All language subtitles for The.Real.Housewives.of.Atlanta.S13E03

Previously on The Real Housewives of
Atlanta.

If 10 -10 -20 is our perfect date,
things are going to be opened up. If

not, then maybe we're not meant to get
married 10 -10 -20. I don't give up

that wedding.

How is it being with the Trinidadian
men?

I was told they were cheaters. They're
called Horner men in our culture.

How do you spell that?

Horner. I don't know. H -O -R -N -E -R?
Horner? Don't ask me.

Horner.

Welcome to the ATL. Thank you.

Drew Sidora is a very talented actress
and songstress.

I hate to ask you today, because it's
your anniversary.

I want to know, can you all do praise
and worship on Sunday morning?

We try to celebrate for the entire
weekend.

It's because of God, you've been married
six years.

You were gone for three days.

I was always a second. I'm not going to
see him look stupid. I'm not.

He's embarrassing me. Like, I hate that.

I just feel like I can't get through to
my husband. I will have to.

It has anything to do with the movement.
I got to make sure that I do it. The

biggest takeaway from this experience is
that I'm going to do it again.

If you don't like my shade, then step
out of

my shadow.

A little candy always helps sweeten the
tea.

I was in the game, but now I'm calling
all the plays.

I've been through the peaks and the
valleys.

And now I'm head over heels.

I may be social distancing, but I'm here
for social justice.

We came back to Kentucky to fight for
justice for Breonna Taylor, and I am

more upset than the first time because
we've already done this. We've already

made her name trend again, and Daniel
Cameron still hasn't done anything.

So we're there to interrupt the
community and let them know that, no,

still a young woman who has been killed
in this town, and we want justice.

When we got on that bridge, the cops
were there in military gear, gas

their wooden batons exposed.

And someone screamed that this was our
Selma moment.

My grandfather was on the bridge on
Bloody Sunday.

And so at that moment, I felt connected
to my grandfather.

I drew strength from it, and I continued
to walk forward.

Nobody was going to turn me around.

Forsha was charged with obstructing a
highway and disorderly conduct in the

second degree. My arrest this time was
more difficult because I had been there

before and they wanted to prove a point.
So they left me to be one of the last

people to leave the jail.

This is the world we're being forced to
deal with right now. Each step is

uncomfortable. Each step is scary.

But we are charged with getting in
action and doing something about it.

Hey, Jamie.

Let me turn him because I want to see
you big.

Does this go this way?

I always have it the wrong way.

You like your gift?

Mm -hmm. Me and my roommate said we
would take a lot of pictures. You need a

camera. You're going to NYC. You got to
capture all those moments. Yeah.

So we're all wearing white. My guests
are wearing black.

The wedding party's wearing white.

And then Mike and I are not wearing
black or white. The wedding's black and

white, though? Well, the colors are
black, white, silver, and gold.

Are you ready to make tattoos?

Huh? You ready to make pancakes?

Okay.

See how mommy does it? You

gonna do it?

Makai David.

Why are you calling me, boy?

Makai. I thought mommy was getting on
church.

We are getting on church, but we're
making pancakes. Why didn't you get the

syrup?

Okay, I got it from here.

Hey, babe, you almost ready?

Almost.

Look at you asking. Are you going to
share, Nai Nai?

Are you going to share and let your
brother get in here so he can make your

plate? Ralph, can you open this?

Well, both of you guys shouldn't be in
there together.

So, Nai Nai, let your brother in. I
think Nai Nai wants to stay.

Who's the parrot?

What are you talking about?

I don't think that's safe.

It's safe. It's a platform.

As long as they don't, like, try to jump
over, it's good.

All right.

Look at these Anaya pancakes.

OK, you ready?

All right, let me finish getting set up.

All right, guys.

Where's your brother? Where's JoJo?

Come on.

One, two, three.

What? Oh.

What happened?

So heavy. Girl, come on.

Things between Ralph and I are
definitely not great. You know, we

resolve things. We decided just to table
it.

We ready.

You ready?

Which is something that at this point
drives me crazy. We don't really talk

about it, nor do we have the tools to
really resolve it. So we just kind of go

along and get along until the next crazy
argument.

The theme for this morning will be
bridle your tub.

And so I brought the message.

Thanks be to the Lord. Mom, what's the
name of your sermon?

Bridal, you're tough.

Why you look at me when you said it?

I had a discernment that some stuff was
going to go on yesterday.

And when I came up here to celebrate
your anniversary, I came up here to

somebody crying.

And, you know, I try not to be a person
that takes sides with anybody.

Oh, you really?

You want a person to agree with you all
the time. No, no, no, no, no, no. I know

there's some things that we got to get
on the same page with. And this is

something, this is work that you and I
need to do. Because it's not a Ralph and

I wrote this because of you. And this is
what you need to do. You need to

understand. You didn't say that. You
wrote this sermon with me in mind.

Trying to bridge the gap on Ralph and my
mom has not been easy. The way he

talks, he's like super straightforward.

Sometimes she takes that as disrespect.

Like, that's what you said.

I did. Well, based on the events that
happened yesterday and how you talked to

her. But it was a lesson for her, a
lesson for me. It's a lesson for

that's going to be on the moon.

So what did I miss by saying what I just
said? Like, sometimes you can just

close your mouth and just let somebody
just speak what's on their heart and

know that you're not perfect. And maybe
there is work to be done. There's some

growth that needs to happen.

Ralph is very argumentative.

Why can't you just say, well, you know,
maybe I can learn something tomorrow.

You're, like, getting kind of combative.

And I find myself taking a lot of
accountability.

And it's a lot of work. I be tired.

Like, I be really tired.

So I think we've gotten to a place where
you just really have to put back in

perspective why you came together
initially.

I'm looking forward to this. I think
this is a sermon that all of us can use.

is. You know that I tell it like a TIS
is, so you know that I'm embedded in my

sermon. Let's just table the
conversation. I don't want y 'all to now

I just can't take that right now. We
need to just move on with the rehearsal.

Coming up next.

I'm not going to lie. Quarantine started
like honeymoon. And then it turned into

divorce within five months.

The news is just a warning.

Pushed it all around here. The sound of
me touring. Now they all adore it. I'm

sitting in the foreign car here tonight.

What you doing?

Park yo. And your driveway is so windy.
I'm going to fall off a cliff right now.

Trying to see you.

Girl.

I'm coming.

I love how cute you are.

Hey,

you're beautiful.

You are giving me executive sexy hot
mama tease in here.

That's what it's like.

That's what it be like.

Oh, my God.

You look gorgeous. Thank you. I love
your fit.

Let me go grab you the tequila. Yes.
Thanks for the invite again. Of course.

You are Latoya. We are like on the fast
track lane of becoming friends.

We hang out a lot. We text each other
all the time. We just have great

chemistry.

I really like her.

You're trying to butter up these buns,
honey. Little honey buns.

I got to go get us shot glasses.

Not a tiny honey bun. You got a little
honey bun.

I got a whole bakery. You got a little
honey bun. I need a mirror. Wait, I need

to see if this is really funny.

It's not tiny.

Medium size, okay?

Honey buns are actually quite meaty,
okay? I think you have a perfect little

butt for your perfect little body. I
know what I need to do. I need to put

myself on a dating site soon.

On a what? Both of us. What site?

OnlyFans?

Why are we like twins?

I know.

We're like the same. I know.

Come on, we're going to take a shot. I'm
sitting over there away from you.

Okay, no, we're going to sit down. We're
going to sit down with the shot.

Yes. I told Cynthia what you said about
the pet wig.

I didn't think of this much.

I like Drew. Yeah. I don't think Latoya
and her are going to go long for long.

She was talking about her having a cat.
A cat?

Yes. What's wrong with having a pet cat?

She wasn't talking about an animal.

She was talking about her pig.

It is a pet.

I don't know. I'm just not like a wig
person, you know? I don't disagree with

you. But every now and then when your
hair is jacked up or you want to do a

protective style, sometimes you have to.
For sure. But at least get, you know, a

hairstylist that knows how to put it on.
Okay.

That's fair.

But it's just the truth. Let's just call
a spade a spade. A wig a wig. You know

what I'm saying?

A do a do.

A wig a wig. Like, that is not a wig.
That is a pet.

On your head. I thought I was straight.

This little one right here, I think I
may have met my match.

So we need to call it out, and we need
to get her a real wig. Do you sew it?

I don't.

Okay, first of all, what's the pet's
name? Since it's a pet, what is its

Druisha. I don't know how you spend so
many years in Hollywood with the best

hairdressers in the world, and this is
what you can come up with.

This is a special effect all...

On its own.

A pair, dead animal. A pair on my head.

She got you each on her head, too. She
got that beauty supply wig on her head,

girl.

See? Listen.

No, we cannot be friends because we are
too shady together.

But other than that, do you have any
other issue with Drew? I don't have an

issue with her at all. Well, you didn't
get offended by her basically calling

you out.

About wanting a date. You can do what
you want while you're separated. What

hell did you say?

No. Okay.

Not at all. You know, Adam and I, we've
been through so much in our relationship

and we've forgiven each other, but we
just don't see eye to eye. I get you.

man is acting a fool on you. Yeah. And I
know you want to be a free spirit. You

want to get back out there.

So what are you doing?

What are you truly doing?

I just want to live my life.

I just want to live my life. But I can't
fully live my life if I'm married. So

are you making a divorce?

Yes. Oh, wow.

We're going to take some pictures.

What pictures?

Pictures because you're starting your
new journey, your new chapter. Oh, Lord.

Okay, we can edit that down in FaceTune.
You're going to flip my butt down? Yes,

I can do all of that. I'm putting these
on online dating apps, okay? Wait, I

need to know which one.

Turn around.

No, that sends the wrong message.

Them titties are hot.

That's cute.

Okay, okay.

I have to show that I'm still married.
All right, I'm gonna edit it out anyway.

Coming up next.

All right, go ahead, big ball. You can
go ahead and start it off. What do you

want me to start it off?

Okay.

So here, right there, and then boop.
There you go. Okay.

Like that? Yeah, keep the foot on there.
Keep it on the bottom. Oh, okay. There

you go.

Okay. Step up.

Uh -oh.

Okay. Feel that old knee now.

There you go. Five.

Five more.

Three. You got to heal over here like
more men are.

Hi. Good job. Hello, ma 'am. Hi. Oh, my
God.

Dee, Rich, they came over here to help
us get back together. Yeah, I have

off into a vat of fat of 30 pounds.

We ended together. We both got to get it
back.

Seriously, I need to get my body back
from a decade ago, for real.

Three weeks after I had Brooklyn.

I was 155 pounds.

I am now over 180 pounds, so you do the
math.

I gained, like, 25 pounds during the
quarantine. How much weight do you want

lose before the wedding?

All of it.

Kenya, we're going to get you to start
over here on the bands, on our

bands. Okay. We're going to get you
started with your ball slam.

Okay. I like balls.

All right. So just go down.

Slam it as hard as you can. Like you mad
at something.

All right. Just slam down.

Cynthia doesn't have a reason to be mad
these days.

She's in love.

How do I do this? Step in.

Okay. Right up.

I want to try to get my arms more
defined.

Hold it at your chest.

Oh, Lordy.

What's up, Ms. Moore?

I was thinking of a picture of your
breasts online.

Oh, my God.

I mean, like, they're big in person, but
in pictures?

Yeah.

Woo!

So what you been doing, Candy? Getting
ready for Riley to go to college. Y 'all

driving a Sprinter or y 'all flying?

We're driving a Sprinter. Road trip.

Road trip!

I got some fruit.

Let's go eat some fruit.

All right, let's take a fruit break.

Exactly. Oh, my goodness. Oh, my
goodness.

Yeah, it was nice.

Ew, fruit!

Let me give you guys an update on the
wedding.

Uh -oh.

We always told him it was 250 people now
because of COVID. We understand we have

to make some modifications when it comes
to that.

250 people in a pandemic?

No.

Long story short, I'm trying to do the
walkthrough with Mike because he hasn't

actually even seen the venue yet. We're
going to go see it. Don't ask me about

what I would plan.

You know, I never follow the rules.

This is the only place I've ever really
wanted to have it. You can get married

at Lake Valley.

That would be a nice wedding. Honestly,
with a tent in your backyard, I can make

you so beautiful.

Well, I think the rules change a little
bit if I have it outdoors.

I feel confident moving forward with the
wedding as long as we adhere to all the

COVID -19 rules and regulations. So
now...

I have to convince Mike we can do this.
Well, if you hire me.

How did you get in there? She's always
been, like, my wedding planner in her

mind. She's also a lawyer. I can be your
prenup, too. Oh, yeah.

What's up?

Are y 'all doing the prenup? We actually
had a brief conversation about it, but

we haven't sat down with, you know, our
lawyers and really, like, done it yet.

And I don't want to wait until the last
minute. Don't wait until the last

minute.

Me and you aren't the same.

Listen to me. Do not wait for the last
minute. A lot of hard feelings going on

with that prenup, but y 'all need time
to work it out. It definitely tainted

beginning of our marriage.

But a prenup, you just want it to be
fair.

I would not suggest that you sign this.
So you think you should give someone my

money? Come on, come on. I don't want
your f***ing money. But I just didn't

to be a woman who allowed my emotions to
take over and didn't handle my

business.

Mine, yours is yours. Whatever we do
together is ours. It's 50 -50. Got it.

Okay. That's easy.

How much do you charge to do a prenup?

I mean, I will work something out for
you. Since you didn't even do one, I'm

just saying. But I know all about it. Of
course, I wish I had gotten a prenup. I

have a very successful hair care
company. I have no debt. I have a lot to

Thanks, Rich and Dee. I appreciate y
'all. Yes, guys. Thank you. No, thank

so much.

Candy, you better not ever.

driveway again wait a minute hold on
hold on oh don't you dare don't you do

you can just write me a check candy girl
come on here

i can't wait to come over to your
driveway okay just roll down

okay now let's see if tanya's turning
like us and

she just have on her bathing suit
Because she texted me, like, are we just

What are we doing?

And I texted her a picture of my crotch,
and I was like, so I just out.

Look at what I got for you. I had to
bring her to Seha. You want to go

Oh, my God.

She's gorgeous.

Listen, congratulations.

Good to see you, too.

I love her. Love you. See you. I love
you. These girls are going to go get it

on. Bye -bye.

We had a pandemic. We had social rights
stuff. Like, it's so much. Like, I'm so

glad I got my girl time. I can't take
this.

Listen, we're going to get girl time
however we can.

What's your address?

Where are we going?

Yeah, Lauren, here. You got to tell me.

OK, wait. So her name is Fallon? So
Fallon's has been Simon.

Right across from Siva's, where we like
to go.

Oh, yeah.

Simon? That's his restaurant.

And his wife is just really nice. And we
exchanged numbers one day. And she was

like, you should come over.

And then I was like, well, I got my
sister. And she was like, bring whoever

enjoy. And I was like, hey, I'm coming.

Don't tell us. Don't threaten me with a
good time. Girl, I would walk in with a

bottle and jump in the pool. We about to
go set her pool off. Off.

Oh, my gosh.

This is so much fun. I appreciate the
estrogen.

Thank you.

Oh, my gosh.

I do miss my girl. I need to know. How
are you and Paul surviving?

I feel like it.

had its ups and downs. There were times
when I was like, man, this is such a

blessing. I love you. And there were
times where I just was like, I just

was like, go somewhere.

And there's nowhere to go. It started
different.

I'm not going to lie. Quarantine started
like honeymoon.

Yeah. Like in everywhere, cooking
everything.

Oh my God, he's right here. And then it
turned into divorce within five months.

Dennis and I, we had this major argument
and just kind of sent me over the edge.

I don't necessarily like who I am in the
relationship right now. This breakup is

just something that I need to do for me.

Of course, you're dealing with a lot
right now. What I know that I've done in

the past to keep pushing forward and not
stop is not fully immerse myself in

what I'm going through. So I don't want
to stop and deal with it. The only thing

I know what to do with my emotions is
compartmentalize.

This is what I care about. Black lives
matter. This is what I'm fighting for.

This is work. This is PJ.

Relationship is not fair. This is
family.

That's the only way I'm able to do it.
Because to be honest with y 'all, I'm

like so broken. I'm so weak. I can't
even deal with it.

Coming up next.

You know good and well how I feel about
this man. Not about the wedding. She

loves me.

And he loves me. Y 'all both love me.
And you guys are making me feel like a

fucking asshole.

That's what I said. My cheeks were out a
little bit. You look great. You're

going to a pool.

I have nothing to worry about.

Good to meet you. Thank you for having
us. Absolutely. Thank you for coming.

And I see you laid it out for us. It's
gorgeous.

Absolutely. That makes me want to get
married all over again. I mean, it's

gorgeous. Yes, we may just have to renew
our vows, ring upgrade.

You know. Love it. The usual.

Love it. I will too. Oh, yes.

I'm the queen. You did whatever you
want.

Okay. Absolutely.

You know, it's been heavy weighing on
me.

All of the stress with Black Lives
Matter, worrying about my people.

Portia, do you want some hookah?

Um, yeah.

I have hookah. And also worrying about
my home life with Dennis.

It's just been a whole lot, though. I'm
definitely in serious need of a girl's

day. The only thing I didn't do was poke
holes in it. You're supposed to use

this. No.

No? No. Well, what are you supposed to
do? Let the woman work.

So, yes. I'm going to use my earring.

Nice.

Now that is a total secret.

Your holes can't be too big.

Oh, I think I'm going to do this one. It
has to be a wop hole.

You see my holes? They're extra tight.

Okay.

A wop hole?

It's tight? Oh, okay.

One. And two. And three. Oh, my hole is
big. Mine is one size fit all.

But isn't all wop good?

I know. All wop is not good wop. Because
if you have a big wop and it's wop.

That's nothing.

Now I'm just swimming in the ocean. We
want you to get lost in the water now.

want to find you afterwards.

What is this?

Okay, you know what? Just light it. Then
we're going to test to see which one is

best.

Okay. I'm about to hand you another one.
It's a little strong.

Okay, wait. I like the first one.

Force up.

It is. Honey, turn on the hot tub,
please.

I love this marriage. If I can't yell at
you and tell you what I need you to be

doing, I don't want to.

Did I hear somebody say, what, what,
what, what?

Oh, my gosh, I feel like you could do a
music video.

We're in Kentucky protesting for Breonna
Taylor.

And we got arrested just literally
standing there peacefully protesting.

honestly, I wasn't scared.

I mean, I had already been arrested
before. I wasn't scared or nothing.

But I will tell you this, y 'all. When I
got back, I cried for three days

straight. I believe it.

Because when I got back, that's when I
found out about Jacob. Jacob Blake. And

it's like, how?

How are we a whole nation going through
this?

With the awareness. That is the part
that was with the awareness. I'm not

going to lie. I cried so much, y 'all.
It was ridiculous.

We're witnessing life being taken. We're
witnessing a murder. And the impact of

that, it's nuts.

But you know what? Me being from the
South, I have experienced all of this.

for me, it's not that it's new.

I'm just tired.

But the thing that brings me out every
time I'm broke down and I just feel like

I just can't take it no more. I wake up
and I see another person.

We can do something. We are not
absolutely helpless. We feel helpless

our flesh is tired. They've beaten us
down. We're psychologically dealing with

trauma. But we are not.

The same way that I can stand out there
and do that. No, you don't need to do

that to the extreme.

But yes, you can talk to people and
educate them on why they need to vote.

What does it mean when we say defund the
police?

It's education.

It's creating voices.

And it's like really reframing a
society, like you said, especially in

that's existed for so long. Yeah. I
don't think that people really are

the trauma that Black people are living
in right now. I mean, if you were to

wake up every single morning and say,
see a person who looks just like you

killed, that's very traumatizing. We are
trying to find a way to make the

bleeding stop.

These are my gifts to you.

Oh, thank you guys for coming.

You don't come to the Goulbadia house
without having a gift.

Goulbadia. Goulbadia.

I've been asking you to please take
these boxes downstairs.

I'll take care of it. You keep saying
that. You keep saying you're going to,

they're still there.

I'm busy.

Well, I finished the kids' room.

I just need a little help. Can you do
that? Guess what I'm doing. Help me

aren't you moving into this new house
too?

From COVID to my three surgeries, life
has been crazy.

On top of that, Ralph and I are in the
process of purchasing a new home.

My first home I've ever purchased, so
I'm super excited.

It is literally around the corner from
where we live now. And it's over 9 ,000

square feet, so we can definitely stay
in our corners when need be.

Now we just have to find out where we're
going to put all this in the new house,

right?

And I need to go over there and really,
like, measure stuff out.

When can we go buy the house?

I think we can go right now. Can we take
a box and actually put it in the house?

Like, this is our house. Well, it's not
until I buy it.

I signed a sale agreement.

Yeah, that was nothing.

Okay, so what else happened?

So we have to do the appraisal, and then
I get my attorney involved.

Our attorney. It's our house. Our
attorney. Oh, God.

So we have to make sure the title is
clean. We arrange a closing date.

And then we signed.

OK. So we are going to get the house.
It's our house. I can say it's our

I won't say anything.

That's something you just don't do.

That's why I say, you just focus on
packing up. Well, I don't want to pack,

then we pack, and then we out, and we
ain't got nowhere to live.

No. That's kind of scary. Look at me. Do
you think I would put you and my family

in that position?

No. But can I be a part of the process?
Because you're kind of just doing

everything, and I don't really know
what's going on.

Can I just, like, write down the steps
for you, and then you just see it on

paper?

I'm definitely not a woman that wanted
to be kept. I wanted to have a partner.

But Ralph can be controlling.

You know, he wants to be the knight in
shining armor. I definitely am grateful,

and I see his value. And sometimes I
just feel like he doesn't see mine.

You're trying to insert yourself into
things that you have. No, everybody,

you buy a house together, that's a
beautiful thing, together.

It is. And you want to make it isolated.
This is team.

It is, but we have different parts of
the team. Drew's responsible for the

packing. I'm responsible for the
business side of things. He said that.

what? I'm just going to remove the word
I from my name. vocabulary. You should.

No more I. You really should.

I, I, I, I.

This is team.

It is, but we have different parts of
the team. Drew's responsible for the

packing. I'm responsible for the
business side of things. He said that.

that. You know what? I'm just going to
remove the word I from my vocabulary.

should. No more I. You really should. I
really feel like when we're getting

along, it's forever.

But when we have these arguments, at a
certain point, it's like enough is

enough. We got to get our act together
for the sake of our kids and for our

marriage if we want this thing to last.

You're giving me such a hard time, yo. I
really don't. I tell you, you're a

great husband. I'm just saying, don't
think for a second you don't have areas

where you can grow.

I think we both do.

Sometimes I can get things wrong, and
I'll admit it.

Good. Well, I called a counselor that
works with, like, couples.

Honestly, when we move in this house, I
don't want to bring our past into this

home. No, but I want us to, you know,
just be.

A home that we can, like, see our kids
grow in, you know?

So who is this counselor?

Her name is Love McPherson.

Have you already spoken with her? Yeah.
So you already gave her, like, a bias so

that she's already trying to prejudge
me?

No, no, no, no.

Let me tell you what I need you to fix
on Ralph.

I didn't say that. I'm sitting here
saying I found us a counselor. That's a

thing. Can you just say, great job,
babe?

Can I just hear anything positive? I'm
just asking a question. You're always

finding the wrong in everything I do,
even when I don't do nothing wrong.

We're standing in front of our house
we're about to buy, and we're arguing.

wouldn't say it's an argument. This
should be a celebration.

Are you agreeing to counseling?

Can't we just say?

I'm definitely down with counseling,
because Lord knows. I just said it. We

it. Lord.

Lord, we need you.

You're nice, babe.

Even in the rain.

Governor's talent.

It's so grand, so it's going to be so
different when he gets here. Hi. Hi.

Good to see you. Good to see you too.
Hey, Courtney and Cameron.

Hey, Courtney.

This is Mike.

Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you too.

Welcome to Governor's.

Finally, we made it. Mike just wants to
get married.

no matter where we get married on 10 -10
-20. Do you like anything to drink

before we start the tour?

But I think that weddings pretty much
set the tone for the marriage. Since

here at the beautiful venue, I hope Mike
is sold on. What are you having, babe?

Like a soda, a splash of cranberry.

Gotcha. Same. Matter of fact, my
sister's going to meet us here. Can you

that three?

Y 'all trying to get the party started.

Yes, I'm waiting to do it.

She wanted me to do the wop coming in
the door.

I just wanted you to see it. Because
I've been talking about this place. Hi.

Hey, sis.

Hey, Mal.

Hey. I love that Mike and Mal have a
great relationship.

Really? You're talking to Mike for real?

He's never had a wedding. Don't talk to
him. All right. Go ahead. And I think it

would carry a lot of weight if Mal said
to him, let's just focus on trying to

make it work. Where should we go first?
Let's go this way. Okay, perfect.

All right. This is probably my favorite
entrance.

Which is the grand staircase that will
take you up to the ballroom.

Well, see, they would come in through
here.

Yes.

Well, these two doors. Well, any of
these doors, I guess.

And all the parking and stuff is out
here. What's going to be here right

Well, Courtney.

Well, just, you know, vibe with me. I
think it'll be amazing if we just have,

like, a nice aerialist here.

Wait, did you hear the part about the
aerialist? Like, an aerialist. You know,

the girl, like, up on the pole. Oh, an
aerialist. Oh, a stripper one or, like,

on a... No, not a stripper. But not the
stripper.

I mean, she may have some stripper
moves, but she won't be a stripper.

look classy. Give that, like, wow factor
when they come in.

So far, so good.

And now we'll go up to the pre -function
area.

And this will be where your grand
charcuterie would be.

The pre -function area.

Okay. That's going to be so nice under
the chandelier. Under the chandelier.

So this is where they'll hang out before
the wedding, drink, eat.

Yes.

Oh, wow.

You're going to be really excited about
this.

Oh, yeah.

Here is your grand ballroom.

Oh, my.

And it's huge.

And the best part?

Go outside to the balcony.

Wow. So this is awesome.

This is amazing.

Is that the... Yes. Oh, my God.

Oh, this is where you're going to get
married? Yes.

This is gorgeous.

We have all this area down here.

People can be outside. That's a big
thing. So what's the COVID restrictions

right now?

We're going to be able to fit 250 people
here? Yeah.

Outside? We're going to do, like, a lot
of indoor -outdoor spaces throughout the

whole entire wedding, so... And masks.
Yeah, and masks.

Or Shield. Yeah, Shield.

We do have until October.

We just want to plan to. Well, we're
going to give you guys a minute to,

discuss. Thank you, Courtney. No matter
what happens, you can still have it at

the Bailey Lake House or wherever,
small.

Right? Mm -hmm.

I just wanted to make sure that we have
that day.

Clearly, I'm team 10 -10 -20.

Mm -hmm.

Clearly. Okay?

Right. So what happens, though, if
things change and there's another

and we're, like, a week out?

I don't want to have a tiny wedding. But
then you say it's my wedding, too.

Yeah, and the reason why I want to have
a big wedding is mostly because of you.

But I don't care.

I want us to make a decision that we're
going to be married on 10 -10 -20,

regardless of the situation.

Are you?

My mom's my sister, and the only thing I
really require of her, really, as a

sister, is to just have my back.

We're wearing masks right now, so we
have to plan for something like that.

I'm asking is, on 10 -10 -20, am I going
to be your husband?

I don't know, Mike.

To me, it's not about the date, it's
about whatever is the right time. It's

about the date, but you keep saying it's
the perfect date. Well, wait, did I

tell you the wedding date?

October 10th, so 10 -10 -20. You have,
like, a wedding date.

Mm -hmm. 10, 10, 20. I saw your post.
You did?

That's a perfect day, right?

Clearly, I'm team 10, 10, 20. Mm -hmm.

Clearly. When it happens, it's going to
be the perfect day. Okay, fine.

We said it was 10, 10, 20.

I got it. God and COVID -19 said it
might not be 10, 10, 20. I got it. So we

have to come on the new whatever the
plan B or the plan C or the plan D or

whatever the hell it is together.

Like, I don't want it to be like, what
are you going to do?

It's a pandemic. It's COVID -19.

Everyone's going to be in mass. So
what's your decision, Cynthia?

What are you deciding?

What's important to you? I don't know. I
just want to marry you. And this is

where I stepped out six months ago to
marry you. So I'm saying if you want to

marry me, then it shouldn't matter who's
around us, right?

It never matters. But if you say, hey,
you want it just to be me and you, or

want to share with our friends and
family?

I'm not trying to take that away from
you. All right. So then don't.

I want to be excited about getting
married. I think you should be excited

regardless. I am excited regardless.
That's my whole thing. You don't sound

excited. I am excited regardless.

Does she sound excited? You don't sound
excited. I am excited. No, you're not.

Do you think I'm excited regardless?
You're telling me. You sound very

Now, you know, you of all people, and
this is when you need to not be on his

side about everything and have my back.

You know good and well how I feel about
this mom.

It's not about the wedding. She loves
me. And he loves me. Y 'all both love

other. That's very true.

We were just trying to talk about Plan
B. And I want to have you feel like an

asshole wanting to have this celebration
with you. Babe, come here. And you guys

are making me feel like a fucking
asshole.

It's just about Plan B. That's all. It
wasn't about this.

I don't know about Plan B. We're in a
pandemic.

But we have to because we're in a
pandemic. Babe, come here.

Don't walk away.

You know good and well how I feel about
this man. Not about the wedding, but I

still want a wedding. And I don't want
to have to feel like an asshole for

wanting to have a big celebration with
you. Don't walk away. Them coming at me

at the same time, that's frustrating. I
have every right to be optimistic and

try to work it out. You still loving it,
Cynthia?

Yeah, I love it. I don't know, your
energy's shifted.

It's really a lot.

trying to, like, think about, like,
things that I can't really control.

Well, I'm sorry, but we're going to, you
know, make sure that everything that we

can control is in order.

All right, well, I'll see you guys
later.

It's so nice to have you. I feel like my
back is up against the wall.

It's not a good feeling.

At least I know you like the venue.

What if I didn't like the venue?

Then I wouldn't want to have it there.

I keep telling you, though, my prize is
you. People don't talk about weddings.

They talk about how is your marriage.

You can have the most expensive wedding
in the world and get divorced three

months later.

You can have the cheapest and get
divorced three months later. It depends

you are married.

That's all that matters.

Yeah, I agree. You'll say things like,
If that means we're going to get

you know, in 2021.

I'm just looking at all options.

Okay, here's what I feel. After
listening to everything, if for some

can't get married there, I don't want to
get married at all that day.

Because you want the people to be there.
The courthouse isn't going to be good.

So we'll just postpone the wedding.

Just won't do it. I feel like you think
that.

I should be enough regardless.

And there should never be any doubt in
your mind, you know, my reasons for

marrying. You don't understand your
contradictions because you're... I'm not

contradicting myself.

I told you I want to marry you. Okay, so
tell me on 10 -10. So all I'm telling

you is what I want. This is what I want.
If I can't have it, then we can pull

over and get married now. You go back
and forth. You vacillate, babe.

You have said that I need my wedding. I
never said need.

I never said I need. And I told you
that. So please don't say need again.

Because I never said I need this
wedding. Calm down.

If you're going to quote me, then get it
right. That's what I'm talking about.

This is where we go wrong.

I'm trying to have a conversation with
you. But you get turned up about this.

Yeah, but you have to be accurate with
what you say. I want.

To get married to you. Do you want to
get married on 10, 10, 20?

Do you, do you, do you, are we going to
get married on 10, 10, 20? I don't need

to get married. Are we going to get
married? Are we, are we going to get

married? I don't need to get married at
all. No, I'm asking you a question. This

is what I want. I'm asking you a
question.

All right, well then you can tone it
down. I'm asking you a question. Are we

going to get married on October 10th,
2020?

I don't know. Good.

We good.

We good.

Hello? I'm not doing it.

We don't talk about it anymore.

Next time on The Real Housewives of
Atlanta.

Portia King!

Portia King!

Has anyone talked to Portia? I know she
was arrested again.

Why did you say it like that?

Because at this point, it just seems
like maybe they're putting themselves in

position to be arrested.

Respect would be someone not
emasculating me. I just am not going to

certain things.

Cynthia, you bring it up. You bring it
up. No, no, no. Let me finish.

Let me finish. Listen, I let you talk. I
let you talk. You're my friend. Just

listen to me and support me. Just shut
up and listen and support me.

Of course, this is Lauren.

She's feeling a little apprehensive
about you coming.

Y 'all know about this?

I know nothing about this. You're just
finding out.

Somebody's paying for my hair and
makeup. I know that.

I'm done.