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If I do move back in, I mean,.

are we gonna start making love
on a regular basis?

On a regular basis?

I want
a cotton-candy martini.

Oh, oh! Stay with it!

Stay with it.
Hey, so where we going?

I was out drinking too much.

So, where were you?
I mean, who were you with?

Why did you stay out all night?

I don't see nothing I like.

We have Mary's
buttermilk chicken.

It's really good.

Why you think
he like chicken?

What did I get myself
involved with?
My life.

And I need to get out of it, boom.

What?

♪ We are the Braxtons
and you'll see ♪

♪ That we are not like
an ordinary family ♪

♪ Toni, Traci, Towanda, Trina,
Tamar, and Miss E will ♪

♪ Teach you a thing or two ♪

♪ On "Braxton Family Values" ♪

All right, thank you.

Thank you.

So, Vince and I are off to
Chicago to speak at an event.

I guess people see us as a good
role model for relationships.

I mean, I'm pretty excited
about it

because this could really be
a big deal for me.

Open up a whole new career,

make me some good crazy money
on the side, besides the music.

When you think we're gonna move
into our new house?

We got to be out there
by the 4th.

Remember I just told you
that, babe?
What?

- Yeah.
- No, unh-unh.

Yeah, I just told you
that, babe.

The 4th? The 4th of what?

Next month.

Vincent's been looking
at new houses

for months behind my back.

Like, I ain't even know
he wanted to move.

But he found a place
that's big enough for us,

and it has a lot of room
for all my babies.

And my babies--
I mean, my shoes.

I don't need no real babies
right now

because shoes don't even cry.

It takes six weeks to make
window treatments,

and that's on a rush job.

Baby, we gotta do
what we gotta do.

Vince is outta his mind.

Moving takes a lot of planning,

and I'm on my way
to the airport.

I just thought we had
more time for this.

Okay, I'm about to have
an anxiety attack.

I mean, how-- we need a bed.
I don't know what
you're gonna do.

Tamar, I already
ordered us a bed.
What?!

Yeah.
Vince, you are not
decorating that house.

Get your life together
and in order.

Put it in a box
with a ribbon on it.

You are not gonna be decorating
the house by yourself this time.

I'm not saying
I was decorating the house.
No, no, no.

Why don't you relax, man?
Just thank God.

You don't thank God enough.

You don't have to decorate
nothing.

- Move your hand.
- Nope.

Move your hand.
No, I ain't been
decorating nothing.

So what you mean you have a bed?
You ordered a bed?

Babe, I'm only playing with you.
I wouldn't do that, baby.

Chill out, baby.
Please stop.

Vincent Herbert, you know
you wrong right now.

- Can you just give me a kiss?
- No and no.

You ain't got nothing
on your lips.

It would be nice to get a kiss.
Okay.

Now, how Vince gonna try
to ask me for a kiss

right after
he dropped this bomb on me?

Don't joke about decorating.

I love him for right now,
but he is in the doghouse--

an undecorated doghouse,
at that.

Do I have your permission
to take full control

on this household situation?
- Nope, you can't.

You do not.
It's called teamwork.

Vince,
I'm not gonna have time.

You know, it'd be different
if I had time to,

"Oh, do you like this swatch?
You like this swatch?"
Tamar, you don't have time.

You know why?
'Cause you're so busy.

You got all this stuff
you gotta do.

You're recording a record,
you're doing a show.

You got so much going on,
you don't have time.

- Don't tap the fat.
- Okay?

You don't have time.
- Don't tap the fat.

You don't have--
I'm not tapping nothing.

You don't have time.
- Don't tap the fat.

You don't have the time.
It's okay.

It's all good.
- Don't jiggle my wiggle.

It's all good.

I know I want the bar.

I love hanging out with the band
after rehearsal.

And besides, I really don't
want to go home right now.

I don't want to have to deal
with Gabe,

and I still feel bad
that I told Towanda

that it was time for her
to move out of the house,

and I really don't want to have
to deal with that right now.

I want a cotton-candy martini.

- Yeah.
- I want lots of vodka in it.

I'mma taste it.

All right, everybody.

Everybody, get your shots.

Oh, all right.
Here we go.

Salud.

I know that Gabe gets jealous
when I spend time with the band,

but that's just too bad,

because I have projects
that I need to take care of,

we have gigs that we need
to talk about,

and he just works
on my nerves, anyway.

I would like to have a showcase
within the next month.

Is that doable?
- We can do that.

We just gotta map out
exactly what--

what we need to do.
- I'll sing the songs.

- Right.
- There you go.

That sounds good to me.

Right now, I am planning
a showcase with my band

so that we can show producers
how hot my band really is.

And so I'm spending a lot
of time planning

and getting that together,

because I'm going full speed
on my solo career.

And right now,
that's my first priority.

All right, guys, we got one
more shot going on.

After this, I can not have
any more shots.

Push in.

- Cheers.
- Cheers!

- Salud.
- And salud.

Oh, it just stays there.
It ain't going nowhere.

Men talk to you, they're like,
"Oh, yeah, how you doing?

Yeah, yeah."

I was like this,
"Yeah, Jamal, yeah."

I ain't complaining.

I would look at your twig
and berries all day long.

- That's messed up.
- Just one more.

Oh, golly jeepers.

And that's it.

Whatever.

Definitely the hottest thing
out there.

Oh, oh! Stay with it.
Stay with it.

What happened!

Come on.

Shh!

You know what I'm thinking
about right now?

Having this peach drink.

Did you remember
we did that show--

When was it?
Do you remember that?

Before we went on the stage,
my sisters was like,

"You don't need to be
a part of this band.

You are better than this band."
- I was on that gig.

"You don't need to be like
that," and it just

F'ed me up all night long.
- I remember that.

My sisters think that my band
is not "up to snuff"

just because
we're a cover band.

And it just bothers me that
they never want to come

and see my shows or come
and see what I'm doing.

It hurts my feelings.

I thought that we was gonna walk
in here and see you,

you know, doing--
you know, doing singing

and bustin' it
and singing your vocals.

But don't take offense.

I do take offense 'cause y'all
don't support nothing I do.

- No.
- Know what?

I am not playing
the attack-dot-com game.

I'm not doing it.
No, I'm really not.

I'm really not.
Thank you all for coming out.

God bless you, good night.

I don't have nothing left to say
'cause that's not even cool.

Why you going off?

I think you all should go, actually.

Ooh, ooh.
Okay. That's my cue.

Guys, I just want to say thank
you, guys, for supporting me,

and I love you guys so much.

We're gonna toast, huh?

One month before a showcase,
so we gotta do it, all right?

- Let's do it.
- Toast.

Salud.

Hey, so where we going?
Do you want to go to that party?

I'll go for a minute or two,
and then I have to go home.

I am having so much fun
with the band right now.

But I am responsible, so I have
to go home and deal

with this Gabe-orization
going on.

You know what?

We could say it,
but I won't say it right now.

- What? Say it.
- No more drinks, Tri.

Did I tell you
you look great?
Mm.

I think I told you
that a hundred times, huh?

You know, between me staying
at my sisters' houses

and saving my money,

I was able to scrape up
my money,

put it together for a down
payment for my fabulous house.

And Andre called
and I know why he called.

He's trying to be slick.

He's calling because he thinks
he's gonna move in with me.

Maybe I can get a bench
and dedicate it to you.

And then I can sit
on you all day.

Oh, Lord, why would you want
to sit on me?

'Cause you don't sit on me.
Ugh.

I'm not gonna lie--

I haven't had sex with Towanda
in a long time.

I mean, I almost forgot
what it feels like.

You know, my question is,
if I do move back in,

I mean, are we gonna start
making love on a regular basis?

On a regular basis?

I mean, seriously, do you not
want to make love to me anymore?

Is that just done?
I mean, seriously.

Is that just done?

Mm-mm-mm.

I don't know.

I'm a man, Towanda--
I have needs.

I have needs, too.
I'm a woman.

We have needs, too.
You know what I mean?

That's why I'm asking you,

'cause I know you're fulfilling
your needs

with these devices
that you're buying.

"Devices" I'm buying?

You know, he's really trying
to be charming and cute,

but we all know
he needs counseling, okay?

So what I'm saying is,
if you still don't

have anything for me,
I need to let you go.

That's one of my 69 points.

I mean, I definitely
want Towanda back,

but I can't make her
want me back.

Either she wants this
relationship or she doesn't.

It's just that simple.

So, if somebody's out there that
you feel can give you more than

I can give you, then,
you know, good riddance.

- "Good riddance"?
- Good riddance.

Okay.
Maybe that's a bad word.

I'm just tired of not being able
to touch you, hold you,

hold your hand, squeeze you,
kiss you, make love.

You know, it's--
it's not a good feeling.

It's a very,
very cold feeling.
I agree, it is.

You know,
I have to be honest--

I'm not completely ruling out
not getting back with Andre,

you know, but what
I really want from him is,

I want him to let me know
that he really loves me

and he really needs me.

One of the main things
that I talked to you

about was counseling,

and then you have yet
to do that.

I called Dr. Sherry,
and we're supposed to have

a meeting with her husband.

I don't know.
She didn't call me back.

So, because she didn't call you
back, you stopped there?

Okay. What am I supposed to do,
go knock on the girl's door?

You could've said, "Well,
you know what, Towanda?

I tried to call Dr. Sherry,
and she was not available.

She did not call me back."
But you know what?

Taking the initiative to say,
"She's not available.

I'm gonna research
and find someone else."

I don't know what type
of counseling

I'm supposed to talk--

Crisis counselor, a marriage
counselor, a family counselor?

Andre, you are a very smart man.
You already know.

Okay. I would think
a marriage counselor.
Exactly.

Why wouldn't it be
a marriage counselor?

Well, first of all,
they're gonna charge fees.

I can't afford to pay that.
- Oh, my God.

He just doesn't get it.
He really doesn't get it.

He doesn't get that
I just need for him

to follow through
on something.

Just follow through.
That's it.

Okay, last question,
'cause I know

this conversation
is pretty much done.

Do you still want me to live
with you, take care of the kids

while I'm in your house,
so to speak?

I think you should live
with your grandmother.

Okay. So that means no.
Thank you very much.

I mean, really.

I know you don't really give
two rats' ass about me,

but is it really that serious?

I can't believe Towanda

is willing
to throw away our marriage

and possibly throw my ass
out on the street.

I'm in somewhat of a serious
crisis right now, you know?

My marriage is stale.

I just don't know
what to do right now.

I don't.
I just-- I'm just confused.

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I was out drinking too much.

So, where were you?
I mean, who were you with?

Why did you stay out all night?

What did I get myself
involved with?
My life.

And I need to get
out of it, boom.
What?

I chose not to drink and drive,
so I decided to stay at a hotel.

I went shopping this morning
in the hopes that,

by the time I get home,
Gabe won't be there.

I see you made it back home.

Ugh! Why can't Gabe ever be
out of the house?

He is always there,
waiting on me, ready to attack.

What happened?
Ugh.

I was out drinking too much.

So, where were you?
I mean, who were you with?

Why did you stay out all night?
Like, who were you with?

Rehearsal yesterday,

and it turned into
another session with me,

and then we decided we're
gonna get something to eat.

So when we got something
to eat,

we got something
to drink, as well.

I had two margaritas,
and it was-- it was a lot.

So I was like, "Okay.
I-I need to get a hotel room."

So I got one nearby
the studio.

I did not want
to have another DUI.

- Hmm.
- So...

I just wish there was some
other way for you to cope

with our issues
rather than drinking.

I really think Trina is using
her work

and the band as a way
to avoid the problems

that we're having
in our marriage right now.

I know you think the band
is like family to you.

To me, they're still men.
They aren't your family.

We're your family.

It wasn't just men there.

Women and men.

Well, I don't know what y'all
do, to be honest with you.

Y'all go out, y'all have drinks
sometimes,

y'all go to
each other's hotel rooms.

I don't know.

While it's true that, yes,

I had a little transgression
in my marriage,

I feel like,
no matter what I do,

Gabe is still gonna be
the guiltier the party.

And I just want
my own life back.

We shouldn't give up
on each other.

We should keep on trying
to make our marriage work,

'cause that's--
that's what marriage is about--

trying to make it work.
So...

It's about cheating
and staying.
No, it's not about cheating.

You cheated, I stay.
And I drink.

But we should come to a point
where we're able

to forgive each other...
- Oh.

...and wipe the slate
clean and say, "Okay.

"You know what?

We both did stuff that
we shouldn't have done."

But how many times is that
supposed to happen, though?

Well, the first time,
we never really wiped it clean.

I think we need to discuss it
with Dr. Sherry,

and, you know,
have a talk with her.

I just feel like this marriage
is on life support.

I'm all for talking
to Dr. Sherry

and going to counseling,
but at this point,

I don't know how much
more she can help.

Okay.

Do you know what side
you want to sit on?

Doesn't matter.

After a long plane ride,
we finally made it to Chicago.

And now we are hungry.

You okay?
You seem a little "perturred."

"Pertubed." Upset.

Just part of my life.

Like, what you mean?

I'm not even feel like talking
too much tonight.

Are you mad at me, Vincent?

Don't sometimes I get
on your nerves?
To the max.

Okay.
Well, sometimes you get on mine.

You act like you don't.
Sometimes you do.

It's what a relationship does.

But we have to learn how to
get off each other's nerves.

Can't stay on each other's
nerves.

You can't just stay right there
on the nerve, like,

"Daaaah.

Dah dah dah daaaah."

That hurts.
- Why you snippity snappity?

Because you just been
snapping it all day with me.

So if I don't snap back.
She has not been snapping
at you.

I don't know if she is,
and if I'm here

with some "she"--
- Is "she" her?

If she mean her,
I'm gonna leave,

'cause I don't date
she mean hers.

What do you mean dating me?

- Whatever.
- Boom!

Stop.

Like, really?

Vince is getting on my last
damn nerves with his attitude.

He acts like he doesn't
even appreciate me.

Like I just annoy him
all the time.

I mean, I been the same damn
person since we got together,

so why is he tripping?

Are we all set to order
the entrées here?

I don't see nothing I like.

We have Mary's
buttermilk chicken.

It's really good.

Why you think he like chicken?

Everyone likes chicken.

Is it fried or...

It's sous-vide style, which
means "under vacuum" in French,

so they take the white meat
and the dark meat,

vacuum it together,
and cook it to temperature

with the Mary's buttermilk
batter on the outside.

Wow.

What you mean like white meat
and dark meat mixed?

What you mean?

It comes in,
like a cylindrical form,

and they cook it underwater.

So it look like a hot dog.

Yeah.

She's just doing
a little bit, too-- hee, hee!

"And then we take the white meat
and the dark meat,

and we mash it together."

I thought I was gonna punch her
in her throat.

Don't play with me

when it comes
to Vincent the Herbert, okay?

- It's great.
- Thinking about it.

- You are?
- Yeah.

You want some dark meat
and white meat chicken?

Yeah, gonna try it.

- Okay.
- Okay.

Yeah, of course.

Did she just wink at you?

Let me tell you something
right now.
Tamar, I gotta go.

Tamar does not play.

I don't give a hot, fiery,
crackling...

You are out of control.

...of a pork skin what you
talking about across that table.

I know what I know.

Nobody sticks around
for eight years for nothing.

Don't be winkin' at my man
in my face, boo.

Tamar.

Soon as she walked up,
I peeked her aura.

You know what that meant?

"I'm finna steal your man" aura.

I wasn't having that.

You really need prayer, man.

What did I get myself
involved with?
My life.

And I need to get
out of it, boom.

What?
Vince, don't play with me.

You do too much.
I'm just thinking about--

You want to play
with this puppy?

You want to play
with this puppy?

Tamar, I will throw this water
in your face so fast.

You wanna do it?
What? What?

Boo, I will take off
my Jimmy Choos and whack you.

Like, don't do it.
Like, really?

You really gonna play
with this puppy?

Do you know what happens
when you play with this puppy?

You get licked in the mouth.
Don't do it. Okay.

I'm getting ready to go.
- You can go.

I've been gone.

I'm just sitting here, happy
to be looking at my water.

And you just happen to be
across the table from me.

Do you want that chicken
in front of you?

Oh, you can put the chicken
on that side.

Okay.

Anything else
I can get for you?
Nope.

Let's taste
the segregated chicken.

You like the zebra chicken?

Chicken is okay.
It's nice and--
Exactly.

You know what's good?

Me.
- Oh, God.

I'm the chicken breast
you looking for.

Okay?
See how that all cracked up?

That's so nasty.

It look like a bunch
of cow balls.

Fried-up cow balls.

I'm still pretty,
and I am sweet, delicious.

I'm glad you feel that
strongly about yourself.

What's your lesson?

Wow.
We gonna pray for you.

I'm gonna go home and act
like you'll apologize.

Hurt my feelings this evening.
- You're out of your mind.

Hanging on to
your french fries?

Oh, no, you can take it.

I'm not sorry Tamar,
because that was nothing.

Tamar sometimes gets on
my nerves

just like sometimes
I get on Tamar's nerves.

It's called a relationship.

Excuse me.
Are you married or dating?

Married, sir.

Your wife gets on
your nerves sometimes?

- Every day.
- What?

It's hard.
Marriage is a beautiful thing.

Yeah, it's a beautiful thing.
I'll bring you your check now.

Thank you.

I mean, I guess I deserve
some of Vince's attitude,

even though I think
he was a little harsher

than he should've been.

Don't play with this puppy.

Tamar, exactly. It's in you.

You're a puppy,
and I'm a grown grizzly bear.

Okay?

You want to make it out
the forest?
Attack me.

You want to make it
out the forest"?

No, I don't. I want--

I want--
I want to be attacked.

I want you to jump on my back
while I'm not looking.

You used to date me.

You know what you used
to say to me.

First of all, you used
to beg me to come out.

Anything else
I can get for you?
Nope, that's it.

Take care of you
whenever you're ready, okay?

Thank you very much.

Mm-hmm.

Did she just touch you?

Tamar...

I'll be paying
with my credit card.

'Cause, see, the next thing
I know, she done googled you,

and then I'mma have
to snap that neck.
Tamar.

Don't play with me.

- Stop, man.
- What's she touching you for?

Like, "Don't be putting
your hands on my man!"

Let me explain
something to you.

After she done told you
about her

black-and-white
zebra'd up nasty chicken,

she puts her hand
on your shoulder.

No, I don't do that.
Unh-unh.

We paying cash.

You need help.

I am finally moving out
of Trina and Gabe' house

into my own home.

Andre has decided
to lend me a hand.

I'm not sure how I feel
about him being here right now.

I'm still
Towanda's husband.

I'm definitely gonna
help her move.

And I also want my kids
to feel secure.

- Hoo!
- You getting tired?

We got like 10 more boxes,
plus my stuff.

Your stuff isn't coming
in here, Andre.

We agreed--
and this is what you said.

This was your suggestion.

That you were going to stay
with your grandmother.

I mean, do you really just want
to see somebody else?

No, it's not about
anybody else.

There were just certain issues

that I feel that needs
to be addressed.

Like job-- J-O-B.

- Counseling.
- Okay.

It takes two, Towanda.
I understand that.

It takes both of us
to go to counseling.

I understand that,
but like I said, you said

that you're trying to do it,
but you're not doing it.

Can you help me, please,
get all these boxes in here?

Yeah, I can do that.
That's what I'm here for.

Thanks. Appreciate it.

I love you, anyway.

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Ain't gonna ask me, "Why
aren't you wearing your ring?"

Take it, pawn it,
I don't want it.

The symbolism is gone.

I don't want it.

My situation with Gabe
has disintegrated

in such a way that we need
Dr. Sherry present

in order to have
a civil conversation.

So we're gonna go to her office
so that I can talk to Gabe

about some of the things
that are on my mind.

Ooh, hello. Hi.
How are you?
Hi, Dr. Sherry.

Hello. How are you?
Come on back.

This is a very painful
process for me right now.

I feel like it's hard for us
to make any--

any changes or any moves forward
whenever she's so upset,

'cause I can't talk to her
about anything.

So I just hope that us going to
see Dr. Sherry's gonna really,

you know, help her
have more of an open mind.

Yeah, get comfortable.

Tell me, where are we?

Who wants to start?

And don't both of you
jump at one time.

Well, we all know that
he's gonna look to me.

Boom, there it is--
looking to me.

You know what?

It sounds to me like our
relationship is rather stagnant.

Yeah, I agree.

'Cause every time we come here,
we have the same conversation.

How do you feel about that?

I don't like him.

Mm.

I'm waiting for the next moment
to embarrass me.

Gabe, do you know why
she may not like you?

That's a powerful comment.

Well, yeah, she doesn't like
me because I've hurt her.

She doesn't trust me because
she thinks I'm a cheater.

For all the BS that comes
out of Gabe's mouth,

I gotta give him credit.

He gets that I'm upset
that he's a cheater.

Unfortunately, I've learned
the hard way--

once a cheater,
always a cheater.

It's not like he cheated
and he just super-duper

messed up and was like,
"You know what?

I messed up."
- Mm-hmm.

"But I'm gonna do everything
that I can to make amends

and make my marriage work."

And Dr. Sherry, you know,

I called you
about something recent

that happened in Gabe
and I's relationship.

I caught Gabe red-handedly

acting inappropriately

on a social network site
with a female that he knew.

There is no way in God's heaven
he can deny it.

Due to that, I feel like
we went back a good 25 steps.

That is why I'm not
wearing my ring.

You know, I was gonna
point that out.

He gonna ask me, "Why
aren't you wearing your ring?"

Take it, pawn it,
I don't want it.

- Oh, man.
- The symbolism is gone.

Mm.
When that ring was put
on my finger,

what it symbolized
no longer applies.

So I don't want it.

And I don't care
how much it's worth.

Keep it.
It means nothing to me.

Gabe, do you understand
what that's about?

In the middle of the night,
she had a gut feeling

that I was doing something
that I shouldn't be doing.

So I gave her my phone.

And then snatched it from me.

And then, I was--

No, then I started
thinking like, "Well, shoot.

I'm not checking your phone."

Well, was there anything
on that phone

that you didn't
want her to see?

There were text messages
between me and...

well...
- Other women.

Yes. Friends.
She has guy friends.

She has all the guy friends
in the band.

So she can have guy friends, but
I can't have any women friends.

You know what?
I was flirting.

Let's just say that.

I took the bait
and I shouldn't have.

So you're talking about
the things that you didn't do.

Did you do what a married
man should have done?

No.

You know, it's one thing
of getting hurt,

but to continue
to hurt the person

you're saying you're loving, how
do you expect her to respond?

I don't know how to respond.
It's hurtful. It's painful.

And I feel like she's out
having a good time,

and I'm unhappy at home.
Then you should leave.

We're sitting here
in counseling.

I'm trying to talk to her

and you're talking
about leaving.

- But do you want to stay?
- Yes.

Uh, it's actually really tough
to deal with Trina

being so angry
and upset at me.

It's kind of like
I can't even say anything,

I can't even do anything.

I can't even chew right or else
she'll be barking at me,

so, I mean, it's very--

very difficult
right now to deal with it.

I mean, I feel like we're back
at square one.

I wonder why.

Yeah, I wonder why.
Because it's all my fault.

It is!

What do you mean?
- Okay.

You think people cheat
because it's all their fault?

If you're looking for
justification,

it's gonna be har--

it's gonna be very hard
to get it here.

Yeah.

Gabe can try to say or do
whatever he wants,

but I want out
of this relationship,

and I want out now.

I'm done.

Tell Gabe what that means.

That means that I am finished.

I give up completely,
and if you need to blame me,

if that is what you need,
you go ahead.

- I'm not blaming you.
- I'm sorry.

I'm not blaming you.

You go ahead
and you can do that,

if that is what you need.

But I am done.

I don't want you,
I do not want this marriage.

I am done.

If Gabe and I were to split up,

Gabe would have to be
the person to move out.

There is no reason why I should
have to move

and take my kids
and interrupt their lives

and switch their schools.

If we split up, Gabe has
to be the one to go.

But I'm not giving up
on my family.

I'm not.
- You already did.

- I'm not.
- You already did.

Well--
We were in here months
and months and months,

fighting about this,
fighting about that,

fighting about
making it work,

and, you know,
changing and forgiveness,

and then you
embarrass me again?

Who'd I embarrass her to?

What? It's a social network.
Are you serious?

People can click on me
at any time and laugh at me.

Everyone can see
that I'm married to Gabe.

When he's on a social network,

flirting with all these
other chicks behind my back,

that makes me look stupid,
and I'm embarrassed.

I'm hearing you say
you're done.

I have to respect that.

I hear Gabe saying,
"I am not done with this."

Gabe, are you willing to do

the hard work
in a relationship?

Trina, I'm gonna challenge you
to do the same thing,

because what happens is, you
will leave this relationship,

and unless you're good inside,

what's gonna happen is,
you're gonna turn around,

and you're gonna find yourself
in a relationship similar,

repeating the same things.

And if you choose, after you
both have worked through

some things,

"I'm over it, and I am
still done," that's okay.

How you choose to do it,
in terms of the living space

is something
you're gonna work out.

Maybe somebody needs
to be downstairs,

somebody needs to be
upstairs.

Wow. This is actually
a lot more serious

than I anticipated it to be.

I feel like I have been
given an ultimatum,

and I need to prove to Trina
that she can trust me again

and that I can be faithful

and our marriage
can actually work.

I just feel like Trina
isn't gonna make it easy for me.

Yeah.

Thanks again, Dr. Sherry.
- It's okay.

Thank you.

Coming up on
"Braxton Family Values"...

I didn't wear my wedding
ring today.

I told you-- again.
You wasn't listening.

Y'all give it up for my girl,
Miss Tamar Braxton

and her husband, Vince!

Hello, everybody.

I

I bet

I bet you

I bet you I

I bet you I put

I bet you I put on

I bet you I put on
an

I bet you I put on
an all-black

I bet you I put on
an all-black outfit

and act like I wasn
your waiter, later...

I bet you you're super-duper
excited.

I don't need you to be
my waiter later.

I need you
to be my nice wife.

You don't want me to be
a rotten, nasty,

dirty, lowdown...

...wife,
you know, after 12:00.

I don't need that.

I can turn into a gremlin.

I don't want a gremlin.

That's what I want.

I'm thinking.

Rrr.

And that's what you want.
- I don't want that from you.

- You just don't want to say it.
- I don't want that from you.

- I'm gonna say it for you.
- I don't want you to say it.

I want you to stop messing
with your hair,

'cause you're messing it up.
- Mnh-mnh.

Okay?

She looks like a model.

You sound real nuts.

- Thank you.
- You're welcome.

- Pleasure to have you.
- Tamar.

Thank you.
My pleasure to be here.

- Sir, it's a pleasure.
- Thank you.

So, my husbanager told me
we was speaking

at a relationship seminar,

so I put on this
conservative, cute dress,

and he forgot
to mention the venue.

So when I got there,
I was surprised as hell,

because we at the club!

Excuse me?
This is a speed-dating event.

That ain't hot.
This ain't the big leagues.

This is small-time french fry.

She didn't sign up
for no small-time stuff.

I didn't wear my wedding
ring today.

I told you-- again.
You wasn't listening.

'Cause you were so sleepy.

Y'all give it up for my girl,

Miss Tamar Braxton

and her husband, Vince!

Hello, everybody.

Well, you know, if anybody
out here don't know who I am,

my name is Tamar Braxton.

This is my husband,
Vincent Herbert.

And we've been married
going on--

this year,
going on three years.

You know, Vince and I, we have
been together a long time,

just about eight years.

And it'll be three years
married in November,

and we have really

kind of figured out
real quick

on what works for us.

You know, I love my wife
to death.

I put her first
before anything.

And in the relationship,
you got to be friends,

so I encourage
all you guys tonight,

if you're looking for love,

make sure you find a friend
in that love,

because that's how it lasts.

Without a foundation,
there's not a relationship.

Without communication,
without trust,

there's not a relationship.

But every day, I am blessed
and honored

to be in love
with this woman.

So am I.
Oh, you so sweet.

'Cause this is the greatest
woman in the world.

I just want to tell
my ladies something,

if you're out
on a date with a guy,

maybe the eighth date,

and he's trying to sleep
with you, he's not the one.

Because it's not about that.

I am so sorry if I ruined
y'all's game,

but, ladies, you got
to have a game, too!

He put a ring on it,
and I put the thing on it.

I'm just saying. So--

So I just want
to let me ladies know that,

'cause, you know, just saying,
it just worked for me.

You know, if anybody
wants advice

on how to make
your relationship work,

you know, what better couple
to ask

than the couple who pretty much
on blast all the time?

After our meeting
with Dr. Sherry,

it's clearly time for me
to take some action with Gabe

in our relationship.

We need to decide what
we're gonna do

about our living arrangements

and where we're gonna
go from here.

I mean, when Dr. Sherry
was saying

that maybe we should
give each other space,

even within the house...
Yeah.

I was thinking that
the one of us

that should move
into another room is you.

Uh, why me?

'Cause I have more clothes
than you do.

Mm. I don't know.

Moving into that room,
that's where Towanda and Andre

and them were.

No telling what kind of
spirits are up in there.

Gabe is reaching really hard

to try and find any excuse
to not separate.

And I know it wasn't gonna be
easy from the beginning,

but, y'all,
it's just gotta happen.

All right.

The sun comes right
through the window.

That's when you close
the blinds.

I gave Gabe a "pass"

a few years ago.

But apparently,
that wasn't good enough

because he went right back
on his merry

little way,
cheating again.

You know, I called my lawyer,

and I talked to him
about a legal separation.

- Why?
- I'm sorry?

Why?

It's because you
cheated on me.

Yeah, but I didn't
cheat on you.

I was communicating with...

Other women.
...other women...

In a sexual manner.
Not in a sexual manner.

But then what was it?

In a manner that wasn't
appropriate as a husband.

Gave, it was more
than just that.

For real? For real?

Okay.
Boy, do I look like Boo Boo
the fool?

Gonna put on a clown face
and a wig real quick?

No, no, but I--
Why you trying
to treat me like

I'm dumb suddenly?
- But you know what?

Ever since I've talked to you
about that,

that's all you've assumed.

You've assumed that I'm--
- No, I didn't assume, Gabe.

I'm not a stupid person.

"Born yesterday" and "Trina"

don't belong
in the same sentence.
Okay.

I really don't want to move
out of the bedroom.

That's the beginning
of the end.

I think I was wrong,
I think I was stupid,

I think I was dumb,
I think I made a--

And nasty and common and dirty
and lowdown

and a fake,
a phony, and a fraud.

Doesn't really feel like
I had a say in this at all.

I think I made a mistake.

I think I made multiple
mistakes.

- Mm-hmm.
- I think that I'm past that.

Now, we are in this situation
where you made a choice...

You're right.
...to cheat on me,
not once or twice

or three or four
or five times.

It had nothing to do
with you.

I listened to you,
and I stayed.

- Mm-hmm.
- Okay?

And then, boom--
you embarrass me again

by going on
a social network

and having
inappropriate conversations

with women yet again.

At what point, for me,

is enough
supposed to be enough?

At what point am I supposed
to be a lay-down Larry

and say, "Okay.
Well, you know what?

"Go ahead and cheat on me again.

This time,
put some stank on it"?

What do you want me to do?

Lately, I've been trying
to do the right thing.

I made moves,
changed my phone number,

closed down my Facebook,
closed down my Twitter,

and I feel like I'm not
getting any credit for it.

And I feel like
it's kind of lopsided,

'cause she cheated, too.

I didn't make more of an effort
not to do things

that I used to do,
like go to the bars

and hanging out
and putting myself into places

I shouldn't be.

You wouldn't have had to change
your telephone number

had you not been doing it
in the first place, Gabe.

You wouldn't have had to shut
down your social network site

if you weren't
doing things inappropriate

in the first place, Gabe.

I'm not going to bake you
a bunch of cookies

for doing something that
you should not have been doing

in the first place, Gabe.

- Wait, wait, wait.
- Okay, I'll wait.

Just wait.

I want my family
to stay together,

and I want us
to stay married.

I think and I believe
that I can be faithful

and that I can be the man
and the husband

that you need me to be.

I know I can.

You need to give me the time

that I need to assess
the situation.

When would you like me
to move my stuff

out of your bedroom
and into my new bedroom?

Tonight sounds good.

All right, there you go.

Tonight is not soon enough.

This has been
a long time coming.

Coming up on
"Braxton Family Values"...

Tamar, what are you doing?

Getting my stuff!

That ain't yours,
'cause Toni gave it to me.

Towanda, hold up.
Why you got a attitude?

Put it back.

Feel like they getting
beat up over here.

You getting ready to get beat.

Welcome to my home.

You have no idea how good it
feels to have your own place.

I don't have to rely or depend
on any of my sisters anymore.

I don't have to move in here
and move in there.

No. I have my own.

Welcome.
- Yes, it is.

It's so pretty!

Oh, my God.

Come on in!

Where you want to see first?
- Whatever you want to show me.

Okay.

This is my bathroom
and my big old closet.
Wow, nice!

I am so proud of Towanda that
she finally have

a house of her own.

It's a beautiful,
beautiful house.

And this green patio.

Oh, you guys have a date room.

Oh!

We could put a hookah
thing in here.

Oh, my God.

- How adorable is this?
- You can put your--

Oh, wow,
you can patio furniture.

And there's a regular deck
right beside it.

- And you have another one.
- And a backyard.

Wow!
I'm just saying, how romantic
is this room with no Andre?

No, it's not about romance.
It's about me living.

I just think it's hot.
Like, you know--

I'm putting a trampoline
right over there for the kids.

It's very romantic to come
out here and look at the stars.

I was thinking like,
if, you know--

And go in the bedroom
and make some.

No.

I am so tired of Tamar
questioning me about Andre.

You know, if it was genuine,

I can understand, but she's
just being plain old nosy.

This is my bathroom.
- Ooh!

I have double sinks.

- That's great.
- Organized.

Have to have Miss Jada
come back over.

You guys have
a his-and-her closet?

No, it's a her closet.

Is this his, too?

It's a her closet.

- It's his and hers.
- It's a her closet!

It's his and hers.

Ain't nobody separated
around here.

Everybody is together.

No, it's a her closet.

That's all of my stuff,
my fabulous stuff.

And his.

Tamar, you really asking me why
is Andre's stuff in the closet?

Really?
Are you asking me that?

Because those are my kids'
father. That's why.

And when I'm not home,
he's here with the children.

That's why.
We'll see what happens.

I don't even know
what's going to happen.

Let's finish.

I think we need to go
through these purses.

I see that's mine.

- What's yours?
- That.

No, it's not, no, it's not.

So, I'm up in here, looking for
some of Andre's stuff,

and I see one of my purses.

Towanda thinks she's slick
as hen piss.

She was trying to keep me
outta here,

and that's why she skipped
all over

that closet stuff real quick.

It is not.
You gonna tell me
that ain't my purse?

It is, too, my purse.

- It is not!
- Not today.

Come on. Let's go.
- I'm on it.

You're always trying
to steal people's moments.

Girl, that's between you
and Towanda.

I'm finished with it.
- Jeez.

This is gonna be--
Tamie?

What happened? Who did it?

What is she doing?

Tamar, what are you doing?
What you mean?

What-- What are you doing?
I'm getting my stuff!

That ain't yours,
'cause Toni gave it to me.

Towanda, hold up.
Why you got a attitude?

This is mine!
This is Yves Saint Laurent!

And put it back.
Now you can put it back.

Y'all finished? Y'all ready?
Quit talking to me like that.

About to get beat up
around here!

You ready to get beat down.

What?
What's wrong with you?

Come on, Tamie, let's finish
looking at the house.

No, she has to put that back.
Okay.

Go to two...

Let's go.

...because she's getting ready
to go to 10,

and don't nobody want
to hear that today.
Let's go.

'Cause I don't feel like
all that today.

Me neither. Come on.

Oh, God, we just came to see
the house, for God sakes, guys.

Stop!

And they think I'm crazy.
Thought I lost my stuff.

Is that my coat?

That's my coat!

This is my sitting area.

Wow. That's nice.

This is beautiful.

I was looking
all over for this.

Towanda is a thief.

But this is my whole
three-car garage.

- Whoa!
- Umba!

Look at that.

That's mine.

This my favorite sweater!

I thought...

This is my...

Hey, Traci.

- ...coat closet.
- Look at--

Let me look in there.

This is my coat closet.

Wow. Nice.

That's mine.

Mnh-mnh-mnh.

Towanda, baby,
I love her to pieces.

But hide your stuff
when she come over,

'cause she snatch
the wig off your head

when you look the other way.

She's super sneaky,
clever, and crafty.

- Oh, my God.
- Come on, Tamar.

- All righty.
- Get out.

Ma, take her.
- I'm taking her, baby, I know.

Well, I got to go get
my hair cut.

Come on, let's go.

I'm so glad
I came over here today.

Isn't it beautiful?
No, I ain't got to go shopping.

I visit my sister's,
and I went shopping.

Hallelujah.

Ooh, I'm glad she gone.