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Previously on The Real Housewives of
Atlanta.
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I can't stay here that much longer. I
gotta go. My baby girl is about to go to
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NYU. Like, this is official.
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You can file a petition of separate
maintenance or a divorce.
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No, I need to just look at everything
and figure it out.
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Yeah, get your fire bed docked. I know,
I'm working on it.
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I'm going to be on the front line for my
daughter and for my people. If the
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people can't be there, you don't want to
get married. I deserve all of it. Am I
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not enough?
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Yes, I saw that. That is so crazy.
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I hope she's okay.
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If you don't like my shade, then step
out of my shadow.
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A little candy always helps sweeten the
tea.
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I was in the game, but now I'm calling
all the same.
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I've been through the peaks and the
valleys, and now I'm head over heels.
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I may be social distancing, but I'm here
for social justice.
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to actually get us some wine.
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Oh, I brought a sparkling rosé, and I
have it cooling.
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Ooh, yes.
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And I got this from Brooklyn.
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Oh, my gosh. I don't even know. She
probably has mastered it already.
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Oh, my goodness. She's going to love
this, actually. It's so nice out here.
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never sat out here before.
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God, it's, like, so nice to be able to
sit outside.
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I know, right? You know, I invited
Latoya.
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Oh, okay.
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That's cute. Y 'all hitting it off and
everything, but on the first date, y
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kind of... It was the first date.
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I hear an accent. What is the accent?
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Trinidadian. I met LaToya a few years
ago. She can be a lot to say.
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So you're going through a divorce? We're
kind of going through the same thing
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together. We've been separated. We can
find some bomb -ass Nigerian men.
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Uh -oh, that might be her.
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Oh, all right. Well, I'm going to set
the closer to you.
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Yes?
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Hey, girl, hey.
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That's her. I think I might go down and
get her.
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from the front. Oh, okay. But she gets
an extra go -down treatment. I had to
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crawl through the weeds kind of to get
here, but she gets a go -down.
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I'm going to pour her a drink because
she definitely seems like she likes some
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drinks. She likes a little cocktail.
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Oh, yeah.
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Hey! You just met this girl and you
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already have her coming over to your
home? I don't know what I'm missing.
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Love my girl Kenya, but...
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Mama takes some getting warm and up to.
It's like cracking the bag, almost
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cracking the front. I didn't think it
was offensive.
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I'm so offended.
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You win the award.
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Let me pull your chair for you.
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You're making a problem with me, and
there isn't a problem. You don't want a
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problem with me.
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Here you go.
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Absolutely. Cheers.
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Cheers. Cheers. Yay. Oh, this looks so
pretty, man.
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It's so good. It's my favorite. It is
good. This is the new chill spot.
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Okay. It's kind of hot out here. I have
a sweating problem.
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What happens when you get too hot? When
I get too hot, it just starts dripping
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everywhere. You know, my husband loves
it. What is that song? Bring it to me. I
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like it when it's funky. Yeah, that's
something about drip. Okay, wait. I
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care all about all that now.
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Peach is down here, girl.
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Okay.
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How is it being with the Trinidadian
men?
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Because they're crazy.
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Yeah. People warn me about that.
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I was told they were cheaters.
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Yeah. They're called Horner men in our
culture. What does that mean? It means a
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man that is.
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You know, cheating on your woman.
Horner. How do you spell that?
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Horner. I don't know. H -O -R -N -E -R.
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Horner? Don't ask me. I don't know how
to spell.
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Horner.
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I'm a great judge of character.
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And I really feel like Latoya and I
could be friends because she is just
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refreshing. So I'm just going to take
her from Candy.
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Don't be mad, Candy.
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You're a fun girl because you're a turn
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You're not a turn -up friend? You can
turn up sometimes. I am when...
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I can get out of the current state that
I'm in 2020 has been an insane time
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crammed up in a house i have three
children my husband lives with me we're
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getting a separation and we have so much
going on she filed for that yeah so he
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served me at home i mean it's all good
because i do want to get a divorce so
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what are you doing can you you talk to
somebody about filing i have not filed
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anything yet oh so you guys are just
going through yeah we're just separated
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yeah he's angry i hope that he addresses
his anger that's called tabanka yeah
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going through a tabanka right now yeah
that's a trinity thing well yeah how
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are you gonna be going through Many men
tend to go through it for a while. Well,
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I don't have a while anymore.
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So where I am is making the final
decision about filing for the divorce or
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custody action, and it's a little scary.
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Is he living in Atlanta?
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No, he lives in New York.
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I don't know how Mark will react if he
gets divorce papers or any papers filed
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in court.
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I think with him, you just have to
always be on your toes because when
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dealing with a high -conflict
individual,
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They don't want to agree.
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They want to fight.
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So here is to our future, whatever that
might look like, separate or
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apart. Peace. And speaking of peace, I
would love for you to come to Lake
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Bailey.
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I reached out to all these different
black -owned wine companies.
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And I really want you guys' honest
opinion because I want to know, you
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which ones I should carry at the wine
cellar. Like, I'm excited so we can,
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continue this. Yes, and the river. I
want to see the river. Yeah, well, it's
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actually a lake. It's a lake.
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Lake Bailey.
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Lake Bailey.
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I thought she had a stream in her
backyard.
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You don't have a river, a stream, a
stream in the backyard?
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I don't have.
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River Bailey hasn't happened yet. Oh. I
think she's going to get along with
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Portia really well.
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Hey, poo -poo.
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Come on.
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Oh.
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Oh, you have all your shapes out on the
floor.
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Come on.
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Hey, y 'all.
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Hey. I hear y 'all. I can't see you.
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Hi, big girl.
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Can I have a hug, Mama?
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Don't push me away.
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You know, she does that thing. She's
like, oh.
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I know, right?
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Oh, sweet baby.
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Mm -hmm.
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Mommy's coming right back, OK? Yeah.
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Is it her? Yes.
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Okay. Hey.
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Hey, boo.
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Oh, it's mommy.
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Let me see you.
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Hi.
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She's looking for you. I cannot.
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I know, right? How are you? Come here,
boo. It's mommy.
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Hey, baby.
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Oh, she's excited. Look at her feet.
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I saw that mug shot. What kind of
straight line, like the little Charlie
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lip? What's going on?
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Legit straight line.
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Trying to decide. That was a decision
-making phase. It was rough, y 'all. It
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stank. The floors were hard. So I'm
tired, and I am going to catch a 5 o
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flight and come on home.
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Yeah. I'm glad I did.
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That's right.
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You know, when I laid down and I finally
gave up, I was going to get out that
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night. And I thought to myself, at the
end of the day, no matter when I get out
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of here, I'm going to go home, and I'm
going to kiss my mama, I'm going to kiss
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my baby. But the reason I'm here is for
Breonna Taylor.
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can't do either of those things.
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When I walked out of that jail and I saw
her mother, Miss Tamika Palmer, and I
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hugged her and she had such warmth. It
was just so selfless because you know
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is suffering.
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Every time I look at Tamika Palmer, I
think to myself, I can't even imagine
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having hopes and dreams for my
daughter's future and the people who are
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paid to protect and serve take her away
from me.
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This is all I needed to see before I go
home. To let me know that this was
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purposeful. I'm so proud of you. You're
so fearless. All right. Well, I love y
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'all, and I'll call y 'all when I land.
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Love you. Oh, my God, Lauren.
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So glad she's safe.
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I am, too.
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Coming up next.
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Oh, you guys have a good quarantine set?
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Woo! I had to figure out how to position
this leg.
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Throw that leg out the way. Oh, yeah.
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Am I good now? See, this Atlanta heat,
I'm not used to it making me a little
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wet. You look beautiful.
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Thank you. You know, in L .A., we don't
have this problem at all.
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Gucci. Yeah, you Gucci.
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All the way Gucci.
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Thank you.
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Well, are you having a good quarantine
sex?
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I had to figure out how to put this on
his leg. Look, the leg was like, you
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don't know how much you need the leg.
Throw that leg out the way. Yeah, he
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moved that leg out the way. I'm like,
all right, baby.
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Swing it around, girl.
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Come on, be good to me. Swing it around.
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Drew Sidora is a very talented actress
and songstress.
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I initially met Drew through my favorite
sunflower, Eve. This is my friend
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Cynthia. This is Drew Sidora. This is a
good girlfriend of mine.
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We've been hanging out, and she's cool
people. You ruptured your heels. I did.
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On stage. It ruptured right after my
first line of the play. What were you
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doing? I was literally just standing
there. And Leon, he was my co -star.
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He was there on stage. When it all
happened?
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Yes. Well, honey, I'm glad I ordered you
a rosé. I know.
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I took the liberty of ordering you some
wine. Thank you.
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I got your wine.
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Fill her up for sure.
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And definitely don't hold back on mine
either. I have been in Atlanta just a
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year now, and what I love is that it's
so family -oriented. But you've got a
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of industry coming here, like Hollywood
over there.
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Hey, Tyler Perry, how you doing? I'm
hoping to work with you, okay?
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I've got your charcuterie board.
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Oh, thank you so much. Enjoy y 'all.
Thank you.
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This move from Los Angeles was just to
see what's out here. I believe I can do
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some big things here.
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Have you been able to work since you've
been here? You know, Atlanta's popping.
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We have a lot of things going on here.
I'm looking forward to it. Some people I
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would like for you to meet. Okay.
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Everybody's doing their thing. They're
all bosses.
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I respect that. Boss -ass entrepreneurs.
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And, you know, have you met Katie
before?
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No, but we know of her. She's acted as
well. She's been in a lot of different
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roles as well.
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I thought maybe you guys maybe bumped
into each other.
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Um, I haven't met her.
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Well, we were probably going different
roles, you know, different.
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age bracket yeah that's true all right
well no shade yeah you can play your
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but i'm saying you clearly read way
younger because you are you could be my
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older sister i mean oh my good friend
honestly in the room you know i have my
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megan goods yeah like that's what you're
going up again those are the girls
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that's you all day those are my girls
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I've been doing it since I was eight.
You may love me, you may hate me. I play
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-Boz in the epic TLC biopic, Crazy,
Sexy, Cool.
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The stage play, set it off, step up,
white chick, and I play myself on the
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For me, I'm just like, okay, let's
regroup. I definitely want to go for
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bigger roles. You know, leading lady,
some action.
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I've also been writing and doing music.
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Me, me, me, me.
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But acting is a big deal.
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And I want to go to the office with you
to go get it.
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Ralph, I'm sorry, baby, but I have
another plus one.
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Dara asked how Ralph is doing. Ralph is
good.
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He's been my caregiver.
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He's been taking care of me. He's been
my nurse.
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It's been a lot. We have to do a
couple's night.
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Definitely double date. We need a little
couple's night.
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Bounce ideas.
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Let me know I'm not the only one going
through the struggle.
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Girl, you're not. Marriage is work.
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Okay, okay, okay, how do I explain?
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My sunshine show up, chase away the
rain. My baby come pull up, waiting all
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for you to come around.
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Nana, did you do your schoolwork?
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What?
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Yes, you have to go learn your ABCs.
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Do you know your ABCs?
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Do you not see? You need to go learn
them.
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Let's do this. Let's go.
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Happy anniversary, baby.
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Six years. I should have known you were
up to something.
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I should have known.
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My husband is Ralph David Pittman. He is
an entrepreneur in that IT realm.
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We have three beautiful children. We
have been married for six years, and we
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have been together for six and a half
years.
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That always sounds so crazy when I say
that. No, I love that.
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Awesome. We made it, babe.
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We made it. Six years is hard work.
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Yeah.
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I met him when I was on the press tour
for a TLC biopic.
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Three months later, we end up going for
lunch.
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Six months later, we were married. It
was me, my son Josiah, from a previous
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relationship, Ralph, and our pastor on
the beach. It was amazing. It was a
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made in heaven. Take your mask off,
mama. She know.
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Oh, you can take your mask off. We good.
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We've been quarantined together.
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You right about that.
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I have something to ask y 'all. Look at
that look.
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I hate to ask you today, but I know you
got your weekend all planned out because
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it's your anniversary.
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I want to know, can you all do praise
and worship on Sunday morning?
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Do we have anything planned on Sunday
for our anniversary?
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So typically what we do is we try to
celebrate for the entire weekend.
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Because of God, you've been married six
years.
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Oh, my God.
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My mom is Mama J.
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Pastor Jeanette, she came from Chicago
to help Ralph with the kids when I had
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first surgery. And then COVID happened,
and she has been here ever since.
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Wow.
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Living together has not been easy.
Sometimes my husband and I are trying to
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husband and wife time. And she comes in,
and Ralph is butt naked, and she does
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one of these.
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Oh!
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OK, so you say yes?
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Yo, I don't think I have a choice.
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Oh, my God.
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All right, so I'll say yes, but you have
to go and watch the kids today,
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tomorrow, and Sunday after church.
That's not a problem.
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She has a front row seat to everything
that we go through, and she definitely
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makes her opinion known.
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What's the problem?
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Let me ask you a question. Go ahead.
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Go ahead. Because I don't usually go
off. You have not seen me go off.
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And I'm just here in the middle, you
know, and I'm just having to figure it
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Can I get some more shrimp? And the
condition was that you would play if I
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care of the kids.
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Thanks, Mom. I'm finished.
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I'll let you guys go out and continue to
celebrate your... Loved it. What would
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we do without you?
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Thank you for watching the kids. That's
what I've been trying to get you all to
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understand. What would you do without
me? Let's keep it nice, please. Let's
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it cute.
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Please, on my anniversary.
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Thank you. Yes! Even though we... Oh,
you didn't kiss me in the mouth that
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I'm surprised.
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So it's on.
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It's on.
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We ain't going nowhere.
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Just gangstered our anniversary.
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Coming up next.
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I haven't really thought about that I'm
engaged to be married. But our argument
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is starting to be a little toxic.
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It doesn't feel like we are able to
connect.
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I really want to stop and get Riley from
flying, but I don't look like I'm going
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to have enough time.
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Mama, we're not far from your house.
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Okay. Wait, make sure you bring your
mask.
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I was thinking about the Colbert,
Colbert 19.
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All right, cool.
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It's going to be coming up on your
right. Okay.
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Thank you.
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Can you believe this is our first
graduation?
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Oh,
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my God.
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This is definitely not the
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graduation that I was expecting, though,
where only two people can come because
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of COVID.
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What's happening at graduation?
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Like, is it a real graduation?
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Well, I mean, it's like a limited number
of people that can go and stuff.
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Your grandmother should be after
graduation.
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Okay. This was the same way almost like
with you. Everybody couldn't make it to
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your graduation.
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Yeah, because I had a show that day.
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And, you know, I was so angry with the
girls because then they haven't come.
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They was mad that I went to my
graduation because I almost made them
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up. My graduation was not normal either.
We were touring at the time with My
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Group Escaped, and I flew home just to
go to the graduation.
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And as soon as they did the whole take
the tassel to the left, I had to run out
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of there.
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You know, I told them, Ma, you look as
hard as I had worked having a tassel.
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hard as you worked. I mean, because I'm
really hard as I worked.
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I don't know if I'm ready to let go of
my baby yet.
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I'm excited that, you know, she's about
to start college, but I'm not ready for
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her. to move away for good, you know?
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Riley Joyce Burris, Silver Eagle, New
York University.
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Woo!
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Riley is a strong personality
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that I'm just so proud of.
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It's a break for me.
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It's a break for me.
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Okay, come on.
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There my big girl go.
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Yeah, she's been a big girl. I'm a big
girl.
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Mm -hmm.
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Oh, yeah, I'll take some bacon with a
sunny side up. And this is PJ.
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Oh. Me come home from jail.
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Y 'all be having.
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No, you didn't.
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Cookout. Party. Oh, you want the tinker
tape parade, huh? Yeah, y 'all have a
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banner. Welcome home.
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Portia, cut it out.
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Portia, come back. It's like, come on,
girl.
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Listen, I want to know the motive. I
want to know how you felt because I was
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scared to death.
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I know. It was a lot. It really was.
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Were you afraid of agitators? You know,
you just kind of put aside any fear that
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you have because of what you're trying
to accomplish, you know? Right.
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So, but that still is not to say that I
wasn't scared at some point. I mean,
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there definitely was moments where I was
just sitting there and I was just
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thinking like, wow, this is what my
grandfather had to go through over and
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and over again.
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PJ, what's wrong?
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Pilar.
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Oh, she ready to get up.
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Come on, Papa.
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Even though I've been making these
decisions to leave town and go to the
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protest, life is still here and it's
waiting on me.
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So I'm having to make up time at work.
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I'm having to make up mommy time with
pee -pee.
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You know, the schedule, it just does not
stop.
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She knows she has.
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Pee -pee.
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She done, I'm happy to see mommy thing.
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Mama back.
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Right.
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Mama back, okay?
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Mama back.
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Now that I do have DISH and other
obligations, I will have to organize,
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know, and make sure that things that I
say that I'm going to be a part of, if
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has anything to do with the movement,
I've got to make sure that I do it. Make
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sure I do it wholeheartedly and have
time for it. When we got back from
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Kentucky, we learned that an outside
organization is taking a look into
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Rihanna's case.
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This is definitely a step forward for
Brianna and her family. I'm just going
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continue doing what I'm doing and shine
a light on people who frankly aren't
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doing their damn job.
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I want it to be effective because all
this is...
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For her future.
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That's right. This is just for me to
just do my part.
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That was awesome that Dennis was there
with you. That really took a lot of my
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anxiety out. It was really good to have
his support. It really is. But, you
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know, we definitely talked about the
fact that we want to sit down and decide
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what our life is going to be like.
Because even though everything has
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we still have to evolve within our
relationship.
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Exactly. You know, because he has a
place in the city and he also lives here
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too.
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I hadn't really thought about... that
I'm engaged to be married. Like, we're
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just going with the flow of life.
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It is starting to make me feel some type
of way. You know what I'm saying?
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Because I do love him, but our arguments
is starting to be a little toxic.
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Before quarantine, something small
didn't feel big to us. But now, toxic
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you taking a long time to bring me the
bottle.
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Toxic can be that you didn't clean the
living room up with her toys.
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Like, simple can take you to level 10.
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Whatever it is, it doesn't feel like we
are able to connect.
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While we got her to let her sleep, you
probably should put her on in the bed.
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Yeah, so you can get ready to set up the
dish. We need this to be a full nap,
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honey.
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She's lying, honey. I know, I hear her.
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Okay, come on. Come on, come on, come
on.
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Coming up next.
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I'm making my way.
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I don't even want to serve these because
they're so good. I had my reservations
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when I saw the recipe, but they're
actually pretty good. You tasted one?
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tasted one earlier. Oh, no, you tasted
one. Well, I had to take the pot up.
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It's so pretty.
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It's so peaceful here. I love her house.
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But with lakes, you can't see the other
side, so I feel like it's like a river.
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It's a river. Okay, girl, stick with
that.
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I'm telling you to look.
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It's a little river.
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You silly girl.
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I'm Chandler. I'm Cynthia's assistant.
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Oh!
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Oh, you got out.
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00:25:02,790 --> 00:25:06,150
Down that corner, I see. Oh, my God.
What do y 'all think y 'all was going
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00:25:06,230 --> 00:25:08,550
Is that a man going to be over here?
What is him? I'm going to wear a long,
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flowy dress.
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What's up, Ken Ken?
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How are you? How you doing, Mike? Nice
to meet you, Victoria. Nice to meet you,
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Victoria. How are you doing?
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I'm good. What about you?
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I'm good. Let me test this stuff out.
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Thank you.
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I'm going downstairs, babe. All right.
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Yeah.
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It's so welcoming.
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I'm all about.
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Comfy cozy.
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Are those artificial plants?
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They are.
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Are you guys hungry?
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Yes.
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Here you go. Are these fake grapes? Oh,
that also actually, that was just for
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decoration. You and I are going to get
some real grapes for us.
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I did have some in the refrigerator, but
they were going bad. I thought they
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looked cute.
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This is good. Thank you. I love cold
meatballs for real.
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Toya, I know you've been hanging out
with my girl Kenya, but I'm going to
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blow you wrong.
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We're still getting to know each other.
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You are comfortable?
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Yes. Here, I'm going to say you're by
your best friend Kenya.
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You are? Yeah.
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I mean, we're all curious.
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Absolutely. If we don't know how to do
anything, we know how to act like
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don't we, Kenya?
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Yes. Some of us act as some of us are.
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Marlo has really fallen off. I don't
really think she was ever on, but I
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she has really fallen off.
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Like, fallen off over into the ocean,
into a dragnet.
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All right, I'm waiting for...
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Drew, to get here. Who's Drew?
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You've never met Drew?
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Drew actually was at my wine cellar
launch and proposal that you almost
470
00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:01,740
You ruined her proposal?
471
00:27:02,060 --> 00:27:03,060
She said almost.
472
00:27:03,260 --> 00:27:10,100
I feel like crap that I nearly ruined
Cynthia's surprise engagement. I feel
473
00:27:10,100 --> 00:27:11,440
like he might propose tonight.
474
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:16,300
Why would you bring that up to her?
Like, what is wrong with you? I just
475
00:27:16,300 --> 00:27:19,060
make it right. And I just really want to
show my support.
476
00:27:19,360 --> 00:27:20,880
So anyway, she's coming.
477
00:27:21,120 --> 00:27:23,420
You guys, I'm just so happy to see all
these beautiful faces.
478
00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:25,580
I take candy. I'm super excited.
479
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:27,140
Riley's going to school.
480
00:27:27,700 --> 00:27:28,700
How did it go?
481
00:27:28,820 --> 00:27:33,520
I found one little spot directly in
front of where Riley was sitting.
482
00:27:33,740 --> 00:27:37,680
That part worked out perfectly, because
I'm sure.
483
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:38,960
Hello,
484
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:41,040
diva.
485
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:43,280
These are for you.
486
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:48,160
Thanks. I would have preferred money,
but this is good.
487
00:27:48,540 --> 00:27:49,660
I can't with shoes.
488
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:51,320
I'm just kidding. Thank you.
489
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:52,640
Ooh, let me see.
490
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:54,860
Oh, my gosh.
491
00:27:55,260 --> 00:27:56,260
Yay.
492
00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:57,600
Dramatic.
493
00:28:13,770 --> 00:28:14,569
How are you, Riley?
494
00:28:14,570 --> 00:28:15,570
Thank you. Yes.
495
00:28:15,790 --> 00:28:17,930
Okay. Did you say happy graduation to
Riley?
496
00:28:18,490 --> 00:28:19,590
Happy graduation.
497
00:28:20,390 --> 00:28:22,290
Thank you. Say congratulations.
498
00:28:24,090 --> 00:28:25,090
Congratulations.
499
00:28:25,430 --> 00:28:26,430
Thank you.
500
00:28:27,190 --> 00:28:28,310
Yeah, dude.
501
00:28:29,930 --> 00:28:32,770
Well, anyway, Riley, I got a little
something for you.
502
00:28:33,030 --> 00:28:34,030
Oh, did you now?
503
00:28:34,250 --> 00:28:35,250
Just a little something.
504
00:28:35,930 --> 00:28:37,050
Something to get you started.
505
00:28:37,430 --> 00:28:41,650
I know you don't like cash. You like
cash out, but that's the closest I can
506
00:28:41,670 --> 00:28:42,670
Thank you.
507
00:28:45,540 --> 00:28:48,080
I'll expect mine from you later, me
love.
508
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:51,980
There's a little something to get you
going. I know New York is going to be
509
00:28:51,980 --> 00:28:56,040
tough. I had a crazy teenage life. I
didn't go to college.
510
00:28:56,260 --> 00:28:59,920
Whereas Riley, she's able to accomplish
something that I've never done.
511
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:01,640
Okay, catch it.
512
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:03,280
One, two, three.
513
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:08,940
What was Riley's first car again?
514
00:29:09,570 --> 00:29:10,570
Probably the Porsche.
515
00:29:10,790 --> 00:29:14,970
You know, my sugar daddy bought me my
first car. Who bought you your first
516
00:29:15,230 --> 00:29:18,430
Yeah, my sugar daddy bought my first
car. I want a damn sugar daddy. You can
517
00:29:18,430 --> 00:29:21,170
teach me how to get a sugar daddy. Yes,
you don't have a sugar daddy? She talks
518
00:29:21,170 --> 00:29:24,670
about a sugar daddy her whole, like,
since we met. No, I called him a sugar
519
00:29:24,670 --> 00:29:27,950
daddy because all the girls said because
he was white and older. Yeah, so he's a
520
00:29:27,950 --> 00:29:30,190
sugar daddy. Yeah, for sure. But he
really wasn't. What?
521
00:29:31,150 --> 00:29:36,190
Marlo, all she ever talks about are old
men, you know, one foot in the grave,
522
00:29:36,330 --> 00:29:39,550
what they can do for her, and if they
can't. What next?
523
00:29:39,930 --> 00:29:41,250
I dated a billionaire.
524
00:29:41,490 --> 00:29:44,810
He purchased my home, my mother's home,
my husband Martin's home, my horse,
525
00:29:44,870 --> 00:29:45,870
everything.
526
00:29:46,490 --> 00:29:49,790
Where'd you meet him? In a strip club.
Were you a stripper? I was stripping.
527
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:08,500
I have to really look up the definition
of a sugar daddy, though. All right,
528
00:30:08,580 --> 00:30:14,880
listen. Sugar daddy. Sugar daddy. A
rich, older man who lavishes gifts on a
529
00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:19,500
young woman in return for her company or
sexual behavior.
530
00:30:20,020 --> 00:30:22,480
How about that? Why are you directing
this at me?
531
00:30:44,590 --> 00:30:45,590
I just got to take it slow.
532
00:30:47,070 --> 00:30:48,070
Hey. Hey.
533
00:30:48,690 --> 00:30:50,230
Nice to see you. How you feeling?
534
00:30:50,530 --> 00:30:51,630
I'm feeling good. I'm here.
535
00:30:51,910 --> 00:30:52,910
What's up, Ralph?
536
00:30:52,930 --> 00:30:54,450
What's up, boy? How you doing, man?
537
00:30:54,830 --> 00:30:56,070
Hello, Gorgeous.
538
00:30:56,690 --> 00:30:59,030
Mike and Ralph had their own
relationship.
539
00:30:59,250 --> 00:31:03,110
They totally hit it off. I love that
because Mike doesn't have that many
540
00:31:03,110 --> 00:31:04,110
here in Atlanta.
541
00:31:04,430 --> 00:31:05,990
I should have heard you here. Oh, my.
542
00:31:06,290 --> 00:31:12,030
Hi, how are you? Nice to see you. Nice
to see you as well. Oh, here's your old
543
00:31:12,030 --> 00:31:15,240
boot. Oh, my gosh. I'm suited and
booted. Oh, Cynthia.
544
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:20,680
Where do you get all of these strays
from, honey? I mean, what do you do?
545
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:22,140
visit the local pound?
546
00:31:22,540 --> 00:31:24,460
Hi, beautiful. How are you?
547
00:31:24,940 --> 00:31:26,000
Mwah, mwah.
548
00:31:26,220 --> 00:31:27,740
Hi, beautiful. How are you?
549
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:29,000
Mwah, mwah.
550
00:31:29,620 --> 00:31:32,360
This is my hubby. This is my hubby. How
you doing?
551
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:33,499
How you doing?
552
00:31:33,500 --> 00:31:35,780
I'm just kind of underwhelmed.
553
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:38,680
But you thought her husband was cute.
554
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:42,700
Now, her husband was cute.
555
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:49,240
We'll meet with you next time. Well,
yeah, I'm going to be with the ladies,
556
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:50,480
have fun, baby.
557
00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:51,960
All right, baby.
558
00:31:52,300 --> 00:31:53,360
Here, come over here, Drew.
559
00:31:53,780 --> 00:31:57,060
I'm going to have to make you walk on
your foot. I'm making my way. What
560
00:31:57,060 --> 00:31:58,060
happened to your leg?
561
00:31:58,220 --> 00:32:01,160
Or knee? No, not knee. Ankle? It was my
Achilles.
562
00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:06,120
Oh! I was doing a stage play. It
happened on stage.
563
00:32:06,620 --> 00:32:08,900
I don't care about that right now
because I need some wine.
564
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:11,340
Can somebody just give her the bottle?
Yes!
565
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:13,080
That's the bottle. We need it.
566
00:32:19,470 --> 00:32:20,470
I'm just getting some wine.
567
00:32:21,250 --> 00:32:24,570
Have we ever met? No, right? We've never
met, but I think we may have mutual
568
00:32:24,570 --> 00:32:25,570
friends. Who?
569
00:32:26,230 --> 00:32:28,090
Um, I don't know. Let's run them down.
570
00:32:28,350 --> 00:32:30,790
Actors, maybe? I'm sorry. I just have to
say one thing.
571
00:32:31,050 --> 00:32:34,890
One thing. I didn't even say one thing.
This is why I don't like you, Drew.
572
00:32:35,450 --> 00:32:36,770
You don't like me? No.
573
00:32:37,030 --> 00:32:38,030
Wait, what?
574
00:32:39,730 --> 00:32:40,730
Coming up next.
575
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:48,520
Keep the name of Jesus faithful.
576
00:32:55,140 --> 00:32:56,140
I'm sorry.
577
00:32:56,160 --> 00:33:00,000
One thing. I just want to say one thing.
This is why I don't like you, Drew.
578
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:02,860
You don't like me? Wait, what?
579
00:33:03,140 --> 00:33:04,180
Because of the game.
580
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:05,259
All right?
581
00:33:05,260 --> 00:33:10,240
Because she broke up Melanie and Derwin.
582
00:33:16,330 --> 00:33:21,770
People do not let me live. After I
played myself, Jusadora, on the game, I
583
00:33:21,770 --> 00:33:24,890
side chick, but art does not imitate
life, okay?
584
00:33:25,250 --> 00:33:29,290
Don't play with me. I've been out
before, and people have been wanting to
585
00:33:29,290 --> 00:33:34,290
me up, and I'm like, come on! And you're
working right now, right?
586
00:33:34,590 --> 00:33:37,670
Yeah, I just did. You can get Kenya some
new jobs.
587
00:33:38,910 --> 00:33:40,550
Okay. I'm confused.
588
00:33:41,090 --> 00:33:42,090
What's happening?
589
00:33:42,250 --> 00:33:43,670
Get Kenya some new gigs.
590
00:33:44,570 --> 00:33:47,550
Okay, they definitely coming for each
other. Let me drink some more.
591
00:33:49,370 --> 00:33:51,430
Don't be over there talking all your
business, girl.
592
00:33:52,010 --> 00:33:53,790
She ain't going to go against you,
bitch. She's good.
593
00:33:54,670 --> 00:33:55,750
Don't take no advice from her.
594
00:33:55,970 --> 00:34:00,450
You can take advice as in, like, how to
pronounce certain words, but she can't
595
00:34:00,450 --> 00:34:01,570
keep a man in Jesus' face.
596
00:34:02,290 --> 00:34:06,890
All right, I hate to make you have to
walk, but we're going to actually go
597
00:34:06,890 --> 00:34:09,350
outside, and we'll finish this
conversation outside.
598
00:34:10,489 --> 00:34:11,489
Oh, my goodness.
599
00:34:12,170 --> 00:34:14,170
This is super cute. Look at that.
600
00:34:14,620 --> 00:34:17,159
I hope you'll be breaking it in with
Mike out here, girls.
601
00:34:18,300 --> 00:34:21,659
But wait a minute. I do want to know
what's going on with the wedding. Like,
602
00:34:21,699 --> 00:34:23,020
this is such a great backdrop.
603
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:25,940
That's just a whole other day. Like, I
can't get into it right now.
604
00:34:26,219 --> 00:34:29,760
Like, I just want to, like, get through
this because it keeps changing every
605
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:30,558
five seconds.
606
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:34,760
Mike still doesn't really get why having
all my friends and family at our
607
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:35,900
wedding is important to me.
608
00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:39,320
And at this point, it's just beyond our
control. We just have to wait and see
609
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:41,980
what Georgia says instead of arguing
about it.
610
00:34:42,699 --> 00:34:44,060
By the way, I didn't get my invitation.
611
00:34:45,020 --> 00:34:47,699
I just met you. I need the invitation.
Okay.
612
00:34:48,020 --> 00:34:51,120
So what's going on, man? You guys just
celebrated an anniversary.
613
00:34:51,500 --> 00:34:53,040
Congratulations, man. Thank you. Thank
you.
614
00:34:53,899 --> 00:34:54,899
Six. Six.
615
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:55,920
Man, big six.
616
00:34:56,179 --> 00:34:57,158
Everything good?
617
00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:00,840
How's it going? Like, you get that six,
they say seven -year itch. I don't know
618
00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:03,700
what it is. I've been married twice, so
forgive me. It didn't work out for me.
619
00:35:03,980 --> 00:35:09,060
So, how's it going? You know, when we
first went into it, it was utopia. Okay.
620
00:35:09,100 --> 00:35:11,600
And then all of a sudden, you start
getting into the problems and headaches.
621
00:35:11,860 --> 00:35:14,680
It's a lot of work, man. I mean, even
before we were getting married, we're
622
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:16,020
going through so much right now.
623
00:35:17,020 --> 00:35:18,520
Let's grab a seat, man. I'm old, bro.
624
00:35:18,940 --> 00:35:20,340
Cool, cool, cool. Let's do it.
625
00:35:20,740 --> 00:35:24,280
Man, but what I'm starting to value now
more than anything else is happiness.
626
00:35:24,580 --> 00:35:28,640
Because, I mean, we got a pandemic going
on. We got three kids that's home all
627
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:30,280
the time. I can't travel.
628
00:35:30,720 --> 00:35:34,840
Right. She's got the Achilles thing
going on. Bro, I was her nurse.
629
00:35:35,380 --> 00:35:36,740
Like, this has been a roller coaster.
630
00:35:37,020 --> 00:35:38,020
I didn't even add in there.
631
00:35:38,620 --> 00:35:40,600
I got my mother -in -law at my house
staying with me.
632
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:44,040
OK. She is type A, extremely strong
personality.
633
00:35:44,300 --> 00:35:47,380
So the problem with me is now I'm a
dominant man.
634
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:51,180
It's like two bulls hitting up against
each other. And so I have to actually
635
00:35:51,180 --> 00:35:54,140
just get out and just go. Like, all
right, cool off. So you just leave the
636
00:35:54,140 --> 00:35:57,400
and just go out and cool off. Man, I've
actually left for days, you know?
637
00:35:57,720 --> 00:36:00,480
I've actually had to take a couple of
days off. Of course, I make sure
638
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:03,740
everything is together to where there's
not going to be a void whatsoever.
639
00:36:04,220 --> 00:36:08,810
But at the same time, I got to find a
space because if I'm not happy, I'm not
640
00:36:08,810 --> 00:36:09,810
good for anybody.
641
00:36:09,870 --> 00:36:12,930
Right. And your kids can see that and
everybody else can see that. Right. But
642
00:36:12,930 --> 00:36:16,780
see... Talk to Drew and tell her exactly
what you're looking for. That's
643
00:36:16,780 --> 00:36:20,620
something I got to do. You know, we both
need to be working this thing correctly
644
00:36:20,620 --> 00:36:22,360
in order for us to be a well -oiled
machine.
645
00:36:22,620 --> 00:36:25,120
I pray that you find your happiness.
646
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:28,220
Like I said, I'm here for you. Bro, I
need that support, man. A listening
647
00:36:28,620 --> 00:36:30,200
I've been there several times.
648
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:34,060
I need the support because it's just me
right now, and it's crazy.
649
00:36:34,260 --> 00:36:37,400
We're going to actually do a nice little
wine tasting. I really want to carry
650
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:41,500
some of these brands in my wine cellar,
and I know you guys have very
651
00:36:41,500 --> 00:36:42,700
experienced palates.
652
00:36:43,100 --> 00:36:48,300
So I wanted to know your opinion on, you
know, what we like. But I don't.
653
00:36:49,300 --> 00:36:50,680
It's good. It is excellent.
654
00:36:50,900 --> 00:36:53,240
Oh, it's really top shelf.
655
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:56,840
Is it? It's screwed on now. Are you sure
about that?
656
00:36:57,220 --> 00:36:59,000
I'm not paying her any attention.
657
00:36:59,240 --> 00:37:02,340
I am out and the baby's at home and I
have a sitter.
658
00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:08,800
I am not thinking about her. Just in
respect to the movement, the reason why
659
00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:09,800
excited about this.
660
00:37:10,090 --> 00:37:13,070
particular wine tasting is because it's
all black -owned wine.
661
00:37:13,310 --> 00:37:14,530
All right?
662
00:37:14,810 --> 00:37:16,650
So, you know, we're in the movement,
honey.
663
00:37:16,890 --> 00:37:20,530
Because of the environment that we're
living in today, I just want to make
664
00:37:20,530 --> 00:37:25,350
that I stay on top of my own black
-owned business and support other black
665
00:37:25,350 --> 00:37:26,229
-owned businesses.
666
00:37:26,230 --> 00:37:28,030
Everybody has a spit. Do some people
swallow?
667
00:37:28,470 --> 00:37:29,470
I swallow.
668
00:37:30,690 --> 00:37:33,030
You and Latoya have that in common. Hey,
girl.
669
00:37:33,290 --> 00:37:38,350
See, you're liking me already, see? This
is the Samayon Blanc from Aisha Curry.
670
00:37:38,590 --> 00:37:41,730
All right, we're going to be tasting a
little bit here. I really like this.
671
00:37:41,990 --> 00:37:45,610
Excellent. The next wine that we have
from Miss Curry is a Cabernet.
672
00:37:45,890 --> 00:37:47,170
You like that? Oh, I like this.
673
00:37:47,850 --> 00:37:49,570
This is definitely full body.
674
00:37:49,810 --> 00:37:53,150
This is my number two. We're here. Oh,
my God, it makes me feel so good.
675
00:37:53,690 --> 00:37:55,550
Ladies up top and having a good time.
676
00:37:55,830 --> 00:37:57,170
I hope that works out, though, bro.
677
00:37:57,410 --> 00:37:58,990
This is a really nice French rosé.
678
00:37:59,820 --> 00:38:01,520
This is Black -Owned. I need something
good.
679
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:03,120
Kenya, are you going to take care of me?
680
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:05,200
I'm driving, so I can't have a lot.
681
00:38:05,420 --> 00:38:07,220
No, no, no, just take some spit. You
want to start spitting?
682
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:10,520
We can get a driver. I know you used to
swallow, but do you want to spit for the
683
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:13,720
rest? Hopefully. I'm glad you and Kenya
are connected. You're going to loosen up
684
00:38:13,720 --> 00:38:16,360
a little. She's bubbly. She's fun to be
around.
685
00:38:16,720 --> 00:38:17,720
Thank you. Bubbly.
686
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:21,940
I honestly need to hook Kenya up with
somebody, though. I'm not listening to
687
00:38:21,940 --> 00:38:22,940
Latoya.
688
00:38:26,540 --> 00:38:28,660
You can do what you want while you're
separated.
689
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:30,540
What? Who says that?
690
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:32,160
You're still married.
691
00:38:32,700 --> 00:38:34,240
What else did you say?
692
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:37,160
I'm separated so I want to have fun.
693
00:38:38,029 --> 00:38:39,830
You're separating or separated.
694
00:38:40,090 --> 00:38:41,090
I'm separated.
695
00:38:41,110 --> 00:38:42,230
Okay. Just for a year.
696
00:38:42,470 --> 00:38:45,250
I'm going to get back with my family. I
don't know who says, like, I'm going to
697
00:38:45,250 --> 00:38:48,010
be separated. Like, you can't predict
how long you're going to be separated.
698
00:38:48,010 --> 00:38:48,848
the first baby.
699
00:38:48,850 --> 00:38:52,070
But then if you get back together, there
might be an issue. Why? You're still
700
00:38:52,070 --> 00:38:54,610
married. Tell me the definition of a
separation.
701
00:38:55,270 --> 00:38:58,510
Separation means I need my space to
figure out if I still want the marriage
702
00:38:58,510 --> 00:39:00,690
not. But if you want to date other
people, just get a divorce.
703
00:39:00,930 --> 00:39:02,430
But if you're separated, you're
separated.
704
00:39:02,710 --> 00:39:04,630
Yes, you're separated, but you're still
married.
705
00:39:04,910 --> 00:39:05,910
But you're separated.
706
00:39:07,140 --> 00:39:10,900
Okay, Latoya, she's just not all there.
If you think that a man is going to wait
707
00:39:10,900 --> 00:39:13,360
a whole entire year for you, I'm just
saying.
708
00:39:14,420 --> 00:39:15,560
Somebody needs to tell her, though.
709
00:39:18,540 --> 00:39:20,320
You've been married how long now, Drew?
710
00:39:20,700 --> 00:39:21,578
Six years.
711
00:39:21,580 --> 00:39:24,660
You need to get advice from her. Maybe I
can help. I don't know. You can help
712
00:39:24,660 --> 00:39:27,640
me. I've divorced my husband, like,
every other day.
713
00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:29,680
You've been through a divorce, he said?
714
00:39:29,900 --> 00:39:32,220
No. My husband will say we're getting a
divorce.
715
00:39:32,460 --> 00:39:35,620
Like, we've said, OK, we're going to get
our own places. We're going to get, you
716
00:39:35,620 --> 00:39:36,499
know, lawyers.
717
00:39:36,500 --> 00:39:39,560
Like, I'm telling you for real. Like,
last week, he left and didn't tell me
718
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:42,760
where he was. Wait, how long was he gone
for? He was gone for like, he was gone
719
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:43,760
for like three days.
720
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:46,640
Last week, Ralph and I got into a huge
argument.
721
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:50,360
And Ralph definitely was at a breaking
point for sure. So he went to his
722
00:39:50,460 --> 00:39:51,460
you know, to cool off.
723
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:54,240
And later that night when I went to
check on him, he was gone.
724
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:56,360
And I didn't see him for three days.
725
00:39:56,910 --> 00:40:00,390
My husband is a runner so he likes to go
and he doesn't want to answer anybody
726
00:40:00,390 --> 00:40:01,790
When
727
00:40:01,790 --> 00:40:13,530
we
728
00:40:13,530 --> 00:40:17,950
get in a fight we think we can't come
back from it and so we scream divorce
729
00:40:17,950 --> 00:40:21,290
how amazing you look today smiling and
then today we're smiling and I'd be like
730
00:40:21,290 --> 00:40:23,810
how do we Like, this is crazy. And I
love you.
731
00:40:24,030 --> 00:40:28,090
And it's genuine. It's not fake. It's
like, we just put it aside so that we
732
00:40:28,090 --> 00:40:29,150
have productive conversation.
733
00:40:29,690 --> 00:40:30,810
Can I use the ladies' room?
734
00:40:32,010 --> 00:40:33,930
OK, come on. I'll be right back, you
guys.
735
00:40:34,130 --> 00:40:35,790
Oh, it feels so much better in here.
736
00:40:36,830 --> 00:40:37,830
Let's call AC.
737
00:40:38,230 --> 00:40:39,690
What do you think of this bunch?
738
00:40:40,270 --> 00:40:41,470
I like Drew.
739
00:40:41,770 --> 00:40:45,390
You know, Latoya and her are going to go
long for long.
740
00:40:45,610 --> 00:40:47,370
She was talking about her having a cat.
741
00:40:47,590 --> 00:40:48,590
A cat?
742
00:40:48,870 --> 00:40:50,350
Yes. What's wrong with having a pet?
743
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:52,280
She wasn't talking about an animal.
744
00:40:52,540 --> 00:40:53,540
Oh, shit.
745
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:54,780
She was talking about her wig.
746
00:40:56,340 --> 00:40:59,460
Oh, jeez. I was like, girl, don't do
that. Don't do that.
747
00:41:00,420 --> 00:41:04,360
She's a perfectly nice lady. I mean, the
dynamic in her relationship is kind of
748
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:07,280
interesting. Now, that's like, your man
is leaving for three days and you don't
749
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:08,038
know where he is.
750
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:12,580
Which reminds me, in my own situation,
and I just feel like
751
00:41:12,580 --> 00:41:15,960
I'm going to go ahead and file.
752
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:17,200
You are.
753
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:19,340
But I feel like the best
754
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:26,980
Step for me is to file for the custody
action and doing a post -nup. And then
755
00:41:26,980 --> 00:41:29,660
after that's all signed off, then
filing.
756
00:41:30,060 --> 00:41:32,780
You really think he's going to fight you
over the whole custody thing?
757
00:41:33,460 --> 00:41:38,740
For shits and giggles. I decided to file
a custody action because I believe,
758
00:41:38,860 --> 00:41:42,760
knowing my husband, that is the path of
least resistance.
759
00:41:43,390 --> 00:41:48,690
I don't think he wants to have any type
of action in court. I think he wants to
760
00:41:48,690 --> 00:41:53,230
be able to just live how we are with no
progress in either direction.
761
00:41:53,450 --> 00:41:55,390
But now I have to take my life back.
762
00:41:55,750 --> 00:41:58,510
Does he know you're planning to file? I
would talk to him. I wouldn't just serve
763
00:41:58,510 --> 00:42:01,530
him. That's not right. So someone's not
like, hey!
764
00:42:02,730 --> 00:42:04,450
You've been served! You've been served!
765
00:42:05,450 --> 00:42:06,450
Hey!
766
00:42:15,180 --> 00:42:16,920
Let me go grab Latoya's crazy ass.
767
00:42:17,340 --> 00:42:20,500
Okay. Which house am I in now? Pretty
much.
768
00:42:21,240 --> 00:42:22,240
You're still here.
769
00:42:22,420 --> 00:42:23,078
I am.
770
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:25,420
I came to get my riding buddy.
771
00:42:25,820 --> 00:42:29,760
Oh, you guys are riding off in the
sunset? I know. I will definitely invite
772
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:32,120
to my next one. Can we have to do this
again?
773
00:42:32,340 --> 00:42:36,500
Look, I'm standing up for you. I'm
standing up for you. It's all good. It's
774
00:42:36,500 --> 00:42:37,820
a nice pleasure meeting you.
775
00:42:38,100 --> 00:42:40,780
I'll get your number from Cynthia. Yes.
And I'll put this.
776
00:42:41,220 --> 00:42:42,220
Yes.
777
00:42:42,860 --> 00:42:44,700
You know I love my sister, no matter
what.
778
00:42:45,720 --> 00:42:47,420
No! You demon!
779
00:42:48,860 --> 00:42:49,860
No!
780
00:42:50,140 --> 00:42:51,140
I love you.
781
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:53,160
I'm going to give it to you. She loves
me.
782
00:42:53,660 --> 00:42:54,700
Coming up next.
783
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:59,320
Where were you? You got to stop these
stupid issues. Until you go and get your
784
00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:02,240
head out the clouds, you're not going to
be able to get nowhere. And that's with
785
00:43:02,240 --> 00:43:03,520
me or anybody else.
786
00:43:14,670 --> 00:43:17,770
Oh, boy. What's going on? I was going to
make some baked chicken today.
787
00:43:18,010 --> 00:43:22,570
Ooh. It was talking trash about me
earlier.
788
00:43:23,010 --> 00:43:24,150
Where's the cake that I had?
789
00:43:24,430 --> 00:43:27,190
I ate it. Are you serious?
790
00:43:27,630 --> 00:43:28,990
It's been a day.
791
00:43:32,050 --> 00:43:33,210
Y 'all look good.
792
00:43:33,650 --> 00:43:37,430
You're the only person who has come out
of quarantine looking like this. I do
793
00:43:37,430 --> 00:43:40,510
like big girl yoga. So I turn it on.
794
00:43:40,970 --> 00:43:44,150
And I'll do like about maybe three or
four positions, and then I sit like this
795
00:43:44,150 --> 00:43:45,190
and watch the rest of the class.
796
00:43:52,910 --> 00:43:54,250
No way.
797
00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:28,080
Alexa. Oh.
798
00:44:30,900 --> 00:44:33,560
Hey, baby, I got a surprise for you.
799
00:44:34,650 --> 00:44:37,170
I'm actually going to take it to the
table, and I'll surprise you out there.
800
00:44:37,350 --> 00:44:38,930
Okay. All right? Okay. I'm nervous.
801
00:44:39,150 --> 00:44:39,888
What'd you do?
802
00:44:39,890 --> 00:44:41,650
Just a little something.
803
00:44:42,550 --> 00:44:43,550
Oh, baby!
804
00:44:44,130 --> 00:44:45,550
Oh, so pretty!
805
00:44:46,190 --> 00:44:52,390
Ralph and I, our relationship can be
quite acrobatic, quite unbalanced.
806
00:44:53,370 --> 00:44:55,890
I had a chef love there. Chef love and a
bit...
807
00:44:57,259 --> 00:44:59,760
We're best friends. We get along when we
love.
808
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:01,680
But when it's low, it's super low.
809
00:45:01,900 --> 00:45:06,040
And we're arguing about things in year
six that we argued about like year one.
810
00:45:06,260 --> 00:45:08,280
Yeah. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
811
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:14,140
You're making me all hot and just
bothered right now. But today, we are
812
00:45:14,140 --> 00:45:15,720
toast it up and celebrate.
813
00:45:15,980 --> 00:45:16,980
Look at this. Mm.
814
00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:23,760
Mm -hmm. How is it? Mm -hmm. For me.
815
00:45:26,020 --> 00:45:27,020
Yes. Yes.
816
00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:29,860
Chocolate. This is so romantic.
817
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:32,860
Before you touch that spoon, we want to
pray.
818
00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:34,080
Okay.
819
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:37,140
Father God, I come before you thinking
you've keeping us together and keeping
820
00:45:37,140 --> 00:45:38,140
our union strong.
821
00:45:38,220 --> 00:45:39,220
Lead our way, Father.
822
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:40,720
In Jesus' name we pray. Amen. Amen.
823
00:45:41,300 --> 00:45:42,300
Amen.
824
00:45:44,020 --> 00:45:47,960
Toast to our wedding next year.
825
00:45:48,620 --> 00:45:50,280
Making it to seven years.
826
00:45:50,660 --> 00:45:51,459
You said wedding?
827
00:45:51,460 --> 00:45:53,840
Yes. We got to have something to aim for
for seven.
828
00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:57,100
All right, we're going to just toast to
seven.
829
00:45:57,300 --> 00:45:58,300
Oh, God.
830
00:45:59,300 --> 00:46:03,680
Let's talk about what we're going to do
during our seven. So no wedding? We're
831
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:05,940
not going to have a wedding? Let's talk
about it. Cheers, baby, to seven.
832
00:46:06,820 --> 00:46:07,820
And the wedding.
833
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:14,740
So you don't do garlic, sir. So we got
to talk without garlic. Oh, wow. Oh, can
834
00:46:14,740 --> 00:46:15,698
I have garlic?
835
00:46:15,700 --> 00:46:20,040
Yes. That's my girl. This looks so good.
Thank you. Let me know if you need
836
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:21,040
anything else.
837
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:24,440
Mm -hmm. So now we are six years in.
838
00:46:25,779 --> 00:46:29,340
Tell me about some of the things that
you feel is, like, working and what's
839
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:33,440
Oh, you want me to tell you what I feel
is not working?
840
00:46:34,020 --> 00:46:35,300
That's a safe zone?
841
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:37,580
Listen. You know, I'm going to be
honest.
842
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:38,800
It's a zone.
843
00:46:39,980 --> 00:46:43,580
Okay, remember we went to marriage
counseling, and we did, like, the whole
844
00:46:43,580 --> 00:46:44,580
recipe for marriage?
845
00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:51,120
And one thing that we said that was
important in our recipe was
846
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:56,560
I feel like that's just, like, not a
part of the marriage. Like, you don't
847
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:58,520
put that ingredient, like, in the
marriage.
848
00:46:59,060 --> 00:47:02,080
What makes you think that? Transparency.
You feel comfortable just, like,
849
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:05,840
leaving and not telling me that you're
leaving.
850
00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:07,800
That's one, like, major issue.
851
00:47:09,410 --> 00:47:10,470
I'd like to see that change.
852
00:47:10,710 --> 00:47:16,070
I think I'm a very, very pretty much
outspoken person to where I show you.
853
00:47:16,370 --> 00:47:18,970
I'm sorry. I don't mean to talk over
you. I'm just wanting to make sure you
854
00:47:18,970 --> 00:47:22,210
what I'm saying. Typically, you talk
over me, but go ahead. Okay, you know
855
00:47:22,230 --> 00:47:22,868
I won't talk.
856
00:47:22,870 --> 00:47:26,150
Go ahead. I just wanted you to have
understanding. Like, when you go for a
857
00:47:26,270 --> 00:47:28,350
do you feel like it's important to tell
your wife?
858
00:47:28,830 --> 00:47:32,990
That you're leaving, A, and B, that
you're going for days and where you
859
00:47:33,090 --> 00:47:37,010
Because you left the other day, and I
still don't know where you were. You
860
00:47:37,010 --> 00:47:42,270
really truly understand men and how we
work, especially black men. If I leave,
861
00:47:42,450 --> 00:47:46,330
it's really truly in the spur of the
moment because I need to get away.
862
00:47:46,530 --> 00:47:49,950
Okay. And I'm making the best decision I
possibly can make at that moment.
863
00:47:50,310 --> 00:47:54,990
Staying is worse than me leaving. And I
leave because you have no idea about the
864
00:47:54,990 --> 00:47:57,090
pressure that I have that's on my
shoulders.
865
00:47:57,480 --> 00:47:58,480
I came from nothing.
866
00:47:58,660 --> 00:48:02,160
I'm the first generation where I'm
trying to create what.
867
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:07,200
a true legacy looks like. That's why I
married you, though. No, it's not,
868
00:48:07,300 --> 00:48:10,740
though. I'm actually agreeing with you.
We're, like, here. If we really were
869
00:48:10,740 --> 00:48:11,920
here, we wouldn't have this problem.
870
00:48:12,140 --> 00:48:15,420
Okay, hold on. Oh, my God, you asked me
a question.
871
00:48:15,820 --> 00:48:18,520
See, I knew this wasn't set up. We still
haven't addressed the issue. I
872
00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:21,880
understand it. I'm going to get to the
root if you allow me to. You know what?
873
00:48:22,240 --> 00:48:25,260
I'm not asking for much. Like, going
back to it, because you danced around
874
00:48:25,300 --> 00:48:28,020
like, you left, and I didn't know where
you were. Correct. You didn't take my
875
00:48:28,020 --> 00:48:28,908
phone call.
876
00:48:28,910 --> 00:48:30,770
You didn't talk to me. You didn't text
me back.
877
00:48:31,050 --> 00:48:33,550
I didn't? A lesson was about the house
or about business. No, no, no. Go and
878
00:48:33,550 --> 00:48:36,950
check your text messages. No, no, no.
Now, one single text message went
879
00:48:36,950 --> 00:48:40,570
being returned in one minute. What
planet? You can leave the house, and
880
00:48:40,570 --> 00:48:43,730
married, and you can't tell your wife
where you're going, where you are.
881
00:48:43,990 --> 00:48:47,410
Like, that's crazy. I was always
assessable. Where were you?
882
00:48:47,670 --> 00:48:50,410
It's not about that. It is. Where did
you go?
883
00:48:50,910 --> 00:48:53,790
You can't tell me where you went. I told
you I was at the beach. At the beach
884
00:48:53,790 --> 00:48:54,930
doesn't tell me where.
885
00:48:55,510 --> 00:48:57,430
There's a beach in all different states.
886
00:48:57,690 --> 00:49:00,810
Were you out of Georgia? So tell me
this. Did you leave Georgia?
887
00:49:01,090 --> 00:49:04,330
Absolutely. Where did you go? If you
don't feel like you need to tell me
888
00:49:04,330 --> 00:49:06,830
you went, then we can get in it right
there.
889
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:18,680
What planet? You can leave the house,
and you're married, and you can't tell
890
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:20,480
your wife where you're going, where you
are.
891
00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:24,340
Like, that's crazy. I was always
obsessed with that. Where were you?
892
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:28,880
It's not about that. It is. Where did
you go? You can't tell me where you
893
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:31,800
I told you I was at the beach. At the
beach doesn't tell me where.
894
00:49:32,380 --> 00:49:34,300
There's a beach in all different states.
895
00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:37,680
Were you out of Georgia? So tell me
this. Did you leave Georgia?
896
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:41,180
Absolutely. Where did you go? If you
don't feel like you need to tell me
897
00:49:41,180 --> 00:49:43,700
you went, then we can get in it right
there.
898
00:49:46,730 --> 00:49:47,730
Dead end what?
899
00:49:48,070 --> 00:49:49,070
This conversation.
900
00:49:49,150 --> 00:49:50,950
Me telling you where I am, what does
that solve?
901
00:49:51,410 --> 00:49:54,570
If there is an emergency or anything
that happens, I should know where my
902
00:49:54,570 --> 00:49:57,970
husband is. We all thought you were
downstairs. I got you dinner. I'm
903
00:49:57,970 --> 00:50:00,030
the door. How do I not know my husband
left the house?
904
00:50:00,630 --> 00:50:03,470
And then my mom is here seeing it all,
and it's just crazy.
905
00:50:03,690 --> 00:50:07,650
Like, that stress that I just don't
need. Like, you can just say, hey, babe,
906
00:50:07,650 --> 00:50:10,690
leaving. I don't even ask you, like,
where are you going, babe? I don't call
907
00:50:10,690 --> 00:50:12,030
and be like, yo, where are you? I don't
do that.
908
00:50:12,290 --> 00:50:15,110
Yes, you do. You're asking me right now.
What do you think you're doing? You
909
00:50:15,110 --> 00:50:16,029
were gone for three days.
910
00:50:16,030 --> 00:50:17,890
You know what? I'm going to appease you.
Where were you?
911
00:50:18,530 --> 00:50:19,530
Tampa.
912
00:50:19,670 --> 00:50:22,330
Woo! Thank you. You was in Tampa.
913
00:50:22,550 --> 00:50:26,490
And now how does that help you? I just
needed to know where you were. How does
914
00:50:26,490 --> 00:50:28,190
that help you? I just needed to know
where you were.
915
00:50:28,410 --> 00:50:28,928
How does that help you?
916
00:50:28,930 --> 00:50:31,690
It doesn't help you. I'm not going to
give you anything because it doesn't
917
00:50:31,690 --> 00:50:35,990
you. If I knew, hey, babe, I'm going to
Tampa. You know what I'm saying? Then I
918
00:50:35,990 --> 00:50:37,030
know my husband's in Tampa.
919
00:50:37,410 --> 00:50:39,910
We've never gone to Tampa. It has
nothing to do with you.
920
00:50:40,110 --> 00:50:42,310
You just drove to Tampa. It has nothing
to do with you.
921
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:45,800
I don't know who would drive past four
beaches to get to the ocean.
922
00:50:46,020 --> 00:50:47,860
An ocean is an ocean. A beach is a
beach.
923
00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:49,340
I got my eyes open.
924
00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:51,400
It did nothing for you. It's called
sharing.
925
00:50:51,660 --> 00:50:54,400
It's called putting some sort of
confidence in the relationship.
926
00:50:54,620 --> 00:50:55,618
Me telling you.
927
00:50:55,620 --> 00:50:57,180
Transparency. It doesn't help you.
928
00:50:57,920 --> 00:51:01,380
It doesn't help the cons that we have.
Hey, babe, time out. Oh, God. Secondly,
929
00:51:01,500 --> 00:51:04,400
secondly, you have a camera in the house
that watches us?
930
00:51:04,700 --> 00:51:08,120
I have cameras everywhere. Okay, so were
you watching us when you were gone?
931
00:51:08,380 --> 00:51:12,000
No. That's a lie. You're going to lie to
me? You're lying to me.
932
00:51:13,230 --> 00:51:16,250
You were watching us in the family room,
me and my mom and the kids. I didn't
933
00:51:16,250 --> 00:51:18,770
know it was the camera there, and I saw
the camera, and you were watching us.
934
00:51:19,750 --> 00:51:22,530
So now you're lying to me that's what
we're doing? That's crazy.
935
00:51:23,110 --> 00:51:26,230
Ralph's always been big brother. He's
into this technology.
936
00:51:26,710 --> 00:51:32,590
I found a picture in his phone where I
was sleeping, my mom was sitting on the
937
00:51:32,590 --> 00:51:36,810
couch, and my kids were in the
background. It's just too much. Like,
938
00:51:36,810 --> 00:51:40,690
disrespectful. It's an invasion of
privacy, and I am so hurt.
939
00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:44,100
So you knew where I was, but I didn't
know where you were. You see how
940
00:51:44,100 --> 00:51:47,500
that is? Do you want to get to another
six years? You have to know. Do you want
941
00:51:47,500 --> 00:51:48,238
to get there?
942
00:51:48,240 --> 00:51:51,480
You know I do. But if you want to get
there, then you got to stop these stupid
943
00:51:51,480 --> 00:51:55,180
issues. Because this right here has
nothing to do with anything that's going
944
00:51:55,180 --> 00:51:58,200
move us forward. And I'm telling you,
until you go and get your head out the
945
00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:01,460
clouds, you're not going to be able to
get nowhere. And that's with me or
946
00:52:01,460 --> 00:52:02,460
anybody else.
947
00:52:03,500 --> 00:52:06,340
Okay. You're just saying this because
I'm calling out real shit.
948
00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:08,360
Let me tell you how foolish you are,
right? Don't lie.
949
00:52:08,660 --> 00:52:10,140
Where's the picture? Show me the
picture.
950
00:52:10,340 --> 00:52:14,200
Last year, our anniversary went left and
it ended bad. I really did not want my
951
00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:18,340
anniversary to end bad this year. You
deleted it. You deleted it.
952
00:52:19,340 --> 00:52:23,420
Please don't lie to me right now. Do not
lie to me. If you sit here and tell me
953
00:52:23,420 --> 00:52:26,540
that you were not watching us, I swear
to God I would get up and walk out. Were
954
00:52:26,540 --> 00:52:27,620
you watching us on the camera?
955
00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:30,860
I wasn't watching you on the camera.
Don't lie to me. Did you watch? I'm
956
00:52:30,860 --> 00:52:31,980
you right now. Do you see it?
957
00:52:36,610 --> 00:52:39,430
I'm done. I'm not going to sit here and
look stupid. I'm not.
958
00:52:40,310 --> 00:52:41,310
Liar.
959
00:52:42,010 --> 00:52:43,210
Liar. Liar.
960
00:52:44,390 --> 00:52:46,970
He's embarrassing me. Like, I hate that.
961
00:52:47,610 --> 00:52:53,190
He's acting dumb as hell. Like, I'm just
tired of it. Like, don't lie to me.
962
00:52:53,290 --> 00:52:54,290
Like, what the hell?
963
00:52:54,730 --> 00:52:56,650
Don't. I'm taking my dress off. I'm
done.
964
00:52:57,190 --> 00:52:59,970
I don't know how we move past it because
we're not getting anywhere.
965
00:53:00,330 --> 00:53:02,270
I just feel like I can't get through to
my husband.
966
00:53:04,850 --> 00:53:05,850
I'm done.
967
00:53:06,750 --> 00:53:09,110
Next time on The Real Housewives of
Atlanta.
968
00:53:18,650 --> 00:53:19,650
Oh, that's pretty.
969
00:53:19,670 --> 00:53:24,410
I'm putting these on online dating apps,
okay? Oh, what about my ring? I have to
970
00:53:24,410 --> 00:53:26,750
show that I'm still married. All right,
I'm going to edit it out anyway.
971
00:53:29,240 --> 00:53:32,640
You want a person to agree with you all
the time. No, no, no, no, no, no. I know
972
00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:35,120
there's some things that we got to get
on the same page with. And this is
973
00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:37,180
something, this is work that Zoo and I
need to do.
974
00:53:37,660 --> 00:53:41,380
I'm not going to lie. Quarantine started
like honeymoon. And then it turned into
975
00:53:41,380 --> 00:53:43,680
divorce within five months.
976
00:53:44,460 --> 00:53:47,780
Like, it like sped my up. Like, oh, what
happened?
977
00:53:48,060 --> 00:53:49,840
We have all of those people can be
outside.
978
00:53:50,220 --> 00:53:53,940
That's a big thing. So what's the COVID
restrictions right now? Empty 10, 10,
979
00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:57,020
20. You can still have it at the Bailey
Lake house, wherever, small.
980
00:53:57,950 --> 00:54:02,450
Right? Mm -hmm. This is one you need to
not be on his side about everything and
981
00:54:02,450 --> 00:54:05,770
have my back. And you guys are making me
feel like an asshole.
982
00:54:06,110 --> 00:54:07,110
Don't walk away.
79495
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