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- A really easy decision for me. Stay. - Previously...

Stay. Stay. ..it was a commitment ceremony of celebrations...

I think we're in such a good place now.

Bubbly, fun Grace is back.

I'm just really excited to see how far we can go.

..and revelations...

You're not as emotionally connected as maybe we thought you were.

Yeah.

..ahead of an emotional exit for Sarah and Dean.

We've tried, you know, but I can't do this any more

It's tiring.

I just don't think we're right for each other.

My decision is to leave.

My decision is to leave.

Tonight... I don't think he's really trying.

..even while apart... Just say, "Here, you are treating me

"like a BLEEP piece of shit."

Nellie... I-I'm not you! ..and Steven...

I don't think any of this is Nellie's fault.

You did BLEEP up. I'm done with it!

..find their marriage stays under fire.

Clowns.

And for Divarni... You have great sex.

You have great sex.

You're not really having any at the moment.

You have no sex. LAUGHTER

..the burden of a long hidden secret...

So I know the truth. She knows the truth.

This is really starting to piss me off.

..sparks an explosive clash with wife Julia-Ruth.

I looked like a complete BLEEP fool today.

We need to talk about this off camera.

You can be honest. Let it BLEEP go.

You want everything to be done your way.

No respect for me at all.

I don't know where we go from here.

I'm so excited to have a spa day and get our nails done!

Today, the group is splitting in two, with husbands

and wives spending time apart on separate days out.

Just let the hair down. Yeah. Get in the Jacuzzi. I can't wait.

One half is arriving at a luxury spa,

while the other heads out for cocktails.

Come on, you lot. We're away from the partners.

Let's have a good day, yeah? Left the ball and chain at home.

In this phase of the experiment,

our couples have been spending nearly every waking hour together.

It's so nice just to have a little break from the hubby.

I know! Cheers, babe.

While this level of closeness can deepen their bond,

it's equally important that they take some time apart

to gain perspective

and reflect individually on their relationships.

This is nice. Stunning. Oh, here we go. Woo!

How can I help you today?

Can we have, like, four tequila shots, please?

Absolutely.Yay! LAUGHTER

Today offers a valuable

and mutually beneficial opportunity for each newly-wed to seek support,

gain perspective, and find greater clarity

on their journey so far.

Right, let's have a cheers

and let's not think about what they're doing. Cheers!

Good to get out... It is good to get out.

..finally. Yeah. You know what?

I actually think this is really what I needed.

Come on, girl. This is what I needed.

It was a pretty hard commitment ceremony last night,

so, no, I am really excited to see everyone,

have some drinks, have some convo.

Yeah, I'm really looking forward to it.

Would anyone ever, like, make their partner do a lie detector test,

if they weren't 100%, like, believing what they're telling you?

It depends what it is... You would love a lie detector test!

Yeah. You would have one in the house.

You're thinking of where they sell them now.

You're gonna go home...

If you had one... Well, I want to know... Would you ask him

about his feelings, just so... ...Yeah, of course

..you put yourself at ease? You only ask one question -

do you fancy me?

Yeah. That's just me, right? That's because,

clearly, and I hate to admit it, I'm obviously insecure about that,

so I just want to make sure that he does.

But he says he does, so I have to believe him.

This is the first time in my entire life

I have told a man that I like him.

Since the, um, commitment ceremony, though...

..how's that been, like,

has that affected your, like, relationship at all?

Yeah, of course, like... How's he been since?

It was really, really hard and, don't get me wrong,

the experts have called out stuff that he has done in the past.

Do you feel there have been times

of conflict where you have been minimised?

Yes.

Do you feel like there's an issue

that you bring to him and the issue is deflected?

Yes. I'm sorry.

But, when I opened up last week,

my feelings were shut down like that.

So why weren't my feelings considered in this?

That is a masterful deflection.

We are talking about your wife right now.

You see that shake?

You're minimising her feelings.

Oh, wow.

What Paul was saying was valid. I have felt those things

at some point in this process. Yeah. And he did them.

And I feel really guilty,

and I literally cried after because I felt so bad

that in that moment I didn't stand up for him.

I hate upsetting people. But you didn't upset him,

to be fair, his own actions being handed to him upset him.

I think it's the avoidance. He goes in tangents and starts talking

about different things. Yeah, and I'm like, "Just say it, man."

Yeah. And it comes across that he's kind of shifting blame

and sometimes it does

get shifted onto you, which is totally unfair. Yeah.

I am finding it hard to hear them speak

about Steven in a negative way, but I think also a part of it comes

down to the fact that I do obviously really like him,

and I do want him to feel like I did have his back

and support him where possible,

but there is a line where there's some things I can't defend.

Oh, hello, lads. You all right?

How are we doing? Hey, lads. Ooh!

Nothing to see here.

Good?

Very much looking forward to a relaxing spa day

after last night's commitment ceremony.

Fresh opinions, fresh energy, new lease of life.

How'd you find last night? Yeah, it was, um, intense.

Yeah? How are you feeling, genuinely?

Yeah, yours was a bit brutal.

I'm feeling all right. At first it was...

..I was a little bit like, "Ooh."

It's not exactly the ideal situation to be put in.

Yeah. You handled yourself pretty well.

Yeah, you really did. You did. Do you know what? I feel like

she's honestly a sweet, lovely girl.

I think she just honestly, genuinely does have, like,

really strong feelings for you

and I think that's where the insecurities may come from.

Coming away from the commitment ceremony,

I think it's a hard one because I didn't feel supported.

So, I think I'm more annoyed at the blind-siding from Nelly's part,

to be honest, saying I don't consider her feelings

when that's not been the case since day one.

So, why is she waiting till now to say it?

It's obviously going to get my back up.

Divarni, was that proper intense for you guys?

I mean, yeah. I've had my ups and downs for sure. Yeah.

The first week, I got a grilling from Paul and Charlene. Did you?

Yeah, yeah. Why? Just because we had

a couple arguments throughout our honeymoon

and it was just more, like, dealing with the conflict side.

But, outside of that, we're pretty much good, to be fair. Oh, good!

I suppose my only concern is that he's just way further

ahead than me in terms of like, progression...

..but like, I'm on path, but I just like,

I know he's like 20 million miles ahead.

It worries me a little bit, but bless him...

I feel like it's nice to, like,

not be with Divarni today, just to have like a breath of fresh air.

I feel like this is a little bit needed.

I said to him, "Is there anything bad about her?"

And he's like, "There's nothing bad. Like, she's perfect."

So how are you feeling about you and Bailey at the moment?

I feel good. Like, I feel like we are sailing through it.

I like him so much.

I feel super lucky that Bailey and I are in a

really consistent place and our feelings just grow day by day.

It's exciting to...to think about what the future could hold for us.

How do you feel, like, on the back of the commitment ceremony?

Because, you, I feel like that was

the first time you opened up, like properly opened up.

I feel like Leah feels slightly

different towards me now, in a positive way,

now that she's seen me be able to be vulnerable.

I've been through a lot of situations

where me acting off of how I feel

has just led to me getting really hurt...

..and so... You're protecting yourself? ..Yeah.

Yeah. And it's like I've

turned something off in me from, like,

my previous relationship and I, like, can't get it back on.

If you were to start taking some

baby steps toward a more emotional style,

I think it would be received pretty well.

Yeah.

Moving forward, if I feel something in the moment

with Leah, just act on it.

Don't overthink it. Don't get too in my head about it.

Just act and be... Just be in the moment and enjoy it. Yeah.

And don't overthink everything.

And she's just been well patient with me. Really? Yeah.

The commitment ceremony yesterday was tough for me and Leah.

I was quite vulnerable and I got some home truths,

but I feel like they were needed.

But I do feel like we're both feeling

like we're in a similar place at the moment.

The fact that she broke down, obviously,

I don't want to see that - it's not nice.

And it did make me sad, but I've needed that. Yeah.

I've needed to see

that she has got a heart in there, that she has got emotion,

that she is feeling something. So I think, for me, now,

I just need to make her aware that A - I'm not going to hurt her.

B - it's all right to be vulnerable with me.

Like, I feel like we could go somewhere.

How do you feel about your ball and chain?

We're all right, but we're not at the same time.

Like, last night, we had an argument.

What was the argument about?

He just said, like,

you need to start looking after yourself this week,

but then listed everything that I needed to do.

Like. Like what? Like, get your lashes done.

Get your nails done. Do this, do that.

Oh. But then he was like, I didn't mean to,

like, make a list. I just wanted you to feel better about yourself.

I know it came from, like, a good place, but

at that time I thought, "Who the fuck are you talking to like that?"

But I was just like, "Whoa!"

I was like, "Don't tell me what I need to do."

So I stormed out the apartment, right? You did?

Oh, yeah. By the time I'd calmed down,

I thought, "Right, I'm ready to, like, speak to him."

So I go to the apartment and I'm like, "Where are you?"

He wasn't in the apartment.

So then I was like... He wasn't in the apartment?

No! So now we've argued, I've cooled down, like,

I want to come talk to you and you're not there,

and you haven't even told us that you fucked off. Oh.

So now me head's spiralling as well. Is it? Yeah.

It's been doing me head in, I'm not gonna lie.

I don't want to argue with Joe, that's the last thing I want to do.

Of course, it's upsetting

because Joe means the absolute world to me.

I know it's obvious to people

that, like, I haven't really been my full self this week.

Yeah. Obviously,

I've got stuff going on at home and my grandad has died,

which has not, like, helped at all.

But me and Maeve have had this, like, argument last night

and I've just got huge doubts in my head.

What was that about? I just said,

"Can you look after yourself a bit more this week?"

Like, "Go and get your nails done, have a sunbed,

"just do whatever you need to do to, like, feel good."

Did she react to that straight away?

Yeah. She just stormed off, got really, really wound up,

and then it just wound me up because I'm like,

I just didn't understand the reaction.

She's very, like, bang, as well. Like, nought to 100 rapid.

It's just not how I deal with shit at all.

Like, not at all. And because she just went at me,

I were, I were just absolutely fuming, like fuming.

I don't feel like Joe's a talker though, like,

so I don't feel like he's ever going to be like,

"Oh, this is what happened between us."

Do you know what I mean? He won't ever...

I don't think he'll ever spill the tea.

There's nothing to worry about.

I feel like he just, he's so into you,

the way he looks at you and glows when he looks at you. He's obsessed.

For real, though. Yeah. Yeah, he's definitely into you.

I feel like me and Maeve have been in this bubble

and then I've, like, been in denial about all, like,

the differences we actually have...

..and how maybe we're not compatible,

but, because we've been in this bubble,

I've just kind of, like, ignored it all

and then I've just bottled it all up.

And I think that's just, like, really affected me

because I haven't just been able to be my full self.

I'm actually very shocked. Every couch they've had on

the commitment ceremony, they've been saying they're perfect.

This hasn't started since you said "I love you", has it?

No, because, like, I do genuinely

have love for her, like, I genuinely do.

But then, do you love her?

I do love her in, in a way.

But am I, like, truly head over heels, truly in love?

Probably not.

There's just, like, these massive differences

where I'm just thinking, "Is this actually going to work?"

You know? You know, like, on the couch? Yeah.

It's all been sunshine and rainbows. I know.

So, have you held it back from the experts?

I haven't just been fully, fully honest.

I think, because we do care about each other,

we don't want to, like, say negative things about each other.

But, in reality, there has been things

that have happened where it's like not good.

How are you feeling? Are you going to move forward with it?

I can't just hold these issues

in any more because it's literally, like, burning me up inside.

I'm hoping this isn't Joe just running at

the first hurdle because I think he'll regret it.

It's been very hard, for me bottling all this up.

I really feel I can't do today. I'm feeling very overwhelmed.

Absolutely exhausted.

I need to leave and have a little time by myself.

This is nice. This is cute. Oh, nice.

Shot of dessert. Yeah.

Oh, gosh. Oh, straight on it.

Straight in it. Yeah! Woo!

What have you lot been up to? Uh, we did cocktail making.

What?! Have you been making us cocktails?

Did you taste the backwash in there? LAUGHTER

We do need to play a game. Snog, marry, avoid.

Really? Yeah. Can't choose your partner.

Go on, Maeve. Right. Snog,

it would be probably Reece, right? Marry, it would be...

..Ashley.

And avoid...like, Nelly.

Any reason for that? I love you, but I couldn't deal.

Fine. Fair. Very honest.

OK, your go. Oh, shit.

Oh!

I would snog Ashley. Ashley's doing well.

Go on, Ash! Ash is cleaning up. My man.

I'd marry Steven, sorry.

And I would avoid Leisha. I can't. How come?

She told me that she was, like,

vomiting on herself and then, like, flirting with someone on the...

I had it, and I couldn't do it. Yeah. Fair enough.

Moving on.

Yeah, come on. Leah. Yeah.

I'd probably snog Leisha. Oh, right.

I'd marry Reece. Awh. That's nice.

I'd avoid Leo only because I haven't got to know you yet.

Ohh! LAUGHTER

How's everyone feeling? I know.

Well, how are you guys feeling?

And you? Yeah. How do you feel? You're very happy.

We know you're loving life. Yeah, we don't need to hear about yours.

We could see how happy you were.

Yeah, honestly, he's an amazing guy.

An incredible guy.

I couldn't have asked for, like, a better man.

Like, he gives me everything

that I want and also everything that I need.

And, like, I am falling for him, I will admit that, like...

Aw!

And, as a couple, I feel like we've grown so much. Aw, that's lovely.

And I'm just really excited about, like, our future and

I just, yeah, I'm... Cheers to you guys.

I'm not even joking. That is too good to not cheers to. Guys!

Cheers. Thank you.

Me and Abby initially, like,

we had everything, but then we started laughing.

I was like, "Oh, class, I've got this as well."

Happy days. Like proper,

like, belly laughing over the game of cards and stuff.

Do you know what I mean? I was like, "Oh, nice one."

The banter's got to be there, innit?

100%. Sexual attraction and banter.

You're a little bit further down the line than what Abby and I are.

Yeah. But you're an amazing example of what I've got to come.

That's nice to hear. Yeah, cheers, mate.

And I know, Maeve, you and Joe are really, really good.

I know that you've got, like, an amazing relationship

and it's great that you're doing your thing.

I do miss Joe and, after our argument last night,

it's actually killing us inside, knowing that he's so upset.

Like, I can't wait to go back and give him a cuddle

and tell him everything's going to be OK.

Nelly, how are you getting on with Steven at the moment?

You know what? That commitment ceremony was really heavy...

because Paul said, "In this whole process,

"have you felt dismissed?" Yeah, I have felt dismissed.

He said, "Are you feeling, like, the deflection?"

We've all, we've all seen it, right? Yeah.

But I feel incredibly guilty for not sticking up for him.

I don't think you should feel guilty,

though, because you have felt them emotions.

Yeah, I have. I just feel so bad because I just never want him

to feel like I'm here to hang him dry or not support him.

But I knew at that point, like,

I have to be honest, I have felt those things.

I'm not going to lie to the experts.

So last night was fun, wasn't it?

Yeah, right. That was brutal for you. Yeah.

Can you see where you went wrong? Yeah,

I know, 100%, and I held my hands up to that.

You did fuck up.

You didn't prioritise Nelly as best as you should.

Yes, but in that moment,

I was annoyed at her because I would have spoken

up against Paul if he had said it the other way around.

You wanted a bit of support.

We're supposed to have each other's backs.

Did she ever feel like that? Probably.

Yeah. That is the truth.

Did you ever feel, made her feel like that?

Probably. Yeah. Probably. Like, do you deflect?

You know you do. You said it yourself.

I think, at times, Nelly has probably felt like that.

Yeah. And I think, like, maybe you could just take that on the chin.

And do you know what, what she said to me afterwards,

because I spoke to her after the commitment ceremony,

and she said, "Out of all of this, like,

"I just feel like I want to protect him."

And, because of what happened on the couch,

she just feels like she's now

in protective mode and wants to, like,

put you in a little bubble of, like, this isn't who Steven is.

I don't want her to change who she is.

She's not going to change who she is.

She just wants to care about you. She's protecting me...

..but I will see a change if it does happen.

But also... If then she's then not being genuine to herself.

But your focus right now is completely in the wrong place.

You're focused on Nelly now changing her behaviour,

and then you not feeling like it's going to work because

Nelly's trying to protect you.

Yes, but I've felt blind-sided three times by her now.

I don't think any of this is Nelly's fault,

to be perfectly honest with you.

I'm not saying last night was Nelly's fault.

I'm saying there's three previous times

when she's blind-sided me with things

when the cameras have been rolling.

We're bringing back things from the past... No, no, ..not yesterday.

But this is what I mean, this is what I'm trying to get to,

like, I'm telling you how I'm feeling

and, again, it's like, yeah, but it's irrelevant.

It's not fucking irrelevant.

I'm telling you, she's blind-sided me three fucking times,

which I'm allowed to feel, which is... Steven, I...

..which is what we said was what we promised.

I'm sorry. I'm talking.

When we've promised not to blind-side one another,

be open and honest with one another,

and then she's not done that to me, it's going to put my back up, right?

I can't. I'm going to disagree with you there.

We'll go to someone else then because I'm getting annoyed myself.

But this conversation started with you taking accountability...

When I'm when I'm talking about something which is

that matters to me, it's disregarded, so...

It's not. I asked you, Steven, it's not. It's fine. We'll move on.

I asked you the question of...

We'll stop talking about it anyway

because obviously eyes and ears are here and...brilliant.

Obviously, girls are gonna have girls' backs, right?

So let's just cut this conversation. It's not that.

It's just all I wanted was for you to say accountability

and you blame Nelly. I didn't blame Nelly.

But, again, once I then start opening up about things...

It's not that you're opening up, Steven. It's not.

No. But it has been that again.

Your feelings and Nelly's feelings can both be

equally as valid. But when I have,

when I have a say on something, people are like, "Yeah, but this.

"Yeah, but that." So I'm just done with it.

You're taking it the wrong way.

Because maybe you talk about your own feelings

more than you talk about, like, how you've made Nelly feel.

You do. OK, Rebecca. Babe, you do.

I don't want to talk about this.

It's not an attack on you. It's not an attack on you.

I'll step out and get another drink. I'm fucking done with it.

I'll step out and have a fucking drink.

Let's all go. No, no, you fucking stay there.

CUP CLANGS Oh!

Fucking clowns.

Steve, you got to take a breath, right?

You got to stay cool, mate, yeah? Look at me.

Look at me, though. You gotta stay cool.

I understand you're pissed off. I understand you're wound up.

You have to cool down. Hm.

So just make it clear

that you're taking accountability for what you've done.

But also explain that there's reasons,

and you've only got one side of the story.

That's what I mean.

They only want to listen to one side, though, that's their problem.

This is your opportunity to say. I've said my say. They only want

to, like, listen to one person's fucking problem.

What? Steve. Steve, you've got to cool down, mate.

He thinks it's an attack. He thinks

that by giving him this feedback that we're attacking his character.

But what he doesn't realise is you've got two people

that really care about you,

that are trying to make you see your wrongdoings.

You all right? Steven, you have two drinks...

You OK? ..I made sure of it.

You need to, like, down them right now.

How you feeling? Yeah. No, I'm good.

Take this how you wish. No-one here is trying to attack you.

No-one.

I don't think Steven likes the home truths.

I don't think he likes when people are calling him out on

the shit that he's doing wrong. But what we do just need

in those moments is for him to just be like, "Yeah, I did.

"I made a mistake. I own it.

"And this is what I'm going to do to make it up to Nelly."

Oh. Delivery. Oh. God. Everyone looks a bit nervous.

You see their faces just woosh.

"Hello. We've provided a game to help you open

"up and reveal to the group things

"that people might not know about you yet,

"or might come as a surprise." Oh, Lord.

"It's a game we've called Secrets and Lies."

Ooh! "Each of you should take a turn

"to pull out a question from the envelope,

"read it to the group,

"and then each of you should answer it in turn.

"Have fun and be honest. Love, Mel, Paul and Charlene."

Ah. Getting hot under the collar now. Yeah.

Can't wait for this. Right. Ooh.

"Who's your secret crush amongst all the couples?"

Oh, Jesus Christ. OK. Just from conversation alone and,

you know, banter, which is potentially what I'm lacking in

mine, I think Ash is genuinely someone that I would

get on with really well on the outside world.

You know what I'm saying?

OK, next. I'll say Grace

because she actually reminds me of one of my exes, literally,

and she thinks a lot. I'll fight you for her.

My stereotypical type is Joe, like, light eyes, lighter features.

Physically is my type. But Bailey's my guy.

Adore him.

Like, I'm not crushing on Joe, by the way. Yes.

Next question. "Who is keeping

"a secret about their true feelings towards their partner?"

It's a very difficult question, but, for me, I'm gonna go.

Juicy Ruth. Paul asked, like, a few times

in terms of, "Oh, do you fancy your partner?

Do you fancy your partner?"

And you found it really difficult to answer. Before you came here,

I've said to him multiple times

to his face, he knows that he's not my type,

he's heard it a million times.

The boy doesn't need to hear it five million more times.

Yeah. Fair. OK. Ta. Listen, Julia-Ruth,

I do think you're probably, like, struggling

with saying that you're, just openly...

..that you don't fancy Divarni and that you might not get there

and you might be feeling, like, bad to say it almost.

I've said this to you guys, you've all heard it.

Is Divarni my physical type?

The man has heard it more than he needs to fucking hear it.

It's really rude now, after a while, do you know what I mean?

It gets a bit dry and old.

That's fine. Your go.

Nelly and Steven.

Who of them? Yes.

I think Nelly likes him a lot more than what Steven likes Nelly.

I think Steven's acting like he likes you,

but I don't think he likes you

as much as he's saying that he likes you.

If I'm brutally honest, and I love you to death,

but I do feel Steven, yeah.

Hearing people say that they think Steven likes me

less than I like him...

..it's obviously not nice to hear, but I knew it anyway,

so I'm not going to deny it.

But I just need to talk to Steven and just have it all out,

and then lay it all on the table

and say, "Listen, where do we go from here?"

I don't think he's really trying.

He's not trying. Of course he's not fucking trying.

He's actually not trying. No, I know,

I agree, and that's why I feel so bad

because I had that in my last two relationships.

Don't get upset. Just say, "Here,

"you are treating me like a fucking piece of shit.

"You are a fucking idiot."

Just be honest and open...

"Well, aye, you're being a fucking... No, no.

If I thought I was getting mugged off, I'd say, "Here, like

"you are... Because you're probably stronger than me, Maeve.

The moment you see something, you call it.

I don't do that. But why? I-I'm not you!

I'm not you. I wish I had that quality. No, I know...

..I know, but why? I can't actually be arsed, I'm gonna,

I'm done with it. Nelly! I'm not attacking you.

I'm just saying... No, I'm done with it.

But, Nelly... Guys, I can't. I'm gonna have a time out.

Like, I just need a time out. Like, fuck this.

Fuck this.

Fuck it. Hey. Why is this happening?

I feel like she's losing herself. 100%. She is.

Hey. I can't be arsed any more. Like, fuck this. Stop.

I didn't come here for this.

Compose ourselves. Come on. Compose.

Sorry. Don't apologise to us.

Come on. Come on. You've got this.

Maybe if she does give Steven

an ultimatum, he might think twice and think... She's scared to,

but, at the end of the day, that's what you have to do.

Welcome back.

I'm crying because I'm so upset.

It's been a lot for Steven and I, and I'm just...

..I think that's what it is. I think it's all just coming out.

I'm clearly very open with this group

and, as much as I'm trying to hold back, I can't.

Guys, I just want to say I am really sorry for walking off.

It was really overwhelming and it's...

..it's just how I deal with the situation.

He isn't doing enough and he does need to do a lot more. I agree.

And you need to stop giving so much of yourself.

I think, no, I think, I think I am too forgiving.

I'm so concerned about pushing that guy away.

I feel like, if I was you, I'd almost just tell him

where you're at and just say you've got to a point now where

he needs to show it,

or you're gone. Yeah, or you're gone.

Because of my past relationships and what's happened to me,

I worry that, if I was

to voice how I'm feeling to Steven, I'm going to push him away.

And then he's going to be like, "Nelly, you're too much.

"Like, see you later. I can't give you that, goodbye."

And then, there I am, on my own again.

Like, that's what it comes down to, really.

Are we all ready for the next question? Let's go.

Come on. Woo!

Nelly, spill the beans.

"Which couple do you secretly think has the best sex?"

I'll start.

Bex and Bay. Yeah, easy.

I'll go Keye and Davide. ALL: Oh!

Yeah!

Can I say me?Oh. BUZZES

Where's Divarni when that's happening?

I lock him out the room. He's like, "Please?!"

Well, I know you have great sex. You have great sex.

You're not really having any at the moment.

No. You have no sex.

It's all good. Hey, it's all good.

Getting called out for the lack of intimacy in my marriage,

yeah, it's shit. I'm not gonna lie. If they had the full perspective of

what was going on, their opinions would be different.

Next question. "Which marriage is the least likely to last?"

Oh, that's harsh, isn't it? Savage! OK.

Potentially you and Julia-Ruth,

only because you've just expressed struggle.

Yeah. I feel like,

at this point, you should be having

intimacy with your partners.

If you're not having intimacy at this point or any romance,

you know, I feel like there's questions to be asked.

Mine would be yourself and Julia-Ruth, I'm sorry.

I think it would be, out of everybody,

least likely to last long-term.

I'm going to say the same...

..just because of the differences that I've noticed already.

Hearing everyone else's opinions,

this is really starting to piss me off.

Really sorry, mate.

I'm gonna have to say... All good ..you as well.

You're not really digging into it

and looking into what the problems are.

The group think my marriage is a joke.

I'm going to go

with Divarni and Julia-Ruth

because the clock is ticking.

We're halfway through this. Yeah, I know.

And I think you need to get that romantic side. Yeah.

No, for sure.

They think my wife doesn't want to have sex with me -

I know why.

Are you physically attracted to your husband?

I think he's an attractive man, yes. No...

Are you physically attracted to your husband?

Julia-Ruth is spinning a narrative that is not exactly true.

What's the sex like, then?

Oh, shit. Oh.

They're not connecting.

Has the intimacy progressed?

Yeah, I think we're still taking our time with that one a little bit.

But I know the truth.

Julia-Ruth knows the truth.

Are you getting enough affection for you in that relationship? 100%.

Do you want to go to the next level, though?

100%. You need to... Instigate. ..make her see that's what you want.

I agree. Yeah. She needs to feel like...

You need to be more dominant.

It's more like that passion. She wants to feel wanted.

I think she just needs to see a different side of you.

The truth is, we've been having sex.

She lied to the group,

she lied to the experts, and I'm done keeping that secret

when it's making me look like a fool.

There's definitely a conversation that needs to happen.

Honey, I'm home.

After their separate days out,

the husbands and wives are returning to the apartments...

Ah, you're so comfortable.

..but one bride is returning to an unsettling surprise.

Hello?

Where's Joe?

I've come back to the apartment and I've

found it empty, and I've got a message on me phone from Joe

saying that he's really struggling

and he needs to have some time away from the apartment.

After our argument last night, in the back of my head today,

I have actually been really worried because we haven't

really spoke about it and...

..I just want to sort it out,

so it's hard that he's not here.

I just want to reassure him that I'm here for him.

PHONE RINGS

Hello? Hello.

You all right? Yeah, you?

Uh...

I've just come away, just for the night.

But it's nothing about, like, you know, last night.

I don't want you to, like,

think it's anything that you've done or anything.

It's just what's going on at home and then,

yeah, I'm just stressing out about everything.

So I just needed just... A lot's going on, innit? Yeah.

Thank you. Thanks for ringing, appreciate it.

Yeah, I just wanted to make sure that you're all right

because I've been worried about you today.

All right, love. All right.

OK, darling. Well, drop us a message later, OK?

All right, see you soon. All right. Bye, darling. Bye. Bye-bye.

I understand his reasons, of course I do,

but I want to be there for him.

I want to look after him, like, this is what I'm here for.

I'm meant to be your other half.

I mean, I would like to think it's not about our argument last night,

but I don't know.

I just hope when he comes back we can sort things out

because, in my head, I've been absolutely spiralling

and I really, really miss him.

Oh, God.

Hello. Hi.

Aye, aye, aye. How was your day?

It was all right. How was yours?

Um, the first part of it was good.

The second part of it went really shit.

Why? Um...

Everybody doesn't believe that our relationship's gonna grow,

prosper or even flourish. Mhm. Um...

..it just had me thinking about the authenticity

of me being true to myself in this whole experiment.

The reason why they made that judgment is based

down to the information...

..that they don't know.

No-one knows where we really are except for me and you.

We're the only two people

that really know what's going on in this relationship.

Well, this was the problem.

We've been intimate, you already know that.

And I asked you not to say it on camera.

I didn't say that it camera, that's the thing. You just said it on camera.

But at the same time, I looked like a complete fucking fool today,

100%. Taking all the blows. You didn't...

So take the blows. No, no, I'm your wife and I said

don't talk about it. No, no, it's not about taking the blows.

So you'd rather make me look like an idiot and lie,

and...? So you'd rather out me

in front of the camera... I didn't out you... and not respect my wishes

to not bring it to camera? I didn't bring it to fucking camera,

that's the point that you're missing.

This came out of something else.

Go and ask everyone that I went to the place with.

I didn't mention nothing. They told me,

"Oh, yeah, your relationship's weak because of intimacy X,

"Y and Z." But they don't really know what's going on.

I know what's going on. You know what's going on.

I shut my mouth, knowing that I was going to look like a fool. So why

don't you say, "It's not because of that, it's because of X, Y and Z"?

I did. So you would rather allow me looking like a dickhead...?

So worried about your fucking ego... No...

..not about your wife... I've been worrying about you this whole time,

that's the difference. And now you've gone and aired

my shit out when I've asked nicely... I didn't air...

..not to bring this shit to camera, even for your own sake,

not to bring it to camera. I didn't air this shit.

You want me to sit on the couch and tell everyone the sex is shit?

I don't give a fuck if you said if it was shit,

at least you're being true to yourself.

I'm looking like a delusional prick, saying, "Ah,

yeah, you know..." So, cop it and come and speak to your wife.

I was coming to talk to you, that's the difference.

But you're more than OK to spin the narrative

and make it sound like... It's not spinning the narrative.

You're saying, "Oh, yeah, as your wife, as your wife."

Cool, I'm still your husband

and you're not understanding this because I was put

in a hard position that I didn't want to, but it's...

So your ego got knocked a bit. It has nothing to do with ego.

It has nothing to do with ego. It's about authenticity.

I know why I came here.

This experiment is about being true to yourself and being open.

You could've told me how frustrated you were and we could have

had this off camera. I didn't want to talk about sex on camera.

You want everything to be done your fucking way,

this whole relationship... Team, together, decision together.

Every single time, it's always about me adjusting to this relationship.

This shit, feeling like a fucking mug... Because I don't want to talk about sex.

No, I don't want to be talking

about sex, but be honest and say it once. Let it go.

Sex is sex. So come home to your wife and vent to me, don't...

Why the fuck do you think I was coming home? ..like I'm your enemy.

Oh, my goodness. Why not just say, "Babe,

"this was a hard day for me,

"we really need to talk about this off camera"?

Let me ask you an honest fucking question...

..when people ask you about have we been intimate,

how do you say it? We say, "No, we haven't been intimate."

I'm not ready. No. I don't want to do it. You're not ready?

So, when we have,

because we have, you've still been saying no.

Yeah. Lying to people's faces. Is that your authentic self?

This experiment is about... My sex life with you...

No. ..it doesn't have to make me a fake person

Because I don't talk about my sex life. No-one ain't saying that.

You are. We're looking like fucking fools,

looking like mugs on our forehead

because of this fucking communication. So come and talk to me

about it. I've been talking to you. You've been yelling at me about it.

I know the fuck why I came here.

Two main points. What is the point, Divarni? You're so disrespectful.

You could have said to me, "Babe, I had a shit day,

"please can we talk about the intimacy thing?"

And that's what I was doing, but you're not listening.

No respect for me at all. It's crazy.

No respect for me. Sure.

Trust's broken.

Threw our whole relationship out the window

when he decided to completely disrespect my wishes.

I don't know where we go from here.

Next time... You will be participating in Love Hate Week.

..a new task...

I'm excited about the love part, but I'm not excited about the hate.

..brings some couples closer... I love us.

I love that you're completely authentically yourself,

it's the best thing about you.

..but forces tensions to the surface for others.

You'll quite happily shift the blame to me. I can't win with you.

This isn't me. I just don't know... Grace is fucking hard work.

And while secrets and betrayal still plague Julia-Ruth and Divarni...

I don't care whether people know that we have sex or not -

you do. I said we've had attraction issues.

If you're embarrassed of me, why have sex?

..Joe and Maeve's reunion is less than a happy one.

Can you really see us working on the outside?

I'm feeling overwhelmed. But why? That's how I feel!

What the fuck's going on?