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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:06,959 --> 00:00:11,200 If you think swingers are something out of 70s movies and back -of -the -rack 2 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:13,360 magazines, think again. 3 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:19,240 These days, couples from all walks of life are embracing the lifestyle, and 4 00:00:19,240 --> 00:00:23,320 they're changing the way people think about marriage. I'm standing outside a 5 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:30,220 luxurious mansion where some sexy, very happy couples are having the time 6 00:00:30,220 --> 00:00:31,220 of their lives. 7 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:35,940 Now a new couple who's never done... Anything like this before is about to 8 00:00:35,940 --> 00:00:37,240 in on the action, too. 9 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:38,680 Take a look at this. 10 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:41,480 Hi, I'm Daryl. Nikki. 11 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:42,920 And we're from Barfield, California. 12 00:00:43,220 --> 00:00:44,880 We've been married for seven and a half years. 13 00:00:45,140 --> 00:00:49,060 I am very happy with my current sex life. I always wish I could have more. 14 00:00:49,620 --> 00:00:52,940 It feels good to have sex five times a day, every day. 15 00:00:53,180 --> 00:00:57,980 I'm looking for just overall sexual raw energy, like fun, excitement. 16 00:00:58,460 --> 00:01:01,540 I'm interacting with guys and girls, so it's pretty open. 17 00:01:02,350 --> 00:01:06,410 We're here to find out if it's cool or not. I'm giving Daryl and Nikki an 18 00:01:06,410 --> 00:01:12,050 exclusive pass into the hot, passionate, clothing optional party going on 19 00:01:12,050 --> 00:01:13,050 inside. 20 00:01:14,110 --> 00:01:18,490 Can they really share their partner with someone else? And how will it affect 21 00:01:18,490 --> 00:01:19,490 their relationship? 22 00:01:19,530 --> 00:01:22,110 I'm Anna David. Hold on tight. 23 00:01:22,330 --> 00:01:24,190 This is Twig. 24 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:39,200 Well, I think this is a big step for us. 25 00:01:39,580 --> 00:01:40,580 I think it's going to be awesome. 26 00:01:41,060 --> 00:01:43,300 It'll be another day in paradise. 27 00:01:43,900 --> 00:01:46,340 It was Daryl's idea to start swinging. 28 00:01:46,580 --> 00:01:49,440 I thought he was crazy. There's no way. What am I doing wrong? 29 00:01:49,900 --> 00:01:53,580 I'm really nervous and scared, wondering what people are going to be like. 30 00:01:55,260 --> 00:01:57,860 I'd like to see you get pleased by a guy. I think it's going to be awesome. 31 00:01:58,120 --> 00:01:59,880 It's a good banana. Definitely the whole girl -girl thing. 32 00:02:00,740 --> 00:02:03,780 But overall, I'd like to see you just be yourself and have a good time. 33 00:02:04,509 --> 00:02:08,130 I mean, that's really what this is about, you know, us as a couple. After 34 00:02:08,130 --> 00:02:12,010 a couple of kids, like, I was kind of looking forward, you know, extra stuff 35 00:02:12,010 --> 00:02:13,510 spice up our relationship and marriage. 36 00:02:13,770 --> 00:02:15,950 So I kind of came upon this whole swinging thing. 37 00:02:16,190 --> 00:02:20,290 After a year of talking to her, she kind of gave me a good thumbs up, said, 38 00:02:20,290 --> 00:02:21,249 let's try it. 39 00:02:21,250 --> 00:02:25,490 Ultimately, I guess it was my decision, but since it's a team effort, I couldn't 40 00:02:25,490 --> 00:02:26,490 have done it without her. 41 00:02:27,030 --> 00:02:28,030 Honey, we're home. 42 00:02:35,260 --> 00:02:36,260 We're here. Are you ready? 43 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:37,880 Ready as I'm going to get. 44 00:02:37,940 --> 00:02:38,940 Let's do this. 45 00:02:43,020 --> 00:02:44,020 Hi. Hey. 46 00:02:44,340 --> 00:02:45,340 I'm Anna. Nikki. 47 00:02:46,060 --> 00:02:47,140 And you must be Daryl. 48 00:02:47,340 --> 00:02:48,960 Yes, ma 'am. Nice to meet you both. 49 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:50,520 How are you guys doing? Good. 50 00:02:50,900 --> 00:02:52,600 Outstanding. Outstanding. Outstanding. 51 00:02:53,020 --> 00:02:55,580 Any nervousness? Any butterflies? 52 00:02:55,920 --> 00:02:58,600 That's why I'm so outstanding. I'm just a bundle of nerves right now. You're 53 00:02:58,600 --> 00:02:59,600 outstandingly nervous? Yes. 54 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:01,060 There's just one thing. 55 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:04,040 Before I let you loose in the house, we need to talk about something. So you 56 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:04,759 want to follow me? 57 00:03:04,760 --> 00:03:06,740 Yes, ma 'am. All right. All right, let's do it. 58 00:03:10,380 --> 00:03:15,240 I introduced you to the lifestyle because that's kind of where I knew I 59 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:16,240 to be always. 60 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:20,500 Funny because you didn't really introduce me. You just kind of threw me 61 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:22,560 It's a good thing I'm a good swimmer. 62 00:03:24,980 --> 00:03:27,200 So, what I have here is a contract. 63 00:03:27,420 --> 00:03:31,500 Okay. And I was going to sign it, and it basically says that, you know, you give 64 00:03:31,500 --> 00:03:33,940 each other permission to hook up with other people while you're here. 65 00:03:34,430 --> 00:03:37,410 Right now, we're on the threshold of something that a lot of people dream 66 00:03:37,490 --> 00:03:40,050 a lot of people fantasize about. And here we are, ready to take that step 67 00:03:40,050 --> 00:03:41,049 the threshold. 68 00:03:41,050 --> 00:03:42,870 Does one of you want to actually read it out loud? 69 00:03:43,970 --> 00:03:44,970 I'll do that. 70 00:03:45,290 --> 00:03:49,490 We have agreed to take part in a sexual venture over the next two days, during 71 00:03:49,490 --> 00:03:53,310 which all the normal rules of a monogamous relationship will be 72 00:03:53,310 --> 00:03:56,930 aside. We promise not to hold what happens here against each other once the 73 00:03:56,930 --> 00:04:00,130 venture is over. What happens in the swing house stays in the swing house. 74 00:04:00,530 --> 00:04:02,850 Daryl and I have been together for almost nine years. 75 00:04:03,290 --> 00:04:07,330 Coming to the house, I was really scared, not knowing what was going to 76 00:04:07,510 --> 00:04:11,570 I'm hoping for just overall good time with a bunch of different couples. 77 00:04:11,930 --> 00:04:15,130 Any special rules we have for each other during our time will be written in the 78 00:04:15,130 --> 00:04:19,730 space below. We hope to have fun and explore everything the lifestyle has to 79 00:04:19,730 --> 00:04:23,230 offer, knowing that the ultimate goal is a stronger, healthier, more fulfilling 80 00:04:23,230 --> 00:04:28,530 relationship. Okay, so do you have any of these additional rules? And if so, 81 00:04:28,530 --> 00:04:29,810 you write them in the space there? 82 00:04:30,750 --> 00:04:33,030 Same room. Same room until we're comfortable. 83 00:04:33,410 --> 00:04:34,209 Mm -hmm. 84 00:04:34,210 --> 00:04:35,710 No taking one for the team. 85 00:04:36,030 --> 00:04:37,030 Yep. 86 00:04:37,170 --> 00:04:38,990 And then sign at the bottom. 87 00:04:46,270 --> 00:04:47,490 I'm going to hold on to this. 88 00:04:48,090 --> 00:04:52,570 So why don't you guys, you know, go up to your room, get refreshed, do what you 89 00:04:52,570 --> 00:04:55,790 want to do, and come downstairs. I know the other guys are excited to meet you. 90 00:04:56,150 --> 00:04:58,130 Ready to do this? Yep. All standing. 91 00:05:07,340 --> 00:05:11,380 Awesome. This house is amazing. It's huge. There's a lot of things that I 92 00:05:11,380 --> 00:05:14,140 like in my own personal house, so I'm ecstatic. 93 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:15,719 Are you nervous? 94 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:20,080 I get nervous meeting people anyway, even when I'm just being myself, and 95 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:22,380 is because they made that kid. 96 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:24,360 We're going out to meet the couple. 97 00:05:25,180 --> 00:05:29,560 We're excited. We're nervous, wondering what the people's going to be like. 98 00:05:29,900 --> 00:05:30,900 Rock and roll. 99 00:05:46,580 --> 00:05:53,380 I felt comfortable once I got out there. All of the couples that were out there, 100 00:05:53,420 --> 00:05:55,760 they were all very good looking. There was no weird vibes. 101 00:05:56,100 --> 00:05:58,160 They just seemed like a great group of people. 102 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:05,260 I don't really know if my jaw actually dropped and hit the ground, but I was 103 00:06:05,260 --> 00:06:09,240 shocked with the quality of people. Every single woman there is outstanding. 104 00:06:10,840 --> 00:06:13,100 And I stared at everybody's ass and tits. 105 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:16,420 Probably with them knowing. Probably wouldn't do a very good job at peeking. 106 00:06:17,860 --> 00:06:21,160 More like a... Darryl, it's Clayton. Nice to meet you. 107 00:06:21,560 --> 00:06:22,560 Hi, Amanda. 108 00:06:22,580 --> 00:06:24,480 Hi. I'm Black Guy 1. Black Guy 1. 109 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:26,820 I'm Early. Nice to meet you. 110 00:06:27,340 --> 00:06:30,120 I'm Clayton. Nice to meet you. You too? Darryl. Nice to meet you. Amanda. 111 00:06:30,420 --> 00:06:31,520 Amanda. Nikki. Nice to meet you. 112 00:06:32,140 --> 00:06:32,979 I'm Meg. 113 00:06:32,980 --> 00:06:34,640 And you're Black Guy 2? Darryl. 114 00:06:35,620 --> 00:06:41,010 The first time we met, Nikki and her other half, They walked out the door. We 115 00:06:41,010 --> 00:06:42,010 all waved hello. 116 00:06:42,090 --> 00:06:43,370 I gave them a quick glance. 117 00:06:44,570 --> 00:06:49,510 And as she swept her eyes across the whole crowd, she looked at me for a 118 00:06:49,510 --> 00:06:53,210 second, but she didn't stare at me. And then she looked away. 119 00:06:53,630 --> 00:06:56,990 The lack of eye contact is what gave her away. 120 00:06:57,670 --> 00:07:01,110 So that the next time we made eye contact, I could totally read her 121 00:07:01,110 --> 00:07:04,030 hear about what that guy would do. 122 00:07:04,550 --> 00:07:05,770 So how long have you guys been together? 123 00:07:06,070 --> 00:07:07,950 We've been married seven, but we've been together nine. 124 00:07:09,510 --> 00:07:10,510 Nine days. 125 00:07:10,870 --> 00:07:15,650 Nine years. Are you confident in your ability to communicate together and to 126 00:07:15,650 --> 00:07:17,590 open while things are happening? 127 00:07:18,010 --> 00:07:23,250 First thing I know about Kristen, blonde hair, very gorgeous body and eyes. She 128 00:07:23,250 --> 00:07:23,889 had a good smile. 129 00:07:23,890 --> 00:07:25,550 She was very open and warm. 130 00:07:25,870 --> 00:07:29,810 You know, are you wanting to do more girl action or are you guys okay with 131 00:07:29,810 --> 00:07:30,970 exploring couples? 132 00:07:31,310 --> 00:07:35,950 I think we're pretty much open to... Or just good old -fashioned orgies. Just 133 00:07:35,950 --> 00:07:38,510 about anything. Pretty open to... 134 00:07:39,300 --> 00:07:41,820 Like I said, jump in head first in the water. Hopefully we don't hit our head 135 00:07:41,820 --> 00:07:42,759 the bottom of the pool. 136 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:45,320 What about you guys? We have a couple. No fish hooking, no eye gouging. 137 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:49,580 I think at one point in time we talked about no kissing, but then we're like... 138 00:07:49,850 --> 00:07:52,350 This thing, in fact, is like peanut butter and jelly. It kind of meshes 139 00:07:52,350 --> 00:07:53,350 to the degree. 140 00:07:53,890 --> 00:07:56,270 Okay, so I'm taking your drink orders really quick. 141 00:07:56,510 --> 00:07:57,510 Anybody need anything? 142 00:07:57,610 --> 00:07:59,110 Can I order a dirty leprechaun? 143 00:08:01,930 --> 00:08:07,330 Don't forget that Jeff, the body painter, is inside with his assistant, 144 00:08:07,630 --> 00:08:09,350 So as soon as you guys get a chance, go get painted. 145 00:08:09,670 --> 00:08:10,670 Oh, nice. 146 00:08:10,810 --> 00:08:11,910 And he's amazing. 147 00:08:13,090 --> 00:08:16,430 Awesome. Sexy body painting. I've never seen it done. 148 00:08:16,670 --> 00:08:18,930 I've seen pictures online. I've never seen it before in person. 149 00:08:19,630 --> 00:08:23,770 But I like a room with full sexual intention and a pool of cool people. 150 00:08:23,770 --> 00:08:25,010 what I had envisioned. 151 00:08:25,770 --> 00:08:31,750 You know, when a new couple comes in and exploring fantasies with them, it's 152 00:08:31,750 --> 00:08:35,909 just so much easier if they're confident enough to say what they're looking for 153 00:08:35,909 --> 00:08:37,030 and to say what they want. 154 00:08:37,370 --> 00:08:43,070 They know that we're more experienced and that we're apt to help them achieve 155 00:08:43,070 --> 00:08:44,990 that. And not only... 156 00:08:45,340 --> 00:08:51,020 telling us their fantasies, but also discussing between each other before, so 157 00:08:51,020 --> 00:08:57,400 it's not a surprise to them when, you know, I want to be tied up comes out and 158 00:08:57,400 --> 00:09:00,320 the other partner just freaks out. 159 00:09:00,680 --> 00:09:04,240 And knowing what their boundaries are and then bringing it up to us. Correct. 160 00:09:04,340 --> 00:09:07,700 And letting what happened happen. 161 00:09:08,740 --> 00:09:09,740 And it's fun. 162 00:09:15,260 --> 00:09:21,300 The first shocker for me is when I looked over and there are girls naked, 163 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:25,940 completely bucket -ass naked. It was extremely smoking hot. 164 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:27,920 All right. Okay. 165 00:09:28,220 --> 00:09:29,260 Let's get you started. 166 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:33,820 So we get inside, and Megan turns down to nothing real quick. Now, I'm used to 167 00:09:33,820 --> 00:09:40,720 that. But Daryl, he was like... I thought it was the funniest 168 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:41,720 thing I ever saw. 169 00:09:44,900 --> 00:09:48,000 Sometimes when you have new couples in this environment for the first time, you 170 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:49,340 have to take them by the hand and leave them. 171 00:09:49,560 --> 00:09:51,760 Megan and I have done that for a lot of new couples. 172 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:55,000 We really like doing it, and we are really good at it. 173 00:10:04,100 --> 00:10:07,660 The other girls were getting body painted. At that time, I was not hoping 174 00:10:07,660 --> 00:10:09,340 it was me because I was so nervous. 175 00:10:16,010 --> 00:10:18,530 Halfway through playing with them, you could even be like, I'm sorry, I'm not 176 00:10:18,530 --> 00:10:20,470 really feeling it. Like, I thought I would. 177 00:10:20,790 --> 00:10:23,930 And nobody's going to judge you. Nobody's going to be like, oh, you know. 178 00:10:24,250 --> 00:10:26,330 Or if you even just say no. 179 00:10:26,590 --> 00:10:30,790 All the girls had a lot of good information about the whole swinging 180 00:10:31,130 --> 00:10:33,430 After talking about it, I loosened up. 181 00:10:33,850 --> 00:10:38,550 Some of the newbies, when they get into the lifestyle, they come not of any 182 00:10:38,550 --> 00:10:40,570 fault of their own, but with their own, it never happens. 183 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:43,160 And they're all in anticipation. 184 00:10:43,860 --> 00:10:47,740 It takes an awful lot of time to break. It takes time to get past that. It 185 00:10:47,740 --> 00:10:48,740 really does. 186 00:10:48,900 --> 00:10:51,620 Everybody asks that same question. How do you deal with the jealousy? 187 00:10:52,260 --> 00:10:54,640 Jealousy is an emotion based in insecurity. 188 00:10:55,240 --> 00:10:56,640 Plain and simple. Or trust. 189 00:10:57,740 --> 00:11:03,160 Well, it's either insecurity in the relationship or insecurity within 190 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:06,600 themselves. So, yeah, lack of trust is an insecurity in a relationship. 191 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:08,240 Absolutely. You're not secure. 192 00:11:09,870 --> 00:11:10,870 Who's next? 193 00:11:11,490 --> 00:11:12,770 Nikki. Nikki is next. 194 00:11:12,970 --> 00:11:14,830 Nikki. I said you're next. 195 00:11:15,770 --> 00:11:16,930 Are you going to get body painted? 196 00:11:17,150 --> 00:11:19,690 Yeah. Have fun. 197 00:11:20,290 --> 00:11:23,770 I've never been body painted, and I was really nervous, but it was an experience 198 00:11:23,770 --> 00:11:24,770 I didn't want to miss. 199 00:11:25,070 --> 00:11:26,069 You ready? Yeah. 200 00:11:26,070 --> 00:11:30,110 Okay. After having a few drinks, I felt really comfortable getting body painted. 201 00:11:30,170 --> 00:11:32,370 I took all my clothes off. Don't worry, honey. It won't hurt. 202 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:45,820 As a body painter, it's the person's comfort level and what they're real 203 00:11:45,820 --> 00:11:47,980 comfortable with. You can usually tell right off the bat. 204 00:11:48,420 --> 00:11:51,120 If somebody wants to get naked, they'll just stand there, get naked, and boom, 205 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:52,240 they're right on the table. 206 00:11:52,560 --> 00:11:56,160 So what I'll do is if somebody isn't too sure whether they want to be naked, 207 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:59,660 we'll paint the top first, and then after comfort, if she starts to feel 208 00:11:59,660 --> 00:12:03,020 and more comfortable about it, realize what the body paint is, and we kind of 209 00:12:03,020 --> 00:12:04,020 progress on it. 210 00:12:04,360 --> 00:12:08,220 I go down there looking at her, watching the brush, and seeing her squirm a 211 00:12:08,220 --> 00:12:10,900 little bit. It was awesome. The girl's being completely naked. 212 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:14,100 But you're not really seeing anything because everything's all painted. It's 213 00:12:14,100 --> 00:12:15,100 very hot. 214 00:12:16,100 --> 00:12:17,160 Swing's all about you. 215 00:12:17,820 --> 00:12:19,060 It's about you as a couple. 216 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:21,520 You're the most important part of swing. 217 00:12:21,900 --> 00:12:25,700 Because without you being a couple, it's just another single part. 218 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:27,780 So you guys having a good time so far? 219 00:12:28,100 --> 00:12:30,000 Yes, it's very fun, and I enjoy myself. 220 00:12:30,340 --> 00:12:33,820 After getting naked and getting body painted, I felt really comfortable 221 00:12:33,820 --> 00:12:37,040 all the girls were naked and body painted as well. 222 00:12:39,660 --> 00:12:43,120 I know, like, when we first started talking about it, she was, like, the 223 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:44,620 mom's gonna do this. 224 00:12:45,140 --> 00:12:47,380 When she relaxes and she's herself, she's awesome. 225 00:12:47,700 --> 00:12:48,920 Now she walks around naked, so. 226 00:12:49,480 --> 00:12:53,020 You know, people have their little boxes sometimes, and they can't escape that 227 00:12:53,020 --> 00:12:54,900 box. They're gonna try to make you feel bad about yourself. 228 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:59,420 You know? And that's just, when you say, oh, there's, you know, I'm a mom, how 229 00:12:59,420 --> 00:13:00,339 do I feel? 230 00:13:00,340 --> 00:13:01,340 Are you still a person? 231 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:04,440 Just because you had kids, just because you have a family. 232 00:13:05,100 --> 00:13:07,520 It doesn't mean you're not a person and you don't have things you like to do. 233 00:13:07,620 --> 00:13:11,220 Just because you're a mom, it doesn't have to define you. You can fill fish, 234 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:14,000 pee, have deep sex, whatever you like to do. 235 00:13:14,220 --> 00:13:17,780 It ain't no different from baseball practice or any other thing you do as a 236 00:13:17,780 --> 00:13:20,020 family. It's just a different thing you like to do. 237 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:24,000 I got a plan. Now I just have to go out and execute it. As long as Daryl's cool 238 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:25,880 with it, this will be a very interesting night. 239 00:13:26,340 --> 00:13:28,420 You know, life is short. 240 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:30,880 We may not have a lot of time in the morning. 241 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:33,720 I know what I'd like to have happen tonight. 242 00:13:34,250 --> 00:13:36,070 I'd like to get to know Nikki in the bedroom. 243 00:13:36,410 --> 00:13:39,130 So in the world of Karen, there are always three P's. 244 00:13:39,890 --> 00:13:42,210 Patience, persistence, and perseverance. 245 00:13:42,790 --> 00:13:44,530 And three P's will get you fourth. 246 00:13:45,010 --> 00:13:47,230 And that's whatever the fourth P you want it to be. 247 00:13:47,970 --> 00:13:49,150 Prosperity, pithy. 248 00:13:49,430 --> 00:13:53,790 Okay, guys, so it's time to get ready for the night. You're going to go 249 00:13:53,790 --> 00:13:56,970 upstairs, do your last touch -up, and come back down here when you're done. 250 00:13:57,730 --> 00:13:58,730 Ready? 251 00:13:59,590 --> 00:14:02,530 I think people in the lifestyle definitely have... 252 00:14:03,100 --> 00:14:07,780 at least ten times more sex than vanilla couples because we appreciate it more 253 00:14:07,780 --> 00:14:11,000 and we keep it interesting and we know how to spice it up. 254 00:14:11,940 --> 00:14:15,420 Even if it's the same person, after you've been with somebody else, it 255 00:14:15,420 --> 00:14:17,140 feel like the same person when you go back. 256 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:34,900 I can see us having fun with anybody on there, really. 257 00:14:36,220 --> 00:14:41,620 I mean, I guess it's kind of broad in generalization, but I think... Earlier 258 00:14:41,620 --> 00:14:45,440 the day, Daryl had actually planned Garen out, and was like, yeah, you think 259 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:47,400 he's cute, and you're going to hook up with him. 260 00:14:47,740 --> 00:14:49,020 And I'm like, okay, yeah, whatever. 261 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:50,680 But he was cute. 262 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:52,819 How are you? 263 00:14:52,820 --> 00:14:53,820 What if that's all of them? 264 00:14:54,100 --> 00:14:56,680 That's a top -out answer. 265 00:14:58,860 --> 00:15:02,040 Really happy with the communication level that this couple has. 266 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:06,240 He definitely knows how to communicate with her more, and I think that if 267 00:15:06,240 --> 00:15:09,680 they're uncomfortable with something, I'm thinking they're going to be more 268 00:15:09,680 --> 00:15:10,740 comfortable voicing it. 269 00:15:11,140 --> 00:15:14,420 You know, I sat down and talked to her, and she actually seems pretty confident, 270 00:15:14,500 --> 00:15:15,500 pretty straightforward. 271 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:19,520 She seems to be okay with everything. I didn't get a sense of any boundaries 272 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:23,780 with them other than they want it to be fun, and as long as it's fun, they're 273 00:15:23,780 --> 00:15:24,780 fine with it. 274 00:15:25,460 --> 00:15:27,460 Got any idea what you think is going to happen tonight? 275 00:15:27,900 --> 00:15:34,700 Um, I think it'll happen a little bit, maybe role reversal, where maybe you 276 00:15:34,700 --> 00:15:38,680 can just jump in the middle and I'll just stand in the back. Because I don't 277 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:40,340 feel like she's really in the girl. 278 00:15:40,660 --> 00:15:43,800 I don't know where it's going to go, but I do know at some point. Once I've got 279 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:47,380 the all clear from her guy, I'm just going to walk up to her and take her by 280 00:15:47,380 --> 00:15:51,940 hand and see if she follows me. But I just got this really strong feeling that 281 00:15:51,940 --> 00:15:52,919 she'll follow me. 282 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:57,100 Do you have anybody picked out or are you set on? 283 00:15:57,610 --> 00:15:59,090 I'd like to get all of them really. 284 00:16:00,710 --> 00:16:01,710 Do you want them in? 285 00:16:02,290 --> 00:16:03,290 No. 286 00:16:05,230 --> 00:16:05,989 Love you. 287 00:16:05,990 --> 00:16:06,990 Love you too. 288 00:16:09,670 --> 00:16:13,950 Sometimes we go to a party and nothing happens, and that's okay. 289 00:16:14,170 --> 00:16:17,910 We have fun just about anywhere we go, so it doesn't really matter, and that's 290 00:16:17,910 --> 00:16:21,670 kind of what we focused on. So you may go to a party and nothing happens. 291 00:16:21,890 --> 00:16:24,670 You may go to a party and just flirt all night. 292 00:16:25,050 --> 00:16:30,690 You know, if we go to a party with expectations, that's where we found that 293 00:16:30,690 --> 00:16:32,050 have issues, that we get upset. 294 00:16:32,390 --> 00:16:38,190 If you go in without expectations and you just let things happen the way they 295 00:16:38,190 --> 00:16:42,930 naturally will happen, and your focus is just having a good time, you'll end up 296 00:16:42,930 --> 00:16:48,170 having a good time. And if it ends up going somewhere, fantastic. But if not, 297 00:16:48,170 --> 00:16:49,170 get to go home with him. 298 00:17:04,650 --> 00:17:06,710 Hey, so you guys ready for your first night in the lifestyle? 299 00:17:07,329 --> 00:17:08,690 Yes, most definitely. 300 00:17:08,910 --> 00:17:11,730 And how you feeling? Are we like excited, nervous? 301 00:17:12,349 --> 00:17:15,950 I think I'm a little over the nervous bug and I'm more excited now. 302 00:17:16,810 --> 00:17:19,450 So, see anything you like around here? 303 00:17:20,790 --> 00:17:21,790 Most definitely. 304 00:17:22,230 --> 00:17:26,230 Well, remember, this is not window shopping. You actually get the touch. 305 00:17:26,430 --> 00:17:30,170 But you have to live with what happens. You don't get to like wake up tomorrow 306 00:17:30,170 --> 00:17:33,830 morning. Have an extra person in your bed and go, what the hell are they doing 307 00:17:33,830 --> 00:17:34,890 here? You know what I'm saying? 308 00:17:35,130 --> 00:17:36,910 Only if you drink too much, you'll remember it. 309 00:17:38,290 --> 00:17:43,810 May I propose a toast to a night of indecent proposals. 310 00:17:44,590 --> 00:17:45,590 Outstanding. Cheers. 311 00:17:45,990 --> 00:17:47,490 Cheers. Cheers. Cheers. 312 00:17:48,490 --> 00:17:51,830 Have a blast, guys. And who knows, maybe even more than one blast. 313 00:17:52,290 --> 00:17:55,570 Boom. There you go. Right now I'm feeling, I'm excited. 314 00:17:55,970 --> 00:17:58,590 Hey, I think it's a good time for us to all sit. 315 00:17:59,150 --> 00:18:01,650 Adjourn to the living room, and let's let the girls give us a nice little 316 00:18:01,650 --> 00:18:03,870 fashion show with their new body paint. What do you think? 317 00:18:04,290 --> 00:18:05,290 Sounds like a plan. 318 00:18:06,790 --> 00:18:10,390 Sounded like a good idea at the time, but then I got really nervous and didn't 319 00:18:10,390 --> 00:18:11,249 want to do it. 320 00:18:11,250 --> 00:18:13,190 I was still just really nervous. 321 00:18:19,750 --> 00:18:20,750 Megan, 322 00:18:21,150 --> 00:18:23,430 she has an outstanding body. 323 00:18:24,650 --> 00:18:28,890 Tan, everything's where it's supposed to be, and, you know, so it's outstanding. 324 00:18:34,050 --> 00:18:40,430 I have to play more my type than anybody. She's a petite blonde Yeah, 325 00:18:40,430 --> 00:18:43,470 more my quote -unquote type for Miss Ashley. 326 00:18:46,090 --> 00:18:51,490 I Love fashion shows being sexy ladies stretch yourself is my definite idea of 327 00:18:51,490 --> 00:18:52,490 good time 328 00:18:58,060 --> 00:19:03,240 The blonde hair, just tall, just awesome personality. Just, like, first 329 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:04,240 impressions, just amazing. 330 00:19:06,920 --> 00:19:10,160 I was really nervous about the fashion show, and I didn't want to do it, but 331 00:19:10,160 --> 00:19:11,880 Kristen helped me out, so I walked out with her. 332 00:19:14,660 --> 00:19:19,320 I felt weird just because I was the last one. I would think I'd have been better 333 00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:21,840 if I was, like, mixed up in the middle of it. 334 00:19:22,580 --> 00:19:26,780 Attention, everybody. We're going to play a game. We are going to spin the 335 00:19:26,780 --> 00:19:27,780 clock. 336 00:19:31,139 --> 00:19:35,000 So Nikki looks really good in her body paint, but it's obvious she's a little 337 00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:36,920 nervous. Hey, that happens sometimes. 338 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:41,120 But once she settles in, once I flirt with her a little while and break that 339 00:19:41,120 --> 00:19:42,400 ice, I'll move in. 340 00:20:02,939 --> 00:20:08,680 Have someone lick and suck one body part. 341 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:10,040 You choose. 342 00:20:10,300 --> 00:20:16,500 I choose Megan to lick 343 00:20:16,500 --> 00:20:18,980 Amanda's poofy. 344 00:20:31,700 --> 00:20:35,020 It was sexy seeing another woman to another woman. 345 00:20:38,940 --> 00:20:40,160 It was actually hot. 346 00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:44,040 Ooh, 347 00:20:44,540 --> 00:20:45,540 I like that. 348 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:47,460 Time, time, time. 349 00:20:47,900 --> 00:20:49,400 Time, time, Megan, time. 350 00:20:49,980 --> 00:20:51,420 Better get it, better get it. 351 00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:54,420 Seeing that go on like live action porn. 352 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:59,820 is pretty awesome because they're both pretty smokin' hot and the only way it 353 00:20:59,820 --> 00:21:01,480 could get better is if my wife was involved in it. 354 00:21:07,060 --> 00:21:07,500 I 355 00:21:07,500 --> 00:21:19,120 didn't 356 00:21:19,120 --> 00:21:19,919 pick it! 357 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:20,940 I didn't pick it! 358 00:21:25,799 --> 00:21:29,760 Give the gift of one free blank to the person of choice. 359 00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:32,880 Whatever you want, you get to give to one person of your choice. 360 00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:35,040 Blowjob. 361 00:21:37,620 --> 00:21:38,000 So 362 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:47,280 it's 363 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:50,560 good to see that Nikki's not as nervous now. She's in a much more playful mood. 364 00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:52,160 I like the way this is going. 365 00:21:52,780 --> 00:21:54,960 We're starting to flirt a little more and have more fun. 366 00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:14,660 I think we're going to try the newbie 367 00:22:14,660 --> 00:22:15,660 out. 368 00:22:33,390 --> 00:22:35,870 That was pretty hot. This is one of my favorites. 369 00:22:37,170 --> 00:22:44,110 Write the CBN or command someone else to do until they orgasm. 370 00:22:44,310 --> 00:22:49,610 This is my favorite toy. Who wants to go on CBN? 371 00:22:49,810 --> 00:22:51,570 I will make you scream tonight. 372 00:22:52,250 --> 00:22:55,090 Seeing it go on is outstanding. 373 00:22:55,550 --> 00:22:57,590 It's better than TV because it's all 3D. 374 00:22:57,990 --> 00:23:00,830 That's hotter than just about anything else I can think of. 375 00:23:29,870 --> 00:23:34,330 During the game, Garrett kept rubbing his feather on me and tickling me, and I 376 00:23:34,330 --> 00:23:36,010 thought that was a form of flirting. 377 00:23:37,090 --> 00:23:42,670 At that point in time, I was excited. I thought it was hot, it was exciting, and 378 00:23:42,670 --> 00:23:44,790 we should do it some more. 379 00:23:53,410 --> 00:23:59,170 So everyone gets real quiet watching Ashley and Nicoletta do their thing. 380 00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:03,180 It's a huge turn on, so I'm really ready to take things to the next level. 381 00:24:20,340 --> 00:24:26,600 I believe I was well on my way to get hot and heavy. For me, I know it was a 382 00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:28,860 good start. I am ready to go. 383 00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:30,539 I'm hot and bothered. 384 00:24:30,540 --> 00:24:30,940 So 385 00:24:30,940 --> 00:24:38,680 the 386 00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:43,700 next plan of action is giving Nikki what she wants. 387 00:24:44,360 --> 00:24:47,680 So I'm going to have to find Daryl and sit down with Daryl and explain to him 388 00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:48,680 what's going on. 389 00:24:55,770 --> 00:24:59,170 I don't know how many experiences y 'all have had like that or whatever, but 390 00:24:59,170 --> 00:25:00,470 first I always ask the guy's permission. 391 00:25:01,250 --> 00:25:05,770 Like, you know, isn't it cool that after a year and a half... Okay, 392 00:25:06,750 --> 00:25:07,750 see, there you go. 393 00:25:08,570 --> 00:25:10,490 That's the most important part, make sure you know how he feels. 394 00:25:11,270 --> 00:25:15,070 I was a little shocked when Garen had said that. 395 00:25:15,330 --> 00:25:19,590 I was kind of freaking out. I was like, wow, it's really going to happen. 396 00:25:20,030 --> 00:25:22,730 If you could give us a little time to talk about it, and we'll get back into 397 00:25:22,730 --> 00:25:23,730 this. That is perfect. 398 00:25:24,130 --> 00:25:25,109 That is perfect. 399 00:25:25,110 --> 00:25:27,850 Are you digging it? 400 00:25:28,570 --> 00:25:29,570 Are you digging him? 401 00:25:30,150 --> 00:25:31,770 Oh, yeah, but I'm not going to leave you like that. 402 00:25:33,650 --> 00:25:36,450 I mean, I'm cool with such a good thing. 403 00:25:37,130 --> 00:25:42,010 Let me know what you're looking for, you know, what you want, and then we can go 404 00:25:42,010 --> 00:25:43,010 from there and let him know. 405 00:25:44,130 --> 00:25:45,130 Okay. Yep. 406 00:25:46,870 --> 00:25:49,170 We had talked, and we... 407 00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:54,600 decided that there was not okay doing one -on -one, that he wanted to do the 408 00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:56,000 whole group dynamic. 409 00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:57,720 We're cool with it. 410 00:25:58,180 --> 00:26:01,740 Our biggest thing is I don't want to be left out, she doesn't want to be left 411 00:26:01,740 --> 00:26:06,720 out, and she's not sure if it's going to be a group thing or a one -on -one. We 412 00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:07,539 like the group thing. 413 00:26:07,540 --> 00:26:09,420 I don't want to go play without my friends. 414 00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:14,160 I was longing for the whole party to be much more fun. 415 00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:16,720 She didn't want me to be left out. 416 00:26:17,510 --> 00:26:18,510 Oh, of course not. 417 00:26:19,230 --> 00:26:21,550 My girl, 418 00:26:23,090 --> 00:26:27,290 she's pretty much 90 % lesbian, 10 % whatever. 419 00:26:27,750 --> 00:26:31,210 So that's a whole nut you'd have to try to crack your own. 420 00:26:31,450 --> 00:26:35,570 It would be a lot easier if the other girls were more into that, but that's 421 00:26:35,570 --> 00:26:40,390 the whole group thing is. Everybody does things at their own speed, so we can 422 00:26:40,390 --> 00:26:41,390 all have a good time. 423 00:26:42,110 --> 00:26:43,370 I'm glad we can see eye to eye. 424 00:26:43,670 --> 00:26:44,750 I like this is my speed. 425 00:26:46,190 --> 00:26:48,250 All right. Beep, beep, beep, beep, beep, beep. All right. 426 00:26:48,690 --> 00:26:52,510 Everybody, we've come to the conclusion that we're all going to take this party 427 00:26:52,510 --> 00:26:55,910 upstairs to the bedroom upstairs and have a good time, just like our day. 428 00:26:56,310 --> 00:26:57,310 Sounds good. 429 00:26:57,570 --> 00:27:00,630 When Daryl and Garen had come down to tell all the girls that we were going to 430 00:27:00,630 --> 00:27:05,530 go back upstairs, at that point in time, I was excited. I thought mine and 431 00:27:05,530 --> 00:27:06,810 Daryl's fantasy was going to come true. 432 00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:19,320 Party of one. 433 00:27:20,060 --> 00:27:24,540 We get 434 00:27:24,540 --> 00:27:33,780 upstairs. 435 00:27:34,100 --> 00:27:35,019 Megan's not shy. 436 00:27:35,020 --> 00:27:38,540 She throws me down into bed, and she immediately starts to give me eggs. 437 00:27:38,740 --> 00:27:41,940 These two see it, and they realize, okay, we'll get comfortable and get 438 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,880 and so they do the same. And we're ready to get this party started. 439 00:27:57,610 --> 00:28:03,270 So here we go. Megan gets things started like she always does. 440 00:28:03,770 --> 00:28:07,030 And when the time is right, I'm going to get Nikki and I'm going to show her 441 00:28:07,030 --> 00:28:08,210 what the lifestyle is really all about. 442 00:28:10,330 --> 00:28:11,350 I did bring a towel. 443 00:28:24,750 --> 00:28:27,910 We really didn't waste any time. We just got right down to business. 444 00:29:08,449 --> 00:29:12,790 There were three couples on our bed. It was hot. And at one point in time, while 445 00:29:12,790 --> 00:29:14,590 we were on the bed, me and Daryl were messing around. 446 00:29:15,070 --> 00:29:18,050 And then me and Darren started messing around. 447 00:29:31,650 --> 00:29:35,650 I am into the whole oral sex group pleasure thing. 448 00:29:36,219 --> 00:29:39,260 Everybody was having a good time. My wife started moaning like she was giving 449 00:29:39,260 --> 00:29:42,120 head. I knew she was enjoying herself, so it was even more of a turn on for me. 450 00:29:46,980 --> 00:29:50,480 Nikki's giving Daryl head, and I'm laying next to them, and I'm kind of 451 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:54,360 on her, letting her know I'm there, and really just letting them experience the 452 00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:56,720 experience of being not alone while having sex. 453 00:29:57,300 --> 00:29:58,300 So we're all good. 454 00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:02,200 Everything's a go. We just got to keep him comfortable, me comfortable, her 455 00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:04,380 comfortable, and most of all, Megan comfortable. 456 00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:46,040 Hmm. 457 00:31:14,670 --> 00:31:19,170 me and Garen started fucking and it was awesome. He has an amazing body. 458 00:32:01,460 --> 00:32:05,080 Nikki really let loose. She kind of let her hair down, so to speak. It really 459 00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:08,460 got kind of wild, and we both drifted off into some really good sex. 460 00:32:50,210 --> 00:32:56,110 This is a fantasy that he had, two guys and her, maybe even a deeper fantasy of 461 00:32:56,110 --> 00:32:57,110 the big black cock. 462 00:32:58,490 --> 00:33:01,070 And this is what we're about. It's so fancy to have a good time. 463 00:33:39,079 --> 00:33:44,480 Right now I'm feeling I took one for the team because Clayton and Kristen, they 464 00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:47,120 got so hot and bottled they wanted to have their own sex instead of sharing 465 00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:48,120 everybody. 466 00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:55,500 Hoping for the whole group thing, you know, maybe get another 467 00:33:55,500 --> 00:33:57,540 female on my left so I can go down to her. 468 00:33:59,420 --> 00:34:02,060 I probably failed to try to close the deal. 469 00:34:05,180 --> 00:34:08,679 But I'm a happy person, so I think the whole time it was hot. 470 00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:11,580 See my wife get pleasure. 471 00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:16,960 Hearing her moan is a very, very awesome thing for me because her fancy coming. 472 00:34:17,580 --> 00:34:21,980 two tonight was an awesome gift just for myself just even if it's something i 473 00:34:21,980 --> 00:34:23,239 just give her one night 474 00:35:03,660 --> 00:35:04,680 How do you feel about last night? 475 00:35:04,940 --> 00:35:07,040 Last night was interesting. 476 00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:11,360 A lot went on. A lot of cool stuff. 477 00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:16,520 Still kind of processing, trying to figure out where everything fits in. 478 00:35:16,900 --> 00:35:18,200 Last night was bittersweet. 479 00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:20,260 Not meeting my ideal foursome. 480 00:35:20,620 --> 00:35:25,400 Kind of was a downer. On a bright note, my wife got to keep one of her 481 00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:30,100 fantasies, which I'm ecstatic for. And I'm sure I'll hear more stories about it 482 00:35:30,100 --> 00:35:31,100 later on when we get home. 483 00:35:31,820 --> 00:35:35,360 Kind of took one for the team, so to speak. There's only like three people 484 00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:39,240 upstairs that I guess maybe even heard that we were all coming up here. 485 00:35:39,940 --> 00:35:43,420 And it's just so happy they were just into women. 486 00:35:44,460 --> 00:35:50,540 I don't know. I think how the dice landed, who hooked up with who, and it 487 00:35:50,540 --> 00:35:56,240 good time. I enjoyed watching and seeing you with the other guy and also with me 488 00:35:56,240 --> 00:35:58,840 at the same time. It was pretty hot. 489 00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:02,400 I really don't feel like I took one for the team. I really don't. There's going 490 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:04,360 to be some fantasies that I may not be involved in. 491 00:36:05,020 --> 00:36:07,560 She may want to tie me to a chair and make me watch, which is cool. 492 00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:10,360 I respect that because I know she has fantasies about women, and sometimes 493 00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:13,360 women with me involved or women with just women. 494 00:36:13,900 --> 00:36:15,820 She's cool with it, or I'm cool with it. 495 00:36:16,380 --> 00:36:18,860 I absolutely did not take one for the team. I really didn't. 496 00:36:19,100 --> 00:36:22,460 I do wish that maybe some kind of action. 497 00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:24,460 Why? Because you get that at home. 498 00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:27,680 But it's still very nice. 499 00:36:27,700 --> 00:36:30,420 If you're not getting anything added, then it's kind of pointless. 500 00:36:30,740 --> 00:36:33,600 Even being with you, I mean, I'm not doing this to replace you, so it's not 501 00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,840 you're not doing enough for me. You could just sit at home and be the 502 00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:38,460 babysitter, and I could go out and have fun. 503 00:36:38,740 --> 00:36:39,860 Not a big thing with young kids. 504 00:36:42,340 --> 00:36:46,240 In this experience, I learned that Daryl is a lot more open to things than I 505 00:36:46,240 --> 00:36:50,760 thought. I figured he'd be somewhat jealous, but he seems not to be. I love 506 00:36:50,940 --> 00:36:51,940 I love you, too. 507 00:37:11,089 --> 00:37:13,090 She needed somebody 508 00:37:13,090 --> 00:37:18,910 to lead the way 509 00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:34,560 Stop lying. 510 00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:36,940 And you could just tell. 511 00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:40,640 They were like in middle school. 512 00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:46,120 Who wrote the do you like me, yes or no letter? 513 00:37:46,660 --> 00:37:50,080 They communicated really well, both with themselves and with me. They didn't 514 00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:54,980 have hang -ups. They were really good with each other, which made it really 515 00:37:54,980 --> 00:37:57,340 easy. It's just they were so good with each other. 516 00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:59,460 Everything else was simple. 517 00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:01,480 That was an experience she wanted. 518 00:38:02,090 --> 00:38:06,870 And so he gives to her. Any guy can give a girl a diamond ring, a car, whatever 519 00:38:06,870 --> 00:38:07,970 it is that's monetary. 520 00:38:08,350 --> 00:38:12,970 But not every guy can give a girl another guy with a big smile on his face 521 00:38:12,970 --> 00:38:16,750 say, hey, this is something we can't get at home or buy at the store. I brought 522 00:38:16,750 --> 00:38:17,750 home the bacon last night. 523 00:38:18,250 --> 00:38:19,250 You sure did. 524 00:38:19,750 --> 00:38:21,210 And we're eating it this morning. 525 00:38:26,530 --> 00:38:29,050 Morning. Morning. How are you guys? 526 00:38:29,290 --> 00:38:30,290 Wonderful. 527 00:38:30,590 --> 00:38:31,590 How was last night? 528 00:38:31,980 --> 00:38:32,859 Good. It was great. 529 00:38:32,860 --> 00:38:33,738 Pretty awesome. 530 00:38:33,740 --> 00:38:34,740 Good. 531 00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:39,060 The thing about something like swinging or any kind of fantasy, it's like you 532 00:38:39,060 --> 00:38:42,760 have the fantasy and it's one thing, and then actually feeling it may have 533 00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,180 stirred up some emotions. 534 00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:50,020 Either way, downstairs we have a relationship expert. She specializes in 535 00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:54,500 and she's going to talk to you and help you sort out everything that happens. 536 00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:55,658 Sounds like a plan. 537 00:38:55,660 --> 00:38:58,680 Okay, good. And after that, you get more time in the house. 538 00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:00,300 Outstanding. Okay. 539 00:39:02,049 --> 00:39:02,908 Let's go. 540 00:39:02,910 --> 00:39:06,390 If you're thinking about this as a fantasy situation, and sometimes fantasy 541 00:39:06,390 --> 00:39:10,090 isn't as great as reality, this is going to fast -forward your relationship. 542 00:39:10,410 --> 00:39:15,050 You're either going to grow and be really committed with your relationship, 543 00:39:15,050 --> 00:39:19,850 you're not because you know what people, their general intentions are. They want 544 00:39:19,850 --> 00:39:20,850 to have sex with you guys. 545 00:39:21,090 --> 00:39:27,270 I mean, they want to play with you guys. It'll help you see your partner a lot 546 00:39:27,270 --> 00:39:28,270 better. 547 00:39:30,050 --> 00:39:31,250 Welcome, Daryl and Nikki. 548 00:39:31,730 --> 00:39:37,290 I'm Dr. Lori Buckley, and I'm a therapist who works with individuals and 549 00:39:37,290 --> 00:39:39,510 around relationship and sexual issues. 550 00:39:39,870 --> 00:39:44,850 So I know last night you were able to explore some fantasies. 551 00:39:45,090 --> 00:39:48,850 What were your expectations before you actually got here? Well, my game here is 552 00:39:48,850 --> 00:39:51,130 kind of just like almost like a freebie. 553 00:39:51,630 --> 00:39:55,690 Okay, maybe like an experiment. Yes, that's a good word for it. And whose 554 00:39:55,690 --> 00:39:56,488 was it? 555 00:39:56,490 --> 00:40:00,310 Oof, oof. Yeah, and when he first told you about it, what were your thoughts? 556 00:40:00,690 --> 00:40:02,390 Are you crazy? Like, what am I doing wrong? 557 00:40:02,710 --> 00:40:03,710 Like, you know. 558 00:40:04,810 --> 00:40:07,310 Why did I have enough? Yeah, yeah, that type of thing. 559 00:40:07,530 --> 00:40:09,290 What was it like for you last night? 560 00:40:10,810 --> 00:40:14,330 It was a lot last night. It wasn't what I expected, I guess. 561 00:40:14,630 --> 00:40:19,010 Seeing her with, like, another guy, it was hot. It really was. You know, got 562 00:40:19,010 --> 00:40:19,848 motor running. 563 00:40:19,850 --> 00:40:23,230 And then later on, the old question popped in, you know, was he better? 564 00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:27,220 You know, bigger, smaller, just kind of... Those aren't really normal, common 565 00:40:27,220 --> 00:40:29,740 concerns. Yeah, you know, she's not going to leave me over her penis. When 566 00:40:29,740 --> 00:40:33,180 does, I'm always top dog. Now it's like, am I really top dog anymore? 567 00:40:33,720 --> 00:40:38,300 Yeah, so in the moment, it seemed fine. Yeah, it was awesome. You were actually 568 00:40:38,300 --> 00:40:42,840 aroused by it. Yeah, and then when you started thinking about it, then you had 569 00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:45,640 those insecurities. Nikki, what's that like for you? 570 00:40:45,980 --> 00:40:48,880 I felt bad last night just because it... 571 00:40:49,230 --> 00:40:53,310 take anything he got stuck with me which you know it's not a bad thing but you 572 00:40:53,310 --> 00:40:57,250 know he gives that all the time once he wants something different you know the 573 00:40:57,250 --> 00:41:01,130 way the card fell that night just all the girls went somewhere else maybe 574 00:41:01,130 --> 00:41:05,310 they're not attracted to me maybe i just can't close the deal but until i get my 575 00:41:05,310 --> 00:41:09,030 my half of it whatever i won't really know it's something that we want to do 576 00:41:09,030 --> 00:41:12,450 like watch her last night yeah we could do that again it'd be awesome i just 577 00:41:12,450 --> 00:41:16,750 don't want to be where i'm always like the third wheel i feel bad because i 578 00:41:16,750 --> 00:41:22,490 like He's not really getting, I guess, the whole benefit of the whole swinging 579 00:41:22,490 --> 00:41:27,670 thing. So you won't feel so bad if he's able to be sexually pleased by another 580 00:41:27,670 --> 00:41:28,488 woman? No. 581 00:41:28,490 --> 00:41:32,130 Yeah. Do you feel bad now that you had sex with another guy? I feel bad because 582 00:41:32,130 --> 00:41:35,270 he didn't get any attention. 583 00:41:36,570 --> 00:41:40,590 So you feel bad for him? For him, yes. You don't feel bad about what you did? 584 00:41:40,790 --> 00:41:42,470 No. Not at all. 585 00:41:44,170 --> 00:41:48,470 You know, from what I can see, it sounds like you're both open to having some 586 00:41:48,470 --> 00:41:49,470 other experiences. 587 00:41:49,750 --> 00:41:55,770 And if that should happen, to make sure that, again, you two are really 588 00:41:55,770 --> 00:41:59,930 communicating. And just go out there and enjoy the rest of your time here. Okay. 589 00:41:59,930 --> 00:42:00,950 Thank you. You're welcome. 590 00:42:21,609 --> 00:42:22,850 Annie, how are you? Yeah. 591 00:42:23,050 --> 00:42:26,090 What time did you guys end up going in last night? Probably about 4 .30. Yeah? 592 00:42:26,390 --> 00:42:27,390 Yeah. 593 00:42:27,850 --> 00:42:33,530 So did you guys have any concerns or issues from your night that you had to 594 00:42:33,530 --> 00:42:34,530 through? 595 00:42:35,230 --> 00:42:36,470 No, not really. I didn't. 596 00:42:36,990 --> 00:42:38,650 We enjoyed it. I have no regrets last night. 597 00:42:38,990 --> 00:42:41,810 It's all about experiences. Some are learning experiences. Some are just 598 00:42:41,810 --> 00:42:44,690 experiences. You sit back and go, ha, ha, ha, you know. 599 00:42:45,110 --> 00:42:47,430 And it's fun for you guys to have this experience. 600 00:42:47,850 --> 00:42:49,490 You know, it is. I'm glad I came. 601 00:42:49,930 --> 00:42:50,930 I'm glad you came. 602 00:42:51,110 --> 00:42:54,470 Even if we decide not to do it, I'm so glad I came, because at least by then 603 00:42:54,470 --> 00:42:56,290 I'll know it's not for me or it's for me. 604 00:42:56,770 --> 00:42:58,410 I'm glad you came. 605 00:43:00,230 --> 00:43:03,010 Me or... Oh, God. 606 00:43:04,110 --> 00:43:06,390 You never know where you're going to find a friend. 607 00:43:06,930 --> 00:43:10,650 Nicky and Daryl came here looking for that something special, and I got to 608 00:43:10,650 --> 00:43:14,690 it to them. I got to have sex with Nicky and have a great time, and he got to 609 00:43:14,690 --> 00:43:17,850 watch her have sex and probably see some things about me he's never seen before. 610 00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:21,560 It was just a great night all the way around. When new people come into the 611 00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:26,380 lifestyle, I think there's a dynamic that they don't understand yet. When 612 00:43:26,380 --> 00:43:30,240 married, your spouse's emotions are now number one to you. 613 00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:34,680 So when, you know, I could be getting really turned on and I could be having a 614 00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:38,860 great time and I look over and I see my husband and he's not playing. We're not 615 00:43:38,860 --> 00:43:42,740 feeling it. He's not having a good night. It doesn't matter what my 616 00:43:42,740 --> 00:43:43,740 at that point in time. 617 00:43:44,060 --> 00:43:46,560 His emotions are number one and I need to cater to him. 618 00:43:47,210 --> 00:43:51,550 And unfortunately, sometimes what happens is because I need to cater to 619 00:43:51,590 --> 00:43:56,510 then to me, other people can feel shunned or hurt. 620 00:43:56,750 --> 00:44:02,770 So initially, like I kind of didn't even allow myself to really get into what 621 00:44:02,770 --> 00:44:07,430 was going on last night just because I'm thinking of how is this going to work? 622 00:44:07,730 --> 00:44:14,290 How are we going to make everybody happy here? And so I had to cater to him and 623 00:44:14,290 --> 00:44:15,990 say, okay, we have to pull back. 624 00:44:16,540 --> 00:44:20,420 no matter what I might be feeling. Kristen says that, you know, just 625 00:44:20,420 --> 00:44:24,140 woman may be attracted to me, but it may not be me, but it might be just an 626 00:44:24,140 --> 00:44:28,700 issue with her husband that they have a rule that she can't play with me even 627 00:44:28,700 --> 00:44:31,380 though she wants to just because of this issue that's going on with their 628 00:44:31,380 --> 00:44:35,240 significant other, which I took to heart because sometimes I take it personal. 629 00:44:35,780 --> 00:44:39,540 You never know what the dynamics are. 630 00:44:39,900 --> 00:44:43,280 Generally, the hardest thing is to learn to not take things personal. 631 00:44:43,979 --> 00:44:49,120 and it's really, really hard to do. Sometimes things hurt, and you have to 632 00:44:49,220 --> 00:44:50,820 you know, I am a good guy. 633 00:44:51,180 --> 00:44:54,640 I'm married to a great girl. Yes, I am. So there probably was something else 634 00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:57,740 going on. But you still look in the mirror and go, yeah, it's probably not 635 00:44:57,900 --> 00:45:03,600 Yes! Daryl did not get any action, and it comes out that, you know, there are 636 00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:07,140 some personal issues that the couple are going through, and so it wasn't nothing 637 00:45:07,140 --> 00:45:09,800 to do with Daryl, and I think that made him feel a lot better. 638 00:45:10,420 --> 00:45:11,420 Hello! 639 00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:13,700 Hi. How is everybody? 640 00:45:14,060 --> 00:45:15,060 Good. How are you? 641 00:45:15,180 --> 00:45:16,180 I'm good. 642 00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:18,380 Alas, I'm the buzzkill. 643 00:45:19,020 --> 00:45:23,400 Yeah. It's time for you guys to sort of say your goodbyes to everybody. Time for 644 00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:25,900 you guys to say your goodbyes to them. And then you want to meet me up front? 645 00:45:27,060 --> 00:45:28,060 I'll see you soon. 646 00:45:29,120 --> 00:45:32,360 When Darla had first talked to me about swinging, I thought he was crazy. It was 647 00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:33,360 never going to happen. 648 00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:37,560 But actually, after experiencing it, I think it's going to be a great thing. 649 00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:38,660 communication is there. 650 00:45:39,020 --> 00:45:40,080 You're able to... 651 00:45:40,670 --> 00:45:44,550 go out and have fun and have sex with other people without being jealous and 652 00:45:44,550 --> 00:45:47,070 just without cheating. 653 00:45:47,570 --> 00:45:48,570 All right, darling. 654 00:45:49,610 --> 00:45:50,610 We'll see you guys. 655 00:45:51,570 --> 00:45:55,670 Say goodbye to the couple. It's kind of sad. 656 00:45:56,110 --> 00:45:57,690 They're not afraid to hide anything. 657 00:45:57,990 --> 00:46:00,450 They're not afraid to flirt or, you know, have a good time. Just to be 658 00:46:00,450 --> 00:46:01,970 themselves and be honest with each other. 659 00:46:02,170 --> 00:46:06,930 Thank you for sharing your beautiful... I had a lot of good conversations with 660 00:46:06,930 --> 00:46:09,370 everybody. I'm not afraid to call any of these folks my friends at all. 661 00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:10,760 Nice meeting you guys. Bye, guys. 662 00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:21,520 Okay, there's just one more thing before you guys go back to your regular life. 663 00:46:21,580 --> 00:46:25,120 I have the contract that you signed when you got here. Remember that? Yeah. Gave 664 00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:28,960 you permission to hook up with other people. So do you want to tear it up 665 00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:32,780 million little pieces, forget any of this ever happened? Do you want to put 666 00:46:32,780 --> 00:46:33,940 in the family album? 667 00:46:34,240 --> 00:46:37,020 I guess what I'm asking is, was this a fling? 668 00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:39,320 Or do you think you want to swing again? 669 00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:51,500 I don't know. I think I'm going to swing. 670 00:46:53,780 --> 00:46:56,840 Well, thank you, you guys. You've been really great guests. Thanks for having 671 00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:58,700 us. Have a safe trip home. Thank you. Thank you. 672 00:46:58,980 --> 00:46:59,980 Here we go? Yep. 673 00:47:03,620 --> 00:47:05,800 It was a good time. It was an awesome experience. 674 00:47:06,900 --> 00:47:12,700 And I'm glad that we could, I'm glad me and Nikki could do this on a kind of 675 00:47:12,700 --> 00:47:13,840 like a trial by fire basis. 676 00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:17,580 And we were trusting enough to each other, give each other a free pass just 677 00:47:17,580 --> 00:47:18,900 do it. It was awesome. 678 00:47:19,240 --> 00:47:22,100 I guess what I had built in my head, the whole perfect fantasy when it comes to 679 00:47:22,100 --> 00:47:23,100 real life is not always perfect. 680 00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:27,360 But I enjoyed the, I enjoyed watching it complete. 681 00:47:28,220 --> 00:47:29,220 It was awesome. 682 00:47:29,300 --> 00:47:33,020 It was, you know, it's still a fantasy, but it wasn't like, I guess the main one 683 00:47:33,020 --> 00:47:34,020 that I wanted to. 684 00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:37,400 fulfill this time? Any fantasies that you fulfilled or didn't fulfill that you 685 00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:38,019 wanted to? 686 00:47:38,020 --> 00:47:43,120 I'm going to have to say mine was not fulfilled just because I wanted to see 687 00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:44,120 get pleased. 688 00:47:44,540 --> 00:47:45,540 Awesome. 58122

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