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do you have boring stale platonic

conversations with women that are

leading absolutely nowhere in today's

video I'm going to be demonstrating to

you guys with live infield footage

showing you 10 different ways I take a

normal conversation and inject that man-

tooman Vibe into the interaction that

way you could do the same the next time

you're in a conversation with a woman

let's get into it now the very first

concept starts at the beginning of the

interaction this would be right off of

the open so you could either start the

interaction with a direct open or you

display intent at the very beginning of

the interaction which would look

something like this hey excuse me he one

second I just saw you walking over

there I no I just thought you look

really cute I want to say what's up

really quick that's all or if you were

to start the conversation in an indirect

fashion with a situational opener you

could still then transition the

conversation in the first 15 to 30

seconds to start to sprinkle in a little

bit more intent to spice up the

interaction as well which would look

something like this how's the smoothie

I said how's the Smoothie really good

I'm not going to lie I was literally

like walking at the food court earlier

uh and I was like yo I need like a boba

or some [ __ ] literally like 2 minutes

later I'm walking by and I see cute girl

in this like white outfit like slurping

on a what do you got now it doesn't

matter if you open direct or indirect

but what's important is that at some

point towards the very beginning of the

interaction you do need to get to the

point to some extent I think a big

mistake that me make is they run an

entire interaction and they never

injected any of these 10 techniques I'm

going to show you and then you have a

very platonic conversation where you get

a flaky phone number that's not going to

go anywhere cuz you didn't do what I'm

going to explain to you guys in this

video so that's number one now moving

into number two actually happens about 2

and 1/2 minutes into the conversation

where I then revisit the idea again that

I saw the girl and I thought she was

cute I'm exploring the area a little bit

and then you know saw a cute girl was

hoping she was Hispanic turns out she's

Middle Eastern and now I don't know pay

attention to the way that I'm displaying

intent I'm not very W over when I'm

delivering these phrases I actually said

yeah I saw a cute girl but I was

honestly hoping she was Latina turns out

she's actually a middle eastern and so

now I don't know and yes that does

create a man tooman Dynamic however I'm

not so w over while I'm delivering the

lines which is that perfect balance that

you're going to want to create in the

interaction and a big mistake guys make

when it comes to making an interaction

man to woman is that they don't have

multiple injection points throughout the

course of the interaction a common

mistake is they'll start the interaction

maybe they open with a little bit of

intent but then they just have a normal

conversation and there's no more

injection points and then they go for a

phone number at the end of the

interaction and maybe the girl even

gives you the number but there was just

no more man to woman so you end up with

a very friendly flaky number that's not

going to go anywhere so yes it's great

to open but there's going to be

continuous injection points that I'm

going to show you guys throughout the

course of this video and that's number

two let's move into the third injection

point that brings the conversation back

to this underlying premise of me and the

girl potentially mating or going on a

date and this one is actually done in

the negative which looks something like

this don't no no no don't theyab see

this is the problem with with middle

Easter they're very confrontational you

know

was straight forward yeah yeah for sure

the thing is what why you doing this

what as you can see we actually get into

this little bit of back and forth I said

you see this is the problem with Middle

Eastern women they become very

confrontational and I don't say it in an

aggressive way I actually say it in a

very fun and playful way so the frame is

accepted the main takeaway here is that

each injection point is not constantly

another display of intent in the

positive way half of these are actually

done in a negative way which actually

makes the net balance right around

neutral but that also allows me to

continuously inject these bursts to

consistently bring the conversation back

to being a man- tooman dynamic but it's

never over pedestalize so the third one

was actually kind of in the negative

it's me pointing out that this is kind

of like a problem with middle Easter

women is that they're a little bit

confrontational which is not necessarily

a bad thing if you're watching this

video and you're more on the nice guy

side you have a bunch of pleasant

interaction it's because you're only

hitting the girl with these positive

postive spikes and you don't really have

a balance of positive and slightly

negative or playfully negative spikes so

you want to have that balance of both

and before we get into number five I

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on for 2025 now let's move into the next

one which happens at about 4 minutes and

I could tell that the interest is

relatively high from the girl her body

language is indicating me that wants to

keep the conversation going she's

engaging enthusiastically her legs are

crossed it's very clear that she's not

in a hurry and at this point I make a

decision to start to lead her I actually

say walk with me for two blocks and then

as we start walking I see a perfect

opportunity for us to just sit down at

which point I say let's just sit down

right over here and that puts us now in

a position where we're going to be

sitting a lot more intimately and it

buys us another five to 15 minutes of

conversation and this is another

important point in the interaction which

will now allow you to lead relocate the

girl and we're going to be sitting down

on an insta date right on the spot to

create a more intimate connection now

let's move into Point number five which

happens about 1 minute later in the

interaction we're actually sitting down

she starts talking in another language

and I misinterpret what she's saying and

assume that she's actually flirting with

me and it looks like this you don't even

speak Arabic so like what the [ __ ] yeah

that's kind ofe what what are you saying

to me I said I speak are are you

flirting with me in another language

what are you saying so notice my

delivery and notice what I'm saying I

didn't I didn't really display intent on

her I actually interpreted whatever she

was saying as if she was the one

flirting with me I said wait what are

you saying R are you are you flirting

with me in another language or what are

you saying to me right so again I'm not

displaying intent I'm just consistently

bringing the conversation back to the

idea that me and the girl could

potentially date and if anything the

most beneficial frame is the go is

trying to go on a date with me the go is

the one flirting with me the go is the

one that's attracted to me very very

powerful frame now let's move into Point

number six we're talking about going out

having fun partying and I then say I

feel like if we were to go out one night

and end up like having fun and partying

and you had like one or two drinks I

would see this other side of you come

out that I wouldn't have even expected

say like I feel like if I if I went out

with you and you had like one two three

drinks there would be like a whole

different personality that would come

out in a good way though not in like a

not in a mean way in like a tolerant all

right so pay attention to the phrasing

there I said if we were to go out I feel

like you would be the kind of girl that

does blank all right that's a

hypothetical situation about us going

out and again this brings it back to

this Dynamic this buyer seller Dynamic

like a sales call there are consistent

injection points that are bringing it

back to if we were to hang out in the

future and again listen to the phrasing

I'm not one over I'm not like I'd love

to take you on a date sometime

I say if we were to go out again I feel

like you would be the type of girl that

is blank it's a hypothetical frame of us

being together in the future doing

something fun now let's move into Point

number seven we're talking about the

next time she's going to be in Miami cuz

she's actually a stewardess and she says

that she's actually going to be back

here in September however at the time of

this interaction it's only April at

which point I told her September I mean

honestly I don't know if I'm even going

to remember you then that's kind of far

out we're going to have to at least have

a couple touch points in between so we

could stay in touch and since she's a

stewardess I then make a relevant joke

saying you know what we're actually

we're going to have to meet somewhere in

the middle of the world like in between

so we can continue hanging out since

you're flying around the world so again

it's another injection point the seventh

injection point in this interaction and

we're about 10 minutes into the

conversation so I got to do a week out

there my family lives there I want to go

there in September September I don't

know if I'll remember you by then that's

kind of far we'd have to talk at least a

little bit between you know you can't

just call me in 6 months and be like

like who's this I'm continuously

bringing it back to this idea that we're

going to hang out we're going to be

together but I'm not pushing it like I'm

in love with you and I'm Blown Away by

you and I need to see you you could see

that the underlying frame is it's not me

being one over it's not me chasing her

it's this thing that we're going to hang

out together and I find ways to

continuously make it fun and flirty and

playful and that's what but sexy and

attractive to women now let's move into

Point number eight we're actually

talking about what I do for a career she

started ask me some more get to know you

questions which is another good

indicator that the girl is attracted and

she wants to get to know you on a deeper

level to build some comfort and

connection and I brought up this idea

that I actually coach men online and she

then suddenly dropped into the

conversation that coaching online was

something like she kind of was low-key

curious about doing and she said that

she wanted to do something like that and

again I misinterpreted that to say I

don't know if I'm actually hiring at

this point I'm sorry right so I

misinterpret what she's saying as if I

assume that she's trying to join my

company which is obviously not really

what she meant but it's a fun flirty

playful way to bring it back to this

idea that she wants to be with me all

right and then I actually transition it

and make it even more fun and playful

and make it more about us together I

said actually you know what having a

cute femal assistant wouldn't be a bad

thing have somebody in the office laughs

at my jokes has a cute smile coach men

online

like what does that me that's

cool I mean I'm not looking to hire

anybody that's what you're saying I

could use a cute assistant like

secretary cute like secretary assistant

girl laughs at my jokes you know cute

smile you have a cute smile me yeah and

I'm saying all this while I'm just

looking at her dead in the eyes and as I

said that she actually says you have a

really nice smile which is so positive

very very ideal when you're flirting

with a girl and you're painting these

hypothetical pictures together that

she's then reciprocating the frame back

onto you in a very positive way

complimenting you it's it's this is a

perfect Dynamic here that's why I had to

show you guys this example let's move

into Point number nine we're a couple

minutes later in the interaction and

since things are going really well at

this point I actually decided to start

moving it Forward talking about the idea

of like realistically when's the next

time we're going to hang out and what

we're going to do which is a a pivotal

point if you want to make a man- tooman

interaction not only does there need to

be multiple injection points but guys at

the end of this thing you got to go for

the sale you got to pitch the offer some

of you guys you get into the interaction

you never pitch the sale ever you just

talk about the weather and vacation and

you ask her some gets to know you

questions and then you leave the

interaction if nothing else go for the

clothes man if there's anything you take

away from this video open display some

kind of intent find another way to make

it flirty and go for a close yes there's

a bunch of subtleties that I do

throughout this interaction and honestly

truth be told there's probably about 20

I I just picked out the most simple 10

that I could actually show you guys in a

video but there's a lot going on in this

30 minute clip but if nothing else guys

you need to do one two three and then go

for the close so I actually start to

move the interaction forward saying yeah

we could actually hang out sometime soon

and since it's been going so positive

the girl said yes it's a date and I when

I heard that I thought to myself wow

that's really positive but I was almost

taken back cuz a lot of women won't say

that so I said oh it's a date she said

yeah it's a date we can hang out maybe

grab a

drink bite to eat or some [ __ ] I don't

know what it's a date I mean like

uh I like that since it was so positive

I then put my arm out and she falls into

me and then we have a very nice 1 to two

second hug right there and at this point

we're about 20 minutes into the

interaction and that moves us into

injection Point number 10 we get up and

I go to lead her down the street and I

say let's go this way actually our date

starts right now grab my arm and then we

start to walk down the road together and

if you guys just look at the footage

right here tell me this doesn't look man

to woman it looks like we're at the tail

end of a date right now because honestly

we are this is what happens when you

inject 10 different man tooman points

into the interaction and you had some

physical touch you had the the

nonverbals dialed in it's going to look

act and feel like a date and I actually

even say that right here we'll play the

audio right now I think I feel like our

date started now

I feel like I just went on a date like a

like a quick one yeah in New York like

people don't you can't talk to people

like this so yeah I know what you mean I

then walk with the girl we set up plans

to meet up I already got the phone

number and then we have a quick kiss

goodbye and that's how you can run in my

opinion a damn near perfect interaction

a there was a 30 minute interaction with

a very attractive girl my type Middle

Eastern nice little curves fun

personality I went from opening

displaying inent and then having 10

different injection points none of them

more over pedestalize I found a bunch of

different clever ways to sprinkle in

playfulness man tooman Dynamics we

frames misinterpretation a little bit of

playful negative burst on the girl too

but that balance alt together it creates

a really powerful dynamic as you guys

can see here if you want to FastTrack

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video guys I'll see you in the next one

peace out