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Previously on The Real Housewives of
Atlanta.
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I should start with an apology.
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That was wrong.
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Matt wants to do right by me. Those type
of men are really hard to come by.
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So that's his fault. Are we thinking
about him at all? Bob has a long way
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he can get into my chateau.
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People say when you get divorced, you
can't be friends. And it's going to be
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this nasty stuff.
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No, bitch. It's going to tell me to put
molding and cram around my mouth.
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Bitch, why are you running away?
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The house ain't even finished.
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You can't always get what you want, but
I can.
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I'm too blessed to be stressed and too
affected to be thirsty.
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Life is a runway, and Cynthia Bailey is
ready to walk it alone.
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Now that I've got my eighth, I have a
full house.
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I give the people what they want, and
they always want more.
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Don't call it a comeback.
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Call it a takeover.
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Let me tell you something. I'm about to
tear down some confetti. This place is
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so good.
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Delicious.
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I'm about to eat so much food, I'm going
to look like a Teletubby when I leave
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here. Hot Mama 1 and 2.
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Don't you look cute. Hey, boo.
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You look relaxed. Trey is doing her
thing. We came through serving camel
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Uh -oh.
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Yes.
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Wait, is camel toe good?
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I think the new trend of camel toe is
jumping off the shelves, honey. You can
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buy you a camel toe.
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I see some thick cut bacon.
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yeah calamari the thick cut bacon for
some thick cuts yeah we want that you
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kenya had lunch with me the other day
she was so happy child you and kenya had
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lunch together yes alone honey and no
one left on a stretcher i wanted to
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out why she had kicked my girl out but
she was so happy she said that's what a
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little dick will do oh little a little
like a little dick or just a little bit
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it could be a little bit
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Squeeze the glutes at the top.
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Go.
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Great job, Kenyon.
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Yes. Yes.
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How's that?
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Good. You only got 30 more to go. Matt
and I have been back together for about
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two weeks now, and it's been really good
to have someone sane in my life,
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especially when I have all these crazy
women around me all the time.
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I needed that. I have been so stressed
out. So what happened? Well, first,
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Sheree, she was going in about my house.
I need this. I need that.
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So after, what was it? Mystery?
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The mystery room. Well, your girl. You
can talk to her. Where's your girl?
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Kenya. Puts me to the side, and she
tried to come and correct.
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And it just started escalating. And I
was like, no bitch is going to tell me
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what to do to my house.
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Then she called me a ho. A ho? A ho,
yeah. I've never been associated with a
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Like, seriously?
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Everybody knows that Kenya slept her way
to the top of the zealous DVD rack.
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And making accusations and, you know,
this and that.
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Guess what? My name is on my house.
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It's not in my mother's name.
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First of all, the house is not in my
mama's name.
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She always researches. It's in a truck.
You know what I'm saying? In a truck can
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be in your mama's name. She probably
used your name while you grew up.
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She blacked out.
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I'm pretty sure you had an electric bill
at five years old.
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Honey, credit used all the way up by 18.
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Kenya, she has problems. Yeah. You know,
something's wrong with her. She's not
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sleeping there, though, right?
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I hope not. She told me she lives there.
You know that girl is not living there.
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She just was telling you that. That's
all. Maybe she's a groundhog. Not a
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groundhog. Something.
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She's sleeping in special clothes, girl.
She's sleeping in that chair. Well,
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how's she having all this sex with a
hazmat on?
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Okay, you're right there. I don't know.
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You gotta scare me.
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Why? I don't know. You guys are just
like, oh.
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What is it? I just wouldn't get involved
in it. Right, right.
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Remember when we fell out the last time,
my mother was like, don't you scare my
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daughter -in -law off.
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And I was like, Ma, we just had an
argument or whatever. It doesn't bother
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about the age difference between us?
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No.
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Are you sure? That's a big deal for
mothers.
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Maybe we can ask her at the reunion on
Saturday night.
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They already are like, is she coming? Is
she coming? And I'm like, oh, I don't
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know.
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So it's going to be interesting.
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Matt and I have been through a bumpy
patch in our relationship. So to go to
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family reunion and to meet his entire
family will be a really big test in our
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relationship.
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Ah.
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I do the L, L snap.
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You're chasing my feet. No, no.
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It's going to get away from you.
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What's up?
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Hey,
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man.
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What you going to pick up? What you got?
Pick it up. Come on.
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All right. Nope, you missed that one.
Come on. Pick it up.
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Hey, people.
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Hey. What up?
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We need to have a meeting about the
block party old lady gang.
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OK. Collabo.
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You want to do a block party, buddy?
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How are we going to do a block party
when we don't even know when we're going
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be ready?
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We'll be ready.
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Todd and I had talked about doing like a
block party when we opened the
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restaurant. But I don't want to have any
grand openings until my spot is all the
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way done.
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We're not going to have a Chateau
Charade situation.
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It will not be years to come. It will be
this year. Hello, hello, hello,
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everyone. So what's going on? Well, we
need to get an update on where we are
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with the possible opening.
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Is it an official grand opening? For me,
I wasn't really tripping on, like, no
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super grand opening. I think that's
going to wear our asses out.
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Usually, you'd be like...
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I look different. It's Chris Kelly.
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Hey, how you doing? What you doing here?
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No, I'm just in the studio.
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Let's pass by. How you doing?
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I never been here, but hey.
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You look nice.
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Thank you. Hi, baby.
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How you doing?
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Nobody can just... pop up at the candy
factory. Yeah, no, I'll just pass by
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to kind of talk and chitchat a bit. I
didn't take your seat, right, Tom?
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No, I got up for you.
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This is a surprise.
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She's an artist. I'm an artist.
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I'm from Jamaica.
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Oh, got you. She's also assigned to
Block.
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Block is Riley's father, a .k .a.
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baby daddy.
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Ooh, okay.
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So I hate that word. He's also in the
music business. He has a record label.
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And Chris Kelly is his girlfriend.
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I don't know what the hell she's doing
here.
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Block and I, we really don't talk.
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I've always tried to be open whenever he
reach out. But it's like, if you go
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years without checking in on your child,
that is poster boy for deadbeat.
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I didn't mean to disrupt the meeting.
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No, it's cool. You know what? Actually,
let's go talk for a second. It was nice
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meeting y 'all.
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I don't know about you.
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Does she even have her green card right
now?
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That just caught me totally off guard.
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You know, I've always wanted to reach
out to you when I came in the picture.
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I started saying, okay, so you have, you
know, I was trying to figure out who
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was who. And I've been saying to Block
Lab, why wouldn't you reach out to
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And he has not participated at all with
her. But maybe he knows the vibe from
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you to him. Well, that's a boy.
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Coming up next.
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One of my exes and I have linked back
up. I don't want to have a relationship
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with him. I just want him to be the dad.
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It really pisses me off, even though I
can't stand his punk ass.
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I did this for years, Sheree.
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Years.
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So you're not willing to even talk to
him no more?
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I mean, I don't know what he tells you,
okay? I don't respect him no more.
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Well, what is he?
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No,
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my thing is, how the hell you just walk
up to somebody's office, though? Hold
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up, shouldn't a daddy come and talk to
the baby mama?
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Block is Riley's father, and Chris Kelly
is his girlfriend.
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Every blue moon, Block say he wants to
be involved, but for the last three
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years, the communication has been pretty
much zero.
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Riley at a certain point used to try to
reach out to him, and he never really
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would reach back. And she put up this
wall.
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Your dad has been trying to establish a
relationship with you lately.
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I don't really care if I have a dad or
not.
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No, Riley, I hate to hear you say that.
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The hardest I've ever seen her cry is
dealing with some situation with him.
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So Ty, when y 'all gonna sit down and
have a talk?
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I met him before.
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I've only met him, like, maybe one time.
What about you?
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I've met him once or twice.
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This is about to be real interesting.
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I know it may seem funny to you for me
coming here, oh, to the blue lighters,
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but it's kind of a concern that I've
been having. I've met Riley twice, and
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does seem close up to him. So maybe on
my side of my feelings for him, too, I'm
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trying to also say, hey, you need to...
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Reach out. I'm really more about, like,
family. I would love to maybe see both
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of y 'all come together. She doesn't
want to deal with it.
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I get it.
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You know what I'm saying? But thank you.
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I appreciate it. It was good seeing you.
Definitely.
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Take care.
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No offense to Chris Kelly.
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I mean, I see her trying to make an
effort, but it's like... Bye, y 'all.
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Nice of you for coming, sweetheart, but
nothing.
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So, what's the T .O. next?
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Shocking. She said she came on her own
and she was trying to encourage him to
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more involved in Riley's life. Does
Riley even want to have?
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She hasn't. She doesn't want to reach
out to him. It's harder when you're
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to build a relationship with your
father. It's a double -edged sword
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you've never stopped her from doing it.
But now you can't be like, Riley, you
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must go do that. Like, she's almost 14
and you don't really know him.
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I think every daughter should know their
dad.
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It ain't about him or Candy.
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It's about Riley. And you got to do
what's best for her at the end of the
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For me, finding out about Kayla later on
in her life, I just definitely feel
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like it needs to happen.
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I think it's definitely a conversation
that Candy and Riley need to have
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together. I promised myself since.
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the beginning that I would never try to
prevent them from having a relationship.
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And I have not done that. But it's like
if this dude has not put any effort into
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really being in his daughter's life,
it's like you have to understand the
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frustration.
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Why drive for seven hours? We could just
get on a flight for once.
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I can call for tickets right now. You'll
be in first class. I'll pay for your
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ticket. That's just how badly I don't
want to get in this car.
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Matt is originally from New York, but
every year his family reunion is held in
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different city. So this year, it's
Cincinnati.
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Matt wants to drive because he feels as
though it's a bonding experience for us.
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Why does it smell like pee in here?
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I think they already went.
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I hope not. Eight.
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All right, let's go.
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Lord,
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help me.
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That's not even funny. You're about to
fall off the goddamn cliff, Matt.
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That's not even funny.
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I'm so looking forward to this. Eight
hours of bonding.
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This is like torture to me. Like, I feel
like digging a tunnel out of the bottom
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of this front seat. I hate road trips
with a passion.
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How many hours have we been driving?
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Still alive.
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No, better yet, he's still alive.
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Cut off, sis.
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How you doing?
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Good. How you doing? You look good. Oh,
my gosh. I ain't been over here in so
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long. Bob has invited me over to his
house. I'm not sure why. Because
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Bob and I don't spend a lot of time
alone without the kids.
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We don't spend no time alone without the
kids.
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Did you cook?
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Like, what's up?
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I ain't cook nothing, but. I see.
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Watch this. We make these smoothies.
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Smoothies? Yeah. You know I'm on this
little health kick.
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I really thought you were going to cook
for me.
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I lost about 20 pounds.
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I see. Look at these legs, though.
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Remember that?
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Uh -uh, not remember that.
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What? You can touch them. I can touch
them? Yeah, look. Go ahead.
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Oh, shit.
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Oh.
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I told you it's all this. This is
getting the rest of it off. I'm almost
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This look like it's really not good.
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Girl, this is good fruit.
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I just put some of this in the shake.
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So what's it supposed to do, though?
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Brings back bliss.
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So all the happiness that you ever
experienced with the person, you
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it again.
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So what happens to all the misery and
the pain?
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We work through that.
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We'll see.
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All right, let's see if this works.
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Do you have any straws?
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I just might.
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Oh,
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I got some straws.
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Take that.
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Oh, this is horrible.
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You know I get nervous about being
around you.
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I almost had my little switchblade out
just in case I didn't know how you was
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coming over here. You took that
switchblade and made you cut yourself.
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I like that S &M stuff.
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I remember.
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You ever seen my room upstairs?
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No, I haven't. If you want to see that,
take your smoothie, go lay down, relax a
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little bit.
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What? Typical Bob.
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Everything with him is either a joke or
sex.
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I'm tired of both of them.
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I'm probably the nicest guy you know.
You are. Probably the meanest guy you
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know, too. Exactly. He can be very evil
and very mean.
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You know, he's never even apologized for
the infidelity.
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Me and the kids being kicked out and
verbal abuse.
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I laugh at the shit now.
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Because you're a man.
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I laugh at it now. Just because I
couldn't believe we was doing some of
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crazy stuff that we were doing to each
other.
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What I want out of this divorce is to be
able to maintain the exact same
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lifestyle. It's not better.
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You ain't paying me no child support.
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Ever, never, ever. But my dad died at
44.
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Same age I am now. So I feel like this
is the curse year for me.
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Like if I didn't get my health right,
get my mind right, my mojo right, the
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working out, eating healthy, I need to
be around.
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Whether we get back together, that's one
thing or another. But I should be
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around for our kids and all that. So I
look at it like this.
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Your house is bigger than mine.
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Can I move in?
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Not quite yet.
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You got to crawl before you walk, Bob.
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Oh, you stupid.
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What? Are you crazy?
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What?
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Nothing. Stop. Like, keep your hands to
yourself.
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We've not been hooking up. The only
thing I've been hooking up is the
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electricity in Chateau Charest.
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I'm happy we're in this place. But to
move forward after everything that
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transpired, because I got so many
friends that are going through the same
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where they're trying to co -parent, you
know, where they're divorced.
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And it gets hard. I did date a guy a few
years after Bob and I divorced.
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At one point, I thought, you know, it
could have went somewhere.
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To be where we are from where we came is
big.
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Yeah. I want love.
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I want that perfect guy. If Bob wants to
be that guy, you need to really sit
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back and show me that you're a changed
man. And until then, I mean, we have
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nothing to talk about. You ain't getting
out that fast and quick.
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We got to take baby steps.
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This is a big baby.
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You really are a big baby. Yeah.
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Coming up next.
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Kenya, what are your intents for my
baby?
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Would you consider yourself a cougar?
Oh, Lord.
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What are you making?
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Beignets. I've been, like, obsessed with
them, so I'm going to try to make them.
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You're going to make a big mess. Your
grandmother, your aunt is on their way.
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Well, good.
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They can help.
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Oh, that's nice. Water.
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Is that like family when you're going
through hell, basically?
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Hi, how are you?
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Hey! Big girl.
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How old are you now, 821?
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I know you guys are here.
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Hi, girl.
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Yeah, we come to see what's going on. I
got a lot to update you guys about.
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I met with Peter the other day for the
first time.
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I talked to him a couple times.
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You did?
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Yeah. He called me.
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Okay, wait a minute. Hold on. We're
going to have to take this out to the
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I mean, to get another bottle of wine. I
don't have an issue with Peter and Mal
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being friends.
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Just make sure you're a better friend to
me and come back and tell me
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everything. Okay.
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Traitor. How long have you been talking
to Pete? We talked a couple times. A
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couple times? A couple times. Why didn't
you tell me?
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I was trying to be respectful that he
called. Yeah, what did he say?
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He said, Mal, I miss my wife.
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That's what he said?
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I didn't know what to say.
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You know, honestly, I got to say, I do
miss Peter too.
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But sometimes things just don't work
out. I mean, you've been through two
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divorces, right? Right, right.
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And do you feel like you should have did
more than you did?
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Well, sometimes I get a little weak
moments for about that long.
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But you did everything in the
relationships that I saw.
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Growing up, I always wanted my mom to be
happy.
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And now that I'm almost 50 and I'm alone
now, I think I still feel the same as I
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did when I was a young kid.
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Like, I don't want to be in a marriage
and not be happy.
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I don't want to do that.
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When I got a divorce, we didn't have
anything, hardly.
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You start modeling.
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You start making money.
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I had a BMW, thanks to you.
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Divorce for him, you know, for
everybody, it's tough.
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And I don't even think y 'all are going
to be friends.
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No, you can't say that, because I don't
want to hate Peter. You know, I don't
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want him to hate me.
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I don't think it's too much to ask for.
I just need peace. I deserve that. And
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I'm sorry, you know, if Peter can't be a
part of that as my husband.
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00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:38,160
Hello?
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And I had a nice little pose ready for
you, too.
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Okay,
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pull in.
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Just for dogs?
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What you doing, P. Diddy?
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That booty's stinking.
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Oh, I like all this.
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00:20:03,460 --> 00:20:04,500
Oh, girl.
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This look like where Jason gets the
girls.
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00:20:08,170 --> 00:20:11,230
You know, I've been having to do my
extra working out now. You know, I got
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increase my endorphins, baby.
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00:20:13,030 --> 00:20:16,510
Not your endorphins. My good mood. My
doctor told me it's what I should be
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doing. David Banner turned into
Incredible Hulk. And, you know, Portia
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into Ric Flair on occasion. But Jesus
can fix it. And so can a little good
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therapy. Here's the thing I want to talk
to you about.
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Remember I've been telling you I want to
have a baby?
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You and these babies.
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00:20:31,630 --> 00:20:34,350
One of my exes and I have kind of linked
back up.
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His name is Todd.
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Todd? I dated when I was about 22, when
I was 24.
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We dated at 24.
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Todd is the next boyfriend.
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We dated in my early 20s for about four
years.
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We broke up back then because we just
couldn't get it together. I mean, you're
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early 20s. You don't really know what
you want. And now we're just kind of
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reconnecting.
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Hey, you look cute. What are you doing?
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Just got back home. Just hanging out.
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Oh, really?
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00:21:00,350 --> 00:21:01,350
You look good.
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00:21:01,530 --> 00:21:03,450
Oh, you look really cute with your hat
off.
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00:21:08,010 --> 00:21:09,390
So where has he been?
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In D .C.
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00:21:10,790 --> 00:21:14,450
Oh, okay. He's a lobbyist. I don't
necessarily want to have a relationship
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him. I just want him to be the dad.
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00:21:16,910 --> 00:21:21,250
I just don't know if he'll go for it.
Oh, my gosh. I don't know, Portia. I've
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been contemplating having a baby by
myself now for about two years. I know
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I want. I'm of a certain age, and I
don't feel like I should have to wait on
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man to do that.
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00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:34,520
Oh, my God. Todd is an amazing father.
He's got two kids.
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He got two kids already.
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They grown.
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They grown.
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They about grown, 14, 16.
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Horsha and I don't always think the same
way about things, but I want better for
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my girl, and she is not going to be a
baby mama on my watch.
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You're going to have to be connected to
this person for the rest of your
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lifetime. Isn't there something like a
baby nub?
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00:21:56,460 --> 00:22:01,000
Not a baby nub, child. I ain't never
heard of that. Well, I'm a man. You
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be able to come snatch my child and be
like, she done got in three fights.
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She's unfit.
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We got a baby now.
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Oh, Lord. I just want you to have a
fantasy.
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00:22:09,780 --> 00:22:11,240
Been there, done that. Been married.
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00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:12,480
Oh, no.
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I'm not going to quickly marry nobody
because he got money, because he nice,
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00:22:17,860 --> 00:22:21,720
got good dick, whatever. So if I can
find a man who will be a good parent,
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that's enough for me.
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00:22:23,060 --> 00:22:27,220
This your type of park, honey. The trees
is wearing corsets out here, girl. Oh,
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00:22:27,360 --> 00:22:28,360
nasty tree.
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00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:31,940
Oh, nasty corset. That's inspiration
right there.
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00:22:32,140 --> 00:22:33,400
Oh, nasty waist train of tree.
431
00:22:58,770 --> 00:23:03,430
One of the most crucial times in a
relationship is when you actually meet
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boyfriend's parent So this brunch has to
go well because if it doesn't, I'm
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never going to survive being in a room
with Matt's entire family.
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00:23:12,460 --> 00:23:13,660
Hi. Hi, London.
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I also have a niece named London, too.
436
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Thank you.
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00:23:18,360 --> 00:23:22,580
We would like to order fairly quickly. A
lot of hungry people here.
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You're so overdressed.
439
00:23:24,670 --> 00:23:25,670
Overdressed?
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00:23:25,810 --> 00:23:29,310
Oh, because he always wears shorts and
stuff. I don't think he always does. I
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haven't had a lot of practice. I think
he's been working on that.
442
00:23:31,930 --> 00:23:37,150
Yes, he was doing socks with flip
-flops. Don't talk about my favorite
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That's my baby. Oh, okay.
444
00:23:42,170 --> 00:23:46,750
His mother just read me. I have
officially been read by somebody's
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Is anybody else disappointed in the size
of their waffle?
446
00:23:49,890 --> 00:23:50,990
This is not Waffle House.
447
00:23:51,450 --> 00:23:54,490
That road trip was pretty rough.
448
00:23:54,770 --> 00:23:56,030
So what was it, seven hours?
449
00:23:56,510 --> 00:23:58,130
It turned into like eight.
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Matt knows I just really don't like to
drive.
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00:24:02,450 --> 00:24:05,730
We keep talking about what Kenya doesn't
like, but what does Matt?
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00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:09,440
Dislike. Uh -oh. Some things don't need
to be said.
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00:24:09,660 --> 00:24:10,660
Please, please.
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Kenya,
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what are your intents for my baby?
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Go ahead. To be the best friend I can
possibly be
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and to help him be the best man he can
possibly be.
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So did you answer the question?
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00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:32,980
It was kind of roundabout. It was
roundabout.
460
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We still have work to do.
461
00:24:35,540 --> 00:24:40,940
Regardless of the immaturity sometimes
and things that we will never... There's
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that age difference.
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As long as you're trying to work on it
to make a change, that's all that
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matters. A lot of it is meat.
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00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:49,260
Why is everyone taking King's eye?
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I don't want to see it.
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I'm the mother.
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But what about that?
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I'm about to explain this.
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Sometimes whatever you feel, you don't
have to let it come out. I've thought
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many things about my husband, but he
haven't heard half of them.
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00:25:03,170 --> 00:25:06,430
There's going to be times when you're
going to be uncomfortable.
473
00:25:06,710 --> 00:25:09,890
It's difficult to tame an alpha male.
474
00:25:10,150 --> 00:25:11,350
I think I'm an alpha male.
475
00:25:11,630 --> 00:25:14,170
I mean male. Female, yeah. I think I'm
an alpha female.
476
00:25:15,230 --> 00:25:19,090
So do you think the age difference plays
a role in that? Would you consider
477
00:25:19,090 --> 00:25:20,710
yourself a cougar or?
478
00:25:21,990 --> 00:25:22,990
Oh, Lord.
479
00:25:25,120 --> 00:25:29,580
I am the first woman that Matt has
introduced to his family, and clearly,
480
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:34,580
Allison does not 100 % approve of me
being here.
481
00:25:34,780 --> 00:25:39,060
At my age, I wouldn't be sitting here
with him unless I felt like we could
482
00:25:39,060 --> 00:25:40,060
a future together.
483
00:25:40,500 --> 00:25:41,500
I like that.
484
00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:45,040
I love coming in many different shapes,
sizes, and colors.
485
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:50,480
If you find somebody to make you happy,
then that's where you'll be at. I'm
486
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:51,480
here. I'm happy.
487
00:25:52,110 --> 00:25:56,890
know he cares for you a lot i don't want
to see him get hurt either okay i was
488
00:25:56,890 --> 00:26:01,530
thinking i have to make sure that i'm
pleasing his mother but it was his
489
00:26:01,530 --> 00:26:05,690
all this time i'll take that whenever
you guys are ready i'll take care of it
490
00:26:05,690 --> 00:26:10,610
please can i take care of it no no you
have to be the man all the time she make
491
00:26:10,610 --> 00:26:16,850
more money than you do let me take her
just this time Coming up next.
492
00:26:17,090 --> 00:26:21,570
If I were to just have a child with
someone, you would be a good candidate.
493
00:26:22,030 --> 00:26:23,030
Hold on.
494
00:26:29,510 --> 00:26:30,630
Riley Burris!
495
00:26:30,850 --> 00:26:32,070
Yeah? Let's go!
496
00:26:33,310 --> 00:26:35,570
Wait, why does your pony feel a lot
better?
497
00:26:35,770 --> 00:26:36,569
What just happened?
498
00:26:36,570 --> 00:26:37,570
Oh, I'm sorry.
499
00:26:37,650 --> 00:26:39,450
Oh, you wanted it to be the one side.
500
00:26:39,750 --> 00:26:40,890
Is that the look you was going for?
501
00:26:41,150 --> 00:26:42,150
Who cares?
502
00:26:42,270 --> 00:26:43,089
All right, whatever.
503
00:26:43,090 --> 00:26:46,590
Okay. It doesn't matter. I guess because
you're getting your teeth pulled
504
00:26:46,590 --> 00:26:48,510
anyway, so you don't even care.
505
00:26:48,930 --> 00:26:51,270
Riley makes me proud every time I look
at her.
506
00:26:51,530 --> 00:26:53,590
Why are you walking on the back of your
shoes?
507
00:26:54,790 --> 00:26:56,990
Oh, my God. You're killing me.
508
00:26:57,330 --> 00:27:01,370
It's just I see her coming out of her
shell, the older she gets, and she's
509
00:27:01,370 --> 00:27:03,490
really growing into herself, and I love
it.
510
00:27:03,770 --> 00:27:07,930
I meant to tell you something, and I
want to tell you now before you go in
511
00:27:07,930 --> 00:27:09,850
and get all groggy when they give you
that medicine.
512
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:13,860
Your dad's girlfriend stopped by?
513
00:27:16,700 --> 00:27:22,960
I guess she wanted to encourage him and
try to figure out how to
514
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:26,820
establish the relationship.
515
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:32,500
It definitely bothers me that my
daughter does not have a relationship
516
00:27:32,500 --> 00:27:35,360
father because... I didn't have a
relationship with my father.
517
00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:40,360
I didn't want to be a contributor in
talking against the mother of my
518
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:42,080
So I just let go.
519
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:50,440
And I do not want to see my child go
through that. I don't want to say that
520
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:55,320
I don't care, but it's like, they call
that void.
521
00:27:56,760 --> 00:28:01,580
decline oh but you don't want to even
deal with it i mean he should be the one
522
00:28:01,580 --> 00:28:08,560
not his girlfriend i agree so void if
you feel that way then
523
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:13,860
it is what it is oh all
524
00:28:13,860 --> 00:28:16,900
right cutie patootie
525
00:28:16,900 --> 00:28:23,800
all right
526
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:26,150
everybody Right now, get your whole lot
of real estate in front of the mirror.
527
00:28:27,990 --> 00:28:28,990
Twist your hip.
528
00:28:30,830 --> 00:28:31,830
One spot.
529
00:28:31,990 --> 00:28:32,990
Forward and back.
530
00:28:34,050 --> 00:28:35,230
Keep running, keep running, keep
running.
531
00:28:36,230 --> 00:28:37,230
Buckles on.
532
00:28:40,490 --> 00:28:42,270
I'm glad she could come.
533
00:28:42,530 --> 00:28:46,110
Todd and I ended up getting back
together because I was in D .C. for Dish
534
00:28:46,110 --> 00:28:49,370
Nation, and he came to one of the day
events that I had.
535
00:28:49,590 --> 00:28:50,830
Okay, so you can be my partner.
536
00:28:51,230 --> 00:28:53,590
Since then, I see him every time he
comes to Atlanta.
537
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:55,300
Ready? Go.
538
00:28:58,060 --> 00:28:59,060
Damn it, Tony.
539
00:28:59,620 --> 00:29:00,700
I'm getting high. Down.
540
00:29:03,580 --> 00:29:04,580
You can't get my nose.
541
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:11,380
Todd and I are just friends right now.
As far as tapping and all that, that's
542
00:29:11,380 --> 00:29:12,380
not going down.
543
00:29:12,900 --> 00:29:15,800
That was something else, right?
544
00:29:16,140 --> 00:29:17,140
Yeah.
545
00:29:19,060 --> 00:29:20,540
I'm so glad you made it, though.
546
00:29:21,100 --> 00:29:22,100
That was a tough class.
547
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:23,320
I'm happy I made it.
548
00:29:24,260 --> 00:29:28,860
Work is crazy, but... So how is it in D
.C.? It's good. You should come again.
549
00:29:29,140 --> 00:29:30,140
Come back.
550
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:31,680
I mean, I might.
551
00:29:35,060 --> 00:29:39,200
Like, what's odd is that I've been,
like, thinking about... I've dated, and
552
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:41,020
really haven't found exactly what I
wanted.
553
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:45,720
And I just feel like, at this point...
What?
554
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:47,720
I'm listening.
555
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:52,380
I just know that where I am in my life,
I feel like I'm ready to have a family.
556
00:29:53,610 --> 00:29:56,670
But I don't know if that includes
necessarily a husband.
557
00:29:57,610 --> 00:30:01,350
You said you want a family, but you
necessarily don't want a husband.
558
00:30:01,570 --> 00:30:03,550
Right. So what makes a family?
559
00:30:03,890 --> 00:30:04,890
A child.
560
00:30:05,330 --> 00:30:07,290
Oh. And, like, I really want a baby.
561
00:30:07,550 --> 00:30:09,390
Like, you know, Lauren just had a baby.
562
00:30:11,990 --> 00:30:15,470
But Lauren also has a fiancé. And
Bailey, I shouldn't have to wait, you
563
00:30:15,470 --> 00:30:16,690
what I'm saying, until I find Mr. Right.
564
00:30:18,070 --> 00:30:19,290
What did your mother say?
565
00:30:19,690 --> 00:30:20,690
She's kind of torn.
566
00:30:20,890 --> 00:30:26,350
Then I also mentioned to her, if I were
to just have a child with someone, you
567
00:30:26,350 --> 00:30:28,710
would be a good candidate.
568
00:30:30,330 --> 00:30:32,350
All right, say that again. Wait, that's
not the reaction.
569
00:30:33,250 --> 00:30:34,250
Hold on.
570
00:30:36,850 --> 00:30:37,689
That's a lot.
571
00:30:37,690 --> 00:30:40,790
I'm just kidding. We going fast with
that one.
572
00:30:41,390 --> 00:30:45,150
I feel like I could talk to you about
anything. Talk to you in person about
573
00:30:45,150 --> 00:30:46,910
this. You're going to buy a house here.
574
00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:50,320
Have your child here, and the father
will be where?
575
00:30:50,580 --> 00:30:56,000
Like, honestly, I see it as us having an
understanding and just co -parenting.
576
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:57,000
That's all I think.
577
00:30:57,560 --> 00:30:59,420
Of course, I can't do that.
578
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:05,980
You don't necessarily need me to have
what you want.
579
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:11,420
Is that true? So you want me to go pick
a random person and have a baby with
580
00:31:11,420 --> 00:31:13,840
them? I wouldn't want you to go that
route at all.
581
00:31:15,180 --> 00:31:19,500
I want to see you happy more than just
because you have a child, you know?
582
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:23,340
I want to see you happy because you have
a family.
583
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:28,760
I would have to think about it.
584
00:31:30,540 --> 00:31:31,840
I think I can win your heart.
585
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:33,640
Eventually.
586
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:36,560
You spend more time down here.
587
00:31:37,300 --> 00:31:41,860
I promise I will see where this could
go.
588
00:31:43,020 --> 00:31:44,100
Okay, let's take on that.
589
00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:47,640
You are crazy.
590
00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:51,160
Come on.
591
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:56,380
Bestie. Bestie, huh?
592
00:31:56,780 --> 00:31:58,540
Bestie. Coming up next.
593
00:31:58,940 --> 00:32:02,080
He called me and said he wasn't going to
have nothing to do with my baby.
594
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:05,040
I'm not going to make you come see me.
595
00:32:37,629 --> 00:32:39,770
Can we talk? Yeah, come on.
596
00:32:44,450 --> 00:32:48,250
Yeah, I just want to talk to you for a
minute because I'm very skeptical, to be
597
00:32:48,250 --> 00:32:49,250
honest.
598
00:32:49,270 --> 00:32:51,530
Skeptical? Very, very, very.
599
00:32:51,810 --> 00:32:52,669
What?
600
00:32:52,670 --> 00:32:53,990
Why are you skeptical?
601
00:32:55,850 --> 00:32:56,850
Damn, girl.
602
00:32:56,990 --> 00:33:00,170
She must have studied from the charade
school of shady greetings.
603
00:33:01,230 --> 00:33:03,070
I mean, he's my little brother.
604
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:06,400
He talks to me one -on -one a lot, and
he's expressed the fact that he doesn't
605
00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:10,280
know if he feels the same about me. So I
just wonder, like, is it going to last?
606
00:33:10,700 --> 00:33:15,760
I did not think that I would be brought
all the way to Cincinnati to be grilled
607
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:17,140
by Matt's sister.
608
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:20,820
What is the end game here? To run me
away?
609
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:22,900
Listen, I don't have time to waste.
610
00:33:23,220 --> 00:33:27,560
Of course. So I think that I will rule
people out, you know, very quickly in my
611
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:30,980
life. And that's what I'm worried about.
I'm still a little concerned about the
612
00:33:30,980 --> 00:33:32,240
age difference myself, too.
613
00:33:34,250 --> 00:33:41,050
I'm more concerned about is he suitable
for me being that can he handle the
614
00:33:41,050 --> 00:33:45,070
fact that I'm self -made. But I'm still
a wider guy.
615
00:33:45,390 --> 00:33:50,110
Your brother is a really strong man, but
the thing that makes me love him so
616
00:33:50,110 --> 00:33:51,450
much is that he's soft for me.
617
00:33:51,770 --> 00:33:54,750
What I also love is that he loves a
chance.
618
00:33:55,030 --> 00:33:59,770
All I want you to do is just don't shut
the door on me. Just give me a chance.
619
00:33:59,950 --> 00:34:01,810
The door's open. It's definitely open.
620
00:34:02,930 --> 00:34:07,200
Finally. I have had my Iyanla moment and
I have broken through to Halifax.
621
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:08,480
Excuse me, ladies.
622
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:09,578
What's up?
623
00:34:09,580 --> 00:34:10,639
Hi, you good?
624
00:34:10,860 --> 00:34:11,598
I'm good.
625
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:13,520
Making sure everybody over here is good.
626
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:15,418
You good?
627
00:34:15,420 --> 00:34:16,460
Oh my goodness, you guys.
628
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:17,799
I'm done.
629
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:20,239
I'm done. I'm done. I'm done. I'm done.
I'm done.
630
00:34:32,780 --> 00:34:36,280
My baby fell head over heels from the
very beginning.
631
00:34:36,659 --> 00:34:40,980
Matt has never pulled us into a
relationship, so I know there's
632
00:34:40,980 --> 00:34:46,060
different about this one. It really
makes my heart feel so good to know that
633
00:34:46,060 --> 00:34:49,020
has a family that really just loves him
so much.
634
00:34:49,380 --> 00:34:52,960
Honestly, it's a family that I would
definitely want to be a part of.
635
00:34:54,199 --> 00:34:55,719
I'm so glad you came.
636
00:34:56,219 --> 00:34:57,320
Thank you so much.
637
00:34:57,820 --> 00:35:00,100
You'll be a great daughter -in -law.
638
00:35:00,380 --> 00:35:01,380
Thank you.
639
00:35:02,570 --> 00:35:06,150
a potential mother that is choosing me.
640
00:35:06,450 --> 00:35:09,950
My mother never chose me. Whatever she's
saying, don't believe it.
641
00:35:10,470 --> 00:35:11,470
All lies.
642
00:35:12,070 --> 00:35:15,750
Matt and I have been through a really
tough time in our relationship, but I'm
643
00:35:15,750 --> 00:35:17,150
glad I didn't run from this.
644
00:35:18,470 --> 00:35:21,170
Don't cut my head off. Hold it up
higher, babe.
645
00:35:23,970 --> 00:35:24,970
Oh my God.
646
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:36,020
I know, right? We're twinning.
647
00:35:37,340 --> 00:35:38,600
Have you rode before?
648
00:35:38,940 --> 00:35:43,660
I had a very disadvantage here. She's a
certified trainer. No, but she's been
649
00:35:43,660 --> 00:35:45,940
doing great. She's been doing great. Oh,
look at you.
650
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:50,920
Even though Candy is my girl, everybody
knows that she doesn't like to work out.
651
00:35:51,060 --> 00:35:56,580
Gently roll on the right side as if
you're sleeping on your right side.
652
00:35:57,940 --> 00:36:01,860
So it is my duty to help her get her
snatch back.
653
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:06,200
There we go. We want to keep up. My
butt's about to slide off of his feet.
654
00:36:06,420 --> 00:36:07,700
That's all that badonka does.
655
00:36:08,720 --> 00:36:11,740
How am I supposed to keep up with
charade?
656
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:13,080
There you go.
657
00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:16,960
You got to push those knees out. Try to
go all the way to the floor.
658
00:36:17,700 --> 00:36:18,720
Make sure you switch legs.
659
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:19,920
Oh, I'm doing the same.
660
00:36:21,460 --> 00:36:23,640
We all know she has muscles.
661
00:36:24,100 --> 00:36:25,120
So we're going to go through it again.
662
00:36:25,380 --> 00:36:26,960
I need to breathe for a second.
663
00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:28,200
You got to take it to another level.
664
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:30,440
Girl. We'll take a minute, grab a drink.
665
00:36:30,660 --> 00:36:32,480
That sounds like a plan right there.
666
00:36:33,220 --> 00:36:34,300
What am I going to do?
667
00:36:35,060 --> 00:36:36,060
That's what I'm like.
668
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:39,120
So how are y 'all doing?
669
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:42,780
How is Bob? We're doing really good. Is
he still trying to get back? He's still
670
00:36:42,780 --> 00:36:43,780
trying to get back, girl.
671
00:36:46,020 --> 00:36:48,700
And you know what? I think about it. You
didn't let him try it, now what?
672
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:49,839
Here's the thing.
673
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:55,100
So much transpired during that divorce.
I just didn't feel like he did the right
674
00:36:55,100 --> 00:36:57,920
thing. And I felt like, you know, it
just got really ugly and really bad.
675
00:36:58,270 --> 00:37:01,530
I just hate when a dude doesn't take
responsibility. You know what I mean?
676
00:37:01,950 --> 00:37:07,650
Like, even right now, Riley's dad, his
girlfriend popped up over at the candy
677
00:37:07,650 --> 00:37:11,170
factory the other day. She just popped
up.
678
00:37:11,490 --> 00:37:17,010
She was saying, oh, he was in a very
black place. And, you know, I just, I'm
679
00:37:17,010 --> 00:37:19,870
really trying to encourage him. She
loves family.
680
00:37:20,630 --> 00:37:24,110
So does Riley have a relationship with?
None of them. Because I don't know a lot
681
00:37:24,110 --> 00:37:25,110
about.
682
00:37:25,570 --> 00:37:29,310
You know, that relationship between you
and Block. Thank you. That's the point.
683
00:37:29,350 --> 00:37:34,510
My point is, you've been knowing me over
eight years now. I haven't seen him.
684
00:37:34,750 --> 00:37:38,170
You never heard me talk about him, bring
him up, nothing.
685
00:37:38,510 --> 00:37:42,850
And he never came around, never tried to
be there. And it's his fault.
686
00:37:43,150 --> 00:37:44,830
She needs to be talking to her man.
687
00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:53,300
I'm excited for you to be a part of the
record. If you could do a remix, that
688
00:37:53,300 --> 00:37:54,300
would be dope.
689
00:37:54,460 --> 00:37:55,460
It's crazy.
690
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:56,720
What's up? You good?
691
00:37:57,080 --> 00:38:00,300
What's up, baby? It's my wifey, Lena.
692
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:03,780
You know, Candy is my girl, man.
693
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:05,080
I used to be my girl, too.
694
00:38:06,700 --> 00:38:10,240
I can't. I can't. I saw her the other
day, too.
695
00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:11,440
Really? Yeah.
696
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:14,460
It was awkward to say the least.
697
00:38:14,900 --> 00:38:15,900
Tough situation.
698
00:38:16,460 --> 00:38:17,460
Very tough.
699
00:38:17,740 --> 00:38:20,500
They have shut him out completely.
700
00:38:21,700 --> 00:38:25,060
He's probably telling her that you were
keeping him from Riley and you wouldn't
701
00:38:25,060 --> 00:38:29,240
let him see him. She says that he's
never said anything, but Portia told me
702
00:38:29,240 --> 00:38:31,680
time that he said some negative stuff
about me to her.
703
00:38:32,580 --> 00:38:33,600
Oh, she knows him, too?
704
00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:35,320
Yeah, she's the kicker with him.
705
00:38:37,740 --> 00:38:39,100
Portia's the kicker with the baby daddy.
706
00:38:39,820 --> 00:38:43,400
Yes. We didn't know each other. I don't
have any hard feelings about it.
707
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:47,020
Wait, so we got to add Block to Portia's
list, too?
708
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:50,520
I mean, some people just bust wide open
for anybody, any old body. I don't know.
709
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:51,560
I'm not shocked.
710
00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:54,080
It was after me, so I don't care.
711
00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:59,460
I don't care anyway. My daughter was
meant to be, you know what I mean?
712
00:38:59,720 --> 00:39:01,200
Have you ever had a relationship with
her?
713
00:39:01,620 --> 00:39:03,120
No, never.
714
00:39:03,620 --> 00:39:05,580
Like, it's always been sporadic.
715
00:39:05,900 --> 00:39:08,460
People don't know that I was there from
when she was born.
716
00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:12,060
I mean, even when she was saying that I
wasn't doing nothing, I was doing
717
00:39:12,060 --> 00:39:15,520
something. When you're able to do what
you can financially for her, emotionally
718
00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:16,520
for her, do you do that?
719
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:22,820
If she don't urge my daughter to call
me, I'm not going to make you come see
720
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:26,720
I'm not going to do that. She thinks
that if she brings Riley around again,
721
00:39:26,720 --> 00:39:28,440
so -called won't show up to meet you.
Really?
722
00:39:28,660 --> 00:39:31,000
Yeah. So has there been a time you
haven't showed up?
723
00:39:31,720 --> 00:39:32,720
Just once.
724
00:39:33,140 --> 00:39:37,660
She would call him and be like, Dad, you
know, when you going to come see me?
725
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:39,700
And then he's like, oh, I'm coming.
726
00:39:39,940 --> 00:39:43,140
And then next thing you know, oh, I'm
not coming. And so it got to the point.
727
00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:45,680
No, seriously, she stopped asking.
728
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:48,100
Like, it was so sad.
729
00:39:48,380 --> 00:39:49,860
I didn't have a relationship with my dad
either.
730
00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:53,080
It's the same thing. I'm coming, never
show up.
731
00:39:53,420 --> 00:39:55,800
Little girls, they want their daddies
involved.
732
00:39:56,100 --> 00:39:59,080
All Riley has is your word to hold on
to.
733
00:39:59,460 --> 00:40:02,340
So when you don't show up, that is
devastating.
734
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:07,200
That daughter, daddy thing, I'm like
about to tear up because I wish I had
735
00:40:09,290 --> 00:40:14,210
This really pisses me off, though,
because it's like when I first found out
736
00:40:14,210 --> 00:40:18,350
was pregnant, you know, he called me and
said he wasn't going to have nothing to
737
00:40:18,350 --> 00:40:19,350
do with my baby.
738
00:40:19,930 --> 00:40:25,130
And I told him that day, that's fine,
mother, because you would never have to
739
00:40:25,130 --> 00:40:26,750
worry about how she is.
740
00:40:26,970 --> 00:40:28,890
You'll need her before she needs you.
741
00:40:29,330 --> 00:40:30,370
And I meant that.
742
00:40:31,450 --> 00:40:32,730
I meant it.
743
00:40:39,569 --> 00:40:43,390
But Nora told me to never interfere with
the relationship.
744
00:40:44,750 --> 00:40:49,930
So even though I can't stand his punk
ass, if he wanted her to call him or
745
00:40:49,930 --> 00:40:51,250
whatever, I'd try to make her call him.
746
00:40:51,490 --> 00:40:57,170
But if I really say this s*** that he's
done, that she ain't privy to, that's
747
00:40:57,170 --> 00:40:59,130
going to hurt my f***ing daughter. Yeah.
748
00:41:00,470 --> 00:41:05,650
And then one day she broke down on me
because of a song that I had wrote about
749
00:41:05,650 --> 00:41:07,810
my stepfather and cried and cried. It
was like...
750
00:41:08,170 --> 00:41:11,510
Why is my daddy not like that? I wish I
had a daddy like that.
751
00:41:12,230 --> 00:41:14,690
Girl, it killed me on the inside.
752
00:41:17,110 --> 00:41:20,390
So wait, wait. There's no responsibility
you can take in a situation.
753
00:41:22,330 --> 00:41:23,470
What can you do now?
754
00:41:23,670 --> 00:41:26,830
We need a conversation about, you know,
doing the right thing.
755
00:41:28,090 --> 00:41:32,590
And maybe this woman being in his life
has him thinking a different way.
756
00:41:33,530 --> 00:41:35,090
I do believe people can change.
757
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:43,140
I honestly do. Bob definitely put me
through some shit, but I do commend him
758
00:41:43,140 --> 00:41:47,200
stepping forward to, you know, be more
involved in the kid's life. But
759
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:53,280
I don't know if these men know how to be
good fathers because they didn't have
760
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:54,279
that themselves.
761
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:56,340
I did this for years, Sheree.
762
00:41:57,100 --> 00:41:58,100
Years.
763
00:42:02,620 --> 00:42:04,640
Next time on The Real Housewives of
Atlanta.
764
00:42:05,100 --> 00:42:08,620
The thing about having everybody for
laser tag, it's all about drinking and
765
00:42:08,620 --> 00:42:10,280
boozing it up. Are you going to be
partaking?
766
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:15,360
Probably not. Tell those lies now. Wait
for the courtroom for that. Oh, no she
767
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:16,360
didn't.
768
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:18,660
It's about to puke cats in a bitch's
ass.
769
00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:20,240
Say hello to my little friend.
770
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:26,300
I'm sorry if I ever put someone else
ahead of you. You ain't got to put them
771
00:42:26,300 --> 00:42:27,300
ahead of me to sleep with them.
772
00:42:28,380 --> 00:42:30,660
I'm sad that things didn't work out.
That's his loss.
773
00:42:31,150 --> 00:42:32,470
I want to go to the hotel.
774
00:42:32,810 --> 00:42:33,810
Let's go.
775
00:42:34,750 --> 00:42:37,950
Riley's old enough to say whether she
want to have a relationship with her
776
00:42:38,790 --> 00:42:40,630
Don't pay damn child support.
777
00:42:40,870 --> 00:42:43,830
You said you're not going to chase me or
Riley. I'm not chasing nobody.
778
00:42:44,190 --> 00:42:47,490
Tell me you ain't going to chase my
child. You should chase her.
779
00:42:47,890 --> 00:42:51,650
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