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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:02,459 --> 00:00:04,600 Previously on The Real Housewives of Atlanta. 2 00:00:06,900 --> 00:00:09,660 No, I got to tape the shot. 3 00:00:10,220 --> 00:00:11,220 Oh, the TV show. 4 00:00:11,460 --> 00:00:13,600 I have some nude scenes to do. What? 5 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:17,480 Nude? I'm going to suck this gut in, and I'm going to do this scene. 6 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:20,440 If you have anything you want to get off your heart, we're going to put it 7 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:24,020 amongst the rest of the ruins, and it is done. It will never be brought up 8 00:00:24,020 --> 00:00:27,760 again. Nobody cares about you. You get your ass up. We're leaking. 9 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:29,360 Bye. 10 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:35,880 Why don't we play out a Greek tragedy? 11 00:00:37,620 --> 00:00:40,000 But you can be Mimi. I'll be Kenya. 12 00:00:40,220 --> 00:00:44,580 We are going to be you and we're going to have a conversation. 13 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:50,760 They can play whatever game they play. I'm not a part of that bush. 14 00:00:53,900 --> 00:00:58,340 I was gone with the wind, but now I'm back and twice as fabulous. 15 00:00:59,660 --> 00:01:02,400 I'm living my dream, not above my means. 16 00:01:04,060 --> 00:01:07,900 This phoenix has risen, and I'm saying, bye, ashes. 17 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:13,240 The only time that I look back is to see how far I've come. 18 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:17,860 Don't check for me unless you got a check for me. 19 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:23,320 I'm on a spiritual journey and still traveling first class. 20 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:33,920 Always told me watch your friends, watch your homies. Yes. Money. Yes. All. Yes. 21 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:35,040 Clothes. Yes. 22 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:39,600 All. Yes. No matter what you got to keep the eyes on. Yes. Yes. 23 00:01:41,420 --> 00:01:44,840 Baby, these big long brown legs, honey, what's going on? 24 00:01:51,380 --> 00:01:54,760 Yes, honey, give me one of them. I want one of them. 25 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:00,780 So what's going on? What's your schedule like? 26 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:02,300 I have a full board meeting. 27 00:02:02,620 --> 00:02:04,360 The American Cancer Society got you busy. 28 00:02:04,860 --> 00:02:05,860 Yeah, I'm busy. 29 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:06,920 I got to speak. 30 00:02:07,060 --> 00:02:11,980 Greg has been cancer -free a good six months. He takes all his medications, 31 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:16,100 doing all of his holistic things. So I think all those things played into him 32 00:02:16,100 --> 00:02:18,580 having a healthy life. I like where you speak. 33 00:02:18,980 --> 00:02:19,980 Well, thank you, honey. 34 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:26,300 You know, you were asleep when I came in last night. So overall, it was a great 35 00:02:26,300 --> 00:02:29,150 trip. Me and Portia moved on. That's good. 36 00:02:29,490 --> 00:02:31,930 But one of our hosts, 37 00:02:32,810 --> 00:02:39,710 her, Ken, everybody had heard that she is possibly getting a 38 00:02:39,710 --> 00:02:43,610 divorce. And quite frankly, we were going to embrace her. You know what I'm 39 00:02:43,610 --> 00:02:47,850 saying? Anyway, so she just completely ignores me. 40 00:02:48,230 --> 00:02:50,290 And I don't dislike her like that. 41 00:02:50,860 --> 00:02:53,980 I just be being petty with the bitch because she keep being petty with me. 42 00:02:53,980 --> 00:03:00,780 thing that really upsets me about Kenya is that Kenya is picking a fight with 43 00:03:00,780 --> 00:03:02,340 me for no reason. 44 00:03:02,580 --> 00:03:04,840 Do anybody know what a problem is with you? 45 00:03:05,220 --> 00:03:08,480 Portia and Tanya decided to host this thing called The Ruin. 46 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:12,840 Now, we'll say that I had a couple drinks. 47 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:19,840 But that doesn't have anything to do with what was going on. She tried to 48 00:03:19,920 --> 00:03:22,540 well, you called my child a buffalo. 49 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:25,640 She knows that I am not referring to her child. 50 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:30,180 She knows I was referring to her because that very night that she's speaking up, 51 00:03:30,220 --> 00:03:34,880 I said hi to her. She didn't speak. And I was like, she must be having a. 52 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:36,840 Buffalo. You know what I'm saying? 53 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:42,900 So she was like, well, anybody that talks about my husband, my family, my 54 00:03:43,260 --> 00:03:47,380 you know, you're dead to me. You can't talk to me. Bitch! Hey, you forgot you 55 00:03:47,380 --> 00:03:48,800 talked about everybody's marriage. 56 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:55,960 Horsham had an arranged marriage with Cordell, and she was basically hired to 57 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:56,839 his beer. 58 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:58,500 You talked about people's children. 59 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:02,880 Worry about pimping your daughter out, bitch. She'll suck for John Legend 60 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:03,880 tickets, bitch. 61 00:04:04,670 --> 00:04:09,030 You've been involved in people's relationships, but when it's done to 62 00:04:09,030 --> 00:04:10,290 like, oh, it's off limits. 63 00:04:11,670 --> 00:04:14,530 So she's sitting over there, and we can't get nowhere. 64 00:04:15,030 --> 00:04:19,010 So I got up, and I thought I'd throw a cup of popcorn at her. Just thought she 65 00:04:19,010 --> 00:04:21,329 might open her mouth and catch a cup of it. Gobble, gobble. 66 00:04:21,570 --> 00:04:25,030 Right. I didn't leave out with the best intentions, but I came in with good 67 00:04:25,030 --> 00:04:27,650 ones. That comment did all of this? 68 00:04:27,850 --> 00:04:30,110 She already was picking with me on social media. 69 00:04:32,490 --> 00:04:36,790 So I don't know. I don't know what her problem is. I know this. I don't f*** 70 00:04:36,790 --> 00:04:37,709 with her, okay? 71 00:04:37,710 --> 00:04:38,569 That's that. 72 00:04:38,570 --> 00:04:39,570 Well, how can you? 73 00:04:39,930 --> 00:04:44,330 She's got walls up all around her. You're giving her an olive branch and an 74 00:04:44,330 --> 00:04:47,310 olive tree and an olive orchard. So move on. 75 00:04:55,590 --> 00:04:56,590 It's not bad. 76 00:04:57,930 --> 00:04:59,350 You want some stuff to pack? 77 00:05:00,510 --> 00:05:01,510 It's chilly there. 78 00:05:02,050 --> 00:05:03,050 Yes. 79 00:05:03,660 --> 00:05:05,900 I don't think I was ready for that forecast. 80 00:05:06,220 --> 00:05:07,860 I'm going to need some sweaters. 81 00:05:08,340 --> 00:05:09,720 You ready for me to leave? 82 00:05:10,020 --> 00:05:11,100 Am I? 83 00:05:11,380 --> 00:05:12,380 Oh, 84 00:05:12,700 --> 00:05:13,700 it's like that. 85 00:05:14,660 --> 00:05:17,080 Baby Tucker will be here in seven weeks. 86 00:05:17,540 --> 00:05:22,180 And I am headed to Chicago tonight for another 10 weeks. 87 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:26,620 So I'm going to be flying back and forth to make it all happen. 88 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:28,000 You ready to go? 89 00:05:28,340 --> 00:05:32,420 I'm super excited about having a... 90 00:05:33,140 --> 00:05:38,800 real part of substance on a TV show. But at the same time, there's so much stuff 91 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:43,660 at home that I feel like I'm going to be missing out on. We got this baby that's 92 00:05:43,660 --> 00:05:44,519 on the way. 93 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:49,220 You've been chasing this acting thing for a minute, so it's time for this to 94 00:05:49,220 --> 00:05:54,140 happen. You know what I mean? I'm not totally into the sex scenes, but... 95 00:05:55,380 --> 00:05:58,940 Well, I'm thankful that you're trying to be understanding. 96 00:05:59,380 --> 00:06:01,960 I'm trying. And you're being such a great husband. 97 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:05,540 Why would you get over it? You got to come get close and hug. 98 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:07,320 I'm okay. 99 00:06:08,540 --> 00:06:11,280 I want you to be okay with this. 100 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:14,960 I am. I've never said I don't want you to do it. 101 00:06:15,620 --> 00:06:18,540 It's just not the easiest thing, but I'm going to be all right. 102 00:06:19,660 --> 00:06:21,560 If you're going to do it, you got to do it. 103 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:23,420 So you don't want to be whack. 104 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:25,410 Oh. Hell no. So. 105 00:06:25,790 --> 00:06:27,070 I'm not going to be whack. 106 00:06:28,170 --> 00:06:30,230 Don't be confident you're going to be good. 107 00:06:32,030 --> 00:06:33,030 Don't be all right. 108 00:06:33,270 --> 00:06:36,170 So what are y 'all off doing? Are you going to be there when the baby comes? 109 00:06:37,730 --> 00:06:42,990 I'm definitely coming home. I'm going to hold that week. But the way it's 110 00:06:42,990 --> 00:06:49,170 looking, it could possibly go past the date that our delivery is happening. 111 00:06:49,590 --> 00:06:53,450 We can get like a tour bus to drive us to Chicago for the. 112 00:06:54,030 --> 00:06:55,530 Those last few weeks of taping. 113 00:06:55,790 --> 00:06:59,430 In other words... You're saying last few weeks? I can't be away from my newborn 114 00:06:59,430 --> 00:07:05,490 baby. I just want to be, like, the first body that she's holding on to when she 115 00:07:05,490 --> 00:07:09,810 comes out. She's not hearing my voice while she's in the womb. 116 00:07:10,050 --> 00:07:11,790 I just wanted her to bond with me. 117 00:07:12,330 --> 00:07:15,010 We got to work. We got to work together. I'll just be back and forth. 118 00:07:15,290 --> 00:07:19,690 It's so much stuff we got going on, but I still was trying to figure out if 119 00:07:19,690 --> 00:07:22,030 there was going to be time for us to, like... 120 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:25,700 Get like a little marriage counseling session in. 121 00:07:26,260 --> 00:07:30,000 Do you have some hidden problems that you're not telling me? No. I mean, I 122 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:34,400 feel like we've had a couple moments in this last couple months where either you 123 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:36,500 got on my damn nerves or I got on your nerves. 124 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:40,460 You're like, uh, this is too. No, no. It's like scared of success. 125 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:44,180 Nobody's scared of success. Don't try to talk to me like you just like, oh, you 126 00:07:44,180 --> 00:07:45,740 way more successful than me. 127 00:07:46,620 --> 00:07:47,880 I'm just, you know. 128 00:07:48,220 --> 00:07:52,180 Trying to be proactive and not wait until we do have a problem. 129 00:07:52,420 --> 00:07:53,420 Yeah, we need a counselor. 130 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:54,860 You need some counseling. 131 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:56,099 Mm -hmm. 132 00:07:56,100 --> 00:07:57,100 Yeah. 133 00:07:57,800 --> 00:07:59,180 All right, let's do it. I'm ready. 134 00:07:59,780 --> 00:08:03,220 Okay. I got some stuff to get off my chest. I got a lot of stuff that I need 135 00:08:03,220 --> 00:08:04,059 talk about. 136 00:08:04,060 --> 00:08:05,440 You let me know your schedule. 137 00:08:06,460 --> 00:08:09,640 My next off day. If you can be available for it, I'll be there. 138 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:13,280 Okay? All right. 139 00:08:14,020 --> 00:08:14,979 All right, babe. 140 00:08:14,980 --> 00:08:16,420 Let me get my stuff. 141 00:08:17,830 --> 00:08:19,790 Okay. Coming up next. 142 00:08:20,150 --> 00:08:24,170 It's going to be especially important to make sure that in the event of divorce, 143 00:08:24,410 --> 00:08:25,910 he is disinherited from everything. 144 00:08:39,850 --> 00:08:42,970 If you're here to look at the wigs, they're located over here. 145 00:08:43,630 --> 00:08:46,610 There are more in the bag that we can show you. 146 00:08:58,990 --> 00:09:02,510 Looks like you've been in my closet, bitch. Well, honey, uh... You're dressed 147 00:09:02,510 --> 00:09:04,410 like me, honey. I didn't know that we're gonna be twins today. 148 00:09:04,750 --> 00:09:09,190 Look, I don't know where my friendship is gonna go with Nene in the future, and 149 00:09:09,190 --> 00:09:13,270 the last thing I need is this damn Greek tragedy to set me back. 150 00:09:13,470 --> 00:09:18,130 I was not feeling you, honey, in Greece on the last day. Right! Because I was 151 00:09:18,130 --> 00:09:19,770 saying, you know, we've come a long way. 152 00:09:20,350 --> 00:09:23,510 And how dare you try to make fun of... I was not. You sure? 153 00:09:23,730 --> 00:09:26,530 I promise you. You've definitely made an effort. I did. 154 00:09:26,730 --> 00:09:28,430 And we were just trying to make light of it, honestly. 155 00:09:28,670 --> 00:09:29,670 It was no shade. 156 00:09:29,870 --> 00:09:33,450 It was like, you know, let's just kind of end it on a fun note. Right. And I 157 00:09:33,450 --> 00:09:36,130 going to represent you very well, honey. Let me see how you were going to do me 158 00:09:36,130 --> 00:09:37,450 all this improvisation. 159 00:09:37,670 --> 00:09:40,930 What you need to understand is I was trying to be a friend to you, honey. I 160 00:09:40,930 --> 00:09:44,010 trying to show you some compassion, honey. Okay. But that's okay. You don't 161 00:09:44,010 --> 00:09:44,849 to worry about me. 162 00:09:44,850 --> 00:09:47,830 You don't have to worry about me because this peach right here, honey, I will be 163 00:09:47,830 --> 00:09:49,450 taking it to the coffin, honey. Okay? 164 00:09:49,870 --> 00:09:52,590 I will be dead, honey, holding a peach in my hand, bitch. 165 00:09:53,070 --> 00:09:53,929 I'm the one. 166 00:09:53,930 --> 00:09:55,930 H -B -I -C, honey. Okay, bitch. 167 00:09:56,210 --> 00:09:58,970 Okay, so please know that. From the beginning, bitch. Catching all these 168 00:09:58,970 --> 00:10:02,070 legs, bitch. You used to be from the beginning, bitch. You used to be long 169 00:10:02,070 --> 00:10:06,350 You was at home watching me, bitch. Honey, this is NeNe Leakes. Just 170 00:10:06,490 --> 00:10:08,070 honey, I'm the one. I'm the one, bitch. 171 00:10:08,310 --> 00:10:11,950 H -B -I -C, honey. H -B -I -C, bitch. The threat, bitch. The threat, bitch. 172 00:10:34,670 --> 00:10:38,310 We live in the same neighborhood, so we bump into each other all the time. Oh, 173 00:10:38,310 --> 00:10:43,050 so this is another animal print party I'm not invited to? I like this. It's a 174 00:10:43,050 --> 00:10:45,090 little secret meet -up. You know, let's dress alike. 175 00:10:45,790 --> 00:10:46,790 It's cute. 176 00:10:46,830 --> 00:10:49,150 Okay, y 'all make sure y 'all be in my event Friday at 12. 177 00:10:49,630 --> 00:10:54,730 It's my first little event, y 'all. We just received an amazing offer. 178 00:10:55,410 --> 00:11:01,110 Oh. They would love for you to just tell your story of pregnancy. I would love 179 00:11:01,110 --> 00:11:02,890 to help bring awareness to it. 180 00:11:03,660 --> 00:11:06,020 Charity has been a huge part of my life since childhood. 181 00:11:06,420 --> 00:11:09,840 My family's charity, Jose Feed the Hungry and Homeless, has been around for 182 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:14,960 decades. This luncheon is to introduce me as the celebrity ambassador for March 183 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:15,599 of Dimes. 184 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:20,740 We're just a bright color. My journey to have a child was really hard for me. 185 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:24,800 That's just something that I don't want any other woman to feel. I just love the 186 00:11:24,800 --> 00:11:29,240 fact that they support mommies on their journey to fertility, and so that's why 187 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:32,100 I am very happy to partner with them. 188 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:58,700 I have been better, 189 00:11:58,820 --> 00:12:00,400 but I'm okay. 190 00:12:00,990 --> 00:12:04,310 Tell me what's going on. What brings you back in? Well, there has definitely 191 00:12:04,310 --> 00:12:06,290 been some changes in my life. 192 00:12:06,890 --> 00:12:11,150 My husband and I have decided to separate. 193 00:12:11,550 --> 00:12:12,790 I'm so sorry. 194 00:12:13,210 --> 00:12:19,610 And now I just really don't know if we're going to divorce or if we're going 195 00:12:19,610 --> 00:12:20,930 try to make it work. 196 00:12:21,170 --> 00:12:27,670 I was hoping that my husband would have been open to counseling, which we've 197 00:12:27,670 --> 00:12:28,910 discussed many times. 198 00:12:29,950 --> 00:12:31,450 It just never happened. 199 00:12:32,350 --> 00:12:37,430 Now I really have to protect Brooklyn, make sure she's okay. 200 00:12:37,930 --> 00:12:44,250 Eventually, we will have to speak about what we're going to do about our 201 00:12:44,250 --> 00:12:48,970 marriage. But right now, there's just been no movement at all. 202 00:12:49,330 --> 00:12:53,030 I'm sorry you're going through that. You know, I'm a mom too, and so I know it's 203 00:12:53,030 --> 00:12:56,770 a lot. I just want to refocus my energy. 204 00:12:57,640 --> 00:13:01,140 and put it into myself and my daughter. So I think that there's two things you 205 00:13:01,140 --> 00:13:02,560 need to think about in this scenario. 206 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:08,040 One is what happens if you do formally get a divorce? 207 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:14,160 And the second is what your documents should look like until you make the 208 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:21,040 decision. Early on, when I first visited you, I wanted to definitely 209 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:26,780 set some things aside for her, but now I just want to make sure that no matter 210 00:13:26,780 --> 00:13:29,800 what happens, that she's taken care of. Yeah, of course, of course. 211 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:34,700 Have you given some thought to what you would want life to look like for 212 00:13:34,700 --> 00:13:37,120 Brooklyn if something were to happen to you? 213 00:13:39,220 --> 00:13:43,460 Financially speaking, I've already gotten certain things in place, but I 214 00:13:43,460 --> 00:13:48,660 just make sure that it's all in the trust. And I need everything to be 215 00:13:48,660 --> 00:13:50,560 by one person, and that's my Aunt Lisa. 216 00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:52,560 Okay. Would you want... 217 00:13:52,860 --> 00:13:59,660 your husband to be able to access that money at all no no no because there is 218 00:13:59,660 --> 00:14:03,560 prenup it's going to be especially important during this time to make sure 219 00:14:03,560 --> 00:14:08,500 it's in your documents now in the event of divorce he is disinherited from 220 00:14:08,500 --> 00:14:11,600 everything i'm not looking for 221 00:14:12,890 --> 00:14:17,010 A payday or anything like that. I mean, I feel like I make more money than him 222 00:14:17,010 --> 00:14:19,670 anyway. And I definitely have more assets. 223 00:14:20,430 --> 00:14:26,250 So my concern is I don't want a nasty divorce. I just want him to be able to 224 00:14:26,250 --> 00:14:27,990 take care of his child. 225 00:14:28,290 --> 00:14:34,090 If Mark and I choose to move forward with a divorce, I want to be protected 226 00:14:34,090 --> 00:14:36,830 that I don't have to fight for. 227 00:14:37,450 --> 00:14:39,290 me to keep the things that I have. 228 00:14:39,510 --> 00:14:42,750 I just want to make sure that things are fair. 229 00:14:42,990 --> 00:14:47,990 Well, I hope that he will see what it's doing to you and what this is doing to 230 00:14:47,990 --> 00:14:51,870 Brooklyn and realize this is not what I want for my life. 231 00:14:53,330 --> 00:14:54,330 Falling apart. 232 00:14:54,550 --> 00:14:55,550 Sorry. 233 00:14:59,410 --> 00:15:04,490 I'm so glad you have Lisa to be your trustee and to help you through this 234 00:15:04,490 --> 00:15:06,350 situation. Yeah. Yeah. 235 00:15:06,940 --> 00:15:10,280 Unless you have more questions for me, I'll plan to talk to you about the 236 00:15:10,280 --> 00:15:13,440 documents and then get them over to you. Okay. 237 00:15:13,820 --> 00:15:18,520 Once you have everything signed, we'll move your assets into your trust, and 238 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:22,580 hopefully you'll just check this off of your list so that you can get on with 239 00:15:22,580 --> 00:15:23,580 the rest of your life. 240 00:15:23,980 --> 00:15:24,980 Okay, good. 241 00:15:25,620 --> 00:15:26,620 I like that. 242 00:15:28,660 --> 00:15:29,740 Coming up next. 243 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:32,120 You don't want to talk to Mommy? I do. 244 00:15:33,060 --> 00:15:34,560 Okay, so let's talk to Mommy. 245 00:15:49,930 --> 00:15:51,090 Do you want to check on mommy? 246 00:15:51,530 --> 00:15:56,090 Oh, there she goes. 247 00:15:56,890 --> 00:16:00,990 Remember I went in the Chuck E. Cheese? 248 00:16:01,530 --> 00:16:03,630 Oh, yep. I took him to Chuck E. Cheese. 249 00:16:04,490 --> 00:16:05,530 Did you have a good time? 250 00:16:06,450 --> 00:16:07,710 That was kind of fun. 251 00:16:08,890 --> 00:16:11,070 Mommy can't see that. 252 00:16:11,310 --> 00:16:14,790 You got to talk to mommy. We got like professional photos. 253 00:16:15,210 --> 00:16:16,210 You know Miss Mommy? 254 00:16:20,300 --> 00:16:21,720 Okay, so let's talk to mommy. 255 00:16:22,300 --> 00:16:23,340 Why are you crying? 256 00:16:23,580 --> 00:16:25,920 Look at me. Look at me. Haze. 257 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:27,920 It 258 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:34,500 is 259 00:16:34,500 --> 00:16:39,060 so hard to be away from my family and going to work. 260 00:16:39,300 --> 00:16:40,300 I miss you. 261 00:16:40,860 --> 00:16:42,260 I miss you too. 262 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:46,480 I be feeling like I suck as a parent sometimes. 263 00:16:46,900 --> 00:16:49,320 I've made it no secret. I definitely... 264 00:16:49,820 --> 00:16:53,280 need to figure out work -life balance. 265 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:56,120 Love you. 266 00:16:56,860 --> 00:16:57,920 Hey, say love you. 267 00:16:58,200 --> 00:16:59,200 I love you. 268 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:01,360 See you later. I love you too. 269 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:03,660 Give daddy some love. 270 00:17:04,300 --> 00:17:05,640 Oh, boy, buddy. 271 00:17:06,500 --> 00:17:07,540 You're all right. 272 00:17:08,700 --> 00:17:09,700 You're okay. 273 00:17:18,760 --> 00:17:19,760 How cute is it in here? 274 00:17:20,160 --> 00:17:23,380 You can go ahead and take a seat right there. Okay. And I'm going to go ahead 275 00:17:23,380 --> 00:17:25,260 and start changing him into this outfit. 276 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:26,520 Okay. 277 00:17:26,819 --> 00:17:32,500 Maverick Leonard Sterling was born, weighing in at 5 pounds, 7 ounces, 21 278 00:17:32,500 --> 00:17:35,600 inches. Baby time. Baby Maverick's on his way. 279 00:17:35,900 --> 00:17:39,720 This was literally my shortest labor, which was 22 hours. 280 00:17:40,740 --> 00:17:45,200 Well, the last two I got induced. This is not an abduction. This is definitely 281 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:46,200 not an abduction. 282 00:17:47,020 --> 00:17:50,100 Listen, I know I said I wanted five kids. 283 00:17:50,340 --> 00:17:53,820 I just don't know if I want them all to sit in my stomach. 284 00:17:54,360 --> 00:17:55,940 We will figure that out later. 285 00:17:56,920 --> 00:17:59,680 There you go. Oh my gosh, he's so handsome. 286 00:18:25,420 --> 00:18:26,800 Nice to meet you. Hey, girly. 287 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:28,880 God. 288 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:30,660 You remember my mom? 289 00:18:30,880 --> 00:18:32,420 Of course I remember your mom. 290 00:18:33,020 --> 00:18:35,020 Hi. Good to see you. 291 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:37,120 All right, I'm here to pick up my son. 292 00:18:38,660 --> 00:18:40,600 Thank you, guys. Thank you for having him. 293 00:18:40,840 --> 00:18:42,120 He's so little. 294 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:43,640 He is perfect. 295 00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:48,620 You look at all cool and flowery. Once you realize you can put on a pair of 296 00:18:48,620 --> 00:18:51,000 jeans. Baby, I got a pair of jeans on right now. 297 00:18:54,969 --> 00:18:58,350 This baby looks like Mike. Because that nose is strong. 298 00:18:58,670 --> 00:18:59,670 You're right. 299 00:19:00,450 --> 00:19:03,850 Can you please tell your daughter not to be pregnant at least for a year so we 300 00:19:03,850 --> 00:19:05,970 can hang out and go have some cocktails and have fun? 301 00:19:06,190 --> 00:19:08,030 All right, from your lips to God's ears. 302 00:19:08,570 --> 00:19:09,570 She makes it look so easy. 303 00:19:10,510 --> 00:19:12,210 Till you're at her house. 304 00:19:13,950 --> 00:19:16,370 What's going on with the house? When is the closing? 305 00:19:16,810 --> 00:19:21,510 On Friday. Okay. Mike and I have gone through hell and high water to find the 306 00:19:21,510 --> 00:19:22,329 perfect house. 307 00:19:22,330 --> 00:19:25,990 I'm just happy to be settled. That is the best feeling ever. 308 00:19:26,390 --> 00:19:30,870 Five finished bedrooms, three -car garage, four -sided brick. It's 309 00:19:31,510 --> 00:19:32,510 How was Greece? 310 00:19:32,750 --> 00:19:36,270 We had some really good times and some really bad times. Why the hell do you 311 00:19:36,270 --> 00:19:39,410 all the way to Greece and have a bad time? Girl, what did I tell you? Okay, 312 00:19:39,410 --> 00:19:42,910 kind of prepped the girls and just said, look, I know that everyone's not in a 313 00:19:42,910 --> 00:19:43,910 great place with Kenya. 314 00:19:44,370 --> 00:19:46,310 However... Y 'all going on her trip. I have to say. 315 00:19:46,670 --> 00:19:48,870 To my surprise, Nene was gracious. 316 00:19:49,190 --> 00:19:50,190 Kenya just wasn't receptive. 317 00:19:50,610 --> 00:19:54,010 I would have appreciated if Kenya had at least a fit or, hey, you know what, 318 00:19:54,050 --> 00:19:55,450 Nene, I appreciate what you're trying to do. 319 00:19:56,050 --> 00:19:57,050 I'm just not ready. 320 00:19:57,690 --> 00:19:59,730 Yeah. Well, that's it. That ain't Kenya. 321 00:19:59,990 --> 00:20:00,990 That's a chill approach. 322 00:20:01,870 --> 00:20:04,710 But anyway, we ended up going to a vineyard. Oh, yay. 323 00:20:04,990 --> 00:20:08,830 By the way, let me get to the shade now. So I take a wine exam in Greece. 324 00:20:09,070 --> 00:20:11,530 How many red wines are there? 325 00:20:12,250 --> 00:20:13,250 I'll wait. Several. 326 00:20:13,830 --> 00:20:15,630 You know, I'm saying, this is my girl. 327 00:20:15,910 --> 00:20:20,510 But did you feel a way? I just felt like it was going on and on and on. I was 328 00:20:20,510 --> 00:20:21,429 waiting for Kay. 329 00:20:21,430 --> 00:20:23,050 If she even said anything. 330 00:20:24,350 --> 00:20:27,490 So later on that night, Portia and Tanya decided to have like a little burn 331 00:20:27,490 --> 00:20:30,730 party. Kay and I had our conversation. She received what I said. 332 00:20:31,030 --> 00:20:34,070 She said she didn't mean nothing. She listened to me, and then I listened to 333 00:20:34,070 --> 00:20:35,510 respond, and we were good. 334 00:20:35,750 --> 00:20:39,110 If I threw a bitch away every time they pissed me off, I wouldn't have no damn 335 00:20:39,110 --> 00:20:41,350 friend. I don't want to just... 336 00:20:41,790 --> 00:20:45,030 Throw a friendship away over something that an apology can make right. 337 00:20:45,410 --> 00:20:48,730 Nene was like, well, I'm glad it wasn't me. She always feels like I just gave 338 00:20:48,730 --> 00:20:49,569 Kenya a pass. 339 00:20:49,570 --> 00:20:52,410 And that's not true. You're allowed to be different with your friends if you 340 00:20:52,410 --> 00:20:53,049 want to. 341 00:20:53,050 --> 00:20:55,670 Like you. I mean, what are we talking about here? 342 00:20:56,070 --> 00:21:00,310 I know. Once it got heated, Nene definitely brought up the Mark stuff, 343 00:21:00,370 --> 00:21:02,270 No. Guys, what does it like you? 344 00:21:02,790 --> 00:21:04,110 I love him, girl. 345 00:21:04,590 --> 00:21:06,150 Nene was throwing popcorn at Kenya. 346 00:21:07,070 --> 00:21:10,270 Trying to spit on her. Their little situation went way. She didn't spit on 347 00:21:10,530 --> 00:21:11,530 Yeah. 348 00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:15,040 That's when you throw hands. 349 00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:16,139 Oh, my God. 350 00:21:16,140 --> 00:21:19,800 There was a lot that happened in between that. Something great happened. What? 351 00:21:20,780 --> 00:21:24,540 Portia ended up pulling NeNe aside, and they ended up finally having their 352 00:21:24,540 --> 00:21:26,520 conversation. Everything shifted after that. 353 00:21:26,860 --> 00:21:28,580 Okay, so grief was kind of kumbaya. 354 00:21:28,820 --> 00:21:29,920 Oh, no, for sure. 355 00:21:30,180 --> 00:21:31,800 Okay, it wasn't a grief tragedy. 356 00:21:32,220 --> 00:21:33,220 Oh, no, it was not. 357 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:38,140 Tanya and Kenya actually had a good conversation about the cookie lady and 358 00:21:38,140 --> 00:21:41,440 that stuff. You know, we still have a few issues in the group. At this point, 359 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:44,800 you're looking for resolution, some people are at least open to meet you 360 00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:47,160 halfway. Someone's waking up. Someone's hungry. 361 00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:48,979 Come here. 362 00:21:48,980 --> 00:21:52,580 Your hands are full, so I'm going to open up your gift for you. 363 00:21:53,420 --> 00:21:55,640 He's going to have lots of money, so I got him a little bank. 364 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:57,540 That is so cute. 365 00:21:58,020 --> 00:22:00,440 Right? You like it? He's smiling. Look, he's smiling. See? 366 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:01,640 I did the right thing. 367 00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:04,860 Coming up next. 368 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:08,140 Kenyon and her estranged husband, he's had multiple affairs. 369 00:22:08,700 --> 00:22:09,700 Uh -uh. 370 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:35,479 No, you call me Stacey. 371 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:36,480 Stacey, okay. 372 00:22:36,620 --> 00:22:39,160 It's so good to see you. It's so good to see you, too. 373 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:41,200 I know. This is little PJ. 374 00:22:41,700 --> 00:22:42,299 Oh, my gosh. 375 00:22:42,300 --> 00:22:43,660 And this is my mother. 376 00:22:43,940 --> 00:22:47,720 Oh, my gosh. Hello. How are you? I'm Stacey. I'm so happy to be here. 377 00:22:47,940 --> 00:22:53,040 Yeah. This is Marcia Dimes' wife. Oh, well, I am so excited. It's such an 378 00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:55,580 that you guys chose me. You're so thrilled. 379 00:22:55,940 --> 00:22:57,340 Oh, my goodness. 380 00:22:58,420 --> 00:23:03,200 So many women of color are dying at higher percentages giving birth. 381 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:06,580 Healthy moms, strong babies. That's everything we're about. Exactly. If more 382 00:23:06,580 --> 00:23:11,020 attention is given towards that, we can have better health care in place. You 383 00:23:11,020 --> 00:23:12,780 can have healthy babies and healthy mothers. 384 00:23:13,060 --> 00:23:15,120 A lot of the women who are coming are mothers. 385 00:23:15,360 --> 00:23:19,200 Some of them are hopeful mothers -to -be. Is it okay for some of them to tell 386 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:19,999 their story? 387 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:21,860 We want them to tell their story. 388 00:23:22,060 --> 00:23:25,720 Being an ambassador means that I am going to represent the charity. 389 00:23:25,980 --> 00:23:27,200 How you doing? 390 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:31,960 And I'm really... excited to get my family and my friends involved because 391 00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:34,920 is something that we all can relate to. Hey, pretty girl. 392 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:36,760 You look gorgeous. 393 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:38,000 Thank you. 394 00:24:26,860 --> 00:24:31,600 on my way over there and kid her strange husband he's had multiple affairs a 395 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:38,320 what it's a blog or she is a blog but 396 00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:43,020 but you know what i noticed today she has a ring back on so i felt hopeful oh 397 00:24:43,020 --> 00:24:47,580 maybe it was the cookie lady and she's confused about where the origin of that 398 00:24:47,580 --> 00:24:51,180 story well you know what i said i don't think it's real it's fake but it's very 399 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:56,880 Kenya would bring the cookie lady to face off with Tanya, and you got your 400 00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:58,560 cheating mess to deal with. 401 00:24:58,940 --> 00:25:02,020 Tanya, go find the lady and sit her right in the front of Kenya. 402 00:25:02,780 --> 00:25:05,400 I'm not going to say I don't think he's done it. I'm just going to say the story 403 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,960 is fake. You never know. You don't know nobody, bitch. 404 00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:09,160 Well, 405 00:25:10,100 --> 00:25:11,100 I did my first 16. 406 00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:12,259 Uh -uh. 407 00:25:12,260 --> 00:25:14,320 How was it? It was extreme. 408 00:25:33,130 --> 00:25:38,710 days of shooting has been awesome we are on the set of the shot oh my god season 409 00:25:38,710 --> 00:25:42,610 three is gonna be so crazy y 'all i only have to work like a few days a week 410 00:25:42,610 --> 00:25:47,170 basically i'm flying home on all my days off what's i say todd is not happy 411 00:25:47,170 --> 00:25:51,070 about the sex scene and when i'm on set i'm not really on my phone like that i 412 00:25:51,070 --> 00:25:54,870 went almost the whole day and didn't call and by the time he called because i 413 00:25:54,870 --> 00:25:57,130 had hit like on a picture on instagram 414 00:26:14,220 --> 00:26:16,340 This is so beautiful, though, you guys. Isn't it gorgeous? 415 00:26:17,260 --> 00:26:18,159 She's good. 416 00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:21,120 She was going to try to come, but I was like, Eva, can you just lay down for 417 00:26:21,120 --> 00:26:22,120 five minutes? 418 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:28,320 Okay, ladies, thank you for coming to this event. I would like today to be a 419 00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:33,980 conversation and to be the example for you all to follow in speaking out about 420 00:26:33,980 --> 00:26:36,320 women's issues surrounding pregnancy. 421 00:26:38,420 --> 00:26:42,880 Six years ago, I suffered from a miscarriage at home alone. 422 00:26:44,830 --> 00:26:51,190 It was something I really haven't spoken about openly to this extent. The point 423 00:26:51,190 --> 00:26:56,070 is, if I were to have talked about it to other women or, you know, been more 424 00:26:56,070 --> 00:27:00,710 open, I would have realized that it is okay. It's about releasing all of that 425 00:27:00,710 --> 00:27:05,230 and having another woman tell you, I've been through this, I survived, and I'm 426 00:27:05,230 --> 00:27:08,810 willing to use my story to help other women. 427 00:27:10,500 --> 00:27:14,560 Everybody's got a story. Portia has invited you all to really share your 428 00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:16,840 today, if you have the willingness to share. 429 00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:19,080 I'll jump in. 430 00:27:19,380 --> 00:27:25,620 I found my forever mate later in life, and I got the news that I didn't really 431 00:27:25,620 --> 00:27:28,220 have a lot of egg reserves, so that's why it was so hard. 432 00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:32,500 I've recently started talking about it, and I find that there's a lot of 433 00:27:32,500 --> 00:27:34,280 strength in being able to say that to other women. 434 00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:37,540 Being a woman doesn't mean that... 435 00:27:37,770 --> 00:27:39,610 you're guaranteed to have children. 436 00:27:39,950 --> 00:27:43,510 We put pressure on ourselves and I think it's just nice to be able to share 437 00:27:43,510 --> 00:27:48,990 this. I nearly died having Brooklyn and you should never shame another woman for 438 00:27:48,990 --> 00:27:53,190 not being able to have children because those are things you cannot change. 439 00:27:53,570 --> 00:27:55,110 I just appreciate this forum. 440 00:27:56,070 --> 00:28:01,410 I wasn't gonna speak. 441 00:28:01,810 --> 00:28:04,390 Speak a little louder for this side. You know, you can talk louder than that, 442 00:28:04,390 --> 00:28:05,390 Marla. I know, girl. 443 00:28:06,370 --> 00:28:11,280 So... I love children. I have 16 nieces and nephews. And of course, how would I 444 00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:12,300 not want a child of my own? 445 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:17,100 Things that happened to me in my past has made that a problem. 446 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:22,880 So I've had two atopic pregnancies and I was so mad at God for so long. Like, 447 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:27,180 why me? Why can't I have a baby? Why can't I have someone to love me forever? 448 00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:32,920 All the years I've been around the girls, I've always been so tough. 449 00:28:33,620 --> 00:28:37,040 But I've just realized I'm here for my nieces and nephews. 450 00:28:37,370 --> 00:28:41,270 But you know what? Since my nephews have been around, you can't hurt me. 451 00:28:41,610 --> 00:28:43,150 And I'm okay with showing that. 452 00:28:44,230 --> 00:28:46,110 And I'm a mother to you. 453 00:28:46,710 --> 00:28:52,110 So since I've got my nephews, I realize, like, maybe this is why God won't let 454 00:28:52,110 --> 00:28:52,909 me have my own. 455 00:28:52,910 --> 00:28:57,310 I did have a miscarriage before. You know, it's always great to have a 456 00:28:57,310 --> 00:29:00,990 system that you can go to to lift you up, and it is beautiful. 457 00:29:02,070 --> 00:29:06,330 Hearing what Marlo said with Shia, my water broke. 458 00:29:06,620 --> 00:29:10,680 like a scene from a movie. And we get to the hospital and got the epidural, 459 00:29:10,900 --> 00:29:15,580 started complaining about, I still feel this extreme amount of pain. It didn't 460 00:29:15,580 --> 00:29:16,239 go through. 461 00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:19,500 So literally, I've been feeling that pain all that time. 462 00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:20,960 And of course, they gave me apologies. 463 00:29:21,260 --> 00:29:25,780 And she gave me the epidural, kicked in right away, got the C -section, and went 464 00:29:25,780 --> 00:29:28,820 to the recovery room. But they wouldn't let me go back. And I'm like, what's 465 00:29:28,820 --> 00:29:31,160 going on? They're like, we're having a hard time for your blood to clot. 466 00:29:31,500 --> 00:29:35,200 And I think about how blessed I am to be here, to be able to share my story and 467 00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:40,340 raise my daughter. daughter and have a daughter we can't be ashamed of what our 468 00:29:40,340 --> 00:29:46,960 story is i remember when you text me and you were like i think my water 469 00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:52,220 broke and it was so early on that one and i said where's your husband do you 470 00:29:52,220 --> 00:29:54,920 need me to come to the hospital i don't know where portia i think portia was 471 00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:58,600 doing something else working that day and we weren't even like bessie's like 472 00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:02,700 guys are like where are you i'm coming to where you are you are good during the 473 00:30:02,700 --> 00:30:06,750 pregnancy because you were ahead of me So you could tell me what was going on. 474 00:30:07,110 --> 00:30:12,130 I didn't know that Kenya and Shamia were so close that Shamia would have called 475 00:30:12,130 --> 00:30:16,310 her when her water broke. To me, it was a little weird that that would have been 476 00:30:16,310 --> 00:30:17,630 her first person to call. 477 00:30:19,910 --> 00:30:21,590 Will you stand up, please? Oh, sure. 478 00:30:22,170 --> 00:30:23,830 We want to celebrate motherhood. 479 00:30:24,090 --> 00:30:27,410 We also want to do better to make sure that more women who are trying to become 480 00:30:27,410 --> 00:30:30,650 mothers don't have some of the challenges that others of us have 481 00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:35,460 We actually commissioned a piece of art from an African -American woman to 482 00:30:35,460 --> 00:30:38,660 really capture the beauty of motherhood. So we want to give this to you as just 483 00:30:38,660 --> 00:30:40,820 a small gift for our partnership. 484 00:30:41,100 --> 00:30:42,500 Thank you so much. 485 00:30:42,740 --> 00:30:47,560 And I hope you'll take away from this that your stories do have power. And I 486 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:50,480 want you to encourage more women to share their stories as well. 487 00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:53,680 I love the fact that these women were so open and vulnerable. 488 00:30:53,900 --> 00:30:56,440 And I just thank God for my journey. 489 00:30:56,880 --> 00:31:00,860 The ups and the downs, because now I can use my life as a testimony to help 490 00:31:00,860 --> 00:31:01,719 somebody else. 491 00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:03,540 Ooh, it's going to be an ugly one. Like, what? 492 00:31:06,580 --> 00:31:09,780 PJ is the prize at the end of the rainbow. 493 00:31:10,220 --> 00:31:11,220 Ooh, big mama. 494 00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:12,760 Big mama. 495 00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:14,520 Coming up next. 496 00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:19,300 When you come back, you book every hour that you have. It just doesn't make 497 00:31:19,300 --> 00:31:21,300 sense. Like, at a certain point, come up. 498 00:31:35,660 --> 00:31:40,580 I'm just cutting up some sweet potatoes for Brooklyn. She loves sweet potatoes. 499 00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:42,420 She loves actually any and everything. 500 00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:47,240 So much stuff I have to do, Lisa. It's kind of driving me crazy. It's just been 501 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:48,240 a little difficult. 502 00:31:48,540 --> 00:31:52,820 I got, everything is selling like crazy. Well, that's good. 503 00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:58,880 No, it's excellent. It's just that it's a lot of work. And because I'm down and 504 00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:00,860 dealing with, you know, all this personal stuff. 505 00:32:01,100 --> 00:32:02,620 How are you doing? 506 00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:04,480 I'm just trying to focus on business. 507 00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:07,000 I'm trying to focus on Brooklyn. 508 00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:11,240 You know, where do you start with all this? It's just hard to, you know, 509 00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:16,900 out. I just don't know how to even make the visitation work. 510 00:32:17,220 --> 00:32:20,760 Yes, he can see her whenever he comes here. And what about when he comes here? 511 00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:21,719 Will he stay here? 512 00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:23,660 Where is he going to be? Oh, no, I don't want him to stay here. 513 00:32:23,980 --> 00:32:28,500 I've never been separated before, and I lost my friend. 514 00:32:29,370 --> 00:32:34,210 I lost being able to communicate with someone every day to make sure they know 515 00:32:34,210 --> 00:32:39,350 that you're OK and to suffer a lot of that. It's just been very difficult. 516 00:32:39,690 --> 00:32:44,330 I want you to be happy. I want to be happy, too. And I could have been happy 517 00:32:44,330 --> 00:32:50,550 my marriage if I felt like Mark was in it to be happy as well. 518 00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:55,240 One of my issues with him is like not being able to just have a conversation 519 00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:59,720 without yelling or anger or crossing lines. Like, I know it's not me. 520 00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:05,160 And I know how hard I've fought for this marriage. I stopped caring about my 521 00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:10,800 feelings. And all I was doing is just trying to be everything he wanted me to 522 00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:15,640 and work through everything as best I could to keep my family together. 523 00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:20,120 I just feel like it's just always been this block up with him. 524 00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:25,520 not letting me completely into his life. 525 00:33:26,020 --> 00:33:30,920 It's just a lot of things I felt like I was in the dark about. 526 00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:37,740 There's a large part of him or the relationship that I was just never privy 527 00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:42,620 For example, I'm not allowed to speak to his mother or father. 528 00:33:42,860 --> 00:33:46,560 And if you don't know everything about that person's life, you're not being let 529 00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:52,350 in. No one deserves to be in a miserable situation or being mistreated. So if 530 00:33:52,350 --> 00:33:54,250 it's best for you and Mark to split. 531 00:33:54,550 --> 00:33:57,470 I have to do what's best for Brooklyn. I don't even care about me. I just care 532 00:33:57,470 --> 00:34:01,450 about what is Brooklyn learning? What is that going to make of her? 533 00:34:01,830 --> 00:34:03,090 What can I help do? 534 00:34:03,830 --> 00:34:08,770 I went to go see the estate planner and I wanted to make sure that Brooklyn 535 00:34:08,770 --> 00:34:12,710 would be taken care of. And so that meant, oh my God, what? 536 00:34:13,230 --> 00:34:17,590 you know, what do I do if something does happen to me or happen to Mark? 537 00:34:17,909 --> 00:34:23,810 And the one thing we did agree on is that we wanted you to be able to take 538 00:34:23,810 --> 00:34:24,529 of Brooklyn. 539 00:34:24,530 --> 00:34:26,290 Oh, that's sweet. 540 00:34:26,969 --> 00:34:33,230 So you decide everything is going to happen to her if I'm not in the picture. 541 00:34:33,570 --> 00:34:36,870 Okay. You're the only person in the world I trust like this. 542 00:34:37,090 --> 00:34:41,989 Lisa is my grandmother's daughter, my father's sister, and she's Brooklyn's 543 00:34:41,989 --> 00:34:47,780 aunt. Lisa is my power of attorney because we grew up in the same household 544 00:34:47,780 --> 00:34:48,900 we have the same values. 545 00:34:49,199 --> 00:34:51,679 I know she would honor my wishes. 546 00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:56,480 As we mature and grow up, we realize how important family is. 547 00:34:57,020 --> 00:34:58,740 I'm very appreciative. 548 00:34:59,260 --> 00:35:01,040 You're going to make me cry, now stop. 549 00:35:02,340 --> 00:35:06,440 You know, since Mom died, it's just been hard because she knew how much I loved 550 00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:07,440 her. 551 00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:10,920 And I know she would be sad that it didn't work out with Mark. 552 00:35:13,370 --> 00:35:17,790 Because I really felt like she was holding on before she died to make sure 553 00:35:17,790 --> 00:35:22,470 I had somebody that would take care of me and love me the way I wanted to be 554 00:35:22,470 --> 00:35:25,550 loved. I just wish she would have seen and met Brooklyn. 555 00:35:26,010 --> 00:35:27,010 Me too. 556 00:35:27,070 --> 00:35:30,370 I could teach Brooklyn the same way Mom taught us. 557 00:35:31,630 --> 00:35:36,750 How to be ladies, respectable, loving, caring. 558 00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:41,460 Well, you know I will take care of her to the best of my ability, and then some 559 00:35:41,460 --> 00:35:43,800 knowing that I have a big responsibility. 560 00:35:44,420 --> 00:35:45,420 Mm -hmm. 561 00:35:46,060 --> 00:35:47,060 I'm really disappointed. 562 00:35:47,220 --> 00:35:50,480 You don't know how much I love you. I love you, too. To have someone who I 563 00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:55,300 really trust and love to help me through this makes it a lot better. 564 00:36:13,260 --> 00:36:14,260 What's up, man? 565 00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:15,480 Nothing much. 566 00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:18,400 Oh, boy, what you got going on? 567 00:36:18,820 --> 00:36:20,320 Oh, my gosh. 568 00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:24,740 It feels like I only came home for two seconds, and then Don Juan has already 569 00:36:24,740 --> 00:36:26,400 filled the schedule of everything. 570 00:36:26,940 --> 00:36:33,120 And like what? What you got to do? I got to host a rock nation luncheon for 571 00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:39,800 women in entertainment business, which is really a dope event, 572 00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:45,200 but I only really have, like, One day home. Well, two days home. 573 00:36:45,820 --> 00:36:50,780 So why you allow him to do it? It was a good thing to network with other women 574 00:36:50,780 --> 00:36:51,780 in the business. 575 00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:54,460 Okay. You need to do a little more networking with your family. 576 00:36:55,760 --> 00:37:00,100 When you come back, you book every hour that you have. It just doesn't make 577 00:37:00,100 --> 00:37:02,080 sense. Like at a certain point, come on. 578 00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:05,940 At a certain point, you got to say, you know what? 579 00:37:06,180 --> 00:37:07,740 I need this time with my family. 580 00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:14,280 Well, tomorrow I'm going to spend most of the day with Ace, because tomorrow... 581 00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:17,180 But you're not. He's going to play a game. He's not spending time with you. 582 00:37:18,740 --> 00:37:20,920 Yes, but I'm going to be there. 583 00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:26,800 You and I both knew that I wanted to start acting more, and you... Well, 584 00:37:26,820 --> 00:37:29,180 nobody's even contesting the acting thing. 585 00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:34,960 I support you. But outside of that, you've got to make time. Well, why don't 586 00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:35,960 come to Chicago? 587 00:37:36,410 --> 00:37:39,650 I can't come next week. I got stuff I'm doing. It's like you rolling different. 588 00:37:39,870 --> 00:37:45,690 Like, I'm not going to try to be funny. It did seem like you got a light bit 589 00:37:45,690 --> 00:37:51,810 weird when I had to do the sex scene. Any man does not want to see his wife on 590 00:37:51,810 --> 00:37:54,930 screen being touched by somebody else. 591 00:37:55,230 --> 00:37:56,230 It's fake. 592 00:37:57,170 --> 00:38:00,050 As fake as it is, nobody wants to see it. 593 00:38:07,240 --> 00:38:11,800 As fake as it is, nobody wants to see it. We did the sex scene. We spoke about 594 00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:16,300 it. I told you, I'm supporting you 100%. But at a certain point, you've got to 595 00:38:16,300 --> 00:38:17,540 give a little bit. 596 00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:20,260 It can't just be like everything you want to do. 597 00:38:20,540 --> 00:38:22,820 In two months, I'm not going to be able to do it all. 598 00:38:23,240 --> 00:38:25,420 Yeah, but we need you now. 599 00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:29,340 Acting was important, right? 600 00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:33,740 Yes. Okay, so you're doing the acting thing on top of all the other shit. 601 00:38:34,190 --> 00:38:38,310 So it's like, let some of that shit go, spend some time with your family, and 602 00:38:38,310 --> 00:38:41,870 then take your ass back off to Chicago to finish doing your acting thing. I 603 00:38:41,870 --> 00:38:43,870 guess I'm just trying to make everything work. 604 00:38:44,290 --> 00:38:46,870 I wanted to support Portia's fundraising event. 605 00:38:47,230 --> 00:38:50,790 I wanted to do something for my friend. 606 00:38:51,350 --> 00:38:53,170 I just thought it was a good idea. 607 00:38:53,970 --> 00:38:55,590 But maybe it wasn't. Dr. 608 00:38:55,810 --> 00:38:59,870 Jackie's having a fundraising event, and I wanted to support her. Go support 609 00:38:59,870 --> 00:39:02,030 them. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. 610 00:39:02,430 --> 00:39:05,870 No, don't act like that. Come on, man. Please don't be like that. 611 00:39:06,370 --> 00:39:08,290 I'm good. We'll catch you when you get back. 612 00:39:13,950 --> 00:39:15,010 I don't know, man. 613 00:39:15,770 --> 00:39:20,970 I sacrificed a lot to support your dreams. When I came into this situation 614 00:39:20,970 --> 00:39:22,130 you, I wasn't good enough. 615 00:39:22,370 --> 00:39:29,010 It was like I got to speedball fast enough to make a lot of money so I can 616 00:39:29,010 --> 00:39:29,788 good enough. 617 00:39:29,790 --> 00:39:30,790 You know what I'm saying? 618 00:39:31,630 --> 00:39:33,590 So, okay, I can't... Good enough to who? 619 00:39:34,370 --> 00:39:37,430 Good enough, not only to your mama, but the world. 620 00:39:37,870 --> 00:39:39,350 You know what I mean? It was a lot of pressure. 621 00:39:40,890 --> 00:39:41,890 Where you going? 622 00:39:42,070 --> 00:39:43,070 To get a tissue. 623 00:39:44,270 --> 00:39:49,130 It's very unfortunate for my husband that people always try to put him in the 624 00:39:49,130 --> 00:39:52,970 light of, like, he's some type of gold digger. I do feel your opportunity. 625 00:39:53,310 --> 00:39:54,510 What do you think I'm getting out of it? 626 00:39:55,850 --> 00:39:57,270 What you getting out of it? 627 00:39:57,740 --> 00:40:02,140 What he does, you know, it benefits me. What I do, it benefits him. Like, we're 628 00:40:02,140 --> 00:40:03,520 coming up together. 629 00:40:04,580 --> 00:40:06,420 I've given up the job situation. 630 00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:11,240 But you figured it out. Yeah, yeah. I figured it out to make everybody else 631 00:40:11,240 --> 00:40:12,240 happy. 632 00:40:12,580 --> 00:40:16,360 What do you mean? I don't do the shit that I like to do. Like, you know, 633 00:40:16,380 --> 00:40:20,300 production and TV and film. That's shit that I was doing before. I haven't 634 00:40:20,300 --> 00:40:24,380 really done that shit. And I didn't take jobs because jobs didn't pay me what I 635 00:40:24,380 --> 00:40:25,178 make now. 636 00:40:25,180 --> 00:40:26,760 I was able to become... 637 00:40:27,310 --> 00:40:29,610 A business entity that makes a lot of money. 638 00:40:30,910 --> 00:40:34,910 Everybody accepts the a lot of money guy. He's good. He's the best. He's 639 00:40:35,290 --> 00:40:36,630 But I'm not f***ing happy. 640 00:40:37,090 --> 00:40:39,510 Me starting a trucking company, I don't want to f***ing be a trucker. 641 00:40:40,550 --> 00:40:43,790 When you wanted to produce a movie, I was down with that. 642 00:40:44,370 --> 00:40:47,970 That's not my fault that you did not decide to move forward with it yet. 643 00:40:48,190 --> 00:40:52,030 I'm not really stepping out there because I'm so worried about making sure 644 00:40:52,030 --> 00:40:53,430 I stay this guy. 645 00:40:54,740 --> 00:40:57,400 You know, for me, I don't mind supporting you because I want your to 646 00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:01,380 That's with all my heart. But within that, we need you. 647 00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:05,980 I love my kids, but I want to spend time with you as well. 648 00:41:06,700 --> 00:41:08,180 I want to spend time with you too. 649 00:41:08,380 --> 00:41:09,380 Well, act like it. 650 00:41:09,720 --> 00:41:10,720 Act like it. 651 00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:15,980 And that's if you want to be here. If you don't really want to. Of course I 652 00:41:15,980 --> 00:41:16,980 to be here. 653 00:41:29,190 --> 00:41:30,510 Now you got me looking crazy. 654 00:41:31,410 --> 00:41:32,550 Why are you looking crazy? 655 00:41:32,790 --> 00:41:36,530 Because now I'm crying and I'm probably getting my makeup up and I still got to 656 00:41:36,530 --> 00:41:37,830 host this thing on dinner. 657 00:41:38,530 --> 00:41:41,630 I know we just had the conversation, but I've already agreed to do it. 658 00:41:42,410 --> 00:41:44,670 Okay, well, go do your thing, man. 659 00:41:46,410 --> 00:41:47,410 Go do your thing. 660 00:41:49,890 --> 00:41:50,890 I love you. 661 00:41:51,710 --> 00:41:52,710 I love you, too. 662 00:42:02,060 --> 00:42:08,340 I appreciate you putting up with me and my crazy, crazy life. 663 00:42:09,540 --> 00:42:11,780 Next time on The Real Housewives of Atlanta. 664 00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:18,800 What are 665 00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:25,460 we doing? Are we thinking about packing it up? He asked for it. 666 00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:27,780 This is not what I thought a marriage would be like. 667 00:42:28,020 --> 00:42:29,020 I'm getting ready to cut this man. 668 00:42:29,260 --> 00:42:30,660 Should we do a short squeeze? 669 00:42:31,310 --> 00:42:35,910 I don't think we should have a wedding. I'm going to have a wedding. 670 00:42:36,270 --> 00:42:37,810 Not tonight. 671 00:42:38,610 --> 00:42:43,370 You mean me. Tonight. Marley's donor, he's trying to get custody of Marley. 672 00:42:43,570 --> 00:42:44,570 Custody? 673 00:42:45,710 --> 00:42:52,710 You value your career, then you prioritize your friends, and then 674 00:42:52,710 --> 00:42:53,529 your family? 675 00:42:53,530 --> 00:42:55,430 I don't know if that makes total sense. 676 00:42:56,610 --> 00:43:00,410 For more information on The Real Housewives, go to bravotv .com. 56774

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