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Larry's not just mean.
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Larry's just crazy mean.
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For me, at least,
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I'm not going to walk down the aisle
until our cat is no longer crazy.
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It's the end of the line for Larry.
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Every morning, I have to chase Ruby from
the house and get her to go into the
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bedroom. Come on.
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And she attacks me.
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I think she's got a vein or something. I
have to be able to control Ruby.
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I'm afraid she's going to attack one of
my clients.
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I'm Jackson Galaxy. I'm a musician by
night.
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and a cat behaviorist by day.
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I've met cats with all kinds of
problems.
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But I've never met one I couldn't help.
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In my career, I've worked with thousands
of cats, one -on -one, analyzing their
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behaviors and retraining them and their
guardians.
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When relationships are at an end, I feel
like I have to choose between my best
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friends. and cat guardians have reached
their emotional limit, the end of the
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line. I'm their last hope.
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I think your fear feeds the dynamic
between the two of you. Cats have nine
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lives, but humans only have one.
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Right now I'm on my way to Tara and
Josh's house. These guys sent in a
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Their cat, she's violent.
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She's completely unpredictable.
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I'm not going to walk down the aisle
until we take care of Larry.
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Their cat is putting them through the
wringer right now. I wonder what makes
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cat so mean.
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Better go find out what it is.
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I'm Josh.
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I'm Tara.
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And we met at my work at a bar. I took
her out for dinner. I asked her out. And
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we've been together for three and a half
years.
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Our relationship is wonderful. And we're
engaged.
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Larry came to us by a friend of ours.
She had found this little tiny kitten in
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an alley. She didn't want the cat. So
she goes, do you want it? We said, we'll
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take her, you know, and... She was so
little, we didn't know if it was a her
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a he at the time, so she didn't really
have a name at first.
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We named our girl cat a boy's name
because... It just fit her personality.
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Literally attacked.
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Crazy thing is she ambushes a lot.
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It's like getting a flashback all of a
sudden.
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She decides, like, now she's back in the
war and she's got to do something, and
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it's like... You know. Nothing's going
on.
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It makes no sense.
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Larry's not normal and mean. Larry's
just crazy mean.
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Larry pees all over the house.
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No, she sprays. I'm constantly cleaning
up after her and I'm constantly wiping
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things down. I'm making sure it doesn't
smell like pee. It's frustrating.
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Larry's behavior affects our
relationship.
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Hey.
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Well, it's because you're holding her
like that. Look, I try to touch her
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and she freaks out. I get upset because
sometimes I feel like he's really going
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to hurt her. He gets so angry sometimes.
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You just got to be... The only way they
know that they've done something wrong
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is if you hit them right when it's
happening. Yeah, but she doesn't learn
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it.
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Normally, we argue over the discipline.
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Everything's great. We're engaged.
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But I'm not going to walk down the
aisle.
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until our cat is no longer crazy.
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Larry's the only point of contention. We
just want to have a normal house with a
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normal cat. I'm not willing to walk
around with shin guards all day.
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When I walk backwards, she doesn't
attack me.
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Yeah, but you've got to walk backwards
through your house. Is that normal? No,
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but I'm just saying, when I notice it, I
mean, it's not a big house. For me, at
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least, it's the end of the line for
Larry. There's no option to give Larry
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I couldn't do it.
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Jackton is our last hope.
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Jackson, what's up, man? What's up? How
you doing? Nice to meet you. Hi.
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Hey, good to meet you. Nice to meet you.
Looks like a convict just showed up in
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my front door and I thought we would get
a cat whisperer. I just thought, thank
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God he's here finally.
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So, you're here because we're engaged.
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I don't want to get married until we
take care of Larry.
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Because right now, our cat Larry is
crazy. And our cat Larry is a girl. Why
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you have a girl cat named Larry?
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She has a Larry personality.
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Anyway.
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So, Larry is, what, violent?
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Yeah. Yeah.
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One minute she'll be completely sane,
and the next minute she'll be attacking
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us.
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Does she do with teeth and claws? Yeah.
Yeah.
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Did anybody age her when you first got
her? No. We got her legitimately, feel
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the palm of my hand. I mean, when we
first got Larry, I wasn't really a cat
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person, but look at her.
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She's so cute. Over time, she's like my
little kid. So when you first got her,
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eyes were open, though.
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Kittens normally open their eyes between
8 and 10 days old. That way, I can age
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the kitten by were her eyes open or were
they closed.
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Blue eyes, healthy looking.
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No, like, yeah, but I mean, she had
fleas, so we deflead her.
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Rough start.
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You might have had a rough start in
life, but it doesn't mean you can go
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murdering people.
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Cats have a very, very...
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Small window between about the ages of
two weeks and nine weeks they learn
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everything they're going to learn So for
instance, she would go up to brother or
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mom and do this thing, and they would be
like, damn, that hurt, and smack her
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back. And then she would then know how
to inhibit that movement and say, well,
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I'm just trying to play, so what if I do
this? And then I don't get hit.
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So not being around mom, not being
around her brothers and sisters, she's
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complete disadvantage.
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Also, she sprays my entire apartment.
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Oh, she's not fixed. Why is she not
fixed?
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Because last time we took her to the
vet, she tried to attack the vet. It's a
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pain to take her there. I was surprised
that Larry wasn't spayed. There's no
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excuse. Hey, folks, bottom line. Every
time she goes into heat, she stands a
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times greater chance of getting ovarian
cancer. She will get out of your house,
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she will have a litter, and there will
be another litter of kittens who don't
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have a home in this town.
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Please spay your cat.
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Here are the things. First of all, her
not being spayed means that the spraying
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happened. As I was walking up, I came up
to your door and immediately smelled
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pee. You can smell it. You can smell
piss right out there. Right. You've got
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your cat who's intact.
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She then marks the walls and invites
males from all over town to come around.
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They come around. Someone marks the
wall. Someone else marks the wall. So we
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pee graffiti artists. You got pee
graffiti artists. They can smell her
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in here from out there? As if there was
no wall here. Wow. At all.
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Wow. Here's the amazing thing is that
they're more nervous about Larry than
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are about the wedding.
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So this is the time where I get to meet
Larry all by myself. If you guys don't
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have any objections, then I'm going to
go hang out with her for a bit.
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Good luck. You can enter at your own
risk. I will. It's essential that I
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little bit of time alone with every cat.
So I excused myself from Tara and Josh,
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and I said, I'm going to go in and meet
Larry. I have no idea what to expect,
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but what's the worst that's going to
happen to me?
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Unless there's a Tommy gun in that case,
you have no chance.
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Come on.
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Ow, come on.
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I actually want to sort of invade her
bubble a little bit because I need to
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where that line is between predictable
and unpredictable.
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Man, she's got some sharp ones.
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I see that her ears are going flat and
her pupils are getting dilated.
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Flattening down her ears is a classic
defensive mechanism.
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That's a threatened cat.
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That's important information for me.
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Come on.
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So far it's going exactly how I thought
it was going to go.
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I'm going to let you get one more piece
of me.
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I want to see how far I can push Larry.
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Because you have now gone from being an
unpredictable cat to a predictable cat.
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When Larry started to strike out at me,
it was almost like handling a feral cat.
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In short order, she turned me into lunch
meat. Well, you guys can come on over
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here. What I'd like you to do is show me
how you would start guiding her out of
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there.
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All right, all right.
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All right.
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See, like, the attack is pointless to
me. Like, there's no real, real threat.
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She knows who she is. Here, let me try,
babe.
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So normally what I'd do is I'd just
start slowly start taking things away.
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Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey. Hey, hey, hey.
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Hey, hey.
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Let's go. Come on.
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There we go. Come on, come on, come on.
She normally doesn't attack like things.
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Larry, come on. He's coming at me out of
that corner.
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Like, what's so amazing about that
corner?
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Let's go.
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Hey.
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See, all I know to do is hit her on
that.
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There's never, ever an appropriate time
to strike a cat. That being said, I can
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empathize with Josh. Because just like
when a cat is threatened, they strike
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out, Josh felt threatened, and he struck
out. I have to calm both sides down.
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The humans and the cat have to take a
minute, decompress, and breathe.
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You have two choices here.
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With a cat like Larry, you're either
putting energy into her, or you're
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it out. They don't care if you hit them.
All they know is it's energy in.
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Don't ever, ever.
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Striker. So now, what are we left with?
A sitting bomb.
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We are. We're totally left with a kitty
bomb right now.
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Larry won the battle. If Jackson can
take his guitar case and fill it up with
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some real, real weapons of war, then
maybe he can win the war.
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But today, this battle goes to Larry.
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I'm working with Larry, an unspayed
female cat who has behavioral and
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issues. This is causing a lot of tension
in the home between Josh and Tara. And
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at this point, their engagement is on
the line because of it.
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Now, I wanted to show Tara and Josh the
wreckage that keeping Larry unspayed was
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wreaking all over their house. So I
broke out my black light and started
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all of these spots.
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Josh, if you don't mind hitting the
light, we're going to see if there's any
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damage here.
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And we're going to go right over here.
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where Larry was hiding.
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Oh, there it is. Yeah, there's some more
right there.
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Most folks think that only male cats
will spray, but that's not true at all.
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Female cats will spray for the same
reason that male cats will spray.
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Territorial incursions, threats. They
feel like the walls are closing in on
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them. They've got cats on all sides of
them. It's their way of saying, this is
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my castle, this is my moat.
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And so obviously you guys really aren't
using anything that's actually cleaning
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it up. You're just sort of doing that.
That's awesome. You make nice little
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designs with it. I bet it doesn't taste
good. Finger painting. All right, let's
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go take a look at the front door.
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Seeing the pee with the black light, it
makes me sick. It's gross.
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Out here at the front door. This, I'm
telling you.
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is where these tomcats are hidden.
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And there it is. Oh, wow.
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I thought about getting her spayed, but
I didn't know the extent of what it
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would change.
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Finding out it could help solve all the
other problems that she had is a huge
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thing. And you see how they're hidden
from here and just spraying down here.
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Like we were talking about the boys in
the neighborhood saying, hey, baby, here
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we are, right?
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I'm going to give you the cleaner to
work with.
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It's a carbon dioxide -based cleaner.
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So far, the most effective cleaning
product that I've found to treat cat
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is CO2 charged.
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And you guys need to go around this
whole house and clean good, because like
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saw before, the way you're cleaning
right now is just sort of smearing it
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around. Larry's got a male name, and it
suits her. She marks the wall like a
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tomcat. Here's the biggest problem with
Larry. Larry is not spayed.
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Larry's not mean.
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She's hormonal. All right, guys, it's
homework time. We're going to set you
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up where she can get spayed. We're going
to get her knocked out. We're going to
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get her fixed.
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and we're going to get her back here in
one day. That fast?
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Yep. Awesome. And then when that
happens, then we can move forward with
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behavioral work. As she's recovering
from surgery, clean up the pee around
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house. As long as she comes back here
and smells the same scent that she's
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to smelling, she's going to keep going
back to it. So if you clean it all up,
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then she's going to have a fresh start
territorially.
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Okay. Sounds good. Things are going to
start changing around here for the
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better. So if you have any questions at
all as the week goes on, give me a call.
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In the meantime...
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I am going to take my leave of you,
okay?
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All right, ma 'am. All right, great.
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Great to meet you.
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Appreciate it. Thank you. You too. I
like having Larry around, but I'm tired
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fighting, and I don't want to fight
anymore with Josh about Larry.
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So if she doesn't get better, I don't
know what else to do.
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It's been two weeks since I saw Larry,
and Josh and Tara informed me that
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they've cleaned all the pee inside the
apartment.
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Larry's watching you clean.
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But most importantly, they got Larry
spayed.
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Today is Get Larry Fixed Day.
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We're hoping that it calms her down,
that it makes her a little more happy. I
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just hope Larry doesn't have a flashback
while she's in there.
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I don't think this is going to be
possible today.
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Hey!
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How are you?
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Great, how are you doing? Good.
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Good, good.
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Back in action.
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What's up, man?
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How's it going? I think it's cool that
Jack is back. I'm excited to see what
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more he has to say and how he grades our
progress.
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How have things been? Have you noticed
any changes in her in terms of her
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demeanor? She's a little calmer.
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Cool. I mean, she still has her moments,
but... We all do.
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She's only probably tried to attack my
ankle once.
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Really? Yeah. That's pretty major. Yeah.
I want to see her. Where is she at? I
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think she's out on the balcony. Let's do
it. Let's do it.
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She's hiding out.
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So we got Larry on the balcony.
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Your little honey.
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Hi. Try some cheese, Larry?
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That little squeak is so cute.
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She loves cheese.
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That little squeak is so cute.
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Oh, hey.
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Careful.
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Oh, my God. She's adorable right now.
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Larry's not peeing. She's a little more
flirtatious.
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She's a better cat.
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I cannot believe that this is the same
cat. I know.
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I mean, we're talking like we're two
weeks removed from that, from that
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microwave craziness.
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Hi, my lovey angel.
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Hi, my lovey angel. What's up?
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Up. Yeah.
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She's trying to figure it out. She's
going really quickly bipolar.
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Yeah, yeah. She's like, maybe I'll
attack.
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The thing about her is she is just
learning how to communicate.
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Spaying Larry is only the first step.
Once her excess hormones are gone.
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Then I can get to work on changing her
behavior. When she's stressed, she'll
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just revert to those old habits again.
We're a week out of surgery. She's not
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exactly feeling like a frisky little
kitten at the moment, but she will.
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And the idea is that when she is feeling
like a frisky little kitten, she's
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going to be tempted to do the behaviors
that she's been doing for three plus
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years. Defending the windows, defending
the doors again. Those are very likely,
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I think.
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to creep back in, unless you're draining
her energy out in a positive way. This
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kind of toy here, where she's going to
go after it like it's prey, is that
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natural way. Take that energy and just
go, you know, as opposed to beating up
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your legs, beating up on your arms, and
beating up on your house.
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So let's move on. Josh and Tara may have
think they fixed everything by fixing
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Larry. Surgery can only do so much. I
think now it's time to start challenging
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her again. Guys, in order to push
forward, I want to get her walking.
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Our goal is very doable.
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I just want her walking down the stairs
and around the courtyard a little bit. I
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want her to go out there to get that
energy to come out in a constructive
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instead of a destructive way.
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Jackson gave Larry a bulletproof vest to
wear. And we have to go walk Larry like
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a dog. It'll be interesting to see how
long it takes us to get Larry in the
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in the first place.
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With that...
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I'm going to take my leave. Don't forget
video journaling.
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All right, guys.
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We'll see you in a few weeks. All right.
All right, man. Take care. You too. At
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this point, I'm not too optimistic.
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We've got a lot of work to do.
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Larry's not coming along the way I
thought she would.
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So I don't see us walking down the aisle
anytime soon.
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And now it's time for a kitty bit.
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A cat's urine glows under a black light
because it contains what chemical?
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A, phosphorus.
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B, ammonia.
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or C, creatine?
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Find out after the break.
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A cat's urine glows under a black light
because it contains what chemical?
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A, phosphorus, B, ammonia, or C,
creatine? The answer is A, phosphorus.
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Cat urine contains all three of these
chemicals, but it's phosphorus that
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it glow.
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Hey, guys. Hi.
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What's up? The last homework that I gave
Tara and Josh was getting Larry out
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here in the vest on a leash.
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How's this going?
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I'm not sure she's liking the leash.
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Come on. Come on, Liz. So now how many
times has she actually been on it
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Well, we've been trying to get her in
the harness for two days, and we haven't
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been able to without having a real
fight.
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I don't think this is going to work out.
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Come on. Come on. Come on.
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Today was the first day we were able to
get her in it. I mean, the fact that you
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actually got her in the harness and that
she's not completely freaking out.
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Pretty amazing.
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Pretty amazing.
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She's definitely a bush dweller. I put
cats in two different categories.
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They're either tree dwellers, which
means they just like to explore vertical
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spaces, or they're bush dwellers, which
means they'd like to have all four feet
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on the ground. Yeah, she's in the bush.
So this morning we were walking Larry
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and she jumped into the bushes. Now
initially my first thought process is
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going back to the flashback.
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Then we started realizing that she was
actually just feeling the place out. She
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was trying to be comfortable outside.
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Now she's a flower child.
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Now you see how she's sniffing the door?
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With her being spayed, I guarantee the
boys aren't coming around the way they
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used to. I smell apartment. I don't
smell pee. Really, it smells good.
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Yeah, exactly.
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So that's a big, big plus.
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Great work.
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Jackson noticed that there was no smell.
The pee smell was non -existent.
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It's time.
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For the rubber to meet the road on this
one, even though the smell is a ton
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better. I just want to make sure that
maybe there's something that you guys
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aren't seeing in terms of new spots.
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This was our biggest problem area here.
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The prime spot.
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This was it.
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So, first, on the inside barrier,
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nothing.
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Let's check your door.
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I would see something dripping down
here, which we did see the first day.
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You got nothing.
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I walk into Tara and Josh's house, and I
smell blessedly nothing.
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Nobody's spraying on this door. Since
the last time I was here, that's two
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without an incident. That's massive.
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All right, last stop on the tour. This
was our big area here, and we are seeing
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now this is a very clean stove. She has
stopped spraying completely.
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One thing I noticed over here, we've got
a microwave that is not a hiding place
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anymore. She really caused a scene last
time.
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Yeah. So that would be success right
there.
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Let me look at your hands, by the way.
I'm all good. I don't have any more
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Before Jackson came, Larry was just Mike
Tyson.
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Now Jackson's going to be Laird Jordan.
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Laird Jordan.
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Laird Jordan.
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Totally different cat.
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Oh, my God, this is amazing.
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This is amazing. Part of it has to do
with the fact that she's no longer
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hormonally ragey.
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Hi, Larry.
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And this is something that you guys are
doing every day. Oh, yeah. Yeah. I love
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playing this thing.
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I don't know if I like it more or she
does.
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I think the dynamic in this apartment
has changed a great deal.
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Wow. Not the same cat. The aggression on
her has changed.
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At least, you know, a good 60, 70%, you
know? And it will continue to.
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No more walking backwards through the
house.
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I haven't walked backwards at all,
actually.
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So, A, amazing work. B, we're going to
get married.
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Finally.
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All because of you, big man. Yeah, that
must be, I mean, it must be a real
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weight off.
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I mean, that was one of the reasons why
we wanted to have you. Initially, there
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was a lot of tension in the air, and now
it's all gone. And we haven't fought.
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Really? Yeah. You can actually see, you
especially, there's...
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Nice big difference.
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You guys know that as you move forward,
if there's anything that happens, please
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call me, okay?
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Sounds good. Yeah, sounds good. It was
great to work with you guys.
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Yes. Great having you. Thank you so much
for coming out. Take care of each
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other, all right?
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All right. You're a good man. Appreciate
it. All right. Have a good one. I think
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this was Jackson's biggest challenge.
He's never faced an opponent like this,
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but the war is over, and Jackson has won
with assistance.
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Jackson is the hope of all crazy cats.
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If our cat can be fixed, your cat can be
fixed.
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So one thing we fight over is Rudy.
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I am terrified of Ruby.
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Today, I get to go help Heather and Alan
because their cat is actually stopping
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Heather from making her living.
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No joke at all.
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She's violent.
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She lets you know very loudly, do not
come any closer or else.
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Oh, she just totally just clawed my
hand. I wonder what makes this cat so
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Better go find out what it is.
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I'm Heather.
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I'm Alan, and we met at a gym.
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Dated for eight years.
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And recently married in May.
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I'm a Pilates instructor and work from
home.
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And I'm a personal trainer. I work in
the gym.
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Our relationship is great.
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But the one thing we fight over is Ruby.
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Ruby.
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I teach Pilates in my living room, and I
have to get the cat and put her in the
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bedroom so I can do my job.
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Every morning, I have to chase her
around the house and get her to go into
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bedroom, and she attacks me all the
time.
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I
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am
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terrified of Ruby.
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She draws blood.
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And I'm afraid she's going to attack one
of my clients.
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And there's no possible way that I can
even hold her.
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Ruby and me fight every day, and it's
brutal.
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And usually she wins.
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We adopted Ruby from a shelter, and she
has hated me from the beginning.
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was abused by the other people that
owned her. And I think it was a woman.
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And that's the reason why she liked men
and not women.
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And she loves Alan.
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Yeah, she's kind to me. I can pet her. I
can lift her. And she bites and
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scratches heaven.
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And it's always been like that.
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Alan's funny. He treats her like a
princess.
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Guilty.
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Ellen doesn't realize how bad it is. You
know what actually the worst thing that
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she's done? Is that she made us fight.
Because it's us arguing about what to do
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with her. I just really want Ruby to
love me.
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I feel like I'm being rejected all the
time. We did all the tests with the vet
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and he was like, you know, she's just a
little... And that was when he first
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gave us Prozac.
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I am not a believer in the Prozac. So we
stopped that.
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We might not know it right now, but
there's another way.
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Sometimes when I watch videos of my
clients, it just makes me want to turn
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This is one of those cases where it's
just so hard to watch Heather get
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consistently hurt by Ruby. And every
action she takes is met with violence.
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I just want to step in and say, no, no,
no, stop.
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How are you? Good.
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This is Heather.
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This is my husband, Alan. Alan, how's it
going? Good to meet you. Come on in.
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Let's sit and talk about what's going
on.
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Okay.
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So, we have cat issues, obviously. Yeah.
458
00:26:22,420 --> 00:26:23,420
Tell me about Ruby.
459
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:26,860
I'm a Pilates instructor. I work out of
my house. Okay. And it's not very big.
460
00:26:28,650 --> 00:26:32,870
I am having a hard time managing her.
She's attacking me. I'm scared of her.
461
00:26:32,870 --> 00:26:36,750
hurt by it. I don't want to lose clients
because it's my money, you know. Are
462
00:26:36,750 --> 00:26:38,310
you losing clients? I lost one.
463
00:26:38,590 --> 00:26:40,030
You actually lost a client because of
Ruby?
464
00:26:40,250 --> 00:26:42,750
Yeah. Heather's a great Pilates
instructor.
465
00:26:43,050 --> 00:26:47,070
The only problem is that she has this
cat that jumps on the table sometimes,
466
00:26:47,070 --> 00:26:50,210
then I'm always afraid she's going to
attack my hands or scratch me or bite
467
00:26:50,310 --> 00:26:52,530
It's just kind of nerve -wracking and
distracting.
468
00:26:53,630 --> 00:26:57,530
One person getting bit and then leaving
could make the whole...
469
00:26:57,760 --> 00:26:58,760
Glass house tumble.
470
00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:00,840
There's a lot at stake here for Heather.
471
00:27:01,220 --> 00:27:05,540
Heather's career depends on being able
to train people out of this house.
472
00:27:05,820 --> 00:27:09,460
Does she strike out at those women as
well? That's a fear. When she's in the
473
00:27:09,460 --> 00:27:10,460
room, you can't work?
474
00:27:10,660 --> 00:27:15,060
No. She's all over the equipment and all
over them, and every single time I try
475
00:27:15,060 --> 00:27:19,600
to get her into the other room, she
attacks me, she growls, she hisses. I
476
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:23,700
it's just a matter of time before she
really hits, like, you know, a vein.
477
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:26,440
So whether or not someone's allergic or
not...
478
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:30,980
She's never out here. I cover all the
beds up so she doesn't scratch them, and
479
00:27:30,980 --> 00:27:33,880
she's already ruined them all, and
they're $9 ,500.
480
00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:37,960
So in your perfect world, she would
never be on this.
481
00:27:38,460 --> 00:27:43,620
Perfect world, Ruby would never be on
it. I would love if she didn't have to
482
00:27:43,620 --> 00:27:47,620
leave here for every client. If we found
a place that she would stay on other
483
00:27:47,620 --> 00:27:52,060
than here, it would be amazing to not
have to forcibly relocate her every
484
00:27:52,260 --> 00:27:55,340
So do you actually feel that Ruby's
really not that big a deal?
485
00:27:57,040 --> 00:28:01,060
Because he can manage it. Yeah, because
I can manage it. So I don't really get
486
00:28:01,060 --> 00:28:03,400
the full effect of what she has to go
through.
487
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:07,720
Right. I haven't seen your whole place.
Let's just take a look around.
488
00:28:08,820 --> 00:28:11,580
So this is the bedroom.
489
00:28:11,940 --> 00:28:12,940
Okay.
490
00:28:13,180 --> 00:28:17,720
And is the hissing and growling, that's
normal?
491
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:19,600
Yeah. Every time.
492
00:28:20,120 --> 00:28:22,380
I am your client. This is the table.
493
00:28:22,620 --> 00:28:23,620
What do we do?
494
00:28:27,510 --> 00:28:28,510
She does not.
495
00:28:29,510 --> 00:28:33,290
Okay. So this is the kind of thing you
wind up when she's, like, on the table?
496
00:28:33,630 --> 00:28:36,430
Yeah. Oh, did you get it already? I'm
sorry. Yeah, yeah, it's okay.
497
00:28:36,870 --> 00:28:41,250
My first experience with Ruby was a
pretty dicey one, and as soon as I
498
00:28:41,250 --> 00:28:44,390
Heather make a move toward her, there
was a part of me that just wanted to
499
00:28:44,390 --> 00:28:47,450
her, but there was another part of me
that needed to see that interaction.
500
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:53,620
One of the biggest problems that we have
in this house is that Ruby is literally
501
00:28:53,620 --> 00:28:57,980
affecting Heather's ability to do her
job. So I had to see that. I had to see
502
00:28:57,980 --> 00:29:03,340
Heather trying to pretend we have a
client coming in. What do you do? And
503
00:29:03,340 --> 00:29:05,640
goes through this every single day.
504
00:29:05,980 --> 00:29:07,800
And I really want to be able to help her
there.
505
00:29:08,660 --> 00:29:14,740
I think the main thing that Heather's
bringing to this party is the fear.
506
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:18,100
And Ruby says, I'll take that fear and
I'll give it right back to you.
507
00:29:18,340 --> 00:29:20,520
Stay. About to get the dorsia.
508
00:29:21,260 --> 00:29:22,260
Stay.
509
00:29:23,100 --> 00:29:27,520
Alan always says to me, you're so
stressed out and you're so exhausted at
510
00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:29,220
end of the day and it's all Ruby.
511
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:34,600
I never had an idea until what I'd seen
Heather go through today that it was
512
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:35,419
this bad.
513
00:29:35,420 --> 00:29:37,540
Can you show me how you would deal with
her?
514
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:39,440
Ruby?
515
00:29:42,510 --> 00:29:46,230
As soon as he started petting her, then
she just melted and made him melt.
516
00:29:46,590 --> 00:29:49,250
So I do carry some resentment with him
with that.
517
00:29:50,610 --> 00:29:53,430
Nice. Well, she's kind of putty in your
hands.
518
00:29:53,990 --> 00:29:58,430
I actually think that underneath the
surface, that Heather has some
519
00:29:58,430 --> 00:30:01,410
jealousy about Alan and Ruby's
relationship.
520
00:30:02,670 --> 00:30:09,190
What I'm seeing is less of a brain issue
and more of a territorial issue.
521
00:30:09,250 --> 00:30:10,830
I think that she's feeling...
522
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:15,420
somewhat minimized and threatened and
because of that she lashes out
523
00:30:15,420 --> 00:30:21,880
when you try to remove her from the main
piece of territory sure she's claiming
524
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:25,780
the desk she's claiming the pilates
machine she's claiming the bed these are
525
00:30:25,780 --> 00:30:29,080
places that are vertical if you look
around there's no other place in this
526
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:33,900
that's vertical for her to claim we have
to give her spaces to say i own this
527
00:30:33,900 --> 00:30:36,600
and now i can look over at my domain
safely
528
00:30:37,340 --> 00:30:40,680
What I am going to give you in terms of
homework is based around that theory.
529
00:30:40,820 --> 00:30:41,820
Remember the video.
530
00:30:41,940 --> 00:30:45,460
We'll keep the spy cams going. I want to
give her some more furniture in here.
531
00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:49,620
I'd like you guys to start thinking
about how we can get her up off the
532
00:30:49,620 --> 00:30:51,380
without taking over this.
533
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:55,960
It's definitely not going to be solved
in a minute. There's some work that's
534
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:59,020
going to have to be done and some
changes to be made, but I get worried
535
00:30:59,020 --> 00:31:00,140
time like I'm going to lose clients.
536
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:02,220
But for me, Jackson's the last resort.
537
00:31:06,030 --> 00:31:09,750
What I'm hoping to see on my second
visit with Heather and Alan is a little
538
00:31:09,750 --> 00:31:15,950
fear from Heather when she's approaching
the cat. My main concern is to make
539
00:31:15,950 --> 00:31:18,810
sure that Heather's business is actually
doing a little bit better than it was
540
00:31:18,810 --> 00:31:22,950
last time, because I know that because
of Ruby, business was a little bit on
541
00:31:22,950 --> 00:31:26,630
decline. And also, I just want to see
that the space itself is more Ruby
542
00:31:26,630 --> 00:31:30,570
-friendly, so that she can move around
it without interacting as closely with
543
00:31:30,570 --> 00:31:34,210
the clients as she was last time. So
let's not waste any time. I am psyched.
544
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:38,640
about what i'm looking at so show me
what you got let's go all right so the
545
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:45,260
first thing that i'm noticing are these
it should give ruby at least
546
00:31:45,260 --> 00:31:50,420
a sense of looking down over the domain
working for you right yeah yeah she
547
00:31:50,420 --> 00:31:55,050
loves them that's pretty wonderful i
mean i love just the idea of her being
548
00:31:55,050 --> 00:32:00,190
that floor is really nice. This thing is
absolutely amazing, too. Yeah, cat
549
00:32:00,190 --> 00:32:01,190
tree.
550
00:32:01,310 --> 00:32:05,590
Beautiful cat tree. We thought this was
great. She is using this? Yes. Yes,
551
00:32:05,630 --> 00:32:06,630
which is amazing.
552
00:32:06,770 --> 00:32:13,130
This is much more advantageous than
being threatened, which is maybe where a
553
00:32:13,130 --> 00:32:15,750
of her movements were coming from, her
swiping.
554
00:32:16,010 --> 00:32:19,970
So if you don't mind putting her up
there for me. Uh -oh. Uh -oh. Oh, no.
555
00:32:20,990 --> 00:32:22,610
Ruby. Getting there again.
556
00:32:23,150 --> 00:32:25,670
Are we having to go get her? Yeah.
557
00:32:26,370 --> 00:32:27,370
Stop.
558
00:32:27,690 --> 00:32:28,690
Stop, stop, stop, stop.
559
00:32:28,970 --> 00:32:30,050
Let's get her on that shelf.
560
00:32:30,670 --> 00:32:33,370
Doesn't matter which one, right? Nope.
Go ahead and put her wherever you want.
561
00:32:33,530 --> 00:32:37,470
One of the things that I found most
impressive was that Heather's energy
562
00:32:37,470 --> 00:32:42,270
Ruby, completely, completely different.
She will walk up to that cat. I said,
563
00:32:42,290 --> 00:32:45,670
can we just grab the cat for me? She
just grabbed the cat. I'm really
564
00:32:45,670 --> 00:32:46,670
by what I'm seeing.
565
00:32:47,770 --> 00:32:51,950
When Heather's calm, it's awesome for
me. There's much more peace in the
566
00:32:52,739 --> 00:32:53,980
And that's a big deal.
567
00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:59,100
Alan, I just want to see you be a client
for me. Be a client. Yes, please be a
568
00:32:59,100 --> 00:33:02,260
client. I just want to see how she's
responding to being up there watching
569
00:33:02,260 --> 00:33:07,880
guys. I asked Alan to get on the Pilates
machine. I wanted to see how Ruby took
570
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:11,020
to that machine in action on her shelf.
571
00:33:11,260 --> 00:33:12,620
Good girl, honey.
572
00:33:12,980 --> 00:33:16,100
I'm just sort of vicariously living
through you right now. I like the way
573
00:33:16,100 --> 00:33:17,240
exploring this. I really do.
574
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:19,840
Now tell me about what you've noticed
with her now.
575
00:33:20,380 --> 00:33:21,420
With your clients lately?
576
00:33:21,660 --> 00:33:26,220
She's been pretty good, but the other
day somebody went, oh, you know, like
577
00:33:26,220 --> 00:33:28,960
rubbed at her face, and then she bit
them.
578
00:33:29,220 --> 00:33:30,220
She bit them?
579
00:33:30,540 --> 00:33:34,500
Hard. Didn't break skin, but it was
hard. Break the person out? Break the
580
00:33:34,500 --> 00:33:36,780
out, yeah. And I was like, no, that's
not what I want.
581
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:40,860
For me, the reason why it was so scary,
too, was that she was doing so well, and
582
00:33:40,860 --> 00:33:46,080
then out of nowhere, she just kind of
attacked this lady and lost a client
583
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:47,880
already. I can lose more.
584
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:51,160
We're always going to have setbacks.
That's the nature of working with
585
00:33:51,460 --> 00:33:56,300
This time around, Ruby bit one of
Heather's clients, and that was a little
586
00:33:56,300 --> 00:33:57,300
concerning.
587
00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:02,360
What I want to do now is I want to go
over the homework assignments that I
588
00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:03,760
you last time. Let's watch a movie.
589
00:34:04,020 --> 00:34:05,740
Okay. I like movies.
590
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:09,120
I'll put you in the other window.
591
00:34:09,580 --> 00:34:11,000
No. Stop.
592
00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:13,040
Stop, Ruby.
593
00:34:14,500 --> 00:34:15,500
Stop.
594
00:34:15,659 --> 00:34:16,960
We need to move you.
595
00:34:17,300 --> 00:34:18,560
Yeah, good girl.
596
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:20,920
Yeah, come on. Come on.
597
00:34:21,460 --> 00:34:27,560
Heather's energy with Ruby, completely,
completely different. At that moment,
598
00:34:27,679 --> 00:34:31,679
she's open, she's receptive. You become
open and receptive. You guys have this
599
00:34:31,679 --> 00:34:33,960
beautiful little kumbaya moment
together.
600
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:39,480
And then you go, scoop, and she's out.
It was absolutely perfect and a game
601
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:43,440
changer in terms of your relationship
with her. So, wonderful work there.
602
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:47,480
We had some other things that obviously
I'm sure you're not too crazy about,
603
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:52,580
which is what we found on our spy cam in
the middle of the night, which is that
604
00:34:52,580 --> 00:34:55,780
this thing is just like her, still like
her playground.
605
00:34:56,159 --> 00:35:00,060
There was that one moment where she
looked at the camera. She's like, oh,
606
00:35:00,260 --> 00:35:01,980
you got me, you know.
607
00:35:03,180 --> 00:35:07,580
That has to end, obviously. We're
worried about nails going through the
608
00:35:07,580 --> 00:35:10,800
material. Very expensive piece of
machinery.
609
00:35:11,260 --> 00:35:12,780
Now, I got something for you.
610
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:13,979
Stay right here.
611
00:35:13,980 --> 00:35:15,140
I will be back, okay?
612
00:35:15,380 --> 00:35:20,860
Okay. So I went out and came back with a
really special thing, which I was
613
00:35:20,860 --> 00:35:25,520
really happy about. I had this guy
design this Pilates bed for a cat.
614
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:27,640
Okay, then.
615
00:35:29,060 --> 00:35:31,860
Excuse me while I bring in my present.
616
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:35,900
Oh, that's so cute. What is it?
617
00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:40,080
What I figured was that our girlfriend
was just a little jealous.
618
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:42,160
and needed her own little Pilates bed.
619
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:44,760
So this is now Ruby's bed.
620
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:49,800
I was, like, blown away. Like, I was
speechless, but I didn't even know what
621
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:52,640
think. I was like, of course he came up
with the best. Of course, it's perfect.
622
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:55,360
This is going to be her go -to spot.
623
00:35:55,980 --> 00:35:57,600
This will not be her go -to spot.
624
00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:02,480
My philosophy is that any time we want
to say no to somebody, we want to say
625
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:03,399
right behind it.
626
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:07,680
So any time that I say, listen, this is
totally off limits, I'm going to say
627
00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:08,680
that this is...
628
00:36:09,130 --> 00:36:11,610
Fair game. That's what we're hoping for.
No? Yes.
629
00:36:11,890 --> 00:36:16,530
So let me go back a minute to the
concept of space and the flow of space
630
00:36:16,530 --> 00:36:20,570
and the way a cat perceives space. I
don't know if you guys saw it, but I did
631
00:36:20,570 --> 00:36:23,170
back around the litter boxes where she
cornered herself.
632
00:36:23,430 --> 00:36:25,490
She got this panic look on her face
immediately.
633
00:36:25,790 --> 00:36:28,730
Every time she's cornered herself, we
got problems.
634
00:36:29,070 --> 00:36:31,630
So that means in here, no corners.
635
00:36:32,030 --> 00:36:35,130
I want to make it so this whole room has
no dead ends.
636
00:36:35,450 --> 00:36:38,730
If I'm Ruby and I go, I need to
investigate this room.
637
00:36:39,290 --> 00:36:40,830
Like you said, she gets to the top of
this.
638
00:36:41,530 --> 00:36:42,650
Where does she go from here?
639
00:36:43,110 --> 00:36:44,550
Absolutely no place. There's floor.
640
00:36:45,070 --> 00:36:47,570
So now, break over here for a second.
641
00:36:47,910 --> 00:36:49,230
We take a look at these guys.
642
00:36:49,550 --> 00:36:50,770
What if the tree was here?
643
00:36:51,090 --> 00:36:54,830
So again, we have the flow. Up the
stairs, up the stairs, and now I'm at
644
00:36:54,830 --> 00:36:57,610
of my tree looking out the window, and
then I can go back down again.
645
00:36:57,850 --> 00:36:59,250
And then we've created flow.
646
00:36:59,850 --> 00:37:03,090
That's the flow in this room that I'm
just now seeing. It's just kind of
647
00:37:03,090 --> 00:37:04,470
up. Remember to video.
648
00:37:04,710 --> 00:37:09,330
We'll keep the spy cams going, and we
will get to the homestretch on this one,
649
00:37:09,430 --> 00:37:13,010
okay? Alan and Heather's homework for
the next couple weeks, kind of simple. I
650
00:37:13,010 --> 00:37:16,930
need them to work on that room, flow
through the space, no corners, because
651
00:37:16,930 --> 00:37:21,190
Ruby, when cornered, will lash out every
single time.
652
00:37:21,430 --> 00:37:25,990
Also, I want to see more concentration
on how you address her, both physically
653
00:37:25,990 --> 00:37:29,710
and with words. If Heather doesn't do
her homework this week, her business is
654
00:37:29,710 --> 00:37:30,710
trouble.
655
00:37:32,970 --> 00:37:35,890
I'm about to go in for my last visit
with Heather now, and I'm just hoping,
656
00:37:36,030 --> 00:37:40,590
hoping that what I wanted from the get
-go has been realized. Because honestly,
657
00:37:40,750 --> 00:37:46,330
the concept of Heather losing her career
because of a cat is just unfathomable.
658
00:37:46,650 --> 00:37:50,190
Before, my clients didn't want Ruby in
the room with them. They just wanted her
659
00:37:50,190 --> 00:37:55,330
to be in the bedroom away from them. And
now I'm completely comfortable with
660
00:37:55,330 --> 00:37:56,930
Ruby being in the same room with my
clients.
661
00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:00,080
So the last time I was here, one of the
most important things that I told
662
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:03,560
Heather and Alan was that I wanted Ruby
to know that when she walked into the
663
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:06,100
room, the focus wasn't the big Pilates
bed.
664
00:38:06,620 --> 00:38:10,620
So the only thing that we need to deal
with is I just want to make sure the
665
00:38:10,620 --> 00:38:11,840
space is perfect.
666
00:38:12,500 --> 00:38:15,360
So let's just take a look at your setup
here. Okay, cool.
667
00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:17,560
Let's just start with this.
668
00:38:18,100 --> 00:38:20,660
So we got big Pilates bed.
669
00:38:21,220 --> 00:38:25,720
She's not doing the middle of the night
big Pilates surging anymore, is she? No.
670
00:38:26,380 --> 00:38:29,660
When you're having a session, where does
she tend to hang out the most?
671
00:38:30,020 --> 00:38:33,380
She's either on this or she's on her
bed.
672
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:35,880
Clients, they love the Pilates bed.
673
00:38:36,180 --> 00:38:37,660
They think it's the cutest thing ever.
674
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:43,900
I'll give you guys props for the flow in
here because this is beautiful.
675
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:50,920
You've got her Pilates bed going to the
clouds, up to the clouds, here to watch
676
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:53,200
birds, down again, and out.
677
00:38:53,690 --> 00:38:59,030
The flow that goes through this room
now, I literally can't change a thing in
678
00:38:59,030 --> 00:39:00,910
here. And your clients are good.
679
00:39:01,130 --> 00:39:05,690
Yeah, they love her. They love it. It is
completely night and day. They're like,
680
00:39:05,730 --> 00:39:06,689
where's Ruby?
681
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Really? Yeah.
682
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She knows that when she starts a
session, that Ruby will sit on her bed,
683
00:39:12,810 --> 00:39:16,830
that the client will go to the big bed,
and there's no competition for space
684
00:39:16,830 --> 00:39:17,950
anymore. It's done.
685
00:39:18,190 --> 00:39:21,970
Before, I had to hide Ruby from my
clients, and now they actually,
686
00:39:22,230 --> 00:39:25,410
They want to see her. They want her to
come out and be with them.
687
00:39:25,990 --> 00:39:26,990
I'm proud of her.
688
00:39:27,390 --> 00:39:31,270
I am, too. She's now a welcome part of
the Pilates experience.
689
00:39:31,650 --> 00:39:36,390
It's nice, though. It makes her a lot
more relaxed. The level of tension that
690
00:39:36,390 --> 00:39:42,710
you were carrying about picking her up,
the cat bomb position, you know, where
691
00:39:42,710 --> 00:39:45,130
you're carrying her like that.
692
00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:49,680
And I just want to make sure that that's
okay at this point. Totally fine. The
693
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:54,100
simple bottom line to the success that
we're seeing today is playing into the
694
00:39:54,100 --> 00:39:58,060
fact that cats are territorial. And Ruby
is no different. Ruby needed to have a
695
00:39:58,060 --> 00:40:00,780
place of ownership. And now she owns...
696
00:40:01,180 --> 00:40:05,200
the outside of that entire room. And
that's amazing to see because it works.
697
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:10,520
I'm just adoring what I'm seeing right
now. When I was spending a little bit of
698
00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:14,580
time with Ruby today, the first thing
that struck me was the relaxation in her
699
00:40:14,580 --> 00:40:19,620
face. There's a sweetness to her that I
didn't see before. She was grouchy. She
700
00:40:19,620 --> 00:40:21,660
was surly. She was mean.
701
00:40:23,260 --> 00:40:28,200
And now there's just a relaxation. I
could read on her as clearly as I could
702
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:29,178
read it on a human.
703
00:40:29,180 --> 00:40:34,100
I'm just ecstatic the fact that I don't
have to worry about losing clients or my
704
00:40:34,100 --> 00:40:36,820
job. It just makes me feel, like,
blessed.
705
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:42,080
There was a point where she was afraid
to bring people over to the house. Or if
706
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:46,340
she could have people to the house, she
would have to get herself carved up by
707
00:40:46,340 --> 00:40:48,700
her cat in order to get her sessions
underway.
708
00:40:49,540 --> 00:40:55,300
The relationship now between Ruby and
Heather is just...
709
00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:56,840
It's unbelievable.
710
00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:01,140
She just climbed right on top of me. You
started to do this? Started doing my
711
00:41:01,140 --> 00:41:03,100
little meeting.
712
00:41:03,700 --> 00:41:05,740
Has Ruby ever laid on my stomach before?
713
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:09,920
Ruby's never laid on your stomach
before. Ever, ever, ever. She won't even
714
00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:10,920
next to me.
715
00:41:12,100 --> 00:41:14,720
It was just like, you do love me.
716
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:17,700
You do. I was so excited.
717
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:24,000
This is about changing a relationship.
These guys really love Ruby to a degree
718
00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:26,800
that they're willing to look at
themselves and the way they approach
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00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:29,520
space. And these are the results.
They're beautiful.
720
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:33,380
It's good to know that things could
change for the better.
721
00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:39,640
Seeing Ruby and Heather having a
relationship that Ruby and I have is
722
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,160
That is worth its weight in gold.
723
00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:46,220
This whole experience has definitely
made me and Alan's relationship stronger
724
00:41:46,220 --> 00:41:47,220
and better.
725
00:41:47,310 --> 00:41:50,050
There's no argument about Ruby anymore.
726
00:41:50,390 --> 00:41:55,610
It was simple things that we didn't know
about, to be honest, that really paid
727
00:41:55,610 --> 00:42:01,010
off. Jackson, thank you. His
attentiveness, his knowledge, the gifts
728
00:42:01,010 --> 00:42:06,330
given us and tools were just a blessing,
absolute blessing.
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