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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:00,010 --> 00:00:02,770 Sidney is Zach and his ex -wife's cat. 2 00:00:03,050 --> 00:00:06,230 After we moved in together, Sidney started peeing all over the house. 3 00:00:06,470 --> 00:00:07,229 It stinks. 4 00:00:07,230 --> 00:00:08,290 Yeah, it's terrible. 5 00:00:09,070 --> 00:00:11,350 This is our brand new pouch. 6 00:00:11,810 --> 00:00:16,470 It started immediately, which made me feel like it was me, like I was this 7 00:00:16,470 --> 00:00:20,470 stepmother. It was like this huge one, two, three punch for Sid. 8 00:00:20,710 --> 00:00:24,930 Here's your new mom. Here's your new house. And by the way, here's your new 9 00:00:24,930 --> 00:00:26,830 brother, and he is the spawn of the devil. 10 00:00:27,230 --> 00:00:31,570 Stella is our first baby, but since Avery's come along, things have gone 11 00:00:31,570 --> 00:00:33,710 cuddles and snuggles to chaos. 12 00:00:36,010 --> 00:00:40,570 The attacks are so frequent, it is truly a daily fear for her attacking her 13 00:00:40,570 --> 00:00:41,570 daughter. 14 00:00:41,610 --> 00:00:42,569 Stop it. 15 00:00:42,570 --> 00:00:45,890 The humans in this house are living in a constant state of fear. It's a really 16 00:00:45,890 --> 00:00:46,890 tense situation. 17 00:00:47,290 --> 00:00:52,910 I hear the most incredible stories about animals and their people every single 18 00:00:52,910 --> 00:00:54,710 day. Our cat, Grace, saved us. 19 00:00:54,990 --> 00:00:58,370 Had you guys not come downstairs, we wouldn't be having this conversation 20 00:00:58,370 --> 00:00:59,370 now. Wow. 21 00:00:59,490 --> 00:01:00,490 Whoa! 22 00:01:00,890 --> 00:01:03,050 Holy! I'm Jackson Galaxy. 23 00:01:03,290 --> 00:01:04,289 What the hell, man? 24 00:01:04,569 --> 00:01:09,310 The animal behavior that guardians call when they're dealing with a difficult 25 00:01:09,310 --> 00:01:12,230 cat. Sometimes I wish that I didn't have her. 26 00:01:12,490 --> 00:01:13,490 Damn. 27 00:01:13,810 --> 00:01:18,470 I'm out to prove that there is no such thing as a bad cat. Just a cat that 28 00:01:18,470 --> 00:01:19,590 my help. This is fun. 29 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:32,679 I'm Zach. 30 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:33,680 And I'm Meredith. 31 00:01:33,860 --> 00:01:37,840 We've been together for two years. We have two dogs, Hector and Teddy and a 32 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:42,100 Sidney. After we moved in together, Sidney started peeing all over the 33 00:01:42,740 --> 00:01:43,740 He peed on everything. 34 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:45,240 It stinks. 35 00:01:45,260 --> 00:01:46,260 Yeah, it's terrible. 36 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:49,080 Oh my God, that feels horrible. 37 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:50,680 He peed in the crate again. 38 00:01:51,790 --> 00:01:55,110 There's pee all over here, and there's pee on this desk here. 39 00:01:55,330 --> 00:01:56,930 It always smells like pee over here. 40 00:01:57,170 --> 00:02:00,530 Cat pee is the worst thing on the planet. And this is my side of the bed. 41 00:02:00,650 --> 00:02:05,110 There's no cleaning cat pee out of stuff. You throw away things that cats 42 00:02:05,110 --> 00:02:08,710 on. I'm so careful in here. I decided enough was enough. 43 00:02:09,050 --> 00:02:10,949 Sidney was not allowed inside the bedroom. 44 00:02:11,170 --> 00:02:14,510 After he's been locked out of the bedroom, Sid started peeing on the 45 00:02:15,450 --> 00:02:19,350 So this is our brand new couch. 46 00:02:20,270 --> 00:02:25,790 Sid peed on it twice a day, every day, and after three months of cleaning it 47 00:02:25,830 --> 00:02:28,490 we decided to just put the couch in the garage. 48 00:02:30,030 --> 00:02:34,990 We have this beautiful home together that we can't fully enjoy. 49 00:02:37,930 --> 00:02:42,390 Sid's peeing problem adds an enormous amount of stress. We never fight about 50 00:02:42,390 --> 00:02:46,850 anything except for Sidney. I don't know if we're fully equipped to handle it. 51 00:02:47,050 --> 00:02:51,310 I can't do this anymore. This is the biggest stress, and it could be the 52 00:02:51,310 --> 00:02:52,310 that could break us. 53 00:02:52,550 --> 00:02:53,550 Hi. 54 00:02:59,830 --> 00:03:01,890 Hi. How are you doing? 55 00:03:02,150 --> 00:03:03,350 How are you doing? 56 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:05,900 This is Teddy, and this is Hector. 57 00:03:06,380 --> 00:03:09,400 Now, how old is Teddy? He's nine months old, and Hector is six. 58 00:03:09,660 --> 00:03:13,500 We got him right after we lost my other, I had a rescue pit bull for 12 years, 59 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:16,560 and he passed away in January. Oh, I'm so sorry, man. We had to put Diamond 60 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:17,760 because he couldn't walk. 61 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:22,440 After Diamond passed away, about two months later, we got Teddy as a seven 62 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:24,580 -old pit bull. We got him to refill the house. 63 00:03:24,820 --> 00:03:30,540 This must add a whole layer of fun, whatever cat problems we got going on 64 00:03:30,660 --> 00:03:31,900 Yeah. So what's going on? 65 00:03:32,519 --> 00:03:34,840 Sydney is Zach and his ex -wife's cat. 66 00:03:35,540 --> 00:03:39,100 Before we moved in together, Zach was like, there's this cat that we have, and 67 00:03:39,100 --> 00:03:41,640 he's gone back and forth between us three or four times. 68 00:03:41,900 --> 00:03:44,500 And the reason you guys were switching up was just sort of a custody thing? She 69 00:03:44,500 --> 00:03:48,700 wanted custody, but everywhere she moved to was difficult for her to have him. 70 00:03:48,780 --> 00:03:51,320 This was only about two and a half months into our relationship, but we 71 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:55,480 were going to be together. So he consulted me, and I said, okay, well, 72 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:56,319 to take him. 73 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:58,840 but just tell her that we're going to take him on the condition that we're not 74 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:01,900 going to give him back. I know it was stressful for him to go back and forth. 75 00:04:02,180 --> 00:04:03,420 Yeah, not for any cat. 76 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:07,580 Sydney went back and forth from one house to the other. That's a lot of 77 00:04:07,580 --> 00:04:12,400 on a cat. They're territorial animals. They define their safety by their space. 78 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:17,480 Once we moved in here, Sid has had kind of this, like, peeing problem. 79 00:04:17,740 --> 00:04:22,700 It started almost immediately, which made me feel like it was me, like I was 80 00:04:22,700 --> 00:04:24,140 this evil stepmother. 81 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:29,580 Evil stepmother. You hear those words, you know something's going on here that 82 00:04:29,580 --> 00:04:33,800 shouldn't be happening. There's no way that just because Meredith is a new 83 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:37,320 person on the scene that Sidney is suddenly going to start taking 84 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:39,240 on her. Is Sidney neutered? 85 00:04:39,460 --> 00:04:40,660 Oh, yeah. Okay, good. 86 00:04:41,420 --> 00:04:46,580 Teddy. From talking to my ex -wife, he never did this with her. 87 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:48,200 He never peed in her house? No. 88 00:04:48,840 --> 00:04:49,840 Crazy. 89 00:04:50,140 --> 00:04:51,140 Teddy, come on. 90 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:55,080 I just want to get to walking around here, meet him, take a look at... All of 91 00:04:55,080 --> 00:05:00,900 the zones. Are there a lot? There's a few. Right now, there's three solid 92 00:05:00,900 --> 00:05:03,780 that he goes. Well, yeah. I mean, that's because we don't have our couch 93 00:05:03,780 --> 00:05:05,820 anymore. How long has it been since you haven't had a couch? 94 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:09,060 Two months. Now, without the couch here, has he stopped peeing here? 95 00:05:09,420 --> 00:05:10,720 He stopped peeing here. 96 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:15,140 Where he pees the most is right over here. 97 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:16,580 This is all him? Yeah. 98 00:05:17,100 --> 00:05:18,980 Nothing a cat does is random. 99 00:05:19,310 --> 00:05:23,090 Wow, that's all from Sydney peeing. Yeah, from Sydney peeing. They plan out 100 00:05:23,090 --> 00:05:27,730 their days. They plan out what strategically has advantages, what keeps 101 00:05:27,730 --> 00:05:28,730 territory safe. 102 00:05:29,010 --> 00:05:31,750 So this spot was hit all the time. This is pee. 103 00:05:32,330 --> 00:05:33,330 Look at all that. 104 00:05:33,750 --> 00:05:39,690 In Sydney's world, wherever he pees, there's a good reason behind it. I have 105 00:05:39,690 --> 00:05:40,730 figure out what that reason is. 106 00:05:41,130 --> 00:05:43,570 Did the peeing on the sink start recently? 107 00:05:43,990 --> 00:05:47,530 That's real recent. That's real recent. So is that after the couch went away? 108 00:05:47,750 --> 00:05:53,350 Yeah. Okay. The fact that it's everywhere means that this territory has 109 00:05:53,350 --> 00:05:57,210 some level of instability for Sidney. That is a ton of pee. Come on. 110 00:05:57,630 --> 00:06:02,790 The very first place that he started to go was right here. 111 00:06:03,010 --> 00:06:06,910 Oh, wow. It does stink over here. Yeah. And this is my side of the bed. Ground 112 00:06:06,910 --> 00:06:07,910 zero. Ground zero. 113 00:06:08,350 --> 00:06:09,870 Holy cow. 114 00:06:10,910 --> 00:06:12,990 It still clearly smells over here. Yeah. 115 00:06:14,090 --> 00:06:21,050 That's a big spot right there. The entire room is covered in pee. Some of 116 00:06:21,050 --> 00:06:26,290 stuff could be from my old pit bull, Diamond, from his incontinence, from the 117 00:06:26,290 --> 00:06:27,550 past. Oh. 118 00:06:28,030 --> 00:06:32,910 Diamond had degenerative hip disorder to where he could not walk anymore and 119 00:06:32,910 --> 00:06:36,650 eventually losing all function of his bowel control. 120 00:06:37,050 --> 00:06:41,910 Diamond passed away eight days after we moved in here. You move in. Diamond 121 00:06:41,910 --> 00:06:44,870 passes. A week later, Sid starts peeing everywhere. 122 00:06:46,490 --> 00:06:47,690 Dear Sidney. 123 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:51,600 and you're trying to figure out what happened to my life, where the dog that 124 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:55,540 grew up with is suddenly gone, and now there's this new dog, but I smell the 125 00:06:55,540 --> 00:06:59,800 dog every time I come into the bedroom. You understand why he's so confused and 126 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:03,460 why he feels the need to feel territorially permanent, to spray on top 127 00:07:03,460 --> 00:07:08,740 everything. I really love animals. I love Sid, and I just feel like he's 128 00:07:08,740 --> 00:07:10,780 unhappy, you know? 129 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:14,320 And do you really feel like you're part of the... 130 00:07:19,340 --> 00:07:24,760 When Diamond was sick, you know, that was really stressful. 131 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:32,080 And sometimes, I don't know, sometimes I feel like, you know, us moving 132 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:37,500 in together was part of the reason why you decided that, you know, it was time 133 00:07:37,500 --> 00:07:38,500 to let him go. 134 00:07:42,140 --> 00:07:47,640 In retrospect, the decision to adopt Teddy, it was too soon. 135 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:54,320 Now I just feel like it was like this huge one, two, three punch for Sid. 136 00:07:54,900 --> 00:07:57,580 It was like, welcome back to your dad. 137 00:07:57,860 --> 00:08:00,360 Here's your new mom. Here's your new house. 138 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:05,080 Say goodbye to your brother. And by the way, here's your new brother. My heart 139 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:07,140 absolutely goes out to Meredith. 140 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:13,340 I mean, she is the new factor in Zach and Sidney's life. And the second she 141 00:08:13,340 --> 00:08:14,440 comes into their lives. 142 00:08:14,860 --> 00:08:16,680 Bang. Everything falls apart. 143 00:08:16,900 --> 00:08:20,700 I get it. I get where she might feel responsible, but she shouldn't. 144 00:08:21,780 --> 00:08:22,820 Oh, there you are. 145 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:25,840 Hi, Sid. 146 00:08:26,380 --> 00:08:28,360 So that's where he spends most of his time. 147 00:08:28,700 --> 00:08:34,240 By nature, he's a social cat, right? Oh, my God. 148 00:08:34,500 --> 00:08:35,500 Come on. 149 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:40,600 Teddy. Teddy is bouncing off the walls, literally bouncing off of me. Cup shot. 150 00:08:40,970 --> 00:08:45,190 He is a bundle of energy, and I'm sure that Sidney responds to that on some 151 00:08:45,190 --> 00:08:46,190 degree or another. 152 00:08:47,230 --> 00:08:48,390 Go ahead, I just want to see this. 153 00:08:50,490 --> 00:08:52,130 What the hell, man? 154 00:08:54,470 --> 00:08:56,170 Why is your dog humping your cat? 155 00:08:56,550 --> 00:08:58,010 He was just trying to pin him down. 156 00:08:58,910 --> 00:09:02,330 There's nothing normal about this theme right now at all. 157 00:09:03,490 --> 00:09:04,830 Oh, maybe he's doing a little humping. 158 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:13,560 What the hell, man? 159 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:14,800 This happens every day? 160 00:09:14,980 --> 00:09:16,660 Yeah. This is not normal. 161 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:18,780 So, we let that happen? 162 00:09:19,740 --> 00:09:25,640 He's not happy playing with Teddy, but he could stop Teddy from doing that, in 163 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:26,439 our opinion. 164 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:27,440 Huh. 165 00:09:27,900 --> 00:09:32,440 These guys have clearly seen this happen many, many times before, and that may 166 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:36,280 speak to the fact that Sidney doesn't seem to be overreacting, but... 167 00:09:36,670 --> 00:09:41,450 It seems to me that unless Sidney was screaming for help, these guys are just 168 00:09:41,450 --> 00:09:45,970 going to keep letting this happen. Is Teddy neutered? Yes. Is he extra 169 00:09:45,970 --> 00:09:49,450 because we're here, or is he like this all the time? He's kind of like this. 170 00:09:49,530 --> 00:09:50,529 He's pretty energetic. 171 00:09:50,530 --> 00:09:54,690 I really do feel like I've got a full vision of what the problem is in this 172 00:09:54,690 --> 00:09:57,770 house. Maybe a little bit too much, but now it's time to sit down with this 173 00:09:57,770 --> 00:10:01,410 couple, give them some homework, and start laying out a course for the 174 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:06,520 From what I'm gathering, there's a lot of change that's happened, a lot of 175 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:10,780 change. For a cat, there's nothing more important than territorial security, 176 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:15,040 than knowing tomorrow I will wake up and my territory will be what it was 177 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:18,860 yesterday, what it was the day before yesterday, and will be tomorrow until 178 00:10:18,860 --> 00:10:19,579 end of time. 179 00:10:19,580 --> 00:10:22,080 For Sid, it has all gone. 180 00:10:24,020 --> 00:10:29,250 And Sid is just... expressing it the way he expresses it. For a cat who is 181 00:10:29,250 --> 00:10:34,050 feeling no sense of territorial permanence, pee's all you got, man. 182 00:10:34,290 --> 00:10:38,310 It is your way of saying, I belong here, I live here, there's proof of my 183 00:10:38,310 --> 00:10:42,170 existence. First of all, what do you guys do in terms of Teddy's exercise? 184 00:10:42,530 --> 00:10:43,930 I run him. You run him? 185 00:10:44,210 --> 00:10:47,450 Yeah, I walked Teddy. I ran him this morning before you guys got here. 186 00:10:47,690 --> 00:10:54,240 Shh. That dog is a nutcase. He needs that aerobic exercise to really work 187 00:10:54,340 --> 00:10:58,680 He needs to go out to the dog park. He needs to play. And when he gets back to 188 00:10:58,680 --> 00:11:02,280 this house, boom, he's tired and he's not humping the cat. 189 00:11:02,700 --> 00:11:05,740 The next thing I want to explain to you is the concept of the mojo map. 190 00:11:06,180 --> 00:11:09,740 Mojo, which is confident ownership of territory. You're going to mark on your 191 00:11:09,740 --> 00:11:12,820 map with a certain color where he sits. 192 00:11:13,290 --> 00:11:16,830 where he watches things out the window, where he hangs out but doesn't pee. 193 00:11:17,250 --> 00:11:21,190 Then I want you to identify those places that mark unconfident ownership of 194 00:11:21,190 --> 00:11:26,130 territory. That's where he does pee. And the mojo map will start to rid us of 195 00:11:26,130 --> 00:11:29,450 the concept of random behavior and start identifying patterns. 196 00:11:29,690 --> 00:11:35,390 The mojo map is a map of mojo or anti -mojo. When I come back here next time, 197 00:11:35,490 --> 00:11:38,610 not only will I see patterns, but you're going to see them too. 198 00:11:38,830 --> 00:11:43,280 Now, that carpet is done in your bedroom. You've got to pull it up. He 199 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:48,860 your old dog, Diamond, constantly. And he is not given that chance to, just as 200 00:11:48,860 --> 00:11:53,160 you would, mourn. A cat's nose is more sensitive than our sense of smell. 201 00:11:53,420 --> 00:11:56,100 And they define their world by that sense. 202 00:11:56,360 --> 00:12:01,460 So that smell of your friend the dog who suddenly disappeared a year ago, but 203 00:12:01,460 --> 00:12:04,660 his pee lingers, that messes with your head if you're a cat. 204 00:12:04,900 --> 00:12:08,260 How are you guys feeling about the level of homework that we got going on here? 205 00:12:08,580 --> 00:12:09,580 It's definitely... 206 00:12:09,930 --> 00:12:13,650 going to take some work, but I'm willing to put it in to make things better. 207 00:12:13,810 --> 00:12:18,270 Right now, I am so motivated to start working on this homework. 208 00:12:18,650 --> 00:12:22,590 All right. Thank you. Bye, guys. Bye. If this is what's going to make Sid happy, 209 00:12:22,670 --> 00:12:25,770 if this is what's going to make our home a home again, we'll do it. 210 00:12:30,690 --> 00:12:31,690 I'm Morgan. 211 00:12:31,850 --> 00:12:35,110 I'm Eric, and we have a one -year -old daughter, Avery Grace. 212 00:12:35,610 --> 00:12:36,610 Hi, Abe. 213 00:12:36,770 --> 00:12:37,770 Say hi. 214 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:40,560 Yeah, say hi, everyone. 215 00:12:41,140 --> 00:12:45,980 And we also have our fur baby, Stella. She was our first baby. When we first 216 00:12:45,980 --> 00:12:48,060 brought her home, she would cuddle with me. 217 00:12:48,260 --> 00:12:53,860 She was essentially a companion for Eric and I. But since Avery's come along, 218 00:12:53,980 --> 00:12:59,100 things have gone from cuddles and snuggles and playful times to attacking 219 00:12:59,100 --> 00:13:00,100 chaos. 220 00:13:04,140 --> 00:13:07,440 Stella will bite our ankles, our hands, legs. 221 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:09,800 Any extremity she can get to, basically. 222 00:13:10,180 --> 00:13:11,640 Stop! Hi, Stella. 223 00:13:11,920 --> 00:13:15,700 Oh! She's even swiped and got me in the eye once. What if that had been Avery? 224 00:13:15,860 --> 00:13:21,060 My worst nightmare is that she gets Avery in the eye and Avery loses vision. 225 00:13:21,060 --> 00:13:25,580 attacks are so frequent now that, you know, it is truly a daily fear for her 226 00:13:25,580 --> 00:13:26,740 attacking Avery. 227 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:30,000 Hey. 228 00:13:30,620 --> 00:13:31,620 Stop it. 229 00:13:31,860 --> 00:13:37,440 I feel like it puts me in a constant state of fear and anxiety trying to... 230 00:13:37,900 --> 00:13:40,080 Make sure Stella doesn't attack her. 231 00:13:40,500 --> 00:13:44,120 I'm afraid that if Jackson can't help Stella, they're never going to be able 232 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:47,160 coexist together, and we won't be a family unit. 233 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:51,120 We really, really, truly need help, and the safety of our daughter is the most 234 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:52,420 important thing to us. 235 00:13:57,780 --> 00:13:58,780 Hello. 236 00:13:59,760 --> 00:14:00,760 How are you doing? 237 00:14:01,260 --> 00:14:02,199 Hi. Eric. 238 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:03,660 Eric. How are you doing? Hi, Morgan. 239 00:14:04,680 --> 00:14:05,680 Who's this? 240 00:14:05,870 --> 00:14:07,770 Say hi, Avery. Say hi, Avery. 241 00:14:08,030 --> 00:14:09,030 Say hi. 242 00:14:09,130 --> 00:14:10,710 It's good when I get a smile right on my face. 243 00:14:11,270 --> 00:14:12,270 Can you say hi? 244 00:14:12,410 --> 00:14:14,990 She's like, I like cat toys. Yes. I cannot lie. 245 00:14:15,210 --> 00:14:16,210 So. 246 00:14:16,500 --> 00:14:17,500 What's happening? 247 00:14:18,020 --> 00:14:22,900 Stella's always been a little bit off and kind of rambunctious, and she's 248 00:14:22,900 --> 00:14:26,540 unpredictable, but since Avery's been here, it's definitely gotten worse. We 249 00:14:26,540 --> 00:14:30,180 kind of don't know what to expect, and like I said, she's bitten her, she's 250 00:14:30,180 --> 00:14:34,100 scratched her. She broken skin on Avery before? Not on Avery. 251 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:35,219 But you? 252 00:14:35,220 --> 00:14:39,180 Yeah, me, definitely. She's got her eye before. Yeah, she's got me in the 253 00:14:39,180 --> 00:14:44,490 eyelid. My thought is that it's just the general state of energy that a 13 254 00:14:44,490 --> 00:14:48,270 -month -old child brings to the table. If that cat's energy is not drained off 255 00:14:48,270 --> 00:14:51,610 of them every single day, that static builds, and then you've got the 256 00:14:51,610 --> 00:14:56,390 unpredictable motions and behaviors of a child. And that, I think, is that 257 00:14:56,390 --> 00:14:57,390 combustible combination. 258 00:14:57,550 --> 00:15:00,410 I'm just watching Stella's tail. 259 00:15:00,790 --> 00:15:01,890 It's always going. 260 00:15:02,170 --> 00:15:05,230 Always? Always. Most of the time. Even when she's like... 261 00:15:05,630 --> 00:15:10,450 laying and she seems to be resting like it seems to be going. We used to joke 262 00:15:10,450 --> 00:15:13,310 that she like sleeps with one eye open. She's always kind of on guard. 263 00:15:13,570 --> 00:15:18,170 Stella is a classic tail talker. When she's not feeling altogether grounded, 264 00:15:18,310 --> 00:15:22,330 that tail is not grounded. First it starts to flick, then it starts to whip, 265 00:15:22,450 --> 00:15:27,310 then it starts to wag. She's letting you know I am just feeling like I'm 266 00:15:27,310 --> 00:15:32,610 crawling out of my skin a little. Just by watching every circle around Stella, 267 00:15:32,610 --> 00:15:33,930 can see that they've got a history. 268 00:15:34,270 --> 00:15:38,250 Seeing Stella sitting on this table and seeing Avery eye level to the cat 269 00:15:38,250 --> 00:15:41,310 sitting in her little chair, it's a really tense situation. 270 00:15:41,930 --> 00:15:43,010 Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey. 271 00:15:44,050 --> 00:15:45,050 Hey, 272 00:15:49,830 --> 00:15:52,950 hey, hey, hey, hey. 273 00:15:53,710 --> 00:15:55,350 Come over here. 274 00:15:55,830 --> 00:16:01,770 Okay, so that didn't take much. Yeah, no, it doesn't. You look at her again. 275 00:16:02,689 --> 00:16:06,050 And she's like, nah. She's like, no, I like Stella. But she's very persistent, 276 00:16:06,150 --> 00:16:07,530 and she loves her cat. 277 00:16:07,930 --> 00:16:12,830 Avery is suddenly hit with the soft paw, just a little bat like that, just a way 278 00:16:12,830 --> 00:16:15,010 of saying, you might want to get out of my face. 279 00:16:15,790 --> 00:16:20,230 Expecting Avery to understand get out of my face and go take a seat someplace 280 00:16:20,230 --> 00:16:27,170 else is unreasonable. Now, as this one gets a lot more active, I notice 281 00:16:27,170 --> 00:16:30,710 it being mirrored by Stella. Stella starts getting ramped up as well. 282 00:16:31,500 --> 00:16:32,500 Are you ready for a nap? 283 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:36,900 This is what happens before nap time is that she starts getting... I've gotten 284 00:16:36,900 --> 00:16:40,240 all the information that I can get right now from Stella and Avery's 285 00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:44,400 interactions. Now we can get Avery down for the count for a minute so that I can 286 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:46,540 really spend a little more time with Stella. 287 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:47,800 Stella! 288 00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:52,480 The best way that I can challenge Stella to see if her behavior is predictable 289 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:57,780 or not is to bring out a toy and bring out my hands. If she chooses my body 290 00:16:57,780 --> 00:16:59,700 parts over the toy... 291 00:17:00,030 --> 00:17:01,750 Well, it's bad for everybody, including me. 292 00:17:02,690 --> 00:17:03,690 Good girl. 293 00:17:04,730 --> 00:17:05,910 Get that tail going. 294 00:17:06,150 --> 00:17:07,230 Get that tail going. 295 00:17:07,609 --> 00:17:08,609 Good girl. 296 00:17:08,650 --> 00:17:09,650 Now what happens? 297 00:17:09,849 --> 00:17:11,230 Now let's play a little bit. 298 00:17:11,490 --> 00:17:12,910 Now we're going to use our hands. 299 00:17:13,670 --> 00:17:14,670 What is that? 300 00:17:15,550 --> 00:17:19,970 What is that? What I'm seeing is that she's looking for the toy. She's going 301 00:17:19,970 --> 00:17:23,230 around looking to see where that toy went. She doesn't want my hands. What? 302 00:17:23,770 --> 00:17:27,550 And I'm telling you, I am going to town right now. I am rubbing that cat's 303 00:17:27,550 --> 00:17:30,910 belly. I am picking her up, putting her down, juggling her, basically. 304 00:17:31,330 --> 00:17:34,870 And she continually wants to remove herself from the situation. 305 00:17:35,070 --> 00:17:38,510 What finally sets off Stella is not me petting her, over -petting, over 306 00:17:38,510 --> 00:17:42,710 -stimulating. It's when I remove all of that attention and just sit in 307 00:17:42,710 --> 00:17:43,710 stillness. 308 00:17:44,510 --> 00:17:48,590 Oh, now she's all wound up and she doesn't have an outlet, and that's when 309 00:17:48,590 --> 00:17:50,070 goes for me. Now we got it going. 310 00:17:51,570 --> 00:17:52,570 Yeah? 311 00:17:53,659 --> 00:17:56,140 Okay. I know you're angry. I'm sorry. 312 00:17:56,920 --> 00:17:59,620 I don't mean to anger you, but if that's as bad as it gets. 313 00:18:00,020 --> 00:18:04,800 I've got all the information I need from Stella, and I'm actually really excited 314 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:08,720 right now because I feel like I can give these parents tools that will save the 315 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:12,680 relationship between their child and their cat and save this cat from hitting 316 00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:13,529 the bricks. 317 00:18:13,530 --> 00:18:17,290 The ability to forge a positive relationship between these two that's 318 00:18:17,290 --> 00:18:22,490 last many, many years is the most important thing. The cat's 100 % 319 00:18:22,550 --> 00:18:27,790 So it's really important that you guys start to be able to identify what is 320 00:18:27,790 --> 00:18:31,890 what. So I've got to send you guys to cat class right now. 321 00:18:32,190 --> 00:18:34,870 The first thing we're going to start with is body language 101. 322 00:18:35,650 --> 00:18:37,490 This is your clue. 323 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:42,240 She's a tail talker. When you see that tail talking, you have to start 324 00:18:42,240 --> 00:18:44,840 a bit of a protective bubble around Stella. 325 00:18:45,300 --> 00:18:51,040 So next, this is your cat's favorite thing ever. Okay. So that's cool. I 326 00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:55,300 would literally, what I was doing was playing with her. Then I'd put it in my 327 00:18:55,300 --> 00:18:57,420 back pocket and present my hands just like she would. 328 00:18:57,640 --> 00:19:00,040 And she's like, I don't want that. I want the toy. Okay. 329 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:03,920 Your second assignment is the play technique called boil and simmer. 330 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:06,600 Realizing that with cats, they are built. 331 00:19:06,910 --> 00:19:11,770 For speed and not distance. So when they play, it's like, go, go, go, go, go, 332 00:19:11,770 --> 00:19:15,030 go, go. So that's the boil. Then they're just going to, this one is just going 333 00:19:15,030 --> 00:19:15,549 to go. 334 00:19:15,550 --> 00:19:18,910 Okay. But she's only going to do that for about a minute. That's the simmer. 335 00:19:18,990 --> 00:19:21,330 Then you're going to go at it again. Every time you do it, you're going to 336 00:19:21,330 --> 00:19:24,130 more and more truly tired. And then at that point, you feed a meal. 337 00:19:24,410 --> 00:19:29,510 Okay. Boil and simmer is so productive for Stella and for Eric and Morgan as 338 00:19:29,510 --> 00:19:31,390 well. It actually takes all of this. 339 00:19:31,660 --> 00:19:35,600 unpredictable energy and just drains it out so that you have a purely 340 00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:40,280 predictable cat. And if you can predict Stella's actions, you can stop an attack 341 00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:45,720 before it happens. So your last assignment needs to catify this world in 342 00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:49,260 way because what happened today was thoroughly predictable, right? 343 00:19:49,460 --> 00:19:53,700 It's their eye to eye, which is already a little bit offensive to the cat. 344 00:19:54,710 --> 00:19:57,250 We give Stella some vertical space here. 345 00:19:57,910 --> 00:20:02,490 Stella could be up on a perch somewhere looking down, watching as Avery does 346 00:20:02,490 --> 00:20:07,050 these unpredictable movements. And this one owns the floor. Right. And the four 347 00:20:07,050 --> 00:20:10,950 -legged owns the sky. Yeah. Even though I'm ditching a lot of work on you guys, 348 00:20:11,110 --> 00:20:15,450 the payoff is so huge. That's why I'm excited right now. Because I really 349 00:20:15,450 --> 00:20:19,430 that you're set up to do a really cool thing right now. Awesome. All right. 350 00:20:19,530 --> 00:20:20,349 Thank you. 351 00:20:20,350 --> 00:20:23,930 Guys, you are very welcome. I will see you in a few weeks. Yes. Thank you. 352 00:20:24,270 --> 00:20:26,350 Thank you. Don't get up. I'm just going to leave. 353 00:20:26,950 --> 00:20:27,950 Bye -bye. 354 00:20:27,970 --> 00:20:28,809 Bye, guys. 355 00:20:28,810 --> 00:20:29,830 Bye. All right. Thank you. 356 00:20:31,270 --> 00:20:35,390 Yeah. The homework assignment that Jackson gave us is definitely going to 357 00:20:35,390 --> 00:20:36,590 the situation. 358 00:20:36,890 --> 00:20:41,090 It's going to be challenging. My focus most of the time is on Avery, and then, 359 00:20:41,170 --> 00:20:46,030 you know, I'm going to have to learn to kind of split it up a little bit more. 360 00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:51,420 You peed on everything. 361 00:20:51,860 --> 00:20:52,860 It stinks. 362 00:20:59,020 --> 00:21:02,980 You know, going in to meet up with Zach and Meredith today, I'm just hoping for 363 00:21:02,980 --> 00:21:03,879 a baseline. 364 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:08,200 I mean, if they cleaned up the place and Sid just went and remarked everything, 365 00:21:08,500 --> 00:21:09,500 we've gotten nowhere. 366 00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:12,420 And there's our boy. 367 00:21:12,660 --> 00:21:13,720 Hello, my friend. 368 00:21:14,060 --> 00:21:16,080 There's Teddy. I'm just going to ignore Teddy for now. 369 00:21:17,120 --> 00:21:18,860 That's the kind of Sid we want to see. 370 00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:21,200 That makes Jackson happy. 371 00:21:21,740 --> 00:21:25,820 The last time I was here, Sid wasn't psyched to have someone strange in this 372 00:21:25,820 --> 00:21:30,140 house. This time around, there's a lot more welcoming happening. That lets me 373 00:21:30,140 --> 00:21:34,580 know that Sid is on the road to confident ownership of territory. 374 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:35,840 That's a breakthrough. 375 00:21:36,020 --> 00:21:41,100 Woohoo, I'm so happy. Since Jackson came and visited us the first time, we laid 376 00:21:41,100 --> 00:21:47,120 out a plan of action and took it step by step and had, in my opinion, a lot of 377 00:21:47,120 --> 00:21:53,010 success. I was very motivated by what you said about we're going to get rid of 378 00:21:53,010 --> 00:21:54,010 the word random. 379 00:21:54,190 --> 00:21:58,210 That really helped me, too, to feel like, okay, well, there's a method to 380 00:21:58,210 --> 00:22:00,150 madness, then there's going to be a method to ours. 381 00:22:00,650 --> 00:22:01,649 Like that. 382 00:22:01,650 --> 00:22:03,270 That's a good way of saying it, for sure. 383 00:22:03,530 --> 00:22:08,810 Let me get into my case here, and we will start going through your homework. 384 00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:12,860 When I left Zach and Meredith last time, I wanted them first and foremost to 385 00:22:12,860 --> 00:22:16,540 clean up the place. We took a look at a carpet in their bedroom. Diamond, the 386 00:22:16,540 --> 00:22:18,660 dog that passed, was all over that carpet. 387 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:21,200 Get rid of it. All right, here we go. 388 00:22:21,780 --> 00:22:25,140 There's Zach back there. The room's empty. We're about to start ripping up 389 00:22:25,140 --> 00:22:26,180 carpet. Oh, boy. 390 00:22:30,980 --> 00:22:35,040 Yike. I have assigned things like pulling up carpets before. 391 00:22:35,450 --> 00:22:38,490 And it's a crapshoot whether the Guardians are actually going to do it or 392 00:22:38,690 --> 00:22:43,690 Zack and Meredith just did it. They pulled it up. And that is a sign of the 393 00:22:43,690 --> 00:22:47,450 commitment that these Guardians have. Now, let's see how you're exercising 394 00:22:47,450 --> 00:22:50,550 Teddy. Teddy, I'm about to take him on a run right now. 395 00:22:51,990 --> 00:22:54,490 No, Teddy, no. 396 00:22:54,950 --> 00:22:56,770 O -M -Z. 397 00:22:57,390 --> 00:22:58,390 Teddy? 398 00:23:07,020 --> 00:23:08,700 No, Teddy, no. 399 00:23:10,140 --> 00:23:15,380 That's a problem. The first time I was here, Teddy was basically mounting Sid 400 00:23:15,380 --> 00:23:19,900 front of us, and the Guardian response was, huh, look at that. Now I'm seeing 401 00:23:19,900 --> 00:23:22,860 video proof of the same thing. We've got to put an end to that. 402 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:24,160 Teddy's a problem. 403 00:23:24,380 --> 00:23:27,700 Do you think Sid just shakes it off, or do you think that it bothers him? 404 00:23:28,120 --> 00:23:32,640 I would like to think that he's fine with it, but he goes in the closet when 405 00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:33,880 Teddy bothers him. 406 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:38,060 Teddy does raise that stress level pretty high. So that's something to 407 00:23:38,060 --> 00:23:41,240 about. Even after Jackson left the first time, I was still kind of in denial 408 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:45,060 about Sid caring about the way that Teddy was treating him. And then to 409 00:23:45,060 --> 00:23:50,060 watch it back and see, that was definitely tough to see. Where's your 410 00:23:50,060 --> 00:23:54,080 at? In the kitchen. Now it's time to take a look at the mojo map. Hopefully 411 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:58,780 information that I get from that really starts enlightening the guardians and 412 00:23:58,780 --> 00:24:03,060 myself as to the patterns that make up Sidney's every day. In this... 413 00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:05,120 World, good mojo, is purple. 414 00:24:05,700 --> 00:24:07,420 Yellow, of course, is pee. 415 00:24:07,820 --> 00:24:12,860 These spots here are where he hangs out. Where we'll catch him fully 416 00:24:12,860 --> 00:24:17,020 comfortable, laying down awake, just relaxed, to sleeping. 417 00:24:17,300 --> 00:24:19,660 Since the last time I was here, that's it? 418 00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:24,480 Yeah. That's it? Yeah. That's fantastic. We have now pulled out the carpet in 419 00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:28,880 here, and it is a pee -free zone. Without all those competing scents in 420 00:24:28,980 --> 00:24:29,980 it's gone. 421 00:24:30,090 --> 00:24:32,610 He's now starting to sink into that sense of permanence. 422 00:24:33,050 --> 00:24:34,390 Really, really good news. 423 00:24:34,790 --> 00:24:38,450 So this was never peed on in here. He never peed on there. Nothing's never 424 00:24:38,510 --> 00:24:41,530 yeah. He's there every day. That's where we spend the most of our time. 425 00:24:41,750 --> 00:24:43,370 This room holds a lot of... 426 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:48,460 keys for us. What I'm trying to establish for Sid is base camp. 427 00:24:48,700 --> 00:24:52,140 Base camp is where you put all of their belongings, anything that smells like 428 00:24:52,140 --> 00:24:55,880 them, where they can say, I own this one little space. 429 00:24:56,180 --> 00:24:59,940 And then as they start to establish a sense of security in that room, we start 430 00:24:59,940 --> 00:25:04,540 to expand base camp. We take the belongings that are in there, slowly 431 00:25:04,540 --> 00:25:07,920 the house with those things. That's going to be really important to get us 432 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:13,400 the point where this is base camp. Once this becomes base camp, we're home free. 433 00:25:13,710 --> 00:25:18,550 The really good news here is that through the homework, I feel like we 434 00:25:18,550 --> 00:25:22,890 understand Sid. We understand his motives and what makes him unconfident. 435 00:25:22,890 --> 00:25:27,090 can use that information to make him confident. This thing right here, that's 436 00:25:27,090 --> 00:25:33,470 huge hint of where we need to go because we know he hangs out here and he hasn't 437 00:25:33,470 --> 00:25:34,470 peed here. 438 00:25:34,730 --> 00:25:39,090 Why doesn't he pee here? Because it's a scent soaker. When they scratch, not 439 00:25:39,090 --> 00:25:42,250 only are they leaving a visual marker, they're also leaving a scent marker. 440 00:25:42,330 --> 00:25:46,210 There's scent glands between each one of their pads. It makes it unnecessary for 441 00:25:46,210 --> 00:25:50,070 him to spray that basket. He doesn't spray the piano. Just because of this 442 00:25:50,070 --> 00:25:55,650 thing that says, I live here. This for him is this for you. So when you walk 443 00:25:55,650 --> 00:25:59,170 around the house and you have these pictures of you guys, and every time you 444 00:25:59,170 --> 00:26:03,790 walk by, you have even that little bit inside you that goes, this is my life. 445 00:26:04,250 --> 00:26:08,310 That is that for him. We've proven that Sid can live in both the bedroom and the 446 00:26:08,310 --> 00:26:12,550 TV room and not mark them with urine, just with his body scent. We'll start 447 00:26:12,550 --> 00:26:17,990 there. Put all kinds of scent soakers in those areas and then blow it out. We're 448 00:26:17,990 --> 00:26:21,010 going to take the cushions from the couch that are in the garage. 449 00:26:21,660 --> 00:26:26,980 And then in base camp. Filling that room. Right. We're marinating scent 450 00:26:27,060 --> 00:26:30,620 Then we can start taking those things out, putting them in the rest of the 451 00:26:30,620 --> 00:26:34,960 house. I am still nowhere even close to comfortable putting any piece of 452 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:37,600 furniture in here without knowing that it's going in the trash. 453 00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:41,260 I'm acknowledging that there's a little bit of risk involved here. We have to at 454 00:26:41,260 --> 00:26:42,400 some point start taking risks. 455 00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:45,900 I'm working with the feeling that it's going to work just fine. 456 00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:47,980 But if it doesn't... 457 00:26:48,270 --> 00:26:51,190 This family is going back three or four steps, and I don't think we can handle 458 00:26:51,190 --> 00:26:52,190 that around here. 459 00:26:52,250 --> 00:26:55,630 Next, you knew that there was no way we were going to get through the day 460 00:26:55,630 --> 00:26:56,810 without talking about Teddy, right? 461 00:26:57,330 --> 00:26:58,330 Teddy needs training. 462 00:26:58,810 --> 00:27:01,750 Sid has to feel safe in the house. Right now he doesn't because here's the 463 00:27:01,750 --> 00:27:06,630 bottom line. If you can't predictably put your dog in a down stay and have 464 00:27:06,630 --> 00:27:10,370 cat walk across the floor and know that your dog is not going to go crazy on the 465 00:27:10,370 --> 00:27:12,230 cat, then we're not there yet. 466 00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:15,900 Teddy needs structure just as much as Sid needs structure. 467 00:27:16,180 --> 00:27:19,140 So it's up to Zach and Meredith to give Teddy that structure. 468 00:27:19,360 --> 00:27:23,640 If you guys have any problems over the next couple weeks, call me and we'll 469 00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:25,100 it out. Thank you again. Thank you. 470 00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:30,640 My biggest worry right now is for us to get on the same page about how we're 471 00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:34,020 dealing with Teddy and to keep Teddy from attacking Sid. 472 00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:46,340 I am here in chilly Reedsburg, Wisconsin, and it was a winter's night 473 00:27:46,340 --> 00:27:50,940 this one about a year ago when a faulty water heater sent carbon monoxide 474 00:27:50,940 --> 00:27:55,080 pouring through a home, almost killing everybody in there. But of course, this 475 00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:58,360 is not a sad story. There's a very different ending here, and that's why 476 00:27:58,360 --> 00:28:01,960 here to talk to Kevin and Annette and their cat from heaven, Grace. 477 00:28:03,439 --> 00:28:04,279 Hey, Jackson. 478 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,980 Well, hey, man. How are you doing? I'm doing good. Good to see you. 479 00:28:07,180 --> 00:28:10,020 My wife, Annette. Hey, Annette. Good to meet you. Thank you for coming. 480 00:28:10,260 --> 00:28:12,180 I am so excited to be here. 481 00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:13,279 I'm Kevin. 482 00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:15,880 I'm Annette. And our cat, Grace, saved us. 483 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:19,500 Tell me what happened that night. It all started. It was Saturday night. 484 00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:23,420 Our tank of hot water here, something had got stuck in it. So all this carbon 485 00:28:23,420 --> 00:28:24,420 monoxide. 486 00:28:24,810 --> 00:28:26,750 was ending up back in the house. Wow. 487 00:28:26,990 --> 00:28:29,470 The carbon dioxide, if you can't smell it, can't taste it, so you don't know 488 00:28:29,470 --> 00:28:30,229 what's going on. 489 00:28:30,230 --> 00:28:33,410 Right. For some reason, that night, Gracie came in the bedroom. I'm 490 00:28:33,590 --> 00:28:37,390 and all of a sudden, I hear just banging, banging. And it rattled. So I 491 00:28:37,430 --> 00:28:42,510 I knew something was wrong, because I was all wavy and stuff. I thought I was 492 00:28:42,510 --> 00:28:43,910 having a heart attack. Oh, God. 493 00:28:44,170 --> 00:28:50,810 So I woke up in tremendous pain. I think that she knew something was wrong to 494 00:28:50,810 --> 00:28:53,130 begin with. So I opened the door, and she took off. 495 00:28:53,610 --> 00:28:54,790 I was like, call 911. 496 00:28:55,070 --> 00:28:57,570 I mean, that came to my head, luckily. 497 00:28:58,390 --> 00:29:03,850 Annette went, stumbled downstairs to try to get help for the carbon monoxide. 498 00:29:04,250 --> 00:29:06,950 Do you know what the levels were at this point of carbon monoxide? 499 00:29:07,170 --> 00:29:08,170 About 650. 500 00:29:08,450 --> 00:29:09,610 Okay. What's normal? 501 00:29:09,910 --> 00:29:10,910 Zero to five. 502 00:29:11,130 --> 00:29:13,970 Yeah. So literally, had you guys not come downstairs. 503 00:29:14,550 --> 00:29:18,190 We wouldn't be having this conversation right now. Right. I always say it was 504 00:29:18,190 --> 00:29:20,350 saved by grace. She was saved by grace. 505 00:29:21,210 --> 00:29:24,110 I never even thought of that. Listen, one of the great things about doing what 506 00:29:24,110 --> 00:29:29,150 do is I hear the most incredible stories about animals and their people every 507 00:29:29,150 --> 00:29:30,029 single day. 508 00:29:30,030 --> 00:29:33,770 This one, though, there's something special about it. She's doing a little 509 00:29:33,770 --> 00:29:34,229 of this. 510 00:29:34,230 --> 00:29:37,790 Yeah. Yeah, see how it rattles? It was gone. I mean, she was gone. 511 00:29:38,250 --> 00:29:43,070 We wouldn't have woke up without Gracie. Now, at this point, where are the cats 512 00:29:43,070 --> 00:29:44,070 at? 513 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:45,979 We didn't know. 514 00:29:45,980 --> 00:29:49,640 After we got out of the hospital, we came back here, and we were worried 515 00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:53,140 Grace because she was in a room with us. She was upstairs with you, right? Yeah, 516 00:29:53,140 --> 00:29:57,380 she had had the carbon monoxide poison. So finally I looked down in the 517 00:29:57,380 --> 00:30:01,300 basement, and there she was, all curled up in the corner. I did find her, and I 518 00:30:01,300 --> 00:30:02,320 picked her up. 519 00:30:02,540 --> 00:30:07,300 She started bawling. The whole experience just hit me as soon as I held 520 00:30:07,300 --> 00:30:10,520 my arms and knew she was okay, and we were all okay. 521 00:30:11,300 --> 00:30:13,480 When did you guys start putting it together? 522 00:30:15,139 --> 00:30:19,920 that Gracie basically saved the day. When I was in the ER, you finally get 523 00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:23,740 thoughts back, what is happening, and it's like, holy mackerel, Gracie's the 524 00:30:23,740 --> 00:30:28,360 one. Without pounding on the door, we wouldn't be here. I mean, that's how it 525 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:29,600 is. Unbelievable, man. 526 00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:33,940 What I've learned from this incident is to check your carbon monoxide detectors 527 00:30:33,940 --> 00:30:35,300 because they will go old. 528 00:30:35,870 --> 00:30:38,770 After five years, you're supposed to change the whole thing. People at work 529 00:30:38,770 --> 00:30:41,750 stuff, and they've seen what was happening to us, and they actually 530 00:30:41,750 --> 00:30:44,950 their CO detectors, and they actually put them in their house. So it's 531 00:30:44,950 --> 00:30:46,790 that happened to us, and we're helping other people. 532 00:30:47,370 --> 00:30:50,350 They're getting their stuff, too. I mean, when you think about it, Gracie 533 00:30:50,350 --> 00:30:54,890 just save Kevin and Annette's life, but the whole town of Reedsburg has been 534 00:30:54,890 --> 00:30:57,430 made aware of carbon monoxide poisoning. 535 00:30:57,850 --> 00:31:01,490 She could have saved the lives of countless other people because the 536 00:31:01,490 --> 00:31:02,389 here are long. 537 00:31:02,390 --> 00:31:06,750 Heaters are on all the time, and things like this could happen to anybody. It's 538 00:31:06,750 --> 00:31:09,750 been a pleasure hanging out with you guys. Thank you for having me. Thank 539 00:31:09,790 --> 00:31:10,790 It was wonderful. 540 00:31:11,030 --> 00:31:13,530 Thank you. Nice to meet you. Take care of her. Take care of all you guys. Thank 541 00:31:13,530 --> 00:31:15,210 you very much. All right, man. Take care of yourself. 542 00:31:15,660 --> 00:31:16,980 Bye. See ya. 543 00:31:17,980 --> 00:31:19,340 What an amazing story. 544 00:31:19,540 --> 00:31:23,460 I mean, honestly, to think of all the things that had to fall into place in 545 00:31:23,460 --> 00:31:25,380 order for this entire family to be alive. 546 00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:30,580 I mean, Annette hit it on the head, man. This family was saved by grace. 547 00:31:31,900 --> 00:31:33,400 Hey, dude, with the mouth. 548 00:31:34,140 --> 00:31:35,580 Let's go ahead and put Teddy outside. 549 00:31:36,030 --> 00:31:40,590 Come on, Teddy. Teddy is going from cute to scary in a heartbeat. If I left this 550 00:31:40,590 --> 00:31:45,030 house without helping to address the problem that is Teddy, I wouldn't be 551 00:31:45,030 --> 00:31:47,990 to live with myself. So, here's a surprise I got for you. 552 00:31:54,310 --> 00:31:55,430 Hey, stop. 553 00:31:55,850 --> 00:31:56,850 Stella? 554 00:31:57,630 --> 00:31:58,630 Stop! 555 00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:07,780 Last time I was here, I got to see exactly what Eric and Morgan didn't want 556 00:32:07,780 --> 00:32:10,480 see, which was Avery getting swatted by Stella. 557 00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:17,660 The reason really was just a lot of shared space, a lot of excess energy 558 00:32:17,660 --> 00:32:19,260 a young child and a young cat. 559 00:32:19,500 --> 00:32:23,280 Pow. How you been, bro? Doing good, man. Good, good. Good to see you. Hi. 560 00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:24,480 Good morning. 561 00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:27,980 Now, hopefully with the homework that I gave these guys, they should have been 562 00:32:27,980 --> 00:32:32,340 creating lanes of traffic and little bubbles for the two to operate in 563 00:32:32,340 --> 00:32:33,340 actually coming together. 564 00:32:33,770 --> 00:32:36,350 Hopefully, that's what I'm going to see. I love this. 565 00:32:36,810 --> 00:32:38,970 Stella does, too. I love this. 566 00:32:39,210 --> 00:32:40,430 Catifying is one thing. 567 00:32:40,650 --> 00:32:44,610 Making it look like it belongs in your house. 568 00:32:44,850 --> 00:32:48,130 Do you realize that I walked in here and missed it? Yeah, it's pretty cool. 569 00:32:48,430 --> 00:32:49,430 How's Stella been? 570 00:32:49,510 --> 00:32:53,450 Good. Doing good. One thing I've noticed a lot, too, about Stella, her tail 571 00:32:53,450 --> 00:32:58,990 doesn't move. When she's resting, yeah. Seeing Stella up on this cat tree, eyes 572 00:32:58,990 --> 00:33:01,330 are relaxed. She's kind of sleepy. Her tail. 573 00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:06,080 It stops because she's not just relaxed, she's safe. I know you guys have been 574 00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:12,820 up to a lot over the past couple weeks. When Avery is playing loud, 575 00:33:13,100 --> 00:33:17,760 we notice signs of Stella, her tail moving back and forth rapidly. 576 00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:21,790 We are getting better at... recognizing it, I think. 577 00:33:22,050 --> 00:33:25,770 Okay, Avery and Stella were kind of getting into each other's space. 578 00:33:26,390 --> 00:33:30,190 Stella was trying to get in Avery's little chair that she's sitting in and 579 00:33:30,190 --> 00:33:32,510 to get her up in her own space up here. 580 00:33:33,470 --> 00:33:38,910 She chooses, as she's chosen today, twice now, to remove herself rather than 581 00:33:38,910 --> 00:33:43,430 engage. Eric and Morgan have done brilliant work really being able to 582 00:33:43,430 --> 00:33:47,790 Stella's behavior through her body language. She's a very clear 583 00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:52,440 They know to back off at a certain point, to separate the two of them 584 00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:53,339 things happen. 585 00:33:53,340 --> 00:33:56,740 Moving on. So I'm going to play with Stella. 586 00:33:57,900 --> 00:33:58,900 Woo! 587 00:34:00,780 --> 00:34:03,440 There she goes. 588 00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:09,280 Having a routine is helping. I think she likes that. 589 00:34:10,010 --> 00:34:14,190 She's loving all of her goodies that we've gotten for her. Everything's going 590 00:34:14,190 --> 00:34:16,949 really well up to this point. I mean, everything that I've heard, everything 591 00:34:16,949 --> 00:34:19,969 that I've seen on homework, but I want to see a little bit more. Time to look 592 00:34:19,969 --> 00:34:20,908 the catification. 593 00:34:20,909 --> 00:34:23,409 We've been busy today. Nothing like a handyman. 594 00:34:24,290 --> 00:34:25,389 There we go. 595 00:34:25,710 --> 00:34:28,010 Trying to make our home more Stella -friendly. 596 00:34:28,290 --> 00:34:32,670 Eric is just walking around, putting up shelves and everything. He did an 597 00:34:32,670 --> 00:34:33,670 amazing job. 598 00:34:34,070 --> 00:34:35,429 Scratching posts here. 599 00:34:35,830 --> 00:34:36,830 Yay! 600 00:34:37,389 --> 00:34:40,350 All the way around, man. All the way around. 601 00:34:40,630 --> 00:34:44,170 The flow of shelving around the room is really solid, but there is one thing 602 00:34:44,170 --> 00:34:47,489 that's missing, and that's the concept of an on -ramp or an off -ramp. And 603 00:34:47,489 --> 00:34:50,010 that's our cue to adjust our catification. 604 00:34:50,370 --> 00:34:51,370 Now, let's get up. 605 00:34:52,010 --> 00:34:53,969 I'm a little worried about this thing. Okay. 606 00:34:54,389 --> 00:35:00,530 We have a problem here where Cat Superhighway meets human lane of 607 00:35:00,850 --> 00:35:01,890 Given Avery... 608 00:35:02,980 --> 00:35:07,580 this as the Kidzilla zone. She can do whatever she wants down here, right? My 609 00:35:07,580 --> 00:35:12,000 fear is, as Kidzilla comes through here, swipe. 610 00:35:12,240 --> 00:35:14,720 Okay. And we don't have a decent on -ramp here. 611 00:35:14,980 --> 00:35:16,040 You see where I might be going? 612 00:35:16,380 --> 00:35:20,280 On that there? Yep. Okay. If it lines up the way I think it's going to, she's 613 00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:23,480 out of the lane of traffic. Okay. Let's do it. Okay. I'm going to help you guys 614 00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:28,140 out. All we got to do is take the cat tree from where it is for Stella, and in 615 00:35:28,140 --> 00:35:29,660 the meantime, put the bookcase... 616 00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:33,580 over where the cat tree was, and that's a perfect off -ramp into the kitchen. 617 00:35:34,300 --> 00:35:35,300 Wow. Hey. 618 00:35:35,460 --> 00:35:41,320 That's fairly perfect. Now this room has the feeling of flow that we always look 619 00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:42,320 for from catification. 620 00:35:42,780 --> 00:35:47,320 I think we're done here. I think that we've got an amazing beginning. 621 00:35:48,170 --> 00:35:52,510 And I think that that's really all I could hope to give you guys is a 622 00:35:52,670 --> 00:35:56,070 you know, like they say in Casablanca, the beginning of a beautiful friendship. 623 00:35:56,650 --> 00:36:00,010 Yes, you too. Thank you so much. You've been absolutely wonderful. I feel like I 624 00:36:00,010 --> 00:36:00,828 need to give you a hug. 625 00:36:00,830 --> 00:36:01,830 Absolutely. 626 00:36:02,610 --> 00:36:07,630 And give a hug to Avery for me. Will do. All right. Thank you. Bye, guys. Bye. 627 00:36:08,010 --> 00:36:13,490 It makes me happy just seeing Stella and Avery coexisting peacefully and being 628 00:36:13,490 --> 00:36:16,730 sisters that love each other. I think that we're going to live in harmony 629 00:36:16,730 --> 00:36:17,730 together. 630 00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:22,300 You peed on everything. 631 00:36:22,700 --> 00:36:23,700 It stinks. 632 00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:28,700 The last time I was here, Sid the cat was still dealing with issues of 633 00:36:28,700 --> 00:36:34,100 territorial impermanence. And Zach and Meredith were dealing with a lot of fear 634 00:36:34,100 --> 00:36:37,060 and a lot of challenges laying in front of them. And hopefully they've embraced 635 00:36:37,060 --> 00:36:41,060 those challenges and they're not going to be sitting in here paralyzed by pee. 636 00:36:41,240 --> 00:36:42,240 We'll find out. 637 00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:45,880 Yay! 638 00:36:46,110 --> 00:36:49,330 Oh, hi, Teddy. Hi, hi, hi, hi, hi. 639 00:36:49,770 --> 00:36:50,770 Hey, 640 00:36:51,030 --> 00:36:52,030 dude, with the mouth. 641 00:36:52,670 --> 00:36:54,250 Let's go ahead and put Teddy outside. 642 00:36:54,610 --> 00:36:55,428 Come on, Teddy. 643 00:36:55,430 --> 00:36:56,430 Go, buddy. 644 00:36:56,930 --> 00:37:03,290 Teddy is a ball of energy, and he just about takes my fingers off this time. 645 00:37:03,470 --> 00:37:05,730 He's going from cute to scary in a heartbeat. 646 00:37:06,030 --> 00:37:07,170 Let's take a look at the video homework. 647 00:37:08,610 --> 00:37:11,070 Added to a base camp. 648 00:37:11,930 --> 00:37:13,010 Stuff for Sid. 649 00:37:13,670 --> 00:37:14,670 Mm -hmm. 650 00:37:16,109 --> 00:37:17,610 He's happy it's here already. 651 00:37:18,110 --> 00:37:21,830 Sidney is using these scratchers exactly as I hoped he would. 652 00:37:22,030 --> 00:37:25,850 I mean, he's body marking them. He's rubbing his face and his entire body. 653 00:37:25,850 --> 00:37:28,850 scratching the heck out of them. And he's marinating them. 654 00:37:29,330 --> 00:37:30,930 Exactly what you want to see at a base camp. 655 00:37:31,210 --> 00:37:33,610 Marinated belongings that you can move out to the rest of the house. 656 00:37:34,270 --> 00:37:36,470 You were bringing cushions in. 657 00:37:36,670 --> 00:37:42,130 You were... Couch cushions? Yeah, baby. Couch cushions. They haven't been peed 658 00:37:42,130 --> 00:37:44,050 on? Not yet. Not yet. Oh, yeah. 659 00:37:44,490 --> 00:37:45,189 That's amazing. 660 00:37:45,190 --> 00:37:49,130 The cushions are actually here. These guys took that initial risk, went into 661 00:37:49,130 --> 00:37:53,510 garage, got the cushions out, allowed Sid to just body mark the heck out of 662 00:37:53,510 --> 00:37:58,090 them, sleep on them, and now they're in the family room and they haven't been 663 00:37:58,090 --> 00:37:59,390 peed on. Moving on. 664 00:37:59,690 --> 00:38:02,510 So we've got this new harness for Teddy for when we take him out. 665 00:38:03,810 --> 00:38:05,990 He's still got energy, as you can see. 666 00:38:06,230 --> 00:38:08,830 He's just got this fascination with Sidney. 667 00:38:09,170 --> 00:38:12,130 Wait, where'd that come from? He's still chasing Sid around. You know, the 668 00:38:12,130 --> 00:38:13,170 issues with Teddy... 669 00:38:13,850 --> 00:38:15,350 seem to be getting worse. 670 00:38:15,650 --> 00:38:22,470 Trying to, you know, work on him not being crazy has been really kind of 671 00:38:22,470 --> 00:38:25,710 challenging. I am really happy with Sidney's progress. 672 00:38:26,110 --> 00:38:30,430 Now, Teddy, that's another question altogether, but I got a plan. 673 00:38:30,650 --> 00:38:31,650 Oh, Sid. 674 00:38:34,430 --> 00:38:37,230 Good morning, my little buddy. Sid is... 675 00:38:37,660 --> 00:38:40,800 standing in front of me, eating his dinner, that's ownership of territory. 676 00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:42,520 That is saying, this is my place. 677 00:38:42,740 --> 00:38:46,020 Welcome to it. I'll be eating. You can do whatever you want to do. I am 678 00:38:46,020 --> 00:38:50,080 absolutely convinced at this point that this house and this cat are totally 679 00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:54,200 ready for a couch in the living room. Now, you know what's coming, right? I'm 680 00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:56,500 going to help you. We're going to get the couch in here, put the cushions on 681 00:38:56,540 --> 00:38:59,280 and say, job well done. It's your call. 682 00:39:02,540 --> 00:39:03,540 What do you think? 683 00:39:11,759 --> 00:39:14,340 Now, you know what's coming. I'm going to help you. We're going to get the 684 00:39:14,340 --> 00:39:15,540 in here, put the cushions on it. 685 00:39:18,060 --> 00:39:19,180 You know, what the hell? 686 00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:21,158 Let's do it. 687 00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:27,220 Moving the couch into the house is still a terrifying thought to me, but I just 688 00:39:27,220 --> 00:39:31,640 have to bury my fear and get on with it. Ready, babe? 689 00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:33,160 Let's do it. 690 00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:38,980 Biggest hope that I have for Zach and Meredith is not that their couch isn't 691 00:39:38,980 --> 00:39:43,800 going to get peed on. It's that if something happens, they own the solution 692 00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:47,560 as much as they own the celebration of this moment. So this is what your house 693 00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:48,700 is supposed to feel like. 694 00:39:49,340 --> 00:39:53,280 I haven't seen you smile, by the way, in quite a long time. I feel really 695 00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:58,920 excited and confident that the strategy that Jackson had us take is correct. 696 00:39:59,260 --> 00:40:01,640 So here's the surprise I got for you. 697 00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:05,180 A good friend of mine is coming over, and he's going to work with you guys in 698 00:40:05,180 --> 00:40:09,240 Teddy. That's fantastic. That's so great. If I left this house without 699 00:40:09,240 --> 00:40:13,060 to address the problem that is Teddy, I wouldn't be able to live with myself. 700 00:40:13,180 --> 00:40:17,980 I've got to be able to address the whole problem. And training Teddy is 701 00:40:17,980 --> 00:40:20,900 definitely going to help. It's territorial permanence. 702 00:40:21,500 --> 00:40:22,940 Welcome to the world of Teddy. 703 00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:28,920 I'm Zoe Sander. As a dog trainer, my job is to make sure that people can have an 704 00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:32,080 uncomplicated relationship with their dog. I'm guessing this is part of the 705 00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:33,058 problem, guys. 706 00:40:33,060 --> 00:40:34,060 Mm -hmm. Yes? 707 00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:35,740 The jumping? 708 00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:40,060 The jumping, the mouthing. All the behaviors I'm seeing today are extremely 709 00:40:40,060 --> 00:40:46,820 typical, both of adolescent dogs and of pit bulls. Pit bulls are all about the 710 00:40:46,820 --> 00:40:47,820 body contact. 711 00:40:47,980 --> 00:40:51,840 You'll notice that that's how they play with each other. It's heavy on the 712 00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:52,840 wrestling side. 713 00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:56,120 So if I'm in a pit bull and I'm trying to communicate to another dog, would you 714 00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:57,120 mind backing up? 715 00:40:57,500 --> 00:40:59,840 I'm going to get tall and move directly into them. 716 00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,800 Versus if they want to come play. They're like, come play with me. They'll 717 00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:07,320 of turn and run the other way. So every time he jumps on me, I'm taking steps 718 00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:10,920 directly towards him. I'm not kneeing him in the chest because that's not what 719 00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:11,839 it's about. 720 00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:14,440 It's about using the body language that he knows. 721 00:41:15,770 --> 00:41:21,070 Three minutes of being here, Zoe showed me how to deal with one of Teddy's 722 00:41:21,070 --> 00:41:21,928 biggest problems. 723 00:41:21,930 --> 00:41:22,930 Brilliant. 724 00:41:23,590 --> 00:41:29,710 The magic is happening. That's right. The magic is real. That's right, baby. 725 00:41:29,990 --> 00:41:34,890 Zoe is teaching us all the things that we need to combat Teddy's worst 726 00:41:34,890 --> 00:41:35,970 behaviors. Fit. 727 00:41:36,810 --> 00:41:37,990 Great. Fit. 728 00:41:38,410 --> 00:41:44,450 Good boy. Yeah. With Zoe's help, we're going to train Teddy to listen to us. 729 00:41:44,750 --> 00:41:49,910 and not follow his impulses like chasing fit around and treating him like he's a 730 00:41:49,910 --> 00:41:50,488 chew toy. 731 00:41:50,490 --> 00:41:53,410 I'm going to leave you guys because I know you've got a lot of work to do. 732 00:41:53,410 --> 00:41:55,370 been wonderful, man. Thank you so much for everything. 733 00:41:55,590 --> 00:41:57,350 Thank you. And for all your work with your cat. 734 00:41:57,610 --> 00:41:59,690 Thank you. I'm here for you guys if you need me, okay? 735 00:42:00,030 --> 00:42:02,010 You just, you know, fix the dog. 736 00:42:02,650 --> 00:42:03,488 I got this. 737 00:42:03,490 --> 00:42:07,750 If Meredith and Zach follow what I told them to do today and they stay calm, 738 00:42:08,170 --> 00:42:10,930 this dog's not going to have any problems in a matter of weeks. That's 739 00:42:10,930 --> 00:42:11,930 good, guys. 64340

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