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Y'all ready to party?
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This season on Nelly & Ashanti,
We Belong Together.
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She got me, y'all.
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He wanted to get got.
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Goddamn,
what's that on your finger?
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Here's KK!
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KK's our first child.
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I'm very protective.
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Wake your ass up, it's daddy!
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Stop, stop.
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My parenting style,
just don't burn down the house.
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Can we move some of this shit?
Like, damn.
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I thought I could have it all.
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A career, husband, baby.
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But it is a little challenging.
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I missed you so much.
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Get the nanny.
Hey, man, I'm rich, man. Listen.
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-When his sister comes,
then it's gonna be--
-When who comes?
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There's a lot of rumors
about a second baby.
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The elephant in the room
is baby number two.
What happens?
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Not yet.
I still need some convincing.
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What?
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ATL, what's happening?
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NELLY
WHERE THE PARTY AT TOUR
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I'm kicking off the
"Where the Party At" tour.
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It's way too long.
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It ain't enough.
Want that money.
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He's about to go on tour
for 200,000 million days.
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With the baby.
That's a lot.
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Well, listen, it's all you.
I ain't gonna even lie.
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I ain't got nothin' for him.
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Oh, my God.
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The wife and mommy side
of me is like, fuck!
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We are just now
going to size his ring.
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And he doesn't
mind wearing it.
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He will wear it.
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No way he's going on tour
all around the world
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without the ring on his finger.
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They want me to perform
at the inauguration.
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What?
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I've just always taught
to have respect for the office.
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I'm doing it.
No big deal.
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It's a big deal.
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Hmm.
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Yeah, well,
we'll see what happens.
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NELLY AND ASHANTI
WE BELONG TOGETHER
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[tense instrumental]
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[Ashanti] Nelly made
the decision to perform at
the Inaugural Ball.
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TRUMP HOLDS VICTORY RALLY BEFORE
INAUGURATION
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And obviously,
people have opinions.
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Some good, some bad.
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ASHANTI
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[production] How did you feel
about Nelly's performance at the
Trump's Inaugural Ball?
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What's next.
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[production] Okay, so you don't
want to say anything?
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No.
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If he wants to talk about it,
he can.
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For me,
I'm not talking about it.
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[chill trap music playing]
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NELLY AND ASHANTI'S TEMPORARY
APARTMENT
LONG ISLAND NY
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[Nelly] What's happening?
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2 DAYS AFTER INAUGURAL BALL
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You ain't get none of the cake.
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No.
Did y'all save me some?
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-A little bit.
-Did KK eat some?
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NELLY
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He smashed his hand into it,
and then he was quick.
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He put it to his mouth.
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I got most of it off,
but I think he got
a little bit in there.
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Just give me a little piece.
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I ain't going to do too much.
I just want to see
what it tastes like.
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You ain't got to cut into words.
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I know you all about keeping
the word first and all of that.
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So this was
a six-month birthday party?
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Yeah, it's called
Halfway to First.
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You get the theme?
That's why we did baseball.
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Only somebody who really
don't know the rules of baseball
would think halfway to first.
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And you literally said that,
and maybe that makes sense.
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-It does.
-Because it makes sense.
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Halfway to first base, right?
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Halfway to your first birthday.
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Halfway to first is out.
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It looked like y'all had
a great time at the party.
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It was so good.
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So speaking of parties,
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how did you feel about
everything with the
inauguration?
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I felt great.
I can't even lie.
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You know, it was a little bit
of a surreal situation.
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I've never seen that much
security for anything.
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They stopped your car
and checking everything.
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So we let all the windows down.
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-Hey!
Air it out.
-Air it out.
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I think a lot of people would
have been shocked to see
the diversity that was there.
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It's all walks of life, and the
men and women in our military,
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even the young HBCU band,
they were there.
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I don't know how
they felt about it.
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I would have loved to
have asked them.
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But for me, I grew up
playing sports,
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and sportsmanship is whether
you win or when you lose.
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It's just like, in order
to bring people together,
somebody has to reach across.
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I was born on a military base.
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I'm a military brat,
and I've always been taught
to respect the office,
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respect chain of command,
and there's nothing wrong
with having patriotism.
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And I think this
situation was that.
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The campaigning part was over.
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This is the President of
the United States.
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This is the Commander-in-Chief.
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This is who
our country voted in,
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in what we like to call
the democratic process.
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You know, I pretty much expected
to get some talk.
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Yeah, just people's comments.
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-It's crazy
because you'll really...
-How do you feel?
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Because I don't like,
I didn't expect you to come
under fire, so to speak.
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Right, you didn't think
it was gonna be that much?
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I didn't expect
the evilness just in some of the
comments for you and even KK.
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You're like, yo, he's not
even old enough to vote.
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Nelly and Ashanti over there
raising a Trump-loving infant
and its just very sad.
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It's interesting,
to say the least.
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It's hard, it's hard, because
you'd be wanting to scream.
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How did I get the blame?
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Okay, you want
to shoot at me, fine.
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I'm way thick-skinned.
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It doesn't matter,
but when you go
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and have comments about my wife
or my children or any
of my family, that hurts.
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And let's be clear,
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everybody in my family did not
agree with what I was doing,
but they respected it.
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And I don't really read
comments too much, you know
what I mean, but it's like,
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y'all got me trending,
I'm not even, I haven't said one
word about anything.
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-But I feel you have the right
to have your own opinion.
-Exactly.
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So, and I--
I mean, we can agree,
this isn't your first choice,
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but I'm thankful
and I'm very appreciative that
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-you have faith in what it is
that I'm trying to do.
-Of course.
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But the event was good.
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You had a chance to hook up
with some people who I think
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can definitely help in a lot of
the charitable things that
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I do back home, whether
it's with the scholarships,
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whether it's with programs
to help African-American
businesses get a leg up.
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-That's amazing.
-Yeah.
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-You know,
I always got a reason.
-You always have a reason.
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Yeah, I always got a reason.
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I think that it is
just really important
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for people to
just understand that people
are raised different.
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You look at opportunities
different and just respect each
other at the end of the day.
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Obviously, this is both of
our first times being married
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and becoming one
and just the decisions that
we make affects the other one.
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You know, when you're married,
it's a respect thing.
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And I feel like this time
in our relationship, obviously,
we're a lot older, more mature.
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Living your life
is always a lot,
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but living your life
in front of the public eye
and, you know,
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at the mercy of
Internet fingers is even more.
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So it's pros and cons,
just like with everything.
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You know, but I think with us,
it's more pros.
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We gotta always have a reason.
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Absolutely.
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And we gotta have
another piece of cake.
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[laughing]
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[Ashanti] Man,
this cake is so fire.
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[upbeat electronic music]
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NELLY AND ASHANTI'S TEMPORARY
APARTMENT
LONG ISLAND, NY
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[indistinct chatter]
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ASHANTI'S SLUMBER PARTY
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-I did the blessing
of the food.
-Everything looks good.
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[Eunice] Ashanti, aren't
these called the Nelly wings?
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[Ashanti] Yes,
that's his favorite.
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There has been a lot of stuff
happening at once in my life,
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and I was definitely
stressed out,
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ASHANTI
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so I'm looking forward to having
much-needed bonding time
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ASHANTI'S GIRLFRIENDS
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with the girls,
just hanging out,
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leaning on them for a little
bit, and just having fun,
letting loose and having fun.
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Ding, ding, ding, ding, ding!
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[laughing]
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Okay, ladies, I just want to
say thank you guys so much for
coming out to the Slumber Jam.
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[all] Yeah! Woo!
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I'm just super grateful
and blessed, and I'm very happy
that you guys came.
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[all cheering]
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All right,
we should start the games now.
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Y'all ready to turn up?
I'm ready to turn up.
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This is like musical chairs.
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The music comes on, and you're
gonna dance around the table.
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You're gonna dance
around the table.
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-Hey, hey, hey!
-Hey, hey, you're gonna
dance around the table.
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When the music stops,
grab a snowball.
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Whoever doesn't have one,
you will be out.
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-You're out.
-No cheating!
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Let me put my drink down,
because I'm very competitive.
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EUNICE
ASHANTI'S FRIEND
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-Music, please!
-All right, come on!
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Okay!
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Okay! Woo!
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[rap music playing]
* Oh, oh, oh *
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-Oh!
-[all screaming]
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[laughing]
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Oh! Shit, here you go!
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[all laughing]
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Sisterhood is
extremely important.
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It's slightly different
when you're single
versus when you're married.
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When you're single, it's like,
hey, we at carnival.
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You know, we got the outfits on.
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It's a little bit more freedom.
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When you're married,
you definitely still need the
girl time, just to kick it.
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HOLLIS
ASHANTI'S FRIEND
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You know, y'all
are definitely not in thongs
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SOPHIA
ASHANTI'S FRIEND
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or on the floats in Trinidad,
but maybe a one-piece.
[laughing]
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Wait, some people gotta sit
over here?
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What the fuck am I, the teacher?
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[all laughing]
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[giggling]
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Yeah.
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So I was thinking,
guys, doing the slumber party
and kind of, like,
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taking it on the road
kind of vibe and, like,
turn it into kind of
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a, like, a podcast vibe,
you know what I mean?
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It's like Ashanti
or Shan's Slumber Jam
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DEBBIE
ASHANTI'S FRIEND
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and invite people and, like, us,
you know what I mean?
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Play the games and talk
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and have a girl's thing,
you know what I mean?
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-So...
-[woman] I love that.
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Girls talk,
what we want to talk about?
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Well, how's married life so far?
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-Hmm. Is that where we start?
-[all laughing]
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I'm still kind of shocked
that we, like,
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obviously we spun the block,
we made it back together.
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SIMONS
LL COOL J'S WIFE
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You know, I always thought
that they was the cutest thing.
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-Yes.
-And I was so sad when
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I heard that they broke up,
and I was like, Ashanti,
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are you sure y'all ain't
gonna get back together?
-She was like, nah.
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[all laughing]
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Nuh-uh.
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I think we both grew up a lot.
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You know, it went from
when we used to argue.
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00:11:02,862 --> 00:11:04,497
Fuck you!
Fuck you too!
236
00:11:04,597 --> 00:11:06,800
You know what I'm saying?
Then we ain't speaking
for like a week.
237
00:11:06,900 --> 00:11:09,402
But now, we get into
a little something-something...
238
00:11:09,502 --> 00:11:10,804
Y'all don't have a choice.
239
00:11:10,904 --> 00:11:13,707
-Right, there's no choice.
-[all laughing]
240
00:11:13,807 --> 00:11:15,542
Well, what time you coming back?
241
00:11:15,642 --> 00:11:17,977
[all laughing]
242
00:11:18,078 --> 00:11:19,012
NELLY
243
00:11:19,112 --> 00:11:21,414
I used to have a very,
like, vulgar mouth.
244
00:11:21,514 --> 00:11:23,049
I'm from New York.
245
00:11:23,149 --> 00:11:25,785
You know what I mean?
So, like, we speak different.
246
00:11:26,820 --> 00:11:29,422
-Yeah.
-So, very early on...
[chattering]
247
00:11:29,522 --> 00:11:30,924
No, we nipped that.
248
00:11:31,024 --> 00:11:34,494
Very hazardous to all of
our health from the ground up.
249
00:11:34,594 --> 00:11:37,597
-Very hazardous.
-'Cause we were gonna
burn the house down.
250
00:11:37,697 --> 00:11:39,032
Marriage isn't a game.
251
00:11:39,132 --> 00:11:41,301
You know, marriage is
really a lot of work.
252
00:11:41,401 --> 00:11:46,906
And it may sound cliché,
but you really, really gotta
pick your arguments.
253
00:11:47,007 --> 00:11:49,809
'Cause everything is
not worth the argument.
254
00:11:49,909 --> 00:11:53,380
-Yeah.
-You know, and that took me
time, you know.
255
00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:55,281
That is amazing to say.
256
00:11:55,382 --> 00:11:59,886
Because Dee said to me,
when I come in this house,
this is my escape.
257
00:11:59,986 --> 00:12:02,589
This is my peace
and my sanctuary.
258
00:12:02,689 --> 00:12:06,092
'Cause the bullshit that I deal
with out there as a black man,
259
00:12:06,192 --> 00:12:08,361
I should not have to deal
with it in this house.
260
00:12:08,461 --> 00:12:12,866
And that makes me think,
to your point,
Simone, pick your battles.
261
00:12:13,767 --> 00:12:16,369
And he has to reciprocate
that for us.
262
00:12:16,469 --> 00:12:17,637
No, no doubt about it.
263
00:12:17,737 --> 00:12:20,240
Because we deal with a lot, too.
264
00:12:20,340 --> 00:12:21,741
-Correct.
-Especially when
you're a mama bear.
265
00:12:21,841 --> 00:12:23,576
SHASA
ASHANTI'S COUSIN
266
00:12:23,677 --> 00:12:26,012
Sometimes they bring
their work home or whatever is
bothering them home.
267
00:12:26,112 --> 00:12:28,481
And it can sometimes
take you out.
268
00:12:28,581 --> 00:12:31,785
You know, but again,
you have to pick your battles
and you just gotta sit up there.
269
00:12:31,885 --> 00:12:33,820
And what they say, woosah.
270
00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:36,890
I think for me,
I like feeling safe.
271
00:12:36,990 --> 00:12:39,225
I feel so safe with Andre.
272
00:12:39,325 --> 00:12:41,828
We've been together
almost eight years.
273
00:12:41,928 --> 00:12:43,797
-Yes.
-Oh, really?
274
00:12:43,897 --> 00:12:45,498
Y'all ain't have no breakups?
275
00:12:45,598 --> 00:12:48,234
-Uh-uh.
-Oh, wow.
276
00:12:48,335 --> 00:12:51,371
Eight years in, we was
probably on our third breakup.
277
00:12:51,471 --> 00:12:53,807
[all laughing]
278
00:12:53,907 --> 00:12:57,744
But all together,
you guys have known each other
for how many years?
279
00:12:57,844 --> 00:13:00,380
Um, let me see.
280
00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:02,916
We started in '03.
281
00:13:03,016 --> 00:13:05,218
So 22-- What? 22 years?
282
00:13:05,819 --> 00:13:09,022
That's crazy.
That's a long time.
283
00:13:09,122 --> 00:13:11,291
And then, wait,
here is the craziest part.
284
00:13:11,391 --> 00:13:14,027
We still trying to figure out
where we're gonna live.
285
00:13:14,127 --> 00:13:17,197
'Cause right now,
I'm like in St. Louis, here.
286
00:13:17,297 --> 00:13:19,566
In the bus, really,
to be honest.
287
00:13:19,666 --> 00:13:20,967
Where do you wanna live? Here?
288
00:13:21,067 --> 00:13:23,303
I love being in New York,
but I ain't gonna lie.
289
00:13:23,403 --> 00:13:27,674
I love the family aspect,
you know, in St. Louis, too.
290
00:13:27,774 --> 00:13:29,309
So, I don't know.
291
00:13:29,409 --> 00:13:30,877
You like St. Louis?
292
00:13:31,845 --> 00:13:34,047
I mean, St. Louis is cool.
I like the fam--
293
00:13:34,147 --> 00:13:39,853
-[all laughing]
-[overlapping chatter]
294
00:13:39,953 --> 00:13:43,023
I mean, no. St. Louis--
295
00:13:44,991 --> 00:13:48,495
All I can say-- as she's
talking, all I'm hearing is,
Y'all don't have no...
296
00:13:49,662 --> 00:13:51,431
I need my spices!
297
00:13:51,531 --> 00:13:54,534
-They ain't got the same
spices out there, now.
-Oh, my God.
298
00:13:54,634 --> 00:13:55,935
I'm just kidding, I'm kidding.
299
00:13:56,036 --> 00:14:01,174
But no, I don't know,
because, like, the family
aspect is good out there.
300
00:14:01,274 --> 00:14:04,911
But you know who's gonna tell
you your answer is your CEO, KK.
301
00:14:05,011 --> 00:14:06,946
-Oh, yeah.
-'Cause that's your employer.
302
00:14:07,047 --> 00:14:10,450
He's absolutely the boss.
He runs the show.
303
00:14:10,550 --> 00:14:12,886
Now that the baby can travel,
we are probably gonna be all
over the place.
304
00:14:12,986 --> 00:14:14,721
TINA
ASHANTI'S MOM/"MOMANGER"
305
00:14:14,821 --> 00:14:17,557
You know, we're gonna
have a spot in New York,
spot in St. Louis,
306
00:14:17,657 --> 00:14:19,626
maybe a spot in Nashville,
307
00:14:19,726 --> 00:14:21,828
at least until KK starts school.
308
00:14:21,928 --> 00:14:23,830
And you know what?
309
00:14:23,930 --> 00:14:28,802
Where you go, and that baby is,
I'll be right behind you,
very close.
310
00:14:28,902 --> 00:14:31,137
No, but I get it, 100%.
311
00:14:32,672 --> 00:14:34,974
You have a family now,
and you're gonna do what's
best for your family.
312
00:14:35,075 --> 00:14:37,077
So, say all the things
you got to think about.
313
00:14:37,177 --> 00:14:39,612
-No, definitely.
-You got a good support team.
314
00:14:39,713 --> 00:14:41,348
I'm super grateful.
315
00:14:41,448 --> 00:14:43,249
That's why I think sisterhood
is so important.
316
00:14:43,350 --> 00:14:46,052
-Yes.
-You know, like,
we should do this more often.
317
00:14:46,152 --> 00:14:47,854
Get, like, a little check-in,
check on everybody.
318
00:14:47,954 --> 00:14:49,522
How you doing?
Hi. You know?
319
00:14:49,622 --> 00:14:51,191
[all laughing]
320
00:14:51,291 --> 00:14:52,892
Are y'all available tomorrow?
321
00:14:52,992 --> 00:14:56,062
[all laughing]
322
00:14:58,331 --> 00:15:01,935
[upbeat RnB]
323
00:15:07,307 --> 00:15:10,744
-I got you!
-Yes, you did!
324
00:15:10,844 --> 00:15:12,379
ANGIE MARTINEZ
RADIO PERSONALITY
325
00:15:12,479 --> 00:15:13,780
Oh, my God. I haven't seen
you since the baby. I love you!
326
00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:15,415
I know!
327
00:15:15,515 --> 00:15:18,551
I was praying like maybe she'll
bring that baby today.
328
00:15:19,986 --> 00:15:20,987
-[Tina] This
is real life, mama.
-I got pictures. I got pictures.
329
00:15:21,087 --> 00:15:22,989
[overlapping chatter]
330
00:15:23,089 --> 00:15:24,491
I just want to see him.
I haven't seen him--
331
00:15:24,591 --> 00:15:26,159
-I got pictures.
-She got good pictures
and video.
332
00:15:26,259 --> 00:15:29,295
Angie Martinez is like family.
333
00:15:29,396 --> 00:15:35,902
When Ashanti first started,
she was the first big radio
person that Ashanti went on,
334
00:15:36,002 --> 00:15:37,904
and we trust her.
335
00:15:38,505 --> 00:15:40,507
All right, this is IRL
podcast...
336
00:15:40,607 --> 00:15:43,476
Angie Martinez and Ashanti.
Scene one, take one.
337
00:15:44,177 --> 00:15:48,181
Ashanti is back! Guys!
338
00:15:50,350 --> 00:15:54,387
Yo, you are my first
reoccurring guest on IRL.
339
00:15:54,487 --> 00:15:56,089
Yes!
340
00:15:56,189 --> 00:15:59,559
We are so invested in your life
at this point, Ashanti,
341
00:15:59,659 --> 00:16:01,261
and so much has changed.
342
00:16:01,361 --> 00:16:04,130
I am a mother and a wife now.
343
00:16:04,230 --> 00:16:06,032
Completely different.
344
00:16:06,132 --> 00:16:08,401
What have you learned
about marriage?
345
00:16:08,501 --> 00:16:10,437
-What I've learned
about marriage?
-I mean, it's fresh, right?
346
00:16:10,537 --> 00:16:14,140
-You're not even, like, a year?
-No, we a year and change.
347
00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:16,009
Okay. They say the first year
is the hardest.
348
00:16:16,109 --> 00:16:17,711
Oh, yeah,
we had some arguments.
349
00:16:19,379 --> 00:16:21,448
What about where KK's
gonna go to school?
350
00:16:21,548 --> 00:16:24,818
If it was in New York,
it would be amazing.
351
00:16:24,918 --> 00:16:26,052
I'm not living in New York.
352
00:16:26,152 --> 00:16:27,854
There's a lot going on
down there.
353
00:16:27,954 --> 00:16:30,790
A lot of shit went in today.
354
00:16:30,890 --> 00:16:32,625
A lot of money was spent.
355
00:16:32,726 --> 00:16:34,094
Get up.
356
00:16:34,194 --> 00:16:35,729
It's your turn to change him.
357
00:16:35,829 --> 00:16:37,297
Baby, I give you the world.
358
00:16:37,397 --> 00:16:39,733
-I just ain't
changing no diapers.
-Oh, my God.
359
00:16:39,833 --> 00:16:42,836
You ain't talking
about divorcing me
or no shit like that.
360
00:16:42,936 --> 00:16:44,604
Yeah, we had some.
361
00:16:44,704 --> 00:16:49,376
But the thing, too, is, like,
we work things out, you know?
362
00:16:49,476 --> 00:16:52,145
It's a blessing to know
that, regardless,
363
00:16:52,245 --> 00:16:54,881
you have somebody that's
riding with you to the end.
364
00:16:54,981 --> 00:16:58,651
I have to, just because
it's the elephant in the room
and this just happened.
365
00:16:58,752 --> 00:17:00,620
Irv passing.
366
00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:02,422
Been processing that.
367
00:17:03,923 --> 00:17:05,759
Definitely unexpected.
368
00:17:06,192 --> 00:17:08,828
IRV GOTTI
CEO OF MURDER INC
369
00:17:08,928 --> 00:17:11,865
[reporter] Music Mobile, behind
major hip-hop and R&B talent,
Irv Gotti has passed away.
370
00:17:11,965 --> 00:17:13,133
Irv Gotti, famed music producer
and Murder Inc. co-founder, dead
at 54
371
00:17:13,233 --> 00:17:17,337
Irv's passing was very sad,
372
00:17:17,437 --> 00:17:22,108
and it hit everybody
differently.
373
00:17:23,576 --> 00:17:26,813
So Ashanti was very young when
she became a part of
Murder, Inc.,
374
00:17:26,913 --> 00:17:34,154
and first of all, Murder, Inc.,
the name, when she told me
that name, I was like, okay.
375
00:17:35,755 --> 00:17:41,061
Then she said, yeah,
and we record at the Crack
House, and I was like, okay.
376
00:17:41,161 --> 00:17:43,563
Where's my coat?
You're going, I'm going.
377
00:17:43,663 --> 00:17:47,967
But we found out that
what crack means,
that the music is so hot,
378
00:17:48,068 --> 00:17:54,240
it's crack, so they called it
the Crack House, and Murder,
Inc. was, we murder music.
379
00:17:55,809 --> 00:17:59,546
I thought the way that
you responded was so classy.
380
00:17:59,646 --> 00:18:02,115
I just wonder how
that has affected you.
381
00:18:02,215 --> 00:18:04,884
It was a lot to process.
382
00:18:06,419 --> 00:18:09,255
Irv and I definitely
were not on the best of terms
the past few years.
383
00:18:09,356 --> 00:18:10,423
Me and Nelly were dating.
384
00:18:10,523 --> 00:18:11,825
ANGIE MARTINEZ IRL PODCAST
2022
385
00:18:11,925 --> 00:18:13,393
Irv was salty.
386
00:18:13,493 --> 00:18:16,162
Irv would not let me
come to the studio to record.
387
00:18:16,262 --> 00:18:19,032
Irv was telling everyone
not to record with me.
388
00:18:19,132 --> 00:18:20,300
-You know what he said to me?
-What?
389
00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:22,502
He said,
you want to be with Nelly?
390
00:18:22,602 --> 00:18:25,372
Go sign to Dirty Auntie.
We don't want you.
391
00:18:27,741 --> 00:18:35,515
I personally never want
things to end on bad terms,
and death is final,
392
00:18:37,784 --> 00:18:42,188
so it made me really sad that
we never were able
to just be cordial.
393
00:18:42,288 --> 00:18:48,962
I know that I tried a lot,
and I wish things would have
been different.
394
00:18:50,296 --> 00:18:54,134
Did you think you'd have
the opportunity where you could
maybe have something cordial?
395
00:18:54,234 --> 00:19:01,708
I really wanted it
to happen, because I'm like,
we made history together.
396
00:19:02,409 --> 00:19:04,110
You know? That is infinite.
397
00:19:04,210 --> 00:19:06,813
My son is going to know that
we made these records together,
you know what I mean?
398
00:19:06,913 --> 00:19:13,853
I was really sad,
and I'm still sad that,
you know, it ended like this.
399
00:19:16,923 --> 00:19:23,863
Our final IRL question,
how happy are you today
on a scale of 1 to 10?
400
00:19:23,963 --> 00:19:30,937
On a scale of 1 to 10,
I'ma give it about a thousand.
401
00:19:31,037 --> 00:19:35,875
Yay!
Let's go [indistinct].
402
00:19:39,179 --> 00:19:45,118
Angie was the first person
that I spoke to regarding
how I felt about Irv passing,
403
00:19:45,218 --> 00:19:51,224
and I guess just because I felt
comfortable when I said that
my son will know about Irv.
404
00:19:51,324 --> 00:19:53,493
I just feel like it's important.
405
00:19:53,593 --> 00:19:56,062
He's going to know
about my records
406
00:19:56,162 --> 00:20:00,433
and how they came
about and going into
the studio recording
407
00:20:00,533 --> 00:20:02,469
and, you know, the process.
408
00:20:02,569 --> 00:20:07,173
Making history as a new artist
is something that is special.
409
00:20:07,273 --> 00:20:11,244
And obviously I want
to be able to share that
one day with my son.
410
00:20:11,344 --> 00:20:13,346
I think you handled it great.
411
00:20:13,446 --> 00:20:15,749
I think she was happy with it.
And it's over with.
412
00:20:15,849 --> 00:20:19,919
Once you do it, you don't
have to address it again.
413
00:20:20,020 --> 00:20:21,888
[sighs] I think it was good.
414
00:20:22,722 --> 00:20:25,592
-It was a challenging day.
-Yeah.
415
00:20:29,662 --> 00:20:32,932
[upbeat RnB]
416
00:20:35,035 --> 00:20:36,369
TWO DAYS LATER
417
00:20:36,469 --> 00:20:38,438
[Ashanti] I'm actually hot
as hell.
418
00:20:38,538 --> 00:20:41,041
-You actually hot. I know it
-...As hell.
419
00:20:41,141 --> 00:20:42,042
I know it.
But you look good.
420
00:20:42,142 --> 00:20:43,276
ASHANTI
421
00:20:43,376 --> 00:20:45,145
She get, um... What's them?
422
00:20:45,245 --> 00:20:46,246
A faux fur.
423
00:20:46,346 --> 00:20:47,347
NELLY
424
00:20:47,447 --> 00:20:48,615
Oh, no, that's a real fur.
425
00:20:48,715 --> 00:20:50,383
-No, it's fake.
-I'm telling PETA.
426
00:20:50,483 --> 00:20:52,052
[Ashanti chuckling]
427
00:20:52,952 --> 00:20:54,220
This is good.
It's like. It's weird.
428
00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:55,588
It's like a full circle moment.
429
00:20:55,689 --> 00:20:58,158
-What you mean?
-Having a ring.
430
00:20:58,258 --> 00:20:59,626
This is a big thing
for you, huh?
431
00:20:59,726 --> 00:21:01,361
Nah, I'm missing out, like...
432
00:21:01,461 --> 00:21:02,896
That thing--
That thing naked.
433
00:21:02,996 --> 00:21:05,331
-What you got for me?
-[chuckling] Oh, we got it.
434
00:21:05,432 --> 00:21:06,833
-Yeah?
-Yeah.
435
00:21:06,933 --> 00:21:08,802
-I gotta see that.
-That thing gonna be heavy.
436
00:21:08,902 --> 00:21:10,904
-That thing gonna be heavy?
-Mm-hmm.
437
00:21:11,538 --> 00:21:13,506
The big day is finally here.
438
00:21:13,606 --> 00:21:16,376
We are on the way to pick up
Nelly's wedding ring.
439
00:21:16,476 --> 00:21:18,411
I wanted to make it perfect.
440
00:21:18,511 --> 00:21:19,713
It's been about a year.
441
00:21:19,813 --> 00:21:21,981
You know,
he's been very patient.
442
00:21:22,449 --> 00:21:24,184
You know how
you get your comments?
443
00:21:24,284 --> 00:21:26,486
I'm not really a comment reader.
444
00:21:26,586 --> 00:21:29,122
It's like,
where's your ring, Nellie?
445
00:21:29,756 --> 00:21:32,592
I was like, hey, listen...
446
00:21:33,727 --> 00:21:35,729
When you see a married man,
like, a man with a ring,
447
00:21:35,829 --> 00:21:37,330
sometimes
they're more attractive.
448
00:21:37,430 --> 00:21:38,631
-No.
-So that's gonna be a problem.
449
00:21:38,732 --> 00:21:40,533
-I've never heard that.
-You heard it.
450
00:21:40,633 --> 00:21:42,402
Tell me more what
they say about that.
451
00:21:42,502 --> 00:21:43,937
-[laughing]
-So do they...
452
00:21:44,037 --> 00:21:47,440
They said they gonna get
they ass beat is what they said.
453
00:21:47,540 --> 00:21:48,775
Do they make you wanna--
454
00:21:48,875 --> 00:21:50,577
They just wanna run up
and grab 'em.
455
00:21:50,677 --> 00:21:53,279
-It's ridiculous.
-They wanna grab 'em like this.
456
00:21:53,747 --> 00:21:55,782
-Yeah.
-Or do they grab like this?
457
00:21:57,550 --> 00:21:59,986
Like all of that,
but they get done like this.
458
00:22:00,086 --> 00:22:01,421
Uh-oh.
459
00:22:01,521 --> 00:22:04,491
[Ashanti laughing]
460
00:22:04,591 --> 00:22:07,060
These comments
do not reflect...
461
00:22:08,561 --> 00:22:11,364
The Haynes family
in their totality.
462
00:22:11,464 --> 00:22:15,168
Only if you mess with mine,
they do.
463
00:22:15,268 --> 00:22:18,972
[chill RnB music]
464
00:22:21,174 --> 00:22:22,642
-Hey.
-Hi.
465
00:22:22,742 --> 00:22:24,244
LORRAINE SCHWARTZ
CELEBRITY JEWELER
466
00:22:24,344 --> 00:22:26,413
-Oh, my goodness.
-Oh, my God.
467
00:22:26,513 --> 00:22:28,515
I can't believe this
is actually happening.
468
00:22:28,615 --> 00:22:30,150
[Nelly] It's all that for me?
469
00:22:30,250 --> 00:22:32,185
-It's your baby gift.
-[Nelly] Yeah.
470
00:22:32,285 --> 00:22:33,887
Lorraine Schwartz: The Woman
Behind Hollywood's Most Iconic
Jewels
471
00:22:33,987 --> 00:22:35,588
Lorraine Schwartz,
a famed jeweler to the stars.
472
00:22:35,689 --> 00:22:38,091
I love her to death.
Wish I never met her.
473
00:22:39,192 --> 00:22:41,528
Uh, no. [chuckling]
474
00:22:41,628 --> 00:22:43,396
Lorraine is the dopest, man.
475
00:22:43,496 --> 00:22:46,366
She was always one
of those people that were
pushing me and Shan
476
00:22:46,466 --> 00:22:49,402
to be together
even when we weren't.
477
00:22:49,502 --> 00:22:50,704
I just want
to tell you something.
478
00:22:50,804 --> 00:22:53,707
-I'm so excited about the baby.
-Yay!
479
00:22:53,807 --> 00:22:56,643
We want you to have something
that you carry all the time.
480
00:22:57,477 --> 00:23:00,847
Oh, this is so cute!
481
00:23:00,947 --> 00:23:02,349
-Gold and diamond.
-[Ashanti] That's KK.
482
00:23:02,449 --> 00:23:04,050
18 K GOLD
NATURAL WHITE DIAMONDS
483
00:23:04,150 --> 00:23:07,587
Listen you guys, we have like
a 23-year, like, friendship.
484
00:23:07,687 --> 00:23:09,723
-It's ridiculous.
-[Ashanti] It's crazy.
485
00:23:09,823 --> 00:23:12,525
He actually
was gonna propose about...
486
00:23:12,625 --> 00:23:14,194
12 years ago, I think.
487
00:23:14,294 --> 00:23:17,630
And they-- he went to Lorraine,
they picked out a stone
488
00:23:17,731 --> 00:23:21,067
and things didn't go right
obviously back then.
489
00:23:21,167 --> 00:23:23,803
-Wait, wait, wait.
Let me see your ring.
-[Ashanti] Bam.
490
00:23:23,903 --> 00:23:26,172
-Oh, don't act.
-[Lorraine] Oh,
we finally see it on you.
491
00:23:26,272 --> 00:23:28,775
You must have somebody
really good taking care of you.
492
00:23:28,875 --> 00:23:30,877
[Nelly] I was just gonna say
I know some people.
493
00:23:30,977 --> 00:23:35,281
[laughing]
I asked for 10 karats
last time around,
494
00:23:35,382 --> 00:23:36,750
and this time I got 11.5.
495
00:23:36,850 --> 00:23:39,953
So I guess it was
good that I waited.
496
00:23:41,287 --> 00:23:42,489
[Lorraine] Can I show you what
we've been waiting to show you?
497
00:23:42,589 --> 00:23:44,691
-Yes. Drum roll, please.
-Is this something--
498
00:23:44,791 --> 00:23:46,493
Is this something else?
499
00:23:46,593 --> 00:23:48,061
Is this for me?
500
00:23:48,161 --> 00:23:49,529
It's for you.
501
00:23:49,629 --> 00:23:52,098
Okay. Oh...
502
00:23:52,198 --> 00:23:53,733
Oh!
503
00:23:53,833 --> 00:23:56,202
-Oh, really?
-[Lorraine] No complaining here.
504
00:23:57,671 --> 00:23:59,739
[Nelly] Yeah, "I love you."
505
00:23:59,839 --> 00:24:02,575
[Lorraine] Each stone is
a carat and a half, plus.
506
00:24:02,676 --> 00:24:04,544
All certified GIA diamonds.
507
00:24:04,644 --> 00:24:06,246
Okay, then.
508
00:24:06,613 --> 00:24:08,248
That thing bangin'.
509
00:24:09,449 --> 00:24:11,084
-Get you one of
these sugar mamas, y' all.
-Shut up.
510
00:24:11,184 --> 00:24:12,385
I'm telling you.
511
00:24:12,485 --> 00:24:14,087
She fine!
512
00:24:15,255 --> 00:24:17,190
[Lorraine] And by the way,
do not let people copy it.
513
00:24:17,290 --> 00:24:18,124
This is copyrighted.
514
00:24:18,224 --> 00:24:20,994
On the inside of my ring,
it says "I love you."
515
00:24:21,094 --> 00:24:24,364
So it's I, it's a diamond heart,
and then the letter U.
516
00:24:24,464 --> 00:24:25,799
So when I turn it inward,
517
00:24:25,899 --> 00:24:27,801
you can see that
it says I love you.
518
00:24:27,901 --> 00:24:30,170
So I did the same
thing for his ring.
519
00:24:30,270 --> 00:24:31,371
We twinning.
520
00:24:31,471 --> 00:24:34,107
But my stone bigger.
[chuckling]
521
00:24:34,207 --> 00:24:37,043
Look at that. See?
Same shape and everything.
522
00:24:37,143 --> 00:24:39,946
-[Ashanti] Same shape.
We are connected.
-[Lorraine] I feel energy here.
523
00:24:40,046 --> 00:24:41,614
-I feel something. Fire.
-[Ashanti] We're a team.
524
00:24:41,715 --> 00:24:42,949
-Fire.
-[Nelly] Fire.
525
00:24:43,049 --> 00:24:46,152
-[Lorraine] Yes.
-[Nelly] Sugar mama did good.
526
00:24:46,252 --> 00:24:47,721
You are beautiful.
527
00:24:47,821 --> 00:24:49,456
-Don't fuck up the makeup.
-Don't mess up the makeup.
528
00:24:49,556 --> 00:24:51,825
-See, y' all about
to get me in trouble.
-No, we can't do that.
529
00:24:51,925 --> 00:24:56,696
When you guys FaceTimed me
together, I almost lost it.
530
00:24:56,796 --> 00:24:58,198
I knew it was gonna happen,
by the way.
531
00:24:58,298 --> 00:25:00,166
-How did you know
it was gonna happen?
-Come on.
532
00:25:00,266 --> 00:25:03,703
I didn't-- We-- neither of us
knew or thought it would happen.
533
00:25:03,803 --> 00:25:05,138
It's like
the universe was telling you.
534
00:25:05,238 --> 00:25:08,408
When the timing is right,
it's gonna happen.
535
00:25:08,508 --> 00:25:11,177
-Well, I was in love with me.
-Mm.
536
00:25:11,277 --> 00:25:14,581
Ooh, I feel a song.
537
00:25:14,681 --> 00:25:17,217
"I was in love with me
until I saw you."
538
00:25:17,317 --> 00:25:18,752
[giggling]
539
00:25:18,852 --> 00:25:20,987
You guys are both touring
a lot now, like crazy?
540
00:25:21,087 --> 00:25:22,889
-[Ashanti] Yeah.
-The baby goes with you?
541
00:25:22,989 --> 00:25:24,924
-Absolutely.
-Where are you guys
gonna live now?
542
00:25:25,025 --> 00:25:27,694
Sometimes we live in New York.
Sometimes we live in St. Louis.
543
00:25:27,794 --> 00:25:29,029
Sometimes we live on the bus.
544
00:25:29,129 --> 00:25:31,464
-I don't live in New York.
-Oh, God.
545
00:25:31,564 --> 00:25:33,900
Y'all don't have good pizza.
546
00:25:35,068 --> 00:25:35,769
-You know what I mean?
-[Nelly] What you mean there?
547
00:25:35,869 --> 00:25:36,903
-There's not-- there's not-
-St. Louis--
548
00:25:37,003 --> 00:25:39,305
I love St. Louis.
I love it. I love the family.
549
00:25:39,406 --> 00:25:42,175
For as much money we can fly in
an Italian family...
550
00:25:42,275 --> 00:25:45,145
-[laughing]
-[Nelly] ...Put them up
in a home.
551
00:25:45,245 --> 00:25:47,047
-[Lorraine] Directly from Italy,
-...Pay--
552
00:25:47,147 --> 00:25:52,786
Pay them a yearly salary
and still not pay luxury tax
553
00:25:52,886 --> 00:25:56,790
that we will pay for
our house here in New York.
554
00:25:56,890 --> 00:25:59,459
Okay, so then let's do it.
555
00:25:59,559 --> 00:26:01,628
-[laughing]
-Where home base is,
556
00:26:01,728 --> 00:26:03,663
that is still
a tough question to answer,
557
00:26:03,763 --> 00:26:08,301
but I'm realizing
that belonging together does not
necessarily mean being
558
00:26:08,401 --> 00:26:10,570
together every day, all day,
559
00:26:10,670 --> 00:26:13,340
'cause it is impossible
for us to do that
560
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:15,675
and continue with our careers.
561
00:26:15,775 --> 00:26:19,612
-I don't think you can be
around nobody all day.
-Every day, all day.
562
00:26:19,713 --> 00:26:21,247
Hell, no.
563
00:26:21,348 --> 00:26:22,849
You gotta have that...
564
00:26:22,949 --> 00:26:26,052
You gotta miss them
a little bit, you know?
565
00:26:26,152 --> 00:26:28,655
So when you come back,
it's like, bow.
566
00:26:28,755 --> 00:26:32,025
[Lorraine] So now
when's the wedding?
567
00:26:33,393 --> 00:26:35,662
That's the thing
we have to get going.
We have so much going on.
568
00:26:35,762 --> 00:26:37,630
[Ashanti] Oh, my gosh.
We're both unsure.
569
00:26:37,731 --> 00:26:39,099
But she's coming up with ideas.
570
00:26:39,199 --> 00:26:40,934
-[Ashanti] Yeah.
-[Lorraine] You know what
571
00:26:41,034 --> 00:26:42,802
they say,
happy wife, happy life.
572
00:26:42,902 --> 00:26:44,070
-Happy life?
-There you go.
573
00:26:44,170 --> 00:26:47,240
Yeah. Somebody--
who said that, the wife?
574
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:49,075
I bet that was
a wife that came up.
575
00:26:49,175 --> 00:26:51,111
You know what they say?
Happy jewel--
576
00:26:51,211 --> 00:26:54,180
-happy jewelry,
happy wife, happy life.
-Uh-huh.
577
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:57,784
The tour is definitely
moving some dates around
578
00:26:57,884 --> 00:26:59,753
when it comes to the wedding.
579
00:26:59,853 --> 00:27:03,023
I mean, I don't
know if we were gonna try
and squeeze it in on a weekend.
580
00:27:03,123 --> 00:27:06,793
Hey, come back from
Australia for the wedding.
[laughing]
581
00:27:06,893 --> 00:27:09,863
We're definitely gonna have
the wedding ceremony.
582
00:27:09,963 --> 00:27:12,699
She deserves that.
That's her day.
583
00:27:12,799 --> 00:27:15,435
Has nothing
to do with us husbands.
584
00:27:15,535 --> 00:27:17,937
The floor-- we're gonna
light the floor up
when you in town.
585
00:27:18,038 --> 00:27:20,106
-Nobody stands.
-[laughing]
586
00:27:20,206 --> 00:27:21,875
We don't get a song.
587
00:27:21,975 --> 00:27:25,078
Babe. We're gonna have
a special moment for you too.
588
00:27:25,178 --> 00:27:27,047
-Like Michael Jackson?
-Yes, like Michael Jackson.
589
00:27:27,147 --> 00:27:29,683
If I could come down
the aisle like Billie Jean.
590
00:27:29,783 --> 00:27:31,551
-That's all I want.
-See?
591
00:27:31,651 --> 00:27:32,986
This is to your happiness.
592
00:27:33,953 --> 00:27:35,622
-[laughing]
-There you go, there you go.
593
00:27:35,722 --> 00:27:38,124
-[Nelly] Mazel tov!
-Mazel tov!
594
00:27:41,127 --> 00:27:43,129
[Ashanti] Our first year
of being married,
595
00:27:43,229 --> 00:27:46,266
we've experienced good
and bad times.
596
00:27:46,366 --> 00:27:49,636
For me, I think it's like
just having patience
597
00:27:49,736 --> 00:27:53,306
and being open minded
and picking your battles.
598
00:27:53,406 --> 00:27:55,475
* I was at the top and now it's
Like I'm in the basement *
599
00:27:55,575 --> 00:27:58,712
* Number one spot, now she found
Her a replacement *
600
00:27:58,812 --> 00:28:01,548
* I swear now I can't take it *
601
00:28:01,648 --> 00:28:03,783
* Knowing somebody's
Got my baby *
602
00:28:03,883 --> 00:28:07,921
If you're upset about
something or whatever,
there's ways to handle it.
603
00:28:08,021 --> 00:28:10,824
This is the first year of,
you know what I'm saying,
604
00:28:10,924 --> 00:28:12,058
We juggling and finding out.
605
00:28:12,158 --> 00:28:15,528
So it ain't like we got it down,
but it's working so far.
606
00:28:15,628 --> 00:28:16,863
It's working.
607
00:28:16,963 --> 00:28:18,965
* My lover, my life *
608
00:28:19,065 --> 00:28:21,935
* My shawty, my wife *
609
00:28:22,435 --> 00:28:24,738
Check in season 19.
610
00:28:24,838 --> 00:28:27,240
-[laughing]
-No, I'm just saying.
611
00:28:27,340 --> 00:28:29,442
* I was thinking 'bout her (Uh),
Thinking 'bout me *
612
00:28:29,542 --> 00:28:32,479
* Thinking 'bout us (Us),
What we gon' be? (Hey) *
613
00:28:32,579 --> 00:28:39,285
* Open my eyes, yeah
It was only just a dream *
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