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I'm a Los Angeles City firefighter. We
have a cat named Coco who's crazy.
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She was a precious little kitten, and
then she just turned.
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She has attacked both myself and
Brandon.
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I can't live like this anymore with her
violence.
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Foley is currently suffering from what
we call the night terror.
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Foley!
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We're terrified that we're going to come
home and that he's not going to open
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his eyes.
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Oh! Oh, my God.
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I'm Jackson Galaxy. I'm a musician by
night and a cat behaviorist by day.
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I've met cats with all kinds of
problems.
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But I've never met one I couldn't help.
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Oh, hello. In my career, I've worked
with thousands of cats one -on -one,
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analyzing their behaviors and retraining
them and their guardians.
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When relationships are at an end, I
don't have many more options than to
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leave. And cat guardians have reached
their emotional limit. Just get rid of
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her. I'm their last hope.
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Are you all right?
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I don't know. Cats have nine lives, but
humans?
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Only have one.
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I'm on my way to go see Brandon and
Tawny and their cat, Coco.
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Coco is a really violent cat, but
Brandon puts his life on the line every
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day. He sees danger as a firefighter.
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Tawny is done with this cat.
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So I'm going to go over there right now
and see if I can help put this fire out.
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My name is Brandon.
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My name is Tawny. And we have a cat
named Coco. Oh, here we go.
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I'm a Los Angeles City firefighter. We
found Coco out in the middle of the road
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in front of my fire station.
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She was a precious little kitten.
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And then she just turned.
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We have this cat who is vicious.
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She's attacked both myself and Brandon.
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She's attacked family members and
friends.
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Coco. I feel like everybody around me,
they're like, why do you still have this
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cat?
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I love the cat. She's definitely a buddy
when I'm home.
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His dynamic with Coco is a lot
different, I think, than mine because he
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lot less fear.
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I'm going to pick you up, okay?
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No.
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As a firefighter, we see a lot of
things, so when she's more aggressive,
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doesn't affect me as much. I think I'm a
little too scared.
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We do tend to have arguments once in a
while over what we want to do.
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I'm kind of in my head thinking we just
get rid of her.
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I... on the other hand would like to try
and keep her inside the house he always
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says well i don't want to be the one to
find her in the middle of the street
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dead i feel irresponsible i don't feel
like brandon understands like the
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legitimacy of my fear brandon will laugh
and i'm like if tani were to come and
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tell me she's gonna get rid of the cat i
would say no i can't live like this
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anymore
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Hey, man.
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How are you? Hey, Jackson. How are you
doing? I'm good.
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You must be Brandon.
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I'm Brandon. Good to see you. You know,
it's good to see you. It's kind of
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weird. I mean, I usually would go to my
clients' homes to meet them. This time
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around, I am coming to your work, but
this is where I spend a lot of my time.
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All right. Well, tell me a little bit
about Coco. When we found her, she
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She was this big. She was tiny. Her eyes
were so closed.
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She was right here?
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You got to help a little kitten. I love
it, man. You're a cat guy.
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I dig it. When you got a guy who's a
firefighter and they come out saying, I
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love little kittens, man, I love that.
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Basically, the problem is she just
started to get aggressive.
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My wife, she's scared of her biting her.
Okay.
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She doesn't want to have the cat. That's
a challenge, but that's all right. It's
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what I do.
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Hey. Hi. How are you? Hi, Jackson and
Tawny. Nice to meet you. Tawny, good to
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meet you. Good to meet you. This has got
to be sort of your second home, too,
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yeah? Yeah. I come visit him often.
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I'm really glad that Tawny came to the
firehouse because I really need to know
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what turned the sweet kitten that she
raised into the cat that she feared.
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When did you figure out that you had a
problem on your hand?
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We had an episode where she ended up
biting me. Did she break the skin on
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Yeah. But then it became sort of a
continual thing. I noticed that when we
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visitors, she just goes berserk. We
don't have a home that people can just
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freely walk in and roam around because
we have Coco.
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So we have a problem here.
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What's your experience with her? I'm
able to pick her up and throw her on my
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shoulder. I carry her around. Wait, hold
on a minute. It's a father -daughter
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bond, I guess.
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You've been scratched and you've been
bit. I have.
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A little. It happens. But I expect it,
and I know that if she gets scared, I
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react to that, and I take care of her,
put her down, and then later on, she's
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good again.
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Now, the one place that you can tell
that Tawny and Brandon are not quite on
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same page is the way they handle Coco.
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Brandon, very confident where Tawny is
anything but.
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I'm moving every day a little bit closer
to having to eventually put her out. I
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can't live like this anymore. I have a
dangerous cat.
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You know, I disagree.
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I really think we can work with her.
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No pressure.
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We don't know much about Coco's history.
Her aggression could be caused by
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trauma or it could be a trait of her
feral background. There's no way to know
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how or why she turned violent. I need to
see the home. I need to meet Coco. Can
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we go there now? Yeah, let's go. All
right.
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I walk in.
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And where is she going to be? She'll
come and she'll peek her head through
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This is going to have to change. What
she wants is an attack angle, and we
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to take this away from her. Coco is
following a predictable behavior.
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Hide low and strike hard. Now, I can't
eliminate her natural instinct, so all I
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can do is eliminate her hot spots.
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I'm not really noticing a whole lot
of...
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Coco presence in here, and I think it's
going to be important as we go along. If
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she's territorially threatened, then
we're not going to be a happy family at
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all. Look around, no evidence of her
cat. That means that Coco has no
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whatsoever, and that with a cat like
Coco is a big problem.
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Where's she at?
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In the bedroom.
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Cool. I'm going to the bedroom then. All
right.
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Okay, then.
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I feel like I'm marching into my doom
here. Coco, where you at, baby?
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Coco?
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I have to find out if Coco's aggression
is triggered by Tawny's anxiety, and
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unfortunately, there's only one way to
find out. I'm going to just plop myself
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down on your level. We'll see what
happens. Hey, how's it going?
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Now, I hear that when someone approaches
you scared, you get scared.
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Are you going to be nice to me?
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They say that you're bad when you get
picked up, okay?
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Soon,
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as Coco picked up on my nervous energy,
she started to get herself into a
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defensive ball. She started with the low
growl.
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And as I came in, more and more even
shaking with my hand, Finally, bang, she
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hit me.
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Although I totally sacrificed my hands
to Coco, I got the information I needed.
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She struck out at me specifically when I
came at her with nervous energy.
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Knock, knock.
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Who's there?
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Angry cat.
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It was time to call Brandon into the
room because at that point I wanted to
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if it was even at all possible that he
could calm her down.
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I think I need a paramedic. Oh.
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Is this kind of normal?
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Yeah. I can go ahead and try and pick
her up if you want me to. Really? Yeah.
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You just have to be fast.
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Go for it, man. Okay.
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Go, go. It's okay.
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Usually I'll let her see who it is.
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Let her smell me.
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Look at that.
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She knows I'm going to pick her up.
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He scoops her up, and you see that bond.
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You see that 10 -day -old kitten being
saved by that fireman. It was pretty
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cool. Come on in. All right.
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So let me ask you something.
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It's so funny you won't even come in.
Okay.
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Do you feel like it's possible to have
that level of calmness with her?
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I mean,
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I will certainly try.
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I see a territorially threatened animal.
I see one who has that feral in her for
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sure. And now we have to work on a few
different things.
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And let's go on inside and talk some
homework.
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Awesome. All right, come on guys, let's
go.
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I was a little shocked to come in there
and just see Brandon just calmly petting
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the cat. You could have done it too.
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That's what Jack was trying to tell you.
I know, but... The way you approach
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her. I don't have bravery like he's
brave.
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I'm going to use some fight or fire
lingo here.
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At the scene of every fire, there's only
one guy in charge, the captain in
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charge, Kitty Captain here. That's you.
You've got to call the shots.
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Everything that Brandon does with this
cat is gold. We've got to pass that on
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Tawny if she has any chance whatsoever
of having a trusting relationship with
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Coco again. Right now, I need you to
think 100 % catification.
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What I want is litter boxes, food
dishes, trees, anything of cat furniture
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she can claim as her own. These are the
things that need to be out in social
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areas. The idea of catification brought
a little bit of...
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anxiousness to me because she's a part
of our life, but we don't have to create
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our life around the cat.
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Another thing, by the way, I want you to
block off the underside of this cabinet
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here. I do not want to give her that
option to lay in wait for people, right?
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All right, guys, if you have any
questions at all over the next couple
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you call me. It's an important time,
okay? All right, thanks, Jeff. All
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This is kind of it. I have anxiety
living in my own home.
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I'm at that point where she will get the
boot if this keeps up. I really don't
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want that to happen.
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So I'm here for my second visit with
Tawny, their firefighter husband,
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and their cat, Coco.
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First time I was here, Tawny wanted this
cat out of here. Brandon wanted no part
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of that, and neither did I.
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I had a chance to look at Brandon and
Tawny's homework, and I've got to tell
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you, they did an excellent job with the
catification.
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Got multiple scratchers, litter box in
the living room.
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I'm pretty impressed with the changes
I'm seeing in Coco's behavior.
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What I don't like is how visitors and
Connie approach the cat. It's my
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Oh, there's the cat.
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I don't like this. I really don't.
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Hi, what's wrong with the kitty?
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No!
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No! I still have a lot of work to do.
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Hey! Welcome back!
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How are you? Hey, how are you doing? I'm
doing great.
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Where's Brandon? He's in the backyard,
so let's go join him. Okay, cool.
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Hey. Hey, Jackson. How's it going? How
are you, man? What's going on, Jackson?
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Good to see you again. Good to see you,
too.
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So, tell me, how are things in the world
of Coco?
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We're progressing.
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Good. Slowly. Good.
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He's adapted to the lay of the land. I
can tell that she likes having more of
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the home be hers.
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In the video homework, your brother, he
literally walks in the door, looks at
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the cat, and he's like, I don't like
this.
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I don't like this. I really don't.
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She's just walking.
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She's not doing anything at all. So I
see that we got our work cut out for us.
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Friends have been scarred by the cat
because they've seen her kind of at her
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worst. We want to have a home that feels
safe to people.
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The last time I was here, I gave you the
sort of captain's position of really
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demonstrating to Tani, this is what this
message means, this is what her body
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language means. And we worked on that,
but there's...
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There's still a little fear there.
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You're still pretty shaky?
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I'm still a little shaky, yeah.
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Yeah, I know. She has a little claw. A
little claw.
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She's got sharp ones.
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I speak cat. I understand.
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You cannot minimize our cat situation,
and you are, and you're doing it.
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She still pisses and isn't totally
approachable, and to me that's a
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have you been doing the homework?
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I'm trying, buddy.
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And you think it's funny, and you think
it's cute.
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They're not going to be perfect, right?
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It was kind of uncomfortable sitting
there with Tawny and Brandon. In terms
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their approach to Coco, these guys have
got to meet in the middle, or we don't
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have a chance.
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Here's what I want to do. We're going to
get up and take a look around the
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house, and, of course, I've got to see
Coco.
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Okay.
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All right, guys.
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Well, let's start right here.
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Show me now where she hangs out.
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Now she's over there, right?
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So now, that's a good invitation. Do it
again.
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Oh, my gosh. Yeah, good.
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And then this is what I do.
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No. Oh, that's the thing that you use.
Yeah. Okay, so here's the bad in that
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situation. I mean, it's all bad.
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It's all bad that she's camped out here
waiting, right? And then she's going to
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swipe. This is a tool of your fear,
right?
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This is the thing that says, I'm still
afraid of you. I will not touch you.
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You're activated in this situation, and
I have to use some sort of a blocker to
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get you away from me. So this whole
situation is bad.
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I do have this by the front door. That's
the thing we're going to do. Exactly.
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You got it. People walk in the door. Do
I hand them this? I specifically suggest
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your brother. If he were to walk in and
he's like, Coco, boom.
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And here, and then she goes to play over
here. Not only is he in a position of
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power, which is a good thing, but she
has now cleared her way out of here.
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You see that subtle difference. The
subtle difference is, do these become a
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of fear or do they become a tool of
empowerment?
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And in that way, it's win -win.
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My plan is to give people walking in the
house that toy, because the thing is,
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if we empower them with a toy, they get
to guide her away. Otherwise, everyone
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walks in with fear. This way, we're
disarming the people and disarming the
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All right. Now, last time I was here, I
asked you to put litter boxes in
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socially significant areas, and you did.
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There you have it. Props to you. You
were not psyched about that. Yeah, I
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it sucks, but I'm willing to kind of
embrace it, and she hasn't used one of
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bathrooms since this one. Okay, so it
sucks for you, but that is one of those
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things where the cat is talking loud and
clear and saying, I don't feel secure
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in this area. Now I do.
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I've got to tell you, first off, I'm
pretty impressed.
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Tawny, I didn't even think was going to
do it. She did it.
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And double -edged sword here, Coco's
using it. She's using it more than the
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in the bathroom. She's letting us know,
I like this, I appreciate it, thank you
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very much. Now don't move it.
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By catifying, you've absolutely made it
so that this whole area is friendly
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toward her. Now do you feel that
you're...
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Still scared enough of her that none of
this worked for you?
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There's definitely been, you know,
steps, but I'm still afraid.
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That's really important.
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So I want to try something different,
something we haven't done before.
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Now, where's Coco at?
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The last time I saw her, she's in the
guest bedroom.
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And that's where we're going to head.
All right.
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The only way for Tawny to get over her
fears is to confront them. And the only
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way she could do that is without Brandon
sitting next to her. This was a time
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for her to be alone without his
protection.
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First thing I want you to do is take a
seat on the bed.
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Beautiful. Sitting near the cat.
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You just sit.
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When someone's suffering from post
-traumatic stress, one of the things
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use is exposure therapy. Have them walk
through the fear that they fear the
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most. Here's the next step.
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First thing I want to do is I want to
blindfold you, all right?
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Every step along the way on this thing
is you trusting me.
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And more importantly, you trusting her.
Go ahead.
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I get scratched. You're in big trouble,
Jackson.
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By blindfolding Tani, I'm hoping to
change her view of Coco because she
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literally won't have one. And by
removing her sight, I'm hoping to also
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this overwhelming fear of Coco that she
has and tap into trust.
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And we're uncovered.
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I'm a little worried about what
Jackson's going to ask me to do, but I
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is part of the process, so I guess I'm
just going to have to be willing to do
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it. Right now, I'm going to have you
hold your hand out, put your hand down
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this. I'm going to put this tune in your
hand.
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The last time I was here, I got beat up
pretty good by Coco.
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The damage was pretty evident, and Tawny
got to see that evidence.
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So this time around, I had to take a
risk.
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Just approach her with it.
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Closer. Okay.
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But right now you look tense, so relax.
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Relax.
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At this moment, I am just hoping that
that cat responds the way I want her to
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because I could lose Connie for good.
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What is she doing, Jackson?
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I need you to relax.
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Breathe through this whole thing.
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I could feel her little, you know,
movement in my hand, which was pretty
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It felt like, wow, she does trust me.
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How do you feel?
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Like I conquered a little bit of my
fear.
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That's right.
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It was pretty amazing to watch Tawny's
transformation.
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She went from being a scared person, a
person with no faith in her own
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abilities, to a confident person,
somebody who felt a connection with her
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animal. Really, one of those one in a
million moments.
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Hey, mister.
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Hey. So, that was pretty cool. I
couldn't be more excited.
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Tawny was wearing a blindfold, and she
fed Coco out of her hand.
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That's unbelievable.
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Yeah. So, for your homework, I want you
to continue this.
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Now, that's number one. I think we're on
the right track.
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Definitely will feel a little silly
walking around my house blindfolded. I
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you to start teaching other people how
to conquer their fear. Put some of the
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wand toys right outside the door. As
they walk through the door, you tell
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what to do and have them lead her
through the living room. My plan is to
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everyone who's walking in the house that
toy because the thing is, if we empower
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people by giving them a toy so they can
lead her away, they won't walk away in
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fear. Now, the next thing you guys are
going to do, I want you to get an
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electric blanket.
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We'll call it the fire blanket. Once
she's got her scent really soaked into
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think of another place where you can
move that electric blanket.
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Cats respond to warmth. So we'll put the
fire blanket in the socially
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significant part of the room, and that
way before long, Coco will gain
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confidence that she belongs in the room.
And when Coco feels secure in the room,
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then she won't attack people.
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Guys, we've got a lot of work ahead of
you, but this time I think you're a
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little more prepared. All right?
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I'm out. All right. Take care.
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Thanks again for coming out. See you
soon. Bye -bye.
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Bye. We don't know how the next couple
weeks are going to unfold.
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I'm really hoping that she changes, but
session three when Jackson comes, if
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Coco can't be fixed, we just get rid of
her. I don't like hearing that. That's
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not even something that I'm going to
think about at this point.
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And now it's time for a kiddie bit.
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Approximately how many people are bitten
by cats in the U .S. annually?
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Is it A, 5 ,000, B, 40 ,000, or C, 25
,000?
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Find out the answer after this break.
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Approximately how many people are bitten
by cats in the U .S. annually?
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The answer is B, 40 ,000. Believe it or
not, Cats learn most of their social
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language before they're even nine weeks
old. If you do get bit, clean the wound
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immediately and consult a doctor.
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So I'm outside Tawny and Brandon's house
for my final visit with them and their
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cat Coco, and here's what I want to see.
A lot less aggression from their cat
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Coco, and a lot less fear from Tawny.
Those two things together, we got a good
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day.
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Hey! Hey, how are you? Good, how are you
doing? Welcome back.
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Good to see you.
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Brandon, how are you, man? Hey, Jackson.
Good to see you, brother.
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Hey, Ben. Good, good. Good, you look
good.
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So, how are things going with you guys?
How's life with Coco? Tell me.
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Everything's going pretty good. We have
some good news for you today.
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Tell me, what's good news? The cat has
not been scratched for the past two
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weeks. That's a huge change.
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That's a huge change.
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That's fantastic.
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Coco has not attacked a single person.
That means change has happened.
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I feel like overall she feels that our
house has become more of her territory.
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You know, we've got more toys, and she
kind of feels like, okay, I don't have
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to, you know, defend it.
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The most important thing is that you can
walk through the house knowing that
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you're okay.
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Seriously pretty amazing news so far. It
was time to take a look at video
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homework and see what else I could
correct or appraise.
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My brother Tyson is here.
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I'm going to hand you this toy.
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It's good that she's not.
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Catching you.
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Taking a look at Brandon and Tawny's
video homework, it's everything I could
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have asked for. I think Tawny thinks
this is how you play with Coco. Don't be
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scared. The video homework shows Tawny
practicing her face your fears blindfold
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exercise.
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Anticipating Coco's cues without being
able to see her is a huge step for
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Coco is enjoying her eating blanket.
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I gave Tawny and Brandon the fire
blanket assignment.
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Warm blankets create comfort and
security.
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I'm seeing Coco sitting in the middle of
the living room, free from anxiety.
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Look at that soft look.
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What do you think?
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I'm so proud of you. I really, I mean, I
don't want to sound goofy about this.
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There's just a sense of pride, like,
wow, we saw progression, and that's
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exciting. Now, of course, Coco's in
there, and I want to spend some time
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her, so come on. All right.
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I want to see Coco and Tawny interacting
in a way that I didn't think was
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possible a few weeks ago. I know that
she's got it in her. I just want to see
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with my own eyes.
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I actually want you to just reach out,
mimic what Brandon's doing right now,
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just start petting her.
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If Tawny brings fear, it's not just a
matter of her getting bit. She's going
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set Coco back a few steps also.
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It's so important that she take all the
lessons I've taught her and bring them
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to bear in this very moment.
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There you go. Look at that.
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There's no way that I could have gotten
you doing this the first day that I met
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you. Brandon, I mean, you've got to
admit, there's no way.
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She just has adapted so well, and to see
her do this is amazing.
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Where's your fear level right now?
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I feel pretty confident right now.
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It's pretty incredible.
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When Jackson first came, I was afraid of
my cat. I think I'm a little too
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scared. Toning down, you know, my senses
and my fear helped her just become more
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calm. Now I feel like I'm not in danger.
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So I got to put the question before I
leave. At this point, are you
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keeping Coco?
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We definitely want to have her keeping
her inside with us. That's fantastic.
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Wow. Are you kidding? I mean, not only
to say that she can stay in this house,
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but to admit that you've changed along
with her is, people don't do that. So
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that's, wow, that's great.
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Guys, I'm going to take off. All right.
Well, thank you so much for all your
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help. It has been amazing. You have been
so fantastic. I really was hesitant to
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believe that there was somebody out
there that can actually make a
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a cat's life, but Jackson can.
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Guys, take care. Bye.
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Our relationship in general has become
better because the cat has some hope.
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Tawny's a lot less anxious. The fact of
the matter is, happy wife, happy life.
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So, thank you, Jackson.
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Foley!
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Foley!
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I'm in Austin.
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On my way to go see Joseph and Ruth
about their cat, Foley.
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Now, in all my years, I've never heard
of this before. The cat has night
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terrors. What that means is that in his
sleep, he flails, throws himself off of
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wherever he is, not to mention the cat
is attacking the couple while he's in
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midst of an episode. I have got to get
over there right now.
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I'm Joseph.
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I'm Ruth. We've been married for a
little bit over a year. We are both
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students studying music here in Texas.
We are the proud parents of Foley, and
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is currently suffering from what we call
the night terror.
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Whenever Foley falls asleep, he will
just launch himself. It's like a
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He has flung himself into our coat rack,
into the computer desk.
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And he'll end up flinging himself off of
the ottoman, and he'll hit the floor
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pretty hard.
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It's been going on about a year, a
little over a year now.
444
00:26:30,450 --> 00:26:32,390
It looks like he is trying to kill
something.
445
00:26:32,630 --> 00:26:35,550
If he can grab onto something, you know,
he'll pull it in and he'll kick it with
446
00:26:35,550 --> 00:26:36,550
his back feet.
447
00:26:36,990 --> 00:26:42,070
The first time I tried, that I got
scratched, he latched right onto my arm.
448
00:26:42,070 --> 00:26:44,570
I mean, I had, you know, scratches and
blood all over me.
449
00:26:44,830 --> 00:26:49,730
One time, his nail, like, snagged on,
like, a vein.
450
00:26:49,950 --> 00:26:54,970
My arm was just streaming blood. Every
time we take him to the vet, when we
451
00:26:54,970 --> 00:26:57,790
them that we think the cat's having
nightmares, they just, like, oh, I've
452
00:26:57,790 --> 00:26:59,450
heard of that before. That's so strange.
453
00:27:00,150 --> 00:27:01,150
Wake up.
454
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:07,420
I do feel like I sacrifice a lot when
I'm on, quote, Foley patrol.
455
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:11,480
I'll sometimes get frustrated with
Joseph when he gets frustrated with the
456
00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:15,180
We'll definitely get really irritated
with each other when one of us has to
457
00:27:15,180 --> 00:27:18,840
our work aside in order to watch Foley.
And, you know, when we're both under a
458
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:21,080
deadline, sometimes I do get pretty
pissy.
459
00:27:21,820 --> 00:27:26,540
There's definitely still continues to be
disagreement about letting him in the
460
00:27:26,540 --> 00:27:27,379
room at night.
461
00:27:27,380 --> 00:27:31,260
I'm absolutely terrified that he is
going to seriously injure himself.
462
00:27:31,620 --> 00:27:32,980
That we're going to come home and that.
463
00:27:33,470 --> 00:27:34,890
He's not going to open his eyes.
464
00:27:38,390 --> 00:27:39,390
Hey, guys.
465
00:27:39,470 --> 00:27:40,610
Hi. How are you?
466
00:27:40,810 --> 00:27:41,810
How are you?
467
00:27:41,990 --> 00:27:42,769
I'm Joseph.
468
00:27:42,770 --> 00:27:43,770
Nice to meet you. Hey, Joseph.
469
00:27:43,850 --> 00:27:44,789
I'm Ruth.
470
00:27:44,790 --> 00:27:45,790
Tell me about Foley.
471
00:27:46,610 --> 00:27:51,970
He's having these night terrors where
when he's sleeping, he'll start out
472
00:27:51,970 --> 00:27:54,030
twitching a little bit.
473
00:27:54,590 --> 00:28:00,070
And eventually it'll turn into like full
on like he's trying to violently attack
474
00:28:00,070 --> 00:28:01,110
and kill something.
475
00:28:01,310 --> 00:28:06,610
And he'll throw himself off of whatever
he's sleeping on. Or if you're sitting
476
00:28:06,610 --> 00:28:09,950
by him, he'll latch on to you and start
scratching you.
477
00:28:10,190 --> 00:28:10,889
That's awful.
478
00:28:10,890 --> 00:28:15,110
Because of that, we can't really sleep
in the same bed anymore because in order
479
00:28:15,110 --> 00:28:18,250
for her to get good sleep or for me to
get good sleep, one of us has to keep
480
00:28:18,250 --> 00:28:21,270
fully sort of corralled. You guys must
be sleeping like cats.
481
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:24,660
With one eye open. Yeah, that can't be
good for you guys.
482
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:25,880
No, not really.
483
00:28:26,300 --> 00:28:31,460
Ruth and Joseph strike me as being just
completely energetically and physically
484
00:28:31,460 --> 00:28:37,440
depleted. I can't even imagine the
stress of your cat constantly being in
485
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:38,900
of killing himself or you.
486
00:28:39,140 --> 00:28:45,400
The vet has completely ruled out
epilepsy or any type of neurological
487
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:47,920
his night terrors. How old is he?
488
00:28:48,220 --> 00:28:54,420
He's 14. Every single time he falls
asleep, he throws himself off the bed.
489
00:28:54,420 --> 00:28:59,720
hurts himself. He latches onto their
skin in this complete unconscious
490
00:28:59,900 --> 00:29:02,560
I've never even heard of this before. I
don't even know where to start.
491
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:03,840
Has he injured himself?
492
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:08,740
There have been times where it'll take
him like a minute or two to like sort of
493
00:29:08,740 --> 00:29:09,740
regain himself.
494
00:29:09,900 --> 00:29:16,320
If he flung himself off of something and
ended up killing himself, I don't, I
495
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:17,400
don't, I couldn't.
496
00:29:17,610 --> 00:29:21,210
I don't think I could live with that if
I wasn't there to help him. What if he
497
00:29:21,210 --> 00:29:25,650
bends in the air and lands on his neck?
That's not a what if. That's a when.
498
00:29:26,410 --> 00:29:27,410
That's a when.
499
00:29:27,870 --> 00:29:31,310
You know why I traveled all the way to
Texas? It's for cases like this. For
500
00:29:31,310 --> 00:29:35,490
people like Ruth and Joseph who put
their life on hold, their relationship
501
00:29:35,490 --> 00:29:37,930
danger for the love of their animal.
502
00:29:38,210 --> 00:29:41,570
It's time to go in there, take a look
around. I'm going to go meet him now,
503
00:29:42,330 --> 00:29:45,310
So, let's take... Oh, look, it's Foley.
504
00:29:45,630 --> 00:29:46,630
And he's sleeping.
505
00:29:47,130 --> 00:29:48,130
Let's just watch.
506
00:29:48,350 --> 00:29:50,530
What he's doing there, is that the
beginning of it?
507
00:29:50,930 --> 00:29:55,030
Yeah, he kind of starts out, you know,
you'll notice a little twitching and he
508
00:29:55,030 --> 00:29:56,950
starts to... It'll escalate. Oh,
509
00:29:58,110 --> 00:30:01,750
that? Yeah. So you... Oh!
510
00:30:04,390 --> 00:30:05,830
Oh! Yeah.
511
00:30:06,230 --> 00:30:07,230
Oh my God!
512
00:30:09,190 --> 00:30:10,590
Okay. Bully, wake up!
513
00:30:11,220 --> 00:30:16,020
Watching Foley, an elderly cat,
violently shaking and crashing onto his
514
00:30:16,020 --> 00:30:19,920
the floor is hard to watch. I mean, at
his age, a fall like this could be his
515
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:22,260
last. The stakes here are through the
roof.
516
00:30:23,460 --> 00:30:25,360
So he loves to sleep here.
517
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:31,140
Usually around this ottoman, we put a
bunch of pillows. So problem areas for
518
00:30:31,260 --> 00:30:35,380
literally everywhere that he can get up
and sleep is an issue because he can
519
00:30:35,380 --> 00:30:39,660
get... down in a really ugly way all
right well that's good information our
520
00:30:39,660 --> 00:30:44,260
stop was the bedroom joseph and ruth uh
wanted to show me where uh foley also
521
00:30:44,260 --> 00:30:48,220
tries to sleep where he slept before
wakes them up in the middle of the night
522
00:30:48,220 --> 00:30:53,160
only one of you guys are sleeping here
at a given time foley has dominated your
523
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:56,820
marriage for the most part i mean and
that's that's incredible that you've had
524
00:30:56,820 --> 00:30:59,780
to deal with that i gotta meet foley
where's he at he's in here
525
00:31:04,570 --> 00:31:05,570
Hi, buddy.
526
00:31:06,470 --> 00:31:09,870
Bring him out. Just to sit with me for a
little bit so I get to meet him a
527
00:31:09,870 --> 00:31:10,970
little bit up close and personal.
528
00:31:11,250 --> 00:31:12,310
Come on up here.
529
00:31:13,150 --> 00:31:14,510
Come on, sit next to me, guys.
530
00:31:15,150 --> 00:31:18,390
It's so great to meet him in a waking
state. I'll tell you that, you know?
531
00:31:18,670 --> 00:31:21,790
Because having met him in a non -waking
state was just terrifying.
532
00:31:22,450 --> 00:31:23,930
Let me see if you'll come to me.
533
00:31:25,170 --> 00:31:26,170
Hi.
534
00:31:29,550 --> 00:31:30,550
Hi.
535
00:31:31,510 --> 00:31:32,930
Thanks for letting me meet you, buddy.
536
00:31:33,830 --> 00:31:38,490
After spending time with Ruth and with
Foley, I got what I needed. It was time
537
00:31:38,490 --> 00:31:40,110
to go out and to give these guys some
homework.
538
00:31:40,350 --> 00:31:43,690
Now, the first thing is, I'd like you
guys to go pick up a special bed slash
539
00:31:43,690 --> 00:31:47,950
carrier. It's called a SleepyPod. That
way, he can sleep at night, and you guys
540
00:31:47,950 --> 00:31:51,630
can get a full night's sleep. That way,
we have more of a normal life. I want
541
00:31:51,630 --> 00:31:56,090
them to use a special carrier, which is
also a bed. He can sleep in it, and it
542
00:31:56,090 --> 00:31:57,230
becomes a safe haven.
543
00:31:57,820 --> 00:32:01,500
So the next thing is the concept of the
wake -a -bye. The wake -a -bye is I want
544
00:32:01,500 --> 00:32:05,080
Ruth and Joseph to write a small piece
of music, something nice and gentle,
545
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:10,000
using their talents as music people to
bring him back into the world in a
546
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:14,420
way. Now, about his waking hours. I'd
like you guys to get puzzle toys. When
547
00:32:14,420 --> 00:32:18,460
Foley is awake, we have to make his
waking times more valuable and challenge
548
00:32:18,460 --> 00:32:22,720
him. physically to the best of his
abilities. So I want them to design a
549
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:26,280
toy so that he has something to work on
without having to run around and get
550
00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:29,520
frustrated at the same time. I was
really disturbed by what I saw.
551
00:32:29,780 --> 00:32:33,000
And because of that, I'm going to bring
over a cat sleep specialist.
552
00:32:33,260 --> 00:32:36,600
You guys are going to get to have a
consult with somebody who can explain to
553
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:40,620
more of what you're dealing with.
Because right now, it's not just Foley
554
00:32:40,620 --> 00:32:42,360
keeping you awake at night. It's the
unknown.
555
00:32:42,620 --> 00:32:44,040
I will be back in a few weeks.
556
00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:47,160
Take care until then. It was really
wonderful meeting you.
557
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:51,860
We've tried so many things with Foley,
and we haven't been able to fix it. So
558
00:32:51,860 --> 00:32:55,740
I'm not quite sure that any of the fixes
will work.
559
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:59,340
This is just such a strange situation
that we're just not sure what kind of
560
00:32:59,340 --> 00:33:00,420
territory we're going into.
561
00:33:13,610 --> 00:33:17,830
I'm back in Austin to see Ruth, Joseph,
and their cat Foley. The last time I was
562
00:33:17,830 --> 00:33:21,330
here, Foley's night terrors were so
horrifying, they gave me nightmares.
563
00:33:21,710 --> 00:33:25,110
I watched the video homework, and I got
to see Foley safe and sound in his
564
00:33:25,110 --> 00:33:29,030
sleepy pod as opposed to crashing
headfirst onto the floor. We got
565
00:33:29,030 --> 00:33:35,130
sturdy now. He's sleeping in, not on.
He's absolutely 100 % safe. You could
566
00:33:35,130 --> 00:33:36,130
for anything more.
567
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:40,260
I also got to see Foley using his puzzle
rug, and that kind of play will help
568
00:33:40,260 --> 00:33:41,340
him get a more restful sleep.
569
00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:43,820
And I saw the sleep specialist came
over.
570
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:50,080
I can only hope that we have a medical
diagnosis of Foley's night terrors, so I
571
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:53,720
can focus on treating the behavioral
side effects that have torn apart his
572
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:54,720
family.
573
00:33:57,660 --> 00:33:59,380
Jackson, come in. We're in the music
room.
574
00:33:59,940 --> 00:34:00,940
Okay.
575
00:34:02,199 --> 00:34:08,460
Foley, baby kitty cat, time to wake up
from your nap. So when I walk in, Joseph
576
00:34:08,460 --> 00:34:11,420
and Ruth are playing the wake -a -bye,
the assignment that I gave them the last
577
00:34:11,420 --> 00:34:15,040
time I was here. And it was wonderful.
These guys have taken the homework
578
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:17,400
seriously, and they care about Foley so
much.
579
00:34:18,179 --> 00:34:20,139
It's so much fun.
580
00:34:21,159 --> 00:34:22,159
Yeah!
581
00:34:22,780 --> 00:34:26,440
That must have been the wake -a -bye,
yeah? That was the wake -a -bye. Cool.
582
00:34:26,620 --> 00:34:27,780
Well, homework check.
583
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:30,540
Onward. Onward. How have things been
here?
584
00:34:34,540 --> 00:34:36,699
Things have been a lot better. Yeah?
Yes.
585
00:34:36,940 --> 00:34:39,380
He's not flailing around. He's sleeping.
586
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:40,458
Oh, fantastic.
587
00:34:40,460 --> 00:34:46,360
Dr. Martin told us about this thing
called REM sleep disorder, which they
588
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:48,060
believe is what Foley has. Dr.
589
00:34:48,300 --> 00:34:52,000
Martin suggested that we give him
melatonin supplements each night, and
590
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:55,480
has not had a night terror since.
Really? Yeah.
591
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,700
Oh, my God. That.
592
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:00,400
It's so amazing.
593
00:35:01,100 --> 00:35:05,120
Melatonin is a natural sleep aid used to
help sleeplessness in both humans and
594
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:09,080
animals. I'm really intrigued by Dr.
Martin's recommendation to make sense
595
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:12,880
if melatonin helps you fall asleep and
helps you stay asleep, that it would
596
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:14,380
with Foley's sleep disorder.
597
00:35:14,660 --> 00:35:18,760
The biggest news from Dr. Martin is that
he believes that Foley may have had a
598
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:22,760
stroke. You know, that is something that
we haven't heard before. The mechanism
599
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:28,000
that makes you not move while you're
sleeping, Foley has had that damaged.
600
00:35:28,710 --> 00:35:31,950
So that's why he's acting out exactly
what he's doing in his dreams.
601
00:35:32,190 --> 00:35:36,010
Interestingly enough, the signs of
stroke in animals is pretty much the
602
00:35:36,010 --> 00:35:39,750
it is in humans. And this includes the
loss of motor skills as well as the loss
603
00:35:39,750 --> 00:35:43,650
of the ability to vocalize. And when you
think about it, Foley exhibited these
604
00:35:43,650 --> 00:35:48,390
symptoms in his wobbly gait. So now Ruth
and Joseph finally have answers to why
605
00:35:48,390 --> 00:35:52,170
these symptoms appeared in Foley. So how
are you doing together? How's your
606
00:35:52,170 --> 00:35:53,170
relationship?
607
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:57,780
Well, you know, working together with
Foley has been something, you know, like
608
00:35:57,780 --> 00:36:02,160
fun and bonding that, you know, yeah,
sleep, you know, that's extremely
609
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:05,520
important for everyone's health and
attitude towards each other.
610
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:10,780
Now, Foley hasn't had any episodes
whatsoever, and I'm not going to be
611
00:36:10,780 --> 00:36:14,700
about this. I'm sure that's going to
happen again. This is the beginning of a
612
00:36:14,700 --> 00:36:16,420
journey for them, not the end of it.
613
00:36:16,890 --> 00:36:21,490
I want to walk around a little bit and
see what he's been up to and see him. So
614
00:36:21,490 --> 00:36:22,448
let's get going.
615
00:36:22,450 --> 00:36:23,408
All right.
616
00:36:23,410 --> 00:36:26,170
Now it's time to take a tour of the
place and see what's changed.
617
00:36:26,750 --> 00:36:32,010
Talk about this was like a symbol of all
things terrible, right? I mean, this
618
00:36:32,010 --> 00:36:37,210
seat was where I saw him hurl himself
off, pretty much landed on his head.
619
00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:40,260
He's not on this much anymore, right?
620
00:36:40,500 --> 00:36:44,780
No. Whenever he's on that, he's awake.
He's looking out the window. He loves
621
00:36:44,780 --> 00:36:47,240
sitting in the window. He does. But he
doesn't sleep there.
622
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:49,060
Is he sleeping anywhere around here?
623
00:36:49,260 --> 00:36:53,800
He's sleeping on the puzzle rug. On the
puzzle rug. He spends a lot of time on
624
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:59,040
this rug. It's a total relief to see him
play here and sleep here. I couldn't be
625
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:00,560
happier. Let's head in the bedroom.
626
00:37:02,060 --> 00:37:06,440
He'll spend a good deal of time on his
new puzzle rug. He'll sleep there a lot,
627
00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:08,820
which is great because it's keeping him
on the floor.
628
00:37:09,260 --> 00:37:13,660
Okay. Now, talk about the bed.
629
00:37:14,300 --> 00:37:17,800
At any given point, one of you here, one
of you in the day bed.
630
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:19,200
Right. Now...
631
00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:23,900
Now there are two of us here and nobody
in the day bed. It's one of those things
632
00:37:23,900 --> 00:37:28,040
that people overlook. When you have a
problem that's this entrenched, that you
633
00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:30,440
wind up sleeping separately, it's just
unacceptable.
634
00:37:30,940 --> 00:37:34,760
You know, now that we can both sleep
here at night, it's just a much more
635
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:37,760
refreshing sleep for us. I'm so glad
that you guys took that part of the
636
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:38,760
homework seriously.
637
00:37:39,260 --> 00:37:43,200
Foley's journey has been pretty
remarkable right now, and I can't help
638
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:47,600
thinking about him and how much better
his life is, and here he comes, right on
639
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:48,600
cue.
640
00:37:48,710 --> 00:37:52,330
And the last time I was here, Foley was
having night terrors, and because of
641
00:37:52,330 --> 00:37:57,150
that, he was lethargic and shying away
from people. Today, he's a confident cat
642
00:37:57,150 --> 00:38:01,050
who walks into the room with his head
held high. He was able to walk in and
643
00:38:01,050 --> 00:38:04,470
relax. Look at that. See how he's
starting to rest a little bit?
644
00:38:05,330 --> 00:38:11,550
His ability to rest right now, to close
his eyes, is a sign of confidence. I can
645
00:38:11,550 --> 00:38:16,190
tell you where he's come and where we
need to get to with him. We've still got
646
00:38:16,190 --> 00:38:17,510
some work to do. All right?
647
00:38:18,010 --> 00:38:23,490
Foley has made amazing strides. At the
same time, the humans still have a lot
648
00:38:23,490 --> 00:38:25,910
work to do. And with that, I had to give
these guys some homework.
649
00:38:26,110 --> 00:38:28,890
We know now we're dealing with a stroke.
650
00:38:29,490 --> 00:38:34,230
Ruth and Joseph have got to become
students of stroke, not just about what
651
00:38:34,230 --> 00:38:39,710
causes it, how to rehab it, how to use
play and enrichment activities because
652
00:38:39,710 --> 00:38:42,050
won't be able to recover without their
help.
653
00:38:42,510 --> 00:38:46,170
Humans and animals have very similar
symptoms when it comes to stroke.
654
00:38:46,810 --> 00:38:51,710
So let's take those human rehab
approaches and bring them to him, okay?
655
00:38:52,630 --> 00:38:56,590
Now, what we did with the playmat,
that's rehab. That's getting his mind
656
00:38:56,590 --> 00:39:01,050
body working again the way a cat's good.
Take that as your starting point. What
657
00:39:01,050 --> 00:39:05,550
more can you do? I want Ruth and Joseph
to find new and creative ways to engage
658
00:39:05,550 --> 00:39:09,270
fully, things like the play rug, which
will help rehabilitate and stimulate
659
00:39:09,270 --> 00:39:13,440
mind and body. The next thing I want is
I want you guys to have... Date night,
660
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:20,100
please. You have no excuse in the world
to not move on. I want to give these
661
00:39:20,100 --> 00:39:23,520
guys their lives back, and I want them
to have rest. I want them to have time
662
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:27,440
together in order for them to feel
confident so that they can pass that on
663
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:32,340
Foley. On that note, you've got a lot of
work to do still. Even though we've
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been able to help Foley with a lot of
the sleep behavior, the stroke looks
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something that we can't do anything
about and that it could happen at any
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and just the thought of that.
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is terrifying.
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Guys, great work today.
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It was great to see you. Ruth and Joseph
have been really good students so far.
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I just don't want their fear of what if
to prevent them from pushing Foley into
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a positive place of recovery.
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I'll talk to you soon.
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Bye. Bye -bye.
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I watched their video homework.
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I got to see Foley getting his mobility
back, and I love that. I also saw Ruth
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and Joseph having date night. Date night
dinner.
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I love the fact that they're getting
their life back finally. Now, going into
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today, I can only hope that this
nightmare life they've all been living
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finally behind them.
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Hey, Justin. Hello, how are you?
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Man, it is good to be back here. I
absolutely find myself missing Austin
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terribly. Tell me something, guys.
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How are things going here?
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Bully did have another episode where he
actually fell off of the ottoman. We
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were able to kind of problem solve and
figure out, okay, why is he having
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episodes again?
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And it was that he wasn't getting the
full dose of melatonin. He wasn't
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it so much because he stopped eating all
of his food for a couple days like
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he'll do sometimes.
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I'm sure it'll happen off and on here
and there. Exactly. But, I mean, it's
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an all -day, everyday thing anymore.
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Was I surprised to hear that Foley had
another episode? Absolutely not. But I
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was happy to hear how Ruth and Joseph
are handling the episodes without
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constantly worrying and putting their
lives on hold. What else? The rehab is
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really working great with him, and his
mobility is actually getting a little
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better with that. Stop for a second and
realize that you guys saved his life.
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He deserves it.
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You know, this whole process, I think,
you know, he sort of saved us, too. You
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know, he's really brought us a lot
closer together. You know, we're helping
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heal him. He's healing us, too.
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00:41:41,470 --> 00:41:47,470
Now that this situation has been
resolved with Foley, we have the energy
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space to focus on our relationship now.
I think there's a lot more laughter and
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fun around here in general.
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So I saw in the video homework that you
guys went out on a date. Were you out
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there worrying about Foley? We weren't
out there worrying about Foley. We were
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out there just enjoying our time
together.
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Oh, sweet.
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Everything was wrapping up beautifully
with Ruth and Joseph. The problem was I
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hadn't seen Foley all day, so I wanted
to see him for myself.
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Oh, hello, my buddy boy.
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00:42:16,170 --> 00:42:17,930
Hello, my buddy boy.
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Oh, he looks so much better. Now, the
first time I got here, you want to talk
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about a nightmare. And it wasn't just
Foley's nightmare. It was Ruth's. It was
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Joseph's. And it was mine. We were all
powerless. And now we got the knowledge.
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And this little guy's got his life back.
He's sleeping.
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He's playing. And, man, that's music to
my ears.
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00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:39,060
You don't get any more severe.
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than Foley was, and you don't get the
kind of transformation every day that
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Foley has gone through. You can show
others anything is possible.
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The only thing I would ask of you is to
be ambassadors for others with
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cats that have had stroke because having
those answers is everything.
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I mean, if we can help somebody else
out, you know, who's going through this,
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mean, that would be really fulfilling.
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I couldn't leave without giving Ruth and
Joseph just one last piece of homework,
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and that was to share their knowledge of
strokes with other cat guardians who
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may be suffering through the same thing.
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00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:18,760
Jackson, I just want to thank you so
much for coming and helping Foley and
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00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:19,760
helping us.
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00:43:19,860 --> 00:43:20,759
I guess.
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I don't think we ever could have gotten
here on our own. Foley's life is so much
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better. We can have a happy, healthy
family now.
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And for that, we're ever grateful.
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