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Big boy is a monster. He attacks both of
us.
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He has completely ruined our social
lives.
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I think I'm good. Big boy, stop it.
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He ultimately was why me and my ex
-boyfriend broke up.
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God,
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that really hurt.
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I am afraid that Nicole is becoming the
crazy cat lady.
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She needs to shape up or I'm shipping
out.
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I feel like Pump is purposely
antagonizing me.
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I call myself a vibrational therapist,
and it's like this constant battle with
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my room.
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I've given Luke an ultimatum that either
we fix Pump's behavior or he's got to
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go.
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I'm Jackson Galaxy.
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I'm a musician by night and a cat
behaviorist by day.
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I've met cats with all kinds of
problems.
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But I've never met one I couldn't help.
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Oh, hello. In my career, I've worked
with thousands of cats one -on -one,
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analyzing their behaviors and retraining
them and their guardians.
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When relationships are at an end, I
don't have many more options than to
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leave. And cat guardians have reached
their emotional limit. Just get rid of
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her. I'm their last hope.
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Are you all right? Sorry, I don't know.
Cats have nine lives, but humans only
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have one.
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Whoa!
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Good boy.
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seen Nicole and Shoshana. They've got a
cat named Big Boy, and Big Boy's
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aggressive tendencies are getting so in
the way that they're socializing, taking
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a hit. They don't even have friends come
over anymore.
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I'm going over right now to see if I can
help them get social back in their
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lives.
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My name's Nicole.
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My name's Shoshana.
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Shoshana and I have been best friends
for about four years, and we've lived
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together for two years.
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We have two cats.
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Cutie and Big Boy.
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Cutie is Big Boy's mother. She was a
stray cat. We noticed she was pregnant,
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we let her come in our apartment.
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She gave birth in my bedroom.
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All the kittens died within a week, and
Big Boy was the only survivor.
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It was very traumatic for the both of
us.
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But it turns out that he is horrible.
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He's a monster. He attacks both of us.
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He attacks Cutie. Big boy, stop it!
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He climbed all over the door, all over
the window, and he breaks out of the
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house.
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He peed and pooped on everything.
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Poop and piss.
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He's horrible.
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Our friends are very afraid of Big Boy.
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Big Boy.
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He has completely ruined our social
life.
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I can't have dates over.
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She can't have dates over.
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He ultimately was why me and my ex
-boyfriend broke up.
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What's wrong, big boy?
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Unfortunately, Cutie's just had another
litter of kittens. Now there's seven
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cats in the house.
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And it's very stressful. It's out of
control.
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Kind of like we're becoming like crazy
cat ladies.
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Big boy, go away.
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Stop it. I'm kind of just like over big
boy and everything that he does. So now
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I just...
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walk around thinking that he doesn't
really exist.
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I have given Nicole an ultimatum. It's
big boy or me. Big boy doesn't change,
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I'm gone.
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I think it's not the greatest situation
I'm put in that I have to choose between
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my cats and my roommate, but I'm very
attached to him.
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So that makes me sad because she's my
best friend, so I don't want her to move
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out.
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Hey. How you doing? Good. Good. Come on
in.
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Hey. Jackson, I need my social life
back.
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I need my best friend back. Please help.
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So, tell me why I'm here.
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We have an emotionally unstable cat.
Abusive towards us. Big boy attacks all
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our guests. We can no longer have dates
over anymore.
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Nothing. Like, our social lives are
ruined. Ruined. Completely ruined.
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I actually...
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Had invited someone to come over for
dinner, and then Nicole was like, oh,
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you're going to introduce him to Big
Boy?
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And I was like, oh, you're right. I have
to cancel. I called and canceled. We
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never went out again.
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Huh. So you guys are arguing about this
stuff? Mm -hmm.
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Yeah. Yeah. Gotten pretty bad?
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Like, I'm ready to move out, and it's
like, Nicole, it's me or the cats. And
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she's like, do what you got to do. She
just doesn't care anymore.
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You know, it's just all about Big Boy.
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I am afraid that Nicole is becoming the
definition of a crazy cat lady.
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It's really scary.
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And people start to think that I'm that
way, too.
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I'm ready to pack my bags and move.
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Nicole and Shoshana are young 20
-somethings. These guys should be kind
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living it up. I'm going to give this any
way that I can help these guys restore
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some balance in their lives, because
right now, there's none.
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When did he start getting aggressive
towards you guys?
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Maybe two or three months. Whenever he
attacked his mother for the first time,
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they would get in really, really scary
fights.
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Wow. Okay. The first nine weeks of a
kitten's life are absolutely crucial in
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terms of their behavior, their social
learning, the cues that they have. And
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without any siblings around him
whatsoever, Big Boy was forced to turn
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mom, Cutie, for those cues, and she
rejected him. Now I'm beginning to
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understand why he's just so bad around
people. We do have a litter of kittens
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here.
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Cutie's not Spade, right?
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What about Big Boy? No, he's not. No.
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So Big Boy can be the dad.
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He could be, yeah. Why are they intact?
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I wasn't thinking this could happen
again.
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If it hasn't already happened, it can
happen again like now.
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What's your plan with the kittens, by
the way? Oh, we're giving them away. I'm
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definitely giving them away. Take the
kittens?
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Okay. It is so frustrating to see how
irresponsible these girls have been with
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their cats. And now they have this
litter of kittens that they're just
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give away.
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And I can only hope.
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if they're going to give them away to
responsible pet guardians.
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So this is where big boy, in the middle
of the night, climbed on top of me and
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my ex -boyfriend and peed on him.
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On his chest. On his chest.
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And shortly after that is when we broke
up. If I've ever heard a case for
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neutering a cat, that would be it. Now,
why do we have this here?
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That's to get out of the house.
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You open the door, try to walk out.
You've got to show me. I don't know what
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you're doing.
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So you're trying to leave the house. You
do what? So I open the door.
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Really? You both do that every time you
leave the house? Pretty good. Pretty
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good, right? It's crazy.
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Yeah. The problem is he wants to get out
that badly. He wants to get out that
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badly because he's not neutered. And his
only job in this lifetime is to
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repopulate your neighborhood.
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So just as I was about to ask where he
was, there he is. There he is. There's
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the boy.
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What's up, buddy?
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After touring this entire house and not
seeing Big Boy once, I was getting kind
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of worried that I would never see his
behavior. Now is my chance to see that
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aggressive behavior firsthand.
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What's up, Bucky?
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What's up?
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I don't really want you to hide too
terribly much.
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So, come here.
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I know you don't like it in there.
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So, I'm going to come out here.
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Son of a gun.
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I was providing him very little escape
in that very narrow kitchen, so when he
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finally did get an angle, he darted. He
went into Nicole's room, went under a
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blanket, and just disappeared.
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I'm actually really interested to watch
him move around. So you guys come back
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in here with me, and then we're just
going to chill and wait to see what
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happens. Okay.
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When we had some quiet, it took minutes,
and big boy came out. Oh, boy. Yeah.
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He just does not understand his own
body.
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He doesn't speak cat even remotely.
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He flunked, you know.
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Watching him go after toys was amazing
because it confirmed my belief that this
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boy doesn't know how to speak cat.
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When he hunts for a mouse, he'll take
the mouse in his mouth and then he'll
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immediately drop it to try to figure out
what's going on because he doesn't know
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how to hunt.
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So, there's a couple of different layers
of what we're dealing with here.
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Obviously, the first layer is hormonal.
The other part of him is...
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He has no language of cat vocabulary,
and he's just sort of making it up as he
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goes along.
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These are things that we can teach him,
I think. But there's no way that we're
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going to get anything done right now
without him getting neutered and without
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Cutie getting spayed.
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Like today.
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After he comes back and he starts to
settle back into the new reality, let's
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take advantage of the fact that we got a
whole bunch of kittens here that are
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learning by leaps and bounds every day.
And this is the point in his life where
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he stopped learning, right? So during
play, I want to start actually getting
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involved in that way, like he's the
biggest second grader in the room. Let
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kittens help him out with. Even though
these girls still plan on giving these
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kittens away, we might as well still use
them while they're here and help.
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Take big boy back a grade to kid in
kindergarten and teach him how to
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play. Also, I'm going to start re
-involving you into his life. I think
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important for you to start re -engaging
with him because it is a way of bonding
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and it's a way of proving your
importance.
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Okay? It does bother me having to do all
this homework after I come home after a
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long day of work because I just want to
chill out and not have to deal with him.
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But let's just see how it goes.
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All right, guys. I'll see you soon. All
right. Good to meet you. Take care.
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We can't work on the real big boy until
I see the real big boy, and I won't
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until he's neutered. And I don't really
trust these girls to get that job done.
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I'm going in for my second visit with
Shoshana and Nicole and their cat, Big
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Boy. Big Boy.
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Nicole and Shoshana have no social life.
They couldn't even have dates come over
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because of their cat.
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I mean, even I got cut up by Big Boy.
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I asked them to go get Big Boy neutered.
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Hi. Without that being done, none of the
homework that I gave them is going to
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have any effect whatsoever.
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So hopefully they, at the very least,
did that. I'm going to go find out.
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How's life in Crazy Cat Land?
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Better. Let's hear about it. Tell me
what's going on.
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Nicole took them both to the vet.
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And? Big Boy.
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Cutie. Neutered.
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That's fantastic.
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Yeah. What about play? How's the play
going with these guys? Good. And now the
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kittens are like teaching him things.
He's playing nicer now.
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He's getting what play is. Yeah, and now
it's like, oh, this is what it means
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exactly to play. That's incredible.
That's incredible.
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Big Boy is taking cues from the kittens.
So they're sort of acting as this
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communicative and social bridge for him.
And as long as he has that bridge, we
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have hope. Now, in terms of him
attacking, what's going on with that?
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Well, I had a date.
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Hi. Hi.
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Okay, sorry, once again. Let me move
him.
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Big Boy, stop it. Go away.
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So he had laughs.
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And he never returned any of my phone
calls.
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Like I said the last time I was here,
neutering big boys is going to solve
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of the problems, but not all of them. We
have to find a way to eliminate all
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attacks because, after all, one attack
is too many. Let's take a look around,
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see what's changed since the last time I
was here. And hopefully we get to run
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into big boys. I haven't seen the boy
since I've been here. So come on, let's
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go.
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Now, of course, we still have a
tambourine here.
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How's that looking?
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He still tries to get outside, but it's
not as intense.
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Okay. I got something for you. This is a
two -parter. Just hang here. I'm just
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going to hand you something, okay?
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Here is thing one.
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Oh, this is so cute. So now please
replace your tambourine with thing
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one, please. And here is thing two.
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That is so amazing.
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Right?
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I'm really excited about the cat tree
that Jackson gave us. They're going to
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love it. So on your way out the door,
instead of using a tambourine now, big
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treats. Just freeze -dried turkey
hearts, and you get him to get up to the
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here. As soon as he settles there,
that's when you give him the treat, and
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leave.
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Also, get your friends to do it as well.
When they come over.
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Meat falls from the sky.
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I want friends to come over, and I want
Big Boy to know that good things happen
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every time they come over. That's a way
of reassociating relationships.
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Hi, kittens.
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We've got four kittens in here, and we
have what?
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Big Boy's in here.
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Big Boy is in here? He is in here.
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He's a very sneaky guy.
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And I haven't gotten to see him at all.
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When we saw Big Boy, I decided to take
that opportunity and try to engage him
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and see if the neutering had just slowed
him down at all.
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Good babies.
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Come towards your brother.
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Hello, Bubba.
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What's that?
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Hi.
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Everybody gets to eat.
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Everybody gets to eat.
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You too, I know.
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As I've seen before, Big Boy is clearly
afraid of strangers. But instead of
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lashing out aggressively like he did the
last time, this time he was just
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sitting calmly on the bed. Now, if we
could just get him to do that, we'd show
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Sean and Nicole's gift.
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Okay, good.
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Now with that, I can start giving you
guys some homework.
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So, first of all, we have the exercise
in and out of the front door. Pretty
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simple. Let's get that done with your
friends.
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The next thing is, let's talk about the
kittens for a second. Are all of them
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spoken for? Yes. They're going to leave
in about two more weeks. Okay.
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I love the fact that you've found homes
for them, but let's take it that next
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step. We ask them, make sure that as
soon as you have them, that you're going
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spay and neuter them, that you are not
going to declaw them, that if...
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If there is ever a problem that you call
me, this is a commitment that I made as
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their foster parent, and this is a
commitment that I ask you to make as
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adopter. If you're responsible for
kittens coming into this world, and
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going to adopt them out to somebody, you
have to lay down the law, so to speak,
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in the form of a contract. This is the
bond that Shoshana and Nicole made when
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they let this cat get pregnant in the
first place.
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Finally, one of the big issues I saw
when I first met you was Shoshana, you
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completely divested yourself.
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from the situation.
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Now, you're more bought in, right? A
little. A little.
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I mean, I think Shana has a better, I
think she's interacting with Big Boy
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better. But I think there could be more
effort on her part.
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How are you feeling about that, Shana?
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Oh, I guess we'll see how it goes.
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Big Boy's been getting better, but I'm
not sure about having dates over yet,
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especially after Nicole's thing with her
date.
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If Big Boy doesn't change, I'm gone.
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We have to get you guys on the same
page.
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So whatever it takes over the next
couple weeks, you guys work that out,
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me know if there's any issues as we go,
okay?
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Okay. All right, guys. All right, thank
you. All right, you're welcome. If
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Shoshana and Nicole don't present a
unified front in terms of consistency,
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basically Big Boy won't get better, and
there'll be resentment between the two
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of them, and someone's going to move
out. It's inevitable.
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And now it's time for a kiddie bit.
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How old was the oldest recorded cat?
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A, 27, B, 29, C, 38, or D, 43?
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The answer after the break.
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How old was the oldest recorded cat?
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And the answer is C, 38 years old. The
Guinness Book of World Records lists the
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cat named Cream Puff of Austin, Texas,
as the oldest cat on record.
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I'm heading in for my last visit with
Shoshana, Nicole, and their cats, Big
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and Cutie. Now, the last time I was
here, the neutering took care of almost
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of Big Boy's aggression except for the
one directed at strangers.
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So what I wanted to do was retrain Big
Boy so that he would associate their
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friends and, more importantly, their
date with Treat.
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How are you doing? Good, thank you. Come
in. And finally, today with the
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kittens, I want to see them go to good
homes with a contract.
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Hey.
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How are you doing? I'm okay. How are
you?
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I'm okay.
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I really feel like if they had just done
their homework, they'd have total
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success. So, has there been any attack?
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Be honest with me. Anything that's been
going on?
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No. No.
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So much better.
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My God, Shoshana's petting him.
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Wait, this is huge.
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Oh, my goodness.
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Nice.
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And... I'm seeing no tambourine.
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Oh, yeah, that's gone.
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Gone? Yeah.
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Good job, big boy.
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The treat jar works.
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All the guests that come over
immediately go to the treats by the
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job, big boy.
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Great, yeah, he's just kind of a normal
cat now.
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One more time with that? Kind of a
normal cat now. I love it. I love it.
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about you guys?
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We're back to being best friends again.
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I'm not moving out. Nicole's so much
better. Big boy's better.
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We're really good. So I'm here to stay.
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That's great.
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Things are absolutely wonderful.
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I've been going on dates.
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Found a guy who loves cats.
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There's actually the guy that I told you
about before, but I lured him back in.
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I'm glad you could meet him.
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Hey, my pleasure.
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This is nice.
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So that's wonderful.
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Yay. Yeah. Now, are the kittens still
here?
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They are.
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They're leaving what, any day now,
right?
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Tonight and tomorrow.
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And we talked last time about contracts
and... Yeah, I've sent out numbers for
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FixNation, for a vet, things about the
importance of getting them spayed and
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neutered immediately. And I think that
will be done within...
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Like a week. A week, yeah.
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Everyone's committed, yeah.
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Today, these kittens find a new home
with adopters who have signed adoption
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contracts saying that they will be
spayed and neutered within the next
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was really happy to see the shape these
guys were in. I can definitely say that
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Nicole is not going to be a crazy cat
lady, and she won't end up alone.
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She's going to make it.
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When I first met Shoshana and Nicole, I
just was kind of throwing my hands up. I
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didn't think they were going to rise to
the occasion, and boy, did they.
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Where is Big Boy at the moment?
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I believe he's under the couch.
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Under the couch? Yeah.
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When I come over, a lot of times he just
dashes under the couch.
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That's just who he is with me, and
that's okay.
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But I did want to say hi.
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Good boy.
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Obviously he's not aggressive, which is
great.
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I'm trying to just tell him that I'm not
a threat, so I'm giving him a little
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bit of that slow blink in action.
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That slow eye blink that I do, what I
call the cat I love you, it's basically
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this way that we can communicate with
cats, all of us. It's slowly, just
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at them softly and saying, I love you.
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I'm just trying to get him to return a
blink to me, and he is so close right
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now. I took my time and did it over and
over again, and finally, he returned it
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to me.
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There you go, big boy.
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Good boy.
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Good boy.
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At that moment, I knew that me and him
were on the same team, we're talking the
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same language, and he was going to be
okay.
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We've gotten rid of all the problems.
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So great work, guys, and I'm really
happy for you. Thank you so much.
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You're welcome.
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You're welcome. I think our social lives
have changed just being able to have
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people over and not having to worry
about it. It doesn't matter if it's like
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date or if it's a friend.
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The household is calm enough for them to
come in.
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I'm going to take off.
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Can I give you a hug?
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Yeah, you can give me a hug. When I
first met Shoshana and Nicole, Shoshana
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saying that if Big Boy was going to
continue to be Big Boy, then Shoshana
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probably going to move out.
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That's off the table. There's no
violence, and I'm happy with it, and I
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that the future is really bright for
both of them. Bye -bye.
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I feel like Pump is purposely
antagonizing me.
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He's not even my cat.
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He's your ex -girlfriend's cat.
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Pump, shut up!
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Either we fix Pump's behavior or he's
got to go.
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Pump, no!
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I'm going over to visit Lucas and
Candice and their cat, Pump.
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Now, Candice is an energetic healer. She
works out of her home, and she believes
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that Pump is purposefully antagonizing
her.
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And look, the last time I checked, Cat's
had pretty good energy. I just want to
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see if I can change her mind.
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I'm Lucas.
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And I'm Candice. And we're expecting our
first child in a couple of months.
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We met at a music venue in Los Angeles.
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It was definitely a connection right
away, and we've been together ever
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Ever since, yeah. I have a cat named
Pump. Pump was an ex -girlfriend cat.
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We split up. She took Pump and was not a
very good caretaker for Pump. So
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I took Pump and have had him ever since,
and he's 23 years old.
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I call myself a vibrational therapist
for healing work.
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When we decided to change the house
around and accommodate me doing my
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out of here, it never occurred to me
that Pump was going to react the way
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he did.
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It's like this constant battle with my
room.
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It's like I can't have my room to myself
because he's meowing.
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Pump, shut up!
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He gets in here and he will meow and
interrupt my session.
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I feel like Pump is purposely
antagonizing me.
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Pump, no.
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Yeah, it's a pretty emotional time right
now. Pump and I have such a long
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history together.
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If I gave him to somebody and he died a
month later, I would feel like that was
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because I threw him out of his
comfortable environment.
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I guess I just never realized until this
moment how much you
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love Pump.
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I feel, you know, I hate being the bad
guy.
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If this work with Jackson doesn't work,
it's going to be a sad ending for all of
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us.
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Pump is 23 years old. That's
extraordinarily old for a cat. The
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the neighborhood of 15, 16.
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Rehoming him right now would simply be a
death sentence for him. So I have to
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make sure that he stays right here.
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Hey, howdy.
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Well, Mr. Pump, I would assume.
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That's right. That's Pump.
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So tell me, he looks totally chill.
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What's up?
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Pump's my cat.
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And actually, he was an ex -girlfriend's
cat.
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And I've had him for about 12 years.
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I think with his age, the last couple
years, he's gotten progressively more
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whiny. I mean, he's not being loud now,
but he wakes up in the middle of the
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night.
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And then when I created my healing space
here in the house and needed to block
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him off, he really protested that. And
he continuously breaks into the room and
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he pooped on my massage table. Then
he'll poop and pee outside of the litter
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box. That was kind of the message, like,
hey, this is my place.
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I have never seen projection.
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to this level before. You lock him away,
he had separation anxiety, and he peed
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and he pooped. And that's very simple.
Just don't do it anymore.
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It's obvious there's human issues going
on here. Now, what I might do is I would
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want to put him outside, but then if he
doesn't want to be outside, he'll sit at
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that front door and meow.
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So then I lock him in the back room and
he'll meow and you can hear everything
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in this house. It's antagonistic. It's
like, you want this? I want that. And
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like, is this how it's going to be when
I'm home with the baby and trying to
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juggle everything?
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Where has the discussion gone with you
guys, I guess? I've given Luke an
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ultimatum that either we fix Pump's
behavior or he's got to go.
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Really? Honestly? A 23 -year -old cat?
What has this cat done to you? There is
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no reason to rehome this cat at 23 years
old. He's been with Lucas for 12 of
460
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:57,960
those years. 12 years forms a bond that
you can't just ask to walk away.
461
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:01,580
If you rehome this cat, the stress alone
could kill him.
462
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,980
What I want to do is I just want to go
into the places that are the most
463
00:26:04,980 --> 00:26:06,320
important. All right.
464
00:26:09,260 --> 00:26:10,260
Cool.
465
00:26:11,140 --> 00:26:12,140
This is great.
466
00:26:12,460 --> 00:26:15,640
This is my vibroacoustic table. It
vibrates frequencies.
467
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:20,260
A client lays down, and I scan with my
hand. I scan the first three fields.
468
00:26:20,540 --> 00:26:25,620
I'm looking for heat or coolness or
whatever, and I get intuitive kind of
469
00:26:25,740 --> 00:26:27,700
And I go, okay, this is what I'm going
to do.
470
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:30,700
Oh, show me the doors. Yeah, the doors.
471
00:26:33,390 --> 00:26:35,570
As you can see, there's a spade.
472
00:26:43,730 --> 00:26:48,210
Once he gets in here, what does he do?
He beelines it usually for these silks,
473
00:26:48,210 --> 00:26:51,610
which is the last place I want him to
be, because I don't want cat hair all
474
00:26:51,610 --> 00:26:54,690
my expensive silks that I'm not supposed
to wash that often.
475
00:26:54,970 --> 00:26:58,530
Of course, he goes up on the pillows
there just because of the shedding.
476
00:26:58,730 --> 00:27:00,330
Those pillows aren't washable.
477
00:27:00,530 --> 00:27:01,790
Music comes through this thing?
478
00:27:02,070 --> 00:27:03,070
Yeah, I can play it.
479
00:27:03,260 --> 00:27:07,980
Is it a big pain? Can you play
something? I want to see his reaction
480
00:27:07,980 --> 00:27:10,520
turn it on. Oh, there, I feel it.
481
00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:12,820
Let's see if he feels it.
482
00:27:17,740 --> 00:27:19,240
He definitely knows what's going on.
483
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:26,600
I had this idea. I wanted her to start
approaching Pump as if he were just
484
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:29,100
another being with an energetic
blockage.
485
00:27:29,770 --> 00:27:34,050
Pump was clearly drawn to Candice's
energy work, so I figured, all right,
486
00:27:34,050 --> 00:27:34,889
time to try it.
487
00:27:34,890 --> 00:27:40,470
So if I were giving a session, I usually
start by scanning your fields here.
488
00:27:40,750 --> 00:27:43,310
Wow. Ooh, wow. That's the coolest thing.
489
00:27:44,490 --> 00:27:47,230
One thing I do know is Pump likes the
tuning fork.
490
00:27:47,750 --> 00:27:49,410
Oh, really? Cool those out.
491
00:27:50,850 --> 00:27:52,330
It's making my tongue get tired.
492
00:27:52,590 --> 00:27:54,330
No, it helps balance the brainwave.
493
00:28:03,630 --> 00:28:07,970
Lying on that table, not only do you
feel the energy from the sound and the
494
00:28:07,970 --> 00:28:13,070
light coursing through your body, but
Candice herself is a pretty strong
495
00:28:13,310 --> 00:28:18,250
There's something that he's drawn to in
here. It's not, I want to mess your
496
00:28:18,250 --> 00:28:24,830
stuff up. I believe strongly that any
being, four -legged or two -legged,
497
00:28:24,830 --> 00:28:27,370
attuned would be drawn to the spade.
498
00:28:27,900 --> 00:28:33,020
I was really happy that Jackson's
genuinely interested in the energy
499
00:28:33,540 --> 00:28:39,080
The big thing that I feel like I'm
seeing today is a relationship between
500
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:41,080
two of you that was never built.
501
00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:46,980
The bond never happened fully between
us. And then he's energetically linked
502
00:28:46,980 --> 00:28:49,700
the ex -girlfriend because that's how he
came into their relationship.
503
00:28:50,220 --> 00:28:53,980
I know people always, when I say, and
it's his ex -girlfriend's casting, oh,
504
00:28:53,980 --> 00:28:56,300
know, like that's the problem. And there
is something.
505
00:28:57,080 --> 00:29:00,000
to be said about that. I think that one
of the things that maybe you're not
506
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:06,380
looking at is that there's a reason why
he's in your life right now.
507
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:13,260
Whether it is you bringing healing to
him or him bringing healing to you, or
508
00:29:13,260 --> 00:29:19,040
both. I think in a healing space, a cat
is an amazing component.
509
00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:24,320
Basically, I see where he's going.
Jackson is suggesting that I allow Pump
510
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:26,520
the space. I think that's going to be a
hard...
511
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:32,340
one to swallow here's your homework
first of all i want you to make pump
512
00:29:32,340 --> 00:29:35,620
first animal client because it is
something that's going to benefit your
513
00:29:35,620 --> 00:29:39,900
relationship with him next i'd like to
hook you up with a vet friend of mine on
514
00:29:39,900 --> 00:29:43,660
a more scientific level i do want to
know what his blood says and what his
515
00:29:43,660 --> 00:29:48,960
says at this age there's no way that
something's not a little off and finally
516
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:54,570
think that pump can bring a lot to your
practice and and a lot to your client So
517
00:29:54,570 --> 00:30:00,530
I want to see that happen, and that's
allowing the space to be open again.
518
00:30:00,530 --> 00:30:04,510
is the hardest part of this whole thing
in the next couple of weeks because
519
00:30:04,510 --> 00:30:06,390
there's going to be a storm before the
calm.
520
00:30:08,370 --> 00:30:12,310
Yeah, okay. He gave it his homework.
We'll try it, but I'm not thrilled about
521
00:30:12,310 --> 00:30:16,010
it, and I feel like that becomes me
making all the compromise.
522
00:30:16,950 --> 00:30:17,950
Thank you so much.
523
00:30:18,090 --> 00:30:19,610
Thank you. All right, man. Take care.
524
00:30:19,850 --> 00:30:20,850
Bye, buddy. Bye.
525
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:24,840
Candace works with moving energy through
people, moving trauma through people,
526
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:30,140
yet she is holding a resentment so
tightly that it's like a rock inside her
527
00:30:30,140 --> 00:30:31,140
body.
528
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:37,040
The last time I was here, Candace told
me that she had absolutely no
529
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:41,480
relationship with Lucas' cat, Pump,
because he was owned by Lucas and an ex
530
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:47,140
-girlfriend. And Pump, according to
Candace, antagonizes her regularly.
531
00:30:50,270 --> 00:30:51,270
Shut up!
532
00:30:51,850 --> 00:30:55,490
For her homework, I asked her to treat
Pump like a client.
533
00:30:55,750 --> 00:30:58,150
Clear out his energy so they can start
fresh together.
534
00:30:58,390 --> 00:31:02,310
If she did that homework, we got a place
that we can start from. If not, it's
535
00:31:02,310 --> 00:31:03,310
going to be a long day.
536
00:31:04,470 --> 00:31:07,170
So, tell me, what's been going on since
the last time I was here?
537
00:31:07,670 --> 00:31:10,290
Well, the biggest thing was the vet
visit.
538
00:31:10,970 --> 00:31:12,030
Yeah? And how is he?
539
00:31:12,430 --> 00:31:15,730
There's a good chance that he has some
thyroid problems.
540
00:31:16,250 --> 00:31:21,210
In cats, they can be hyperthyroid. It's
like being on a caffeine IV drip. So
541
00:31:21,210 --> 00:31:24,450
they're always hungry. They're always
moving. They could be constantly eating
542
00:31:24,450 --> 00:31:27,990
and still lose weight. So let me guess,
he's still yelling at the door. Yeah,
543
00:31:28,010 --> 00:31:31,890
he's still yelling at the door, which
leads us to believe that it's medical.
544
00:31:32,210 --> 00:31:35,130
Maybe with some medication, we might
start to see a change.
545
00:31:35,550 --> 00:31:39,230
I just want to know where you're at
right now for your acceptance of having
546
00:31:39,230 --> 00:31:40,230
around here.
547
00:31:41,900 --> 00:31:45,520
I don't know. There's certain behaviors
still they have to change, and it's kind
548
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:46,600
of like, well, we'll just have to see.
549
00:31:47,100 --> 00:31:50,800
There's still a big part of me that
feels that it would just be better if
550
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:52,260
wasn't here anymore.
551
00:31:54,180 --> 00:31:59,120
Maybe Pump symbolizes a part of my
personality, which is compassion.
552
00:32:00,780 --> 00:32:03,180
I just feel like you just implied I have
no compassion.
553
00:32:05,420 --> 00:32:06,820
I didn't say that.
554
00:32:07,060 --> 00:32:08,520
I know. I implied it.
555
00:32:09,220 --> 00:32:11,080
Right. He's not even my cat.
556
00:32:11,770 --> 00:32:14,010
It wasn't even your cat. It was your
girlfriend's cat.
557
00:32:14,590 --> 00:32:16,170
What is the conversation?
558
00:32:16,710 --> 00:32:22,790
My side is, well, I'll do whatever it
takes, but the truth is I can't all the
559
00:32:22,790 --> 00:32:24,550
time because, you know, I have to be
away working.
560
00:32:25,130 --> 00:32:29,450
Exactly. That's my point is that, well,
if you can't do it all the time, then
561
00:32:29,450 --> 00:32:33,950
that means that the responsibility falls
on me. You're responsible for Pumps.
562
00:32:33,970 --> 00:32:34,869
That's my point.
563
00:32:34,870 --> 00:32:37,290
And maybe you need to own up to that.
564
00:32:38,010 --> 00:32:39,010
Well, I...
565
00:32:39,180 --> 00:32:43,640
Instead of putting it on me, like I'm
the bad person that just can't handle
566
00:32:45,420 --> 00:32:46,239
What else?
567
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:47,240
What else did I miss?
568
00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:49,580
Well, I did give Pump his session.
569
00:32:50,540 --> 00:32:52,160
Pump, welcome to my practice.
570
00:32:53,380 --> 00:32:55,700
And I felt that Pump actually liked it.
Oh, cool.
571
00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:57,820
Who helps heal inflammation.
572
00:32:59,540 --> 00:33:00,640
Good boy, Pump.
573
00:33:02,060 --> 00:33:04,320
Let's head over to the healing room.
I've got an idea, okay?
574
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:05,600
Okay. Let's go.
575
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:08,200
Okay.
576
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:11,000
So, what's gone on since the last time I
was here?
577
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:12,660
Tell me the part that's not okay.
578
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:16,400
Well, still keeping him away from my
silks.
579
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:20,480
You know, and like pillows that I can't
wash that will get hair.
580
00:33:20,820 --> 00:33:21,820
Yeah, for sure.
581
00:33:22,420 --> 00:33:28,740
We want to work on having places in here
that are okay.
582
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:32,980
Do you really think if he had a place,
then he would know to go to that place
583
00:33:32,980 --> 00:33:33,980
and not other places?
584
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:37,340
If there's one thing I know, it's
what...
585
00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:38,800
Cats like.
586
00:33:39,020 --> 00:33:42,720
Basically, I want her to build up places
that he can say yes to. This is mine.
587
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:47,180
There's so much payoff in that place
that the places that he has for her,
588
00:33:47,180 --> 00:33:48,920
stay away from. So let's get him up
here.
589
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:54,760
Good boy.
590
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:57,960
I'm going to use some orange light.
591
00:33:58,220 --> 00:34:00,700
Orange is good for healing bones and
stuff.
592
00:34:01,220 --> 00:34:03,180
I'm just watching his reactions to you.
593
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:10,920
He's just soaking it up right now. Yeah.
I mean, look on his face. Yeah, see, I
594
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:13,739
mean, you can tell. It's weird. It's
like I'm not even touching him. It's
595
00:34:13,739 --> 00:34:18,100
the light, but somehow you can tell he's
absorbing it. I think it's something
596
00:34:18,100 --> 00:34:20,380
he's just been craving is a little more
attention.
597
00:34:22,780 --> 00:34:26,380
I felt honored to be a witness to what
was going on, which was a bridging
598
00:34:26,380 --> 00:34:30,780
between a cat and a human who said that
for six years she had no relationship.
599
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:34,080
This was now two beings joining each
other.
600
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:38,840
That. is why I do this, and it means a
lot to me.
601
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:43,920
These are the chakra notes. This is the
F note, the root chakra note.
602
00:34:55,460 --> 00:34:57,540
He's just really comfortable right now.
603
00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:02,380
Soon, as she hit that note, he turns
over. There's nothing that he's relaxed
604
00:35:02,380 --> 00:35:04,240
about except for that sound.
605
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:07,280
Hitting his auric field. Man, that was
cool.
606
00:35:08,140 --> 00:35:09,160
It's amazing.
607
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:13,500
It shouldn't be surprising, you know,
watching animals respond to what you do.
608
00:35:13,780 --> 00:35:19,620
Now that I'm seeing this avenue of
opening up my energy work, I'm getting a
609
00:35:19,620 --> 00:35:23,740
motivation. I can't deny that. It's
working a little bit.
610
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:31,960
Good. I still don't feel that optimistic
about eventually leaving my space all
611
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:33,300
set up and sharing it with Pump.
612
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:36,380
I just don't.
613
00:35:37,700 --> 00:35:41,880
If Pump winds up without this home, he
will die.
614
00:35:42,100 --> 00:35:45,460
I've already said I will do whatever it
takes to make that not happen, but I
615
00:35:45,460 --> 00:35:50,680
can't break arms to make that happen. I
can only sort of show the way and hope
616
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:51,980
that people walk the path too.
617
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:55,120
Got a little something I made for you?
618
00:35:55,540 --> 00:35:56,540
No.
619
00:35:57,340 --> 00:35:59,480
I decided you needed a vision board.
620
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:04,320
A vision board is something I've used in
my life before. You see things that
621
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:07,280
represent what you want your life to be,
you put them on the board.
622
00:36:07,540 --> 00:36:10,800
Cats can play such a huge part in
spirituality and they have.
623
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:18,000
These come from Buddhist temples in
Myanmar and Thailand and where the monks
624
00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:22,640
have accepted them as teachers and
they...
625
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:28,220
add this energy to the environment,
which is where I wanted to take it. In
626
00:36:28,220 --> 00:36:33,260
homework, A, I would sure love to see
you add to this and build a vision. And
627
00:36:33,260 --> 00:36:37,880
this is partly about Pump. This is also
about the gift that you have to share
628
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:39,720
with all animals and their people.
629
00:36:40,100 --> 00:36:41,600
Also, I'd like you to find...
630
00:36:42,060 --> 00:36:45,980
Whatever it takes, if it's a shelf or
something like that, to divide the ends
631
00:36:45,980 --> 00:36:50,420
the silk and have room for him to walk
underneath and the floor. That becomes
632
00:36:50,420 --> 00:36:53,580
sort of a passage point for him and not
a place where he can get into trouble as
633
00:36:53,580 --> 00:36:59,300
well. I also want you to take the next
step with him. Bring in your clients.
634
00:36:59,710 --> 00:37:03,850
Let them be a part of that healing. I
want her to bring her own clients into
635
00:37:03,850 --> 00:37:07,630
room with Pump in there so they can feel
what it's like to have the healing
636
00:37:07,630 --> 00:37:12,990
energy of an animal be part of these
rituals around sound and light. I'm
637
00:37:12,990 --> 00:37:13,990
to take off. All right.
638
00:37:14,030 --> 00:37:15,350
Good to see you. Thanks, Jackson.
639
00:37:15,550 --> 00:37:18,230
Thank you so much. We'll talk to you
soon, my buddy.
640
00:37:18,950 --> 00:37:25,590
With Pump, if he doesn't live out his
life with the gift of this home, I would
641
00:37:25,590 --> 00:37:26,610
be devastated.
642
00:37:26,990 --> 00:37:28,450
It would break my heart.
643
00:37:30,399 --> 00:37:33,860
So, you know, I'll do whatever it takes
to make sure that doesn't happen.
644
00:37:40,060 --> 00:37:43,240
I'm about to go for my final visit with
Candace, Lucas, and their cat, Pump.
645
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:47,440
Now, listen, all I care about is that
they're going to tell me we're keeping
646
00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:51,240
Pump. He's going to live out his life
with us. Am I going to hear it? I have
647
00:37:51,240 --> 00:37:52,240
slightest idea.
648
00:37:53,720 --> 00:37:54,720
Hey!
649
00:37:54,820 --> 00:37:56,280
Hey, good to see you. Come on in.
650
00:37:56,780 --> 00:38:00,760
Hey, Candace. Hi, Jackson. How are you?
Good, how are you? I'm doing great,
651
00:38:00,820 --> 00:38:02,660
thanks. Talk to me. What's going on?
652
00:38:03,140 --> 00:38:07,840
Well, we've been giving Pump his thyroid
medicine for about a week, and I
653
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:10,240
already noticed little changes.
654
00:38:10,860 --> 00:38:11,819
That's great.
655
00:38:11,820 --> 00:38:14,840
That late -night howling, I promise you,
is thyroid.
656
00:38:18,500 --> 00:38:21,000
He hasn't pooped outside the litter box.
657
00:38:21,730 --> 00:38:23,130
That's a huge bonus.
658
00:38:23,410 --> 00:38:27,530
So the last time I was here, I asked you
to bring over a client and have Pump be
659
00:38:27,530 --> 00:38:28,468
a part of it.
660
00:38:28,470 --> 00:38:32,150
Yeah. How'd that go? It was interesting
because Pump, of course, immediately did
661
00:38:32,150 --> 00:38:33,150
want to be in the room.
662
00:38:33,930 --> 00:38:37,650
He sat or stood on the chair for a while
and likes that spot.
663
00:38:40,310 --> 00:38:45,970
I'm impressed by the fact that your
willingness seems to be on the rise.
664
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:49,840
Things are looking better, in part
because of the thyroid medication, but
665
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:54,260
because Candice has allowed herself to
have a relationship with Pomp. I
666
00:38:54,260 --> 00:38:58,420
have gotten stuff from this experience.
I am going to pursue the animal healing
667
00:38:58,420 --> 00:39:01,160
aspect. I'm really excited about that.
668
00:39:01,380 --> 00:39:05,940
Who would have thought that she would be
expanding this energy practice to
669
00:39:05,940 --> 00:39:08,860
animals? I love being a part of just
seeing it take shape.
670
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:14,080
All right, now this room has a different
vibe to it altogether, which is amazing
671
00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:17,350
because, I mean, again, this was... Your
face.
672
00:39:17,890 --> 00:39:20,950
We had a door that closed him out of
here.
673
00:39:25,110 --> 00:39:29,470
The first thing I want to point out is
your board. I mean, it looks like you've
674
00:39:29,470 --> 00:39:33,470
added. Yeah, I've added. And then, of
course, that chair is perfect because
675
00:39:33,470 --> 00:39:36,150
by the window and it's leather and he
likes it because it's cool.
676
00:39:36,430 --> 00:39:39,870
He hangs out on the chair. Yeah, it's
like he doesn't even pay attention to
677
00:39:39,870 --> 00:39:40,870
pillow situation.
678
00:39:41,390 --> 00:39:44,510
I mean, you really took what I said and
you ran with it.
679
00:39:45,070 --> 00:39:50,630
This is, you know, it's just a huge
change.
680
00:39:50,990 --> 00:39:55,490
Can you imagine that just a few weeks
ago she was saying about this cat that
681
00:39:55,490 --> 00:40:02,010
wanted no part of, and today there's a
massive overstuffed chair there just for
682
00:40:02,010 --> 00:40:03,850
him. Now I see down here.
683
00:40:04,610 --> 00:40:10,910
We've installed a little shelf that
takes the filth off the floor.
684
00:40:11,210 --> 00:40:14,590
He can get by now? Yeah, he can still go
back there if he wants.
685
00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:18,160
You don't have the same fear that you
had of him around those silks.
686
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:20,440
Great. We got them off the ground.
687
00:40:20,720 --> 00:40:25,520
I got to tell you, now that I've been in
here, that I've seen your board, I
688
00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:27,740
choose to believe that this is the
truth.
689
00:40:28,100 --> 00:40:29,400
That what's in here is the truth.
690
00:40:29,860 --> 00:40:36,320
I never backed away from you guys. From
the moment I came here, I was like, I
691
00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:39,320
want this boy to stay with you. And the
time that you have is short.
692
00:40:41,940 --> 00:40:43,300
Just give me...
693
00:40:43,740 --> 00:40:44,760
I am going to keep pump.
694
00:40:49,140 --> 00:40:50,300
I'm going to keep pump.
695
00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:52,040
One more time.
696
00:40:53,500 --> 00:40:55,100
Come on. Come on.
697
00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:57,040
I'm going to keep pump.
698
00:40:57,720 --> 00:40:58,720
I love that.
699
00:40:59,460 --> 00:41:00,460
I love that.
700
00:41:02,140 --> 00:41:03,140
Thank you.
701
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:04,960
Thank you, Jackson.
702
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:05,779
You're welcome.
703
00:41:05,780 --> 00:41:08,800
And thank you. You guys are amazing.
704
00:41:09,140 --> 00:41:12,420
And this was really touching. I don't
know why.
705
00:41:12,890 --> 00:41:18,150
At the start of this, Pump was very much
Luke's ex -girlfriend's cat, and now I
706
00:41:18,150 --> 00:41:21,990
definitely see him as a gateway to
something greater for me.
707
00:41:22,310 --> 00:41:25,490
I've always seen myself doing this work
with animals too.
708
00:41:26,150 --> 00:41:28,790
I love the commitment that you guys have
shown.
709
00:41:29,310 --> 00:41:30,990
We don't know how long he's got.
710
00:41:31,330 --> 00:41:34,630
I thank you from him because he speaks
to me.
711
00:41:35,970 --> 00:41:38,470
Amazing to meet both of you. You too.
712
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:43,580
Take care, man. All right, you too. And
you can stay there if you wanted to. All
713
00:41:43,580 --> 00:41:45,160
right. All right, take care.
714
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:47,420
Thank you, you too. Bye, guys. Bye.
715
00:41:47,900 --> 00:41:48,900
Bye, Pop.
716
00:41:50,020 --> 00:41:56,100
I'm starting to see how if I change my
behavior with him and work with him
717
00:41:56,100 --> 00:41:59,840
instead of against him, that we maybe
actually could be friends.
718
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:06,260
Letting him stay here for the rest of
his days is also a gift to me, so
719
00:42:06,260 --> 00:42:08,000
thank you.
720
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:09,320
You're welcome.
721
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:10,700
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