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Previously, on 90 Day Fiancé, Happily Ever After. I'm excited, but I've never
been on bad terms like this, and we're just leaving the country.
It's not about my parents, it's not about your parents, it's about us.
I wish we had left things better with my parents, but we're going off to see the
world. Going to Europe.
We don't know how long we will be there.
Going to the airport?
Yes, please.
Here we go!
Love it. So freaking good.
Such an epic, exciting moment. And I want to, you know, fight for this, you
know, marriage, fight for this life. But at the same time, I don't know how much
longer I can hang on.
Are we truly happy?
There's something very important that I need to share with Darcy.
But I need to have this conversation with her when she's come.
I knew it.
I've read you very well.
I know you don't want to face your mom, but you know what? I just, I really
think it's time.
I'm having a baby in six weeks.
I cannot continue lying to her.
Mommy, perdoname.
Literally missed you so much.
I missed you too.
How about us three? Let's go have a drink, have a conversation.
Why three of you?
I've got Lauren over here talking about Yara behind her back. And I don't like
this. I don't like what's happening.
You're making fun of me. And the way I treat myself.
What?
Elizabeth's lying.
So ready to just hop on a plane and go home. I'm so over this.
What happened?
You look familiar like a lover from another life. Your eyes used to light up
every time I had you close.
Drive easy, puppy.
Why are you laughing for my pain?
I thought you were going to poop yourself.
No, it's not poop. It's a baby.
I was reading that because the baby's head down, like she's pushing my vagina,
and that's what it hurts.
Horrible feeling.
This is like someone grabbing your balls in mind.
Like this.
There you go.
Papi, please.
Come on.
You're very stressed.
I'm just kind of tired.
Is it because you're nervous about the birth class?
You better take this birth class serious.
You don't even know what hole the baby's going to come from, right? Probably the
butthole. Matt.
What? I'm being serious.
OK.
It's so good to finally meet you in person.
Hey, Rachel. Nice to meet you.
Come on back.
We're about to get started, guys.
Hi. Hi.
This is so cute.
So we're going to have you sit on the ball here.
We'll have you in the chair behind. Don't let me fall.
Jesus Christ.
I'm scared of exploding it.
They're not that pregnant yet.
Oh, babies.
I don't know why my skull is so thick.
Even though I'm going to a birthing class, even though we're inching closer
the delivery of this baby, it's still not, like, real, real to me, obviously,
because I'm still not, I haven't learned a thing.
Jasmine is having the baby within a couple of weeks.
And I'm hoping to learn anything would be nice.
Anything. How do I hold a kid? How do I feed it? Do I change his diaper? How
often do I change it? When do you put it to sleep? How do you put it to sleep?
There's a lot of variations of that stuff to think about. So hopefully they
just, like, dump this information on me and I'll learn something.
I have a lot to learn.
We're going to have such a fun class together, guys. We're going to talk
things that you can do to have an easier, more comfortable labor.
Right. I need it. Who needs it?
So if you look here, this is how baby is going to move into the pelvis.
And as the shoulders come through, they'll rotate on the way out.
The dolls that you have in front of you are right about the size of a newborn
baby, so it gives you a really good idea of what to expect.
Yikes. Matt, that face.
That's a pretty big baby. This is pretty accurate.
I want a medicated natural birth, and I really hope with this class that Matt
can finally understand how intense it is going to be.
Me giving birth. We're talking about unbearable pain.
Imagine like a coconut is coming out of your penis.
How would that feel, Matt?
One of the things that we are going to start out talking about is fears
surrounding the birth space. Do you guys want to share any particular fears that
you have weighing on you?
What if you end up tearing up?
So if there's tearing.
Yeah. When we talk about tearing, we talk about degrees, first through fourth
degree. So a first degree tear is going to be superficial skin. Third into this
capsule around the anus and fourth would be a connection between the two
internally or externally.
We don't see a lot of third and fourth degrees. So what we're looking for is
stretching the muscles.
What you can do as a partner is use your first two fingers. And so we actually
start on the outside here. We press into these tissues towards the clitoris.
We're going to go to the first knuckle until you have that nice stretch. And
then you go in and do the same at the second knuckle. Is this like on the
of the wall?
Inside. Okay, gotcha.
So apparently if I don't help Jasmine with the stretching of the walls, her,
you know what, is going to tear.
possibly all the way to her butthole.
Yike.
That would just be one giant hole. I don't know how you fix that.
So I have to remember, between reading and everything else, I got to remember I
have to do the stretching thing now with her too, which is like between foreplay
and trying to help her stretch. I don't know.
I never heard anybody talk about this before, the stretching of the muscle
tissues on the inside. I've never heard this.
This is actually a space where we can provide massage and touch.
So when we talk about labor massage, we want to focus on down and out.
So I'm going to have you press sort of down and out.
Okay, so focus that massage going down and out. I know not easy with the
sweater. There we go.
This is good? Mm -hmm.
Okay.
Oh, gosh.
I love it.
Yes. Then keep going. That's what we're looking for. Some people like gentle
touch. Some people do not, and that's okay.
I like rough.
Justin.
Okay.
So, guys, come into a hands and knees position.
I'm going to have you sit by her hips.
Oh, my knees. All right.
This is one of the most common ways that we see babies born when we are
experiencing unmedicated birth, right? What tends to happen here is we're
these loud grunty pushes and kind of like, ah, to kind of like, ah, like we
working with our bodies.
So you have to take care of your mind. Be present with your partner. Now,
partners, you're going to reach down and catch your babies, okay? With this deep
breath, we're going to go.
Oh, imagine sending your baby down and out. Deep breath here with me again.
Oh.
Being gentle with yourself. There you go.
When this happens, it's going to be a long day or a long night of clawing and
screaming.
So kind of like an exorcism or something.
Your partner is going to pat baby back through your legs.
So head first.
Turn baby around. Perfect. Bring baby to your low belly and then sit back onto
your heels.
What I like about this transition of sitting back is it gives you a moment to
see your baby.
To look at your baby with your partner and you create this little bubble around
you guys.
I'm trying to learn like as much as I can about the process of the baby. And
kind of gives you like anxiety.
I don't know. It's a lot.
We're at week 37, and I don't have all the time to figure out about taking care
of a child.
I love you, baby.
You're so beautiful because you look just like Mommy.
Oh, look at your daddy. Oh, don't cry, don't cry.
Jasmine, you know, she completely f***ed up my life. Really did.
The last time I spoke to Jasmine, I was reading her my letter.
The scam is marriage fraud to the teeth.
I didn't do anything criminal. I married you and the marriage didn't work.
That is criminal because the marriage was never true.
I was expecting more from her, like more of apology.
There was like no explanation of anything.
But, you know, that's why I decided today that I'm going to talk to a lawyer
about my options for divorce because I need to do it. And I think it's the only
way I'm going to get closure in this whole thing.
Robert.
Gino. How's it going?
It's been a while. How are you doing?
It's been a minute, right? Yeah, definitely.
All right, come on back to the conference room. Let's do it.
I decided I want to speak with a divorce lawyer, a very good top -notch lawyer.
You know, I need to move forward in my life, see what my options are, because
our relationship is over. It's done.
There's no repairing it.
Thank you.
So you're back here for another divorce, huh?
Unfortunately, yeah.
The funny thing is that I've been to this divorce lawyer's office before.
About 12 years ago, when I finalized my divorce with my previous wife, they were
very good and thorough. So I'm very much looking forward to speaking to him
about how complicated my situation is now.
The first divorce is relatively easy, but this one is different. And so how is
it different than the first one?
Well, very different.
In my recollection, you had a consent judgment divorce, right? So you two were
able to agree on terms relatively easily.
This is going to be much different because Jasmine does not have the same
personality as my previous ex.
Jasmine has like a demon or devil inside of her.
This is going to be ugly.
With my first wife, we always got along. We never argued much.
And our marriage was pretty solid, really, for the most part. We lasted for
seven years.
But, you know, over time, we kind of grew apart a little bit.
And in the end, we ended up just mutually agreeing to getting a
divorce.
You were married how long ago?
We've been married just over two years, like basically two years. Okay.
We only lived together for like 10 months until she cheated on me and I
her out of the house. Wait, wait, wait. She cheated on you?
Yeah, 10 months into the marriage, she spent the night at this gentleman's
and I found out.
But we did agree to an open marriage.
But we had rules for it. Okay.
that she can only spend two hours with him per day, and not to get too close to
him.
Whose idea was open marriage? Was it yours or hers?
It was hers. She was proposing it.
And when I went back and looked at the whole big picture, it's very clear to me
that I was used for a green card.
I understand why you felt that way.
So what I did a few months ago... is I reported her for immigration fraud.
I am not letting up on the immigration fraud because I want Jasmine to
be held accountable for her huge betrayal.
Jasmine got her green card in hand and left.
I would be happy if she gets deported. I think she deserves it.
I want her to feel some pain. I want her to feel some pain like I felt pain.
Give me some details of it. I'm not an immigration attorney, so maybe you can
educate me here.
So basically, I gave all the details to immigration, what happened, the
cheating, and how she was pursuing this person when I submitted the green card.
When I submitted her green card application, she was pursuing this guy
gym. So I explained all the details of that, you know, how she was cheating on
me when it's half started and how it was linked to immigration.
And I kind of talked in all the details in my submittal, my report to them. And
then I actually did it twice. I submitted it twice because I want to
absolutely sure it got through.
But the second time I submitted it.
I updated it and told them that she was pregnant on the second
time. Okay, that's the factor we're going to have to talk about.
She's pregnant with another guy during her two -year probationary period on her
green card, and she moved to Florida with this guy and still married to me.
So she got pregnant with a random dude down the street, still married to me,
cheated on me.
Okay.
While we're married.
For immigration, I really can't speak to. I think you probably know as much as
do on that. In regards to divorce, there's a huge impact on that.
Is there? There is.
So the question is, is the child yours?
The child is not mine. It's his.
Okay. Well, under Michigan law, I'm going to give you some bad news here.
You may be aware, as we were doing before, that I'll kind of tell you what
law is. I'll tell you the good news, the bad news, and where I think the likely
outcome will go. So under Michigan law, when you are married and a child is
born, during that marriage, or the husband here, you're presumed to be the
father.
Are you kidding? No, I'm not, unfortunately for you. That's crazy.
You have a legal obligation.
And a financial obligation to that child.
What?
I mean, come on. This is ridiculous.
That's understandable.
But the basic presumption is that because you are married to Jasmine and
the husband, she had a child during the marriage, that makes you the father.
With this baby, you have an obligation until the baby turns 18 or graduates
high school. We're talking hundreds.
of thousands of dollars that you'll be paying in child support.
What? If you don't take action.
You f***ed up my life.
It's a lot of different amazing experience.
I tell you, we should stay in Amsterdam and a little working.
Like a hooker.
They're more legal.
It's just like you take a step forward and you take three steps back.
I don't want to deal with this stuff anymore. I definitely do want to talk to
Yara. What happened last night?
I cannot leave this trip on these terms.
Back in day in London, this weather is amazing to see.
It's played for the total starfish fest.
And I love it.
Look at all the lemon.
It's all emotion, can't slow down, it's a rollercoaster. So let it go, let it
go, let it go, let it go.
You ready, Nala?
Get it!
I can go after that one now. Give her this, she want new one.
Yay, she want new one.
It's been five months since we've been back in Europe.
It was a great trip, but because we didn't sell Julia's apartment like we
planning to do, we had to come back from Europe early.
You know, traveling is not cheap.
I'm telling you, we should stay in Amsterdam and a little working.
Like a hooker.
They're all legal.
Did see a lot, yeah.
Yeah, for an age, oh my God, this old lady, like, oh my God.
I'm like, what are you doing there?
Yeah, there was one who was like...
She's probably 60.
You need to lower the retirement age over there.
We're visiting nine countries in one month. And it's a lot of different
experience.
I love Switzerland so much. Yeah, you just have these like big icy mountains
with snow on them. It looks like it's photoshopped. From a movie, yeah. So
romantic. So romantica.
Though it was hard in our finances, I still feel like the trip was an overall
success. I do feel like Julia and I reconnected to a certain level.
Oh, yeah.
Oh,
my God. Oh, my God.
You talking to somebody?
I'm not there. Why?
It came out.
I gotta go. Hold on.
Yes, bud.
I swear to God, I'm not lying.
This is not a joke.
What was that?
Your heart?
Yeah. Oh, my God.
We're pregnant!
After we reconnected, I decided to try to have a baby, but doctor told us it's
not expecting anything for a long time.
That's what she told us. I mean, it's possible, but we don't expect.
Usually I decide to record every time for a couple of years. I decide to
this, right?
So, and this time I decided to, ah!
It's going to be safe. I'm not going to record. I record every single time.
Every single time. And this time, I'm like, no, I'm not going to record.
I'm scared.
What if?
How if?
What is that?
I need a second test. My brain explodes.
I'm excited.
Julia showed me that test. I was literally like...
The air just left my lungs.
Like, greatest moment of my life so far. I think next best one's going to be
when that little thing comes out of there, you know? I got to start working
my dad jokes.
You don't need to work. You just need to repeat yours. Oh, really? Okay.
Well, I saw them talking. I saw them talking to Yara.
And then I heard there's a glass break.
And then they just didn't laugh.
I don't know.
They got into a fight.
I spoke to them.
Hey, babe.
I need help.
I'm getting the toilet treats, and I'm coming. Toilet treats.
Don't forget your mouth guard.
Right. And your earplugs for me to tune me out.
These are dirty now. I'll leave them here.
Where's the box from them, though?
I don't know. I'm going to start getting some stuff, though.
Okay.
I'm glad we're leaving, like...
We got to get out of here. I don't want this more of this uncomfortability and
trying to resolve things. Like, I don't want to deal with this stuff anymore. I
know. Just one thing. I don't have energy for that.
But, like, I definitely do want to talk to Yara. I can't leave this trip
without, you know, making sure we're good.
No problemo. Go talk to Yara.
I'm going to keep, you know, organizing. And then when you come back, we'll
finish up and go.
All right. I'll be right back.
I cannot leave this trip on these terms.
Like, Yara definitely doesn't deserve what happened last night. And I'm not a
malicious person. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I will literally give my shirt
off of my back to you. And I want her to know that.
usually means do not disturb.
Hi.
Hi.
We're getting ready to leave. So I wanted to talk to you if you have a
I do have a minute. So why are you leaving?
You know what?
It just, a lot happened last night.
So I need to just decompress.
I understand that you have to leave. I'm not going to even try to pressure you
to stay longer and all this stuff. I get it.
I'm pissed at Elizabeth again because it's hypocritical because she got mad at
me for all of us talking about them at dinner.
But then she goes and twists words.
And I'm so sorry that you felt in any way hurt.
I wanted to apologize to you.
If I hurt you or... I do not have, like, negative energy, emotions to you, to be
honest. I just want to give you a hug.
The funniest part, to be honest, which I'm thinking right now, that I am the
youngest from all of them. We have, like, five or seven years old difference
between us. I mean, hello, guys. You could be more mature.
I'm almost 40.
But to be honest, I appreciate Lauren's thick accountability.
I just couldn't be mad at her because she's opening up for me.
And I'm actually starting to question Elizabeth because she is the one who
started for a lot of the problems in the group.
I would not have come on this trip if I didn't consider you a friend.
I think the same thing about you. Have a safe flight. Thank you. You too. Bye.
Bye. Tell Jovi we said bye. Okay.
All right.
Oh, you're all packed.
You see?
I'm really glad that I spoke with Yara.
Yeah? I am. It went really well.
And we, like, I truly say, like, I love her. She's amazing.
Great. So maybe now you have a new great friend. Yeah.
You know, I don't want to say you lost one, but, like, you have a new somebody
to talk more to. To latch on to.
In 10 years, we've achieved so much as a couple.
We've gone through seven surgeries, three kids, moving twice.
Three times.
Three times, excuse me.
Alex is my best friend. You are. He's my best friend, too.
The big one has more. Okay.
One last look at that view.
I want to have all of this behind me. It's not who we are. We don't fill
ourselves with toxic people.
This was the final straw.
Like, there is no friendship between me and Elizabeth.
I don't even like saying her name. I just need to, like, move on with my
We're open to new friends.
Accepting applications for friends. Accepting applications. We're ready to
some new friends. What are your requirements, your special skills?
Do you like to ski? How many kids do you have?
Do you talk behind their back?
Do you raise your wife's text messages?
We definitely accept the application.
Oh, it's snowing.
I think I'm ready for the beach.
How'd you sleep?
Uh, by myself.
Last night, Georgie stormed out. He didn't come back to the room. And I have
idea where he is.
He was even saying in Bulgaria, he was able to think a lot.
Think about what?
I don't know.
You're not crazy.
I'm not crazy.
Something going on.
I want a caring partner.
I need you to fully be there for me. And then I bite the umbilical cord.
Look at me in the eye.
There's a lot more stuff about this baby, and we've covered 5 % in this
Scary.
So as we wrap up our class, I always like to talk about how important the
of support is.
I encourage all of you to bring your partner more into this journey with you.
Thank you.
That is our class for today, guys. Thank you so much for joining me today. I
hope your hips are feeling loose and comfy, that you have some great tools to
take home with you. Remember to practice some of these movements, some hands -on
techniques. Yay!
Good job, ladies.
Your daughter.
Right out of the oven. Good luck, guys.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Oh,
my
gosh.
Thank you.
I step on bubblegum.
So how did you feel during the class?
Fantastic.
What was your favorite part?
Breathing. You like it? Yeah.
What about the part where you have to pull the baby and how to give it to me,
remember? Yeah, I thought it was like a football move or something.
But now you know how it is.
How is it?
So I push, you catch the baby. Yeah.
Then what?
And I just flip it around.
Flip it around. And I put it back in the oven.
I mean, back to you. I hand it to you.
In the legs. And you grab it.
Yeah, you have to remember those steps. And then I bite the umbilical cord.
Why are you like this, man?
Like what? I'm not even doing anything.
Did you see how intimate it is?
Like giving birth.
Like, literally all the positions, being naked, pushing a baby out of you. Do
you think that's funny?
No.
Exactly. So why do you want to laugh?
Nothing.
Matt?
Everything's fine.
If Matt says the stupid, like, it's fine when I'm giving birth to this baby, I
want to cut his balls.
It's not just... saying out loud, everything is going to be fine. It's
being supportive, taking care of the baby.
This birth class is a good beginning, but I need this on a daily doses.
Just look at me, Matt.
Like, how pregnant I am. I feel lonely. I feel overwhelmed.
Jazz, do you see, like, the amount of effort I'm putting, like, I'm trying?
I see it. I'm trying, but you only see the negative.
I appreciate everything you're doing. I see you trying, but I
need for this experience, you know, I need you to fully be there for
me. No jokes, no nothing, just like I want a caring partner.
I need that right now.
So I'm pleased.
That's the only request I have.
All right.
Look at me in the eyes.
Promise.
Yes, boss.
She's right.
I'm going to have to do my part.
I'm going to have to step up and do my part. But there's a lot more stuff about
this baby, and we've covered 5 % in this class.
I don't know anything.
Nothing. You know, what am I going to do?
Scary.
It's a lot for me. I know it is for you, you know. I don't want to sound
selfish, but I am the one who has the baby inside, the one doing the baking,
one that has to go through the pain of delivery, you know, the pushing.
And trust me, that's a lot.
I don't even know how many days or weeks until the baby is born.
It's very stressful.
Oh. Hey.
Someone got smacked last night. Oh, yeah. I'm in a good mood. Your hair.
Lord.
Okay. That's a good, too.
Wow. Your bed looks a little too neat.
Yeah.
Looking like you got ravaged. Yeah. Oh, yeah. I was, like, doing all kinds of
moves. Like, like, doing, like, like.
What the?
Wow.
Ow! I'm trying to pull it. I'm just trying to get it out.
Relax.
How'd you sleep?
Uh, by myself.
What do you mean by yourself?
It was fine the first two minutes, but then it turned sour.
Why? As usual. I don't know. I thought he was getting in the mood to want to,
like, talk and open up. Say something.
No, no, no, no, no. He kind of just went right into, you know, making me feel
like I'm the blame for everything.
Last night, Georgie stormed out.
He didn't come back to the room, and I have no idea where he is.
No text, no call.
I don't know what he's thinking and feeling in this moment.
It just doesn't feel good.
He's very dismissive, and he was even saying in Bulgaria he was able to think
lot.
Think about what?
I don't know.
He's probably thinking about his future for himself and not having me included
in it.
Hmm.
That's the vibe I got because the tone was nice. If he was thinking something
positive, he'd be like, I was so happy to be around family and you were there.
I could definitely see us thinking so much about what our future could look
like. It wasn't anything like that. He wasn't excited? No, it was total
as if he was thinking about, he doesn't want to waste his time on me because he
misses his family.
He doesn't think that I've been like a family to him.
We've been nothing but family to him. Yes, we have.
We've all been there for him. We've all given him the benefit of the doubt and
showed him love and cared about him.
I don't know. I smell something fishy.
I texted him, are you OK? Will you be coming back to the hotel? He just
responded. What did he say?
Not sure if you're really asking because you really care or you're just
pretending that you care. Because most of the time, you are pretending that you
care, but you don't give a at all. Seems like he's the one that doesn't care.
I think he's basically talking about himself.
Yes. When projecting that onto me.
Exactly. That's what it sounds like, Darcy.
Okay. You're not crazy.
I'm not crazy.
Something going on over there.
Really, I just kind of feel like Darcy just can't get anywhere with Georgie.
I feel like this time around, this conversation, it's hitting deeper.
And it's hitting her soul into her core.
You know, I just hope that she finds the peace that she needs so she can, you
know, make the right decision for herself.
Oh, Darce.
You deserve a husband that's going to be there for you to think of things and
not always, you know, flip things on you.
But he's always going to. He's never going to change.
Never going to happen.
That's why it hurts.
I don't know what else to do to help fix this marriage and our relationship.
Because it's broken.
You can only patch up the cracks so many times.
I don't know what to expect. I don't even know what to say. If I see him,
got to do what's best for you.
I don't want to be manipulated or angry or feel like I'm
not worth it.
Not again.
Two people love each other. They can forgive and forget.
We've been able to do that before in the past, but something just feels
different this time.
All you can do is focus on yourself.
Just know that I love you. We all love you. We have your back.
Can you do a Sasquatch?
He's dragging it along.
I think he will have a big... I could not believe on Sasquatch. I don't know.
Sasquatch is real.
Okay. Sasquatch is real. If you say so.
Yara's dropping hints.
So, here today for your first OB visit. Make sure there's a good heartbeat.
We are done with this fertility journey for now, but I'm so scared.
You're going to feel a little bit of pressure.
Oh, my God.
Brennan, you have to drive low.
You want to throw up in the car?
I don't.
Sorry, it's just there's a lot of information going on right now.
Now you want to turn to the security?
We have really crazy news, and I'm still trying to process everything.
Like...
I knew, I felt like it would happen, but I was beginning to wonder it may never
happen.
so scared to drink soju so we decided to go into a third opinion them give us
plan i changed my diet i started doing hormones and vitamins and most important
counting evolution day okay take a deep breath
i'm so happy we are done with this fertility
journey for now but
Now it's most scared and most excited moment is first OB visit.
I'm worried that I won't hear heartbeat and I'm so scared.
Good morning. How are you? I'm Dr.
Mayer. Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you.
So here today for your first OB visit, how do you feel?
Um, weird.
Yeah.
That's super normal. It looks like I'm hungover every day. That is so normal.
So you are considered seven weeks and four days. And so you're very much right
in the middle of the first trimester. We'll do our ultrasound today, make sure
there's a good heartbeat, and then the next visit will be at 12 weeks, right
before you turn into that second trimester.
All right, my love.
Quick rest out.
You're going to feel a little bit of pressure.
And then.
Right here.
That's your baby.
Look how cute your little baby is.
Do you see right here? That's the heartbeat flickering.
Wow, this one's so good. I saw that.
Everything looks so good, guys.
All right, let me measure that heartbeat.
And yours is 158. That's perfect. And I love it when the heartbeat is on the
high side of normal.
Your baby's perfect.
Oh, my gosh.
I'm rushing. I can't cry.
Yes, you can.
Yes, you can.
You're still a woman with a baby inside.
Oh, my God, you guys.
Yeah, it's so fun.
Knowing you're pregnant is big enough news, but when you actually, like, see
it's...
I don't know. There's some moment where my heart gets to beat, you know?
It's incredible.
The whole thing that we can even, like, start to look inside and what's going on
in there, it's really spiteful.
Don't touch my uterus. Okay.
Gonna be a dad.
That's crazy.
I think I want to be a dad like my dad, you know? I want to... I always
respected my dad a lot. He was always fun, but firm, you know?
I feel like I'm going to get the fun part down for sure.
Okay, let's go home. I have to eat.
Okay. Steak and potato.
Gotcha.
This is a big moment for our family, you know?
And I...
Honestly, cannot wait to tell my mom and my dad because, you know, this has been
a long time coming. So I would like to do something special, something
memorable.
I don't know what would be deserving of such a big moment.
Bye. Bye.
I feel like water leaking out of me.
Jasmine, she's in labor.
The baby is coming.
It's just straight anxiety.
Like, oh man, she's really going to have a kid.
It's 1 a .m.
I was obviously in bed and I felt like my water has broken.
I went to the bathroom and I'm bleeding and I'm in pain. I'm having certain
contractions. So what Matt is going to do right now is he's going to call the
midwife because I think a baby is coming.
Matt, you have to wake up.
I know you want to sleep, but forget about sleeping for the next.
Days of your life.
Oh, I feel like water leaking out of
me. I have a diaper right now.
Oh.
Make sure that I don't give birth in this car, Matt, please.
I don't want to give birth in the car.
Just breathe, Mama.
Breathe.
Try not to get excited.
I'm trying not to, but it's giving me anxiety, the fact that this birth center
is so far away.
Jasmine,
she's in labor. It's happening.
I hope we made the right choice to come to a birth center.
And I'm thinking to myself, we should have just probably went to a hospital
because if anything happens to her or the kid, like, what are we going to do?
My heart is racing. I feel like the walls are kind of closing in. And I'm
stress to the max.
So freaking painful.
Oh, here comes another one.
But I'm taking it as a pro because I feel like every contraction is bringing
closer to meet our angel, our baby. Today is her birthday.
And I think always.
We just made it to the birth center, which is good.
I'm in a lot of pain right now.
Let's pray that everything works out. Amen.
And that we can hold our baby pretty soon.
So let's see.
Come on. You can do anything for a minute, right?
Good job.
That's your baby. Every contraction, that's your baby coming down.
Yeah. Like a villain.
Of course.
It's crazy.
It's just crazy to know, like, the baby is coming. Like, Jasmine is in so much
pain. You want to try, too?
Yeah, can you talk a little bit? Yeah.
Yeah? Let's do that.
So this is the part that's been scaring the crap out of me because it makes me
feel, like, powerless, you know?
And I feel bad, and I don't want anything to happen to her, you know?
Breathe,
honey, breathe.
Please, God, please don't let there be any issue. Please let the baby come out
fine. Please let the baby be healthy.
She's coming.
She's coming. She's coming.
It's just straight anxiety because I'm worried to death that something might
happen.
Oh, my God.
Look at all the baby stuff.
We should go in and look at them. No, no, no, not inside.
That is bad superstition in Russia.
After first trimester, we can go inside.
Julia, you have too many superstitions and stuff.
No, you can't do this because we have to do everything right.
I promise we will go store.
In the second trimester, we will go store.
That's a good idea?
All right, whatever.
Okay, Brian, I'm hungry.
Let's go, let's go, come on. Can we go this way? It's a bad superstition.
Hi,
how are you?
Good, welcome in.
Have a seat wherever you'd like.
Are we eating or drinking, or both today? Both. Okay, perfect.
And thirsty.
Love it.
Okay, everything.
They are officially seven weeks pregnant.
And I just crave everything.
And this is good feelings.
First trimester has been tough. And people say morning sickness.
That is not morning sickness. That's all day sickness.
Thank you.
Look at that.
Lollipop really helped me with my nausea.
And Brennan trying to give me his lollipop.
Sucking on stuff helped reduce the nausea. I mean, all I'm ever trying to
help you out. You know what I mean?
But it does not have a gum inside.
It has something that rhymes with gum inside.
What does this mean? What does this mean?
You'll learn when you're older.
Did you have a by chance garlic sauce?
We have a garlic aioli sauce.
Would you like that?
Is that aioli?
Oh, sounds interesting.
Enjoy. Oh,
strong.
Oh, my gosh. Why you never show me this sauce before?
I think they sell it at the grocery store.
Garlic sauce?
Yeah.
Is your life now complete?
You're just going to be drinking it by the tub?
I want just sweet bread.
And I put in the garlic sauce, and I eat it.
Like, I'm dipping in a super, like, garlic onion sauce. I've seen you eat
with chicken sauce, Julia. I mean... Yeah.
Pizza with chicken sauce is good.
Lately, Julia's had weird cravings. Like, she'll dip some french fries in
lemonade.
That's weird.
I need to try every sauce now.
I try to stock the fridge with whatever she wants, and I swear to God, we'll go
to the store and spend $200, and then she'll be like, burgers.
So it's like caring for Julia right now is a challenge. She is needy.
Needy.
Seriously.
It's interesting that you have all these weird cravings.
That's so...
Dancing in there?
Just doing little back flips in there?
Don't move your hand.
Why? Don't show people here around.
But it's a lot happening, especially with my body, with my mood, with my
hormones. It's a lot of happening. I can feel it, but at the same time, I
doesn't believe it. You're having a lot of changes now, and you're grown.
In some of my favorite areas, you know.
It's becoming noticeable, Julia. So we really, it's time to tell my parents
before they figure it out.
And they get pissed off because we didn't tell them.
Brandon, your mom, she'll just make sure everything in her way.
I think... It'd be a really good idea to tell my parents right now because since
we've come back from Europe, they're still mad about the financial bond we
ourselves in. And I just feel like they'll be happy for us.
They're the grandparents, you know?
But Julia hasn't seen my parents since the last time we had a fight with them.
So, can you are just waiting for a little more time? I've always been...
already almost done first trimester. I promise, in the second trimester, we're
going to tell my parents and your parents, because we need to make a plan.
No, I mean, what if they find out before the second trimester?
Your brain's going to explode now. No, you're just creating a recipe for
disaster. Your parents have to learn how to mind their business, doesn't push me
and do anything. You and me have to learn...
To be a parent.
We could use the support, you know?
Give my parents time to, like, plan for this. Give us advice.
There's so much we don't know about having babies, and they do.
Betty, she will be overstepping.
She already over -controlled us.
And now I'm pregnant. I don't want her to be telling me what to do. She told
like, where to go, and she will be suspicious what I'm doing.
It's important my mom and dad know now.
I mean, they're the most, like, important people to know. You know, when
this child, they gain a status. They become grandparents, you know?
So, like, if we're going to tell anybody, it should be them. They should
first.
I don't think my mom was overbearing. She just wants to help and be
But I feel like Julia keeping it a secret is just making the situation
Because, yeah.
My parents find out we've been hiding something as big as this from them,
they're going to be absolutely offended.
Thank you.
Hello.
How are you?
Ready to go find Sasquatch.
Are we waiting for the other one?
Who? Yeah, where's Morgan and Alex? Oh, they left.
What? What? He left.
Yeah. They didn't even tell me bye either. They just hauled out.
They go, they went back. What happened?
I'm mad about last night, of course.
Yeah. Nothing, bro. What happened? We talked to them. They were fine.
I mean, me and Yara had a conversation with Lauren. They weren't really
about that conversation.
So I guess that was just like their cue to get the out of here.
Just look at me.
Just look at me.
I saw you guys talking, and then I saw, like, a glass break.
Yeah. It looks like it broke everything.
I didn't break everything. I mean, I told them the truth.
About what?
I told Julia what you told me, and Julia went and told her what you told me. I
called her out. You told her that? Yeah.
What, you mad I ruined your friendship again?
Well, now she's probably mad at me again.
But I was saying that more as a precautionary for Yara not to be like,
from her, just to let her know.
I had a shot ski and felt like talking about it. Oh, my God.
You don't have to tattletale.
I feel really awful. Lauren leaving this abruptly is not good.
I think Jovi needs to keep his mouth shut and mind his own business because
wasn't planning on saying anything to Lauren. She's not that type of person.
She avoids conflict at all costs.
Why would he instigate, like, another fight? We all just got over something
massive. And then he's going to bring up some other bull.
He did it again, you know, like, and he's again playing. He's being a
Yeah, he again does the same.
He's like, he's up to no good, too, right?
Well, honestly, like, that information sucks to hear because now I don't know
where her and I stand.
Now I'm back in the lion's den.
Anyways,
you know, like, who's the myths about the Sasquatches?
In Moldova.
Everybody's got a different name for it, huh?
Well, Andrew, in Moldova, how did you call?
Baba Yaga.
Baba Yaga?
Yeah.
I also heard that Sasquatch is interested in blondes over here. We're
victims. We're going to run.
I'll give you my wife, just let me live.
You know what I mean?
Hey, nobody never saw him. Maybe he's hot.
He probably has a big... And have a big house in the forest.
He's got big feet.
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
Right? Exactly.
We're here!
Hi, guys.
Welcome to the land of Sasquatch.
My name's Mike.
Hello.
Have you ever been this far in the woods before?
Been in the woods, but we never saw Chupacabra.
Chupacabra?
Looking for the wrong thing, ladies.
Okay, well, follow me.
You know, we met the bartender the first night, and he knew a guy who does these
Sasquatch tours.
My great -grandfather, I think his first Sasquatch sighting was in 1936.
He saw them off in the woods.
I mean, he's clearly been out a bunch.
It's so funny that every country has, like, the stuff that lives in the woods.
Because it's an anxiety.
Everybody's scared of going in the woods.
The thing about Sasquatch is that they're mostly out at night. So if you
take a picture or shine a flashlight, you're really not going to see anything
but just a black blob. So it's very hard to find them, very hard to see them.
There's state campsites over here and I've heard people screaming, so I assume
he shows up and wants something to eat.
I don't believe in Sasquatches, but I definitely believe that there are some
questionable creatures in the woods because when I was about 13, I was
alone in the woods and something flew past me and I still to this day have no
clue what the hell it was. A bird?
It was just like this dark thing that just flew by, but it was massive, and it
was at the top of the trees. It wasn't a bird. It just,
I don't even know. I can't explain it. It was so weird.
Oh, this is beautiful.
Wow, look at this.
It's quite nice to wake up to every morning.
Yes, it is.
So you can see here, these are fresh claw marks from Sasquatch.
Oh. At night, you can hear them scratching the trees. With a console.
Oh, okay.
That's what it is. We got a sign, Andre.
Really creepy.
Wow.
I fully believe in all this Sasquatch stuff, and apparently this is a popular
place. Like, everybody believes Sasquatch is here.
So I was thinking, you know, we have to do this. We're going to look for
Sasquatch, but it's going to be fun.
I could not believe in Sasquatch. I don't know.
Sasquatch is real.
Okay, Sasquatch is real. If you say so.
We're kind of in the middle of nowhere, honestly.
What do people eat around here?
Do you have a grocery store?
No, we don't have grocery stores.
So where do you get, like, eggs or milk?
My sister has cows and chickens.
I'm with you. Come on, let's go.
That was Sasquatch.
Can you do a Sasquatch?
He's dragging it alone.
Because he's a big guy. If you see a lion, he's dragging it alone. I think
a big guy and I think he will have a big... Speaking about that one.
Like that. A Sasquatch.
That's a crooked.
Yara's dropping hints.
That's funny.
Josie, I think that was a hint for you.
Hey, guys, I don't want to slow down for anybody, and we're way further than I'm
usually comfortable going.
So if you look over here, you can see fresh tracks.
I don't know what those are, so we've probably come too far, and I'm not
comfortable being all the way down here.
You're too far?
I've never come this far.
Oh.
See that there? That's a little bit of a dent.
Did you dig that out?
You see it?
No way that's real.
Babe, you're going to fall through something.
Okay, that's probably far enough.
We should go back.
Scenery from a horror movie here.
Hey, stop. Don't.
Nobody's been close enough to know if he's dangerous.
Stop.
Hey, that's close enough. We should probably go back.
Here, the lake is his at night, and I don't want to be out here. Okay, yeah,
let's go.
You know what? We should rename Sasquatch Alex, because he disappears.
He disappears!
This little Sasquatch journey is a lot of fun.
I love seeing Yara's goofy side. I think she's so funny.
But Jovi better watch out, because he's on thin ice.
I don't think that Jovi understands the depth of this. Like, my friendship with
Lauren could be over.
Like, Lauren and I have finally had a good night with each other.
I don't think Jovi's taking that into consideration. I think he's just like,
whatever. They're not friends anymore. No big deal.
Jovi's not seeing it for what it is.
So the fact that Jovi is just trying to stir the pot right now and be a starter
is not a good look.
And it just makes me really believe that this is a dick.
Yeah, a working dick.
I got some appetite after this. Yeah, I want to eat something.
All this talk is making me hungry.
I got this message from Georgie that he wants to meet.
I'm eager and I'm ready to hear what he has to say. Are we even together right
now?
You walked out. I don't know. I want to feel empowered for myself.
There needs to be some serious conversations, and we're running out of
You want to drink something?
Yeah, I'll drink.
All right.
I'll do a Cosmo.
Can I have one Cosmo and one glass of wine on the same plate?
Thank you.
I got this message from Georgie that he wants to meet and explain what's on his
heart. So I'm eager and I'm ready to hear what he has to say.
Thank you.
Did you sleep okay last night?
I'm back.
Where did you sleep?
Even last night I tried to talk with you about it.
Emotions about our marriage? About everything.
Work? What I want.
Finances, family?
Everything.
And if you can kind of dive in a little deeper, divulge a little bit more.
Yeah, so one of the actually, what I realized, one of the strongest feelings
emotions I have was for you.
You know, that's... I really care about you and I really love you.
Thank you. I love you too, but are we even together right now? Like, you
out. I don't know. I want to feel empowered for myself.
I get you want to do the same thing.
Is this marriage going to work? Is it not going to work? Like, there needs to
some serious conversations, and we're running out of time.
That's why I want to talk with you.
Try to explain my feelings, how I feel.
I need to feel comfortable just to, I don't know, I don't know. Comfortable
what? To be able to. Why don't you feel comfortable with me? Because I'm
expressing how I feel, too.
And you can't handle the way that I express myself. I'm sorry that I'm not
trying to get at a level 10.
I'm, I'm, I guess that way, because I don't feel like we're getting each
It's too much.
What do you need to say?
And I don't want to talk anymore. I'm really tired.
I love you.
When I see my sister with her kids and her family.
And when my sister asks me if I want a kid.
Where do you want to go with her?
Breathe, mama. Breathe.
Breathe.
Deep breath. Keep coming. She's coming right now, mama.
Keep coming.
Take a deep breath, and then you push down.
Breathe, mama. Breathe.
Breathe. Breathe.
Breathe, honey. Breathe.
Deep breath. Keep coming. She's coming right now, mama.
Keep coming.
We're going to work together.
Take a deep breath, and then you push down.
It's coming, honey.
Breathe and push deep.
I love you.
I love you, honey.
You're fine.
You're fine.
Oh, my gosh.
Now just seeing my baby, my daughter, my sis.
Thank you, honey.
I imagine her.
in so many different ways, but none of them get even the closer to how perfect
and beautiful she actually is.
I feel like this is how an angel will look like.
I would like to introduce our baby, Matilda.
Matilda! Matilda's here.
Just baked out of the oven.
And she has blue eyes.
Where'd you get the name Matilda from?
From a joke.
I used to call Matt Matilda.
In Matilda, you can see the name Matt, and it's Matt and Matty, because that's
how we called her.
It was beautiful, very painful, unmedicated, but worth every
second of pain just to meet my beautiful angel.
With giving birth to my daughter and Matt being there, I trust Matt as I have
never trusted a person.
When I was the most vulnerable, he was there for me unconditionally, made me
feel so loved.
And after this, I can trust him with anything because I know that no matter
what, he's going to have my back.
I have no doubt he's going to be a good dad.
She's so beautiful. We're so blessed.
Wow.
Finally, daddy is using the right pronouns.
You're still calling her he.
Now you believe it's her he?
Yes. How does it feel to be the brand new daddy of a baby girl?
Scary. Why? You're still scared?
She's so small and fragile.
the joy than seeing your child for the first time. It's crazy, you know? And in
that moment, like I literally felt like my heart grew like the Grinch's three
sizes. I cannot believe that 10 hours ago, this baby was inside of Jasmine.
Like it's a whole baby.
I can't believe she was first in your book.
That's gross.
I'm telling you, I've never felt that level of depth of love.
And it's like this is what life is about. It's not about what your cars
don't matter about how much money you got and all the other garbage that we
to tell each other. That's not what it's about. What it's about is this very
moment.
And I could feel it. I could feel the love, the compassion.
And I don't know. It's an insane feeling that I don't think anything.
Nothing can top this feeling. It's just something crazy.
I love you, Maddie.
I'm going to spend the rest of my life taking care of you.
Me too, baby.
Like every single tear, every single struggle that I have had ever since I
to this country, everything made sense because...
Even when it is a mess, my life is a mess, if, you know, it led to this point
which I'm holding this beautiful, perfect angel on my arms, it's just like
I will go through everything again just to be able to have her.
My daughter is beautiful.
Yeah. I love her so much.
You're perfect.
You really need to.
This child is my child?
It's not my child.
I am technically the father of this child.
It's time to file for divorce.
She could leave the country or be deported, and now that complicates
You are taking a chance the longer you wait.
I think you have to look at the risk here.
You have a baby that will be born to this marriage, and as a result, you're
presumed to be the father.
Child support alone is going to be hundreds of thousands of dollars that
going to be paying for a baby that you said is not yours.
I wouldn't take a hundred thousands of dollar risk.
That's not a game I would play.
I think it's something you need to take care of.
You're telling me that this child is my child?
It's not my child.
Under Michigan law, that's how the law sees it. That is a basic presumption.
There's ways to get around it, though.
You may have to do a paternity test, DNA.
If the father of the child is willing to do an affidavit to indicate that he is
the father of the child, there's ways around it. But there's time limits on
this, too. The law, you need to do this within three years of birth.
When I heard that Jasmine was pregnant, I thought that that actually would help
my case in the divorce because it proves adultery.
But I had no freaking clue that I am technically the
father of this child. Are you freaking kidding me? That's really... This is
ridiculous. She really, really messed up my life.
Yeah, I'm sorry. That's not something easy to go through, especially if you
this image that it was going to be you and her and have a child.
Yeah, it was supposed to be her and I. We talked about this.
Now, are you deciding that it's time to file for divorce?
When you file, it takes at least 60 days to get divorced if you don't have kids.
If you don't have kids. However, just given what you just told me.
Since there's a minor child involved, the statutory waiting period is now 180
days or six months.
So from the time of filing, it's going to take a minimum of six months to get
divorced.
Because there's a child involved.
Correct.
Even though the child is not yours.
I'm not quite ready yet.
There's two reasons.
One is I have a lot of investments.
I want to wait for the market to drop.
And then file because I want the least financial impact to me. Because I know
when you're married, you share assets basically 50 -50 during your marriage.
Another reason is immigration.
Because Jasmine is going to have to remove conditions from her green card,
To get her permanent 10 -year card. She's on the two -year probationary card
right now.
But I am not jointly going to sign for it. And the only way she can do it on
own is if she's divorced.
So if I divorce her right away, I'm giving her the green light to get that
I want her to be held accountable for the betrayal she did to me, okay? That's
super important to me.
When there is this vengeance, payback, pound of flesh you're seeking, a lot of
people, unfortunately, think that you can utilize the court system to gain
pound of flesh.
What you do is you give attorneys a lot more money.
to probably in a position that I could have told you would have been in from
beginning. So I believe he should be filing for divorce in Michigan
Since there's a minor child involved, you're going to have to bring an action
within three years.
One thing we haven't considered is that Jasmine could file for divorce in
Florida. I would hate to have to travel back and forth to Florida for a divorce.
So the person that initiates divorce,
is where the state that it's going to be handled in. Correct.
Really, this is jacked.
You know, you are taking a chance the longer you wait.
She could leave the country or be deported, and now that complicates
far as you trying to get a hold of her, and it just costs you more money.
Hearing everything the lawyer is telling me today,
He's actually convinced me that I need to take action now, and I need to be the
one who files for a divorce so I can take control of the divorce and have it
Michigan.
With Jasmine's personality and stuff, I don't know what she's going to do next.
I don't know what she's thinking in that crazy mind of hers and that devilish
inside of hers, you know.
I've got a lot of stuff to think about here.
Yeah, absolutely. I mean, whatever you need, we're here for you.
Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, happily ever after.
You're going to walk into this in the street? You got to, because if I go like
this, the baby could die, Julia.
Good thing I think of these things.
I'm five months pregnant right now, and still nobody know I'm pregnant.
Thank you, all right? Let her know, because eventually it's going to come
and she's going to know this timeline.
I mean, I am lucky that she even let me tell you guys, to be honest.
You are over -controlling. Even getting more controlling than before. I don't
need more stress on my shoulder right now.
Oh, my gosh. So many pictures.
Oh, my gosh. Full head of hair. I got a necklace on.
Back in the day when I was working out, looking good.
Hey, what's up?
Hey. Jasmine, I guess, posted something on social media right now.
It looks like she had her baby.
Well... I feel in a way that
they're expecting me to have kids.
Because that's how is our culture.
Stop this.
Let me move on. Let me have my kids.
Stop. Stop.
What am I dig for?
I see everywhere you go, there's problems that follow you.
Jovi, he is just trying to find somehow to like point the finger.
Sit down and handle yourself like a man.
Do you know your mom?
I want to cause a very good impression.
I want my kids and my friends to be saved and not to go to hell, but to have
what little I want.
This is everything?
that goes against her morals and values.
The only people we can live for is ourselves.
There is no way she's going to accept this relationship.
Or this string. Would you marry me?
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