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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:04,080 I told my wife that I love her! NARRATOR: Previously... 2 00:00:04,120 --> 00:00:06,120 And she said it back! Yay! 3 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:08,680 ..a dinner party that started with high hopes... 4 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:10,320 To love. 5 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:13,200 ..soon gave way to despair for some. 6 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:15,840 I came into this, I was open and vulnerable. 7 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:19,080 But I am hurt. Where do I go from here? 8 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:21,240 If there's no potential in this relationship, 9 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:23,920 I worry you're going to get yourself hurt. 10 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:26,160 But it was Grace and Ashley's marriage... 11 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:27,920 Everything's gone really sour. I don't know 12 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:30,200 if I'm ever going to be able to see you in the same light again, 13 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:31,600 and you don't seem to care. 14 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:34,320 ..that lurched into a drastic, downward spiral. 15 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:37,400 This isn't going to go anywhere. I didn't want this to end this way. 16 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:39,880 I can't give any more to this. 17 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:41,000 Tonight... 18 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:45,200 Welcome to Wales. Thank you. ..Homestays get under way. 19 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:47,000 This is nice. This is where you'll be sleeping. 20 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:50,080 While it's a warm welcome for some... Oh. 21 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:51,760 Hello. You are everything 22 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:55,400 that we could have wished for him. This is a perfect match. 23 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:57,640 ..others face a much tougher grilling. 24 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:01,000 I struggle to see a future with Leo outside of the experiment. 25 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:04,040 It looks almost like you've made your mind up. 26 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:06,440 She ain't perfect, mate. Maybe she's not for you. 27 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:10,000 And... I have some information 28 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:11,680 that I'm going to have to drop to Nelly. 29 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:14,320 ..when a scandalous secret is exposed... 30 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:16,640 Oh. Why have you wasted her time in this experiment? 31 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:19,120 You don't respect her, you don't care about her, 32 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:20,640 and you've made her feel like shit. 33 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:24,000 ..it threatens to detonate Nelly's marriage to Steven. 34 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:25,600 She deserves 100 times better. 35 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:41,680 Welcome to Wales. I know, thank you. 36 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:43,280 Are you buzzing to be in Hove? How does it feel? 37 00:01:43,320 --> 00:01:44,360 It feels really good. 38 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:46,640 Everyone wants to live in Hove. Is that right? 39 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:50,040 Yeah. Trying to convince you to move down here, that's my plan. 40 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:52,040 It's time for the Homestays. 41 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:54,720 A key chapter in each couple's journey. 42 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:57,800 Having shared life in the neutral space of their apartments, 43 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:00,960 they'll now experience each other's real lives. 44 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:02,480 I can't believe I know so much about you, 45 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:04,760 but I haven't actually seen where you live. 46 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:07,960 Being in their partner's world gives a clearer sense of 47 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:11,080 what building a life together could actually look like. 48 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:17,200 Last night's dinner party, it was pretty intense, wasn't it? 49 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:18,360 Yeah, it was... 50 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:22,600 ..obviously, not the best one for us, really, was it? 51 00:02:24,640 --> 00:02:26,520 I feel like I am the reason that things aren't moving forward, 52 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:29,280 because Leo has expressed how much he likes me, 53 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:31,480 and apparently I'm his dream woman. 54 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:33,360 Home sweet home. Mm! 55 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:37,520 But we don't have the emotional connection there yet, for me. 56 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:38,960 We just seem to be seeing 57 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:41,400 very different views on this relationship. 58 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:43,000 Very, very different views. 59 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:47,640 Me and April had a really tough dinner party, 60 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:50,080 and we're still not in the best place. 61 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:56,680 During the Homestays, I am hopeful that we can reconnect 62 00:02:56,720 --> 00:03:00,720 and get that initial spark back that we did have straight away. 63 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:02,440 This week, being away from the experiment, 64 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:04,680 I feel like you're going to see a different side of me. 65 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:06,880 I've very much struggled being in the apartments 66 00:03:06,920 --> 00:03:10,240 and around these big groups, and just being in my home town, 67 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:12,360 I feel a lot more comfortable now, already, 68 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:15,600 and if we don't get an emotional connection after this week, 69 00:03:15,640 --> 00:03:17,320 then it's probably not going to be there. 70 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:20,320 I agree. 71 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:24,360 This week is going to be really good just 72 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:25,720 to see you in your natural environment. 73 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:27,800 I think, for me, there is a bit of apprehension there 74 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:30,680 cos I'd much rather be going into seeing your friends 75 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:33,360 and family, being in a better place. Obviously, the last time they saw us 76 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:35,200 we were at the wedding and everyone, 77 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:38,560 everything was really happy and positive. 78 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:39,840 Not quite so much, any more. 79 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:42,520 On their wedding day... 80 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:43,840 Oh, wow. 81 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:45,400 Hi. 82 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:47,240 April is definitely my type. 83 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:49,120 She's got a beautiful smile. 84 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:50,800 I love the mullet. 85 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:54,160 ..there was an instant attraction between April and Leo... 86 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:56,920 I definitely think he's my type and I definitely fancy him. 87 00:03:56,960 --> 00:04:00,640 ..which signalled a strong start to their marriage. 88 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:02,960 Pretty much every box that you could tick from the first impression 89 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:04,320 has probably been ticked. 90 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:09,480 Oh, God, I'm so happy! 91 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:15,320 For me, I'm just really looking forward 92 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:16,840 to having some quality time with you, 93 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:18,440 just the two of us. 94 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:19,920 Mm. 95 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:21,960 Homestay's make or break for us. 96 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:24,520 Now, I'm in the perfect place to try and turn it around. 97 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:26,520 I'm just going to really try and have fun with her, 98 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:29,920 and show a different side to me that, potentially, she hasn't seen. 99 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:36,080 My humble abode. OK, after you. 100 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:38,280 Let me go first, I'll open it up. OK. 101 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:40,960 Oh, come on, baby. Homestays is probably the thing 102 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:42,280 I've been looking forward to the most. 103 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:43,960 Makes the whole thing feel so real. 104 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:45,320 Here's my little living room. 105 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:48,400 Ah, it's nice. Little and sweet. It feels weird being here. 106 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:50,280 I could really imagine Bec spending weekends 107 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:53,040 or weeks down here and, one day, introduce Bec 108 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:55,320 to my gorgeous little daughter, Bluebelle. 109 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:57,600 Are you going to show me the rest of your flat? 110 00:04:57,640 --> 00:04:59,440 Yeah? This is it, babe. No, show me the rest! 111 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:02,360 Come on, then. You've got a bedroom. Where do we sleep? 112 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:04,840 Here you are, babe, come see the bedroom. Oh, this is nice. 113 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:06,080 This is where you'll be sleeping. 114 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:08,560 Nice white sheets. Yeah. Bluebelle's section. Ah. 115 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:10,440 She's got a few little toys, here. Is that a little guitar? 116 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:11,760 Yeah, here's her little guitar. That's cute. 117 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:14,360 That's so cute. I play, actually, so I'm... Do you? 118 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:16,760 ..yeah, I'm teaching her to play. Oh, go on, then. Go on. 119 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:20,800 # Welcome to my house, Bec. Here... # 120 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:25,920 Is that not good? No, it's fine. So, bedroom. 121 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:28,400 Yeah. Pretty much tour done. Lovely. 122 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:29,960 Yeah, it's my little place, it's only small. 123 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:35,240 Bailey's flat is really cute, but he's not got much stuff. 124 00:05:35,280 --> 00:05:39,800 He's got no pictures on the walls, or much furniture, really. 125 00:05:39,840 --> 00:05:41,840 Could probably do with a little rinse. 126 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:45,520 But I think it's perfect for what Bailey needs 127 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:48,640 at this moment in his life, before he had me. 128 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:50,880 I'm excited now, just to show you around Hove. Yeah. 129 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:53,000 Try and give you a little taste of what I do, 130 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:54,160 like, the normal stuff, 131 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:56,480 and convince you to come down here with me. 132 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:07,080 Leigh decided to stay on her own last night, 133 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:08,520 which I don't get why. 134 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:10,880 I've called her, I've messaged her. 135 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:13,080 She's ignored me, she's not replying. 136 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:16,280 So, I've travelled all the way back to Liverpool on my own. 137 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:19,400 I'm confused, at this point, as to why she hasn't come, 138 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:21,400 why she needs space. 139 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:23,920 I thought that she'd have more respect for me. 140 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:25,280 It is ridiculous. 141 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:37,240 I've decided to stay at the apartments 142 00:06:37,280 --> 00:06:38,840 rather than going to Leah's home, 143 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:41,680 because last night when we went out for drinks, 144 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:44,000 I saw her flirting with another girl, 145 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:47,800 and she decided to stay there, at the bar, with this girl 146 00:06:47,840 --> 00:06:49,240 when I left to come home. 147 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:52,760 There was no introduction between me and this girl, 148 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:54,800 and she spent the majority of the time with her, 149 00:06:54,840 --> 00:06:57,160 so, for me, something just didn't add up. 150 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:58,760 It was just another thing that I've seen 151 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:01,760 that just reiterated to me that there's no respect there. 152 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:05,480 I started to feel like you were being overly familiar with Rebecca, 153 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:07,360 and that's a bit muggy. 154 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:09,200 Leigh's fears over what she saw 155 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:11,760 as flirty behaviour from wife Leah... 156 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:14,720 Leigh thought I'd come up to you in a bar and was like, 157 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:16,680 "Hey, Rebecca, I fancy you." 158 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:19,720 ..only grew when Leisha joined the experiment... 159 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:22,800 They're hot. Blue eyes. Oh, of course you fucking noticed. 160 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:25,960 ..creating a constant source of tension in the marriage. 161 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:27,040 I'm pissed off. 162 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:29,680 I don't feel she's taking my feelings into consideration. 163 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:32,760 I like to meet somebody, and there's, like, that flirty vibe. 164 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:36,160 This is the second time that Leah has crossed Leigh's boundaries, 165 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:40,000 and Leigh's made it clear that she wants a level of respect 166 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:41,760 when it comes to their communication. 167 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:46,800 After seeing the way that Leah behaved last night, 168 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:49,360 that trust between me and Leah is completely broken. 169 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:52,480 I've kept giving her the benefit of the doubt, 170 00:07:52,520 --> 00:07:55,040 but how many times can something happen 171 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:59,360 before I look at the situation for just pure disrespect? 172 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:02,000 I don't really want to go and stay in Leah's house at this point. 173 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:03,880 It just doesn't feel right for me to do that. 174 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:16,480 OK, this is it. Oh, wow! 175 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:18,080 This is a huge week for me. 176 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:20,360 I'm ready for the grand tour. 177 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:22,920 I'm back home, and I'm back home with a wife. 178 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:24,360 It feels amazing, really. 179 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:28,480 Here we are. Oh, wow! Oh, this is nice. 180 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:31,680 I'm really impressed with John's apartment. 181 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:33,240 It's very clean and tidy, 182 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:34,760 but it is nerve-racking, 183 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:37,800 because it's really important to me that this week goes well. 184 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:40,200 If John can't see me being here with his friends 185 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:43,360 and family in his living space, then that's massive. 186 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:45,520 Is it weird, me being in your kitchen? 187 00:08:45,560 --> 00:08:49,360 It's nice. Can you see me, like chopping up things and cooking? 188 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:52,840 Flipping my pancakes? Yeah. No, it feels like it should. 189 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:55,800 It all feels, like, even more real now. 190 00:08:55,840 --> 00:08:57,600 I've been sat on my sofa as a single man 191 00:08:57,640 --> 00:09:01,240 for so long and wanted to be on my sofa with somebody else, 192 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:02,760 and I'm just so chuffed that it's Abi, 193 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:04,280 and it's a realisation, like, "Oh, do you know what? 194 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:05,360 "We're getting there. 195 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:07,760 "We're getting to what we want to achieve in life." 196 00:09:07,800 --> 00:09:10,240 This is the start of the rest of our life. 197 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:12,120 Obviously, I'm so close to my mum, 198 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:14,120 and I just want to show your mum how much 199 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:15,200 I do care for you, 200 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:18,320 and there is that pressure there, cos I care about you so much. 201 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:22,200 My mum will be happy if I'm happy. And I'm very, very happy. 202 00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:36,120 Steven has let me down yet again. 203 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:39,160 I said to Steven that he is more than welcome 204 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:42,240 to come to Manchester, but he said that's something 205 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:44,040 that he categorically doesn't want to do. 206 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:46,880 I have heard nothing from Steven, 207 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:49,720 not even a, "I hope you made it back OK." 208 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:53,320 It just reiterates to me 209 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:55,440 that I'm very insignificant to Steven. 210 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:04,240 It didn't feel right for me to come to Homestays with Nelly. 211 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:05,920 I've got a lot on my mind at the minute, 212 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:08,120 so, I didn't think it was fair on Nelly 213 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:10,800 and her friends and family as well, to come to a Homestay 214 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:12,920 where things just aren't quite right. 215 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:14,480 My head's all over the place. 216 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:16,920 I've got some serious thinking to do about Nelly and I's marriage. 217 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:26,680 I'm not looking forward to telling my friends 218 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:30,280 and family that Steven has decided not to come with me. 219 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:32,680 The one person I'm actually really worried about telling 220 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:35,200 is my mum, because she really, really liked him. 221 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:37,080 So, now I'm gonna have to burst her bubble. 222 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,280 This isn't how I hoped my Homestay would be. 223 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:46,360 Hi. Hi, oh, my God. 224 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:48,160 Oh, my goodness. 225 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:50,120 I missed you so much. 226 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:51,920 It's so nice to see Nelly back. 227 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:54,360 I feel so happy to see her. 228 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:57,000 We don't usually go this long without talking. 229 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:58,280 We've all missed her at home, haven't we? 230 00:10:58,320 --> 00:10:59,520 Yeah, missed her so much. 231 00:10:59,560 --> 00:11:00,760 Come on in. Where is Steven? 232 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:02,880 Well, come on in, guys. Would you like a drink? 233 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:04,760 Thank you. 234 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:06,800 How are you? 235 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:09,320 We're good, thank you. We're good but, more importantly, how are you? 236 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:10,400 Where is Steven? 237 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:14,720 Yeah, well, about that, he's, erm... 238 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:19,080 ..decided not to come on Homestays. 239 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:20,560 CORK POPS 240 00:11:26,960 --> 00:11:28,360 What's wrong? 241 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:32,840 So, last week, we had a Partner Swap week. 242 00:11:32,880 --> 00:11:36,680 I was with someone called Bailey. He basically treated me amazing, 243 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:39,520 which is exactly how you should be treated in a relationship. 244 00:11:39,560 --> 00:11:40,880 That's right. 245 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:43,480 Were you just not getting that before? 246 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:44,560 Literally, no. 247 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:49,040 Steven said, well, he's been with this girl called April, 248 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:50,840 and that they've had a really good time. 249 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:54,320 He's managed to have fun with her, the fun is back, 250 00:11:54,360 --> 00:11:56,480 and he managed to open up to her. 251 00:11:57,600 --> 00:11:59,200 And it was kind of like, "Well, she says I am this. 252 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:00,280 "She says I am that." 253 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:02,000 So, kind of like, "Why can't you see it?" 254 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:05,240 And I'm thinking, has he been extra attentive to her 255 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:08,000 when he's not even done that to me in my marriage 256 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:09,440 to make her say that? 257 00:12:11,560 --> 00:12:13,640 Well, we, kind of, got a bit of that vibe 258 00:12:13,680 --> 00:12:15,200 when we had dinner at yours. 259 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:17,200 You'd ask him a question and he'd answer it in, like, 260 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:18,800 four or five different ways. 261 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:20,600 I'll be honest, I was really confused. 262 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:22,280 So, what we last saw wasn't great. 263 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:23,920 In my head, I'm thinking, well, 264 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:25,840 "If you really wanted to give it one final push, 265 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:27,280 "you should be here." 266 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:30,000 I am disappointed that he hasn't made the effort. 267 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:31,400 Yeah, I'm really upset. 268 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:34,240 You know, it's heartbreaking to... 269 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:35,520 Don't get upset, Mum. 270 00:12:35,560 --> 00:12:38,600 ..it's heartbreaking to see that my daughter has to go through. 271 00:12:40,880 --> 00:12:42,840 We had a really big hope 272 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:45,320 that she will find her soulmate here. 273 00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:49,160 It is not a nice feeling. 274 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:51,600 I don't think Steven is the right person for Nelly. 275 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:55,680 Do I continue working through it? Like, do I? 276 00:12:55,720 --> 00:12:56,840 Do I continue or...? 277 00:12:56,880 --> 00:12:59,720 I think you've tried your hardest, but you're hitting a brick wall. 278 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:03,760 Now, I've seen my mum and brother, they know what I deserve. 279 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:05,880 I feel like I've got a little bit more clarity. 280 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:07,160 We want to see you happy. 281 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:10,120 He doesn't deserve you. 282 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:13,400 Not for a partner and not as a friend. 283 00:13:23,520 --> 00:13:24,880 How's it cooking, good looking? 284 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:28,200 It's cooking good. 285 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:32,520 My main ambition going into the Homestays 286 00:13:32,560 --> 00:13:35,280 is just keeping the positive energy going. 287 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:38,840 The real Leo is, I'm a very extroverted person, 288 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:40,960 and being in this comfortable environment, 289 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:44,320 it's really going to help me show April the real me. 290 00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:46,200 Babe, do you want to see some magic? 291 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:49,760 Erm, OK. 292 00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:51,280 Right, let me show you. 293 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:53,760 What is this going to be? 294 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:57,680 Are you ready for the world-famous... 295 00:13:57,720 --> 00:13:59,400 I know what it is. 296 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:00,960 Already, yeah, OK. 297 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:06,040 Penis magic. 298 00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:08,720 How's that for you, babe? 299 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:14,760 Why is he doing that? I don't understand. 300 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:16,760 Tell me you love me, baby. 301 00:14:16,800 --> 00:14:18,960 Mm. It just makes me wince. 302 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:20,960 Whoa, whoa! 303 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:23,520 You're an idiot. 304 00:14:23,560 --> 00:14:25,480 It's not sexy to me. Nope. 305 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:30,160 See, now, you know when you did the penis trick? 306 00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:31,840 Penis magic. This is far more impressive. 307 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:33,160 I should have started with this. 308 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:35,360 Yeah, I reckon. Well, well. 309 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:40,160 I think April's having a great time. 310 00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:42,760 It's reassuring to me, because, I have been making an effort, 311 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:44,120 and it's just nice to know 312 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:45,760 that I'm heading in the right direction. 313 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:47,120 She was definitely here for it. 314 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:54,720 This smells amazing, looks amazing. You're amazing, 315 00:14:54,760 --> 00:14:56,880 and I really appreciate you cooking for me tonight. 316 00:14:56,920 --> 00:14:58,320 Thank you. 317 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:08,720 Holy guacamole! These fajitas are fire. 318 00:15:16,640 --> 00:15:18,240 I'm gonna get us some kitchen roll. 319 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:21,800 Fuck's sake. 320 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:36,720 Having slept on it last night, 321 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:39,600 I've decided to go to Liverpool today 322 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:41,000 and confront Leah. 323 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:45,840 I want to find out exactly what went on with this girl. 324 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:47,160 To me, it looked suspect. 325 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:51,080 If I don't get the answers that I need today, 326 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:54,200 and it turns out that Leah was being disrespectful... 327 00:15:55,720 --> 00:15:58,400 ..then, as far as I'm concerned, the marriage is over. 328 00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:04,000 Nice of you to finally turn up. 329 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:21,000 Nice of you to finally turn up. 330 00:16:24,520 --> 00:16:25,560 SHE SIGHS 331 00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:29,960 Leigh turning up to my house, I feel blindsided. 332 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:33,160 Why has she not texted me back? Why has she not called me? 333 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:34,880 I've just been completely left in limbo, 334 00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:37,720 so, yeah, I do want to know what's been happening. 335 00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:43,400 So... 336 00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:48,840 ..when we went out, I seen you around another girl. 337 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:52,160 Mm-hm. It just seemed sus. 338 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:56,000 Fucking hell. There's a girl here 339 00:16:56,040 --> 00:16:57,360 that you're spending a lot of time with, 340 00:16:57,400 --> 00:16:59,760 you haven't introduced me, you've wanted to stay out 341 00:16:59,800 --> 00:17:02,600 with this person and everybody else is leaving. 342 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:03,640 Muggy. 343 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:08,720 So, this is why you've ignored me. It's a bit of a shit thing to do. 344 00:17:08,760 --> 00:17:11,120 You were sat on a complete other table over there, away, 345 00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:13,360 so it wasn't like a case of... It was right next to you. 346 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:14,880 ..no, it wasn't. It was. 347 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:16,800 You were, like, ignoring me at that point. 348 00:17:16,840 --> 00:17:18,160 I wasn't ignoring you. You were... 349 00:17:18,200 --> 00:17:20,920 You'd spoken to the... ..you know you were. ..people that I was with. 350 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:23,360 Leah, there was no point of that night that I was ignoring you. 351 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:26,160 I wish you would have told me earlier, and I would've 352 00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:28,080 just been able to squash it and tell you it was nothing. 353 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:30,560 See, from my side, 354 00:17:30,600 --> 00:17:33,400 I'm literally calling you all the next day, texting you. 355 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:35,240 I'm absolutely none the wiser. 356 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:40,200 I think it's all been blown out of proportion. 357 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:41,240 She does get in her head, 358 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:43,480 and then she gets her back up because maybe I triggered her, 359 00:17:43,520 --> 00:17:45,520 but she's got nothing to worry about with this person. 360 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:46,960 It's ridiculous. 361 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:54,280 It's so confusing with you because it's been so like this, 362 00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:55,480 I don't know if I'm coming or going, 363 00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:58,240 and then something happens that will make you a bit jealous. 364 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:00,880 I'm not just, like, a bit jealous. Time after time, 365 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:03,080 boundaries have been crossed, 366 00:18:03,120 --> 00:18:06,280 and I wouldn't feel the way that I feel if that wasn't the case. 367 00:18:07,440 --> 00:18:10,240 Was there anything more with you and that girl? Nothing. 368 00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:17,360 I felt, a while ago, that I couldn't really trust Leah any more, 369 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:21,160 so I'm hoping that Homestays can help that, 370 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:23,560 but I think that's going to take a lot of work from Leah. 371 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:37,640 How are you feeling? I'm excited. I can't wait. 372 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:39,280 How are you feeling? Yeah, I'm excited. 373 00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:41,080 A little bit nervous but I'm excited. 374 00:18:41,120 --> 00:18:43,400 For the first part of his Homestay, 375 00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:46,720 John is taking wife Abigail to visit his family. 376 00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:48,400 You gonna give Uncle John a big hug? 377 00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:51,880 Yeah. Yeah. So excited to see John. 378 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:54,440 It feels like ages since I've seen him. 379 00:18:54,480 --> 00:18:57,960 Just absolutely beside myself with excitement. 380 00:18:58,000 --> 00:19:00,480 Oh. Ah! Hello! How are you? 381 00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:02,800 Hello. 382 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:08,720 Hi. How are you? Lovely to see you. And you. 383 00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:10,560 It feels so surreal being home with Abi. 384 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:11,880 I've got last-minute nerves. 385 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:14,880 Just hoping that the day goes as we want it to. 386 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:16,600 We're so close as a family, 387 00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:18,160 so, to know that I've got their back in, 388 00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:20,040 yeah, it's so big a moment. 389 00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:21,440 That. 390 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:26,120 Who's that? That's Abi. I'm Abi. Are you Giovanni? 391 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:30,160 Yeah. Yeah. You know what I'm dying to ask, don't you? 392 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:33,680 Where was the honeymoon? Seychelles. 393 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:35,520 No! 394 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:36,600 Brilliant. It was, yeah, 395 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:38,400 It was absolutely stunning, wasn't it? Yeah. 396 00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:43,160 Proper honeymoon Paradise. It was, yeah. You both look very happy. 397 00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:45,160 Yeah, you both look really well. 398 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:47,000 It's been absolutely brilliant. Oh, good. 399 00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:49,240 Yeah, everything's just been incredible, 400 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:52,560 like, and we take each step, like, within our stride. 401 00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:55,840 It's lovely to hear, that's really nice to hear. 402 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:58,960 Yeah. Has the L word been said yet? 403 00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:07,680 So, after Partner Swap week, I had a bit of a realisation, 404 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:09,080 what the hell am I waiting for? 405 00:20:09,120 --> 00:20:11,520 So, I said, "I love you." 406 00:20:15,120 --> 00:20:18,440 Did she say it back? I did, I did, I did say it back. 407 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:21,840 Once this experiment finishes, what's the plan? 408 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:24,320 You know, it was important to me that Abi wanted to start a family, 409 00:20:24,360 --> 00:20:25,720 which she does. Mm-hm. 410 00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:27,440 You know, and I said that I want to start a family. 411 00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:30,800 So, you know, we do want to get moving as well, don't we? 412 00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:33,720 Oh. Not imminently. 413 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:38,040 In the future. In the future. That's lovely. 414 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:40,000 That's lovely to hear. That's lovely to hear. 415 00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:43,040 It's something we both want. 416 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:47,520 It's just brilliant to see you so happy. 417 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:52,760 You are everything that we could have wished for, for him. 418 00:20:56,400 --> 00:20:59,080 That's what I want, I want to be part of your family. 419 00:20:59,120 --> 00:21:01,480 I think the absolute world of John. 420 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:06,880 And it's all down to you all as well. 421 00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:08,120 Oh, you OK? 422 00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:13,320 It's just, isn't it so nice to be in this situation? 423 00:21:13,360 --> 00:21:14,400 Yeah. Yeah. 424 00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:16,960 But he has, honestly, looked after me as well. 425 00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:19,360 We have been each other's support network. 426 00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:25,360 Come on, John, show your sensitive side. 427 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:26,920 Hey! 428 00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:31,360 Abi, welcome. Thank you so much. Thank you. 429 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:33,840 I've never seen John this happy before. 430 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:38,160 He seems to be beaming from ear to ear. 431 00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:39,840 This is a perfect match. 432 00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,240 Thank you, thank you, thank you. 433 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:52,400 I'm excited for April to be seeing my friends. 434 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:55,680 My friends' opinion, it is very, very important to me. 435 00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:57,200 The last time the boys saw me 436 00:21:57,240 --> 00:21:58,680 and April together was at our wedding. 437 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:00,320 It was a really, really good day. 438 00:22:00,360 --> 00:22:02,320 Since then, we've had some ups and downs, 439 00:22:02,360 --> 00:22:04,760 so it's going to be good to get some advice from them. 440 00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:08,200 Hello, guys. How are you, mate? 441 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:10,640 I'm excited to see how they're getting on. 442 00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:14,440 I mean, on the day, I thought they were a brilliant match. 443 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:16,480 So, how have things been for you since the wedding? 444 00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:19,960 For me, it's been very up and down. 445 00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:26,000 I very much really liked April, and during the honeymoon, 446 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:27,840 we was getting on really, really well. 447 00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:29,800 And, entering the apartment, 448 00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:32,840 it became apparent that we weren't on the same page. 449 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:37,440 I'm struggling to build an emotional connection 450 00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:43,080 because we are not talking in depth about things. 451 00:22:43,120 --> 00:22:46,200 I don't feel like Leo is very talkative, 452 00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:47,520 and that's a worry for me. 453 00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:49,520 On all levels, or just on certain subjects? 454 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:50,600 All levels. 455 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:54,160 Why are you not speaking to her? 456 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:57,480 Because the Leo I know doesn't shut up. 457 00:22:57,520 --> 00:22:59,400 Well, that is not what I've experienced. 458 00:23:01,120 --> 00:23:04,080 I've gone into my shell a lot more in this environment. 459 00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:07,360 I'm definitely not calling it a day. 460 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:09,920 I definitely still feel like there's something there. 461 00:23:11,120 --> 00:23:12,320 This is the time that we can 462 00:23:12,360 --> 00:23:15,120 really spend some quality time together, 463 00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:16,200 one-on-one, 464 00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:19,800 and truly express ourselves to each other. 465 00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:25,680 He's trying, 466 00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:27,200 and you're not. 467 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:29,720 It looks almost like, you've... 468 00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:32,000 You've almost made your mind up. 469 00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:33,640 You feel like I've made my mind up? 470 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:38,160 Yes. I'm not saying this is done, 471 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:40,840 this is not a nail in the coffin - I'm out, fucking see you later - 472 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,520 otherwise, I wouldn't be here speaking to his two closest friends. 473 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:46,120 I'm just sternly telling you, 474 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:50,080 this week is make-or-break for me, because I've struggled, 475 00:23:50,120 --> 00:23:53,560 up and to this point, to build the connection 476 00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:57,160 that is making me see a future with Leo outside of the experiment. 477 00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:01,280 I want Leo to be his authentic self. 478 00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:03,600 I want him to be everything that he can be... 479 00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:05,760 Hang on. I want him to be everything he can be. 480 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:07,680 Yeah, this isn't the normal Leo. 481 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:09,760 So, I'm not experiencing the normal Leo? 482 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:13,920 What I see is little puppy dog Leo. 483 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:25,640 It's bullshit. 484 00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:28,280 Don't tell me I'm not trying to make it work, 485 00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:29,800 cos that's not the case. 486 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:34,200 Well, I will let you catch up. 487 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:37,360 It's so frustrating. 488 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:39,920 On the wedding day, 489 00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:43,000 I thought you two perfectly matched. 490 00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,640 From talking to her now, 491 00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:48,640 I don't feel like her heart is in it as much as yours is. 492 00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:54,720 I'm very positive going into this relationship, 493 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,160 and I want to make a lot of changes and make it work. 494 00:24:57,200 --> 00:25:00,160 All I hear is a lot of, like, you, you, you. 495 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:03,040 But I don't hear anything she wants to change about herself. 496 00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:04,440 She ain't perfect, mate. 497 00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:08,280 And I'm going to be brutally honest, I think she thinks she's, like, 498 00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:09,360 too good for you. 499 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,920 Leo and April are definitely a miss. I think they're doomed. 500 00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:19,280 You must stay truthful to yourself. If she doesn't like you for it, 501 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:20,480 maybe she's not for you. 502 00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:26,280 Yeah, if she don't like it, then, her loss. 503 00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:44,040 I'm really enjoying having Bec in Hove. 504 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,360 My little side-hustle is that I run a beer company 505 00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:49,040 so, I can't wait to show Bec where my beer is brewed. 506 00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:50,920 So, this is where the beer is cooked. 507 00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:53,520 It's a little taste of what I'd like to imagine 508 00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:55,760 the future could look like. Go on, have a look. Oh! 509 00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:57,160 You all right? 510 00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:58,680 Health and safety. 511 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:00,480 What, this is where your beer was? Yeah, so... 512 00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:02,800 Wow, it's huge. ..yeah, they cook the beer in here. 513 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:04,960 They're so big. They're so echoey. 514 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:06,320 Look. Can you hear me? 515 00:26:06,360 --> 00:26:09,640 Go on, say something in there. Free therapy. Come on. 516 00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:10,880 Hello! 517 00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:12,080 Bec! 518 00:26:12,120 --> 00:26:13,960 Hove is way better than Liverpool. 519 00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:30,280 After meeting Leo's friends yesterday, 520 00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:33,760 on the taxi home, me and Leo ended up having an argument. 521 00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:36,360 It was due to some of the views that his friends had. 522 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:39,520 His friends have stated, "This isn't the real Leo. 523 00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:41,080 "He normally talks loads. 524 00:26:41,120 --> 00:26:43,320 "He feels like a puppy dog." 525 00:26:43,360 --> 00:26:46,240 And it just escalated from there. 526 00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:51,120 Leo's way to deal with that was to pack up everything and leave. 527 00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:53,400 And then didn't come back till this morning, so... 528 00:26:55,360 --> 00:26:58,280 How was that an adult reaction? Like, what the fuck? 529 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:06,040 Last night, my friends told me it's blatantly obvious 530 00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:09,720 that April isn't in this relationship as much as I am. 531 00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:12,800 It was really hard for me to hear from them. 532 00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:14,280 After we got home, 533 00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:16,440 we had an argument, and I just thought I needed 534 00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:18,880 to remove myself from the situation. 535 00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:21,360 I went back to the office where I worked from 536 00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:23,000 and slept on the sofa there. 537 00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:24,200 I have a lot to think about. 538 00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:29,040 How are you? 539 00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:30,120 I just thought... 540 00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:34,800 ..the argument wasn't really going anywhere and... 541 00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:36,520 But I shouldn't have walked away. 542 00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:39,600 Talking to my friends yesterday, 543 00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:43,120 I wanted them to at least see what I see, 544 00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:46,840 which is that there is a chance for us to turn things around, 545 00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:48,760 but they didn't see that. 546 00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:52,760 Reality's hit, and... 547 00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:58,080 ..I just feel like I need a break from this. 548 00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:04,320 I don't understand why it's escalated this much. 549 00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:07,920 Like, this isn't how you deal with arguments. 550 00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:14,440 I'm feeling gutted that it's come to this. 551 00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:17,240 She's emotionally clocked out of this relationship. 552 00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:20,280 I've tried everything that I can to try and turn things around, 553 00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,880 but April's still not liking me for me. 554 00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:25,200 That's what it comes down to. 555 00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:42,920 We're on our way to see Emma and Taylor, 556 00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:44,520 who's my auntie and cousin. 557 00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:49,920 I can see Leigh's still got resentment for me. 558 00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:54,680 So, I feel like I really want to get it all off my chest 559 00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:57,320 as to what's been happening in the last few days, 560 00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:59,080 the trust, it being a big problem. 561 00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:01,600 Hello. Hi. 562 00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:02,680 Hi, how are you? 563 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:05,320 So, I do think I need to be honest about all that. 564 00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:09,240 How's it been? 565 00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:14,200 Emotional roller-coaster. 566 00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:17,800 It's been a lot to...process. 567 00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:20,120 Has it been hard living together, then? 568 00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:23,600 Yeah. So where are yous at now, with each other? 569 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:28,080 You know, I'm, like, quite a jokey person. 570 00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,320 It's never from a place of me flirting. 571 00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:33,040 But I have been branded a flirt 572 00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:35,280 throughout this whole process with bloody everyone. 573 00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:39,200 Yeah, we've spoken about situations throughout this 574 00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:41,760 where you'll make a little comment about someone else, 575 00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,840 and I'll feel like it's disrespectful, or... 576 00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:47,960 But you also do tell me to have a joke about things like that. 577 00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:50,480 Not that, I don't. Really? 578 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,760 I've never told you to joke about someone being attractive. 579 00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:56,800 We've argued about that multiple times. 580 00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:58,040 OK. 581 00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:03,560 For me, it's always like, I've got to over... 582 00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,040 ..talk myself out of a situation that's not a situation. 583 00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:09,640 And I feel like that's where compromise comes in and, like, 584 00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:11,440 acknowledging each other's feelings, 585 00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:14,840 and... Yeah. ..it's hard, isn't it, I guess, both being girls? 586 00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:16,880 Where do you draw the line with other girls, and 587 00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:19,400 having that friendship compared... I'm so glad you've said that, yeah. 588 00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:22,800 ..to, like... It's just finding that middle ground between you both. 589 00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:24,480 Do you feel like you can trust Leah now? 590 00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:29,800 I think I'd be lying if I said 100%, 591 00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:33,480 and I think it's beneficial to be honest about that. 592 00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:39,080 You know, Leah is a very trustworthy person, 593 00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:43,240 I've never known her to do horrible things in relationships. 594 00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:47,120 With Leah, she's quite out there. We'll go on nights out 595 00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:49,520 and Leah will come back with 20 new friends, 596 00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:51,160 and then these 20 new friends will be out 597 00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:52,280 with us all night. Mm. 598 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:54,360 But, just, like, trusting the fact 599 00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:59,680 that she is, innocently, a people's person as well. 600 00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:00,800 I said coming in here 601 00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:03,320 that I really wanted someone that could, like, work a room, 602 00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:06,000 I haven't got to worry about, you know, checking that they're OK. 603 00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:09,240 I love that element of you. 604 00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:15,600 I think you both need to stop being so serious and just try 605 00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:17,720 and have some fun, and just go for it. Yeah. 606 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:20,480 I'd like to do that. 607 00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:24,400 I'm hoping seeing my family 608 00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:27,120 has gave Leigh a little bit of comfort - 609 00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:29,000 people who know the real me. 610 00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:30,240 I am a good person, 611 00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:32,680 and I'm not someone who's going to disrespect her, 612 00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:35,800 or be disloyal. And know that I've got no bad intent. 613 00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:40,400 I really do hope I can get to a point where I do fully trust Leah, 614 00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:42,640 and that there are no worries or doubts, 615 00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:45,440 but I think it's going to be a collective thing 616 00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:47,640 from both of us to get there fully. 617 00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:02,120 Leo's going to be here any minute. Are you excited? 618 00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:03,600 I know. I've just missed him. 619 00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:06,200 I'm so excited to see April because she's so lovely. 620 00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:07,840 It'll be nice to meet her again. 621 00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:11,720 When I last saw lovely Leo and April, 622 00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:16,200 my gosh, they were just so loving and it was so exuberant. 623 00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:17,640 I want them to say they're in love. 624 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:20,280 Ideally, I want them to be in love. I do, I do, I do. 625 00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:22,360 I hope it's going well. That's all you hope for, isn't it? 626 00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:23,840 That's all you hope for. 627 00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,920 Oh, he's looking gorgeous. Leo! Look at him. 628 00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:28,600 Look at you. Missed you! 629 00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:31,960 You look amazing. 630 00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:35,720 You do look amazing. How you doing, Mum? Look at you. 631 00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:36,920 Look at you and mumsy and sis. 632 00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:41,040 Oh, we love you. We love you so much. We've just been talking... 633 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:44,840 So excited to see you. And April, where is she? 634 00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:46,880 She's not coming today. 635 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:50,320 Oh. Have a seat, mums. OK. OK. Oh. OK. 636 00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:52,120 OK. Oh. 637 00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:58,200 Erm, obviously, last time you saw us was at our wedding, and it was, 638 00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:01,360 it was fantastic. It was beautiful. And, erm, 639 00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:04,040 you all right? It's all right. 640 00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:07,200 It's not about me, it's about you. Just let him explain. 641 00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,560 No, but let me explain, Mum. Let him explain. Come on. 642 00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:10,960 When we got back to the apartments, 643 00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:13,000 I struggled to then open up to April. 644 00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:16,560 OK. So we've been working on bits to try 645 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:18,880 and get this deeper emotional connection, 646 00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:23,080 and it just... It hasn't seemed to have come naturally to us. OK. 647 00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:27,480 Erm, she went and met Simon and Astyn and 648 00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:29,760 they were just brutally honest to me, 649 00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:32,000 where they see our relationship as going, 650 00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:34,120 and then it got a little bit heated. 651 00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:35,160 Erm... 652 00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:40,560 Simon and Astyn's reaction were that she hasn't been trying 653 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,320 as much as I have in this relationship, 654 00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:45,600 and it's not going to work between us. 655 00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:52,320 I'm sorry, but how are they...how are they the best to know? 656 00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:54,520 You and April have been matched for a reason, 657 00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:56,680 and I think you are very well-suited. 658 00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:59,480 You have the same interests, same personalities. 659 00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:03,280 Your electricity at the wedding was really great. 660 00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:08,040 You are a beautiful couple. You only get this one chance. 661 00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:09,880 If there's one little part of you that thinks, 662 00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:12,920 "Actually, this can work. This could work," 663 00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:14,640 you need to go for it. 664 00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:16,640 You really need to go for it. 665 00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:18,480 And this might be your only chance, 666 00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:20,560 and I just wouldn't want you to regret it. 667 00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:24,840 I do feel like there is, maybe, a slight chance. 668 00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:27,200 A slight chance? Oh, darling, go for it. 669 00:34:27,240 --> 00:34:29,120 A slight chance is a chance. 670 00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:31,840 We're just seeing how it goes. Just see what happens. If you see 671 00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:36,760 a little, little bit. Yeah, maybe if you do have this little time apart, 672 00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:41,160 you might then come together again and say, you know, it will work. 673 00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:44,400 You don't know, you don't know. Potentially, yeah. 674 00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:46,640 Can't do this if you're crying. I can't. I'm sorry, 675 00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:50,160 I'm sorry, I'm sorry, darling, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 676 00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:51,960 I'm shocked again. 677 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:54,920 Me heart just sank. I had no idea. It's OK. 678 00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:56,280 No, but I had no idea. 679 00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:58,200 I just thought everything was up here and... 680 00:34:58,240 --> 00:35:01,480 Just awful. Awful moment. 681 00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:04,440 You know, I just didn't expect it. No. 682 00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:06,120 Darling, go for her. 683 00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:09,920 I feel confused on how I want to move forward. 684 00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:12,920 Whether I should stick it through for the rest of the Homestays, 685 00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:15,040 or whether I should leave the experiment. 686 00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:18,040 My head's all over the place at the minute. 687 00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:28,120 Come on, baby girl, are you ready? I'm so excited. 688 00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:30,080 I'm really looking forward to Bec meeting my sister. 689 00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:31,960 It's important that they get on. 690 00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:34,040 My sister Rose has always given me great advice, 691 00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:35,800 so I'd love her to speak to Bec 692 00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:37,320 and convince her to move down here with me. 693 00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:42,480 Hello. Hello. Hi. Rosie, how are you? 694 00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:44,120 I'm good. All right? How's it going? You all right? 695 00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:45,680 I'm really excited to see both of them, 696 00:35:45,720 --> 00:35:47,080 especially Bec, because I didn't 697 00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:48,640 get to speak to her properly at the wedding. 698 00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:50,800 Here's my wife. 699 00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:52,400 I really want to know how it's been, 700 00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:54,680 because I'm not sure what's going to happen 701 00:35:54,720 --> 00:35:58,800 with the distance between them, and how realistic it is. 702 00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:00,560 The wedding feels ages ago now. 703 00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:03,520 A lot's happened since then. Yeah. Like, literally, from the honeymoon, 704 00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:05,160 we got on like a house on fire. 705 00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,280 Living together has been, kind of, the best part for us. 706 00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:09,880 Just being home together is where we have the most fun. 707 00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:13,280 Aw, cute. Yeah, it's nice. It feels comfortable. 708 00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:15,720 Yeah, yeah. Which is good. Just everything's great... 709 00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:18,520 Yeah. ..but we live at opposite sides of the bloody country. 710 00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:20,960 Have you spoken about it a lot? 711 00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:28,280 I don't think you can get to Final Vows without having a plan. 712 00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:35,000 I'm not sure if I could leave home permanently 713 00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:36,760 cos everything's there for me. 714 00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:39,480 Like, friends, family, my business is there. 715 00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:42,520 Do you work, like, in your clinic? 716 00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:43,840 Yeah. Every day? 717 00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:45,840 Yeah, it is there. 718 00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:47,320 I don't know if I could leave. 719 00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:51,840 I don't think long-distance is going to work that well. 720 00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:55,360 Would you think about moving? 721 00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:57,840 I just wouldn't sacrifice any time with Blue. 722 00:36:57,880 --> 00:36:59,640 I'd literally be so angry if you moved. 723 00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:05,000 No, I know. And it's just too far 724 00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:06,760 to, like... You can't just pop and see her. 725 00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:09,520 You need to know how it's going to happen. 726 00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:11,120 How would it work? 727 00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:13,640 I don't want you to move up there. Yeah. Definitely not. 728 00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:18,120 Bluebelle's down here. I can't move. Like, I can't move. 729 00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:19,880 Yeah, like, that's just... I don't think you can. 730 00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:20,960 Yeah. 731 00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:23,840 My hands are, like, completely tied. 732 00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:31,840 You all right? What's the matter? Nothing. 733 00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:33,040 It's OK. 734 00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:36,360 Seeing Rose today, the penny's dropped 735 00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:39,000 when it comes to us being so far apart. 736 00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:42,000 He's got his daughter here, 737 00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:45,880 and I don't want to take Bailey away from his family at all, 738 00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:50,120 but everything that I have built is in Liverpool. 739 00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:53,000 So, Rose has brought us back down to earth today. 740 00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:59,200 It makes me feel sad talking about it. Yeah. It is just the one thing 741 00:37:59,240 --> 00:38:00,640 we just haven't been able to crack. 742 00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:07,880 The tough thing about this is that, with me not being able to move, 743 00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:09,880 I throw the ball in Bec's court, 744 00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:11,480 and I know it's not fair, 745 00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:12,800 but I can't physically move, 746 00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:14,680 so it's just, like, fucking gut-wrenching. 747 00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:19,560 If we can't come to some sort of agreement, 748 00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:22,160 then we're both going to end up with broken hearts. 749 00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:36,480 Oh, exciting. Bring it over. I can't wait to catch up. 750 00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:39,960 It's really important that I have this evening with my flatmate, Lucy. 751 00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:42,280 Oh, God, I have missed this. I've missed this. 752 00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:43,480 I've missed you so much. 753 00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:45,600 She is someone that I'm always going to be honest to, 754 00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:46,960 and she'll call it out if she sees it, 755 00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:49,280 so I just need to tell her the truth. 756 00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:52,480 What the hell is going on? Why is Steven not here? 757 00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:54,800 He's decided not to, erm, come with me on Homestays, 758 00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:58,240 and I've told him multiple times, like, "You are so welcome to," 759 00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:00,560 but he just didn't turn up. 760 00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:02,080 He was like, "I'm not coming." 761 00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:05,000 How do you feel? 762 00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:08,280 I just feel like he's shown me completely that I'm not a priority 763 00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:10,120 and he doesn't really care about my feelings. 764 00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:12,920 After the retreat, I basically told him, 765 00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:15,360 "I need more from you, because right now, 766 00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:16,640 "this doesn't feel like a relationship." 767 00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:18,000 And, when I had the commitment ceremony, 768 00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:20,080 the guy put stay for now, and that's like a... 769 00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:21,120 Pardon? 770 00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:24,120 But that he'd also called me a fucking idiot. 771 00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:26,240 I think we know who the effing idiot is, 772 00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:27,720 and it's not you. 773 00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:28,920 Then came back from Partner Swap. 774 00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:32,000 I walked into the flat and on the fridge when I got home, 775 00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:33,920 he'd put up a photo of him and April and I was like, 776 00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:36,520 "What is that doing on my fridge?" Are you taking the piss? 777 00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:40,200 No, I'm not. It's so disrespectful. 778 00:39:40,240 --> 00:39:42,600 Why do you think it's appropriate to have a photo of you 779 00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:45,200 and another person's wife on that fridge? 780 00:39:45,240 --> 00:39:48,320 On my fridge. Cos it ain't... Honestly, he's vile. 781 00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:50,680 Yeah. He is vile. Yeah. 782 00:39:50,720 --> 00:39:54,960 I'm upset for Nelly, because Steven has invalidated her feelings 783 00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:57,120 and he's not made her feel wanted. 784 00:39:57,160 --> 00:39:59,040 The only thing that Steven's done 785 00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:01,400 is take her more into her shell. 786 00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:03,480 Why have you stayed for this long? 787 00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:05,840 Do you know why? I put up with it because, actually... 788 00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:08,080 ..I did really like him, 789 00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:10,960 and he would give me hope every week. 790 00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:12,600 Like, the fact that he's make... Wow. 791 00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:16,520 I have just had a text from him. 792 00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:21,840 Saying what? "I've had some time to think. 793 00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:24,760 "I'm coming Manchester tomorrow. Let's meet." 794 00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:31,280 First of all, where's the "Hi, hello, how are you"? 795 00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:33,760 Rude. "I've had some time to think." 796 00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:36,480 About what, exactly? 797 00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:38,520 Your lack of...anything. 798 00:40:41,240 --> 00:40:43,400 You've lost your voice and you need to find it again, 799 00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:45,640 and you need to tell him exactly how you feel. 800 00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:46,800 And that's what I'm going to do. 801 00:40:48,240 --> 00:40:50,720 I haven't been treated right. I haven't been affirmed. 802 00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:52,520 I haven't felt secure. 803 00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:54,960 I've finally seen the light. 804 00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:58,080 I'm going to say everything I need to say and get it off my chest. 805 00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:00,400 And you're going to listen for the first time. 806 00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:15,040 So there's a waterfall just down there. 807 00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:18,160 Oh, really? Yeah, and there's a castle at the top, 808 00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:21,320 for the queen. Aw, for your queen? Yeah. 809 00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:22,480 SHE LAUGHS 810 00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:25,400 I like you being my tour guide. 811 00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:27,000 HE LAUGHS 812 00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:30,560 It's my job to make Abi feel as comfortable as possible this week. 813 00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:33,280 It's beautiful. It's so pretty. It's nice, isn't it? 814 00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:34,760 Oh, look at this. Aw. 815 00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:37,600 I think now Abi being in North Wales is like another 816 00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:41,640 visual representation of love, and it feels really normal. 817 00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:43,720 It just feels like the necessary next step. 818 00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:01,800 We've had the night apart. 819 00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:05,960 Currently, I don't know where we stand on the rest of Homestays. 820 00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:08,480 I do want Leo to come to my Homestays and come to Weymouth, 821 00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:10,840 but the last couple of days have been quite tough, 822 00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:12,720 so I don't know if Leo is coming yet. 823 00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:19,160 On the wedding day, it was all very fresh and positive. 824 00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:22,760 It's sad that it's now this bad. 825 00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:33,400 I haven't seen April since yesterday morning. 826 00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:36,560 We stayed apart last night. I've had time to reflect, 827 00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:39,600 sleep on it, and I feel like seeing me mum and sister yesterday, 828 00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:41,920 it's definitely put everything into perspective. 829 00:42:46,720 --> 00:42:48,440 All right? I'm all right. 830 00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:53,080 How are you doing? I'm good. How are you? 831 00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:54,400 Yeah, all right. 832 00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:59,880 Saw me mum yesterday, and sister, 833 00:42:59,920 --> 00:43:01,240 and I woke up this morning... 834 00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:06,560 ..thinking a lot more positively that I want to see it through. 835 00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:09,480 I do genuinely, really, really care about you. 836 00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:10,920 I'm here for one reason, 837 00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:13,120 and that's...that's to try and make this marriage work. 838 00:43:13,160 --> 00:43:14,600 Mm-hm. 839 00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:21,680 I do need to give it 100% last effort to... 840 00:43:21,720 --> 00:43:23,800 to see if we can turn this marriage around. Mm. 841 00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:28,440 Where's your head at? 842 00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:30,560 I'm happy for you to come to Weymouth 843 00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:31,880 and for us to see the Homestays through, 844 00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:33,720 but if you're not honest with your feelings, 845 00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:35,320 then how do you move forward? 846 00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:40,560 You know? Yeah, well, I need to honour that. 847 00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:41,760 Mm. 848 00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:44,480 This is all I want, is this last...last chance. 849 00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:45,840 Yeah, definitely. 850 00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:49,000 I am happy that Leo is coming to Weymouth, 851 00:43:49,040 --> 00:43:52,200 and I'm glad that we're continuing on with Homestays. 852 00:43:52,240 --> 00:43:54,120 Leo still has positivity about us. 853 00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:59,840 But there is a big concern whether or not this will work out, 854 00:43:59,880 --> 00:44:01,760 because he's not great at communicating. 855 00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:04,640 I'm still really unsure. 856 00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:17,720 LEAH: Do you like it, here? 857 00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:19,240 It's really lovely. 858 00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:23,640 After seeing this, I understand why you love it so much. 859 00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:25,320 Formby's just peaceful, isn't it? Yeah. 860 00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:27,280 Cos my life's so, like, hectic and I'm, like, 861 00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:28,320 here, there and everywhere, 862 00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:30,920 and then I come back and it's just, like, Zen. 863 00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:33,040 Yeah, I get it, it makes sense. 864 00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:36,360 I am pleasantly surprised with Leah's hometown so far. 865 00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:39,160 She lives quite a calm life, and that's what I want, 866 00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:41,320 so, it definitely makes me see her in a different way. 867 00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:45,480 I am now happy Leigh's come to Homestays. 868 00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:47,760 She's woke up in, like, peace this morning. 869 00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:50,520 It's really important for me that she does like it, 870 00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:52,520 and I think it's quite important for her that she has felt 871 00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:54,000 so comfortable here as well. 872 00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:58,640 So are you glad you came? I am really glad I came, yeah. 873 00:44:58,680 --> 00:44:59,720 Are ya? 874 00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:03,000 There's a lot that I didn't realise about myself 875 00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:06,480 that I'm still maybe not over, or that still triggers me. 876 00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:12,080 In past relationships, I have been massively disrespected. 877 00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:15,000 Yeah. I have had my trust broken by people. 878 00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:17,000 So, before I come in here, I was like, 879 00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:21,440 "I will never tolerate anyone even slightly 880 00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:23,800 "disrespecting me again," because it made me feel 881 00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:26,960 the worst I've ever felt. I think, going through that, 882 00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:29,520 and then being in situations with you, 883 00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:32,720 it's been hard to navigate because where you are 884 00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:34,920 such a bubbly, funny character, 885 00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:37,880 and you do make jokes sometimes, it is just a joke. 886 00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:40,840 Yeah. But, for me, even those things, I'm like, "Nope." 887 00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:44,440 Yeah. That's not what I wanted, that's not what I asked for. 888 00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:46,720 And so, yeah, it has, it's been a lot. 889 00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:52,560 Like, I know it hasn't been the easiest for you. 890 00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:54,160 The reason I've been so patient with you 891 00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:56,280 is because you've been so open about your ex. 892 00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:59,560 But I think because of your past, 893 00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:03,160 it's almost like you're trying to find a problem. 894 00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:04,560 We're never going to get anywhere 895 00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:07,640 if you don't just have the trust in me. 896 00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:10,040 Yeah, and I think you're right. 897 00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:12,440 I need to give you the benefit of the doubt... 898 00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:18,720 ..that you're not going to do what has been done to me before. 899 00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:22,880 From my side, like, what do you need from me 900 00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:25,080 to make you feel secure in that way? 901 00:46:27,440 --> 00:46:30,240 I think, maybe, it's the reassurance in those moments. 902 00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:32,800 It could be something as small as, "You haven't got to worry, 903 00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:34,400 "by the way," like, "everything's good." 904 00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:36,000 Or, like, just come and give me a kiss on the cheek. 905 00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:38,760 Just the smallest little thing so I don't need to worry. 906 00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:41,720 If I know that you're feeling a certain way, 907 00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:44,560 of course, I'll reassure you. Yeah, that's positive, then, 908 00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:45,920 for me and you, moving forward, 909 00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:49,200 if I can make the effort to tell you when I'm feeling uncomfortable... 910 00:46:49,240 --> 00:46:51,360 Hmm. ..that then gives you the opportunity to reassure me, 911 00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:54,720 so I think that's a good baseline for us to, like, move forward. 912 00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:57,440 The way Leigh is being really vulnerable 913 00:46:57,480 --> 00:46:58,640 and open with me now, 914 00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:00,240 and telling me she needs reassurance, 915 00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:03,680 it's a different side to Leigh that I haven't really seen before. 916 00:47:03,720 --> 00:47:07,080 It's definitely given me more hope for the future. 917 00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:08,920 Aw. Give us a smooch. 918 00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:12,320 Mwah. Give me a hug. 919 00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:18,720 Leah has been really understanding when I've been vulnerable 920 00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:20,360 and telling her exactly how I'm feeling, 921 00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:24,600 so I think I need to start giving Leah the benefit of the doubt 922 00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:27,480 and actually trusting that she's not the same 923 00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:29,640 as the people that I've experienced before. 924 00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:32,760 Come on, let's go and walk, yeah? Come on, then. 925 00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:35,320 THEY LAUGH 926 00:47:35,360 --> 00:47:36,800 You dick! 927 00:47:49,240 --> 00:47:51,800 Thank you so much. Thank you, sir. Thank you. 928 00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:55,160 Last time I saw my mum and my sister was at the wedding. 929 00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:59,160 Their opinions will genuinely have an impact on me. 930 00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:02,680 It is very much still make-or-break for me. 931 00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:08,720 You all right? Yeah. 932 00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:13,320 I'm really nervous about meeting April's mum and sister today. 933 00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:14,840 Obviously, we're not in the best place, 934 00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:18,040 but I'm really, really hoping that it does go well. 935 00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:20,680 Hi, darling, hello. Hi, Leo, all right? 936 00:48:20,720 --> 00:48:22,480 Good to see you again, Sophia. How are you? 937 00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:24,120 Really good. Good. You look great. 938 00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:25,560 Mwah. Missed you. 939 00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:27,520 I think it's going to be a shock to my family 940 00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:28,760 that it hasn't gone well, 941 00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:30,960 because it was so positive on the day. 942 00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:33,360 I think everyone would naturally think that it would do. 943 00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:36,760 So, how are you? The last time we saw you was at the wedding. 944 00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:38,320 I really loved the wedding. 945 00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:40,400 The wedding day was so good. It was amazing. 946 00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:41,960 I was really happy. Yeah. 947 00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:45,800 The honeymoon was so good, 948 00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:47,960 and then we came back to the apartments, and I think... 949 00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:50,640 ..you just struggled a little bit. 950 00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:52,080 Struggled in which way? 951 00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:53,880 I think it was just very overwhelming for me, 952 00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:55,760 having all the other couples around... Yeah. 953 00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:59,080 ..whereas April, she thrives, she's a social butterfly, 954 00:48:59,120 --> 00:49:02,600 and opening up, for me, was very hard at first. 955 00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:07,440 Did that affect you as a couple, then? 956 00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:08,560 Yes. 957 00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:13,520 Where are you at now? What did you do this week? 958 00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:16,320 So, this week we was at my Homestays in Chichester... 959 00:49:16,360 --> 00:49:19,160 Oh, yeah, how was that? ..and my friends weren't 960 00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:21,080 the most positive about our relationship. 961 00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:23,240 They made a few comments that they didn't 962 00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:25,360 sort of picture us being together. 963 00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:28,920 They just didn't think that we were quite compatible. 964 00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:30,200 Are you? 965 00:49:32,240 --> 00:49:34,160 I adore April to bits... 966 00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:37,160 ..and I'm just hoping by the end of 967 00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:39,160 the week, we'll have a little bit more clarity. 968 00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:41,760 I'm definitely still in this experiment, to... 969 00:49:41,800 --> 00:49:43,480 Yeah. ..to make it work. To see, yeah. 970 00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:46,160 Just have a nice, you know, end of the week, and see. 971 00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:53,480 I adore April. She's everything that I've wanted. 972 00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:55,760 It did start off so well. 973 00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:59,160 I feel gutted we're not getting on as much as we was before. 974 00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:00,840 I'm gonna go get another drink 975 00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:02,800 and, er, I'll let you guys talk for a bit. 976 00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:04,120 Thank you. 977 00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:08,560 But I do think it's important that we do tell the truth. 978 00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:13,760 What's really going on? Because you...you seem a bit on edge. 979 00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:16,480 I do feel a little bit on edge, I guess, 980 00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:18,840 cos, like, for me, at the beginning, 981 00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:20,520 the wedding day was really good, and I was like, 982 00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:22,720 "Oh, my God, this man ticks so many boxes," 983 00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:24,600 and I was like, "We're gonna have so much to talk about." 984 00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:27,000 And then sort of halfway through, I'm thinking, 985 00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:30,160 "I'm leading the conversations a lot 986 00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:32,040 "and not really getting a lot back." 987 00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:35,440 It's not like I necessarily need someone who's going to be 988 00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:37,800 as big a personality as me, cos it is quite difficult. 989 00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:40,440 I just need someone to be able to have the banter with. 990 00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:43,480 I need someone that's gonna make me laugh, and I... 991 00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:45,440 Does he make you laugh? 992 00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:46,760 No. 993 00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:52,560 For me, personality is so important, 994 00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:54,160 and, yes, we are not gelling. 995 00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:57,000 You can't force a connection with someone. Yeah. 996 00:50:57,040 --> 00:51:00,760 Did you think out of the experiment, that it might be different? 997 00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:02,520 From the personality that I've seen.. 998 00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:04,920 ..no. No. 999 00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:07,240 What's made you stay this long? 1000 00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:09,600 He is a really good partner. Like, he is very caring, 1001 00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:12,720 he is very generous, he does have a lot of good qualities about him. 1002 00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:16,960 I think, for me, at this stage, I'm just not... 1003 00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:19,240 ..feeling the connection. 1004 00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:22,240 No. He's not for you. 1005 00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:28,200 You are such an outgoing person. Mm. And Leo, 1006 00:51:28,240 --> 00:51:30,560 he's a lovely guy, but...no. 1007 00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:35,920 My mum and my sister have definitely validated how I've been feeling. 1008 00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:38,160 I knew it would be clear for them as soon as we met. 1009 00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:41,880 This isn't going to work between the pair of them. 1010 00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:46,360 And we know that for a certainty. 1011 00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:47,840 He's not for you. 1012 00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:06,240 I want to surprise Leigh tonight. 1013 00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:08,320 It's our last night at my Homestay. 1014 00:52:08,360 --> 00:52:09,600 I want to make it romantic 1015 00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:11,880 cos I'm not very good at doing that in the past. 1016 00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:14,120 I'm not touching your make-up. No, I don't want to fall. 1017 00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:18,640 I'm hoping, me being more romantic and thoughtful 1018 00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:20,760 helps her be more open with me. 1019 00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:23,440 This will be the icing on the cake, I'm hoping. 1020 00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:24,680 OK, open. 1021 00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:29,760 Oh! Did you do this all yourself? Yeah. 1022 00:52:29,800 --> 00:52:31,400 Are they real? Mm-hm. 1023 00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:33,640 Aw! 1024 00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:36,680 Thank you. You're welcome. That's so sweet. 1025 00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:39,440 I didn't know you had it in you. 1026 00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:41,160 And ta-da-da-da! 1027 00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:42,640 Look at you. 1028 00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:47,560 This is really cute. Happy? I'm really happy. 1029 00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:50,320 Oh, what's this? That's rose. 1030 00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:52,640 God, you really know me well, don't ya? Mm-hm. 1031 00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:57,440 Mm. 1032 00:52:57,480 --> 00:52:58,640 Like it? 1033 00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:02,400 Should we do a bit of spaghetti? Hmm? Like Lady and the Tramp? 1034 00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:04,440 LEAH LAUGHS 1035 00:53:05,440 --> 00:53:06,760 Wait. 1036 00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:13,200 I've literally had the best time. I don't want to leave. 1037 00:53:13,240 --> 00:53:14,240 Have you? Yeah. 1038 00:53:14,280 --> 00:53:16,160 Yeah. Kind of makes you see each other in a different way. 1039 00:53:16,200 --> 00:53:17,320 Well, how do you think you've seen me 1040 00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:18,440 that you didn't think I was before? 1041 00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:20,440 I think your lifestyle is a lot more calm than I thought 1042 00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:21,880 it was going to be. It's nice. 1043 00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:24,080 It's this house. It's a calming house. It is lovely. 1044 00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:28,560 I have... There is...there's so much about you that I love. 1045 00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:29,880 Oh, yeah, like what? 1046 00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:31,560 THEY LAUGH 1047 00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:35,240 You are so caring and attentive, and you are so patient, 1048 00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:38,160 and it does make me want to stay and does make me want to try, 1049 00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:40,640 and makes me appreciate you as a person. 1050 00:53:43,480 --> 00:53:47,440 Yeah, there's a lot that you do give me that I haven't had. 1051 00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:49,160 I clearly have trust issues, 1052 00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:52,560 and you being so patient and allowing me the time and the space 1053 00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:53,680 to work on that, 1054 00:53:53,720 --> 00:53:56,120 we wouldn't still be here if you weren't doing that. Yeah. 1055 00:53:56,160 --> 00:54:00,200 So...I am grateful that you've done that. 1056 00:54:00,240 --> 00:54:02,160 Welcome. SHE LAUGHS 1057 00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:08,920 I think, with you, and I'll be really honest with you, 1058 00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:12,720 you don't really like to sometimes admit you need reassurance. 1059 00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:14,000 No, no, I don't. 1060 00:54:14,040 --> 00:54:16,320 But that also tells me that there's feeling there from you, 1061 00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:19,000 that you want reassurance from me for a reason. Yeah. 1062 00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:23,480 And each moment like this, and conversation that we have like this, 1063 00:54:23,520 --> 00:54:26,840 just enables me to trust you more. 1064 00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:29,200 You've made such an effort, and... 1065 00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:33,440 ..I'm leaving here feeling happy. 1066 00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:34,840 Good. 1067 00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:38,960 This is, like, my perfect date. I absolutely love it. 1068 00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:42,720 And this effort from Leah tonight is definitely what I've needed. 1069 00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:45,560 It's a way of giving me reassurance through actions. 1070 00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:47,880 You keep kicking me. 1071 00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:49,840 Sorry, sorry. Oh, are you playing footsie? 1072 00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:51,360 Yeah. 1073 00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:53,880 You've made it a lovely Homestay. 1074 00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:55,560 It's just got better and better throughout. 1075 00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:09,080 The space has been pretty good for me. 1076 00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:10,880 Definitely allowed my mind to be refreshed, 1077 00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:14,480 and think about what I want in the future, going forward. 1078 00:55:14,520 --> 00:55:17,240 I definitely owe it to Nelly to come to Manchester to speak to her. 1079 00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:19,440 Conversation needs to be had. 1080 00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:27,960 I was initially disappointed 1081 00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:30,600 that Steven decided not to join me, because, in my mind, 1082 00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:32,000 I thought you couldn't even make me 1083 00:55:32,040 --> 00:55:34,600 a priority for once in this relationship. 1084 00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:40,920 But marriage does mean a lot to me. Like, I'm a one-woman kind of guy. 1085 00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:42,880 I mean, I've still got...still got the ring on. 1086 00:55:47,240 --> 00:55:49,640 Hello. Hello. Morning. Come in? 1087 00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:53,600 Hopefully, we'll leave with a better head space 1088 00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:55,120 and more respect for one another. 1089 00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:57,120 Nice little pad, innit? Thank you. 1090 00:55:57,160 --> 00:56:00,120 I would like to think that Steven has reflected on how 1091 00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:01,720 this whole experiment's been together. 1092 00:56:01,760 --> 00:56:03,200 I've got things I need answering, 1093 00:56:03,240 --> 00:56:04,640 and I've got things I want to tell him. 1094 00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:09,960 How's it been since you come back? 1095 00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:12,080 It's been really good. 1096 00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:13,320 Speaking to my friends and family, 1097 00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:15,120 I've got a lot more clarity on stuff. 1098 00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:16,200 But some things I... 1099 00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:19,280 ..I still have questions on. 1100 00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:20,520 Partner Swap week. 1101 00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:23,160 When I got back after my week with Bailey, 1102 00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:25,960 I told you how he treated me the same as he treated Bec, 1103 00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:28,000 and that's what I wanted from a relationship. 1104 00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:31,960 I felt that when you were telling me about your few nights with April, 1105 00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:35,120 it just felt like you were directly comparing me to her, 1106 00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:37,080 like, her personality to my personality, 1107 00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:39,960 how she's really fun, and how she's got you to open up, 1108 00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:41,720 and it just felt like, 1109 00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:44,080 why are you comparing me to another woman? 1110 00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:47,600 I can imagine, yeah, if it was awful. 1111 00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:49,120 Yeah, it's a kick in the teeth. 1112 00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:50,920 Like, did you guys flirt with each other? 1113 00:56:50,960 --> 00:56:53,160 That's two people. 1114 00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:54,800 Quite thick, that, innit? 1115 00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:56,400 Is it, Steven? 1116 00:56:56,440 --> 00:56:58,880 Flirting also counts as sexual innuendos. 1117 00:56:58,920 --> 00:57:01,280 No idea what I'm going to be putting in my mouth. 1118 00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:02,720 Well, the night's still young. 1119 00:57:04,720 --> 00:57:06,400 Commenting on each other's bodies. 1120 00:57:06,440 --> 00:57:07,840 Very comfortable sofa, innit? 1121 00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:09,800 How does that fit a six-foot-three man? 1122 00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:11,160 That's what she said. 1123 00:57:11,200 --> 00:57:12,680 Did you do any of that? 1124 00:57:14,840 --> 00:57:17,520 No, I said, there's been no flirting. No flirting whatsoever? 1125 00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:18,600 No flirting. 1126 00:57:20,280 --> 00:57:22,720 Hi. Oh, hello. Hi. 1127 00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:23,960 Steven, this is Lucy. 1128 00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:25,440 Hi, Steven, how are you? Hello, you all right? 1129 00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:27,680 Yeah, I've just got back from work. How are you? 1130 00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:29,800 Yeah, good. You can grab a seat if you want. 1131 00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:31,560 Yes, I will do. 1132 00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:33,480 Things didn't sit right with me after the conversation 1133 00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:34,880 I had with Nelly. 1134 00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:37,240 The way that she said Steven has been with her, 1135 00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:39,000 things didn't add up. 1136 00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:41,840 I have been doing a little bit of digging on Steven, 1137 00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:44,080 and I have, in fact, got some information 1138 00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:46,240 that I'm going to have to drop to Nelly. 1139 00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:49,160 How are you feeling, Steven? 1140 00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:50,960 About? 1141 00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:52,120 Nelly. 1142 00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:55,840 See, I like the girl, I care for the girl. 1143 00:57:55,880 --> 00:57:58,520 Do you think that Nelly really deserves 1144 00:57:58,560 --> 00:58:00,560 to give you any more of her time? 1145 00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:02,680 It's not...it's not about that. 1146 00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:04,040 I'm going to always have her back, cos we've 1147 00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:05,080 been in the experiment together. 1148 00:58:05,120 --> 00:58:07,240 You've not had her back through the entire experiment. I have. 1149 00:58:07,280 --> 00:58:08,360 How? What do you mean, how? 1150 00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:09,800 You've not been in the experiment, darling, so... 1151 00:58:09,840 --> 00:58:11,320 How have you had her back... 1152 00:58:11,360 --> 00:58:12,680 I've not... ..when she's coming to me 1153 00:58:12,720 --> 00:58:16,320 and telling me that she feels like she's not been validated, 1154 00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:18,960 she feels like you've not made any effort? 1155 00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:21,240 What does marriage mean to you? 1156 00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:23,440 Marriage mean for me? Mm. That's like the epitome of love. 1157 00:58:23,480 --> 00:58:26,680 That's the grandest of all, obviously, other than kids. 1158 00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:29,400 So, if you're married... 1159 00:58:30,400 --> 00:58:33,120 ..do you think it's appropriate to be on a dating website? 1160 00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:40,240 Sorry? What dating website? I think you know, Steven. 1161 00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:43,240 No, we don't know, cos I can get my phone out now and show... 1162 00:58:43,280 --> 00:58:45,320 I can get mine out, too. 1163 00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:47,440 OK, so you think I'm on what? 1164 00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:49,400 I know you're on it. 1165 00:58:49,440 --> 00:58:50,440 Ah... 1166 00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:55,600 No, I'm not on anything. Yes, you are. 1167 00:58:56,840 --> 00:58:58,800 Would you like me to show you, then? Yeah, and... 1168 00:58:58,840 --> 00:59:00,760 I'll show Nelly first. I would love to see it. 1169 00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:04,600 What app is it? He liked the profile. That's why it's matched. 1170 00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:05,840 What app is it? 1171 00:59:11,600 --> 00:59:12,840 And that was...? 1172 00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:14,240 Today. 1173 00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:19,000 Oh, is that what you had to go and clear your head about? 1174 00:59:24,440 --> 00:59:26,360 Yeah, no, that's not me, Nell. It is... 1175 00:59:26,400 --> 00:59:28,320 No, it is. ..it's a verified account. Yes, it is. 1176 00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:33,160 Why is it verified? How the fuck do I know that? 1177 00:59:33,200 --> 00:59:34,920 Well... Let me change my password, I'll even show you 1178 00:59:34,960 --> 00:59:36,920 that I can't even get that fucking app on my phone, first of all. 1179 00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:39,800 What app? Which app? Well, I see it's Hinge, obviously, 1180 00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:41,360 because you showed me the picture. 1181 00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:42,840 Know it well, do you? 1182 00:59:44,080 --> 00:59:46,160 Should we start being honest, then? 1183 00:59:46,200 --> 00:59:48,720 I'm about to prove that it's not me on there. 1184 00:59:48,760 --> 00:59:50,600 Right, OK. 1185 00:59:50,640 --> 00:59:51,960 I think, to be honest... 1186 00:59:54,160 --> 00:59:56,200 ..I'm going to take this off... 1187 00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:58,520 ..cos I think this marriage is over. 1188 01:00:01,200 --> 01:00:04,280 Because I don't deserve that. Why are you still on your phone? 1189 01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:08,560 Nelly is speaking to you and you're not even looking at her. 1190 01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:10,440 Why do you have no respect for her? 1191 01:00:10,480 --> 01:00:12,160 What do you mean, I don't have respect for her? Of course I... 1192 01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:14,960 You're not even looking at her when she's speaking to you. 1193 01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:18,440 When did you go back on the app? 1194 01:00:18,480 --> 01:00:19,760 Today. 1195 01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:22,240 No. On the journey here? 1196 01:00:22,280 --> 01:00:23,480 No. 1197 01:00:27,120 --> 01:00:29,240 Look, the account's been removed. Mm. 1198 01:00:30,520 --> 01:00:31,760 That's signing in. 1199 01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:35,120 Mm. So if I can't get into an app, how am I on it? 1200 01:00:35,160 --> 01:00:36,200 No, I'm asking a question. 1201 01:00:36,240 --> 01:00:37,520 How can I get on it if you've just been there... 1202 01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:39,280 Well, you tell me because you seem to work the magic 1203 01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:40,320 and manage to do it. Well, if 1204 01:00:40,360 --> 01:00:43,120 my account's been removed, who's being me? 1205 01:00:43,160 --> 01:00:45,040 You. Obviously not. 1206 01:00:45,080 --> 01:00:47,480 Mm. Because I can't even sign in to it. OK. 1207 01:00:49,240 --> 01:00:51,000 Whoever the fuck that is ain't me. 1208 01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:54,320 It's not adding up. Like, I don't get it. 1209 01:00:54,360 --> 01:00:56,120 Could it... It could be on another phone, or... 1210 01:00:59,160 --> 01:01:01,200 If people have got photos and got information, yes, cos... 1211 01:01:01,240 --> 01:01:02,760 It's not just photos and information. 1212 01:01:02,800 --> 01:01:05,600 To verify an account, you have to go through certain steps 1213 01:01:05,640 --> 01:01:06,920 to confirm it's you. 1214 01:01:08,120 --> 01:01:11,040 And that can't really be done by somebody that isn't you. 1215 01:01:15,400 --> 01:01:18,680 What I've heard from Nelly is that you don't respect her, 1216 01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:20,000 you don't care about her, 1217 01:01:20,040 --> 01:01:23,560 you're not interested in her, and you've made her feel like shit. 1218 01:01:23,600 --> 01:01:24,920 You had so little respect for her 1219 01:01:24,960 --> 01:01:27,080 that you weren't even going to come up here and see her. 1220 01:01:28,880 --> 01:01:31,680 I wanted her to come see her friends and family by herself 1221 01:01:31,720 --> 01:01:34,040 so she can get that feeling back of being refreshed, 1222 01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:36,480 and that's exactly how she's felt. She felt so much better, 1223 01:01:36,520 --> 01:01:37,960 she felt so much lighter, being around... 1224 01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:41,080 Yeah, cos she realises that she deserves 100 times better. 1225 01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:42,840 Of course, yeah, look, deserves the world, I've said this. 1226 01:01:42,880 --> 01:01:44,760 What do you mean, of course? I've said she deserves the world. 1227 01:01:44,800 --> 01:01:46,840 Yeah, so why have you wasted her time, then? 1228 01:01:46,880 --> 01:01:48,480 I've not wasted her time. You have wasted her time... 1229 01:01:48,520 --> 01:01:50,760 How? ..because you've just said she deserves the world, 1230 01:01:50,800 --> 01:01:52,560 yet you were not prepared to give that to her, 1231 01:01:52,600 --> 01:01:54,400 so why have you wasted her... It's not that I wasn't prepared 1232 01:01:54,440 --> 01:01:56,280 to give it to her. Well, clearly not. 1233 01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:58,520 OK. So why have you wasted her time in this experiment 1234 01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:00,120 and told her constantly, week after week, 1235 01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:01,280 "Oh, I really care about you. 1236 01:02:01,320 --> 01:02:02,520 "I really want to see it work," 1237 01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:04,480 when, actually, you had no intention? 1238 01:02:04,520 --> 01:02:06,720 Right, I'm going. Sorry, Nells. 1239 01:02:18,160 --> 01:02:19,440 Steven being on this dating app 1240 01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:21,760 whilst we're still married is cheating. 1241 01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:28,160 That's a guilty man. 1242 01:02:32,400 --> 01:02:34,040 This marriage is well and truly over. 1243 01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:36,960 I want nothing to do with Steven any more. 1244 01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:46,000 Next time... 1245 01:02:46,040 --> 01:02:47,880 I can really see myself moving here. 1246 01:02:47,920 --> 01:02:49,760 ..the Homestays continue. 1247 01:02:49,800 --> 01:02:52,400 We're here. We've arrived at Bournemouth. 1248 01:02:52,440 --> 01:02:54,240 Welcome home. Thank you. 1249 01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:56,760 While family approval comes easy to some... 1250 01:02:56,800 --> 01:02:59,240 He told me that he loved me. Woo! 1251 01:03:00,240 --> 01:03:02,960 ..others face tougher questions from loved ones. 1252 01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:06,800 I want you to be really happy, but I want you to be happy here. 1253 01:03:06,840 --> 01:03:09,920 I can see she is falling. 1254 01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:12,760 I need to have that gut feeling that you're the same. 1255 01:03:12,800 --> 01:03:14,320 I cannae help my doubts. 1256 01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:18,320 And as Grace and Ashley spend time apart... 1257 01:03:18,360 --> 01:03:21,600 Is he the person that everyone else thinks he is? 1258 01:03:21,640 --> 01:03:23,160 Have I got this wrong? 1259 01:03:23,200 --> 01:03:24,480 You're still wearing your ring. 1260 01:03:24,520 --> 01:03:26,320 Part of you is trying not to give up. 1261 01:03:26,360 --> 01:03:29,640 ..they face a crucial decision on the future of their marriage. 1262 01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:33,520 I can't do any more to prove to her who I am. 102105

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