All language subtitles for [English] [EN] 한솥밥은 핑계고｜EP.80 [DownSub.com]

[24-second preview]
There are fortune-telling videos on YouTube.

One had a thumbnail that said
"Lee Hyo Ri's in big trouble."

How could you not click on that?

Did anything I said ever hurt your feelings?

I didn't really get hurt.

But I do always try to check
how Hyo Ri's feeling that day...

Whenever we watch something together
I feel like I have to act it out.

If it's Show Me the Money, I start rapping.

"Bring me some water, now."

"Tell me how you feel."

"Look at me." Like that?

[Pinggyego EP.80 / We're under the same roof!]

[Featuring: Yu Jae Seok
Lee Hyo Ri / Yang Se Chan]

[Raw and unfiltered chatter as always]

[Pinggyego!]

What is this? What's with Antenna's company motto?

When Antenna Plus was first created
our CEO came up with it.

[Gyeju is not familiar with it]
A motto?

What is it?

[Of course... because it's unofficial...]
Courtesy, gratitude, common sense, consideration.

That's... a good message

but kind of boring for a motto.

Even classroom mottos aren't that basic anymore.

[Anyway]
So today, our dear Gyewon

we've got a superstar joining us.

I just saw her, like, a couple days ago.

[On the 300th episode
of You Quiz airing Wednesday, July 2nd]

[Check out their sibling chemistry]
She was on You Quiz

a total superstar.

[And beside her, of course]
The official top star support MC.

[The seat for top star support MC]
Our Se Chan...

I heard he's doing that

Yang Se Brothers show.

[Aug 9th and 10th
Korea's first sibling variety show]

[The man himself appears]
Hello there.

Top star support MC here.

[A quick greeting to the family]

Hello everyone.

Yang Se Chan, star of the Yang Se Bros Show!

[Starting with laughter]

[Pushing away]
Yang Se...

[But he won't stop]
Star of the Yang Se Bros Show!

[Humble correction]
Second lead, actually.

So, are things going well?

We're working on it... but it's tough.

[Lots of pressure since it's been a while]
It's been a long time since I've done a show.

You know...

Will it be funny or not?

[I can relate]
That's the real issue.

And on top of that...

One thing that's both stressful and annoying

is that too many people I know are coming.

It's embarrassing!

[Totally relatable too]
Everything else is fine, it's too embarrassing.

You know...

That's the biggest issue, honestly.

Just imagining them

[Stressed out at the thought]
watching me make faces on stage...

[of doing business in front of friends]
It's brutal.

Back in the early 2000s
I used to do shows like this.

It's so embarrassing.

So I don't want to invite my friends or family.

So I was trying to keep it from my mom

but somehow she found out!

[Of course she did]
Everyone would call her, of course.

So she asked me

"How do I buy tickets for that?"

[Mom's trying to book a seat]
So I said

"Don't worry, I'll take care of it."
And she said, "Okay."

I mean, I want to get her a front row seat.

- But if we ever make eye contact...
- If you see her...

That's my nightmare. So I told her in advance.

"Mom, your seat's not gonna be great."

Good move.

It's best if she's up there on the second floor.

[Lower the risk of eye contact]
Exactly.

Actually, I was trying to get tickets

for the Yang Se Bros Show.

- Who was?
- I downloaded the ticketing app.

You?

[Another awkward challenger]
Why are you buying tickets?

Let me do it for you. Please don't.

No, no.

Because the thing is...

[This guy's serious, huh?]
The app, you know...

[For those selling out instantly]
For concerts, it sells out instantly.

[there's not even time to book it]
You can't even try.

It's pretty relaxed!

Yeah, there's some breathing room.

[2 shows, Saturday and Sunday]
So I was checking dates

[Discussing schedules with Seok Jin]
with Seok Jin.

[The pressure is on]
It's really stressing me out.

This Yang Se Bros Show...

These things are super stressful.

I'm extra nervous today as well.

Why?

[A top star guest he's never met before]
Because today's guest...

I've never met her.

Wait, really?

[Kim Jong Min from Koyote]
I only saw her briefly

[Brief greeting at the wedding was all]
at Jong Min's wedding and said hi.

[Joined in July 2021 / Joined in February 2023]
You know we're all

[Joined in January 2024 / Antenna family]
in the same company now, right?

Yeah, I know.

But I never bring it up anywhere.

If she hears about it
it might make things awkward.

So I just lay low.

I don't even mention you.

I just say I'm Antenna. That's it.

But you know...

She's gotten really warm lately.

She has her moods sometimes

but these days...

She's in a nurturing phase!

She was super kind to Sae Ho.

Really?

Ooh...

Right.

But today might be different, right?

Exactly, you never know.

Gotta see how she's feeling.

They call it "jobyunseokgae" you know?

"Jobyunseokgae"?

- You don't know that one?
- "Jobyunseokgae."

Like, "That was then, this is now"?

Close.

"Jo" as in morning!

So one thing in the morning

and another in the evening?

Exactly!

[An idiom meaning "changing in the morning
altering again by evening"]

[Refers to decisions or moods
that shift frequently]

You've really learned a lot.

I picked it up from Running Man, haha.

"Jobyunseokgae."

[Growing]
Reading the room.

[How will today's superstar be...?]
One thing in the morning, another in the evening.

I'm gonna use that someday.

I saw you doing that legend thing to roast Haha.

["That thing" Gyeju is referring to]

[A series on the SsookSsook channel
where celebs are honored like national heroes]

Keep it down, if he figures that out...

- people will know.
- You're clowning Haha!

[Strong denial]
No, he's like a...

We treated him as a proper legend.

All of you, as a team...
making Haha look like a clown!

[Totally respectful reactions]
Like, "Ah!" at the back.

But Haha really liked it. He left happy.

Right.

Here, try this. It's really good.

[Fueling the talk with snacks]

[Door creaks open]
Isn't this expensive?

[Speeding up]

[Camera's moving in anticipation of the superstar]
She's here.

[Slurp]
Why are you so, hehe...

Why are you so nervous?

[Meerkat mode himself]

Everyone looks tense.

I told you she's in a nurturing phase.

She's at peak warmth.

[Superstar appears]
Good morning.

Why'd you call me out this early?

- No, no!
- What's this?

[The one who just said she's warm]
What is this?

Calling people out this early in the morning?

It wasn't me. It was him.

I mean... she was warm.

I was just about to say.

You're in a bad mood today, huh?

She was really warm on Wednesday.

This is "Jobyunseokgae."

- It changes all the time.
- Totally.

Let's get the mics on.

[Mic IN]

[Mic INtercept]

[Mixed signals]
Are you not helping me with this?

I'll do it for you.

[Nervous support MC]

He said you've never met before.

- Yang Se Chan!
- Yes.

- We're in the same agency, right?
- Yeah, we are.

We're all under the same label.

That's right.

Why does it feel so awkward?

[Superstar in the flesh]

[Random blurt]
I've been laying low.

Just, you know, acting like I'm not.

Fighting solo battles.

Even though we're in the same company

we're all doing our own thing, no interference

just individually doing our best.

My way.

Are just the two of you getting drinks?

[Drinks are on the way]
We'll serve you soon, of course.

[Writer]
Woo Sung's super nervous, haha!

[Zoom]

[Record-breaking quick serving!]

Ahahaha.

Hahaha!

[Relieved and exits]

Hyo Ri is

warmer than you'd think.

[Trying to explain]
Don't worry.

I'm not scary.

[Questioning the mood shift]
But on Wednesday, your face was...

- The whole vibe and look were different!
- Is that so?

[A totally different styling]
She came in all "namaste" vibes.

This is totally nurturing.

I had something like prayer beads on that day.

[Outfit sets the mood]
That was the vibe.

She was so warm to Sae Ho...

"Ah... so that's what happened."

[Number One Gyewon received all the warmth]

Totally embracing.

Sae Ho's face and all, kind of makes me feel...

I should be nice to him.

Whereas Se Chan, you seem super confident.

Yeah, today...

Why's your face turning red?

I don't know.

- That's what happens when I meet a superstar.
- Wait a second!

You're Se Hyung's little brother, right?

- Yeah, that's right.
- Yes.

[MBC "Infinite Challenge"]
I've filmed with Se Hyung

[Filmed with Se Hyung before]
a few times

but this is my first time with Se Chan.

When I told Se Hyung I was going to see her

he actually mentioned something.

When he published the book...

[In December 2023
Se Hyung published a poetry collection]

[Posted on her own SNS]
She just posted it on her story on her own

and it helped boost sales a lot

which helped with the donation.

He really wanted me to say thank you.

How did you even end up posting that?

It arrived at my house

or maybe the office, anyway, I got the book.

I was like, "What? Se Hyung writes poetry?"

I thought that was so cool.

- Just the fact that he writes poems, so...
- He was super grateful.

[Oops!]
Oh, I just remembered.

Someone asked me to write a foreword for them

- and I totally forgot to reply.
- You get asked for that a lot, right?

I get tons of requests.

Do you?

Me? Not at all...

[The labelmates growing more awkward...]

- Not at all.
- Sorry.

You don't know much about Se Chan, huh?

Ah, sorry.

I was so surprised.

Isn't he famous?

He is, but...

[Different from what you'd expect for forewords]
That's a totally different kind of fame.

Do you not watch TV at all?

I do watch, but...

Haven't you been off TV for a while?

[TV is 80% of what he does]
I only do TV.

That's funny.

We do Running Man together.

It's been 8 years.

[Only found out after 8 years]
Really?

Then I must've only watched
Running Man before that.

That must be it...

[July 11th, 2010]
Hyo Ri literally was the beginning of Running Man.

[Running Man Ep. 1, Guest Lee Hyo Ri]
First episode. I saw that, of course.

I got close with Joong Ki thanks to that.

[Song Joong Ki was an early regular cast member]

He even came

[Perfect Day with Lee Sang Soon]
on my husband's radio show.

- He did?
- Yeah.

[Feeling touched together]
Joong Ki, you...

Has Joong Ki been here?

No...

He needs to come on...

[Wistful mumbling]

You should bring him in.

Joong Ki, you heard that, right?

- Joong Ki!
- Time to show up.

[Joong Ki, you listening to Hyo Ri?]
Joong Ki, she's talking to you.

Hyo Ri is calling you out.

You've gotta come on.

He used to

reach out sometimes.

- But now that he has a baby...
- Right.

He's married and all now. It's hard to reach out.

After you get married
you kind of lose touch, right?

Yeah, after I got married

I didn't get to work with him much either

or even talk much, I think.

Yeah... actually...

I talk with Sang Soon often.

Oh... hehe.

[Hold up]
But why do all my friends

reach out to Sang Soon?

[Does not compute]
I don't get it.

Even my mom calls Sang Soon

when she wants to talk to me.

Hahaha.

Am I that...

cold?

Not cold exactly...

It's not that you're cold

but you're busy, and also, you're...

- I'm not even busy.
- They just think you're busy.

You look busy though.

I think people feel it's hard

to talk to me properly.

[Reaches a conclusion herself]
I'm like, "What's wrong? Why did you call?"

[Gets straight to the point]
Like right from the start.

Most people like to ease in
before they get to the point

but I'm always like

"So what's the point?"

[Immersed]
So

from the caller's point of view

they feel like they have to
get to the point right away.

It's stressful!

You need a little icebreaking.

- None of that, hehe.
- They'd rather just

call Sang Soon instead!

- Since he'll pass on the message anyway.
- "Hey, Sang Soon."

"How's Hyo Ri doing?"

"Right."

"Yeah?"

I heard they always ask about Hyo Ri's mood first.

They call and ask how Hyo Ri's feeling.

Sang Soon is like, "Now's not a good time."

"Maybe tomorrow's a better time to call?"

[Contacting Hyo Ri, failed]

That's what Sang Soon does.

"Hey, what's up?"

"Ah, someone was asking about this thing..."

"Then hey."

"You should call her now."

[Contacting Hyo Ri, success]
"She's right here, want me to hand her the phone?"

Like this.

But why don't you just call her directly?

I do call her directly too, but...

You know, while I'm at it...

- Sang Soon...
- To check on him too?

I'm close with Sang Soon too.

[Pinggyego!]

How old are you?

I just turned 40.

Oh, 40? That's not that young.

No...

Have you been working long?

Yeah, it's been 20 years for me.

[What's going on...?]

Were you around during the Fin.K.L days?

Fin.K.L days...

[The Gum Brothers sense something weird]

Wait, these questions...

Are we doing a "Let's Be Friends"
segment today or something?

- I'm just curious, hehe.
- She doesn't know me at all.

[Impromptu interview continues]
I'm sitting next to him and I'm curious.

During your Fin.K.L days...

[Debuted in 2005]
You weren't doing Fin.K.L in 2005, right?

[Started solo activities in 2003]
Right, I debuted in 1998.

- So you were solo at that point.
- When I was doing solo?

[2005]
Was doing a ton of variety shows.

How come I didn't see you?

No, I wasn't on much yet.

- I was.
- Ah, right.

You were on a lot...!

I couldn't be on the shows you were doing!

[Starting from the foreword...
Same label, different pages]

So many hiccups today.

[Keep Going No Matter What]
What were you doing back then, Se Chan?

[SBS "People Looking for a Laugh"]
He was doing People Looking for a Laugh.

[Trying to build his career after debut]
I was on People Looking for a Laugh.

That was when I was doing
the "Woong's Dad" sketch.

Oh, so you're Woong's dad?

No, not Woong's dad.

[He played "Big-Eyes' Dad"]
I was Big-Eyes' dad.

[Catchphrase]
I was doing "Come here! Hurry up!"

[Moved by the labelmate's old work]
Big-Eyes' dad...

I was Big-Eyes' dad.

[Same beard as this one]
I had this beard drawn on like this.

Wow... this really is...

Same label is just an excuse(Pinggyego).

[Same company, but strangers]
We're in the same company, but...

There's a lot we don't know about each other.

- A lot.
- Right.

I think we need to build some unity.

Yeah.

[Only one proper gathering since joining]
There was that one time

[New Year dinner with artists and staff]
when I first joined the company...

That was the only time.

[Another attempt recently, but didn't pan out]
That one was just the staff.

They tried to do a full company one again
but it didn't work out.

Let's plan one, you can take the lead.

I'll take charge and organize it.

[If it's hard, how about an artists-only dinner?]
Or we could just do one for the artists.

Because at full gatherings
there was no time to actually talk.

Right! We never had that kind of chance.

But I feel like in our company

the artists are just...

[Wide spectrum of vibes among the labelmates]
Way too different.

- Usually, they have similar vibes.
- Exactly.

But now

even Jae Pyeong and Jang Won...

[Peppertones: ???]
They moved over to our side?

Yeah, they're on our side now.

[Explaining the vibes]
So there are two groups.

[Yu Jae Suk / Kyuhyun]
Jae Suk, Kyuhyun.

[Yang Se Chan / Lee Hyo Ri / This side]
Se Chan and I are on this side.

[That side]
And then there's...

[Lucid Fall]
Lucid Fall.

[Jung Jae Hyung]
Jae Hyung.

[Jung Seung Hwan]
Seung Hwan.

[Lee Sang Soon]
Lee Sang Soon.

[Trap card activated]

Wait, Sang Soon's in that group too?

Of course! He's totally on that side.

Ah, now I get it. Haha.

When Sang Soon joined the company

he didn't join because of us!

- Right.
- Technically, he's with them.

[99% chance he's on "that" side]
And there's Sae Byul too.

Right, right.

It's totally different!

We need to unite these vibes.

[Loading up something to say]
Right.

[Firing away]
And this one...

[Sang Soon brought the snacks for mini Pinggyego]
Sang Soon brought these from Hannam-dong.

- He did, right?
- Yeah.

They were so good

but I heard you didn't get to try them.

[Specially prepared for the superstar]
I didn't try them that day?

- Right.
- So you got them?

- Who did?
- Our staff did.

Thank you so much.

Don't you usually wake up early in the morning?

I do

but not this early.

What time do you usually get up?

7:30!

[Already an early riser]
That's still early.

[Switching roles in the interview]
Do you eat

right after waking up, or...?

I skip breakfast.

Just lunch and dinner.

So what time do you eat lunch then?

Around noon.

[7:30 wake-up, but first meal at 12]
That's a long gap. From 7:30...

I think I've gone over 15 years without breakfast.

Oh, so you don't eat breakfast at all.

You don't feel like eating in the morning, do you?

[Someone who always eats breakfast]

I get hungry in the morning.

If I have dinner early
I wake up starving in the morning.

- What time do you eat dinner?
- Around 6.

[From 7 p.m. to 12 p.m. the next day]
So you're fasting for...

[Maintains a 17-hour fast]
That's a long time.

[Long-practiced intermittent fasting]
I've lived like this for years.

- Once your body gets used to it...
- It just became my routine.

Then you stop craving breakfast.

So when friends come over or we go on trips

and they say they're hungry in the morning
I just don't get it.

[Whether or not to eat breakfast
A common travel compatibility issue]

- Since I can't eat in the morning.
- So your travel habits don't match.

- What about your husband?
- He doesn't either.

- He doesn't?
- No.

Was he always like that, or...?

[No idea]

Since I don't give him. Maybe that's why.

[Sharp question]
You were implying...

I'll have to ask him about that.

I don't know how he was before we got married.

But I think it makes sense
to eat when you're hungry.

Your body is asking for it, right?

But I don't feel hungry in the morning.

[For comparison]
Like, when you eat something

late at night, like at 10 or 11

you start craving late-night snacks.

But we've never had late-night snacks.

Because there's no delivery!

[At their home in Jeju]
Oh, right.

[Zero delivery options]
We open the app, it literally shows zero results.

Not even one place?

Zero! Not even fried chicken. Nothing.

None of the usual options are available.

So we've just never eaten late-night snacks.

Just two meals a day.

And since there's no delivery

we have to cook both meals.

So for the last 11 years or so

we've cooked every meal.

[Nearly 8,000 meals...
All home-cooked out of necessity]

That takes serious dedication.

It's a lot of work.

But what can you do, if you can't order in?

We do eat out occasionally, but mostly we cook.

Even going out takes time.

[Exactly]
If we want to eat out from our house

it takes over 30 minutes to get there.

[An hour round-trip for two meals? Nope]
Then it's just not worth it.

You have to plan for it.

Still, I guess thanks to that
we never really gained weight.

Now that you're living in Seoul, how's that going?

At first, we brought all five of our dogs.

We have five big Jindo dogs at home.

And right after we got here
two of them started getting sick.

Seriously?

I don't know if it was because of the move...

[A lot of thoughts]

But I felt so guilty.

I kept crying

saying, "Did we make the right choice?"
"Should we just go back?"

"I don't think I can adjust here..."

[But now, they've adjusted pretty well]
But we ended up adjusting pretty fast.

[That said, it's still tough]

- Still, on the other hand...
- We actually adjusted more easily than expected.

From Sang Soon and Hyo Ri's perspective

you lived in Jeju for over a decade, right?

This is a huge change.

[A massive life shift]
It's not easy.

It's not like moving from one city to another.

We were literally in the mountains.

[It wasn't easy to get used to]
Adjusting must be hard.

So adapting to city life hasn't been easy.

That's why we chose a place
close to the mountains.

But the dogs are all over 10 years old now.

So that's why we decided to move to Seoul.

If they were still young and active
we probably couldn't have moved.

But now that you're here, you've adjusted well.

I love it now.

When I was feeling down, like

"I miss Jeju, I want to go back."

I missed my friends too.

[Jeju homesickness creeping in]
We already had so many friends there.

Then he'd say

"Wanna go to the department store?"

[His thoughtful prescription]

And then suddenly I'd feel fine.

There are no department stores in Jeju.

Humans are so fickle!

[You can't help it]
We're really like that.

[Halfhearted]
I was like, "What's gonna change if we go?"

[Turns out, a lot changes]

There's something nice about city life.

There's a kind of spark to it.

[But the longer you live in the city...]
After a long city life, you start...

[Long for nature again]
Miss it.

You start missing nature again.

That must be how people are.

So I'd be feeling low

[Sang Soon started the radio right away]
while he was already working on a radio show.

And I was left home alone for long stretches.

So I think it was a bit harder for me.

[Hosted the radio]
And after three months, when he got his paycheck

he said he wanted to buy me a Chanel bag.

[Suddenly a glimmer in her eyes]

Before moving to Jeju

I sold off all my designer bags.

[Current luxury bag count: 0]
I didn't have a single one left.

He said he always wanted to buy

a nice bag for his wife if he ever got married.

[But never got the chance]
But since I was always running around

[It remained a dream for Sang Soon]
in the mountains and forests of Jeju.

[Now that they're in Seoul, he made his move]
Now that we're back in the city

- Since you're back in the city.
- he said he wanted to buy me one.

- So we went to the Shinsegae in Gangnam.
- Wow.

But it turns out not everyone can get in.

The Chanel store.

[These days you need a reservation to enter]

You have to wait in line.

[Lee Hyo Ri / 11 years ago]
Back when I lived in Seoul

I could just walk in and buy something.

But now you have to reserve a time.

[Stylist]
So I called Han Hye Yeon

"How do you buy something from Chanel?"

[Asking for help]

- Did she tell you the steps?
- She came with me!

She made a reservation
and came with me to pick one out.

[So kind]

Still, Sang Soon is really sweet.

Seriously, that's so cool.

[Approved]
He really was.

He dressed up for the day.

- He did?
- For the department store.

And handed me this big Chanel bag...

And I felt a little flutter in my heart.

[We all feel it]
That is charming.

[But, back in the day, that didn't excite her]
Back in the day, luxury goods...

I even have a song about that.

I have a line like
"What's the big deal with designer bags?"

[Split personality Hyo Ri appears]

[From the song "Miss Korea"]
"Does a designer bag make me sparkle?"

- That's a contradiction.
- Yeah, I have that lyric.

What's a big deal?

[Feeling ridiculous herself]

[Gyeju is crying again]
She sang the song...

I'm sorry.

I have to apologize.

So when I was riding the escalator

with that bag in hand, I saw my reflection and...

it was sparkling.

It was really sparkling...

You don't need tons of flashy stuff, but...

[But if it's meaningful, one is enough]
For yourself...

- One big thing!
- Of course.

When he first said he'd buy it, I kept saying no.

I don't like that stuff, it doesn't suit me.

But

[Show host]
then I saw YouTube videos by Kang Joo Eun.

I really like her.

[When she was dating actor Choi Min Soo]
She still carries the Chanel bag

[He gave her a Chanel bag]
that he gave her when they were dating.

She still carries it with so much love.

That kind of changed how I viewed luxury bags.

Totally.

Exactly.

I used to buy cheap stuff

like 100 different bags.

That's not saving money.

Having one good item you use for a long time...

I found her really cool.

[That shifted her mindset]
That changed how I thought.

[Which led to the department store trip with him]
So I said, "Okay, let's go get one"

and we headed to the store.

Of course, if someone's like

"I prefer to save and live simply"
that's totally valid too.

[Spending habits are personal choices]
It's all about your own taste.

Whatever suits you.

But the thing is...

This is how I usually dress, right?

And he keeps going...

"You're not taking the bag?"

[Daily check-ins]
"Not wearing the bag today?"

I think he wants me to carry it around more.

[Totally understandable from the giver's side]
Of course, if you buy someone something...

But where am I supposed to take it?

Most days I'm volunteering or something.

[No real TPO for luxury bags]
You can't exactly show up with a Chanel bag.

And today, too, he was asking me to take it.

I was like, "It's not that kind of place!"

Still, it'd be fine if you brought it.

- Why would I bring that here?
- Maybe just for the entrance.

[Imagining a Chanel bag entering a humble shoot]
Just walking in with it...

It is kinda funny though.

I'm keeping it safe and sound.

[It's understandable though]
But I get it.

- When you give someone a gift
- And they don't use it.

and if they're using it well
it really makes you proud.

If I take it and tell him

"Someone said this bag is gorgeous."

[That pride and joy as a gift-giver]
That makes you so happy.

But then if

[For whatever reason, if it doesn't get used]
even if they just have

nowhere to take it

from the giver's perspective

you start thinking, "Do they not like it?"

[It can be misunderstood]
I think he thinks that way.

Of course.

And then next time
you don't really feel like giving anything again.

[Self-reflection]
I should carry it around more.

[The way to honor a heartfelt gift]
You should wear or use the things people give you.

[But I also get Hyo Ri's side]
I get it though.

Kyung Eun also gives me something

like a nice shirt

[Official Pinggyego Greypantsping]
but I go around kind of like Hyo Ri does now

very casual.

She'd ask, "Why aren't you wearing that shirt?"

I should wear it, but the thing is!

[It requires the right setting and coordination]
If I wear it, I've gotta match the shoes, too.

[So precious]
And I can't just toss it everywhere.

I'm the kind of person
who just stuffs everything in my bag.

What if something leaks inside?

[Worried about stains and damage]
It'd be such a waste.

Even if lip gloss gets on it...

[Totally relatable]
You don't want to ruin it.

So...

My mom, whenever I bought her something

she wouldn't wear it or use it either.

- Because she didn't want to ruin it.
- It used to drive me crazy.

"Why don't you ever use the stuff I get you?"

I'd get frustrated.

[Only now do I understand]
Now I get it.

- You get it now, right?
- I finally do.

It's too precious...

[The dilemma]
But if you don't use it because it's precious

the person who gave it won't be happy.

If you save it too long, it turns to junk...

It's true. Saving it too long ruins it.

[Gift dilemma]

But if you use it too much, it gets all worn out...

- Exactly!
- Right.

- So what do we do?
- What do we do?

[What should we do, Gyewon?]
What do we do?

- Use it carefully!
- What do you think, Gyewon?

Wrap the bag in clear plastic.

[You get the vibe, right?]

[Solution 1: Wrap up the bag]
Like, wrap it up!

I'd be happy, but then people around me would say

"Ugh!"

"So extra!"

"If you're gonna do that, just leave it at home!"

Hey, but I'm curious

you two guys have known each other
for a long time, right?

It's not two guys.

[Best attempt to cover it up]
I was just talking too fast.

[Squeaking]

I mean the two of you.

- Yeah, a long time.
- It's been a long time.

[Curious about Korea's favorite sibling duo]
When did you first meet?

- 1998 was the first time
- We met in 1998.

[When Fin.K.L debuted]
Back in the early Fin.K.L days.

So what were you doing back then?

He was just the grasshopper.

["Grasshopper" debut era]
Wait, you

[First celebrity he met in the grasshopper suit]
that grasshopper costume, was it that one?

That was Hyo Ri.

The first time I ever wore the grasshopper head
was when I met Fin.K.L.

Some PD said to him

"You should build a character with this."

And who was that?

[The one who ended his 8 years of obscurity]
PD Kim Seok Yoon.

- He was really your lifesaver then.
- Totally.

You know Kim Seok Yoon's huge now, right?

- He's directing films now.
- I think I met him somewhere.

[Now a top drama and film director]
He's doing dramas.

He's doing both dramas and films.
Number one right now.

He's filming a documentary these days.

I met him just a few days ago.

Kim Hye Ja apparently loves dogs

so she wanted to meet me.

[Visited Kim Hye Ja's house for filming]
I went to her house in Yeonhui-dong

and PD Kim Seok Yoon was there.

[Over 20 years later]
He still looked just the same.

I was like wow...

And now Seok Yoon is killing it
with dramas and movies.

What dramas has he done?

[Director of JTBC's "Heavenly Ever After"]
Heavenly Ever After.

Oh, that was his?

And before that he did the one with Suk Ku and...

[Hint: Son Suk Ku, Kim Ji Won, "worship"]
Kim Ji Won.

- I can't remember the title.
- Worship.

[Kim Seok Yoon's filmography]
My Liberation Notes!

[My Liberation Notes, The Light in Your Eyes]
My Liberation Notes.

[Wide-eyed]
That was PD Kim Seok Yoon?

He had that kind of emotional style?

I was shocked too.

I always thought of him as a variety show guy.

He was originally a variety show director, right?

[Main PD of Scary Kung Kung Tta Season 1]
Yeah, he directed Kung Kung Tta.

[Also did Saturday Is for Fun]
Even before that, he was a variety PD.

[Campus Music Video, Yoon Do Hyun's Love Letter
Happy Together... a big name in KBS variety]

Back in his younger days.

He directed "Saturday Is for Fun"

and that's when he really pulled me
into variety shows.

And that was the start
of your grasshopper character?

I've talked about this on TV a few times.

[Back in 1998, KBS Variety Department]
6th floor. KBS 6th floor.

[Called into the office]
They called me to the variety department

late at night.

There was the first shoot
with Fin.K.L in Tongyeong.

Just one or two days away.

[Had no idea what was coming]

So I went in

and he took a bag out and put it on the desk.

It looked like a doll, and sticking out of it

were these antenna-looking things.

[Failed to hide the mystery antennae]

Must've been a shock. "What is this?"

"I'd like you to wear this on shoot day."

He brought it in for you?

[Custom made, so no backing out]
So it must've been custom made.

[Gave it early to mentally prepare him]
He gave it to me early to let me think it over.

[Couldn't accept the grasshopper at first]
I didn't get it at the time.

Seok Yoon was a bit...

Since I was a rookie and nobody knew me

and he was trying to make me the MC

so he needed a reason for it.

Viewers would be like, "Who's this guy?"

So

to fill that gap

he gave me a character with the grasshopper head.

[Didn't understand the good intention at the time]
But I hated it.

You were pretty young then, right?

[mid-twenties at the time]
I was really young.

Didn't have any of the experience I have now.

So I just said okay but inside, I was...

so upset and really hated it.

[Sorry but can't stop laughing]
Imagining yourself getting off with that thing...

[Little bro empathizes deeply]
He was asking me to wear the grasshopper head.

Like "Do I quit? Or keep going?" Haha.

But I knew even then that Seok Yoon meant well.

I was grateful for it.

Still, the fact that he cast you as main MC...

Right, he cast me.

It means he saw something in you.

Did you know him then? Maybe you have no idea.

- That the grasshopper was Yu Jae Suk?
- I didn't now who he was at all.

They told us a very famous MC was coming.

[The unknown grasshopper says nothing]

Really?

[Famous MC? Who could it be?]
We were like "Who is it? A big MC is coming."

Everyone was murmuring

[A grasshopper enters]
and then over there...

So I did the opening like

"Welcome to Saturday is Fun!" but they were

whispering among themselves.

[Whisper]
"Who's that?"

Oh, that was the first time you met?

It felt awkward.

Except during camera roll, we didn't talk much.

It would've been okay if he'd hosted well.

Was it rough?

Yeah! Like retakes and stuff, you know?

I remember doing the opening three times
because I messed up.

For real?

"Alright! Welcome to..."

"Ugh... Let me try that again."

Back then, during the Fin.K.L days
we were super exhausted and on edge.

It must've been frustrating.

[Early morning call times, long travel]
We'd driven all the way to Tongyeong

so we were just wiped out already.

[At the time]
We were like, "Why are we even doing this?"

[Variety work felt questionable]
Back then, variety shows were just...

- You just had to go when you're asked to.
- Back then

we just wanted to be on cool stages. We were kids.

Totally! That's how it was.

We were already frustrated
"Why are they making us do this stuff?"

And then this grasshopper walks up.

[That grasshopper]

And he keeps restarting the opening
like three or four times.

"Welcome to..."

"Wait... Where are we?"

[Forgot everything / Goldfish-level memory]

I couldn't even remember we were in Tongyeong.

[Tap tap]

[Hyo Ri back then]
"It's Tongyeong."

Yeah, "It's Tongyeong."

[Despite being tired
she felt sympathy for the grasshopper]

"Right! I'm sorry."

And during the shoot, we ordered jjajangmyeon!

That's right!

- You didn't eat, did you?
- No, I didn't, hehe.

- Why? You thought you'd get indigestion?
- It just wouldn't go down.

[Couldn't swallow a bite, literally]

I love jjajangmyeon, but

I just couldn't eat it.

He didn't eat, and he was just reading something
over there the whole time.

[Extra sad point]

Wow, you saw that?

Back then, I just felt so bad.

- Hyo Ri, you remember the jjajangmyeon?
- I asked, "You're not eating?"

Of course! I clearly remember saying

"Hey, you're not eating?"

And he said, "Ah... I already ate."

[Then back to studying the script]
That early in the morning.

What do you mean you ate?
We'd been together since early morning.

[Talking about it brings back vivid memories]
That jjajangmyeon...

I think there was just one Chinese place nearby.

- Yeah, there was only one.
- You love jjajangmyeon like crazy.

You were too nervous.

I was too nervous that I couldn't eat.

[I can relate]
Must've been nerve-wracking.

And even though Hyo Ri was kind enough
to talk to me like that

how was I supposed to eat with Fin.K.L?

[I felt so bad]
I'd messed up so many takes already.

All I wanted was for it to end so I could go home!

[Finally sharing what he felt back then]

I don't even remember if that show
got a good response.

[But the grasshopper character definitely stuck]
After that, you kept going with it.

- That's how it started.
- So the grasshopper Jae Seok became a thing.

So it stuck, huh?
Then who came up with this dance?

You?

Yeah, that was just me.

Oh.

It wasn't like "This is the grasshopper dance!"

You were just jumping around, and it fit.

Exactly, exactly.

Did you already do that dance before?

Hmm... I can't really remember.

At the club or something?

You used to say you'd get hauled around in trunks.

Come on, why bring that up?

You did say that.

You know a lot about him, huh?

- Of course I do.
- She knows a lot about me.

Looking back

Fin.K.L really did a lot of variety shows.

Back then we were rivals with S.E.S.

but they didn't really do much variety.

[They debuted earlier]
They were already super popular.

[The hugely popular S.E.S. seniors]
We debuted after them

[S.E.S]
and compared to their fairy-like image

we didn't make that strong of an impression.

- You had plenty of impact though.
- Huh? No way.

No, no.

At the beginning

we were supposed to be the "S.E.S. rival group."

[Fairies' rivals?]
Those fairy-like...

"Really? That's unexpected."

People were like that.

But gradually, our popularity grew
thanks to variety shows!

We really benefited a lot from that.

[All the Fin.K.L members did great]
Joo Hyun, Jin, Yu Ri

everyone was good at variety shows

but Hyo Ri especially...!

She even started hosting shows, like

Happy Together with Dong Yeob.

[2002, age 23]
That was my first time as an MC.

[First time as a main host]
Right.

- Happy Together was your first?
- Yeah, it was.

[In the beginning]
Dong Yeob wasn't so sure about me.

- I was an idol...
- Right.

- To host a show...
- "She's probably not up to it."

But then I ended up doing better than expected.

She wasn't just good at hosting

even though she was an idol
she was really down-to-earth.

[For example...]
There were a lot of those moments.

[That famous meme]
Like, during a quick recording break

Hyo Ri would be passed out sleeping somewhere.

There are so many clips of her sleeping.

[Fin.K.L waiting room days]
She even slept on top of cabinets.

[There's even a photo of her sleeping up there]
There's tons of footage of her asleep.

I was so tired. Seriously.

I was exhausted!

You're supposed to go home
and rest after schedules

but after finishing up

I had to go drink!

- So how tired must I have been...
- Twice as tired!

- Isn't that your own "schedule"?
- So exhausted...

Still.

I had to drink. That was my way of unwinding.

- Even just a drink or two.
- You've got to let the stress out.

[Overnight shoots]
When I did commercials, it'd end around 7 or 9.

7 or 9 in the morning?

Yeah! And then I'd head straight to a street bar.

[Unbelievable energy]

At 9 a.m.?

- Then from 10...
- That's some serious spirit!

Wow, your stamina...

Honestly, it's impressive.

From 10 to around... noon, I'd be drinking.

[Pure awe]

When I think back on it now...

I'd work like crazy

never rest, go out, drink, party...

I'd ask myself
"Why did I live like that? Was I just reckless?"

- Yeah.
- But now I realize

I think it was because
I was so tense all the time.

[Right...]

There are people who are naturally relaxed.

But I'm not like that. I was always frantic.

Deep down, I was really timid, shy

and scared of a lot of things.

[But living under constant public attention]
And to be under the nation's spotlight

[Always nervous, always on edge]
I was just so tense.

Always so tense, so I needed at least a beer...

- Just to relax.
- To relax, right.

Just to relax a little.

Back then, that was the only way
I knew how to relax.

Some people don't have that tension

like Lee Sang Soon.

He doesn't need alcohol. He can't even drink.

That's part of it, I think.

Hearing you talk about this like that...

[Understanding a side he never saw]
I think I get it now.

- I get it.
- I was so nervous.

When you look at it on the surface

it's easy to think
"Oh, she must really like to party."

- Or...
- Oh! That too, yeah.

[She did enjoy partying too]
I won't deny that.

I do like having fun, but...

There was always this tension that
wouldn't go away unless I had at least a drink.

So I think that's what it was.

From the beginning, Hyo Ri
pretty much launched straight

into the life of a star.

She's lived that way ever since.

And if you think about how long
she's lived that life...

[Debuted 28 years ago]
How much pressure

[Endless tension and pressure came with it]
she must've carried.

There was always this fear
of suddenly falling off.

You've never felt that?

Me? Not really...

Even if I fall, it's just a small drop.

[It would be scary to fall off somewhere high]

It's not like this.

[Soft hop]
Boing!

I'll just bounce back.

[Thumbs up]
It's just like that for me.

But honestly

[Trying her best to word it nicely]
that's the happier life.

[Drawing a line between him and a top star]
You two are just different levels.

But for me...

[What Gyeju relates to in Hyo Ri's story...]
Hearing you talk about this makes me think...

Back in the day...

we had ratings to worry about too.

[When his role was minor and ratings were low]

If a show didn't get good ratings

and I didn't have a big role, I'd just go

"Oh, whatever."

[Coolly checks out]
"Alright."

"I'll be heading out then."

But other people would be really stressed.

Talking about the ratings and all.

Meanwhile, I just did my job

and didn't really think about what that meant.

I wasn't too concerned.

I was only focused on me.

"I just want to be a bit more popular."

- "I've got to be funnier."
- "Gotta make them laugh when I'm on."

[Didn't have time]
Those were my only concerns.

[to think beyond his part]
I didn't worry about the show itself.

It would be a shame if a show got cancelled

but I'd just hope to get cast
in something else soon.

I never really felt

like it was my responsibility

or carried any burden from it.

But like Hyo Ri said

when your popularity reaches that level

and your role becomes bigger

[More fame means more pressure]
you suddenly have to carry everything.

I was the lead role in the drama, right?

That pressure!

I was nothing, and they told me I'd be the lead.

I didn't know how to act at all.

[SBS Three Leaf Clover, 2005]
The company wanted me to do that

the lead role in a mini-series.

- And you did it!
- I did.

I did.

I think if it were now, I'd say, "No thanks."

But back then, I was like

"Maybe I'll give it a try since they asked me to."

[Didn't fully grasp the weight of it]
I thought "Maybe it'll go well since I'm popular."

I guess I thought like that.

But once I was in it, that was ridiculous.

Acting isn't something you just do.

It takes preparation, practice, and talent.

And people work their way up.
You learn by doing supporting roles first.

Like an assistant MC!

You watch how the main MC is doing
and you learn your way up.

[No chance to learn]
But I had none of that.

[Thrown straight into the deep end]
You were suddenly the lead.

I was suddenly the lead.

And there were such amazing actors
like Kim Young Ok.

Once I got to set, I had zero confidence.

How are you supposed to act well like that?

Exactly. If you don't believe in yourself...

[Already feeling unsure of herself]
I had no faith in myself.

[On top of that, low ratings]
And when the drama started doing poorly

[The atmosphere on set got tense]
people would be fighting on set.

You know what I mean?

The vibe was bad.

[Like sitting on pins and needles]
It must be so uncomfortable.

That must've been really tough.

I drank...

[Ah, that's why...]

Then you'd relax a bit.

[Finally understood how she felt back then]
Hey, Hyo Ri. Seriously.

You went through a lot. I had no idea.

It's what I deserved.

You never told me.

[Comfort sip of morning tea]

[Reflecting]
I deserved it.

I should've known my place back then.

I mean, Hyo Ri and I have worked together

on so many shows for a long time now

- but we don't really talk about this.
- Of course, no.

We never had the chance to.

When I think of Hyo Ri, I always think fun, cool

[Only ever thought of the bold, fearless Hyo Ri]
confident.

But deep down, there were probably
all kinds of personal worries.

Same goes for me.
It's not easy to share that stuff with coworkers.

[Not easy to share]
It's hard.

- Right.
- And do you really need to talk about it?

Still, it's like...

At the beginning
you've gotta choose your character wisely.

Once you go with "confident"

it's just drinks.

[To: Junior idols just starting out in variety]
To all the juniors out there...

The character...

go with a shy, timid character.

[The cost of being "confident"]
If you go confident

[It takes a lot to maintain]
your life gets harder.

"Why aren't you acting confident?
Be confident like you always are!"

And don't go for "honest," either!

You have to spill everything.

[There's no backing out]
Once you play the honesty card...

So Hyo Ri's path wasn't easy at all.

Definitely not.

But it's not like Hyo Ri ever said

[Didn't choose the concept deliberately]
"I'm going to be the confident one!"

[Didn't make it up]
You didn't do that on purpose.

No, it just happened that way.

Yeah, that's how it went.

When I first started doing variety with Fin.K.L

I can't remember the PD's name now.

[He was really famous at the time!]
He was a huge deal back then.

That PD said, "Hyo Ri, you should play
the 'princess syndrome' character."

Like, "I'm pretty, and I know it."

He said that'll work for me.

I still remember it.

So after that, whenever I was on a show

[Output]
"Because I am sexy. I am pretty."

[Boldly showcasing her charm]
Confidence, huh?

I started saying stuff like that.

I started that

then it became a habit
and people just saw me like that.

[Confidence is a habit, by Hyo Ri]

It became a part of you. You got good at it.

People liked it!

[LOL]
People liked it.

[The surprising origin of her confidence...]

You!

- You were like that?
- I told you.

I thought that was just your natural personality.

No, not at all.

Since school days.

No, back in school I only had one friend.

- Really.
- You were shy?

- Didn't talk much either?
- Hardly at all.

You weren't confident?
Never the center of attention?

I just liked dancing and singing.

But I wasn't the type to open up

or share my thoughts to anyone.

[Chills from the unexpected contrast]
That's honestly kind of wild.

But it's like that thing

you know how, if you do something long enough...

- You become it!
- You become it.

[Like when a lie becomes your truth]
You say it enough, and you start believing it.

[You trick yourself]
Right, right.

At some point

I started to feel like that person.

So you weren't like that at all to begin with?

[Nods]

It's been decades now...

[Apologies... I'm sorry!]
Hyo Ri!

I'm so sorry.

You're telling me that's not the real you?

Haha, you must be shook.

I'm shook.

[National brother genuinely stunned]
Seriously...

But now!

I am that person now. I became that.

[That version of herself]
I've become her.

[is real now]
I have.

But deep down, the "real me" is still there.

If you're being exact.

Ah, so that's why you kind of go back and forth.

Yeah I go back and forth.

That warmth, like
"Wait, why is she suddenly so warm?"

- A warm homebody.
- That's the real you.

[The real Lee Hyo Ri]
"Wanna stay for ramen?"

I still remember that voice.

When I visited Jeju.

That's the real me.

[Suddenly]
I really need to find that PD.

The one who made me.

[The person who created the Lee Hyo Ri we know]

If you're watching this, please reach out.

I forgot your name.

[What that PD said]
So that PD's order

[before her first variety show]
before your variety shows...

"Be confident."

"Use this kind of tone."

You know how when you're a rookie
that kind of stuff is really important.

Totally.

It really sticks in your brain.

So now I think
"I really need to watch what I say."

[Now imagining the roles reversed]
If I ever meet a rookie

I shouldn't say anything carelessly.

- Right! That's a big one.
- Yeah, it can change someone's life.

Let them live their own way.

But in my case
I turned out well thanks to that PD!

[One person's comment]
And now Hyo Ri

the things you just casually say

[can shift someone's path]
could mean everything to someone else.

Exactly.

That's why I'm nervous again!

Why?

Because I can't just say things freely anymore.

I'm nervous again.

Yeah... I get that now.

Life is just constant tension.

- Why do you think I moved to Jeju?
- Tightrope... total tightrope.

[See: Spring Vibes Are Just an Excuse, EP.70]
Whenever I dream, it's always like Sae Ho's!

Getting chased, falling from somewhere

or zombies biting me!

- I have dreams like that all the time.
- Seriously?

So that's why you moved to Jeju?

I needed to relax.

- You needed to relax.
- You've gotta unwind

to breathe and live.

That's when I finally started breathing in Jeju.

Doing yoga, volunteering, spending time in nature.

And with Sang Soon, too.
Having someone super relaxed next to me.

- I really became like him.
- You get drawn to that.

And helped me let go of some tension.

And naturally...

Back when my mom said "Stop drinking! Drink less!"

It never worked.

[But one day, alcohol just faded away]
But over time, I just naturally stopped drinking.

Even when I drink now, it's just one or two.

I don't even want to drink
to the point of getting drunk.

I realized when I truly feel at ease
those things just fade away naturally.

Everyone's different, of course

but tension and stress...

they're what keeps all those things
hanging around you.

- It's because of ambition!
- Exactly.

That ambition creates the tension.

[Relatable]
I think that's right.

You could just live peacefully, doing nothing.

- Right.
- But then! You keep wanting to do more!

- Right.
- Exactly.

You want attention.

- What do you do? Why are we like this?
- What do we do? I don't know.

But you can't just stop. We have to keep doing it!

Of course!

We need to grow

we can't fall behind, we have to keep pushing...

If you step away from it too long

you start looking back toward it.

And you want to get back in.

[Even now, if I think about it...]
So even now, I could just live peacefully.

I've made enough to live on.

I've had fame, success...

And as long as I just maintain it
and don't do anything big

I'm not going to fall off a cliff.

- Right.
- But still!

I keep thinking
"I can't just sit here and get complacent."

"I should do something."

"I kind of want to release another album."

I keep having these thoughts.

I could just relax at home

I suddenly find myself
going to learn JENNIE's choreo.

I'm scared I'll fall behind.

Did you learn "Like JENNIE?"

[Nodding]

[Still holding tight to the tension]

I learned this and this.

- I learned it all.
- You're good.

[Unexpected Hyo Ri's "Like JENNIE" performance]

You're good.

I just can't sit still.

You're too young to fully step away.

You know on YouTube

there are all those fortune-telling videos, right?

Do you watch those sometimes? Have you seen yours?

A fortune? Uh, no, I don't really know that stuff.

[YouTube has tons of them]
Shamans and fortune readers...

[They analyze celebrities' fates and fortunes]
Oh, that's a thing?

One time, the thumbnail said

"Lee Hyo Ri...

Is in big trouble."

[Clickbait]
Right, there are those stuff.

So you do watch them, huh?

You can't not click on that!
It says I'm in trouble!

[A top star's everyday life
low-key heartbreaking]

You're stressing yourself out, seriously.

You keep creating and watching...

You surround yourself with that stuff!

[Deep sigh]
You're doing this to yourself.

- Hyo Ri.
- You need a space to relax.

[Time for some relaxing tea]
You need to actually relax.

- Why are you watching that stuff?
- Listen!

What if you saw a YouTube video titled
"Yoo Jae Seok, tomorrow..."

But it cuts off right there!

- Would you click or not?
- Nope.

Oh...

[And you?]
I just scroll past it like, "Whatever."

Really?

I mean, I do watch it.

But none of it gets made about me.

That's more stressful!

- All those things are created...
- There are no contents?

Yeah, that content's only for top stars.

[Fortune-telling is for the top stars]
The content's only for top stars.

They don't make videos
for people like me in the middle tier.

[Middle-tier celebrity going full throttle]
So I just watch other people's stuff

without any stress.

I'm so jealous. Seriously.

[Hyo Ri envies Middle Se Chan!]
I'm so happy.

Not everyone can carry that weight of stars.

[Top star out of breath from laughing]
But you know that fortune teller...

[Top star keeps the story going]
The fortune teller...

The thumbnail looks dramatic, but when you
actually click in, there's not much there.

"Lee Hyo Ri's probably itching
to do something right now."

"She's probably learning
a JENNIE dance routine at home."

[Fully drawn in]

"She's probably dancing
in her living room as we speak."

And I was like how did they know?

[Even the shaman would be shocked at the accuracy]

[Could they have heard something...?]
Maybe they heard rumors or something...

[Almost believed it for a second]
They seemed so legit.

They're just taking shots in the dark, you know.

Right.

You really do go out of your way

to find stress triggers, like you said earlier.

That's true! I really do go looking for it.

Gotta stay busy, after all.

I think it's good, though

that you're still holding on
to that drive a little.

As we get older, we tend to become
more conservative, and protect what we have.

Right.

But I hate that!

I know I could just protect what I've built
and live comfortably now.

But that's not my personality.

- Yeah...
- I want to keep trying new things

- keep creating something fresh.
- That's really cool.

I think it's just my nature.

And these days

with people living almost 100 years.

[Still a long, long road ahead!]
We've still got so far to go.

So far.

If we start playing it safe now, we'll have to
keep playing it safe for way too long.

- It's way too long!
- Of course.

- That's not gonna work.
- There are so many fun things to try.

So much left to do.

These days, a lot of seniors

are actively trying to work again.

But you know, being human, when you're working

you're bound to make the occasional slip-up.

That's what I mean...

[Trying to keep up with the issues in the world]
I read the news

[But there's just too much to follow]
but I can't keep up with everything.

So I end up making mistakes.
Small mistakes pop up here and there.

And when they do

I can't just say, "Ah well, mistakes happen."

It's really hard for me. I beat myself up over it.

It's not even about what other people say.

It's me telling myself
"You didn't even know that?"

Like, why didn't I think about that?

[She comes down hard on herself]
"You should have known that by now."

Like you said...

These days especially

even if it's unintentional
a mistake is still a mistake.

[Just because it was unintentional
it doesn't make it less of a mistake]

- But...
- Yeah, it's still a mistake.

Even if you didn't mean it
if it happens over and over...

you start telling yourself
"I really should've known better. I had no idea."

And then you start beating yourself up.

But by that point, it's already done.

- Right...
- So the stress

just piles on.

[Want to stay active]
You still want to keep doing things

[Always lingering deep inside...]
but at the same time

[The fear of making mistakes]
you're also scared that one wrong word...

That's such a stress.

So Hyo Ri's really stuck in the middle of all this

all these worries, reflections, and self-blame...

- It's constant.
- Yeah, I do it a lot.

And getting criticized for a mistake

[That's not even the worst part]
is secondary.

The worst part

is knowing someone
might have gotten hurt by what I said.

[That's what brings the most guilt]
And then I end up telling myself

"Just stay home, don't go anywhere."

I tell myself

"Hyo Ri, just live quietly, go back to Jeju."

Same for me. I mean, this is a job
where we speak for a living.

So I think what Hyo Ri said is really important.

Even if it's unintentional
if someone gets hurt by your words..

That's something you really have to watch out for.

You've worked with me for years

have I ever said something that hurt you?
Be honest.

Me?

Words or actions?

I don't think I've ever been hurt by you.

I know where your heart is.

You know what I mean.

- I know your character, who you are.
- That means a lot, really. Thank you.

We've known each other so long now.

So I just know it all!

But still

I do always check to see
how you're feeling that day.

[Even at Jong Min's wedding! Even today!]

Maybe that's why.

Now that I think about it, on set, everyone...

the cast, the PDs, the writers...

they all kind of scan me quickly and walk past.

[So that's what that was]

It's kind of automatic.

- You're just like that, huh?
- Can't help it.

We've worked together for years now.

And we did Happy Together Friends
in 2006 together.

Whenever I work with Hyo Ri

everything feels easier.

- How should I put it...
- We just get each other.

I get him, and he gets me.

Whenever she's on set, it's just comfortable.
She knows what to do.

[Everything's at ease]

- That's the most important thing.
- And honestly

there aren't many people
who'll call me out anymore.

Yeah, not many for you!

Won Hee, Hyo Ri, Eun Yi...

[Being teased on variety shows is a gift]
I like having people who'll jab at me a bit.

I love it.

And now that I've hosted a lot

when I'm on someone else's show
I try to answer two things if they ask me one.

[Exactly]
That's it.

But that's when mistakes happen.

[The Möbius loop of pressure, effort, and slips]

The more you try to do well
the more likely you are to mess up.

- And if you don't say anything...
- When I go home and think

[Did I mess up?]
there's always three or four things.

So what about you, Hyo Ri
has Jae Seok ever said anything that hurt you?

- Is there anything?
- Of course!

What was it?

I once rode a horse during Family Outing.

[No delay at all in that answer]

You're really ready with that one.

It's like you were just waiting to bring it up.

You know what I mean.

[Knows exactly what she's talking about]
He must know it too.

On Family Outing? I watched every episode...

I was on a horse
and they only showed me from the back.

Haha...

Since I was riding, you couldn't see my lower body
just the upper body like this.

"So long...!"

[Just laughs]

That story?

[Sharp look]

It's famous.

I wasn't even that long.

What's he doing, haha.

- Just trying to be funny!
- Trying to be funny.

We've got long torsos too.
Compared to our legs, right?

Yeah...

And the horse was super short!

[Due to the horse's legs...]
The horse legs...

[How the teasing really started]
It was a pony, huh?

Its legs were so short, seriously.

I need to find that clip and watch it.

- Ahaha... haha...
- Hehe.

Sorry about that...

I'll take it.

[A proud Family Outing fan]

We used to tease each other so much back then.

[Yoon Jong Shin, singer]
We made so much fun

of Jong Shin back then for being old.

Called him a senior citizen. But!

He was only in his thirties.

37.

- Now that you say it.
- Younger than I am now.

Remember on Infinite Challenge
people called Myung Soo "Old Dad"?

He was 36 at the time.

I was 36 when I got married.

At that age! He was already being called "Dad."

Yeah! He was called "Dad"!

[Putting it in perspective]
"Grandpa." "Dad."

[Younger than Se Chan by 3 years now]
Does that even make sense? Why...

- It really doesn't...
- And still, he took it all in stride.

Seriously, the world has changed so much

in just a little over ten years.

And I wasn't around during that change!

You were off in Jeju Island.

So now I get so nervous.
Being on a show again makes me nervous!

[So much has changed in the last 10 years]
If you back old things from 10 years ago...

[Carefully giving an example]
For example, I don't know if this

will make the edit, but back then

people would even joke about women's chest size.

[Totally casually]
"Are you a B cup? I'm a C cup!" Stuff like that.

Yeah, even in comedy skits.

But if forget it's not okay anymore

and then if I say something like

[Old-school variety show jokes]
"Hmm? Looks like an A cup?"

That kind of thing...

Oh...

"What if I say something like that?"

If there's anything
I absolutely shouldn't say, please tell me.

Like that one just now! Probably not okay.

[That's one tip already]

Just know that.

Back then, there were so many shows
like Match Made in Heaven.

That whole guy-girl dynamic...

[A primetime celebrity dating show]

For example, if a girl tried to sit next to me

I'd go, "Can someone else sit here, please?"
That was just how it was.

- Yeah, that's true.
- Back then, yeah.

[Knows it well]
You can't do that now.

Times have really changed.

And during Family Outing!

The guys and girls all slept in the same house.

- We literally all slept together!
- Right.

There weren't even separate rooms.

And get this

we voted on who would sleep next to the girl. Why?

[Throwback to 2000s variety shows]

You remember that?

Why were we even voting on that... haha.

Wow, when you really break it down...

Isn't it kind of terrifying?

You get chills just thinking about it.

- Goosebumps...
- Imagine if someone pitched that now.

[An idea that wouldn't even make the agenda today]
It wouldn't even be considered.

It wouldn't even be considered.

There's so much that's just off-limits now.

Can you message me the full list?
Just organize it and send it over?

[Ready to study up]
Yeah, I'll make a list.

- Like, a list of things not to say on shows.
- Anyways

- hearing you talk now
- I'm so nervous.

[The more they talk, the more it clicks]
now I understand

[What's making Hyo Ri nervous today]
why you're nervous.

Back then, everyone

the audience, and us too...

We all just knew what the "acceptable vibe" was.

Now, I don't know anymore.

- Even with music!
- Yeah, music too.

It's the same for music too.

[Music shows, music videos]
Whether it's a music show or a music video

[Visual concepts]
even what I wear...

Back then, I had a feel for it.

I knew exactly what would look cool.

Now I don't know anymore.

- Like, how does it work now?
- Things move so fast these days.

So I'm studying a lot.

When I see younger artists, I ask them questions.

[Learning through experience]
I try things and realize this isn't it.

This is the way it needs to be.

It really feels like I'm a rookie again.

- But that's actually amazing.
- You're working hard.

I mean really, we need to make efforts.

Not just Hyo Ri, me too.

[Learning the new ways, trying to understand]
We're doing our best.

[To adapt and keep growing]
we're really trying to learn

and understand

but even then, we're still human.

We miss things, especially the little things.

Of course.

And when we do, people watching will point it out.

That becomes a huge lesson for us.

Exactly.

So Seok Sam is actually six years older than me.

Seok Sam? That's my dog's name.

[Hyo Ri's confused]

Wait, who's Seok Sam?

Ji Seok Jin.

These days, the whole country calls him Seok Sam.

[Everyone has someone they adore]
That's his nickname...

[Two totally different Seok Sams]
Seok Sam is Seok Jin.

Okay, Seok Sam.

You've got a lot to learn, huh?

I saw Seok Jin not long ago at Jong Min's wedding.

He saw me and froze up like

"Uh... uh... Hyo Ri..."

"It's really been a long time."

And I was like, "Why are you still
acting that way with me?"

He said he's got this
top star anxiety or something.

So

he was seriously trembling.

I was like, what's wrong with him?

[You can just picture Seok Sam doing that]
It's almost like trauma response.

I did that Boyar Expedition with Seok Jin.

Oh yeah!

[Boyar Expedition, aired 2003 on SBS]
Boyar Expedition, that's a throwback.

[A survival show where 19 stars]
It was on SBS.

[took on extreme missions in a French fortress]
We went to an island in Paris.

[Hosted by Nam Hee Seok, Hyo Ri and Seok Jin]
Hyo Ri was one of the MCs.

With Nam Hee Seok.

And Seok Jin was up on the roof somewhere...

The lighthouse, haha.

[Seok Sam was the lighthouse quiz master]
Yeah, he was in the lighthouse.

- Doing interviews from there?
- Yeah.

There

if you completed the challenge
you got to go up and do an interview.

If not, he stayed up there all day alone
then came back down.

And Seok Jin loved to party.

[Certified close friend]
That's true.

After filming, there was this tiny club-type place

and he was always there.

Like this.

"Hyo Ri."

[Perfect impression earns a reaction]
Like this.

[You can hear it in your head]
"You're not coming today, Hyo Ri?"

We were stuck on that island
filming for more than ten days.

[Pinggyego!]

I heard she's working on a new song

with Jung In.

Yeah, I am.

Not just Jung In.

[Planning lots of musical collaborations]
There are a few artists

[with various artists]
I'd really like to collaborate with.

- You should go for it!
- Yeah, because

I don't fully have my groove back yet

so I want to get some help.

Back in the day, I felt like
I had to carry everything.

Like I had to be the star, the lead

but now if something's too hard
I think I'd lean on the people around me.

I should take in what they have to offer too.

In the past

[Trendy or viral projects]
I don't think I ever hopped on something

[Instead of riding trends]
that was already popular.

I always started it, led it.

Now I kind of want to join shows
that are already doing well, just as a guest.

- Get some help?
- Do some collabs, lean on others.

That's really how I want to live now.

So if I get invited to something
where I'd have to lead everything

I actually turn those down now.

In the past, I used to seek those out.

You preferred them.

Now I just don't have the energy for that anymore.

Wow, that's cool.

[Thinking deeply]

But seriously, that's so cool.

You're still leading shows really well.

I've been thinking about that a lot too.

Right now, I'm at the center of things
hosting and all

but if it doesn't work out

wanting to lead something
doesn't mean you actually can.

[Trapped in the past]
And if you get stuck in the past

[Clinging to being the main focus]
like I used to be like that, missing those days...

- "I can't do this!"
- "This isn't for me!"

I don't think that's the right mindset.

[Even if you're not the lead]
You can stand on the side and cheer others on

[You can still be part of it]
give great reactions, be present.

I've always felt that way

but hearing Hyo Ri say it like this now...

Then should I make a show
and have you as my assistant MC?

I'll do it!

[Accepts in 0.1 seconds, cool as ever]

I'm totally in.

If it's Hyo Ri's show, why not?

Seriously?

[Assistant MC / Main MC]
Jae Seok as

[Basically an all-star casting]
the assistant MC?

I'll be in the studio
and you can go out on the field like a VJ.

But I actually like that!

Let's do it!

I love doing field interviews!

[For Gyeju]
Give me that job, please.

[It's a chance to redeem his reporter past]
She calls you out like, "Come on out!"

- I'll stay off the studio.
- Or maybe

want to do the pre-recording warm-up MC?

[Volunteering eagerly]
I'll do it! Give it to me!

Please let me do it!

[Pressure]
The warm-up MC... that's a specialty job.

Not just anyone can pull that off.

- Yeah, that's true.
- Definitely not just anyone.

I've been hosting shows for a long time

- and I know that's a whole different skill set.
- Right.

[You have to hype up the room]
You have to keep it really tight.

[In a short amount of time]
Short and on point.

It's all about creating impact quickly.

- You need a few tricks ready.
- Right.

- I heard there's a list.
- You need it.

Have some prizes ready

bam bam bam.

- Get the cheers and claps roaring.
- You know that guy who's really good at it.

- The famous one.
- Yeah, there is one.

[Then]
You should do it at my parents' 80th birthday.

- Call me!
- MC...?

[Of course]
Yeah, I'll do it.

Their 80th already passed!

[Just checking]

What are you doing?

Want to come on their 90th?

[MC Yu is always on standby]
Call me for the 90th.

If Hyo Ri calls, I'm there to MC.

- Call him.
- Of course, he'd go.

[Misunderstood]
Of course I'll come!

No, call him for your parents' 80th birthday.

- 80th?
- Yeah.

[When it comes to Se Chan's mom]
You don't know about his mom, right?

[Sharing a now-famous story]
She

catches a bird with her bare hands.

She's still got that kind of fight in her.

Like, out in the countryside?

Why would she grab a bird with her hands?

A kestrel flew into the house

and she just... caught it.

Those things have serious talons.

My mom's claws are stronger than its claws!

[So impressed the words get jumbled]
Not claws, I mean...

My mom's nails are stronger.

[Since Health is Just an Excuse(Pinggyego) EP.59]
That kestrel...

[Proof photo resurfaces]
It just froze. Didn't even try to move.

[The kestrel is totally frozen]
I was in shock.

That's incredible!

His mom is amazing.

She's no joke.

My brother and I got scolded
all the time when we were young.

[Yang Se brothers were raised strictly]
In front of Mom

we'd just stand like this.

That kind of upbringing
usually makes kids bottle stuff up.

So that's why

when our parents went off to work

[Yang Se brothers, mischief unlocked]
that's when all that

bottled-up energy exploded.

You'd pour shampoo or detergent all over the floor
and slide around on it.

Sliding around?

[You can guess what happened next]
Right...

Weren't you scared of what would come after?

If your mom found out...

Most moms would just yell

"Hey! What were you thinking?"

"Hold out your hands!"

[But Yang Se brothers' mom was not "most moms"]
Not her.

She'd unbutton a few buttons here.

"I told you not to do that, didn't I?"

"Oh, that's it. I'm done with you two."

"Get outside. Naked."

[A common punishment back in the day]
That happened back then.

[Only the strong survived in the 1990s]
"Get outside. Naked."

People really used to
send their kids outside like that.

I at least had my underwear on. Hahaha.

[Excited to find someone who gets it]
You too, huh? You were sent out too.

[Drawing the line]
I had my underwear on.

Never went out completely naked.

Back then, the neighbor kid
would be out there too sometimes.

Everyone was out.

[That's just how it was]
Anyway, that's just how it used to be.

So Hyo Ri, what do you do these days
when you're not working?

I've been meeting people
I've wanted to connect with.

Through DMs.

I reach out.

Really?

[Because she doesn't have their numbers at all]
Because I have no connections at all.

Total strangers?

[Uh huh]

I want to get some musical advice and all that.

[DMs are her best option right now]
That's the best way for me right now.

Wow, that's impressive.

- DMing someone like that isn't easy.
- That takes guts... seriously.

Really?

[Speaking from the younger perspective]
If a younger artist gets a message from her

wanting to talk about music or something

it'd mean so much to them.

Oh, for sure!

Meeting up and having deep conversations like that

can give you a real boost in confidence.

[Producer]
I've reached out to GroovyRoom and met up.

I even DMed GD

and asked to meet, we didn't get to meet, though.

[Still pushing ahead]
I'm going to try again.

[It wasn't one-sided]
But he read it!

He actually replied!

So for this album
I'd really love to work on something together.

Hyo Ri and GD teaming up, that's kind of...

That collaboration...

[Just imagining it is epic]
It'd be so fresh and fun.

We've never worked together before.

[Wishing for a Hyo Ri, GD collab]

I really want to.

I watched GD on You Quiz the other day.

Right.

And the way he thinks and expresses himself

[Why she wants to work with him]
felt so in sync with how I feel.

Oh...

GD and I...

are obviously different in some ways
but I think there's a lot we have in common too.

Like what?

Living as a top star, maybe...?

[Trying not to laugh]

Not necessarily values or beliefs...

Just being a top star in the industry...

- Top star life... yeah, that's fair.
- I mean...

- It's not values...
- It's true though!

I thought you had the same values or something.

Values are important, sure
but life is more important.

[The part she related to the most...]
On You Quiz, GD said

he's done it all
but still doesn't feel fulfilled.

He's made money, had tons of popularity

but that inner loneliness
and emptiness won't go away.

That sense of emptiness.

I've felt that too.

[Even when you've achieved everything you wanted]
I have an amazing husband now and everything

but that emptiness
it doesn't seem to have a reason.

If you had to explain it
what kind of emptiness do you think it is?

It just feels like this can't be everything.

So it's not about lacking something
or wanting something you can't have.

That's not it.

It's like you don't know what it is exactly

- I feel like something must be there.
- but there must be something else.

[And she wants to find it]
So you keep trying.

You're searching for it.

I've done yoga

and back in Jeju, I volunteered

like five days a week

at an animal shelter.

I've picked up poop with my bare hands

[She's tried everything she could]
got bitten here and there.

[Still hasn't found the answer]
But even then, I still don't know.

I thought, "Maybe this will help me
figure it out." But I'm still not sure.

Is it just me being greedy?

This thing that I don't know?

Whatever it is, you want to keep looking for it

- since you don't know yet.
- Yeah!

[Seeing it in a positive light]
I actually think that's a really good thing.

[Pinggyego!]

It wasn't until I left and went to Jeju

that I realized how precious
and grateful I am for this job.

I left and stopped.

[She moved to Jeju thinking she needed rest]
You went there thinking you needed a break.

You were tired, that's true.

Exactly!

When I made a mistake

I couldn't handle the backlash anymore.

When I was younger

- Well, OK.
- even if people criticized me

[Grinding through it]
I was like "I'll show them next time."

Let's bounce back!

[Even if the response wasn't great]
If an album didn't do well, I'd think

I'll kill it next time.

[Keeping that fire for the next try]
"Next one's gonna slay." "I'm gonna crush it."

But now, I don't have that in me.

[No energy left to fight the reactions]
It's just not there anymore.

So I kind of hid away.

But now...

[Ready to do what she's meant to do again]
I feel like it's time to start doing

what I'm meant to do again.

[Proud]
Yeah.

That's your own style.

Totally. If you just give in to that...

Right.

Then it gets really dark.

And some people love to say

"You have to push through this!"

"What are you talking about?"

[It's easy to say when it's not your life]
But that depends on the person.

Honestly, the only thing
that really helps you through it

is love from your family and people around you.

- So true!
- That's really it.

[10000% relatable]
That's true.

You need that. Without it...

Sang Soon has been endlessly supportive.

Whoa.

Sang Soon's name again!

[He keeps coming up]

[Certified King of Support]
"You're amazing no matter what you do."

[Unconditional support]
"Whatever you do, it'll work out!"

[Sharing worries with him]
"I'm in my forties now...

if I don't do it now, will I miss my chance?"

And he goes "No, you could do this
in your fifties, even sixties."

He says stuff like that all the time.

[Those words gave her strength]
And it really, really helps me.

When you have someone like that next to you
it gives you strength.

[Shout-out to Sang Soon]
I've always known it

but he really is a good person.

Absolutely!

Back during Infinite Challenge
I first met Sang Soon as my guitar teacher.

He never raised his voice at us.

- Even if you messed up?
- He's not the type to get mad at people.

[Teacher Sang Soon always taught calmly]
He'd just say, "Let's try that again, like this."

[But if he got frustrated, he'd step out]
When he got overwhelmed, he'd go out to smoke.

Still does! Still the same!

[Students pushed him out]

Well, he needs a way to cool off.

He has this chair out in the yard.

And when you go check
you can see him sitting there from the back.

[Frustrated]
[Sending his frustration off into the sky]

Oh wow, I'm pouring this with both hands.

[Polite]

[Not sure why, but the body just reacts politely]

Why did you do that?

Why were you doing that?

It's just how we are.

[Sharing tea with mutual respect]
It's our polite little back-and-forth.

I still watch Family Outing.

Little clips!

- They're always circulating!
- I miss that time so much, it was so fun.

I didn't realize
but it was actually a really short run!

I thought it went on for like 2 or 3 years!

[It aired from June 2008 to February 2010]
We only did it for about a year and a half, right?

[SBS Family Outing Season 1]
How long was it exactly?

- Yeah, it was short.
- Wait, so...

[Question from a loyal Family Outing fan]
Did you win the Grand Prize together that year?

- Yep.
- That's right.

[2009 SBS Entertainment Awards
Grand Prize, Joint Win]

[Surprised but grateful for the win]
I didn't think I deserved that. I was grateful.

I worked really hard
and I think that's why they gave it to me.

Winning it with Hyo Ri made it even better.

Right? I figured it must've felt that way.

Getting a group award like that
feels really special.

[2007 MBC Entertainment Awards]

[First-ever group award for Infinite Challenge]
We also got one as the Infinite Challenge team.

If I had one small wish

I'd love to see the Running Man team
win one together someday.

Even if I don't get it, I hope the team does.

[16 years in the game]
But really, to last that long

- is incredible.
- Right.

- The teamwork must be amazing.
- Seriously.

Honestly, I didn't think Running Man
would go on this long.

Me neither!

After filming the very first episode
I thought, "This isn't gonna work..."

[Spicy review from the very first guest]

Look who's back again.

- It's Lee Hyo Ri!
- You're back.

Hyo Ri from ten years ago!

[Finally revealing what she really thought]
Yeah, I totally thought that to myself.

Whenever Hyo Ri comes on
the shoot always feels harder

because it's the first episode.

Everything is intense, full of energy.

[Trying everything possible]
Everyone's doing the most.

[Since it's the first episode]
Trying everything.

Trying this, trying that, testing what works.

She shows up, and it's "Let's do everything."

[Producers feeling nervous]
That's why they bring Hyo Ri in

[Superstar Hyo Ri as first guest]
as the first guest.

She makes headlines.

- And she gives them peace of mind.
- Yeah, makes everyone feel better.

[Self-praise moment]
I really gave it my all that day.

- I remember I brought the show to life.
- That's true!

- You made it so fun to watch.
- Totally.

[Undeniable variety queen energy]
That's a fact.

- I loved variety shows.
- You had amazing chemistry with everyone.

I enjoyed it.

But it actually

all started with what that PD said...

[That signature variety charm
started with a PD's vision]

"Hey, you're the princess!"

"You need to own it."

[The bold, confident character fit perfectly]
"Be confident. Be the princess."

"Lean into the self-obsessed vibe."

But honestly, like with all characters

at the root

[A warm heart is the foundation]
you need a warm heart.

- And your peers knew that.
- Of course. Everyone knew.

People saw your true personality.

Because if you really acted that way
no one would accept it!

It'd be a disaster.

Myung Soo took over 10 years
to build his character.

Exactly.

Now that I've been in this industry for a while
I guess it's like this in any field

people who aren't kind at heart just don't last.

- They get caught.
- They can't stay long.

No, wait! I take that back.

Some people just had bad luck
and had to leave too.

[Let's not hurt anyone...]

You've become more thoughtful!

- But seriously, Hyo Ri!
- It's both luck and character!

You're looking at the big picture now.

If your personality's bad, you better be lucky.

If your luck's bad
then your heart better be good.

- But you know what?
- You need both.

When luck starts lining up for someone

- there's no stopping them.
- They're unstoppable.

[Sharing a personal story]
One time

I was supposed to bring a blue outfit

but my stylist accidentally brought a red one.

[Turns out the background that day]
But the background that day

[Matched the red perfectly]
was red too, just by chance.

- And the outfit looked amazing!
- Totally perfect?

- Yeah!
- Wow.

When luck is on your side, that's how it shows up.

There was another time
she forgot to bring high heels

[Panicking at first]
so she was like "I totally forgot!"

[But the shoot was on gravel]
It turned out the location was gravel.

[So sneakers were actually better]
It was like that.

When things are going your way.

[During the "10 Minutes" era, luck was everywhere]
Back in the "10 Minutes" days

it was almost crazy.

- Everything worked out for you!
- No matter what I did.

But when luck doesn't show up
it really doesn't show up.

[Life's just strange like that]
Total extremes, huh?

If I show up in heels, it's gravel.

But seriously, when things are going well
like Hyo Ri said

[Everything works out like magic]

everything just clicks.

And honestly, that's when I start to get scared.

I don't think you get
the lucky streak and that's it.

Right.

If there was a time
when everything just went your way

there's bound to be a time when it doesn't.

And the more I hold on to those "lucky" years

and try harder to force that same luck now

the more things fall apart.

When your luck isn't working...

Just acknowledge it and let it be.

"Oh, this is just an unlucky phase."

Exactly.

You have to wait it out.

That's really true!

In our line of work
when you're working on something

sometimes things go well

[You work hard and the results show up]
but other times

[And sometimes they just don't]
you work just as hard and nothing clicks.

And when it doesn't click
you have to get through that well.

[Total agreement]
Absolutely.

When things aren't going well
if you get impatient like

"I have to make the next one work!"

"Why isn't it working?"

[That urgency ends up hurting people around you]
You start stressing everyone out.

- "Let's go! Let's go!"
- "Let's go!"

[Forcing fake energy]
"Let's fight! Let's push through!"

But like we said earlier

- it just backfires!
- Totally!

It gets worse!

- And the people around you...
- You're rushing things!

- They leave!
-The people around you all leave.

You need people around you.

Even if you're struggling, having someone there
makes it possible to still build something.

If even those people leave during hard times...

[At that point, luck isn't the issue anymore]
That must be so tough.

And when you're unlucky
you start attracting weird people too.

- Totally!
- Seriously.

You've gotta be careful.

Are they someone
who's cared about you from the start

or are they just suddenly interested in you now?

You need to be able to tell!

And I think love is the same.

Love burns hot at first!

But then sometimes you just get
a little tired of each other.

There are moments
when you're not really feeling it!

And when your partner senses

that you're cooling off a bit
they start clinging to you, right?

[When you hit a rough patch in a relationship]
"Why are you acting like this? You've changed."

[When they start begging for attention]
"Why don't you love me like before?"

When it gets to that point

it's over.

But with Sang Soon

he had no idea.

He couldn't tell
whether I was getting bored or not.

That's why I married him, seriously.

[Started as a luck analogy
turned into soulmate story]

Because he didn't know?

I dropped so many hints

but he didn't notice!

And that phase just passed like that
without him knowing.

So it just naturally happened.

- Sang Soon is incredible.
- That's so cool.

Sang Soon, you're the winner.

You're the champion!

So I told him, "Hey, remember that time..."

[When they traveled to the UK while dating]
"when we went to the UK together?"

"I was kind of snappy with you back then

and honestly, I was thinking
maybe we should break up."

And he went, "Oh yeah? I had no idea."

[Completely unfazed by it all]
"I thought it was a really nice trip."

He really didn't know.

So he's not at all sensitive
about stuff like that.

[Laid-back to the core]
He's just so chill.

That's cool. That's how people should be.

No, I think it's just his nature.

- It's not about being cool.
- Exactly.

It's just Sang Soon's natural vibe.

If you try to imitate that in the wrong way...

You're gonna mess it up.

You could mess it up.

Some people might act like that
hoping to be chased after

and if you just leave it...

You pretend not to notice something

[Side effects of copying it wrong]
and they're gone!

- They've left!
- It'd be like "What's wrong?"

So don't copy that.

No way.

But sometimes I do get a little upset
because he's so laid-back.

Like, I'll be upset about something

and I just want him to notice. But he doesn't.

Even when I cry, he has no idea.

[Usually when someone's on the verge of tears...]
Most people can tell right away

when someone's eyes start turning red.
But not him!

Oh...

That's kind of...

[He doesn't get it]
That's... kind of a problem.

Isn't that weird?

Sang Soon, that's a bit...

[Sharing a real story]
Recently

something happened
I started crying while we were eating.

[Usually, in this situation]
Normally, when I cry

people would be like, "What's wrong?"

Handing a tissue.

But he just kept talking.

About himself?

We were talking about how much tax he had to pay.

He glanced at me and went, "Oh, are you crying?"

So I said, "It's okay, just keep talking."

[Completely unfazed]
And he went "So the taxes are like this and that"

[Kept going]
"and I did this, so now I have to do that..."

"Okay, got it."

And then he just moved on.

Seriously?

Sang Soon, you are the champion.

[Respect level rising]
You're the true champ.

Great.

If he had said, "Why are you crying?"

Then I would've started talking about it

about everything upsetting me

[The sad mood would've dragged on]
and it would've just spiraled.

But because he let it go

- You let it go too.
- it just passed.

[Negative emotions fade away naturally]
He knows your style now.

I just got over it too.

I didn't fall too deep into it.

In that way, I actually really appreciate it.

There are pros and cons to that, sure.

[Conclusion: They're a good match]
It works for you two.

For me.

Exactly.

It's so good for me, because I'm too sensitive.

It really works for Hyo Ri.

He keeps you from spiraling.

[Imagine]
Imagine if he cried together.

Ugh... no.

[Getting emotional]
"What's wrong?"

That would've turned into an all-day thing.

[The never-ending cry session]
Full-on sobfest.

Crying the whole day.

Man, I miss Sang Soon now.

Sang Soon always says

I'm so full of variety.

One moment

I'm smiling and dancing

then he looks again and I'm crying. Haha.

And whenever we watch something together

I have to act it out.

If we're watching Show Me the Money

I have to rap to whoever's next to me.

"Bring me some water, now."

Like Yo!

"Tell me how you feel right now."

"Look! Pow! Ha-ha!" You have to do this?

And if we're watching Street Woman Fighter...

[Synced with the TV]
Up and dancing?

I have to imitate it.

Does he react? Does he play along?

Him? Not anymore!

Back in the day, when I'd do that stuff

[For example, when driving together]
like we'd be in the car...

He played along?

A song would come on and I'd sing, dance, rap.

[He used to react well]

But now, he just drives.

[No reaction at all]
Seriously, zero reaction.

But it feels completely natural now.
Between us, that's just how it is.

- Yeah.
- I don't expect a reaction either!

[Respecting each other's differences]
You do your thing.

I'm just releasing my own energy.

Honestly, that's the chemistry of a real couple.

- Totally.
- That's real tiki-taka.

Yes! That's tiki-taka.

Like, when we go to the beach

I want to jump in, go diving and splash around.

But he just wants to lie on the sand.

[Throwback to their honeymoon in Hawaii]
When we went to Hawaii after getting married

he said he didn't want to get in the water.

[I wanted to play in the water together]
I wanted to splash around.

- Tossing around.
- Get piggyback rides and all.

So we argued about it.

I was like, "Why'd we come all the way to Hawaii
if you're not even gonna get in the water?"

Now we just don't go together anymore.

I go to the beach alone!

Oh, beach alone!

He doesn't go in anyway.

I go to the beach and mountains alone.

He doesn't go to the mountains either.

"Why would I hike up something hard

when I'll just have to hike back down?"

And most people, once they're about two-thirds up

they have to reach the summit, right?

But he always wants to go down.

What? Even when you're almost there?

I mean, I don't need to reach the summit either.

- Right.
- Really?

I get it.

We're not competitive.

We're not chasing some goal all the time.

That makes life feel a lot more peaceful.

He always says to me

"Do you always have to win?"

Exactly.

You don't have that, right?

Yeah, I don't have that competitive streak either.

I really hate

being in competitive situations.

I'm not interested in big competitions.

But you know those tiny competitions?

Like what?

Like who gets in the car first.

[Even tinier than expected...]
Who gets out first.

- Who walks into the house first.
- Wait, that's a competition?

Who finishes eating first.

That kind of thing.

So growing up, we were four siblings.

And we had a tough time financially.

Oh that's...

Even at mealtime, there'd be just this one.

[Survival instinct learned young]
If Mom gave us a treat, it was just one.

Maybe that's why I turned out like this?

- That makes sense.
- Yeah, it really might.

Where were you in the sibling order?

[Youngest of four]
I was the youngest.

That explains it!

What was your childhood like?

I was always scrambling

always trying to get something.

If I didn't grab it first, I got nothing.

And I always wore hand-me-downs from my sisters.

[The fate of the youngest child]
I never got to choose anything myself.

So you're both youngest siblings here.

I was the eldest.

[Eldest of 3 / Youngest of 4/ Youngest of 2]

That really makes a difference.

When it came to sharing clothes with my sisters

I had to wake up five minutes earlier

[Whoever gets it first, keeps it]
to get first pick.

If you want to wear it, you gotta grab it first.

So I grew up with that kind of mindset.

Wait, isn't Sang Soon an only child?

He's one of three. But he grew up rich.

- Super rich.
- So that's where the chill comes from...

That famous beef restaurant in Busan...

His mom's parents ran that.

[His mother's side]
His mom's side

[ran a well-known Korean BBQ restaurant in Busan]
so Sang Soon himself had nothing to do with it.

Oh.

How do you know about Sang Soon's...

- Was that in the news?
- How'd you know about the beef place?

I keep tabs on rich people...

[Always curious about rich people's roots]
Whenever I hear about someone successful...

Looks like you dug wrong.

But I saw in one of his interviews

[From a past interview]
he said something about that restaurant

being "family-owned."

Yeah, that's true.

[Run by his uncle after his grandfather passed]
His grandpa passed away

and now his uncle runs it.

So it's not really connected to him but...

I mean, sure, if you visit

they'll probably treat you to a meal.

But still, when he was a kid
his parents owned a galbi restaurant in Seoul.

And he said they lived very comfortably.

- Sang Soon is a bit...
- He's always had a relaxed vibe.

- Makes sense now.
- I'm annoyed.

[Finally understanding the source of his calmness]
I mean yes, his personality plays a part.

That rich aura?

- That little bit of wealth energy...
- He does have that rich smell.

He has that rich smell, huh?

But I don't think it's because of money with him.

Before we got married

[His band years, 1999 to 2008]
he went abroad using the money he made

with Roller Coaster

and after that, he was basically broke.

[But even then, he never lost his calm]
Even during that time, he was always calm.

That's what drew me in.
I kept thinking, "What is it with this guy?"

That's such a strength.

[Something anyone would admire]
A huge strength.

It really is.

That's how I want to be too.

Calm, patient

someone who really listens.

But when you were filming Hyori's Homestay

[The warm-hearted host everyone remembers]
with the guests who came to stay...

I've definitely gotten better over time.

I'm way less sensitive

thanks to a lot of personal effort.

But I don't think that ever fully disappears.

When do you think

you were at your most sensitive or overwhelmed?

Probably during my solo career.

Back then, even if I just coughed
it'd be a headline.

[During her 2003 solo debut]
There were so many articles about me

[She appeared on the front page 891 times]
it was enough to land me in the Guinness.

[She holds the record
for most front-page appearances]

Even catching a cold

[Even a cold became headline news]
"Lee Hyo Ri catches a cold."

- That was the main news.
- Just imagine that being on the front page.

How hilarious is that?

Back then, if Hyo Ri shot a commercial

- it would sell out.
- It was insane.

- Sales would skyrocket.
- Sales went up

[A proper "syndrome"]
by 300%!

- The whole company would thrive.
- Everything was interconnected.

[She was in her mid-twenties at the time]
And Hyo Ri was just so young

carrying all of that on her own.

I was trying to wear
a crown that was way too heavy.

[The weight of the crown was too much]
And that weight was so hard to carry.

So to get where you are now...

it was like riding a huge wave.

I've known Hyo Ri for a long time

but I think this is the first time

I've ever really heard her
speak from the heart like this.

With Se Chan too

but she came early in the morning to be here

and I just kept thinking

it's rare to find someone
who's this good of a variety partner.

Even after all this time

there's zero awkwardness.

It's always the same, always fun!

Always fun.

With you, I feel like I can show my entire self

and you'd never get upset.

[The kind of partner you can be yourself with]
Even if you go too far with a joke.

My fun, silly side just comes out naturally.

Next time, invite Sang Soon too.

There are so many stories
we can only tell when he's there.

[Couple appearance coming soon]
We'll definitely bring you together next time.

And since you came today, Hyo Ri

[First visit welcome gift]
we have a small gift for you...

What is it?

Wait, isn't this something I like?

- What is it?
- How did you know?

I just know.

Did you ask Sang Soon about this?

[The staff are surprised too]

We just know it all.

How did you know?

You could tell just by touching it?

I love these trays.

Oh?

How did you know I love this?

[It's from a gallery Hyo Ri actually likes]
How did you know about Cho Eun Sook Gallery?

Wow, it's beautiful!

This is perfect.

[Cheese]
Put some cheese on it.

[Wine]
Pour a little wine.

Then take it to bed in the master bedroom.

[Perfect tray for snacks and wine]
Then just...

Snack while watching TV.

Take a little bite.

[Still amazed]
Thank you.

How did you know I liked this so much?

I just thought it'd really suit you.

[Respectful bow]

Well, if you love it, that makes me happy.

You can wear this on one shoulder

and the Chanel bag on the other.

[Decked out with gifts on both arms]

And walk back and forth in front of Sang Soon.

I'll do that.

- Show it off a little.
- Got it.

Okay?

Show it off.

Hyo Ri and Sang Soon

- we'll definitely make that happen next time.
- Can't wait.

And to all our Gyewons who joined us today
thank you so much.

[Bye, Gyewon]
Thank you.

Thank you.

- Great job, everyone.
- Hyo Ri, it was so much fun!

So glad.

Still the perfect match.

Let's meet again next time.

Of course! Anytime.

Thanks so much.

I'll use this well.

She's really warm now.

Take care on your way home.

Thanks again.

Bye, Hyo Ri.

[Produced by Antenna Plus
Mixed by Cheongchun Sound]