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You are everything that we could
have wished for him.
Previously...
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This is a perfect match.
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..while home stays deepened bonds
for some couples...
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There's so much about you
that I love.
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..it exposed worrying fault lines
for others...
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I'm not sure if I could leave home.
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I can't move.
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If we can't come to an agreement,
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then we're both going to
end up with broken hearts.
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If she ain't perfect, mate,
maybe she's not for you.
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..and a shocking revelation...
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If you're married,
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do you think it's appropriate
to be on a dating website?
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I'm not on anything. Yes, you are.
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..dealt Nelly and Steven's
marriage a death blow.
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Why have you wasted her time
in this experiment?
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She deserves 100 times better.
I'm going to take this off.
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This marriage is over.
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I want nothing to do
with Steven any more.
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Tonight...
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I can really see myself moving here.
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..the home stays continue.
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We're here.
We've arrived at Bournemouth!
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Welcome home. Thank you.
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While family approval comes easy
to some...
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He told me that he loved me. Woo!
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..others face tougher questions
from loved ones...
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I want you to be really happy.
But I want you to be happy here.
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I can see she is falling.
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I need to have that gut feeling
that you're the same.
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I can't help my doubts.
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..and as Grace and Ashley
spend time apart...
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Is he the person
that everyone else thinks he is?
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Have I got this wrong?
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You're still wearing your ring.
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Part of you is trying not
to give up.
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..they face a crucial decision on
the future of their marriage.
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I can't do any more to prove to her
who I am.
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And now we're in Harlow. Yep.
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We're coming up to where I went
to school, actually.
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This is my primary school. Is it?
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Was you a bit of a goody
two shoes in school?
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No. No? Absolutely not.
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Come on, let me give you the tour.
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A bath big enough for two. Yes!
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A shower big enough for six.
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See, look, you could easily stack
six people in here.
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Why would you...? No, I'm not going
to ask that question.
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It is amazing seeing
Davide in London.
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And I'm so excited to show D
my home and my little world.
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It is cute, I love it. Really?
I do. I do.
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Honestly, it's beautiful. Yeah!
Gorgeous.
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Can you see yourself spending
time here? Definitely.
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That's my gaff right there.
Oh, is that your house?
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Yes. I can really see myself
moving here.
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You can? Yeah.
I like the neighbourhood already.
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Oh, OK. I'm getting good vibes.
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There's a play park up there,
like a kiddie one.
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That's like two minutes.
I noticed that.
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Slow down, young buck.
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Coming into home stays,
me and Reiss are
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in a really strong position
at the moment.
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How's it feel to be in Essex?
Love it.
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I can...
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..smell the Essex air.
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I'm so excited
that we're seeing his family.
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I know how much they mean to him.
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Welcome. You need to say,
"Honey, I'm home!"
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Hopefully I'll fit in.
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Because Essex feels like home,
baby. I feel at home.
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So, yeah, take your jacket off.
Nice! Yeah.
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Mi casa, tu casa. I thought it would
be a lot of grey. Really?
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Yeah. I knew it would be like
a bachelor pad.
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I didn't think there'd be like
a little pop of colour in there.
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Hang on.
Grey is a proper colour. No.
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Best case scenario, for me
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and Leish whilst we do
home stay is no bickers,
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no drama. Everyone gets on
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like a house on fire.
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And here. Voila!
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This is where the magic happens,
yeah? Kinda.
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I knew you would have
crushed velvet!
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I can't wait to put some of
my touches.
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Like what? Loads of photos of me.
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Just you? Well, us. Oh, us.
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Just looks like you're here on your
own, which you are, but...
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Yeah. ..not any more.
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You've got a wifey for lifey now.
Yep.
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I'm going to zhuzh it up, right?
I'm going to have some plants.
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I'm going to have photos of me,
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lingerie photos of me everywhere.
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We're going to have wedding photos
of me everywhere.
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We're literally just
going to have Leisha.
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People will know this is,
"My howse, my rules."
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Is that not how you say it
in a Essex accent?
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It feels so weird being here.
Does it?
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I like it, I love the neighbourhood.
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Like it seems like a good area
to, like... It is.
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Bring up kids. Bring up kids.
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What are you excited for?
Your family.
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They're everything to me.
If I don't get your approval,
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I'm buggered.
Yeah, you are, to be honest.
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Really excited to meet his family.
But I know for a fact
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if I don't get the approval
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that I'm looking for,
I'm out the door.
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Bye-bye, Essex.
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Are you ready? I'm ready.
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I've decided to bring Leah
ice skating today
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during my home stay,
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because I wanted to bring
the fun back in our relationship.
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Come on, then, Bambi. Let's do it.
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She loves an activity, so this
is going to be right up her street.
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If you... If you pants me and pull
my pants down!
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I'll just pull your jeans down.
Whoop!
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Go faster. I can't, Leah!
Move your legs!
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Oh!
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Leah, stop!
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Silly cow!
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Come in slowly for a kiss, ready?
Oh!
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Ah!
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PAINED LAUGHTER
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I've seen Leigh be a lot softer.
I'm loving this side to her.
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Why did we not have fun like this
from day one?
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I know. We would have been
in love by now.
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Do you reckon? Yeah.
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Do you know what it is? I like
seeing you in your environment.
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In what way? Well,
you're a cow at the apartments.
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You're more softer here.
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Sad that you haven't seen
that part of me more. Until now.
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Yeah.
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We've had a very good week.
We have, haven't we? Yeah.
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I feel like we're back on track.
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We were skating on thin ice,
weren't we?
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Like that one?
Lovely. Well done, Leah.
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Bom-ba-dum-ssh!
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Us having fun has reignited
something for me.
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So who do you think's
the better skater, then?
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Don't really want to say. Oh!
I love things like this.
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Yeah. I feel like this
is more your cup of tea, innit?
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Yeah. Home stays for me
has definitely been
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the best week.
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I have seen a different side
to you on this week.
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We haven't deeped everything
too much. It's been fun. Yeah.
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And this has been my favourite date.
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Has it? Yeah. OK.
Good to know. Mm.
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Can you imagine, the beginning of
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the week I weren't even coming
to Liverpool.
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I wasn't sure where our relationship
was even going to go.
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And now we're on the ice,
skating around,
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kissing in the middle of the rink
like we're Torvill and Dean!
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At the beginning of home stays,
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I wasn't even sure
that I wanted to go to Leah's home.
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So the fact that we're here now,
we've made this much progress,
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it couldn't get better than this.
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Should we do one more lap?
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One little lap. Come on, then.
Give us a smooch.
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We're excited? I am.
Nervous, but I'm excited.
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Why are you nervous?
It's your family and your friends,
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so it's obviously natural
that I'm nervous.
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I'm nervous about seeing his friends
and his family.
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It's important that we get along
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because I'm going to be a part
of their life, too.
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Yay!
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I don't know!
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OK! I don't know where to go!
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Hi. How are you?
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Nice to see you, man. How are you?
Good to see you. How are you, guys?
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I really hope things
go well today between D
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and my friends and family,
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because they're a huge part of
my life,
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and each of them represent different
aspects of my London life,
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and I'd want them all to get on.
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Ah! How are you? We're really good.
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I want to know social events.
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Is this normally what you guys
do every weekend?
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It depends on the person he's with.
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It could be 4am we're in Soho.
Or it could be going
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for a long walk and coffee.
Love that.
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We're just telling the truth here.
I'm aware!
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To be fair... You could have
at least sugar-coated it!
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We're going quite far back here for
the 4am's. It's more like 3am now.
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I think we should hear from James.
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We have very wholesome kind of
weekends. Yeah.
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We go for coffee,
we go for walks. OK.
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We've been to a couple of museums.
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Oh! Thank you for being here, James.
I really appreciate you.
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I love you so much. I was going to
say something nice, too!
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You're my favourite cousin.
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Brunch isn't always
a out partying brunch.
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A brunch is going to a nice
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restaurant along the riverside.
Yeah!
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And having brunch with a coffee
and a smoothie. Yeah.
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It does also sometimes mean
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that we then barhop afterwards...
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We can be spontaneous.
..and are out until like 5pm
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and then pass out at home.
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But, like, it... But it's not always
that type of brunch.
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What is life like in Horsham, then?
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It's very slow-paced
because I'm a flight attendant.
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I'm literally like from city
to city to city,
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and when I work, when I come home,
I like a bit more tranquillity.
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How often are you away for work?
Four times a month.
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But my trips,
the minimum would be three days.
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Having that sort of balance between
the two is important.
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I find it important to me.
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You do have a busy life
and you do like your social events.
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I don't want to take away from that.
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He will always make time for you.
Yeah, that's what I mean.
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I just wanted to know
if you'd have time
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for me when I'm here.
Of course. always.
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I wanted to make sure that I'm not
going to take away
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from your life and your events
and your lifestyle.
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No, but you're going to be part of
them. When I'm home,
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I'm not always going to have
the energy... That's fine.
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..to, like, be at events.
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And he'll have to learn
to compromise with that as well.
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I don't go out
and drink every weekend.
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It's not my thing.
So it's going to be very important
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for him to understand
that my home time,
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my life is way slower than his,
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and we're going to have to find
that balance
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in between his events and me resting
and being able to be home.
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Now that you guys are together,
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he'll probably calm down a little
bit and it'll be a different life,
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won't it? Yeah.
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I don't think Davide has anything to
worry about. I'm married now.
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I want to be curling up and watching
movies together
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and ordering takeaway.
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I cannot wait for Davide's
home stay,
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to see how he lives
his everyday life.
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Hopefully this should all just be
a really, really positive week.
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I think we're going
to be more than fine.
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It's taken so long today. Yeah.
But I think
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we just got unlucky with
the traffic.
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I'm sure it's not going to be like
that all the time.
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Rebecca and Bailey are on their way
to Rebecca's hometown of Liverpool.
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I think it's about four hours
usually,
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but it took us about six today.
Maybe more. Maybe more,
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I think today. I just can't wait
to get out the car and get home.
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Hopefully it wouldn't be like this
because
241
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you couldn't do it
if it was like this all the time.
242
00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:41,800
It's made it feel further away.
Yeah.
243
00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:48,440
Home, sweet home.
Yeah. Feel weird to be back?
244
00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:50,600
Being in Hove our bubble has burst.
245
00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:53,040
Because Bailey has the anchor
of Bluebelle,
246
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it does put the pressure on me to
make the big decisions
247
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around moving.
248
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In we come. Right, come on in.
Oh, this is nice.
249
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This is my living room.
The size of this! Here it is.
250
00:11:02,680 --> 00:11:04,160
This is where I'm comfortable.
251
00:11:04,200 --> 00:11:06,760
Like, I've built this house
from the ground up.
252
00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:09,840
I'm really proud of
what I've got here, and it's mine.
253
00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:13,240
This is my kitchen.
This is nice. You like?
254
00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:17,200
Yeah. And it's so different to
where Bailey lives,
255
00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:20,840
a really small flat above
a fish and chip shop.
256
00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:22,440
And that's not what I have here.
257
00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:25,720
Got a little fridge here for, like,
milk and things.
258
00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:27,120
Oh, and wine. Wine.
259
00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:29,480
And then I've got a bigger
fridge over there.
260
00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:32,280
You've got two fridges?
Two fridges. Go on, girl.
261
00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:34,320
It's a very picturesque home.
It's like a show home.
262
00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:38,960
There's a reason that I am here.
Because I know for my future,
263
00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:41,560
this will work really well
when I have a family.
264
00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:43,240
Your house is really nice.
Thank you.
265
00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:44,400
Lovely. It's going to be bloody hard
266
00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:46,600
to get you to move out of here.
I know.
267
00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:48,360
But you can see why I wouldn't want
to leave.
268
00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:50,640
Yeah. It's peaceful here.
Honestly, it's beautiful.
269
00:11:50,680 --> 00:11:52,040
Bec's house is gorgeous.
270
00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:55,400
So I can see why leaving something
like this would be hard.
271
00:11:55,440 --> 00:11:57,040
This whole location decision
272
00:11:57,080 --> 00:11:58,680
is going to be super tough
for the pair of us.
273
00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:02,720
We've both got things
that are pulling us to our areas.
274
00:12:02,760 --> 00:12:06,360
So we'll go to...
This is one of my guest rooms.
275
00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:08,840
This is nice. Nice, isn't it,
in here?
276
00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:11,640
This would be a cute little room
for Bluebelle.
277
00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:16,800
This is my bathroom. Bloody hell.
How many sinks do you want?
278
00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:17,960
Well, it's his and hers.
279
00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:20,320
You've got more sinks here
than I've got in my whole house.
280
00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:22,560
This is where I work.
This is my little clinic.
281
00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:25,080
Oh, this is cool. You'll definitely
be the biggest person
282
00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:27,120
to have ever sat on there.
All right, love. I'll have
283
00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:28,440
the full works, please.
284
00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:30,960
It doesn't matter how nice
everything is here.
285
00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:32,280
Permanent residence couldn't be
286
00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:35,120
up here for me because it is just
so far away from Blue.
287
00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:37,600
I can't make Bec move.
It's not fair
288
00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:40,320
for her to be the only one
that has to consider moving.
289
00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:42,840
This situation is really
a tough one.
290
00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:45,280
Being back home is overwhelming.
291
00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:47,120
Like, it's overwhelming to see you
in my house. Is it?
292
00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:48,680
It's mad.
293
00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:50,800
I am worried.
You're in love with someone,
294
00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:52,080
you want to be with them,
295
00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:54,480
but you just don't have an answer
as to where you can both live.
296
00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:55,680
I'm struggling, really.
297
00:12:55,720 --> 00:12:57,000
Being in Hove and now coming
298
00:12:57,040 --> 00:13:00,720
to Liverpool has dropped us
into our reality.
299
00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:02,480
Yeah. Like, this is
what life would be like.
300
00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:05,400
We still need to sort out
what we're going to do future-wise.
301
00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:07,000
I feel like we're lumping pressure
on ourselves
302
00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:08,480
a little bit with
the whole distance. I do.
303
00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:10,600
I feel a lot of pressure. Yeah.
304
00:13:10,640 --> 00:13:12,080
We do have an elephant
305
00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:14,520
in the room all the time
when it comes to distance. Yeah.
306
00:13:14,560 --> 00:13:16,520
We spend so much time together
and our relationship
307
00:13:16,560 --> 00:13:17,800
gets better and better.
308
00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:21,480
I don't want to let go of what we've
got currently. Let go of it.
309
00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:22,680
Yeah. Yeah.
310
00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:26,440
I honestly don't think
Bailey would ever move from Hove.
311
00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:30,040
He has Bluebelle, so that means that
the pressure's on me.
312
00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:31,680
But I don't feel like that's fair.
313
00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:34,160
I don't think all of the pressure
should be put on me
314
00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:36,760
to leave a life
that I've established in Liverpool.
315
00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:41,520
My business, my friends, my family,
everybody that I love is here.
316
00:13:41,560 --> 00:13:44,080
So I don't want to leave my home.
317
00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:03,680
Come on! This is exactly
what I like.
318
00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:04,880
Yeah? A bit of nature.
319
00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:06,000
Is this a bit of you?
320
00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:07,960
Very much a bit of me.
321
00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:10,200
Right. Come on, then.
Teach me some Cockney slang.
322
00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:11,680
All right, so we've got apples
and pears.
323
00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:13,920
Do you know what that is? Stairs.
Bees and honey?
324
00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:16,880
Money. Jack and Danny.
What's that? Fanny.
325
00:14:18,480 --> 00:14:20,480
Yep.
As home stays continue...
326
00:14:20,520 --> 00:14:21,600
Are you excited?
327
00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:23,840
Yeah. To show me your hometown.
I am, I'm excited
328
00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:25,600
to show you, like,
my day-to-day life,
329
00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:27,480
like how much I, like, slow down.
330
00:14:27,520 --> 00:14:30,520
Davide is taking Keye to his home
in Horsham.
331
00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:34,000
Hopefully you'll be spending a lot
of time here.
332
00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:40,480
Shall we? Let's do it.
333
00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:43,280
Keye's lifestyle is completely
different from mine.
334
00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:44,960
London is fast-paced.
335
00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:47,160
I want Keye to understand
what my routine is.
336
00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:50,200
I want him to understand how much
I slow down when I'm home.
337
00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:53,720
It's important that he enjoys it.
There's a lot on the line right now.
338
00:14:56,400 --> 00:14:58,320
This is home. Yeah!
339
00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:00,840
Friend?
340
00:15:00,880 --> 00:15:02,080
Friend!
341
00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:03,840
Hi, friends! Hi!
342
00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:08,640
I'm really excited for this week,
343
00:15:08,680 --> 00:15:11,520
just to get more on
what his everyday life is like.
344
00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:16,000
Good. How are you? I'm OK.
345
00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:17,320
There is a lot riding on this.
346
00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:20,840
I think it's really important
that I can fit into his life.
347
00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:22,560
Welcome home. Thank you.
348
00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:25,160
Thank you for welcoming me to
your home.
349
00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:27,800
How's things? Oh, great.
350
00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:29,160
Yeah. Brilliant.
351
00:15:30,440 --> 00:15:33,720
Aw. No, we've been good.
It's very like, "Yes, affection."
352
00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:36,160
Love it. I'm really excited
to be here.
353
00:15:36,200 --> 00:15:38,000
I'm really excited to be
in your home.
354
00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:40,240
And thank you for welcoming me in.
355
00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:42,280
And I can't wait to get
to know you both.
356
00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:45,600
I'm excited to show you around.
There's not much to do around here.
357
00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:49,720
But it's very quiet, slow.
358
00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:56,520
Well, they have a Greggs
and we have a Gail's.
359
00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:00,360
We're going to leave you guys.
360
00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:01,920
I'm just going to show him around
the house.
361
00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:04,520
Show him the bedroom.
Ew! Oh, yeah.
362
00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:06,760
Let's go.
363
00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:09,800
I know.
364
00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:13,120
Right, this is my bathroom.
Cleaning products.
365
00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:16,480
Just in case you have an accident.
An accident? I don't know.
366
00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:19,600
I'm not quite sure why Davide's
pointing out the cleaning products.
367
00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:22,680
Everyone in London has a cleaner.
We all do.
368
00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:26,720
Oh! Oh, your mattress is
really hard.
369
00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:32,040
This home, it is very different
to my big, glass,
370
00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:36,960
modern apartment with a wine fridge
and a Thames view.
371
00:16:39,080 --> 00:16:42,000
Your home is very cosy, homely.
Yeah.
372
00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:43,920
I want it to be cosy and homely.
373
00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:48,240
It's slightly anxiety-inducing
to see how D lives.
374
00:16:48,280 --> 00:16:51,920
I couldn't live the lifestyle
that I love here.
375
00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:04,320
I'm nervous. I'm a bit nervous.
Are you?
376
00:17:04,360 --> 00:17:05,800
I am nervous for today.
377
00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:08,520
It's so important for me
that today goes well.
378
00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:11,440
Like my mum, she's a very
big part of my life.
379
00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:14,880
I won't say it to Leisha,
but silently the pressure is on
380
00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:16,920
for Leish to get on with my mum.
381
00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:18,520
Shall I tell her I'm pregnant?
382
00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:20,320
I don't think that'd be the best
impression.
383
00:17:20,360 --> 00:17:22,120
OK. Let's not do that.
384
00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:24,240
Oh, here she is. Hi. Hello.
385
00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:29,240
Hello? You all right?
Yes, darling. Mwah.
386
00:17:30,920 --> 00:17:35,280
You OK? I've missed you. All right?
Hello. How are you?
387
00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:37,360
Oh, and I've got your flowers.
Thank you.
388
00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:38,880
Oh, you're welcome.
389
00:17:38,920 --> 00:17:40,440
Meeting Reiss's mum today,
390
00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:44,160
I know how much she means to him.
And if I do not get her approval,
391
00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:45,640
I'm out the door.
392
00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:49,880
I'm going to quiet my voice
and not swear too much.
393
00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:52,960
Hopefully she does love me just
as much as I love her son.
394
00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:56,600
How are you getting on?
Yeah. We're going good,
395
00:17:56,640 --> 00:17:58,600
for starters.
He's like my best friend.
396
00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:00,880
Well, that's a really,
really good start. Yeah.
397
00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:02,960
When Reiss is not there,
like on the wife swap week,
398
00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:05,760
I was like, "Where's Reiss?" Like...
Yeah.
399
00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:07,880
At the beginning we had a couple
of, like,
400
00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:09,320
silly little barnies.
401
00:18:09,360 --> 00:18:11,120
But since we've been
getting on like
402
00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:13,080
a house on fire. Oh, nice.
403
00:18:13,120 --> 00:18:15,040
Each day we're getting closer
and closer.
404
00:18:15,080 --> 00:18:17,200
And, like, we just get on so well.
405
00:18:17,240 --> 00:18:19,000
And we've got baby names on the go.
406
00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:22,720
Oh, dear. My word.
407
00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:27,160
I was not expecting Leish to bring
up children.
408
00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:29,560
So you're talking
about having children already?
409
00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:32,640
Yeah. I think you've got to leave
it a while.
410
00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:35,920
Yeah. You can't rush anything...
No.
411
00:18:35,960 --> 00:18:38,120
..as serious as having children.
Yeah.
412
00:18:39,720 --> 00:18:40,920
I think it's far too early
413
00:18:40,960 --> 00:18:43,360
for Leisha to be talking
about children.
414
00:18:43,400 --> 00:18:45,680
We want a stable relationship
415
00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:49,120
before we even start
discussing children.
416
00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:52,120
I wouldn't want it
to happen straight away.
417
00:18:52,160 --> 00:18:54,920
I need to pop three out, so...
No, you don't,
418
00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:57,480
for goodness' sake!
Reiss wants three!
419
00:18:57,520 --> 00:18:59,080
Yeah, but not straight away.
420
00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:02,960
Darling, I'm 32 this year.
421
00:19:04,120 --> 00:19:06,040
I'll be popping those sprogs out
in a year.
422
00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:12,920
Are you happy? I am, yeah.
Yeah? Any problems?
423
00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:15,800
Leisha was very fast-paced
with her emotions.
424
00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:17,680
I go a lot slower than Leisha.
425
00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:20,000
She wasn't happy at the pace
I was moving in.
426
00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:21,160
And I was like saying, like,
427
00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:23,280
"Listen, with you, like,
saying that to me,
428
00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:25,000
"you're making me go even slower.
429
00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:26,640
"I feel like I was getting
pressured with you."
430
00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:28,480
You don't do needy, do you? No.
431
00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:32,320
You move at your pace
and just keep being you.
432
00:19:32,360 --> 00:19:35,760
What do you think about this
child chat
433
00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:37,920
so early on in your relationship?
434
00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:41,680
Of course I want kids. Leisha wants
kids. Yeah. But not now.
435
00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:43,960
That needs to all slow down a bit.
436
00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,720
So you need to be 100% sure
437
00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:49,480
before you even start talking
about babies.
438
00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:54,520
Leisha is absolutely lovely,
but I'm very worried
439
00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:58,120
that if Leisha keeps
pushing Reiss too hard,
440
00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:00,200
he will go the other way.
441
00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:09,320
Ice cream tasting.
442
00:20:09,360 --> 00:20:12,760
No. Ooh, pizza eating competition.
I like pizza. No.
443
00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:14,160
Are you taking me diamond shopping?
444
00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:16,560
No. OK, cos I like diamonds.
445
00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:17,920
Try and guess.
446
00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:19,240
I love cats.
447
00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:23,080
I have three beautiful cats.
They are everything to me.
448
00:20:23,120 --> 00:20:24,240
They're part of my life.
449
00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:26,360
So it's important that the person
that's going
450
00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:30,000
to be with me is OK with cats.
I want to see how he reacts
451
00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:32,320
to other cats before I introduce
him to my own.
452
00:20:32,360 --> 00:20:34,360
Three, two, one.
453
00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:36,920
A cat cafe!
454
00:20:38,360 --> 00:20:41,000
Would I have rathered a dog caff?
Of course. Yes.
455
00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:45,000
Um, but I... I don't have to take
any of them home with me.
456
00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:49,080
My idea of a surprise is going
to get diamonds.
457
00:20:49,120 --> 00:20:52,840
Or maybe a nice glass of champagne.
Not cats.
458
00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:55,440
That's a really big cat.
459
00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:59,000
Hey, guys. Mm, hi.
460
00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:04,720
Oh. I honestly thought you were
to put it on me.
461
00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:05,760
No.
462
00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:10,080
How do you feel about cats?
I'd just rather have a dog.
463
00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:14,800
Why a dog? Because, well, a cat
464
00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:17,880
will eat your face within
eight hours of you dying.
465
00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:20,040
A dog wouldn't do that.
OK.
466
00:21:21,120 --> 00:21:24,000
Would you open up to cats once you
get to know mine
467
00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:26,080
and see their behaviours and stuff?
468
00:21:26,120 --> 00:21:27,840
I'm not going to be overly playful
with the cats,
469
00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:29,000
but they can be there.
470
00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:30,440
OK.
471
00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:33,720
Do you need more from me than that?
I come with the cats.
472
00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:36,080
So, yeah. It's a cat.
473
00:21:36,120 --> 00:21:37,480
It's not a big deal.
474
00:21:39,120 --> 00:21:41,400
The cats being everywhere
is uncomfortable.
475
00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:46,800
It's a lot of cats,
which is unpredictable.
476
00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:49,040
Just very overwhelming. Mm-mm!
477
00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:52,480
You're uncomfortable with the
conversation. Yeah. Just yeah.
478
00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:55,960
This is just really stupid,
in my opinion.
479
00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:58,160
OK. You'll think about it.
480
00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:01,680
I just feel like any fun
was taken out
481
00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:04,240
of this when it suddenly became
like some serious conversation,
482
00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:06,280
as though I was co-parenting
a three-year-old child.
483
00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:07,760
It's a cat. OK.
484
00:22:11,120 --> 00:22:12,320
This was supposed to be fun.
485
00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:15,640
Well, surprisingly,
something I don't like
486
00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:17,800
was never going to be
particularly fun, was it?
487
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:20,000
OK.
488
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:23,840
Can I go, please?
489
00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:26,800
Yeah. Thank you.
490
00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:28,240
No worries. OK, good.
491
00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:35,560
Don't walk away. It is a small,
dark space with eight cats.
492
00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:38,560
I'm done. Do you want to stay in
a hotel or
493
00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:40,600
do you want to come home with me
and solve this?
494
00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:45,040
I'm serious now. Like, I don't know
what else I can do here.
495
00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:47,520
You're not hearing my point
in any way.
496
00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:50,000
I'm the one that was put
in an uncomfortable situation!
497
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,480
I know, but when you're talking,
it feels like...
498
00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:54,840
Because I was trying to stick it out
because it's important to you!
499
00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:56,200
I know, but when you're talking,
500
00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:59,160
even just then,
it's like it's my fault.
501
00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:00,760
Like, I'm on your side here.
502
00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:02,680
I'm happy to stay in a hotel.
503
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:05,880
This is a really overwhelming,
very uncomfortable situation.
504
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:07,280
That was just too much.
505
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:08,520
I can't do anything.
506
00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:11,240
I can't speak, I can't say...
Oh, I'm frustrated.
507
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:13,040
I'm frustrated now. Frustrated.
508
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:15,040
I don't think I have done
anything wrong.
509
00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:17,720
We could have left together
and discussed this.
510
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:19,560
Fucking frustrated. Fuck me.
511
00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:23,840
I'm not doing this.
512
00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:38,640
We're here.
We've arrived at Bournemouth!
513
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:40,360
Oh, I'm so pleased to be here.
514
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,360
You're in Edinburgh now.
Oh, sick. OK.
515
00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:47,680
OK. There's your castle.
Wow. Oh, my God.
516
00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:52,800
You're going to flow forwards
onto your hands. Oh, my God.
517
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:55,960
Use the strength of your arms.
Ah! Yes. Nice.
518
00:23:57,480 --> 00:23:59,320
Babe, that was so good.
519
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:03,080
It's so good to be home.
520
00:24:03,120 --> 00:24:04,840
But especially good to be home
with you.
521
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:12,120
This is my home! Oh, nice!
522
00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:14,600
I love the sofa. Welcome!
523
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:18,120
What do you think? Oh, lovely.
How girlie is it, do you think?
524
00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:20,760
Yeah, I'm not sure about...
I'm not sure about that.
525
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:23,680
I love that cushion!
526
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:26,480
It feels great having
John in my home.
527
00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:29,600
I am married now, so my home
is his home at the end of the day,
528
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:32,960
so I really hope, you know, he fits
in and feels comfortable here.
529
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:36,400
This is my bedroom. Oh!
530
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:37,440
Who's this?
531
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:39,000
SHE LAUGHS
532
00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:40,040
It's my little friend
533
00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:42,640
that I used to cuddle at night
when I didn't have you.
534
00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:46,720
Longing for a husband, hugging...
Yeah, exactly!
535
00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:48,960
So, yeah.
Sorry, now I have a husband,
536
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:51,800
you might have to sleep over there.
537
00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:56,160
BAGPIPES PLAY
538
00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:00,720
Did you know
that this is the Royal Mile?
539
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:04,280
Edinburgh is absolutely beautiful.
The city is amazing.
540
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:05,800
I don't know about moving up here.
541
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:07,440
It's a little bit chilly for myself.
542
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:09,200
Right. Let's go look at
the tartan.
543
00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:12,400
Oh, look at this!
544
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:14,560
When we have a child,
545
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:15,720
what one would you rather?
546
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:18,280
Would you rather this one
or this one?
547
00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:22,360
This is for a little girl.
That is pretty sweet.
548
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:23,480
Yeah. Yeah?
549
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:25,960
Right, but we ain't got a baby on
the way yet, so put that down.
550
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:30,800
A little bit too early to be picking
up baby clothes.
551
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:32,320
Put a pin in it for now.
552
00:25:32,360 --> 00:25:34,560
Yeah. OK, so that's in the future.
553
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:45,840
I feel like I've not seen Nikole
for so long,
554
00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:48,080
and it's only in-laws week
that I saw her last.
555
00:25:48,120 --> 00:25:51,280
But for that reason,
I think she's going to have a lot
556
00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:53,480
of questions about
where me and Leah are at.
557
00:25:55,360 --> 00:25:57,480
Oh, you made me jump. Hey! You OK?
558
00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:01,480
I'm really excited to see Leah,
but whenever
559
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:03,800
I've seen them together,
they've had bickers,
560
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:07,640
so I don't know
if they're able to get past that.
561
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:09,200
Have yous been all right?
562
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:11,080
Yeah. It's been up and down.
But we've had a good home stay,
563
00:26:11,120 --> 00:26:12,840
haven't we? We've had a really good
home stay. It's been...
564
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:16,560
The last time I see yous was...
Oh. ..when I come for dinner.
565
00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:18,680
There's a girl in another couple,
566
00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:22,840
and I felt like Leah was being
a little bit overfamiliar with her.
567
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:24,160
During in-laws week,
568
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:27,120
Leigh's concerns over Leah's
behaviour with Rebecca...
569
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:28,800
I normally go for like dark hair,
570
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:30,400
gym girl kind of vibe.
Dark features.
571
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:32,840
..sparked conflict for the couple.
572
00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:34,360
You've been telling me this
whole time that
573
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:35,800
that conversation never happened.
574
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:38,160
You actually did say that
that was your type. No, no, no.
575
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:40,480
I never said Rebecca. I've just said
dark-haired gym girl.
576
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:43,040
I don't like being lied to.
Yeah, but I haven't lied.
577
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:46,720
So... Yeah, we were in a bad place,
then. ..that was rocky, then.
578
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:49,480
That was a bad patch, weren't it?
Yeah.
579
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:50,600
I said the other day, I was like,
580
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:54,560
"I wish I'd seen you on
your home stay weeks ago."
581
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,520
I see a much softer side to her,
which I hadn't been getting.
582
00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,600
So it has been really nice
for me to see that.
583
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:02,080
Are you in a position
where you'd move?
584
00:27:02,120 --> 00:27:03,440
Um... If yous was to...
585
00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:05,760
Yeah. If things went well
between us,
586
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:08,200
I can live wherever.
I quite like Essex.
587
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:11,640
Yeah. How many days were you
at your home stay for?
588
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:15,040
Yeah, the first day,
you weren't at my home stay,
589
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:18,800
were you? So...
No, I went a day late because
590
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:21,560
we had a little bit of a situation
the night before.
591
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:24,480
Why? Oh, I tried to gloss over
that one,
592
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:27,400
but of course, you're not going
to allow me to, are you? No.
593
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:32,240
Oh, God. ..hell.
Um, so we went out...
594
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:35,920
We went out for drinks
after a dinner party.
595
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:39,600
Mm-mm. And I bumped into two
people... Well, one person,
596
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:42,240
and two girls that I knew from
years ago.
597
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:44,120
And I was chatting to them
and stuff,
598
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:45,680
but I didn't introduce Leigh.
599
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:47,480
The reason I didn't go on
the home stay was
600
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:49,960
because I thought there might have
been more to that situation,
601
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:54,200
and I felt like she was just around
this one person a lot,
602
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:55,480
and she didn't leave
603
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:57,760
at the same time as the rest
of us left, she stayed behind.
604
00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:00,600
Five minutes later.
I was getting pissed off about
605
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:01,680
the fact that I felt
606
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:05,240
like I'd been disrespected,
so I just needed a minute.
607
00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:08,480
She's overthought a situation,
and then it's got in her head,
608
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:11,120
and because she's used to
that from her past,
609
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:12,840
it's then projected into
610
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:15,400
that's something I must be doing
as well.
611
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:17,520
What I want to reiterate is
that all of
612
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:21,280
these situations haven't just come
from me overthinking everything,
613
00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:24,800
and you've not ever done
a thing that's like not...
614
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,160
You were in a bad mood that day.
Let's be real.
615
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:30,880
Be real right now.
I'm just telling the story of
616
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:33,480
that's how it made me feel
in that moment.
617
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:38,720
This is all a fabricated thing
in your head, because it's not...
618
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:40,280
There was nothing ever to worry
about there.
619
00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:43,240
But this is the issue, Leah.
You're telling me it's fabricated.
620
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:46,800
Yeah. But if I felt disrespected
in that moment by your behaviour...
621
00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:50,400
..don't tell me
that that's unwarranted
622
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:53,280
or that I've fabricated me
feeling disrespected.
623
00:28:57,680 --> 00:28:59,200
Do I feel like you could have
624
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:02,040
done more in that moment
to make me feel
625
00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:04,840
like there wasn't more to it?
Yes, you could have.
626
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:09,400
If she felt disrespected,
she's entitled to her feelings. OK.
627
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:12,800
Do you know what I mean? If you
think I disrespected you
on that night, that's fine.
628
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:18,680
We'll leave it there. Yeah. Mm.
629
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:26,560
It's been a nine out of ten week.
I'm a little bit shocked.
630
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:29,800
She's overreacted to something
that was absolutely nothing.
631
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:31,640
I mean, just drop it.
632
00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:34,800
Right. I'm going to
leave you to catch up.
633
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:37,080
Do you want any drinks bringing back
or anything? No, that's all right.
634
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:38,960
I'm all right at the minute.
Thank you. Thank you.
635
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:50,960
What? What? Nah, that's...
That's a lot, you know?
636
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:52,280
Yeah. I know.
637
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:54,680
What do you feel like?
638
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:57,480
I feel like it's a shame
639
00:29:57,520 --> 00:29:59,400
because we've had such
a good home stay.
640
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:02,720
But are you happy?
I'm quite, like, mentally drained
641
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:06,640
because there's just been a lot
that I've had to work on.
642
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:10,200
But as a whole, I'm happy.
This last week has been so good.
643
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:12,280
Like we've just laughed
continuously.
644
00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:15,120
We've had the best time.
645
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:16,360
What are your thoughts?
646
00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:18,920
I don't see it working,
647
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:21,160
and I really wanted it to work
for both of you.
648
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:24,360
If I was in your position,
I would leave.
649
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:28,720
Yeah, it's one of them ones that
feels like you don't want
650
00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:31,080
to walk away from something that's
got so much good in it,
651
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:33,280
but then you've got to be real.
Yeah.
652
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:35,360
Yeah.
653
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:39,920
I really didn't want today to go
like this,
654
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,080
and I wasn't expecting me
and Leah to bicker, to be honest.
655
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:43,480
We've had such a good home stay,
656
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:46,720
but speaking with Nikole
has definitely just made me see mine
657
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:49,520
and Leah's relationship from
an outside point of view.
658
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:52,080
There's still parts of me
that is really optimistic,
659
00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:54,280
because there's so many good parts
of me and Leah,
660
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:56,760
but it makes me re-evaluate where me
661
00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:59,360
and Leah are at
and if we can move forward.
662
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:00,840
Is it my time to walk away?
663
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:16,120
Morning!
How do you feel about Edinburgh?
664
00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:17,880
I love this city. Do you?
665
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:19,920
Yeah. You get, like, the history,
666
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,480
you get the castles.
You love a castle, don't you?
667
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:24,160
I do. I do love a castle.
668
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:26,000
Almost as much as I love a pyramid.
669
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:28,640
Really?
670
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:31,720
This looks beautiful.
Aw, you're welcome.
671
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:33,400
I need to up my scrambled egg
game now.
672
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:35,160
Your scrambled eggs are perfect how
they are.
673
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,600
While home stays continue
for most of the couples...
674
00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:38,760
I've got a new best friend, look.
675
00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:40,480
I know, look at her.
She's obsessed with you. Hello!
676
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:42,400
Do you like me or
do you like chorizo?
677
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:43,880
I think you like chorizo.
678
00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:47,360
Grace...
679
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:48,520
Aw! Hey.
680
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:52,560
..and Ashley are taking time apart
in their respective hometowns.
681
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:56,440
Grace and I have had a bad week.
I just don't want to argue any more.
682
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:58,400
I've just got no
argument left in me.
683
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:00,120
The dinner party was horrendous.
684
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:03,960
I never really feel
listened to or resolved.
685
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:06,240
I just always feel brushed off.
686
00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:08,480
At the most recent dinner party...
687
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:13,240
I feel chipped away so much
that now I'm not reacting well.
688
00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:16,800
..a series of clashes between
Grace and Ashley came to a head...
689
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:19,280
I'm really sad because everything's
gone really sour.
690
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:21,040
I don't know if I'm ever going to be
able to see you
691
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:23,160
in the same light again,
and you don't seem to care.
692
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:26,040
..leaving their marriage
hanging desperately in the balance.
693
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:30,560
I'm struggling with the amount
that you find wrong with me.
694
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:33,160
This isn't going to go anywhere.
695
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:35,520
I don't know what we're trying
to work through.
696
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:40,240
What's been going on?
697
00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:41,560
You're here alone. Obviously,
698
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:44,000
I've not seen you since in-laws.
Yeah.
699
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:45,720
It feels like a long time ago.
700
00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:48,760
I don't even know where to begin,
to be honest.
701
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:53,640
Um, at the most recent dinner party,
it ended a bit sourly.
702
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:58,760
We did partner swap, and we sort
of went into that on bad terms.
703
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:00,840
I did ask him before we went on
partner swap,
704
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:02,040
do you think you could, like,
705
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:05,000
actually think about what I've
said? And he said, "Yeah, OK."
706
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:08,080
And I spent partner swap thinking
about the marriage,
707
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,200
what I could be doing better,
you know,
708
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:12,280
doing, like, the work essentially.
709
00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:14,360
Ash came back from partner swap
and was like...
710
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:18,880
Mm. ..this is me summarising,
but like, "You're the problem.
711
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:21,360
"Like, you don't see me for who
I am.
712
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:24,480
"I'm a good person
and I'm a gentleman." Yeah.
713
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:28,160
"And until you realise that,
this marriage is doomed."
714
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:29,680
I came into it knowing full well
715
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:31,760
if I'm marrying a stranger,
I'm going to have to adjust,
716
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:34,320
I'm going to have to change.
But it just didn't...
717
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:37,360
It never felt like he was
willing to do that.
718
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:38,520
Commitment ceremonies,
719
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:42,280
so me saying like I didn't like it
when he told me, "Wear a dress".
720
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:44,760
Yeah. He would be like,
"Well, I only told her
721
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:46,720
"because I knew the dress code
and she didn't",
722
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:48,080
which was a fabrication.
723
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:50,000
I did know the dress code.
And I didn't like it
724
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:52,040
when he told me to keep
725
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:54,680
my nails done and he'd be like,
"I only said -
726
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,720
"can I treat you to a manicure?"
Yeah. No, you definitely
727
00:33:57,760 --> 00:33:59,720
didn't say that.
And if he had have said that,
728
00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:01,080
why would I be bringing it up?
729
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:03,280
So I started to feel a bit like
I was overthinking. Yeah.
730
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:05,800
I would sort of sit on that couch,
I'd hear him twisting things
731
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:07,520
to be more positive
and favourable to him.
732
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:08,920
Like sometimes
I'd take issue with him
733
00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:11,760
about something
and he'd be like, "No, I didn't.
734
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:13,840
"Nope, didn't happen."
735
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:16,320
And I'd just be like,
"Well, how do I argue with you now?"
736
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:18,600
How do I...? Yeah. Well, you feel
like you're going crazy.
737
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:21,640
I'm not really one to have a big
argument, but it really bothered me.
738
00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:24,080
Like, I was just a bit like,
"How are we supposed to get help
739
00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:25,480
"if you're not going to admit
740
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:27,680
"and acknowledge what's
going on behind closed doors?"
741
00:34:27,720 --> 00:34:30,160
Like if I ever brought something up,
it offended him,
742
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:32,640
it became an argument.
Other people heard about it.
743
00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:35,280
He was always going to others.
744
00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:37,280
He was so, like,
revered by the group.
745
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:39,400
Everyone adores him.
746
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:42,240
Everyone chooses him
in every, like, challenge,
747
00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:43,880
who you think is the best husband
or whatever.
748
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:45,400
It's always Ash.
749
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:48,960
And so sometimes it felt like what
I was saying wasn't that believable.
750
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:50,360
And a lot of the time
people would be like,
751
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:51,720
"Well, did he really say it
like that?"
752
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:54,840
I felt really isolated.
That's horrible.
753
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:55,880
Yeah.
754
00:34:58,720 --> 00:35:01,000
How was he when you last saw him?
Good. Happy.
755
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:06,320
He's on... He's on his own.
756
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:08,640
Hello. Hello. Hello.
757
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:11,480
It's shit being here on my own.
Not where I wanted to be.
758
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:14,720
I'm hurt. I thought I'd be coming
out of this with a wife.
759
00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:17,320
But I'm back to square one.
760
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:18,840
We've done home stay separately.
761
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,720
Grace has not come with me. Why?
762
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:25,240
We're not in the best place.
So what's, like, the main issue?
763
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:28,840
I've had to think about everything,
everything I say,
764
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:30,040
every action I make.
765
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:34,360
I just don't feel like Grace
sees me for who I am.
766
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:38,200
She's a good person,
but she lives in her head so much.
767
00:35:38,240 --> 00:35:40,960
But have you both tried
to just meet each other halfway
768
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,120
and think, like,
"We're here for a reason?"
769
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:46,560
We've both tried.
It's not a case of, "I'm right,
770
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:48,120
"she's wrong." We've both put
771
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:51,320
so much into this,
I don't know what to do.
772
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:53,320
Every relationship takes compromise.
Yeah, absolutely.
773
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:55,440
But we've both compromised,
compromised, compromised.
774
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:56,960
And now we're at a stage where...
775
00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:02,160
..she's not what I need
and I'm not what she needs.
776
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,000
So how are you feeling about it?
777
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:06,680
Are you missing her,
from being away from her?
778
00:36:06,720 --> 00:36:09,760
Yeah, I do have feelings for her.
I do care for her.
779
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:13,040
But I need Grace
to be a different person
780
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:15,240
and I feel like she needs me to be
a different person.
781
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:17,640
And you can't ask her to do that.
I can't ask her to do it.
782
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:20,760
When I did say,
"Look, we're just different people",
783
00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:23,080
I almost felt like a weight
had been lifted.
784
00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:25,360
We've got a completely
different sense of humour as well.
785
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:29,000
Even in bad situations,
to stay my happy, bubbly self,
786
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:32,000
I kind of... I make a joke of it
and I get over it and it's gone.
787
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:35,400
Yeah. I do that and Grace kind of
sees it as an attack,
788
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:38,880
so I've had to stop doing that. But
that's giving up who you are, then.
789
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:40,600
Everything nice I do is questioned.
790
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:44,520
I can't physically do any more
791
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:47,360
to prove to her who I am
as a person.
792
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:52,720
I am so full of self doubt.
793
00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:55,000
Yeah. Have I got this wrong?
794
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:58,760
Have I overreacted? Like,
have I completely misunderstood?
795
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:01,720
Like, is he the person
that everyone else thinks he is?
796
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:05,080
Like, why am I the only person
that sees him this way?
797
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:09,760
No, he is doing this.
He wants me to feel apologetic,
798
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:11,320
contrite. He wants to be begged
799
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:14,800
for forgiveness so that he
can feel in control.
800
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:18,080
It's the self-doubt
that's getting me now.
801
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:20,160
It's like I used to feel so strong
802
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:23,400
and I'm frustrated with myself
for persevering.
803
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:24,800
Um, I don't know.
804
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:27,720
It was important to me.
Yeah. Of course,
805
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:30,800
because you've come
into this wanting to make it work.
806
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:33,600
For all the things I'm saying
I didn't like,
807
00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:37,680
there was so many I did, you know?
Like the hope of it all.
808
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:41,040
I just got completely lost.
809
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:42,800
I think maybe I just want
810
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:45,000
the partnership and the marriage,
like,
811
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:47,320
way more than I care to admit
to myself.
812
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:50,480
Where do you think it
goes from here?
813
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:54,720
There's a commitment
ceremony coming up.
814
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:59,080
I don't see the value in me going
and sitting next to him on a couch.
815
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:02,080
He only cares about his
self image. Yeah.
816
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:04,280
And so I don't think
it's good to go.
817
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:07,080
I don't think it benefits me
in any way.
818
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:08,120
I've had enough.
819
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:10,800
I'm sorry, darling.
820
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:16,800
It's just over-over, then? Yeah.
821
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:18,760
So you don't go back.
822
00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:20,360
That's the end.
823
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:22,440
Why would you put yourself
through that?
824
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:28,160
You have tried your hardest
825
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:31,880
and unfortunately
in life things just don't work.
826
00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:35,840
The top and bottom line is that we
speak completely
827
00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:38,200
different languages.
I'm not saying that I'm perfect
828
00:38:38,240 --> 00:38:43,320
in this by any means,
but I feel out of options.
829
00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:47,760
You're still wearing your ring. So
it's like part of you is trying not
830
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:48,880
to give up.
831
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:53,560
But is it just... No, I think...
..so far off on compatibility?
832
00:38:56,240 --> 00:38:58,720
I kept it on for respect.
833
00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:00,840
I didn't want to take it off
and kind of upset her, but...
834
00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:05,000
Probably time to take it off,
to be fair.
835
00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:13,520
I'm looking forward
to meeting your mum and dad.
836
00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:17,200
I can't wait to see them
and for us to show them,
837
00:39:17,240 --> 00:39:20,320
like, how good we are
and how good it's been.
838
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:24,240
I'm not worried,
so I don't want you to be worried.
839
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:27,800
Are you going to like him, Mum?
Yes, I know. We know
840
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:30,360
it takes a lot to impress you.
841
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:32,760
On her wedding day,
Abigail's biggest worry
842
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:35,640
was gaining Mum's approval
for her new husband.
843
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:38,320
She's been broken-hearted
so many times.
844
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:41,320
I will not see her hurt again.
845
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:46,160
Just to warn you, so she's never
liked any of my previous partners.
846
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:49,640
I am the one that vets everybody.
Yeah, I'm the bad guy.
847
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:51,960
The last thing that I want is to
be upset by...
848
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:54,960
Or some arrogant person
that comes along.
849
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:57,640
I'll show you that you can trust me.
That's what I want to hear.
850
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:01,560
I know how important this day is
for you.
851
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:05,320
So I'm just hoping that we can
leave this day as happy
852
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:07,080
as I left my home stay.
853
00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:10,360
My family, you know, they're the
most important people in my life.
854
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:13,960
I'm really looking forward
to seeing Abi today.
855
00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:18,320
The only thing I ask in life
for Abigail is that she's happy.
856
00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:20,880
I would like to hear
that she's found someone
857
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:22,680
who can see in her what I do.
858
00:40:22,720 --> 00:40:25,800
And I do hope that
that's the case now.
859
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:27,600
Hi! Hello!
860
00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:28,920
How are you?
861
00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:30,360
Hi, Francois. Hi.
862
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:32,440
I'm so excited to see Mum and Dad.
863
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:34,320
I know they've been
worried about me,
864
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:35,880
and I know all they want for me
865
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:38,960
is to find a man that's going
to respect me.
866
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:42,360
And I can't wait to show Mum and Dad
that I have that.
867
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:45,600
You both look really, really well.
868
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:48,040
I can tell by the smiles
on your faces that...
869
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:49,120
We are very well.
870
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:50,960
LAUGHTER
871
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:52,240
Things are going well?
872
00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:54,400
Everything's OK? Yeah. Honestly,
they've been amazing.
873
00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:55,920
It couldn't have gone any better.
874
00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:59,680
Dig in, everyone. Help yourselves.
This is lovely.
875
00:40:59,720 --> 00:41:01,720
You know, we had some chats on
the wedding day. Yeah.
876
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:03,120
So I wanted to come and reassure you
877
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:05,080
that everything
that I said we would do,
878
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:07,240
you know, honesty, trust, respect.
879
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:10,680
now, a few weeks down the line,
those have all come true.
880
00:41:10,720 --> 00:41:12,680
Yeah. So I was really excited to
show you, you know,
881
00:41:12,720 --> 00:41:14,800
look at what we've got.
It's really good.
882
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:17,120
When you first met,
883
00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:19,360
and the way you felt then,
884
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:22,040
do you still feel the same?
It's still...?
885
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:26,000
Even better. You said to me, like,
"Once you meet the person,
886
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:27,800
"then you'll know." I was like,
"That's utter rubbish.
887
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:30,480
"Like, I don't
ever imagine myself doing that."
888
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:33,240
But I found him.
And you are obviously bringing out
889
00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:36,000
a lot in Abigail because
she's glowing.
890
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:38,480
He told me that he loved me. Woo!
891
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:42,240
And I told him that I loved
him, too.
892
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:45,640
It's a dream come true for me.
893
00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:48,480
It's nice that you can see, like,
how happy we are as well,
894
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:52,280
because... Yeah. I just wanted you
both to be reassured.
895
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:54,640
I feel so happy.
Yeah, yeah, this is what we wanted.
896
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:56,200
Aw, that's nice.
That's what we wanted.
897
00:41:56,240 --> 00:41:59,720
It's nice, because, you know, I've
had... Like, you know, you're...
898
00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:01,080
I'm struggling to talk now.
899
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:03,600
Aw. You've always been my person
that I can rely on.
900
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:04,840
But, like, I say to John,
901
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:07,680
like throughout this, he's been
my person I can rely on.
902
00:42:07,720 --> 00:42:10,040
And it's nice I've got, like,
John now,
903
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:12,840
so it's not, like, me
off-loading on you.
904
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:14,640
Like, you know, I have
that support in John,
905
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:16,080
and it feels really nice. You know,
906
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:20,960
I wanted you to have that.
And now we're complete.
907
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:22,400
So you'll always be there,
obviously, for me.
908
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:24,960
Don't worry. But it's... Yeah.
Always, darling.
909
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:26,480
Always you have my support.
910
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:30,040
But I'm so happy you've got
that now... Yeah.
911
00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:32,200
..from a partner. Yeah. From John.
912
00:42:32,240 --> 00:42:37,720
And you can plan your life now. Mm.
And just get on with it.
913
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:42,080
It's amazing seeing my mum and dad
so happy.
914
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:44,800
Finally, my parents approve
of my partner
915
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:47,960
and I feel so lucky
that it is John.
916
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:56,680
I can't express how happy I am
to see them both.
917
00:42:56,720 --> 00:42:59,480
She's transformed into a beautiful
young woman.
918
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:00,800
She always has been,
919
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:03,920
but that confidence that she lacks,
she's gained.
920
00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:08,000
I'm surprised, really.
She looks different to me physically
921
00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:12,000
and her heart looks different
as well.
922
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:15,800
So I think she's very, very happy.
This is what we wanted.
923
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:27,560
It'll just be nice to see them,
won't it? Yeah.
924
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:29,800
You'll notice
that they love to overshare as well.
925
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:32,320
They're very open and honest,
just like me.
926
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:36,240
I am a little bit nervous
about Reiss meeting the family.
927
00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:38,480
I know how intense they can be,
928
00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:42,840
and my sister is very straight
and upfront,
929
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:46,120
so I just hope they don't
give him too much of a grilling.
930
00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:48,800
Hello! Hello!
931
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:51,720
Bonjour. Oh, bonjour.
932
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:53,480
I would love to know
more about Reiss
933
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:54,800
and delve deeper into
934
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:58,640
how he feels, his intentions
for the rest of his life.
935
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:00,640
Right. Want to know everything.
936
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:02,400
OK, where should we start?
937
00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:06,040
Because Leisha wants a family.
She wants that solid unit.
938
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:09,560
And I need to know Reiss is in it
for the same thing.
939
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:12,880
How do you feel your feelings
are going, then?
940
00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:14,600
I mean, you can't not like Reiss.
I know.
941
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:16,120
He's like the most kindest...
942
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:19,520
He looks after me.
We're laughing all the time.
943
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:22,520
We joke around.
I feel so comfortable with Reiss,
944
00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:23,600
it's unbelievable. Mm-mm.
945
00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:27,040
Like I have been my complete
and utter genuine self.
946
00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:28,800
He's really good for me.
947
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:30,800
Do you think you're falling in love?
948
00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:32,560
Are you in love?
949
00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:35,200
Do you think it could
turn into love?
950
00:44:35,240 --> 00:44:37,720
I wouldn't say I'm in love
just yet...
951
00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:40,840
..but it's got potential.
952
00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:42,440
At the beginning, um...
953
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:47,960
..Leisha was getting feelings a bit
faster than myself.
954
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:51,680
I did say, like,
Leish is like 100mph.
955
00:44:51,720 --> 00:44:55,440
She is an open book. And
I'm unfortunately a slow burner.
956
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:56,720
Right.
957
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:01,160
But, like, we communicated
that properly with each other.
958
00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:03,400
The experiment's going to come to
an end.
959
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:07,560
So where do you see it going?
After the experiment,
960
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:09,360
it will be obviously a huge test
for us.
961
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:11,560
We live, like, as you know,
962
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:13,320
it's not around the corner
from each other.
963
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:15,400
But every weekend
I'll either come up here,
964
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:17,200
and Leisha can come to Essex.
Right, will you?
965
00:45:17,240 --> 00:45:18,720
Yeah. He's got such a big family
966
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:21,080
and they're so close, and they're
so welcoming to me.
967
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:23,760
I would move anywhere with
a big family unit.
968
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:24,960
I'm dreading when it's over
969
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:28,040
because I just know I'm going to
be like, "Where's Reiss?" Oh!
970
00:45:28,080 --> 00:45:29,840
Miserable! I'll be like,
"Where's Reiss?"
971
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:37,320
I'm worried
because I can see she is falling.
972
00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:44,000
I can already see that you're booking
your flights to Essex.
973
00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:46,080
You really,
really want to settle down.
974
00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:48,120
Yeah. You want to have a family.
Yeah.
975
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:52,520
I need to have that gut feeling
that you're the same.
976
00:45:57,080 --> 00:45:58,800
I want all that as well.
Of course I do.
977
00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:00,600
I thought I'd have children by now.
978
00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:06,040
I'm scared for the long term. Yeah.
979
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:11,880
I wouldn't still be here if we
didn't have a connection. Yeah.
980
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:14,280
Yeah. At the end of the day,
I am a slow...
981
00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:15,960
I do take a bit longer.
982
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:20,240
We just need to know
that the intentions are there.
983
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:21,560
Yeah. Yeah. There is?
984
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:24,160
We wouldn't have
had these discussions about,
985
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:28,160
like, things after the experiment
if there wasn't no intention there.
986
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:32,280
Yeah. Yeah, yeah.
But I do think, you know, early on
987
00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:37,280
whether it's worth making
the effort for. Yeah.
988
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:40,400
I'm going to leave you just to have
a little natter between yourself.
989
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:43,200
After speaking to Reiss, after
getting to know him a bit better,
990
00:46:43,240 --> 00:46:45,440
I'm definitely worried
about Leisha getting hurt
991
00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:47,520
because I feel like Leisha is
somebody that's willing
992
00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:49,000
to compromise a lot.
993
00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:51,640
Right. Right. Pleasure
994
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:53,000
meeting you. I don't want a kiss.
995
00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:55,560
LAUGHTER
996
00:46:55,600 --> 00:47:00,120
My worry is - is Reiss as into
Leisha as Leisha is into Reiss?
997
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:03,120
I'll see yous in a bit.
Catch you later now. Bye.
998
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:10,120
What do you think?
I can't help my doubts.
999
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:11,600
But what is your doubts, then?
1000
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:17,080
Is he willing to put in the work?
Because things are going to happen.
1001
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:19,440
There's going to be... Yeah.
There's going to be hurdles, right?
1002
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:21,560
That is the one thing that does
concern me.
1003
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:28,280
The distance can work no bother.
If you really,
1004
00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:29,960
really like each other
1005
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:32,120
and you're really into each other.
1006
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:35,760
I need to feel like he is like,
1007
00:47:35,800 --> 00:47:40,280
"Oh, my God, I want to worship
the ground she walks on."
1008
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:43,400
But I don't think he's like
that as a person.
1009
00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:45,840
Maybe not, then.
So we'll find out. Yeah.
1010
00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:47,760
That is my concern.
1011
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:50,000
Leisha wants things
for the longevity,
1012
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:53,200
and I hope he feels
the same way for her.
1013
00:47:53,240 --> 00:47:55,680
Leighanne just wants an answer now.
Of course.
1014
00:47:55,720 --> 00:47:58,880
And I want the answer now. Trust me,
I'm just as impatient as you.
1015
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:01,640
And I've had to calm myself.
1016
00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:04,920
It is a bit of a reality check
1017
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:07,280
that my feelings
are maybe slightly stronger.
1018
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:11,600
That does scare me. I'm nervous.
1019
00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:15,680
My whole bubble just burst,
because that is one of my fears -
1020
00:48:15,720 --> 00:48:17,760
what are we going to be like
in the real world?
1021
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:22,800
Trust your gut.
And what's your gut telling you?
1022
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:25,600
I feel very conflicted.
I feel very, very conflicted.
1023
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:46,680
I haven't heard from Keye
since last night.
1024
00:48:46,720 --> 00:48:49,000
I have no idea where he is.
1025
00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:52,400
Keye walking away makes me
feel abandoned.
1026
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:54,720
I don't walk away from problems,
I face them.
1027
00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:57,680
If this is how he reacts
to something like this,
1028
00:48:57,720 --> 00:49:00,480
how is he going to react
when we have big issues?
1029
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:02,680
Is he going to walk away from me
all the time?
1030
00:49:02,720 --> 00:49:03,920
I can't do that.
1031
00:49:09,920 --> 00:49:13,880
D and I weren't able to get on
the same page and resolve things.
1032
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:15,080
I needed to be somewhere
1033
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:17,640
where I felt comfortable
so I didn't spiral.
1034
00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:19,920
So I came home.
1035
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:24,680
I'm just upset that we couldn't
sort things out last night,
1036
00:49:24,720 --> 00:49:26,040
we couldn't understand each other.
1037
00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:30,880
So I have invited D to come
and talk things through.
1038
00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:44,680
Quite anxious about meeting Keye
today because I'm hurt.
1039
00:49:44,720 --> 00:49:47,160
He left, not giving me an
explanation why.
1040
00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:51,920
And I do really need an apology,
so we can solve things and move on.
1041
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:52,960
Hey.
1042
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:57,360
Oh. Hello. Hi. Hi.
1043
00:49:57,400 --> 00:49:58,520
How are you?
1044
00:49:59,880 --> 00:50:01,120
Not great.
1045
00:50:03,240 --> 00:50:06,400
I don't understand, like, what I've
done that was so horrible
1046
00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:08,240
that you couldn't be
in the same space.
1047
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:11,080
I was really overwhelmed
in the cat cafe
1048
00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:14,720
because I felt so uncomfortable with
that situation.
1049
00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:17,080
Um, and I apologise
for shutting down,
1050
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:19,760
but I felt like I had
to keep answering
1051
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:21,520
the same question over
and over again
1052
00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:25,080
about being OK with cats, even
though I felt like I'd already...
1053
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:27,640
I'd already communicated
that, the more it was
1054
00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:30,960
just bringing back those feelings
of, like, frustration.
1055
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:33,080
Like, the walk away thing
was just...
1056
00:50:33,120 --> 00:50:36,240
Sometimes it feels like...
I feel, um...
1057
00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:39,640
I feel abandoned.
1058
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:45,600
I'm so sorry that what I did
1059
00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:48,080
made you feel abandoned.
I never want you to feel that way.
1060
00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:49,480
I will never abandon you.
1061
00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:52,400
You're stuck
with me, whether you like it or not.
1062
00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:54,320
Thank you for owning it
and apologising.
1063
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:56,160
It's like literally all
I wanted was
1064
00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:59,000
just to hear that
All we needed was this.
1065
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:00,280
Yeah. I know.
1066
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:05,560
It shows that we're still
a new couple.
1067
00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:07,160
We're still learning.
1068
00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:09,600
Even when we may not like each other
1069
00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:11,200
or maybe are annoyed with
each other,
1070
00:51:11,240 --> 00:51:12,320
I always love you.
1071
00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:17,080
This conversation
has gone my best case
1072
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:19,480
scenario version,
so I couldn't be happier.
1073
00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:24,720
Oh. I missed you so much. Same.
1074
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:26,720
Keye walking away triggers something
in me.
1075
00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:29,040
It reminds me of being abandoned,
and I don't like that.
1076
00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:31,560
But I'm glad we can
finally put this behind us,
1077
00:51:31,600 --> 00:51:33,840
move on, and I hope it doesn't
happen again.
1078
00:51:47,240 --> 00:51:50,080
How's it coming along, babe?
It's doing well. It's nearly done.
1079
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:51,600
I like sitting here
watching you cook.
1080
00:51:51,640 --> 00:51:54,040
Do you? A proper little wife.
A proper little wife.
1081
00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:56,640
Yeah. I can't wait to see my
mum today.
1082
00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:59,480
I'm the baby of the family.
Me and my mum are best mates
1083
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:01,760
and she doesn't
want to let me go anywhere.
1084
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:04,120
She doesn't want to lose me.
1085
00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:05,720
And I think at the end of the day,
1086
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:07,720
she doesn't know a lot
about this man.
1087
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:09,280
So she's going to use today
1088
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:12,200
to find out as much
as she can about Bailey.
1089
00:52:12,240 --> 00:52:15,560
I've missed Rebecca so much
because I see her every day.
1090
00:52:15,600 --> 00:52:17,000
It's been hard.
1091
00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:20,200
The wedding day really wasn't
what I expected,
1092
00:52:20,240 --> 00:52:22,840
and I'm not sure
the spark was there,
1093
00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:25,760
so it'll be interesting
to see how they're doing.
1094
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:32,800
Ah!
1095
00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:37,000
Oh, my God! Hello!
1096
00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:38,240
It's so emotional seeing my mum
1097
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:40,600
because I haven't seen her
since the wedding day.
1098
00:52:40,640 --> 00:52:43,200
And I usually see her probably
1099
00:52:43,240 --> 00:52:46,160
every other day in normal life,
and I speak to her every day.
1100
00:52:46,200 --> 00:52:48,240
So this is going to be
huge for us.
1101
00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:50,880
Here he is. Hello. Hi!
1102
00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:53,600
Oh. Matching jumpers. I know. How
are you? Are you all right?
1103
00:52:53,640 --> 00:52:55,680
Hi. Oh! Good to see you again.
Lovely to see you. You all right?
1104
00:52:55,720 --> 00:52:58,440
Yeah. Nice to see you guys.
1105
00:52:58,480 --> 00:53:00,440
Bec's mum is super important to her.
1106
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:02,480
You can tell she's missed Wendy.
1107
00:53:02,520 --> 00:53:04,400
That'll make Bec even
more reluctant
1108
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:06,840
to moving, or spending some time
in Hove in the future.
1109
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:09,640
Do you get on?
We've been getting on really well.
1110
00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:11,640
Really? Yeah. Oh, that is...
Honestly, that
1111
00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:15,320
is such a relief to me.
Really? Here we go. Oh, lovely.
1112
00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:18,200
It's so nice having you here, Mum.
There you go. Thank you.
1113
00:53:18,240 --> 00:53:19,440
Gorgeous. A home-cooked dinner.
1114
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:20,760
I could get used to this.
My favourite.
1115
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:22,280
Can you pass me my wine,
please? Of course.
1116
00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:24,160
Thank you. Shall we do a little
cheers? Let's do a little cheers.
1117
00:53:24,200 --> 00:53:26,000
Yeah. Cheers. Cheers.
1118
00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:28,200
Cheers, baby girl. Thank you so much
for coming. Cheers, Bailey.
1119
00:53:28,240 --> 00:53:30,400
Lovely to see you again. You, too.
1120
00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:32,200
What did you think
about the wedding day, then?
1121
00:53:32,240 --> 00:53:34,640
So I didn't really get a vibe of
1122
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:37,600
whether you were going to be good
together or not. Yeah.
1123
00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:41,920
I'm, like, so happy
and very much in love with Bec.
1124
00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:45,760
Really? Yeah! Are you in love? Yeah.
Really?!
1125
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:49,080
Yeah. Yeah.
Oh, my God, that's amazing.
1126
00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:52,280
I'm so pleased
that they're getting on really well.
1127
00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:55,040
I didn't expect them to be as happy
as they are.
1128
00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:57,080
I didn't expect them to be in love.
1129
00:53:57,120 --> 00:54:00,400
So it's been such
a lovely turnaround
1130
00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:02,360
that they're doing so well.
1131
00:54:02,400 --> 00:54:04,720
What do you think
of being up north, then, Bailey?
1132
00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:07,280
Bluebelle is my anchor down there,
and if it wasn't the case,
1133
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:09,320
I'd probably be up here
in a heartbeat.
1134
00:54:09,360 --> 00:54:12,200
Distance is a massive issue still,
1135
00:54:12,240 --> 00:54:14,040
that we haven't sorted out.
Yeah, of course.
1136
00:54:14,080 --> 00:54:15,600
But you've got my family worried
about it,
1137
00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:17,600
and I'm sure you're probably worried
about it as well.
1138
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:20,680
I am worried about it. Yeah.
So... I've missed her so much.
1139
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:25,280
We haven't been able to solve
the issue of, like, forever.
1140
00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:28,360
And, like, if we do want to have
a family and where we'll be.
1141
00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:30,480
We will want to have each other
there every day.
1142
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:33,520
And, like, a part-time relationship
won't be enough, will it?
1143
00:54:33,560 --> 00:54:38,000
So we are inevitably lumping
pressure on Bec, which isn't nice.
1144
00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:41,160
Yeah, I've met someone that I do
1145
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:43,440
see myself spending my life with,
and I want to... He described me
1146
00:54:43,480 --> 00:54:47,000
as his perfect woman. Aw.
She is my perfect woman. Is she?
1147
00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:48,800
There's like this black
cloud looming over us,
1148
00:54:48,840 --> 00:54:51,800
so we talk about really fun stuff
like the future and children. Yeah.
1149
00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:53,480
And then I think always in the back
1150
00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:56,400
of our minds, that's now at
the forefront of our minds, is like,
1151
00:54:56,440 --> 00:54:57,960
"Oh, but how would you make
that work?"
1152
00:54:58,000 --> 00:54:59,800
Cos you've got the distance
and what you're going to do.
1153
00:54:59,840 --> 00:55:01,520
You're coming to the end of it all,
aren't you? Yeah.
1154
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:06,720
Do you want me to take Dots out
for a little walk?
1155
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:08,720
If you don't mind?
I'll give her a couple of minutes.
1156
00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:11,520
Yeah. Thank you. See you in a min.
See you a minute. Aw!
1157
00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:18,320
So what do you think of him?
I think he's absolutely gorgeous.
1158
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:22,120
I do see a future with him.
And that's the toughest thing,
1159
00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:24,360
because we've fell
in love with each other
1160
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:26,000
and we're getting to the end
of this process,
1161
00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:27,640
and it's like as if there's,
like, a block.
1162
00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:30,280
It's like... And then
when you get to the end,
1163
00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:33,760
Bailey's there, I'm there.
Yeah, four hours away.
Like, how do we make that work?
1164
00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:35,480
But you see, I want you to be really
happy.
1165
00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:38,120
I want you to be happy,
but I want you to be happy here.
1166
00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:42,080
I don't want you
to be happy elsewhere.
1167
00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:43,840
Do you know what I mean?
I know. Because it's just...
1168
00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:48,000
I feel like I've missed you so much
while you've been away.
1169
00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:51,680
The thought of you not being here
every day, it kills me.
1170
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:55,520
I know.
1171
00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:01,320
It's brilliant
that he's got Bluebelle,
1172
00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:03,480
and it's brilliant that he's such
a present father.
1173
00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:06,560
But for our relationship, it's not
ideal. Yeah, it's not great.
1174
00:56:06,600 --> 00:56:08,640
He does come with baggage. He does.
1175
00:56:09,720 --> 00:56:12,120
Yeah. I'm so happy here,
1176
00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:14,800
and I don't want to leave my
family here.
1177
00:56:14,840 --> 00:56:16,680
Especially me. Especially Mummy.
Who's going to look
1178
00:56:16,720 --> 00:56:18,520
after your babies
when you have your babies?
1179
00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:19,960
It's tough.
1180
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:23,160
It would be hard to let all
of that go.
1181
00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:25,360
There's a lot of reason as to
why I'm here.
1182
00:56:27,080 --> 00:56:30,040
It honestly just worries me.
It panics me.
1183
00:56:30,080 --> 00:56:32,880
If I could have my own way,
1184
00:56:32,920 --> 00:56:37,720
I would live in the apartment
with Bailey for the rest of my life.
1185
00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:41,280
Home stay has shown us that,
actually, that's not our reality.
1186
00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:44,560
And I never, ever want
to take Bailey away from Bluebelle.
1187
00:56:44,600 --> 00:56:45,800
He needs to go back to her.
1188
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:50,000
We've got to address it sooner
rather than later.
1189
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:53,120
I obviously don't want you to go.
Yeah.
1190
00:56:53,160 --> 00:56:58,440
I know. But if he was your
forever person,
1191
00:56:58,480 --> 00:57:02,040
then you've got to prioritise
Bailey, haven't you?
1192
00:57:02,080 --> 00:57:03,080
Mmm.
1193
00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:07,160
I know. That's the big
question mark.
1194
00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:13,480
Next time...
1195
00:57:13,520 --> 00:57:16,480
I've never felt like
this before about anybody.
1196
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:18,400
..it's the final commitment
ceremony.
1197
00:57:18,440 --> 00:57:20,560
I love you now, I loved you at
the wedding day,
1198
00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:22,560
and I'm just so excited
for everything.
1199
00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:26,560
While some couples are more certain
than ever before...
1200
00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:29,480
I cannot imagine the rest of my life
with anyone else.
1201
00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:32,880
..damage from home stays...
1202
00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:34,360
I did feel the pressure a lot of
like,
1203
00:57:34,400 --> 00:57:36,160
"Bec, are you going to move to
Hove?"
1204
00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:37,560
..push others further apart.
1205
00:57:37,600 --> 00:57:40,720
I'm not ready to say yes to that.
1206
00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:42,960
We have had a lot
of unnecessary drama.
1207
00:57:43,000 --> 00:57:44,360
Do I need that?
1208
00:57:44,400 --> 00:57:46,320
In seven weeks,
how do I not know you?
1209
00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:49,800
And Steven's secret scandal...
1210
00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:53,720
I found out he was busy swiping on
a dating app. I wasn't.
1211
00:57:53,760 --> 00:57:55,640
..sends shock waves through
the group.
1212
00:57:55,680 --> 00:57:59,640
That is Steven's profile,
which is verified. Oh!
1213
00:57:59,680 --> 00:58:01,520
That is not me. It's your face!
1214
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:04,320
I know what I'm saying is true.
That is not me on Hinge.
99570
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