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Previously on Married to Medicine.

Welcome to Grand Bahamas and all of the people.

I don't know what the fuck about to go down. I don't know what's going to

happen. This Mariah, she on a trip with us after all this time.

I'm kind of scared.

I just feel like y 'all didn't do shit.

Like I was four months pregnant with twins and y 'all couldn't even send me a

bouquet together. I'm not going to say I'm sorry at all.

You and Mariah are not friends.

We have not spoken in months.

I've made millions of dollars is promoting opportunity. And off of other

people's backs of pyramid marketing schemes is.

I think Jill is an absolute ass for doing this at the dinner table.

I consider you guys family because we're connected at this point.

That's not right.

This ain't family. I don't do this shit.

This ain't family.

No. We are not family.

Your actions have proven that we are not family.

I ain't ready for this.

And I told you I wasn't ready for this.

Good morning, babe.

Morning. How are you? You need coffee?

How you doing?

Oh, you got your little morning reading going on? Mm -hmm.

Trying to think like a man.

It's a brand new day, and I'm going to face the day with a new perspective.

I love the beach. I could just live on the beach.

So I'm sipping my tea and reading my book. And this book is going to help me

right into the mode because I'm learning to think like a man.

Yes, Steve Harvey.

I'm going to just sit back and watch.

And I think by the end of this trip, we will have a good grad whether or not

this is a genuine group or is it a few genuine gems in this group.

What are you doing over there?

Just trying to get in touch with Keisha to check on my dad.

Hey, Keisha.

How's my daddy?

No fever or anything?

No matter where I am and what I'm doing, I'm always thinking, what's up with my

dad? And being here, I still can't forget that things are going on back at

Well, everybody still has ten fingers and ten toes, two legs, two arms.

Well, you know, we got plenty of extra if we losing.

I just felt like I needed some company, so I came over. He'll be here today,

though. It was kind of nice to spend a night alone without any kids or any

husband. Not that I would want to do it every night, but I kind of enjoyed

getting to know myself a little better.

Is something in your makeup?

I ain't in the makeup.

I woke up like this.

Heavenly first thing in the morning wasn't heavenly?

That didn't make you feel good? You woke up, you saw two women in your room, in

your bed?

Y 'all ready? What's going on?

No, seeing heavenly first thing in the morning was not some weird fantasy where

I was going to have a threesome with my wife. No.

Get off my bed.

This is beautiful out here.

The sand is nice. Water is always pretty.

Water is a very tranquil place to be. I always feel at peace when I'm around

water. You know the thing about water, though? It can be your friend, but it

be... Well,

when that hair will fall.

I can't have my hair pieces getting all wet up, honey.

This is chocolate. I might melt.

I had a chance to talk to Mariah last night.

Oh, did you? Yeah. You know, my heart goes out to anybody who has lost a

pregnancy. Oh, it's hard.

Absolutely. I'm sure it has to be hard.

You know what? I was really, really, really happy when you made your say that

you were saying it's time for forgiveness.

I'm here today to accept whatever responsibility that I've done at this

anyone. So I don't claim to be perfect, but I am big enough to say that I'm not.

Thank you.

Seeing what they have, he and Mariah have progressed past.

All of the craziness is an encouraging sign that Kauai is definitely growing

herself. I'm really proud of her.

You know, I'm not completely there. But a journey of a million miles started

with one step. One step, baby. And I just took the first step. You made a

Yeah,

that's okay. However small it is, it's a step.

How are you doing?

Pastor Earl?

Yes. And Karen? I'm Karen, yes. Oh, you know, we're from the South. We do hug.

Thank you so much for being willing to meet with us. I think it is really

important that this group, Doctors and the Wives, that we do a medical mission

while we're here on the island.

We are so impressed with Care of Them and all the work you've done all over

world. It gives us the opportunity to do something meaningful, but to also

continue to ground us and show us how blessed we are in that life we're living

back home.

Well, the Bahamas has what we call two faces of paradise.

The first face, the one you see here, and then the second face is where people

are in need. So when we heard that there were doctors in the midst, we came up

with the thought of screening some of the individuals.

who may need help with understanding blood pressure, and then diabetes. We

that a lot of our folks are coming up with diabetes.

So are there supplies we could provide?

We always love to feed folks and give them drugs. Nothing wrong with eating,

right? Oh, I'm telling you. Nothing wrong with eating. I'm all for that.

Anytime we travel back to Bangladesh, we really try to give back because that's

my husband's motherland.

And we feed.

Thousands of people. The last time we went, we fed over 5 ,000 people, and

just really resonated with me. So we'll be looking forward to seeing you and

spending time with you tomorrow.

We are as well. Okay, thank you so much. See you guys tomorrow.

Thank you so much.

It's not just about doing it at home, but realizing that every community is

affected by the other.

Eat a little bit of the cheese and grape. You know me, but with the cheese.

I don't want to get you all in an emotional place today, but can you tell

what happened at dinner last night? Because I looked down at the end of the

table, Mariah, and you were crying.

I hate that.

You know, I do not like crying in the midst of people that I don't feel like

truly have my back.

I thought I was at a place.

where I have gotten past a lot of things, and I could do it, and I could

give faith, and be funny, and be fabulous, and just come back in.

But I realize that I'm human.

And I'm still dealing with some real, real stuff.

The hardest thing for me is this forgiveness thing.

Even with why, I don't understand.

Like, I love, I hug, I smile, but I've been hurt.

Cut to the core.

I'm hoping at some point that Mariah can truly just put the past behind her and

understand that no one is perfect. And just as she makes mistakes and people in

the group forgive her, that she too at some point will have to forgive others

for their mistakes.

But I think it's important that the girls see that human side. Do you? Yes.

I don't feel like that. Give all of you.

and ask your friend, take or leave all of me. Well, the issue with that is the

part that I've given has been rejected. And you have to be real about that.

That's true.

You know, so why would I give more if they're not accepting what I have given

already? Give them that part of you that they can accept and deal with. The rest

of it, you put it in a box, you save it for later.

Because I promise you later is coming. Well, that's how I am. That's where I am

right now.

I don't think I have a lot of expectations for friends.

The only thing I expect is to be treated the way I treat them. I treat them

great. I expect to be treated good in return.

I don't think that's too much to ask.

I'm trying to move forward.

What does move forward mean?

It means that the car is not in drive, nor is it in reverse.

It's in neutral?

Bitch, it's in neutral.

I'm just sitting back and I'm watching everything. And I think that this

vacation is going to tell me a lot.

And it's going to let me know which direction I should go in and if I should

in that direction with certain people.

Beautiful.

We had an interesting night last night. I'm glad we got through that night. Oh,

my goodness.

Imagine someone saying, dentistry is both.

I have no idea why Jill feels the need to keep attacking my profession.

Maybe she feels like we still have beef from the strip club situation.

I apologize to her at having these angels, but in case she didn't remember,

sorry, Jill.

I feel like she's educated, she's... Educated does not mean intelligent, and

don't see how she got her education from a great school. She must have slept

with the janitor to the professor to the damn president, because there's no

f***ing way. I don't think it's okay at any time to attack somebody and how they

make their money.

You know? And it's been very successful for her. And if Jill can't do it, live

and let live. I ain't thinking about them strippers.

Can't she have a, what is it, a fraudulent slip?

Fraudulent slip.

Fraudulent slip means you really think it, you just don't say it. And then come

over to me saying, your man said, fuck you.

And it didn't happen. And say, oh, maybe not. Thought only.

Say that.

And then say, oh, well, maybe not. Just lie. Because you're going to turn

yourself a comfortable line. Okay, so I get that.

That was bad.

Hey.

You look cute.

Did you wear your shoes in the sand?

I did like an idiot. I know you was walking backwards because I was going

this. It is hard to walk with these on. That's why you wear flip -flops on the

beach. But they're not as sexy.

True that.

They don't want to be style yesterday. She speaks to her. You ain't even speak.

I can't have intelligent conversations with people that are not intelligent.

That's what I'm saying. I'm saying that I will not have a baby doll. What?

Excuse me. I can read you.

It's not about a read doll. And it's not, it's about being respectful to one

another. It's about being intelligent.

We're not going to have a conversation with someone. I feel not. It's not

intelligent. I'm not going to wait. Are you saying that I'm not intelligent?

Exactly.

Coming up on Married to Medicine.

I'm just at a place where I feel like if you don't have trust, you don't have a

marriage.

You stay so stupid.

So do you. No, no, no, not you. It's true, too.

Inappropriate. Honey, you can't talk to a man without your husband. No, you are

a stupid woman. You know why?

You know why?

Because you lied. You made something out of nothing. What did I lie? My husband

and your husband had a conversation.

Had a conversation that was men and men. It was nothing. It was very respectful.

You came back and lied.

She starts unnecessary conflict between my husband and her husband.

Your husband said you to my husband? I think so.

Did John Turner say something inappropriate to you?

No. And when even I asked her, I said, he said, she said, yeah, he did.

Goofy ass.

I'm not going to have a conversation with somebody I don't think is

I will not do it. I will not do it. You're a dumb bitch. Your mama.

You're a dumb bitch.

You kissed my ass. You need daddy to come to your rescue.

You need daddy to come to your rescue when you can't stand up for her. You

assume something. He needs daddy to come run to her because she can't hold her

own.

She is quick to say that everybody else is stupid because she's insecure.

I don't know. I think she's threatened by me or jealous of me. Get her under

control, okay? No, I can get myself under control. I didn't throw water and

someone. Lisa, Lisa. I'm just saying. I'm just saying.

I'm just saying. Damn.

It's the truth.

I swear I've been sitting on this beach for all of ten minutes.

Ten minutes.

We ain't laid out. We had no cocktails. Where are the cocktails? I had nothing.

And this is the beginning to my beat.

Really? God. That's so crazy.

She is so damn dumb. God damn.

I can't do it. You are a stupid bitch. What kind of conversation is that?

I just feel like this woman has insulted everybody.

And then she calls me a dumb bitch. Bitch, you the dumbest bitch here.

Do you not get that?

Oh, my God.

I'm not going to have a conversation with a four -year -old.

Toya can do it because y 'all on the same level. But I cannot do that.

You just went from you're a dumb bitch.

He just called me stupid. I'm sorry. You can't call me stupid and not expect a

reaction. You know I understand stupid.

You know I understand when you're verbally attacked and people are

your intelligence.

Use a brain. Oh, oops. She might not have one.

She said you had no money, whatever, last year, and she was relentless on

She has fake Louis Vuitton luggage, a fake Rolex that doesn't even work, and

she's saying that you can't afford your house.

I know what you can't afford. Lisa hasn't paid her taxes or whatever, but

saying she's a millionaire and she goes over and over and over again, I'm a

millionaire. I mean, come on. These girls are foolish.

They are. They're fake ass bitches.

But the reality is, do you really want to sit here and go back and forth with

these heifers?

Finally,

we have a nice event with just the guys.

No women.

No drama.

Don't make it seem like the women bring drama to your life. No women. We bring

excitement to your life.

Thank you, sir. What's your name, man? Tony. Tony. We have roast conch, conch

salad, roast conch with shrimp.

The conch burger is similar to your hamburger.

Tony Macaron.

He has his own conch shop.

He's retired.

He opens up when he feels like it.

Wow. He's my hero.

Can you do a really good cheeseburger?

That's what I want.

You and I, we could open a Kong shop together.

Did I say his wife was out there?

I'm just saying.

Did I say Tony and Simone?

I'm just saying.

Tony Macaroni. I wish Damon had made it, man. Yeah, and I wish you, man. I wish

Damon had made it.

So, John, have you figured out how you want to handle this?

Your Damon discussion is going to be separate? I really don't want to kind of

say, okay, this is my side of the story without Damon here. Because that's not

fair to him. Right.

I'm not going to bring this up without Damon here because I think it's

disrespectful. In general, when you work at a strip club, a lot of those women

do go home with the men. You know what they say when you assume.

Don't disrespect my wife. I never meant to disrespect you or your wife.

Great talk. You're going to leave me?

Yeah. I don't know Damon.

And I certainly, you know, first impressions mean the world, and I

to, you know, leave a bad taste in his mouth. He's already left a bad taste in

my mouth.

We get it, and I think, just to your point, I think it'll be quick, out of

way, boom, that's all. We're going to reenact the way it was before.

Cigars, guys, and we'll get it over with.

I certainly don't want to pass judgment on, you know, his ulterior motives, but

I think I need to find time to speak with him and figure this out.

This is an old cunt right there. How do you know? I've eaten enough in the last

two days. I know the old stuff.

You hear the ocean or something?

Something about the ocean is just relaxing, just calm.

Maybe we should make the ladies come out here a little more.

Isn't it really all the ocean? You're right.

It was ocean last night. It was calm.

Right?

Blonde? Do you not see that?

You were...

Why do the ladies do these things? I mean, why do they do these things?

Sometimes it's not even worth trying to figure out the intent, because we're

men, and they're women, and I don't think we're ever going to really get it.

Even if you figure it out, you're not going to understand. Right, we're not

going to get why.

It's not fun when a guy wouldn't even do that. Anyway, we just want to thank

Cecil. Good looking out, man.

Yeah, man. Good day, good day, good day.

Y 'all gonna bring her back over here, okay?

All right, come on. Can we just make this right?

Because Heavenly said, I'm not gonna talk to you because I don't talk to

ignorant people. I said people that are not intelligent.

But I am intelligent. Why would you think I'm not intelligent?

You say things that are not true.

Okay. Okay?

Because you're saying that when I said that John said you to Damon. Right.

I misunderstood. I thought my husband said you.

Right. And maybe he should have, but he didn't. No, he shouldn't have. He

shouldn't have.

He might say it right there. Okay, pause. If he does, I think it'll be

Pause. Pause right here. This is the problem right there. You say sorry, and

then in the next sentence, you become dumb and refuse it, which is why I then

say, Blondie, what are you not getting?

This girl has no boundaries. I mean, she just keeps going and going and going

and saying one dumb thing after another dumb thing. Emily, I don't want you to

walk away. I don't.

I don't. Okay, wow. That's it. Wow.

That's a big statement, and it's not true because you tell lies, and that's

definitely one of my lies. No, I told you it was a misunderstanding.

I mean, don't get me wrong. I love the fact that Jill is not one of those

pushover white girls, per se.

You know, because people will come at them. You know, they feel like, oh,

they're weak. She's small.

I think some things she needs to just blow off because things are getting way

too out of hand way too quickly.

How old are y 'all grown -ass women?

Like, stop.

Like, come on. Like, for real.

Why even try?

Why even?

Come on. Don't do it. That's right.

You know what? It's best to drop the issue. So I'm going to be the better

person, and I'm going to walk away before I strangle this bitch.

Coming up, I felt like you guys had a relationship with me. You've known me

years, and you should have believed me.

Flip your hand right through there, Dad.

How y 'all doing?

Really stand up as a unit strong.

But what do we do?

We fight about shit that doesn't matter.

When are we heading over to mission?

I guess we better get ready and get going now.

Let's go.

You have to say pretty please.

I'm not saying pretty please. This is a mission.

I have planned a health fair at a local community center, and we are going to do

some medical screenings like blood pressure, glucose, psychiatric

This is going to be good. It is. I don't think everybody is excited about it. I

am concerned that some of the ladies will not participate in the medical

mission. We might just find Toya off on a cart eating jerk chicken somewhere.

Get your phone.

I feel like you're rushing me.

Take your time, but hurry up.

I'm excited.

I don't know what's planned, but I hated that I couldn't be here on the first

day, but I got to hold the fort down at the practice, so that's what I did.

Hey, buddy.

I miss you so much.

I feel so happy to see my husband. You know, with all the other craziness going

on, when I see Damon, it always brings me to a calming place. So I was just

happy to see him.

The Lord looked at me last night and she said, she said, do you miss your mama?

And I said, yeah.

And I said, you?

And she said, yeah.

And you know how she smiles.

Heavenly, like, I don't talk to unintelligent people. Not much bothers

But there are certain things that do, and then I do get loud.

I'm Jersey.

But that's not an excuse to say that you're Jersey, and that's my upbringing,

and I'm Jersey, so it gives me license to be obnoxious.

It's in my blood.

Well, I understand, but you can change that.

You do know, Toya, that here you drive on the opposite side of the road, right?

Well, it's the same thing.

Yeah, there are laws in the Bahamas.

I think that it's a great idea to go and travel and spend a couple of hours of

your time giving back.

Now, if I'm on my honeymoon, I'm probably not thinking about giving back.

Did anybody bring their phone for the navigation?

It's only one road that goes around the whole island.

I'm okay with going with Mariah and being in this cold space with her. I'm

to choose to drive so that if she says something, I can just tone her out and

people will understand that I'm just concentrating on her.

the road.

I'm so glad you organized this. I think it is such a great thing to be able

to come here and have a good time and also do great. I do too. I'm not sure if

everybody was excited about it, but I just thought it'd be a really good

opportunity for us to bond, specifically you and I, Lisa. So I thought it'd be a

good opportunity for us to at least try to get to know one another.

What? Who are you?

Drive the damn car.

You need to be following the left side. Don't worry about nothing else.

It feels good to be in a car with Mariah right now and actually not be arguing,

laughing. And it just, it felt like back in the day.

It felt like this was the person that I knew. This was the person that I became

friends with. So when you sat back and thought about everything from last year,

what were your thoughts as far as you...

You know, the whole situation with the group. I just thought that it was, um, I

thought it was very messy. I did in very high school, and I just thought as a

group. But all of us thought that.

Seeing you guys last year go through that thing, too, it was hurtful for me

because, like, I don't know what's happening. Oh, really?

It was hurtful only because I don't fight like that with my best friend.

So it was hurtful for you? It was hurtful to see it.

Because I didn't think y 'all was ever going to come back from that.

and throw tomatoes with you, sweetheart.

Staying on your chariot doesn't mean that you're superior to everyone else.

just means you're not going to go in the gutter with the pigs and the rats.

And I think they're learning the hard way because they're seeing what it's

when they do come off their chariot and hit below the belt.

It should not have got to the place where it happened.

with someone else you know why because i felt like you guys had a relationship

with me you've known me for years so i felt like your loyalty should have been

to me and you should have believed me yeah last year mariah

said i should have left that roach where i found her and she was right

It looks like we are getting close to the place where we're going to do our

medical mission. And what the doctors, what I'm hoping all of my docs will

participate and do.

Does that include Dr. Heavenly?

Yes. Okay. She's one of our docs.

Hey, you guys, I ain't shading.

There's hot tea in the shade, honey. Strong tea.

And it's in a lot of shades. Yes, it is.

What's going on?

Jackie, don't you see not a damn thing?

Hey, hey, Dr. D, will you tell your wife not to talk to my wife like that?

Buddy, please stop talking like that.

All right. Now, we straight there. We straight.

I'm really happy that Simone and Mariah organized this event. I think that this

is what it's all about.

Now, I ain't never did a charity event on vacation, but I'm willing to do it,

you know?

Yeah. And, I mean, we didn't have any pre -notice, but.

That's okay. We'll do it anyway. I think the biggest impact that we're going to

have today here locally really is going to be addressing high blood pressure and

blood sugar. Right, yeah.

If you find an elevated blood pressure or an elevated blood sugar, we're going

to put their name, date of birth on a card, and then we have to give that to

people who run Karazine so that they can make sure that these people are

followed up.

with clinics that do provide some free care.

Curtis and I are going to have a hugging and a kissing station.

We're going to keep them in line, keep them going forward.

We're not medical, so we're just going to hug and kiss.

Your blood pressure is 250.

Go get that checked out.

Okay.

We're here.

Good to see you hugging.

And I brought friends.

Thank you.

This is Lisa.

How are you? This is Toya. Hi, Lisa. We hug in the Bahamas.

This is a very last -minute project, so I don't have many expectations.

If we're able to help one family, then we've done our job.

Here comes trouble.

What's that?

Blood pressure.

cuff and the lancets and everything to check blood sugar. You know, we've been

given gifts to be physicians, and we're looking forward to just, you know,

sharing our talents and our services, you know, with the people here, and

hopefully we'll be a blessing to somebody.

We've invited some families to come.

those who really cannot afford to go to the clinic and that sort of thing, and

they're less fortunate than some of us. The way we have it set up is because you

guys are doing, you know, checks and stuff upstairs, so all the doctors will

upstairs and everyone else will stay down here and we'll handle the food.

We need one person to do a check -in. We do blood pressure, and then you do

blood sugar, and then you have like a consultation check -out. Just in case of

emergency, I got IV fluid.

You got a mass unit in here. You got everything.

Hey, does this not feel like the apprentice?

You know, we got a team in here. We got to do this, and we're going to do this.

Can you put a knot in these for me? And we're going to stick them right here.

Come on now.

You been getting the people crack all day.

You got to have a little sign. You seeing some crack?

Yeah. Okay, cognac.

Girl, my pants fit.

Oh, okay.

My pants fit. It depends on what you call fit.

You want some of my ass?

Damn, her damn ass is colossal, ain't it? Like, goddamn, did she get some

injections from damn Jill's husband?

Where'd she get all that ass from?

Okay, we have our first patron.

This is the Hanfield family.

Hello, how are you doing today?

Nice to meet you.

How y 'all doing?

So what we're going to do, I think, is take you upstairs to get signed in, and

then you guys can come back down here and have some refreshments and some

snacks. Sit up in the chair, relax, and don't talk to her while she's talking to

you when I pick your blood sugar.

Flip your hand right through there, Dad.

You ready?

Yeah. Dr. Eugene, nice to meet you. What we're doing at this table is we're

checking for blood sugars and doing like a diabetes screen.

Oh, no problem. There you go, hon.

You got to cut back on the beers because there's a lot of sugar in there. We're

going to provide you a place to go to to monitor your blood pressure.

I think you're next for your counseling session there.

Your blood sugar needs to be stabilized. You need IV fluids probably.

Hi there.

Aren't you adorable?

Are you going to cry?

Okay,

I don't want to do you then.

You hear people say, I'm going to pray for you and, you know, bless you. But

it's a little bit different and a lot more rewarding when you actually put

something in somebody's hand.

Here you go.

Or you give somebody some knowledge to change their lives. So this is probably

like the high point of the trip so far. Hello.

Hi. Don't you act shy.

This may have been last minute, but I have to say I am so impressed.

So many people came.

What's your name?

Hi, Tamia. You're so pretty.

The thing that touched my heart the deepest are the children.

White people are really nice.

We can really stand up as a unit strong.

But what do we do?

We fight about it doesn't matter.

We hurt each other for what? There's no gain in it.

Coming up. You're actually going to pair with a different spouse.

Oh, Lord.

We don't share a spouse with child.

Jackie, you look quite beautiful in your electric blue.

Thank you.

Your sexy is coming way back. Stand up. Let us see the sexy.

Listen, and you feel the butt cheek, too.

Yes! She's just not ready to come out full throttle in a bathing suit.

I'm going to need her to put some spanks or body magic or something underneath

that bathing suit. Let me see what you're wearing, Toya.

You know, just a little something, something. There's no jiggling that ass.

Nathan's type.

It's all tight. It's all tight. You know.

Oh, honey, we got some croc going on, some lavender, some hood, some crochet.

You go, Miss Toya. She's giving the people Nathan's song.

Orange hair. I call it spice. Sonia Connery. She's giving the people strip

the beach.

What about you, Mariah? What you working with over there? Let's save them for

tomorrow. I mean, now, y 'all just gonna force me to do it.

Oh, I like that. You know, I believe that I should save something for my

husband.

Hey,

babe. Yeah? Can you help me freshen up my makeup?

Oh, so you need me to come in there and put some lashes on?

Yeah. Toy, you said Eugene helped her.

Yeah, I'm not Eugene.

Oh, damn.

Last year in Blue Ridge, we had the couple session, and it was amazing.

How many times a week should a couple have sex?

Me and Eugene at one point said we wanted to have sex at least once a week.

Yeah. It don't happen.

You and your partner, sometimes you feel like your partner is like way off base.

When it's brought out in a group, then you're like, okay, it's not just my

partner's crazy.

All of these ladies are crazy.

No, that is not what you were supposed to be saying.

Okay, that's what I get out of it. You're going to jack me up. I've watched

do it. I can do it now. Oh, you can?

Yeah. Y 'all good?

Let's go. You a nut.

Couple therapy, for me, means that I'm going to be able to hear other people

going through some of the situations that I've been through.

That's what it's all about.

Like, we're all at so many different places in our marriages that we have so

much to offer each other.

The mirror on the wall.

Who's the most beautiful one of all?

Couples therapy, well...

I think that that could be a pretty good thing considering all of the

interesting dynamics that my husband and I have been having over the last few

months.

This is what I love, us having a good time, partying, and just really enjoying

the energy.

Maybe there is hope for us.

Why do I want to waste calories on non -alcoholics?

You don't have brown?

You'd have Jill and Kisa together.

What's up with Jill? She done lost her damn mind with this brunette wig.

If the man can buy a new hair, he can buy a new breast, can he get a brain?

That's the thing. I mean, if you want to be a surgeon, be a brain surgeon and

buy this bitch a brain.

Well, they have a rice and macaroni and jelly.

The bonsai is absolutely beautiful. I mean, they woo you in with all this

warm, comfortable setting, good food, lots to drink.

Hoo, but I'm nervous.

So...

things we're gonna do tonight is we're gonna have an exercise which i came up

with a little name partner repair you're actually gonna pair

with a different sound oh lord we don't share spouses child i'm going to

repair you

with a different partner, and get his perspective, another perspective, and we

are going to repair your issue.

When you go to your new wife, each lady would talk about an issue.

Oh, God. See, I came with y 'all.

I like that. I actually was going to swap you for Jill's husband just to see

what it was like.

See what what was like.

You always saying you want a quiet woman, you know.

I don't see her as quiet.

To start, Heavenly, come to the circle and join your husband, Curtis.

Curtis. Come on, baby. Come on, daddy.

Hey, hey, hey.

I'm a little nervous.

With Dr. Heavenly, you're never quite sure how she's going to respond.

In a situation.

Never. My word today is priority.

Let me tell you something.

I set my own priorities because I know what's most important to me. And you

I was driven when you met me. I know I take care of my kids. I make enough

to pay the people that I need to pay to take care of the minor things so I can

take care of the major things.

I can't stay home. I know you want what's best for us and I know you want

best for me.

You knew who I was when you married me.

I think that Damon had a very old -fashioned view of what our roles would

think he thought that I would be, you know, home, cooking dinner, barefoot and

pregnant.

I think that he has a very old -fashioned sense of what a man's role is

woman's role. But that's one of the things I do love about him, that he

his role as a man.

Now, I want you to have what you desire.

But when you made that commitment to be my wife, things change. Things change

for me. They change for you. Don't forget, we're in this together.

And our priorities should be somewhat of the same.

But sometimes I just want to do what I want to do, not what you think I could.

I want you to have what you desire.

As long as that doesn't interfere with what we have in terms of our marriage

our kids, I'm all for it. All right? Okay.

I want her to be happy. I love when she's happy. I like when she's excited

the things that she does.

And if I had held her back in any form or fashion, she wouldn't have done some

amazing things.

Our next couple will come to the circle.

That couple will be Lisa and her new husband, Dr.

Aiden.

No, cover up. He likes his women covered up on him. Let me help you out.

I believe my husband is a good man. I don't believe my husband. But I do

that we have to work on our trust and transparency.

Okay, honey.

The last time we were talking about transparency, and I need to be as 100 %

transparent as possible.

It's not just not telling little lies and being 100 % honest. I know I can

be kind of rigid.

And my ways of thinking, you know, and what I think we should have in a

and what I don't think we should have in a marriage.

We've been through so much in our marriage.

And we've learned to get through it.

But when information is withheld, it's like a lie too, you know. And

I'm just at a place where I feel like if you don't have trust.

You don't have a marriage.

It just causes you to wonder, you know, when you get off from the hospital and

you take two hours to get home, where are you? Are you really taking time to

finish up your charts, or did you take a little detour to a bar to get a drink?

Coming up, I know I need to, like, just trust that when you say you're going to

be somewhere, you're there.

We've been through so much in our marriage, and we've learned to get

But when information is withheld, it's like a lie, too, you know? And I'm just

at a place where I feel like if you don't have trust, you don't have a

I know I need to, like, just trust that when you say you're going to be

somewhere, you're there.

But I'm that way because of all that we've been through.

Sometimes people feel like because you were able to overcome

it and because you were able to forgive and forget, that it doesn't

hurt. And it does.

You know?

It takes a lot of strength to move past that.

Maybe there's part of me that's hindering me from telling some of these

because our relationship or our past, okay, and also you probably give that

energy that I don't want to tell you some of these things.

So it's got to be both ways for you.

Okay.

It is very difficult to watch her be such a strong woman in certain areas and

such a weak woman in this area. And I'm not saying that Darren is cheating now,

but there are different levels of cheating. You don't have to just cheat

bedroom. You know, you can cheat by lying to me.

I mean, it all hurts the same.

Trust is the foundation of growth of everything, from our relationship.

to our family relationship, to our friends' relationship. If you don't have

trust, you don't have anything.

When you believe that God has picked this woman for me,

he is going to make sure we get through.

The challenges, because there are going to be challenges. The obstacles, because

there are going to be obstacles. The hills, the valleys.

But in the end, when we're 80 years old, we're going to be sitting on top of

that mountain because we've been through the valleys. We've been through the

lows. We've been through the obstacles because God chose this person for me.

Next time on Married to Medicine.

Toya, you can be mean sometimes.

And your friends even know it.

They want to be your friend. I want to be your husband. But it can be rough.

If you're not there, I bet you it's boring.

No, Mariah, that baby.

Ooh, and I need a break from that bitch, too.

It's like, you know what?

If you're not over it, stay away.

But I'm not going to fake it that, like, y 'all didn't lie on me. I'm not. I

lied? Yes.

Girl!

What's going on?

Y 'all better check that bitch. And we're done with you.

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