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This programme contains
strong language
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This is insane.
Previously...
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The experiment's
three new couples... Wow!
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...set off on their first adventures.
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This is incredible. But for some...
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Do you visualise me
and your future?
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...newlywed bliss was hard to come
by.
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Don't need pressure yet.
It's so early.
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We haven't had a lot of time
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to actually sit down
and ask personal questions.
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I disagree.
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And...
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Yeah!
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...as friends and family arrived...
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Are you in love? No, I am in love
with him.
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Can't imagine my
life without him.
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I'm in love with Davide,
completely and utterly in every way.
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...uncomfortable truths...
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Muttered under my breath,
"BLEEP idiot."
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I said
that I'd got a bit of the ick.
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...prompted damning critiques.
What possessed you?
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Is that normal?
You can't accept that.
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She needs to not be allowed
to say shit and get away with it.
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Do I let go, or do I stay and fight?
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Tonight... Hi!
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Oh, hello. ..the dinner party's new
arrivals steal the spotlight.
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They're hot. Blue eyes.
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Oh, of course you BLEEP noticed.
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I like to meet somebody and
there's, like, that flirty vibe.
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I'm pissed off.
But Leisha's debut...
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Everybody else is holding hands.
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I stopped doing it because you said,
"Don't hold my BLEEP hands."
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To me, it's, like, immature.
...fails to impress.
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Do you think you should be sat on
a plane talking to a boy...
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I've had past relationships.
That's never been a problem.
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Um... no,
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Babe, you just
had a honeymoon with this man.
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I felt disrespected.
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And candid questions...
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Do you feel like there's a spark?
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No. What am I supposed to say?
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...cause a marital meltdown.
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Just can't keep doing it.
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Can't change my feelings.
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There you go, love. Hot.
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Ooh, that's so nice.
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This is your second baby massage.
Yeah. How many have I had?
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Five.
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Yay! Happy birthday!
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It's the morning of the experiment's
third dinner party.
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I love you. I love you.
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Me and Sarah, we're not
in the best place.
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My best friend James coming
down really kind of hit me.
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He was asking some questions
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that I've probably not answered
to myself.
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It's reminded me I'm here
for me as well as Sarah.
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I can't be disrespected again.
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We have had a bit of a tricky
couple of weeks, a tricky start.
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You know, a lot on my part,
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I was, you know, maybe behaving
in ways that I'm not proud of.
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The last few weeks have
been really difficult.
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I can't help the way I'm feeling.
I can see Dean is a great guy,
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but I'm just struggling to get
that spark.
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But I'm trying.
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How are you feeling?
Last week was just, er... Hellish.
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Yes. Yeah.
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It was good to see my brother and
sister
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and to see how Steven and I are
doing.
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But I think it just reiterated
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and reaffirmed that Steven and I
weren't in a good place.
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Right now, um, with Steven,
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I just need his words backed
up by actions.
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We were clashing at that time.
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My sister and brother,
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they'll always try
and see it from my side,
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so you're gonna get called out.
You're going to get upset by it.
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They have to tell you off a little
bit.
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Last week was a hellish week
for the pair of us.
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I'd say Nelly and I are small steps
back to where we were.
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This week, we've been intimate
with one another,
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but my only worry
about Nelly and I's relationship,
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she's putting on the affection
a little bit too much
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and it's like, "Come here, give me
a kiss, give me a smooch."
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I'm like...
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It needs
to be a calmer week for us.
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Deal with what happened,
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forget about it and just kind
of work on getting closer again.
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I'm hoping at the dinner party,
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Nelly's not too forward
with things.
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I'll quite happily hold her hand
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and give her a kiss every now
and then,
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but I think if she's wanting one
every two minutes,
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it's like, what do you need?
Like, what do you want?
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Are you excited to hear how it's
gone for everyone else this week?
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I actually am. You know, like,
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I want to know what everyone else's
in-laws
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have thought about each other.
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We've been all right.
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You know what I mean?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Me and Joe, like, I think the
relationship's going pretty good,
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but obviously now we need to talk
about, like,
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what's going to happen next.
We've not actually thought
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about what we're going to do
when we're out of here.
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You said that you were going to come
to Newcastle.
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I said, if... things progress
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and we are together on the outside,
because you've got Archie,
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it would be me
that would have to move.
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I mentioned that I might move,
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but it's a long way to get to
that point.
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We're still really early
into this experiment.
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We just need to see
what happens with our relationship.
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Oh.
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How are you? I'm all right. I'm OK.
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Energy was a little
bit low this morning.
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Last week,
I felt like we went into a war zone.
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I don't agree with people that,
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like, shout to communicate.
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You yelled at me multiple times.
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Did I not take accountability
for it?
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If I feel
like I'm being attacked verbally,
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my body will shut down.
This isn't normal.
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Hopefully, there will
be less drama this week.
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I'm very passionate
and trying to just progress forward
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and just have a strong relationship
with Julia-Ruth.
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I don't think it's perfect
or smooth sailing.
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We've both got our little things
to work on and that,
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and we'll both just be patient
with each other.
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Ah! I'm guessing this is our room,
then. Yeah.
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As the existing couples get ready
for tonight's dinner party...
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Oh, wow!
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...they're unaware that six more
newlyweds
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are moving into the apartments
and will be joining them.
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Oh, my gosh, look at this.
Look at the photo.
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Oh, that's cute!
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Oh, my gosh,
that's our forehead photo!
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That was the awkward photo.
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It'll be good to see
what the other couples are doing,
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how they're getting on.
Yeah, definitely.
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I'm excited to hear about everyone's
honeymoons and where they've been.
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I feel really good being back from
the honeymoon with Leo.
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The chemistry was there from
the wedding day,
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so that hasn't really been
an issue for us, I guess.
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But there is definitely some
concerns
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with the lack of leading a
conversation,
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or if I'm not talking,
is there going to be any talking?
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So, yeah, I mean,
that's a continuous worry.
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But I think it's just going
to be nice now to get settled in.
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Back to a bit of normality.
Yeah, definitely.
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Definitely.
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How are you feeling being here now?
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I really like Reiss.
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I feel like as the days
are going on,
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I'm getting to fall for him
every single day.
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But I haven't been getting
the same response from Reiss.
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Do you feel
like you're falling for me, though?
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Do you feel like you like me?
Falling for you?
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Easy, girl. It's been, like,
two days.
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On their honeymoon, Leisha and Reiss
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found themselves moving at different
speeds in their marriage.
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I know what I want.
I need to get there quickly.
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All you're going to do
is push me away.
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I'm just trying to be vulnerable
and let you know,
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like, my insecurity.
I'm not here to attack you.
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I just need to know
that you're on the same page.
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That flight was horrendous, wasn't
it?
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Yeah, someone had one too many,
didn't they?
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The flight back from Thailand
was very eventful with Leisha.
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She decided to, like,
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knock a few of the wines back,
come up to me covered in sick.
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I'm a bit of a lightweight, aren't
I?
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That is grim. Sorry!
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She got changed, that was that,
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and then I went to get
up to go to the toilet
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and then realised
that Leisha was standing
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at the back of the plane talking
to some fella for about an hour.
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So when we landed, I just said to
her, "I didn't really like
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"that you were speaking to a fella
for, like, an hour and a bit
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"whilst you're married and coming
back from your honeymoon."
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You had too many wines.
Way too many.
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Reiss is frosty with me
after the journey.
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I am slightly worried.
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I can tell it's still maybe niggling
at him.
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How do you think the dinner went
with Nicole and Paula?
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I would never normally get angry
in front of guests.
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This is the last time I'll mention
this,
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but I am not speaking about
Rebecca.
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I don't need to bring it up.
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It doesn't need to be a thing.
I just want to move forward.
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Ahead of the dinner party,
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Leisha and Reiss have decided to pay
a visit to one of their neighbours.
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I'm so excited!
I'm so excited to meet everyone.
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I want to see if they're happy
in their couples.
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KNOCKING AT DOOR
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Oh, hello!
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Oh!
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Come in. Hi.
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Hi! How are you?
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What's your name? Leisha.
I'm Leigh.
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Leigh and... Leah. When did you just
get here, just now?
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Yeah, literally just arrived.
Oh. 12-hour flight.
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Oh, really? Where have yous been?
Thailand.
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Was it good? Unreal. Yeah.
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Sick. Are yous,
like, well-matched?
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Couple of little barneys.
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Oh, really?
Are yous each other's type?
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Yeah. Oh, that's good.
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First impressions of
Reiss and Leisha is, fit and fit.
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I can definitely see them being
a few people's types,
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including myself.
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We needed something to spice it up.
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Because of my past, I'm a little
bit hypersensitive
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to flirty behaviour.
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There's been a lot of emotions
and a lot of things going on
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that have been getting to my head
a little bit.
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Me and Leah have been through
the situation with Rebecca
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and me feeling like Leah was being
too flirty with Rebecca,
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and now she's doing it again.
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I'm so excited about the dinner
party.
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How are you feeling? Same.
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I'm looking forward
to showing everyone my wife. Aw!
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I know, and my husband!
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So what do you think of the new
couple?
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I think they look gorgeous together.
She's definitely a girl's girl.
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I like it when someone's tactile
straight away,
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it means
that they're quite friendly.
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Well, here we are, almost at
the midpoint in the experiment,
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and this is
where things start to get real.
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Now, of course,
we have three new couples.
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Very exciting. And coming off
the back of In-laws Week,
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the couples are forced
to really rehash
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and relive every bit
of their experience.
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First here. Happy days. More drink
for me! More booze for you.
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I can't wait. Maeve and Joe,
looking like a united couple
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on the back of both of them
saying that they love each other.
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It's obviously helped them
to grow closer together,
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and I think that's
what we're seeing here.
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Very quiet when no-one else is here,
like, innit?
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You look great. Thanks, darling.
So do you. Matching again.
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I know, matchy-matchy.
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Hey! Whoa!
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Hello! Hi, guys. How are you doing?
I'm all right, you?
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Here's Divarni and Julia-Ruth.
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Last time we saw Julia-Ruth and
Divarni,
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there was quite a bit of friction
going on there,
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so I'm hoping there's been some
progress.
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We'll all sit down together, yeah?
Yeah. What's been happening?
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So we had Divarni's cousin come.
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Yeah. And then I had my two best
friends come as well.
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It was just really intense,
250
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because they were both trying
to defend and protect us.
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Yeah. Why was it heated?
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We just went over, just stuff that
we went through already
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in our honeymoon, literally opening
up a wound that was already closed
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and then it was just raw emotions
bringing it back,
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you know what I mean?
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Right.
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I think Divarni is indirectly saying
that he doesn't see any benefit
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in bringing up old wounds.
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Not every bit of conflict needs
to be resolved,
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but if you can't go back
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and address it,
it means that it still is an issue.
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That's right. Yeah.
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Hey!
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Sarah and Dean.
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Last time we saw Sarah, we had
to give her some home truths
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around the disrespect that she gave
Dean.
267
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So hopefully, they've had a better
week.
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You all good? No. My best mate came.
Threw me off a bit.
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He's like,
"I know you protect everyone.
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"It's in your nature,
but are you making sure you're OK?"
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And I was like, "Yeah,
maybe I need to take it on board."
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To hear it from your best mate
from home, you're like, OK.
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After that, I kind of left
a little bit deflated, to be fair.
274
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So I think for Dean,
hearing his best friend question,
275
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"Are you looking after yourself
in this relationship?",
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it's going to have a really
strong impact on him.
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I wonder if Dean's friends are
actually saying
278
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what he knows deep down.
279
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It doesn't sound like he's shocked
by this feedback at all.
280
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I think he knows this. Yeah.
281
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How was your In-laws Week?
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Um, it was just good to sort of
hear
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both of their, you know, like,
advice and...
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Yeah. So, yeah. Onwards and upwards.
285
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Um, yeah.
286
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And what about you, Miss Maeve?
287
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Sarah's completely dodged
that question.
288
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Yeah. Deflect. Mm-hm.
289
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Hey!
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Hello, bubbas! Hi!
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Nelly and Steven.
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Hello! How are you?
Last time we saw Steven and Nelly,
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they were not in a good place.
294
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And it looks like they're
at least signalling
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that they are a united front.
296
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How's your week been?
Well, obviously,
297
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last week was hell.
We've had In-Laws Week.
298
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It was really nice seeing my brother
and sister.
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I feel like the start
of last week,
300
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I felt like there was this big,
301
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massive dark cloud over Nelly and
Steve.
302
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It was such a 180 from the honeymoon
that I was like, what's happened?
303
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Because I'm fully the same.
Do you know what I mean? Yeah.
304
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I think it just reiterated to me
305
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that we were in such an awful place,
and that made me sad.
306
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But this week has been better. Yeah!
307
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This week I've been more present,
which has been good.
308
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There've been no dramas, I don't
think. Unless she says otherwise.
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LAUGHTER
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How was In-Laws Week?
311
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Which I expected. Yeah, of course.
312
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They were a bit like, "Let's make
sure that don't happen again."
313
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Oh, fair. I was like, "Well, it was
just the heat of the moment."
314
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People say things out of turn
that they don't actually mean.
315
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I think for Steven, you call your
partner something like that,
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then it needs to be addressed
317
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and I'm not seeing any remorse here
at all.
318
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Nor any regard
for how it made Nelly feel.
319
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No.
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Hello! Hey! Welcome.
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Here's our gorgeous girls,
Leigh and Leah.
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A bit grunge. Little bit grunge.
Little bit grunge.
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Last time we met Leigh and Leah,
324
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Leah's comments about Rebecca
were making Leigh feel jealous,
325
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and so the two of them were
navigating their way through this.
326
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We've got a secret to tell everyone.
327
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Ooh.
328
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What?
329
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We met a new couple today. What?
Where?
330
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Yeah, they came to our apartment.
331
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So we've got Reiss and Leisha.
332
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Oh, exciting. She's brunette.
Blue eyes.
333
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Yeah. Oh, of course
you fucking noticed.
334
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Oh, that's interesting.
335
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I think we need to kind of establish
336
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what this jealousy
or insecurity is about.
337
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Is it an ego thing
or is there something there?
338
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"You know, this is my partner
339
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"and actually, I feel quite
uncomfortable about this."
340
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But she's a definite girl's girl,
tactile, nice, huggy.
341
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Leah's type, basically.
Yeah, she's my type.
342
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They're hot.
343
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Straight away, it's comments
about Leisha and the way she looks,
344
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and I don't feel she's taking my
feelings into consideration
345
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when she's making comments.
346
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Those comments... About Leisha?
Yeah.
347
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I've sat on a couch
and I've told you
348
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I've been through these similar
situations before.
349
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I've been humiliated in the past.
I find it disrespectful.
350
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New girl's come in -
again, your type.
351
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First thing you've done -
"Yeah, she's fit. Lovely eyes."
352
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It's all about
her physical appearance.
353
00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:32,839
OK, so this is starting to become
a little clearer.
354
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She's being triggered based on her
past relationships,
355
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and she's feeling fearful.
356
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This is the second time that Leah
has crossed Leigh's boundaries,
357
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and Leigh has made it clear
that she wants a level of respect
358
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when it comes to their
communication.
359
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Leah's not able to deliver on it,
360
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or she's intentionally
provoking her.
361
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I'm just going to keep
my eyes peeled
362
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as to what happens from now.
363
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We will see when she comes in. Yeah.
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Hello! Hello.
365
00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:05,519
Oh!
366
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Our first new couple!
Reiss and Leisha.
367
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Hey!
368
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ALL EXCLAIM
369
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Hi!
370
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This must be the new couple.
371
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A new couple?
372
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I'm so excited.
373
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Oh.
374
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Oh, Leigh.
375
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Hello! Hello.
376
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Oh.
377
00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:43,000
Thank you. How are you?
378
00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:45,439
Hello.
379
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Oh, Leigh.
380
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You look stunning! So do you.
381
00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:54,399
Hello, my darling. How are you?
I'm good. How are you?
382
00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:57,679
I'm good. Hello. Do you want
a prosecco? Yes, please.
383
00:18:57,680 --> 00:19:00,719
Thank you. Have you met everyone?
Or nearly everyone? Yes.
384
00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:03,159
How are you? Thank you so much.
385
00:19:03,160 --> 00:19:04,519
ALL TALK AT ONCE
386
00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:06,759
Cheers! Welcome, welcome, welcome.
387
00:19:06,760 --> 00:19:08,920
I honestly need to borrow that. That
is gorgeous. You can have it.
388
00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:13,879
Shall we take a seat?
Do you want to sit down?
389
00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:15,359
Let's sit down here.
390
00:19:15,360 --> 00:19:18,040
Tell me, tell me,
tell me what is going on.
391
00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:22,319
Have yous had a snog?
Oh, yeah, yeah. Oh, yeah?
392
00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:24,399
Yeah. No qualms in that department.
393
00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:26,919
Do you know what I mean? We had a
little barney. I asked the question,
394
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"Do you think you're falling
for me?" He was like...
395
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Oh, in a week? Oh, hell.
396
00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:33,399
Oh, my goodness.
397
00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:34,799
I said, three days.
398
00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:37,719
Why did you ask him? Oh, I just
felt like it. It's a lot, that.
399
00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:41,119
Is it? It's a lot. It's a lot!
Oh, shit.
400
00:19:41,120 --> 00:19:42,599
After three days,
you can't say that.
401
00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:44,799
If I got asked after three days,
I would have been like,
402
00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:47,039
"I'm pushing you in the pool
and I'm swimming off." Oh, shit.
403
00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:50,319
I think this is quite a good
reality check for Leisha,
404
00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:53,599
because I think in her world,
she does move very quickly.
405
00:19:53,600 --> 00:19:57,599
I wonder if maybe she's not getting
what she needs from Reiss right now
406
00:19:57,600 --> 00:19:58,839
for her to feel secure enough
407
00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:02,239
so she doesn't need to ask
that question so early on. Hmm.
408
00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:05,279
So how are you two getting along?
She's quite fast-moving.
409
00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:08,039
You know, like, the second day she
was like, "Are you falling for me?"
410
00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:10,599
And I was like, I thought she was
joking at first.
411
00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:13,039
I don't normally move that quick.
412
00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:14,879
I don't know what kind of speed she
likes to move,
413
00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:16,639
but it's obviously a lot
faster than myself.
414
00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:17,719
We had a bit of a row
415
00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:20,039
about my development of
the relationship. OK.
416
00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:23,079
So this issue of pacing comes
up a lot.
417
00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:24,359
It doesn't have to be a problem,
418
00:20:24,360 --> 00:20:26,599
you know, as long as there's
good communication around,
419
00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:28,079
"This is where I'm at
and what I need",
420
00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:29,759
"This is where I'm at
and what I need,
421
00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:32,559
"let's find the compromise
and the common ground."
422
00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:34,319
But I think
what we're observing here is,
423
00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:36,560
the two of them are not talking
to each other about that.
424
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On a plane on the way home,
she was banging back a load of wine,
425
00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:44,679
and then she's come walking
up to me, like, sick all down her.
426
00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:46,359
Nah. What?
427
00:20:46,360 --> 00:20:47,440
Oh.
428
00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:50,999
She's, like, kneeled down.
Like, she's just like,
429
00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:52,279
looking at me, like, shaking her
head, like.
430
00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:55,279
Oh, my God. And then she just
walked off and got changed.
431
00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:56,999
She's gone for ages.
I'm watching the film,
432
00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:59,960
so I know, like, an hour has passed
and she still ain't come back.
433
00:21:01,360 --> 00:21:03,399
So I've got up and, like, she's
chatting to some geezer,
434
00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:05,359
like, outside the toilet for, like,
a straight hour.
435
00:21:05,360 --> 00:21:07,159
Wow. Jesus.
436
00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:10,039
I'm thinking, "We've just come back
from honeymoon and you's doing this?
437
00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:13,119
"It's well disrespectful. I wouldn't
do that to you." Yeah, yeah.
438
00:21:13,120 --> 00:21:16,319
So that caused a rift. Nah, I think
you're fair enough there, though,
439
00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:17,599
you know what I mean?
440
00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:18,679
Of course,
441
00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:21,199
it's still such early days
for Leisha and Rhys.
442
00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:23,319
They're just starting to get
to know each other.
443
00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:26,839
But getting drunk and then spending
a significant amount of time
444
00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:29,839
talking to another man isn't
exactly ideal behaviour
445
00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:32,079
to display in front of your new
husband.
446
00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:35,399
Absolutely. It's understandable
that Reiss would be upset
447
00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:37,600
and left questioning
what's really going on.
448
00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:41,679
How are you? Where are you at?
She's in her little love bubble.
449
00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:42,760
Me little bubble.
450
00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:49,319
That's all lovely. Yeah.
But how are you actually feeling?
451
00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:54,959
I am happy. But yesterday,
when I had a chat with Sofia,
452
00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:58,919
she was like, "What are you going
to do after this?"
453
00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:01,319
Because she was like, "You are
so on your bubble now.
454
00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:03,559
"What's going to happen when you
actually get out of here?"
455
00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:07,039
And I was like, "I've not actually
thought about this."
456
00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:08,799
This is the power of In-Laws Week,
457
00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:11,919
where those big questions about
the real world start to come up.
458
00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:14,360
And quite often, our
couples haven't considered that yet.
459
00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:17,319
Last week I was going to say
something
460
00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:19,119
and he was like,
"Don't get involved."
461
00:22:19,120 --> 00:22:20,999
But, like,
I felt like I had to say something.
462
00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:22,759
Oh, when I was on the sofa? Yeah.
463
00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:24,039
I just thought, that's not who I am,
464
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:26,079
but then I didn't
want to make him feel uncomfortable.
465
00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:27,479
Do you know what I mean?
466
00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:29,279
Not saying that I'm being
a different person, but...
467
00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:31,479
If that is who you are and you do
want to give your opinion,
468
00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:33,839
you shouldn't have to dim yourself
down or not speak on that
469
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:36,199
because it's not something he would
do. Mm-hm.
470
00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:39,399
You can really see the conflict
in Maeve.
471
00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:42,599
She's not quite sure
who she should be.
472
00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:45,199
Should she be the Maeve
that she knows,
473
00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:48,119
or should she be the Maeve
that Joe wants her to be?
474
00:22:48,120 --> 00:22:51,679
And you can see that she's kind
of going backwards and forwards.
475
00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:53,400
How are you doing?
How have you been getting on?
476
00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:57,159
It's coming there slowly.
There's no pressure on it.
477
00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:59,639
Sometimes when you're on that couch,
I want to fucking shake you.
478
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:04,159
Sometimes I feel like you just
support her every time.
479
00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:06,239
It always plays on my mind,
what you said at the stag.
480
00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:07,999
You want to be on the pedestal
481
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:09,559
and you always put
the other person on the pedestal,
482
00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:10,839
and I'm watching that play out
in real life.
483
00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:13,880
You need to have your feelings out
there as well.
484
00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:16,799
So here what we've got
485
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:20,759
is Leah essentially reinforcing
what Dean's friend said to him.
486
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:24,239
He's telling himself that he's
in this great relationship
487
00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:26,639
with this beautiful woman
who he really likes.
488
00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:29,679
And I think because his self-esteem
is underdeveloped,
489
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,440
he doesn't believe
that he deserves more.
490
00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:39,480
ALL CHEER
491
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:45,199
Keye and Davide. Yes. Happy as ever.
492
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:47,399
And we can always trust them
to raise the energy.
493
00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:48,480
Yes. Yes.
494
00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:53,039
Held each other's hands
495
00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:55,679
all the way through
until they greeted a couple.
496
00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:58,359
Yeah. And the smiles. Yes.
497
00:23:58,360 --> 00:24:00,439
Hello. Hello, nice to meet you.
Lovely to meet you.
498
00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:01,719
Where did you go on honeymoon?
499
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:03,759
Thailand. Oh, my God, amazing.
Yeah.
500
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:06,159
Got back yesterday.
And do you like your husband?
501
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:09,720
Yes. Yeah!
It's important to check, you know.
502
00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:16,280
Hi!
503
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,599
Rebecca and Bailey, a golden couple.
504
00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:23,319
Hello!
505
00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:25,479
How are you doing?
Good to see you, sir.
506
00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:26,839
Good to see you. Hello.
507
00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:29,799
Nice to meet you. I'm Reiss.
I'm Rebecca. Reiss? Yeah.
508
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:32,479
Hi, darling! You look amazing.
509
00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:34,599
Cheers, bro.
510
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:35,799
Cheers. Cheers, bro.
511
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:38,199
What I love about Rebecca and Bailey
is,
512
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:40,319
they always put on
this united front.
513
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:43,519
How are you? How's your week been?
Our week has been quiet.
514
00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:45,239
I mean, we're like
the mum and dad of the group.
515
00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:47,079
You are mum and dad.
516
00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:48,919
Ooh!
517
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:52,320
Hi!
518
00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:57,439
Abigail and John.
Our second new couple.
519
00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:59,239
What's your name? I'm John.
Nice to meet you.
520
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:02,319
What's your name? I'm Abby. Abby.
Lovely to meet you.
521
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:05,359
I'm John. Nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you.
522
00:25:05,360 --> 00:25:06,719
How's everything going?
523
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:10,399
I feel like I've missed so much.
Oh, tell me about you first.
524
00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:14,079
What's going on? So we've
just come back from the Seychelles.
525
00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:16,279
It was really nice.
We're getting on really well.
526
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,839
He's literally, like, kind
of everything that I asked for.
527
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:23,519
Aw! Yeah. It's been really, really
sweet. Yeah, so far, so good.
528
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:26,239
Aw, well done, us. Yeah.
Pat on the back.
529
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:28,559
Nice. Tick, tick, tick.
Nice work.
530
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:31,719
So, how's everything going?
Honestly, mate, like, brilliant.
531
00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:33,079
Really? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
532
00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:35,039
The wedding - fantastic.
533
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:37,959
Like, the vows - she said her vows.
I could have written them.
534
00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:39,799
Like, honestly,
they said the same things.
535
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:41,439
We've been flying, to be fair, yeah.
536
00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:42,680
Oh, that's good, mate.
537
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:47,279
You can see Dean's trying to put on
that positive exterior,
538
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:48,799
but he's really feeling it.
539
00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:51,199
It's clear that Dean would love
to be in John's position.
540
00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:52,280
Yeah.
541
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:57,879
Oh.
542
00:25:57,880 --> 00:25:59,399
Oh, hi!
543
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:00,759
Oh, no!
544
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:04,599
Oh! Oh, no. Grace is alone.
545
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:07,439
What's happened? Where's Ash?
546
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:10,279
Oh, my... What?
547
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:12,280
Aaah!
548
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:15,680
Oh!
549
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,759
OK. Oh, I like that.
550
00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:22,359
Well, they've come in, high energy,
having a bit of a laugh,
551
00:26:22,360 --> 00:26:24,159
so hopefully they're
in a really good place.
552
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:25,359
It's a good sign. Yeah.
553
00:26:25,360 --> 00:26:26,519
Why would you do that?
554
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:28,959
Sorry, it was so easy.
555
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:32,559
Um, Ashley and Grace.
556
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:33,839
Sorry, what was your name again?
John.
557
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:36,839
John? Yes. I want to know
about In-Laws Week with you.
558
00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:39,079
With me? Yeah, with you.
Um, it was good.
559
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:41,559
We saw two of my bridesmaids,
560
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,839
and then we saw Ash's mum,
Maxine and sister Jess.
561
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:45,919
It's really helped us.
562
00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:48,559
No, we're all right. We're in a
really good place, to be fair.
563
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:50,559
I feel like she's really working at
it, so, yeah,
564
00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:51,999
couldn't have gone any better.
Really?
565
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:53,079
That's good. Yeah.
566
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:55,799
Grace and Ashley have
so many shared values,
567
00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:57,679
and it's important
for them to remember that
568
00:26:57,680 --> 00:26:59,119
and it appears as if they have,
569
00:26:59,120 --> 00:27:00,759
and that's the core of the success
570
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:02,640
of the success of the relationship
they've had so far.
571
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:07,079
How are you doing?
You guys are getting on OK?
572
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:09,359
Yeah, everything seems perfect.
573
00:27:09,360 --> 00:27:11,799
Um, are you actually happy
with your partner?
574
00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:13,759
Um, initially for me,
575
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:17,519
the attraction and that sort of
spark wasn't there. OK.
576
00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:19,159
But he makes me laugh.
577
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:20,759
We've got the same values.
578
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,079
The only thing for me was just
that attraction.
579
00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:25,959
Can you feel the attraction grow,
though, or is it a total no?
580
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,879
I don't... It's hard. We're taking
it sort of step by step.
581
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:30,719
And have you had intimacy? No.
582
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:33,679
We've, like, held hands
and, like, cuddled and things.
583
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:35,640
But no, we're just taking it slow.
584
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:40,879
It's interesting the way Sarah says,
"We're just taking it slow",
585
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:43,439
as though it's a joint decision
between the two of them,
586
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:44,479
and it's clearly not.
587
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:45,799
There really isn't any evidence
588
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:48,000
of them moving beyond friendship
at this point.
589
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:57,279
Hey, guys. Hey!
590
00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:58,799
Hello!
591
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:02,319
Oh, here's our third new couple,
April and Leo.
592
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:03,600
Hi, nice to meet you!
593
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:07,720
Nice to meet you. Steven, nice to
meet you. Steven. Leo.
594
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,239
How has it been, like,
since the honeymoon?
595
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:12,479
We have got a lot in common.
596
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:14,839
I can really see
why they paired us together.
597
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:16,119
There is some, like, niggles
and stuff,
598
00:28:16,120 --> 00:28:17,879
but at the end of the day it's still
so early on.
599
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:20,639
What kind of things
were you guys not really gelling on?
600
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:22,679
I was just concerned about how
I very much lead the conversation.
601
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:25,479
I feel like if I wasn't talking,
there would be a lot of silence,
602
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:27,079
but I have addressed that with him.
603
00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:29,639
Like, on the last dinner,
I said, you know,
604
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:31,239
"I do feel like I'm leading
the conversation a lot.
605
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:33,439
"It's a bit of a worry for me."
And he just sort of, you know,
606
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,639
explained that he's not been
in a relationship a long time
607
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:36,999
and sort of said his side of things.
608
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:38,879
Did you ever try
and just leave it?
609
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:40,799
Just let the silence... just see
what happened?
610
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:42,559
I find it really, really difficult.
Right.
611
00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:45,399
Yeah, but I did, I tried.
What happened? There was silence.
612
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,359
Literally, they could not have
picked a better match for me.
613
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:49,759
Really?
614
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:52,160
She's like the female version of me,
but better looking.
615
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:55,079
The main concern around it
616
00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:56,999
is that emotional connection is
built on conversation.
617
00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,559
Emotional connection
is built off very much getting deep,
618
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:01,599
and that's what's more
concerning me, you know what I mean?
619
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:02,680
I'm worried that that won't build.
620
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:08,959
Do you feel like he's the man
for you?
621
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:11,679
I hope so. Like, I don't know.
There's certain things
622
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:14,799
I'm doing with Reiss and I'm like,
"I'm too much, I'm too much."
623
00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:16,559
Really? Yeah. They're like,
"Leisha, it's too much."
624
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:18,479
Are you too much?
625
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:20,439
He's like, "You've had about three
cups of coffee
626
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:21,759
"and I've literally just woke up."
627
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:24,680
I'm like that.
628
00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:30,279
I like the outdoors, don't like
to be stuck on my couch.
629
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:32,799
Yeah, I hate that as well.
I like to get up in the morning,
630
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,240
seize the day,
crack on with it. That's like me.
631
00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:38,239
Where I live is, like, on the beach.
632
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:40,799
Oh, nice. So I like getting out.
Yeah.
633
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:42,960
Having a coffee outside,
get the natural light. Yes!
634
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,239
Would you say when you normally get
in a relationship,
635
00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:50,959
you're like instant connection,
fireworks, passion. Yeah.
636
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:53,119
I like to meet somebody and there's,
like,
637
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:54,799
that flirty vibe straight away.
638
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:57,079
Do you know what I mean? For me,
I much prefer it
639
00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:58,559
when I meet somebody
and there's, like,
640
00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:01,039
that flirty connection.
Yeah, that's important for me.
641
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:03,680
Especially something like this,
like, you want to have that.
642
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:06,839
I'm fucking pissed off.
643
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:09,479
I can see Leah's been flirting
with Leisha.
644
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:11,999
It's not that I don't trust
the other girl.
645
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,760
It's more on Leah's behaviour.
646
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:21,799
Where are you going?
Oh, I like the colours.
647
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:23,240
Where are we?
648
00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:34,799
We're walking in the dinner party.
Everybody else is holding hands
649
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,319
and I'm just looking over at Reiss,
going, "What are you doing?
650
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,559
"Where's my husband?
Why are you not holding my hand?
651
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:41,960
"Like, give me some support,
please."
652
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:49,199
Hello? Yo!
653
00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:53,079
There seems to be a real disconnect
here, with Leisha talking about
654
00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:56,399
how symbolic and meaningful
a handhold is to her.
655
00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:58,519
Yes. Maybe it's not to Reiss.
656
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:01,840
I'm not being a brat, you know what
I mean? Look at that.
657
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:09,680
So everybody else is holding hands.
He doesn't grab my hand.
658
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:12,999
I feel like that means quite
a lot to women as well.
659
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:15,559
It means so much to me.
It's the little things like that.
660
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:18,040
Like, fuck's sake, why are you
not holding my hand? Yeah.
661
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:25,519
Is that all right? No, it's just
like,
662
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:27,199
everybody else is holding hands
663
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:29,439
and you're just fucking walking off
and leaving me.
664
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:31,399
I was holding your hand.
I stopped holding your hand
665
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:32,759
for two seconds and you're like,
666
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:36,320
"You don't fucking hold my hand."
You didn't hold my hand.
667
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,879
She's very pissed off at me
right now for not holding her hand.
668
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:44,639
She needs quite a bit of reassurance
from me.
669
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:46,039
It was only two minutes
I didn't hold it.
670
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:48,439
I can't
constantly be holding her hand.
671
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:49,759
Just frustrating, man.
672
00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:52,639
The way you handle shit
is, like, to me, immature.
673
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:54,719
Like, "Don't hold my fucking hand"
and storm off
674
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:58,239
like I should be, "Oh, sorry,
darling" and chasing after you.
675
00:31:58,240 --> 00:31:59,280
No, no.
676
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,159
You should want to, like,
do that with me.
677
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:05,119
Like, I shouldn't have to ask.
678
00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:08,039
Well, there's a job to be done here
for both Reiss and Leisha.
679
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:09,279
Leisha needs to communicate
680
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:10,999
that hand-holding is important to
her,
681
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:13,079
but he also needs
to start reading her.
682
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:15,919
So I think work needs
to be done on both sides here.
683
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:17,520
I feel like you're raging.
684
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:43,319
I'm not doing anything.
685
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:45,680
You think I fancy her? Do you?
686
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:47,959
No.
687
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,439
If you don't fancy her,
688
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:54,239
we don't need any more comments
about how hot you think she is.
689
00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:56,519
I didn't say hot. I said fit.
690
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:57,919
I think it's a Liverpool thing.
691
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:02,439
I think the word fit means
the same thing as hot across the UK.
692
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:05,679
What's most concerning for me
is how is it landing with Leigh?
693
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:07,479
Right. Yeah.
And it's clear she's hurt.
694
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:08,759
She's pained by it.
695
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:10,679
Everyone's so complimentary
up north.
696
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:12,040
Londoners aren't like that.
697
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:15,759
Did she really just say to me
698
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,959
that she's more flirty
because she's from Liverpool?
699
00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:21,039
Biggest fucking cop-out
I've ever heard.
700
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:22,999
So the reason that you flirt with
other girls
701
00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:24,719
is because you're from Liverpool?
702
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:28,359
Who do I flirt with?
I don't flirt with Rebecca.
703
00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:31,119
And I certainly haven't flirted
with her.
704
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:33,439
Marriage definitely can't work
without trust.
705
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:35,039
A relationship can't
work without trust.
706
00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:36,120
It's pathetic.
707
00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:40,839
I've expressed my feelings
about other girls and being flirty,
708
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:43,879
or just pushing boundaries
that I've set.
709
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:44,999
What I won't do
710
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:49,280
{\an8}is allow someone to disrespect me
again and again and again.
711
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:05,239
All right, you got this.
You got this.
712
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:06,759
KEYE BANGS FORK AGAINST GLASS
713
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:08,079
ALL CHEER
714
00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:09,200
Hello, everyone. Hi.
715
00:34:10,240 --> 00:34:12,119
So I hate public speaking,
716
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:14,919
um, but as it's his birthday,
I guess I'll do it.
717
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:17,079
I have fallen in love with this man.
718
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:18,320
ALL CHEER
719
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:22,839
Yes. Look at that.
720
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:24,439
"Fallen in love with""
721
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:26,599
Oh, gorgeous.
722
00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:29,119
He is the kindest,
most honest human being
723
00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:30,839
I've ever met in my life.
724
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:34,120
I do not know what on earth I did
to deserve this man.
725
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:39,360
But I'm so glad that he is here
and here with me.
726
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:44,080
If we could raise a glass to Davide
and our new couples.
727
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:49,439
Cheers. Cheers, guys.
Cheers!
728
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:51,159
Yeah!
729
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:54,760
Cheers! Thank you.
Cheers, guys. Cheers. Chin-chin.
730
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:02,919
It's really hard to see
Sarah and Dean here.
731
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:06,479
Such sad face expressions
when they heard Keye say that,
732
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:08,959
and I think it's a reflection
of what they don't have
733
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:12,199
in their relationship,
unfortunately. It's sad.
734
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:15,240
So how are you two doing?
Yeah, good. Really good.
735
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:19,199
We know Dean is the eternal
optimist,
736
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:21,479
sometimes at the expense of reality.
737
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:22,919
And so he was always going to say,
738
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:24,679
"Yeah, great,
everything's going great."
739
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:27,679
But looking
at Sarah's nonverbal communication,
740
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:30,840
she's really saying, "I don't think
things are going too well at all."
741
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:43,599
It is really hard to see the other
couples progressing.
742
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:46,960
Physically, you can see
that they're all over each other.
743
00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:50,639
I just don't know how much more I've
got left within me,
744
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:51,880
to be completely honest.
745
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:55,719
How about you guys?
746
00:35:55,720 --> 00:35:57,560
How was the in-laws
and the rest of the week?
747
00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:02,439
Steve and I are
in a really not great place.
748
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:04,079
Ultimately, we want to try and get
back
749
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:06,319
to how we felt about each other,
I guess, on the honeymoon.
750
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:09,039
You're never going to get truly back
to the honeymoon thing,
751
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:10,879
because what's happened has changed
the dynamic slightly,
752
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:13,359
but you can get back to a place of
the honeymoon again.
753
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:14,439
I'm just thinking, like,
754
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:16,640
is there anything else I can do
from my end, really?
755
00:36:22,720 --> 00:36:24,079
What do you define as needy, though?
756
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:27,399
Needy for me
is just being ultra-possessive.
757
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:29,999
I'm not massive on public displays
of affection anyway,
758
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:31,799
the constant always putting my arm
around you...
759
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:33,799
I think
when the neediness comes in,
760
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:35,599
that's when I've started going
the other way.
761
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:38,079
I am genuinely, really,
really sorry about it.
762
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:39,400
It's just hard to navigate.
763
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:45,279
I think what would be more healthy
from Steven
764
00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:48,399
is him saying, "OK, this
is what you need from me.
765
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:50,359
"Let me see if I can make a little
bit more effort
766
00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:53,319
"and give you a little bit more
encouragement and support
767
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:56,879
"so you don't feel the need to want
so much more from me."
768
00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:59,879
But he's putting all the blame
on Nelly.
769
00:36:59,880 --> 00:37:00,999
Well, you said it early doors -
770
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:02,719
"What do you think about the other
girls?"
771
00:37:02,720 --> 00:37:04,679
Why are you asking that? That was
a poorly landed joke on my behalf.
772
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:06,959
That was me, my insecurity coming
out as a joke
773
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:08,479
and it landed really, really badly.
774
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:10,159
It was like, "What do you think the
other girls are like?
775
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:12,159
"Do I need to be worried?"
And I'm like, "No."
776
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:13,599
I'm so sorry if it offended you.
777
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:16,599
But just remember, at that point
I knew you'd pulled away
778
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:18,159
and I hadn't had a reason why.
779
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:19,839
It's very natural for a person to
feel that way.
780
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:22,279
If I'd randomly pulled away from you
and didn't tell you, you'd think,
781
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:23,679
"What the hell's going on in her
head?"
782
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:25,399
That's exactly what I was thinking
at that moment.
783
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:27,640
I thought,
"I have no idea what's going on."
784
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:36,959
I feel like you guys need
to focus on being good
785
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:38,399
and growing and progressing,
786
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:39,879
and you'll be happy
once you get there
787
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:41,480
and stop looking back at the past.
788
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:47,199
Nelly needs certain things,
but maybe vocalising that to him,
789
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:48,479
so then Steven knows
790
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:50,279
and Steven can learn from it
as well.
791
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:51,399
I think with that, though,
792
00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:53,599
I just worry
that if I do vocalise too much,
793
00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:55,119
I'll just push him away even more.
794
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:57,159
You're not asking too much
to tell your partner
795
00:37:57,160 --> 00:37:58,639
what you need in a relationship.
796
00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:00,239
If Steven were to turn around
and say,
797
00:38:00,240 --> 00:38:02,319
"I'm going to walk because it's too
much for me",
798
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:03,560
then he's not right for you.
799
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:07,439
I think Leigh has made a really
valid point there.
800
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:09,799
Nelly has every right to say
to Steven
801
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:12,359
what she needs
from this relationship.
802
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:15,119
And if there are worries
about doing that,
803
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:16,239
then you have to ask yourself,
804
00:38:16,240 --> 00:38:18,040
is this the right relationship
for you?
805
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:22,359
What were your highlights from
the honeymoon?
806
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:24,439
My highlight
was actually spending it with you.
807
00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:25,879
Like... Aw!
808
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:28,279
I know that sounds really cheesy,
809
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:31,159
but it's just because we have, like,
such a good connection.
810
00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:34,159
And I've not felt like this before,
like, with anyone.
811
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:35,799
He makes me feel like it's OK
to be me
812
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:37,799
and it's just seeing the progression
from, like, the start
813
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:38,919
to the end of the honeymoon.
814
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:41,279
More and more each day,
I became more like myself.
815
00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:42,559
It just highlighted, like,
816
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:44,959
how much like I genuinely wanted
to find someone
817
00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:48,519
and that, like, I've found my
person.
818
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:50,359
John is besotted.
819
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:54,919
Look at how he locks his eyes
in as Abby just talks.
820
00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:57,520
Yes. There's no-one else in
the room. No-one else in the room.
821
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:04,679
You guys seem so solid and so, like,
lovely together.
822
00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:06,559
Yeah, we're doing so well. Yeah, so
good.
823
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:09,759
I said the L-word at the
commitment ceremony last week.
824
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:12,519
Oh, my God.
How did you feel when he said it?
825
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:15,279
Like, when anyone tells you
they love you,
826
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:16,479
like, I feel so strongly for him,
827
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:19,279
so, like, when someone you feel for
says that they love you,
828
00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:20,999
it's a big thing, isn't it?
829
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:23,279
I just said it. You're blushing!
830
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:25,239
You haven't said it back?
831
00:39:25,240 --> 00:39:27,999
I'm just
so much more reserved than him
832
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:30,039
with, like, expressing my feelings
that way.
833
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:33,519
Like, I'm much more of a slow
burner. But you are very much...
834
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:37,079
I'm very much in.
I feel so strongly for him.
835
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:39,039
For me, like,
love is like an end goal.
836
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:40,519
And I think I probably think
837
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:43,719
about those things much
more than Bailey does.
838
00:39:43,720 --> 00:39:44,920
Let me be cute.
839
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:48,439
I think this is a really
beautiful example
840
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:50,079
of a couple where one partner
841
00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:52,119
is moving towards
the emotional connection
842
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:53,519
more quickly than the other.
843
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:56,280
Their pace is not quite matched,
but they're talking about it.
844
00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:00,639
And then you have Leisha and Reiss,
845
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:04,000
who are unable
to communicate how they feel.
846
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:07,120
How are you feeling?
847
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:11,960
I know you're raging. You know that?
848
00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:16,719
Yeah. All right. Cool.
849
00:40:16,720 --> 00:40:19,719
You know
I can't deal with stuff like this
850
00:40:19,720 --> 00:40:22,080
when you start going like this
and you just shut down.
851
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:29,080
We'll just put it behind us, yeah?
852
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:34,200
You just... I can just tell, like,
I'm getting all nervous and that.
853
00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:38,800
I'm just feeling like shit now.
854
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,119
My worries with Reiss
are me pushing Reiss away.
855
00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:46,199
I think I do certain stuff
like the way I did on the plane,
856
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:48,479
and then we get into an argument
and he just ignores me,
857
00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:50,399
and he just gets himself
in his head,
858
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:52,360
and he doesn't communicate with me.
859
00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:59,359
Guys, I have the honesty box.
860
00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:02,319
"Good evening,
and welcome to our new arrivals."
861
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:03,800
CHEERING
862
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:10,319
"Tonight's honesty box is a little
bit different,
863
00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:13,919
"as we'll be asking you all to
hold a mirror up to each other
864
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:16,679
"and provide frank and objective
opinions.
865
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:18,279
"One person from each couple
866
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:20,359
"must read out their question to
the group,
867
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:22,599
"and once the group
have finished responding,
868
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:25,240
"the couple must also reflect
and answer the question."
869
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:29,079
So the questions
from this honesty box
870
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:32,399
will be answered by the group
rather than the couples themselves.
871
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:36,199
Here's such a great opportunity,
getting an outside perspective.
872
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:39,240
It's going to be very interesting
to see how things go tonight.
873
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:43,480
You've all heard about
the journey home from the honeymoon.
874
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:47,920
Are you Team Leisha or Team Reiss?
What happened, bro?
875
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:55,439
All right, so basically, what it
was,
876
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:58,839
Leisha's come up to me with sick
down her. I was just drunk.
877
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:00,439
Then she got changed.
878
00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:02,799
And then a little time later,
I went to go to the toilet
879
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:04,799
and Leisha was just, like, talking
to a boy.
880
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:06,840
And like, the conversation lasted
about an hour.
881
00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:14,560
Some random boy on the flight.
He was, like, in his twenties.
882
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:18,279
Team Reiss. Team Reiss. Team Reiss.
883
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:20,079
So how did that make you feel?
884
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:22,159
Team Reiss.
885
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:23,639
Wait, how did it make you feel?
886
00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:25,680
Obviously pissed off.
Like, I felt disrespected.
887
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:29,639
I hear you, because I would feel
exactly the same.
888
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:31,279
You're off the back
of your honeymoon.
889
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:33,119
Regardless of if it was flirty or
not,
890
00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:35,239
do you think you should be sat on
a plane
891
00:42:35,240 --> 00:42:38,519
talking to a boy similar age to you?
Probably not.
892
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:39,719
What's your view of the story?
893
00:42:39,720 --> 00:42:42,879
In that perspective, it was very
valid and obviously, I apologised.
894
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:47,359
As soon as he said it, I was like,
"Oh." I knew I'd fucked up.
895
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:49,720
That's his boundary,
and I'll respect that from now on.
896
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:51,920
Hang on a minute.
897
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:56,759
There's one little part that's just
not sitting right with me.
898
00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:58,759
You've been telling us about, like,
what you need from each other
899
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,519
and what you're uncomfortable with
and how he shuts down.
900
00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:04,759
But if somebody's shutting
down off the back of your action,
901
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:07,799
you can't really complain
about his behaviour afterwards,
902
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:10,000
because it was fuelled
by what you did.
903
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:12,879
I'm not stupid.
904
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,359
Like, I obviously realised that
that wasn't something that he liked.
905
00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:17,199
That's a boundary for him.
906
00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:18,959
I'm a very friendly person.
907
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:20,159
I'll chat to everyone.
908
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:22,039
The main thing is
that you don't know each other,
909
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:25,000
so maybe just, like,
a little bit more respect.
910
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,800
Honestly, brother,
I would have been absolutely fuming.
911
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:36,079
Do you feel like you did wrong?
I didn't think I did anything wrong.
912
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:38,279
If you've just gone
and married this man,
913
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:39,959
you've just had a honeymoon
with this man,
914
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:42,280
he doesn't know you
and doesn't know your character...
915
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:45,199
It's like, babe,
do you know what I mean?
916
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:46,919
For fuck's sake.
917
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:49,720
I'm getting it
from every angle possible.
918
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:52,560
They don't know me.
919
00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:56,999
I've had past relationships.
That's never been a problem.
920
00:43:57,000 --> 00:43:59,319
But the other side of it is
if you had spent time with her,
921
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:02,719
maybe she wouldn't have got
that drunk with strangers. Er... no.
922
00:44:02,720 --> 00:44:04,839
Absolutely fucking not.
923
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:06,520
I'm gutted, I'm not going to lie.
924
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:16,079
For fuck's sake.
925
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:18,960
I'm getting it
from every angle possible.
926
00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:23,879
They don't know me.
I've had past relationships.
927
00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:25,599
That's never been a problem.
928
00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:27,919
But the other side of it
is if you'd spent time with her,
929
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:31,319
maybe she wouldn't have got
that drunk with strangers. Er... no.
930
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:33,440
Absolutely fucking not.
931
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:38,679
This is right at the beginning.
Give Leisha some fucking slack.
932
00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:41,399
This is a fucking intense process.
933
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:45,039
You are thrown into a relationship
instantly without knowing anybody.
934
00:44:45,040 --> 00:44:46,319
Reiss, I'm not taking away from you.
935
00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:49,360
That must have been a bit shit,
but, like, give her some slack.
936
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:53,119
It must be really uncomfortable
937
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:55,039
for Leisha to come into this new
group
938
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:57,719
and to have probably one of the most
embarrassing things
939
00:44:57,720 --> 00:45:01,280
of her experience so far being
aired so publicly like this.
940
00:45:03,240 --> 00:45:06,879
"What one thing do you think each
of us need to do differently
941
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:08,239
"to help our marriage?"
942
00:45:08,240 --> 00:45:10,359
I think it's sometimes
just sitting back
943
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:13,839
and not taking it as an attack
if Ashley wants to look after you.
944
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:16,719
Don't question it and just let him
do those nice things for you.
945
00:45:16,720 --> 00:45:19,119
It comes from kindness
and a really good place.
946
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:21,679
OK, that's really good.
Cos you deserve that.
947
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:24,279
Yeah. I think it starts with trust,
948
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:27,199
if you can trust that Ash
has your best interests at heart.
949
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:29,719
That trust is just building now,
and it is there and...
950
00:45:29,720 --> 00:45:32,199
I'm always going to have your back.
That's me as a person.
951
00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:35,039
Consistently more of the good,
less of the bad.
952
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:36,599
Yeah, yeah. Come on, then.
953
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:39,200
CHEERING
954
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:49,079
Look at that kiss. Fabulous.
This is a really big move for Grace.
955
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:50,959
We know she's uncomfortable
with PDAs,
956
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:54,359
so to be able to engage
in such a big public kiss with Ash,
957
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:55,840
it's a really big deal.
958
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:01,639
"Do you really think we have a
future together?
959
00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:03,480
"And if not, why not?"
960
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:11,159
You've had a rocky period, you have.
961
00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:13,119
Dean, make sure you're here for
yourself
962
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:14,519
and your own journey as well,
963
00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:16,359
because there's nothing worse than,
like,
964
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:18,519
you're feeling like you're pushing,
pushing, pushing,
965
00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:19,960
and you're not getting nothing back.
966
00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:27,160
Do you feel like there's
a spark between you after this week?
967
00:46:28,720 --> 00:46:29,760
No.
968
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:33,200
Romantically, I'm not sure.
969
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:37,680
I am doing everything I can,
so we'll see.
970
00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:44,599
That would be hard for Dean,
971
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:47,000
hearing in no uncertain terms,
"No."
972
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:52,279
It knocks me back to hear Sarah
doesn't have a spark.
973
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:53,839
I thought we were progressing.
974
00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:57,440
I don't know what more I can do.
I'm doing everything I can.
975
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:01,400
That wasn't awkward for you, was it?
Yeah, no, it's OK.
976
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:08,759
What am I supposed to say?
No, I know.
977
00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:10,280
You know what I mean?
978
00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:13,679
I just feel really bad.
Like, I want it to be there.
979
00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:16,719
Well, don't rush it. If it comes,
it comes. If it doesn't, it doesn't.
980
00:47:16,720 --> 00:47:19,680
I know, I know, I know, I know.
I just don't want to hurt you.
981
00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:25,360
I don't fancy him.
982
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:31,520
I can't keep doing it.
983
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:35,719
And I do see something,
like, lovely between us,
984
00:47:35,720 --> 00:47:37,919
but I just don't know if it's
in that romantic setting,
985
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:39,719
and I've just told him that.
986
00:47:39,720 --> 00:47:43,319
And I haven't, I just, I haven't
led him on. I haven't, like.
987
00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:45,079
But then I'm like,
"Why can't you see that?"
988
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:47,239
Because he is such a lovely guy.
989
00:47:47,240 --> 00:47:49,240
It just fucks with your head.
990
00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:52,240
Sorry.
991
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:00,800
Oh.
992
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:03,759
Next time...
993
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:05,839
For me, I got kicked out of my head.
994
00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:07,959
...hard-hitting honesty
from the couples...
995
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:10,079
What more can I actually do?
996
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:11,879
You've done something
to piss me off.
997
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:13,239
...and the experts...
998
00:48:13,240 --> 00:48:14,919
Why weren't my feelings considered
in this?
999
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:16,559
That is a masterful deflection.
1000
00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:18,679
We are talking
about your wife right now.
1001
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:21,759
...makes for an emotional make
or break commitment ceremony.
1002
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:23,119
I'm worried that if I give up
1003
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:27,559
that I'm going to be like,
"Oh, I wish I'd tried."
1004
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:29,959
Sarah, I think you're clutching
at straws here.
1005
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:31,920
You know how you feel.
81743
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