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Cleo is the devil. Oh, oh, oh, I'm going
to kill this cat. It's a
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prerequisite for whoever I'm with to get
along with Cleo. I would propose to
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Brooke tomorrow if Jackson fixed Cleo's
problem.
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Stop it. Stop it right now.
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Living with Marco is like being in a war
zone.
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Marco is really violent.
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He bites.
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Scratch it. I'm scared, actually.
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Yuki's sort of a cute and harmless
animal, and Marco's claiming more ground
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himself.
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I'm afraid that I'm going to walk in one
day and just walk into a bloodbath.
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In order for our relationship to grow,
we desperately need the issues with
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fixed.
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I'm Jackson Galaxy.
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I'm a musician by night and a cat
behaviorist by day.
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I've met cats with all kinds of
problems.
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But I've never met one I couldn't help.
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In my career, I've worked with thousands
of cats, one -on -one, analyzing their
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behaviors and retraining them and their
guardians.
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When relationships are at an end. I feel
like I have to choose between my best
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friends. And cat guardians have reached
their emotional limit. The end of the
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line. I'm their last hope.
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I think your fear feeds the dynamic
between the two of you. Cats have nine
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lives, but humans only have one.
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Leo,
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you give cats a bad name.
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Brooklyn and Tim are having serious
relationship problems because of their
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I've seen the video footage and it's
really pretty intense.
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Cleo. Ow!
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Can I smack your cat if he hits mine?
No, you cannot.
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Stop it!
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I have got to help these guys out.
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I'm Brooklyn.
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And I'm Tim. And we've been together for
two and a half years.
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We actually met kind of on like a blind
date, and we did not like each other at
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all.
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We always fought, and then it was like,
it wasn't until like eight months later,
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I was like, oh, I think I kind of love
him.
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But it took a long time.
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Cleo is my princess.
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I was going through a really hard time
last year and my nieces, they were like,
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oh, we have a baby kitten. I was like,
well, come over. I want to meet her.
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And I just like instantly like fell in
love with her. And I asked them, you
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know, can I babysit her? And they said,
OK. And I just never returned her.
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It was like seriously like love at first
sight.
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I know that she can be a brat, but I
think she means well.
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But she's been bad since.
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He was a cat. She was the best kitten in
the world. But now Cleo is the devil.
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Tim has two cats, Snarf and Meow Meow.
And this cat situation is keeping us
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from, like, going further in our
relationship because, well, he doesn't
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move in together because he's afraid
that Cleo is going to teach his cats bad
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habits. I feel like if our cats all got
together, all hell would definitely
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break loose.
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Of course they're going to fight and
knock it along when they first meet each
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other. That's just what, like, brothers
and sisters do. That'll be their
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stepbrother and sister.
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Yeah, but stepbrothers and stepsisters
usually hate each other. Well, there's
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six times. I didn't like you when I
first met you, and now we're boyfriend
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girlfriend. So, like, you know, that
should be proof right there.
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I guess this is kind of like the last
resort. I would definitely say it's the
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last resort.
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I would propose to Brooke tomorrow if
Jackson fixed Cleo's problem.
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100%.
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I've been doing this for a long time. I
got to tell you, very seldom is it just
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about the cat.
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It's about the people, too. I always
have hope for the cat.
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When it comes to the people, I'm a
little more iffy.
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I'm Brooklyn.
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Hey, Brooklyn. I'm Jackson.
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Tim. What's up, Tim? How are you? Good,
good.
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I have a problem child.
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What are you doing? Yes, her name is
Cleo.
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What's the big issue then with Cleo? I
think she just...
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Doesn't like me, though. I mean, like,
if I was to go pick her up, she's going
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to scratch me or bite me or something.
That's not normal behavior for a cat. I
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spend my life dealing with abnormal
cats, so she could be completely
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but we'll work with that.
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What I want to make sure of is that I
know how dangerous she is, first of all.
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Also, we need to start getting into the
deal with your cats, because we're going
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to be introducing these guys.
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They've met when my two were kittens.
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And Cleo Chase, Lady Meow Meow, Under
the Bush.
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There's no such thing as a cat play
date. You can't just bring cats over
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someone else's territory and expect it
to all be peaches. Cats are territorial.
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They need to own the world that they're
in. And that's not going to happen in
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the arrangement that we have right now.
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I feel like using Cleo as a reason not
to move in together or to get engaged.
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And, you know, our three -year
anniversary is coming up. And if we
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sort of progression, I don't want to
waste any more time in this
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Last time I checked, I'm a cat
behaviorist. Wedding planner, not so
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I'm not asking Brooke to get rid of her
cat. And I would never ask someone to
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get rid of an animal. But I had a Boston
Terrier named Kobe.
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She just never liked him from the
beginning.
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Not true.
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She's admitted to it. So anyways, I was
getting a lot of pressure from her to
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get rid of him. No, I never did that. I
never asked you to get rid of him. I
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never once said get rid of him. And
so... You're out of control right now.
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you not like him?
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I didn't like it. Okay, I didn't like
it. You don't like the dog. Okay, and I
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don't like your cat, but I would... Time
out, time out.
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Did you ever ask him to get rid of the
dog? No, absolutely not. Never did? No.
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She'd be like, hey, it's not right for
him to live here. Hey, it's not right.
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Like, he has to sleep with me every
night, right?
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So when she would come over... Sorry, I
don't want a dog in the bed with us. Oh,
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but there's no problem with having three
cats in the bed with us. The point
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behind this whole story was that there
might be a little bit of resentment.
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You think?
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It was a real round of fireworks between
those two.
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That dog represents a lot of built -up
hostility.
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That was a glitch in their relationship.
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He doesn't have to do the same to this
cat.
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You know, you talk about how the whole
thing with Cleo is kind of an excuse,
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the animal thing becomes sort of a
relationship thing. It's not necessarily
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all about cats.
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Tim says that Cleo is not an excuse.
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It's not getting engaged or moving in
together.
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He would never say it's either me or the
cat, but I feel like he means it
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underneath. We need to keep the cat
issue cat -sized. It's not relationship
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-sized. It's cat -sized.
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You know, it's really unfair the amount
of pressure that they're putting on this
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one cat. Their relationship is literally
at a standstill over Cleo.
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So where's she at?
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She's in my room.
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I would like to see...
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All of us together in there, okay?
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All right, let's see.
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This is how you would normally pick her
up? Usually, usually I pick her up like
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this. I have picked her up. I don't
because... Yeah, see, that's usually
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she does.
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The thing about Tim is that he's very
uncomfortable going to touch Cleo at all
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times.
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Oh, oh, oh, I'm going to kill this cat
in two seconds.
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Blood has been drawn.
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You approach her with fear.
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Yeah, definitely.
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But here's the thing about her. She
gives you plenty of warning. You know
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when she starts giving you that growl,
if I were to ignore it right now and
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start giving her the pets like this,
right, I'd start getting it. It's kind
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cute, I think.
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Really? Oh, my God.
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Okay, let's leave her alone right now.
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Now I have to stop you for a second.
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Seriously, you do this to her.
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You taught me to do that, though.
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For someone who lives with cats, I
really don't think she gets them. She
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pokes and pushes buttons.
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Brooklyn blames Tim, and I'm telling you
it's her.
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See, but, like, isn't this plain, too,
sometimes?
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I know you think she's cute, but
energetically you leave a mess for him
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up because you're teaching her to
attack.
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I'm going to just show you guys how to
push the button, right?
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You see how she's getting worked up now?
Yeah.
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Just put my hand here.
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Right?
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If I do this, she's letting me know
right now that she's completely
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overstimulated. In the meantime, we can
mellow her out.
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Right? Just like that.
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You see how her tail's not moving
anymore? When your hand is going all
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place, she responds by getting worked
up.
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So we give her something to mess with
that's not your body.
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you see how she's actually kind of
falling asleep now yeah head good body
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good you know i don't think you guys
mean to push her buttons i mean you do
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think you're more fear and you do it
because she's so cute The thing about
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is that you put out a certain level of
energy, the cat takes it in, processes
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it, puts it right back out to you.
They're mirrors.
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And so when you've got this kind of
frenetic energy that this couple
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all it takes is a little spark and she
goes off.
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So, bottom line, one of these days you
better invite me to the wedding and you
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get to have a brand new space with all
these cats living harmoniously and I
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really want to be able to help you guys
do that.
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So what we want to do is we want to have
your cats comfortable with your cat.
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And the way we're going to accomplish
that is a controlled meet.
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Usually what I would do is work in the
given territory.
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I don't think it's going to work in this
situation.
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I think it's just too much stimulation.
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So I'd like to start working with a
neutral territory.
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Cats are territorial, and that's why
Brooklyn and Tim's cats have got to meet
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a neutral space where nobody has
previous ownership.
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And that way, the cats can all claim the
space equally and at the same time.
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Think of some friends who might be out
of town, anybody who has some space they
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can lend us.
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Also, I'd like for you to buy Cleo some
cat toys. And Tim, you're going to have
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to be in charge of playing with Cleo.
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Because Tim has a lot of resentment
towards Cleo, I'm actually going to have
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play with her because it's the quickest
way to build a bond.
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So are you in?
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Definitely worth a try. Now on your
part, I just want to make sure that your
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investment level in terms of what you
have to do with Cleo is there too.
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Does that mean I'm going to have to lay
off the kisses?
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Yeah. You are pulling the pin on that
cat grenade when you... when you love
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that way and someone else is going to
pay the price. If it's not him, it's
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to be his cat.
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So that wraps us up for this week. All
right.
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It was great meeting you guys. All
right. If you have any questions at all,
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know how to find me, right?
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Yes. All right.
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We'll talk to you soon.
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Bye.
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Tim and I have invested so much time in
this relationship that I'm really hoping
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Jackson can help us because it's
definitely a prerequisite for whoever
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to get along with Cleo because she's
definitely like my child.
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You want to get rid of your child.
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You know, I love her so much, so, you
know, I'm going to mean Cleo, you know,
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all the way.
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Last week, I gave Brooklyn and Tim a lot
of homework and a video camera to
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document their progress.
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The stakes are huge here. Brooklyn and
Tim have let me know either this gets
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fixed or they're breaking up. So they
found a neutral space in a friend's
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apartment, and now I just want to check
in and see how things are going. What
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I'd really love to do is go over the
week's worth of video journaling you
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did. Hey, Cleo. Talk to you, honey.
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Bye.
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You just bought her some new toys.
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Ah! She's growling while she's licking
it. Because you haven't made enough of
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effort to play with her.
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So let's talk about a little bit what I
just saw. Brooke, I told you to not be
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so kissy, kissy, lovey, lovey.
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And you've taken it back to a point
where you're barely touching.
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So you can bring it back a little bit.
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I mean, I know you want to. Kim, I would
love to see you do a little more play
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just with the things that have the
sticks and the strings to them and less
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those mice.
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Because I think eventually she's going
to just hook her claw into you, you're
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going to get pissed off, and it's going
to start an eruption.
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How did you think the play went?
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Honestly, from the last time we saw you,
he only came over twice.
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We have both been busy. It hasn't been
like I didn't want to come over and do
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it. He came over twice. It's been like
three times.
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I do feel like I should have spent more
time. In a way, I was kind of being a
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little neglectful, I guess.
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But I think, like, sometimes Brooke just
expects the worst out of me, I think,
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or, like, you know, the worst
intentions, I should say.
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It could be more. It has to be.
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They need to associate it with routine.
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I mean, that's the thing. I mean, you
guys aren't going to get any results.
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I'm hoping Tim will be better with his
homework.
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I don't want to have to make that
decision between him or her. But this is
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last chance. If he's still not going to
put any effort into this relationship,
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I'm going to kind of lose faith in him.
So I hope he knows how important this is
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to me, Jackson, and Cleo.
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We've got to have realistic expectations
of what's going to go on today.
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There's already like a charged
atmosphere.
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The reason I wanted to have this space
was to get you in a... a place where
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not so, I guess, charged is the right
word.
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Now what I want to start seeing is the
cats' interactions.
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Everything's been building up to this
moment. You know, all three of the cats,
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Snarf, Meow Meow, and Cleo, getting
together.
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But, you know, Cleo's Brooke's cat, so
she's going to lean to Cleo's side, and
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I'm obviously going to get my cats back.
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So we're on the floor, and I've got
Brooklyn and Cleo in one corner. I've
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Tim and Lady Meow Meow in another
corner. As they're coming together, it's
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I could feel that Tim and Brooklyn had
been fighting. They're bringing this
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energy to two cats who aren't wild about
each other to begin with. It was
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obviously a disaster in the making.
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See,
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that's good.
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I know you don't think so. Uh -huh. And
I'll explain to you why that's good.
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First of all, fair fight between her and
Snarf. She says in a cat way, I am
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taking this floor. This is mine.
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He goes, cool.
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I'm not in a rush to move, but take it.
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This one, Meow Meow, she didn't chase
her when she did her slink away thing.
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You take the cat with no self -esteem
whatsoever, if he acts like a mouse,
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she'll be treated like a mouse.
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She didn't treat her like a mouse.
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She didn't go after her once.
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Another good sign, look behind you.
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Meow Meow is up.
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She's not behind.
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She's up on that couch.
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So she found a vantage point where she
could watch her at a safe distance.
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I know this seems bad, but this is
actually a really good thing. Cleo is
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sending a very appropriate message to
Lady Meow Meow and Snarf that, hey, I'm
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the top cat. I'm the alpha cat around
here. And the great news is the other
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cats are respecting that message.
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Now I want to give Brooklyn and Tim
homework to get these cats even closer
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together.
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So, this gate we're going to put up in
between this main room and the bedroom.
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Basically what they're going to do is
learn one another's body languages,
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language in general, from a safe
distance.
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The gate that I'm bringing in is
fantastic, I think, because people can
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through it, they close it behind them,
and it provides a barrier for the cats.
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We're going to be introducing the cats
on either side of this, and we'll do it
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with food. Every time they have meals,
they can look up, they can see one
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another, but they're not going to feel
like they're being threatened by the
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other one.
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We're going to use what I call jackpot
food, the best food that these guys can
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get that every time the cats smell it,
they go, oh, I love this stuff.
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And then every time they smell the food,
they smell the other cat.
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Positive association is formed.
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A bond is formed. The thing that's going
to make this work is for you guys to
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release ownership of My cat, your cat.
It's important that this concept of co
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-parenting come in. If you were getting
married and you were bringing a child in
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from another marriage, you'd be adopting
that child. It's the same thing. But I
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love his cats like they're my own, so
it's his ego, his thing that he needs to
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get over it.
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Obviously, I don't have anything against
cats, right? You don't like my cat.
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Okay. You don't like my cat. Why do I
not like your cat? You don't like her
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because when I was really depressed, she
was the only thing that made me happy.
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I definitely admit that. He's jealous of
her. That's the bottom line. Bottom
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line, in order for this to work, you've
got to let go of resentment.
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Animals forgive like that.
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I need you guys to do the same thing.
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Way important that you guys commit and
do this continuously. We can't have a
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repeat of last time.
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Every day, the play into the gate.
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It's going to have great payoff, I
think, but it all depends on you guys.
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So tell me, are you...
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Ready to put the resentments behind you
and move forward with this?
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I'm on board.
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Brooke?
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Well, yeah, we'll see.
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One of the things I love about cats is
their ability to just move on. They
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form resentments. They just live fully
in the present moment.
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As long as Brooklyn and Tim do not
implode, I think the cats stand a great
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chance. I'm not so sure about that.
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And now it's time for a kitty bit.
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A cat's sense of smell is how many times
stronger than a human's? A, 3, B, 14,
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or C, 42?
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Find out after the break.
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A cat's sense of smell is how many times
stronger than a human's? A, 3, E, 14,
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or C, 42?
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The answer is B, 14.
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Cats have twice as many smell -sensitive
cells in their noses as humans do.
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I'm going in for my final visit with
Brooklyn and Tim in the neutral
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And the last time I was here, both
humans and animals were fighting. The
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footage that they sent in to me looks
really promising, and it looks like the
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cats are getting along well. Not
fighting, no hissing, no scratching.
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when we know we have a good relationship
built. I'm hoping that this time,
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Brooklyn and Tim are ready to take their
relationship to the next level and move
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in together with all three cats.
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So, how have the cats been?
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They've been good. They've been getting
along a lot better lately.
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Really? Yeah.
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How are you guys doing?
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We're doing a lot better now. She's been
a lot nicer to Cleo.
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Are you playing with her more? Yeah,
I've been playing with her.
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Yeah. See, she proved.
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I've learned a lot since Jackson's first
visit.
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I've been actually playing with Cleo a
lot, a lot more, right?
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And she seems to be getting along with
me. And I've cut down on the smothering,
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so I think that's helped a lot, too,
with her, with Cleo's agitation.
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It feels to me like there's a...
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much bigger investment. So I gotta give
him some props on that. I mean, I walk
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into visit with Brooklyn and Tim and
immediately there's just a striking
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difference between their energy. There
isn't that feeling that some kind of
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fight is going to break out at any
moment. I can't tell you how, how much
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neutral space helped things. Yeah.
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They're actually all under the bed right
now.
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Cool. Yeah.
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I want to take a little walk around and
see these guys if I can.
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Yeah. All right, cool. All right.
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Let's see what you got.
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You guys are under the bed? Yeah. Let's
say hi.
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It seems like they already have an
understanding. We have three cats now
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body language is completely relaxed
around one another, and that's huge.
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The cats are getting along so much
better, but honestly, I think that my
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exercise with the gate and the gradual
reintroduction was just part of it.
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Brooklyn and Tim's positive energy took
care of the rest.
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This is a couple who just a few weeks
ago were using their own animals as
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weapons against one another. And today
they're bonding over their pets, and
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that's so important.
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What you guys have been through
personally that I've watched you go
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been amazing.
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And, of course, that energy that you
brought to these cats, no matter what
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happens, they're going to have an
amazing life now. And I'm proud of you
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Thank you so much for everything.
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It was my pleasure.
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Guys, if you need anything, you know how
to find me, right?
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Yes, thank you so much. It was a
pleasure working with you. And one more
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Jackson. There's just one more thing
that I wanted to kind of share.
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What?
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You know how much I love you. You know
how much you mean to me.
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We've been together for three, almost
three years.
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You know, I think you're the most
beautiful person in the world.
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You have a good heart.
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I see how you are with cats.
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How good you are with cats.
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I know you'd be a good mom.
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I just wanted to spend the rest of our
life together.
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And that's my name.
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Will you marry me? Oh, my gosh, yes.
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Right on.
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Right on.
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Congratulations.
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It was amazing watching these two.
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Be who I think they were supposed to be
all the way along. None of this arguing
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and fighting. It was beautiful.
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Congratulations, you guys. Can I be
invited?
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Now that I've cried at the proposal,
maybe I can come to the wedding.
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Was he crying?
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He was really crying.
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You know, Jackson's honestly a very,
like, genuine person. Yeah.
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You can tell he, like, really, really
does care about, like, not only the
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but us.
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You guys deserve it. Thank you so much
for everything. Take care, man. See you
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later. Bye. Bye.
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I was totally surprised, and I didn't
think that he'd ever propose to me.
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Nancy, she thought I was using the cat
thing as an excuse, and I think we
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her wrong.
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I love you. Love you.
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Don't do it.
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I served one year in Iraq. Living with
Marco is like being in a war zone.
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Marco is just really violent. Marco will
swipe at Inhei as she walks by.
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I'm highly allergic to cats.
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Getting scratched is much worse. My
throat will start clothing up.
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When Inhei brings Yuki, then he gets a
lot worse.
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I'm going to walk in one day and just
walk into a bloodbath.
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All right, son.
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Another day doing what I love to do.
Today, I get to go over to Bobby and
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Inhae's house. Now, I've seen the video
they sent in.
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No! You will not bite me.
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We're talking about a big cat and a
really little dog.
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And there's some damage being done.
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Oh, that can't end well.
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My name's Bobby.
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My name's Inhae. And we've been dating
about nine months now.
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Marco is my cat.
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I adopted him about two years ago.
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I joined the military. I served one year
in Iraq. Living with Marco is like
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being in a war zone again.
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Marco is just really violent. He bites,
he scratches, he latches on. Don't do
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it.
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He's adorable, but don't try to touch
him whatsoever.
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I wouldn't come any closer.
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Marco will swipe at Inhei if she comes
anywhere near him.
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It's just a terrible thing to, you know,
have your pet hurting your significant
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other. I am highly allergic to cat.
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Getting scratched, like injecting cat.
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My throat will start clothing up.
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When Inhei brings Yuki, then he gets a
lot worse.
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She's like about the size of a football.
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He's probably twice physically her size.
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And Yuki's sort of a cute and harmless
animal.
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Yeah, I'm afraid that I'm going to walk
in one day and just walk into a
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bloodbath. If we want to get serious, I
mean, this is certainly a roadblock.
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Right now, in order for our relationship
to grow, we kind of really desperately
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need this.
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issues with Marco fixed.
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I would never, ever consider putting
Marco on the pound.
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It would be cruel to Marco. I can't
imagine anyone really wanting Marco at
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point.
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Hey. How are you, man? Bobby. Bobby, I'm
Jackson.
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My first impression, honestly, was, am I
working on hoarders here, or am I cat
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from hell? I had no idea.
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The walls seemed like they were coming
in. Imagine what it feels like to be a
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cat in that house.
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We've got a problem child here,
obviously.
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Yeah, Marco.
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He just doesn't like in hay.
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She'll walk by, he'll just take a swipe
at her.
452
00:26:01,460 --> 00:26:04,820
And Marco doesn't like Yuki.
453
00:26:05,020 --> 00:26:06,940
Because Yuki's really possessive.
454
00:26:07,300 --> 00:26:10,520
Like, if she's here, then Yuki will,
like, growl at Marco.
455
00:26:11,670 --> 00:26:16,190
Or even, like, fake at him if he gets
near. So Yuki's kind of got it coming.
456
00:26:18,850 --> 00:26:22,710
There's no angels here. You're
absolutely right. They would chase each
457
00:26:23,090 --> 00:26:24,130
How big is Marco?
458
00:26:24,410 --> 00:26:25,590
He's 14 pounds.
459
00:26:26,290 --> 00:26:29,210
Yeah. I love it when the cats are bigger
than the dogs.
460
00:26:30,130 --> 00:26:34,450
Bobby and Inhae see this Yuki and Marco
situation as being a significant
461
00:26:34,450 --> 00:26:36,210
roadblock to their future together.
462
00:26:37,260 --> 00:26:40,640
I really want to see you guys interact
with him. That's really important to me.
463
00:26:40,700 --> 00:26:42,700
So if you want to take me, that'd be
great.
464
00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:46,460
Okay, bedroom.
465
00:26:47,180 --> 00:26:49,500
He's probably hiding in the closet.
466
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:54,060
What would you do at this point if you
wanted to bring him out?
467
00:26:54,300 --> 00:26:55,860
I would gear up.
468
00:26:56,620 --> 00:26:57,579
Gear up?
469
00:26:57,580 --> 00:26:58,900
Yeah. What's gear up?
470
00:26:59,140 --> 00:27:02,000
Leather glove and then leather jacket.
471
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:03,740
My God, you got that just sitting there.
472
00:27:04,879 --> 00:27:08,560
Pretty much he can't penetrate it, so it
worked for me. Actually, my military
473
00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:11,080
clothes. Wow. I'm going to back up here.
474
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:16,080
Bobby's a veteran of war, but I'm
telling you, when he was standing in
475
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:21,020
that closet, getting on the leather
gloves and jacket, it was like he was
476
00:27:21,020 --> 00:27:23,280
putting on his fatigues and getting
ready to go into battle.
477
00:27:23,980 --> 00:27:24,980
It's okay.
478
00:27:29,780 --> 00:27:30,780
Ow.
479
00:27:35,870 --> 00:27:38,190
No, Yuki, no. Yuki, come here.
480
00:27:38,550 --> 00:27:40,330
Oh, see, I just solved the problem.
481
00:27:40,650 --> 00:27:44,030
I'm really not surprised that Marco has
sort of cordoned himself off in the
482
00:27:44,030 --> 00:27:47,090
closet. He's all kinds of freaked out
right now.
483
00:27:47,350 --> 00:27:51,370
There really isn't very many places in
the house for him to go that he's safe.
484
00:27:51,690 --> 00:27:56,410
No. I don't think that Yuki's as
innocent as everyone's making her out to
485
00:27:56,650 --> 00:27:58,250
It's okay, buddy. It's okay.
486
00:27:59,410 --> 00:28:00,990
Did I already get you? Yeah. Wow.
487
00:28:01,310 --> 00:28:02,710
Don't open this shirt. That's
ridiculous.
488
00:28:03,260 --> 00:28:08,160
Bobby goes into the closet, geared up,
and he comes back out completely tore
489
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:12,200
I mean, you're dressed up like a weird
superhero to go and handle your cat.
490
00:28:12,500 --> 00:28:13,760
That's pretty extreme.
491
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:18,900
Well, it's about time I get to meet
Marco. I'm just about ready. Okay, well,
492
00:28:18,900 --> 00:28:20,860
don't they give you this, just in case?
493
00:28:21,260 --> 00:28:24,180
Well, I don't think I'll be needing it.
494
00:28:26,060 --> 00:28:29,800
Jackson's going to go inside and try to
spend some one -on -one time with Marco,
495
00:28:29,940 --> 00:28:32,980
and I know he's good, but best of luck.
496
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:36,320
All right, son.
497
00:28:39,420 --> 00:28:41,020
Marco had cornered himself.
498
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:42,680
Hi.
499
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:48,060
His eyes were huge, and I knew that
putting my hand back there was suicide.
500
00:28:48,060 --> 00:28:52,180
it was important for me to find out if
Marco was truly the vicious cat they
501
00:28:52,180 --> 00:28:55,920
he was, or if he was just scared,
because I need to know him.
502
00:28:56,860 --> 00:28:57,860
All right.
503
00:28:58,060 --> 00:28:59,400
Listen. Listen.
504
00:29:00,100 --> 00:29:01,820
You have no reason to be yelling.
505
00:29:06,180 --> 00:29:08,040
Ow! All right.
506
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:12,600
When Marco hit me, I was bleeding.
507
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:15,860
The first thing I thought of was Yuki.
She's in a lot of danger.
508
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:18,680
How about this now?
509
00:29:20,380 --> 00:29:21,380
You gonna play?
510
00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:23,800
Shh.
511
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:26,080
Hi, sweet boy.
512
00:29:26,860 --> 00:29:27,860
It's okay.
513
00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:28,960
Let's play.
514
00:29:29,340 --> 00:29:30,920
Come on. It's just me and you, buddy.
515
00:29:36,980 --> 00:29:37,980
Good boy.
516
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,180
Good boy, Marco. Shh.
517
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:46,720
When he finally interacted with that
toy, he settled into his skin almost
518
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:52,100
instantaneously. It proved that he
wasn't a vicious cat. He was a scared
519
00:29:52,100 --> 00:29:53,640
scared cat who had no place left to go.
520
00:29:54,420 --> 00:29:59,020
Even though I was in that closet
forever, there was a second there where
521
00:29:59,020 --> 00:30:02,780
actually looked at me at the same time,
and I knew that we were cemented. We
522
00:30:02,780 --> 00:30:04,860
obviously have an understanding now,
don't we?
523
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:11,040
Um, he got me pretty.
524
00:30:12,010 --> 00:30:13,010
Darn good.
525
00:30:13,370 --> 00:30:16,050
When he does strike out, it's pretty
frozen.
526
00:30:17,730 --> 00:30:18,930
So let's get into the homework.
527
00:30:19,210 --> 00:30:21,490
Number one, start looking into nail
caps.
528
00:30:21,750 --> 00:30:22,750
They're just acrylic tips.
529
00:30:22,950 --> 00:30:26,130
You just pop them up. There's no damage
that can happen to Yuki. There's no
530
00:30:26,130 --> 00:30:27,170
damage that can happen to you.
531
00:30:27,630 --> 00:30:31,910
Also, I think a lot of our treatment
plan is going to revolve around
532
00:30:32,070 --> 00:30:36,630
We're going to start working on
reintroducing Yuki and Marco in a more
533
00:30:36,630 --> 00:30:37,630
controlled way.
534
00:30:37,770 --> 00:30:41,130
I asked Bobby to put up a gate so that
Marco and Yuki could be close to each
535
00:30:41,130 --> 00:30:43,370
other without physically being able to
attack one another.
536
00:30:43,610 --> 00:30:47,370
This, of course, is only a temporary
solution. The ultimate goal is to get
537
00:30:47,370 --> 00:30:50,530
and Marco living harmoniously together
without any gate at all.
538
00:30:50,890 --> 00:30:54,590
Here's what else I'd like you guys to
do. A lot of this has to go. We've got
539
00:30:54,590 --> 00:30:55,590
declutter strategically.
540
00:30:55,950 --> 00:30:59,450
I mean, you're a military man. You know
there's too many places of ambush.
541
00:31:01,450 --> 00:31:04,830
Finally, when I was playing with him, I
noticed we would have little
542
00:31:04,830 --> 00:31:06,910
breakthroughs, and those breakthroughs
surrounded toys.
543
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:08,820
For this, he went bananas.
544
00:31:09,220 --> 00:31:12,600
This was the initial thing that got him
kind of like that. The more you play
545
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:16,200
with him, that kind of scary look that
he gets in his face, it'll be gone
546
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:20,080
because it won't be directed at you or
Yuki. It'll be directed at this.
547
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:23,940
All right, I will be back, and if you
need me, you know how to find me.
548
00:31:23,940 --> 00:31:28,980
gave us a lot of good ideas and starting
points, but definitely once we
549
00:31:28,980 --> 00:31:32,700
implement what he says, I doubt Marco
will be the perfect citizen all of a
550
00:31:32,700 --> 00:31:33,700
sudden.
551
00:31:38,380 --> 00:31:43,160
Last time I was here, Bobby had to get
geared up just to pick Marco up.
552
00:31:43,380 --> 00:31:47,260
And I think this is a couple that's
trying to integrate into one house
553
00:31:47,380 --> 00:31:53,040
And I really do see this problem with
Marco and Yuki being a real impediment
554
00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:53,979
their relationship.
555
00:31:53,980 --> 00:31:54,819
Good to see you.
556
00:31:54,820 --> 00:31:55,820
Hi. Hi.
557
00:31:56,340 --> 00:31:58,940
Looks better.
558
00:32:01,380 --> 00:32:04,700
We've cleaned up and decluttered as much
as we can.
559
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:05,920
In Haze.
560
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:07,900
The one who did most of his stuff?
561
00:32:08,140 --> 00:32:10,700
I helped him along with the progress.
562
00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:12,920
She led the charge, I'll say.
563
00:32:13,340 --> 00:32:17,800
You know what was really amazing was
walking in to talk to Bobby and Inhae,
564
00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:22,060
there was just a different feel in the
room. They were talking more, they were
565
00:32:22,060 --> 00:32:25,400
joking more. It was a different couple
than the last time I was here.
566
00:32:25,620 --> 00:32:27,360
I think you'll see the most change here.
567
00:32:29,700 --> 00:32:30,980
Completely decluttered it.
568
00:32:31,220 --> 00:32:32,220
That's amazing.
569
00:32:32,460 --> 00:32:36,280
In the amount of time that I gave you,
not expecting this level of completion.
570
00:32:36,980 --> 00:32:37,980
Great work.
571
00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:43,720
You guys did a lot of video journaling,
and I really want to go over what I saw.
572
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:46,340
Marco is loving his new toy.
573
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:48,660
You doing okay, baby?
574
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:53,400
I had Bobby and Ninhay take Marco to the
vet and get nail caps put on, and it
575
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:57,760
has worked wonderful. The dividends
being paid are beyond what I actually
576
00:32:57,760 --> 00:32:58,760
thought were going to happen.
577
00:33:00,379 --> 00:33:04,520
I'm happy to play with him now. He pats
on me and I see it as a cute little
578
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:06,320
thing instead of like danger to my life.
579
00:33:06,580 --> 00:33:07,580
Yeah, yeah.
580
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:08,640
Cute.
581
00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:10,620
Do you want a new feather bird?
582
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:13,860
That shift in two weeks time. Yep, he
does.
583
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:14,919
Is amazing.
584
00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:16,040
It's been a huge change.
585
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:17,520
Amazing.
586
00:33:19,100 --> 00:33:20,100
Marco.
587
00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:25,600
Yuki, sit.
588
00:33:25,620 --> 00:33:27,100
Yuki. No.
589
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:28,560
Yuki.
590
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:32,640
Tell me about the moment on the video.
591
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:34,220
You guys were sitting right here.
592
00:33:34,620 --> 00:33:35,619
Yuki, sit.
593
00:33:35,620 --> 00:33:36,620
Yuki.
594
00:33:37,060 --> 00:33:40,400
Pretty common moment. They suddenly
realize that they're right next to each
595
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:42,100
other. And then it's a stare off.
596
00:33:42,580 --> 00:33:43,960
Then someone flinches.
597
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:50,460
That moment is something that signifies
a bigger issue between the two of them.
598
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:54,200
I'm sure a lot of people are going to
look at this and say, oh, this 14 -pound
599
00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:58,280
cat is putting a whipping on a 4 -pound
dog. I don't see it that way at all. I
600
00:33:58,280 --> 00:33:59,700
think it starts with Yuki.
601
00:34:00,510 --> 00:34:04,170
Now, look, what I really want to do is I
want to check in with the boy. I want
602
00:34:04,170 --> 00:34:08,690
to see Marco. From what I saw in the
video, Inhae had really established a
603
00:34:08,690 --> 00:34:13,449
connection with Marco. And I think the
homework I gave her last time gave her
604
00:34:13,449 --> 00:34:15,570
confidence. It's your favorite toy,
baby.
605
00:34:18,090 --> 00:34:22,889
Pretty measurable difference from the
cat that I saw last time. Good boy.
606
00:34:23,710 --> 00:34:25,810
Good boy.
607
00:34:27,290 --> 00:34:28,290
Hi.
608
00:34:31,420 --> 00:34:37,380
The bond that I'm beginning to see
between Inhei and Marco is more than I
609
00:34:37,380 --> 00:34:38,380
have possibly expected.
610
00:34:38,659 --> 00:34:42,120
I love that when he just came out, he
went to you. I love that.
611
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:47,020
I mean, the progress is pretty amazing,
and I'm really happy with how it's
612
00:34:47,020 --> 00:34:48,020
going.
613
00:34:48,940 --> 00:34:53,860
Things are going okay in Bobby and
Inhei's house, except there's one big
614
00:34:53,860 --> 00:34:58,080
missing. Marco and Yuki have got to
learn how to sit and stay.
615
00:34:58,380 --> 00:35:00,440
That's actually a big piece of our
progress.
616
00:35:00,890 --> 00:35:07,490
Now, I want you to be able to walk from
the hallway to this wall and for her to
617
00:35:07,490 --> 00:35:08,490
stay there.
618
00:35:09,390 --> 00:35:10,368
What, what, what?
619
00:35:10,370 --> 00:35:14,610
For her, that's asking a lot for me to
actually move across the room, so it'll
620
00:35:14,610 --> 00:35:15,610
be a challenge.
621
00:35:15,830 --> 00:35:17,970
I want Marco to just be trained to do a
sit.
622
00:35:19,450 --> 00:35:20,490
How do you train a sit?
623
00:35:21,010 --> 00:35:22,630
If you thought the first one was a
challenge.
624
00:35:23,970 --> 00:35:24,970
I want...
625
00:35:25,070 --> 00:35:28,470
Yuki on one side of the gate. I want
Marco on the other side of the gate. I
626
00:35:28,470 --> 00:35:33,510
them to both be able to sit and stay
while being around one another. It's
627
00:35:33,510 --> 00:35:37,890
a lot. I know that. What I like to do is
purely positive reward systems.
628
00:35:38,110 --> 00:35:41,010
We do that with clickers. It's also a
pointer.
629
00:35:41,590 --> 00:35:43,310
It's actually just positive
reinforcement.
630
00:35:43,950 --> 00:35:46,670
You do something good, we click, and we
give you a treat.
631
00:35:47,110 --> 00:35:52,410
All we're going to do is associate this
sound with great things happening. Click
632
00:35:52,410 --> 00:35:53,410
and treat.
633
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:57,840
It's been a proven method from all
animals. So I'm going to introduce the
634
00:35:57,840 --> 00:35:59,780
concept of training with Yuki.
635
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:01,578
All right.
636
00:36:01,580 --> 00:36:02,580
Yuki, come.
637
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:04,480
Sit.
638
00:36:05,860 --> 00:36:06,860
Good girl.
639
00:36:07,900 --> 00:36:12,160
This is not just homework. This is not
just teaching parlor tricks. This is
640
00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:15,220
about the life and death of their pets.
Yuki, sit.
641
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:17,360
Very good. Click.
642
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:21,260
It's so important because she's in the
pounce position.
643
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:23,780
As soon as she sees him, she's going to
pounce.
644
00:36:24,020 --> 00:36:29,380
So she's got to understand those stakes
in order to succeed with her dog. So I
645
00:36:29,380 --> 00:36:31,380
think we got a great start, especially
with this one.
646
00:36:32,270 --> 00:36:33,209
Here's your homework.
647
00:36:33,210 --> 00:36:36,330
We want to get these guys sitting and
staying on either side of that gate.
648
00:36:36,550 --> 00:36:40,850
The second thing is play. Really get him
going, exhaust him, and do it every
649
00:36:40,850 --> 00:36:42,550
day. You game? Absolutely.
650
00:36:42,830 --> 00:36:44,930
Please be motivated. Are you motivated?
651
00:36:45,290 --> 00:36:46,290
I am motivated.
652
00:36:46,370 --> 00:36:50,550
Good, man. When we first started, I just
wanted Marco to be, you know,
653
00:36:50,550 --> 00:36:52,650
manageable. I'm going to leave you guys.
654
00:36:52,870 --> 00:36:57,130
Now we're getting into, like, the
dreams, the small spots.
655
00:36:57,490 --> 00:36:58,710
All right, guys. Bye -bye. Bye.
656
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:04,240
I've got high hopes. That being said, I
was asking them to clicker train both
657
00:37:04,240 --> 00:37:07,160
Yuki the dog and Marco the cat
simultaneously.
658
00:37:07,580 --> 00:37:11,060
This is not something I've tried before.
But hey, it's worth a shot.
659
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:19,160
Last time, Bobby and Inhei had done some
work. They had cleaned up that house.
660
00:37:19,340 --> 00:37:21,360
Marco had a full new set of nail caps.
661
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:25,180
This time around, I wanted these
animals.
662
00:37:25,550 --> 00:37:29,450
Clicker trains, hey, from a good safe
distance on either side of the gate,
663
00:37:29,490 --> 00:37:30,750
sitting, staying.
664
00:37:31,430 --> 00:37:33,290
So, how have things been going?
665
00:37:33,510 --> 00:37:35,830
We've both been training the animals.
Marco, sit.
666
00:37:39,830 --> 00:37:40,830
Yuki, stay.
667
00:37:42,070 --> 00:37:44,050
Yuki, of course, highly food motivated.
668
00:37:44,270 --> 00:37:45,270
Yep.
669
00:37:46,330 --> 00:37:47,870
Marco, surprisingly motivated.
670
00:37:48,210 --> 00:37:50,530
As you can see, he will follow the green
ball.
671
00:37:52,290 --> 00:37:53,290
Brilliant.
672
00:37:56,259 --> 00:37:57,238
Very cool.
673
00:37:57,240 --> 00:37:58,420
Marco thinks better than Yuki.
674
00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:04,260
I asked Inhei to demonstrate her clicker
training technique for me. Yuki, come
675
00:38:04,260 --> 00:38:07,940
here. I wanted to see how she could do
with Yuki while Marco was in the room.
676
00:38:08,340 --> 00:38:09,660
Stay. Yuki.
677
00:38:09,980 --> 00:38:10,980
Come here, Marco.
678
00:38:11,720 --> 00:38:12,740
Stop it. Stay.
679
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:15,420
Yuki. Okay.
680
00:38:16,580 --> 00:38:17,580
Right on.
681
00:38:18,020 --> 00:38:22,940
Inhei immediately said, Yuki, sit. It
was that first moment that I saw her
682
00:38:22,940 --> 00:38:25,000
training work paying off beautifully.
683
00:38:26,020 --> 00:38:27,180
Day. Great work.
684
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:29,160
By the way, he's still out.
685
00:38:30,140 --> 00:38:33,920
Nice going, Marco. So in the midst of
all this training work that we were
686
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:37,540
with Yuki, I look and in the bedroom
door is Marco.
687
00:38:38,780 --> 00:38:40,860
Amazing, right? Good boy.
688
00:38:41,740 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaking of amazing, where is Yuki's
attention right now? At me.
689
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:49,080
Firmly on you. I want you to put her in
a sit.
690
00:38:49,660 --> 00:38:50,660
Yuki, sit.
691
00:38:51,220 --> 00:38:52,600
Yuki, stay.
692
00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:55,120
That's from Marco.
693
00:38:59,310 --> 00:39:00,310
Good boy.
694
00:39:01,090 --> 00:39:03,310
Good boy, Marco.
695
00:39:05,210 --> 00:39:06,930
Okay, Marco, up. Marco.
696
00:39:12,030 --> 00:39:13,030
Marco.
697
00:39:15,410 --> 00:39:16,610
Oh, my God, sit.
698
00:39:17,730 --> 00:39:19,750
Marco. Marco, sit.
699
00:39:30,580 --> 00:39:31,580
Brilliant.
700
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:37,620
You're such a good boy, Marco.
701
00:39:37,900 --> 00:39:42,780
The difference in the cat that I met the
first day that I was here is so stark.
702
00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:46,960
It's okay. He was a feral cat.
703
00:39:48,260 --> 00:39:50,140
This is a different cat.
704
00:39:50,420 --> 00:39:54,900
I'm absolutely shocked myself. Just
being in the open with you in the house,
705
00:39:54,900 --> 00:39:56,940
mean, it's just... It's totally
different.
706
00:39:57,160 --> 00:40:01,640
It must be kind of nice, though, for you
to be off the hook for 100 % of his
707
00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:04,500
wellness. It was a strain knowing that
he didn't get along with anyone.
708
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:06,600
That's a weight. It is.
709
00:40:07,340 --> 00:40:08,340
This is great.
710
00:40:08,620 --> 00:40:12,960
Beyond expectations. I just wanted them
to stay away from each other or just
711
00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:13,960
give each other space.
712
00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:18,840
But actually having one person
instructing them both at the same time,
713
00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:19,840
huge payoff.
714
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:27,840
This makes me so psyched because I spent
many, many years working at animal
715
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:31,440
shelters. The animals that came in were
like Marco, and those are the cats that
716
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:35,200
get euthanized because they didn't have
a base of socialization.
717
00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:40,540
When I saw Marco in the doorway, I saw
the faces of
718
00:40:40,540 --> 00:40:47,140
every cat that I worked with in shelters
who died,
719
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:50,900
who didn't go to a home because they
were scared.
720
00:40:52,750 --> 00:40:58,030
So for a second there, he was a symbol
of a cat who wasn't going to have to die
721
00:40:58,030 --> 00:41:01,670
someday in a shelter because his
guardian was gone.
722
00:41:03,230 --> 00:41:08,010
To see him, for me, is huge because I
know that he'll be okay.
723
00:41:08,810 --> 00:41:09,990
I know.
724
00:41:11,030 --> 00:41:18,010
He really went above and beyond, you
know?
725
00:41:18,190 --> 00:41:19,830
And so did you two, so...
726
00:41:20,270 --> 00:41:23,710
Brilliant work, by the way. Seriously,
it was beautiful work.
727
00:41:24,810 --> 00:41:29,350
In seeing that kind of reaction from
him, it actually helped me realize how
728
00:41:29,350 --> 00:41:30,350
we've come also.
729
00:41:30,410 --> 00:41:31,410
Good boy.
730
00:41:31,550 --> 00:41:32,930
Thank you so much.
731
00:41:33,210 --> 00:41:34,210
You're welcome.
732
00:41:34,430 --> 00:41:38,610
I honestly did not think I could get to
a point where Marco were, I could
733
00:41:38,610 --> 00:41:43,530
interact with him. And I'm finding out
I'm actually maybe a cat person too and
734
00:41:43,530 --> 00:41:45,070
dog person. You're totally cat.
735
00:41:46,370 --> 00:41:48,850
I have a mental snapshot.
736
00:41:49,530 --> 00:41:53,670
of a moment today that I'll just take
away with me and walk forever with. And
737
00:41:53,670 --> 00:41:55,450
had this picture of a family.
738
00:41:55,650 --> 00:42:00,030
I am honestly really thankful for
Jackson. He's helped us so much and
739
00:42:00,030 --> 00:42:03,490
our life. I'm thankful that we have this
opportunity to work with him.
61505
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