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Let's take it so long, Adelaide. I'm really in a hurry this morning.

I will serve no pancake before it's time.

time at the zoo.

So what's your big hurry this morning, Willis? I got a campaign meeting before

my first class.

Hey, Willis, if you get elected class president, can I be your vice president?

That's ridiculous, Arnold. You don't even go to my school.

What's the difference?

Nobody notices vice presidents anyway.

You know, Willis, here's something else.

for office, pitching on the baseball team, acting in the school play, on

committees. Gosh, Willis, how do you do all that and still get all your

schoolwork done?

It's easy. He skips the schoolwork.

No, I don't. In fact, I'm even studying harder than ever. I have to if I'm going

to get the grades I need for college.

in residence.

Who's calling?

One moment, please.

It's your campaign manager, Mr. President.

Try not to eat the phone.

Hello, Jerry.

Hey, how you doing? Are my campaign posters up?

Well, why not? I told you it was important.

Good morning, Adelaide. Morning, Mr. Drummond. Morning.

Well, get them up right away, Jerry.

Did you turn in the release I wrote for the school paper?

Oh, good, good. And don't forget, tell the drama teacher I'm going to be a

little late for rehearsal.

Great, bye.

Listen to that dynamo. He's a chip off the old block.

Thanks, Dad.

Speaking of the old block, what's wrong with your head?

There's nothing serious.

I guess a muscle in my neck stiffened up. I must have slipped in the draft.

Well, some draft blew your head right over on your shoulder.

Don't worry, I'm fine. No problem. Honey, would you mind tying my shoes for

please?

Dad, can't you even bend?

Of course I can.

But I've done it so often, what would I prove by doing it again?

Mr. Drummond, I know just what you're going through.

I can't bend over to tie my shoes either.

Adelaide, you got a problem with your back?

No, I have a problem with my waist.

I don't have one.

You know, Daddy, you should really get some treatment for your neck.

Oh, I wouldn't take it too seriously. I'm fine.

Well... If you guys excuse me, I've got to get to that campaign meeting.

Stay in there punching, son.

As Harry Truman used to say, give him a hack.

I thought it said, give him hell.

Yeah, I guess he said that, too.

Well, I've got to go. I've got a big day. See you guys later. Bye, Dad.

Dad,

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You know, Daddy, Willard was right.

You're in more pain than you're letting on. I haven't got time to see a doctor.

I've got a hundred things to catch up on at the office.

And this new big merger we're doing has got me all tied up.

Dad, would you do me a favor to see you suffer?

We love you.

Arnold, could you please love me from a distance?

I think maybe you're right. I'm going to try and find some time today to see Dr.

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Don't wait too long. It looks like you're eavesdropping on your armpits.

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Where is everybody?

Come here, I want to show you something.

What are the days? What is that?

What, Daddy?

What's going on?

Did you notice anything?

I can turn it every way but all the way around.

And when I learn to do that, I'll rent myself out as a lighthouse.

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The pain in my neck came from this.

From tapping your forehead with your finger?

No, I mean it was caused by my mind.

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What did he do? Show you the bill and then take your pulse?

The bill didn't help.

No, the stress test was about questions, about my attitude and my feelings. And

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The tension that I've been under at work has really been getting to me.

Well, Dad, if you have stress, you should put a lid on it. You always keep

cool. See, that's one of my problems.

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Well, I remember a few times when it escaped and landed all over me.

I'd be better off if I could do that at work, too, instead of holding it in.

See, kids, when stress builds up, the body needs release, or it rebels.

Well, is that why some people get ulcers?

Right.

Fortunately, all I got was muscle tension, which was easily cured.

Uh, well, almost cured.

I'm going in the kitchen and beat an egg.

Hey, come here, kids. I want to show you something.

This little gadget measures stress.

It's called a biofeedback relaxation system.

You sure that thing relaxes you or opens your garage door?

How does it work, Daddy? Well, it measures the electrical skin resistance

temperature. I'd hate to have my temperature taken with that.

With your mouth, they could get it in.

It wasn't my mouth I was thinking of.

No, look, I'll show you how I meditate, okay?

Now, I shut my eyes, take a deep breath, shut out all thought, and repeat

to myself.

Aum.

Aum. Sounds like a motor needs a tune -up.

Ah -oom.

Ah -oom.

Ah -oom.

There.

You hear that? Much quieter, much better.

Oh, well, Daddy, why do you have to say ah -oom?

Well, you don't. You can say almost any word that sounds relaxing.

I know what word I'd say.

Hamburger.

Now,

Daddy, what happens if a person can't control his stress?

Well, that can cause serious problems.

Well, how serious, Dad?

Well, how serious do you consider death?

What you talking about, Dad?

It's true.

Stress can lead to heart attacks or strokes.

Fortunately, I'm getting my problem under control now.

Please don't hold anything in, Dad. If you want to get mad, Yell at Woolis.

Listen, I'm going to go and put my briefcase away, and then I'll come and

you my other relaxation exercises.

Maybe you'd like to do them with me. How would you like that? How about that?

I'm actually looking over my shoulder. Isn't that great?

Not if you're walking toward an open manhole.

Oh, that's a terrific little machine, huh?

Careful, Arnold. That's not a toy. I just want to try it.

Kids your age don't have stress.

They give stress to people like older brothers.

Be a pal, Kimberly, and clap your hands by my ear. With pleasure, Arnold.

Don't get carried away.

See? No stress.

I want to try it again. Arnold, give me that. Dad doesn't want to play around

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whistle without clapping.

That thing's supposed to go up and down, not up and up.

Hey, what's going on here?

Who is making that thing whistle like that?

Willis. Dad, either Willis has stress or that gadget is trying to call a taxi.

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I'll take it. Huh? Huh?

Yeah, that's what I'm talking about.

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Dad,

this thing must be broken.

How can I have stress? I'm too young.

Well, if anybody can have stress, even infants can.

Yeah, but maybe so, Dad. But look at me. I'm a perfect specimen.

Yeah, but most of your muscles are holding up your afro.

Willis, stress.

I don't have stress. Well, maybe you do. You have a tendency to do too much,

just the way I do.

Well, what do you want me to do? Retire at Lawrence, walk and blow bubbles?

What I want you to do is to see Dr. Julian. Let's not take chances with your

health, okay?

Dad, I don't want to see a doctor. I'm too busy.

Of course, I may have time to see a nurse.

Willis, this is no laughing matter.

Yeah, listen to Dad.

I don't want you to die.

If anything happens to you, whose face am I going to step down on when I get

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Well, there you are.

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Thank you for setting it up.

I know we'll have many hours of enjoyment from this when we figure out

is.

How about I stay?

So long. Bye -bye.

Gee, I wonder what Daddy plans to do with it.

I don't know, but it's too old for a jungle gym.

Well, whatever it is, I know one thing. I'm going to have to dust it.

Hi, everybody. Oh, it's here. It's here. Great.

What is it, Mr. Drummond? This is an anti -gravity traction gym.

Run it by me again.

It's an apparatus to help me relax tense muscles in my neck and my back. My

doctor prescribed it for me.

Oh, Willis, what did the doctor say to you?

Well, he says I do have a little stress and that I should cut down on my

activities. That's right. And I think it would be a very good idea, son, if you

gave up the election at school.

Give it up? But, Dad, I've been knocking myself out to get elected.

All right. Then forget about baseball.

Dad, I'm first string.

What about the school play you're in?

Dad, I got the starring role.

Willis, if you can't get your priorities straight, then I'm going to do it for

you. You're going to give up the election.

Oh, but Dad... Now, ever since you took that on, you have been a bundle of

nerves. It's putting too much pressure on you.

Daddy's right, Willis. You're burning yourself out.

Speaking of burning, I better go check the chicken, or I may have to baste it

with solar cane.

Dad, I can't pull out just before the big debate in the election, so I'll have

few more days of stress. What difference will it make?

It's the difference between going to a funeral and being a guest of honor.

Look, Willis, just say you are to get elected. That's when the trouble really

starts.

Just ask Nixon.

Sure, you've seen what happens to presidents when they're running for

They look terrific.

A few months later, they look like their passport photos.

I won't look like that.

Come on, Willis. You and I can use this thing together.

I'll show you how it works.

It's fun.

You'll enjoy it, and it'll help you relieve your stress.

Okay. First, you put your hands on the floor.

You bend your knees and use the board for support.

See, I can already feel the blood rushing to my head.

Yeah, Daddy, your face is all red.

You look like a baboon at the zoo.

Only they're red on the other end.

Oh, that's great.

Doing that helps relax knotted muscles.

Takes tension out of the spine, relaxes the nerves.

You can also hang like this.

It works both ways.

All right, Dad, I'll use this gizmo if you insist.

But, Dad, I really don't want to drop out of the election.

I really think you should, Willis. Dad, they'll call me a quitter.

I wouldn't say that.

I'd say that you are simply directing your energies into other activities.

Did you hear that, Willis? That was a real nice way to say you're a quitter.

Thanks, Arnold.

Look, nobody's going to call you a quitter, but you are going to drop out

election. You got that?

All right, you made your point.

My daddy can't blame him for being upset. He really has worked hard.

Well, I'd rather have him a little upset now than have him sick later.

I wish somebody had told me about stress when I was his age.

Yeah.

I want Willis to live a long time.

I love him.

Besides, the sucker owes me five bucks.

Great. Now, we're really going to win that election. Listen, you check on the

Jacksonville Press posters, and you can tell everybody I'm ready for that

debate. Bye.

Well, Dad just told you to drop out.

Arnold, you didn't hear what I just told Jerry. Sure I did.

These holes are for listening, not catching flies.

Maybe you don't get the message.

You didn't hear what I just told Jerry, get it?

Got it. We can play it back at any speed.

You better not double -cross me.

You kidding? No use both of us winding up with name tags on our big toes.

Well, Liz, what am I going to do?

Dad's got stress, you've got stress, and I can't tell Dad about you and the

elections.

I'm going to get stress worrying about everyone else's stress.

I think even Abraham has stress.

He's biting his bubbles.

Willis? Huh?

Where's Arnold?

Where else? The bathroom.

Sometimes he falls asleep sitting there.

Oh, he's not there. I wonder where he could be.

We better check around.

Well, I don't know where he is, but I bet his mouth is wrapped around a salami

sandwich.

Honorable, what are you doing?

I'm wheeling my stress away.

Stress?

Did you use that biofeedback gadget?

No, Dad.

Well, then what makes you think you've got stress?

Well, I do have a lot running around in my head.

Yeah, and you sure got a lot of space for it to run around in.

I do have a lot to worry about.

Oh, really?

I'd like to know what.

Well...

I'm not stressed, just like you.

When I'm not looking, my neck does like this.

Arnold, if there's something that is worrying you, I want you to tell me what

is. Well, all right.

To tell you the truth, I'm worried about Wooler.

What about him? Oh, I know. He's worried about me doing my relaxing exercises.

Look, Arnold, look, man, I'm doing them, look.

Relax this way, too.

Arnold, are you telling me that you woke up in the middle of the night

only because you were worried about Willis doing those exercises?

Well, that's it for now, Dad.

Man, I feel like a new man.

Good night, Dad. Wait a minute.

Listen,

this does not add up. Now, I want you to tell me what is really worrying you.

Well, it's okay, Arnold.

I'll tell him.

That's a load off my chest.

It has to do with my running for class president.

Well, what about it?

It's my resignation speech.

I've been rehearsing it all night and keeping Arnold awake.

And I finally fell asleep, but Arnold couldn't. So he came down here to try to

relax. Right, Arnold?

Right.

Why didn't you say that in the first place?

Because, Dad, you would have been mad at me for keeping out of the wake these

last few nights.

You're right.

You can rehearse your speech during the day. But as long as we're all up, how

about letting us hear it?

Well,

uh... Dad, you don't want to hear it.

It's too sad.

It'll tear your heart out.

And you don't want to cry in front of your children.

Night, Dad.

Night, Dad.

Hi, sweetheart.

Hi, Daddy. I'm glad you're home. Did you get the message at your office?

No, I've been out all day. What message?

About the nurse sending Willis home from school.

Well, what's the matter with him?

Well, he got really sick in the middle of the debate.

Debate?

He said he was going to drop out of the election.

Now, Daddy, don't get excited.

I'm not excited. I'm in perfect control.

Look, I'll show you.

What do you think of this chicken soup, Willis?

I opened the can myself.

It's made of sugar.

Now, will you stop being a Jewish mother?

I wonder what Dad's going to say when he gets home.

Here's your chance to find out.

Lucy, all right?

What did the school nurse tell you?

She said that I probably have a nervous stomach and that I should see a doctor

before I get an ulcer.

It's not that bad, Dad. He only barfed three times.

Well, none of this would have happened if you'd have slowed down