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Atlanta.

I don't think you communicate and really
bring yourself to the group of ladies.

I know, but right now. Like, don't be so
defensive.

You don't know the challenges that I
have.

This has never had a bachelorette party
before. So.

You know it's going down.

I could stand in front of my princess.

Hi. How are you?

Kenya said how she heard some noises at
the thing. I heard a lot of noises.

Whose room was it?

Well, it wasn't Candy's room, and it was
coming from that side of the house.

Are you trying to direct it at Portia?
Did I say anyone's name?

Guys, this really isn't a conversation
if it's not directed at me.

Sounds like a non -issue to me. What
happens at a ladies' bachelorette party

needs to stay at the ladies'
bachelorette party. Y 'all breaking all

codes. I received this from Mr. Davis.

He filed for divorce?

And he's asking for alimony.

No, he's not.

If you don't like my shade, then step
out of my shadow.

A little candy always helps sweeten the
teeth.

I was in the game, but now I'm calling
all the plays.

I've been through the peaks and the
valleys, and now I'm head over heels.

I may be social distancing, but I'm here
for social justice.

The offbeat can't land on me.

I make them all sit. I'm done.

Now bring it over here. Let me see it. I
would like for your D to be a little

bit more like a D instead of an O, but
you did good, I think. What I think, I

live. What I want, I see. Did you have
fun? One of the highlights has to be the

bachelorette party. When your Aunt Londi
had her bachelorette party, your dad

and I were divorced then, and he was
married to Lauren's mom, Lisa.

I wouldn't. I found four strippers and
brought them back.

Your dad came, he grabbed her. He looked
like he wanted to grab me. I was like,

I'm not yours anymore.

Leave me alone.

Leave me alone.

Do,

re, mi, fa, sol, la, ti, do.

A little flat, but come on, do it again.

Charlie, can you text my mom and see
where she's going to be around tomorrow

let her know that I want to meet her and
look at some dresses.

Bye.

Hi.

Hey, girl.

How are you? You look gorgeous.

Thank you. Girl, I'm over here holding
on by a thread. My mom's dress won't be

here until the 16th. You know the
wedding's on the 10th, right?

And we had it expedited, but none of
that matters.

In the pandemic.

We're going to send some extra prayers
up over here.

I need y 'all to come all the way to
California.

The countdown has begun.

All right?

We got a lot of stuff to do.

Speaking of the wedding, I'm really
leaning towards the Monica song, Angel.

I love Monica. You do?

Babe, do you love Monica, Angel of Mine?

Yeah, when she sings it. Hey, Drew.

Hey, Mike.

Love that song.

You do?

Let me know if you need some backup.

Babe, let her do that. OK. OK.

I'm sorry, babe.

I know he's trying to throw shade.
Listen, you can add a couple of hee

Okay.

And it's your day. Okay. Thank you so
much, Drew. Appreciate that.

All right, tell Rafa, say what's up.

I will, I will. I know Marlo was putting
together a little girls' shingdings

tomorrow. I know, I'm going.

You know, I always show up, child, but I
ain't gonna be able to do it this time.

I gotta take my mom to go find a dress.

Okay, let me let you go.

Send positive vibes your way, mama.
Thank you so much, babe. Bye.

Woo!

Come, puppy.

Come outside.

Be a dog.

Hi, baby.

Taylor, can you brush your hair?

Please, thanks.

Long hair don't care, care, care, care,
care, care.

You're so bad, I stare.

Long hair don't care.

Hey!

Yeah?

You look like Santa Claus.

That's what happens when you get old.

Where's your little chair at?

She's with the nanny.

It's not just you guys I'm inviting. I
would be inviting many people.

Let me see if you guys can come another
time, maybe not on her birthday, or see

who might come, and then we can go from
there, okay?

My dad is a man who I respect.

He can be very rough around the edges. I
do not believe in women telling men

what to do.

So what do you think? This is my new
house.

You don't want me to tell you what I
think.

But he's a softie on the inside.

Anyway. I don't know. Since Mark and I
have been separated, I just need a

father's advice. And it's really brought
us closer.

How was your anniversary? 39 years.

You're on 39 years. I'm on three.

I made three.

For now, he filed for divorce in New
York.

And even in the divorce, Dad, he asked
for alimony. He's never asked me for

money, ever.

When I finally did talk to him.

He said, yeah, somebody was at my house
trying to serve me and embarrass me.

And so it was retaliation. He withdrew
it 12 hours later.

People don't do stuff like that. When
they put it down in writing that they

money, they seriously want some money.

I had a text exchange with Mark.

And he was very upset that I tried to
serve him. A custody action.

That made him file for divorce.

It was the ultimate betrayal.

Those were his words.

I don't know, Mark, well enough to say
anything at all about what's going

on in his mind.

Y 'all been together three years and
half of the three years been separated.

I don't know nothing about it. I've only
seen TV stuff.

I made the very bad decision not to
invite my dad to my wedding because I

think my dad would get along with Mark,
and I regret it.

I think

you're

right, and I think just for my own peace
of mind that I wanted...

Continue with therapy.

When do y 'all plan to talk about y
'all?

I don't know, Dad.

I recently started therapy because I do
have a lot of questions in terms of my

behavior in my marriage.

I accepted a lot of things like anger,
dismissal, and complete disrespect.

I've had a lot of proposals in my
lifetime.

But why did I choose Mark and Ian?

Well, how were you able to make it last
39 years?

that we have, we don't hold animosity
towards each other. We generally

like each other as people.

It's us against the world. Yeah. You
know, and if it ain't no communication,

ain't no relationship.

That's one thing that's important.

You got to get your husband to talk to
you. You want to go your own way, let's

get the terms out of the way we're going
to do this thing.

Get on with it. Yes, I'm having a big
birthday coming up, and I don't want to

in limbo with my life.

I love you, Dad.

Love you, too. I miss you.

I miss you, too.

All right. Bye.

Coming up next.

I was asking about your husband and your
marriage, and I felt like it was this

guard up. I did open up to you about it.
But that's what I'm saying. But you're

not letting me talk. Because it's
something that we cannot even speak

Thank you for inviting me. Thank you for
coming. I was like,

I know a lot going on.

Yes. since vacation.

How did you feel about it?

It was a good time. It had its moments.
But I was like, people aren't really

talking in this group.

It's like, things are being said, but
people aren't being addressed.

And then the next day, everybody's like,
well, everything's good. We can drink.

And I'm like, we're not going to talk
about, like, the fact that everybody was

up, like, arguing and crying.

And it was just a lot. And I was just
like, OK, the tension in this group is

thick as Bolo's thighs.

Mm -hmm.

I thought Kenny and I were building and
moving in a positive direction and

hopefully getting to know one another,
but things went to the left.

I'm just trying to have a real
conversation. Yeah, because right now I

you're attacking me. I'm not.

No, I do feel like that. Please don't do
that because I'm smiling. No, I feel

like that.

If I'm going to build a relationship
with her, I definitely have to put

on the table. When we had our dinner, I
know you said, you know, we'll have an

opportunity, hopefully, to get to know
each other. So I was happy that you came

because that's all I'm trying to do is
get to know people.

Give everybody opportunity, you know, to
connect and just talk one -on -one, you

know? I have to say, you know, I was a
little disappointed when you said that

the table, bringing up who's the
realest, who's the fakest, and then you

can you? I'll use you as an example. You
will tell me certain things, and then

you'll text me and say, but don't tell
the girl.

I don't know how to be.

Okay, should we order a drink?

Hold on, I can see this is... No, no,
no! If you want to order a drink, go

ahead. I'll just do orange juice,
pineapple, and cranberry.

Okay. And the blackened salmon Caesar
salad.

You know what? I'm going to order the
lump crab cake. Okay. Yeah. Perfect.

Perfect.

So back to where we were.

Yes. To me, you kind of made it seem as
though I was being

fake. And when you did that, I felt
like, well, if I was trusting you.

then now I don't trust you at all.

Okay, I can see that. He would call me
and we would have great conversation,

I think it was the part about the
private jet.

Latoya and I are going to go ahead of
all of you guys, jump down there on the

little private jet.

No more than 10 minutes later, I get a
text message from Kenya telling me don't

tell the other ladies about the private
jet.

And you were like, well, don't tell the
other lady. Yeah, because I wanted to

tell them. And that's fine. We can go
back and forth on that. But I think the

final straw was when I was asking about
your daughter.

Like, how do we jump from that?

to a final well you gotta let me finish
because you can i let you talk right and

so if i could have brought my daughter i
was just like why didn't you tell me

you know or give me a heads up like as
i'm trying to open up and get to know

i was asking about your husband and your
marriage i felt like it was this guard

up no but i can't say the things that's
not true so i came to my husband i did

open up to you about it but you're not
letting me something that we cannot even

speak about

Okay, so I don't know how to address
you.

Drew, why the hell are you singing?

You took that somehow to mean I was not
being open with you or whatever because

you asked me about one isolated thing
that I could not talk about.

then, you know, I don't know what else
to say. Because to me, it's a reach.

I don't think getting clarity is a
reach. I think clarity is clarity. So

your husband?

My husband's great.

How's the new house?

Great. It's good. I mean, I definitely
hope that you understand, as a

mom, it was hard for me to leave my
daughter.

We're back to the same point. Because I
just feel like I don't want to have like

a false or fake conversation.

But we've had that conversation. Why are
we revisiting? Well, I don't know why

it's so much like pushback. You know why
it's so difficult.

Because we already addressed it and I
said I don't want to go in circles. So

you understand where I'm coming from?

It's not about right or wrong. It's just
about understanding where I was coming

from. It doesn't matter if I understand
it. Your feelings are valid.

But again, it's about a choice. You felt
guilty about being somewhere without

your family. You can go home. And I did.
So I don't understand why.

Yeah, I don't get it. It's just a thing.
You don't have to get it because as

women. You keep asking me, do I
understand it? That's a part of getting

right? Anybody else I have the
conversation with, I don't know why it's

for you to understand.

You're over -talking me and you haven't
even. and let me talk like the whole

entire time. I've only let you talk the
whole time. We're sitting here,

regardless of the fact, I felt how I
felt, and I was sharing that with you.

telling you, as you keep repeating
yourself, and I got it. You want to make

tell you...

If you would actually listen, you would
hear what I'm saying. I'm a great

listener. I have not even been able to
finish my thoughts because you talk over

me. I didn't say I was a great mom. What
are you saying? You have to be willing

to shut up and listen sometimes.

You can learn and understand why we're
having this disconnect and why you're

having all these issues in your life.

Excuse me, can I have the wager, please?
Yeah, I want to box this up and wrap

this up. Check, check, check.

We got it. Are they going to be
separated together tonight?

We're going to split it. I don't split a
check, so it's either one part or the

other. I would like to box it up. My
friends and I, we split bills, and I can

box it up as well.

Broke bitches split checks, okay?

I'm not going to sit here and calculate
how much tax I owe on a check.

Thank you.

And this one was yours.

Thank you so much. Okay, perfect. You
too. Thank you.

Hopefully you enjoy your meal at home.
Thank you.

Okay, bye.

I just can't stand this girl.

She talks so much.

Coming up next.

What is that? It says, two Real
Housewives of Atlanta stars allegedly

with stripper SMP's Bailey Bachelorette.

Wow. How far are you going?

About 37 minutes.

Where are we going?

Mom's dress won't be here until the
16th.

Praise God, my girlfriend Kathy has a
store, and she was closed today, so I

called her this morning.

Okay.

So we got to get her another dress.
Yeah, we got to get her another dress.

All right.

Everything that could go wrong has gone
wrong.

Did I tell you that Dana can't be a
bridesmaid?

No. Tracy can't make it.

Marcus wasn't able to come.

Mike's wedding band came today from
London.

It is so beautiful, but it's too small.

Oh, Lord.

Put it like this. If he get it on, I
don't know if he will get it off.

Oh, no, I'm stressed and fit either.

She's just a barrel of good news.

Did I mention that a hurricane is on the
way?

My wedding may very well be gone with
the wind, minus the fabulous.

I just never thought I would ever get
married again.

I mean, what?

I mean, I was out of the streets for a
minute now.

One or two guys?

All right, well, we're not going to put
a number on it.

We're not going to put a number on it.

But for me, I definitely felt like I was
doing the most.

It's probably nothing to do with
nothing, but... Oh, Jesus.

What is that? It says, two real hot
-spot Atlanta stars allegedly had sex

stripper at Cynthia Bailey's
bachelorette.

Is that that?

Yep. And that was your bachelorette's
party? I told you it was a little crazy.

What?

Well, first of all, I didn't have sex
with the stripper. Let me just go ahead

and put that out there.

Wow.

Girl. Yeah.

Who do you think leaked this to the
press?

I honestly don't know who leaked the
information to the press. Now, I know

was the most pressed, and I'm going to
leave it right there. I really don't

no parts of this because this is a mess.

Lord have mercy.

Marlo.

Welcome, darling, to the Hobbit,
darling.

I like the ponytail.

Looking so young, girl. Dungeon parties
do good on you.

Girl, did you know Page Six posted
something about it?

Wait a minute. Page Six posted? Yes. On
my way here, somebody just sent me the

link. What?

Are you kidding me right now? Who over
here leaking all this information

the blog? At this point, I don't know if
I trust anybody but myself in this

business. You need to read it, bitch.
Pull that open. Does that sound like a

leak in this camp?

Cynthia Bailey's bachelorette party
allegedly took a wild turn. A source who

witnessed the bash exclusively told us
two ladies allegedly went off into a

private bedroom with a male stripper
hired for the party to continue their

steamy rendezvous.

What'd Beyonce say? You got to sign the
NDA and party with me.

Y 'all in here getting buck -book your
ass. Wow.

You thought it was just going to stay
there?

Hey, Barbie!

I expected mama.

Oh, I know you got to be burning up. No,
I was. I had to switch on A. Oh, yes.

Hey. You want a drink?

Is it alcohol?

Oh, yeah, but it won't get you as loose
as our last party night. It will get you

a little loose now.

Tears. Catch up to friendship.

Oh, yes.

Friendship is messed up.

I'm glad to see you guys.

Blowing up and all.

But I'm mad about this article. They
over here making comments about me.

What?

You don't even send us that page six
article.

That page six. That's my most friends
right there.

I don't trust a blogger. I don't even
see how y 'all hang with them. We make

front page news all the time. I'm not
shocked by this.

Who do you think leaked this to the
press?

I think it was an inside job.

Definitely someone who was there and
told someone else, and then they leaked

information.

Listen, whoever is involved, they know
who they are. They can talk about it,

talk about it. Our circle is usually,
hey, I did it. Yeah, we made it. What

circle are you a part of?

Hey,

Shamil. Hey.

Hey.

Come on, let's go over to the pretty
table. I had Adrian come decorate it for

us.

Listen, Shamia, they already talking
about our party on page six.

They were talking about everything,
honey. Everything, Shamia. I'm about to

something. Let me wash my hands. Don't
say that too loud in this group.

Oh, Lord.

There's no kitty cats over here.

Well, hello, darling.

Get me some sugar, baby.

Did you leak what happened?

No, I didn't. I don't mess with page
six. If it was a B Scott or if it was a

TMZ, maybe.

So then who leaked it?

Well, somebody that was there.

Kenya is a great friend to me. But if
you get on her bad side, then devil

Lucifer, Satan Kenya will rise out of
her. I truly believe that she,

you know, leaked that information to the
blogs.

And you know what?

Tanya is in Canada.

So she fled the sea.

She's running from something.

What do you think she's running from?

Well, um, maybe the truth.

Tanya told what she did though. She
said, I was in Portia. I went in

room. She said she was in the room.
Around six o 'clock for snack.

till 5 o 'clock in the morning. We went
to her room to have snacks.

And that's it. And that's what I am
telling you. Now you will be in front.

I'm not. That's what she said at the
table. She did say something like, y

been crazy. Wait, first, I still had
three suspects.

Oh, God.

Hey, y 'all.

Right here? Okay.

I don't know if you know yet, it was
being paid sick today.

Yeah. Oh, you did know that? I saw that.
I saw that. I read the article. I was

like, oh, okay.

Okay, so Toya, did you have any
encounter, look me in my eye, sexual

with Bolo?

No. I was not in that damn room. Well,
you're going to have to ask those

questions to everybody. You can't just
single her out.

Well, Shamia said it wasn't her.

You was in your room, right? Shamia sure
was.

What? Why are we debating on who was in
the room? I want to know who had sexual

relations together.

The people that keep bringing it up.

Now, you've been. Whoever bringing it up
is scared to say it. Oh. I thought we

had to call Cynthia to check on her.

Oh. Oh, Kenya.

Hey.

Hey.

Hey, you guys.

Wait, why are you here with us? My mom's
dressed.

I got to get here until 16, which is six
days after the wedding.

You get the prenup done.

You better call Mama Joyce today and get
some advice.

Prenup can be sliced dice. I don't want
you to be able to choke on a chicken

bone and he come over here and tell me I
got to get out.

We're just going to do a post -nup
after.

I definitely feel like Cynthia is
leaving herself unprotected.

And Kenya left herself unprotected.

And we see what Kenya is going through
right now. Fight it out before so that

you don't take into the marriage like
that drama.

That's the first.

That's the only thing. She has so much
else going on, though. I always tell

people to have a pre -nup. I just didn't
listen to my own advice.

If that's what Cynthia wants to do after
dealing with Peter.

Got Cynthia's issue, not mine.

I gotta go.

Keep you guys posted on everything. Bye.

Bye. Oh, my God.

I don't think she wanted to hear that.

I'm just going to do the post -match.

Coming up next.

I'm super loyal, and I'm a straight
shooter, and I feel that since Kenya and

did do that little two -minute makeup,
it's like, ooh, let's back off from

Marlo. We don't trust her, and I don't
like that.

Drew, you sure you don't want me to
slingshot you, pumpkin, pumpkin? Is that

the most right now?

Do you, boo? Do you, boo?

It's a love -hate thing. I think we had
a moment.

True. Kenya, did Drew not say, I don't
honor marriage, and these girls out here

don't care about husband? But that was
after you were coming for Fallon. Fallon

was trying to take a view. Fallon
definitely stepped in. I was like, oh, I

to karate chop that bitch.

You're like, yeah.

Next time, catch me sober. I don't think
I've seen you sober. You never, never,

never catch her sober. I don't think
I've ever seen you sober.

That's shade. Oh, that's shade? Because
I've never seen you have a cute wig.

Come on, Drew. Come on, Storm.

Where is Borsha? I thought she was on
her way. Yeah, see if she can go in the

hair dryer. She's here.

Hey, you here, right?

I put the address into my GPS, and
apparently...

I've literally driven an hour out of the
way, and I'm just supposed to be going

like 45 minutes.

I didn't even know where I was until I
had passed like two outlet malls. I've

seen cows and stuff, Oz, Narnia,
Jamunda.

Just get here. I got a good drink for
you when you get here.

Thank you. You said y 'all had dinner
the other night, right? How was that

dinner? How was that? Was that good?

It just wrapped up a little early.

I thought y 'all were in a good place.

I feel like I'm in a good place with
most of the ladies here.

So why didn't you finish dinner?

I just don't understand. We weren't on
the same accord. You were at the dinner

in South Carolina, and I feel like
everybody was pretty clear that she was

of like coming for me. Did you feel like
I was coming for her?

Man, I won't say coming.

In my words.

It definitely felt that way. It did.

I didn't think it was that deep.
Exactly. You thought so, you thought so,

she didn't think so.

Kenya's definition of an attack is me
stating facts, and now I'm attacking

Get out of here, girl.

That's what you were doing last night.
You kept talking over me. And you as

well, but it's OK.

I came up the first time she was doing
acting exercises, as if it was her

preparing for a scene.

I am going to be singing at Cynthia's
wedding.

My voice is hoarse. Come on, y 'all.
Candy, do you do vocal exercises?

At dinner? Not at dinner. At the dinner
table?

Me, me, me?

You do it at home.

I'm glad y 'all can laugh about it.

Drew, Drew, Drew, Drew. What the hell is
wrong with you? With you, with you,

with you, with you, with you.

With you.

Where's your car?

Right here. Right in front of you.

Is she always like that? Like, you can't
really... She don't say what she wants.

But one thing about me, we can be
friends. I'm gonna keep it real. I'm

call you out.

It's been a true pleasure.

But it's getting dark.

Bye, ladies. Bye.

I almost feel bad because I don't want
Portia to pull up and we gone.

Kenya, Drew needs a ride.

No, I don't.

You're the real actress, girl.

Get down.

Those exercises work. It loosens up the
tongue, which is good for other things.

And she might need to do that, too.
Maybe she wouldn't be having the

that she had. What did it do?

Oh, y 'all so shady. You can do some
things with that tongue work.

Where's Courtney? She's supposed to be
here.

Hey, y 'all don't mind. Please just
wait.

Turn left onto Sleepy Hollow Road.

Oh, my God!

This is insane.

Is that right?

Okay, girl.

When we first got here, they were
recapping what happened with the trip.

Everybody was saying, oh, you see what
they put in page six? They were saying

that, you know, it was a threesome. This
went from us having a bachelor party to

now this has gone in a blog.

It just seems like a lot. It seems like
a Kenya leak.

It seems like a lowdown, I need a bitch
type of leak. She might as well just put

right there, written by Kenya Moore.

I had a problem that Kenya was doing
this whole investigation.

I keep seeing it go around the table. I
was like, really, this is what we're

doing? That's why I said, why don't we
just be?

That's so tired.

At the end of the day, y 'all going to
have to talk. Who is y 'all? I'm just

saying. I feel y 'all going to either
get into it or you're going to curse

No, I'm not going to get into it.

She keeps poking me, poking me. I don't
want to kill y 'all. Guess what? I just

don't fuck with you. Maybe y 'all got a
budding friendship going on. We don't

have nothing. I told you when we talked,
this is our second time ever speaking

to each other. We don't have nothing.

Y 'all were good tonight, though. We did
not talk no more after that. But they

were good tonight. Y 'all always be
good.

I'm going to talk to you one -on -one by
ourselves.

Because I'm super loyal and I'm a
straight shooter.

And I feel this. But since Kenya and I
did do that little two -minute makeup,

it's like, ooh, let's back off from
Marlo. We don't trust her. And I don't

that. And it bothers me seriously.

What would give you that impression?

Because I haven't spoken to you, Sister
Tripp. I haven't spoken to her. I mean,

I'm not worried about that. But I used
to text you. This is my best friend,

though. And I ain't even been with you.

I'm sorry. I won't. This is what I don't
want to happen.

When you made up with Kenya and that's
what y 'all decided to do, that had

nothing to do with me. I don't know if
Marlo should necessarily be careful with

her friendship with Kenya, but...

It's like the timing of when King
decided to all of a sudden forgive her.

It's very suspicious.

It's very calculated.

Let's leave it alone because my feet
hurt. Well, thanks for the quickie,

I know.

And ain't nobody texting me talking
about don't call me tomorrow.

I'm my wife now.

Don't get in my feelings with me. Call
me.

Don't y 'all think like I'm not Toya.
I'm not nobody.

We need to follow each other. Because
I'm a little scared now.

Coming up next.

I wasn't protected.

What did you have to end up doing to
keep you protected since nobody showed

for you?

Is it too much?

What do you want your wedding to...

I don't know if she had like a pastor
voice.

You don't want me to change up and take
it down like three knots. And God said

to get you a woman and pass around an
offering plate too to help pay for this

wedding. Is that inappropriate?

Okay.

Y 'all can't do no more girl strips.

That looks so bomb. Wait, how did
everybody look in their outfits? It

amazing. Kenya was the hottest.

Let me find out y 'all really start
bumping Gucci for real.

I heard Mark like working it out.

Who? Kenya.

They're going through the next steps, I
believe.

So Kenya talked to you about everything
that was happening with the divorce?

Mostly. What do you mean? I mean, you
know, they're actually trying to figure

out custody. She didn't tell you that
they tried to serve him the other day

he panicked and he was trying to serve
her?

What? He was trying to file and ask for
alimony or something.

Okay, so she told you that? So she did
tell you that. She told me that, yeah. I

mean, she doesn't really want to discuss
it with everybody, so. Right. Can we

ask one thing?

What? Can you not orchestrate no more
going down on each other?

No, no, no. Oh, my God.

This is a snake.

Who do you think these need to be for?
These snake earrings.

After yesterday, I think Ken was being a
snake. But she got a lot going on.

Think about it. I looked at her eyes and
I felt her energy and it felt like sad.

Like she might see something where she
wants to connect, but she can't connect.

Never could never. Don't say, nah.

Nah. Never say never now.

Never say never. Never say.

Never. Never.

Are you going to make me do it? Never.
Never.

Good. She got tested, so now we don't
have to be outside. Right. I know,

No rain. It didn't rain. Right, exactly.

Go on in and have a seat. Okay.

On the sofa? Yeah, that's good.

Okay. Thank you.

Absolutely. Thank you.

Things have been hanging in the balance
the last couple of days with Mark and

me. I don't know what my next move is,
but therapy will be a good start to just

help me get somewhere.

You've talked about having people in
your life, having men specifically in

life that are the same type. Right. For
the most part. That I fall for. That you

fall for. But what else is under there
that are those signs that lead you into

these relationships that are not
healthy?

Emotionally unavailable. Okay.

100%. Not very transparent.

I shared everything with my husband. I
said, this is my list.

If you have a problem with it, let me
know now. You were transparent. This is

who I am. And he never gave me the same.
I'm just going to give them time.

He'll come around.

And that's how I've always operated in
relationships like that.

But because of whatever that desire to
hopefully be with them, be accepted,

seen, loved, whatever, you would find
yourself still giving them time.

That's the same thing I did with my
mother for 30 years.

I was always trying to demand that she
see me and that she acknowledge me.

And that never happened.

Oh, my God.

Hello, it's Kenya. I'm here by myself
and I want to speak to you.

I heard you lock the door out of the
blue.

You just go in and go bam on her door.
That's my mother.

think you do? I'm always ending up in
these relationships.

It's the same.

Yeah. Yeah.

That's it too much.

Okay. My mother from three days old gave
me to my grandmother.

I've had a lot to deal with growing up.
I didn't want children until I was about

30 years old because I just was afraid
to bring a child into chaos.

or even treat my child as my mother
treated me.

What we are displaying in our adult life
is from stuff that we haven't resolved

from 10 years ago, 20, 30, 40 years ago,
right? If your mom were in here, what

did you need?

What would you say about her not being
there for you?

It's beyond not being there. It's the
treatment. It's the treating me like I

invisible. My whole family sat back and
watched.

My own mother be cruel to me, and I
wasn't protected.

Nobody was there to rescue you, to keep
you safe.

What did you have to end up doing to
keep you protected since nobody showed

for you?

I got into trouble all the time, and I
fought all the time, and I just started

skipping school. And I dated a man that
was 11 years older than me at 15,

and he was physically abusive.

What did you have to end up doing to
keep you protected since nobody showed

for you?

I got into trouble all the time and I
fought all the time and I just started

skipping school. And I dated a man that
was 11 years older than me at 15

and he was physically abusive.

I just feel like I want to move forward
and I have this hope we can just have

some kind of relationship.

And if I talk about those things, I just
feel like it's pulling me backwards

and then maybe I won't be able to
forgive her.

And I don't want to go back.

But sometimes forgiveness does look like
acknowledging what was going on so that

you don't find yourself back in those
patterns, whether, again, it's with

someone else or even with her, because
you still have.

A lot of stuff deep in you that you have
not probably, right, processed.

A lot of times we tend to suppress.
That's how we get through. But it shows

in other things.

I mean, I think it showed up in the fact
that I looked for love

with men. I feel like with my husband,
with my mother, the things that

they said, it's like they make me feel
like, I'm the bad guy with my

mother. And it's like, but I told
everyone that I was not ready to have a

So then my behavior toward Kenya is
acceptable.

And then it's like with my husband, it's
the same way. The things that have

happened and have been said and done.

And it's like, how can you not see that
this is cruel?

In his mind, it's been him against me.

I'm going to try to break you because I
am broken.

It's always angry communication.

And is it angry communication from your
end too?

No. Okay. I have restraint.

Anyone can tell you that. I don't scream
and go crazy.

I don't do that to people that I love. I
can do it to people that I don't care

for that way. Right. I want to take it
back real quick, though, because going

through a divorce publicly, right, like
all of that, it can take an emotional

toll. And it'll hit you whether you just
have a full -out breakdown.

Kenny, I feel like I'm not keeping it
together.

It was so many things coming at me at
one time.

Yeah, I feel it. It'll hit you if you
pop off on somebody. Y 'all want to have

sisterhood and have support, then be my
motherfucking village then.

It'll hit you if it's a new relationship
and you bringing that baggage in, but

it will hit. Which I don't want to do.
Yeah. So what's going on with the

emotions for you?

I don't have, I don't deal with it.
Okay.

I just think about what I need to do the
next day. So we have to talk about and

grieve this not being what you thought
it was going to be, what you thought

future was going to be. I don't want you
to be so caught up in not processing

your own baggage that you can't see the
baggage that somebody else is bringing

in. Right. They need to be able to match
what you got, but they got to speak to

your soul. But you got to know that your
soul is on this path to healing. As I

enter this new decade in my life, my
takeaway is to do my homework to really

just sit down with my feelings and i'm
going to prioritize my happiness and i'm

going to give brooklyn the family that
she deserves even if it doesn't look

how i initially thought it would okay
exhale exhale did i tell you i wasn't

waiting to exhale i know right next time
on the real housewives of atlanta the

blog how did it ring

Some stuff definitely happened.

Everybody here is a witness.

Kenya, I am not getting involved.

Would you please let it go?

How do you feel about Kenya going around
with this whole investigation?

Of course she's not going to regulate
who I'm friends with.

Am I hurt? Yeah, but at the end of the
day, you're going to do what you can do

to live in Kenya's ass, so go right
ahead.

I'm just excited for you.

How are you feeling in general? Like,
are you ready?

I am.

very ready my biggest concern has been
going back and forth about the weather

like there's a freaking hurricane if we
didn't have a baby you and me probably

wouldn't even be talking anymore because
you can over me and i'll be over you

just move on then and i just move on

hi you guys

we're here i'm at peter

Do you honor marriage being bubbing and
grinding on bolo?

That's why your husband's trying to
cancel your ass. Right, well, that's why

your marriage is struggling.

Latoya forever? No.

Latoya never, never, ever, bitch.