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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,800 Procrastination isn't about laziness. 2 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:05,440 It's ADHD paralysis. A full body 3 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:07,040 shutdown in the face of something you 4 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:09,679 desperately want to do but just can't. 5 00:00:09,679 --> 00:00:11,519 Not because you don't care, but because 6 00:00:11,519 --> 00:00:14,160 your brain won't let you. There are just 7 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:16,240 too many options. There's too much 8 00:00:16,240 --> 00:00:18,160 judgment. You feel ashamed. Everything 9 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:19,920 needs to be perfect. You'll never get 10 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:22,960 this done anyway. Yeah, you're right. 11 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:25,439 You will never get anything done like 12 00:00:25,439 --> 00:00:27,199 this. In a few weeks from now, you'll be 13 00:00:27,199 --> 00:00:29,920 in the exact same spot as right now. 14 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:31,679 Shaming yourself for not following 15 00:00:31,679 --> 00:00:34,239 through on what you wanted to do. How do 16 00:00:34,239 --> 00:00:37,360 I know? I've spent years shaming myself, 17 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:39,360 waiting for motivation to magically 18 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:41,680 appear until I realized something huge. 19 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:44,719 I was fighting against my ADHD brain 20 00:00:44,719 --> 00:00:47,280 instead of working with it. Today, I'm 21 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:50,480 sharing 11 super easy ADHD hacks that 22 00:00:50,480 --> 00:00:52,879 helped me stop procrastinating without 23 00:00:52,879 --> 00:00:55,199 motivation or willpower. And these 24 00:00:55,199 --> 00:00:58,079 aren't some recycled tips. Half of them 25 00:00:58,079 --> 00:01:00,559 you've probably never heard of before. 26 00:01:00,559 --> 00:01:03,120 And they actually work. With these in 27 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:05,760 hand, I don't just start tasks. I enjoy 28 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:08,400 them. No more spiraling, no more dread, 29 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:11,200 just effortless momentum and that sweet 30 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:13,680 addictive hyperfocus where time vanishes 31 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:15,600 and your to-do list basically eats 32 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:18,000 itself. These hacks helped me quit my 9 33 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:20,320 to5, build a business, and show up 34 00:01:20,320 --> 00:01:23,119 consistently online for 5 years. For 35 00:01:23,119 --> 00:01:24,960 most people, starting a task is like 36 00:01:24,960 --> 00:01:27,119 turning a key in the ignition. For ADHD 37 00:01:27,119 --> 00:01:28,880 brains, it's like trying to start a car 38 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:31,840 with no gas, and the map keeps changing. 39 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:34,560 We need dopamine to get moving, but our 40 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:36,720 brain doesn't release it unless the task 41 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:39,600 feels urgent, novel, or emotionally 42 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:42,000 charged. So, we sit there, engine 43 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:44,159 running cold, not because we don't care, 44 00:01:44,159 --> 00:01:46,399 but because we're running on empty. This 45 00:01:46,399 --> 00:01:48,799 is why so much advice out there will 46 00:01:48,799 --> 00:01:51,280 never work for us. You can't time block 47 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:53,360 your way out of ADHD procrastination. 48 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:55,439 You can't willpower your way through a 49 00:01:55,439 --> 00:01:57,840 dopamine drought. But there are ways to 50 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:00,479 make it happen the ADHD way. By the way, 51 00:02:00,479 --> 00:02:03,040 I'm Nick. Over 3 million people follow 52 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:04,799 this channel because they're done with 53 00:02:04,799 --> 00:02:07,119 fluffy tips that don't work. They want 54 00:02:07,119 --> 00:02:09,599 something real. If that's you, hit 55 00:02:09,599 --> 00:02:11,840 subscribe and join a community that's 56 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:14,800 rewriting their ADHD story, one messy 57 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:17,440 win at a time. Here's the thing. 58 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:19,920 Procrastination isn't black and white. 59 00:02:19,920 --> 00:02:22,000 There's not just one version of you that 60 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:24,720 procrastinates. If you have ADHD, 61 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:26,800 there's likely a whole cast of 62 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:29,280 characters in your head, each with a 63 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:31,200 different set of challenges that need to 64 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:33,280 be addressed. Let's meet them. By the 65 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:35,280 way, stick around until the end for the 66 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:37,920 most relatable procrastinator type, and 67 00:02:37,920 --> 00:02:39,920 to find out which archetype most 68 00:02:39,920 --> 00:02:41,920 accurately represents you and your 69 00:02:41,920 --> 00:02:43,680 challenges. I made a quick three-minute 70 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:45,760 quiz combined with the best solutions. 71 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:48,319 The overwhelm avoider. If you have ADHD, 72 00:02:48,319 --> 00:02:50,400 your brain doesn't just struggle with 73 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:52,720 tasks, it struggles with sorting. Too 74 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:54,959 many options, too many thoughts, no 75 00:02:54,959 --> 00:02:57,360 clear signal, just noise. The 76 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:59,440 overwhelmed avoider is drowning in too 77 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:01,599 much unfiltered information. Their brain 78 00:03:01,599 --> 00:03:03,920 can't sort it efficiently, which has led 79 00:03:03,920 --> 00:03:06,400 to chronic paralysis and shutdown. Could 80 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:09,200 this be you? Let's test it right now. 81 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:10,959 Think about the one task you've been 82 00:03:10,959 --> 00:03:13,280 avoiding. You notice that tension? Our 83 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:15,920 goal isn't to make that go away, but to 84 00:03:15,920 --> 00:03:18,800 work with it. But this archetype isn't 85 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:20,159 just bogged down by too much 86 00:03:20,159 --> 00:03:22,800 information. It's also overwhelmed by 87 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:26,000 emotion. ADHD feelings hit too hard too 88 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:28,400 fast, which can freeze you in place. 89 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:30,640 That's why before we talk strategy, we 90 00:03:30,640 --> 00:03:32,640 need to get real about what's actually 91 00:03:32,640 --> 00:03:35,360 going on underneath. Because the task 92 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:37,440 isn't the threat, it's what the task 93 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:39,120 represents. You're not scared to write 94 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:40,879 the email. You're scared of being 95 00:03:40,879 --> 00:03:42,959 judged. You're not avoiding the paper. 96 00:03:42,959 --> 00:03:44,879 You're avoiding feeling stupid. 97 00:03:44,879 --> 00:03:47,280 Procrastination isn't failure. It's 98 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:49,200 protection. Your brain is trying to keep 99 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:51,599 you emotionally safe. So the real 100 00:03:51,599 --> 00:03:53,599 question is, how do you soften that 101 00:03:53,599 --> 00:03:55,760 tension? How do you tell your nervous 102 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:58,080 system it's safe to begin? Well, 103 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,239 firstly, we need to recognize that 104 00:04:00,239 --> 00:04:02,720 procrastination equals unprocessed 105 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:04,560 emotion. When your brain's full of 106 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:07,040 noise, thoughts, emotions, panic, it's 107 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:08,879 hard to tell what's actually blocking 108 00:04:08,879 --> 00:04:11,360 you. That's why I've learned to do one 109 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:14,720 simple thing. Externalize it. Get the 110 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:17,120 emotion out of your head and onto the 111 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:19,680 page. Asking yourself, "What am I really 112 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:21,840 feeling about this task?" Fear of 113 00:04:21,840 --> 00:04:24,639 failure, embarrassment, uncertainty, 114 00:04:24,639 --> 00:04:27,040 whatever it is, give it a name. Because 115 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:30,240 when emotion has a name, it has shape. 116 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:32,960 And once it has shape, it starts to lose 117 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:35,520 its power. But the overwhelmed avoider 118 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:37,919 doesn't just freeze from emotion. It 119 00:04:37,919 --> 00:04:40,400 gets crushed by choices, right? Too many 120 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:42,240 options, too many steps. Your brain 121 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:44,400 spirals and suddenly doing anything 122 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:46,720 feels impossible. The hack here is to 123 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:49,280 talk to yourself like a confused intern. 124 00:04:49,280 --> 00:04:50,800 Yeah, you heard me right. And no, it's 125 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:52,160 not about telling yourself to get more 126 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:53,759 coffee. That's not the point of this and 127 00:04:53,759 --> 00:04:55,680 that would be cheating. The point is to 128 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:58,560 shift from judgment to curiosity. Ask 129 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:00,000 yourself, "All right, buddy. What's the 130 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,000 first step? Where's the login?" Keep it 131 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:04,639 basic. No pressure. Just guiding 132 00:05:04,639 --> 00:05:06,400 yourself like you would someone totally 133 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:08,880 new. This breaks the decision paralysis 134 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:11,360 loop and helps you start moving without 135 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:14,240 all the self-lame. Then once you've made 136 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:16,240 that tiny bit of progress, go get that 137 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:18,320 coffee. You earned it. But remember, 138 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:20,160 even if you're riding the dopamine wave 139 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:22,880 now, the inner critic doesn't disappear 140 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:24,400 overnight. 141 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:27,520 That's why you got to plan for it. 142 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:29,919 Scheduling panic windows. Here's the 143 00:05:29,919 --> 00:05:33,199 truth. Trying to avoid anxiety doesn't 144 00:05:33,199 --> 00:05:35,840 work. It just makes it louder, right? So 145 00:05:35,840 --> 00:05:38,320 instead, we schedule it. Tell yourself, 146 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:40,560 "All right, I'll panic at 3:00 p.m., but 147 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:42,560 right now, I'm just going to write one 148 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:44,639 sentence." I know this sounds 149 00:05:44,639 --> 00:05:47,520 ridiculous, but it works. You're giving 150 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:49,600 your brain a sense of control. You're 151 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:52,160 not denying the anxiety. You're just 152 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:54,800 containing it, putting it in a box for 153 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:57,520 later. That tiny act sends a powerful 154 00:05:57,520 --> 00:05:59,520 signal. Hey, I hear you. I'm not 155 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:01,360 ignoring you, but we're okay right now. 156 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:03,280 It creates a pocket of psychological 157 00:06:03,280 --> 00:06:05,360 safety. And in that pocket, you can 158 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:07,280 start. You're not fighting your brain. 159 00:06:07,280 --> 00:06:09,840 You're working with it on your terms. 160 00:06:09,840 --> 00:06:11,919 The overwhelmed avoider is often frozen 161 00:06:11,919 --> 00:06:13,759 by shame, dread, and emotional 162 00:06:13,759 --> 00:06:16,319 overwhelm. What you need is safety, 163 00:06:16,319 --> 00:06:19,199 emotional naming, and low stakes entry. 164 00:06:19,199 --> 00:06:22,160 That is unless you're the frustrated 165 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:24,800 starter. This is the version of you that 166 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:27,759 wants to get moving. Emotions are clear. 167 00:06:27,759 --> 00:06:30,639 You know what to do, but your brain just 168 00:06:30,639 --> 00:06:33,199 won't budge. No matter how small you try 169 00:06:33,199 --> 00:06:35,759 to start, you're running on empty. So, 170 00:06:35,759 --> 00:06:38,400 what now? Is this a lost cause? Not even 171 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:40,960 close. See, in the neurotypical world, 172 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:43,120 there's this idea, eat the frog. You may 173 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:45,199 have heard it. Do the hardest thing 174 00:06:45,199 --> 00:06:47,280 first and get it out the way. Nice 175 00:06:47,280 --> 00:06:50,160 theory. But for ADHD brains, that's like 176 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:52,319 trying to deadlift a car. Neurotypical 177 00:06:52,319 --> 00:06:54,800 brains get dopamine after completing a 178 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:57,600 task, but we need it before we even 179 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:00,560 begin. That's where reverse rewards come 180 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:02,560 in. That's right. You got to reward 181 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:05,120 yourself first. Play music, go for an 182 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:07,599 inspiring jog or walk, catch up with a 183 00:07:07,599 --> 00:07:10,160 friend, because this resets and charges 184 00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:12,639 up your brain. So, it actually has the 185 00:07:12,639 --> 00:07:15,520 ability to tackle that task. It makes 186 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:17,759 starting feel like a win, not a chore. 187 00:07:17,759 --> 00:07:19,840 And once you've got some of that spark 188 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:22,000 back, you got to try this bonus move. 189 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:24,560 It's called chain reaction tasking. 190 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:26,720 Picking one small piece of the dreaded 191 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:29,599 task, just one, then linking it to 192 00:07:29,599 --> 00:07:32,000 something enjoyable, you'll only get 193 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:34,319 after that piece is done. It turns 194 00:07:34,319 --> 00:07:37,120 effort into a game your brain actually 195 00:07:37,120 --> 00:07:40,000 wants to play. And once you've got some 196 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:43,199 energy, you really got to ditch all the 197 00:07:43,199 --> 00:07:45,919 non AADHD advice. Forget about 198 00:07:45,919 --> 00:07:49,680 motivation and focus on micro momentum. 199 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:52,000 The goal isn't to go hard, it's to go 200 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:54,560 gentle. We're not chasing perfection. 201 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:56,960 We're chasing movement. Sometimes the 202 00:07:56,960 --> 00:07:59,840 win isn't finishing the task. It's just 203 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:01,840 starting it. Finding the log and opening 204 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:04,319 the dock, writing the title. That's it. 205 00:08:04,319 --> 00:08:07,039 You're in motion now. ADHD brains love 206 00:08:07,039 --> 00:08:10,000 quick wins. They build dopamine and 207 00:08:10,000 --> 00:08:12,879 break the seal. And from there, momentum 208 00:08:12,879 --> 00:08:14,800 snowballs. It's like a ball rolling down 209 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:17,039 a hill. Starts slow, then picks up 210 00:08:17,039 --> 00:08:18,879 speed. Kind of like those brain rotting 211 00:08:18,879 --> 00:08:20,560 Tik Toks where you just need to see the 212 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:22,400 rock hit the ground. Seriously, just 213 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:24,479 show me the rock. Anyway, here's the 214 00:08:24,479 --> 00:08:27,919 formula that actually works. Action 215 00:08:27,919 --> 00:08:30,560 leads to emotion, which leads to more 216 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:34,240 action, not the other way around. So, if 217 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:36,399 you're the frustrated starter, pick your 218 00:08:36,399 --> 00:08:38,719 tiniest step, then pair it with 219 00:08:38,719 --> 00:08:40,880 something that feels good, and you'll be 220 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:43,440 amazed at the effects. But maybe 221 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:45,839 frustration isn't the problem. Maybe 222 00:08:45,839 --> 00:08:47,519 you're just bored out of your mind. 223 00:08:47,519 --> 00:08:50,640 Enter the dopamine chaser. This version 224 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:53,440 of you doesn't care about shoods, 225 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:55,839 deadlines, or whatever productivity app 226 00:08:55,839 --> 00:08:57,760 you swore would change your life last 227 00:08:57,760 --> 00:09:01,839 week. It craves novelty, urgency, a hint 228 00:09:01,839 --> 00:09:04,720 of chaos just to feel alive. And while 229 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:07,680 yeah, we procrastinate like pros, we're 230 00:09:07,680 --> 00:09:10,160 also the same people who can crush a 231 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:12,720 week's worth of work in 2 hours when the 232 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:15,600 pressure hits. And here's the thing. 233 00:09:15,600 --> 00:09:18,720 That's not a weakness. That's a lever if 234 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:21,279 you know how to use it. We don't beat 235 00:09:21,279 --> 00:09:24,080 the dopamine seeker. We feed it. Making 236 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:26,640 things a challenge. I started a list 237 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:29,839 called stuff I can't do, then made it my 238 00:09:29,839 --> 00:09:32,640 mission to prove myself wrong. That tiny 239 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:34,720 spark of rebellion, that's dopamine. 240 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:37,519 ADHD brains are wildly competitive. We 241 00:09:37,519 --> 00:09:40,080 just need the right game. We rise to the 242 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:43,040 occasion when it feels like a challenge, 243 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:44,959 not a chore. But even with all that 244 00:09:44,959 --> 00:09:47,120 dopamine, sometimes the front doors 245 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:50,800 still locked. Side quests. And so if you 246 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:52,880 still can't start that big task, sneak 247 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:55,120 in through the side, design a slide, 248 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:57,760 pick a color scheme, write the title, do 249 00:09:57,760 --> 00:10:00,160 the part that feels fun or weirdly 250 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:02,640 satisfying. ADHD brains aren't powered 251 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:04,480 by importance, they're powered by 252 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:07,360 interest. So, start where the spark is 253 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:09,440 because sometimes momentum doesn't come 254 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:11,920 from pressure, it comes from play. But 255 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:14,240 then again, sometimes it's not that you 256 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:15,839 can't start the task, it's that you 257 00:10:15,839 --> 00:10:17,680 really shouldn't. That's where the next 258 00:10:17,680 --> 00:10:21,440 hack comes in. Pivots. ADHD brains are 259 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:23,680 fascinated by the new and novel and 260 00:10:23,680 --> 00:10:26,959 repelled by the boring and ordinary. So 261 00:10:26,959 --> 00:10:29,120 if you suddenly lose motivation for a 262 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:30,959 task that you used to care about, it's 263 00:10:30,959 --> 00:10:34,000 not failure, it's wiring. Learn to ask 264 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:36,800 yourself, is this actually urgent right 265 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:39,839 now, or am I just trying to force it? If 266 00:10:39,839 --> 00:10:42,079 it's not time-sensitive, give yourself 267 00:10:42,079 --> 00:10:44,959 permission to pivot. Shift your energy 268 00:10:44,959 --> 00:10:46,800 elsewhere. Do something completely out 269 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:49,040 of the ordinary for a couple of days or 270 00:10:49,040 --> 00:10:51,839 hours. And here's why it works. Absence 271 00:10:51,839 --> 00:10:54,399 reignites dopamine. When you step away 272 00:10:54,399 --> 00:10:56,640 from a task and come back later, your 273 00:10:56,640 --> 00:10:59,200 brain often has more clarity and energy 274 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:02,240 to tackle it due to dopamine that has 275 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:04,880 been refound. So, next time you hit a 276 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:08,000 wall, try this. Pick one challenge, one 277 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:10,560 side door, one weirdly fun starting 278 00:11:10,560 --> 00:11:13,760 point, and let novelty pull you forward. 279 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:15,760 But here's the hard truth. None of these 280 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:18,160 hacks will work if you're already burned 281 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:21,440 out. Enter the burned out perfectionist. 282 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:24,000 Picture someone curled up in a corner, 283 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:26,640 crushed by self-criticism. They feel 284 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:28,959 everything too much, and they're just 285 00:11:28,959 --> 00:11:31,040 trying to protect themselves from more 286 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:33,839 pain. That's what perfectionism does. It 287 00:11:33,839 --> 00:11:36,880 paralyzes your progress with the fear of 288 00:11:36,880 --> 00:11:39,120 not being good enough. And that part of 289 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:41,920 you, it doesn't need more clever tricks. 290 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:43,920 It needs healing. This is the version of 291 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:47,120 you that's been bruised by false starts, 292 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:49,680 unfinished projects, and too many shame 293 00:11:49,680 --> 00:11:52,399 spirals. the part that's tired of the 294 00:11:52,399 --> 00:11:54,880 boom and bust cycle. It's not asking for 295 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:56,959 motivation. It's begging for 296 00:11:56,959 --> 00:11:59,120 consistency, something solid, something 297 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:01,600 that sticks. So instead of chasing 298 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:03,839 perfect results, we chase something 299 00:12:03,839 --> 00:12:06,639 simpler. Timebased goals over 300 00:12:06,639 --> 00:12:09,120 outcomebased goals. When you sit down to 301 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:11,360 work, don't say, "I'll finish this." 302 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:14,000 Say, "I'll show up for 30 minutes." It's 303 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:16,480 simple, but it changes everything. 304 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:18,560 Because outcomes are unpredictable, but 305 00:12:18,560 --> 00:12:20,720 time that's something that you can 306 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:22,800 choose. Every time you begin, you 307 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:25,279 reinforce the belief, I'm someone who 308 00:12:25,279 --> 00:12:27,839 takes action. That identity shift, 309 00:12:27,839 --> 00:12:30,000 that's how you build long-term 310 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:32,959 self-rust. Not by doing everything, just 311 00:12:32,959 --> 00:12:36,560 by keeping one small honest promise at a 312 00:12:36,560 --> 00:12:40,399 time. And now we come to the final type. 313 00:12:40,399 --> 00:12:43,920 The one most ADHDers relate to. The one 314 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:46,160 that got way too good at lastminute 315 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:48,959 miracles. The deadline driver. For this 316 00:12:48,959 --> 00:12:51,760 archetype, time doesn't feel real until 317 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:53,760 the deadline is breathing down your 318 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:56,720 neck. Pressure isn't optional. It's the 319 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:59,040 only way you'll get things done. But it 320 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:00,880 can't just be a rudimentary deadline you 321 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:03,360 set for yourself. No, you need to feel 322 00:13:03,360 --> 00:13:05,200 like someone's counting on you. 323 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:07,279 Otherwise, the task might as well not 324 00:13:07,279 --> 00:13:10,880 exist. That was me every single day 325 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:13,200 until I learned how to simulate that 326 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:16,160 deadline energy on demand. Not once a 327 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:19,279 month, not once a week, every single 328 00:13:19,279 --> 00:13:22,480 day. The trick isn't motivation, it's 329 00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:25,360 outsourcing it. You need an external 330 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:28,560 trigger, a real one. Chat GBT can help 331 00:13:28,560 --> 00:13:31,440 as a personal coach, sure, but AI only 332 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:33,600 goes so far. You need a person, someone 333 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:35,519 you're committed to and who's committed 334 00:13:35,519 --> 00:13:38,320 to you. It could be a coach, a friend, a 335 00:13:38,320 --> 00:13:41,200 professor, anyone who knows what you're 336 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:43,760 trying to do and when you're trying to 337 00:13:43,760 --> 00:13:45,760 do it. That's the power of 338 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:48,000 accountability. And for many ADHDers, 339 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:50,800 it's the single most effective tool to 340 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:53,440 break through procrastination if you use 341 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:55,279 it right. And maybe you've already tried 342 00:13:55,279 --> 00:13:57,040 accountability partners. Lots of people 343 00:13:57,040 --> 00:14:00,160 do it. But here's what happens to 99% of 344 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:02,639 people who try this approach. It works 345 00:14:02,639 --> 00:14:04,720 great for a few days, maybe even a 346 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:08,160 couple of weeks. But then you just stop. 347 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:10,000 You crash right back to your 348 00:14:10,000 --> 00:14:12,639 procrastination baseline like nothing 349 00:14:12,639 --> 00:14:14,880 ever happened and you're searching for 350 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:17,199 the next focus or productivity hack. If 351 00:14:17,199 --> 00:14:19,519 this is you, you just need to learn how 352 00:14:19,519 --> 00:14:22,800 to use accountability the right way in 353 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:25,839 order to take full advantage of it. So 354 00:14:25,839 --> 00:14:27,920 which type did you relate to most? With 355 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:29,839 all these different types, you may now 356 00:14:29,839 --> 00:14:31,839 still be confused as to how to really 357 00:14:31,839 --> 00:14:34,000 solve this for yourself. Chances are you 358 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:36,480 have a dominant type, which is exactly 359 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:39,120 why I created the procrastination 360 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:41,600 archetype quiz. If you're curious as to 361 00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:43,839 what that type is, just click the link 362 00:14:43,839 --> 00:14:45,760 in the description and it'll take you 363 00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:47,680 straight to the quiz. Takes less than 3 364 00:14:47,680 --> 00:14:49,519 minutes. It's going to show you exactly 365 00:14:49,519 --> 00:14:51,920 what your dominant type is, how it's 366 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:54,480 been sabotaging your life, and most 367 00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:57,199 importantly, how to actually fix it. But 368 00:14:57,199 --> 00:14:59,040 here's where it gets really good. for 369 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:01,360 each specific type. I recorded an 370 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:04,720 indepth video that shows you exactly how 371 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:07,760 to overcome procrastination and actually 372 00:15:07,760 --> 00:15:10,560 use your archetype as your superpower to 373 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:12,880 get laser focused effortlessly. And 374 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:15,279 look, I know there's a ton of content 375 00:15:15,279 --> 00:15:17,680 out there on ADHD and procrastination, 376 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:19,360 but here's the thing. You're still here 377 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:21,360 watching this video because you haven't 378 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:23,360 overcome it yet, right? And that's 379 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:26,480 because most advice treats everyone the 380 00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:28,399 same. But different types of 381 00:15:28,399 --> 00:15:30,959 procrastinators need totally different 382 00:15:30,959 --> 00:15:33,440 solutions. What works for one person 383 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:35,600 might actually make things worse for 384 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:38,320 another. So do yourself a favor, click 385 00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:40,800 that link below, take the quiz, and 386 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:42,560 let's finally beat this thing for good. 387 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:44,560 It's time to get a solution that's 388 00:15:44,560 --> 00:15:48,000 personalized to you so that you can 389 00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:51,360 finally live the life that you deserve. 390 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:54,240 See you there.28405

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