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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:03,940 Achilles is extremely aggressive. 2 00:00:04,700 --> 00:00:10,420 He likes to attack. I feel like he's a demon. 3 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:14,440 And there's nothing that's going to stop him. 4 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:19,080 Maybe I should pack my bags and get my own place. 5 00:00:21,660 --> 00:00:25,460 We have two cats, Chompy and Bitten, and they're both a little crazy. 6 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:28,800 I've never seen them get along. Ever. 7 00:00:30,810 --> 00:00:32,870 It was like a creepy stalker. 8 00:00:34,570 --> 00:00:37,330 My main concern is about our daughter's safety. 9 00:00:37,570 --> 00:00:39,710 You know, the cats, they're just too crazy. 10 00:00:40,350 --> 00:00:43,050 If she got clawed by one of the cats, they'd be done. 11 00:00:49,150 --> 00:00:50,450 I'm Jackson Galaxy. 12 00:00:50,690 --> 00:00:54,130 I'm a musician by night and a cat behaviorist by day. 13 00:00:54,950 --> 00:00:57,410 I've met cats with all kinds of problems. 14 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:04,000 But I've never met one I couldn't help. 15 00:01:04,300 --> 00:01:08,840 Oh, hello. In my career, I've worked with thousands of cats one -on -one, 16 00:01:08,900 --> 00:01:12,880 analyzing their behaviors and retraining them and their guardians. 17 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:17,820 When relationships are at an end, I don't have many more options than to 18 00:01:17,820 --> 00:01:21,660 leave. And cat guardians have reached their emotional limit. Just get rid of 19 00:01:21,660 --> 00:01:23,380 her. I'm their last hope. 20 00:01:26,960 --> 00:01:29,100 Are you all right? 21 00:01:29,420 --> 00:01:33,780 Sorry, I don't know. Cats have nine lives, but humans only have one. 22 00:01:34,420 --> 00:01:35,420 Whoa! 23 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:40,520 Ow! 24 00:01:51,340 --> 00:01:55,320 I'm going over to Amy's house right now. Her cat Achilles is so aggressive. 25 00:01:55,790 --> 00:01:58,730 that her boyfriend Mike's got one foot out the door right now, and I don't 26 00:01:58,730 --> 00:02:00,150 him. I've seen that cat in action. 27 00:02:00,370 --> 00:02:03,990 I'm going over right now to see if I can restore some peace to this house. 28 00:02:05,550 --> 00:02:08,870 I'm Amy. I'm a pediatric nurse. I'm Mike. I work at UCLA. 29 00:02:09,250 --> 00:02:12,750 We've been dating for a little over a year. And we've lived together for eight 30 00:02:12,750 --> 00:02:17,130 months. Achilles' mom had kittens, and my best friend wanted to get the kittens 31 00:02:17,130 --> 00:02:19,710 away, and she gave me Achilles. 32 00:02:20,010 --> 00:02:24,230 He'd always been scratching me, and I thought that's what cats do, but he 33 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:27,080 Probably six months old when he just attacked. 34 00:02:28,100 --> 00:02:29,940 He is extremely aggressive. 35 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:34,380 He likes to attack unprovoked. 36 00:02:36,220 --> 00:02:38,620 I feel like he's a demon. 37 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:43,320 I feel like there's something in there. 38 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:44,659 It's okay. 39 00:02:44,660 --> 00:02:46,060 You need to go in the bedroom. 40 00:02:52,940 --> 00:02:55,040 I feel like I should get rid of the cat, but I can't. 41 00:02:55,500 --> 00:02:58,620 Achilles and I have been through boyfriends. We've been through sick 42 00:02:58,780 --> 00:03:03,080 He's been there for me. I can't give up on him. It just frustrates me, and I 43 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:06,280 start thinking, well, why do we have a cat that's just going to torture us? 44 00:03:07,980 --> 00:03:10,680 I have lost a lot of boyfriends over Achilles. 45 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:14,900 Mike is the first guy I've ever felt this way about. I don't want to lose 46 00:03:14,900 --> 00:03:16,780 another boyfriend because of Achilles. 47 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:18,600 Are you okay? 48 00:03:19,420 --> 00:03:20,420 No, we're not okay? 49 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:27,100 I'll pack my bags and I'll get ready to leave. Amy will be really upset. 50 00:03:27,580 --> 00:03:31,100 I'll be really upset. I said things like, you're not helping us. This is 51 00:03:31,100 --> 00:03:33,420 we're doing wrong. We need to change these behaviors. 52 00:03:34,500 --> 00:03:39,100 And as I was pleading with Mike over tears, the cat attacked me. 53 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:41,780 Mid -fighting for him. 54 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:43,220 And I just lost it. 55 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:46,580 Maybe it's better if I just didn't live here. 56 00:03:48,420 --> 00:03:50,160 I don't want Mike to move out. 57 00:03:50,830 --> 00:03:56,610 I want to fix Kelly's because Jackson is our only hope so we can save our 58 00:03:56,610 --> 00:03:57,610 relationship. 59 00:04:03,470 --> 00:04:04,890 Hey. Hey, Mike. 60 00:04:05,190 --> 00:04:08,570 What's up, Mike? Amy. Hey, Amy. How are you guys doing? Thanks for coming. 61 00:04:08,850 --> 00:04:10,030 Of course. Of course. 62 00:04:10,590 --> 00:04:12,410 So tell me, why am I here? 63 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:15,800 We've been having a lot of problems with the killings. First it was biting the 64 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:18,940 calves, and then it has turned into unprovoked attacks. 65 00:04:19,459 --> 00:04:23,560 What does attack look like to you guys? He'll be purring, and all of a sudden 66 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:28,060 his eyes go black, his ears go flat. He's purring, and he wants to attack. 67 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:31,580 So he can just be sitting there, and the next second he's somebody else. 68 00:04:31,940 --> 00:04:35,020 I've been asleep in the bed, and I've been bitten in the back of the head 69 00:04:35,020 --> 00:04:38,020 before. Turned around, he's ready to go again. 70 00:04:38,340 --> 00:04:39,800 And when he bites you, does he break skin? 71 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:41,080 Yes. He does? 72 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:42,160 Yes. Okay. 73 00:04:42,300 --> 00:04:45,920 I know he looks like a cat, but I really don't think he's a cat. What is he? 74 00:04:47,260 --> 00:04:48,260 Maybe a dragon? 75 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:51,660 I don't know. Do you freaking tell people this? 76 00:04:52,660 --> 00:04:57,820 If you're calling your cat, who you love, a dragon or a demon, they pick up 77 00:04:57,820 --> 00:05:01,580 that. They soak up that energy. At some point, they're going to spit that back 78 00:05:01,580 --> 00:05:05,180 out. He doesn't let Mike sleep at night when I'm not here. Mike's meeting. Does 79 00:05:05,180 --> 00:05:06,039 he work nights? 80 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:09,560 I work night shifts, though. So you guys have a totally opposite schedule. Oh, 81 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:13,020 yeah. So he's vulnerable all the time, and it makes me scared for him. 82 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:15,140 Have you been attacked in your sleep? 83 00:05:15,620 --> 00:05:19,640 I haven't been attacked in my sleep because I use the blanket under the door 84 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:21,600 he can't claw the carpet, and then I shut the door. 85 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:22,659 He's out. 86 00:05:22,660 --> 00:05:26,920 When we are able to actually sleep in the bed together, which is two to three 87 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:32,220 nights a week, I leave the door open, and every time Achilles gets in the bed, 88 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:33,379 Mike sits up. 89 00:05:33,380 --> 00:05:34,560 Why do you still have Achilles? 90 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:41,700 Before Achilles came into my life, I was not the nicest person, just kind of 91 00:05:41,700 --> 00:05:45,960 angry. And I felt like the minute I got him, he took it from me. 92 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:50,780 Amy shared this piece of information with me, which was so deep. She said 93 00:05:50,780 --> 00:05:55,720 at one point she was a very angry person. And she thought that Achilles 94 00:05:55,720 --> 00:06:00,120 that energy. So I know now that part of my work with her is helping that energy 95 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:01,120 pass through him. 96 00:06:01,460 --> 00:06:06,840 I think Amy has allowed Achilles to do things far beyond what anyone should 97 00:06:06,840 --> 00:06:08,080 allow their pet to do. 98 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:12,920 It's gotten to the point where I've been, like, bags packed, ready to go. 99 00:06:13,820 --> 00:06:16,080 Okay. We've got a lot of work in front of us. 100 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:20,080 As I see it, there are really high stakes involved with Achilles because 101 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:25,100 though Mike is being a little secretive about his desire to fix it or leave, I 102 00:06:25,100 --> 00:06:28,860 know he's frustrated. I know he's getting barely any sleep. I know that 103 00:06:28,860 --> 00:06:32,600 tries to project a future with Amy, he doesn't see it with Achilles. That's a 104 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:34,860 big hurdle that we're going to try to get over. Hello, cat. 105 00:06:35,900 --> 00:06:40,360 He looks awfully nice right now. Right? I just want you to sit down and just be 106 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:42,740 with him for a minute, the way you would normally do it, just the way you would 107 00:06:42,740 --> 00:06:43,740 normally be with him. Hey, buddy. 108 00:06:47,740 --> 00:06:51,920 This is when he sleeps. It's during the day. It's at night that he's a little 109 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:54,800 more crazy and up and physically a little more demanding. 110 00:06:55,180 --> 00:06:57,640 So, time to bring Mike over and see the same thing. 111 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:04,540 I mean, see if I pet him, he'll... I just want to see what you would normally 112 00:07:04,540 --> 00:07:05,540 do. 113 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:10,780 Yeah, I don't... I can't always tell if he likes that, because he'll come over, 114 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:13,040 see, and he won't like that. 115 00:07:13,470 --> 00:07:16,770 That's tricky now with his head turned the way it is. You can run this side. 116 00:07:16,790 --> 00:07:20,970 I mean, I normally would come, but he's going to turn his head. See, I move 117 00:07:20,970 --> 00:07:22,530 quickly. Yeah, you do. 118 00:07:22,950 --> 00:07:24,550 This we can't have. 119 00:07:24,890 --> 00:07:27,950 This looks like prey. It looks like a rabbit running away. 120 00:07:28,170 --> 00:07:32,350 Mike has no confidence whatsoever, and that was really important for me to see. 121 00:07:32,750 --> 00:07:34,030 He does that thing. 122 00:07:34,570 --> 00:07:37,950 What thing was that? He just opens his mouth and does a little thing. 123 00:07:40,980 --> 00:07:46,380 See, that's your cue. I need to see this behavior because that information is so 124 00:07:46,380 --> 00:07:49,940 key to moving forward and getting these guys on the right track. So I'm going to 125 00:07:49,940 --> 00:07:53,520 come back tomorrow night when he's known to act up. But for right now, we can't 126 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:56,440 waste any time. I'm going to get Amy and Mike started on their homework. 127 00:07:56,700 --> 00:08:01,220 All right. Well, he needs to get to a vet. And my guess is he needs to be on 128 00:08:01,220 --> 00:08:05,580 some kind of med because he doesn't have to be this unpredictable source of 129 00:08:05,580 --> 00:08:06,700 blood and pain. 130 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:09,220 Listen, I'm not a doctor, but let's be plain. 131 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:13,380 When a cat goes blank like this, you're sitting with them one second, and the 132 00:08:13,380 --> 00:08:17,100 next second they are all over you trying to claw your eyes out. That means that 133 00:08:17,100 --> 00:08:21,500 there is no stimulation from the environment. There is nothing coming 134 00:08:21,500 --> 00:08:24,640 environment to cause it. It's probably his brain doing it. 135 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:27,060 Mike, you get to build a new relationship with him. 136 00:08:27,830 --> 00:08:31,670 You are the player. You are the feeder. You are the bringer of all good things, 137 00:08:31,870 --> 00:08:35,390 okay? On the downside of things, you're also going to be sleeping with the door 138 00:08:35,390 --> 00:08:38,970 open. No more towel under the door. You are going to let him come into the room 139 00:08:38,970 --> 00:08:40,270 and be with you at night. 140 00:08:42,169 --> 00:08:44,130 Now what? Tell me what you guys are thinking right now. 141 00:08:45,210 --> 00:08:46,270 I'm scared for him. 142 00:08:47,180 --> 00:08:49,840 That is so helpful. Thank you so much. 143 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:54,440 Why not act as if this is a trustworthy cat? Listen to his body, watch his 144 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:58,300 responses, and Achilles will respond accordingly over a certain amount of 145 00:08:58,420 --> 00:09:02,720 There's no point in you going like this all the time. Amy, with you, I'd like 146 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:05,480 you to come up with a list of what we call affirmations. 147 00:09:05,700 --> 00:09:07,960 Positive, visualized mantras. 148 00:09:08,410 --> 00:09:12,890 Amy has been holding on to the shame and the guilt about Achilles, giving him 149 00:09:12,890 --> 00:09:15,550 this negative, bad energy that she had in herself. 150 00:09:15,810 --> 00:09:20,370 So I gave her an exercise where I want her to start saying affirmations because 151 00:09:20,370 --> 00:09:23,610 it's time for no one to have that energy anymore. The fact that you told me 152 00:09:23,610 --> 00:09:27,570 right off the bat that you've lost relationships over Achilles, Mike, I 153 00:09:27,570 --> 00:09:28,570 keep you here. 154 00:09:28,730 --> 00:09:29,730 I really do. 155 00:09:29,950 --> 00:09:35,290 I think the hardest part for me is believe in my head that nothing bad is 156 00:09:35,290 --> 00:09:35,969 to happen. 157 00:09:35,970 --> 00:09:39,380 Achilles has definitely not made this place. I feel like home ever since I 158 00:09:39,380 --> 00:09:41,560 in. It's been his place, not mine. 159 00:09:41,980 --> 00:09:43,060 Thank you so much. 160 00:09:43,560 --> 00:09:48,460 Amy just keeps presenting Achilles to the world unmedicated and hoping that he 161 00:09:48,460 --> 00:09:49,460 doesn't shred people. 162 00:09:49,580 --> 00:09:50,960 And he keeps shredding people. 163 00:09:51,300 --> 00:09:54,820 In a way, this is kind of the worst case scenario because I've got a cat who 164 00:09:54,820 --> 00:09:58,160 seems to be neurologically damaged. I've got a guy who's got one foot out the 165 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:01,240 door. I don't expect great things. I've got to be honest with you. 166 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:05,400 Hey, man. How you doing? Hey, Mike. 167 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:06,640 What's going down, man? 168 00:10:06,670 --> 00:10:10,890 The last time I was here, we didn't quite get the behavior from Achilles 169 00:10:10,890 --> 00:10:14,850 Mike and Amy said that they see on a regular basis that has almost sent Mike 170 00:10:14,850 --> 00:10:16,910 packing. I don't really want to get bit. 171 00:10:17,490 --> 00:10:21,930 I've heard that Achilles tends to activate a little bit more at night when 172 00:10:21,930 --> 00:10:25,850 goes to work, and Mike is stuck alone with him to deal with it. So I'm coming 173 00:10:25,850 --> 00:10:28,890 back today to see if there's anything that I can see that I didn't see 174 00:10:28,890 --> 00:10:29,829 yesterday. 175 00:10:29,830 --> 00:10:31,650 Ow. Come on, bud. Ow. 176 00:10:32,270 --> 00:10:33,270 Come on now. 177 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:36,500 Let's get you out of there. I don't want you all cornered up in there. 178 00:10:36,940 --> 00:10:38,320 Ow. All right, bud. 179 00:10:39,040 --> 00:10:43,520 Damn. So this is a different cat than I saw the first time I was here. Yeah, 180 00:10:43,580 --> 00:10:46,260 he's full on crazy mode now. 181 00:10:46,680 --> 00:10:50,200 Achilles and Amy both sleep during the day right now. She's wide awake at work 182 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:54,340 at the hospital, and Achilles is wide awake here at their home, ready to do 183 00:10:54,340 --> 00:10:56,480 damage on either Mike or, I think, me. 184 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:02,880 Dude. 185 00:11:06,020 --> 00:11:07,460 But, dude, that one hurt. 186 00:11:08,180 --> 00:11:14,940 Bite, scratches, both hands kind of shaking a little bit because that 187 00:11:14,940 --> 00:11:18,320 last bite really hurt. I mean, he went kind of to the bone a little bit. I 188 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:22,860 want to tell Mike, actually, because I'm going to freak him out too much. 189 00:11:23,100 --> 00:11:27,580 I know. You're growling, and at the same time, I know I can give you food out of 190 00:11:27,580 --> 00:11:28,580 my damn hand. 191 00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:30,200 What's up with that? 192 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:31,620 That was pretty severe. 193 00:11:32,100 --> 00:11:34,220 Not what I was expecting at all. 194 00:11:35,820 --> 00:11:38,740 I'm going to give it the rest of tonight. I'm going to see these guys in 195 00:11:38,740 --> 00:11:40,920 more days and hopefully have a better plan. 196 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:50,060 I'm going in for my second visit with Mike and Amy and their cat, Achilles. 197 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:54,620 The last time I was here, I saw what Amy has been seeing for just about six 198 00:11:54,620 --> 00:11:57,420 years, a highly unpredictable, aggressive cat. 199 00:11:57,860 --> 00:11:58,860 Hello. Hi. 200 00:11:59,100 --> 00:12:01,620 How are you? Good. How are you? I'm great. Come on in. 201 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:04,700 Hey, tell me what you've accomplished since the last time I was here. 202 00:12:05,530 --> 00:12:08,630 The first thing we did was we went to the vet and we started him on 203 00:12:09,030 --> 00:12:12,890 Good, good. She went to the vet. She got him put on psych meds, which is great 204 00:12:12,890 --> 00:12:17,010 because it was so important for him to get on those meds in the first place to 205 00:12:17,010 --> 00:12:19,410 give him time to stabilize and help improve his behavior. 206 00:12:19,630 --> 00:12:22,310 I'm able to sleep through the night because I've been leaving the door open. 207 00:12:22,930 --> 00:12:24,010 Let's stop right there. 208 00:12:24,250 --> 00:12:27,710 So you've been leaving the door open, which I give you all the props in the 209 00:12:27,710 --> 00:12:28,710 world for. That's amazing. 210 00:12:29,210 --> 00:12:32,690 He's telling me that he opens the door every night, allowed Achilles in, and 211 00:12:32,690 --> 00:12:33,770 what happened? Nothing. 212 00:12:34,150 --> 00:12:38,690 Space sharing is so important to cats because cats have territorial needs. 213 00:12:38,910 --> 00:12:43,530 And the bed has become this place where space sharing is starting to take hold. 214 00:12:43,850 --> 00:12:44,890 Big time change. 215 00:12:45,090 --> 00:12:49,770 I am playing the role of a good cop. I bring out the toys and I feed them. But 216 00:12:49,770 --> 00:12:54,050 Amy also pulls out the toys and she feeds them. You don't get to look like a 217 00:12:54,050 --> 00:12:56,950 good cop when there's two good cops, right? In the very beginning. 218 00:12:57,660 --> 00:13:01,840 I wasn't sure. I didn't know if Mike had played with him or fed him, and he 219 00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:06,060 looked like he needed to play. You have to trust Mike to do that loving part. 220 00:13:06,340 --> 00:13:10,020 If that's us having a whiteboard here saying, check, check, check, that might 221 00:13:10,020 --> 00:13:11,980 sound silly to you, but I think we should do it. 222 00:13:14,560 --> 00:13:16,960 I felt the tension between them immediately. 223 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:21,980 Mike is trying to be the good cop, and Amy's not letting it happen. So now 224 00:13:21,980 --> 00:13:23,420 got good cop and better cop. 225 00:13:23,740 --> 00:13:26,260 That's not going to work. Right. I'm just... 226 00:13:26,670 --> 00:13:32,450 That's so fearful that if he does one of his dragon Jekyll Hyde things that he's 227 00:13:32,450 --> 00:13:33,450 really going to hurt Mike. 228 00:13:33,970 --> 00:13:36,310 Is it the hurt that you're worried about or the aftermath? 229 00:13:36,730 --> 00:13:37,730 The aftermath. 230 00:13:37,810 --> 00:13:41,370 Which is what? That he just leaves and can't live with it because it's not 231 00:13:41,970 --> 00:13:45,650 Amy is still that person that I met during my first visit. I mean, she is 232 00:13:45,650 --> 00:13:51,090 absolutely scared that Mike is going to leave her at any time. So that's an 233 00:13:51,090 --> 00:13:54,930 obstacle we're going to have to work on. Let's take a look at your video 234 00:13:54,930 --> 00:13:55,930 homework. 235 00:14:04,219 --> 00:14:09,820 Mike was doing things, Phil, completely wrong and full of fear about being 236 00:14:09,820 --> 00:14:10,820 tagged by Achilles. 237 00:14:12,020 --> 00:14:13,980 Oh, what? 238 00:14:15,530 --> 00:14:19,810 How is it that he's just standing there? He didn't make that happen at all. It's 239 00:14:19,810 --> 00:14:23,710 not the environment. It's not the territory. It's nothing. The catch is 240 00:14:23,710 --> 00:14:26,470 him. It is really concerning and leads me to think that it's neurological. 241 00:14:26,690 --> 00:14:30,970 So I want them to keep going on the meds that they just started on so we can see 242 00:14:30,970 --> 00:14:33,970 if there's any progress with his unpredictability. 243 00:14:34,470 --> 00:14:35,470 Want to play? 244 00:14:37,020 --> 00:14:40,720 He's going to stare at me? I really have to show Mike how to approach Achilles. 245 00:14:40,780 --> 00:14:44,820 I knew from my experience with Achilles that he's so food motivated that he 246 00:14:44,820 --> 00:14:47,760 could want to beat me up and he could strike out at me and then I could 247 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:48,940 food and he'd be like, oh, what you got? 248 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:52,720 It gave me an idea. I know that I've got something to keep Mike busy for the 249 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:53,720 next couple of weeks. 250 00:14:53,900 --> 00:14:54,900 Here, Grump. 251 00:14:55,240 --> 00:14:56,240 Here you go. 252 00:14:56,700 --> 00:14:57,700 Let me show you. 253 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:01,880 Because this was me and him all night, right? Where he's demanding, he's 254 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:03,020 demanding, he's demanding. Uh -uh. 255 00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:10,980 Not that I reward. You wait for the behavior, and then he has to know, I did 256 00:15:10,980 --> 00:15:11,980 this so I get that. 257 00:15:12,140 --> 00:15:13,140 Who's next? 258 00:15:13,300 --> 00:15:14,300 Take the bowl. 259 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:19,860 I actually thought to myself, how am I going to get Mike to approach this cat 260 00:15:19,860 --> 00:15:24,420 without fear? And I feel like maybe if he was invested in an action, he 261 00:15:24,420 --> 00:15:26,420 be so worried about Achilles striking out to him. 262 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:27,800 Come here. 263 00:15:29,240 --> 00:15:31,500 Sit. Sit down. Hey, sit. 264 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:33,440 No. 265 00:15:33,880 --> 00:15:34,880 No. 266 00:15:35,090 --> 00:15:37,390 No, that's my hand. Leave him onto his tree. 267 00:15:37,590 --> 00:15:38,590 Okay. 268 00:15:38,930 --> 00:15:39,749 Hey, buddy. 269 00:15:39,750 --> 00:15:43,190 Right up here. 270 00:15:44,530 --> 00:15:45,530 Good boy. 271 00:15:46,690 --> 00:15:50,750 There you go. Achilles was so willing to do whatever it took for the food that 272 00:15:50,750 --> 00:15:56,070 you could see Mike finally go from fear to no fear just like that. That was a 273 00:15:56,070 --> 00:15:56,809 great moment. 274 00:15:56,810 --> 00:15:57,810 Let's sit down. 275 00:15:57,870 --> 00:16:00,370 I'll tell you what I've seen today. Oh, and by the way. 276 00:16:00,730 --> 00:16:04,090 This is where I want that whiteboard to be. I want you guys to be checking off 277 00:16:04,090 --> 00:16:07,770 the good cop stuff, the bad cop stuff. I think it's going to help a lot. 278 00:16:08,150 --> 00:16:09,470 I'm going to have you guys sit on the floor. 279 00:16:10,850 --> 00:16:12,230 All right. I know. 280 00:16:12,610 --> 00:16:14,610 I want to hear you do your affirmations. 281 00:16:14,970 --> 00:16:19,490 Amy has been holding on to the bad energy that she had in herself, so I 282 00:16:19,490 --> 00:16:23,750 an exercise where I want her to start saying affirmations because I believe 283 00:16:23,750 --> 00:16:25,350 will help change the energy. Hey, Kelly. 284 00:16:26,390 --> 00:16:27,470 You're such a good boy. 285 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:33,060 In our future, I see you, me, and Mike getting along really well. 286 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:38,100 I feel like the affirmation, like it's connecting Achilles and I more, and it's 287 00:16:38,100 --> 00:16:42,040 so positive, and then not using Dragon or anything negative. I haven't said 288 00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:46,440 anything negative, and I feel like that has been beneficial for us. 289 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:52,000 As you're talking to him, he's perfectly still right now. I love it. Now, with 290 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:53,480 that in mind, let's get into homework. 291 00:16:53,740 --> 00:16:57,280 I'm going to give you my clicker, okay? The way clickers work is... 292 00:16:57,500 --> 00:17:00,700 We're going to have him do something like we were just doing sit with him. 293 00:17:00,700 --> 00:17:02,760 go sit, that's the command, butt hits the ground. 294 00:17:03,550 --> 00:17:07,630 Click. Treat. Now you have a magical tool. This is your homework 295 00:17:07,890 --> 00:17:10,770 Mike, over the next couple of weeks. Another great benefit of giving Mike 296 00:17:10,770 --> 00:17:15,250 clicker training his homework is that instead of having his hand right near 297 00:17:15,250 --> 00:17:17,310 cat, we had the extended pointer. 298 00:17:17,609 --> 00:17:22,430 That way, Mike has sort of an extension of himself because really, in terms of 299 00:17:22,430 --> 00:17:24,569 getting his hands in the mix, he was really hesitant. 300 00:17:24,810 --> 00:17:29,410 Overall, Mike has to do more of the bonding work. Amy has to release a 301 00:17:29,410 --> 00:17:32,210 bit. Back away from the cat. He has to be... 302 00:17:32,430 --> 00:17:36,030 Mike's as well. That's the only way Mike is ever going to feel home here, and 303 00:17:36,030 --> 00:17:39,270 it's the only way the two of you are ever going to have that affirmative life 304 00:17:39,270 --> 00:17:40,450 that you're both imagining. 305 00:17:43,290 --> 00:17:45,310 And now it's time for a kitty bit. 306 00:17:45,610 --> 00:17:48,810 True or false, cats are nocturnal animals? 307 00:17:49,050 --> 00:17:50,770 The answer when we come back. 308 00:17:53,670 --> 00:17:57,070 True or false, cats are nocturnal animals? 309 00:17:57,370 --> 00:17:59,170 And the answer is false. 310 00:17:59,770 --> 00:18:03,830 Cats are actually crepuscular. That is to say, they're most active during the 311 00:18:03,830 --> 00:18:04,830 dawn and dusk hours. 312 00:18:05,030 --> 00:18:09,730 And why is that? Well, it's because their prey is also most active when the 313 00:18:09,730 --> 00:18:11,650 comes up and when the sun goes down. 314 00:18:15,830 --> 00:18:18,710 I'm going in for my final visit with Mike and Amy and Achilles. 315 00:18:18,910 --> 00:18:22,810 Seriously, all I care about is that I walk into this home and there's no 316 00:18:22,810 --> 00:18:23,669 packed anywhere. 317 00:18:23,670 --> 00:18:24,950 That makes it a good day. 318 00:18:26,390 --> 00:18:27,390 Hey, man. Hey, brother. 319 00:18:29,399 --> 00:18:33,180 Tell me that there's great news to be had here. I need good news today. It's 320 00:18:33,180 --> 00:18:34,300 been good. There's been no attacks. 321 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:35,860 He's been... Mellow. 322 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:40,480 Mellowed out, yeah. Acting more normal. That's amazing. Getting a lot of play 323 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:44,400 in. Mike is doing most of the playing and feeding, and I'm covering what he 324 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:46,540 can't do, and it's really working. 325 00:18:46,820 --> 00:18:49,740 I think we've moved past co -occupants to buddies. 326 00:18:51,150 --> 00:18:52,009 I'm shocked. 327 00:18:52,010 --> 00:18:53,110 No, seriously. 328 00:18:53,310 --> 00:18:57,650 It's not everybody who does this. I'm not kidding you. Mike stepping up had 329 00:18:57,650 --> 00:19:00,030 Amy know that she could relax around this relationship. 330 00:19:00,230 --> 00:19:03,390 She wasn't afraid that Mike was going to leave at every turn. 331 00:19:04,010 --> 00:19:07,570 It's just, it's so different than any other relationship I've ever been in. 332 00:19:07,570 --> 00:19:10,390 it's more comfortable here. I mean, now that I have a relationship with 333 00:19:10,390 --> 00:19:14,650 everything that lives in this house, it definitely feels like home for me. Well, 334 00:19:14,710 --> 00:19:15,710 hi. 335 00:19:16,550 --> 00:19:17,970 Hello. Hi, friendly. 336 00:19:18,390 --> 00:19:19,390 Oh, my buddy. 337 00:19:20,070 --> 00:19:21,410 It's good to see you. 338 00:19:21,750 --> 00:19:22,790 This is so weird. 339 00:19:23,010 --> 00:19:24,010 Right? 340 00:19:24,050 --> 00:19:25,750 Hello, my good boy. 341 00:19:26,370 --> 00:19:30,230 The homework was really well planned. Like, each little step, you see a little 342 00:19:30,230 --> 00:19:34,070 result. Definitely more active. I played with him and done the whiteboards and 343 00:19:34,070 --> 00:19:35,710 stuff. Kept up with the affirmations. 344 00:19:35,910 --> 00:19:39,830 It worked. Like, we went through the steps and we went through the homework 345 00:19:39,830 --> 00:19:45,770 it shows a different cat. That cat is not the same cat that I met a few weeks 346 00:19:45,770 --> 00:19:47,090 ago, even remotely. 347 00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:54,120 This is seriously the most energy Achilles has put towards play in 348 00:19:54,120 --> 00:19:58,780 years. I got to watch Mike and Amy's video homework, and really the big thing 349 00:19:58,780 --> 00:20:03,840 there was that Mike not only did the actions, the task of playing, which he 350 00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:09,160 amazingly well, it was this hidden gem underneath all of it, which was this 351 00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:10,400 level of investment. 352 00:20:17,149 --> 00:20:18,149 Yeah, that's okay. 353 00:20:18,390 --> 00:20:19,369 Oh, yeah. 354 00:20:19,370 --> 00:20:23,490 I mean, it's fine if the clicker training is not perfect. I didn't give 355 00:20:23,490 --> 00:20:28,290 them as homework to accomplish a specific task with Achilles. What I gave 356 00:20:28,290 --> 00:20:32,970 them for was to accomplish a certain task with Mike. Mike needed something to 357 00:20:32,970 --> 00:20:37,530 so he wasn't consumed by fear every time his hand was near Achilles. I mean, if 358 00:20:37,530 --> 00:20:39,870 every time you go near that cat, you're like this. 359 00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:43,820 Bad stuff's going to happen. Now, the last time I was here, there was a lot of 360 00:20:43,820 --> 00:20:47,380 tension between you guys based on who's doing what. 361 00:20:47,620 --> 00:20:49,600 This makes sure that that doesn't happen anymore. 362 00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:51,760 We have a great board, a great system. 363 00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:56,080 Three times a day, we've got the play and then feed and the check boxes. 364 00:20:56,280 --> 00:21:00,840 And then Amy has a whole separate one for pills, so we know it's on his meds. 365 00:21:01,340 --> 00:21:02,340 Open. 366 00:21:03,220 --> 00:21:04,220 Oh, boy. 367 00:21:04,970 --> 00:21:08,270 Mike and Amy told me that Achilles is still on his psych meds, which is great 368 00:21:08,270 --> 00:21:12,410 hear, because that means he's no longer an unpredictable source of pain and 369 00:21:12,410 --> 00:21:13,409 violence for them. 370 00:21:13,410 --> 00:21:14,830 Good boy, Achilles. 371 00:21:16,290 --> 00:21:21,190 Good boy. I'm going to come back over here, let him play with you. I asked 372 00:21:21,190 --> 00:21:27,010 to bring Achilles in because the level of fear that Mike exhibited with 373 00:21:27,010 --> 00:21:31,350 the first time I met him bordered on the phobic. So, I mean, I normally would... 374 00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:33,000 Cunk, but he can turn his head. 375 00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:34,660 I move quickly. 376 00:21:35,140 --> 00:21:36,119 Yeah, you do. 377 00:21:36,120 --> 00:21:40,640 This was a different guy playing with a different cat. He really stepped up his 378 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:42,460 game, and he turned himself around. 379 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:47,620 So, at this point in the game, relationally, bags packed? 380 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:48,920 Where are you? 381 00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:52,520 Bags are in the closet. I am staying where I belong. 382 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,840 I'm so happy for both of you guys, because, honestly... 383 00:21:57,570 --> 00:22:02,250 Knowing that Achilles is actually bringing us closer together is... I 384 00:22:02,250 --> 00:22:03,250 would have imagined. 385 00:22:03,630 --> 00:22:05,210 Right? It's incredible. 386 00:22:05,450 --> 00:22:08,750 It is. It's actually amazing. It's the number one thing I'm most thankful for. 387 00:22:09,030 --> 00:22:11,550 Yeah. All of us, yeah. I would imagine. 388 00:22:11,750 --> 00:22:15,630 I could tell this was no longer the girl that I had met who felt that years ago 389 00:22:15,630 --> 00:22:19,070 she had passed all this negative energy onto her cat and the cat was just 390 00:22:19,070 --> 00:22:23,570 holding onto it. I knew that whatever storm had been there when I first met 391 00:22:23,570 --> 00:22:24,610 these guys had passed. 392 00:22:30,540 --> 00:22:34,180 We have two cats, Chompy and Bitten, and they're both a little crazy. 393 00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:37,780 I've never seen them get along. Ever. Ever. 394 00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:42,480 Bitten is constantly on her. She's like a creepy stalker. 395 00:22:43,360 --> 00:22:45,740 My main concern is about our daughter's safety. 396 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:48,080 You know, the cats, they're just too crazy. 397 00:22:48,860 --> 00:22:51,480 If she got clawed by one of the cats, they'd be done. 398 00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:06,600 I'm heading over right now to Kevin and Megan's house and talk about a mess. 399 00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:10,700 We've got two cats, Chompy and Bitten, that are just beating the snot out of 400 00:23:10,700 --> 00:23:15,660 each other. We've got Kevin on Team Chompy and Megan on Team Bitten. And 401 00:23:15,660 --> 00:23:19,440 got a one -year -old child involved here, and if anything happens to her, 402 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:22,180 afraid both of these cats are hitting the street. So I've got to get over 403 00:23:22,180 --> 00:23:23,900 right now and make sure that doesn't happen. 404 00:23:24,940 --> 00:23:25,879 I'm Megan. 405 00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:28,020 I'm Kevin. We've been married for six years. 406 00:23:28,300 --> 00:23:30,280 And we have a one -year -old daughter named Quinn. 407 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:33,220 And she is everywhere and full of energy. 408 00:23:33,700 --> 00:23:35,480 And we have two cats. 409 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,060 One's chompy and one's bitten. 410 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:43,080 They're both domestic short hairs and they're both a little crazy. 411 00:23:44,260 --> 00:23:45,260 Life's okay. 412 00:23:45,360 --> 00:23:51,320 We had chompy for like three years before we got bitten. The cats do not 413 00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:53,140 along. I've never seen them get along. Ever. Ever. 414 00:23:56,620 --> 00:23:57,620 Bitten. 415 00:23:57,950 --> 00:24:00,570 hunt down the honor. She's like a creepy stalker. 416 00:24:03,590 --> 00:24:06,450 He'll just hide behind there. Yeah, or he'll be under the table waiting for her 417 00:24:06,450 --> 00:24:08,170 to jump down if she jumps down right there. 418 00:24:08,730 --> 00:24:09,730 Hey, hey, hey! 419 00:24:12,390 --> 00:24:13,390 No. 420 00:24:13,510 --> 00:24:16,850 Get away from the cat. And I'm trying to corral the baby and I'm trying to 421 00:24:16,850 --> 00:24:19,090 corral the cats and it's just a big mess. 422 00:24:19,390 --> 00:24:23,770 The biggest reason we're doing this is for our daughter. 423 00:24:24,780 --> 00:24:28,400 One, because I want her to be safe around the cats, and two, because we 424 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:30,200 can't be constantly breaking up fights between them. 425 00:24:32,360 --> 00:24:35,860 I'm definitely on Team Bitten, because he's a much better cat. 426 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:41,160 He'll sit with me, and he'll cuddle with me, and I love Bitten. I'm definitely 427 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:42,160 Team Chompy. 428 00:24:42,860 --> 00:24:43,860 It's okay. 429 00:24:43,940 --> 00:24:46,440 It'd be nothing off my nose if Bitten was gone. 430 00:24:48,180 --> 00:24:51,960 Bitten would be a perfect cat if it wasn't for Chompy. If you didn't have 431 00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:55,650 to, like... fight with all the time, he would be a perfect cat. He's nice. 432 00:24:56,050 --> 00:24:57,050 He's an a -hole. 433 00:24:58,730 --> 00:25:02,770 Jackson is our last hope. I saw the show, and I was like, oh, my God. 434 00:25:03,990 --> 00:25:08,210 If he can come here and do something for these cats, because I'm out of ideas, 435 00:25:08,450 --> 00:25:09,570 please come help us. 436 00:25:15,210 --> 00:25:16,650 Hey, man. Hey, Kevin. 437 00:25:16,990 --> 00:25:19,790 I'm Jackson. I'm glad you made it. Hey. Hi, Megan. 438 00:25:20,030 --> 00:25:21,130 Hey, Megan. Hey. 439 00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:23,200 This is Quinn. 440 00:25:23,500 --> 00:25:24,500 Hey, Quinn. 441 00:25:25,060 --> 00:25:26,740 So tell me, what brings me here today? 442 00:25:27,660 --> 00:25:32,580 Well, our two cats, their psychotic behavior, and our daughter. 443 00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:37,760 The cat's, one's name's Chompy. She wandered into the backyard, and I said, 444 00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:41,600 kitty. We got a call one day from the neighbor of her previous owners, and she 445 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:45,460 spoke to me on the phone and basically said her old owners were very abusive. 446 00:25:45,500 --> 00:25:47,400 She'd seen them kick her. Oh, wow. 447 00:25:47,660 --> 00:25:49,000 She was underfed. Yeah. 448 00:25:49,360 --> 00:25:52,240 Kevin and Megan tell me that the history with Chompy is really sad. 449 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:57,160 They rescued her from neighbors who clearly abused this cat. That gave me a 450 00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:59,660 of insight into who these people are, and I really like them. 451 00:25:59,880 --> 00:26:04,280 Bitten is after Chompy all the time. He jumps on her at least five times a day, 452 00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:08,560 but he stalks her relentlessly. He just follows her around. Which it never 453 00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:09,560 stops. No. 454 00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:14,680 They're, at this point, just allowed out at each other 24 -7? During the day, 455 00:26:14,940 --> 00:26:18,840 Chompy, we actually let her outside a lot to get her out of the house so she 456 00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:19,980 doesn't have to deal with bitten. 457 00:26:20,180 --> 00:26:22,940 Started putting her in the garage. She's much happier there at night, but it's 458 00:26:22,940 --> 00:26:24,360 still stuck. It's cold and it's hot. 459 00:26:25,060 --> 00:26:28,060 She's only happy there because she's not getting... Yeah, because she's giving 460 00:26:28,060 --> 00:26:29,360 me a load. Right, right. 461 00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:35,380 I mean, I understand that Kevin and Megan have... A purpose by putting 462 00:26:35,380 --> 00:26:35,999 the garage. 463 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:40,380 On the other hand, if Chompy got to vote, would her vote be to be in the 464 00:26:40,380 --> 00:26:44,300 at night? I don't think so. In the middle of all this mayhem, Quinn comes. 465 00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:45,560 Yeah. Okay. 466 00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:48,700 How often do you spend breaking up fights in a given day? 467 00:26:49,100 --> 00:26:52,660 I probably break up at least five a day. A day? 468 00:26:52,900 --> 00:26:53,900 A day. 469 00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:59,460 Wow. I'm constantly dividing my time between dealing with the cats, 470 00:26:59,460 --> 00:27:01,680 the cats, and trying to spend time with my daughter. 471 00:27:02,110 --> 00:27:04,910 If there had to be a one cat home, who would it be? Bitten. 472 00:27:05,230 --> 00:27:06,270 Chompy. Oh. 473 00:27:07,070 --> 00:27:08,410 Yeah. Oh, this is going to be fun. 474 00:27:09,410 --> 00:27:12,330 Simultaneously, Chompy Bitten from both of these guys. 475 00:27:12,770 --> 00:27:13,910 That would be a divide. 476 00:27:14,150 --> 00:27:16,410 That would be a huge problem that we've got moving forward. 477 00:27:16,630 --> 00:27:18,110 Chompy had a lot harder life. 478 00:27:18,330 --> 00:27:19,930 I don't want to give up a cat that was abused. 479 00:27:20,170 --> 00:27:22,550 It's just not fair to her. And so I wanted to get rid of him. 480 00:27:22,810 --> 00:27:26,350 And then she gets really pissed off when I say stuff like that. And, you know, 481 00:27:26,350 --> 00:27:29,750 we got into a couple arguments where finally I've just kind of stopped, you 482 00:27:29,750 --> 00:27:30,750 know, because it just. 483 00:27:31,420 --> 00:27:34,600 Leave too much stress between us. I don't think it's an option to get rid of 484 00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:35,600 Bitten. 485 00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:41,820 What I'm hearing is that Bitten is the one who's instigating all the fight. 486 00:27:41,940 --> 00:27:45,860 Between the cats, yeah. Okay, so why would Bitten be the one that would stay 487 00:27:45,860 --> 00:27:47,540 here? Thank you. Thank you. 488 00:27:48,060 --> 00:27:51,640 We're not getting rid of one of those cats. I don't care what he says. Like, 489 00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:53,280 not doing that. 490 00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:57,240 I'm, like, all about the undercat, so I'm, like, thinking about Chompy right 491 00:27:57,240 --> 00:28:00,520 now. And I'm thinking about what's the right life for her. 492 00:28:01,379 --> 00:28:06,160 Right now, at the very outset here, I'm seeing one cat who's being tortured. 493 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:12,280 Chompy is already a traumatized cat who's lived through a lot before. 494 00:28:12,500 --> 00:28:16,060 So I want them to be ready to know that at some point you may have to do the 495 00:28:16,060 --> 00:28:19,900 responsible and loving thing and find the right home because this might not be 496 00:28:19,900 --> 00:28:21,720 it. So this is the bedroom. 497 00:28:21,940 --> 00:28:25,680 Right now, I guarantee Chompy's under the bed. Okay, so here we have it. Here 498 00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:26,519 have it. 499 00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:28,260 Something's got to be going on down here, right? 500 00:28:28,460 --> 00:28:30,800 Mm -hmm. So what do we have? Well, hello. 501 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:35,300 When we walked in the bedroom, not only was Chompy under the bed, but Bitten was 502 00:28:35,300 --> 00:28:40,540 just standing there patrolling like it was a border. He was just waiting for 503 00:28:40,540 --> 00:28:42,540 to come out, and he would get her when the time came. 504 00:28:43,050 --> 00:28:47,030 I was trying to get her to come out from underneath Kevin and Megan's bed with 505 00:28:47,030 --> 00:28:47,749 no success. 506 00:28:47,750 --> 00:28:48,729 This is our cat box. 507 00:28:48,730 --> 00:28:52,090 We used to have two, but one moved to the garage when we started moving Chompy 508 00:28:52,090 --> 00:28:52,629 out there. 509 00:28:52,630 --> 00:28:53,670 Does she pee in here? 510 00:28:54,430 --> 00:28:55,430 She does, yeah. 511 00:28:55,670 --> 00:28:59,510 But a lot of times she'll hold it until she can go outside or until the night 512 00:28:59,510 --> 00:29:01,790 because it attacks her when she uses it. 513 00:29:02,050 --> 00:29:05,970 This breaks my heart because this is one of those things where she's basically 514 00:29:05,970 --> 00:29:07,710 saying no place is safe for me. 515 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:12,460 It made me feel really bad to hear him, in his words, replay the fact that as an 516 00:29:12,460 --> 00:29:17,480 abused cat, she's now being abused in my home, albeit not by people, but by a 517 00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:23,000 cat. And I felt really bad about that and really want that to change. 518 00:29:23,700 --> 00:29:27,940 As I was talking to Kevin and Megan, I saw Chompy just dash from one side of 519 00:29:27,940 --> 00:29:31,940 room to the other. She was being stalked by Bitten. And what she did, what she 520 00:29:31,940 --> 00:29:35,200 always does, she looks for a hiding place. And this time, it was under the 521 00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:36,200 couch. 522 00:29:36,650 --> 00:29:41,870 Now she's going under, and he's going to follow her. I think that Bitten is a 523 00:29:41,870 --> 00:29:42,769 little play aggressive. 524 00:29:42,770 --> 00:29:46,310 He's a little boy. He likes to chase things around, and he's finding a great 525 00:29:46,310 --> 00:29:47,310 thing to chase around. 526 00:29:47,430 --> 00:29:50,790 Chompy runs from him, and that's what's causing a lot of this problem. The good 527 00:29:50,790 --> 00:29:54,150 news, the silver lining, is that to me it's not a dominant issue. 528 00:29:54,510 --> 00:29:55,810 It's, ooh, look at her move. 529 00:29:56,110 --> 00:29:58,630 Look at the way she, ooh, she moves like a weasel. 530 00:29:58,850 --> 00:30:03,350 Ooh, she moves like a snake. I'm going to go get her. And that's what we have 531 00:30:03,350 --> 00:30:04,350 deal with. 532 00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:06,200 If you guys are ready, I'm going to start giving you homework. 533 00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:10,620 All right. All right. The first thing that I want to get into is switching up 534 00:30:10,620 --> 00:30:17,200 the team, which means I want you, for instance, to start taking control of 535 00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:18,200 Chompy. 536 00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:19,480 See? 537 00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:24,740 You're right. I want you to be the one taking charge of raising her self 538 00:30:24,740 --> 00:30:30,340 -esteem. Likewise, you get to be in charge of Team Bitten, which is a little 539 00:30:30,340 --> 00:30:34,000 more about... getting his energy out in a positive way. So the homework for 540 00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:38,700 Kevin is I want him to play a lot with Bitten because Bitten's energy has never 541 00:30:38,700 --> 00:30:42,620 been expressed out of his body in any other way but by chasing Chompy. At the 542 00:30:42,620 --> 00:30:47,320 same time, I want them blocking off under the couch, under the bed, because 543 00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:52,000 want to see Chompy moving through space confidently. So every time Bitten looks 544 00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:56,040 at Chompy, he sees more and more confidence. He doesn't see a scared 545 00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:57,040 doesn't chase her. 546 00:30:57,200 --> 00:31:01,140 Also, making sure that the litter box is not this huge ambush zone. 547 00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:05,460 I basically want these guys to be able to appreciate the other cats they have 548 00:31:05,460 --> 00:31:09,140 their house because they're so willing to give up on the other one. Bottom line 549 00:31:09,140 --> 00:31:10,960 is this. I want you guys to be one team. 550 00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:16,120 That's our goal. Okay. And I think that we're going to definitely start getting 551 00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:18,200 there. Chompy has been abused in the past. 552 00:31:18,590 --> 00:31:22,670 And I think that she needs to find her self -esteem within the house and with 553 00:31:22,670 --> 00:31:26,790 this family. And I think all the assignments that I gave Megan and Kevin 554 00:31:26,790 --> 00:31:28,050 help in that respect. 555 00:31:28,430 --> 00:31:33,110 But I'm still keeping it on the table that one of these cats may need to leave 556 00:31:33,110 --> 00:31:34,109 this home. 557 00:31:34,110 --> 00:31:37,070 Great to meet you. You too, man. Thanks for coming. Thank you. All right. We'll 558 00:31:37,070 --> 00:31:38,390 talk to you soon. All right. Bye, guys. 559 00:31:44,659 --> 00:31:48,700 I'm heading in for my second visit with Megan and Kevin and their cats, Chompy 560 00:31:48,700 --> 00:31:49,700 and Bitten. 561 00:31:50,020 --> 00:31:53,920 Now, these two cats are at each other. There's violence every single day, which 562 00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:57,560 is a problem enough in itself, but there is a one -year -old daughter in the 563 00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:00,700 picture as well, and the parents are at their end. 564 00:32:00,900 --> 00:32:01,900 Hey, man. 565 00:32:01,980 --> 00:32:03,320 How are you? Good, yourself? 566 00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:05,080 I'm good, I'm good. Hey, hey. 567 00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:09,220 So, tell me, things are looking a little better, maybe? 568 00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:11,600 Yeah. All right, talk about it. Let me hear. 569 00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:16,780 Well, since we started playing with them, Bitten's really calmed down, and 570 00:32:16,780 --> 00:32:19,300 Chompy's coming out a bit more. 571 00:32:19,620 --> 00:32:24,000 For four days, their fights were cut in half, like at least in half. Right on. 572 00:32:24,180 --> 00:32:29,760 Yeah. We have gone from five to six major screaming matches a day, and the 573 00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:35,460 of the time, having Bitten stalk Chompy, gone except for maybe one fight between 574 00:32:35,460 --> 00:32:38,480 the cats per day. That is a major bridge that we've crossed. 575 00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:39,800 I've got a bunch of... 576 00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:43,780 video homework footage from you guys. I'd like to go over it with you and 577 00:32:43,780 --> 00:32:44,780 take a look. Yeah? Okay. 578 00:32:45,820 --> 00:32:51,680 You gotta let go, bud. 579 00:32:52,420 --> 00:32:53,720 Hey, Benton, are you tired? 580 00:32:54,100 --> 00:32:55,800 You panting a little bit, huh? 581 00:32:56,620 --> 00:32:57,820 Are you playing with Benton, Quinn? 582 00:32:59,060 --> 00:33:01,880 Do you like it, Chompy? 583 00:33:02,620 --> 00:33:03,920 Yeah, good girl, Chompy. 584 00:33:06,740 --> 00:33:08,960 Come on, Chompy. 585 00:33:13,130 --> 00:33:17,770 So underneath, I put two by four, three, the block on the underside, and this 586 00:33:17,770 --> 00:33:18,649 left side. 587 00:33:18,650 --> 00:33:19,650 Good work. 588 00:33:20,010 --> 00:33:21,010 Really nice. 589 00:33:21,050 --> 00:33:22,970 Got to see Kevin and Megan's video homework. 590 00:33:23,190 --> 00:33:26,850 The great stuff is there's great play going on, not just with Bitten, but hey, 591 00:33:26,890 --> 00:33:30,230 with Chompy as well. Chompy playing is a big deal. Yeah, she wouldn't play 592 00:33:30,230 --> 00:33:34,850 before. Here's where play becomes such this fascinating thing, right? For 593 00:33:34,850 --> 00:33:38,650 Bitten, it's about draining off that destructive energy. For her... 594 00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:40,340 It's about raising up self -esteem. 595 00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:45,820 One other thing that I really loved was Quinn playing with Bitten because you're 596 00:33:45,820 --> 00:33:49,020 setting up a relationship between Quinn and the cat. 597 00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:54,080 And she's going to grow up with respect for the cat, and it's really cool. All 598 00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:58,960 in all, those were really wonderful things to see. But you are still seeing 599 00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:01,160 fights. You're still seeing some arguments. 600 00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:05,240 It's time to take a look around the house again and see what they had and 601 00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:06,240 done. 602 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:11,179 Okay, so now the last time I was here, litter box was over there. Yeah. 603 00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:14,739 What I'm seeing now, litter box over here. 604 00:34:15,420 --> 00:34:17,480 I still got a minor problem with it, though. 605 00:34:18,659 --> 00:34:24,800 If I'm chompy and I'm in here and I'm doing that, then 606 00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:31,659 that sound alone is causing Bitten to come in here. Sure enough, as I 607 00:34:31,659 --> 00:34:32,659 in the litter box. 608 00:34:32,780 --> 00:34:33,800 Bitten came out of nowhere. 609 00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:35,639 You see that? Yeah, see, look at that face. 610 00:34:35,900 --> 00:34:39,139 He's like, what are you doing in my ball? Look at him. He doesn't even like 611 00:34:39,139 --> 00:34:41,400 in there. We have to change up that sound altogether. 612 00:34:41,900 --> 00:34:46,840 And my idea is that we try a completely different type of litter. Oh. Because if 613 00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:50,860 we could just change up the sound, then we change up the association. 614 00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:57,020 As I was standing there with Kevin and Megan, I looked into Quinn's room. I see 615 00:34:57,020 --> 00:35:01,120 Chompy under the crib. So it was time to go into Quinn's room and spend some 616 00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:02,120 time with Chompy. 617 00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:05,760 It's okay. 618 00:35:06,780 --> 00:35:08,160 Little chompy. 619 00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:16,680 Even though she was under the crib, I felt really confident that with some 620 00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:18,460 treats, I'd be able to pull her out. 621 00:35:22,260 --> 00:35:23,880 Little chompy. 622 00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:26,840 Come on. 623 00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:29,840 Hi, girlfriend. 624 00:35:30,660 --> 00:35:32,000 Hi, girlfriend. 625 00:35:34,210 --> 00:35:35,210 Good girl. 626 00:35:36,350 --> 00:35:40,350 This is pretty amazing. I mean, the last time I was here, she wouldn't have 627 00:35:40,350 --> 00:35:42,030 anything to do with me. 628 00:35:43,670 --> 00:35:44,670 Oh. 629 00:35:45,370 --> 00:35:46,970 I'm just shocked that she came out. 630 00:35:47,450 --> 00:35:49,450 Even with me, she wouldn't let me pet her for very long. 631 00:35:50,350 --> 00:35:52,870 Right? Yeah, I know. Not bad. 632 00:35:53,270 --> 00:35:54,270 Yeah. 633 00:35:56,430 --> 00:35:59,790 Chompy coming out from under the crib and feeling comfortable around us was 634 00:35:59,790 --> 00:36:04,360 huge. Now our next goal is to get Bitten and Chompy in the same room without 635 00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:08,140 killing one another, and that's where the circle game comes in. I want these 636 00:36:08,140 --> 00:36:13,500 guys moving in circles, but opposite each other. The idea is I don't want her 637 00:36:13,500 --> 00:36:17,660 even know that Bitten's in the room, kind of. Chompy. Do you see how between 638 00:36:17,660 --> 00:36:20,580 every treat she's still looking around, she's still trying to figure out what's 639 00:36:20,580 --> 00:36:25,940 going on, she's still a little hesitant? Yeah. By the time I come back here, I 640 00:36:25,940 --> 00:36:27,520 don't want to see any hesitance whatsoever. 641 00:36:29,140 --> 00:36:33,320 Chompy kept looking behind her. That was her acting like prey again. Those are 642 00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:36,820 the moments we have to eliminate all together in order for these guys to ever 643 00:36:36,820 --> 00:36:38,380 have a chance of living in peace together. 644 00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:40,120 You guys ready for some homework? 645 00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:44,260 Yeah. All right. Now, the first thing is I want you to continue the circle game. 646 00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:47,840 The next thing, I don't want Chompy going to the garage at night. 647 00:36:48,590 --> 00:36:52,750 We have tried bringing Chompy in overnight, and it usually results in 648 00:36:52,750 --> 00:36:55,610 fights in the middle of the night. It was like running through the house, 649 00:36:55,730 --> 00:37:00,070 growling, hissing, screaming kind of a fight. So I am really not looking 650 00:37:00,070 --> 00:37:02,050 to having Chompy inside at night. 651 00:37:02,510 --> 00:37:03,970 Bitten's big play session. 652 00:37:04,390 --> 00:37:08,910 Let's space it about, I would say, an hour to an hour and a half before you go 653 00:37:08,910 --> 00:37:13,550 to bed at night. Okay. I'm hoping to see a more confident Chompy, you know, a 654 00:37:13,550 --> 00:37:16,950 cat that isn't going to hide and act like this is her home. 655 00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:21,060 I never thought about it until you just said it right now, that Chompy does not 656 00:37:21,060 --> 00:37:25,220 act like this is her home. She acts like the garage and outside is her home. 657 00:37:25,300 --> 00:37:28,440 Yeah. He's saying that really is like, yeah, I'd really like to see that. 658 00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:31,720 Remember, at the end of the day, I want you to be able to spend more time with 659 00:37:31,720 --> 00:37:35,180 Quinn without worrying about Kat and Fight. 660 00:37:35,770 --> 00:37:39,550 And catfights. Yeah, there are some miraculous changes going on in that 661 00:37:39,630 --> 00:37:43,870 But all it takes is one stare down, one weird look, one time the chompy's 662 00:37:43,870 --> 00:37:48,010 feeling a little edgy and run, and we're back to square one. So I'm not sure at 663 00:37:48,010 --> 00:37:52,770 all how this is going to end unless these guys stay 110 % vigilant. 664 00:37:52,990 --> 00:37:56,030 It was great to see you. You too. All right. We'll talk to you soon. All 665 00:37:56,030 --> 00:37:57,030 Jen. Bye -bye. Bye. 666 00:38:03,150 --> 00:38:06,710 I'm going in for my final visit with Megan and Kevin, Chompy and Bitten. 667 00:38:07,030 --> 00:38:10,910 Now, these cats hate each other, but there is a one -year -old daughter in 668 00:38:10,910 --> 00:38:11,808 picture as well. 669 00:38:11,810 --> 00:38:16,090 So I'm just hoping that the momentum that we established from the last time I 670 00:38:16,090 --> 00:38:19,730 was here just continued because these guys were doing well. There were just 671 00:38:19,730 --> 00:38:23,050 backslides in terms of the violence. I just want to see that completely over. 672 00:38:25,570 --> 00:38:26,730 What is this? 673 00:38:27,780 --> 00:38:30,560 I'm absolutely, I'm like, I'm blown away right now. Yeah. 674 00:38:30,900 --> 00:38:35,220 Chompy is out walking around, being a part of everything, rubbing up against 675 00:38:35,220 --> 00:38:36,560 legs, jumping up on the couch. 676 00:38:36,860 --> 00:38:41,820 Not the cat that I know. We did the circle game and we noticed that Chompy 677 00:38:41,820 --> 00:38:48,400 more intent on the toy. So then we started playing with both of them in the 678 00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:50,140 space at the same time. 679 00:38:50,700 --> 00:38:53,040 And they would give each other the respect. 680 00:38:53,260 --> 00:38:54,720 No aggression between them at all. 681 00:38:55,060 --> 00:38:56,860 It was none. No attacks. 682 00:38:57,180 --> 00:38:57,779 No attacks. 683 00:38:57,780 --> 00:38:58,618 No attacks. 684 00:38:58,620 --> 00:39:03,180 Yeah. When I first met Chompy, she was invisible. As a matter of fact, I didn't 685 00:39:03,180 --> 00:39:07,260 meet Chompy. I didn't meet Chompy until the second time I came over here because 686 00:39:07,260 --> 00:39:09,620 she was so petrified. She had no confidence. 687 00:39:09,820 --> 00:39:14,740 She felt like she was going to get attacked at all times. And to see her 688 00:39:14,740 --> 00:39:18,580 around this room with all the self -confidence in the world and this, I 689 00:39:18,580 --> 00:39:19,660 here. This is mine. 690 00:39:20,230 --> 00:39:23,670 I knew that everything was going to be okay. Keeping her in all the time, I 691 00:39:23,670 --> 00:39:27,210 think, has really helped her to realize that this is her house. Yeah. She is 692 00:39:27,210 --> 00:39:30,490 safe in it. And I think it helped Bitten understand that, you know, this is her 693 00:39:30,490 --> 00:39:33,050 house, and she is here all the time, so back off. 694 00:39:33,290 --> 00:39:35,450 The fact that Chompy... 695 00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:37,680 Doesn't have to sleep in the garage anymore. 696 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:41,120 That's part of the reason why we're seeing that cat today the way we are. 697 00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:45,400 finally, in the words of Megan, home. Do you feel differently towards Chompy at 698 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:48,720 this point? Oh, yeah. I love Chompy. How are you feeling about Bitten? I 699 00:39:48,720 --> 00:39:50,400 actually like Bitten now. 700 00:39:50,740 --> 00:39:51,740 Very nice. 701 00:39:51,820 --> 00:39:55,040 It's much nicer. And for you as well. 702 00:39:55,300 --> 00:40:00,260 Team Chompy, team Bitten no more. Makes me very happy. Great. I can say that I 703 00:40:00,260 --> 00:40:02,080 love Bitten just as much as I love Chompy now. 704 00:40:05,870 --> 00:40:07,170 What else? Tell me what else. 705 00:40:07,470 --> 00:40:11,310 We changed cat litter, and she's been able to use the box now. 706 00:40:11,610 --> 00:40:16,710 Bitten had a whole bunch of signals that said it's time to attack Chompy. One of 707 00:40:16,710 --> 00:40:20,630 those things was the litter. So my idea was, let's get a different type of 708 00:40:20,630 --> 00:40:24,530 litter that's not clay, so every time that Chompy scratches, it doesn't make 709 00:40:24,530 --> 00:40:26,330 sound, and she gets to go in peace. 710 00:40:26,550 --> 00:40:28,510 Team Bitten, Team Chompy, done. 711 00:40:28,750 --> 00:40:32,270 We don't have to worry about anything anymore. These guys are a family now. 712 00:40:32,270 --> 00:40:33,570 is huge news. 713 00:40:35,140 --> 00:40:38,500 It makes me so happy to see her enjoy the cat now. You know, she's really 714 00:40:38,500 --> 00:40:39,920 developing a relationship with them. 715 00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:45,300 Watch out for crazy chompy cat. They feel like chompy is at home now. She 716 00:40:45,300 --> 00:40:48,820 doesn't have to worry about being attacked anymore by anyone or anything. 717 00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:54,200 So it's so much nicer. Thank you so much. Yeah. We were really at a loss. 718 00:40:54,220 --> 00:40:58,040 we didn't know what to do. And honestly, no offense, I thought you were a load 719 00:40:58,040 --> 00:40:59,040 of BS. 720 00:41:00,009 --> 00:41:02,690 Obviously. You were talking all this math before you got here. This guy's not 721 00:41:02,690 --> 00:41:03,690 going to do anything. 722 00:41:04,650 --> 00:41:05,810 I'll take that. That's fine. 723 00:41:06,050 --> 00:41:08,770 But obviously, you definitely said that. Shut up, Kevin. 724 00:41:10,630 --> 00:41:15,310 Because I was completely wrong. You know absolutely what you're talking about, 725 00:41:15,410 --> 00:41:19,370 and it 100 % surpassed any expectation I could have had. Yeah. 726 00:41:19,910 --> 00:41:23,970 Yeah. I mean, thank you. I really appreciate it. You have given me time 727 00:41:23,970 --> 00:41:27,070 with our daughter, you know? I mean, we get to spend time with her. 728 00:41:29,040 --> 00:41:33,280 And it's because of you and all of your work. So we really, really, really do 729 00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:35,160 appreciate it. You're absolutely welcome. 730 00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:41,160 Overall today, everything came together in a way that you only fantasize about. 731 00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:46,240 This is what I dream of, being able to work with people who love their animals 732 00:41:46,240 --> 00:41:47,620 and are just missing some tools. 733 00:41:47,820 --> 00:41:52,120 I give them the tools, and that makes my job something that I would do for the 734 00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:53,680 rest of my life. Thank you for everything. 735 00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:54,960 You're absolutely welcome. 736 00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:59,820 Totally psyched to walk away right now with this level of peace that we have. 737 00:42:00,020 --> 00:42:01,540 Bye, guys. Bye. Thank you. 738 00:42:06,720 --> 00:42:08,060 Have a hellish cat? 739 00:42:08,620 --> 00:42:11,860 Get my tips on how to better understand your cat's behavior. 740 00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:16,480 Go to AnimalPlanet .com forward slash my cat from hell. 64581

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