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Previously on The Real Housewives of New York City.

So Heather, you have a podcast too? I do.

I thought that was a real friendship, but nothing really I learned with Luann

genuine. Yeah, that's true.

What?

My grandmother is very sick and passing away right now.

I do not feel fully like myself, and I'm not good at pretending I feel a

different way.

Ramona does not like the way I talk about sex.

My daughter doesn't speak that way. Are you freaking kidding me? You think your

daughter is going to speak to you about sex in front of you? I'm over it. Do not

compare me to your daughter.

You're a hoe, you're a hoe, you're a hoe. Leave me the fuck alone.

Oh, my God. Biggest pose ever.

I know you're upset about your grandmother, but there's no excuse to

this. But I don't subscribe to the fact that to use those words mean you're

unclassy. It has nothing to do with class. It has to do with education.

Well, no, it doesn't have to do with education either, Lou. I have more

education, frankly, than anybody at this table. Let's not go tit for tat on who

has an education or not, girlfriend.

You're an angry woman right now. Tell me it's not about race. Don't come into my

house and tell me I don't have an education.

Well, I can leave you.

I think you should go. Oh, my God. I will not silence myself for you. It's

trash. You should be familiar.

Have a safe trip.

You don't have to leave with me. These are your friends. You should stay.

But I'm going to go because I'm not going to be somewhere I'm not wanted.

angry. She's referring to race.

I never brought up the color of her skin once. What's that got to do with it?

She has issues.

Holy shoot.

I honestly think this thing blew up into a mushroom pile. Well, I wanted to stay

because I didn't want to run, but she told me to leave, Heather. So I need to

leave. Oh, here's your Uber.

Women don't want to be called angry. And when you're with a black woman, avoid

it. And if you do do that, you back down right away and say, wow, didn't

realize, now I do.

We just have to listen to each other more.

That's it.

You know what, though, Heather? We have to listen even when we don't like what

we hear.

That's the issue. Hell yes. That's the issue.

Yeah, you get comfortable with being uncomfortable.

Amen. Bye, Queen.

All right. It wasn't even about me. I was saying that Ramona felt

Right. That's all. You have to respect people. That's it.

After Ebony made such a derogatory statement as she's the smartest woman at

table, she lost me. For someone that's so well -educated, that was a really

thing to say.

I don't know her that well, but boy, did I get to know her today.

Thank you very much.

Hi.

Where is everybody?

I don't know. Luanne kicked me out of her house.

Wait, what?

Oh, she kicked me out of her f***ing house. Luanne called me an angry black

woman. She did not.

No, she did not.

No, she did not.

Leah, I didn't do it.

She did not call you that.

I'm trying not to get emotional right now. I'm sorry. I'm so sorry. Because

such a full s*** I've dealt with my whole f***ing life. What the f***?

Society does not afford black women in particular a range of emotions.

Or just downright f***ing. passion around an issue and it's a problem and I

my friend Luann to give me more credit than that tell me what happened after

left I said Ramona you've made it clear Luann you've made it clear that y 'all

don't like that terminology around the reproductive organs I won't use it but

then Luann had to go further girl and she's like it's really about education

Leah I lost it.

Girl, I just, I had to flex. And I said, well, hold up now, Lou. Don't make it

about education because I actually have more formal education than anyone at

this table.

Ebony's a smart girl. I mean, she told us all. Well, she's the most educated,

but does that mean you're smart?

She's very proud and she should be very proud as a black woman to have the most

high degree that you could ever have. And I'm proud of her too. I know you

However, we didn't say that.

Lou lost her. She's like, oh, so now I'm an uneducated person. And I said, no,

that's what you said. Right. And Luann was like, well, you know, why are you so

angry at me? I said, oh, God, the bitch is an idiot.

Now I'm an angry black woman. I didn't say that.

When you use the word angry, unfortunately, and I know what you mean,

angry is an angry word. It's an adjective. Well, she was clearly very

was upset.

She was upset. She was raising her voice. I know, baby, but listen to me.

she said your white fragility. I have no idea what that means. I know you don't.

So you should have maybe said to her, what does that mean?

She was actually so upset.

The onus is on us right now. We need to back up right now and understand and

listen.

between you and Leah, I think we can get through that. Oh, it's silly BS. It's

silly. But what happened with Ebony is not. No, it's serious. And it's very

serious. And I think that to understand each other is the most important thing

right now. And we have to go in there with apologies.

And I'm telling, not, listen, Luann, I know that you got in a fight and I know

you feel attacked in your home. Yes. And that's not cool. It's your turf. I get

it. It's not my turf. It's about how she reacted towards me and it was uncalled

for. No, but she, well, in her mind, not.

Instead of seeing any pain and suffering, righteousness comes right

We have to, you know, strip the ego and just listen to someone else's

perspective. If there's ever been time for that within this group, it's right

now. It's our responsibility right now as white women to push pause on your

reaction and your defense to that and say, wait a minute, what did I do to

you feel that way?

I hate that because I thought Lou and I were friends. And then, girl, she let it

out. Like, everything she'd been feeling about me, Leah, came out.

Oh, I'm pretentious. Oh, I'm a black, angry bitch. Like, oh, you think you're

better than people. No, Lou, that's your feeling. Like, save that for someone

else.

That's not who I am. That's not who she is. She thinks she's better than people,

but she knows she's not. She only works on a hierarchy, and that's her count and

whatever. You know, like, girl, go anyways.

Ebony is a better woman than I will ever be.

I probably would have burned that.

Where are these girls?

This is terrifying.

Honey, we're home!

Ladies!

How are my girls? You come in. Holy s*** ball.

It sounds like I missed an even more disgusting display of judgment.

You set it off, girl.

I think Luann did, actually.

Luann actually surprised me with the weird. She's been weird on the strip.

To call a black woman angry right now, you're just starting a problem.

But she doesn't even realize. She doesn't even know. We have to remember,

Luann's ego comes first.

I can't be in a friend group that is not going to have the consciousness to say,

Ebony's experience in this country is vastly different than mine. I have a

different lens on it because...

I have been in the homes and the core of Black America, and it is a beautiful

place, and I am so happy about my experiences. Can you tell me more about

I'm curious. Well, I just, you know, I worked for Puffy for five years. I

for Beyonce. But then there's, like, real Black America. You know what I'm

saying? Like, it's not hip -hop entertainment industry. I'm not talking

Puffy because that's the fake Black America. That's, like, the illusion.

that's elite. It's also a truly elite class. No, but the people that work

that were making, like, no money or interning. I mean, I have, you know, I

involved in Black culture. culture heather does have an elevated sense of

awareness but she can over familiarize herself with aspects of black culture

in a way that is makes me slightly uncomfortable my friend bill gorgeous

man dressed in gucci can't get a cab i have to hail the cab i've seen things

that a lot of white folks haven't seen i hear you listen Luann is here. You

don't have to educate her. All you have to do is explain what you meant that she

didn't hear.

I'm going to talk to Lu as an adult. What I hope she apologizes for is her

defaulting to a very stereotypical trope about women of color and our reactions

and emotions.

You guys are getting ready for dinner.

I'm about to make myself a cocktail, and we can talk to them.

Yes. I hope we can get dinner together. That's fine. You don't need to say

anything. I really just want to say. I think you have to say, either take me or

leave me, girl.

I'm happy with who I am. I have more to say than that. Well, whatever.

I think Ramona being mad that I talk about sex too much

really.

Doesn't matter anymore when we're dealing with race issues.

Everybody's been very intense. Yeah, maybe we can break the ice with just in

kitchen. My original idea was for all us girls to hang out, cook together. And

make something really easy breezy.

And then I got us all aprons. All right, shut your eyes. I want you to shut your

eyes. They're shut.

Okay, turn around. Now open your eyes.

Actually, it looks like you, though. I don't know about that.

But that was my idea, that we all wear, like, funky, funny aprons. You got more?

Yeah, I got one for everybody.

I really wanted a fun, bonding moment over cooking.

Instead, it's gotten too heavy and dismal, and we have to talk through

Because it's complicated.

This is complicated. It's not easy stuff.

Lou? Yeah?

Hi, I'm coming in.

Yeah. Come on in. So I just talked to the girls.

Yeah. And, you know, I think it would be good if we all can just sit down and

try to see if we can't, you know, come to an understanding in a place where

we're not all talking over each other and we're listening to perspective.

She was up off her seat in my face.

Well, it was something that you said that set her off wrong.

I think that you should listen. Which she misunderstood.

It was a misunderstanding. So then if we can just sit down together, hopefully

we can understand a little bit more about each other and move on.

And grow from it. I'm all for it. I figured you would be. If I make somebody

feel bad, I want to know about it, and I want to fix it.

I'm going to go get Ramona. You girls sit.

I'm going to pee. I'm so glad I'm not the only one that wants to be

tonight. I'm going to just make a drink. Can you come out? Because I got

everybody. Oh, really? Yeah. Hey, girl. Hey, honey.

I'm just going to make myself a tequila, if that's okay. Yeah. Can you make me

one, too? I'll pour you one. Trois. Un, deux, trois. Okay.

Yes. I'm going to move to the hard stuff.

Okay. You two are really clicking, so let's...

Let's just get this behind us, you know?

Listen, I mean, there was a misunderstanding, but she has to meet me

Coming up.

I apologize that I got so upset with you. And I appreciate that. I do, and I

accept that. And I would hope that you would extend the same to me.

Ramona, you built a beautiful fire. Can we sit next to the fireplace?

This is so nice. Oh, good. I'm glad we're all together. We got to get this

straight here.

So I wanted to talk to you, Lou, because I was very disappointed.

I hold you in high regard, Lou Anne, you know, and I hope you know that.

So when you called me angry, it was unacceptable.

Whether you're aware or not, the term angry when referencing a black woman,

got a long stereotypical history.

Black women in this country have never been afforded the opportunity to have a

fully human experience.

Because the minute that we raise our voice, which I acknowledge, I definitely

raised my voice.

It made me feel like you were painting me with a broad brush that we

unfortunately do in this country when a black woman shows up in a way that we

don't like.

It hurt me, Luann.

I would love it if you could be okay if I'm upset sometimes and not use the term

angry because it does trigger the stereotype of being an angry black

Luann, I've worked my whole life.

I work at Fox. I work in media.

to never show up as the angry black woman because I have a responsibility to

black women I represent on these platforms.

Thank you. Well taken.

I didn't really understand that angry sets off that kind of reaction.

So I didn't say it because I tried to belittle you or make you less than

it's not me. You know that.

So for that, I'm sorry.

I think it was a major miscommunication.

Upset I saw that you were upset and that would have been a better word and also

I'm in my own home And I've got my daughter there so my tourist the horns

up Myself getting angry you know I don't really have to educate me on that

because I don't I don't really know I Apologize and I got so upset with you. I

don't yeah, I appreciate that I do and you know I would hope that you would

extend the same to me So you want me to apologize for

making you upset I want you to recognize that, you know, how you upset me as

well. I feel like we went five steps to go ten backwards.

That's exactly the problem, Lou.

I get to be upset.

And can you tell us how you were upset?

Well, it upset me that, you know, that, you know, you were yelling and that you

wouldn't, you know, listen and you got, you know, upset with me over something I

didn't really understand.

That's frustrating.

But who should be apologizing here?

Here's what I think this is the important missing point.

We have to, especially as white people, we need to actually step back and

actually, you know, give Ebony the apology and stop it and move on. She was

reacting to a trigger that she just explained to you really well.

Well, I'm sorry that I triggered you by saying angry. I am really sorry about

that. And I appreciate that and I accept it.

The reason why what I won't do is say I'm sorry is because it is an

of me apologizing for having a natural reaction to a very deep -seated,

triggering word and concept. So I can't apologize to you for that, Lewitt. I

want to acknowledge that my dear friend over here, Ms. Leah, cussed y 'all all

out and called y 'all all hoes to your faces, and nobody called her angry.

In fact, she was told, Leah, calm down, come back to the table, because she

wasn't held to that standard of anger.

Oh, I thought you called them all hoes, not me. Yeah, I called you all hoes.

Well, she's getting a pass because her grandmother's dying. Well, so is mine,

Ramona. I also have a grandmother who's leaving us on this earth, and I'm very

concerned with my mother.

They're the only two family members by blood I have left.

Listen, I take you at your word, but this notion of whose burden it is to

educate, I want to just be straightforward with you both to say to

It's not yours. It's not my responsibility at all.

I'm asking you to. Yeah, you actually, maybe you did, and you meant it sweetly.

You said it sweetly. You said you have to teach us.

That's what you said. Well, I want to teach you how to cook tonight. Maybe you

can cook. But we're not going to deflect.

Don't deflect.

The burden's on us. We're white, privileged ladies.

Nobody's turning the page and moving forward.

We have to read the page, feel the pain, be a little bit awkward, and then we

can turn some more pages.

Well, maybe you can have a little bit more sympathy, patience, patience.

I think you're really patient. I think I'm really patient. I do, too. I do. And

I think and I know that to be true because of the work I've done, y 'all.

not new to this. I've taken on the work professionally, Lillian. You know the

work I do. We have the responsibility to change by our actions because they have

repercussion. white people and like especially white women need to kind of

up right now and listen so shut the up heather and let's listen nobody's beyond

reproach and that goes for me too listen i always say the minute you think

you're ripe you begin to rock i never feel like it's enough well i hope this

still the best day i think in many ways it was the most honest day and for that

it is the best day I'm really sorry that happened.

Because I do adore you. And I adore you. And I think the world adores you.

You're a strong ditch. I love that. Thank you.

Virgo meet Taurus. Here we go. That's right. Here we go.

I think it's authentic.

You know, it's really uncomfortable, I'm sure, for everybody, including Lou and

me.

And I appreciate that she really seems apologetic.

Good dialogue.

So I'm not going to eat your lovely food tonight because I want to order some

comfort food.

Ebony is a smart woman and she's understanding.

I value her as a friend.

This is just another issue. It's a big one. But if we talk and communicate, I

think that we can totally get past this.

She's a good person.

Everybody makes mistakes.

I have enough humility.

No, you're not. You're a queen. And I want you to know that about yourself.

You know what? Leah said that to me, too, that you point out I'm

it. And I really need to get a little better self -esteem. Girl, you are high

worth. Thank you. No matter what anybody tells you.

Coming from a woman of high worth.

Sonia has allowed her group of friends to classify her as a less than valuable

woman. That was my bald guy she married, by the way. He married me, okay? He

wasn't your guy. I think she's dope. I think she's powerful. I think she's a

badass. And I don't think Sonia sees that in herself because it's been told

her and she's internalized it. And I am never here for that.

Well, I'm so glad you came to help us grow, and I don't believe in these

apologies either. I think it's about growing. You know what the best apology

Changed behavior.

The only thing I do believe is the weight is on us now. White people have

repressed and put down, you know, our black people for so long. It's our job

now.

I don't think Sonia's pandering, and I really think Sonia gets it in this

more than almost all of these other women.

Okay, I heard it.

Great job.

Thank you. You're very articulate.

I don't know if anyone ever talked to that.

Thank you. I heard it a couple times.

That's also a microaggression, by the way. Such a microaggression that it's

insane.

How do people not know this?

She means so well. I'm going to give her a pass on that.

We still got work to do.

That's actually pretty funny. I've never seen that before. That's cute.

Coming up.

Woo! i'm a little nervous oh my god

Thank you for that. So pretty.

I would feel like if I was, let's say, the only white chick with all black

chicks. Oh, my God. There are some differences and things we've went

you know, just made me aware that I have to really empathize with people and

their struggles. And then maybe sometimes I'm just in my own little

you can say that again.

Being around Ebony now has opened up my mind. All of a sudden, I'm Googling all

these things and I'm educating myself in a different way than I ever have

before.

Miss Devin.

Hello, lovely. How are you? Hey, gorgeous.

Listen, I have a good girlfriend who is quickly becoming a very fast friend of

mine. I really adore her.

Her name is Sonia.

And I want to find her love, Devin. I really do.

Devin is a matchmaker, and she's one of the best in the country.

And I think if Sonia worked with the right matchmaker, she could find the

of her life.

She's beautiful. She's smart.

But she, like, doesn't know her own worth. It is so clear to me.

You know, for you, Ebony, whatever you need and want, I'm down.

I'd love to see you in Philly and talk to your girl, Sonia. All right. I adore

you. Talk soon, baby. Okay. Bye.

I think Sonia has so much love left to give.

And I know that Sonia thinks that that ship has sailed. And I don't believe

that.

Ramona's so happy that she's not the one that got in the snafu. And it was you.

Because I think she thought she was going to be the one also.

Right. So now she's like so elated. I'm getting along so well with Ebony. I

know. Good. Me and Ebony. Let her enjoy it while the moment lasts.

Yeah. And I'll be the next one batter off. Well, you know. I'm still a little

affected by what happened last night because it was very heavy.

To feel like I've hurt somebody is upsetting to me.

So, girls, I arranged this fisherman to meet us, and, you know, we can watch or

fish or whatever, but we need to leave here at 12, and it's already 11 .20, and

we're going to have lunch at 1 .30. Okay, so let's just grab it. I'm going

grab a piece of pie or something like that. So she can make us eggs while we

ready.

Sonia loves fishing, and I wanted to go to the beach and have a nice picnic and

a nice lunch, and I thought, okay, we'll do some fishing.

Sophia, you'll be ready in five.

The jacket doesn't look good with this.

The jacket?

Are we talking about the jacket?

It looks good without the jacket. Oh, my God. Are we in London or are we going

fishing? It's Leah.

I never say to myself, is she dressed appropriately for the event?

She's dressed as Leah.

Let's move it out. Come on, girls. Let's go.

I'm ready. I'm ready.

Sonia. Lulu, you're the last.

I'm coming.

I didn't even finish buttoning my pants.

Hi, how are you?

This is going to be a blast tonight.

Yeah. It's going to be fun. And it's exciting because it's our last night.

Yeah. So that makes it even better. How many people are we having tonight? Ten?

Yeah, with Hank and us and the girls. And I wanted you to invite who you

I'm just having a good time with all the girls. Yeah, it's going to be fun.

I'm excited to see everybody. We're going to be busy doing, you know, our

twirling and all our fun stuff.

I planned the last night's party at Topping Rose. We're going to get dressed

for Halloween. It's a 1970s -inspired beauty pageant. As we can't have a lot

people with COVID, we have to have some sort of cool, interactive kind of theme.

You know, Ebony's an ex -beauty queen. I was in Miss Connecticut.

After all the drama of yesterday, I think this party is just what we need.

All right, we're here.

Yay, we're at the ocean.

Oh, wow, it looks really beautiful.

This is so beautiful.

Hello. Hi.

How you doing?

Good, I'm Mark. Nice to meet you.

Has anybody surfcast before?

No. Excellent, excellent.

So the first thing I want to do is get everybody set up with a pair of waders.

have a pair here.

Are you kidding me? Again?

Hell no.

watch you guys because i i like just want to like talk about props yeah oh

is beautiful we can take a walk so nice all right i can't think of anything i'd

rather not do than wade in freezing water to catch a fish that i don't

care about catching let's wait for sonia and mark is she flirting what is she

doing bringing more lures you know sonia likes a dad bod

A man with a belly. Oh, yes, she does. Over this way, ladies.

Okay, we're coming. I got the perfect spot picked out for us.

I always get lucky. Do you?

I'm a Sagittarius. I always catch a fish.

If I knew this guy better, I would tell him I always catch a dick, too.

I think you should do the hula hooping.

Yep. Oh!

Aim a little bit to your left, all right?

All right.

Woo! That's pretty amazing.

Oh, my God!

back in my day, I was actually quite a hula hooper. So, kind of like riding a

bike. Yes!

You got it!

You don't have to go super hard at first.

No, I just want to get a feel. You just got to get a feel for it, okay? Well, I

just get a feel.

Make your two fingers right there.

Do I put the pole up high and back and with it? Yeah, in the back, just like

that. Do you have a f***ing date?

I think you're right. I'm telling you, I have a sense about these things. Yeah,

you're 100 % right.

All right, so let's decide.

I feel like I can do it on my own. Oh, you do?

Okay, I'm going to watch you.

Woo! Am I holding this correctly? Yes, you are. Okay, I'm a little nervous.

Ebony, get back!

Oh, my God.

Back up!

Back up! Oh, my God.

Coming up.

Please don't leave me in the van. Oh, relax, bitch.

No,

you bitch. You want to call me a...

Don't go close. The waves are really rough. Yeah, I know.

Are you going to fish or should I lay this down tonight? I haven't decided.

Why am I in charge of your fishing pole all of a sudden? Because you look good

holding it. Yeah?

Let's sit over here for a little bit.

Well, okay. I'll put your pole over here.

All right.

Now, this is the way I like to fish.

Right from here.

You almost fell into the water. This is really fun and Mother Earth and nature,

but I'm not about to die out here.

So I'm done, ready for both wine and food and a blanket.

Whoa! Whoa!

Bam!

Sonia's really into this.

Okay. Yep.

Come over your shoulder.

That wasn't bad.

Well, listen, I'm so glad we kind of got through things last night a little bit.

Because, you know, I think so highly of you. I really do.

As do I.

I still have, you know, pit in my stomach this morning. You know, I woke

I just felt badly and, you know, I never want to hurt your feelings, you know. I

was in tears about the whole thing. It was very, very upsetting to me. I can't

fix what's been happening in the world. I can just try.

to be a better communicator.

Listen, nobody's perfect, Luann. I think we gotta, as women, release ourselves

of that pressure. I really do. I'm so glad we did. And we did. I actually feel

better that that happened. Last night's conversation, Luann, is not, okay, put a

bow on it, we're done.

100%. Nobody's got all the answers, including me. But I can...

Try to contribute the best I can and try to understand it better. That's all I

can do.

I feel like more of an authentic connection to you because as women in

friendship, all we have to do is listen. Yeah. And help each other. And help

each other. All right, baby. There's some shit about these women that I

enjoy.

And if I could get past the uncomfortable thing, there's like

opportunity for something amazing.

I am committed to that.

And I got to take these stupid wailers off. Yeah.

Hey, girl.

It's getting cold and the girls want to eat.

Okay. All right, honey. Yeah.

That was fun, though. I really suck at it.

What's on my hook? Is that something? Like, is that like a... That's bait.

Oh, that's the bait?

Yeah. You want me to get it out for you?

Yeah.

Getting tired?

It's a lot of work.

Wow, look at this.

I know.

Yeah. How'd you do it?

Nobody caught a fish, huh?

I think it's too rough. I don't know. I was going to say, I don't understand how

the fish are going to hang in that. Me either. And the concept that you throw

this tiny little thing in this massive ocean that you get a fish always blows

mind. What a nice setup.

You know, we talked last night.

Can you take these off?

I think you're extremely high value, Sonya Morgan. We talked about that.

get emotional.

I mean, you can't get emotional. Let me not say that. It's just nice to be seen,

you know. And I really do see you. Your heart, so big.

Look how welcoming you've been to me.

You're easy to welcome, but thank you.

You stand up for what's right.

And anyways, I want love for you. Yeah, I need some love. So I called my

girlfriend, Devin.

He is a brilliant matchmaker. She's in Philadelphia for now. She's moving back

to the city.

My second home. Yeah. My kid goes to school there.

Great guys in Philly, by the way.

The most eligible bachelors in New York are in the palm of her hand. We're going

to go to Philly, and we're going to find you a man.

Ladies, it was a pleasure. Thank you, my dear. This was so fun.

I really enjoyed that.

I almost died, but I had a very good time.

Ebony is making me feel so special because she thinks I'm worthy of meeting

great match, a man I could spend the rest of my life with, and I'm just

up the attention.

While you were fishing, Leah and I put together... Don't tell them.

Wait, what? Are you surprising them? Yeah.

Sorry, don't. Okay. All right, she wanted to surprise you. Luann helped me

figure out a special talent I have, and I'll be showcasing it tonight.

Really? Is it reading people for film? No, she did not know. Oh, my God.

I feel like when I try doing that, I stumble over my words. I'm like... You

know? Then you just scream.

So I found some pom -poms for you. I'm so glad. You want to do your

cheerleading? I'll do it. Okay.

Ebony is surprising us with her talent. It's a spoken word.

Okay. All right.

And Sonia, see that bag next to the batons? Yes. It's got a red hat.

That's a miming getup. All right, I'll try that. For you, right?

What happened to doing your push -ups tonight? We don't want you disqualified

because you didn't do a talent. Okay. I mean, you doing push -ups and evening

dresses, everything. Oh, that would be dope.

Okay.

My only talent is cooking and making money. It was up to me. I'd just be the

judge or something.

But listen, I want to invite everybody to my home to watch the election results

at my place. An election party. I love it. Is that November 30th?

You won't be there. You'll be away.

And that's fine. But I'd love if you can attend.

Why don't we bet on who we think is going to win?

Girl, I ain't betting on that.

Is everyone at the table going to early vote? I've become so disgusted by

politics because I can't stand the way that each side has become. I don't even

want to partake. I struggled with it in 2016 and please don't, don't.

come at me with some really self -righteous but you need to vote because

like i wasn't gonna say that i was gonna actually ask you a question have you

decided whether you were gonna vote or not or you don't know yet she just said

she's disgusting at this point If I vote, it's going to be for Biden, but

not because I like him. I just want to go back to freaking normal.

So you vote, you know, no, no pressure to you. So you vote because that's the

only way that we as Americans can make a difference. This is just another way

for Heather to like be morally superior.

Of course, I'm going to vote, but I'm voicing my dissatisfaction right now.

I feel like it's like everyone's in a cult.

I don't feel like I'm in a cult.

What? I don't feel like I'm in a cult. I'm over it. Don't give up on me. She's

so mean to me.

God.

She's so mean to me, this one.

Coming up.

I just can't stop.

Every time I think about her, I just can't stop crying. I'm not going to be

with it.

is working out without being tired.

It's effortless.

How many pounds are those?

They're small. They're only five pounds.

A lot. But I'm on stage.

I'm contestant number two.

Yes, my name is Ramona from New York City.

Wait, we're all from New York City.

Beauty pageant 70 is the theme.

I'm really not quite understanding this theme, but okay.

I'm doing the best I can.

Hi, my love. How are you?

Amazing.

Okay, girls. Well, I'm going to get my hair on.

Hello?

Mom?

Hi.

Because of the medication?

We have pulled up a picture of the 70s of Charlie's Angels, right? And

Jacqueline Smith has her hair, like, but the bangs are shorter.

So I'm like, Mary, do you have your scissors with you? She's like, no. And I

I'm willing.

I'm going to come directly to Jersey tomorrow from here.

Oh, okay. I'm going to go. All right. Love you, Mom. Bye.

You know, I think if my grandmother was responsive, then I would be running out

the door right now.

Also, like, I have a huge family, and if I leave tonight, I probably can't even

get into her room, so I'm just going to leave tomorrow.

I just can't stop. Every time I think about her, I just can't stop crying. I'm

not going to be okay with it. It's sad. I'm going the first thing tomorrow

morning. I've got to go. You need to go straight there.

Leah and I are on this heartbreaking parallel experience of losing our

It breaks my heart for my friend, and it breaks my heart for me because I know

I'm facing that exact scenario.

You know, a week ago she was cracking jokes and everything, you know?

Thank you, babe.

Thank you.

Oh, God, I wish I was still drinking.

Okay. I was going to do red on the eyes anyway. Good idea.

Yeah.

I'm obviously not in the best place.

I mean, I actually kind of feel like this is how I feel, having this giant

on my throat. This is cathartic in a way.

Okay.

Cheerleading, huh, Luann?

Cheerleading routines for beginners.

Left, right, it's a lotion.

I love it. It's so good, Leah. I think you should look like this every day.

Honestly, I think so, too.

I'm going to start wearing this hair all the time. Or at least this hair.

No, I'm very serious. Yeah, why not?

I'm, like, gagging over myself. This is so fun.

This is going to be fun.

Listen, I'm here for all the costume parties, baby. I'm a pageant girl. So,

first of all, this whole weekend is an extended pageant, okay? So, I live for

it. I love a costume party.

So, I'm not sure how I'm going to be in mine.

So you're going to be a mime? I'm just going to YouTube what mimes do.

Oh, you look adorable.

Oh, I'm actually getting good at this.

Okay.

Yeah, that's good.

Oh, my God, my nose.

Okay, I'm done.

Oh, my God, you look so good. You look incredible.

Thank you. So do you. You look amazing.

Thank you. You look so good.

Oh, your eye makeup? Now I see the vision. Yeah, no, I get it. I totally

I'm going to just fix the back here. Thank you. I've got to tell you, y

friend Leah, she's so rude to me.

She's like, don't be so righteous with me on the beach. I was like, you're the

one that just said you're not voting because you're so disgusted with every

political party, but that's why we have to vote. When we got back from the

picnic, Heather came in here and, like,

So she was bringing up this thing, stupid podcast again.

And honestly, Leah, I'm very bored with it. And I told her to her face. She's

bringing up again.

Yeah. Well, you, she's just like, you know, she thinks you're being like

her. And I was honest. I said, listen, I don't think it's a vibe between y 'all.

I just don't like when people are so has to be a part of every single

conversation and they have to be the authority of everything. You're the

authority of race. You're the authority of voting. You're the authority of

sleeping. You're the authority of. And the family member's dying.

Do you know what I mean? I do, I do. I'm just like, chill.

And I love you, so I'm going to tell you the truth. I think she was extremely

bothered by the fact that you said you weren't sure if you were voting in this

election.

It pains me, though, because the stakes are so high for me and my existence in

this country around everything, around COVID relief, around police brutality.

Everything's on the ballot.

Was she talking about me? No. Was she saying anything about that? Yeah, she

that she felt that she had a responsibility to vote, and she was

by that. Okay, now we're done.

I think she was extremely bothered by the fact that you said you weren't sure

you were voting in this election.

She's saying anything about that. Yeah. She said that she had a responsibility

to vote. She was really bothered by that.

Now we're done. Now we're done.

Leah.

Oops.

I really didn't know I was doing all that.

Heather, why are you talking about me and what I said? Are you kidding me? Do

not talk about if I want to vote or not. It's none of your business. You are

white feminism 101.

You are the problem.

You think you're the authority on everything. Do not talk about me. Do not

about anything that I say. It's none of your business.

Why do you have to be in everyone's business like a Karen?

It's none of your business.

Do you understand what I'm saying? Not really.

Literally. Don't talk to my friend about me and my personal choices. Are you

talking about this friend? I'm talking about Ebony.

I'm talking about Ebony. Heather, I don't care about... I don't care about

anything you say.

But you don't even know me. No, I do, and what I know I don't like. Just be

quiet for one second. You don't have to be a part of every single conversation.

Don't speak.

about my personal political decisions.

You are up in everyone's business, Heather. You are the problem.

Yes, Karen's like you.

It's just such an outlandish display.

Honestly, she sounds like a dingbat. You all look fabulous.

I'm loving you guys right now. You look amazing.

All right, let's go. Before we go, I said what I said. Yeah, you said

that maybe, did you want to address something with me too?

No, I said the same thing. I said to you, and I said the same thing to Leah.

She's a fucking dumb bitch.

I don't do the backbiting talking. So I said that we had a conversation about

voting, and the fact that I feel, as you feel, that everybody that can vote in

this election should.

I knew the bitch was going to talk about me.

I also said specifically as a black woman, the stakes for me are very high,

that's what it is.

This is why I don't like people that are like, you need to vote in my face.

Okay, these guys are nuts.

You don't care if I vote or not. You want me to vote for who you want me to

for. Just leave me alone.

I want to put on my lipstick. I wish I could stop screaming. They're giving me

headache. Leave me alone. I'm dealing with enough.

I don't give a shit who's winning or who's not winning. My grandma is dying.

That's all I care about right now. What the fuck is going on here?

You went to Ebony and started talking about it's really irresponsible for Leah

not to vote. First of all, why don't you just tell me that?

Did I tell you that it was irresponsible for her not to vote? Did I use those

words? I actually thought that you did.

Heather's harassing you. I did. My grandmother's dying. Please leave me

Leah is unleashing on Heather the way she sometimes unleashes at me.

Bitches and everyone's in business.

God, I cannot stand it.

All her frustrations with her grandmother being ill. She just, like,

When Leah's like this, you don't even know what to do.

Take a time out. Oh, my God. She's so out.

So much for a fun night.

So much for a fun night.

Y 'all need to talk, and I said that to you. I said y 'all need to talk.

The pageant is going to start without us. All right, let's go to this party.

All right. Do you have your... Will you get them for me? Please don't leave me

in a van with her. I can't.

No,

you bitch. You want to call me a bitch?

Are you...

Hurry, girls, hurry. Leah's getting out the car. Is she serious?

I'm not going with her. Oh, come on. No, not going with her. Not going. You want

me to take my car? Not going. Get me my car. I'm going home to see my

grandmother. I'm not dealing with this. Sorry. She's such a loser.

You want to go in my car?

I'm not going with Heather. I don't want to talk to her. I don't want to see

her. She's a psycho.

Wow.

Next time on The Real Housewives of New York City.

Live and in color from the Topping Roads, this is the Miss New York

I saw that Leah left. She went straight to her grandmother. Thank you for being

understanding this week with me, sadly.

There's a young woman. She proclaims to be my sister.

I said something to you, Ebony, that I want to share with the group. I feel

you're ready to preach, and I don't want to hear preaching right now. No, no,

no. Let her speak and listen.

Because I don't give a f*** about you.

Hey y 'all, happy election day.

You know John F. Kennedy. I know John.

I love John.

My girl Ramona is the master of manipulation.

And she posted a picture of you.

Do you think she posted a picture with an agenda?

I feel kind of gullible.