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Previously on The Real Housewives of
Atlanta.
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The issues that me and you have, those
are not issues that we have with our
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mother and our sister, right? It is an
issue.
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We're going to talk about it. I feel
like it's important for Dennis to
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my family directly because this directly
affected them. Cynthia, I want you to
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be my forever.
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If you know that someone's man in the
group is cheating, would
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you want to know? Why does she keep
looking at me?
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She was talking about you, Jay. I felt
like she was. Listen, I might have
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something on her.
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Oh!
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I got that wig!
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Why would you show it to everybody like
it's a trophy or something?
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Uh -oh. Does she not know that I am the
shade assassin?
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I got a problem with you now.
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I was gone with the wind, but now I'm
back and twice as fabulous.
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I'm living my dream, not above my means.
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This phoenix has risen, and I'm saying,
bye, ashes.
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The only time that I look back is to see
how far I've come.
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Don't check for me unless you got a
check for me.
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I'm on a spiritual journey and still
traveling first class.
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a little cake happy five months PJ your
daddy got this cake but he
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is out of town so we will present it to
you want to make a wish okay ready blow
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it out one two three
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What's going on with the event? You
haven't filled me in in the last couple
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days.
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No, don't grab mommy's earring off.
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Oh, she just snatched my earring.
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Oh,
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Brooklyn!
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Well,
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tell me about New York.
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I worked a lot.
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And NYU is still your... first choice.
Yep.
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What about Kayla? Did you and Kayla ever
link up or hang out at all?
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No. Y 'all live together and you're both
in New York at the same time and you
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don't even try to hang out that once.
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They don't like me very much. I don't
care.
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I don't care.
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Oh, you look like Noel, honey.
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You are giving me. I am in high school.
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And I have a locker combination. You're
in high school? Yes.
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Well, honey, these girls act like we're
in high school. Girl, you look too cute.
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Thank you. How are you?
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I'm doing good. You brought me to the
right place, though. I know. The only
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thing I can't have here is our
margaritas. This is where we have our
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at.
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I have a flight out to L .A. after this.
Mom, I'm going to be getting some
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tonight, honey. Yes, that's a soon -to
-be -Mrs. Hill moment.
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Yes, I'm actually going to have water
myself today.
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Well, honey, I hope I should have
brought a mug for this tea.
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Girl. Okay.
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I don't know how far it's going to go or
what. Well, I hope it's not going to go
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that far because, first of all, I don't
think it's that deep.
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Kenya actually really likes Tanya. That
she does. And Tanya seems like she likes
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Kenya. That she does. So I think we just
got a little off track.
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And hopefully we can bring it on back
today. Two things. I could appreciate
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Kenya feels about intentionally trying
to be embarrassed. Oh, that whole wig
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thing? But she's mad about that. And I
know that Kenya doesn't mean it that
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She needs to tell Kenya that she didn't
mean it that way. No, I'm telling you
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it's like a joke gone wrong. At this
point, I've spoken to both Kenya and
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I told Kenya that Kenya was indeed
talking about her in Toronto. She, for
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reason...
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just as, like, fun dinnertime
conversations, decided to, like, drop
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table. And then I let Kenya know that I
told Kenya.
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Hey. Hi. How are you? I'm good. How are
you?
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Thank you. I thought the best way to end
this whole thing was to have a double
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discussion in a public place and bring
Sunflower along as a media.
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Go ahead and give me a classic, a
barbecue chicken, and a carnitas taco.
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I'm going to have the tuna poke bowl.
Thank you. You're welcome.
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Hey,
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don't you look cute.
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Oh, my gosh. This is beautiful.
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I was trying to clap. All right, switch
it up.
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She is there.
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Kenya's joining us, by the way. Okay,
good. Good. Because I feel like whatever
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issues you guys are having, just kind of
went to the left, like, super quick.
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I'm actually glad she's coming to just,
like, be like, okay, explain to me where
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we're at here. Right. I mean, I will say
this, because this happened a while
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ago. If Kenya really wanted to come for
you, I feel like she would have put it
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on the table a long time ago. There is
one safe space.
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in this group and it's got to be hair
and beauty is it not like hi i'm meeting
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some friends oh there they are yes hi hi
hey
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honey hi beautiful that's a dress thank
you
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honey you look lovely okay i'm really
glad you're here why i should like to
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extra pretty when i'm gonna read a bit
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Can I just have some orange juice and
maybe the ahi tune?
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Okay, thank you. You're welcome.
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So she reminds me of... I know you're
waiting for your drink, but I feel like
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should dive into this because you walked
in and said, I like to look pretty when
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I read a bitch. I know you're not trying
to read her. I know you're not trying
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to read her. I'm not trying to read
anybody.
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I'm like a sleeping bear.
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I'm cuddly. I'm soft.
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I'm warm.
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But if you poke at me and you wake me
up, I'm coming for that ass.
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I feel like the girls are coming to me
and saying Kenya's upset about how you
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brought the wig back to the girls.
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So is there some truth in that so that
we can discuss it and work past it?
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Kenya, that was some bullshit you did.
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It wasn't cute. It wasn't funny. I am a
walking billboard, okay, for a million
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-dollar company that I... built with my
two hands. Now, I don't know how you
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made your money, and if you want to get
it from your boyfriend, whatever, but
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the money that I make is from these two
hands. Okay. Get that straight. I
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trusted you to take something and bring
it to me. Did you get it back? No, don't
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tell me if I got it back or not.
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I gave it back to your good friend
Candy.
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No, the answer is no. And what you did,
Tanya, is that you saw that as an
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opportunity to not only embarrass me,
but to try to discredit me. How does it
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discredit you? We all wear hair, Tanya.
No, I don't. If you're going to lie
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about wearing a wig, how am I supposed
to believe anything else you say?
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That's how you damage your brand.
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That's why you're so mad.
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Go on and read yourself, bitch.
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Let me talk. If you're going to talk
over me, I'm just going to leave and
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not going to have this conversation.
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So you need to be quiet.
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Well, I want you to finish and get it
all off your chest so that we don't
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interrupt each other so I don't have to
leave. It probably is a good idea.
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Kenya is just ill -equipped, and I don't
think she was prepared for the wrath
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that is Kenya.
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I wasn't prepared, and I haven't had
some already.
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Here's the thing. If I'm making money...
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celebrating the fact that women can wear
their own hair. And if I decide on one
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day at any point in time in my life that
I want to do a protective style, people
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don't remember the fact that you say,
I'm going to wear it one day. They
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oh, she wears it. That's what it
becomes. So now you're with my business.
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with how I feed my daughter and myself.
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So that's what I have a problem with.
Let me ask you a question. When you came
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to Marlo's business launch, and crashed
and sabotaged it with a drumline of your
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own, clockers, and were giving out
facts, the fact is you were a real...
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Oh, don't say that.
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Disgusting. Yes, and you were too.
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Because you asked to become poor. You
came for me, young lady. Oh, my gosh.
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a wig, over some hair extensions.
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You were bothered by that conversation
that we had at the dinner in Toronto.
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Thank you so much to her.
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I've been told, Cynthia's been told many
things about your relationship, Paul,
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whatever. Let me finish.
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I just met you. There's nothing that I
could really even surmise that you know
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about me. It doesn't matter. It's not
about what I know. It's about what I've
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been told. I don't know. I don't give a
shit.
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That girl, she's the one that brought
the information. She brought it to
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Cynthia. But she brought it to us.
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So you know your boy, Paul?
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Yes.
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What?
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Nothing, but he kind of like was all
over me. Yes, Cynthia, but what you
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say to her is you invited that girl.
That would be other ladies. Okay.
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Because you wanted her to bring that
back
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to Miss Tanya. So why are you directing
all this to me and trying to find out if
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I'm doing something to you?
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It's 100 % true.
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Cynthia did invite the cookie lady out
with the other lady.
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Cynthia never told me she had a
conversation with Tanya that would have
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believe that I needed to be on guard
with her.
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And Cynthia should have told her
herself.
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I was never trying to come for Tanya.
No, this is the truth.
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Okay. I don't care. I'm not saying
you're trying to come for her. Don't try
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throw me under. Right. She just did. All
the way under.
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The bottom line is, I never tried to use
this to hurt Tanya. It's an absolutely
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non -factor. It is a factor because it
speaks to the fact that I have only
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to help you, Tanya. How were you trying
to help me? When I had the conversation
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with you about your one egg. You're
doing the injections every day. I just
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to give myself like two months pause.
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Honestly, girlfriend to girlfriend, you
just need to do a cycle.
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In that conversation, I felt, yes,
somewhat attacked.
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Bitch, goodbye.
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You felt attacked?
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Do you have to swear? Yes, because I
believe that's what you are and that's
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you deserve to be called. Oh, can you
stop? When I had an opportunity to talk
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you about having a child, I was actually
excited about it because it's something
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I have a real passion for. Same as hair
care. I thought it was incredibly
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aggressive. You just used the word
attacking. Like you're doing now.
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Chop down.
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About your eggs again.
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Oh, hello.
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Hi. Oh, my God. The new lady.
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Oh. wonderful. Hi,
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how are you?
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Oh, hi.
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Desserts on me. This is the turkey lady.
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Oh, wonderful.
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Since Tanya clearly came for me and I
didn't send for her, I sent for the
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lady, and now she's here for Tanya.
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What is your name? Because we call you
the cookie lady. Shiana. Shiana,
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Okay. She was apparently upset after a
conversation we had in Toronto. As I
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earlier, I don't know. I was told the
information.
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So if you want to know, you can ask this
young lady who was there. Oh, this is
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such a nice.
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Yes.
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arrangement of you. Yeah, coming from
bubbling up in her heart. Anyways.
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Kay is my girl, but I'm pissed off at
her right now for two reasons.
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Inviting a cookie lady to the brunch and
for throwing me under the bus to make
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it seem like I was trying to use any
information I knew of to hurt Kay
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that was not the case. And she knows
that. I think where this conversation
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started from is that you were out at
shop.
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You were there with a girlfriend.
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No, I was there with my sister and two
other gentlemen.
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Okay. I noticed the gentleman, like, I
get up and go to the restroom. When I go
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to the restroom, he follows me to the
restroom.
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Wow. When we go to the restroom. Because
the bathrooms are together, right?
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Right there.
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Yep. So we're sitting there talking,
talking, talking, talking, talking.
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Then we go to the bar. We talked. He
told me he was single.
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He said he did real estate.
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At a point in the conversation, we kind
of like lost interest with one another.
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This is the way it stops.
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That's it.
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Calm down, baby.
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I'm not trying to hurt your feelings. I
mean, my feelings aren't hurt.
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The same as what we had talked about.
Now the air is cleared. If there was
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something going on about your man, you
would want to know, and you said yes.
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And guess what? There wasn't. It wasn't
nothing because of the fact that we
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didn't continue on.
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Girl, you had conversations at a bar.
You think it was just casual
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It wasn't just casual conversation.
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You said he said he was single, right?
He did say he was single. You also said
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he said he was in real estate.
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Well, that's what he said. There is
nobody who knows anything about my
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that would say he is not in technology.
Your fiance?
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Crazy. Well, I don't know about him.
It's her fiance. When my husband was my
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fiance, I would not like him saying he
was single. He was pretty adamant on me
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sitting at the table, hanging out, and
chilling for a while. Wonderful. I'm at
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the dinner. Why is it such negative
energy, honey? Don't be mad at me
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I'm... gorgeous and your your fiance
just happens to just glance this way i
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i don't think we're going beauty into it
yeah i mean this is just like i just
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we're just casually talking here for you
to insert yourself into like a girl
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group and be like i've got something to
report it wasn't done like well how did
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it come up hold on now hold on now yeah
because i need to make my my
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Part, and it's very clear, so that Kenya
doesn't have to do that for me.
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Okay? When we came to your store, we had
our stuff, we talked, we had Brooklyn
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there, we did our thing. As we were
getting up to leave, you came up to
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and I and said, I have some information.
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When the cameras were down and she
thought they were away. Right.
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I mean, but I had to speak on it because
these ladies are around me.
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If she wanted to be with me.
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I feel like it's revealed.
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There's no snake gate. There's no
question about anything. And it's dead.
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I think the kooky lady revealed herself
for the fraud she is.
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It's kind of like, hey, you went to the
Jay -Z concert. You made eye contact
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with him on stage. And then you walk
around saying, oh, my God, I'm pregnant
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Jay -Z because he looked at me.
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So I kind of feel sorry for her.
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As far as I'm concerned, you guys have
had this conversation.
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Oh, so much better. Okay. You know
exactly what it is. You've said what you
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to say. You've said what you needed to
say.
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And I get my food to go in there. And we
can go. Please let me know. I might
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fall into the bathroom.
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Is this nigger doodle?
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That's sugar.
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That was sugar doodle.
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Oh, wow.
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That's a strawberry. Go take that. Was
that one yummy?
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Did you warm that? I don't know what to
say. Uh -uh. Because I want to know. I
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know. I know.
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Cynthia likes those white chocolate
sprinkles. She can have them. Oh, she
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have them. I do, but I'm going to see my
mom. I don't like sprinkles.
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I walk you out.
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I walk you out. Bye.
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Bye, Eve.
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Not here for the cookie lady, okay?
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I think the cookie lady is very messy. I
think this is very shady.
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But the lady can make a hell of a
cookie.
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Cookie was good.
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And I'm sorry, Tanya. I know you're most
likely mad at me, but it wasn't me. It
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was Maverick.
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Cookie was real good.
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I'm back. I forgot my cookies.
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Thought I had some cookies in here.
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Oh, I got them in my purse. Never mind.
I'm going again.
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All right. Bye, ladies.
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Bye.
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I want to hang out with you some more.
You seem like a really cool... I don't
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know if I want you around my man, honey,
because you're like, that's a little
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too far.
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No, no, no, no, no. Like, girl, no, you
can't come around my man.
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Coming up next... Just for you to...
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Put your body next to somebody else's is
hurtful to me. You know what I'm
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saying? We've talked about me and me and
me and me and me and me and me for the
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longest. I'm not the only one that's got
to do some work.
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I like your hair today.
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You're looking very coming to America
-ish. Thank you.
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Whatever it is you like.
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Look, look at PJ. I just can't stop
looking at this picture.
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That's a good picture. I know, she's so
cute.
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She look like me right there.
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No, I think she, well, yeah.
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This session is well overdue. You can't
go to council every six weeks and
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inspect some results.
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This is the time that we can come in.
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They've just got to be consistent, bored
to work.
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Now that Vince and I are back together,
we've still got some work to do.
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Hey, how are you?
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Hello. You're the director here? Yes,
sir. I think you're right. All right.
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Dr.
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Sherry, are we here?
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Hello. Hello.
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Hello. We got a little bit of a...
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Come on back.
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Oh, the room is bright today.
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It is.
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Sunshine.
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I'm glad to see you all together.
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I see a ring.
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You said yes again? I say yes again.
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Oh, congratulations again.
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You know, he said that he wanted to talk
to my mom and my sister to admit what
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he had done, doing me any kind of wrong.
That was really big for me, what he
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did. At least you were able to say what
you needed to say.
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Yeah, and more importantly, you know, it
was good for Portia. How are the two of
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you? I feel like we've been doing good
with the cards that we've been dealt.
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Portia, you know, likes to grind a
little bit, you know, and that's okay.
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okay. So you want to explain to what
grind means?
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Yeah, I'm pleased to do. First of all
and foremost, I have never been cheated
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in a serious relationship with me, okay?
I don't know what the road to
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forgiveness looks like. I'm just in the
middle of this right now. And so there
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are days that I will ask him questions,
you know, just drill him.
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You understand why she would be asking?
Because...
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You have to be totally transparent, and
you may have to answer the same question
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ten times, but that is for her healing.
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Where are we in terms of getting back in
terms of the intimacy?
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Where are we with that?
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Well, we are up and moving about the
house.
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we are pretty much exactly the way we
were before.
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Okay. Right. But when we go into our
room, literally sent, he
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put the ring back on my finger.
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Um, um,
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um,
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okay.
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Um, who's the day?
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He put the ring back on my finger. It's
like, I don't know, it's like a mental
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block. Like, I love him, you know.
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Explain what that mental block feels
like. I don't really know how to say it.
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Dennis is strong, too. He's here because
he wants an honest relationship.
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And when you rebuild, sometimes even sex
and intimacy is shattered. So we're
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rebuilding.
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For some reason, when we get in the room
and the light is turned off, I feel it
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doesn't feel right anymore.
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I love Dennis, but there is a block
because of the hurt.
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I don't think he gets how much I loved
him wholeheartedly, so to share any of
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that is just really, really hard for me
to get over.
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Just for you to...
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Put your body next to somebody else's is
just something that is hurtful to me.
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You know what I'm saying?
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Are you annoyed? Are you uncomfortable
that she brought this up?
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I mean, coming to counseling is just a
lot.
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It's work.
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I'm not the only one that's got to do
some work.
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Absolutely. So, like, you know, we've
talked about me and me and me and me and
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me and me and me for the longest, but,
like, you know.
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That is a good example of, like, Portia
also has to do some work.
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Like, I can't read her, man.
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Well, that's why I'm bringing this up.
I'm not bringing this up because it's an
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issue that you have to deal with. I'm
bringing this up to you because it's
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something that I'm now having to deal
with. I'm also fearful because women
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like we have to hold on to a man. And
that is also in my mind that if I tell
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exactly how I feel, you know, about the
intimacy, that you'll be like, oh, hell,
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this is about to be a whole year.
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She about to not have. have sex with me,
let me go figure something else out or
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whatever. So I just don't know how to
tell you this. On one hand, I have to
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that comfortable to open my body back up
to him. But on the other hand, an
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intimacy issue could cause him to do the
very thing that hurt me before, which
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was cheat.
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So I'm having to double trust him at the
same time, which is tough.
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Portia, I know it took a lot of courage
to say that. I'm glad you shared that.
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Dennis, what can you say to Portia that
would help her feel safe with you?
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Yeah, this is kind of awkward, but at
the same time, that's something that we
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got to, like, figure out together.
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You have to be patient and ask her, what
is it you need at this moment to feel
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safe?
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This is pretty heavy. I understand it's
heavy.
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But it's necessary.
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Coming up next.
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You have your tables here. Bam, bam,
bam.
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That's like about 100 people. The tables
can't be near the bathroom. You don't
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really interrupt.
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You don't really chime in. You just let
him do his thing.
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Right, what, you're the police?
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Hey, are you excited?
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All right, baby.
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I had to make sure I wasn't the police.
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How you doing? Hi.
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I missed you. I missed you, too.
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Wow, I live in a gated community. You
kind of scared me.
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I know.
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How long did you say you were standing
here today?
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You sure you're not moving in this side?
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I have a great relationship with these
girls. However, I'm still getting to
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them, and they're still getting to know
me.
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Getting ready to go to UCLA.
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I know.
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Are you excited?
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Yeah, I'm looking forward to it.
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Yeah? Kayla is the youngest of Noelle
and Ashley.
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I'm happy that you guys are here. You
know how I feel about Audrey.
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She is super sweet, a lot of fun, but I
would say Kayla's the more focused
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of the three girls.
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It feels different for you?
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Yeah, I feel like a fiance instead of a
girlfriend.
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So do I get more perks?
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Yeah. Oh, you know, you get a lot more
perks. Okay, I got to go.
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Oh, my God.
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I'm sorry, Candace. Where are you going
now? You going to Alyssa's? Yeah, I'm
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going to go see Alyssa. Okay, all right.
All right, give me a hug. All right.
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Bye. I'll see you in a minute.
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Okay, never mind.
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Every time I touch you, I can't go
right. I know. Well, it's so hard to
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It's right there, babe.
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Yeah. It's right there. Like many
particular sandwiches themselves.
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This
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is
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it? Yeah, this is her cellar. Okay.
Yeah.
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Thank you.
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Hi. Hey, how are you? Good to see you
again.
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This is my husband, Mark. How are you?
Pleasure to meet you, ma 'am. How are
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doing? So I unlocked everything, so it's
ready if you guys have anything. Oh,
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okay, sure.
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Mark and I are looking at this place
because he wants to throw a charity
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and we need a place to host it. The
charity is called The Black Man Lab, and
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benefits young black men who are looking
to have role models. Where's the
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kitchen?
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It's no kitchen.
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She told me there's a kitchen.
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No, this is it.
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Let me walk it through my mind. Let me
come through.
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00:26:14,750 --> 00:26:17,170
Okay. I like the garage door. I love
that style.
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You probably have a step and repeat
here.
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It's got to be right when you first come
in. The stage has to be here. You got
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the plug, so it makes sense.
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You have your tables here. Bam, bam,
bam. Not too close to the bathroom. The
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food shouldn't be close to the bathroom.
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It'll be tight for 100.
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That's 50 people versus 100 people. The
tables can't be near the bathroom, so
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everything has to be on this side.
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It feels a little tight for the number
of people.
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But the question is how many people.
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I feel like I'm chasing you.
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The tables have to be at least five
people. Well, I'm thinking through, so I
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have to go through it visually. Okay.
When Mark gets excited about something,
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has a one -track mind. You don't really
interrupt.
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You don't really chime in. You just let
him do his thing.
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I don't know.
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It can get very congested very quickly.
I can show you some other ones that I
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passed on. It might be right for you.
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Okay. Okay? All right. I appreciate it.
All right.
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Appreciate it. Good job. Give me some
doubt, man.
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Yeah, I appreciate it.
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Do you think he should treat you more
like his wife and his lover, not a
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homeboy?
451
00:27:23,380 --> 00:27:24,600
That's a funny question.
452
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:28,600
So let's talk to Mike because I really
want him to host it. We should talk
453
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:30,980
the date because he has to save the date
and he doesn't live in Atlanta.
454
00:27:31,220 --> 00:27:33,000
You want me to call him? Yeah, I'll send
you his number.
455
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:37,860
Is this Magic Mike?
456
00:27:39,140 --> 00:27:40,560
Magic Mike, yes it is.
457
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:42,960
I like how you said yes it is.
458
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:44,820
What's going on? What's up?
459
00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:47,520
Good, man. I want to give you the update
on what's going on. So I really
460
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:51,040
appreciate you volunteering to host the
event. So that's great. Whatever you
461
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:52,040
need.
462
00:27:52,410 --> 00:27:56,510
Oh, that's good. So we want to get all
the guys together, so we're trying to
463
00:27:56,510 --> 00:27:58,030
plan another couple's night.
464
00:27:58,250 --> 00:27:59,550
So that would be good when you come.
465
00:27:59,830 --> 00:28:01,730
So we don't have to be a couple's night,
man. That's why I wanted to jump in
466
00:28:01,730 --> 00:28:05,010
while she jumped in. I want to plan
something where all the guys go out. We
467
00:28:05,010 --> 00:28:07,310
leave the ladies home if you guys want
to. No, we can't leave the ladies home.
468
00:28:07,310 --> 00:28:10,010
I'm trying to leave the ladies home.
She's trying to jump on our event, man.
469
00:28:10,010 --> 00:28:13,230
Ladies don't get left home. She's trying
to jump on our thing, man.
470
00:28:14,530 --> 00:28:16,110
Where's my sister?
471
00:28:17,910 --> 00:28:20,490
She's actually in the bathroom right
now. She is. Okay.
472
00:28:20,710 --> 00:28:22,430
Okay. That's all right. All right,
473
00:28:23,170 --> 00:28:25,250
brother. Okay, bye, Magic Mike. Bye.
474
00:28:29,750 --> 00:28:31,290
What the hell is going on?
475
00:28:32,630 --> 00:28:36,190
I had lunch with Tanya and Eva in Kenya.
476
00:28:37,030 --> 00:28:40,650
And did I tell you that Kenya was pissed
off at Tanya for... Tanya brought
477
00:28:40,650 --> 00:28:42,470
Kenya's wig back from Toronto.
478
00:28:43,110 --> 00:28:47,110
And then Kenya took the wig to hang out
with the girls, and the girls made fun
479
00:28:47,110 --> 00:28:49,690
of the wig, and Kenya is super mad at
Kenya.
480
00:28:50,170 --> 00:28:51,190
You know the cookie lady?
481
00:28:52,130 --> 00:28:53,130
Kiana?
482
00:28:53,730 --> 00:28:55,150
Kiana keeps saying the cookie lady.
483
00:28:56,990 --> 00:29:00,930
Kiana invites her to join us for lunch.
Yeah, I'm looking good. I'm looking good
484
00:29:00,930 --> 00:29:01,809
enough to read a bit.
485
00:29:01,810 --> 00:29:08,010
Oh, and then Kenya throws me under the
bus and goes, oh, and da -da -da -da -da
486
00:29:08,010 --> 00:29:11,630
-da, and da -da -da. And I didn't bring
her around. Kenya brought her around.
487
00:29:11,830 --> 00:29:13,790
Right, right. I mean, that would have
been cool, right, babe?
488
00:29:15,670 --> 00:29:19,070
Next time y 'all all get together, I'm
going to bring y 'all some juice boxes
489
00:29:19,070 --> 00:29:20,070
and cookies.
490
00:29:20,410 --> 00:29:21,369
You know what I mean?
491
00:29:21,370 --> 00:29:22,370
Seriously.
492
00:29:22,550 --> 00:29:24,490
For this childish -ass behavior. I know.
493
00:29:24,750 --> 00:29:27,770
I mean, look, don't even worry about
that right now. You're going to be here
494
00:29:27,770 --> 00:29:31,550
a couple of days. We're going to hit the
beach, have my friends over. But you
495
00:29:31,550 --> 00:29:32,550
know what I want to do right now?
496
00:29:32,970 --> 00:29:33,970
Me!
497
00:29:34,390 --> 00:29:35,189
Got it.
498
00:29:35,190 --> 00:29:36,190
Let's go. Let's go.
499
00:29:36,570 --> 00:29:38,430
Yes! Yeah, let's do it. Do me, baby.
500
00:29:38,750 --> 00:29:40,130
Yeah. Got the whips upstairs.
501
00:29:41,870 --> 00:29:43,390
Coming up next.
502
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:45,500
Where are your guy friends?
503
00:29:45,820 --> 00:29:47,180
That's what we've been asking for years.
504
00:29:47,540 --> 00:29:48,580
One, two,
505
00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:53,660
three, four, five, six. Okay, Mike got a
lot of girl friends.
506
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:12,920
Thank you.
507
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:15,200
Beck? Huh?
508
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:16,400
What you doing?
509
00:30:16,460 --> 00:30:18,940
I'm looking at new paint colors for the
room.
510
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:20,900
You getting your interior design on?
511
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:26,080
Or, you know, just figuring out what
works, because me and you are about to
512
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:27,080
disagree.
513
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:29,120
You want to do purple walls?
514
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:32,000
Remember what I said.
515
00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:38,920
I don't want no hood, daycare, colors,
and animation characters on the walls,
516
00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:40,040
okay?
517
00:30:40,380 --> 00:30:42,160
Clean, cool.
518
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:48,140
I cannot believe that the time has flown
like it has. Like, in two months, my
519
00:30:48,140 --> 00:30:49,700
baby is going to be here.
520
00:30:49,940 --> 00:30:54,340
My schedule has been crazy. But I'm
finally getting a chance to, you know,
521
00:30:54,340 --> 00:30:55,299
on this room.
522
00:30:55,300 --> 00:30:58,660
Really, Todd is doing it. You know, I'm
just giving a little input.
523
00:30:59,020 --> 00:31:00,020
What else is going on?
524
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:04,400
I'm just trying to figure out everything
I got to do before the baby comes.
525
00:31:04,700 --> 00:31:07,700
Yep. Then I have an audition coming up.
526
00:31:08,020 --> 00:31:09,740
Mm -hmm, that's dope. Yeah.
527
00:31:10,380 --> 00:31:11,640
What kind of role is it?
528
00:31:13,969 --> 00:31:18,310
Uh, well, it's an important role.
529
00:31:20,010 --> 00:31:24,070
I don't want to talk about it yet until
I kind of know it's going to happen. A
530
00:31:24,070 --> 00:31:26,370
lot of people don't know this, but
acting was my first love.
531
00:31:26,590 --> 00:31:29,730
Went to performing arts high school, and
I also was in like a musical theater
532
00:31:29,730 --> 00:31:34,490
group. In Chicago on Broadway, I played
Mama Morton. I was in the Vagina
533
00:31:34,490 --> 00:31:41,050
Monologue. I was six years old when my
mother told me all about my new father.
534
00:31:41,630 --> 00:31:45,870
I've done multiple independent films, my
own theater pieces.
535
00:31:46,530 --> 00:31:47,530
Forever.
536
00:31:49,250 --> 00:31:52,950
I've done a lot of things, and now I
just want to take it to the next level.
537
00:31:53,130 --> 00:31:58,130
I've had times where I've, you know,
done well on an audition, and they've
538
00:31:58,130 --> 00:32:02,210
offered me the part, and for whatever
reason, things fell apart before I
539
00:32:02,210 --> 00:32:03,890
actually got a chance to do it.
540
00:32:05,490 --> 00:32:08,630
So that's the only thing I'm...
541
00:32:09,020 --> 00:32:13,240
scared of and then obviously we have a
baby on the way so it's like how does
542
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:20,200
that work you got support like that's
what you got me the kids the people that
543
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:26,620
work with us like you got support so you
talked to kayla
544
00:32:26,620 --> 00:32:30,360
i did you told her we was going ahead
and move forward with um
545
00:32:32,140 --> 00:32:34,960
Well, we had already told her that we
was using the room and she was going to
546
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:35,879
move downstairs.
547
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:39,100
Did you ask her when is she still
planning to come back?
548
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:40,640
I didn't ask.
549
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:46,520
I was just trying to enjoy the moments
of us just communicating and not putting
550
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:48,980
anything on it. Like, are you doing
this? Are you doing that? Right.
551
00:32:49,180 --> 00:32:50,840
You know, no stress, no pressure.
552
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:53,760
That's true. Love you. You were
stressing her out.
553
00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:58,720
You know, my mom was, like, talking
about Riley, and she was like, I'm going
554
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:04,280
put Riley as my beneficiary, and then
I'll put you after Riley because I'm
555
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:07,400
Riley's going to make sure, you know,
her little sister's brother will be
556
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:12,320
taken care of. Like, as if you won't
make sure Riley's good or something.
557
00:33:12,660 --> 00:33:13,660
Oh, God.
558
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:19,480
Yeah. And I was like... Wait, did she
say that, or you just kind of get it
559
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:20,480
the conversation?
560
00:33:20,620 --> 00:33:23,660
No, she didn't. That she don't think I
would make sure Riley was okay?
561
00:33:25,830 --> 00:33:27,930
Basically, she didn't want to leave it
up to you.
562
00:33:28,770 --> 00:33:33,170
Wow. You know, you do have to prepare
for anything.
563
00:33:33,550 --> 00:33:37,430
And those conversations are the hard
conversations for people to have.
564
00:33:37,730 --> 00:33:40,750
I mean, just like even when we did the
whole prenup, that was hard.
565
00:33:41,430 --> 00:33:43,490
It didn't have to be as hard as it was.
566
00:33:43,970 --> 00:33:48,570
My mother -in -law, unfortunately, had a
long negative history.
567
00:33:49,010 --> 00:33:50,230
I do feel your opportunity.
568
00:33:50,650 --> 00:33:51,950
What do you think I'm getting out of it?
569
00:33:54,800 --> 00:34:01,140
When she introduced Candid to Todd, I
told her I could have choked her. But it
570
00:34:01,140 --> 00:34:02,540
ended up being good. They got married.
571
00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:05,380
Well, Candid took a lemon and made
lemonade.
572
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:10,239
Then after we got married, it seemed
like she was trying to get a little bit
573
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:13,739
better. I love you, and I am so proud of
you.
574
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:15,320
And I'm sorry.
575
00:34:17,260 --> 00:34:20,800
But then after that, you know, I don't
know what happened. It's like things
576
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:22,600
started to go backwards again.
577
00:34:22,980 --> 00:34:25,620
And I don't know what to do.
578
00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:28,199
She's probably more concerned about
herself.
579
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:35,120
Well, I mean, she also talked about not
wanting my name to be on her house. So
580
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:39,960
if something happened, then she ain't
got to deal with you. Damn, that's
581
00:34:41,420 --> 00:34:45,800
I mean, but realistically, you did have
the same concerns, too, at some point.
582
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:49,940
Because, like, you didn't want to have
to deal with my mom and them if
583
00:34:49,940 --> 00:34:52,120
happened. I would not want to deal with
your mom.
584
00:34:53,260 --> 00:34:54,860
What? I wouldn't.
585
00:34:55,739 --> 00:35:01,080
So, I mean, I just told her that don't
worry about it. It's going to be fine.
586
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:02,320
Yeah, please take care of your mom.
587
00:35:02,720 --> 00:35:04,040
Please have her set up.
588
00:35:04,300 --> 00:35:05,400
I definitely am.
589
00:35:05,720 --> 00:35:06,720
It's all good.
590
00:35:07,740 --> 00:35:09,200
It ain't nothing but some paperwork.
591
00:35:11,900 --> 00:35:12,900
For sure.
592
00:35:13,060 --> 00:35:14,060
I ain't stressing nothing.
593
00:35:14,180 --> 00:35:15,660
I took my prostate test.
594
00:35:17,940 --> 00:35:19,420
I'm good for you, so.
595
00:35:21,900 --> 00:35:23,080
Coming up next.
596
00:35:23,500 --> 00:35:27,200
We never posted about one of the four
people. No, because there were too many
597
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:28,200
them bitches.
598
00:35:29,240 --> 00:35:30,240
Wow.
599
00:35:51,060 --> 00:35:52,520
Yep. Down here getting ready.
600
00:35:53,060 --> 00:35:54,380
Trying to lead everything up.
601
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:56,620
So who's all coming, you guys? Who'd you
tell?
602
00:35:57,220 --> 00:35:58,720
Nat's coming, the usual.
603
00:35:58,940 --> 00:36:01,680
Vanessa, Carmen's going to come.
604
00:36:01,980 --> 00:36:05,340
That's always going to be fun. You know,
I can't really bring too many dudes
605
00:36:05,340 --> 00:36:06,340
here for some reason.
606
00:36:06,720 --> 00:36:09,060
Well, but you don't have that many guy
friends. You have more girlfriends.
607
00:36:09,340 --> 00:36:10,340
Yeah, pretty much.
608
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:14,340
Hey, what's up? What up? What up, what
up, what up, what up?
609
00:36:14,660 --> 00:36:16,100
Mike has a lot of female friends.
610
00:36:16,340 --> 00:36:18,140
He actually put that out there when we
first started dating.
611
00:36:20,170 --> 00:36:21,170
all the friends you want.
612
00:36:21,250 --> 00:36:25,370
But, yeah, he might have should have
mentioned that they're all super pretty.
613
00:36:28,090 --> 00:36:32,370
One, two, three, four, five, six. What's
up, T?
614
00:36:33,010 --> 00:36:34,010
How you doing, mama?
615
00:36:34,710 --> 00:36:39,390
Okay, Mike got a lot of... It didn't
really occur to me to ask if he's ever
616
00:36:39,390 --> 00:36:40,390
dated any of them.
617
00:36:40,590 --> 00:36:43,830
Can you know some more dudes for us,
please? I don't know dudes like that. I
618
00:36:43,830 --> 00:36:48,190
want to know guys in a way and be
friendly with them, but at the same
619
00:36:48,190 --> 00:36:49,190
got to be organic, right?
620
00:36:49,930 --> 00:36:51,070
I can't force friendships.
621
00:36:51,430 --> 00:36:54,810
Okay, let's talk about that because this
is one of the questions that I asked my
622
00:36:54,810 --> 00:36:57,970
fiance. I was like, you have so many
gorgeous girlfriends.
623
00:36:59,630 --> 00:37:00,630
Well,
624
00:37:03,090 --> 00:37:04,090
where them hoes at?
625
00:37:07,410 --> 00:37:12,630
Okay, you are basically in a business
that's like totally male dominated. Like
626
00:37:12,630 --> 00:37:16,130
you're a sportscaster. You golf all the
time. Like you do stuff that men do.
627
00:37:16,470 --> 00:37:17,470
Like all the time.
628
00:37:17,900 --> 00:37:19,180
Where are your guy friends?
629
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:20,880
That's what we've been asking for years.
630
00:37:21,940 --> 00:37:25,960
Can I tell y 'all something? Can I tell
you a lady something from the bottom of
631
00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:29,880
my heart? I can meet guys out there, but
if the guys aren't right for my friends
632
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:34,760
who are like my sisters, who I adore and
I love, I
633
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:41,180
don't want them to run into guys like
the guy used to be. This man is writing
634
00:37:41,180 --> 00:37:42,400
book about his life.
635
00:37:44,910 --> 00:37:49,150
Messed up he used to be before he
received his blessing by the name of
636
00:37:49,150 --> 00:37:50,150
Denise Bell. Absolutely.
637
00:37:50,750 --> 00:37:51,870
And that's in the book, too.
638
00:37:52,070 --> 00:37:53,350
Mike is very open about his past.
639
00:37:53,670 --> 00:37:57,010
He's even written a tell -all book
that's coming out soon. At first, I felt
640
00:37:57,010 --> 00:37:59,210
I knew Mike so well that I didn't really
need to read it.
641
00:38:00,310 --> 00:38:04,010
Now, after meeting all his girlfriends,
I may need to go ahead and open up that
642
00:38:04,010 --> 00:38:05,470
email that says manuscript.
643
00:38:06,230 --> 00:38:07,230
So.
644
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:08,720
Don't speak all at once.
645
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:13,860
How is Mike different now that he's not
only in a relationship, but he is
646
00:38:13,860 --> 00:38:18,080
engaged? I'll say this. This might seem
small, but the fact that you're
647
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:23,200
advertising your love constantly, that
to me is a big deal. No dude advertises
648
00:38:23,200 --> 00:38:28,160
your love. So you never posted about
women before? No, because there were too
649
00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:29,160
many of them bitches.
650
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:31,000
Wow.
651
00:38:31,540 --> 00:38:34,120
Well, I have to say, thanks to him.
652
00:38:34,870 --> 00:38:38,450
We pray together every night. I get on
my knees and pray. I mean, I prayed
653
00:38:38,450 --> 00:38:40,930
before. You're supposed to get on your
knees. That's how you got engaged.
654
00:38:44,570 --> 00:38:45,570
That's not how you get engaged.
655
00:38:46,190 --> 00:38:47,390
These are my friends, baby.
656
00:38:47,650 --> 00:38:51,810
Every last click, Mike, there's more
than one way to get a blessing, okay?
657
00:38:54,350 --> 00:38:55,390
On my knees, right?
658
00:38:56,390 --> 00:38:58,890
My daughter is here.
659
00:38:59,890 --> 00:39:01,910
She's in college, but she's here.
660
00:39:07,340 --> 00:39:11,380
The fact that Mike has told us before
he's never been in love, you like the
661
00:39:11,380 --> 00:39:12,820
of it. I was afraid to.
662
00:39:13,260 --> 00:39:17,080
But that's why I told her. It's like,
you know, we caught each other at the
663
00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:21,020
right time, you know, because if she
would have met me three years ago, it
664
00:39:21,020 --> 00:39:21,738
different life.
665
00:39:21,740 --> 00:39:26,260
Two years ago was kind of finding
himself, right? In the process.
666
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:30,740
But when I started writing the book and
I got all that stuff off my chest, I
667
00:39:30,740 --> 00:39:33,280
realized some of the things I've done in
the past.
668
00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:37,240
has led to me doing some of the things
I'm doing presently to women.
669
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:41,900
But at the same time, it's like, you
know, it's important for me to, because
670
00:39:41,900 --> 00:39:46,240
do have daughters, to reveal some of
these things. And I've already told
671
00:39:46,300 --> 00:39:49,660
I've been open about that with them
because they're older. They're moms.
672
00:39:49,660 --> 00:39:52,740
apologized to them for the things and
transgressions I've made in the past.
673
00:39:52,740 --> 00:39:54,480
now I'm just trying to do it the right
way this time.
674
00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:59,440
I think I'm getting Mike at the best
time in his life right now.
675
00:39:59,800 --> 00:40:02,940
But he has cheated.
676
00:40:04,060 --> 00:40:08,960
on his wives before me, what makes me
different?
677
00:40:10,240 --> 00:40:13,480
I think there was always a part of me
that wanted to be in a really good,
678
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:14,520
committed relationship.
679
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:17,980
Obviously, I've been married twice, and
I felt strong love and strong passion,
680
00:40:18,060 --> 00:40:20,560
but I couldn't have been in love that
much.
681
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:24,340
KK, why don't you go upstairs, babe?
682
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:26,600
Let's go upstairs.
683
00:40:32,490 --> 00:40:33,490
All right, guys.
684
00:40:34,050 --> 00:40:38,650
Hey, guys. Thanks, everybody, for
coming. I appreciate this. But I'm going
685
00:40:38,650 --> 00:40:42,050
run upstairs and check on my daughter,
make sure she's all right. Y 'all don't
686
00:40:42,050 --> 00:40:43,430
mind cleaning up because y 'all family,
right?
687
00:40:45,770 --> 00:40:47,170
I ain't going to do it.
688
00:40:47,610 --> 00:40:51,270
Blending families is not always easy,
especially with girls.
689
00:40:51,790 --> 00:40:56,990
So that's why it's important to me for
my relationship with Kayla and Ashley to
690
00:40:56,990 --> 00:41:02,110
just grow organically. I just want us to
just naturally get to know each other
691
00:41:02,110 --> 00:41:03,330
and be a family.
692
00:41:03,610 --> 00:41:09,470
I just feel terrible because, you know,
it was just inappropriate for me to have
693
00:41:09,470 --> 00:41:10,690
that conversation around her.
694
00:41:11,130 --> 00:41:15,370
If it's not appropriate, I don't have to
go in. But I just wanted to make sure
695
00:41:15,370 --> 00:41:16,890
she was okay. Okay, all right.
696
00:41:21,980 --> 00:41:22,980
Okay. Okay.
697
00:41:24,460 --> 00:41:25,460
Okay.
698
00:41:27,300 --> 00:41:28,300
Can I come in?
699
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:29,880
Come on.
700
00:41:30,140 --> 00:41:31,200
Can I sit here and come in?
701
00:41:33,100 --> 00:41:34,100
Huh?
702
00:41:35,100 --> 00:41:36,100
Come on.
703
00:41:36,220 --> 00:41:43,160
You okay, baby?
704
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:44,740
I know.
705
00:41:45,240 --> 00:41:48,300
that you heard some things that you
probably shouldn't have heard, and
706
00:41:48,300 --> 00:41:50,480
totally on me. I take full
responsibility for that.
707
00:41:50,780 --> 00:41:51,780
What can I do?
708
00:41:53,300 --> 00:41:54,500
That's what you can't do.
709
00:41:57,400 --> 00:41:58,400
I don't know.
710
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:02,380
I love you, and I know you're going to
be with me for a long time.
711
00:42:02,820 --> 00:42:03,820
All right, I love you.
712
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:17,100
She's still, you know.
713
00:42:17,940 --> 00:42:20,280
I just think she's a little old.
714
00:42:20,660 --> 00:42:24,360
Yeah, that's it. So, I'll work through
it. Love you.
715
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:30,280
Next time on The Real Housewives of
Atlanta.
716
00:42:30,660 --> 00:42:31,660
What are you doing? You getting ready?
717
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:33,660
No, I'm not coming to Nene's event.
718
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:37,700
It's aggressive as your body. It's a
struggle out there.
719
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:40,520
So, let's quit lying on each other.
720
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:42,900
I'm going to be seeing Nene. How did
that happen?
721
00:42:43,140 --> 00:42:44,380
I just sent over some wine.
722
00:42:44,590 --> 00:42:46,770
I cannot wait. I have a lot of
questions.
723
00:42:47,190 --> 00:42:50,830
When you get mad at your friends, you're
the first one to try to tear them down.
724
00:42:50,950 --> 00:42:52,090
Really? Really?
725
00:42:52,350 --> 00:42:53,650
Eva's having contractions.
726
00:42:53,870 --> 00:42:54,990
Did we call Dr. Jackie?
727
00:42:58,190 --> 00:43:01,310
She said she don't want to go to the
hospital.
728
00:43:01,590 --> 00:43:02,830
It's like, I feel like it's dropped.
729
00:43:03,270 --> 00:43:04,270
Yeah.
730
00:43:04,630 --> 00:43:06,430
Yeah, you're having a baby tonight.
731
00:43:06,730 --> 00:43:10,210
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