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If you think swingers are something out
of 70s movies and back -of -the -rack
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magazines, think again.
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These days, couples from all walks of
life are embracing the lifestyle, and
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they're changing the way people think
about marriage. I'm standing outside a
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luxurious mansion where some sexy, very
happy couples are having the time
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of their lives.
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Now a new couple who's never done...
Anything like this before is about to
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in on the action, too.
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Take a look at this.
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Hi, I'm Daryl. Nikki.
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And we're from Barfield, California.
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We've been married for seven and a half
years.
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I am very happy with my current sex
life. I always wish I could have more.
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It feels good to have sex five times a
day, every day.
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I'm looking for just overall sexual raw
energy, like fun, excitement.
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I'm interacting with guys and girls, so
it's pretty open.
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We're here to find out if it's cool or
not. I'm giving Daryl and Nikki an
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exclusive pass into the hot, passionate,
clothing optional party going on
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inside.
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Can they really share their partner with
someone else? And how will it affect
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their relationship?
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I'm Anna David. Hold on tight.
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This is Twig.
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Well, I think this is a big step for us.
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I think it's going to be awesome.
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It'll be another day in paradise.
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It was Daryl's idea to start swinging.
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I thought he was crazy. There's no way.
What am I doing wrong?
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I'm really nervous and scared, wondering
what people are going to be like.
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I'd like to see you get pleased by a
guy. I think it's going to be awesome.
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It's a good banana. Definitely the whole
girl -girl thing.
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But overall, I'd like to see you just be
yourself and have a good time.
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I mean, that's really what this is
about, you know, us as a couple. After
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a couple of kids, like, I was kind of
looking forward, you know, extra stuff
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spice up our relationship and marriage.
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So I kind of came upon this whole
swinging thing.
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After a year of talking to her, she kind
of gave me a good thumbs up, said,
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let's try it.
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Ultimately, I guess it was my decision,
but since it's a team effort, I couldn't
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have done it without her.
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Honey, we're home.
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We're here. Are you ready?
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Ready as I'm going to get.
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Let's do this.
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Hi. Hey.
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I'm Anna. Nikki.
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And you must be Daryl.
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Yes, ma 'am. Nice to meet you both.
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How are you guys doing? Good.
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Outstanding. Outstanding. Outstanding.
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Any nervousness? Any butterflies?
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That's why I'm so outstanding. I'm just
a bundle of nerves right now. You're
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outstandingly nervous? Yes.
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There's just one thing.
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Before I let you loose in the house, we
need to talk about something. So you
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want to follow me?
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Yes, ma 'am. All right. All right, let's
do it.
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I introduced you to the lifestyle
because that's kind of where I knew I
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to be always.
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Funny because you didn't really
introduce me. You just kind of threw me
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It's a good thing I'm a good swimmer.
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So, what I have here is a contract.
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Okay. And I was going to sign it, and it
basically says that, you know, you give
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each other permission to hook up with
other people while you're here.
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Right now, we're on the threshold of
something that a lot of people dream
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a lot of people fantasize about. And
here we are, ready to take that step
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the threshold.
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Does one of you want to actually read it
out loud?
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I'll do that.
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We have agreed to take part in a sexual
venture over the next two days, during
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which all the normal rules of a
monogamous relationship will be
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aside. We promise not to hold what
happens here against each other once the
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venture is over. What happens in the
swing house stays in the swing house.
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Daryl and I have been together for
almost nine years.
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Coming to the house, I was really
scared, not knowing what was going to
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I'm hoping for just overall good time
with a bunch of different couples.
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Any special rules we have for each other
during our time will be written in the
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space below. We hope to have fun and
explore everything the lifestyle has to
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offer, knowing that the ultimate goal is
a stronger, healthier, more fulfilling
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relationship. Okay, so do you have any
of these additional rules? And if so,
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you write them in the space there?
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Same room. Same room until we're
comfortable.
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Mm -hmm.
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No taking one for the team.
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Yep.
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And then sign at the bottom.
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I'm going to hold on to this.
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So why don't you guys, you know, go up
to your room, get refreshed, do what you
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want to do, and come downstairs. I know
the other guys are excited to meet you.
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Ready to do this? Yep. All standing.
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Awesome. This house is amazing. It's
huge. There's a lot of things that I
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like in my own personal house, so I'm
ecstatic.
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Are you nervous?
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I get nervous meeting people anyway,
even when I'm just being myself, and
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is because they made that kid.
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We're going out to meet the couple.
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We're excited. We're nervous, wondering
what the people's going to be like.
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Rock and roll.
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I felt comfortable once I got out there.
All of the couples that were out there,
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they were all very good looking. There
was no weird vibes.
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They just seemed like a great group of
people.
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I don't really know if my jaw actually
dropped and hit the ground, but I was
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shocked with the quality of people.
Every single woman there is outstanding.
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And I stared at everybody's ass and
tits.
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Probably with them knowing. Probably
wouldn't do a very good job at peeking.
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More like a... Darryl, it's Clayton.
Nice to meet you.
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Hi, Amanda.
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Hi. I'm Black Guy 1. Black Guy 1.
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I'm Early. Nice to meet you.
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I'm Clayton. Nice to meet you. You too?
Darryl. Nice to meet you. Amanda.
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Amanda. Nikki. Nice to meet you.
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I'm Meg.
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And you're Black Guy 2? Darryl.
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The first time we met, Nikki and her
other half, They walked out the door. We
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all waved hello.
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I gave them a quick glance.
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And as she swept her eyes across the
whole crowd, she looked at me for a
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second, but she didn't stare at me. And
then she looked away.
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The lack of eye contact is what gave her
away.
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So that the next time we made eye
contact, I could totally read her
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hear about what that guy would do.
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So how long have you guys been together?
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We've been married seven, but we've been
together nine.
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Nine days.
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Nine years. Are you confident in your
ability to communicate together and to
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open while things are happening?
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First thing I know about Kristen, blonde
hair, very gorgeous body and eyes. She
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had a good smile.
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She was very open and warm.
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You know, are you wanting to do more
girl action or are you guys okay with
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exploring couples?
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I think we're pretty much open to... Or
just good old -fashioned orgies. Just
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about anything. Pretty open to...
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Like I said, jump in head first in the
water. Hopefully we don't hit our head
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the bottom of the pool.
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What about you guys? We have a couple.
No fish hooking, no eye gouging.
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I think at one point in time we talked
about no kissing, but then we're like...
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This thing, in fact, is like peanut
butter and jelly. It kind of meshes
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to the degree.
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Okay, so I'm taking your drink orders
really quick.
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Anybody need anything?
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Can I order a dirty leprechaun?
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Don't forget that Jeff, the body
painter, is inside with his assistant,
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So as soon as you guys get a chance, go
get painted.
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Oh, nice.
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And he's amazing.
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Awesome. Sexy body painting. I've never
seen it done.
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I've seen pictures online. I've never
seen it before in person.
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But I like a room with full sexual
intention and a pool of cool people.
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what I had envisioned.
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You know, when a new couple comes in and
exploring fantasies with them, it's
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just so much easier if they're confident
enough to say what they're looking for
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and to say what they want.
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They know that we're more experienced
and that we're apt to help them achieve
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that. And not only...
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telling us their fantasies, but also
discussing between each other before, so
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it's not a surprise to them when, you
know, I want to be tied up comes out and
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the other partner just freaks out.
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And knowing what their boundaries are
and then bringing it up to us. Correct.
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And letting what happened happen.
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And it's fun.
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The first shocker for me is when I
looked over and there are girls naked,
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completely bucket -ass naked. It was
extremely smoking hot.
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All right. Okay.
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Let's get you started.
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So we get inside, and Megan turns down
to nothing real quick. Now, I'm used to
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that. But Daryl, he was like... I
thought it was the funniest
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thing I ever saw.
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Sometimes when you have new couples in
this environment for the first time, you
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have to take them by the hand and leave
them.
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Megan and I have done that for a lot of
new couples.
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We really like doing it, and we are
really good at it.
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The other girls were getting body
painted. At that time, I was not hoping
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it was me because I was so nervous.
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Halfway through playing with them, you
could even be like, I'm sorry, I'm not
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really feeling it. Like, I thought I
would.
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And nobody's going to judge you.
Nobody's going to be like, oh, you know.
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Or if you even just say no.
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All the girls had a lot of good
information about the whole swinging
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After talking about it, I loosened up.
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Some of the newbies, when they get into
the lifestyle, they come not of any
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fault of their own, but with their own,
it never happens.
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And they're all in anticipation.
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It takes an awful lot of time to break.
It takes time to get past that. It
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really does.
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Everybody asks that same question. How
do you deal with the jealousy?
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Jealousy is an emotion based in
insecurity.
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Plain and simple. Or trust.
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Well, it's either insecurity in the
relationship or insecurity within
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themselves. So, yeah, lack of trust is
an insecurity in a relationship.
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Absolutely. You're not secure.
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Who's next?
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Nikki. Nikki is next.
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Nikki. I said you're next.
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Are you going to get body painted?
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Yeah. Have fun.
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I've never been body painted, and I was
really nervous, but it was an experience
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I didn't want to miss.
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You ready? Yeah.
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Okay. After having a few drinks, I felt
really comfortable getting body painted.
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I took all my clothes off. Don't worry,
honey. It won't hurt.
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As a body painter, it's the person's
comfort level and what they're real
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comfortable with. You can usually tell
right off the bat.
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If somebody wants to get naked, they'll
just stand there, get naked, and boom,
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they're right on the table.
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So what I'll do is if somebody isn't too
sure whether they want to be naked,
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we'll paint the top first, and then
after comfort, if she starts to feel
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and more comfortable about it, realize
what the body paint is, and we kind of
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progress on it.
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I go down there looking at her, watching
the brush, and seeing her squirm a
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little bit. It was awesome. The girl's
being completely naked.
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But you're not really seeing anything
because everything's all painted. It's
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very hot.
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Swing's all about you.
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It's about you as a couple.
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You're the most important part of swing.
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Because without you being a couple, it's
just another single part.
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So you guys having a good time so far?
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Yes, it's very fun, and I enjoy myself.
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After getting naked and getting body
painted, I felt really comfortable
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all the girls were naked and body
painted as well.
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I know, like, when we first started
talking about it, she was, like, the
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mom's gonna do this.
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When she relaxes and she's herself,
she's awesome.
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Now she walks around naked, so.
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You know, people have their little boxes
sometimes, and they can't escape that
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box. They're gonna try to make you feel
bad about yourself.
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You know? And that's just, when you say,
oh, there's, you know, I'm a mom, how
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do I feel?
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Are you still a person?
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Just because you had kids, just because
you have a family.
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It doesn't mean you're not a person and
you don't have things you like to do.
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Just because you're a mom, it doesn't
have to define you. You can fill fish,
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pee, have deep sex, whatever you like to
do.
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It ain't no different from baseball
practice or any other thing you do as a
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family. It's just a different thing you
like to do.
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I got a plan. Now I just have to go out
and execute it. As long as Daryl's cool
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with it, this will be a very interesting
night.
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You know, life is short.
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We may not have a lot of time in the
morning.
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I know what I'd like to have happen
tonight.
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I'd like to get to know Nikki in the
bedroom.
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So in the world of Karen, there are
always three P's.
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Patience, persistence, and perseverance.
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And three P's will get you fourth.
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And that's whatever the fourth P you
want it to be.
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Prosperity, pithy.
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Okay, guys, so it's time to get ready
for the night. You're going to go
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upstairs, do your last touch -up, and
come back down here when you're done.
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Ready?
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I think people in the lifestyle
definitely have...
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at least ten times more sex than vanilla
couples because we appreciate it more
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and we keep it interesting and we know
how to spice it up.
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Even if it's the same person, after
you've been with somebody else, it
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feel like the same person when you go
back.
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I can see us having fun with anybody on
there, really.
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I mean, I guess it's kind of broad in
generalization, but I think... Earlier
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the day, Daryl had actually planned
Garen out, and was like, yeah, you think
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he's cute, and you're going to hook up
with him.
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And I'm like, okay, yeah, whatever.
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But he was cute.
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How are you?
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What if that's all of them?
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That's a top -out answer.
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Really happy with the communication
level that this couple has.
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He definitely knows how to communicate
with her more, and I think that if
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they're uncomfortable with something,
I'm thinking they're going to be more
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comfortable voicing it.
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You know, I sat down and talked to her,
and she actually seems pretty confident,
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pretty straightforward.
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She seems to be okay with everything. I
didn't get a sense of any boundaries
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with them other than they want it to be
fun, and as long as it's fun, they're
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fine with it.
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Got any idea what you think is going to
happen tonight?
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Um, I think it'll happen a little bit,
maybe role reversal, where maybe you
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can just jump in the middle and I'll
just stand in the back. Because I don't
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feel like she's really in the girl.
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I don't know where it's going to go, but
I do know at some point. Once I've got
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the all clear from her guy, I'm just
going to walk up to her and take her by
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hand and see if she follows me. But I
just got this really strong feeling that
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she'll follow me.
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Do you have anybody picked out or are
you set on?
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I'd like to get all of them really.
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Do you want them in?
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No.
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Love you.
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Love you too.
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Sometimes we go to a party and nothing
happens, and that's okay.
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We have fun just about anywhere we go,
so it doesn't really matter, and that's
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kind of what we focused on. So you may
go to a party and nothing happens.
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You may go to a party and just flirt all
night.
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You know, if we go to a party with
expectations, that's where we found that
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have issues, that we get upset.
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If you go in without expectations and
you just let things happen the way they
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naturally will happen, and your focus is
just having a good time, you'll end up
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having a good time. And if it ends up
going somewhere, fantastic. But if not,
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get to go home with him.
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Hey, so you guys ready for your first
night in the lifestyle?
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Yes, most definitely.
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And how you feeling? Are we like
excited, nervous?
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I think I'm a little over the nervous
bug and I'm more excited now.
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So, see anything you like around here?
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Most definitely.
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Well, remember, this is not window
shopping. You actually get the touch.
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But you have to live with what happens.
You don't get to like wake up tomorrow
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morning. Have an extra person in your
bed and go, what the hell are they doing
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here? You know what I'm saying?
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Only if you drink too much, you'll
remember it.
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May I propose a toast to a night of
indecent proposals.
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Outstanding. Cheers.
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Cheers. Cheers. Cheers.
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Have a blast, guys. And who knows, maybe
even more than one blast.
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Boom. There you go. Right now I'm
feeling, I'm excited.
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Hey, I think it's a good time for us to
all sit.
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Adjourn to the living room, and let's
let the girls give us a nice little
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fashion show with their new body paint.
What do you think?
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Sounds like a plan.
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Sounded like a good idea at the time,
but then I got really nervous and didn't
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want to do it.
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I was still just really nervous.
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Megan,
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she has an outstanding body.
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Tan, everything's where it's supposed to
be, and, you know, so it's outstanding.
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I have to play more my type than
anybody. She's a petite blonde Yeah,
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more my quote -unquote type for Miss
Ashley.
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I Love fashion shows being sexy ladies
stretch yourself is my definite idea of
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good time
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The blonde hair, just tall, just awesome
personality. Just, like, first
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impressions, just amazing.
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I was really nervous about the fashion
show, and I didn't want to do it, but
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Kristen helped me out, so I walked out
with her.
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I felt weird just because I was the last
one. I would think I'd have been better
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if I was, like, mixed up in the middle
of it.
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Attention, everybody. We're going to
play a game. We are going to spin the
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clock.
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So Nikki looks really good in her body
paint, but it's obvious she's a little
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nervous. Hey, that happens sometimes.
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But once she settles in, once I flirt
with her a little while and break that
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ice, I'll move in.
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Have someone lick and suck one body
part.
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You choose.
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I choose Megan to lick
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Amanda's poofy.
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It was sexy seeing another woman to
another woman.
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It was actually hot.
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Ooh,
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I like that.
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Time, time, time.
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Time, time, Megan, time.
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Better get it, better get it.
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Seeing that go on like live action porn.
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is pretty awesome because they're both
pretty smokin' hot and the only way it
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could get better is if my wife was
involved in it.
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I
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didn't
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pick it!
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I didn't pick it!
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Give the gift of one free blank to the
person of choice.
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Whatever you want, you get to give to
one person of your choice.
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Blowjob.
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So
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it's
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good to see that Nikki's not as nervous
now. She's in a much more playful mood.
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I like the way this is going.
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We're starting to flirt a little more
and have more fun.
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I think we're going to try the newbie
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out.
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That was pretty hot. This is one of my
favorites.
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Write the CBN or command someone else to
do until they orgasm.
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This is my favorite toy. Who wants to go
on CBN?
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I will make you scream tonight.
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Seeing it go on is outstanding.
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It's better than TV because it's all 3D.
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That's hotter than just about anything
else I can think of.
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During the game, Garrett kept rubbing
his feather on me and tickling me, and I
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thought that was a form of flirting.
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At that point in time, I was excited. I
thought it was hot, it was exciting, and
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we should do it some more.
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So everyone gets real quiet watching
Ashley and Nicoletta do their thing.
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It's a huge turn on, so I'm really ready
to take things to the next level.
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I believe I was well on my way to get
hot and heavy. For me, I know it was a
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good start. I am ready to go.
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I'm hot and bothered.
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So
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the
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next plan of action is giving Nikki what
she wants.
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So I'm going to have to find Daryl and
sit down with Daryl and explain to him
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what's going on.
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I don't know how many experiences y 'all
have had like that or whatever, but
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first I always ask the guy's permission.
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Like, you know, isn't it cool that after
a year and a half... Okay,
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see, there you go.
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That's the most important part, make
sure you know how he feels.
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I was a little shocked when Garen had
said that.
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I was kind of freaking out. I was like,
wow, it's really going to happen.
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If you could give us a little time to
talk about it, and we'll get back into
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this. That is perfect.
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That is perfect.
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Are you digging it?
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Are you digging him?
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Oh, yeah, but I'm not going to leave you
like that.
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00:25:33,650 --> 00:25:36,450
I mean, I'm cool with such a good thing.
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00:25:37,130 --> 00:25:42,010
Let me know what you're looking for, you
know, what you want, and then we can go
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from there and let him know.
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00:25:44,130 --> 00:25:45,130
Okay. Yep.
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We had talked, and we...
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decided that there was not okay doing
one -on -one, that he wanted to do the
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whole group dynamic.
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00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:57,720
We're cool with it.
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Our biggest thing is I don't want to be
left out, she doesn't want to be left
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out, and she's not sure if it's going to
be a group thing or a one -on -one. We
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like the group thing.
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I don't want to go play without my
friends.
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I was longing for the whole party to be
much more fun.
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She didn't want me to be left out.
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Oh, of course not.
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My girl,
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she's pretty much 90 % lesbian, 10 %
whatever.
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So that's a whole nut you'd have to try
to crack your own.
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It would be a lot easier if the other
girls were more into that, but that's
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the whole group thing is. Everybody does
things at their own speed, so we can
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all have a good time.
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I'm glad we can see eye to eye.
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I like this is my speed.
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All right. Beep, beep, beep, beep, beep,
beep. All right.
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Everybody, we've come to the conclusion
that we're all going to take this party
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upstairs to the bedroom upstairs and
have a good time, just like our day.
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Sounds good.
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When Daryl and Garen had come down to
tell all the girls that we were going to
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go back upstairs, at that point in time,
I was excited. I thought mine and
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Daryl's fantasy was going to come true.
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Party of one.
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We get
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upstairs.
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Megan's not shy.
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She throws me down into bed, and she
immediately starts to give me eggs.
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These two see it, and they realize,
okay, we'll get comfortable and get
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and so they do the same. And we're ready
to get this party started.
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00:27:57,610 --> 00:28:03,270
So here we go. Megan gets things started
like she always does.
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And when the time is right, I'm going to
get Nikki and I'm going to show her
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what the lifestyle is really all about.
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I did bring a towel.
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We really didn't waste any time. We just
got right down to business.
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00:29:08,449 --> 00:29:12,790
There were three couples on our bed. It
was hot. And at one point in time, while
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we were on the bed, me and Daryl were
messing around.
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And then me and Darren started messing
around.
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I am into the whole oral sex group
pleasure thing.
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00:29:36,219 --> 00:29:39,260
Everybody was having a good time. My
wife started moaning like she was giving
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head. I knew she was enjoying herself,
so it was even more of a turn on for me.
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Nikki's giving Daryl head, and I'm
laying next to them, and I'm kind of
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on her, letting her know I'm there, and
really just letting them experience the
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experience of being not alone while
having sex.
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So we're all good.
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Everything's a go. We just got to keep
him comfortable, me comfortable, her
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comfortable, and most of all, Megan
comfortable.
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Hmm.
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me and Garen started fucking and it was
awesome. He has an amazing body.
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Nikki really let loose. She kind of let
her hair down, so to speak. It really
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got kind of wild, and we both drifted
off into some really good sex.
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This is a fantasy that he had, two guys
and her, maybe even a deeper fantasy of
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the big black cock.
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And this is what we're about. It's so
fancy to have a good time.
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Right now I'm feeling I took one for the
team because Clayton and Kristen, they
464
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:47,120
got so hot and bottled they wanted to
have their own sex instead of sharing
465
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:48,120
everybody.
466
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:55,500
Hoping for the whole group thing, you
know, maybe get another
467
00:33:55,500 --> 00:33:57,540
female on my left so I can go down to
her.
468
00:33:59,420 --> 00:34:02,060
I probably failed to try to close the
deal.
469
00:34:05,180 --> 00:34:08,679
But I'm a happy person, so I think the
whole time it was hot.
470
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:11,580
See my wife get pleasure.
471
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:16,960
Hearing her moan is a very, very awesome
thing for me because her fancy coming.
472
00:34:17,580 --> 00:34:21,980
two tonight was an awesome gift just for
myself just even if it's something i
473
00:34:21,980 --> 00:34:23,239
just give her one night
474
00:35:03,660 --> 00:35:04,680
How do you feel about last night?
475
00:35:04,940 --> 00:35:07,040
Last night was interesting.
476
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:11,360
A lot went on. A lot of cool stuff.
477
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:16,520
Still kind of processing, trying to
figure out where everything fits in.
478
00:35:16,900 --> 00:35:18,200
Last night was bittersweet.
479
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:20,260
Not meeting my ideal foursome.
480
00:35:20,620 --> 00:35:25,400
Kind of was a downer. On a bright note,
my wife got to keep one of her
481
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:30,100
fantasies, which I'm ecstatic for. And
I'm sure I'll hear more stories about it
482
00:35:30,100 --> 00:35:31,100
later on when we get home.
483
00:35:31,820 --> 00:35:35,360
Kind of took one for the team, so to
speak. There's only like three people
484
00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:39,240
upstairs that I guess maybe even heard
that we were all coming up here.
485
00:35:39,940 --> 00:35:43,420
And it's just so happy they were just
into women.
486
00:35:44,460 --> 00:35:50,540
I don't know. I think how the dice
landed, who hooked up with who, and it
487
00:35:50,540 --> 00:35:56,240
good time. I enjoyed watching and seeing
you with the other guy and also with me
488
00:35:56,240 --> 00:35:58,840
at the same time. It was pretty hot.
489
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:02,400
I really don't feel like I took one for
the team. I really don't. There's going
490
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:04,360
to be some fantasies that I may not be
involved in.
491
00:36:05,020 --> 00:36:07,560
She may want to tie me to a chair and
make me watch, which is cool.
492
00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:10,360
I respect that because I know she has
fantasies about women, and sometimes
493
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:13,360
women with me involved or women with
just women.
494
00:36:13,900 --> 00:36:15,820
She's cool with it, or I'm cool with it.
495
00:36:16,380 --> 00:36:18,860
I absolutely did not take one for the
team. I really didn't.
496
00:36:19,100 --> 00:36:22,460
I do wish that maybe some kind of
action.
497
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:24,460
Why? Because you get that at home.
498
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:27,680
But it's still very nice.
499
00:36:27,700 --> 00:36:30,420
If you're not getting anything added,
then it's kind of pointless.
500
00:36:30,740 --> 00:36:33,600
Even being with you, I mean, I'm not
doing this to replace you, so it's not
501
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,840
you're not doing enough for me. You
could just sit at home and be the
502
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:38,460
babysitter, and I could go out and have
fun.
503
00:36:38,740 --> 00:36:39,860
Not a big thing with young kids.
504
00:36:42,340 --> 00:36:46,240
In this experience, I learned that Daryl
is a lot more open to things than I
505
00:36:46,240 --> 00:36:50,760
thought. I figured he'd be somewhat
jealous, but he seems not to be. I love
506
00:36:50,940 --> 00:36:51,940
I love you, too.
507
00:37:11,089 --> 00:37:13,090
She needed somebody
508
00:37:13,090 --> 00:37:18,910
to lead the way
509
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:34,560
Stop lying.
510
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:36,940
And you could just tell.
511
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:40,640
They were like in middle school.
512
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:46,120
Who wrote the do you like me, yes or no
letter?
513
00:37:46,660 --> 00:37:50,080
They communicated really well, both with
themselves and with me. They didn't
514
00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:54,980
have hang -ups. They were really good
with each other, which made it really
515
00:37:54,980 --> 00:37:57,340
easy. It's just they were so good with
each other.
516
00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:59,460
Everything else was simple.
517
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:01,480
That was an experience she wanted.
518
00:38:02,090 --> 00:38:06,870
And so he gives to her. Any guy can give
a girl a diamond ring, a car, whatever
519
00:38:06,870 --> 00:38:07,970
it is that's monetary.
520
00:38:08,350 --> 00:38:12,970
But not every guy can give a girl
another guy with a big smile on his face
521
00:38:12,970 --> 00:38:16,750
say, hey, this is something we can't get
at home or buy at the store. I brought
522
00:38:16,750 --> 00:38:17,750
home the bacon last night.
523
00:38:18,250 --> 00:38:19,250
You sure did.
524
00:38:19,750 --> 00:38:21,210
And we're eating it this morning.
525
00:38:26,530 --> 00:38:29,050
Morning. Morning. How are you guys?
526
00:38:29,290 --> 00:38:30,290
Wonderful.
527
00:38:30,590 --> 00:38:31,590
How was last night?
528
00:38:31,980 --> 00:38:32,859
Good. It was great.
529
00:38:32,860 --> 00:38:33,738
Pretty awesome.
530
00:38:33,740 --> 00:38:34,740
Good.
531
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:39,060
The thing about something like swinging
or any kind of fantasy, it's like you
532
00:38:39,060 --> 00:38:42,760
have the fantasy and it's one thing, and
then actually feeling it may have
533
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,180
stirred up some emotions.
534
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:50,020
Either way, downstairs we have a
relationship expert. She specializes in
535
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:54,500
and she's going to talk to you and help
you sort out everything that happens.
536
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:55,658
Sounds like a plan.
537
00:38:55,660 --> 00:38:58,680
Okay, good. And after that, you get more
time in the house.
538
00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:00,300
Outstanding. Okay.
539
00:39:02,049 --> 00:39:02,908
Let's go.
540
00:39:02,910 --> 00:39:06,390
If you're thinking about this as a
fantasy situation, and sometimes fantasy
541
00:39:06,390 --> 00:39:10,090
isn't as great as reality, this is going
to fast -forward your relationship.
542
00:39:10,410 --> 00:39:15,050
You're either going to grow and be
really committed with your relationship,
543
00:39:15,050 --> 00:39:19,850
you're not because you know what people,
their general intentions are. They want
544
00:39:19,850 --> 00:39:20,850
to have sex with you guys.
545
00:39:21,090 --> 00:39:27,270
I mean, they want to play with you guys.
It'll help you see your partner a lot
546
00:39:27,270 --> 00:39:28,270
better.
547
00:39:30,050 --> 00:39:31,250
Welcome, Daryl and Nikki.
548
00:39:31,730 --> 00:39:37,290
I'm Dr. Lori Buckley, and I'm a
therapist who works with individuals and
549
00:39:37,290 --> 00:39:39,510
around relationship and sexual issues.
550
00:39:39,870 --> 00:39:44,850
So I know last night you were able to
explore some fantasies.
551
00:39:45,090 --> 00:39:48,850
What were your expectations before you
actually got here? Well, my game here is
552
00:39:48,850 --> 00:39:51,130
kind of just like almost like a freebie.
553
00:39:51,630 --> 00:39:55,690
Okay, maybe like an experiment. Yes,
that's a good word for it. And whose
554
00:39:55,690 --> 00:39:56,488
was it?
555
00:39:56,490 --> 00:40:00,310
Oof, oof. Yeah, and when he first told
you about it, what were your thoughts?
556
00:40:00,690 --> 00:40:02,390
Are you crazy? Like, what am I doing
wrong?
557
00:40:02,710 --> 00:40:03,710
Like, you know.
558
00:40:04,810 --> 00:40:07,310
Why did I have enough? Yeah, yeah, that
type of thing.
559
00:40:07,530 --> 00:40:09,290
What was it like for you last night?
560
00:40:10,810 --> 00:40:14,330
It was a lot last night. It wasn't what
I expected, I guess.
561
00:40:14,630 --> 00:40:19,010
Seeing her with, like, another guy, it
was hot. It really was. You know, got
562
00:40:19,010 --> 00:40:19,848
motor running.
563
00:40:19,850 --> 00:40:23,230
And then later on, the old question
popped in, you know, was he better?
564
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:27,220
You know, bigger, smaller, just kind
of... Those aren't really normal, common
565
00:40:27,220 --> 00:40:29,740
concerns. Yeah, you know, she's not
going to leave me over her penis. When
566
00:40:29,740 --> 00:40:33,180
does, I'm always top dog. Now it's like,
am I really top dog anymore?
567
00:40:33,720 --> 00:40:38,300
Yeah, so in the moment, it seemed fine.
Yeah, it was awesome. You were actually
568
00:40:38,300 --> 00:40:42,840
aroused by it. Yeah, and then when you
started thinking about it, then you had
569
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:45,640
those insecurities. Nikki, what's that
like for you?
570
00:40:45,980 --> 00:40:48,880
I felt bad last night just because it...
571
00:40:49,230 --> 00:40:53,310
take anything he got stuck with me which
you know it's not a bad thing but you
572
00:40:53,310 --> 00:40:57,250
know he gives that all the time once he
wants something different you know the
573
00:40:57,250 --> 00:41:01,130
way the card fell that night just all
the girls went somewhere else maybe
574
00:41:01,130 --> 00:41:05,310
they're not attracted to me maybe i just
can't close the deal but until i get my
575
00:41:05,310 --> 00:41:09,030
my half of it whatever i won't really
know it's something that we want to do
576
00:41:09,030 --> 00:41:12,450
like watch her last night yeah we could
do that again it'd be awesome i just
577
00:41:12,450 --> 00:41:16,750
don't want to be where i'm always like
the third wheel i feel bad because i
578
00:41:16,750 --> 00:41:22,490
like He's not really getting, I guess,
the whole benefit of the whole swinging
579
00:41:22,490 --> 00:41:27,670
thing. So you won't feel so bad if he's
able to be sexually pleased by another
580
00:41:27,670 --> 00:41:28,488
woman? No.
581
00:41:28,490 --> 00:41:32,130
Yeah. Do you feel bad now that you had
sex with another guy? I feel bad because
582
00:41:32,130 --> 00:41:35,270
he didn't get any attention.
583
00:41:36,570 --> 00:41:40,590
So you feel bad for him? For him, yes.
You don't feel bad about what you did?
584
00:41:40,790 --> 00:41:42,470
No. Not at all.
585
00:41:44,170 --> 00:41:48,470
You know, from what I can see, it sounds
like you're both open to having some
586
00:41:48,470 --> 00:41:49,470
other experiences.
587
00:41:49,750 --> 00:41:55,770
And if that should happen, to make sure
that, again, you two are really
588
00:41:55,770 --> 00:41:59,930
communicating. And just go out there and
enjoy the rest of your time here. Okay.
589
00:41:59,930 --> 00:42:00,950
Thank you. You're welcome.
590
00:42:21,609 --> 00:42:22,850
Annie, how are you? Yeah.
591
00:42:23,050 --> 00:42:26,090
What time did you guys end up going in
last night? Probably about 4 .30. Yeah?
592
00:42:26,390 --> 00:42:27,390
Yeah.
593
00:42:27,850 --> 00:42:33,530
So did you guys have any concerns or
issues from your night that you had to
594
00:42:33,530 --> 00:42:34,530
through?
595
00:42:35,230 --> 00:42:36,470
No, not really. I didn't.
596
00:42:36,990 --> 00:42:38,650
We enjoyed it. I have no regrets last
night.
597
00:42:38,990 --> 00:42:41,810
It's all about experiences. Some are
learning experiences. Some are just
598
00:42:41,810 --> 00:42:44,690
experiences. You sit back and go, ha,
ha, ha, you know.
599
00:42:45,110 --> 00:42:47,430
And it's fun for you guys to have this
experience.
600
00:42:47,850 --> 00:42:49,490
You know, it is. I'm glad I came.
601
00:42:49,930 --> 00:42:50,930
I'm glad you came.
602
00:42:51,110 --> 00:42:54,470
Even if we decide not to do it, I'm so
glad I came, because at least by then
603
00:42:54,470 --> 00:42:56,290
I'll know it's not for me or it's for
me.
604
00:42:56,770 --> 00:42:58,410
I'm glad you came.
605
00:43:00,230 --> 00:43:03,010
Me or... Oh, God.
606
00:43:04,110 --> 00:43:06,390
You never know where you're going to
find a friend.
607
00:43:06,930 --> 00:43:10,650
Nicky and Daryl came here looking for
that something special, and I got to
608
00:43:10,650 --> 00:43:14,690
it to them. I got to have sex with Nicky
and have a great time, and he got to
609
00:43:14,690 --> 00:43:17,850
watch her have sex and probably see some
things about me he's never seen before.
610
00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:21,560
It was just a great night all the way
around. When new people come into the
611
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:26,380
lifestyle, I think there's a dynamic
that they don't understand yet. When
612
00:43:26,380 --> 00:43:30,240
married, your spouse's emotions are now
number one to you.
613
00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:34,680
So when, you know, I could be getting
really turned on and I could be having a
614
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:38,860
great time and I look over and I see my
husband and he's not playing. We're not
615
00:43:38,860 --> 00:43:42,740
feeling it. He's not having a good
night. It doesn't matter what my
616
00:43:42,740 --> 00:43:43,740
at that point in time.
617
00:43:44,060 --> 00:43:46,560
His emotions are number one and I need
to cater to him.
618
00:43:47,210 --> 00:43:51,550
And unfortunately, sometimes what
happens is because I need to cater to
619
00:43:51,590 --> 00:43:56,510
then to me, other people can feel
shunned or hurt.
620
00:43:56,750 --> 00:44:02,770
So initially, like I kind of didn't even
allow myself to really get into what
621
00:44:02,770 --> 00:44:07,430
was going on last night just because I'm
thinking of how is this going to work?
622
00:44:07,730 --> 00:44:14,290
How are we going to make everybody happy
here? And so I had to cater to him and
623
00:44:14,290 --> 00:44:15,990
say, okay, we have to pull back.
624
00:44:16,540 --> 00:44:20,420
no matter what I might be feeling.
Kristen says that, you know, just
625
00:44:20,420 --> 00:44:24,140
woman may be attracted to me, but it may
not be me, but it might be just an
626
00:44:24,140 --> 00:44:28,700
issue with her husband that they have a
rule that she can't play with me even
627
00:44:28,700 --> 00:44:31,380
though she wants to just because of this
issue that's going on with their
628
00:44:31,380 --> 00:44:35,240
significant other, which I took to heart
because sometimes I take it personal.
629
00:44:35,780 --> 00:44:39,540
You never know what the dynamics are.
630
00:44:39,900 --> 00:44:43,280
Generally, the hardest thing is to learn
to not take things personal.
631
00:44:43,979 --> 00:44:49,120
and it's really, really hard to do.
Sometimes things hurt, and you have to
632
00:44:49,220 --> 00:44:50,820
you know, I am a good guy.
633
00:44:51,180 --> 00:44:54,640
I'm married to a great girl. Yes, I am.
So there probably was something else
634
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:57,740
going on. But you still look in the
mirror and go, yeah, it's probably not
635
00:44:57,900 --> 00:45:03,600
Yes! Daryl did not get any action, and
it comes out that, you know, there are
636
00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:07,140
some personal issues that the couple are
going through, and so it wasn't nothing
637
00:45:07,140 --> 00:45:09,800
to do with Daryl, and I think that made
him feel a lot better.
638
00:45:10,420 --> 00:45:11,420
Hello!
639
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:13,700
Hi. How is everybody?
640
00:45:14,060 --> 00:45:15,060
Good. How are you?
641
00:45:15,180 --> 00:45:16,180
I'm good.
642
00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:18,380
Alas, I'm the buzzkill.
643
00:45:19,020 --> 00:45:23,400
Yeah. It's time for you guys to sort of
say your goodbyes to everybody. Time for
644
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:25,900
you guys to say your goodbyes to them.
And then you want to meet me up front?
645
00:45:27,060 --> 00:45:28,060
I'll see you soon.
646
00:45:29,120 --> 00:45:32,360
When Darla had first talked to me about
swinging, I thought he was crazy. It was
647
00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:33,360
never going to happen.
648
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:37,560
But actually, after experiencing it, I
think it's going to be a great thing.
649
00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:38,660
communication is there.
650
00:45:39,020 --> 00:45:40,080
You're able to...
651
00:45:40,670 --> 00:45:44,550
go out and have fun and have sex with
other people without being jealous and
652
00:45:44,550 --> 00:45:47,070
just without cheating.
653
00:45:47,570 --> 00:45:48,570
All right, darling.
654
00:45:49,610 --> 00:45:50,610
We'll see you guys.
655
00:45:51,570 --> 00:45:55,670
Say goodbye to the couple. It's kind of
sad.
656
00:45:56,110 --> 00:45:57,690
They're not afraid to hide anything.
657
00:45:57,990 --> 00:46:00,450
They're not afraid to flirt or, you
know, have a good time. Just to be
658
00:46:00,450 --> 00:46:01,970
themselves and be honest with each
other.
659
00:46:02,170 --> 00:46:06,930
Thank you for sharing your beautiful...
I had a lot of good conversations with
660
00:46:06,930 --> 00:46:09,370
everybody. I'm not afraid to call any of
these folks my friends at all.
661
00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:10,760
Nice meeting you guys. Bye, guys.
662
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:21,520
Okay, there's just one more thing before
you guys go back to your regular life.
663
00:46:21,580 --> 00:46:25,120
I have the contract that you signed when
you got here. Remember that? Yeah. Gave
664
00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:28,960
you permission to hook up with other
people. So do you want to tear it up
665
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:32,780
million little pieces, forget any of
this ever happened? Do you want to put
666
00:46:32,780 --> 00:46:33,940
in the family album?
667
00:46:34,240 --> 00:46:37,020
I guess what I'm asking is, was this a
fling?
668
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:39,320
Or do you think you want to swing again?
669
00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:51,500
I don't know. I think I'm going to
swing.
670
00:46:53,780 --> 00:46:56,840
Well, thank you, you guys. You've been
really great guests. Thanks for having
671
00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:58,700
us. Have a safe trip home. Thank you.
Thank you.
672
00:46:58,980 --> 00:46:59,980
Here we go? Yep.
673
00:47:03,620 --> 00:47:05,800
It was a good time. It was an awesome
experience.
674
00:47:06,900 --> 00:47:12,700
And I'm glad that we could, I'm glad me
and Nikki could do this on a kind of
675
00:47:12,700 --> 00:47:13,840
like a trial by fire basis.
676
00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:17,580
And we were trusting enough to each
other, give each other a free pass just
677
00:47:17,580 --> 00:47:18,900
do it. It was awesome.
678
00:47:19,240 --> 00:47:22,100
I guess what I had built in my head, the
whole perfect fantasy when it comes to
679
00:47:22,100 --> 00:47:23,100
real life is not always perfect.
680
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:27,360
But I enjoyed the, I enjoyed watching it
complete.
681
00:47:28,220 --> 00:47:29,220
It was awesome.
682
00:47:29,300 --> 00:47:33,020
It was, you know, it's still a fantasy,
but it wasn't like, I guess the main one
683
00:47:33,020 --> 00:47:34,020
that I wanted to.
684
00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:37,400
fulfill this time? Any fantasies that
you fulfilled or didn't fulfill that you
685
00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:38,019
wanted to?
686
00:47:38,020 --> 00:47:43,120
I'm going to have to say mine was not
fulfilled just because I wanted to see
687
00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:44,120
get pleased.
688
00:47:44,540 --> 00:47:45,540
Awesome.
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