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WOMAN: Previously...
You talk as though you're above them.
..the experts delivered some hard truths
at the Commitment Ceremony...
That's your problem.
..as Lauren and Clint
chose to leave the experiment.
MAN: I'm actually pretty embarrassed for you.
Can you see yourself falling in love with Rhi?
Yeah.
Love and happiness were on full display...
Can you see yourself falling in love with Jeff?
I can.
..as relationships continued
their positive progress.
I'm happy, you know. We're in a great place right now.
I'm also staying.
ALESSANDRA: That's an enthusiastic, big 'stay'.
We love it.
I defended you and your husband.
When? When?
Alessandra called out Jamie's fight style.
I'm like a mother bear.
Mama bears don't do this to their cubs.
When you somebody conduct themselves horribly,
emulating that, you become worse than the perpetrator.
And thanks to the experts' intervention,
a friendship was rekindled...
How I spoke to you,
conducted myself,
that was wrong, and I'm sorry.
Thank you, Jamie.
..before Jamie's bold declaration to Dave.
I said, "I love you. Like, I really love you."
OK, so you haven't said it back.
(PENSIVE MUSIC)
No.
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
Tonight...
(KNOCK AT DOOR)
Oh, my gosh.
What?! (LAUGHS)
Are you lying?
What's happening?
..the experiment enters a critical new phase.
We have decided to bring back a polarising element
of Feedback Week,
the partner swap.
Over two big nights,
Feedback Week will see temporary new pairings...
Honey, I'm home.
RHI: 'Jacqui will pack her bags and move in with Jeff.'
TEEJAY: 'Beth will pack her bags and move in with Ryan'. (LAUGHS)
..as these new combinations offer fresh perspective.
ELIOT: Rhi and Jeff - I see them as a kind of model couple.
Maybe there's something I can learn from this.
While some embrace Feedback Week and the partner swap...
That's really constructive.
Do you honestly think Dave and I will last beyond this experiment?
No.
..others will be put to the ultimate test.
I don't wanna be doing this.
What threatens to derail Paul's marriage to Carina?
Yeah. Wow. That is so wrong.
I'm quite of how she's gonna react.
(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
(JAUNTY MUSIC)
It's the morning after the fifth Commitment Ceremony,
and everyone is still processing
Lauren and Clint's confrontational couch session...
..which saw them face off with the group...
I do feel like the behaviour at dinner parties,
which is usually led by the four of you in the corner there,
is boganic behaviour.
..and resulted in the couple's abrupt exit
from the experiment.
JOHN: 'Leaving the zoo.'
And another barb.
I just feel like she still couldn't see
what was wrong with her behaviour. TEEJAY: Yeah.
She didn't have a spark with her husband,
she didn't care about anyone's opinion,
She couldn't learn anything from the environment,
and I'm really glad she's left,
because she caused a rift amongst all my friends.
And the rift Lauren created at the retreat
came to a head last night during Carina's couch session.
The behaviour that I saw at the girls' night,
it was like a 'Mean Girls' 2.0 environment.
JAMIE: You're still suggesting that I'm a mean girl.
I defended you and your husband.
And, in front of the experts,
Jamie doubled down on her defence.
I defend the cubs.
I'm like a mother bear.
ALESSANDRA: Mama bears don't do this to their cubs.
Your friends were intimidated by you.
And Alessandra's stern words helped Jamie to see the light.
Carina, that is my behaviour that was wrong, and I'm sorry.
Thank you, Jamie.
(THOUGHTFUL MUSIC)
I could see on your face that you're feeling a lot better.
Like, yeah, it's good. I'm glad.
Yeah, I feel like a massive weight has just lifted off my shoulders.
Yeah.
At the end of the day, like, I am here for you
and our relationship. Yeah, exactly.
So it feels so much lighter already between you and me,
knowing that that's sorted. Yeah.
And it means so much to me... Yeah.
..that you were literally by my side.
And that's all I could hope for.
Paul and I just got through a really tough time,
so now I'm feeling very energised.
I'm feeling really good in my relationship with Paul.
I feel like we are so connected
and we are on the same page,
like we were at the very beginning,
and we, yeah, couldn't be any better.
While Carina and Paul are ready to look ahead...
(JAMIE SIGHS)
..Jamie remains remorseful.
I took the retreat as, like, an opportunity
to just release
and say nasty things and hurt people with my words.
I was aggressive, like, all these things,
like, that I personally don't agree with.
But, like, I'm really trying to remind myself
that that's not who I am.
DAVE: You are a good person,
and you do have a good heart.
And I know that, because I know who you are.
(GENTLE MUSIC)
Thank you.
The only silver lining in this is Dave and I -
we've come closer together.
He was like, you know, just reassuring me,
and he comforted me the whole time.
It was the couple's strong bond
that prompted Jamie to reveal her true feelings.
Yeah, I covered his mouth.
I said, "I'm gonna say something,
"and I don't want you to say anything."
And I said, "I love you. Like, I really love you.
"Now goodnight," and I told him to go to bed.
OK, so you haven't said it back.
No.
I obviously have stronger feelings for Dave than he has for me.
I've said I loved him, and he hasn't.
But I do think he's got real feelings,
and we are talking a life beyond this experiment.
Just because he's not right where I am right now
doesn't mean he's not on his path to get there.
Jamie saying that she loves me six weeks in here
sort of caught me by surprise.
I'm not there yet with the love side.
I normally take a lot longer to... to say those words.
Jamie wasn't the only one to confess her love last night.
Our couch session was a bit cute.
(LAUGHS) It was a bit cute. Wasn't it?
Can you see yourself falling in love with Rhi?
(LAUGHS) Real hard-hitting.
Um...
Yeah. (LAUGHS)
Yeah.
So, Rhi, what about from your perspective?
Can you see yourself falling in love with Jeff?
I can.
I'm glad that happened, because, you know,
we haven't even talked about that ourselves, and...
..you know, I think without Mel sort of drawing that out...
Yeah. It wouldn't have probably...
It probably wouldn't have come out of my mouth otherwise.
(LAUGHS)
You know, Mel brought that out of Rhi last night,
and I didn't have to do it, so it made my job pretty easy.
I'm blushing again.
(CHUCKLES)
You know, I don't wanna get too far into the future,
but if it is like it is now, then it's gonna be awesome.
Ah! (GRUNTS)
(BOTH LAUGH)
Mwah.
(UPLIFTING MUSIC)
This morning marks a major milestone for our couples...
..as they embark on one of the most important phases
of the experiment...
..Feedback Week.
And this year, our couples are in for a major surprise.
It just... It just... (KNOCK AT DOOR)
Oh. (LAUGHS)
Baby, go get it.
(LAUGHS) Yay! Haven't heard a knock for a while.
I know.
Oh, my gosh.
Don't read it in your head. Read it out loud.
Ooh.
What? (LAUGHS)
No, what's happening?
'Carina and Paul, as the experiment enters its final weeks...'
'..may be contemplating whether your bond with your partner
'is strong enough to withstand life away from the experiment.'
'Sometimes the best perspective is an outsider's point of view'.
We have decided to bring back a polarising element
of Feedback Week,
the partner swap.
'For the next three days,
'Veronica will pack her bags and move in with Dave...'
What?
'..while Rhi will move into your apartment with Eliot.' (LAUGHS)
This is not about trading partners.
That's crazy.
This is designed to give a fresh perspective
to the relationship.
TEEJAY: 'Beth will pack her bags and move in with Ryan...' (LAUGHS)
Are you joking?
'..while Carina will move into your apartment with Teejay.'
(LAUGHS)
Are you... Are you lying? (LAUGHS) That's...
What the hell am I gonna learn from Ryan?
His relationship's a shitshow. What's he gonna do,
tell me to stop speaking and silence me?
I don't think so, mate.
If he does serve you up a large serving of bullshit...
..you can bite your lip.
I will absolutely not be biting my lip with Ryan.
'For the next three days,
'Jacqui will pack her bags and move in with Jeff
'while Beth will move into your apartment with Ryan.'
(LAUGHS)
(COUGHS AND LAUGHS)
You got Beth. Good lord.
She's gonna be such a nightmare for you.
No!
So, Beth's gonna be telling you what to work on.
You've gotta tell Beth what to work on.
I'm not seeing Beth help any relationship so far.
She's kind of, like, just been explosive or vulgar.
And if she's asking about our relationship,
it's gonna be, you know, sunshine and rainbows
as far as she's concerned. (CHUCKLES)
Thankfully, it's gonna be easy,
because Jacqui and I are in a really good spot.
How are you gonna go with Jeff?
I don't wanna go into their room. It's apparently...
Well, it's a studio.
I've been in it before. It's tiny.
So that's your biggest issue - is the size of the room?
Well, I'm a bit worried about Rhi.
She thinks, yeah...
Oh, can you imagine her reading the letter now?
She will be freaking out.
They'll be having a conversation now about it, like... (GASPS)
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
'For the next three days,
'Rhi will pack her bags and move in with Eliot...
'..while Jacqui will move into your apartment with Jeff.'
What?! (LAUGHS)
(LAUGHS)
Jacqui?
(SLURPS)
(LAUGHS) Oh, my god.
Well, she thinks you're a bit cute,
so that makes sense. (GROANS)
I don't think Jacqui has any feelings for me.
Well, I hope she has no feelings for me,
because, yeah, that would be very strange and uncomfortable.
Either way,
Jacqui's quite a lot.
This three days is gonna feel like three years, seriously.
(LAUGHS)
I'm really confident in mine and Jeff's relationship,
so I personally don't feel bothered by it.
I think it'll be very interesting.
She's not gonna wanna move back in with Ryan after living with you.
(LAUGHS)
While Rhi is finding some humour in the task...
..Eliot is looking at the positives.
I was not expecting this.
But it might be good for us.
It might be good to get some outside perspective
on day-to-day living.
Looking at Rhi and Jeff,
I see them as a kind of a model couple.
They have a really good understanding
of each other.
You contrast that with my relationship with Veronica.
I really find that there's kind of very little understanding.
Maybe there's something I can learn from this.
I'm curious to see how much reading you're gonna get done with Rhi.
(CHUCKLES)
I'm looking forward to seeing if Dave gets through the three days.
You think he might get...?
Why would he wouldn't get through the three days?
(LAUGHS) Why can't you...?
Why would you say that? You just...
What's a criticism, though?
You just had a dig at me because I'm always reading.
I'm not digging. I'm observing.
Yeah, no, I... So I can... It's an observation.
I read sometimes, and sometimes I don't read.
You read very often.
Yeah. OK. You do read a lot.
I'm not criticising.
I would say I spend less time reading
than you spend in the bathroom.
(TENSE MUSIC)
That's just... That's really just being honest.
OK, babe.
You are always negative towards me, and I don't know how to, like...
You literally just said... ..navigate it.
.."All you do is read."
I'm just addressing the things that you're saying...
No, you read all... ..that aren't true.
I said I under... I wonder if you'll read as much with me
as you will with Rhi. That's a snide remark.
It's not a snide remark. Of course I'm gonna...
BOTH: Obviously... No, it's not.
I'm allowed to address things.
Veronica didn't really tell me much about...
..what she's expecting.
It felt like she was just more focused on
trying to criticise me.
You never have anything positive to say to me.
Everything is so negative with you.
You know, I'm at the point where it's like
I need someone to move in here with us, basically,
to have a functional relationship with Veronica.
I'm done with this conversation now, Eliot.
I'm gonna go start packing my bags to move in with Dave.
Hopefully he's able to have a normal conversation with me.
I find that hard to believe.
I think Rhi will be much more reasonable,
like I'll know what...
..you know, Rhi is thinking, what she's trying to tell me.
(TENSE MUSIC)
While Eliot is looking forward to Rhi's perspective...
..across the hall,
Awhina is apprehensive.
Three days.
Adrian. It'd be weird for you, to be honest.
Why? What am I doing?
(CHUCKLES)
'Awhina will pack her bags and move in with...
(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
'..Paul.'
That is weird. That's weird.
(TENSE MUSIC)
Not really, though.
(TENSE MUSIC)
'..while Awhina moves into your apartment with Paul.'
(LAUGHS) What the (BLEEP)? No!
I don't like that.
No, I don't wanna do that.
Why Awhina out of all the girls?
A few weeks ago...
..Paul told me that he had a little fling back in the day...
..with Awhina's twin sister.
(TENSE MUSIC)
So, yeah...
You've already slept with her sister.
Now you're gonna sleep in the same bed as her.
(TENSE MUSIC)
Yeah, obviously thought... Yeah.
'Cause, like, your sister dated, like...
It is a bit odd.
He and my twin sister have a history prior to this experience.
Beautiful.
But they're both from Perth,
and they were very casual a couple of years ago.
I can't really remember the timeframe.
It was very short-lived.
But she had nothing bad to say about Paul,
so I feel like it'll be a breeze for me.
My twin sister and I speak every day,
maybe, like, two, three, four times a day.
She knows that...
I've spoken to her in regards to Paul being here
and saying that we've actually become,
like, good friends.
Paul's a really nice guy...
..so this doesn't need to be a big deal.
(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
My heart's racing. (CHUCKLES)
What's up? My heart is actually racing.
(TENSE MUSIC)
Look, I mean... (SIGHS)
..no hard feelings towards Awhina, but...
..Awhina and her sister look identical.
So I don't want Awhina moving into our apartment
and sleeping in our bed with my husband.
(TENSE MUSIC)
WOMAN: Our couples are in shock...
JEFF: Don't leave me. (LAUGHS)
Please?
No!
Do I get conjugal visits?
..after learning that, for the first stage
of Feedback Week,
the experts are reintroducing the partner-swap task.
Are you writing me a little letter?
That will be cute when I read that later.
The partner-swap task will allow our couples
to gain an outside perspective on their relationships
so they can make informed decisions when deciding their future
beyond the experiment.
JACQUI: What if she cuts our photos in half?
This is our shrine, and no-one's gonna touch it.
While this is unconventional and confronting,
it could also be the very thing
that gives our couples some much-needed clarity
over their relationships.
While Awhina's twin sister shares a past romance with Paul,
Awhina's been quick to embrace the idea
of moving into Paul's apartment.
How do you think it's gonna be living with Paul?
I actually reckon it's gonna be very easy.
Like, he and I have, like, formed a friendship here.
He seems pretty quiet.
Paul's a really nice guy. We are friends.
I'm telling you, I survived my husband
for the last eight weeks. I can survive anyone for three days.
(LAUGHS)
Do you think Carina and Paul are on the same page?
They seem pretty smitten with each other.
And they seem in a good place.
Are you gonna miss me? (LAUGHS)
No. (LAUGHS)
Yeah, me and Awhina are in a good place right now.
I think maybe she'll realise maybe she does miss me.
Maybe she might realise how good she has it.
Oops. (SNORTS)
Do not help me, please.
Thanks, babe. No, thanks.
(LAUGHS)
But down the hall...
..Carina's still struggling to come to terms with the idea
of Awhina moving in.
Are you OK? No, I'm not OK.
Oh.
I'm uncomfortable.
Oh, baby.
(DOWNBEAT MUSIC)
Oh, hey.
Sit down.
I'm just thinking about the fact
that I have to actively loan my husband out to Awhina
when Paul has history with her twin sister.
It's just weird.
Look at me. What's going on through your head at the moment?
Everything. I'm trying to process it all...
Yeah, I get it.
..and how, like, uncomfortable I am with it.
I get a bit protective and possessive,
and sharing my husband with another woman...
..it's like a form of cheating.
(SNIFFLES)
It completely goes against my values,
my religion,
the way I was raised.
(PENSIVE MUSIC)
So, before we start, I'll just say a very quick prayer.
Father, Son, Holy Spirit.
Amen. Dear Lord,
we thank you for...
I was born and raised as a Catholic.
I see it as a sense of community,
and it brings out the good in people.
Guys, help yourself, please.
(LAUGHTER)
Everyone dig in.
Yes, like,
I can be very conservative and traditional, but, you know,
from seeing my parents being married for almost 45 years,
and they met when they were 15 and 16.
I just think of marriage as like a fairytale -
you know, being married once and once only,
so that's where I come from.
For me, like, loyalty is everything.
I don't wanna do it.
(SIGHS) I don't. But...
(VOICE BREAKS) I don't agree with it.
Like, I don't wanna be doing this.
Like, this doesn't feel like it's gonna bring me closer to you.
Is there something that scares you? Are you scared of anything?
I'm not... No, I just... I just wanna...
..think it's very weird. It's like...
Yeah, maybe.
..the fact that, you know,
like, you'll be having a shower, and then she's, like, in the room.
I can't. It's just (BLEEP) weird,
and they're our... It's our bed.
(TENSE MUSIC)
The thing I've had with Awhina's twin sister, Cleo,
was two years ago,
and Carina has absolutely nothing to worry about.
It is weird.
I'm feeling hell awkward and weird about the whole thing as well.
I feel like Carina's just gone for a little holiday with Teejay.
That's it. (LAUGHS)
Yeah, honestly, I'm OK. Yeah, I'm fine with it. Yeah.
(TENSE MUSIC)
(KNOCK AT DOOR)
(SIGHS)
What the hell is that?
(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
AWHINA: Hi. (LAUGHS)
Oh shit. (LAUGHS)
How are you?
Carina's just there.
Hi. Are you OK? (LAUGHS)
Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm OK. Are you... Have you been crying?
Yeah, I just don't like this. Yeah.
She's... Yeah. Oh, mate.
Carina's feeling really uncomfortable
with the whole... Carina.
Carina and I were just having a chat about it,
and then, yeah, next minute Cleo walked in.
It was very awkward.
Kind of like didn't know where to stand.
I was like, "Oh." (CHUCKLES)
No.
(LAUGHS)
(BLEEP) Cleo, Awhina. Sorry.
You know what?
Adrian practically threw me out of the room.
(LAUGHS)
He was like, "Get out!"
(LAUGHS) He even told me he'll pack my bags.
(LAUGHS)
Oh, my gosh. (LAUGHS) He did.
(LAUGHS)
And you know what I was like?
I literally was like,
"This is gonna be a cruisy three days for me."
Like, it's a long time.
One night is fine.
A sleepover, no worries. But... Babe, sweetie, three days.
Saturday, we'll be back. (SIGHS)
Kind of understand where Carina is at with this task.
But I'm used to being in relationships
where my partner worked away,
so I don't think it's such a big deal.
Is Carina sad 'cause she's gonna miss you
or she feels uncomfortable living with someone else?
Well, she feels uncomfortable with the whole situation.
(TENSE MUSIC)
Literally from day one, you know,
I haven't done anything for Carina to not trust me.
So it does come across as Carina's, you know,
a little bit jealous about the situation.
All good?
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
OK, bye.
Bye, babe. Have fun.
You have fun with Teejay.
Yes, thank you.
Um, yeah...
I'll see you... See you, baby.
Come here. ..in three days.
(TENSE MUSIC)
(GROANS) This is... Oh...
Well, this is weird. (CHUCKLES)
(CHUCKLES)
(CHUCKLES)
I kind of just feel like it's like a friend sleepover now.
Yeah, legit.
But our reaction was definitely different
to yours and Carina's. (LAUGHS)
(TENSE MUSIC)
(CARINA SNIFFLES)
(CRIES)
(DOWNBEAT MUSIC)
Feeling overwhelmed with emotion...
..Carina's requested a temporary room to go to
until she decides whether or not
to participate in the partner-swap task.
I wouldn't be doing this in the outside world.
Like, you don't, like, sleep...
..do sleepovers.
Like, imagine if my husband was doing, like,
a sleepover with another woman,
like, that's just (BLEEP) weird.
Even if they're just friends,
like, it's...
Like, he'll be showering, and then she's, like,
in the room next door.
Like, that's just weird to me.
Like, I don't feel comfortable with that. (SNIFFLES)
(SIGHS) I trust him a lot, but it's just like...
..this doesn't seem right in my gut.
Like, I feel off about it.
(SOBS)
(POIGNANT MUSIC)
(UPLIFTING MUSIC)
WOMAN: The partner-swap stage of Feedback Week
has officially begun...
Time to go.
OK. Oh!
..and our brides are preparing to move into their new apartments
for the next three days.
Rhi is moving in with Eliot...
(LAUGHS)
Hey, hey. Hey.
Oh, my god. How are you?
How's it going? Good.
Oh, my goodness.
..and Jamie's going to be living with Adrian...
Oh, that is so cute.
I can't believe this is... You guys have sex on this bed.
..while Veronica moves in with Dave.
How fun, huh?
I was a bit nervous. I'm not gonna lie.
I was like, "Jamie loves me." (LAUGHS)
From what I've seen, Dave's quite a nice guy,
so I think this is gonna be a really chill couple of days.
But while the other participants
are settling into their temporary new homes,
Beth is taking her time packing to delay her move-in with Ryan.
I just feel like it's never been
a productive conversation with him at all, so...
Yeah.
The two of them clashed at the retreat
when Beth confronted Ryan for prioritising the gym
over intimacy with his wife.
You'd rather save your energy for the...
..the iron than her (BLEEP)? (JACQUI LAUGHS)
Excuse my language. Jeez Louise. No, well,
you better be excused... But like...
..because that's like... Come on,
you're being really, really blunt and offensive about it.
That's offensive.
I'm, like... I'm open to learning things,
but I'm like... I...
I hope I learn something.
So, Beth's gonna be telling you what to work on.
You've gotta tell Beth what to work on.
It could be a disaster when she comes in,
she's argumentative, she's rude,
and she could be on a reconnaissance mission
to try get up dirt on our relationship.
You know what? Jeff's gonna ask you a lot of questions as well,
you know? About you?
About me, about the relationship.
I think he's gonna be like,
"Jacqui, do you see, like, living forever with this guy?"
Are you nervous?
Well, I mean, not nervous,
but I know that you don't have much of a filter. (CHUCKLES)
Interesting.
Some people might wanna sort of dig in
and create a more divisive angle for this task,
but we've discussed it, like, four or five times already.
I've got faith that she's gonna speak on the work
that we've put in day in, day out to be better.
Just remember, like, outside opinions,
outside 'advice' has...
Is not helpful. ..has been helpful 1% of the time.
(LAUGHS) Yeah, I hear you.
I've discovered that Ryan has an extreme sense of masculine pride.
Ryan wants me to stay silent and just, like, put on a happy face.
But I do wanna get Jeff's opinion
and maybe even help Ryan understand gender equality and that, like,
traditional notions of masculinity are a little bit outdated.
But I don't want it to be like,
"Ryan, you need to be more like Jeff."
That would really destroy Ryan's pride and ego.
I can't even... (LAUGHS)
(KNOCK AT DOOR)
(LAUGHS) (SIGHS) I'll get it.
I'll get it. You stay here. I've got it.
(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
Oh, hi. Hi. You're still here.
Yeah. Hi.
(TENSE MUSIC)
Hi. Welcome.
Thanks.
Wow.
You guys have a lot of pictures.
Yeah.
Don't you? So that's the shrine over there.
Stunning.
Well, very interesting. Yeah.
When I walk into their home,
there's photos everywhere.
Like, they've got a shrine. They've got a shrine.
It's not the Jacqui and Ryan that we see, is it?
Yeah, welcome to our place.
Their relationship seems lovey-dovey.
(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
But when I see them together
at cocktail parties and dinner parties
and at the retreat, completely different relationship.
That's really shocked me,
so I wanna get to the bottom of the issues that they're having.
What did you feel when you saw the names on the note, on the task?
Um, it was 100% horror.
And I'm sure I probably wasn't your first choice either.
No, no. Yeah.
So, yeah...
I think about this with glee.
When Teejay and Beth open the envelope and saw my name,
how they squirmed. You know, it's delicious.
What?
Oh, yeah, um... (CHUCKLES) We might be...
We might be putting out a swear jar.
Yeah. (LAUGHS)
You've got to be (BLEEP) joking.
(COUPLE LAUGH)
The swear jar was like a bit of a gag,
but if she starts swearing at me, like, that'd be the end of it.
You can piss off out of here.
Well, I've already broke it. (COUPLE LAUGH)
That's OK. We can give you one warning.
(LAUGHS)
I won't be here to enforce the rules,
so I'll leave it in my... trusted hands of my husband,
who'll enforce the rules. Mm.
(TENSE MUSIC)
Beth's spent a lot of time judging our relationship,
just throwing out pure ignorance and vulgarity and swearing,
all that type of stuff.
So she's gonna get an insight into it
and hopefully maybe shut the (BLEEP) up as well.
(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
OK, well, I guess I'm going now.
Alright, I'll give you a hand. Thanks, Ryan.
Have fun. Thank you.
Enjoy my hubby. Bye.
(RYAN LAUGHS) I will.
(LAUGHS) I'll get the door for you.
Thank you.
While Beth puts on a brave face,
Jacqui has her own concerns over what she's walking into.
(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
Never had any hard feelings towards Jeff,
but I know Rhi is probably extra anxious.
Even just a friendly coffee triggered her
to react in this insane way.
Like, the smallest thing can upset her.
I reached out for support.
It was that I wanted a man's opinion about some of the things...
But you could have a man's opinion with me there.
A lot of girls can experience envy and jealousy,
and I wouldn't be surprised if Rhi's going through that.
(KNOCK AT DOOR)
So I know she's probably gonna take it out on me a little bit,
so I have to walk across eggshells while I'm in Jeff's apartment,
because everything I do
will probably be interrogated by Rhi.
Who could this be?
Hello, Jac. (LAUGHS)
Come in. Hello.
Who would have thought?
Who would have thought? How are you?
Good. Let me help you with your bag.
Thank you. Oh, very nice of you. (GRUNTS) Nah, all good. It's heavy.
I brought you something.
A dress to iron.
Sorry, to steam. (LAUGHS) (LAUGHS)
I need this steamed before the next DP,
so it's like, "Why not?"
I can steam that for you. Yeah, that'd be great. Thanks.
No issues. Come in.
Thank you.
Come, come.
Yeah, it's a... (LAUGHS)
I did find that quite funny, that Jacqui's walked in the door
and gone, "I've got a dress for you to steam."
I was like, "Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. #
Hopefully she settles in and chills out a little bit.
Hope you like salmon.
I love salmon. I actually brought my own salmon.
Oh, did you? Don't worry. I'll... I brought...
I'm gonna cook you a dinner tonight.
Yay! Oh, my god. Yeah.
I was like, "OK, I'm gonna show up with my dress ready to be steamed,
"my belly empty and..." (LAUGHS)
Jeff has been incredibly welcoming.
Salmon's my favourite, and it'll be the first time
that someone's cooked for me on this experiment.
(LAUGHS)
(TENSE MUSIC)
(CLEARS THROAT) Um...
I'm looking forward to
understanding more about your relationship.
You know, like, obviously,
you're probably gonna be curious and whatnot.
Yeah.
And I'll be as open as I choose to be.
We made a promise to each other
that we wouldn't get other people's opinions
and divulge details about our relationship.
So I trust Jacqui completely in that regard.
So, who has Jacqui gone to stay with?
She's going to be shacking up with Jeff.
Interesting.
And you're feeling fine about her going to Jeff's?
Yeah, absolutely. OK, that's good.
Yeah, yeah. That's great.
I think they're just gonna tiptoe around each other.
Yeah, OK. Yeah.
(LAUGHS)
Look at this. Put me on the tools straight away.
Do you enjoy doing this?
It's soothing.
I feel like I've been struggling to connect with Ryan
on certain levels,
and Jeff is just so hospitable.
(LAUGHS)
So I think the next few days with Jeff are gonna be great.
(LAUGHS)
I should have brought all my dresses. (LAUGHS)
Still to come,
Beth and Ryan go head-to-head.
If I've seen shit behaviour, I'm going to call it out...
Mm-hm. ..whether you like it or not.
We don't give a shit any more.
And Paul drops a bombshell.
When I told Carina about Cleo,
she said...
Wow.
(TENSE MUSIC)
(MOMENTOUS MUSIC)
WOMAN: The partner-swap phase of Feedback Week continues.
And for Eliot, the thought of getting another perspective
on his relationship has him buzzing with excitement.
I know that you're into health and fitness,
so I was like, "I'll run down and make a little fruit bowl."
Oh, thank you. That's so nice.
There's a lot of things about Jeff and her that work.
It's something to look to aspire to.
We really haven't spoken much,
but I know that you like health and fitness, so...
Thank you.
I really want to get to know Eliot a little bit
and see how he lives day to day
and if I can help their relationship in any way.
Do you want a hand with anything?
Nah, that's so fine. Thank you.
I won't be a sec. I honestly didn't pack that much.
As the new pairings settle in...
..the experts are hopeful the tasks they've devised
will help facilitate discussion and feedback.
Oh, what? PAUL: Is there... Oh. (LAUGHS)
Another bloody letter! Another letter.
It say 'Rhi and Eliot' on it?
(BOTH LAUGH)
'Beth and Ryan, a fresh set of eyes on your relationship
'can help you to explore the reasons why
'things are going wrong or build on what's going well.'
'In this task,
'you will each be required to write tough questions
'about your relationship...
'..seeking your new pairing's opinion.'
'These questions must be well considered and hard-hitting.'
MEL: For our participants,
the hard-hitting questions
will allow them to learn how others view their relationship -
the good and the bad.
'Be - underlined - brutally honest.'
'Don't waste this opportunity to face the hard truth head-on.
'The experts.'
By seeking their new pairing's opinions,
our hope is that they will learn some strategies to implement
into their own relationships.
I'm a very honest person, so I'm ready for it.
You are? Oh, god, yeah.
I had no idea. Oh, god, yeah.
(BOTH LAUGH)
WOMAN: And the first pairing
to take on the 'hard-hitting questions' task
are Rhi and Eliot.
ELIOT: Looking at Rhi and Jeff,
I don't think there's a lot I can really lend
to their relationship,
but I see them as a kind of a model couple.
Yeah, I look forward to finding out more about what's going on
in their relationship.
Alright, you ready? Ready.
Jeff and I dated for a month last year, and it fizzled out.
Can you see that happening again this time around?
Was it like,
um,
you were moving away from each other or...?
So, both of us had just come out of long-term relationships.
OK. And we were both the first person
that each other had dated. Oh.
So, if I'm being honest...
..the fact that you have kind of found each other before
tells me that there's a lot of suitability
between you two. Yeah.
Do you know what I mean? Yeah.
And now that you're in a better position...
..I don't think it'll fizzle out.
Like, watching you two together,
I can tell you kind of understand your differences and accept them.
I think that that's beautiful, yeah.
If I was gonna bet, I'd probably bet that it is gonna continue...
OK. Yeah. ..after this, right?
That's good to hear.
As much as Jeff and I are amazing,
we get on and I can't fault our relationship right now,
it feels great to have that confidence
from an outsider's perspective.
It's really nice to hear.
Alright, so, my turn.
To be honest, since the Commitment Ceremony,
I've had Veronica's motivations in question.
When we did have our worst week,
Veronica chose to go and confide in Lauren
and speak to her about the situation.
Just seems like...
..like I'm in this experiment
with someone that doesn't really like me.
(TENSE MUSIC)
And sometimes with Veronica,
it feels like she absolutely hates my guts.
So, like, the fact that Rhi is friendly with Veronica,
she can kind of give me a bit of a window
into what Veronica might be feeling.
Then, you know, maybe there's some hope that we can connect.
Based on the conversations that you've had with Veronica...
..what is your impression of what she thinks about me?
She mentioned that, you know...
..when she's walked into a room a couple of times,
like, you haven't made eye contact with her and...
OK. ..and you're a bit more closed off.
Right.
Look, I, like, switch off, read my book
and, like, have a bit of silence. Like...
Oh, definitely, yeah. Yeah.
She did mention that she wished
that you were a little bit more open.
I feel like there's the smallest things
that you would need to do to help that.
Yeah.
And it could just be that,
now that she's mentioned the eye-contact thing,
maybe just, yeah... Yeah.
..upping your game a little bit there.
Yeah. Seeing how you go.
That's really constructive. (CHUCKLES)
While Eliot opens himself up to Rhi's advice...
..Veronica's eager to raise her own concerns with Dave.
Do you think Eliot and I are emotionally compatible?
DAVE: It's clear to see that there's a disconnect
with you and Eliot.
From what I hear from your couch sessions,
you've been a lot more open than he has.
Yeah, it's been challenging.
Like, he doesn't tell me much about just even his day.
After what happened with Lauren, I think he's super, super cautious.
And until he's 100%, 120% sure about someone,
I don't think he's gonna let 'em in,
because he's actually probably pretty scarred.
He just isn't willing to hear that I've apologised,
and it does feel like he's not really overly excited
to, like, hear my opinion.
(TENSE MUSIC)
In any relationship,
whether it's a friendship or anything, you need to have...
Yeah. ..that sort of comfort in,
"Oh, you're gonna open up? I'll open up."
Yeah. If you're not getting that back,
then how are you gonna express yourself?
That's it.
Dave is very easy to talk to.
He offers his opinions openly.
We could talk all day long probably.
(TENSE MUSIC)
Do you think Veronica and I are a good match?
Um,
obviously, at the moment,
your couch sessions -
they're hard to watch,
because you can see that both of you mean well.
And, actually, if you did find that middle ground...
..I think that you and Veronica definitely have potential.
(GENTLE MUSIC)
I think that's a great way to look at it.
It's like we are a good match if we can learn to...
Yeah. ..speak each other's language.
Being able to have these conversations with Rhi
I think has been really helpful.
It kind of shows you that there is a path forward...
..and also maybe Veronica has picked up from Dave that...
..she has been a little bit too critical of me in certain ways.
Is Eliot your type?
(PENSIVE MUSIC)
Like, in terms of a relationship that I would wanna be in,
it's probably like you and Jeff.
I can see that, like,
you guys are considering your partners' needs.
Eliot wouldn't even know,
'cause he's not interested. That's..
You know? That's nice for you to say, though.
Yeah. That's good. That's cool.
Unfortunately, Eliot's not able to reach in
and talk about things that are, like,
a little bit more important or vulnerable.
And, therefore,
communication with Eliot is far more difficult.
(TENSE MUSIC)
I honestly feel like I've had more conversation with you
than I've had with him the whole time I've known him.
Yeah, I do feel like
I probably would have been better matched with Dave.
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
But I'd also be better matched
with probably almost every person on this floor.
(CHUCKLES)
I have PTSD from this paper. (BOTH LAUGH)
(TENSE MUSIC)
(JAUNTY MUSIC)
WOMAN: The experts have reintroduced
the partner-swap task as part of Feedback Week.
And despite her serious reluctance this morning,
Carina has decided to participate and move into Teejay's apartment.
(KNOCK AT DOOR)
Hi! (LAUGHS) Hey, roomie. How are you, darling?
Good. How are you? Good, thank you. Welcome.
(BOTH CHUCKLE) Wow. Isn't this...?
Isn't this a pleasant encounter?
Right? Your Airbnb for the next few days.
I know. This is so cool. Welcome. Make yourself at home.
Do you want a coffee or a tea or something?
I'm OK. Thank you. OK.
I've taken a bit of time to digest all of this
and process my many, many emotions
and feelings that are going on inside me.
Yeah, I'm trying to embrace more of what has come my way.
I'm, like, shook... Yeah?
..at all of this.
I'm just still trying to process everything,
to be honest with you.
I think I'm trying to look at this from a perspective of,
like, learning. Beth and I have obviously had issues
with that connection kind of thing, which you and Paul are super...
like, you guys are great at. Yeah.
So... it would be cool to see, I guess, a different perspective.
Although they've had a little bit of a tumultuous past,
they do have a really beautiful connection,
and that's something that I want Beth and I to build on.
Hopefully Carina opens up a bit to me,
and maybe then I can give a little bit of advice too.
I guess I didn't see it from that point of view.
I was coming from a place of, like, maybe, protection.
I think, maybe, I am falling for him more
than I thought... Yeah.
..because I am, like, very protective.
That's beautiful. I'm like, "That's my man."
Yeah.
Well, look, let me show you around.
(BOTH LAUGH)
You're currently in the lounge room. Wow. Yeah.
That, way over there, is the dining room.
I hope she feels more comfortable, you know, having the bed, and...
I'm gonna give her her own space and whatnot too, so...
I hope I can make her feel a little bit more comfortable
over these next couple of days.
And that's the tour. (CHUCKLES) Wow.
So, honestly, make yourself at home. Thank you very much.
Now that I've reflected on it,
I can see that if I did not care about Paul so much,
and what we are building,
I wouldn't find this as difficult as I have been.
Beautiful day in Sydney. OK.
Across the hall, Jamie is finding herself
right at home,
spending Feedback Week with her friend's husband, Adrian.
I actually think Adrian and I are quite excited. It's, like,
we actually get along, and we...
..we have very similar points of view.
Welcome home. (LAUGHS) This is so weird.
Veronica is probably the last person I wanted into...
..like, in my apartment.
Right now, like, I'm very much, like, in Eliot's corner.
Yeah. Yeah.
She really tries to make him look like
he doesn't validate her... That's exactly right.
..this, and... I don't know. Yeah. Yeah.
The minute she sits on the couch,
it's legit, like, a completely different person.
She always thinks she's gonna land with the experts.
Oh, yeah. And then he just goes, "No."
(CHUCKLES) Legit.
That's exactly what I said.
The scary thing is you and I often have the same thoughts.
Oh, legit. (CHUCKLES)
Already I felt like I'm coming over
and having a goss sesh with, like, my girlfriends.
'Cause me and Adrian were sitting there with our coffee,
and we were, like... (BABBLES) So off to a good start. (CHUCKLES)
Down the hall,
Beth is hoping to finally get some insight
into Ryan's marriage with Jacqui
as the pair take on the 'hard-hitting questions' task.
You ready to nail the task? Oh, we're gonna nail the task.
Mm-hm. (CHUCKLES)
As much as me and Ryan have clashed, I am happy to work around it,
because I do still wanna help him and his relationship.
Do you wanna start? I will start, yes.
OK.
I mean, obviously, I've come into the apartment,
and there's photos of them everywhere,
and they seem really happy, but why don't we see that, then?
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
So, first one is...
(CHUCKLES)
OK.
'Rather than having a one-on-one
'and being actually curious about mine and Jacqui's relationship,
'you've listened to other opinions
'and only taken a negative and judgemental view.
'Why is that?'
I mean, actions speak louder than words.
Our reception was going well, and then, I guess,
I feel like it kind of just got turned to shit,
because you and Jacqui had a blow-up.
(CLEARS THROAT)
It's a betrayal, no matter how you look at it.
JACQUI: It's not a betrayal, Ryan!
What's happening?
Who knows?
Dinner and a show, babe, innit?
The wedding wasn't our finest hour. Yeah.
But, since then, we've made a lot of progress.
Mm-hm.
And you could have asked questions along the way.
OK. Second question.
'It's not Jacqui and I's duty to satisfy your confusion,
'but what is the main aspect you want clarified?
'Being as you know very little about us.'
I don't understand how you can go from so hot to cold.
I'm talking for me and Teejay. It does not make sense to us.
That's all I ever hear from you and Teejay -
is, "I'm confused. It doesn't make sense."
It doesn't mean anything to us.
We don't give a shit any more.
As we're going through the challenge,
the way he's talking to me, and his questions,
are really starting to sink in, and I'm like, "Hang on.
"He's obviously using this challenge as, like,
"an opportunity to confront me
"and my behaviour and what he doesn't like about me,"
which is not what the challenge was.
'You've spoken quite aggressively against me and our marriage.'
Mm-hm.
'Is that the way you conduct yourself in real life
'when you don't have the facts?'
(TENSE MUSIC)
I've only heard bad things about your relationship,
and I've only witnessed bad things.
Of course I'm going to have nothing to say to you both.
Roger that.
'What would be your honest and helpful advice
'to Jacqui and I for the future?
'Instead of, maybe, attacking our sex life.'
'Cause you don't have any knowledge of how we conduct ourselves
as individuals or in the relationship -
only what you've "heard".
And seen.
If I've seen shit behaviour,
I'm going to call it out... Mm-hm.
..whether you like it or not.
The way Ryan went into the task
was actually not to hear what I had to say at all.
It was just to have a dig at me.
He didn't really take any accountability
for what he does.
So, yeah, I think it's kind of just summed up
how I was already feeling about Ryan, to be honest.
Cool. Done.
I think he's a complete and utter (BLEEP).
WOMAN: Our participants continue
to face the task designed by the experts.
And after having the day apart from his wife,
Paul is ready to present his hard-hitting questions
to Awhina.
I've even put the pillow fort there. I'm respecting boundaries.
(BOTH CHUCKLE)
That's interesting. Need to have a barricade.
I think Carina and Paul
are one of the strongest couples here,
throughout this entire experiment.
So I'm interested to see Paul voicing his concerns.
OK, so, the first one.
Um...
It's probably, like, the one that... (SIGHS)
..probably worries me the most.
So... 'After seeing Carina's reactions today,
'about moving us together,
'do you think she is a jealous person,
'and that this could be an issue in our relationship in the future,
'and why?'
Hmm.
(TENSE MUSIC)
(CHUCKLES)
Oh...
God, you hit me straight with the hard one.
(BOTH CHUCKLE)
Hmm.
I could see she was visibly upset, clearly.
Yeah.
(CHUCKLES) Really upset over this challenge.
And I know Carina - or anyone, really -
would feel uncomfortable with someone,
a female, coming into the apartment for three days with their partner.
Yeah.
But, then again, I laughed.
(BOTH CHUCKLE)
It's a hard one.
I could understand feeling upset with the situation,
but, then again,
I'm really good friends with Paul and Carina.
You know what I mean? So,
like, I'm not sure what she could be jealous of.
The reason why I'm asking that is because she did say to me,
before you walked in...
that, if it would have been any other girl,
she would have probably felt a lot better
about the whole situation.
Wow.
You know, because I've had the thing with...
..with your sister, and blah, blah, blah.
And then she's... She's a massive overthinker,
and then she's... Yeah.
..started overthinking a lot of things.
Hearing him say that, it definitely frustrated me.
Like, we're friends.
I thought we were in a healthy place.
But, also, twins aren't the same people.
They have their own identity.
Cleo and I, we're so different.
(TENSE MUSIC)
If anything,
Carina should be reassured in knowing
that I would never want to sleep in a bed
with someone my twin sister has. (CHUCKLES)
Legit.
(BOTH CHUCKLE)
Right?
It's hard, 'cause I am, like, not a jealous person,
and I trust you so much, and...
(TENSE MUSIC)
I think, in your relationship,
you might struggle later on.
So, right now, you guys are still in that honeymoon phase.
You give her those affirmations. You're reassuring her.
Yeah.
You guys are quite physically connected.
But relationships aren't always like that.
I am worried that if she's feeling uncomfortable now,
when you're in a good place... Yep.
..imagine when you're not in a good place.
That's probably when those jealous tendencies
will probably rear their ugly head -
when you are going out with the boys...
Yeah.
..and whether or not she trusts you.
It's nice to see that Awhina obviously agreed about,
you know, Carina potentially being a jealous person.
You know, like, it's not just in my head.
I'm giving her so much. I'm doing everything for her.
I've told her everything - you know, my past, everything.
Literally, I'm doing everything to make her feel safe and to...
..to make her feel that I...
I can be fully trusted. You know what I mean?
It was very clear as day.
Paul felt a little hurt by Carina's reaction.
And it really, kind of, showed me
they aren't just a picture-perfect couple.
They have some very real issues, clearly.
How would you navigate being in a relationship with someone
who might be quite jealous?
It would push me away, like, big time.
(TENSE MUSIC)
Coming up...
When I told Carina about Cleo...
..Paul doubles down.
..she said...
"Yeah."
So I feel like she's a bit of a snob sometimes.
"And, I'll be honest with you, this is giving me the ick."
Wow.
(OMINOUS MUSIC)
It's the first night of the partner-swap stage
of Feedback Week,
and both Beth and Ryan are eager to fast-forward through this phase,
so are calling it an early night.
Alright. Alright.
What a day.
Challenging, but raw honesty was needed.
Living with Ryan sucks.
The way Ryan wrote those questions today
has proved he's really disrespectful.
That's just who he is.
We're gonna both do the bed. We'll put a pillow in the middle.
Pillow fort. Yep. Definitely.
Living with Beth - it's pretty terrible,
almost from the moment she walked in.
And, honestly,
we're just two people coexisting at the moment.
Well, this is weird, isn't it? It's not not awkward.
Yep.
It's the first thing you're gonna see. (CHUCKLES)
I think living together has given me, like,
a new appreciation for Jacqui and I.
We've both been, like, texting each other -
like, "Miss you." "Miss you."
And, yeah, this...
..this will bring Jacqui and I closer together.
Goodnight. Goodnight.
(QUIRKY MUSIC)
JEFF: This is delicious.
Uh... And then we use the sauce,
and we dribble it over the mash later.
Oh, wow.
Jeff's insisted on giving me the bed, washed all the sheets,
he's cooking me dinner...
Right now, I feel so happy and relieved and...
This is exactly what I wanted.
Just treat this like a holiday.
You're in a resort - get dinner cooked for you.
(LAUGHS) Having a red wine.
Ryan has never cooked for me in this experiment,
and the food he eats,
I would not want to be cooked for me.
Oh, my gosh! There you go.
Thank you. All good.
This is my dream evening with a partner,
and it's a shame that I haven't been able to experience that
with my match. Yeah.
That's insane.
(BOTH CHUCKLE)
Literally. It's good, isn't it?
It's so good. Yeah.
While Jacqui's on cloud nine, thanks to Jeff,
Jamie and her new BFF, Adrian,
are decompressing from the day with a girls' chat.
We're a package deal now.
I know.
I think I've got two wives now.
One was hard enough. Now I've got two.
(CHUCKLES)
If this was a competition,
I'd like to say we won. I think so, by far.
Dave and Veronica might be having a few laughs,
but more fun? No.
Oh...
(BOTH LAUGH)
I know!
Look, if these are my last words, "Mum, I love you."
It's actually a big bed, though. It's actually, like...
There's so much room for activities.
No activities. No activities.
All I request is this blue blanket and one pillow.
Of course. That's it.
You sure you don't want me to sleep...?
No. I actually prefer the...
..the couch. Really?
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Been on the couch many a time.
Tonight I did hear from Paul, and Awhina was on speaker.
He cooked gnocchi,
which he told me he was gonna cook for me. (LAUGHS)
Alright. Goodnight, darling.
Alright. Goodnight.
Trying not to overthink and get inside my head,
because my brain will just spiral.
OK. Shutting the light now. Goodnight, roomie.
But if I found out that she did sleep in the bed,
far out. I would be pissed off.
(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
(PAUL LAUGHS)
AWHINA: You are a very big man.
(BOTH LAUGH)
And you will not fit on this couch. And watch this.
I fit on it actually perfectly.
The beds are massive...
..but, because of Carina's reaction to this task,
yeah, I'll respect Carina's boundaries.
Goodnight, honey.
(BOTH LAUGH)
(BOTH LAUGH)
Alright. Well, you sleep well.
(BOTH CHUCKLE)
Ciao.
(CHUCKLES)
Alright. Goodnight.
See... Uh, no. What's...?
Ah!
No. It's stayed on. No. (LAUGHS) There we go.
(BOTH CHUCKLE)
(REFLECTIVE MUSIC)
(UPLIFTING MUSIC)
WOMAN: The second day of Feedback Week
brings with it a brand-new task devised by the experts.
(KNOCK AT DOOR)
Oh. (CHUCKLES) (BLEEP) Ready. (BLEEP).
I'll grab it.
Oh, another one!
What now? Another letter!
And Awhina and Paul
and Carina and Teejay
are going to be the first pairings to tackle it.
Are you excited? (CHUCKLES)
Somehow I feel a bit nervous about that one. (CHUCKLES)
Yeah, me too. (CHUCKLES)
I'll let you do the honours. (CHUCKLES)
'It's easy to become complacent
'when you are spending every day with your partner.'
'Take this pen and paper
'and write an honesty letter...' Holy (BLEEP).
Holy shit.
'When you've completed your letter, read it loud to each other.'
'Something about your relationship that's been weighing on your mind.'
(SIGHS)
Everyone's got concerns in their relationship...
Yeah.
..and sometimes it's hard to vocalise that to your partner.
The honesty letter is designed to allow the participants
to lay everything out on the table,
particularly issues that have been holding them back
from forming a deeper connection with their partners.
Things are getting serious with my relationship with Paul.
I'm excited, to be honest.
Like, if Paul and I keep going the way we are,
I can definitely see myself falling in love with him.
But then I know that I have, yeah, been thinking a lot about...
..when it comes to the religion aspect.
So, yeah, I thought I would, you know,
get Teejay's opinion.
I'm done. You ready?
Yeah.
(POIGNANT MUSIC)
(SIGHS)
'My darling P...
'..I've learned so much about you through the journey
'of this experiment, and I love spending time with you.
'The one thing that's been worrying me
'is how you aren't religious,
'and how we both may have different ways of raising a family.
'I don't want to scare you off,
'but I hope this can open a conversation up
'around our different views about this.'
Yeah. Beautiful.
That's the hardest thing you have to cross in a relationship.
You guys are doing very well. Yeah.
I think there...
there would be a compromise that would be amicable for you both.
Carina and Paul are focusing on the future,
and it was cool to hear Carina's already thinking about children.
It's beautiful to see.
That's probably the toughest thing I've got to encounter.
Do you wanna go first?
Yeah, sure. I'll go first.
I feel like you've got a lot to unpack there, so...
Yeah, there's actually quite a few, yeah.
I've had a little bit of time away from Carina now.
Yeah, and of course her reaction yesterday made it clear...
..there's a few things that have been,
you know, bothering me a little bit.
OK, so...
'Before coming into this experiment,
'I told myself I wasn't going to make the same mistakes
'I've made in my previous relationship,
'which was ignoring the red flags,
'because of the fear of the relationship failing.
(POIGNANT MUSIC)
'After 12 months of engagement, her true self came out,
'and I realised that we weren't as compatible as I thought we were.
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
'My fear is that this may be happening with Carina.
(TENSE MUSIC)
'I feel like she is a bit of a snob sometimes...
'..and can come across as very judgy.
'And, I'll be honest with you, this is giving me the ick.
(OMINOUS MUSIC)
'Now, when...'
(CHUCKLES)
When I told Carina the reason why I knew you,
she made a comment about Cleo that...
..sort of gave me the ick.
She said...
Yeah. Wow.
(TENSE MUSIC)
(TENSE MUSIC)
PAUL: When I told Carina about Cleo...
..she said, "Oh, I didn't know
"you would go for that kind of calibre."
Yeah. Wow.
You know?
'So I feel like she is a bit of a snob sometimes
'and can come across as very judgy.
'And, I'll be honest with you, this is giving me the ick.'
(TENSE MUSIC)
Ooh.
Saying someone's in a different calibre to you,
you're essentially saying you're better than them.
I would love to know what makes you better
than my twin sister.
Oh, that was heavy.
The 'calibre' comment -
is that because my twin sister's covered in tattoos?
Well, yeah.
And that's...
And that's something that really gives me the ick,
because that's not who I am.
Like, I'm not gonna judge someone because they have tattoos,
or because of where they're from - stuff like that.
Yeah. My twin sister owns her own house,
and she doesn't work for a family business.
Like, that... I don't know. That comment - like...
I would never, ever say these things to people.
Where are you in your life, Carina, to look down at my twin sister?
Exactly.
I could also, in return, judge you.
I know you live at home with your family.
I know you work for your family's business.
I could then call you an entitled, sheltered princess.
Do not say my twin sister's in a different calibre, babe,
'cause she is,
and the different calibre is a different way.
I'll tell you that.
No. (CHUCKLES) That was really... I knew... I knew that was gonna...
No, my twin sister... I knew that was gonna upset you.
My twin sister is beautiful.
She's an amazing auntie. She's loving.
And I don't like fake people.
I don't like people who think they're better
than other people.
I actually would have loved for Carina
to have said that comment to me. I would have loved it.
Because of all these little comments that she's made, here and there,
I have a feeling that we might not be as compatible as we...
..as we think we are.
And, yeah, I'm not gonna lie -
I'm quite scared of how she's gonna react
if I ever bring those things up.
Is she gonna full attack? Is she gonna deflect?
Is she just gonna...?
Is she gonna just, like, lose her shit
or start crying or whatever?
No, bring it up.
Yeah, OK. Yeah, bring it up.
(TENSE MUSIC)
You've gotta have raw honesty in a relationship.
Yeah. You can't just sugar-coat things.
Yeah.
I'm really pissed off.
Carina and I had a good friendship.
We were texting.
We were supposed to go on a double date.
So to know she's made 'calibre' comments
about my twin sister,
which extends to me, that is so wrong.
Trust me - like,
I'm not gonna let her get away with it.
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
WOMAN: Tomorrow night...
..Adrian's brutal feedback.
Jamie asks Dave the hard questions.
Are we having a lack of sex
because you're not in the 'love' stage?
I feel like... Yes or no.
(LAUGHS)
RHI: Oh. JEFF: I missed you.
And our couples are reunited after spending three days apart.
Being away from Rhi,
it made me realise how much I really want this to work.
You are so cute. (CHUCKLES)
However, not everyone will receive a warm welcome.
'She can come across as very judgy.
'You said to me that you were surprised
'that I would go for that kind of calibre.'
CARINA: Wow.
Paul faces up to what he confessed behind Carina's back.
I didn't see any of that coming from Paul.
Bit of a slap in the face.
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