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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:04,839 This programme contains strong language 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:06,159 This is insane. Previously... 3 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:08,119 The experiment's three new couples... Wow! 4 00:00:08,120 --> 00:00:10,679 ...set off on their first adventures. 5 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:13,199 This is incredible. But for some... 6 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:14,919 Do you visualise me and your future? 7 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:17,199 ...newlywed bliss was hard to come by. 8 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:19,399 Don't need pressure yet. It's so early. 9 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:20,879 We haven't had a lot of time 10 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:23,279 to actually sit down and ask personal questions. 11 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:24,360 I disagree. 12 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:27,199 And... 13 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:28,479 Yeah! 14 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:30,439 ...as friends and family arrived... 15 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:32,279 Are you in love? No, I am in love with him. 16 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:33,919 Can't imagine my life without him. 17 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:36,759 I'm in love with Davide, completely and utterly in every way. 18 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:38,639 ...uncomfortable truths... 19 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:40,520 Muttered under my breath, "BLEEP idiot." 20 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:44,439 I said that I'd got a bit of the ick. 21 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:47,799 ...prompted damning critiques. What possessed you? 22 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:50,079 Is that normal? You can't accept that. 23 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:53,239 She needs to not be allowed to say shit and get away with it. 24 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:55,240 Do I let go, or do I stay and fight? 25 00:00:57,480 --> 00:00:58,599 Tonight... Hi! 26 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:03,239 Oh, hello. ..the dinner party's new arrivals steal the spotlight. 27 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:05,159 They're hot. Blue eyes. 28 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:06,559 Oh, of course you BLEEP noticed. 29 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:09,199 I like to meet somebody and there's, like, that flirty vibe. 30 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:12,079 I'm pissed off. But Leisha's debut... 31 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:13,319 Everybody else is holding hands. 32 00:01:13,320 --> 00:01:17,039 I stopped doing it because you said, "Don't hold my BLEEP hands." 33 00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:20,039 To me, it's, like, immature. ...fails to impress. 34 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:22,479 Do you think you should be sat on a plane talking to a boy... 35 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:25,159 I've had past relationships. That's never been a problem. 36 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:27,599 Um... no, 37 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:29,839 Babe, you just had a honeymoon with this man. 38 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:31,919 I felt disrespected. 39 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:33,719 And candid questions... 40 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:35,519 Do you feel like there's a spark? 41 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:38,759 No. What am I supposed to say? 42 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:40,879 ...cause a marital meltdown. 43 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:42,559 Just can't keep doing it. 44 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:45,280 Can't change my feelings. 45 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:56,559 There you go, love. Hot. 46 00:01:56,560 --> 00:01:57,719 Ooh, that's so nice. 47 00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:00,199 This is your second baby massage. Yeah. How many have I had? 48 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:01,440 Five. 49 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:04,960 Yay! Happy birthday! 50 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:10,399 It's the morning of the experiment's third dinner party. 51 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:11,800 I love you. I love you. 52 00:02:17,920 --> 00:02:20,239 Me and Sarah, we're not in the best place. 53 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:23,199 My best friend James coming down really kind of hit me. 54 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:24,399 He was asking some questions 55 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:26,560 that I've probably not answered to myself. 56 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:32,399 It's reminded me I'm here for me as well as Sarah. 57 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:34,719 I can't be disrespected again. 58 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:38,079 We have had a bit of a tricky couple of weeks, a tricky start. 59 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:40,279 You know, a lot on my part, 60 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:43,960 I was, you know, maybe behaving in ways that I'm not proud of. 61 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:47,839 The last few weeks have been really difficult. 62 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:51,359 I can't help the way I'm feeling. I can see Dean is a great guy, 63 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:54,399 but I'm just struggling to get that spark. 64 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:56,160 But I'm trying. 65 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:02,799 How are you feeling? Last week was just, er... Hellish. 66 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:03,880 Yes. Yeah. 67 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:07,799 It was good to see my brother and sister 68 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:09,639 and to see how Steven and I are doing. 69 00:03:09,640 --> 00:03:11,599 But I think it just reiterated 70 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:14,839 and reaffirmed that Steven and I weren't in a good place. 71 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:16,679 Right now, um, with Steven, 72 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:19,239 I just need his words backed up by actions. 73 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:20,719 We were clashing at that time. 74 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:21,919 My sister and brother, 75 00:03:21,920 --> 00:03:23,879 they'll always try and see it from my side, 76 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:27,239 so you're gonna get called out. You're going to get upset by it. 77 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:28,560 They have to tell you off a little bit. 78 00:03:29,640 --> 00:03:31,399 Last week was a hellish week for the pair of us. 79 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:33,559 I'd say Nelly and I are small steps back to where we were. 80 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:35,439 This week, we've been intimate with one another, 81 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:37,919 but my only worry about Nelly and I's relationship, 82 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:40,119 she's putting on the affection a little bit too much 83 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:42,439 and it's like, "Come here, give me a kiss, give me a smooch." 84 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:43,520 I'm like... 85 00:03:44,440 --> 00:03:46,999 It needs to be a calmer week for us. 86 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:48,479 Deal with what happened, 87 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:51,160 forget about it and just kind of work on getting closer again. 88 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:53,519 I'm hoping at the dinner party, 89 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:55,319 Nelly's not too forward with things. 90 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:56,639 I'll quite happily hold her hand 91 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:57,799 and give her a kiss every now and then, 92 00:03:57,800 --> 00:03:59,799 but I think if she's wanting one every two minutes, 93 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:03,760 it's like, what do you need? Like, what do you want? 94 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:12,279 Are you excited to hear how it's gone for everyone else this week? 95 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:13,639 I actually am. You know, like, 96 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:15,639 I want to know what everyone else's in-laws 97 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:17,119 have thought about each other. 98 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:18,599 We've been all right. 99 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:20,639 You know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, yeah. 100 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:23,519 Me and Joe, like, I think the relationship's going pretty good, 101 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:25,839 but obviously now we need to talk about, like, 102 00:04:25,840 --> 00:04:28,079 what's going to happen next. We've not actually thought 103 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:30,039 about what we're going to do when we're out of here. 104 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:32,119 You said that you were going to come to Newcastle. 105 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:36,159 I said, if... things progress 106 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:39,799 and we are together on the outside, because you've got Archie, 107 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:42,240 it would be me that would have to move. 108 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:47,079 I mentioned that I might move, 109 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:49,159 but it's a long way to get to that point. 110 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:51,999 We're still really early into this experiment. 111 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,160 We just need to see what happens with our relationship. 112 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:00,720 Oh. 113 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:03,719 How are you? I'm all right. I'm OK. 114 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:05,399 Energy was a little bit low this morning. 115 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:07,520 Last week, I felt like we went into a war zone. 116 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:09,719 I don't agree with people that, 117 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:11,239 like, shout to communicate. 118 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:13,719 You yelled at me multiple times. 119 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:15,320 Did I not take accountability for it? 120 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:23,079 If I feel like I'm being attacked verbally, 121 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:25,640 my body will shut down. This isn't normal. 122 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:32,519 Hopefully, there will be less drama this week. 123 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:34,879 I'm very passionate and trying to just progress forward 124 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:37,439 and just have a strong relationship with Julia-Ruth. 125 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:39,959 I don't think it's perfect or smooth sailing. 126 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:41,959 We've both got our little things to work on and that, 127 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:44,440 and we'll both just be patient with each other. 128 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:56,039 Ah! I'm guessing this is our room, then. Yeah. 129 00:05:56,040 --> 00:05:59,559 As the existing couples get ready for tonight's dinner party... 130 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:01,959 Oh, wow! 131 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:04,399 ...they're unaware that six more newlyweds 132 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:07,239 are moving into the apartments and will be joining them. 133 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:10,719 Oh, my gosh, look at this. Look at the photo. 134 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:12,719 Oh, that's cute! 135 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:14,880 Oh, my gosh, that's our forehead photo! 136 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:17,360 That was the awkward photo. 137 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:24,519 It'll be good to see what the other couples are doing, 138 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:26,279 how they're getting on. Yeah, definitely. 139 00:06:26,280 --> 00:06:29,040 I'm excited to hear about everyone's honeymoons and where they've been. 140 00:06:32,280 --> 00:06:33,999 I feel really good being back from the honeymoon with Leo. 141 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:36,479 The chemistry was there from the wedding day, 142 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:39,959 so that hasn't really been an issue for us, I guess. 143 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:42,479 But there is definitely some concerns 144 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:45,199 with the lack of leading a conversation, 145 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:47,519 or if I'm not talking, is there going to be any talking? 146 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:50,760 So, yeah, I mean, that's a continuous worry. 147 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:55,560 But I think it's just going to be nice now to get settled in. 148 00:06:57,000 --> 00:06:59,400 Back to a bit of normality. Yeah, definitely. 149 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:02,160 Definitely. 150 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:08,320 How are you feeling being here now? 151 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:12,879 I really like Reiss. 152 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:15,479 I feel like as the days are going on, 153 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:18,599 I'm getting to fall for him every single day. 154 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:22,360 But I haven't been getting the same response from Reiss. 155 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:26,959 Do you feel like you're falling for me, though? 156 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:30,559 Do you feel like you like me? Falling for you? 157 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:33,039 Easy, girl. It's been, like, two days. 158 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:35,079 On their honeymoon, Leisha and Reiss 159 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:38,759 found themselves moving at different speeds in their marriage. 160 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:41,119 I know what I want. I need to get there quickly. 161 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:42,839 All you're going to do is push me away. 162 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:44,839 I'm just trying to be vulnerable and let you know, 163 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:47,199 like, my insecurity. I'm not here to attack you. 164 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:49,240 I just need to know that you're on the same page. 165 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:54,879 That flight was horrendous, wasn't it? 166 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:57,000 Yeah, someone had one too many, didn't they? 167 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:04,599 The flight back from Thailand was very eventful with Leisha. 168 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:05,959 She decided to, like, 169 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:10,159 knock a few of the wines back, come up to me covered in sick. 170 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:12,199 I'm a bit of a lightweight, aren't I? 171 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:13,960 That is grim. Sorry! 172 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:19,479 She got changed, that was that, 173 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:21,719 and then I went to get up to go to the toilet 174 00:08:21,720 --> 00:08:23,719 and then realised that Leisha was standing 175 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:26,999 at the back of the plane talking to some fella for about an hour. 176 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:29,799 So when we landed, I just said to her, "I didn't really like 177 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:32,519 "that you were speaking to a fella for, like, an hour and a bit 178 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:34,520 "whilst you're married and coming back from your honeymoon." 179 00:08:35,680 --> 00:08:39,160 You had too many wines. Way too many. 180 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:43,359 Reiss is frosty with me after the journey. 181 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:44,759 I am slightly worried. 182 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:47,320 I can tell it's still maybe niggling at him. 183 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:54,239 How do you think the dinner went with Nicole and Paula? 184 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:59,519 I would never normally get angry in front of guests. 185 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:01,879 This is the last time I'll mention this, 186 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:04,079 but I am not speaking about Rebecca. 187 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:05,439 I don't need to bring it up. 188 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:08,120 It doesn't need to be a thing. I just want to move forward. 189 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:11,999 Ahead of the dinner party, 190 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:15,680 Leisha and Reiss have decided to pay a visit to one of their neighbours. 191 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:19,879 I'm so excited! I'm so excited to meet everyone. 192 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:21,679 I want to see if they're happy in their couples. 193 00:09:21,680 --> 00:09:22,960 KNOCKING AT DOOR 194 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:26,959 Oh, hello! 195 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:28,359 Oh! 196 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:29,999 Come in. Hi. 197 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:32,159 Hi! How are you? 198 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:34,839 What's your name? Leisha. I'm Leigh. 199 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:37,399 Leigh and... Leah. When did you just get here, just now? 200 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:40,879 Yeah, literally just arrived. Oh. 12-hour flight. 201 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:43,199 Oh, really? Where have yous been? Thailand. 202 00:09:43,200 --> 00:09:45,039 Was it good? Unreal. Yeah. 203 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:48,399 Sick. Are yous, like, well-matched? 204 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:50,999 Couple of little barneys. 205 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:53,719 Oh, really? Are yous each other's type? 206 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:55,880 Yeah. Oh, that's good. 207 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:04,959 First impressions of Reiss and Leisha is, fit and fit. 208 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:08,239 I can definitely see them being a few people's types, 209 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:09,920 including myself. 210 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:16,480 We needed something to spice it up. 211 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:22,119 Because of my past, I'm a little bit hypersensitive 212 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:23,159 to flirty behaviour. 213 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:25,279 There's been a lot of emotions and a lot of things going on 214 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:26,879 that have been getting to my head a little bit. 215 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:29,679 Me and Leah have been through the situation with Rebecca 216 00:10:29,680 --> 00:10:32,879 and me feeling like Leah was being too flirty with Rebecca, 217 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:35,080 and now she's doing it again. 218 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:45,999 I'm so excited about the dinner party. 219 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:48,199 How are you feeling? Same. 220 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:51,799 I'm looking forward to showing everyone my wife. Aw! 221 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:53,040 I know, and my husband! 222 00:11:04,120 --> 00:11:05,759 So what do you think of the new couple? 223 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:09,319 I think they look gorgeous together. She's definitely a girl's girl. 224 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:11,279 I like it when someone's tactile straight away, 225 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:12,720 it means that they're quite friendly. 226 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:31,519 Well, here we are, almost at the midpoint in the experiment, 227 00:11:31,520 --> 00:11:33,879 and this is where things start to get real. 228 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:36,439 Now, of course, we have three new couples. 229 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:39,479 Very exciting. And coming off the back of In-laws Week, 230 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:41,879 the couples are forced to really rehash 231 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:45,040 and relive every bit of their experience. 232 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:54,800 First here. Happy days. More drink for me! More booze for you. 233 00:11:56,200 --> 00:12:00,039 I can't wait. Maeve and Joe, looking like a united couple 234 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:03,479 on the back of both of them saying that they love each other. 235 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:05,519 It's obviously helped them to grow closer together, 236 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:07,239 and I think that's what we're seeing here. 237 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:09,759 Very quiet when no-one else is here, like, innit? 238 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:12,199 You look great. Thanks, darling. So do you. Matching again. 239 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:13,480 I know, matchy-matchy. 240 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:18,280 Hey! Whoa! 241 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:23,999 Hello! Hi, guys. How are you doing? I'm all right, you? 242 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:25,919 Here's Divarni and Julia-Ruth. 243 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:27,999 Last time we saw Julia-Ruth and Divarni, 244 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:30,519 there was quite a bit of friction going on there, 245 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:33,879 so I'm hoping there's been some progress. 246 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:36,759 We'll all sit down together, yeah? Yeah. What's been happening? 247 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:38,599 So we had Divarni's cousin come. 248 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:42,679 Yeah. And then I had my two best friends come as well. 249 00:12:42,680 --> 00:12:44,359 It was just really intense, 250 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:48,799 because they were both trying to defend and protect us. 251 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:50,759 Yeah. Why was it heated? 252 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:53,439 We just went over, just stuff that we went through already 253 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:56,119 in our honeymoon, literally opening up a wound that was already closed 254 00:12:56,120 --> 00:12:58,759 and then it was just raw emotions bringing it back, 255 00:12:58,760 --> 00:12:59,879 you know what I mean? 256 00:12:59,880 --> 00:13:00,919 Right. 257 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:04,799 I think Divarni is indirectly saying that he doesn't see any benefit 258 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:06,439 in bringing up old wounds. 259 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:08,919 Not every bit of conflict needs to be resolved, 260 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:10,279 but if you can't go back 261 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:13,279 and address it, it means that it still is an issue. 262 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:14,880 That's right. Yeah. 263 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:19,560 Hey! 264 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:23,599 Sarah and Dean. 265 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:26,279 Last time we saw Sarah, we had to give her some home truths 266 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:28,639 around the disrespect that she gave Dean. 267 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:30,560 So hopefully, they've had a better week. 268 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:38,239 You all good? No. My best mate came. Threw me off a bit. 269 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:39,959 He's like, "I know you protect everyone. 270 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:41,919 "It's in your nature, but are you making sure you're OK?" 271 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:44,199 And I was like, "Yeah, maybe I need to take it on board." 272 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:46,679 To hear it from your best mate from home, you're like, OK. 273 00:13:46,680 --> 00:13:49,119 After that, I kind of left a little bit deflated, to be fair. 274 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:52,439 So I think for Dean, hearing his best friend question, 275 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:54,799 "Are you looking after yourself in this relationship?", 276 00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:56,999 it's going to have a really strong impact on him. 277 00:13:57,000 --> 00:14:00,159 I wonder if Dean's friends are actually saying 278 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:01,799 what he knows deep down. 279 00:14:01,800 --> 00:14:05,199 It doesn't sound like he's shocked by this feedback at all. 280 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:07,119 I think he knows this. Yeah. 281 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:08,960 How was your In-laws Week? 282 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:12,599 Um, it was just good to sort of hear 283 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:15,399 both of their, you know, like, advice and... 284 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:17,280 Yeah. So, yeah. Onwards and upwards. 285 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:20,560 Um, yeah. 286 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:25,279 And what about you, Miss Maeve? 287 00:14:25,280 --> 00:14:27,199 Sarah's completely dodged that question. 288 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:29,440 Yeah. Deflect. Mm-hm. 289 00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:35,600 Hey! 290 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:40,759 Hello, bubbas! Hi! 291 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:42,000 Nelly and Steven. 292 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:46,639 Hello! How are you? Last time we saw Steven and Nelly, 293 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:48,319 they were not in a good place. 294 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:51,759 And it looks like they're at least signalling 295 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:53,999 that they are a united front. 296 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:56,239 How's your week been? Well, obviously, 297 00:14:56,240 --> 00:14:58,479 last week was hell. We've had In-Laws Week. 298 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:00,079 It was really nice seeing my brother and sister. 299 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:01,879 I feel like the start of last week, 300 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:03,159 I felt like there was this big, 301 00:15:03,160 --> 00:15:04,919 massive dark cloud over Nelly and Steve. 302 00:15:04,920 --> 00:15:09,919 It was such a 180 from the honeymoon that I was like, what's happened? 303 00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:12,799 Because I'm fully the same. Do you know what I mean? Yeah. 304 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:14,119 I think it just reiterated to me 305 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:17,079 that we were in such an awful place, and that made me sad. 306 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:19,439 But this week has been better. Yeah! 307 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:21,239 This week I've been more present, which has been good. 308 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:23,639 There've been no dramas, I don't think. Unless she says otherwise. 309 00:15:23,640 --> 00:15:24,720 LAUGHTER 310 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:27,240 How was In-Laws Week? 311 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:32,319 Which I expected. Yeah, of course. 312 00:15:32,320 --> 00:15:34,239 They were a bit like, "Let's make sure that don't happen again." 313 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:36,639 Oh, fair. I was like, "Well, it was just the heat of the moment." 314 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:38,960 People say things out of turn that they don't actually mean. 315 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:43,039 I think for Steven, you call your partner something like that, 316 00:15:43,040 --> 00:15:44,439 then it needs to be addressed 317 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:47,039 and I'm not seeing any remorse here at all. 318 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:48,719 Nor any regard for how it made Nelly feel. 319 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:49,800 No. 320 00:15:56,000 --> 00:15:57,999 Hello! Hey! Welcome. 321 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:01,719 Here's our gorgeous girls, Leigh and Leah. 322 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:04,880 A bit grunge. Little bit grunge. Little bit grunge. 323 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:08,199 Last time we met Leigh and Leah, 324 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:10,639 Leah's comments about Rebecca were making Leigh feel jealous, 325 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:13,880 and so the two of them were navigating their way through this. 326 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:21,079 We've got a secret to tell everyone. 327 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:22,999 Ooh. 328 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:25,039 What? 329 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:27,239 We met a new couple today. What? Where? 330 00:16:27,240 --> 00:16:29,719 Yeah, they came to our apartment. 331 00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:31,959 So we've got Reiss and Leisha. 332 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:34,919 Oh, exciting. She's brunette. Blue eyes. 333 00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:36,719 Yeah. Oh, of course you fucking noticed. 334 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:37,879 Oh, that's interesting. 335 00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:39,479 I think we need to kind of establish 336 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:42,039 what this jealousy or insecurity is about. 337 00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:45,719 Is it an ego thing or is there something there? 338 00:16:45,720 --> 00:16:46,879 "You know, this is my partner 339 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:49,719 "and actually, I feel quite uncomfortable about this." 340 00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:53,319 But she's a definite girl's girl, tactile, nice, huggy. 341 00:16:53,320 --> 00:16:55,799 Leah's type, basically. Yeah, she's my type. 342 00:16:55,800 --> 00:16:57,240 They're hot. 343 00:16:58,400 --> 00:17:02,839 Straight away, it's comments about Leisha and the way she looks, 344 00:17:02,840 --> 00:17:05,759 and I don't feel she's taking my feelings into consideration 345 00:17:05,760 --> 00:17:07,200 when she's making comments. 346 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:12,319 Those comments... About Leisha? Yeah. 347 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:15,959 I've sat on a couch and I've told you 348 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:18,119 I've been through these similar situations before. 349 00:17:18,120 --> 00:17:22,479 I've been humiliated in the past. I find it disrespectful. 350 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:24,199 New girl's come in - again, your type. 351 00:17:24,200 --> 00:17:28,039 First thing you've done - "Yeah, she's fit. Lovely eyes." 352 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:29,959 It's all about her physical appearance. 353 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:32,839 OK, so this is starting to become a little clearer. 354 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:35,359 She's being triggered based on her past relationships, 355 00:17:35,360 --> 00:17:37,199 and she's feeling fearful. 356 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:40,639 This is the second time that Leah has crossed Leigh's boundaries, 357 00:17:40,640 --> 00:17:44,439 and Leigh has made it clear that she wants a level of respect 358 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:46,319 when it comes to their communication. 359 00:17:46,320 --> 00:17:47,879 Leah's not able to deliver on it, 360 00:17:47,880 --> 00:17:50,199 or she's intentionally provoking her. 361 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:52,559 I'm just going to keep my eyes peeled 362 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:54,479 as to what happens from now. 363 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:56,960 We will see when she comes in. Yeah. 364 00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:03,240 Hello! Hello. 365 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:05,519 Oh! 366 00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:08,160 Our first new couple! Reiss and Leisha. 367 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:11,159 Hey! 368 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:12,839 ALL EXCLAIM 369 00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:13,919 Hi! 370 00:18:13,920 --> 00:18:15,120 This must be the new couple. 371 00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:17,199 A new couple? 372 00:18:17,200 --> 00:18:18,280 I'm so excited. 373 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:20,840 Oh. 374 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:26,080 Oh, Leigh. 375 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:39,480 Hello! Hello. 376 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:41,799 Oh. 377 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:43,000 Thank you. How are you? 378 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:45,439 Hello. 379 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:46,720 Oh, Leigh. 380 00:18:48,360 --> 00:18:50,520 You look stunning! So do you. 381 00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:54,399 Hello, my darling. How are you? I'm good. How are you? 382 00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:57,679 I'm good. Hello. Do you want a prosecco? Yes, please. 383 00:18:57,680 --> 00:19:00,719 Thank you. Have you met everyone? Or nearly everyone? Yes. 384 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:03,159 How are you? Thank you so much. 385 00:19:03,160 --> 00:19:04,519 ALL TALK AT ONCE 386 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:06,759 Cheers! Welcome, welcome, welcome. 387 00:19:06,760 --> 00:19:08,920 I honestly need to borrow that. That is gorgeous. You can have it. 388 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:13,879 Shall we take a seat? Do you want to sit down? 389 00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:15,359 Let's sit down here. 390 00:19:15,360 --> 00:19:18,040 Tell me, tell me, tell me what is going on. 391 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:22,319 Have yous had a snog? Oh, yeah, yeah. Oh, yeah? 392 00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:24,399 Yeah. No qualms in that department. 393 00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:26,919 Do you know what I mean? We had a little barney. I asked the question, 394 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:28,919 "Do you think you're falling for me?" He was like... 395 00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:31,479 Oh, in a week? Oh, hell. 396 00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:33,399 Oh, my goodness. 397 00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:34,799 I said, three days. 398 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:37,719 Why did you ask him? Oh, I just felt like it. It's a lot, that. 399 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:41,119 Is it? It's a lot. It's a lot! Oh, shit. 400 00:19:41,120 --> 00:19:42,599 After three days, you can't say that. 401 00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:44,799 If I got asked after three days, I would have been like, 402 00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:47,039 "I'm pushing you in the pool and I'm swimming off." Oh, shit. 403 00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:50,319 I think this is quite a good reality check for Leisha, 404 00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:53,599 because I think in her world, she does move very quickly. 405 00:19:53,600 --> 00:19:57,599 I wonder if maybe she's not getting what she needs from Reiss right now 406 00:19:57,600 --> 00:19:58,839 for her to feel secure enough 407 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:02,239 so she doesn't need to ask that question so early on. Hmm. 408 00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:05,279 So how are you two getting along? She's quite fast-moving. 409 00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:08,039 You know, like, the second day she was like, "Are you falling for me?" 410 00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:10,599 And I was like, I thought she was joking at first. 411 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:13,039 I don't normally move that quick. 412 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:14,879 I don't know what kind of speed she likes to move, 413 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:16,639 but it's obviously a lot faster than myself. 414 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:17,719 We had a bit of a row 415 00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:20,039 about my development of the relationship. OK. 416 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:23,079 So this issue of pacing comes up a lot. 417 00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:24,359 It doesn't have to be a problem, 418 00:20:24,360 --> 00:20:26,599 you know, as long as there's good communication around, 419 00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:28,079 "This is where I'm at and what I need", 420 00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:29,759 "This is where I'm at and what I need, 421 00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:32,559 "let's find the compromise and the common ground." 422 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:34,319 But I think what we're observing here is, 423 00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:36,560 the two of them are not talking to each other about that. 424 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:41,399 On a plane on the way home, she was banging back a load of wine, 425 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:44,679 and then she's come walking up to me, like, sick all down her. 426 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:46,359 Nah. What? 427 00:20:46,360 --> 00:20:47,440 Oh. 428 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:50,999 She's, like, kneeled down. Like, she's just like, 429 00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:52,279 looking at me, like, shaking her head, like. 430 00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:55,279 Oh, my God. And then she just walked off and got changed. 431 00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:56,999 She's gone for ages. I'm watching the film, 432 00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:59,960 so I know, like, an hour has passed and she still ain't come back. 433 00:21:01,360 --> 00:21:03,399 So I've got up and, like, she's chatting to some geezer, 434 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:05,359 like, outside the toilet for, like, a straight hour. 435 00:21:05,360 --> 00:21:07,159 Wow. Jesus. 436 00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:10,039 I'm thinking, "We've just come back from honeymoon and you's doing this? 437 00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:13,119 "It's well disrespectful. I wouldn't do that to you." Yeah, yeah. 438 00:21:13,120 --> 00:21:16,319 So that caused a rift. Nah, I think you're fair enough there, though, 439 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:17,599 you know what I mean? 440 00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:18,679 Of course, 441 00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:21,199 it's still such early days for Leisha and Rhys. 442 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:23,319 They're just starting to get to know each other. 443 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:26,839 But getting drunk and then spending a significant amount of time 444 00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:29,839 talking to another man isn't exactly ideal behaviour 445 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:32,079 to display in front of your new husband. 446 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:35,399 Absolutely. It's understandable that Reiss would be upset 447 00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:37,600 and left questioning what's really going on. 448 00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:41,679 How are you? Where are you at? She's in her little love bubble. 449 00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:42,760 Me little bubble. 450 00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:49,319 That's all lovely. Yeah. But how are you actually feeling? 451 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:54,959 I am happy. But yesterday, when I had a chat with Sofia, 452 00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:58,919 she was like, "What are you going to do after this?" 453 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:01,319 Because she was like, "You are so on your bubble now. 454 00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:03,559 "What's going to happen when you actually get out of here?" 455 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:07,039 And I was like, "I've not actually thought about this." 456 00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:08,799 This is the power of In-Laws Week, 457 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:11,919 where those big questions about the real world start to come up. 458 00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:14,360 And quite often, our couples haven't considered that yet. 459 00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:17,319 Last week I was going to say something 460 00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:19,119 and he was like, "Don't get involved." 461 00:22:19,120 --> 00:22:20,999 But, like, I felt like I had to say something. 462 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:22,759 Oh, when I was on the sofa? Yeah. 463 00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:24,039 I just thought, that's not who I am, 464 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:26,079 but then I didn't want to make him feel uncomfortable. 465 00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:27,479 Do you know what I mean? 466 00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:29,279 Not saying that I'm being a different person, but... 467 00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:31,479 If that is who you are and you do want to give your opinion, 468 00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:33,839 you shouldn't have to dim yourself down or not speak on that 469 00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:36,199 because it's not something he would do. Mm-hm. 470 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:39,399 You can really see the conflict in Maeve. 471 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:42,599 She's not quite sure who she should be. 472 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:45,199 Should she be the Maeve that she knows, 473 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:48,119 or should she be the Maeve that Joe wants her to be? 474 00:22:48,120 --> 00:22:51,679 And you can see that she's kind of going backwards and forwards. 475 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:53,400 How are you doing? How have you been getting on? 476 00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:57,159 It's coming there slowly. There's no pressure on it. 477 00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:59,639 Sometimes when you're on that couch, I want to fucking shake you. 478 00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:04,159 Sometimes I feel like you just support her every time. 479 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:06,239 It always plays on my mind, what you said at the stag. 480 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:07,999 You want to be on the pedestal 481 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:09,559 and you always put the other person on the pedestal, 482 00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:10,839 and I'm watching that play out in real life. 483 00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:13,880 You need to have your feelings out there as well. 484 00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:16,799 So here what we've got 485 00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:20,759 is Leah essentially reinforcing what Dean's friend said to him. 486 00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:24,239 He's telling himself that he's in this great relationship 487 00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:26,639 with this beautiful woman who he really likes. 488 00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:29,679 And I think because his self-esteem is underdeveloped, 489 00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,440 he doesn't believe that he deserves more. 490 00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:39,480 ALL CHEER 491 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:45,199 Keye and Davide. Yes. Happy as ever. 492 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:47,399 And we can always trust them to raise the energy. 493 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:48,480 Yes. Yes. 494 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:53,039 Held each other's hands 495 00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:55,679 all the way through until they greeted a couple. 496 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:58,359 Yeah. And the smiles. Yes. 497 00:23:58,360 --> 00:24:00,439 Hello. Hello, nice to meet you. Lovely to meet you. 498 00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:01,719 Where did you go on honeymoon? 499 00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:03,759 Thailand. Oh, my God, amazing. Yeah. 500 00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:06,159 Got back yesterday. And do you like your husband? 501 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:09,720 Yes. Yeah! It's important to check, you know. 502 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:16,280 Hi! 503 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,599 Rebecca and Bailey, a golden couple. 504 00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:23,319 Hello! 505 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:25,479 How are you doing? Good to see you, sir. 506 00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:26,839 Good to see you. Hello. 507 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:29,799 Nice to meet you. I'm Reiss. I'm Rebecca. Reiss? Yeah. 508 00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:32,479 Hi, darling! You look amazing. 509 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:34,599 Cheers, bro. 510 00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:35,799 Cheers. Cheers, bro. 511 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:38,199 What I love about Rebecca and Bailey is, 512 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:40,319 they always put on this united front. 513 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:43,519 How are you? How's your week been? Our week has been quiet. 514 00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:45,239 I mean, we're like the mum and dad of the group. 515 00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:47,079 You are mum and dad. 516 00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:48,919 Ooh! 517 00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:52,320 Hi! 518 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:57,439 Abigail and John. Our second new couple. 519 00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:59,239 What's your name? I'm John. Nice to meet you. 520 00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:02,319 What's your name? I'm Abby. Abby. Lovely to meet you. 521 00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:05,359 I'm John. Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you. 522 00:25:05,360 --> 00:25:06,719 How's everything going? 523 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:10,399 I feel like I've missed so much. Oh, tell me about you first. 524 00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:14,079 What's going on? So we've just come back from the Seychelles. 525 00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:16,279 It was really nice. We're getting on really well. 526 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,839 He's literally, like, kind of everything that I asked for. 527 00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:23,519 Aw! Yeah. It's been really, really sweet. Yeah, so far, so good. 528 00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:26,239 Aw, well done, us. Yeah. Pat on the back. 529 00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:28,559 Nice. Tick, tick, tick. Nice work. 530 00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:31,719 So, how's everything going? Honestly, mate, like, brilliant. 531 00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:33,079 Really? Yeah, yeah, yeah. 532 00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:35,039 The wedding - fantastic. 533 00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:37,959 Like, the vows - she said her vows. I could have written them. 534 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:39,799 Like, honestly, they said the same things. 535 00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:41,439 We've been flying, to be fair, yeah. 536 00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:42,680 Oh, that's good, mate. 537 00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:47,279 You can see Dean's trying to put on that positive exterior, 538 00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:48,799 but he's really feeling it. 539 00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:51,199 It's clear that Dean would love to be in John's position. 540 00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:52,280 Yeah. 541 00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:57,879 Oh. 542 00:25:57,880 --> 00:25:59,399 Oh, hi! 543 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:00,759 Oh, no! 544 00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:04,599 Oh! Oh, no. Grace is alone. 545 00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:07,439 What's happened? Where's Ash? 546 00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:10,279 Oh, my... What? 547 00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:12,280 Aaah! 548 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:15,680 Oh! 549 00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,759 OK. Oh, I like that. 550 00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:22,359 Well, they've come in, high energy, having a bit of a laugh, 551 00:26:22,360 --> 00:26:24,159 so hopefully they're in a really good place. 552 00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:25,359 It's a good sign. Yeah. 553 00:26:25,360 --> 00:26:26,519 Why would you do that? 554 00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:28,959 Sorry, it was so easy. 555 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:32,559 Um, Ashley and Grace. 556 00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:33,839 Sorry, what was your name again? John. 557 00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:36,839 John? Yes. I want to know about In-Laws Week with you. 558 00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:39,079 With me? Yeah, with you. Um, it was good. 559 00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:41,559 We saw two of my bridesmaids, 560 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,839 and then we saw Ash's mum, Maxine and sister Jess. 561 00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:45,919 It's really helped us. 562 00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:48,559 No, we're all right. We're in a really good place, to be fair. 563 00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:50,559 I feel like she's really working at it, so, yeah, 564 00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:51,999 couldn't have gone any better. Really? 565 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:53,079 That's good. Yeah. 566 00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:55,799 Grace and Ashley have so many shared values, 567 00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:57,679 and it's important for them to remember that 568 00:26:57,680 --> 00:26:59,119 and it appears as if they have, 569 00:26:59,120 --> 00:27:00,759 and that's the core of the success 570 00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:02,640 of the success of the relationship they've had so far. 571 00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:07,079 How are you doing? You guys are getting on OK? 572 00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:09,359 Yeah, everything seems perfect. 573 00:27:09,360 --> 00:27:11,799 Um, are you actually happy with your partner? 574 00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:13,759 Um, initially for me, 575 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:17,519 the attraction and that sort of spark wasn't there. OK. 576 00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:19,159 But he makes me laugh. 577 00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:20,759 We've got the same values. 578 00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,079 The only thing for me was just that attraction. 579 00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:25,959 Can you feel the attraction grow, though, or is it a total no? 580 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,879 I don't... It's hard. We're taking it sort of step by step. 581 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:30,719 And have you had intimacy? No. 582 00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:33,679 We've, like, held hands and, like, cuddled and things. 583 00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:35,640 But no, we're just taking it slow. 584 00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:40,879 It's interesting the way Sarah says, "We're just taking it slow", 585 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:43,439 as though it's a joint decision between the two of them, 586 00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:44,479 and it's clearly not. 587 00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:45,799 There really isn't any evidence 588 00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:48,000 of them moving beyond friendship at this point. 589 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:57,279 Hey, guys. Hey! 590 00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:58,799 Hello! 591 00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:02,319 Oh, here's our third new couple, April and Leo. 592 00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:03,600 Hi, nice to meet you! 593 00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:07,720 Nice to meet you. Steven, nice to meet you. Steven. Leo. 594 00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,239 How has it been, like, since the honeymoon? 595 00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:12,479 We have got a lot in common. 596 00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:14,839 I can really see why they paired us together. 597 00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:16,119 There is some, like, niggles and stuff, 598 00:28:16,120 --> 00:28:17,879 but at the end of the day it's still so early on. 599 00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:20,639 What kind of things were you guys not really gelling on? 600 00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:22,679 I was just concerned about how I very much lead the conversation. 601 00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:25,479 I feel like if I wasn't talking, there would be a lot of silence, 602 00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:27,079 but I have addressed that with him. 603 00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:29,639 Like, on the last dinner, I said, you know, 604 00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:31,239 "I do feel like I'm leading the conversation a lot. 605 00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:33,439 "It's a bit of a worry for me." And he just sort of, you know, 606 00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,639 explained that he's not been in a relationship a long time 607 00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:36,999 and sort of said his side of things. 608 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:38,879 Did you ever try and just leave it? 609 00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:40,799 Just let the silence... just see what happened? 610 00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:42,559 I find it really, really difficult. Right. 611 00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:45,399 Yeah, but I did, I tried. What happened? There was silence. 612 00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,359 Literally, they could not have picked a better match for me. 613 00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:49,759 Really? 614 00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:52,160 She's like the female version of me, but better looking. 615 00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:55,079 The main concern around it 616 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:56,999 is that emotional connection is built on conversation. 617 00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,559 Emotional connection is built off very much getting deep, 618 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:01,599 and that's what's more concerning me, you know what I mean? 619 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:02,680 I'm worried that that won't build. 620 00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:08,959 Do you feel like he's the man for you? 621 00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:11,679 I hope so. Like, I don't know. There's certain things 622 00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:14,799 I'm doing with Reiss and I'm like, "I'm too much, I'm too much." 623 00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:16,559 Really? Yeah. They're like, "Leisha, it's too much." 624 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:18,479 Are you too much? 625 00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:20,439 He's like, "You've had about three cups of coffee 626 00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:21,759 "and I've literally just woke up." 627 00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:24,680 I'm like that. 628 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:30,279 I like the outdoors, don't like to be stuck on my couch. 629 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:32,799 Yeah, I hate that as well. I like to get up in the morning, 630 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,240 seize the day, crack on with it. That's like me. 631 00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:38,239 Where I live is, like, on the beach. 632 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:40,799 Oh, nice. So I like getting out. Yeah. 633 00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:42,960 Having a coffee outside, get the natural light. Yes! 634 00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,239 Would you say when you normally get in a relationship, 635 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:50,959 you're like instant connection, fireworks, passion. Yeah. 636 00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:53,119 I like to meet somebody and there's, like, 637 00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:54,799 that flirty vibe straight away. 638 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:57,079 Do you know what I mean? For me, I much prefer it 639 00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:58,559 when I meet somebody and there's, like, 640 00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:01,039 that flirty connection. Yeah, that's important for me. 641 00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:03,680 Especially something like this, like, you want to have that. 642 00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:06,839 I'm fucking pissed off. 643 00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:09,479 I can see Leah's been flirting with Leisha. 644 00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:11,999 It's not that I don't trust the other girl. 645 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,760 It's more on Leah's behaviour. 646 00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:21,799 Where are you going? Oh, I like the colours. 647 00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:23,240 Where are we? 648 00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:34,799 We're walking in the dinner party. Everybody else is holding hands 649 00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,319 and I'm just looking over at Reiss, going, "What are you doing? 650 00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,559 "Where's my husband? Why are you not holding my hand? 651 00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:41,960 "Like, give me some support, please." 652 00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:49,199 Hello? Yo! 653 00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:53,079 There seems to be a real disconnect here, with Leisha talking about 654 00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:56,399 how symbolic and meaningful a handhold is to her. 655 00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:58,519 Yes. Maybe it's not to Reiss. 656 00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:01,840 I'm not being a brat, you know what I mean? Look at that. 657 00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:09,680 So everybody else is holding hands. He doesn't grab my hand. 658 00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:12,999 I feel like that means quite a lot to women as well. 659 00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:15,559 It means so much to me. It's the little things like that. 660 00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:18,040 Like, fuck's sake, why are you not holding my hand? Yeah. 661 00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:25,519 Is that all right? No, it's just like, 662 00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:27,199 everybody else is holding hands 663 00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:29,439 and you're just fucking walking off and leaving me. 664 00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:31,399 I was holding your hand. I stopped holding your hand 665 00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:32,759 for two seconds and you're like, 666 00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:36,320 "You don't fucking hold my hand." You didn't hold my hand. 667 00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,879 She's very pissed off at me right now for not holding her hand. 668 00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:44,639 She needs quite a bit of reassurance from me. 669 00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:46,039 It was only two minutes I didn't hold it. 670 00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:48,439 I can't constantly be holding her hand. 671 00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:49,759 Just frustrating, man. 672 00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:52,639 The way you handle shit is, like, to me, immature. 673 00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:54,719 Like, "Don't hold my fucking hand" and storm off 674 00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:58,239 like I should be, "Oh, sorry, darling" and chasing after you. 675 00:31:58,240 --> 00:31:59,280 No, no. 676 00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,159 You should want to, like, do that with me. 677 00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:05,119 Like, I shouldn't have to ask. 678 00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:08,039 Well, there's a job to be done here for both Reiss and Leisha. 679 00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:09,279 Leisha needs to communicate 680 00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:10,999 that hand-holding is important to her, 681 00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:13,079 but he also needs to start reading her. 682 00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:15,919 So I think work needs to be done on both sides here. 683 00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:17,520 I feel like you're raging. 684 00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:43,319 I'm not doing anything. 685 00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:45,680 You think I fancy her? Do you? 686 00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:47,959 No. 687 00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,439 If you don't fancy her, 688 00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:54,239 we don't need any more comments about how hot you think she is. 689 00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:56,519 I didn't say hot. I said fit. 690 00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:57,919 I think it's a Liverpool thing. 691 00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:02,439 I think the word fit means the same thing as hot across the UK. 692 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:05,679 What's most concerning for me is how is it landing with Leigh? 693 00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:07,479 Right. Yeah. And it's clear she's hurt. 694 00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:08,759 She's pained by it. 695 00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:10,679 Everyone's so complimentary up north. 696 00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:12,040 Londoners aren't like that. 697 00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:15,759 Did she really just say to me 698 00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,959 that she's more flirty because she's from Liverpool? 699 00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:21,039 Biggest fucking cop-out I've ever heard. 700 00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:22,999 So the reason that you flirt with other girls 701 00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:24,719 is because you're from Liverpool? 702 00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:28,359 Who do I flirt with? I don't flirt with Rebecca. 703 00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:31,119 And I certainly haven't flirted with her. 704 00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:33,439 Marriage definitely can't work without trust. 705 00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:35,039 A relationship can't work without trust. 706 00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:36,120 It's pathetic. 707 00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:40,839 I've expressed my feelings about other girls and being flirty, 708 00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:43,879 or just pushing boundaries that I've set. 709 00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:44,999 What I won't do 710 00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:49,280 {\an8}is allow someone to disrespect me again and again and again. 711 00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:05,239 All right, you got this. You got this. 712 00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:06,759 KEYE BANGS FORK AGAINST GLASS 713 00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:08,079 ALL CHEER 714 00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:09,200 Hello, everyone. Hi. 715 00:34:10,240 --> 00:34:12,119 So I hate public speaking, 716 00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:14,919 um, but as it's his birthday, I guess I'll do it. 717 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:17,079 I have fallen in love with this man. 718 00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:18,320 ALL CHEER 719 00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:22,839 Yes. Look at that. 720 00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:24,439 "Fallen in love with"" 721 00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:26,599 Oh, gorgeous. 722 00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:29,119 He is the kindest, most honest human being 723 00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:30,839 I've ever met in my life. 724 00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:34,120 I do not know what on earth I did to deserve this man. 725 00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:39,360 But I'm so glad that he is here and here with me. 726 00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:44,080 If we could raise a glass to Davide and our new couples. 727 00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:49,439 Cheers. Cheers, guys. Cheers! 728 00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:51,159 Yeah! 729 00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:54,760 Cheers! Thank you. Cheers, guys. Cheers. Chin-chin. 730 00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:02,919 It's really hard to see Sarah and Dean here. 731 00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:06,479 Such sad face expressions when they heard Keye say that, 732 00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:08,959 and I think it's a reflection of what they don't have 733 00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:12,199 in their relationship, unfortunately. It's sad. 734 00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:15,240 So how are you two doing? Yeah, good. Really good. 735 00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:19,199 We know Dean is the eternal optimist, 736 00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:21,479 sometimes at the expense of reality. 737 00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:22,919 And so he was always going to say, 738 00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:24,679 "Yeah, great, everything's going great." 739 00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:27,679 But looking at Sarah's nonverbal communication, 740 00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:30,840 she's really saying, "I don't think things are going too well at all." 741 00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:43,599 It is really hard to see the other couples progressing. 742 00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:46,960 Physically, you can see that they're all over each other. 743 00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:50,639 I just don't know how much more I've got left within me, 744 00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:51,880 to be completely honest. 745 00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:55,719 How about you guys? 746 00:35:55,720 --> 00:35:57,560 How was the in-laws and the rest of the week? 747 00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:02,439 Steve and I are in a really not great place. 748 00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:04,079 Ultimately, we want to try and get back 749 00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:06,319 to how we felt about each other, I guess, on the honeymoon. 750 00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:09,039 You're never going to get truly back to the honeymoon thing, 751 00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:10,879 because what's happened has changed the dynamic slightly, 752 00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:13,359 but you can get back to a place of the honeymoon again. 753 00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:14,439 I'm just thinking, like, 754 00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:16,640 is there anything else I can do from my end, really? 755 00:36:22,720 --> 00:36:24,079 What do you define as needy, though? 756 00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:27,399 Needy for me is just being ultra-possessive. 757 00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:29,999 I'm not massive on public displays of affection anyway, 758 00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:31,799 the constant always putting my arm around you... 759 00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:33,799 I think when the neediness comes in, 760 00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:35,599 that's when I've started going the other way. 761 00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:38,079 I am genuinely, really, really sorry about it. 762 00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:39,400 It's just hard to navigate. 763 00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:45,279 I think what would be more healthy from Steven 764 00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:48,399 is him saying, "OK, this is what you need from me. 765 00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:50,359 "Let me see if I can make a little bit more effort 766 00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:53,319 "and give you a little bit more encouragement and support 767 00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:56,879 "so you don't feel the need to want so much more from me." 768 00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:59,879 But he's putting all the blame on Nelly. 769 00:36:59,880 --> 00:37:00,999 Well, you said it early doors - 770 00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:02,719 "What do you think about the other girls?" 771 00:37:02,720 --> 00:37:04,679 Why are you asking that? That was a poorly landed joke on my behalf. 772 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:06,959 That was me, my insecurity coming out as a joke 773 00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:08,479 and it landed really, really badly. 774 00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:10,159 It was like, "What do you think the other girls are like? 775 00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:12,159 "Do I need to be worried?" And I'm like, "No." 776 00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:13,599 I'm so sorry if it offended you. 777 00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:16,599 But just remember, at that point I knew you'd pulled away 778 00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:18,159 and I hadn't had a reason why. 779 00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:19,839 It's very natural for a person to feel that way. 780 00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:22,279 If I'd randomly pulled away from you and didn't tell you, you'd think, 781 00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:23,679 "What the hell's going on in her head?" 782 00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:25,399 That's exactly what I was thinking at that moment. 783 00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:27,640 I thought, "I have no idea what's going on." 784 00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:36,959 I feel like you guys need to focus on being good 785 00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:38,399 and growing and progressing, 786 00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:39,879 and you'll be happy once you get there 787 00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:41,480 and stop looking back at the past. 788 00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:47,199 Nelly needs certain things, but maybe vocalising that to him, 789 00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:48,479 so then Steven knows 790 00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:50,279 and Steven can learn from it as well. 791 00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:51,399 I think with that, though, 792 00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:53,599 I just worry that if I do vocalise too much, 793 00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:55,119 I'll just push him away even more. 794 00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:57,159 You're not asking too much to tell your partner 795 00:37:57,160 --> 00:37:58,639 what you need in a relationship. 796 00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:00,239 If Steven were to turn around and say, 797 00:38:00,240 --> 00:38:02,319 "I'm going to walk because it's too much for me", 798 00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:03,560 then he's not right for you. 799 00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:07,439 I think Leigh has made a really valid point there. 800 00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:09,799 Nelly has every right to say to Steven 801 00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:12,359 what she needs from this relationship. 802 00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:15,119 And if there are worries about doing that, 803 00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:16,239 then you have to ask yourself, 804 00:38:16,240 --> 00:38:18,040 is this the right relationship for you? 805 00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:22,359 What were your highlights from the honeymoon? 806 00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:24,439 My highlight was actually spending it with you. 807 00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:25,879 Like... Aw! 808 00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:28,279 I know that sounds really cheesy, 809 00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:31,159 but it's just because we have, like, such a good connection. 810 00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:34,159 And I've not felt like this before, like, with anyone. 811 00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:35,799 He makes me feel like it's OK to be me 812 00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:37,799 and it's just seeing the progression from, like, the start 813 00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:38,919 to the end of the honeymoon. 814 00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:41,279 More and more each day, I became more like myself. 815 00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:42,559 It just highlighted, like, 816 00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:44,959 how much like I genuinely wanted to find someone 817 00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:48,519 and that, like, I've found my person. 818 00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:50,359 John is besotted. 819 00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:54,919 Look at how he locks his eyes in as Abby just talks. 820 00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:57,520 Yes. There's no-one else in the room. No-one else in the room. 821 00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:04,679 You guys seem so solid and so, like, lovely together. 822 00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:06,559 Yeah, we're doing so well. Yeah, so good. 823 00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:09,759 I said the L-word at the commitment ceremony last week. 824 00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:12,519 Oh, my God. How did you feel when he said it? 825 00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:15,279 Like, when anyone tells you they love you, 826 00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:16,479 like, I feel so strongly for him, 827 00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:19,279 so, like, when someone you feel for says that they love you, 828 00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:20,999 it's a big thing, isn't it? 829 00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:23,279 I just said it. You're blushing! 830 00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:25,239 You haven't said it back? 831 00:39:25,240 --> 00:39:27,999 I'm just so much more reserved than him 832 00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:30,039 with, like, expressing my feelings that way. 833 00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:33,519 Like, I'm much more of a slow burner. But you are very much... 834 00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:37,079 I'm very much in. I feel so strongly for him. 835 00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:39,039 For me, like, love is like an end goal. 836 00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:40,519 And I think I probably think 837 00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:43,719 about those things much more than Bailey does. 838 00:39:43,720 --> 00:39:44,920 Let me be cute. 839 00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:48,439 I think this is a really beautiful example 840 00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:50,079 of a couple where one partner 841 00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:52,119 is moving towards the emotional connection 842 00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:53,519 more quickly than the other. 843 00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:56,280 Their pace is not quite matched, but they're talking about it. 844 00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:00,639 And then you have Leisha and Reiss, 845 00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:04,000 who are unable to communicate how they feel. 846 00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:07,120 How are you feeling? 847 00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:11,960 I know you're raging. You know that? 848 00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:16,719 Yeah. All right. Cool. 849 00:40:16,720 --> 00:40:19,719 You know I can't deal with stuff like this 850 00:40:19,720 --> 00:40:22,080 when you start going like this and you just shut down. 851 00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:29,080 We'll just put it behind us, yeah? 852 00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:34,200 You just... I can just tell, like, I'm getting all nervous and that. 853 00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:38,800 I'm just feeling like shit now. 854 00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,119 My worries with Reiss are me pushing Reiss away. 855 00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:46,199 I think I do certain stuff like the way I did on the plane, 856 00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:48,479 and then we get into an argument and he just ignores me, 857 00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:50,399 and he just gets himself in his head, 858 00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:52,360 and he doesn't communicate with me. 859 00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:59,359 Guys, I have the honesty box. 860 00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:02,319 "Good evening, and welcome to our new arrivals." 861 00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:03,800 CHEERING 862 00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:10,319 "Tonight's honesty box is a little bit different, 863 00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:13,919 "as we'll be asking you all to hold a mirror up to each other 864 00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:16,679 "and provide frank and objective opinions. 865 00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:18,279 "One person from each couple 866 00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:20,359 "must read out their question to the group, 867 00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:22,599 "and once the group have finished responding, 868 00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:25,240 "the couple must also reflect and answer the question." 869 00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:29,079 So the questions from this honesty box 870 00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:32,399 will be answered by the group rather than the couples themselves. 871 00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:36,199 Here's such a great opportunity, getting an outside perspective. 872 00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:39,240 It's going to be very interesting to see how things go tonight. 873 00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:43,480 You've all heard about the journey home from the honeymoon. 874 00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:47,920 Are you Team Leisha or Team Reiss? What happened, bro? 875 00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:55,439 All right, so basically, what it was, 876 00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:58,839 Leisha's come up to me with sick down her. I was just drunk. 877 00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:00,439 Then she got changed. 878 00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:02,799 And then a little time later, I went to go to the toilet 879 00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:04,799 and Leisha was just, like, talking to a boy. 880 00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:06,840 And like, the conversation lasted about an hour. 881 00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:14,560 Some random boy on the flight. He was, like, in his twenties. 882 00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:18,279 Team Reiss. Team Reiss. Team Reiss. 883 00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:20,079 So how did that make you feel? 884 00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:22,159 Team Reiss. 885 00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:23,639 Wait, how did it make you feel? 886 00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:25,680 Obviously pissed off. Like, I felt disrespected. 887 00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:29,639 I hear you, because I would feel exactly the same. 888 00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:31,279 You're off the back of your honeymoon. 889 00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:33,119 Regardless of if it was flirty or not, 890 00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:35,239 do you think you should be sat on a plane 891 00:42:35,240 --> 00:42:38,519 talking to a boy similar age to you? Probably not. 892 00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:39,719 What's your view of the story? 893 00:42:39,720 --> 00:42:42,879 In that perspective, it was very valid and obviously, I apologised. 894 00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:47,359 As soon as he said it, I was like, "Oh." I knew I'd fucked up. 895 00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:49,720 That's his boundary, and I'll respect that from now on. 896 00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:51,920 Hang on a minute. 897 00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:56,759 There's one little part that's just not sitting right with me. 898 00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:58,759 You've been telling us about, like, what you need from each other 899 00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,519 and what you're uncomfortable with and how he shuts down. 900 00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:04,759 But if somebody's shutting down off the back of your action, 901 00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:07,799 you can't really complain about his behaviour afterwards, 902 00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:10,000 because it was fuelled by what you did. 903 00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:12,879 I'm not stupid. 904 00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,359 Like, I obviously realised that that wasn't something that he liked. 905 00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:17,199 That's a boundary for him. 906 00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:18,959 I'm a very friendly person. 907 00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:20,159 I'll chat to everyone. 908 00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:22,039 The main thing is that you don't know each other, 909 00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:25,000 so maybe just, like, a little bit more respect. 910 00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,800 Honestly, brother, I would have been absolutely fuming. 911 00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:36,079 Do you feel like you did wrong? I didn't think I did anything wrong. 912 00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:38,279 If you've just gone and married this man, 913 00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:39,959 you've just had a honeymoon with this man, 914 00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:42,280 he doesn't know you and doesn't know your character... 915 00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:45,199 It's like, babe, do you know what I mean? 916 00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:46,919 For fuck's sake. 917 00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:49,720 I'm getting it from every angle possible. 918 00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:52,560 They don't know me. 919 00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:56,999 I've had past relationships. That's never been a problem. 920 00:43:57,000 --> 00:43:59,319 But the other side of it is if you had spent time with her, 921 00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:02,719 maybe she wouldn't have got that drunk with strangers. Er... no. 922 00:44:02,720 --> 00:44:04,839 Absolutely fucking not. 923 00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:06,520 I'm gutted, I'm not going to lie. 924 00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:16,079 For fuck's sake. 925 00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:18,960 I'm getting it from every angle possible. 926 00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:23,879 They don't know me. I've had past relationships. 927 00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:25,599 That's never been a problem. 928 00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:27,919 But the other side of it is if you'd spent time with her, 929 00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:31,319 maybe she wouldn't have got that drunk with strangers. Er... no. 930 00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:33,440 Absolutely fucking not. 931 00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:38,679 This is right at the beginning. Give Leisha some fucking slack. 932 00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:41,399 This is a fucking intense process. 933 00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:45,039 You are thrown into a relationship instantly without knowing anybody. 934 00:44:45,040 --> 00:44:46,319 Reiss, I'm not taking away from you. 935 00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:49,360 That must have been a bit shit, but, like, give her some slack. 936 00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:53,119 It must be really uncomfortable 937 00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:55,039 for Leisha to come into this new group 938 00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:57,719 and to have probably one of the most embarrassing things 939 00:44:57,720 --> 00:45:01,280 of her experience so far being aired so publicly like this. 940 00:45:03,240 --> 00:45:06,879 "What one thing do you think each of us need to do differently 941 00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:08,239 "to help our marriage?" 942 00:45:08,240 --> 00:45:10,359 I think it's sometimes just sitting back 943 00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:13,839 and not taking it as an attack if Ashley wants to look after you. 944 00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:16,719 Don't question it and just let him do those nice things for you. 945 00:45:16,720 --> 00:45:19,119 It comes from kindness and a really good place. 946 00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:21,679 OK, that's really good. Cos you deserve that. 947 00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:24,279 Yeah. I think it starts with trust, 948 00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:27,199 if you can trust that Ash has your best interests at heart. 949 00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:29,719 That trust is just building now, and it is there and... 950 00:45:29,720 --> 00:45:32,199 I'm always going to have your back. That's me as a person. 951 00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:35,039 Consistently more of the good, less of the bad. 952 00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:36,599 Yeah, yeah. Come on, then. 953 00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:39,200 CHEERING 954 00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:49,079 Look at that kiss. Fabulous. This is a really big move for Grace. 955 00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:50,959 We know she's uncomfortable with PDAs, 956 00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:54,359 so to be able to engage in such a big public kiss with Ash, 957 00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:55,840 it's a really big deal. 958 00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:01,639 "Do you really think we have a future together? 959 00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:03,480 "And if not, why not?" 960 00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:11,159 You've had a rocky period, you have. 961 00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:13,119 Dean, make sure you're here for yourself 962 00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:14,519 and your own journey as well, 963 00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:16,359 because there's nothing worse than, like, 964 00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:18,519 you're feeling like you're pushing, pushing, pushing, 965 00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:19,960 and you're not getting nothing back. 966 00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:27,160 Do you feel like there's a spark between you after this week? 967 00:46:28,720 --> 00:46:29,760 No. 968 00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:33,200 Romantically, I'm not sure. 969 00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:37,680 I am doing everything I can, so we'll see. 970 00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:44,599 That would be hard for Dean, 971 00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:47,000 hearing in no uncertain terms, "No." 972 00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:52,279 It knocks me back to hear Sarah doesn't have a spark. 973 00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:53,839 I thought we were progressing. 974 00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:57,440 I don't know what more I can do. I'm doing everything I can. 975 00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:01,400 That wasn't awkward for you, was it? Yeah, no, it's OK. 976 00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:08,759 What am I supposed to say? No, I know. 977 00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:10,280 You know what I mean? 978 00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:13,679 I just feel really bad. Like, I want it to be there. 979 00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:16,719 Well, don't rush it. If it comes, it comes. If it doesn't, it doesn't. 980 00:47:16,720 --> 00:47:19,680 I know, I know, I know, I know. I just don't want to hurt you. 981 00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:25,360 I don't fancy him. 982 00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:31,520 I can't keep doing it. 983 00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:35,719 And I do see something, like, lovely between us, 984 00:47:35,720 --> 00:47:37,919 but I just don't know if it's in that romantic setting, 985 00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:39,719 and I've just told him that. 986 00:47:39,720 --> 00:47:43,319 And I haven't, I just, I haven't led him on. I haven't, like. 987 00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:45,079 But then I'm like, "Why can't you see that?" 988 00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:47,239 Because he is such a lovely guy. 989 00:47:47,240 --> 00:47:49,240 It just fucks with your head. 990 00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:52,240 Sorry. 991 00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:00,800 Oh. 992 00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:03,759 Next time... 993 00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:05,839 For me, I got kicked out of my head. 994 00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:07,959 ...hard-hitting honesty from the couples... 995 00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:10,079 What more can I actually do? 996 00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:11,879 You've done something to piss me off. 997 00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:13,239 ...and the experts... 998 00:48:13,240 --> 00:48:14,919 Why weren't my feelings considered in this? 999 00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:16,559 That is a masterful deflection. 1000 00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:18,679 We are talking about your wife right now. 1001 00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:21,759 ...makes for an emotional make or break commitment ceremony. 1002 00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:23,119 I'm worried that if I give up 1003 00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:27,559 that I'm going to be like, "Oh, I wish I'd tried." 1004 00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:29,959 Sarah, I think you're clutching at straws here. 1005 00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:31,920 You know how you feel. 81743

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