.

If I say something, it will be used
against me. We actually made the pasta

our hands.

If I say this pasta is delicious, oh my
God, I choked on pasta once. She's

trying to kill me.

I'm not going to say a word.

Let's sit. Can we sit?

Yes, let's sit.

This is the nicest man.

Wait, is this the chef?

Yes. This is his house. Nice to meet
you. We cook for you all together.

I take glasses for water.

Teresa, you make the toast. I hope you
guys enjoy our meal tonight.

We wanted this to be special for you
guys, to friendship, okay? To

I salute you. I salute you.

I'm so uncomfortable being around
Margaret and I'm trying to put on a

face, but all that's going to my mind is
please don't talk to me. I just want to

eat without any confrontation.

So what did you guys make besides pasta?

We made homemade pasta, meat sauce.

Melon and prosciutto.

Love that.

Homemade tiramisu.

I make that too. Now we know why Marty
wants to be with you. No, he eats really

well. And he has a lot of sex.

I always have to make it about my sex
life.

But we are so okay with that too.

Everybody's skirting over the obvious
thing. The last time we were together,

were basically thrown out of a
restaurant.

Yes!

Oh my God.

Look at her face.

Look at her face.

Margaret being super quiet.

It's almost like she's scared to say how
she feels or speak her mind.

She's just in that position where she's
kind of damned if she does and she's

damned if she doesn't.

Girls.

Oh, hi.

You made this food.

I know.

Oh, this looks...

Amazing. Amazing.

I'm going to grab some water. I just
need some water.

Do you want to come get water with me
real quick? Uh -huh.

What do you think that's about?

Everybody knows that Margaret and I
right now need our little space.

Right, right.

And it's fine. No, and it is fine.

Sit down a second.

Listen to me. You are being so quiet, so
I didn't want to say none of everybody,

but I just... Are you okay?

Yeah, no, you know what it is? It's so
raw from last night. I can't be in the

room like Jovial Marge, you know, making
all my funny jokes. Right. To say

someone's anti -Semitic. That's like
calling someone racist.

Exactly. Danielle did get on Siggy
today, too, when we were having a

I don't know that we got through
completely today. I'm just letting you

that we're trying to work towards...

understanding, but I just wanted to make
sure you're okay. No, thank you. Thank

you for checking on me. I take that to
heart. If this wasn't such a great group

of girls, I would leave the country or
fake my own death, get away from Ziggy

Flicker. I'm going to try and perk it
up, and I'm never going to cry you over.

I know that.

I have my reasons to feel the way I do,
and Hitler is an ugly word for me. It

was just a trigger word for me.

That's it.

No, I do get it. When I first came home,
I didn't like the word jail.

I don't think I've ever heard you say
that word before. Yeah, I don't like

word. Like, I don't want that word to
define who I am.

Teresa's saying her trigger word, jail,
makes total sense to me because that was

so horrific what she had to go through.

Siggy's saying Hitler is her trigger
word, even though I can't understand it.

She says that word hurts her, so of
course I'm never going to use it in her

presence again.

You know, I don't want to fight or
anything. I just want to say to Siggy.

I would never know that would hurt you
to the core, and that wasn't my

intention. Hitler's a trigger word. You
know, if I knew that, I would have never

even said it.

I would never want to hurt you.

I'm sorry.

I just want to say to Siggy, Hitler's a
trigger word. You know, if I knew that,

I would have never even said it.

I would never want to hurt you.

I'm sorry.

I gave her a genuine heartfelt apology.

And it was crickets.

Just crickets.

Wow, look at this.

Can I just say something?

I think it was really, not just brave,
but I think it was really kind of, it

powerful what Margaret just did. It's
like, thank you for doing that from the

bottom of my heart.

No, Margaret, that was like bringing
tears to my eyes because I want

to get along.

Here's Margaret trying to be sincere and
trying to have a conversation, but I

feel like Steggy doesn't even want to
hear it.

I feel like she has in her head, like,
go f*** yourself.

I don't care what you say. I'm not
making up with you.

Well, with that, everyone, bon appetit.

Very good.

You guys did a very good job.

You just don't get over a comment like
that within 24 hours.

I'm emotionally drained, and I'm
concentrating on just getting through a

like I promised Danielle and Melissa,
and that's what I'm sticking to.

We were going to have steak tartare with
wood chips. That seems very sexually

frustrating.

My hand is stuck.

I'll get it.

Hi, baby.

Oh, what's up? Sink is leaking?

Yeah. You'll come and pick? What's up?

What are you making?

Tagliatelle? Yeah.

Melania, is the sink leaking?

I don't know.

Huh? I don't know.

Let me see. Oh, it is.

Can you get me a dry rag?

No, but you can get it yourself.

Well, that's not cool. You think that's
cool?

Teresa's too nice to her kids.

And these girls really put Teresa
through the wringer.

No, no, no. Follow water.

Those are Adriana's. Can you just try
it? Stop arguing with me, please. Okay,

all right. Come on, guys. Let's come in
here. I want to talk to you real quick.

When I step in, it's all over because
it's my rules.

Melania, I can't see you.

Sit up.

Come on.

We're talking right now. We're not
talking about nonsense. We're talking

about... Okay, come on. All right? All
right, so listen. Your mother's going

through a lot, right?

She's working hard. She's trying to
support you guys. So I'm not busting

chops, but you guys are not easy.

There's days you're like the devil.

So your mother's birthday's coming up. I
really think you guys should do

something nice for her because she's
trying to support you guys and... She

a lot and she deserves it. Right.

So if whatever you want to do, I'll help
you with.

Let's do a surprise party.

Okay, yeah, we could do that.

But don't tell her.

You got to keep this a secret.

So come on, give me a hug. Give me a
hug, Melania.

Give me a hug.

All right, I'm going.

Melania, don't touch the sink.

What was supposed to be the most
magnificent trip to Italy turned into,

some international thing incident.

A little more cream, please.

I think I need a break from all this
emotion, all this hormonal energy.

I have a nine today.

You a two. Thank you. Goodbye.

Good morning, sunshine.

How are you? How'd you sleep?

I slept like a baby.

Hey. Hi.

Buongiorno. Buongiorno.

But Dolores, oh my God, your hair is so
thick.

My God.

You know, today I'm spending a little
bit of time with Teresa.

Oh, that's nice. I don't think you've
gotten to do that yet this trip, right?

Nope.

Oh, where are you going? Where are you
going? To a bar mitzvah? I'm going to a

shoe factory.

I'm going with Margaret.

I'm doing a shoe line. So tomorrow I'm
going to go to the shoe factory and I

to see how they're made because it's
going to hurry up production. Maybe I'll

with you if I get a free pair.

I'm a shoe geek.

What are you guys doing? Me and Melissa
are going to have gelato.

I'm glad we got to finish eating our
dinner last night. I kind of feel bad

because, I mean, I didn't say anything
when Margaret apologized, which, by the

way, was super nice of her. Yeah, and I
thought that he was going to say sorry

first. Listen, we have one last dinner
tonight together, all of us, so

by the time we sit down for dinner,
maybe she'll acknowledge a little bit

of what Margaret said.

Yeah. So what did you think about last
night?

You know what?

Yesterday was a beautiful. I didn't want
to have a repeat. I think that we

needed like nice. We all needed to eat
our dinner. I got that. Margaret said a

very nice thing.

You're acknowledging that.

Oh, yeah.

I thought it took a lot of courage.

And I heard you yesterday say you really
want an apology.

And you got that apology.

And when you got what you wanted, you
didn't return that. Anti -Semite is a

deal. Yeah, but I'm entitled to my
opinion.

Danielle thinks she's going to counsel
Siggy.

I would have grabbed her by her hair and
threw her out because this person is

not going to counsel me on my life.
There's no way.

But if Siggy made amends with her, I'm
going to take the high road because it's

not even worth it to me. You guys have a
beautiful day. Thank you.

Have a good day today.

You too.

Hi, Antonio.

Antonio.

Thank you, Antonio.

I text.

Marty, every morning, he always answers
me. I mean, we did have late phone sex.

You probably even talked to him last
night.

Yeah, maybe a little bit.

Are you excited to have, like, your own
shoe line? Yes, I'm very excited, but

it's like I've got to put the pedal to
the metal. Oh, I'm honored you brought

me. Of course. Well, you're the shoe
mate.

I'm excited.

Danielle, she's a shoe fanatic, shoe
junkie. She has an entire room dedicated

shoes in her house.

And, of course, she broke out a smoking
hot pair of Manolos just for the

occasion. I went and visited Ziggy this
morning, and I said, you know,

Margaret stepped completely out of her
comfort zone, and she gave you a

heartfelt apology, and you sat and you
said nothing.

You're asking for something you're not
willing to give ever.

Here's a bigger point.

Anti -semi is a universal insult.

That's a little bigger.

And a little more important to apologize
for?

Especially to me who has raised Jewish
children. But the truth is, I don't want

anyone to force her to apologize because
her apology is not genuine the way

mom's was. I don't want it. She aligned
me with a hate group.

I don't need her apology, but I need her
to acknowledge that I am not anti

-Semitic for everyone else to hear
because that is disgusting.

She believes her online abortion letter.
You know what? I think everybody could

see what the real story is.

Coming up next.

I like an assistant.

He could be jealous. Could I turn you?

You were called saggy flicker. I was
called an adultery from Kim Day.

Doesn't it hurt?

You think saggy flicker and adultery are
the same thing? I think hurt is hurt.

Let's walk like they're doing it in
Italy, like this.

Oh, my God, they still have phone
booths.

I'll never make fun of tourists again.

Let's go get our shoes on.

Grazie.

I might have a little shoe chasm.

I'm not going to lie.

Oh, my God, those are cute.

I know, I know.

Hi, Margaret Joseph. It's a pleasure to
meet you.

This is your?

It's my company. Yes, and this is one of
my best friends. I just have a shoe

shopping problem, and I just want them
all.

So, we have an idea of what our brand
looks like. I just wanted to make sure

that, you know, we're on the same
wavelength and see the process, the

capabilities, and things like that.

We actually do orders in large volumes,
and we sell to very big stores.

This is our production department.

Wow. This is super cool.

So I have to see the shoe factory and
check it out that there's enough staff

to see what materials are available,
what their production runs could be.

It's all very important when you're
doing a luxury for less type of brand.

How long does it take from start to
finish when you make a shoe? For one

it takes like three hours.

Wow.

Three hours for one pair of shoes.

That's not good. But you know what? I
was sent to the factory because they

superior craftsmanship.

So maybe I can move past it.

See how it put the glue?

If you want to try.

Sure. Let me try.

What's your name? Massimo.

Massimo, you hold it.

I like an assistant.

This man could be jealous.

He could be jealous? Could I turn you?
Could I turn you? It's impossible. You

said your man will be jealous. I thought
maybe there was a little something

here. We'll see you outside, Massimo.

Massimo, call me.

This factory is great.

I got to see how they make shoes and
they were so welcoming.

What are the wholesale price points?

In the shops, they are sold for 200 to 1
,500 euros.

Unfortunately, the price point is a
little bit too high. This line I'm doing

needs to be affordable to everybody.

So I just feel like it's not exactly the
right fit. Pleasure. Thank you. Thank

you, Sarah, so much. And I didn't see
them making a lot of super high heels.

And, you know, the Marge needs her
heels.

I asked the chef yesterday, I wanted a
beautiful place to pray for my mom.

So that's where we're going right now?
Oh, my God. Look, right there is a

beautiful picture of Jesus.

Wow. I know, like, you were really upset
that you weren't there when we did the

memorial for my mom that Margaret
arranged.

I love you more than anything.

And I just wanted to share this moment
with you.

Oh, thank you.

It means so much to me that Teresa knew
how important that was and we're able to

have a moment like this.

That's a person who has compassion.

It just means a lot.

I wish my mom was here with me.

I don't know what to do.

You know how you always said you even
have a little bit of resentment because

you went away and that time you were
taken away from your mom?

But it gave your mom an opportunity.

To really bond with your girls.

You're good. Yeah, no, I'm happy she
was.

Yeah. I don't want them to ever forget
her.

Sig is right. I get angry that I missed
that time with my mom, but I'm happy

that my daughters had that time with my
mom. So you want to go walk around a

little bit? Like moments like this shows
that Sig cares.

And it reminds me, though I have friends
with her, she does have a big heart.

Wow. I'm glad last night we got to
finish a meal.

For the first time? Yes.

Because the first night was crazy. Oh,
my God.

Like, I'm sorry everything went down the
way it did the first night we were

here. But, you know, I feel like I've
been holding a lot in.

And it started out with soggy flicker. I
don't know. I thought the soggy flicker

thing was funny.

You were called soggy flicker. I was
called an adultery from Kim D.

Like, I'm just saying. Doesn't it hurt?
You think soggy flicker and adultery is

the same thing? I think hurt is hurt.

There's different levels of hurt.

Being called soggy is like a little tiny
cup. Being called an adulterer is like

being shot.

One puts you in the hospital, the other
one you put a bandaid on it. I think

Margaret says snarky comments to
everyone.

It's just the way she speaks.

But I don't think she realized how
sensitive you are.

She just says things that are not in
good taste and then doesn't want to

apologize for it.

I mean, she did last night. She did last
night. You're right. But I want her to

understand that. To me, if you were
really sorry about saying that, then I

you the opportunity at dinner that first
night when I said to you, I thought it

was done in bad taste.

I mean, the other night, I don't know if
you remember, I mean, it was pretty

intense. There was no chance for her to
say sorry.

I mean, can you just see that a little
bit? I know. I actually see that a lot.

Teresa has never, ever been anything but
kind and generous to me. And I

always appreciate somebody who's coming
from a good place who's kind. I am going

to think about a lot of the things that
you said.

Thank you. No, I mean, listen, I love
you, so I just want us to all be happy.

I love you. I love you so much.

Okay. Let's go and Joyce.

Yes, let's go and Joyce. The rest of the
day. Coming up next.

That's career ending, relationship
ending.

Yes. Do you genuinely feel I'm anti
-Semitic?

This is beautiful.

Buongiorno.

Oh, there's just so many more men than
there are women.

Have you talked to your man this whole
time? No.

I don't require a lot of attention, but
I think he might give a little less than

most. Everyone says it's hard to be a
doctor's wife because they spend hardly

anything like a wife. If I didn't call
him for the full day, and I called him

tomorrow, he'd be like, yeah, hey, how's
everything?

Was it insulted that you guys didn't
speak for 24 hours? Oh, no, no.

That would annoy me.

So then it's not me. No, no. It's nice
to bounce things off people.

Since this is the second half of my
life, I'm really not into just dating.

Look, do you want to sit here? Oh, this
is cute. Yeah, I'm ready to eat.

Having Frank around, I have the best of
both worlds.

I have my boyfriend that I go on dates
with. You know, we have a good time. And

then I go home.

And having Frank in the house is very
nice. We're together all the time.

I couldn't ask for a better friend, a
better companion.

I will have the banana split gelato.

And I'll have a tiramisu.

Having Frank around makes me realize I
do want more from David.

Oh, my God.

You know you want mine. Everything is so
pretty.

Okay, let's dig into this, please.

Oh, my God, I'm having my first gelato
in Italy.

Oh, my God. So last night, when Margaret
started talking, all I did was look at

you, and you were like, I was in
complete shock.

Siggy looked like she saw a ghost. Like,
she really looked like she was... She

was not expecting it. She wasn't ready
for it. She wasn't, and to be honest...

She didn't think it would happen.

Right, and she didn't really respond.

She couldn't. She wasn't emotionally
ready. Listen, I knew that Siggy wasn't

being a jerk there. If she was being
snobby or nasty, she would have got up

said, well, guess what?

You and your stupid apology.

But instead it was, let me just...

contain myself.

That's it. I have to say something, and
I have to give a little credit to

Margaret here.

She does always act like the bigger
person. She apologizes, which is not

saw that last night. And she's the one
that was called anti -Semitic. Yeah,

bad. I mean, it's so absurd. But I say
bad things when I'm mad. You say bad

things when you're mad. And they both
need to address. She needs to take the

comment back.

I've had ciggies back, but sometimes
fused.

go too far and last too long. Like
Margaret apologized.

So it needs to end. We need peace.

Now I know why you just hang out with a
bunch of men all the time.

They're easy company.

I'm sorry.

That's why.

It's true.

I get it. I actually enjoy hanging out
with Joe a lot more than I like hanging

out with a bunch of women.

What do I want to call you? Little
Marilyn Monroe?

Yes. All right. You look gorgeous.

You always look perfect. How are you?
Can I come in? Good. I want you to come

in. Do you have company? Yes. He's under
the bed.

Don't tell anybody.

I can't believe we're leaving already
tomorrow.

I know.

I'm like happy and unhappy about it
because I ate so much of Dolores today.

Yes. Like everything.

But listen, we did a little shopping and
I just got you a little something.

Oh, are you the cutest thing in Italy?
Oh, that was so sweet. It's just a

something to remember Milan. And because
I really do appreciate that you invited

me. Oh, that's amazing.

You don't understand. It means a lot to
me.

I'm just so happy that Ziggy introduced
me to Melissa because she's my spirit

animal. I would have never done this if
it wasn't for you. That was so

thoughtful. She's super successful.

Sexy. And of course, a great style.

It's all little Milan charms on it.
Okay, I love that.

She's a jaguar.

Oh, it goes perfect with what you're
wearing. Wow.

By the way, being with you was like the
most positive part of my whole trip.

Really? I'm not kidding you.

It's been rough. I know. And listen, I
was really big of you last night, too,

when you apologized. To be honest, I
never even knew there was a trigger

so I got involved with her.

Well, there are.

By the way, do you have trigger words?
No.

It used to be stripper.

Melissa, can you do the pole one time?

But I'm way over that now. I'm learning
the ropes, whatever it is.

Let's just hope tonight's good. It's our
last night in Milan.

I really hope that Ziggy can find it in
her heart to take back the whole anti

-Semitic.

situation. That was way out of line.

I feel like it needs to be cleaned up
before we head back to New Jersey. Come

on. What do I want to call you? What's
her name again? Marilyn Monroe.

Marilyn Monroe. Let's go.

Look

at

these flowers.

Oh my God, guys. This is so beautiful.
This is so pretty.

It's the last night in LA where I
decided to have the dinner at our hotel.

And to have it in a private room.

Where do you guys want to fit? It
doesn't matter.

And that way, if it gets out of control,
then the damage is contained.

Wow. Isn't this nice, ladies? All
together.

This is pretty.

Are we going for the limoncello or for
the wine?

I'm going for the wine. I'm going to
have wine. The limoncello is a little

strong for me. It is. Me too.

You guys all know we have an early
flight in the morning, right?

Yeah. All right, guys, I just want to
make a little toast before we have

You guys are great friends, and I really
do love all of you. And I just want to

say I really enjoyed it, and I think
this is a really good memory.

Definitely is. Yes, and let's make
tonight memorable and enjoy it.

Before we do that, I would like to say
to Margaret,

last night you gave me a heartfelt
apology that was sincere, and

I thank you for that.

I needed time to process that.

I don't think anybody should ever

reference Hitler.

I know you don't think anybody should
reference Hitler. And that's a trigger

with you. And I said I was sorry. With
that said, do you genuinely feel I'm

-Semitic?

I said I was sorry.

Do you genuinely feel I'm anti -Semitic?

I want to believe with all my heart and
soul that you are not anti -Semitic.

Where I came up with that was not out of
the sky.

All these moments of me feeling attacked
by Margaret and then the Hitler

statement, I said, well, then maybe
you're just anti -Semitic.

That's where it came from. But if I hurt
your feelings, I apologize for that.

I feel, um, I'm trying to take

it the best way I possibly can.

That's not an apology.

Don't be sorry for the way I feel. Be
sorry for what you did.

Apology 101.

Listen, I know you're trying to
apologize to me.

It's not even about that you hurt my
feelings.

It's about you aligned me with, like, a
hate group.

Saying someone's anti -Semitic could
ruin every relationship I have with...

Because my relationships only, separate
from this group, are only with Jewish

people. My entire family. But I don't
know that about you. I know. It doesn't

matter. That's relationship ending,
career ending, everything that I value

life. So it was so scathing and hurtful.
And I was like, where is this even

coming from? And that's the same way I
felt when you said Hitler's name. The

Hitler's name doesn't ruin people's
lives.

Would that ruin your life that I said
Hitler's name? I'm just being honest

you. When you're looking all the way
down the road, when you're in the heat

the moment, when you say something,
you're not thinking, how is it going to

affect this person? Is it going to ruin
his life or this or this or this?

Listen, I said it in the heat of the
moment.

But I don't think that you're anti
-Semitic.

I don't know if Siggy really does
understand the gravity of what she said,

really feel like it was a big step for
her to at least.

You know, take it back and say, I'm
sorry.

Listen, she's saying that she doesn't
believe that you're like that. You're

saying that. You don't believe she's
anti -Semitic. No, I don't believe

Margaret's anti -Semitic. I believe that
Margaret is anti -Ciggy.

Because from the moment that I
introduced you, it's like taking

wedding. You deserted me at cocktail
hour. That's what I felt like you did.

didn't dignify me in Boca and the soggy
flicker statement.

It's in your delivery, Margaret.

Do you think you're always very
compassionate?

I'm being honest with you. Just tell me.
I don't always feel like you're

compassionate with everybody. And I
mean, you don't always keep to your

don't if I'm being attacked.

No.

Siggy, please. That's an excuse. I'm a
human being with a lot of compassion,

I'm far from perfect.

I think everyone's human.

I think if you give yourself a pass, you
should give some other people a pass.

Because when I'm telling you, I didn't
do that on purpose.

You have to take it as genuine fact. You
should have known me better that I

would not.

say something to hurt you on purpose,
ever.

You get in your own head with me.

I do.

Ziggy's apology feels completely forced.
I think she has no choice but to say

she's sorry because I'm bonded with the
other ladies and she probably realizes

that I'm around to stay.

Nobody's going to take sides. You guys
are both our friends.

At the end of the day, when everything
passes, we're all going to be together

a room.

And, you know, just let's not have
anything happen for a while and let

everything mend and we'll be good.

Who would have thought that you two
would have been sitting next to each

Who would have thought that we would
ever be in Milan together?

I don't want to wait seven years. I'm
not going to be at my 60th birthday.

I'll tell you that.

I'm so glad everyone's getting along.
Thank you, Jesus.

By the way, I would like to invite you
guys to my birthday.

Oh! Joe decided.

We should do disco.

Studio 54.

Wait,

wait, what do you mean Studio 54?

It was a club. It was a club.

So fun.

Very fabulous.

The best music to be said in the world.
I was born in the 70s. Like all the

music that you like. That is going to be
so much fun.

Hopefully Ziggy and Dolores will be
there. It's fine, they'll be there.

Next time on The Real Housewives of New
Jersey.

Little smile in the eye. There you go.
Let's go, tree!

For a long time, you were a great mother
to my kids.

Do you think there's ever a chance that
the kids would ever speak to me again?

I'm on my way to Danielle's house.

Remember at the retreat, she kept saying
that her kids were bothered by what I

said to her.

So I'm going there to go apologize to
them.

When I heard that you were going to yoga
together, I called her and I flipped

down on her.

Stop with your attitudes. I'm not
listening to your attitude and I'm not

listening to your attitude. You better
change your tone of voice, girl.

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