All language subtitles for Married At First Sight UK (2025) S10E19.en

Last night, we had an argument. Oh.

Previously...
She just went at me.

..a marital tiff sparked a shock
confession...

Do you love her?
Probably not.

..pushing Joe
to spend time apart from Maeve.

I've just come away, just
for the night.

I understand his reasons, but, in my
head, I'm absolutely spiralling.

I don't think he's really trying.
And while Nelly and Steven...

I don't think any of this
is Nelly's fault.

You did BLEEP up.
..both came under fire...

Just say, "Here, you are treating me
like a BLEEP piece of shit."

I-I'm not you!

CUP CLANGS
STEVEN:Clowns.

..the group's damning
verdict on Divarni's marriage...

Which marriage is the least
likely to last?

- You and Julia-Ruth.
- Yourself and Julia-Ruth.

Divarni and Julia-Ruth.

I know the truth,
Julia-Ruth knows the truth.

We've been having sex
and I'm done keeping that secret.

..set him on a collision
course with his wife.

When people ask you about
have we been intimate,

you've still been saying no. Yeah.
Lying to people's faces -

because we have. I didn't

want to talk about sex on camera.
You could be honest.

I looked like a complete fool today.

You want everything
to be done your way.

No respect for me at all.

I don't know where we go from here.

Tonight...

You will be participating
in Love/Hate Week.

..a new task...

I'm excited about the love part,
but I'm not excited about the hate.

..brings some couples closer...
I love us.

I love that you're completely
authentically yourself,

it's the best thing about you.

..but forces tensions to the surface
for others.

You'll quite happily shift the blame
to me. I can't win with you.

This isn't me. I just don't know.
Grace is BLEEP hard work.

And while secrets and betrayal still
plague Julia-Ruth and Divarni...

I don't care whether people know
that we have sex or not -

you do.
I said we've had attraction issues.

If you're embarrassed of me,
why have sex?

..Joe and Maeve's reunion is less
than a happy one.

Can you really see us working on
the outside?

I'm feeling overwhelmed. But why?
That's how I feel!

What the BLEEP is going on?

Morning boxing club,
yeah? - Ready?

Yeah, go.

Is that good? Good, yeah.

I wouldn't want that on my chops.

How was yesterday?

Your husband had fun. Mm-hm. Mm-hm.
What did you do, actually?

Tequila, mostly. Ah, love that.

So, I'm gonna teach you Arabic
dancing.

Step one is all about movement
in the hips. OK.

Yesterday's day out was a lot.

I feel bad because,

like, obviously, me and John are
so happy.

Yes, love it!

Both me and John are
trying to just enjoy

what we have and have a great time.

Now add a bit of, like, arms.

My feelings are so strong towards
Abby at the moment.

She is incredible.

She makes me a better
person every single day.

That's really good.

You're a natural.

What do you reckon of your,
um, day out? Mine went off.

Same. There was a question
in one of our games,

which was, which couple do
you think won't last?

Yeah. The bigger vote at my
side was

Julia-Ruth and Divarni. Oh, was it?

I'm pretty pissed off at
Julia-Ruth at the moment, to be
honest.

After the spa day, Divarni
called me to his apartment

to tell me that he's been sleeping
with Julia-Ruth this whole time.

It's quite shocking and

I'm just fuming that she's
been lying to everyone.

It's always been
about him not doing enough.

But, behind closed doors,
he is doing all that stuff.

He's making the effort.
He really does like Julia-Ruth.

He does, yeah.
And they have been intimate.

And so it's, like, you've just
watched someone's character

get ripped apart, while you're
a liar, basically.

It's just not sat right with me at
all. I feel so sorry for Divarni.

Myself and Julia-Ruth
have slept separately due to

a big argument that we had.

I haven't actually
spoken to her yet.

We've been intimate and we
did make the promise

of we're not going to
bring it to camera.

But, at the same time,
there's a narrative

that's been spun, making

me look some delusional guy
and that's just disrespectful to me.

I feel embarrassed
and betrayed by Divarni.

I asked him to not talk
about intimacy on camera.

The trust barrier has just been
thrown out the window completely.

I think this is something
that should have just been about

the two of us figuring that out
and then bringing it forward,

but everyone else
has been dragged into it.

I just thought we were on
the same page in terms of

not bringing it forward yet,

so I don't know
why that trust was broken.

There's a conversation that needs
to be had with Julia-Ruth.

I need her to own up to

what's actually transpired
in the relationship,

and I just need to know

if we're progressing
forward together or separately.

Things with me and Bec this
morning are not in a good place.

Bec's decided to stay
in a different apartment.

We had an argument about a question

that was asked on our
separate days out.

Who's your secret crush
amongst all the couples?

My stereotypical type is
Joe. Like, light eyes,

lighter features.
Physically is my type.

Bec has made it
clear during this whole process

that, if I'm ever asked

to pick another girl
in this experiment,

she said that would be
disrespectful and the kind of man

she would want to be with would
never do that,

so she went against everything
we stood for in this experiment.

I think Bailey's upset because he
feels like I've disrespected him.

I'm just going to cry the whole
way through.

What the fuck? Um, yeah. I feel sad.

I'm upset at how he reacted
because I didn't think that Bailey

had that side to him, so
that...seeing that side upsets me.

I totally understand his feelings,
and his feelings are valid,

and I'm heartbroken
that I've made him feel

that way because I care
so much about him. So I...

..I do feel awful about
what I've done, but...

..I've got massively
mixed emotions

because I've seen a side to him
that I didn't like at all.

He was just so
dismissive and so angry,

and he was just a completely
different person,

and I didn't think that we would
deal with conflict like this.

The big day out started really well
in the spa and the jacuzzi,

having a laugh and joke
with some of the newbies.

I wasn't expecting other people
getting involved, telling me

that I should be doing this
and I should be doing that,

which caused a little bit of divide.

It was a lot with the big day out.

Hearing people say they think Steven
likes me less than I like him,

it's uncomfortable.

A relationship shouldn't be
like that.

Yeah, I just wish Steven would
show me a bit more affection.

I shouldn't have to ask my husband
to hold my hand -

he should just do it
or want to do it.

That's what I'm normally used to.
That's what I like.

It's also what I want
in a relationship.

If what we've got now is
forever, that's not for me.

- How did your day out go?
- We had a great time.

There's been ructions
after these days out.

Oh, yeah. Everyone's, like,
gone in.

And you and I... Grace and Ashley,

the golden couple, who seen
that coming, right?

It's great up here, at the top.

Last night, I got a message
from Joe saying

that he's staying away from
the apartment.

I felt so alone and I've never,
ever,

ever, ever wanted to feel that way,

and I've never made him feel
that way.

It's sad. It's shit.

I know Joe's struggling,

I get that. He's got
a lot going on at the minute.

Obviously he's had a death
in the family,

but today he's not replied
my messages,

he's not rang me, like,
we've had no contact.

All I wanted was a message,
just to say everything's fine.

Yes, I get that you need space,

but, like, don't leave me hanging.

I spoke to Maeve after the spa day.
Her and Joe were staying separately.

I know.

I think...
I just I know he's struggling.

I had a conversation with him
at the spa and he opened up to me.

So what are the problems?

I think they just, they owe it to
each other to just communicate it.

I think she just feels a bit like,
"Where do I go from here?"

If he knows which way this
is going, put her out of her misery.

Do you know which way it's going?
Er...

Not really. It just is what it is,
isn't it?

No, look... I feel like you know
more than you're letting on. No.

Joe mentioned to me
that he maybe doesn't love Maeve.

The last thing I'd want to do

is betray Joe's trust when he's
first opened up, and go and tell,

because I know,
if I was going to tell Grace,

she'd go straight to Maeve.

I feel like I'm between a rock
and a hard place.

Hopefully he just opens
up to her now

and just tells her all his,
what he's thinking.

I'm nervous about
seeing Bailey this morning

because I haven't seen him yet.

I want to know
if he's got any awareness

around how he deals with conflict.

I did think it was weird
that you...

..you did end up leaving.

I decided to leave
because of the way you were being.

I thought, "I'm not spending
a night like that with someone."

I didn't shout, didn't swear.

I was just like, "No, I don't want
to talk." So you didn't shout.

You didn't swear.
You weren't confrontational.

You weren't aggressive.
I'm not saying anything like that.

But you weren't
who I knew you to be, like,

you were a completely
different person.

You wouldn't let me
come anywhere near you.

You wouldn't look at me in the eye.
I was upset.

But I didn't want to be around
that type of energy, like...

You're, like,
flipping this whole thing on me.

You had zero respect for me, then.

The way you was acting
is as if I'd slept with the guy.

You were being rude and nasty.

You flew off the handle
and you were too far.

That is not for me.

We had an agreement that I would
never pick

another girl in any discussion.

I said I wouldn't
answer these questions

and then you did it to me.

I couldn't believe you'd
done it, if I'm honest.

We had an agreement
that I would never pick

another girl in any discussion.

I said I wouldn't
answer these questions

and then you did it to me.

I couldn't believe you'd done it,
if I'm honest.

You did something to upset me -
agreed?

I did something to upset you,
100%.

I was upset, so you left
because I was upset.

I left because I didn't want
to be around that.

You also sat here and was
like, "I'm done, I'm done,

"I'm done." Yeah,
because I was annoyed.

Basically implying that you were
done with me and our relationship.

You're just shouting at me, just
going on. Because you're annoying
me.

This is like slapping someone in the
face

and then being like,
"Why are you crying like that?"

If I was asked who I fancy and
I picked any of the other girls,

how would your reaction be?

Would you sit there and like,
would you let me touch you?

I wouldn't be as, like, dismissive
and angry as you were.

You said to me you
would never be with

a man that ever
answered that question.

I know.
So you wouldn't be with me, then?

It's not... So you would leave me?

So your reaction would have been
much worse because you've said it.

You said, "If you ever pick
anyone else, we'd be done."

I know, I appreciate all of that.

I was just baffled that you said it,
that was it, and I was hurt.

I've felt so sad and upset
today because I've hurt you.

Because you mean so much to
me. I am sorry for doing it

because we've always
had this protective

bubble around us of,
like, having each other's backs.

And I feel like I have, like, like,

popped it,
like, ruined what we've got.

I don't think it's popped, do you
know what I mean? I do trust you.

I haven't changed how I
feel or how I'll act.

You all right? Yeah?

It's really emotional,
seeing Bec get upset.

You don't want to see anyone cry,
let alone your partner.

She made me think, fucking hell.

I don't know what's wrong with me.

It makes me realise
that I'm just happy

going through this with her.

I just wouldn't be able to
do it with anyone else.

I've got such deep feelings for him

and I don't want a life
without Bailey.

You moving back in?
I'll move back in.

I'm having a meltdown.
Oh. I'm having a fucking meltdown.

Come on in. My head's all over,
of course it is.

I'm in limbo right now. I don't
actually know what's going on,

so I need to talk to someone,

and Grace is very honest
and she just says how it is,

and that's what I need right now.

Oh, gal. Me head is just all over.

Yesterday, he didn't come back,

so I've rang him. Right.

He said he needed to have some
time away from the apartment. OK.

That was it.
How much space do you need?

Do you know what I mean?
I just feel like, I've just, like,

I'm just waiting here
for something bad to happen.

He should be aware of
how it's making you feel.

I just don't want to do this again.
I know.

It's every time.

Every time you think
you've met someone

and then they just fuck it up.
Do you know what I mean?

I knew something bad
was gonna happen.

I tell you, didn't I?

I knew. This is
what I always feel like.

It's always the case.

And you don't deserve it.

I'm just tired, man.

I'm starting to wonder

if Joe is maybe panicking
and trying to put the brakes on.

If that is the case, just tell her.
She deserves the truth and honesty.

Dragging it out, if he
has had a change of heart, is cruel.

Oh, Steven,
it's the envelope of doom.

Oh, God.

A thriving marriage
depends on couples accepting both

the things they cherish
about each other...

Gold letter. Oh, no.

..and the aspects
they find more challenging.

"Dear Abigail and John,

"this week you will be participating
in Love/Hate Week."

Oh, wow. Love/Hate Week
encourages newly-weds

to openly share their
preferences and frustrations,

helping them build a solid base
for their future together.

A realistic understanding
of your partner,

encompassing both their strengths
and weaknesses, is crucial

for fostering honesty
and acceptance.

Ooh. List three things you dislike

about your husband or wife.

I can't think of anything
I dislike about you.

Then list three things you love
about your husband or wife.

It'll be an interesting one, won't
it? Mm.

Can't wait to see
what you dislike about me.

Only three things that we love
about each other as well.

You must have a long list.

Oh, I'm excited about the love part,
but I'm not excited about the hate.

Love bits will be easy. Yeah,
and the hate bits will be easy, too.

No, I'm joking. Yeah, I think it
will be easy for you!

Well, here goes nothing. All right.

See you in a bit.
See you in a minute.

I'm genuinely really intrigued
to see what Leo puts for his hates.

I don't know if it will bring us
closer together as a couple

because it's gonna
depend what he says.

I'll see if I agree.

Probably not.

Good luck. Good luck.

The first half of
Love/Hate Week... Let's do this.

..involves the couples
spending time apart

to write a list of the aspects

of their marriage they
find more challenging.

I am going to start.
You give more to others than to us.

Yeah. I've always been

that person that's been there
for other people -

same with you. You make sure

that everyone is OK
and you check on everyone.

We just need everyone else
to pull their fingers out

and sort their marriages
out themselves.

I agree. Honestly,
it's not that hard.

So...you don't believe in yourself.

What I see in front of
me is an absolutely

amazing person
and you're the best wife.

You're more that I can ever imagine
and I just wish you could have

more confidence
in yourself about all of that.

I appreciate that.

Throughout my life,
I've had people put me down,

so I think that has, like, knocked
my confidence, like, a lot.

So I do kind of like, doubt myself
and doubt, am I good enough?

But it's definitely something

that I am working on
and you are helping me get there.

Like, through the short time
that I've known you already,

like, you have made me more
confident within myself.

So, yeah, thank you for that. Yeah.

John is helping me believe
in myself more and more,

and he makes me feel like
I am good enough.

I'm just really excited
because I'm just really happy

and I've never, ever felt that
way before about someone.

So, April,
the brutality of your honesty -

sometimes I wonder
whether it's deserved.

I agree, I can be a bit
too brutal sometimes.

If it helps, it's not just
you. It is everybody.

You should be nice to your husband.

OK, I don't think this will be a
shock.

You're not very inquisitive.
No, I completely agree.

Sometimes, when we have
conversations, I,

I draw a blank or there's nothing
much going on in my head.

I fucking knew it.

It's just a monkey
fucking clapping cymbals. Yeah!

I would say our biggest issue
is communication at the minute,

because I genuinely feel like I've
had way more

deeper conversations with half
the people in this experiment

than I have with Leo.
It's just very difficult to get

a free-flowing conversation out

of Leo and that's where I'm
struggling, so it's not ideal.

It's not what you want from your
partner.

Hey. How was that? Yeah, fine.

Off the back of the commitment
ceremony,

I had a lot to think about,

and I was really emotional
because it was a massive realisation

for me that I am still
affected by my past,

and I've been holding back
in this whole process.

So I've been more affectionate
towards

Leah and I feel like it's brought
us closer together as a couple.

I do think this task will be
helpful for me and Leah,

because it's always good to
work on that vulnerability.

So my one is you comment on how
good-looking you think people are.

I know you're not trying to be
muggy or anything like that,

but I think maybe it's just that
tiny little bit too far sometimes.

Yeah, I am very complimentary
with people.

Yeah, maybe I go too far with it.

I think, just to put your mind
at rest,

I don't mean it in a way of, like,
to ever disrespect you,

and I've never cheated,

and I never would cheat
and I'd never disrespect you.

No, I know that now.

Obviously, I do want you to know
that I do care about you a lot.

I care about you a lot.

OK.

I'm feeling nervous.

I don't actually have a clue
what Reiss is going to say.

We've had a couple
of different spats.

Is this going to create
more drama between us?

Honestly, I don't know. I hope not.

You start unnecessary arguments.

Give me receipts.
You made me breakfast.

I ate my breakfast

and then after, I said,
"Sha, do you want a cup of tea?"

Your response was, "No." Walked in
the shower and slammed the door.

I thought, "Oh, what's up with her?"

I was really hungry
and I just kind of wanted you to,

like, just like, butter my toast.

So, to save the argument,
I should have buttered your toast?

Yeah. OK.

I'll try and, like, think about
things before just saying it.

That's something
that maybe I need to take onboard.

All right, then, let me hear what
you've got.

Oh, God. OK. I hate that you are
not as spontaneous as me.

What? Your very strict
bedtime, Reiss. Nah.

We've gone to bed different
times every single night.

Yeah, I think I'm talking
a little bit more, like...

Oh.

You know, like... Yeah.

Our sex life has very much been
the same time every single night.

We don't need to just, like,
wait till the bedroom to, like,

like - any time, any place.

We'll spice it up a bit.
All right, yeah.

Yeah? I was a bit
surprised because, to me,

we are getting on all right and
that, but I'm not a machine.

She wants like three times,
four times a day and stuff.

The machine can just go
like any time, can't they?

Like Terminator. You can just
go, like, switch of a button.

No, I ain't got that button.

This is just a bit of a,
bit of a sticky one.

Why am I scared?

Me and Steven have
really been at rock bottom

and I'm thinking, "Surely it can't
get any worse than that?"

I truly think that it can
only get better from here.

This is the best time to tell him

what I don't like
and what he needs to change.

I just need to be honest.

I hate that you don't
like me as much as I like you.

There is obviously truth in it.

You do like me more
than what I like you.

It's not nice to hear

that he agrees and that I
like him more than he likes me.

No-one wants to hear it.
I need more affection.

I need to feel safe and secure,

it's what I want from
a relationship.

It's justified what you're
saying, absolutely,

but it's not like I don't like you.

The like's obviously still there,

it's just you're at a different
stage of that liking than what I am.

I know that anyway.

It's just I'll always try
and compliment you whenever I can.

I don't think I get it back
as much as I give it to you.

You've been brought
up to be more complimentary

of people, where I haven't.

We still like one another,
you're just further ahead. Yeah.

I personally feel I'm on
the right tracks with things

and where I want the
relationship to be at.

I understand Nelly
might have wanted me

to open up quicker,

but I think she's a great girl
and she cares for me a lot.

Just, for now, she's still slightly
ahead of me on the like front.

I hate that you have to
ask for affection.

Do you not feel that, though,
if I'm having to ask you,

it's because I'm not
getting it enough?

My whole point is I want
it to feel natural,

like, to the point
where you're not asking.

This is all as a result of what's
happened in the past to me,

which I know is not fair to you.

It gets harder the more
and more you get hurt,

so that's why I am the way I am.

I need to understand that you've
had your own experiences

and this is what you
want going forward.

I'll definitely try and work on it.

Maybe I need to
just loosen up a bit.

OK, so you're not romantic enough.

Probably used to be romantic.

Why aren't you any more?
Just a bad dating issue, I suppose.

Every time you do something
romantic, something bad happens.

First time I bought flowers
for someone,

the first thing they thought was,

"He's only buying me this now
because he's done something wrong,

"he's trying to hide something."

I would never think that.
If you wanted,

if you'd like to buy me flowers once

a month,
I would think that's really nice.

But I don't want you to
think that it's a case of

I walk in and I have a bath ready

with rose petals
or anything like that.

It's a lack of thought of, like,
just spending time together.

I want you to want to
spend time with me.

It's just little things
like that, that's all.

Fair points. Yeah?

I want to be romantic with Nelly.
I need to do more actions or,

like, say, a lot more than
what I've actually done.

I've no doubt in my mind this is
going to bring us closer together.

I think ironing out
these points now,

we're going to be able just to draw

the line under it and move
forward in a positive light.

Hearing your ones, I think you're
so right

and I agree with them,
and I actually am really

looking forward
to putting it into practice.

I feel so much better
after the chat with Steven,

just because he knows what's

in the way of us moving
forward and progressing.

It's a fresh week.
Embrace what's getting

thrown our way
and then we can just crack on.

Let's just move past it.

At this moment, I haven't seen my
wife since the argument that we had.

There's a lot of questions
that I need answered.

I'm confused about all of this.
I'm hoping to get advice from Bailey

and see what his perspective
is on, uh, our relationship.

Hello, geezer. What are you saying?
You all right?

Yeah? Cool? Good bro, you?
Come in mate, yeah.

I have heard Julia-Ruth and Divarni
have been sleeping together,

but it seems like maybe
she hasn't been telling him

the things that she's
telling everyone else.

How are you doing, bro?
Are you all right?

I don't know. I don't know. Um...

A very intense conversation
with Julia-Ruth.

Was it a lot? Yeah.

I do feel like I have to
tell you a few things.

What have you been hearing, man?

She said, "I've told
that boy ten times

"I don't fancy him.
I've told him I don't fancy him."

She said to the girls that she
doesn't think you're her type.

She says she don't
think you'll ever be her type.

Hmm-hmm. Has she
been saying that to you?

Nah, she hasn't and that's
the thing. Fucking hell.

She's been saying something
totally different

to everyone else and
behind closed doors.

It's not fair. Like, you've
been totally respectful

and, in my opinion,
she hasn't towards you.

She's more concerned
about the image... Yes.

..rather than your actual feelings.

It's very muggy in my eyes.

If I knew that,

I could have just put my hands
up and just been like,

"Yo, why am I physically here?"
Yeah. I don't know what to do.

His head must be totally scrambled
and this is all coming from a girl

that he cares about
and really likes.

It's out of order, isn't it?

That's the only word for it.
It's bang out of order.

If I was in his situation

and it was my partner
that had done that,

I personally couldn't see
a way you could work through that.

I've got strong feelings for her,

but these strong feelings
mean nothing

if they're not going to go
anywhere, innit? Yeah.

It's not fair, mate.

I feel like she might
actually be embarrassed.

That's probably why, like,
she wanted me to,

like, not tell everybody
about the intimacy part.

I don't want to do that,

but obviously I'm respecting
my wife's wishes.

It does, like, raise questions.
It's been very tough.

Caring for someone
that may not care for you is...

..it's tragic.
The next thing I need is just

an open conversation on how she
truly feels.

If Julia-Ruth is here to waste my
time, I'm not here for it.

You better go first, so I don't feel
bad when I read mine out.

Are they bad, are they?
No, they're not too bad.

I hate that you don't
understand my humour

because I feel like you just
don't, don't get it at all.

Sometimes I think you think your
humour's funnier than it is.

But other people find it
funny, just not you.

Yeah, you love
that kind of, old-school,

my wife's such a drag,

that kind of humour, which obviously
I'm not gonna like. Yeah.

It makes me feel like your cheap
gag that makes everyone else laugh

is more important
to you than upsetting me.

My humour is never personal,

it's just a funny thing to
say in the moment.

There's a level of joke and then
there's a bit of disrespect,

so I would love it if you could
reflect on that as well,

because it's in front
of other people.

So you're telling me I only do it
when there's other people about?

I think, for the most part,
it's for the benefit of other people.

So this is the issue - you think
I'm doing it for other people

when really I'm just doing it...
That's exactly what I'm saying. OK.

I don't do it for an audience.

And how do I react when you
do it, if it's just us,

if you are doing it?
Sometimes you take it as a joke

and then other times you just shut
down and make it into a thing.

I've told you I don't like it.
So, when I tell you you've done it,

I remind you,
I don't really like that,

you transfer it back to me,
you deflect it.

"You're the problem. You should
laugh. You should do this."

How about you're accountable
for the fact you've upset me

and that I don't
like those particular type of jokes,

and that you continue to make them
anyway, for the sake of other people?

It's just learning about each other,
isn't it? Yeah, that's all it is.

I'm a little bit taken aback
by Ash's response.

I do understand Ash's humour.

It's just part of his humour
that I don't find funny,

that I've asked him to nip
in the bud,

which he's struggling to do

because I don't like jokes
that paint me in a bad light.

That's where we're butting heads -

his humour is at my
expense a lot of the time.

Right? Ready for mine?

I hate that your initial
reaction to a dispute

is to assume it's something
I'm doing wrong.

OK.

But isn't
that a little bit hypocritical

because it's normally something
that you think that I've done wrong?

Yeah. I just mean, like, things like
this morning, we've obviously had

a tiff last night, and this morning,
when you summarised it,

the summary was Grace is being
a dick.

Right? No reflection on your
actions,

your behaviour, how it came to be.

We haven't even argued once
this week yet.

Yeah. No.

No. Nah, not really.

Just a drunken dispute.

Grace was being a dick.
We can't really...

Oh.

You kill me, Ash, you kill me.

I can't believe you've just turned
around and said that,

because that was 100% said in
a joke that you laughed at.

You're saying that I put it on you?
It's always on me

and, to be honest, I'm doing...
It's not always on you,

but, in this circumstance,
we both contributed to a tiff.

The summary of it
cannot be that I'm a dick,

when you said you were
going to do this...

Oh, this is bullshit. OK.

I'm always the problem, Grace.

I'm always the one that's doing
something wrong.

You're not always the problem.

But you understand, sorry, Ash,
you understand that we have a task

now that I've been asked to say
the things I don't like?

But the fact
that nothing was mentioned

in that moment, when it happened
and you laughed at it,

and now you've brought it to me
in a task.

But is that not
what you've asked me to do?

No, I've always asked you to be open
and honest about it...

You've never asked me to be playful
and laugh it off...

Yeah. ..when you make a joke?
You've never asked me to do that?

Right, you took it as a joke.
You took it as a joke,

and now you're putting it in as

though I've just called you a dick,
and you've made it serious.

You've made me look
like a...like a mug in a task.

OK, sorry.
I don't agree with it at all

and it's kind of... I feel it's a
bit muggy.

I do feel a bit pissed off.

She just tried to sideswipe me
there with something

that was really innocent
and fucking funny

in the moment, that she laughed at.

She turned it as though I
was calling her a dick

and blaming everything on her,

and that. I've changed loads
of myself to be with Grace,

so do I want
to change this bit of me as well?

This, yeah, it was a task...

..so, sorry to have upset you.

Honestly, I didn't think he would
react like that.

I thought he'd be like,
"Yeah, that's a good example."

He's, again, not being accountable

for the words he says
and how they make people feel.

It's frustrating.

She's looking for the perfect man
and there's no way that exists.

So, if she can't come to
terms with that,

then this isn't going to work.

Where are we going?

That would defeat the point in a
surprise, but we're going this way.

For the next phase of
Love/Hate Week,

the couples must reveal the things
they like about one another.

I understand that I'm not good at
leading. OK, no, you're not. Whoa,
fuck me.

To do this, Keye has decided to take
Davide to a

special surprise location.

Have you guessed where we are yet?
No. A little inkling? No. No?

I have a surprise for D today.

He will be meeting and feeding
otters, his favourite animal.

Davide does wonderful things
for me

each and every day,
and it is nice to give back. Oh, and

we're sharing our loves with
each other today,

so it's going to be such a good day.

You ready? Yes.

Today, you are going to be meeting
an otter.

Shut up. Shut up. Really?

I'm really excited. Otters
are my favourite animal.

I can hear them. I can hear them.
I can hear them.

Otters hold hands because they

don't like to drift away with their
partners, they're really cute.

We hold hands like otters,
so it makes sense.

How can you not love these animals,
honestly? They're so cute!

Keye has outdone himself today. It
is a dream come true, though, it is

something that I never
thought I would be able to do.

This is for you, Bubba.

I love it. So, so special. Enjoy it.
Thank you.

This is amazing.

Obviously,
yesterday was the hate list.

Yeah. Today's the love day!

Something that I love about you is

actually the way that I don't have
to change nothing about myself.

I can just be me.
I don't have to hide

the flamboyant side or anything. You
just make me feel that comfortable.

I love that you're completely
authentically yourself,

so unapologetically, and it's the
best thing about you, honestly.

Love you, honestly, loads.

Keye planned literally the perfect
date.

I feel like, after Love/Hate
Week, me and Keye are going

from strength to strength.
There's no other way to put it,

I love this man. He makes me
feel special and safe.

What else can I ask?
Just love him.

Ready for all the love?
This was definitely a lot easier

than writing the hate ones.

Yeah, me too.

Are you ready? I'm ready.

You're very tactile.

What does tactile mean?

I thought it meant, like,

if you were, like, super
fast and sneaky.

Bloody hell.

Is that not what it means?

Tactile means touch. Oh.
So you're a touchy person.

Yeah. I'm someone...
Tactile, see? Tactile.

No, too tactile. Too tactile.
Too tactile.

Yep. You always teach me new words.

What I love about you, April, is...

..yo booty.

I was, to be fair, I was
a little bit worried that

you were gonna say something
superficial...

..cos that is superficial. Ugh...

..I really didn't want a
superficial answer.

It's definitely a fear that this is
just his personality. There isn't

a lot of depth, do you know what I
mean? That is the problem.

I need him to take the lead in
conversations a bit more, you know?

We need a bit more depth. Like,

personality is bigger
to me than physical attraction.

I need that. Bit of a wasted one,
that, maybe.

Hello, baby girl.
I've been waiting for this.

I'm excited.
This one's an important one for me.

Probably the most important
one, I guess.

Bum and boobs, it
was really hard to decide.

Bailey!

I love them both equally.
But, no, I'm joking!

Um... I love your humour
and your energy.

Honestly, all we do is laugh.
You're always cracking jokes,

I love that. I just want
to spend my whole life laughing,

do you know what I mean?

So it's really important that I have
someone that I can do that with,

and you are that person.
Cool. That's really good.

I like that one.
Perfect. Right.

Your massive... Yeah, massive what?

Sense of humour.
OK. Sense of humour.

She's very happy
in the humour department.

Yeah, we're happy
in a lot of departments.

You never wake up in a
different mood.

You wake up funny, laughing,

singing, like, you are a ball of
energy

and I love that about you.

I never knew that I needed somebody

that had such a big personality,
until I was with you

and I was like, actually, I would
never want to let that go.

Doing all right then, ain't we?

Yeah. Done all right, girl.

Things with me and Bec are great.

The argument's done.
We've put a pin in it.

To be fair, if anything, actually,
Bec seems to be a bit closer to me

after that,
and I feel exactly the same.

R and B are definitely back.

We're back on track,
we're both super happy,

and Love/Hate Week
has definitely helped with that.

I just received a text

from Divarni saying
that he wants to have another talk.

I'm not quite sure
what to make of it

because the last talk that we had

didn't really go well at all.
It was quite heated

and it felt like two people
were just screaming at a wall,

so it's been made really messy
and muggy.

Hello.

Hello. We're at the point
where conversations need to be had.

This shit is hurting me the most
because it's like, being intimate,

I don't know as to why you don't
want people to know that.

How are you feeling?
Not particularly great.

The problem is the fact

this is making me
look like I'm some delusional guy.

That's a slap in the
fucking face, especially

because we know the truth.

And I don't care whether people know
that we have sex or not - you do.

If you're embarrassed
of me like, shit,

say it with your chest
because...

I've said it before. I've said
we've had attraction issues!

What's the attraction issues?
I've answered it a million times,

it's the height.

So that means you've been leading
me on emotionally for what?

I haven't been leading you on.
You haven't? So why have sex?

Why have sex multiple times if you
haven't? Because I wanted to see

if there was something there.
It felt good. I feel safe with you.

So you're having sex with someone
that you're not attracted to.

It's not that... That you have
no emotional connection with.

How do you think that feels?
There's lots of qualities and traits

that you have that I've never had
before,

and that's why I focus
so much on trying to get to know

you, and having fun with you,
and building that connection.

Clearly, it hasn't worked out for me
by just going off of looks solely.

If you can't answer to the experts,

who actually are here
to improve our relationship,

one simple question about
anything with intimacy...

I'm not saying that we never made

a pact to never talk
about intimacy on camera.

We made a pact to talk about it
when we were both ready.

This is a two-way street,
so please do not play this game.

Just gets to the point
where enough is enough,

to be fair. Yeah, I agree, fine.

I think Julia-Ruth is embarrassed
to be with me because it's always,

"You're not attractive enough.
You're not tall enough."

There's so many different things
that keeps coming in my direction,

but now I have to really
think about if there's going

to be any form of progression

or if we're just going to part ways.

Are you excited? I am excited.

Can you tell me what we're
going to do now? No.

As Love/Hate
Week draws to a close,

Leah and Leigh
are completing the task

on a special date planned by Leah.

It's nice to just
organise something that's

going to make her feel special.

Oh, look at you. Isn't it cute?
It is really cute.

I feel like it's really important
for me to be romantic

because I want her to see
that I do care,

that she can trust me,
and make sure she's aware

that I do pick up on all
the things she likes.

For you. Red and white
because it's like our wedding day.

Oh, I was hoping
that you'd actually remember that.

Yeah, that's really sweet.

I can see all the effort
you've put in

and this is actually really cute,
and this is good vibes.

I'm excited to just spend some time

with Leah and have
some fun together.

I feel like, in the little
things that she does,

it shows me how she feels

and that is one big thing
that grows my feelings for her.

What feels different
for you this week with me?

I feel like you're more open
now, aren't you?

Yeah. Good. I thought I'd been

so open in this process,
but, realistically,

I hadn't been. I hadn't
been being vulnerable.

And so, like, when I go to
hold back, I'm like,

"No, don't do that."

And then I'm just going
with it in the moment.

I can definitely vouch for
you on that 100%.

I mean, ultimately, if you can

feel the difference from me,
that is all I care about.

I definitely feel closer to Leigh.

She's getting a little
bit deeper on her feels.

It's definitely a turning point.

If you don't love me at the
end of this boat ride,

I've done something wrong

because I think this is like
ten out of ten,

I love you, type of thing.

Do you love me, then? No.

Speaking of love... Yeah.

..I think we should share our loves
about each other.

We done our hates yesterday.

So, my loves for you would be that

you make me feel safe.

Aw. Like, scenarios like this,

sometimes, initially, I'll think,
"For fuck's sake, Leah,

"why have you done that?"
But then when I'm in the moment,

I kind of feel better
that you're there,

because you make me
feel grounded and safe.

That's cute. Just hearing
that, it's nice to hear

because I just didn't
ever think you felt like that.

Yeah. What's yours?

Come on now, tell me
what you love about me.

I love when you laugh. Right, God.
You look like a little bit geeky,

like... Cheers, Leah.
..so it's like a cute thing.

It's cute. Ah, I love us.

I've always known that Leah's a
really thoughtful person,

but I've really felt
how much she cares about me today,

and to be at a place
where I'm feeling the best

that I've felt this whole time
with Leah,

it's just so reassuring and it just
makes me feel calm and relaxed,

and that's what I've been searching
for this whole time.

Painting!
I'm feeling a little bit on edge.

I've arranged a fun
date for Ash and I.

We haven't really spoken

since we had the hate aspect
of the Love/Hate task,

so I'm not really sure how
the date's going to go down.

What are we painting?
Um, I don't know.

Do you want to paint
each other? Can do.

I'm happy that Grace
has arranged this date

because it's like
her making an effort,

but I'm not really in a good
place with Grace today.

We haven't really spoken.
I didn't sleep well.

I've been kind
of running over things.

She caught me off guard,

and she completely reworded
what happened

and left out major bits

and just said that,
like, I called you a dick.

It almost feels personal.
Yeah, I can't help

but feel a little bit betrayed
in this moment

and I don't really know
how to move past it.

I just, I'm sick to death
with feeling

like I've got to protect
my character.

But you don't. I
trust your character.

I don't want you to
feel like that either.

I feel like I've done
that since I've got here.

Sorry that you feel defensive.
I just literally made a joke.

I said, "Oh, sorry.
It was just Grace being a dick,"

and I smiled at you
and you laughed back at me.

In that moment, if you'd have
turn around and gone,

"Don't call me a
dick," I'd have gone,

"Oh, fuck, yeah.
Sorry, I'm wrong there."

Because that's the way we do things.

But why did you wait until the
cameras

were on to then bring it in there
and completely, like, reword it?

Have you not asked me to be more
playful and to take it as a joke?

But you didn't take it as a joke,
then, obviously. I can't win with
you.

You want me to laugh
it off and be playful.

You want me to call you out
in the moment.

You've got to tell me, Ash.

I'm very willing, Ash,

and I'm very ready
to take accountability,

to take the blame and to be
responsible if something's my fault.

And I think what's happened here is

you are very ready
to make it my fault.

You'll quite happily shift the
blame to me and I will take it.

I always feel like
I'm in a bad light.

You always feel
like I'm attacking your character.

And you seem to be struggling
with your role in that.

I don't, do you know what?
I'm tired.

I'm just, I haven't slept... OK.

..and I don't even feel like
arguing.

I just, I don't, I don't feel
like... I'm sorry.

I just...sorry.

This isn't me. I just don't know...

Grace is fucking hard work.

I've proved myself to everybody
else in the experiment.

I just, I...

Have I got to keep
proving myself to Grace?

Because I don't think I can
do it forever.

I feel like Love/Hate Week's
amplified

how I do get mixed
messages from Ash.

I can't get it right.

I'm always going to be
the problem, no matter what I do.

I find it a bit frustrating.

He is keeping us
in the same space we started.

For as long as he
doesn't let things go

and move forward, we'll stay there.

Let's go, date night.
Yes, date night.

Thank you for organising.

I have a plan for a date
night with Nelly

and hopefully she can see

that I'm trying my hardest
to be more romantic.

Come on, you.

Thank you.

Sometimes it's nice to wine
and dine someone as well,

and just have some alone time.

Lovely.

Oh. I love a bit of sushi.

It feels really nice that Steven
has decided to take me on a date.

So, after going through our hates,
I thought I'd put in some practice -

one of your points of being a
little bit more romantic.

Now we can tell each other how much
we like each other,

instead of just thinking about hate,
hate, hate.

Yeah, I know. Well, cheers,
and thank you so much.

He has heard what I've said
and put it into action,

and showing me a bit

more of his romantic side,
so I just hope he keeps it up

and it's not just a one-time thing.

Since you've organised this lovely,

fancy dinner to go over
what we love about each other,

I will let you do the honours,
because I went first last time.

All right, one of the things
that I love about you is

that you're actually a really
caring person.

I haven't had anyone who's sort of
cared for me in a way that you have.

Really? So it's still new to me to
have this

and have someone put my thoughts

and feelings, sort of, ahead of
theirs.

It's definitely
a number one thing for me.

And I think, like,

I haven't done it enough and sort
of, like,

putting you on that pedestal,

and I think it kind of needs
to be reciprocated.

So that's what I like about you the
most.

Why am I smi...? That, I didn't
expect, that was so nice. Thank you.

So, one of the things I love about

you is actually how
confident you are.

You don't really care about
what people think.

It's really sexy, just the way
that you don't care.

I think sometimes it gets me
in trouble a little bit, though,

I think my confidence, so...
But I kind of like it.

I'm glad you think that.

I also really love how
funny you are

because you make me laugh constantly

and it's a really attractive
quality.

I feel the fun element's
gone

and we need to be more fun around
one another

and, whenever someone's feeling
down,

one of us needs to light up that
room.

Yeah, because, honestly,

I think, once we sort
out this communication thing,

I do actually think we'd be really,
really good.

I think it has been a really
beneficial day,

like, even talking about things we
hate about one another is...

Yeah, I still enjoyed that. Yes.
It's definitely been a blessing.

It's definitely helped us going
forward.

Yeah.

Love/Hate Week
has actually made me really hopeful

that Steven is determined
and wanting to make it work.

It's kind of built me back
up a little bit.

So, yeah, I actually feel loads
better now.

Pretty nervous about seeing Maeve.
I haven't seen her

for a couple of days,
as I've taken a bit of a time-out.

My grandad passed away

and being in this bubble,
I've just found it hard to process.

I want to explain what's been going
on with me,

the reasons why I've been feeling
the way I've been feeling.

I'm not a very argumentative person,

but she can go from nought
to 100 pretty quickly.

I don't want her to go off on one
and it all just end really badly,

so, yeah, I'm, I'm pretty nervous
about how she's gonna react.

You all right?

I can't even look at him.

Like, you've been gone for two
days. You've not spoke to us.

I've just been waiting here like
an absolute idiot.

I look like a dick.

I just needed some time away, just
to,

like, think about things. Hmm-hmm.

I've been really trying to, like,

think about our compatibility on
the outside.

Is it just this bubble
and as soon as,

like, in the outside world,
would me and you really work?

Oh... If we're honest with each
other,

can you really see us working on
the outside?

I didn't think this was
how this conversation

was going to go. I really didn't.

What do you mean? Like,

I have felt like I've been
a little bit, like, mugged off.

How am I mugging you off?
It's OK for you

to have two days
off to get your head together,

but I've been in this
fucking chaos, spiralling.

I can't help the way I'm feeling.

You needed time to make sure
that you were OK

and I just felt alone.
And, obviously,

the first time I see you is now,

so I didn't know what was going on.
I'm feeling fucking overwhelmed.

But what...? Why? I don't get it.

That's how I feel!

And I'm trying not to
raise my voice,

and I'm trying to not fucking
be loud,

but I literally just need five
minutes.

I'm getting emotional
because what I personally deserve

is happiness and fucking honesty,
and I'm not getting that right now.

He's saying that he loves us and
he's saying that I'm a great person.

You can't just go from one thing
to another.

I've been sitting in here
for two days, thinking,

"Is he coming back? Is he not?

"Do I pack my bag?"
Like, I'm actually drained.

You've had time to get out
of this, I've not.

My head is up my arse right now.

Right, OK, well,
we need to just leave it there.

I don't really know where
this leaves me and Maeve.

It's still frustrating for me
that we can't openly communicate.

Me and Maeve's marriage right
now is very much up in the air

because we're not actually
discussing the problems between us.

I can't believe
that Joe left me again.

What the fuck's going on?

Next time...

Are you ready to take our
intimacy to the next level?

..Leigh no sooner enjoys a
breakthrough with her own wife...

Yes.

..before she's on a collision
course with another...

She's a little snake.

I have fuck all to say to you,
Julia-Ruth.

You're the one in the wrong.

..as Julia-Ruth faces
a backlash from the entire group.

She's been slating
you since day one,

and her opinion hasn't changed.

She's been saying it
to all the girls, mate.

This relationship is fake.

I'm gonna leave. I'm not doing this.

I was here for a husband -
I found one. I don't need fame.

She is making an absolute
mockery of the experiment.