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I did not save this cat just to abandon
him. I'm petrified of cats.
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My boyfriend doesn't feel comfortable
around him. We have to kick
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out Natto. Now how would you feel if she
was right next to you?
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I wouldn't be comfortable.
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You know what that means, right? I'm
going to leave you with all of these
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This is the archetypal cat who doesn't
make it out of shelter. Just because
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she's cute in a different way. We
adopted a cat named Mojito. We're not
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typical family.
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There was just something about her that
reminded me of myself.
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But she started biting.
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I know all cats deserve a home, but I
don't know if I can home a cat that's
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going to be attacking people.
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I'm Jackson Galaxy.
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Oh my God, I love my job.
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The animal behavior that guardians call
when they're dealing with a difficult
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cat. That really ups the stakes a little
bit here.
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I'm out to prove that there is no such
thing as a bad cat. Just a cat that
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my help. Thank you.
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My name is Heather and I have a cat
named Natto.
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I'm Steven and I have a cat phobia.
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So the situation is Natto acts out and
pees and damages furniture.
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What are you doing?
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My boyfriend doesn't feel comfortable
around him.
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I'm petrified of cats.
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When we first moved in here, there was a
lot going on, just getting accustomed
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to me living with my girlfriend and then
also bringing a cat into the situation.
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Back off.
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There was one instance where Heather was
packing for a trip, and Nato goes into
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her suitcase, and I swear he looked me
straight in the eye and started peeing.
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And at that point, that was the final
straw.
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I definitely just feel torn between...
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My cat, who has been my best friend for
three years, and my boyfriend, who I've
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been with for almost two.
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And I want us to all live happily
together.
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I think that if we're not able to find a
solution, maybe this isn't the right
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combination. And that's a little fearful
of what the future might hold.
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I'm heading to meet up with Heather and
Steven, a young couple who are facing a
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cat crisis I don't think I've ever seen
before.
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You see, Steven has some kind of deep
-seated cat phobia, and since he moved
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with Heather and her cat Natto, it seems
like his fear of cats is threatening
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their entire future together.
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Man, I cannot wait to get the details on
this one.
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Hey! How are you? I'm Jackson. Nice to
meet you.
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Okay, so we got a cat problem and... And
people problems.
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Yeah.
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We got people problems and cat problems.
So when did the cat problem start?
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I adopted him three years ago and he
really kind of acted out. What does
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out look like? It's not so aggressive?
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No. He peed in every single room, on
every single bed and pillow in my house.
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Yikes. It would be big pee puddles. So
he was literally just letting his
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go. Yeah. Okay. How old was he when he
got neutered?
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He was only like two to three pounds.
Right, so that would be around eight
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weeks. Okay, that's pretty normal. That
shouldn't be the problem.
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It got to a point where my mom was like,
he can't be here anymore.
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So that's when I thought, okay, I need
to move out and be with my cat.
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Wow, love it. I did not save this cat
just to abandon him, you know?
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Heather is clearly invested in Natto
beyond what we know. She's in it for
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You moved in here.
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Did the problem continue?
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It did.
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The last straw was when I was packing my
suitcases and he went into the suitcase
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and peed. I just felt like, okay, you're
not happy? Then go outside if that's...
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So your relationship with Natto just
goes ba -bang, right? At that moment.
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Yeah. Since then, he was an indoor
-outdoor cat and we made a little cat
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swinging door for him. Did that stop the
problem?
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He hasn't peed since then.
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We let him outside. I felt... bit scared
and concerned for a safety because he
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might injure himself outside or you know
get into a fight with the coyotes out
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in this neighborhood.
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Now, let's get to you.
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I've never had many interactions with
cats he has always had this kind of fear
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and phobia of cats is everything she's
saying pretty much correct i'm not very
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comfortable she put it differently that
you're scared of them what are you
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afraid is going to happen just imagining
them jumping on me like my legs my face
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my arms i know that they can get me and
what happens when he gets you i don't
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know and that's that's the issue you've
never been attacked by a cat before no
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it's this weird
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phobia, I guess, that had just been
passed down from my mom and then her mom
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then just all throughout my brother's
sister.
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Yeah, it's just this whole family.
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The idea of cat phobia, I've always been
very drawn to in terms of trying to get
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those people to turn around.
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One person is afraid of cats and an
entire three generations completely
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poisoned. My nana had just been so
fearful of cats.
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My mom just always tells the story of
her nana, a stray cat.
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got into their house. The cat looked at
her, and I don't think that the cat ever
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made any aggression towards her. It was
just that eye contact that, you know,
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she made with the cat.
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So, where is he, by the way? He's in our
room.
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Let's go to your room.
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So, where's he at?
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He... Oh, did he squeeze himself?
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You said that you had a...
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Like a cat window thing set up? Yeah, so
it's right here.
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We installed this little thing so he can
go in and out. So he can go in and out
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24 -7?
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Yes. Wow, that's even more dangerous.
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Now my guess is that you'd be totally
psyched if this window was this wide
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Oh, for sure, yeah.
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So Heather, going over with Natto, where
do you feel like his fear level is at
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right now? I think he's at like an 8 out
of 10.
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Natto is scared by my presence. I'm used
to that.
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Come on in, Steve.
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What I decide to do is use it. Let's get
these guys working with Natto.
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I just want you to look at him and tell
me what you're seeing.
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He's cornered, and he looks more scared
than I do.
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Let's say you weren't afraid of him.
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What would you do to comfort him?
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I think just to pet him and maybe give
him a treat. That's about where we start
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there. I want to challenge Steven
because if I don't, he'll live in this
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zone forever that he can just spend his
life with him in one room and Natto in
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the other. Talk to him. Let's think he
was a kid.
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Want a treat?
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Want a treat?
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It's weird. It doesn't come natural to
me. That's fine.
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That's okay.
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Come on, Natto.
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I know a lot of people who just don't
like cats, but the way his hand extends
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towards Natto, Steven is possessed with
fear.
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Okay, now, let's create positions.
Heather, you go on in there.
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Natto.
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Natto.
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Boo -boo.
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What is she doing right now?
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Petting him, making him feel more
comfortable.
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Right. What I was getting from you is
that poke it with a stick, right?
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It's the top of the head, right?
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Steven will follow my instructions and
will pet Natto, but he doesn't know at
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all what to do. Is your mother aware?
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She is. Oh, yeah. Yeah, and I think that
a lot of the time she motivates it,
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too. How?
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She's coming to visit in a few weeks.
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And the cat has to be removed.
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What was that?
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The cat cannot be here.
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It's because mice... They won't stay
here if the cat's going to be here. Then
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don't stay here.
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It's because mice... They won't stay
here if the cat's going to be here. Then
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don't stay here.
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If anybody were to say to me, put your
cat in a boarding facility because I'm
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coming over, you're not coming to my
house.
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Plain and simple. How long do we have
until this happens?
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Next month.
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So we have a month?
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Yeah.
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So, yeah, we want to accommodate his
family. But in order to do so, we have
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to, you know, kick out Natto.
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Are these the catphobes? Are all of them
scared of cats?
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Yeah, I'd say so.
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Yeah. Wow.
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I'm trying so hard to at least empathize
with Steven. It's folklore.
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This is a generational thing. This is a
family of catphobes. These guys won't
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have anything to do with cats. It is
insane.
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In terms of the rest of this space,
let's point out some more areas. He has
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multiple times.
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I know he's been in that corner there in
between the door and the window.
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Between the door and the window. Okay.
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Other spots in this room.
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Uh -oh.
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So he has peed on this couch.
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What's up?
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What's it up? What's it up?
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What's going on?
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This is, like, one of the things that we
bought brand new.
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And I knew, like, if he had peed on this
couch, he would
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get so upset.
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I feel terrible for Heather. She has
been holding on to the weight of this
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secret for months.
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It's almost as if she's telling Stephen
that she cheated on him.
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We did a good job cleaning it up.
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I really felt like that would be a deal
breaker.
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You're right.
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Yeah, because this was the one thing
that I said, we're not going to buy
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know that he's ready to have it in the
house.
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And at that point, I obviously thought
that he was.
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Crying, phobias, secrets, spraying.
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There's a whole lot going on right now.
We have got to start working towards a
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solution before things get any worse
here.
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You know what?
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Can we go talk?
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Yeah. All right, come on. Let's go
outside.
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So, the reason I want to bring you out
here is because
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apart from he's going to pee on
something, How does he sort of diffuse
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going on? If I say to you, I need him to
be locked in this house 24 -7, what
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does that do to you?
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It makes me nervous because I know that
he doesn't have that history of lashing
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out and scratching people, but he's peed
and now he's meowing. What's the next
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step? And if we fully 100 % lock him
inside, there could be a situation where
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leads to...
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to something physical.
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When you hear that meow, does it worry
you that the next step is?
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Yeah, I mean, there are a lot of times
where he'll meow and then jump on our
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and he'll even go on my head. Ooh!
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Which is scary because... What do you
do?
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I usually just bury my head even deeper
under the pillow and just hope that, you
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know, she gets him off and deals with
the situation. So if he jumps, if he's
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meowing, he's getting agitated, he jumps
on the bed, you're...
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Oh, yeah, I usually just cover myself
just to make sure, you know.
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I know that he doesn't have the history
of attacking other people, but you never
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know. We're talking about, I mean, at
least you admit, as opposed to, I think,
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your family, that you're phobic of cats.
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And that reaction, that cover your head
reaction, it doesn't matter whether he's
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done it in the past or not done. It
doesn't matter to you.
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It's what he could do because he's a
cat.
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Another question I have, just because,
again, when you guys are together,
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there's a lot of deflecting that goes
on, so it's hard for me to pick up.
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When she just started crying there about
the couch, that's clearly based in
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history, right?
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And you even said, that's a good thing
you didn't tell me this a few months
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What would have happened a few months
ago? I don't know. I think it might have
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been bad.
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What's bad? I'm assuming.
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Just because leading up to it, he had
been causing a lot of issues, and it had
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been putting a strain on our
relationship.
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And I think that, and it sounds so
stupid to get mad about a couch, but I
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it's just the principle of it and just
him constantly acting out. And I think
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that was the last straw. And that was
the one stipulation that I had was if he
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pees on this couch, there has to be
something concrete that happens.
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And when he didn't, or at least when I
didn't realize that he peed on the
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you know, I'm thinking that it's okay.
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And then come to find out that he did.
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Had she told me, I think that we would
have been at a crossroads, and I
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Would that have been ultimatum time?
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Perhaps. Really?
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What I want to do now, knowing all this,
is go back in and give you guys some
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homework. Okay. Let's go. The first part
of your homework is, Matt, it was going
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to be an indoor cat.
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We closed the window.
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I'm not a big fan of cats being indoor
-outdoor. We know that it diminishes the
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length of their lives. We know that
statistically.
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Are you okay with adding cat stuff?
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Because the more we give him to own
here, the less he's going to want to own
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this. I think putting it that way makes
me more confident in adding things like
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that because then it's taking him away
from our stuff and giving him his own
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stuff. I love hearing that. In my
experience?
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I know that if we close this window for
Natto, there's going to be peeing that
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happens because that's what he does when
he's stressed. I need Heather and
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Steven to catify this space. I want this
whole place to be Natto's in order for
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Natto to get to own it a little more.
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Pick key spots.
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You already did it. The cat tree in your
room, right in the window. Just lose
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himself in watching birds and things
like that. Staying active without being
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active out there, right? It's important
for you to get past where you're at. I
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want you to start getting that into
daily rituals.
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Treating, petting, touching. I want you
to step up and do it, okay?
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Heather, your job right now is to
challenge and support.
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Your next assignment is introduce
Stephen to the greater cat world.
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In this case, I'm going to send you guys
to a cat cafe.
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Heather's happy.
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How happy is Stephen?
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Not too happy.
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Here's what I want you to do. Act as
though you love cats. In order for
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to face his fears, I need Stephen to go
way outside his comfort zone.
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That's going to be intimidating.
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I feel like if you could be comfortable
around a bunch of cats, they'll help
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ease you into being more affectionate
with Nato.
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Just be a round cat.
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I'm willing to make that step, and
hopefully that'll get me more acclimated
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the cat world.
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I'll see you guys very soon. We'll pick
this up and hopefully be resolving some
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problems here, okay?
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Yeah. Thank you so much. My pleasure,
guys.
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Take care of yourselves, all right?
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Thank you. All right, bye -bye.
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Man, we're talking about fear and
ignorance, anxiety, secrets, family
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relationship at stake, and what, they
call the cat guy?
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I work with so many great people in the
L .A. area who do a great thing by
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rescuing a cat or a kitten, but no
matter how many cats we adopt out, this
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just can't get ahead of the problem.
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Los Angeles is in the middle of a kitten
epidemic.
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Too many kittens are being born for the
shelters to hold, and as a result,
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hundreds of them are being killed every
month.
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Here we go.
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Three weeks ago, my friend Hannah Shaw
and I did something drastic.
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We took 50 kittens and drove them 20
hours from Los Angeles to Boulder,
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Colorado, where they were in demand.
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Are you guys interested in adopting?
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Over half of them went to their forever
homes during the Humane Society of
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Boulder Valley adoption event.
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And by the end of the week, all 50
kittens had found their future families,
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including Mojito, the little black
kitten with the unusual nose, the kind
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kitten that's least likely to be
adopted.
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Now I'm dying to meet the family who
adopted her and see how Mojito's doing.
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I'm Aspen, and I live in Boulder,
Colorado, and we adopted a cat named
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Mojito. Mojito was one of about three or
four cats that were in the room that we
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checked out, and he just grabbed our
hearts.
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After that, it looked like we started
noticing her little things, like her
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were a little bit different from one
another, her nose was very unique.
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I liken it to being a bat almost.
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She's very adorable.
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But then we started noticing her hopping
onto the table, like my computer, the
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kitchen table, and everything.
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And then she started biting.
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The kids' hands and their feet, that's a
really big concern of mine.
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You don't want to have a cat in your
house that you have to fear.
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I don't think I could accept that.
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I know all cats deserve a home, but I
don't know if I can home a cat that's
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going to be, like, attacking people.
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We do need Jackson's help.
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I'm on my way to meet up with Aspen and
her family. Now, of course, it's great
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news that Mojito found a home, but it's
my job to make sure she stays in that
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home. Man, I love that little kitten so
much, and I can't believe she's become
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such a challenge so soon.
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I have got to find out what's going on
and do my best to make things worse.
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Now, how did you wind up getting Mojito?
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Mojito jumped onto your lap, and you
guys... Oh, it was you guys.
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Game over.
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Yeah, pretty much.
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The first time I saw Mojito, she didn't
seem like the other cats.
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There was just something about her that
reminded me of myself.
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Mojito just kept drying us and drying
us, and I don't know, that nose, you
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which I don't understand why other
people wouldn't like it. It drew me.
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It did. It did.
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The fact that you guys looked past that,
I find that to be...
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Pretty amazing.
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I guess maybe we're not your typical
family, you know, and we're not looking
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perfection. I have hearing aids in both
ears. That's one of my challenges that I
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have. And then my son has muscular
dystrophy.
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We're kind of like spread out in the age
spectrum. My husband and I, we've been
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married for 32 years, and then we
started having our kids 17 years ago. So
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have Jake and Zane and my 17 -year -old,
too.
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I'm actually really thrilled that Mojito
Found a home with a family that's not,
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you know, for lack of a better word,
sort of cookie cutter. Do you know what
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mean? Because she's so not cookie cutter
herself, you know.
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Now, you guys got to tell me, I know
everything isn't perfect with Mojito.
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What's going on?
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Well, one of the things that she's been
kind of getting into is, like, getting
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on surfaces that we don't want her on,
like my desk and the dining room table,
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the kitchen table.
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The first couple of nights, she was
begging to be with someone in another
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We had to keep his door open at night so
she would have someone to be with. He's
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also a bit nippy with, like, feet as
well.
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She starts to get a little aggressive on
the hands, you know. So he nips feet
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and hands.
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So far, everything this family is
telling me sounds like standard kitten
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behavior. It's perfectly normal for
kittens to jump up on things. They've
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tons of energy. Sure, they whine
sometimes when they're not getting their
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So do children at that age. The biting,
or really nipping, is something I take
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more seriously.
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But that's something this family can do
a lot to prevent. I just got to give
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them the tools.
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What I want to do is teach you how to
play with your cat.
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All they really are on the planet to do
is hunt things.
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Right. So they wake up in the morning
and they're like, I got to kill
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I got to kill. So what you guys are
going to be doing is providing her that
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outlet. So I'm going to show you guys
the best way to play with a cat.
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Let's first find out. Oh, my God. Look
how fast. Look how fast. Look at that.
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OK. Look how she's looking at it right
now. She's like, are you alive?
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What are you? And then because I'm an
animal, I'm not a toy.
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I'm a snake.
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So I'm sitting here going.
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Oh, my God, it's a cat. Don't kill me.
Don't kill me. Don't kill me.
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Oh, my God, I've got to get out of here.
I've got to get out of here. I've got
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to get out of here.
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I'm a snake. I'm a snake. I'm getting
out of here.
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Right? And she's completely, at this
point, in this game. We're going to
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around like a feather.
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There it goes.
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So now, you see? Look at this. Look what
she's doing. Back and forth.
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You are in my control.
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You are hypnotized.
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And just back and forth. Don't let her
catch it. Right?
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I get to show this family, this is it.
This is the pure essence of who your cat
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is, and this is the energy that you want
to feed and also drain out. One of the
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most important things for a cat is the
concept of rhythm.
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Rhythm, rituals, routines.
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Every day looks like the next.
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This is about finding that body clock,
just like you guys have, so that she
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to sleep at the same time as you.
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If this cat was out in the wild, she'd
wake up, she'd go out there, and she'd
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hunt for six hours.
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And then she eats it, right?
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And then she grooms herself, and then
she goes to sleep.
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Hunt, catch, kill, eat, groom, sleep.
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That's the whole life.
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There are places you didn't want her
jumping up on. Now, the best way to
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that is to give Mojito places where it
is okay for her to jump up. The kitchen
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is an important place for her, the
dining room table, because it's a
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place for the family, right?
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So we should give her a yes, like
another one of those trees.
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somewhere in this area, and say, you can
go hang here.
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At this point, I need to hear from Aspen
alone.
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I've got to make sure that this is a
home where Mojito has every chance to
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thrive. I care about this kitten too
much to fail her now.
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I just want you to be honest with me,
make sure that we're setting her up for
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good life. Is everything okay here?
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You know, the one concern I do have is
that hand biting around the feet. I
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really need to know that I don't have to
worry about getting a cat that looks
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cute on the outside, but then there's a
tear on the inside.
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It would be heartbreaking if we had to
give it up.
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I totally understand your concern.
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So let's get cracking on it. Let's see
what we can do.
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You know, when I come back, you and I
will sit together again and make a call.
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Sounds good to me. Cool. All right.
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She is not completely convinced that
this cat will fit in her home. You know,
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it's very easy to say, well, if this
isn't the right family, we'll find
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one. Don't forget, she's not this cute
little tiny kitten anymore. She's now
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four months old, who's going to
disappear into the shelter system again.
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I can't let this fail.
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So I'm here for my last visit with
Stephen and Heather and their cat,
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the last time I was here, man, Natto's
problems were the least of my problems.
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We had intergenerational cat phobias.
All of them scared of cats?
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Yeah, I'd say so.
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Wow. We have lying going on and all
kinds of drama. Hopefully that is
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and also Natto as well.
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Hello. Hey.
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How are you getting back?
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Thank you.
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Let me just ask you straight up, since
the last time I was here, has he peed on
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the couch?
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I don't think so.
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Truth?
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No, truthfully, yeah. And I think that
just a few days when we got the cat
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furniture up, I saw a quick change in
his demeanor.
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Wow. The first few days, I had anxiety.
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Sure you did. But I feel like, to be
honest, I...
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It was okay because I knew if he did
make a mistake, I would be able to
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in him. There you go. Okay, good. You
know? Not having any pee in this house
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after Natto's been locked up, you don't
even realize how huge that is. It's a
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sign that he's accepted the house. He
doesn't experience the stress and
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that led him to peeing in the first
place, and that is a cause for
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I really want to spend a moment with
Natto, and I just want to see if I can
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a read on what his energy's like now
that he's been inside for a couple
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okay? So I'll be back in a few.
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It's great to see Natto in his cat tree
and not hiding.
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That's a nice change.
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Now listen to me.
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You are not the problem in this house.
You know that, right?
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It's Stephen's issue, not your issue.
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Do me a favor.
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Be on your best behavior, and I'll see
if I can get Stephen to see the light.
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Hey, nice job not paying on stuff, man.
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Natto is a very placid cat, and there's
no way that Steven, if he's based in
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reality, could see Natto as anything
else.
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All right, buddy.
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I want to see what's been going on here,
so let's take a look at what you guys
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have been up to.
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Natto, come on.
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All right.
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Natto's like, yeah, nice try, guy.
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There we go.
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Nice going, man.
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He would call his name.
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He would pet his head a little bit.
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If Steven just keeps up the feeding, the
playing, the petting, he's going to
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figure this out very quickly that Natto
is actually his friend and in no way
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could be that cat who would carve his
eyes out.
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I asked you if you were going to
reconsider and have Natto in this house
449
00:26:46,500 --> 00:26:47,500
your family comes.
450
00:26:48,420 --> 00:26:50,520
I'm open to having him here.
451
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:52,960
Can we give your man some props?
452
00:26:53,460 --> 00:26:58,680
As long as you're willing to stand up
for him and for Heather, they're going
453
00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:00,780
have to deal, just like you did.
454
00:27:01,140 --> 00:27:03,780
Last time I was here, man, that wasn't
even a possibility.
455
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:06,780
Okay, now let's take a look at you in
the cat cafe.
456
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:09,480
Okay, man.
457
00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:14,580
What's going on for you right there?
458
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:18,820
I think at that point I was overwhelmed
sitting down because all the cats
459
00:27:18,820 --> 00:27:23,740
were... Surrounding us. Just imagining
them jumping on me, clawing at me, just
460
00:27:23,740 --> 00:27:25,200
not knowing what they're going to do.
461
00:27:25,460 --> 00:27:31,980
Steven is so mortified. He literally
believes that if a cat is given a
462
00:27:32,120 --> 00:27:37,140
they will run up, attack his face, and
pull his eyes out of the socket.
463
00:27:39,740 --> 00:27:46,740
So if you had to sum up the Steven
experience in the Cat Cafe... I think
464
00:27:46,740 --> 00:27:48,800
it. There it is. Yeah, man.
465
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:54,680
Based on what I saw in the video
homework, Steven has to keep going, and
466
00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:56,020
have to be the guy who takes him there.
467
00:27:56,540 --> 00:28:02,140
All in all, I think you've done great
work. That said, you've still got a
468
00:28:02,140 --> 00:28:03,980
ways to go, and I think you know that.
469
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:06,960
So, you ready to go back to the cat
cafe?
470
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:12,940
Not my first choice, so I'm wondering
what the exposure is going to be like
471
00:28:12,940 --> 00:28:18,200
time. As long as you keep having that
reaction, that means we're not where we
472
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:19,039
need to be.
473
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:24,780
I am going to push Steven to a point
where he realizes that cats aren't
474
00:28:24,780 --> 00:28:28,240
offensive, throat -ripping animals.
They're cats.
475
00:28:28,580 --> 00:28:34,160
And he has learned from generation to
generation something contrary, and it's
476
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:37,980
got to stop somewhere, and that stopped
today. Let's just get you back on the
477
00:28:37,980 --> 00:28:40,180
horse, so to speak, and get you in front
of some cats.
478
00:28:40,380 --> 00:28:41,380
Come on. Let's go.
479
00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:44,360
I'm a little nervous, for sure.
480
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:53,880
We're here to hang out with cats, man.
Okay, the best way to do that is to get
481
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:54,880
bag of treats.
482
00:28:55,300 --> 00:28:57,560
I remember the answer already coming.
483
00:28:57,960 --> 00:28:59,620
Oh my God. Is she a grabber?
484
00:28:59,820 --> 00:29:03,880
She likes to pull your hands towards you
if you're not giving them quick enough.
485
00:29:06,620 --> 00:29:10,660
Biggest problem that Steven has is this
ingrained physical response.
486
00:29:10,980 --> 00:29:14,960
Cat comes at him and he's suddenly
pulling away. That's going to attract
487
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:17,820
because suddenly, Steven's a squeaky
toy.
488
00:29:18,250 --> 00:29:21,450
Realize something, Steven. She's not
following you. She's following the food.
489
00:29:23,370 --> 00:29:24,390
There you go.
490
00:29:24,610 --> 00:29:25,610
Oh,
491
00:29:25,770 --> 00:29:27,430
man. Come on, man. It's okay.
492
00:29:27,990 --> 00:29:30,230
I want you to start reading cat body
language, okay?
493
00:29:30,830 --> 00:29:32,190
God, I don't trust her.
494
00:29:33,610 --> 00:29:37,530
Good. There we go. Now what we're going
to do is completely ignore them.
495
00:29:38,290 --> 00:29:40,670
If I want you to have the treat, it's
coming down here.
496
00:29:42,110 --> 00:29:43,110
There you go.
497
00:29:43,590 --> 00:29:44,590
Good girl.
498
00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:48,720
So the next time she jumps up, I'm going
to give it to you. You can lead them
499
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:50,380
where you want them to go.
500
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:51,640
Here we go.
501
00:29:54,380 --> 00:30:01,340
That's going to be a long -term thing
for you, right?
502
00:30:01,460 --> 00:30:06,720
Because it's your body that wants to do
this. That jerk, that will lead cats to
503
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:08,280
being a little bit on the defensive.
504
00:30:08,700 --> 00:30:12,200
One of the things that Steven's got to
watch out for is that backward body
505
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:15,960
stance. The more he pulls back, the more
the cats are going to come at him. So
506
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:19,560
he's got to be able to present himself
much more neutrally, and the cats will
507
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:22,660
pretty much explore but probably leave
him alone. So I want to make sure that
508
00:30:22,660 --> 00:30:23,660
you don't feel trapped.
509
00:30:23,740 --> 00:30:26,600
We're going to have you go right in the
middle, and Heather and I will sit on
510
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:27,600
either side of you.
511
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:29,860
Now, there's a couple of moves that I
use.
512
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:31,740
Whenever I'm introducing myself.
513
00:30:32,060 --> 00:30:33,940
One of them is under the chin.
514
00:30:34,500 --> 00:30:37,300
Now, I know that's hard for you, right,
because it's near the mouth and
515
00:30:37,300 --> 00:30:41,240
everything. But there's not many cats
who don't like that.
516
00:30:41,460 --> 00:30:45,340
The next thing I want you to do is I
want you to lean back into the pillows.
517
00:30:45,420 --> 00:30:46,860
Open up. You guys are relaxing.
518
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:48,960
I will be back in a second.
519
00:30:49,180 --> 00:30:50,180
He's luring them.
520
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:54,700
I've been putting Steve into his
challenge line all day and then slowly
521
00:30:54,700 --> 00:30:57,840
that line more and more. Now, this is
the final test.
522
00:30:58,330 --> 00:31:00,750
I want Steven on the ground at the cat's
level.
523
00:31:01,010 --> 00:31:04,090
I mean, if he can sit comfortably with
five cats here, then there's a better
524
00:31:04,090 --> 00:31:06,870
chance that he can sit comfortably with
one cat, not so at home.
525
00:31:07,530 --> 00:31:11,350
Don't forget, you have the power right
now. You're shrinking back. You have the
526
00:31:11,350 --> 00:31:14,850
power. You should sit up. You control
this. They don't control you.
527
00:31:15,090 --> 00:31:17,910
Tell me where you're at right now. What
are you looking at? What are you taking
528
00:31:17,910 --> 00:31:19,750
in right now? I'm okay right now.
529
00:31:20,510 --> 00:31:25,870
I think because now I've fed both of
them, so I'm a little bit more
530
00:31:25,870 --> 00:31:26,870
to their behavior.
531
00:31:27,370 --> 00:31:28,370
There you go. Yeah.
532
00:31:28,750 --> 00:31:35,110
Okay. So for you, you're finding out
that when your energy is nice and calm,
533
00:31:35,350 --> 00:31:37,270
cats like you. It's energy.
534
00:31:37,610 --> 00:31:38,790
Yeah. All energy.
535
00:31:40,490 --> 00:31:42,590
I'm going to leave you and so is
Heather.
536
00:31:43,730 --> 00:31:49,250
Okay. You catch your body doing this, I
want you to purposely sit up. I want you
537
00:31:49,250 --> 00:31:52,130
to take opposite action. Okay. Okay?
Come on, Heather.
538
00:31:52,570 --> 00:31:54,150
Okay. So away we go.
539
00:31:54,670 --> 00:31:58,190
I'd like you to challenge yourself and
push your comfort zone with these cats.
540
00:31:58,370 --> 00:32:01,930
These cats seem pretty chill right now,
but if he freaks out, then these cats
541
00:32:01,930 --> 00:32:05,390
might freak out also. And then the worst
thing that could happen is that any of
542
00:32:05,390 --> 00:32:07,090
these cats could scratch or bite
Stephen.
543
00:32:16,750 --> 00:32:18,850
I'm going to leave you and those
heathers.
544
00:32:20,010 --> 00:32:24,220
Okay. The worst thing that can happen in
this moment is that any of these cats
545
00:32:24,220 --> 00:32:27,940
bites and scratches Steven because I'm
flashing forward 20 years from now and
546
00:32:27,940 --> 00:32:30,820
he's telling his grandchildren to avoid
cats at all costs.
547
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:35,960
I just felt stranded and alone. I'm the
only target for them.
548
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:43,380
But using the treats as a diversion, I'm
able to bring them closer to me but
549
00:32:43,380 --> 00:32:45,180
then also bring them away from me.
550
00:32:46,190 --> 00:32:49,250
I'm actually really impressed about what
I'm seeing right now. I mean, it's
551
00:32:49,250 --> 00:32:52,870
crazy. Nine months ago, he couldn't even
be in the same room with Natto.
552
00:32:53,150 --> 00:32:56,530
And now, just the growth of that short
period of time.
553
00:32:59,730 --> 00:33:01,190
So how's it been going in here?
554
00:33:01,610 --> 00:33:03,010
I kicked a cat.
555
00:33:03,330 --> 00:33:05,310
You did? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
556
00:33:05,750 --> 00:33:06,750
This one, right?
557
00:33:06,870 --> 00:33:09,110
That's what I said. I said, Natto's
going to be jealous.
558
00:33:09,330 --> 00:33:10,490
What the hell?
559
00:33:11,510 --> 00:33:12,790
That's amazing, man.
560
00:33:13,010 --> 00:33:15,130
I think you've come an incredibly long
way, man.
561
00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:19,720
And I'm really proud of you. You're
going to break a three -generation
562
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:24,940
And that's worthy of commending. But
please think about some kind of a
563
00:33:24,940 --> 00:33:29,160
compromise when your family comes here
because it is a crossroads for you guys.
564
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:31,740
I want you to think of him as a family
member.
565
00:33:31,940 --> 00:33:35,160
And what I want is I want a family
portrait, man.
566
00:33:35,540 --> 00:33:39,160
With Nacho in the middle, it's the least
you could do, right?
567
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:44,800
I want to see a family portrait with
Natto in it, and then I know that this
568
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:49,640
multi -generational, irrational fear of
cats is finally put to rest. I'm out,
569
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:50,920
man. Thank you very much.
570
00:33:51,220 --> 00:33:56,680
All right, man. Thanks, Jackson. Before
Jackson coming into our lives, if I were
571
00:33:56,680 --> 00:34:01,760
ever to see a cat, I would be so scared.
I mean, I'm still scared, but it's a
572
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:04,880
little bit less because I have the
knowledge of what to expect from them.
573
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:11,239
Man, I am so proud of that guy. I mean,
overcoming fear that's so deep -seated
574
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:14,540
is so hard, and he deserves all the
credit in the world. But, man, it takes
575
00:34:14,540 --> 00:34:18,500
three to tango in this relationship. As
long as Stephen keeps up all the
576
00:34:18,500 --> 00:34:22,820
homework rituals and Heather keeps
coaching him on, this could be a really
577
00:34:22,820 --> 00:34:24,480
family, and I'm really stoked about
that.
578
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:34,580
I'm back in Boulder, Colorado with Aspen
and her family and my little mojito. I
579
00:34:34,580 --> 00:34:38,860
have put so much time and effort and
heart energy into this little kitten. I
580
00:34:38,860 --> 00:34:39,839
to tell you something.
581
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:43,860
I have to make sure that this is the
right family for that cat. Otherwise,
582
00:34:43,860 --> 00:34:44,860
journey continues.
583
00:34:46,260 --> 00:34:47,600
Hey, how are you?
584
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:50,159
Good to see you. How you been? Pretty
good.
585
00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:53,179
Good. You know, the one thing that I
just adore. Hey, guys.
586
00:34:53,739 --> 00:34:58,040
Hello. I just love about her is that
every time I walk in the house, she's
587
00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:03,390
there. She doesn't hide. I got no fear
about Mojito. She is one heck of a
588
00:35:03,390 --> 00:35:08,170
confident cat, but it's up to the family
to provide continued mojo for Mojito.
589
00:35:08,250 --> 00:35:09,250
How are things going?
590
00:35:10,290 --> 00:35:11,410
Pretty well, actually.
591
00:35:11,670 --> 00:35:15,630
Yeah? Yeah. I think we have our tools in
place. It's just a matter of being
592
00:35:15,630 --> 00:35:16,710
consistent. Yeah.
593
00:35:16,930 --> 00:35:20,190
So, the big question is, has Mojito
stopped biting?
594
00:35:20,710 --> 00:35:26,150
Yeah. Great. The improvement that I've
been seeing with Mojito has been...
595
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:32,940
much more interest in toys, and I think
there's more of a rhythm going on with
596
00:35:32,940 --> 00:35:33,779
the family.
597
00:35:33,780 --> 00:35:36,880
I wanted you guys to get into the
routine, the rituals.
598
00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:39,540
Right. Are you guys doing the play with
her? Yeah, yeah.
599
00:35:39,820 --> 00:35:40,820
Are you playing?
600
00:35:41,660 --> 00:35:45,920
Hopefully what they're saying is true,
and all this play is changing Mojito's
601
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:48,060
behavior. Let's see how you guys have
been doing here.
602
00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:50,740
Look at the pretty kitty.
603
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:52,200
Mojito!
604
00:35:58,220 --> 00:35:59,220
She's playing.
605
00:35:59,300 --> 00:36:00,300
We're happy.
606
00:36:03,700 --> 00:36:05,540
Nice work, guys.
607
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:08,620
Next thing, catification.
608
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:12,980
Hey, whoa, look at that.
609
00:36:14,540 --> 00:36:15,540
He's bananas.
610
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:17,880
I love her.
611
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:22,820
I love it. We got it in the window, in
the dining room. One of the things I
612
00:36:22,820 --> 00:36:27,430
would tell you is that as you add more
things to the house, Think about where
613
00:36:27,430 --> 00:36:31,590
you want her to be. So, for instance,
you don't want her on your bed, so you
614
00:36:31,590 --> 00:36:35,330
want her to have a bed that you can
praise her for going to, just like you
615
00:36:35,330 --> 00:36:39,770
in the dining room. This is a great
template for how we expand her world out
616
00:36:39,770 --> 00:36:45,710
later on, so great work. You guys took
everything that I said and just went for
617
00:36:45,710 --> 00:36:49,370
it. This homework looks really good, but
the last time I was here, Aspen had
618
00:36:49,370 --> 00:36:52,910
some reservations, and I'm not leaving
here today with any reservations. I want
619
00:36:52,910 --> 00:36:55,410
to make sure she's not still thinking
about getting a mojito.
620
00:36:55,900 --> 00:37:01,520
So just really briefly, I'm loving what
I'm seeing here, but I got to know, when
621
00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:05,920
we talk about a forever home, I want to
make sure that she is going to be here
622
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:06,920
for the rest of her life.
623
00:37:07,300 --> 00:37:08,820
Do you feel like you can make that
commitment?
624
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:12,760
Yeah.
625
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:13,920
Yes. Good.
626
00:37:14,660 --> 00:37:17,820
I'm glad you thought it through. You
gave me a little bit of a heart attack,
627
00:37:17,820 --> 00:37:18,900
you thought it through.
628
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:22,420
I think this is a great home for her,
and like I said, I'm here for you guys,
629
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:24,640
okay? I appreciate it. I really do.
630
00:37:25,050 --> 00:37:30,210
I've never had a physical and emotional
journey as long as this one with Mojito.
631
00:37:30,330 --> 00:37:34,610
I know that this is a great family. I
know that Mojito stood up for a good
632
00:37:35,150 --> 00:37:36,830
Hello, my love. Listen to me.
633
00:37:37,950 --> 00:37:39,150
I'm going to leave you now.
634
00:37:40,790 --> 00:37:42,110
Don't mess up.
635
00:37:43,670 --> 00:37:44,830
Be a good girl.
636
00:37:47,770 --> 00:37:49,810
Oh, I adore this cat.
637
00:37:51,050 --> 00:37:54,530
Mojito represents that left -behind cat.
638
00:37:54,990 --> 00:38:00,190
The cat among thousands who will die
this year alone in Los Angeles because
639
00:38:00,190 --> 00:38:01,610
disappears in a cage.
640
00:38:04,950 --> 00:38:08,570
It's crazy, right? There are so many
mojitos out there.
641
00:38:08,950 --> 00:38:11,410
We saved one, and that feels really
good.
642
00:38:11,970 --> 00:38:16,690
It makes you want to work a lot harder
to make sure that in the near future we
643
00:38:16,690 --> 00:38:18,590
never have to have this conversation
again.
644
00:38:24,460 --> 00:38:27,520
I'm in Boulder where there's another
family that adopted the kittens that we
645
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:30,940
transported from LA. Today I'm heading
in to meet up with Leslie and her
646
00:38:30,940 --> 00:38:34,600
grandson Calvin and the two kittens they
adopted, Applesauce and Applejuice.
647
00:38:34,700 --> 00:38:39,420
This is Applesauce. I want to see what
Calvin's up to. Last time I was here I
648
00:38:39,420 --> 00:38:44,440
gave him a clicker. There's this little
clicker that you could give a string.
649
00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:46,840
Clicker. It's the clicker.
650
00:38:47,060 --> 00:38:50,720
Ah, he loves it. Thank you. You're
welcome, man.
651
00:38:50,940 --> 00:38:52,480
I want to see how far he's gotten with
that.
652
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:53,880
Well, hi. Hi.
653
00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:56,980
How are you? Good to see you again. Good
to see you, too. How you been? Pretty
654
00:38:56,980 --> 00:38:58,700
good. Well, well, well.
655
00:38:59,220 --> 00:39:01,400
Hi. What's up, Calvin? How you doing,
man?
656
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:05,640
Good to see you. Good to see you, too.
You know what? You don't disappoint me,
657
00:39:05,660 --> 00:39:08,940
man. I walk in here, he's got the toys,
playing with the cats, seeing a six
658
00:39:08,940 --> 00:39:12,540
-year -old boy playing with a toy with
two kittens, laughing, giggling, not
659
00:39:12,540 --> 00:39:16,640
having to use his hands, not getting
scratched up. I mean, it doesn't get any
660
00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:20,840
better than that. We renamed them. Okay,
what are their names? That is Thelma
661
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:21,840
and Louise.
662
00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:22,920
Well, of course it is.
663
00:39:23,240 --> 00:39:25,660
Much better than applesauce and apple
juice. Nice job.
664
00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:27,120
Oh, they're crazy.
665
00:39:27,240 --> 00:39:30,640
The fact that these guys came from such
a long road trip and now they're Thelma
666
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:32,040
and Louise, appropriate.
667
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:36,240
Calvin, you have sort of a natural
ability to play with these cats.
668
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:38,940
Okay, so where's your clicker at? Do you
know?
669
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:44,820
Oh, it's in my pocket. So here, let me
show you the easy breezy way of at least
670
00:39:44,820 --> 00:39:46,580
starting to work with this thing, okay?
671
00:39:46,780 --> 00:39:50,140
If you could teach your cat a trick,
what would that trick be?
672
00:39:51,260 --> 00:39:52,660
Spinning around in circles.
673
00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:56,580
That's easy breezy. We could do that.
Now you've got some kitten food here.
674
00:39:56,820 --> 00:39:57,820
Lovely.
675
00:39:58,020 --> 00:40:03,600
Okay. First, all we're going to do is
make it so this sound means I get food.
676
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:08,040
Click. The scientific term for clicker
trading is actually operant
677
00:40:08,240 --> 00:40:12,260
What we're trying to get Thelma and
Louise to do here is to associate the
678
00:40:12,260 --> 00:40:16,760
and the treat with the behavior that
we're trying to accomplish. The key is
679
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:19,280
between the clicker and the treat.
680
00:40:19,610 --> 00:40:24,050
It has to be one second because then the
cat goes, oh, that sound means I did
681
00:40:24,050 --> 00:40:25,050
something right.
682
00:40:25,770 --> 00:40:26,770
There it is.
683
00:40:27,110 --> 00:40:28,570
You see what happened there?
684
00:40:28,850 --> 00:40:30,490
She heard it and she's like, wait, food.
685
00:40:30,910 --> 00:40:31,910
Let's see if she'll do this.
686
00:40:32,870 --> 00:40:36,670
And then as soon as she makes this
circle, click, treat.
687
00:40:37,610 --> 00:40:39,390
That's it. That's all you got to do.
688
00:40:39,670 --> 00:40:43,990
If you do this three days in a row,
let's say, do it for five, ten minutes
689
00:40:43,990 --> 00:40:47,370
time, done. They're trained. Done. And
then you're going to be able to use the
690
00:40:47,370 --> 00:40:52,300
word. Spin or turn or whatever. Okay.
One step at a time. Now, cats doing
691
00:40:52,300 --> 00:40:56,720
like Thelma spinning is fun, but I'm
hoping that Calvin eventually takes
692
00:40:56,720 --> 00:41:00,420
training to a deeper level down the
line, like getting into a carrier. This
693
00:41:00,420 --> 00:41:01,600
going to be magical, buddy.
694
00:41:02,460 --> 00:41:08,160
Jackson teach me that you just click and
feed the cats.
695
00:41:09,140 --> 00:41:10,220
Good to see you again, buddy.
696
00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:11,940
Good to see you, too. All right.
697
00:41:12,350 --> 00:41:14,390
Take care. You too. It was great to see
you. Thank you very much. All right.
698
00:41:14,530 --> 00:41:19,110
Take care, guys. Every time I look at
these two kittens, I think about the
699
00:41:19,110 --> 00:41:22,290
they've been on. And now knowing they've
got each other for the rest of their
700
00:41:22,290 --> 00:41:26,310
lives and they've got Calvin, I mean,
come on. We're standing here in the
701
00:41:26,310 --> 00:41:30,390
mountains with these two kittens who
could have been dead in the streets of
702
00:41:30,390 --> 00:41:32,390
Angeles. What a blessing, right?
703
00:41:32,950 --> 00:41:33,950
Yeah.
704
00:41:35,530 --> 00:41:38,690
Man, this trip to Boulder just keeps
getting better every day.
705
00:41:39,130 --> 00:41:42,710
A short time after my meeting with
Mojito's new guardians, I got the great
706
00:41:42,710 --> 00:41:46,810
from Bridget that Aspen's decided to get
another cat. Today, she's coming in
707
00:41:46,810 --> 00:41:49,430
with her husband and kids to meet a
kitten they saw.
708
00:41:49,630 --> 00:41:52,910
So you're ready to give Mojito a friend?
709
00:41:53,110 --> 00:41:54,850
Yes. We're going to look into that.
710
00:41:55,150 --> 00:41:56,890
You want to be the dork?
711
00:41:57,110 --> 00:41:58,610
Yeah, I totally want to be the dork.
712
00:41:59,490 --> 00:42:04,070
Aspen and her entire family showed
commitment, man. They came in here to
713
00:42:04,070 --> 00:42:05,170
kitten. Fantastic.
714
00:42:05,650 --> 00:42:06,930
I want you guys.
715
00:42:08,110 --> 00:42:09,470
to meet Crystal.
716
00:42:09,950 --> 00:42:14,910
I figure since Mojito jumped in your lap
first, we might as well just repeat the
717
00:42:14,910 --> 00:42:15,910
process, right?
718
00:42:16,970 --> 00:42:19,970
Adorable. So Crystal is eight weeks old,
right? Yep.
719
00:42:20,510 --> 00:42:22,150
I think she's pretty cute.
720
00:42:23,070 --> 00:42:26,190
Bridget was telling me that she's a
little more on the shy side.
721
00:42:26,530 --> 00:42:31,630
So that's actually really good for her
because she's going home, if you take
722
00:42:31,630 --> 00:42:34,590
her, she's going home with a kitten who
is really...
723
00:42:35,220 --> 00:42:40,080
confident and really forward and will
teach this one the rope in a pretty
724
00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:44,160
incredible way. So that's great for this
kitten. She needs to have another who
725
00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:45,880
is really confident.
726
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:47,160
There you go.
727
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:48,980
I think Jeff will be the cat.
728
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:51,120
Yay! Good!
729
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:54,500
I'm pretty convinced. I'm taken by her.
730
00:42:56,500 --> 00:43:01,100
I'm so happy right now. It's a choice
that only this family could make, but I
731
00:43:01,100 --> 00:43:04,220
think young kittens do best when they're
raised alongside other kittens.
732
00:43:05,169 --> 00:43:06,169
Congratulations again.
733
00:43:06,250 --> 00:43:12,330
To know that Crystal and Mojito are
going to be united, it ended the way in
734
00:43:12,330 --> 00:43:13,550
perfect world it would have ended.
735
00:43:14,330 --> 00:43:16,650
Good luck, guys. I'm going to leave you,
leave you, okay?
736
00:43:17,490 --> 00:43:21,510
It's rare that I have a history and bond
with a Catastron as the one that I've
737
00:43:21,510 --> 00:43:24,950
got with Mojito, and that's why I was so
dead set on making this work.
738
00:43:25,690 --> 00:43:29,390
Adopting Crystal will not only help
Mojito's socialization process, but it
739
00:43:29,390 --> 00:43:33,250
also help the kittens normalize one
another's behavior and get out that
740
00:43:33,250 --> 00:43:34,250
energy through play.
741
00:43:34,590 --> 00:43:38,550
Now that I know that Mojito is set up
for success, I can go back to Los
742
00:43:38,730 --> 00:43:43,350
finally satisfied that my little friend
with a special nose will be just fine in
743
00:43:43,350 --> 00:43:44,350
her forever home.
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