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You think you know your neighbors?

Think again.

All over the world, normal.

Everyday couples are taking a bold step in their relationships.

They're swingers.

And there's no denying they're getting more than their share of incredible sex.

But is the lifestyle right for everyone?

I'm sexologist Jessica O'Reilly,

and I'm here to welcome a brand new couple into the lifestyle.

It's a pretty beard.

It's always a pretty beard.

She's not missing it.

My name is Jess.

And I'm John.

And we've been together for four years now.

It's actually kind of a funny story how we met.

My roommates little sister and I were together at the time.

I was best friends with her.

We met through her at a party.

One thing led to another and we started dating.

How are they like?

Fantastic.

Our sex life is great right now.

I think we have sex.

Good night the week.

Your boots are more difficult than my corsets.

We love cosplay, steampunk, and dressing up as superheroes, that sort of thing.

The only problem is finding a superhero with a beard.

You should just make your own superhero.

I am a superhero.

I would say we're ready to take it to the next level.

Cosplay helps spice it up, but I think we're ready to make it a little bit spicier.

Will they be glad they dove in head first?

Or will they wish they had never left home?

Hang on tight.

It's time to swing.

Your dress looks good today.

Thank you.

You look awesome today.

Thank you.

I think Victorian attire is extremely sexy.

Especially when you wear it.

Of course it's sexy.

Hey!

Jess and I both have a bit of a shy personality.

That's something we hope to work on here in the swing house.

We want to be able to come out of our shells a bit and be able to be a little bit more extroverted.

I think I'm definitely more excited than nervous.

How about you?

I think I'm definitely more excited than nervous.

I'm definitely interested in really learning how to flirt and play with girls.

I'm really interested in you learning that too.

I'm sure you are.

Like I am.

We're hoping for a full swap and we're hoping that Jess is going to get a chance to play with women.

To see if she really does enjoy it.

I think it's going to be a really good experience for us.

We're going to learn a lot.

I think it's definitely going to help us with our communication.

We already talk a lot.

We already communicate pretty well.

There's always room for improvement.

Exactly.

I think this will help with that.

What we're looking to get out of swinging is mostly we just want to need poor people who are like-minded,

who are pretty much open for anything.

Wow! Welcome to the swing house!

Thank you!

Hello Riley.

Jess.

To me too Jess.

John, nice to meet you.

Lovely to have you both here.

You're looking fabulous.

Thank you.

I know you're going to make quite the impression but before you meet all the other couples we have one important piece of business to take care of.

Okay, that's right.

After you.

Thank you.

Well the lifestyle has changed me in many ways but the most important way I feel is that it's made me more competent and comfortable with myself.

I personally think that being too shy is not good but being able to swing and be comfortable and make that connection with people who have to be able to communicate on some level.

But if you're not really speaking up there's just leaving a lot of room for disaster for miscommunication.

If you are shy not to say that you can't get into this and get over it but you have to work on it.

You have to start speaking up.

So what brought you here?

What made you decide to come to the swing house?

We're always up to trying new things and we were always looking for the next new adventure and for us this is an adventure into our relationship and experiencing just war about the lifestyle.

What are you excited for?

I think threesomes and definitely her.

More experience with girls.

I'm so behind on how to flirt with girls.

I almost come off as a freshman in high school.

It's kind of adorable.

Alright so you want to learn how to flirt with girls?

Are you nervous about the actual performance with girls?

I am but I think they have a lot of good knowledge that I could flirt or not just becoming more comfortable with my own sexuality.

What kind of ladies are you attracted to?

Just girls like to have fun.

And you said threesomes not one threesomes so what do you mean by threesomes?

We would love it if we could both be in separate threesomes at the same time in the same room.

That way we're both able to have as much fun as possible with each other but still doing something separate but together if that makes sense.

That makes sense.

So you want a full swap plus one.

Right.

Okay tell me what you want your threesome to look like.

I would love it to be with two women and just as much fun as can be had with that.

And so for your threesome because you're into women and guys how would you like your threesome to play out?

I mean I could do threesome with two guys, two girls or a girl and a guy.

Pretty much it opened to any combination of those.

So I'm picturing two threesomes side by side what if only one of you is able to find threesome?

Perhaps you have chemistry but two people and you're not feeling it.

Are you comfortable with just going ahead with that?

Absolutely. We've actually never had a jealousy issue.

We've been together for four years.

We've never had an argument even once.

You've never had an argument?

Not once.

Do you agree on everything?

No.

We've got our argument to the other person and come to an agreement.

Okay and have you talked about what your rules are, your limitations, your boundaries, anything you don't want to do?

She does not do anything anal and condoms are a must for us.

Okay. Anything else? You'll do anything?

Pretty much with women.

With women? Okay. No choking. I don't like the choking.

Okay so you don't like it too rough? No. Fair enough.

So do you have any fears coming into this? You must be a little bit nervous.

I think we're a little bit nervous that we'll get along with the other couples and that they won't see the outfits and immediately go, who are these weirdos?

And how about you Jess? Do you have any nerves or hesitations coming in?

I think my nerves and everything about the same is his.

Just you know, making sure we get along with everyone.

I mean, we're here to experience something and have fun and learn and that's what I really just hope we do.

All right. Well I have your contract that helps to outline the rules of the swing house.

I'm going to ask you to read through the contract and if you're feeling comfortable you can sign at the bottom.

Okay. Sounds great.

Okay. We have agreed to embark on a sexual adventure over the next two days during which all the normal rules of monogamous relationships will temporary be set aside.

I'm really glad we and John had that opportunity to talk to Jessica and just being able to verbalize what's going to happen, what's the boundaries and what's expected.

Perfect. All right. Well, I'll hold on to this.

Okay.

Are you feeling excited?

Yes.

Okay. You can go check out your room and then you're going to meet the other couples and I wish you an amazing day. I'll see you later tonight.

All right.

Oh wow.

This looks awesome.

Oh my gosh.

This is so pretty.

Wow.

Ooh.

We have a little gift box.

Oh.

Awesome stuff.

That looks cool.

Yes.

That's bad.

It's amazing.

After spending the most in the morning talking about sex, me and John are feeling kind of hot.

Jess and I generally don't really role play, but just wearing the costumes is exciting and fun and it kind of puts you in the mood a little bit.

Oh, very nice.

Jess is just having a blast.

She's writhing around and she's smiling and she looks like she's getting close.

That definitely put us more in the mood for what was to come.

So I have my own special way of hitting on people.

I call it spark away.

I like to do a lot of nonverbal gestures, like looking in the eyes, winking, biting my finger.

You know, subtle things that are showing me that I'm interested without bluntly going out and saying, I want to fuck you right now.

Yeah.

She does.

The sport who's coming.

The shoes of the finger a lot.

The finger in the lip or in the mouth thing like a lot.

I look stupid doing it, but you know what you're doing.

The spark away.

You ever been out somewhere and somebody just offers to have sex with you in the bathroom?

Where's the absolutely craziest place in my own sex?

Ferris wheel, I guess would be ours.

Well, all right.

Keep it down, June, you're all busy.

You can't join the mile high club anymore.

It's like virtually impossible.

But I did give him a hand job and...

On the airplane?

On the airplane with somebody sitting right beside me.

Wow.

I think it's the excitement of getting caught maybe?

Yeah.

You're doing something and nobody else knows what you're doing.

Now that you mentioned that we're going car shopping, I'm taking a car for a test drive and we're going to bang in a car.

You sure it's got leather seats, dude?

Cruise control.

Hey, guys.

Hi.

Hi.

Hi.

Hi.

Did you chat?

Nice to meet you.

Hi, I'm Jess.

Nice to meet you.

I'm Jesse.

We decided to wear the steampunk outfits because we wanted to go ahead and get it out there that we're nerds, we're geeks.

We go to conventions. We do this.

We don't want it to be a surprise for them later.

We want them to see right off the bat what our personalities are like and what it is that we do for fun.

It loves us steampunkies.

Thank you.

I love you.

John, out.

Epic beers, man.

Thank you.

Hi, hi.

Hi, let's have a chat with you.

The couples instantly upon seeing us extremely friendly, just welcome us with open arms.

There you go.

Look at that.

Come on.

Come on.

Come on.

I'm a little nervous of how the couples are going to perceive our outfits.

It's not every day you see someone walking around full on Victorian attire.

What are the costumes representative of?

Steampunk.

Victorian era, the weight 1800.

You gotta get out more.

You didn't have a steampunk party in New York?

No.

Wait, wait.

I don't know.

They're awesome.

What is it?

Steampunk is basically an alternate history.

I don't usually wear those type of outfits, but whatever floats their boat, I'm willing to work with them.

So I'm thinking it's kind of hot.

We like to think of it as science fiction meets Victorian.

Yes.

They have a huge, juristic past.

That's exactly what it is.

They all looked a little surprised at the Victorian outfits, but they absolutely loved them.

They were very welcoming.

They were asking lots of questions about Steampunk.

It was just a huge weight off our shoulders.

So I made you guys decide to come to the swing house.

We've had a few friends who are in the lifestyle, and they've been like, you guys need to check it out.

It's a lot of fun.

What is your fantasy while you're here?

It's definitely one of them experienced girls, attracted to girls.

I haven't had the opportunity to play around with them.

There's a lot of girls here that will play.

See!

I see.

I think we also, we both want to try a threesome.

It's something neither of us have done, and we're kind of looking for each of us having our own, just new experience for us.

Have you had any experiences in the lifestyle at all?

Not really now.

Any parties?

No, not really.

Okay.

Do you want someone aggressive towards, or do you guys want to be the aggressors?

Like, how do you guys want to work out?

We're both usually pretty shy, so it's usually a lot easier if somebody kind of...

What are you on the right place?

What about rules?

What do we have?

Rule of life.

What's your rule, everybody?

Pretty much just condoms.

Very good.

Very good.

It's a start.

It's a good start.

Talking about sex isn't something that's too foreign to us.

It's something that happens a lot at conventions and in the nerd community in general.

There's no better place than here to start, because there's no pressure here.

Nobody's going to make you do anything you don't want to do, and...

No expectations.

There's no expectations yet.

We started in your shoes three years ago.

We were here last year.

Exactly.

We know where you're sitting at.

Yeah, everybody gets you.

Gotcha.

We make fantasies happen in this house, don't you worry.

Yes.

Now's a great time for a game so you guys can get to know us a little better.

Okay.

And this game you're luck.

It's called Never Have I.

And so I'm going to tell you something that I never have done, and then if you've done it,

you need to take off an article of clothing.

If nobody has done it, then I will take off an article of clothing.

You ready?

Yes, I'll just do it.

You'll like this one.

Never have I had sex with just my socks on.

Actually, that's great.

I love shoes.

Oh, that's fast.

I kind of feel like me and John have a disadvantage, especially John.

Victorian clothing, there's a lot of layers involved.

Oh, that was awesome.

Alright, you're next.

Okay, well, never have I.

I'm already open.

Never have I used a strap on with a girl.

This doesn't include guys.

Damn!

Oh, yeah!

Nice.

I don't think anyone's objecting.

I'm kind of excited to see the other couples naked.

I think this game is a really good idea because it's really going to help break the ice

as far as getting comfortable with everyone.

Alright, get it.

Never have I lit balls.

Oh, that's so cool.

There we go.

See?

That would be nice.

That would be cute.

I'm so excited.

Alright, you're next.

Never have I ever tried swinging.

That's not going to work next, do you?

Oh, yeah, that's not going to work next year.

As everyone's getting naked, I look over and I see Sparkle and she has amazing breasts.

She has a great personality to go with her great body.

Everyone is just absolutely gorgeous.

I never have I ever been with a girl.

What am I supposed to take off with you guys?

A few people are already naked.

They have nothing else to lose at this point, so Sparkle ups the ante.

Okay, since you have no more clothes to take off, you have to kiss somebody of you.

Her picking.

She did ask a question.

She's like, wow.

This isn't the slow build up we thought it would be.

Jess just kind of fell into the pool with the beef end and here we go.

Nice.

That's how you flirt with a woman.

And you can leave the glasses on too, because they're hot.

Never have I gave a blowjob, ladies?

The one day of the day.

Only glasses, they're gonna be a white spot in this chair.

Never have I been to a steampunk party.

Oh, yeah!

Never have I ever taken two cocks in my costume.

The same time?

Wow, I don't have them for Joannas.

Yeah, I know I'm out of that.

So that means you have to do some damage.

Oh, yeah, I do a journey.

I'm gonna shoot.

Her tits are amazing, so I'd like to put them in the...

Interesting.

Same ball.

I feel like I'm too mad.

I hope we were all in the past.

I gotta say, that's pretty fun.

No, no, no.

You're saying you're great.

Good job.

Pretty much everyone was naked, including me.

I like to read John and he still mostly dressed.

They have a couple of kind of started gearing up questions towards him, mostly with beard questions.

Never have I ever got a cookie juices in my beard before.

Never have I had sex after a convention.

I'm excited at this point.

This game has really helped to cut out kind of the middleman of the small talk.

It's just, hey, let's get to know each other and let's get naked.

It's coming from his beard.

He's losing focus.

I can't do it.

I'm gonna jump in right here.

I'm gonna jump in right here.

I'm okay with it.

You okay with it?

Are you okay with this?

You sure started?

I'm okay with that.

I'm good.

Get out.

My best seat in the house.

I'm a boy.

I feel like I'm off to a good start.

I'm only a few hours into the swing house and I've already had a girl between my legs.

Me and John are pretty excited to see what's gonna happen tonight.

Greetings, a big fat vagina fart.

That's what it is.

Yes, go back.

It's like vaginal farting, but it's not odorous or gross.

No, but this one.

When they say, if you have to sit down and you have a good meal, right, and you belter, you know, you're burping, that's like, oh, it was a good meal, right?

You say it's a sign of good sex.

Yeah, so if you had some really great sex and they're like, oh, look, you were awesome.

They just let out like a whole bunch of air.

That's freaking awesome, right?

Thanks for the good time.

Thanks for the good time.

Come again.

I'll see you now.

Come on.

These pants would be totally awesome today.

No, no.

All right.

I'll wear the white dress.

Tonight we decided to ditch the Victorian outfits for more modern, sexy attire.

So, where are these?

Those would be cute.

Yeah.

What about octopus?

No, no.

Octopus.

We also want to show the residents that there's another side to us instead of just the nerd activities.

What do you think of the couples?

Ginny, I like it.

She's really cute.

Yeah.

It's just very aggressive.

The lady's taking a lead, kind of helps.

He's my nervousness, so.

Yeah, I saw you kind of jumped right into that.

That was hot.

But no, the tusho is awesome too.

She's really hot.

Well, they're all really pretty.

They're all gorgeous people.

Chad and Latisha and Mick and Andrea are both really fantastic couples and we're finding

ourselves really attracted to both of them.

I felt completely comfortable.

And so I kind of just dove on in.

Well, you've definitely had some fun with women so far.

The opportunity presented itself.

Tonight's going to be epic.

Uh, yeah.

Did you see death come in that full or is it?

That was elaborate.

See, the beer was epic.

Did you see me rubbing here?

Yeah, I think he liked that.

I think he liked it.

I'm sure that's a turn on a little bit.

That's really, I can't have a beer like that.

It's too much work.

I think they're going to have a good chance at doing good in life now because they already

like to dress up.

Yeah, they were very open-minded.

They just did a trinity thing.

Yeah, I liked that.

And I think I would like to play the part a little bit tonight.

Yeah, I think she's open anything or you like you for sure.

Yeah, I was kind of neat to see them come out in their steampunk stuff.

I love costumes.

So how do you think they'll do this evening?

As far as she goes and if she wants a girl and a dominant girl, I could be a dominant

girl for her.

Do you think they're ready for what the evening may hold for them?

I think they're shy, but I think they're very easily persuaded to be open, especially

if you're attracted to somebody.

I mean, she's definitely cute.

I think if they keep their communication open and they let their guard down a little bit,

they're going to have a blast.

Yeah, I don't know what tonight's going to bring, but I think it could be fun.

I like the fact that they're actually comfortable with the whole situation.

They're comfortable with the games.

They're down.

I'm not sure 100% what they're looking for right now.

I think they're open.

They're willing and ready to have some fun.

You know what I'm saying?

Yeah.

They can't really go wrong there.

At the end of the day, I honestly think that they are cool people.

And that's the most important thing for me as far as if I'm down to kind of swing with someone

or not.

Have a question for you.

Would you have a three-some little?

That's their thing.

Maybe.

Possibly.

I don't know.

Hi.

We'll see.

Check it out.

If it's any indication of what happened earlier tonight, it's going to be awesome.

Come in.

Hey.

Hello.

You guys look lovely.

Thank you.

Thank you.

That was your day.

It was awesome.

Yes.

Awesome.

All right, tell me about it.

I missed all the fun as I always do.

Well, we've met the new couples and they're all just really nice, really welcoming, making

us feel comfortable.

How's the flirtation going?

Because that's something you wanted to get a bit more comfortable with.

They were kind of like, try to show me pointers.

So I think later tonight I'm going to try to test it.

Yeah, and when you got here, you were a little bit nervous.

So are you feeling less nervous?

Yes.

You seem a lot more relaxed.

Do you seem like your energy is up?

Yeah.

I guess riding that adrenaline high.

Yeah.

Okay, hopefully it can last through the evening.

Definitely.

Okay, good.

Well, there's a cocktail party waiting outside.

So when you're finished and ready to go, I will see you out there.

Okay.

Sounds great.

All right.

How's the beard?

Yours good.

Let's go enjoy the party.

We're going to talk about fetishes.

What?

No, seriously.

What is the most obscure fetish either you've partaken in or you've observed?

I like splashing.

Splashing is rolling around and baked goods and a pudding.

It's basically messy food.

But pies, and you've never tried?

You need a really big countertop for that.

I like pie.

Oh, it's great.

I think we can arrange that.

Yeah, I met these guys.

Hi, I met these guys.

Yeah.

Hey.

Well, John and Jess, I know they have a very exciting and sexy night in store for you,

and these guys are pretty excited as well.

So before I go, I just want to officially welcome you to the swing house,

May tonight count.

So let's raise our glasses to John and Jess and to swing.

Yeah.

Well, I have a little surprise for all of you tonight.

There is a very sexy party bus waiting outside for you.

Yeah.

Oh, yes.

And they're going to take you to a mixology bar where you're going to learn the art of making craft cocktails.

So...

It's me.

I know.

I know we get to come with you, so I'll send you off.

Have a great time, and I will see you both in the morning.

Have so much fun.

Bye, guys.

You know what they say?

Alcohol is a social lubricant.

The party bus pulls up to the bar, and we're all just excited to get in there,

learn how to mix drinks and drink some alcohol.

Everybody ready to mix the drinks tonight?

Yeah!

We're going to start off with three simple drinks that will get everybody started.

We're going to go ahead and start off with our hurricane.

First, we're going to put our ice in the glass, make sure you're ready.

Let's have a good time.

Two basic alcohols in the street.

There's a white rum and there's a dark rum.

It turns a nasty color.

One little wedge of lime.

Yes, we're learning how to do it.

It'll hurt makes it go a long way.

Look at that.

Oh, it was a shakeable.

That's a hard-out, that's a challenge.

Like...

Such a hard-out.

It's a longer struggle.

I'm not sure.

I'm not sure.

I'm not sure.

There's a longer struggle.

Everybody's having a great time pouring some alcohol and I'm really excited to learn how to make these drinks.

I'm taking a second date drink.

You don't want to slap that one on the first date.

We slap anything on the first date.

Woo!

Yes!

Woo!

Woo!

All right!

That's a good one.

You're a method.

Woo!

Now that's a second date drink.

We're hoping this night is a real icebreaker because true swingers kind of try to pull those noobies in,

get them comfortable and break the barrier for them and we're going to get them out.

Guys, next is the super sexy Lemon Drop RTD.

I know it's a bit shiny.

The wind in the glass is not other things around here.

This is a bit of a showstalker in the nightcance.

It's called the Dry Shapes.

Thank you for inviting us.

Woo!

Woo!

Woo!

Woo!

Woo!

Woo!

You're the best one.

We like licking glasses.

Take the timer on a rip.

You can lick it if you want.

You're going to have to...

That's what she said.

That's what she said.

She's licking you and you have to stick it in.

Exactly!

Thank you, boo!

I love you, boo!

The mood was awesome.

Everyone was just excited.

We're ready to go.

You're a Lemon Drop RTD.

Right there, guys.

That's it.

That's it.

That's a lemon one.

That is the best one.

Yeah.

That is the best one.

Yeah.

That's the best one.

I actually have two shots for some newbies in the crowd.

Woo!

Woo!

Me and John have a special drink made for us.

It's a buttery nipple.

So I say you guys pick somebody to take your buttery nipples off of her.

Yeah.

That's a good one.

That can get interesting.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Come here.

Oh, you're picking me?

Oh.

I choose Jenny.

Because I'm really feeling her.

She's been kind of aggressive, which I kind of like, but not too aggressive to turn me off.

Hold this.

Get in it.

Get in it.

Get in it.

You go right and she goes there.

I'm going to play this in your mouth.

Oh, my God.

Woo!

Yeah.

Oh.

Woo!

Let me tell you, this girl has an amazing rack to take a shot off of.

John!

Woo!

I'm going to jump in.

Woo!

That was awesome.

That was awesome.

That was awesome.

John, who do you want to take yours?

Buttery nipples off of.

How about sparkles?

Ah!

Yeah!

Oh, my God.

Yeah.

I picked sparkle because I've been wanting to get my faces close to those boobs as I can

all night.

I got it.

Look.

Oh, my God.

Big down.

Oh, my God.

Oh, my God.

Oh, my God.

Oh, my God.

Oh, my God.

Nice.

Nice.

Nice.

Woo!

Woo!

She just leans over and basically pours it into my mouth.

I'm just enjoying this immensely.

Oh, my God.

Oh, my God.

I'm so excited.

I'm going to show it up right now.

Right.

Oh.

Oh.

Oh.

Oh.

Switch.

Switch.

Switch.

Switch.

Switch.

Switch.

Oh, my God.

Oh.

Buttery nipples.

It's been a blast so far and we just want to keep the party going.

I'm getting really excited to see what's going to happen the rest of the night.

Oh.

Oh.

Oh, my God.

We know how you got through college.

Oh, my God.

And we love that.

We're all certain that it has loosened up, some music going on and we definitely see

them start to come out of their shell at this point.

Oh, my God.

Oh, my God.

Oh, my God.

Oh, my God.

Oh, my God.

Oh, my God.

Oh, my God.

Oh, my God.

Oh, my God.

Whoa, I didn't know John had that in him.

It was actually kind of sexy.

Oh, my God.

My eyes are on Ginny and Sparkle.

I'm just gonna play around with them.

Let's go!

Yeah!

Yeah!

Yeah!

Yeah!

Yeah!

Yeah!

Yeah!

Yeah!

Yeah!

Yeah!

Yeah!

Yeah!

Yeah!

Yeah!

Yeah!

That's a fireball!

Yeah!

Everyone wants to keep the party going.

It's pretty obvious that everybody kind of wants to go down to the Red Room.

I'm ready.

And Jess is too.

Yeah, help them.

Come on!

Oh!

Oh!

Hi!

Walking into the Red Room is an altogether different experience.

There are mattresses everywhere.

There are toys.

It is set up for sex.

Shae-hoo!

Can you tell me what you're saying?

Shae!

Shae is a one-coachie.

Oh, my God.

Do you like the high-coachie?

You're not scared of it, are you?

Oh!

So, Jimmy and Sparkle are coming down on the mattress, and Jimmy pulls out the magic wand.

How do you mean you're here?

How do you mean you're here?

They're kissing on me, they're touching me, and I'm just enjoying every minute of it.

Woo!

Oh, johone.

Oh!

Oh!

Oh!

Oh!

Oh!

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Still being a little bit nervous to kicking back, letting loose, and just enjoying the moment.

This whole experience is really new, but I'm just feeling really good.

They're just making me feel absolutely beautiful.

Did you know that you like it?

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It did not really bother me that John didn't check in with me, but in the real swinging world, just grabbing without asking that's definitely a no-no.

You have to really communicate with the other couple and make sure everything's okay first.

The residents are all aware of each other's rules and we kind of know a basic etiquette.

I want the newbies to have the best experience, but I've got to ask for us.

Andrea is sucking me off and I'm fingering Mari and we're really enjoying the moment.

Once you're in the red room, everyone's touching, kissing, sex is happening left and right.

You got to know that there's a little bit of etiquette involved.

I don't think John and just really know the rules.

John's hands wandering.

I felt a little tickle here and there.

As newbies, we're going to make them feel as comfortable as possible, but in regular swing communities, it may not be taken so nicely.

Always ask.

Try to build that connection first.

I hope you take a break.

Okay.

I'm going to check on Jesus.

Me and John decided to take a break, check in.

So do you have fun?

I'm having fun. I've not done yet.

Me either.

I have succeeded. I've had a 3-7 with two other girls.

Nice.

It was more than a 3-7.

Do you want to try for a full swap?

Yeah.

I mean if you're okay with it.

I'm totally fine.

I'm okay with it.

Yeah, go for it.

Shall we head back in?

Yes.

Let's go.

It's cold.

Yeah.

Cool.

When I have a break, it's fine.

First dramatic stress just to get fit.

I'm going to do some pizza.

Yeah.

Look at this.

Who's this?

That's not mine.

I took that off the chair.

This show.

We have a survey.

We have a survey.

I'm going to do something.

Whoa.

The good thing about coming to the swing house is you've got a lot of understanding.

So we're going to be more forgiving if maybe they make a mistake or they kind of misinterpret

something.

That's kind of why they come here so we can help them on their journey and teach them before

they get out into the real world.

It looks like the music.

Yeah.

It looks like fun.

Shall we head upstairs?

Morning.

Morning.

So is everything about what you were expecting?

Me?

I don't know.

Why did we couldn't do the full swap?

I mean, we had fun.

Nobody was really up for it.

It seemed.

No.

Even though the full swap didn't happen, me and Don feel fulfilled.

We really came out.

We had fun.

We're going to have some great memories to take home.

I think coffee is an order.

Yes.

Coffee.

Coffee.

Not that heavy.

You should not have told me that.

But you're definitely etiquette.

You're doing a great job.

One of the things I noticed that was funny is we get down to the red room and they didn't

seem to check in with each other too much.

Which I know a lot of us, we don't need to be on top of each other or follow each other

around like puppies.

But you know, we still look in and check in and make sure everybody's cool.

Like, hey, you're still alive.

You're still breathing.

All right, cool.

And you can go back to doing what you're doing because you're there to enjoy your experience

and whatever you do is different.

But I felt like while I was talking to her and I had said, hey, look, that's really hot.

And she was like, yeah, yeah, just kiss me some more.

I just find it interesting.

I'm wondering if they said, you know, we don't need to look at each other, make sure you

still got a pulse or, you know, or you're still.

I think at this point, they're still so new that it's just everything is learning.

And they're talking about it this morning.

It got a little awkward last night.

You know, his little inching, inching closer.

Every 30 seconds, he was like.

You know, like, you know, I use that one a long time.

If you did that at least one of our parties, that's kind of frowned upon.

I mean, we know how to react to it, you know, and kind of move away from the situation

we need, but we're kind of really big on it.

We're not all automatic.

And that's what we're just going to hear, though, right?

Yeah, to fill it out.

To figure it out.

Yeah, right.

And that's why we didn't like, we're not going to break out in the issue of it.

And it's like, we get it, we understand your inexperience.

We can't store.

Yeah, exactly.

It's tough.

Eventually, they're going to have to understand that, you know, you've got to have some kind of connection.

It's like on a playground, you know, you kind of learn how to play in a sandbox and you find your way.

You know, I think they'll learn how to play in a sandbox and find their way.

I think they'll be all right.

Either way, it was a good time.

Either way, it was a good time.

Yeah, yeah.

Last night was fun.

Okay, if you would happen to have a rule that you may have overstuffed, the best thing you can do after the fact is talk about it.

I mean, we've had rules that at specific times throughout the process that tend to get stepped on or blurred a little bit.

And the best thing to do is like, talk about it after the fact.

Don't let it bottle up.

Don't let it build up.

Nobody wants to have hurt feelings and that's totally not what swinging is about.

And I'm absolutely sorry.

It's so nice out today.

Yes?

Cheers and coffee.

Yay.

Hey, it's five o'clock somewhere.

Good morning.

Morning.

How was your night last night?

It was last.

Awesome.

A blast and awesome.

Well, I want to hear all about it, so why don't we sit down and have a little chat?

Sounds great.

We'll begin with you, John, if that works.

Sure.

When I left, you were getting on a party bus.

So tell me, like, what was the highlight of last night?

Probably watching Jess's threesome.

That was definitely the highlight of last night.

Okay, and what were you doing during her threesome?

During her threesome, everyone was watching.

Okay.

Are you surprised at your reactions last night where you were expecting something different?

I was expecting to be a lot more nervous than I was once we got to the red room.

Okay.

But once I got there, it was just fun and hot.

After that, Andrea was sucking me off and I was playing with Mari while she was eating

Jess out, who was with another guy at the same time, and everyone was really open and welcoming.

Tell me how they communicated that to you.

It was mostly eye contact and nods.

It was, you know, hey, come here if you want to.

So it sounds like a lot of nods going on last night.

Yes.

There's something I want to talk to you about separate from your experience last night

the way you described it to me, because all the other couples thought last night there could

have been a little bit more permission asking verbally.

Is that a fair assessment that you're comfortable doing things, but you're not always comfortable

asking about them?

Right.

I think that would be somewhat of a fair assessment.

I'd probably misconstrued some of the cues.

Okay.

Fair enough.

And I think that's common for everybody.

Most of us are really comfortable having sex.

But most of us are not comfortable talking about sex.

Exactly.

So maybe that's something you can work on too, is your ability to communicate verbally and

say, is this okay?

Absolutely.

All right.

Well, I think it would be great for me to sit down with Jess as well.

Okay.

So if you don't mind grabbing her from me, we'll sit down and have a chat one on one.

Absolutely.

Okay.

How's it going, Jess?

Good.

Yeah.

How are you feeling this morning?

I'm going glorious.

Why so glorious?

I really kind of feel like I've opened up and it was just kind of freeing, just being able

to interact with girls and not, I guess, be so shy.

What brought you out of your shop?

After the mixology, more dreaks were dancing.

There was a lot more flirtation going on.

I know being sparkle and Jenny were kissing.

They really made me feel like the center of retention and that was just something I've

never really experienced.

So when we went down to the red room, she just approached me and was just like, have you

ever tried a toy?

And I was like, well, no, she's like, you want to?

And I was like, okay.

I had a three-some with two other girls and I'm not going to be shy about it.

I loved it.

It was great.

Good.

I like the examples she set in terms of actually asking because I hear a lot in the lifestyle

and from couples in and out of the lifestyle, oh, you just know.

And the fact is you don't just know.

You have to ask.

Exactly.

So did anybody else ask your permission?

Yeah.

I mean, just about anyone was just like, hey, can I touch you?

And I was like, okay, yeah.

I mean, I look over, had I look at John, and you should be like, yeah, you give them a

lot of go for it.

Now, the more important side of this is are you comfortable asking because, again, flirtation

initiation was a concern for both of you coming in.

I think I'm getting more comfortable.

Like I said, I didn't initiate too much and I kind of feel bad that I kind of let my

side is get a little the best of me, but that's what we're here for.

We're here to learn and I could go back home and go to a lifestyle party and then try.

You know, it's all a learning experience.

Do you have any questions or concerns or thoughts?

No.

I'm really happy we've had this experience.

I think it's just really helped me and helped my esteem and I think I'll be able to do a lot

better exploring my own sexuality now.

There are a couple of things I'd like to sit down and talk with you and John about.

So you wouldn't mind going and getting him?

Yes.

We can get together to three of us and have a little chat.

All right.

Let me go grab one.

Thanks.

Anytime you go through such an intense and exciting experience, it's really important to

debrief and I'm glad we each got a chance to speak one-on-one.

I think it's important that the two of you sit down together as well.

Yeah.

In a more formal debrief and of course your debrief is going to last for days and weeks.

And months, maybe even longer.

Overall, it was a great experience.

I think we were both a little disappointed.

We didn't get to try the full swap.

Some people got a little tired last night.

That's understandable.

We're all human.

We get a little too round up at first and kind of crash, but we'll take what we learned from here and...

Try it later.

Yeah, exactly.

Good.

Now, Jess, you had mentioned that this was a bit of a learning experience for you.

Not only did you learn how to flirt, but you felt a bump in your self-esteem.

You feel a little bit more liberated.

So is there anything that comes to mind for you?

I think I learned that I need to be a bit more assertive and probably more verbal communication on our part would be better.

Because, again, the non-verbal can be misconstrued, like you said.

Yeah.

So I think the lifestyle opens up an opportunity for you to shift from just having sex to really talking about it.

I think so too.

Is that something you're willing to work on a little bit?

Just the verbal part in terms of moving forward if you decide to move forward in the lifestyle?

I think so.

I mean...

Absolutely.

Again, it's easier to do than it is to speak.

And that's what makes sex exciting and a little bit anxiety provoking for everyone of us.

I want to say that we have so much regrets about what we could have done differently last night.

I think we're coming out stronger and with better communications skills.

So I am certain that you want to see the other couples and spend a little bit more time.

Yes, definitely.

Yeah, so why don't you head back out there and I will come and get you when it's time to go catch your flight?

That's great.

Okay, thank you.

Thank you.

We've never been to a resort before.

They usually have a theme every single night.

That sounds so fun.

Yeah, whatever.

Let's all go together.

I know.

I know.

You're a drunker.

You might be surprised.

Hey, guys.

Hey, hey, hey.

Hi, you guys doing?

Good morning.

Have a seat.

So how was your evening last night, guys?

We enjoyed ourselves last night.

Did we teach you anything about approaching, like, because you said yesterday that you were...

Oh, no.

I think you guys really helped me out and I'm going to take that knowledge and all that and go back home and...

So, wait, are you going to be more aggressive like me or are you going to be more passive like...

I'm probably going to be more passive like so far.

Oh, I just want to go quite a part.

What do you guys think you're going to, you know, do from here as far as progressing, like maybe go start going to parties or...

I think so.

I definitely think we want to explore it a lot more now.

That's good.

I think so too.

Probably join a few websites.

So now are your steam punk outfits going to get a lot steamier?

Probably.

Probably.

Hello.

Hi, Jess.

You're still having fun, I see.

Yes.

The limo is here to take you to the airport.

You've got a plane to catch, so why don't you all take a minute to say your final goodbyes and I'll meet you both out front.

Okay.

Thanks.

Bye guys.

Bye.

I definitely think I got some good pointers on how to approach girls.

I'm still a little shy, but we're going to try to work on that.

Bye guys.

Bye.

Bye.

Take Travis.

Jess and John, it's been such a pleasure having you here and I'm glad you had a great time.

Now before you go, we have one important piece of business to take care of.

Very.

I have here the contract you signed upon arrival at the Swing House.

It was a two day pass to indulge your sexual fantasies, play with other people.

And now I need to know what you want me to do with this contract.

Do you want to take it with you into the real world?

Do you want to throw it in the shredder?

What I'm asking is, was this just a fling or do you want to swing again?

We want to swing again.

Definitely.

You look pretty certain, you sound pretty certain, so I'm going to leave this with you.

Thank you so much for visiting us here and have safe travels home.

Thank you.

Thanks guys.

Bye.

Bye.

Well, I think this experience has been fantastic.

It's really been a lot of first for me and John.

I feel like I'm leaving this swing house with a lot more confidence in myself and who I am sexually.

I think the thing I took away from this the most is don't be afraid to talk to people.

Just communicate and be open.

I think for us, what's next is really going home and talking to friends who are in lifestyle.

And thinking about joining up and maybe playing around with them.

I don't know about you, but I feel like we're closer now.

I think so too.

I think we're going to communicate a little bit even more openly than we're before.

And on top of that, I mean, you can now play wingman.

It's true.

We're definitely going to have to go get one of those wands though.

Yes.

That's going to be like as soon as we get off the airplane.

I'm going to have to go get one of those wands.

I'm going to have to go get one of those wands.

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