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I've been friends with Ingrid for 14
years. However, I no longer come and
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out with Ingrid because Milo terrorizes
everyone.
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Milo stalks. He'll sort of stand in the
entryway, and then when people go by,
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right when they're close enough, he hits
his wife.
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She wants to keep seeing her friends. We
need to have the Milo situation
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resolved. She's going to become Crazy
Cat Lady.
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Gus scratches me so bad that people at
work have asked me if I'm a cutter.
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Shirin is my daughter, but her cat Gus
is my problem child.
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The biggest complaint is his late -night
howling.
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Gus has got to change a habit or Shirin
and Gus are both going to be out.
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I'm Jackson Galaxy.
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I'm a musician by night and a cat
behaviorist by day.
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I've met cats with all kinds of
problems.
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But I've never met one I couldn't help.
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Oh, hello. In my career, I've worked
with thousands of cats one -on -one,
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analyzing their behaviors and retraining
them and their guardians.
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When relationships are at an end, I
don't have many more options than to
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leave. And cat guardians have reached
their emotional limit. Just get rid of
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her. I'm their last hope.
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Are you all right?
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Sorry, I don't know. Cats have nine
lives, but humans only have one.
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I'm on my way over to see Ingrid and her
cat Milo.
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Milo is so mean that even her best
friends refuse to come over to her house
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anymore. They have clearly stated that
it's either them or the cat, and they've
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asked me to perform an intervention.
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This is a first for me, but I'm going to
go over and see if I can help out.
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My name is Ingrid. My cat is Milo, and
he is an orange and white tabby.
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I'm Nikki, and I've been friends with
Ingrid for 14 years.
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I'm Annika.
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I've been neighbors with Ingrid for 13
years.
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and I can't stand her cat Milo.
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Milo terrorizes everyone.
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Monica and I got to the point with Milo
that we decided we had to stage an
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intervention because it's at the point
where it's really affecting Ingrid's
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social life.
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He's the nicest, sweetest cat in the
world with me. I don't understand why
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not like that with everybody.
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Milo stalks, pounces.
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Scratches, hisses, makes life not fun.
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Milo just rules the roost. He'll sort of
stand in the entryway, and then when
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people go by, right when they're close
enough, he hisses and swipes.
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He's sneezing. I'm just trying to play
with you.
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Ingrid can't have people over to the
house because it's too stressful.
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I just don't want to be here when he is.
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This can't go on.
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You feel like you're taking your life in
your hands and waiting for Milo to
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pounce. I don't want to leave him by
himself.
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I'll start to get wiggy. I'm not going
to give Milo up. He was a rescue. He's
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like my little buddy.
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Milo is the cat from hell. I think
Ingrid needs an intervention. She wants
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keep seeing her friends.
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Milo shouldn't win.
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Hi.
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Hello.
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Nice to meet you.
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Yeah. Thank you very much for coming. Of
course.
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So, tell me, now, I'm here for your cat?
Yes, my cat Milo is the best cat in the
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world to me.
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He doesn't like strangers coming into
his house. We're not strangers.
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I know, but he doesn't like anyone who
doesn't live here. He doesn't like
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who's not angry. I hate the stress
that's involved with my every single
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And I hate when she goes out of town and
she asks me to come up and take care of
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Milo. But you won't. I don't want to.
And it's not because I don't love her.
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It's because I don't want to put myself
in physical harm's way.
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We now do what's called the prisoner
exchange.
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I take his tray of dishes, leave them by
the door.
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She opens up the door. She slides the
empty tray out. Get out of here.
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It is literally like solitary
confinement. Open the little door.
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as she'll come in.
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I can't leave for more than a couple
days. You're basically a prisoner in
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right? Yes. You sound hostage.
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Like, I cannot stand that I can't go on
vacation.
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And it sucks.
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Let me cut to whatever chase I know,
which is...
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I'm here for an intervention.
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These guys contacted me beforehand.
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I haven't seen either one of them in
ages.
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Really?
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When was the last time the three of you
hung out here? Oh, God.
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Over a year. Are you kidding me? Tell me
where you're at right now.
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We're just not coming over. We're not
going to dance around it anymore.
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I mean, obviously, we're going to work
on Milo. That's the important thing. But
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equally important.
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is your guys buy -in meaning you don't
get to run away from this because your
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energy contributes i know are you guys
okay you're in we're in this is why i
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love my friends wonderful all right so
what i want to do get up walk around
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at the danger area so if you could just
take me from one place to another that
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would be great okay i wanted to go to
the places that ingrid identified as
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the most territorially problematic and
the first place she took me was upstairs
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to the loft area so this The loft area
is essentially Milo's room, is the way
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that I look at it. It was a guest room.
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No one can sleep on this mattress
anymore because it's now covered in pee.
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And it was all over the pillows and down
on the bed. Oh, I mean, he went to
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town, huh? Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah.
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There's a little bit of something coming
off that mattress. Yeah, a little bit?
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I was trying to be nice. I just came in
here.
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You can definitely smell pee coming off
that mattress. Did it happen?
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Over and over and over and over again?
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Yeah, when people were sleeping up here.
So anytime someone sleeps up here, it
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gets hit. This is now, what they said,
is Milo's space, because he peed on that
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mattress. He owns it now in a very
insecure way. Why Ingrid has it up there
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anymore is beyond me, but the entire
vibe upstairs is sad. It's like a ghost
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town. There's a weird dichotomy in here,
which is the bare mattress and all the
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lava lamps and all of the... Yeah. This
was party room? Yeah, it was definitely
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a party room.
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And now it's just the stinky room. Not
the ghost town. Yeah. I would really
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to turn this back into a guest room.
Right.
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Now I know how bad it gets.
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All right. Let's keep going, guys.
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Okay.
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I wanted to go and hang out with Milo.
Ingrid said that he was in her bedroom.
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Now, normally what I would probably do
is take Ingrid in there with me, but we
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know that Milo has absolutely no problem
with Ingrid whatsoever. So what I
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wanted to do was bring Annika and Nikki
in there with me because their fear, I
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think, helps trigger him just a little
bit. Plus, I want to see how far they'll
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go with him.
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Oh, hey, buddy. I hear the growls
already.
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Hey, buddy. You guys come on in here.
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There he goes.
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So I'm going to ask you guys to sit down
with me. Oh, God. Come on.
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Come here and have a seat with me.
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We've got Milo right here.
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Obviously, this won't be the most
pleasant part of our day, but it's
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for me. I've got to know how close you
can get to him. I'm going to have you go
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down first.
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Must we?
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Yes, we must.
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All right, so.
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I don't want to do that. Come on all the
way down.
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Now, can you untuck your hands for me?
Do I have to? This is me... I feel safer
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like this. ...assessing where your
challenge line is, okay?
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I wouldn't be here if you weren't here.
I avoid Milo. The fact that he... Oh,
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God!
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He made a bigger sound.
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Okay.
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No, no, no, none of that.
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She's got her face down here. You can
come down, too. Come on. Seriously?
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I am not... I heard him getting more...
I'm right here, and I heard him, too.
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That one moment where he growled and he
also hissed as well. And in that moment,
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not only did she jump back, Nikki jumped
back as well. At least I know where she
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stands right now. And she stands pretty
far away. Now, of course, the more you
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pull this energy here, Annika, you
actually will get attacked. Cleansing
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breaths. Cleansing breaths. I'm trying.
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You know, a lot went down in that
bedroom. I saw the fear level on Annika
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Nikki's bodies. We bring the energy of
fear to him. He will lash out. We can't
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do that to him.
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Hey, hey, hey.
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As always, I want to see at what point
that he says, you know what, I mean
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business, and I got to come after you. I
got to find out. How's it going, buddy?
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Hey, hey, hey.
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Come on, buddy.
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Hi.
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Want me to touch you? You want me to
touch you?
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Let me in.
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Come on.
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That's a good bite.
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That last time, he opened me up with his
claws and then he bit me. That bite
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meant business. He left marks in my
hand. These are fangs right here.
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Let's go on inside and give you guys
some homework, all right? Okay. Come on,
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let's go.
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Oh. He may not be good, man.
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I'm so sorry.
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Here's homework for you two. I wanted
Annika and Nikki to vest themselves into
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Milo's life. If these guys commit, I
think we can get what I'm looking for.
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What I need is for humans to be able to
come into this house and be a positive
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thing for Milo.
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So what I'm going to ask, one of the
meals during the day, you take off.
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And I want one of you guys to come in
and do the feeding.
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My heart starts to pound. I can feel the
tension.
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And I hate that I feel that way. He's a
little bitty cat, and he beats me down.
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The other thing I'd like you to do,
besides just putting food down, I'd also
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like you to bring him something fun.
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I'd like you to bring him what I would
call self -propelled toys.
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This is an example of actually a store
-bought puzzle toy. You put something in
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here so that he's going for it. And then
as it rolls across the floor, it
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becomes something that's working his
mind in a new way.
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And also, yeah, get rid of the mattress,
okay? It's time. Let's get rid of the
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mattress. It reminds him that it's this
place to go to that I own in this really
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negative way. I want you to reclaim that
party zone.
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I want that mattress gone.
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I want that pee mattress out of here. It
symbolizes too much bad things, and I
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want these guys to reclaim the
positivity that this house once had. I
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girls to be able to come in there and
have an activity.
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Food, toy, and that way they're not
focused on the fear. They're not going
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stare at him, lock eyes, and invite an
attack.
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I got one more thing for you, okay?
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You have got knowledge of Milo that
obviously nobody else has.
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I want you to write that up for these
two guys. I want Nikki and I want Anika
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be armed with the Milo manual.
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She brings something to his life in a
positive way, and she's got to share
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knowledge with Nikki and with Anika,
because that way they will gain empathy
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him, they'll get to know him, and
they'll get to approach him in a way of,
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can I work with him as opposed to get
him away from me? I'm not going to lie
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you. there's not just a lot of work to
do for Milo. There's a lot of work to do
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on you guys because you have been
traumatized by this cat, and I'm not
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belittling that.
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But the only way this is going to work
is for the fear to be replaced by
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something else. Okay. Right on.
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All right, guys. Great meeting you.
Thank you. Bye.
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This is not what I thought I'd be doing.
I didn't realize I'd be a part of the
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whole fix -up process.
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Ingrid is in danger of losing some of
her friendship.
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I know.
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This is the do -or -die moment for me.
Like, I don't know how else to fix Milo.
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I don't want to be a prisoner in my own
house anymore.
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I'm here for my second visit with Ingrid
and her cat Milo. Now, Milo's
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aggression is so off the charts that her
best friends, Annika and Nikki, haven't
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come over to her place in over a year.
So the homework I gave her last time was
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to help bring Milo's aggression down,
but also to start including her best
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friends in Milo's everyday rituals.
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Hello. Come in.
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So hopefully I'm walking in to done
homework and a less aggressive Milo.
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So, did Milo at some point eat Nikki? Is
that what's going on?
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Nikki is actually on vacation right now
someplace that I would love to be and
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hope to be. Soon enough. We'll give her
green for next time I'm here. For sure,
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for sure. All right, good. What else?
Tell me what else is going on. Feeding.
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Have been going well. I did everything
you said. I tried to keep the right
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attitude and do my cleansing breath and
not bring any of that, you know, fraidy
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cat energy in with me. After I'd done it
for a few minutes, he hissed. He turned
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around while he was eating, like, why
are you here? Leave me alone. Hiss. And
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was like, okay, I get it, Milo. I'm
going to let you be.
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You keep eating. I'll see you next time.
And I left.
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Okay. Okay. You know, as eager as I am
for him to be thick, I know that's not
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going to happen overnight.
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Ingrid is still pretty tentative about
having people come over here, share the
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space with Milo. When I come back here
for my last visit, I want people here.
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this is a hurdle we're going to have to
get over. Annika, we do know that you've
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still got to develop a little bit more
comfort about coming over. In the
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meantime, we also got to get people over
here, and we still got to work on your
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comfort level with that as well.
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So I want to go over your video homework
with you, okay?
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Okay. Let's do it.
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Grab it, grab it, grab it.
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You got it?
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On a really good note, I got to see
Ingrid finally get rid of the pee
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that thing that was upstairs that he had
peed on countless times. It stunk up
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there. She got rid of it, which is the
first step towards reclaiming it as a
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party room.
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Last time I was here as part of Ingrid's
homework, I asked her to make the Milo
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manual. The idea is you have all this
information about Milo. He really loves
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you because you've cultivated that
relationship.
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Now pay it forward by giving everybody a
manual about how to deal with him. She
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rocked that assignment.
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I asked her to make a homemade puzzle
toy for him, and she did. She did a
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job. She brought the toy in. He
responded to it. He played with it. And
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that also did was it helped Annika
change her energy towards him.
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Okay, don't be strapped, dude. Yeah,
just be happy, happy, joy, joy. It's
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I know it's hard to be. I had Annika and
Nikki coming over and feeding Milo.
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Annika seemed to be doing great. On the
bad side, Nikki is still really fearful,
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and Nikki is causing a lot of upset.
It's something I've got to work on with
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them. Lots of information in there for
me. Now what I want to do, get up and
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move around a little bit. Let's do it.
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We headed into the kitchen because it
was a great opportunity for me to tell
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Anika what she and Nikki were missing
when they came into the room to feed
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You remember the last time I was here,
they were using what they call the
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prisoner exchange program so that Milo
can eat and everyone else can be safe. I
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do want you to do something. You're
going to feed him, and then I'd like you
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sit. I don't want you to look at him. I
don't want you to do anything.
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I just want you to be in the room with
him on his level.
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I really wanted to take Annika deeper
into the process of feeding Milo, to
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past her fear and really get to bond
with him a little bit more. So what I
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her do was getting the food out, opening
the cans. In the meantime, I had Ingrid
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go get Milo and bring him to the
kitchen.
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Here we go.
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I'm just going to sit here.
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I felt really vulnerable. I'm in a
corner. I'm closed off. I can't really
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away if he lunges for me. And it was
touch and go for me for a little while.
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you breathing?
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Breathe better. Breathe better. And look
at me. Look over at me. He's not going
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to hurt you. I promise you he's not
going to hurt you. I wouldn't let that
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happen. She was petrified. This was a
rerun of the other time I was here when
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was asking her to put her hand down
under the bed. She was just as fearful,
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it gave me an accurate place to judge
where she is right now.
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I do feel like he's going to come after
me. He's not hissing, but he's doing
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that. You've got to breathe, and you're
staring at him.
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Look at me. Look at me. Let's have a
conversation. If I don't stare at him, I
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just can't tell if he's coming at me.
He's not going to. Okay. Trust me. Every
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part of me is praying that this works
because I want people to see the good
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that I have and not be scared of him and
to feel comfortable in my house.
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Breathe.
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He's going to walk right by you right
now. Is he? I hope so.
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Don't. Hey, breathe. Yeah, I am. Breathe
with me. Listen, I'm cool, right? Yeah,
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I know. He's not going to come at you.
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He's fine. He's walking by us right now.
You're breathing. You're doing
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fantastic. You're right in his face
right now, and nothing's happening.
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And there he goes.
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That was wonderful. That was wonderful.
You just did so beautifully. I made it!
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You did make it. That was so good.
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I'm thinking about how far you've come
in the last two weeks. Oh, I know. I
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know. As Milo walks by Annika and myself
and out towards the terrace, The sense
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of relief on her face, it just filled
the room.
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She knows Milo and her are not enemies.
They never were in the first place. She
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just brought fear to him. That is such a
big move from Milo and such a big step
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for Annika. This is the thing about
Milo. As I get to know him, I'm seeing a
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that is feeling hunted than anything
else. You show vulnerability.
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You don't do a hard stare. You don't
hover. You don't do any of that stuff.
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He's like, okay, I'm going to go on my
way here.
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That's exactly what we wanted to get.
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I want to give you guys some homework,
so come on, let's get off the floor and
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sit down, huh?
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Today, we showed him trust, and he
showed it right back to us, and fear
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the window.
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Honestly, you've got to be pretty happy.
You look pretty happy at the moment.
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Yeah, I am, I am. Yeah, I mean, you
measure your progress in things that you
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see, and what we just saw was pretty
outstanding.
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So in order to get us to the next place
with him, the first thing that we just
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did, let's bulk it out now.
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As he's eating, you sit down, do exactly
what you did, make yourself kind of
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small, read a magazine, do whatever.
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Not only are you going to pass it to
Nikki, but then the job is for the three
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you to pass it to other people who are
coming here as well. One thing that's
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important for Anika, fake it till you
make it. You've got to act as if you're
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calm, cool, and collected, and you've
got to act like you trust this cat.
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Remember, you bring trusting energy to
him, he'll bring it right back to you.
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that brings us to another thing, which
is, hold on a second.
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Should we look?
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Can we look? Can we look?
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Not yet. When can we look? Not yet. I'm
so excited. Now you can.
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Oh, my gosh.
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This here is one of my favorite cat
trees on the planet.
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Here's the assignment that I have for
you with that one. You need to pick the
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spot. It's got to be in a social space
where he can look at everybody, yet not
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be in the center of attention.
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And again, from that point, it's all up
to you.
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Now, next time I come back here.
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We're having a party.
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We're going to have people over here.
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Have Milo walk around the room, own the
room. We've got to get this boy out and
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around, feeling secure in his
environment, secure with other people. I
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with this homework that we've got in
place, we can make sure that happens.
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Okay, we'll do it. All right, guys.
Absolutely.
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Thanks so much, Jackson.
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Take care. I'll see you in a few weeks.
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I'm a little nervous about having people
over for our little party.
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Bringing people into the mix who haven't
been present for the Jackson stuff,
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that makes me a little bit more nervous.
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And now it's time for a kitty bit.
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Approximately what percent of your cat's
waking hours are spent on grooming?
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Is it A, 10%, B, 30%, or C, 56 %?
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The answer?
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After this break.
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Approximately what percent of your cat's
waking hours are spent on grooming?
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The answer is B, 30%. Your cat grooms
themselves to keep themselves scent
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but also licking is thought to produce a
calming effect as well.
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I'm here for my final visit with Ingrid
and her cat Milo. Now Milo was so
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vicious when I met him that her friends
were trying to stage a cat intervention.
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What I'm hoping to see today is a bunch
of friends hanging out in this party
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space and to see Milo sharing that
space.
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On the video homework, I did get to see
Annika teaching Nikki how to do the
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feeding. how to move past her fear.
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Switch it up how we view it. Exactly.
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I also got to see both Annika and Nikki
sitting down while Milo ate, reading the
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magazine. Those are huge moves in terms
of trust, both on the cat side and the
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human side.
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He's just going to go around.
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He's just going to go around.
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Finally, in the video homework, I also
got to see Milo starting to use that new
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catchery that we brought in last time.
That provides us a place of ownership, a
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place where he can be a lot more
confident and feel like he doesn't have
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defend himself. All the way around,
fantastic work.
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Look who's here, guys.
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Hey. How are you?
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Hi, good.
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Good to see you again.
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It's good to see you, too. So, how are
things, guys?
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There have been no attacks.
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Really? Yeah.
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Talk to me about it. And I walked her
through what we discussed.
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Like, don't assume that when he's
reacting to us that he's necessarily
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for the kill.
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Yay. You know, I do better if I think
somebody's the underdog or the victim.
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So I think just sort of having an
empathic look at him definitely helped.
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He's getting used to the fact that
people equal good things happening in
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life. We've got to let everybody know.
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Be empathetic towards him, and he will
pick up that lead.
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Here he is. Hey, fuzzy face.
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Hi. You coming out to say hi?
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Look at him. Come here.
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Look at you.
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This is a cat that would have no part of
social behavior at all. As a matter of
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fact, if you looked at him funny, he
would attack you.
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That level of change in a cat after a
couple weeks like this is absolutely
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unheard of.
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He's just going to play while we watch
him. I am so blown away right now.
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You smile like I haven't seen him in a
long time.
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I can't believe what I'm seeing. No, I
know.
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I'm actually really shocked. It's
surreal.
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It really is.
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That, to me, is the biggest indicator of
it's not us against him anymore.
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It's us with him. To see him be relaxed
and just like, ah, okay.
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At that moment, she had her friends
back.
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She had her cat back.
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The moment was absolutely priceless.
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So, look, let's get up. You've got to
get ready for people coming over here.
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Come on, let's get up. Let's do it.
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The biggest part of the homework since
the day I showed up here was having a
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party. So Ingrid and I go upstairs with
the party platters and everything, and
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she's got guests already up there.
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And hopefully we're going to have Milo
join us for just a little bit upstairs,
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but that's a big hopefully.
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Hey, Justin!
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Everyday thing.
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Yeah.
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Cocktails. All right. Grab those. Thank
you. Stop, Jenny.
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We've got lava lamp action.
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Creep.
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Thank you.
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Everybody, we have another person at the
party. I'm just saying.
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If Milo goes up to his food and he
starts to eat, that to me is mission
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accomplished.
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Cool.
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Yeah. That's fantastic.
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Milo. There you go.
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Look at him.
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He's just eating. He's settling in.
That's a really huge sign of trust on
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part. Milo's not being over -territorial
the way he used to. He's eating. For a
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cat, the biggest thing they're going to
be territorial about is their food
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supply. Literally everything I've seen
today has been huge for this cat. But
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talk about a nice cherry on top.
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That's the cute little kitty that I know
and love.
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Again, you look over to Ingrid, and man,
that woman's smile was so huge because
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she trusts her cat to be around people.
She trusts us to be around him. We have
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a huge measure of success.
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To Milo.
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To the intervention, to success, to your
hard work.
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Yes, and to you, Jackson.
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Thank you so very much. I would
definitely say that this journey has
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success. I mean, I'm really happy to see
my friends be more comfortable here.
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The biggest thing Jackson's done is
given us our friend back, and the ladies
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go back to the way things were, and Milo
can be a part of it.
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We're all a lot happier.
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I'm going to let myself out of here.
Enjoy yourself.
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Bye. Bye.
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Thank you so much. I feel a bigger sense
of freedom that I can go off and go on
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vacation and everybody can coexist in
harmony and good times.
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I'm on my way to see father and daughter
Fareed and Shereen. Shereen moved back
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with her dad after law school, and she
brought her bangle, Gus, with her. And
438
00:25:53,180 --> 00:25:57,540
Gus is being a terror. He is keeping
these guys up all night long. He's
439
00:25:57,540 --> 00:26:00,720
disrupting her dad's work. And Fareed is
fed up with it.
440
00:26:05,300 --> 00:26:08,520
This is not a good situation.
441
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:12,560
I'm going to go over to right now to see
if I can help control Gus.
442
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:15,400
I'm Shireen.
443
00:26:15,460 --> 00:26:17,540
I'm Farid, and Shireen is my daughter.
444
00:26:18,140 --> 00:26:22,440
About two years ago, I finished law
school and moved back in with my parents
445
00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:25,080
save some money, and I brought my cat,
Gus, with me.
446
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:28,140
Gus is a Bengal, and he's four years
old.
447
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:32,620
Shireen is my daughter, but her cat,
Gus, is my problem child.
448
00:26:34,220 --> 00:26:39,220
The biggest complaint with Gus is his
late -night meowing, and it's not just
449
00:26:39,220 --> 00:26:40,220
meowing, it's howling.
450
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:41,440
It wakes me up.
451
00:26:45,100 --> 00:26:46,260
He wants food.
452
00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:53,140
He just scratches me so bad that people
at work have asked me if I'm a cutter.
453
00:26:55,820 --> 00:27:00,880
I work from home, and when Shireen goes
to work, I'm the only one in the house.
454
00:27:01,260 --> 00:27:06,100
God comes over and starts meowing and
looking at me, and he demands treats.
455
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:09,440
I'm working. Please.
456
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:10,819
Do you mind?
457
00:27:10,820 --> 00:27:14,320
I lock him up, but then that doesn't
work either because he starts scratching
458
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:16,180
and meowing from behind the door.
459
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:20,040
I have a lot of work to do, and I don't
want to be a babysitter all day.
460
00:27:21,340 --> 00:27:26,200
You know, Sharon, this is getting too
much for me. You've got to find out an
461
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:27,200
alternative.
462
00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:32,900
I'm in a tough spot because I'm not
going to get rid of Gus.
463
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:37,860
I'm not ready to move out yet, and I
don't know what to do.
464
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:39,940
But we can't continue this way.
465
00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:52,960
Hi. How are you? Good.
466
00:27:53,220 --> 00:27:54,400
I'm Jackson. Shireen.
467
00:27:54,620 --> 00:27:56,720
Shireen, good to meet you. You too.
Thanks for coming.
468
00:27:56,940 --> 00:27:57,940
Oh, absolutely.
469
00:27:58,780 --> 00:28:00,800
So, guys, tell me about God.
470
00:28:01,180 --> 00:28:05,920
I guess it just has some behavioral
issues. Okay. At night, he keeps us up.
471
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:11,240
comes out about 2, 3 in the morning,
does some howling, caterwauling,
472
00:28:11,700 --> 00:28:16,000
If you've never had a Bengal before,
from the kind of meowing that you're
473
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:19,180
hearing to that level of activity,
that's who they are.
474
00:28:19,380 --> 00:28:23,680
A Bengal is a cross between a domestic
feline and an Asian leopard cat, so of
475
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:27,600
course those wild behaviors like
caterwauling are still built into this
476
00:28:28,590 --> 00:28:33,410
Catterwalling is a moan, and it can get
very, very loud. So if he has no
477
00:28:33,410 --> 00:28:36,890
creative output during the day, that's
why the caterwalling, I think, is coming
478
00:28:36,890 --> 00:28:37,910
out as loud as it is.
479
00:28:39,290 --> 00:28:45,970
He gets pretty aggressive, and I have
the scars to prove it. She's covered
480
00:28:45,970 --> 00:28:50,530
in scratches and bite marks. This cat is
tearing her up, and that really worries
481
00:28:50,530 --> 00:28:56,850
me. And while Shirin is not at home, I
am the one who is babysitting, and he is
482
00:28:56,850 --> 00:29:00,660
demanding. How much of your day is spent
dealing with Gus?
483
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:04,480
Probably around three and a half to four
hours.
484
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:05,840
What?
485
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:11,200
Get out of here. Yep. Four hours is
pretty excessive. I can't even believe
486
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:15,560
Fareed has put up with Gus for this
long. Do you feel that your dad's
487
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:16,519
is running out?
488
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:19,420
Yes. Are you in the boat where you got
to get out of here?
489
00:29:19,820 --> 00:29:20,820
Yeah.
490
00:29:21,140 --> 00:29:22,140
Really? Yeah.
491
00:29:22,180 --> 00:29:25,440
And it's really not ideal for me to
leave at this.
492
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:30,560
point. Anything I could afford is much
smaller than this house, so I'm
493
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:32,700
that Gus is just not going to have
enough room.
494
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:34,820
I think that your concerns are really
valid.
495
00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:39,860
What's our window of opportunity in
terms of Sweeney having to move out?
496
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:46,080
Well, Jackson, I'll tell you, the
maximum that I could probably send is
497
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:47,080
two months.
498
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:51,010
Wow. Okay. All right. Hey, listen, at
least I know what I'm working with. The
499
00:29:51,010 --> 00:29:55,870
tension between Fareed and Shereen has
reached a boiling point. So if I can't
500
00:29:55,870 --> 00:30:01,290
drastically change Gus's behavior soon,
Gus and Shereen better pack their bags.
501
00:30:01,410 --> 00:30:04,690
Now we're going to go start looking
around, all right? Sure. All right,
502
00:30:04,690 --> 00:30:05,690
go.
503
00:30:06,130 --> 00:30:09,630
So we head into the office, and this is
where Fareed says that he's the most fed
504
00:30:09,630 --> 00:30:14,390
up. I usually come and sit here, and he
jumps up here.
505
00:30:14,670 --> 00:30:19,570
Okay. And starts meowing and demanding
food.
506
00:30:19,810 --> 00:30:21,390
He'll walk on the keyboard.
507
00:30:21,730 --> 00:30:27,150
God demands treats. He comes and jumps
on my desk and throws the papers down.
508
00:30:27,570 --> 00:30:29,330
What do you do to get him away from you?
509
00:30:30,410 --> 00:30:35,070
Snacks. If you notice, I've got snacks
everywhere here.
510
00:30:35,350 --> 00:30:37,070
I've got snacks on that drawer.
511
00:30:37,270 --> 00:30:39,410
Could you please, let's go around and
collect the treat.
512
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:43,840
I asked him, where are all the treats in
this room? And it was like an Easter
513
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:45,880
egg hunt. I mean, he's pulling them out
of everywhere.
514
00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:48,120
Four bags in this bedroom alone.
515
00:30:48,420 --> 00:30:51,940
In order for it to get him down here, I
put a couple of treats here. Then he
516
00:30:51,940 --> 00:30:52,819
goes out.
517
00:30:52,820 --> 00:30:54,240
Let's keep moving. Come on. All right.
518
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:59,300
So then we head outside, and then I
notice that Shereen has actually built a
519
00:30:59,300 --> 00:31:00,300
catio for Gus.
520
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:05,160
The only thing I didn't like about the
catio is that it was full of stuff.
521
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:08,600
was nowhere for Gus to actually navigate
if he wanted to.
522
00:31:09,690 --> 00:31:10,690
Hi.
523
00:31:11,410 --> 00:31:13,170
Oh, hi, little man.
524
00:31:15,790 --> 00:31:22,010
Is he normally really not happy with
strangers? He does not like strangers.
525
00:31:22,290 --> 00:31:27,450
His eyes are fully dilated right now,
and he's even got the quivering ears.
526
00:31:28,370 --> 00:31:30,050
Gus was really scared.
527
00:31:30,330 --> 00:31:33,730
Now, I hate to make generalizations, but
the Bengals that I know are usually
528
00:31:33,730 --> 00:31:34,750
much more outgoing.
529
00:31:35,090 --> 00:31:37,990
Now, I've got to get him out of this
cubby to see what I'm dealing with.
530
00:31:38,270 --> 00:31:40,410
If I can't do that, we got bigger
problems.
531
00:31:41,570 --> 00:31:42,570
Hi.
532
00:31:42,990 --> 00:31:44,030
Can you come up?
533
00:31:44,650 --> 00:31:45,650
What is that?
534
00:31:46,690 --> 00:31:47,690
Hey.
535
00:31:48,710 --> 00:31:49,710
Come on, Guggy.
536
00:31:52,330 --> 00:31:53,410
Where are you going?
537
00:31:56,690 --> 00:31:57,690
Good boy.
538
00:31:59,610 --> 00:32:01,650
He's not being aggressive.
539
00:32:04,450 --> 00:32:05,510
And then...
540
00:32:05,740 --> 00:32:07,220
The most amazing thing happened.
541
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:11,920
Gus came out of hiding. I had Gus
letting me pet him and closing his eyes.
542
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:12,920
boy.
543
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:19,140
I was really surprised and impressed
with Jackson's ability to connect with
544
00:32:19,820 --> 00:32:24,100
All right, guys. So, obviously, walking
around today, we have a Bengal.
545
00:32:24,380 --> 00:32:29,340
He has energy to spirit, so we have to
get him going in a positive way. First
546
00:32:29,340 --> 00:32:30,700
thing I've got, this.
547
00:32:31,210 --> 00:32:32,210
is Bengal Boot Camp.
548
00:32:32,390 --> 00:32:38,190
Okay. And hats for you as well. I want
you to design a course for him. All
549
00:32:38,190 --> 00:32:39,530
right? It's a boot camp course.
550
00:32:39,790 --> 00:32:44,190
You don't want him just moving around,
but up and down and have a goal in mind.
551
00:32:44,370 --> 00:32:47,150
Also, I want him to have two workouts
per day.
552
00:32:47,390 --> 00:32:51,050
One you're going to take care of during
the daytime and one when you get home at
553
00:32:51,050 --> 00:32:55,010
night. Bengal Boot Camp is a way of
taking that energy and constructively
554
00:32:55,010 --> 00:32:58,390
it. I mean, you can't help the fact that
you got a Bengal. Remember to hold
555
00:32:58,390 --> 00:32:59,410
those treats back.
556
00:32:59,930 --> 00:33:03,990
He shouldn't get treats any other time
of the day than when he's working for
557
00:33:03,990 --> 00:33:07,350
guys. I want Fareed to remember that if
you're going to dish out treats, the
558
00:33:07,350 --> 00:33:11,190
only time you're going to do it is when
he's actually earning his keep. The next
559
00:33:11,190 --> 00:33:13,750
thing, the catio itself, it's wonderful.
560
00:33:14,010 --> 00:33:15,790
Thank you. It's also packed.
561
00:33:16,130 --> 00:33:19,590
So what I'd like you to do, I'd like to
get that cat tree out of there. Okay.
562
00:33:19,670 --> 00:33:24,810
And I'd like to replace the cat tree
with shelves. Basically, you're allowing
563
00:33:24,810 --> 00:33:28,550
exercise. I want these guys to put some
shelves in that catio, and that'll
564
00:33:28,550 --> 00:33:32,090
encourage Gus to move around a little
bit. I want to see Gus having his energy
565
00:33:32,090 --> 00:33:35,490
drained out in an appropriate way. I
want to see him moving through the catio
566
00:33:35,490 --> 00:33:39,070
itself. I will be back in a few weeks.
Any questions, you call me, all right?
567
00:33:39,270 --> 00:33:43,490
Dealing with this situation with Gus is
already past its time. I am really
568
00:33:43,490 --> 00:33:49,670
frustrated and very doubtful if Gus is
going to come through. He may end up
569
00:33:49,670 --> 00:33:51,130
getting the boots rather than the boot
camp.
570
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:08,860
I'm here for my second visit with father
and daughter Fareed and Shereen and
571
00:34:08,860 --> 00:34:09,980
Shereen's cat Gus.
572
00:34:10,260 --> 00:34:13,320
The last time I was here I met a Bengal
who was completely out of control.
573
00:34:14,500 --> 00:34:19,219
Running around the house keeping Fareed
from doing his work. I'm working,
574
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:23,699
please. Fareed had said, you know what,
this cat's halfway out the door and so
575
00:34:23,699 --> 00:34:24,699
was his daughter.
576
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:28,679
So I watched their video homework and I
saw Fareed and Shereen working together
577
00:34:28,679 --> 00:34:30,980
building Bengal boot camp. Good stuff.
578
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:36,219
Also, I saw them running Gus through
Bengal Boot Camp, and that's really
579
00:34:36,219 --> 00:34:40,239
to help. One thing I didn't like was
seeing Gus attack Shireen. Let me tell
580
00:34:40,260 --> 00:34:41,260
that's not cool.
581
00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:43,960
Going in today, I'm not sure what to
expect.
582
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:47,659
Hi, Justin. How are you? Good. Come on
in.
583
00:34:47,940 --> 00:34:48,779
How are you doing?
584
00:34:48,780 --> 00:34:49,960
Good. Good.
585
00:34:50,780 --> 00:34:52,659
So, tell me how things are going here.
586
00:34:53,060 --> 00:34:54,060
How's Gus doing?
587
00:34:55,179 --> 00:34:59,860
Gus is doing much better. The cutting
the treats out made an immediate
588
00:34:59,860 --> 00:35:01,840
difference. So, you're giving him
treats.
589
00:35:02,270 --> 00:35:07,430
Only when he's working for it now. It
has given him more positive energy.
590
00:35:07,850 --> 00:35:11,270
What does that mean for you and your
work? I mean, he's seeing a little bit
591
00:35:11,270 --> 00:35:17,630
relief? Oh, it's not 100%, but from, you
know, three and a half hours, it's down
592
00:35:17,630 --> 00:35:18,990
to about an hour a day.
593
00:35:19,350 --> 00:35:21,050
Hey, hey, hey.
594
00:35:21,370 --> 00:35:22,550
Very nice, right?
595
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:27,440
My relationship with Gus has got so much
better since boot camp exercises,
596
00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:33,100
cutting back on the treats. Also, I
think remodeling the catio has helped
597
00:35:33,100 --> 00:35:38,460
have a place to use his energy, and he
has more space out there now, so I think
598
00:35:38,460 --> 00:35:39,319
it's helped.
599
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:43,620
He does still do the meow, caterwauling
in the middle of the night.
600
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:48,000
He wakes me up, and next day I kind of
feel like I didn't get a good night's
601
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:49,580
sleep. That's not good.
602
00:35:50,330 --> 00:35:54,630
I think Bengal boot camp is a great
success. His energy level is being
603
00:35:54,630 --> 00:35:58,390
controlled a lot better. But one of the
things they were complaining about was
604
00:35:58,390 --> 00:36:02,270
that every night, Gus would be
caterwauling at 2 o 'clock in the
605
00:36:02,270 --> 00:36:03,650
still got a lot of work left to do on
that.
606
00:36:04,350 --> 00:36:09,170
Still, he is quite interruptive.
Hopefully, he'll make some major
607
00:36:09,710 --> 00:36:13,350
Fareed is still really unhappy with Gus
and Shereen. As far as I'm concerned,
608
00:36:13,610 --> 00:36:15,210
one slip up, she's still out the door.
609
00:36:15,790 --> 00:36:17,710
Let's get up and walk around a little
bit. Okay. Come on.
610
00:36:18,170 --> 00:36:21,750
it was time to practice bengal boot camp
last time i was here i introduced
611
00:36:21,750 --> 00:36:26,130
bengal boot camp because it's really
important that gus gets exercise the
612
00:36:26,130 --> 00:36:30,530
needs that in a big way and even though
we had made amazing strides i didn't
613
00:36:30,530 --> 00:36:34,090
want to push him too much so i gave
shireen a harness and a leash so she
614
00:36:34,090 --> 00:36:37,370
guide him through the course all right
guys so the first thing that i want to
615
00:36:37,370 --> 00:36:42,230
see is Cube to tube to cube out and back
around. I want to see him go through
616
00:36:42,230 --> 00:36:47,710
it. And a little bit of the up -down on
the ramp. So let's let him go and get
617
00:36:47,710 --> 00:36:49,130
him moving through this thing. Okay.
618
00:36:49,810 --> 00:36:52,430
Come on, Gusby. Oh, look. Just through
the tube.
619
00:36:52,670 --> 00:36:54,290
Cube to the tube to the cube.
620
00:36:54,750 --> 00:36:58,730
Wonderful. Now let's take Gus up and
over the ramp, please.
621
00:36:59,090 --> 00:37:00,069
Go, Gus.
622
00:37:00,070 --> 00:37:01,070
Go, Gus.
623
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:08,180
Now, obviously, he's not that crazy
about the ramp. Gus hid behind the
624
00:37:08,180 --> 00:37:11,920
and I was afraid that I had lost him
completely. So it was really important
625
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:15,320
me to show Fareed that Bengal Boot Camp
was something that Gus could totally
626
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:16,320
excel at.
627
00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:21,080
Let's keep tempting him forward. Tempt
him. Come on, Gus. Come on, buddy.
628
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:22,780
Yeah. Come on, Gus.
629
00:37:25,740 --> 00:37:27,120
Over the top. All right.
630
00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:28,320
Come on. Yeah.
631
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:29,760
Good boy.
632
00:37:33,650 --> 00:37:34,650
Right, Mama?
633
00:37:36,310 --> 00:37:38,330
There you go. Good boy.
634
00:37:38,530 --> 00:37:39,530
Very nice.
635
00:37:39,670 --> 00:37:41,050
I love it. Great job.
636
00:37:41,510 --> 00:37:45,530
That's what I wanted. I wanted this cat
to show confidence, but we're still sort
637
00:37:45,530 --> 00:37:48,410
of halfway there. I mean, you've got to
remember, you're dealing with a Bengal.
638
00:37:48,570 --> 00:37:52,390
These guys have high energetic needs,
and you've got to be working with them,
639
00:37:52,390 --> 00:37:53,610
they're going to be working against you.
640
00:37:54,110 --> 00:37:55,550
So, let's get to your homework.
641
00:37:56,410 --> 00:37:59,210
Now, first thing, we have the 2 o 'clock
in the morning.
642
00:38:00,290 --> 00:38:04,070
Catterwalling. Even though it's come
down a lot, and I think it's because of
643
00:38:04,070 --> 00:38:07,910
activities you've given him, we've got
to step it up. So we're going to have,
644
00:38:08,090 --> 00:38:10,590
Fareed, you're going to be doing the
catter size.
645
00:38:10,830 --> 00:38:15,750
That's the Bengal boot camp. So I want
your catter size to be really focused on
646
00:38:15,750 --> 00:38:19,930
the catio. I want you to lead him up the
shelves and really just get him moving.
647
00:38:20,030 --> 00:38:21,330
And then, done.
648
00:38:21,830 --> 00:38:22,830
You guys go to sleep.
649
00:38:22,990 --> 00:38:26,570
Now, if he doesn't sleep through the
night after that, I have another idea.
650
00:38:26,570 --> 00:38:29,990
like for you to get an automatic feeder.
That, I think, is going to really help
651
00:38:29,990 --> 00:38:30,990
you a lot. Okay.
652
00:38:31,190 --> 00:38:35,790
If the next time I come back, Fareed and
Shereen have committed to a structured
653
00:38:35,790 --> 00:38:39,770
life, that things happen at the same
time every day, and he's getting fed on
654
00:38:39,770 --> 00:38:44,150
regular basis with the automated feeder,
I really think that we can ring Gus
655
00:38:44,150 --> 00:38:46,410
into a balanced life. That's what I'm
aiming for.
656
00:38:46,650 --> 00:38:48,370
Now, the last thing, Fareed.
657
00:38:48,620 --> 00:38:53,260
Gus still needs that place to sit on in
your office. So here is your Bengal
658
00:38:53,260 --> 00:38:57,600
balcony. This Bengal balcony goes in the
window. So after Bengal Boot Camp,
659
00:38:57,780 --> 00:39:01,240
he'll come in to share the space with
you. That's my hope, anyway. So that's
660
00:39:01,240 --> 00:39:05,620
you. If you have any questions, you let
me know. Give me a call. Okay. A couple
661
00:39:05,620 --> 00:39:08,160
weeks. I'll see you guys, all right?
Thank you. All right, you're welcome.
662
00:39:08,500 --> 00:39:14,540
Gus has got to turn around and change
his habits, or
663
00:39:14,540 --> 00:39:17,760
Shireen and Gus are both going to be
out.
664
00:39:18,860 --> 00:39:22,520
I'm not ready to move out yet, so
hopefully this is going to work.
665
00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:29,360
I'm here for my final visit with Fareed,
Shereen, and her cat, Gus.
666
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:33,800
So I watched their video homework, and I
got to see Fareed keeping up with
667
00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:37,940
Bengal boot camp, and I got to see Gus
chilling out on his Bengal balcony
668
00:39:37,940 --> 00:39:42,320
instead of terrorizing Fareed. And I saw
Shereen setting up the automatic
669
00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:46,220
feeder, so hopefully Gus isn't driving
everybody crazy for food in the middle
670
00:39:46,220 --> 00:39:47,058
the night.
671
00:39:47,060 --> 00:39:51,240
I'm going in there today hoping that Gus
is a lot calmer and that both Gus and
672
00:39:51,240 --> 00:39:55,280
Shereen have a place to live. Hi,
Jackson. Hey, Shereen. Hello, Jackson.
673
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:56,640
you? I'm great. Good to see you.
674
00:39:57,500 --> 00:39:59,680
So, how are things, guys?
675
00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:05,220
Excellent. Excellent. Couldn't be
better.
676
00:40:05,420 --> 00:40:07,460
Couldn't be better. Now, that's what I
want to hear.
677
00:40:07,720 --> 00:40:08,720
What's going on here?
678
00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:10,480
Gus is a lot mellower.
679
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:16,940
In general, calmer. He doesn't have that
hyper -anxious energy anymore.
680
00:40:18,540 --> 00:40:19,600
That's incredible.
681
00:40:20,020 --> 00:40:24,380
I think a major thing was adding the
exercise between the boot camp and the
682
00:40:24,380 --> 00:40:29,720
cardio, and that, with cutting out the
snacks, immediately calmed him down.
683
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:30,920
That's a huge deal.
684
00:40:31,180 --> 00:40:37,620
So, Fred, the first time I met you, Gus
was ruling your life. We were talking
685
00:40:37,620 --> 00:40:39,040
about three, four hours a day.
686
00:40:40,220 --> 00:40:41,440
I'm working, please.
687
00:40:41,860 --> 00:40:42,860
Where is it now?
688
00:40:44,860 --> 00:40:49,400
Well, I've got to tell you, it's
probably down to 10, 15 minutes.
689
00:40:49,780 --> 00:40:51,160
10 to 15 minutes?
690
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:53,420
Amazing. Perfect.
691
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:58,600
Yes. Perfect. The vibe of the house has
really changed. It's not tense now. With
692
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:02,720
the automatic feeder in place, are you
getting a little more rest? No problems.
693
00:41:02,900 --> 00:41:05,340
It worked great. No scratches. No
scratches.
694
00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:07,000
That's what I like to see.
695
00:41:07,700 --> 00:41:08,700
Fantastic.
696
00:41:09,180 --> 00:41:13,460
No longer is Gus driving everyone insane
during the day, but the best thing is
697
00:41:13,460 --> 00:41:17,820
at night now, no cat are walling,
Fareed's not getting woken up in the
698
00:41:17,820 --> 00:41:21,920
the night, and Shereen is not getting
bit and scratched by her cat who wants
699
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:26,920
food. So what I really want to do is see
Gus in his catio, moving around a
700
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:29,760
little bit, see if that's working, okay?
Okay. So let's go take care of that.
701
00:41:29,820 --> 00:41:33,080
All right. Now, in order for me to leave
here today and feel good about Gus, I
702
00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:36,580
really need to see him work in this
catio for all he's worth, getting his
703
00:41:36,580 --> 00:41:38,740
exercise out. I needed to see it.
704
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:40,118
Come on, Goofy.
705
00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:41,540
Come on.
706
00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:46,100
Come on, look over here.
707
00:41:52,940 --> 00:41:54,120
All right, Goof, come on.
708
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:55,640
Come on, Goofy.
709
00:41:58,980 --> 00:41:59,980
Come on.
710
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:01,160
Oh, nice.
711
00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:02,540
That's a good cat.
712
00:42:03,240 --> 00:42:04,240
All right, Shereen.
713
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:05,880
No way you're going to have all the fun
in there.
714
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:09,220
It's my turn. I'm going to let you out.
All right. I'm going to jump in.
715
00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:10,760
Bye, Goosey.
716
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:15,120
I want to get into the catio myself and
get him up to that last shelf myself
717
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:18,980
just to see him moving around in that
catio with confidence. This is one of
718
00:42:18,980 --> 00:42:23,740
huge keys, I think, to calming Gus down
and getting that Bengal energy out.
719
00:42:24,500 --> 00:42:25,500
Come on.
720
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:32,000
Come on, Gus.
721
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:34,520
Come on.
722
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:37,000
Come on, Gus.
723
00:42:38,460 --> 00:42:39,480
Come on, Gus.
724
00:42:43,540 --> 00:42:45,020
Hey, good boy.
725
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:46,480
Good boy.
726
00:42:46,860 --> 00:42:47,860
Good job.
727
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:51,340
He is using these shelves like a champ.
Good work.
728
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:56,080
When I first met Gus, Gus was skittish
and hiding from everybody and being
729
00:42:56,080 --> 00:43:01,500
antisocial. Watching Gus succeed today
in doing his catersize in the catio, I
730
00:43:01,500 --> 00:43:05,300
know that he's not going to be keeping
Shireen up at night, and I know Fareed
731
00:43:05,300 --> 00:43:07,560
going to get his work done, and I could
call it a day.
732
00:43:07,780 --> 00:43:13,220
So now the question is, Fareed, can
Shireen stay? Can Gus stay? Are they
733
00:43:13,220 --> 00:43:14,220
welcome here?
734
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:18,960
Yes, they are.
735
00:43:19,240 --> 00:43:22,600
They're very welcome. They can stay as
long as they wish. Nice.
736
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:27,300
There we go. Thank you so much. Thank
you. Because now I can leave here with a
737
00:43:27,300 --> 00:43:28,058
little bit of peace.
738
00:43:28,060 --> 00:43:33,900
Gus was a source of annoyance, and now
he's a nice person. He calms me down,
739
00:43:33,900 --> 00:43:39,300
I enjoy having him. It's really nice to
have a stress -free relationship with my
740
00:43:39,300 --> 00:43:43,880
dad, and Gus is happier now, too. So
Jackson helped us all so much.
741
00:43:44,260 --> 00:43:45,420
Thank you, Jackson.
64966
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