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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,100 --> 00:00:02,367 This is where people say the magic happens. 2 00:00:02,367 --> 00:00:05,100 But, unfortunately for me, it doesn't. 3 00:00:05,100 --> 00:00:07,100 [Rhasha] Previously, on Virgins... 4 00:00:07,100 --> 00:00:08,300 [Alex] I think I'm still a virgin 5 00:00:08,300 --> 00:00:11,400 because I haven't had much luck in the past 6 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:13,166 approaching women to try and talk to them. 7 00:00:13,166 --> 00:00:14,900 What brings you guys here tonight? 8 00:00:14,900 --> 00:00:16,667 -Hanging out. -[woman] Yeah. 9 00:00:16,667 --> 00:00:19,700 [Alex] I overthink a lot, and I go, "What do I say? What do I do?" 10 00:00:19,700 --> 00:00:22,100 [Alex speaking] 11 00:00:22,100 --> 00:00:23,467 I've got to get out of my head, 12 00:00:23,467 --> 00:00:25,100 or I'm never gonna get laid. 13 00:00:25,100 --> 00:00:26,467 -Finding you a man. -[anxiously] Aah! 14 00:00:27,500 --> 00:00:29,567 The reason why I have no sexual experience 15 00:00:29,567 --> 00:00:32,100 is because I have this idea 16 00:00:32,100 --> 00:00:34,567 of a Prince Charming from, like, Hallmark movies. 17 00:00:34,567 --> 00:00:35,767 But that's not realistic. 18 00:00:35,767 --> 00:00:37,367 -How y'all doing? -Hi! 19 00:00:37,367 --> 00:00:40,166 I'm extremely picky, but I want sex in my life. 20 00:00:40,166 --> 00:00:42,500 He's just not my type, he's not for me. 21 00:00:42,500 --> 00:00:46,467 I don't know if I want to get married, because I was before, 22 00:00:48,100 --> 00:00:49,400 and that was a debacle. 23 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:52,567 -No sexual relationship in the marriage? -No. 24 00:00:52,567 --> 00:00:55,567 I am a divorced virgin. 25 00:00:55,567 --> 00:00:57,000 Very unbelievable, 26 00:00:57,000 --> 00:01:00,900 but that marriage was not ever consummated, ever. 27 00:01:01,667 --> 00:01:03,166 I'm still a virgin. 28 00:01:03,166 --> 00:01:06,166 I actually fall in love with just one kiss. 29 00:01:06,166 --> 00:01:07,900 Check, please. 30 00:01:07,900 --> 00:01:10,767 This is where every date ultimately leads. 31 00:01:10,767 --> 00:01:14,667 But it doesn't even matter, because I'm not sure I can even have sex. 32 00:01:14,667 --> 00:01:16,166 So take a deep breath in. 33 00:01:16,166 --> 00:01:18,300 [groans in pain] 34 00:01:38,700 --> 00:01:42,300 Uh, so first of all, how are you feeling after that? 35 00:01:42,300 --> 00:01:45,467 I'm okay. I'm anxious to hear what you have to advise, um... [chuckles nervously] 36 00:01:45,467 --> 00:01:46,967 From the physical exam, 37 00:01:47,967 --> 00:01:50,900 what we found, it's called vaginismus. 38 00:01:50,900 --> 00:01:54,000 Um, the sort of markers of that is pain, 39 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:57,066 with inserting, like, a tampon. 40 00:01:57,066 --> 00:02:00,900 There's anxiety around any genital contact, 41 00:02:00,900 --> 00:02:03,266 because your muscles are protecting 42 00:02:03,266 --> 00:02:04,767 against the pain that might happen. 43 00:02:04,767 --> 00:02:06,266 But in protecting against the pain that might happen, 44 00:02:06,266 --> 00:02:07,867 it's making it tighter. 45 00:02:07,867 --> 00:02:09,567 -[exhales anxiously] -So it's almost like 46 00:02:09,567 --> 00:02:12,467 a self-fulfilling prophecy of the pain. 47 00:02:13,767 --> 00:02:16,467 [Sonali] I have never heard of vaginismus before, 48 00:02:16,467 --> 00:02:19,100 but it sounds like my vaginal walls 49 00:02:19,100 --> 00:02:24,367 and muscles tighten up when something is attempted to be inserted. 50 00:02:24,367 --> 00:02:29,166 So, basically, I can't have sex, even if I wanted to. 51 00:02:29,166 --> 00:02:30,567 [Dr. Jeffcoat] The first thing we want to do is is get 52 00:02:30,567 --> 00:02:33,567 the pelvic floor muscles to soften and relax. 53 00:02:33,567 --> 00:02:37,166 -Can I show you what medical dilator is? -[anxiously] Oh, boy. 54 00:02:37,166 --> 00:02:39,567 [Dr. Jeffcoat] And this is the smallest one in this kit. 55 00:02:39,567 --> 00:02:42,100 And then they get gradually larger. 56 00:02:43,166 --> 00:02:44,333 Is it scary to look at? 57 00:02:46,567 --> 00:02:49,266 [Sonali laughs] I think I'm gonna have a heart attack. 58 00:02:49,266 --> 00:02:55,000 I know the dilators are supposed to stretch out my pelvic floor muscles, 59 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:57,100 but to think that I would have to do that... [inhales nervously] 60 00:02:57,867 --> 00:02:59,467 It's a bit nerve racking. 61 00:02:59,467 --> 00:03:01,767 Look, and you did this, 62 00:03:01,767 --> 00:03:04,166 -just so you know. -You did that. [laughs] 63 00:03:04,166 --> 00:03:05,867 [Dr. Jeffcoat] We did it together. 64 00:03:05,867 --> 00:03:09,166 I do find that when patients start to progress 65 00:03:09,166 --> 00:03:11,166 through a dilator kit, 66 00:03:11,166 --> 00:03:15,400 that it really helps calm the fear, the anxiety. 67 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:18,100 [Sonali] I am definitely intimidated by the dilators. 68 00:03:18,100 --> 00:03:20,367 This will absolutely be the first time 69 00:03:20,367 --> 00:03:22,166 I'll be sticking something up my vagina. 70 00:03:23,667 --> 00:03:25,767 How do I know where to insert it? 71 00:03:25,767 --> 00:03:27,667 [Dr. Jeffcoat] That is a great question. 72 00:03:27,667 --> 00:03:29,367 So let me just orient you. 73 00:03:29,367 --> 00:03:32,266 This is the pelvis, from front to back. 74 00:03:32,266 --> 00:03:34,500 Here we have the urethra. 75 00:03:34,500 --> 00:03:37,000 The vagina is the hole. 76 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:39,100 And we have the anus. 77 00:03:39,100 --> 00:03:45,100 The dilator goes in the middle hole, which is the vagina. 78 00:03:45,867 --> 00:03:47,100 [exhales anxiously] 79 00:03:47,100 --> 00:03:50,066 This whole dilation process, program... 80 00:03:50,066 --> 00:03:54,600 How long would I need to do it before I can fully make love? 81 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:57,200 [Dr. Jeffcoat] Yeah, so it's a fair question. 82 00:03:57,200 --> 00:04:01,467 The range is usually anywhere between four to eight months. 83 00:04:01,467 --> 00:04:02,667 This is a lot. 84 00:04:02,667 --> 00:04:04,100 Eight months? 85 00:04:04,100 --> 00:04:06,400 It's going to take me eight months 86 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:08,967 to get used to these dilators and to have sex? 87 00:04:09,967 --> 00:04:11,467 That seems like eternity. 88 00:04:11,467 --> 00:04:13,100 What if this doesn't work? 89 00:04:13,100 --> 00:04:16,567 I don't want to live the rest of my life as a virgin. 90 00:04:16,567 --> 00:04:20,467 Your muscles, I think, are waiting for the right guidance. 91 00:04:34,700 --> 00:04:37,567 I've never had that sexual relationship with someone. 92 00:04:38,166 --> 00:04:39,467 But I want sex in my life. 93 00:04:39,467 --> 00:04:43,000 So like, I want to find someone that I want to have sex with. 94 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:44,367 Dating apps don't work. 95 00:04:44,367 --> 00:04:45,600 Nothing's really been working for me, 96 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:49,100 so I've just been trying to find something different. 97 00:04:49,100 --> 00:04:51,066 So I'm meeting with a professional matchmaker today, 98 00:04:51,066 --> 00:04:54,266 because I just can't seem to find someone myself. 99 00:04:55,467 --> 00:04:56,400 [both] Hi! 100 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:58,000 -How are you? -Good. How are you? 101 00:04:58,000 --> 00:04:59,867 -Good. -I'm here to see Tammi. 102 00:04:59,867 --> 00:05:01,700 Okay, perfect. I'll let her know. 103 00:05:01,700 --> 00:05:03,467 [Deanne] Great. Thank you. 104 00:05:03,467 --> 00:05:07,066 I'm so sick of everybody being like "What about that guy? 105 00:05:07,066 --> 00:05:09,100 "What about that guy? What about that guy?" 106 00:05:09,100 --> 00:05:13,266 I want to be beyond this point, because this is the worst. 107 00:05:13,266 --> 00:05:14,667 -Hi, Deanne. -Hi! 108 00:05:14,667 --> 00:05:15,800 -[Tammi] I'm Tammi. -Hi, Deanne! 109 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:17,166 [Tammi] So nice to meet you! [Deanne] Nice to meet you! 110 00:05:17,166 --> 00:05:18,300 [Deanne] How are you? 111 00:05:18,300 --> 00:05:19,700 [Tammi] Good, yeah, good. How are you? [Deanne] Good. 112 00:05:19,700 --> 00:05:21,000 [Tammi] Come on in. 113 00:05:22,100 --> 00:05:23,300 My name is Tammi Pickle. 114 00:05:23,300 --> 00:05:24,667 I'm a matchmaker, 115 00:05:24,667 --> 00:05:26,900 and I own Elite Connections International. 116 00:05:26,900 --> 00:05:29,867 In my business, I have a large database of clients, 117 00:05:29,867 --> 00:05:31,867 and I interview each and every person. 118 00:05:31,867 --> 00:05:33,767 And then I kind of make the best matches 119 00:05:33,767 --> 00:05:35,367 based on what they're looking for, 120 00:05:35,367 --> 00:05:36,467 what's important to them. 121 00:05:36,467 --> 00:05:40,500 And I help them throughout the whole dating process. 122 00:05:40,500 --> 00:05:43,467 So, yeah, tell me a little bit about yourself, 123 00:05:43,467 --> 00:05:44,667 and your dating history. 124 00:05:44,667 --> 00:05:46,066 What's been going on? 125 00:05:46,066 --> 00:05:48,467 [Deanne] So I have no dating history. 126 00:05:48,467 --> 00:05:49,567 I have never had a boyfriend. 127 00:05:51,367 --> 00:05:53,000 I've never really had sex. 128 00:05:55,900 --> 00:05:57,100 Okay. 129 00:05:58,500 --> 00:06:02,266 Deanne's lack of sexual experience is tricky. 130 00:06:02,266 --> 00:06:06,000 It will be something that most men are not used to hearing. 131 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:08,600 Most people have had many boyfriends 132 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:11,266 and many sexual experiences, and she really hasn't. 133 00:06:11,266 --> 00:06:13,767 So it does make it tricky, but not impossible. 134 00:06:14,867 --> 00:06:20,166 Can you tell me more about that person 135 00:06:20,166 --> 00:06:23,100 that you would be into? 136 00:06:23,100 --> 00:06:25,567 -[Deanne] It's usually about, like, the pretty face for me. -Okay. 137 00:06:25,567 --> 00:06:28,767 [Deanne] Like, I want someone like Liam Hemsworth. 138 00:06:28,767 --> 00:06:30,967 I feel like I look at him and I feel like he is 139 00:06:30,967 --> 00:06:32,800 that full package we're looking for, like, 140 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:34,767 like he is that beautiful model-looking guy. 141 00:06:34,767 --> 00:06:37,266 And I know that's so extremely hard to find, 142 00:06:37,266 --> 00:06:40,467 but like, I feel like he fits the epitome of that. 143 00:06:40,467 --> 00:06:42,100 You know? 144 00:06:42,100 --> 00:06:45,700 I hate to ask about celebrity crushes, whatnot, 145 00:06:45,700 --> 00:06:47,367 because this is unattainable. 146 00:06:48,567 --> 00:06:50,400 You know, we are just normal. 147 00:06:52,166 --> 00:06:54,200 [Deanne] Everybody's saying, "You know, your standards are too high." 148 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:56,367 Like, I think I'm very much, like 149 00:06:56,367 --> 00:06:57,867 I can have that fairy tale. 150 00:06:57,867 --> 00:06:59,367 And as much as people tell me, like, 151 00:06:59,367 --> 00:07:01,367 "You can't find someone who's perfect," 152 00:07:01,367 --> 00:07:03,266 I've always just been the type of person that, 153 00:07:03,266 --> 00:07:06,200 just like, you can do anything you set your mind to. 154 00:07:06,200 --> 00:07:09,000 I just am really looking for that diamond in the rough, 155 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:10,567 where it's the best of both worlds. 156 00:07:10,567 --> 00:07:12,567 -[Tammi] I hear you, I hear you. -[laughing] 157 00:07:12,567 --> 00:07:15,300 I appreciate you being honest. 158 00:07:15,300 --> 00:07:19,100 I just I want you to be open 159 00:07:19,100 --> 00:07:21,200 to maybe somebody that, like, 160 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:22,967 isn't normally like, 161 00:07:22,967 --> 00:07:24,567 the model dude. 162 00:07:25,767 --> 00:07:28,467 Maybe more average, a little bit in between? 163 00:07:28,467 --> 00:07:30,300 Let's not use the word average. [laughs] 164 00:07:30,900 --> 00:07:32,600 I'm trying to help, here! 165 00:07:34,066 --> 00:07:35,800 I think Deanne is a little hung up 166 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:38,066 on the way somebody looks. 167 00:07:38,066 --> 00:07:42,400 That is gonna be maybe detrimental to her. 168 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:45,467 I don't think the pretty boys are gonna take her lack 169 00:07:45,467 --> 00:07:47,600 of sexual experience very well. 170 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:50,400 I think it's the nice guys that are gonna appreciate that, 171 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:53,000 and not make her feel weird about it. 172 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:59,166 I think you are very into attraction, 173 00:07:59,166 --> 00:08:01,300 and what he looks like, 174 00:08:01,300 --> 00:08:04,867 and that maybe, is taking precedence. 175 00:08:05,767 --> 00:08:08,367 -I think... -Being into someone, 176 00:08:08,367 --> 00:08:11,467 -you have to have... -The physical attraction, yes. 177 00:08:11,467 --> 00:08:14,367 -[Deanne] Okay, I... -Which seems very shallow, I know, when I say that. 178 00:08:14,367 --> 00:08:16,467 Yeah. Um... 179 00:08:16,467 --> 00:08:18,600 I have somebody in mind for you, 180 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:20,100 that I'm excited for you to meet. 181 00:08:20,100 --> 00:08:21,867 He's tall, he's handsome. 182 00:08:21,867 --> 00:08:23,967 I would love you to give him a chance. 183 00:08:23,967 --> 00:08:27,567 The good guy is gonna be great for you. 184 00:08:27,567 --> 00:08:29,000 No, I get it. We're on the same page, when it comes to that. 185 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:30,233 [Tammi] Yeah, good, good, good, good. 186 00:08:30,233 --> 00:08:32,000 -We don't need a celebrity. [laughs] -Oh, good, good, good. 187 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:33,767 We just need a celebrity lookalike. 188 00:08:35,967 --> 00:08:37,600 I understand what Tammi is saying. 189 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:41,000 I shouldn't be looking for that celebrity-type guy. 190 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:44,467 But, I'm not ready to give up looking for someone 191 00:08:44,467 --> 00:08:49,100 who I feel that head-over-heels spark, passionate feeling for. 192 00:08:49,100 --> 00:08:52,867 I just need that sexual attraction. 193 00:08:52,867 --> 00:08:55,266 I just need that lust to want to have sex with him. 194 00:08:55,266 --> 00:08:56,867 -[Tammi] See you soon. -[Deanne laughs] Have a good day. 195 00:08:56,867 --> 00:08:58,166 -[Tammi] Bye. -[Deanne] Bye. 196 00:08:58,166 --> 00:08:59,367 [Deanne] I've waited so long, 197 00:08:59,367 --> 00:09:02,000 I'm not ready to give up on that yet. 198 00:09:05,767 --> 00:09:09,166 ♪ Ooh, ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh ♪ ♪ Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh-ooh ♪ 199 00:09:09,166 --> 00:09:12,667 ♪ Ooh, ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh ♪ 200 00:09:18,667 --> 00:09:22,200 ♪ Say hello to you and get some time ♪ 201 00:09:24,667 --> 00:09:26,567 After failing at the bar the other night, 202 00:09:26,567 --> 00:09:29,166 my sister Courtney thinks I should try something new, 203 00:09:29,166 --> 00:09:30,467 just to get out of my head. 204 00:09:30,467 --> 00:09:33,467 So we're going on a speed dating event in Philly. 205 00:09:35,867 --> 00:09:38,667 I have never done speed dating before, which is making me nervous. 206 00:09:38,667 --> 00:09:41,567 But, she also said that there's a twist to it, 207 00:09:41,567 --> 00:09:45,567 and that's making me even more nervous. 208 00:09:45,567 --> 00:09:46,600 What's up? 209 00:09:47,667 --> 00:09:49,900 You're looking good, looking good. 210 00:09:49,900 --> 00:09:53,100 But ultimately my goal is to lose my virginity, 211 00:09:53,100 --> 00:09:56,200 and I'm gonna try and take some risks. 212 00:09:58,667 --> 00:10:00,967 Alex, your eyebrows though, buddy. 213 00:10:00,967 --> 00:10:02,800 You gotta work on those. They feel like you're gonna fly away... 214 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:05,100 [laughs] Because they're sticking straight out, buddy. 215 00:10:05,100 --> 00:10:07,467 -[sighs] I know. -Okay. 216 00:10:08,266 --> 00:10:11,367 The last time that I was on a date was 217 00:10:12,500 --> 00:10:14,066 maybe 10 years ago. 218 00:10:14,066 --> 00:10:15,200 Your nerves are getting to you. 219 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:16,266 Getting a little shaky. 220 00:10:16,266 --> 00:10:17,233 Yeah. 221 00:10:17,233 --> 00:10:18,900 We're both stepping out of our comfort zones. 222 00:10:18,900 --> 00:10:20,100 I'm single too. 223 00:10:20,100 --> 00:10:22,700 And this is gonna be a really fun way to do this with you. 224 00:10:23,367 --> 00:10:24,900 It's just a lot of emotions. 225 00:10:24,900 --> 00:10:27,467 Like, I'm excited and nervous and happy. 226 00:10:27,467 --> 00:10:29,700 Those are all normal feelings. 227 00:10:30,700 --> 00:10:32,166 I don't want to be a virgin anymore. 228 00:10:32,166 --> 00:10:35,567 Especially a 40-year-old virgin, because I want to find 229 00:10:35,567 --> 00:10:38,100 that intimacy, that connection, 230 00:10:38,100 --> 00:10:43,000 and the act of sex I want to have, 231 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:48,367 because I heard it feels amazing. 232 00:10:48,367 --> 00:10:50,166 [Courtney] You ready? [Alex] I don't know. [laughs nervously] 233 00:10:50,166 --> 00:10:51,567 [Courtney] About to do the thing. 234 00:10:51,567 --> 00:10:54,300 I do hope the speed dating leads to a relationship 235 00:10:54,300 --> 00:10:56,967 to where I can maybe have sex. 236 00:10:57,767 --> 00:10:59,367 Here we go. What do you think? 237 00:11:00,467 --> 00:11:02,066 What? It looks weird. 238 00:11:02,066 --> 00:11:04,066 [Courtney] I know. Come on! [Alex] Where did you set me up? 239 00:11:04,066 --> 00:11:05,700 [Courtney] Be open. Let's go. 240 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:10,300 [Courtney] Take your shoes off. 241 00:11:10,300 --> 00:11:11,700 [Alex] Hold on! [Courtney] Just follow me, all right? 242 00:11:11,700 --> 00:11:13,400 -[Alex] Wait for me! -Hi! I'm Courtney. 243 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:15,400 -Welcome! What's your name? -Courtney. 244 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:16,333 -Courtney. -[Alex] Hold on. [exhales] 245 00:11:16,333 --> 00:11:18,100 -Yes. -[Guy] Welcome, welcome, Courtney. 246 00:11:18,100 --> 00:11:19,266 Have you done this before? 247 00:11:19,266 --> 00:11:21,367 [Courtney] I have not. This is all new for me. 248 00:11:21,367 --> 00:11:23,166 [Guy] Okay, I'm gonna explain to you how this works. [Courtney] Okay. 249 00:11:23,166 --> 00:11:25,066 First, I'm gonna give you this pouch 250 00:11:25,066 --> 00:11:26,667 -with your magical beads. -[Courtney] Okay. 251 00:11:26,667 --> 00:11:28,767 [Guy] And I'm gonna invite you to wear this around your neck. 252 00:11:28,767 --> 00:11:30,100 [surprised] Okay. 253 00:11:30,100 --> 00:11:31,400 [Guy] Okay, just like I'm wearing mine. 254 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:33,066 [Maya] What's your name? [Alex] Alex. 255 00:11:33,066 --> 00:11:35,800 -[Maya] Welcome! You are lucky number 10. -[laughs] 256 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:37,166 -Please wear this as a necklace. -[Alex] Okay. 257 00:11:37,166 --> 00:11:39,800 I'm gonna explain later how all this process works. 258 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:41,800 [Alex] Okay. [Maya] Yeah, and have fun. 259 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:43,100 [Alex] All right, let's do this. 260 00:11:44,166 --> 00:11:45,800 -So, what do you think? -[Alex] What is this? 261 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:47,166 -[Courtney] Alex, okay... -[agitatedly] What are we doing? 262 00:11:47,166 --> 00:11:49,600 Okay, listen, okay? It's Tantra Speed Dating. 263 00:11:51,367 --> 00:11:55,400 I saw an ad as I was scrolling online on Tantra Speed Dating. 264 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:56,667 I picked this event for Alex 265 00:11:56,667 --> 00:11:58,000 because it really is out of his comfort zone. 266 00:11:58,000 --> 00:11:59,367 [laughs] What does that even mean? 267 00:11:59,367 --> 00:12:01,200 Yeah, it's not your typical speed dating. 268 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:02,667 -Okay? -Uh, Jesus. 269 00:12:02,667 --> 00:12:04,700 [Courtney] Alex struggles so much with talking to girls. 270 00:12:04,700 --> 00:12:06,400 He's such an overthinker 271 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:08,000 that he'll get way in his head. 272 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:11,467 I just want to give him a little loving shove 273 00:12:11,467 --> 00:12:12,567 to get himself out there, 274 00:12:12,567 --> 00:12:15,066 and just really take in the moment, 275 00:12:15,066 --> 00:12:18,567 and trust the process. 276 00:12:18,567 --> 00:12:22,800 So it's a lot of like mindfulness, connection. 277 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:24,867 Tantra Speed Dating is more interactive, 278 00:12:24,867 --> 00:12:26,867 where they may be doing a lot of touching 279 00:12:26,867 --> 00:12:27,967 or moving around. 280 00:12:27,967 --> 00:12:29,767 There's less talking. It's more physical, 281 00:12:29,767 --> 00:12:32,000 to see if you have a connection with someone. 282 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:34,266 -Look how zen and calm it looks. -Yeah, I know, I know. 283 00:12:34,266 --> 00:12:36,600 -Let's go. -Oh, all right. 284 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:40,667 [indistinct conversation] 285 00:12:42,066 --> 00:12:44,767 [Alex] What the... [laughs] 286 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:50,967 What, uh... What is this? 287 00:12:50,967 --> 00:12:53,467 [Courtney] There's going to be a lot of physical touch. 288 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:55,266 What? 289 00:12:55,266 --> 00:12:57,300 [laughing] 290 00:12:57,300 --> 00:12:59,600 [laughs] Surprise! 291 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:01,166 It's all about connecting... 292 00:13:03,400 --> 00:13:05,500 ...on a spiritual way. 293 00:13:05,500 --> 00:13:07,000 I... [mumbles] 294 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:11,400 This speed dating is all about touching, 295 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:12,967 and because I am a virgin, 296 00:13:12,967 --> 00:13:15,800 certain physical touch makes me uncomfortable. 297 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:17,900 My mind's going a mile a minute. 298 00:13:17,900 --> 00:13:20,300 [Maya] We are inviting you to embrace. 299 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:25,800 I'm not happy right now. 300 00:13:28,266 --> 00:13:29,700 [Deanne] It's just, like, a blind date. 301 00:13:29,700 --> 00:13:31,567 And that's the most terrifying thing in the world to me. 302 00:13:31,567 --> 00:13:33,400 I feel like my mind is gonna go blank, 303 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:34,967 and not know what to say. 304 00:13:34,967 --> 00:13:36,367 Do you want to share it? 305 00:13:36,367 --> 00:13:37,467 [Deanne] Share what? 306 00:13:37,467 --> 00:13:39,066 Like we order different things. 307 00:13:39,066 --> 00:13:41,367 [Deanne] Is it too much to ask for to find a hot guy? 308 00:13:41,367 --> 00:13:42,634 Where is he? 309 00:13:42,634 --> 00:13:43,800 -How are we doing over here? -[Deanne] Hi, good, how are you? 310 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:44,700 Doing wonderful, thank you. 311 00:13:44,700 --> 00:13:46,767 [Deanne] And then a waiter comes over, 312 00:13:46,767 --> 00:13:49,200 and he's very attractive. 313 00:13:51,667 --> 00:13:53,867 I'm a little scared, um... 314 00:13:53,867 --> 00:13:56,166 The purpose of dilators is 315 00:13:56,166 --> 00:13:58,367 to stretch out my pelvic floor muscles. 316 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:00,467 [exhales] 317 00:14:00,467 --> 00:14:02,300 I cannot believe I am doing this. 318 00:14:03,066 --> 00:14:04,266 -[clanks against bed] -[laughs] 319 00:14:08,900 --> 00:14:11,000 [Alex speaking] 320 00:14:12,100 --> 00:14:14,266 -[cymbals chiming] -[Maya] Okay! 321 00:14:14,266 --> 00:14:16,066 We are ready. 322 00:14:16,066 --> 00:14:18,367 [Guy] So I want to invite you to please be seated 323 00:14:18,367 --> 00:14:20,767 and make yourselves comfortable. 324 00:14:20,767 --> 00:14:24,200 [Maya] Let's talk about these interesting things that we're all wearing. 325 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:26,166 Men, you have an empty pouches. 326 00:14:26,166 --> 00:14:30,367 Women, you have pouches filled with beads. 327 00:14:30,367 --> 00:14:32,166 If you feel a connection, 328 00:14:32,166 --> 00:14:35,266 you will take a bead and put into his pouch. 329 00:14:35,266 --> 00:14:36,567 [Guy] You don't want him to know 330 00:14:36,567 --> 00:14:39,467 if he's getting a real bead or an imaginary bead. 331 00:14:39,467 --> 00:14:42,166 Any man that you give a bead to, after the event, 332 00:14:42,166 --> 00:14:43,800 we'll put you both in touch with each other, 333 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:47,000 and either one of you can take the next step. 334 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:49,166 [Alex] My anxiety is going through the roof. 335 00:14:49,166 --> 00:14:51,266 [Guy] I'm gonna invite you all to come and stand. 336 00:14:51,266 --> 00:14:52,467 It's making me like... 337 00:14:53,567 --> 00:14:54,567 ...crap my pants, 338 00:14:54,567 --> 00:14:57,867 because if I don't get any beads, 339 00:14:57,867 --> 00:15:02,000 my self-confidence is gonna go lower than it is right now. 340 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:05,266 -[Alex] Hello. -Hello. 341 00:15:05,266 --> 00:15:06,867 -[Maya] Okay. -How's it going? 342 00:15:07,867 --> 00:15:09,100 -[woman speaking] -[Alex laughing] 343 00:15:09,100 --> 00:15:11,367 [Maya] This is a very special station. 344 00:15:11,367 --> 00:15:14,100 We are inviting you to embrace. 345 00:15:15,867 --> 00:15:17,767 -[Guy] And simply open your arms. -[Alex laughs] Okay. 346 00:15:17,767 --> 00:15:20,367 [Guy] And if they also open their arms, congratulations! 347 00:15:20,367 --> 00:15:21,934 You've won an embrace. 348 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:27,166 Please, just be present with each other. 349 00:15:30,767 --> 00:15:33,166 [Maya] You can take as much as you want 350 00:15:33,166 --> 00:15:35,400 without giving anything back in return. 351 00:15:37,900 --> 00:15:40,800 [Alex speaking] 352 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:43,467 especially when we, like, didn't even say anything to each other. 353 00:15:43,467 --> 00:15:45,867 And I'm sweating so bad right now. 354 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:48,767 It's making the hug even more uncomfortable. 355 00:15:49,500 --> 00:15:50,767 This is weird for me. 356 00:15:50,767 --> 00:15:52,300 [Guy] Men, close your eyes. 357 00:15:52,300 --> 00:15:53,800 Women touch his heart. 358 00:15:53,800 --> 00:15:55,066 Drop in a bead, 359 00:15:55,066 --> 00:15:56,867 real or imagined 360 00:15:57,867 --> 00:16:01,100 [Maya] Ladies receive a massage. 361 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:04,867 -[Alex laughs nervously] -[woman laughs] 362 00:16:04,867 --> 00:16:08,166 I seriously can't believe I'm doing this. 363 00:16:08,166 --> 00:16:09,767 -Is it good? -[woman speaking] No, it's good. 364 00:16:09,767 --> 00:16:11,100 All right. 365 00:16:11,100 --> 00:16:14,767 To just start touching random women right away, 366 00:16:14,767 --> 00:16:16,600 it's just awkward for me. 367 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:21,166 Plus massaging, I feel like is more of a sexual act. 368 00:16:21,166 --> 00:16:22,500 What if I get aroused? 369 00:16:22,500 --> 00:16:25,700 [Guy] Feel how much power you have to heal. 370 00:16:26,567 --> 00:16:28,567 I am freaking out. 371 00:16:29,166 --> 00:16:30,400 Oh, all right. 372 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:32,467 -[Guy] Women are moving. Men are mirroring. -[woman laughs] 373 00:16:33,166 --> 00:16:34,100 Uh-oh. 374 00:16:34,100 --> 00:16:35,066 [Courtney] Alex is... 375 00:16:35,066 --> 00:16:36,567 While he's a very social person, 376 00:16:36,567 --> 00:16:38,367 he can be a little awkward. 377 00:16:38,367 --> 00:16:40,066 Doing this event tonight is really gonna show him 378 00:16:40,066 --> 00:16:43,567 that he is capable of doing more 379 00:16:43,567 --> 00:16:45,600 and that he can make connections with people, 380 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:47,967 if he allows himself to do that, and open up. 381 00:16:47,967 --> 00:16:50,166 He's worthy of it, and he is capable. 382 00:16:52,367 --> 00:16:53,400 -[Andrea] Hi! -[Alex whispering] Hi! 383 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:54,667 -[Andrea speaking] -[Alex] You too. 384 00:16:54,667 --> 00:16:56,300 Are you enjoying, so far? 385 00:16:56,300 --> 00:16:58,800 [Alex speaking] 386 00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:00,367 -It's hot! I mean... It's like... -Other... 387 00:17:00,367 --> 00:17:01,700 Can I unbutton you a little? 388 00:17:01,700 --> 00:17:03,600 -Can I like, get you a little cooler? -[Alex] Go ahead. 389 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:06,066 -[Andrea] Not in any... Any... -[Alex] Go ahead, go ahead. 390 00:17:06,066 --> 00:17:07,667 [Alex] We're starting already. Let's do this. 391 00:17:07,667 --> 00:17:09,767 -[Andrea laughing] -[Alex] Let's do this. 392 00:17:09,767 --> 00:17:12,266 We're talking and she starts unbuttoning my shirt. 393 00:17:12,266 --> 00:17:15,767 It feels really weird because I am a virgin, 394 00:17:15,767 --> 00:17:18,100 and I've never done this type of thing before. 395 00:17:18,100 --> 00:17:19,000 -Your name? -Alex. 396 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:20,100 -Alex. -Yes. 397 00:17:20,100 --> 00:17:22,400 -[Andrea speaking] -Andrea? Nice to meet you, too. 398 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:24,066 [Alex] She has a great smile. 399 00:17:24,066 --> 00:17:25,967 She has really pretty eyes. 400 00:17:25,967 --> 00:17:27,500 My heart's beating fast. 401 00:17:27,500 --> 00:17:31,700 I'm gonna invite you all to sit and hold hands. Please be seated. 402 00:17:31,700 --> 00:17:33,100 -[Andrea] Okay... -[Alex grunts] 403 00:17:33,100 --> 00:17:35,166 [Guy] Lean back, pulling your partner forward. 404 00:17:35,166 --> 00:17:37,367 -Oh, okay. -[Alex speaking] 405 00:17:37,367 --> 00:17:40,300 [Andrea speaking] 406 00:17:40,300 --> 00:17:42,200 [Guy] And now, if you remember what it was like 407 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:44,100 -to be a kid on a seesaw... -[Andrea] Okay, let's try... 408 00:17:44,100 --> 00:17:45,900 -[Andrea speaking] -I can't! I can't! 409 00:17:45,900 --> 00:17:48,467 [Andrea speaking] 410 00:17:48,467 --> 00:17:49,667 [Andrea] Here you go. Okay, now my turn. 411 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:52,767 [Andrea and Alex laughing] 412 00:17:52,767 --> 00:17:54,166 [Andrea speaking] 413 00:17:54,166 --> 00:17:55,467 [Andrea laughing] 414 00:17:55,467 --> 00:18:01,066 Alex is somebody who I can tell is desiring to do more connecting. 415 00:18:01,066 --> 00:18:05,100 And I'm feeling that in this specific exercise, 416 00:18:05,100 --> 00:18:07,700 it's like I can really trust and lean into him. 417 00:18:07,700 --> 00:18:10,000 [Andrea] Whoo! 418 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:12,000 [Alex] We're talking. We're laughing, you know? 419 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:13,166 I'm looking in her eyes. 420 00:18:13,166 --> 00:18:16,467 I'm feeling such a connection. 421 00:18:16,467 --> 00:18:18,567 Not just physical, but emotional. 422 00:18:18,567 --> 00:18:19,467 [Andrea] Whoo! 423 00:18:19,467 --> 00:18:20,867 [Andrea speaking] 424 00:18:20,867 --> 00:18:22,767 I know, but I didn't let you touch, though. 425 00:18:22,767 --> 00:18:23,900 [Andrea speaking] 426 00:18:23,900 --> 00:18:25,767 -I didn't let you touch. I got it. -[Andrea speaking] 427 00:18:25,767 --> 00:18:27,867 -I got you. I got you. I got you! -[Andrea speaking] 428 00:18:27,867 --> 00:18:31,166 Her personality is just the kind of personality I'm looking for. 429 00:18:31,166 --> 00:18:35,867 [Guy] One, men, close your eyes, women reach for beads. 430 00:18:35,867 --> 00:18:41,300 Two, women, touch his heart, dropping in a bead, real or imagined. 431 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:48,000 -[Andrea speaking] -[Alex] See ya! 432 00:18:49,266 --> 00:18:52,166 I'm really, really hoping that she gave me a bead. 433 00:18:57,767 --> 00:19:00,700 ♪ Feisty, feisty, yeah, we feisty ♪ 434 00:19:00,700 --> 00:19:04,266 ♪ Feisty, feisty, yeah, we feisty ♪ 435 00:19:04,266 --> 00:19:07,667 ♪ Spicy, spicy, yeah, we spicy ♪ 436 00:19:07,667 --> 00:19:10,567 [Rhasha] It is very wild and crazy 437 00:19:10,567 --> 00:19:13,400 that I am a divorced virgin. [chuckles] 438 00:19:15,266 --> 00:19:19,100 My divorce was five years ago, and at that point, 439 00:19:19,100 --> 00:19:21,000 I was definitely in a negative headspace. 440 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:23,266 Um, it ruined my confidence. 441 00:19:24,700 --> 00:19:29,266 I gained so much weight and I already was a big girl. 442 00:19:29,266 --> 00:19:31,500 And I was just at the lowest point ever. 443 00:19:31,500 --> 00:19:32,700 Like, it was not good. 444 00:19:38,300 --> 00:19:39,767 I moved back in with my parents. 445 00:19:39,767 --> 00:19:41,367 Aside from needing help, 446 00:19:41,367 --> 00:19:44,700 also to heal and to be around family. 447 00:19:46,467 --> 00:19:48,100 -[Rhasha] Mom. -[Iris] Yeah? 448 00:19:48,100 --> 00:19:49,467 [both] Hey. [Rhasha] I want you to start... 449 00:19:49,467 --> 00:19:50,667 [Iris] Why did you take so long? 450 00:19:50,667 --> 00:19:52,967 I went to the store to get some healthy things. 451 00:19:52,967 --> 00:19:54,767 Oh, I'm so hungry. What you got? 452 00:19:54,767 --> 00:19:57,367 -Um, just got some things to make tacos. -Oh, okay. 453 00:19:57,367 --> 00:20:00,400 I wanted a new lease on life, 454 00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:02,500 and I wanted to get my health back. 455 00:20:02,500 --> 00:20:06,200 So I had weight loss surgery back in March 2024. 456 00:20:07,467 --> 00:20:12,767 And I lost about 81 pounds from my highest weight. 457 00:20:12,767 --> 00:20:14,667 I know I still have a long way to go, 458 00:20:14,667 --> 00:20:16,800 but I feel like I'm ready to get out there. 459 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:19,467 Where's Jessie? 460 00:20:19,467 --> 00:20:20,500 [Iris] She'll be in. 461 00:20:20,500 --> 00:20:23,367 I wanted to talk to you guys about, um... 462 00:20:23,367 --> 00:20:27,400 I'm on a dating app again. 463 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:29,000 -Not again, Rhasha. -[Rhasha] I... 464 00:20:29,567 --> 00:20:31,567 I need to put myself out there. 465 00:20:31,567 --> 00:20:35,867 [Iris speaking] 466 00:20:35,867 --> 00:20:37,367 -I'm not. -Rhasha... 467 00:20:37,367 --> 00:20:38,467 I'm not, I'm not. 468 00:20:38,467 --> 00:20:40,667 It's going to be a very good process. 469 00:20:40,667 --> 00:20:42,667 Don't worry about it. It's gonna be great. 470 00:20:42,667 --> 00:20:44,667 I've been talking to a few guys online, 471 00:20:44,667 --> 00:20:46,166 and it's been going pretty well, 472 00:20:46,166 --> 00:20:48,567 and I'm thinking about maybe asking someone 473 00:20:48,567 --> 00:20:52,066 to go on a date with me in person and in real life. 474 00:20:52,066 --> 00:20:54,300 [producer speaking] 475 00:20:54,300 --> 00:20:56,300 I have not been on a date before. 476 00:20:56,300 --> 00:20:57,400 [producer speaking] 477 00:20:57,400 --> 00:20:58,500 Ever. 478 00:20:58,500 --> 00:21:02,467 [Rhasha] I want to get you guys', um, 479 00:21:02,467 --> 00:21:06,367 constructive criticism on some of the guys that matched with me. 480 00:21:06,367 --> 00:21:08,000 [Jessica] This's gonna be some catfish BS, isn't it? 481 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:09,667 There's not gonna be no catfish, Jessica, stop. 482 00:21:09,667 --> 00:21:11,200 -Okay. -Come sit down. 483 00:21:12,300 --> 00:21:16,000 I'm protective of Rhasha, and I don't know how I feel 484 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:19,166 about her going back into online dating. 485 00:21:19,166 --> 00:21:21,900 Her first experience ended in marriage, 486 00:21:21,900 --> 00:21:25,767 and I still... I still don't know how that happened. 487 00:21:25,767 --> 00:21:29,700 That relationship actually broke her self-esteem. 488 00:21:29,700 --> 00:21:33,767 So I'm just hoping that this time around 489 00:21:33,767 --> 00:21:37,100 she'll make the right decisions and-- How to date. 490 00:21:38,500 --> 00:21:41,200 We're going to look at the guys who I'm matched with. 491 00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:42,467 Okay. 492 00:21:42,467 --> 00:21:45,200 -All right. And be honest. -Okay. 493 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:48,266 The therapist said to be transparent up front. 494 00:21:48,266 --> 00:21:52,100 But I haven't told 'em that I'm a virgin yet. 495 00:21:53,066 --> 00:21:54,467 Why Rhasha? 496 00:21:54,467 --> 00:21:56,400 -Because-- -What you mean, "Why?" 497 00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:58,567 Does you wanna start off a conversation like that? 498 00:21:59,266 --> 00:22:00,266 [laughs] 499 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:05,166 [Iris] I am so proud of Rhasha. 500 00:22:05,166 --> 00:22:07,266 It's okay that she's still a virgin. 501 00:22:07,266 --> 00:22:10,000 Because you don't see that many out there. 502 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:12,967 I think Rhasha should tell people that she's a virgin. 503 00:22:12,967 --> 00:22:14,166 I really do. 504 00:22:14,166 --> 00:22:18,600 The right man would be very proud of Rhasha. 505 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:22,367 -I want them to get to know me for me first. -Right. 506 00:22:22,367 --> 00:22:27,900 But I need you to not flip the script when the [bleep] smile at you. 507 00:22:27,900 --> 00:22:29,500 [laughs] 508 00:22:29,500 --> 00:22:30,500 Okay? 509 00:22:31,100 --> 00:22:32,266 Give it a day or two. 510 00:22:32,266 --> 00:22:34,667 Give it-- Talk for a minute. 511 00:22:34,667 --> 00:22:38,500 Okay, it's not gonna be like the last time. I learned from my ex. 512 00:22:38,500 --> 00:22:41,767 And I think I'm a little bit more confident now to meet people. 513 00:22:41,767 --> 00:22:44,600 Before I wasn't so confident because of my weight. 514 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:46,400 Yeah. 515 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:53,367 I want to try to get out of my comfort zone and to find my person 516 00:22:53,367 --> 00:22:57,767 and to be intimate with my person. 517 00:23:00,166 --> 00:23:03,467 I'm trying to have nasty sex. 518 00:23:04,767 --> 00:23:06,000 Sorry, Mom. 519 00:23:07,266 --> 00:23:10,166 -So this is one of the guys I've matched with. -Cute. 520 00:23:10,166 --> 00:23:11,266 All right. 521 00:23:11,266 --> 00:23:12,600 Okay, but listen. Look at the conversation. 522 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:15,767 The conversation ain't doing what it's supposed to do. 523 00:23:15,767 --> 00:23:17,767 You know what I'm saying? It says, "Damn girl." 524 00:23:19,967 --> 00:23:21,567 You don't say no, "Damn girl." 525 00:23:21,567 --> 00:23:23,967 At least just said hello or something. 526 00:23:23,967 --> 00:23:29,467 All right, so here we have another guy on here, he is six foot. 527 00:23:35,266 --> 00:23:36,467 Right? 528 00:23:36,467 --> 00:23:38,867 -No, we don't. -Uh-uh. Not happening. 529 00:23:38,867 --> 00:23:40,100 Well, y'all know what I'm talking about. 530 00:23:40,100 --> 00:23:41,600 No, I don't. 531 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:43,200 Well, let's see who another one... 532 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:44,166 Yeah, another one. 533 00:23:45,166 --> 00:23:47,467 -This person... -Oh, he look nice. 534 00:23:47,467 --> 00:23:49,367 ...is my favorite so far. 535 00:23:49,367 --> 00:23:51,467 -You know I like beards, right? -Yeah. 536 00:23:51,467 --> 00:23:53,567 [Rhasha] Let's read his profile here. 537 00:23:53,567 --> 00:23:56,867 "Looking for something serious. So don't waste my time. 538 00:23:58,200 --> 00:23:59,900 I have my own place. 539 00:24:00,867 --> 00:24:03,200 My own car and a job. 540 00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:06,667 So if we match, we can go out and hit the beach 541 00:24:06,667 --> 00:24:09,367 or a park. Rolling solo is getting old. 542 00:24:09,367 --> 00:24:11,100 Like me. LOL." 543 00:24:11,100 --> 00:24:12,700 [Jessica] Wow. 544 00:24:12,700 --> 00:24:14,800 And look, you know, he's like-- Looks like he's fun. 545 00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:16,266 [Iris] Y'all look like a good match. 546 00:24:16,266 --> 00:24:18,700 -[Rhasha] I like him, too. -[Iris] I know you do. 547 00:24:21,166 --> 00:24:22,867 You better not bring no man up in here. 548 00:24:23,467 --> 00:24:24,700 He's not coming in. 549 00:24:24,700 --> 00:24:27,567 Nobody's coming into my house and you're doing none of that. 550 00:24:27,567 --> 00:24:30,667 Don't nobody do that here anyway, Rhasha, and you know that. 551 00:24:30,667 --> 00:24:31,767 Nobody. 552 00:24:31,767 --> 00:24:32,800 I mean, I wouldn't. I'm just playing. 553 00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:34,367 I won't feel comfortable. 554 00:24:36,367 --> 00:24:37,767 -What? -You stupid. 555 00:24:37,767 --> 00:24:39,266 Rhasha, no. 556 00:24:39,266 --> 00:24:43,066 [all laughing] 557 00:24:45,100 --> 00:24:48,300 I am going to try to use the dilators 558 00:24:48,300 --> 00:24:51,266 that the pelvic floor therapist gave to me. 559 00:24:51,266 --> 00:24:53,667 "Insert into your vaginal opening." 560 00:24:53,667 --> 00:24:57,300 Oh, boy. It's really scary because I've never stuck anything up there. 561 00:25:07,467 --> 00:25:12,800 Earlier today, I had a meeting on the computer video chat 562 00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:16,767 with the hosts of the speed dating event I went on. 563 00:25:16,767 --> 00:25:21,800 I surprisingly got five matches out of 12 girls. 564 00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:25,867 So your first match was with Andrea. 565 00:25:25,867 --> 00:25:26,900 Yes! 566 00:25:26,900 --> 00:25:29,367 [both laughing] 567 00:25:29,367 --> 00:25:31,367 -[male host] So what do you think of Andrea? -[Alex] She was very cute. 568 00:25:31,367 --> 00:25:32,867 Um, bubbly. 569 00:25:32,867 --> 00:25:35,567 Her personality was like kind of matching mine. 570 00:25:35,567 --> 00:25:40,000 I loved her laugh, her smile just kind of, overall everything. 571 00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:41,767 Yeah. [laughs] 572 00:25:41,767 --> 00:25:45,100 I've been texting Andrea for the past couple of days, 573 00:25:45,100 --> 00:25:49,200 and I asked her on a date and she said, "Yes." 574 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:52,767 I'm just feeling really excited and nervous because it's been... 575 00:25:54,166 --> 00:25:55,333 ...10 plus years. 576 00:25:56,467 --> 00:26:00,567 I just don't want to, you know, say the wrong thing. 577 00:26:00,567 --> 00:26:02,500 I don't-- I want to make her feel comfortable, 578 00:26:02,500 --> 00:26:04,500 but I also don't want to make myself... 579 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,567 ...look kind of stupid, but all these things can happen. 580 00:26:09,100 --> 00:26:10,266 Um. 581 00:26:10,266 --> 00:26:11,667 So we'll just-- We'll see how it goes. 582 00:26:11,667 --> 00:26:13,767 Because who knows? 583 00:26:20,300 --> 00:26:21,667 [Mercedes] So how you feeling? 584 00:26:22,700 --> 00:26:24,667 -[Deanne] Terrified. -Honey. 585 00:26:24,667 --> 00:26:25,867 Any excitement? 586 00:26:25,867 --> 00:26:27,900 It's hard for me to get excited because I... 587 00:26:29,467 --> 00:26:30,767 haven't seen him. 588 00:26:30,767 --> 00:26:32,700 I don't really know anything. 589 00:26:32,700 --> 00:26:34,066 It's just like a blind date. 590 00:26:34,867 --> 00:26:36,567 I mean, I'm still anxious. 591 00:26:36,567 --> 00:26:38,700 I recently met with a matchmaker, 592 00:26:38,700 --> 00:26:41,166 and tonight is my first real date. 593 00:26:41,166 --> 00:26:45,367 I'm 35 years old and I've never had a relationship. 594 00:26:45,367 --> 00:26:46,867 I've never had a sex life. 595 00:26:46,867 --> 00:26:48,400 I don't know what I'm doing. 596 00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:51,266 And that always gives me a little bit of nerves 597 00:26:51,266 --> 00:26:54,000 because I'm like, "Are they not going to like me?" 598 00:26:54,000 --> 00:27:00,166 Or, "Are they going to know somehow that I have no sexual experience whatsoever?" 599 00:27:00,166 --> 00:27:03,567 I'll jump out of a plane, I'll move to California by myself. 600 00:27:03,567 --> 00:27:07,367 You tell me to go on a date, and that's the most terrifying thing in the world to me. 601 00:27:07,367 --> 00:27:10,900 Going into something, not knowing if I have any chemistry 602 00:27:10,900 --> 00:27:13,867 with this guy at all, I feel like my mind is going to go blank. 603 00:27:13,867 --> 00:27:17,000 I feel like I'm just gonna go quiet and not know what to say. 604 00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:20,000 It's like the nightmare when you're thinking about being naked in school. 605 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:21,667 -You're just preparing for the worst. -Yes. 606 00:27:21,667 --> 00:27:22,967 -Which you always do. -Yes. 607 00:27:22,967 --> 00:27:25,467 You have to just think it's going to be the best. 608 00:27:25,467 --> 00:27:26,900 But what if it is the worst? 609 00:27:26,900 --> 00:27:28,667 -What if it's the best? -But what if it's the worst? 610 00:27:28,667 --> 00:27:29,767 But it could be the best. 611 00:27:29,767 --> 00:27:31,600 -It could be the worst. -Or the best. 612 00:27:32,367 --> 00:27:33,400 [Mercedes] It'll be good practice. 613 00:27:34,667 --> 00:27:36,467 You need to get out there somehow. 614 00:27:36,467 --> 00:27:37,900 I mean, you're just... You're just going right in. 615 00:27:37,900 --> 00:27:41,400 -What if I to turn into like, a ho and just start... -[laughs] 616 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,300 I think when Deanne loosens up a little bit, 617 00:27:43,300 --> 00:27:44,867 she will enjoy having a sex life. 618 00:27:44,867 --> 00:27:48,166 She just needs to get over this hurdle of finding the right guy, 619 00:27:48,166 --> 00:27:49,700 and then she'll be off to the races. 620 00:27:49,700 --> 00:27:52,767 What if I just start going on like 80 dates-- 621 00:27:52,767 --> 00:27:54,967 Well, you'll have a lot of good stories. 622 00:27:54,967 --> 00:27:56,367 What if it turns into that? 623 00:27:56,367 --> 00:27:58,166 I mean, I doubt it. But maybe you never know. 624 00:27:58,166 --> 00:27:59,900 Maybe I'll just like, love dating so much 625 00:27:59,900 --> 00:28:00,800 that I'll just like... 626 00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:01,800 You'll be coming home with nicknames 627 00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:03,200 because I won't be able to tell them apart. 628 00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:04,300 [laughs] 629 00:28:11,967 --> 00:28:15,266 I know that it's crazy, but I've seriously never been on a real date. 630 00:28:15,266 --> 00:28:17,100 I get so self-conscious about like, 631 00:28:17,100 --> 00:28:19,800 "You are 35 years old and you have no idea 632 00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:21,033 what the [bleep] you're doing." 633 00:28:21,033 --> 00:28:23,867 I've really been waiting my whole life to find my Mr. Right. 634 00:28:23,867 --> 00:28:27,667 To find my perfect person and start having a sex life. 635 00:28:27,667 --> 00:28:29,300 But it all starts with a first date. 636 00:28:29,300 --> 00:28:31,266 So maybe that day is today. 637 00:28:34,166 --> 00:28:35,400 -Hello. -Hi. 638 00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:37,200 Hi! 639 00:28:38,367 --> 00:28:39,400 Deanne. 640 00:28:40,100 --> 00:28:41,567 Nice to meet you. 641 00:28:46,967 --> 00:28:48,834 Thank you. 642 00:28:51,266 --> 00:28:54,300 When I see Ricardo for the first time, I'm thinking, 643 00:28:54,300 --> 00:28:55,467 he's very fit. 644 00:28:55,467 --> 00:28:57,600 He seems nice. He's cute. 645 00:28:58,266 --> 00:28:59,166 Have you been here before? 646 00:28:59,166 --> 00:29:00,700 -No, have you? -No, first time. 647 00:29:00,700 --> 00:29:02,767 -What kind of food is it? Sushi, obviously. -Sushi, yeah. 648 00:29:04,500 --> 00:29:05,567 Sounds nice. 649 00:29:05,567 --> 00:29:08,667 But I knew from the second I sat down, 650 00:29:08,667 --> 00:29:10,166 that this was not my man. 651 00:29:10,166 --> 00:29:12,767 There was no spark. There was no chemistry. 652 00:29:12,767 --> 00:29:14,900 And I'm just the type of person who just knows instantly. 653 00:29:15,967 --> 00:29:17,567 You want to share it? 654 00:29:17,567 --> 00:29:18,700 [Deanne] Share what? 655 00:29:18,700 --> 00:29:20,166 Like, we order different things. 656 00:29:20,166 --> 00:29:25,667 Potentially, because I don't know what's... 657 00:29:25,667 --> 00:29:27,166 I'm gonna like on this? [laughs] 658 00:29:28,967 --> 00:29:30,367 [Ricardo] I think Deanne is beautiful. 659 00:29:30,367 --> 00:29:33,767 It's hard to judge one interaction, but so far 660 00:29:33,767 --> 00:29:36,367 I feel good about her. 661 00:29:36,367 --> 00:29:38,166 And I'd like to get to know her more. 662 00:29:43,900 --> 00:29:44,900 Do you have animals? 663 00:29:44,900 --> 00:29:46,400 -Hmm? -Do you have pets? 664 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:48,433 -No. Do you? -I do have a dog. 665 00:29:50,867 --> 00:29:54,000 [Deanne] How am I supposed to keep up this full two-hour conversation? 666 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:55,567 There's millions of guys in the city, 667 00:29:55,567 --> 00:29:57,567 is it too much to ask for to find a hot guy? 668 00:29:57,567 --> 00:29:58,567 Where is he? 669 00:30:12,700 --> 00:30:15,567 I'm on a date with Ricardo, who I met through my matchmaker, 670 00:30:15,567 --> 00:30:17,700 and I can already tell that 671 00:30:18,667 --> 00:30:19,600 it's not going anywhere. 672 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:20,867 There's no chemistry. 673 00:30:20,867 --> 00:30:24,767 I really need to feel that instant spark and attraction 674 00:30:24,767 --> 00:30:27,867 and just some sort of chemistry. 675 00:30:27,867 --> 00:30:30,300 And I'm not feeling that. 676 00:30:30,300 --> 00:30:32,000 -How are we doing over here? -[Deanne] Hi, good, how are you? 677 00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:32,900 Wonderful. Thank you. 678 00:30:32,900 --> 00:30:34,500 -[waiter] First time here? -It is. 679 00:30:34,500 --> 00:30:35,634 [waiter] Awesome. 680 00:30:35,634 --> 00:30:39,567 And then a waiter comes over and he's very attractive. 681 00:30:40,900 --> 00:30:43,200 We're just a Japanese tapas style restaurant. 682 00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:46,166 Everything's like small bites, small plates. 683 00:30:46,166 --> 00:30:49,266 Sushi rolls. I can make any kind of sushi roll. 684 00:30:49,266 --> 00:30:52,467 He starts talking about everything that's on the menu, and I can't even 685 00:30:52,467 --> 00:30:55,100 concentrate on what he's saying because he's very attractive. 686 00:30:55,100 --> 00:30:56,700 What was the peppers that you mentioned? 687 00:30:56,700 --> 00:31:00,266 -[waiter] Shishito peppers -We can try those. You like peppers or no? 688 00:31:02,767 --> 00:31:03,900 Uh, not huge on peppers. 689 00:31:03,900 --> 00:31:05,100 But you get that. 690 00:31:05,100 --> 00:31:08,200 I am gonna do the sweet and spicy crab roll. 691 00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:09,367 -Okay. Thank you. -[Ricardo] Thank you. 692 00:31:11,100 --> 00:31:13,133 That was overwhelming. 693 00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:18,500 Guys that I like are so few and far between... 694 00:31:18,500 --> 00:31:19,900 I need to go to the restroom. 695 00:31:19,900 --> 00:31:21,467 -So I'll be right back. -Okay. 696 00:31:21,467 --> 00:31:24,567 ...that when I find one 697 00:31:24,567 --> 00:31:26,767 that I'm attracted to, it's hard for me to fake it 698 00:31:26,767 --> 00:31:28,467 with somebody else that I'm not attracted to. 699 00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:34,367 Mercedes and Jamie are texting me along the way 700 00:31:34,367 --> 00:31:37,467 and then I was like, "Well, there's a really hot waiter 701 00:31:37,467 --> 00:31:40,000 who came over to us and I think I'm more attracted to him." 702 00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:41,967 So they are like, "Make sure you're getting his Instagram, 703 00:31:41,967 --> 00:31:42,934 make sure you're getting his info. 704 00:31:42,934 --> 00:31:45,100 Did you get his number? Did you get anything?" 705 00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:52,367 Yeah, she's definitely attractive. 706 00:31:52,367 --> 00:31:54,100 She seems sweet and seems really nice. 707 00:31:54,100 --> 00:31:55,767 But, yeah. 708 00:31:55,767 --> 00:31:57,300 How are you guys feeling over here? 709 00:31:57,300 --> 00:31:58,600 -Good. -[waiter] Good? 710 00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:00,166 We're good to go. 711 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,266 I'm not on the market right now. 712 00:32:04,266 --> 00:32:08,367 Unfortunately, I'm not single, so it's not an option. 713 00:32:12,667 --> 00:32:14,400 -Thank you. -Very sweet. Thank you. 714 00:32:16,867 --> 00:32:19,867 [Deanne] In this moment, I'm-- It's clicking in my head 715 00:32:19,867 --> 00:32:23,867 that I need to be super attracted to the guy 716 00:32:23,867 --> 00:32:26,867 to even want to have sex with him, because I want that excitement 717 00:32:26,867 --> 00:32:28,800 like I want that spark. 718 00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:29,800 I want that chemistry. 719 00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:31,767 I want to want to be there. 720 00:32:31,767 --> 00:32:33,166 Thank you, have a good night. 721 00:32:34,166 --> 00:32:36,567 I'm realizing that dating is not that scary. 722 00:32:36,567 --> 00:32:38,367 I think what's becoming scarier to me is that 723 00:32:38,367 --> 00:32:39,333 I'm not going to find the person 724 00:32:39,333 --> 00:32:41,567 that I want to hook up and have sex with you. 725 00:32:41,567 --> 00:32:42,900 Nice meeting you. 726 00:32:42,900 --> 00:32:44,100 You as well. 727 00:32:44,100 --> 00:32:46,000 -Have a good night. -Night. 728 00:32:58,567 --> 00:33:01,367 [Sonali] It's really scary to even think about sex 729 00:33:01,367 --> 00:33:05,667 because I am absolutely very worried about how painful it will be. 730 00:33:05,667 --> 00:33:07,400 I've never stuck anything up there. 731 00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:12,567 But what scares me even more is the possibility 732 00:33:12,567 --> 00:33:17,867 of never being able to experience the full lovemaking state of being. 733 00:33:17,867 --> 00:33:19,900 I just don't want to be alone. 734 00:33:19,900 --> 00:33:21,500 I crave companionship and love. 735 00:33:23,967 --> 00:33:25,800 Actually needed coconut oil. 736 00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:29,800 Oh, boy, I use coconut oil in my hair here. 737 00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:35,166 So today I am going to try to use the dilators 738 00:33:35,166 --> 00:33:38,767 that the pelvic floor therapist gave to me. 739 00:33:38,767 --> 00:33:43,600 The purpose of the dilators is to stretch out my pelvic floor muscles. 740 00:33:45,467 --> 00:33:46,367 [sighs] 741 00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:50,166 Uh, this is size L. 742 00:33:50,166 --> 00:33:52,667 I'm a little scared. Um... 743 00:33:52,667 --> 00:33:55,100 Anxiety is an understatement. 744 00:33:55,100 --> 00:33:59,867 Even extra small is pretty long and big. 745 00:34:00,567 --> 00:34:01,900 I will do my best. 746 00:34:01,900 --> 00:34:05,567 I will try this, but it's frustrating and aggravating 747 00:34:05,567 --> 00:34:07,800 because it's not just an emotional hurdle that I have. 748 00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:10,867 I have a physical hurdle and also a cultural hurdle. 749 00:34:10,867 --> 00:34:15,500 My Indian conservative side finds this very shocking. I... 750 00:34:15,500 --> 00:34:17,367 My mother never taught me anything like this. 751 00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:19,500 This is new territory. 752 00:34:27,100 --> 00:34:30,166 I cannot believe I am doing this on camera. 753 00:34:43,100 --> 00:34:44,567 [breathes heavily] 754 00:34:47,867 --> 00:34:49,867 Oh, oh. Gosh. 755 00:34:51,900 --> 00:34:53,100 [exhales] 756 00:34:56,667 --> 00:34:58,367 Weird. 757 00:34:58,367 --> 00:35:00,367 It's like a piercing sensation. 758 00:35:00,367 --> 00:35:02,900 I... Oh... 759 00:35:02,900 --> 00:35:06,400 It hurts. It's like-- I don't even know what I'm doing. 760 00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:07,367 It's just... 761 00:35:08,700 --> 00:35:10,166 It's not comfortable. 762 00:35:10,166 --> 00:35:12,100 It's not-- It's not paradise. 763 00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:22,000 I feel like my vaginal walls are being torn open. 764 00:35:24,467 --> 00:35:26,100 The pain level is like a seven. 765 00:35:27,467 --> 00:35:30,166 If this is so painful, then I can't imagine 766 00:35:30,166 --> 00:35:33,834 how painful sexual intercourse would be. 767 00:35:36,266 --> 00:35:40,166 At this point, I do believe that sexual intercourse 768 00:35:40,767 --> 00:35:42,166 might be out of reach for me. 769 00:35:47,567 --> 00:35:52,367 I am driving to meet Mr. Zach. 770 00:35:52,367 --> 00:35:55,700 My nerves, they're getting really bad. 771 00:35:55,700 --> 00:35:59,900 Is he, like the one that I'm gonna like, be intimate and have sex with? 772 00:35:59,900 --> 00:36:02,266 What if he walks in and he sees me 773 00:36:02,266 --> 00:36:04,266 and he turns around and walks away? 774 00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:11,000 ♪ We don't need no sleep 'cause the party don't stop ♪ 775 00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:12,900 ♪ So put your hands on me ♪ 776 00:36:12,900 --> 00:36:17,500 ♪ Put your hands on me and turn me on, on, on ♪ 777 00:36:17,500 --> 00:36:22,200 I am driving to meet Mr. Zach. 778 00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:24,467 We matched on the dating app. 779 00:36:24,467 --> 00:36:29,100 He is the one that my mom and my sister both voted on. 780 00:36:29,100 --> 00:36:31,266 And I asked him if he was okay 781 00:36:31,266 --> 00:36:35,066 with meeting up and going out, and he said, yes. 782 00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:37,667 He was interested. 783 00:36:37,667 --> 00:36:40,667 I have been thinking about him a lot, um... 784 00:36:40,667 --> 00:36:41,900 sexually. 785 00:36:41,900 --> 00:36:45,567 In my mind, Zach is putting me in handcuffs. 786 00:36:45,567 --> 00:36:49,567 And, like, I don't know, like, tickling my toes. 787 00:36:50,100 --> 00:36:52,066 [laughs] 788 00:36:52,066 --> 00:36:54,000 Like he's definitely tied me up. 789 00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:56,066 And he's just like, spanking me. 790 00:36:59,700 --> 00:37:02,200 All of this is new to me. 791 00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:06,767 So the fact that I'm going on like my very first date is very exciting. 792 00:37:06,767 --> 00:37:10,000 You know, meeting the right person does open me up 793 00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:12,400 to have a sexual encounter. 794 00:37:14,867 --> 00:37:18,500 I think I need to start a drink before he comes. 795 00:37:21,967 --> 00:37:24,567 As I wait for him to come in... 796 00:37:24,567 --> 00:37:28,100 My nerves is-- They're getting really bad. 797 00:37:29,066 --> 00:37:30,500 I do go down the rabbit hole. 798 00:37:31,667 --> 00:37:34,700 I don't feel like I'm attractive to men. 799 00:37:34,700 --> 00:37:37,900 I don't feel like I'm at my goal weight yet. 800 00:37:37,900 --> 00:37:39,600 So I'm still, like, on the bigger side. 801 00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:44,166 What if he walks in and he sees me and he turns around and walks away? 802 00:37:44,867 --> 00:37:46,300 I hope I don't get gassy. 803 00:37:47,066 --> 00:37:48,100 I'm... I'm... 804 00:37:48,100 --> 00:37:49,900 Because when I get nervous, you know. 805 00:38:07,667 --> 00:38:08,567 Hello. [laughs] 806 00:38:09,166 --> 00:38:10,467 You must be Rhasha. 807 00:38:10,467 --> 00:38:12,266 -Yes. -Nice to meet you. 808 00:38:12,266 --> 00:38:13,900 Nice to meet you. 809 00:38:13,900 --> 00:38:16,000 Oh, the chair doesn't matter. 810 00:38:17,100 --> 00:38:18,400 -Hello. -How are you doing? 811 00:38:18,900 --> 00:38:21,367 I'm nervous. How are you? 812 00:38:21,367 --> 00:38:25,100 Less nervous as I was before. So, I think we're doing all right. 813 00:38:25,100 --> 00:38:27,467 Yeah. [laughs] 814 00:38:27,467 --> 00:38:29,667 I think Rhasha is more than pretty. 815 00:38:29,667 --> 00:38:30,600 I think she's beautiful. 816 00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:33,400 I guess we look around. 817 00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:34,867 Let's go pour some candles now. 818 00:38:34,867 --> 00:38:36,266 Yes. 819 00:38:36,266 --> 00:38:38,166 [Zach] I just like her style. 820 00:38:38,166 --> 00:38:41,100 And I'm definitely letting her know that I'm into her. 821 00:38:41,100 --> 00:38:42,266 [Zach] I didn't catfish you, did I? 822 00:38:42,266 --> 00:38:43,400 -No. [laughs] -[Zach] No. Catfishing? 823 00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:44,900 -No, catfishing. -All right, good. 824 00:38:44,900 --> 00:38:46,567 I was just making sure. 825 00:38:46,567 --> 00:38:47,800 Oh, my goodness. 826 00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,166 -And you are not a catfish either, so. -Aw, thank you. 827 00:38:50,166 --> 00:38:52,100 -Yes. -I was nervous. I was like... 828 00:38:53,166 --> 00:38:55,867 I am thinking that... 829 00:38:56,867 --> 00:38:58,367 he's lying. 830 00:38:58,367 --> 00:39:03,400 Because I'm not I'm used to getting that type of compliment. 831 00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:06,266 -I'm not gonna lie, colors. I like the colors. It's nice. -You like the colors? 832 00:39:06,266 --> 00:39:07,767 -Oh, yeah. -You like it? 833 00:39:08,467 --> 00:39:10,266 I've been likin' that, girl. 834 00:39:10,266 --> 00:39:11,266 [laughs] 835 00:39:11,266 --> 00:39:14,367 But I'm getting good energy from Zach. 836 00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:16,266 Really good energy. 837 00:39:17,166 --> 00:39:19,367 [Zach] Well, I do have a question for you. 838 00:39:19,367 --> 00:39:20,467 How many... 839 00:39:21,266 --> 00:39:22,900 people have you matched with? 840 00:39:22,900 --> 00:39:26,900 Um, actually, I matched with a lot of guys, 841 00:39:26,900 --> 00:39:28,967 but they, um... 842 00:39:28,967 --> 00:39:34,266 they ended the chat because of some things I may have said, 843 00:39:34,266 --> 00:39:36,467 and that's totally fine. 844 00:39:36,467 --> 00:39:37,900 Did you say some off the wall stuff, 845 00:39:37,900 --> 00:39:40,100 or was it just like, really direct and they didn't like it? 846 00:39:40,100 --> 00:39:42,200 -Um... -Some guys don't like direct. 847 00:39:46,867 --> 00:39:48,800 Well, it's not so much as direct. 848 00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:50,200 It's like, um... 849 00:39:52,166 --> 00:39:55,667 Well, my situation is, um... 850 00:39:55,667 --> 00:39:57,767 I am still a virgin. 851 00:40:02,100 --> 00:40:03,266 Told you I had a situation. 852 00:40:06,300 --> 00:40:07,467 Are you okay with that? 853 00:40:07,467 --> 00:40:10,000 Um, I don't know. 854 00:40:16,100 --> 00:40:17,567 Ah! Oh, okay. 855 00:40:17,567 --> 00:40:19,900 I feel like I have to change something. 856 00:40:19,900 --> 00:40:21,767 [yells and laughs] 857 00:40:21,767 --> 00:40:24,767 Because this is the first date I've been on in so long 858 00:40:24,767 --> 00:40:27,200 that I don't just want it to go well. 859 00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:28,567 I need it to go well. 860 00:40:28,567 --> 00:40:29,867 Well, hello there. 861 00:40:31,100 --> 00:40:34,500 -So this is the clitoris here. -Okay. 862 00:40:34,500 --> 00:40:36,867 I feel like I'm back in high school biology class, 863 00:40:36,867 --> 00:40:39,367 learning about the human anatomy. 864 00:40:39,367 --> 00:40:43,600 And I think the first thing you need to do is make friends with your own vagina. 865 00:40:45,900 --> 00:40:47,200 [man] Hello, welcome. 866 00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:48,900 -Come on right in here. -[Rhasha] Hi. 867 00:40:48,900 --> 00:40:50,333 If I'm ever gonna lose my virginity, 868 00:40:50,333 --> 00:40:54,100 I have to keep on putting myself out there and exploring my sexuality. 869 00:40:54,700 --> 00:40:57,100 [high-pitched] Oh! Oh! 870 00:40:57,100 --> 00:41:00,867 I definitely want to get suspended, but I don't want to die. 871 00:41:00,867 --> 00:41:02,266 Not a virgin. 872 00:41:02,667 --> 00:41:03,600 Wow! 873 00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:05,567 Everyone's just like, "Give him a chance." 874 00:41:05,567 --> 00:41:07,667 But if I'm not physically attracted to that. 875 00:41:08,367 --> 00:41:10,166 I'm tired of not having a sex life, 876 00:41:10,166 --> 00:41:12,567 but I get frustrated when people push me 877 00:41:12,567 --> 00:41:14,533 to do things I don't want to do. 878 00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:19,367 Go ahead. Go have that conversation by yourself. 879 00:41:19,367 --> 00:41:21,800 I am done with this [bleep] conversation. 880 00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:24,467 [Producer] Come on, guys. 881 00:41:24,467 --> 00:41:26,066 [Deanne] Ugh. Just leave me the [bleep] alone people 882 00:41:26,066 --> 00:41:28,200 because it's just like, it's never gonna work. 70245

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