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NARRATOR: Previously...
ALESSANDRA: What happened?
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LAUREN: Clint was doing the dishes.
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(CURIOUS MUSIC)
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In my ideal relationship,
it would be the other way around.
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Lauren's comments about Clint
left the room speechless.
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With Clint, that alpha male,
I just don't feel like it's there.
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And then some fun in the sun
at the retreat...
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(WOMAN SQUEALS AND MAN SHOUTS)
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..was exactly what most
of the couples needed.
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Having that change of scenery
was just perfect for us,
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I think, to just have
a little reset.
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(WOMAN SQUEALS)
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But when the group questioned
Lauren's feelings for Clint...
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You are so lucky.
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You actually have no idea
what you're talking about.
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No, don't... Watch your tone.
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..all hell broke loose
at the final night drinks...
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No, no, no. No, no.
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Don't even go there.
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..when Jamie didn't get the support
she wanted from her friends.
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Chill out!
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Don't back her up!
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Sydney can hear you now.
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When it serves you well,
when I'm yelling for you,
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then it's okay.
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But where is my defence?
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(TENSE MUSIC)
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JAMIE: Tonight is giving justice
for Jamie.
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Jamie is on a mission.
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It's all about seeing
who's gonna back me.
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Let's see who the F are my friends.
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How are you defending this?
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What do you mean,
you're attacking me!
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Shut your mouth.
EXPERTS: Ooh!
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Friendships implode...
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You are my friend!
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..as Jamie lashes out.
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How are you going to defend Lauren?
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It was like 'Mean Girls'.
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Who are you calling a mean girl?
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Will she get an apology
from Carina and Rhi?
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I've said a million times,
"Apologise."
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Oh, my God.
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(UPLIFTING MUSIC)
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NARRATOR: It's the day after
the couples' retreat,
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and the returning brides and grooms
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are enjoying their
post-retreat glow...
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Green again.
Oh, looking good. Wow.
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..feeling refreshed and ready
for the fifth dinner party
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of the experiment.
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For Awhina and Adrian,
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the couples' retreat
sparked a remarkable turnaround
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for their marriage,
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helping them overcome past struggles
and reconnect as husband and wife.
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I enjoyed Byron.
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I don't know about everyone else
but I had a good time.
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I had a good time.
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Adrian and I
had a great time together.
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The retreat
was exactly what we needed.
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I was leaving, like, a bit giddy.
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Yes, there was a lot of drama,
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but, he and I,
our relationship got stronger.
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So, even though there was drama
amongst the group,
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there wasn't between he and I,
so I left feeling better.
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Down the hall...
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(TENSE MUSIC)
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..Jacqui and Ryan
encountered an early challenge
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during the couples' retreat
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when Jacqui revealed to the group
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that Ryan abstains from
sexual activity before exercise,
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believing it helps preserve
his testosterone levels
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for optimal physical performance.
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So, can I ask you a question?
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With Ryan, he, like, really cares
about training all the time.
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WOMAN: Training.
(JACQUI CHORTLES)
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He only wants to have sex
if he's not training.
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What is your connection between
testosterone and sex and the gym?
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I know.
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I feel ridiculous,
I feel ridiculous...
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Then say it!
..talking about this, right?
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Say it 'cause it is ridiculous!
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Yeah.
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If she can't respect our privacy,
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if she can't respect building
a connection with discretion,
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then this is not going to last.
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Moving forward,
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sex life should be
between the two people.
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And, if it happens again,
this relationship's over.
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I think, with that night
of the retreat,
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like, emotions were running high
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and, yeah, like, we really
needed to establish a few boundaries
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when it comes to
talking about our sex life.
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But, yeah, it was addressed
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and, yeah, like,
I'm really happy with where we are.
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So, basically,
the couples' retreat,
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in regards to
the testosterone thing,
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I thought that would paint him
in a positive light
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because he's got great discipline.
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You know, he puts his gym
before having sex with a woman,
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which I think is
an admirable quality for a man.
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But he took it
as an offensive thing of like,
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"I'm not pleasing my wife."
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And so he got upset about that
at the moment
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and now he's turned around.
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And then Ryan and I
were sexually intimate.
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So, yeah, we had sex this morning.
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(WOMEN SQUEAL)
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Wow!
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(LAUGHTER)
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Good. Fantastic.
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Can I say, Jacqui,
now you can be like,
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"Ah, my plan worked all along."
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Exactly.
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And now I feel like
we're in a really good place.
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Cheers to a dinner party.
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I feel so happy for
this dinner party.
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Like, it's the first one
I've actually looked forward to.
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Yeah, um, I mean,
we've been through so much,
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and we're still...
we've come out of it,
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so I feel like
there's nothing, really,
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that is going to
really get to us anymore.
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The only thing
that could get to us is ourselves.
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Your new nickname is Mr Sensual.
You look beautiful.
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Mr...
Mr Sensual.
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Yeah, we're all smiles and looking
to see what the future holds for us.
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It's nice to feel that.
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While Jacqui and Ryan
put their argument behind them,
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trouble is brewing
elsewhere for Ryan.
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BETH: I mean, obviously,
the retreat was chaos.
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There was a lot of drama.
There's a lot to unpack.
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But, tonight at the dinner party,
I do want to talk to Ryan
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because he called me classless.
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So, you'd rather save your energy
for the iron than her (BLEEP)?
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Where's your class?
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Where's your class?
That's really classless, Beth.
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Apparently, after that,
at the boys' night,
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Ryan asked Teejay if he was okay
with my behaviour and how I acted.
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I was so disappointed and angry
at the fact that Ryan...
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basically trying to get my husband
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to, like, question who I am
and my behaviour.
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I don't like that.
It feels dirty. It feels sly.
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Like, talk to me about it.
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It just feels bad.
It feels like shit, honestly.
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But then I've heard that
he apologised to Teejay
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for calling me classless,
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but he hasn't apologised to me
for calling me classless.
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And, if he's got an issue
with the way I acted,
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then he needs to talk to me
about it.
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And, if he wants to apologise,
apologise to me.
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So, yeah, I definitely wanna have
a conversation with Ryan tonight.
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But Beth isn't the only
one walking into tonight
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with a score to settle.
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(MOROSE MUSIC)
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The turbulent retreat
put friendships to the test
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after the girls' night
exposed underlying tensions.
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LAUREN: I'm over it.
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Lauren, don't be rude,
don't do that,
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'cause we've all backed you and
you're gonna look really silly.
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That attitude is just unreal
right now.
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She's such a snob.
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And the final night saw simmering
tensions finally boil over.
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I'm only talking to...
Jamie.
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..people I'm in (BLEEP) with.
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Bring it down a bit.
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You're actually
embarrassing yourself.
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Sit the (BLEEP) down.
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Sit the (BLEEP) down,
both of you.
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Guys, just give him grace.
Like, it is a lot.
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I'm listening to this
and I'm getting sad listening.
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Carina, come on, man.
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Don't play the Switzerland card
on me.
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The delivery could have been
a little bit better.
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Thank you, Rhi.
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Rhi, come on!
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I've had your back.
I've had everyone's back.
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Defend me, maybe!
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(DESPONDENT MUSIC)
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I'm so sick of being, like,
the bad guy or this and that
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because I speak up, I say things.
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When it serves you well, when I'm
yelling for you, then it's okay.
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But where is my defence?
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(LAUREN GIGGLES)
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I think, yeah,
I'm still really upset,
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like, really... like, really hurt.
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Like, for me, like,
the people in this experiment,
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Like, I considered,
like, real friends.
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They majorly let me down.
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(INTROSPECTIVE MUSIC)
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And it is so gut-wrenching.
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Um, look, after the retreat,
it's been tou...
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Like, it's been tough.
It really has.
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Like, I feel just really, like,
hurt and disappointed, I'd say.
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The thing is I don't really care
about Lauren and Clint.
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The reason I feel let down
at the retreat
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is because my friends didn't step in
and come into my support.
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And not only are they
not coming to my defence,
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but they're also, like, speaking up
for the person
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that is, like, you know,
inflicting this onto me.
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It was...it was so embarrassing
because I'm looking at Lauren,
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who's quite smug
because she's watching now
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all my relationships
implode onto me.
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At that point, I could have just
broken everything in my path.
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Like, I'm...
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I felt so hurt and embarrassed
that I became so angry.
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So, like, I stopped caring about
what was going on with Lauren
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and, to me, I'm like, this is now
a real issue what's gone on here
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because these people, well,
these are supposed to be my friends.
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Carina and Rhi chose to
be vocal in a group setting
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in defence of Lauren.
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Why would you even risk your
relationship with me for Lauren?
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I'm very upset with
Rhi and Carina in particular.
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Rhi and Carina and her husband
owe me an apology.
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This is the time
you choose to show empathy
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because you're upset
how things happened with Lauren?
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Yeah. Yeah.
What?
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I'm actually not going to lie.
Like, I'm...
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I'm feeling super anxious.
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I haven't spoken to Jamie
since that night,
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so I don't know
how she's going to feel towards me.
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Jamie and I have gotten really close
throughout the experiment.
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I definitely, yeah, navigate
towards more of a friendship
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and a bond with Jamie.
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So, yeah, that's probably
the saddest part
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after what happened
at the couples' retreat.
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But I don't agree
with her behaviour.
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Don't get me wrong, I don't think
the words that Lauren used
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were the correct wording.
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But, again, when you are
getting aggression thrown at you,
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people standing up at you,
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you, like, can't even
answer a question
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because so many questions
are getting thrown your way
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at the same time,
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obviously, your blood does boil
and you get defensive,
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and I don't like to see anyone
pretty much pinned to the wall,
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even Lauren.
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You know,
I think I did the right thing.
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Hopefully, Jamie understands
my point of view.
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RHI: After the retreat, obviously,
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Jamie, she was pretty standoffish
towards me.
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I mean, hopefully, she's had a bit
of time to reflect on what happened.
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Yeah.
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I never actually, you know,
supported Lauren's behaviour.
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Yeah, for sure.
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Obviously, like,
Jamie didn't feel supported
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on the last night of the retreat,
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and I tried to explain, like,
how I was actually supporting her
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while also being there for Lauren.
248
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But I never stood up
for Lauren's bad behaviour.
249
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I'd already spoken to Lauren twice
about how I felt
250
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about her behaviour
towards the group and her language.
251
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But also, too, like,
you chased Lauren out
252
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because you're a nice person
and you wanted to check how she was.
253
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Like, she's crying, so...
254
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It's like a catch-22.
255
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I'm just trying to be a good person,
yet I feel like it hasn't served me.
256
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I feel like Jamie and I
have had a good relationship
257
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this whole experiment.
258
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It would really be a shame
if something like that, you know,
259
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stopped our friendship from being.
260
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The girls, like...
261
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When you put 'em on the spot,
you're going to find out which ones
262
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are gonna, sorta, have your back.
263
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Tonight, like, it's all about
seeing who's gonna back me.
264
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Like, I was majorly let down
at the retreat,
265
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and I'm genuinely kind of keen to
hear where everyone stands on it.
266
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I'm ready. Are you ready?
Yeah.
267
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Tonight is giving justice
for Jamie.
268
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It's just giving.
269
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It's giving justice for Jamie.
270
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Let's see who the F are my friends.
271
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Let's go, kid.
272
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Bring on tonight, I guess.
Let's do this, huh?
273
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As the brides and grooms gear up
and brace themselves
274
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to face the fallout of
the couples' retreat,
275
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Lauren and Clint have made
an unprecedented decision.
276
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(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
277
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
278
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In an experiment first,
279
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Lauren and Clint have decided
to boycott tonight's dinner party
280
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and have one of their own.
281
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Absolutely no part of me
wants to be at that dinner party.
282
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I'm sure Jamie will have
her batteries fully charged,
283
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ready to start screaming and yelling
from the moment she sits down.
284
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(MUSIC CONTINUES)
285
00:13:45,440 --> 00:13:50,360
And I have absolutely no desire
to ever be in a room
286
00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:52,680
with that little troll ever again.
287
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(EPIC MUSIC)
288
00:14:00,320 --> 00:14:01,600
JACQUI: Whew!
289
00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:09,000
RHI: Today's probably the least I'm
looking forward to a dinner party.
290
00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:11,760
You know, Jamie is one of
our good friends,
291
00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:14,840
and now we've got, like, a bit
of a misunderstanding situation.
292
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Just makes you automatically feel...
293
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Off.
Off. Yeah, off's a good word.
294
00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:24,040
This is the first time
there's ever been a divide.
295
00:14:24,120 --> 00:14:27,800
Well, do you know what?
There didn't have to be a divide.
296
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If everyone stood up
for what is right...
297
00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:34,920
Will everyone become friends again?
Who knows?
298
00:14:35,920 --> 00:14:37,360
Who knows?
299
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JOHN: Well, here we are.
300
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Next dinner party
following the couples' retreat,
301
00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:45,120
and we're now over halfway
in the experiment.
302
00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:48,880
This experiment is all about
throwing real-world challenges
303
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at the couples,
304
00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:53,760
and going away with a group
happens all the time for people.
305
00:14:53,840 --> 00:14:56,840
And it's how they manage
the different personalities
306
00:14:56,920 --> 00:15:00,800
and, if there are rivalries
and friendships,
307
00:15:00,880 --> 00:15:05,840
support networks, all of those
really get put to the test.
308
00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:07,040
Yes.
309
00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:09,440
So, I wonder how
that's impacted their relationships
310
00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:10,840
and where they're standing today.
311
00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:12,240
That's right.
312
00:15:12,280 --> 00:15:14,520
I guess we're about to find out.
313
00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:18,720
(SINISTER MUSIC)
314
00:15:18,800 --> 00:15:21,160
LAUREN: We should start writing
a menu for a dinner at home.
315
00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:23,400
Should we get some oysters?
316
00:15:23,440 --> 00:15:25,120
Definitely oysters.
317
00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:26,320
Maybe some prawns.
318
00:15:26,400 --> 00:15:27,760
Maybe we could do...
Let me get some caviar.
319
00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:30,320
We should do a helicopter flyby
around the side of the window
320
00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:33,760
while they're having dinner and,
like, throw prawns at them from.
321
00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:36,720
The group thinks that
we think we're better than them,
322
00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:39,400
and we definitely do feel like
we're better than some people
323
00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:40,840
in there, that's for sure.
324
00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:42,600
I think we've made
the right decision.
325
00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:44,600
I know we have, actually.
326
00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:46,120
There's just no point.
327
00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:49,120
Like, they're getting worked up
about us
328
00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:51,080
and we're not worked up about us.
329
00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:55,440
Um, so, Lauren and I, at the moment,
are getting along great.
330
00:15:55,520 --> 00:15:58,240
Um, I think the couples' retreat
only helped us.
331
00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:00,720
We learnt more about
each other again.
332
00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:03,000
Definitely, some spark there for me.
333
00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:05,360
So, yeah, I'm looking forward
to tonight.
334
00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:08,080
Mm.
335
00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:09,520
Yeah.
Mm.
336
00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:12,640
Yeah, absolutely.
337
00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:19,400
Clint and I, we're normal.
338
00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:21,760
We're the same as we are
every other day.
339
00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:22,960
Um...
340
00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:28,440
We are good friends.
341
00:16:28,480 --> 00:16:29,680
You get along well.
342
00:16:29,760 --> 00:16:34,840
We can have dinner tonight and talk
about e-com strategies and, um...
343
00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:39,000
..important, you know,
good things in life.
344
00:16:39,080 --> 00:16:42,880
We don't have a spark,
um, and that's it.
345
00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:46,440
What do you reckon they'll say
that we're not there?
346
00:16:46,480 --> 00:16:47,680
(TENSE MUSIC)
347
00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:49,720
I just... I honestly have
no time for any of them.
348
00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:50,760
No.
349
00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:54,040
I'd rather eat dirt than go and sit
and have dinner with Jamie.
350
00:16:54,080 --> 00:16:55,080
Yeah.
351
00:16:56,680 --> 00:16:58,480
Maybe we can add that to our menu.
352
00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:03,640
Ooh!
353
00:17:03,680 --> 00:17:05,720
Eliot and Veronica.
354
00:17:05,760 --> 00:17:07,120
Nice.
355
00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:11,080
Smooth, happy entrance.
Yeah, relaxed.
356
00:17:11,120 --> 00:17:12,240
Okay.
357
00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:15,760
My relationship with Eliot,
we're in a really good place.
358
00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:16,840
Oh, this one.
359
00:17:16,920 --> 00:17:18,160
Zero?
Yeah.
360
00:17:18,200 --> 00:17:19,800
While we were at the retreat,
361
00:17:19,880 --> 00:17:22,480
it felt like we were really open
and really natural.
362
00:17:22,520 --> 00:17:24,160
We had great chats.
363
00:17:24,200 --> 00:17:25,680
Get in quick.
364
00:17:25,720 --> 00:17:27,960
I'm like, "That's really beautiful."
365
00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:29,560
It's so peaceful in here.
366
00:17:29,600 --> 00:17:31,200
(CHUCKLES)
367
00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:33,760
ELIOT: Here they are.
368
00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:35,320
Rhi and Jeff.
369
00:17:35,360 --> 00:17:36,520
Welcome to the party.
370
00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:37,800
Hi, guys.
371
00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:39,600
These two are looking
great together.
372
00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:41,440
Yeah, very comfortable.
373
00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:42,640
How are you?
Good, good.
374
00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:43,960
We'll grab a drink quickly.
375
00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:45,080
Me and Rhi are great.
376
00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:47,880
Like, our relationship
is unbelievable but...
377
00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:48,960
Yeah.
378
00:17:49,040 --> 00:17:50,960
..Rhi's feeling pretty down
about the last few days.
379
00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:53,960
It's unfortunate because,
like, an external factor
380
00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:55,160
of what happened at the retreat
381
00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:57,200
puts a bit of a strain
on our relationship.
382
00:17:57,240 --> 00:17:59,160
But she knows I've got her back,
383
00:17:59,240 --> 00:18:01,280
and I'm here to support her
no matter what,
384
00:18:01,360 --> 00:18:03,840
and, hopefully after tonight,
she feels better
385
00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:07,440
and, if not, then we know where
we stand with a few people here.
386
00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:10,120
So, uh...
387
00:18:10,160 --> 00:18:11,400
RHI: How are you guys?
388
00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:12,880
VERONICA: We're great.
389
00:18:13,480 --> 00:18:15,440
No, obviously,
last night was a lot.
390
00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:19,400
RHI: Honestly, I feel like
this whole situation
391
00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:21,400
has been blown so far
out of proportion.
392
00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:23,880
Like, I feel like,
even though I have supported Lauren
393
00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:26,680
through her tears and anxiety,
394
00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:28,880
I've never been against
the rest of the group,
395
00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:31,000
and that's why I feel
really misunderstood
396
00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:32,960
because I've tried to explain that
multiple times.
397
00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:35,520
It's like, when someone's crying,
you go and make them feel better,
398
00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:39,200
but it doesn't mean that
I am behind Lauren saying,
399
00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:41,200
"Jamie, I don't validate you."
400
00:18:42,080 --> 00:18:44,080
Right, so,
there's clearly been a falling out
401
00:18:44,120 --> 00:18:46,800
between some of the women and Jamie
402
00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:49,320
about something that's occurred
at this couple's retreat.
403
00:18:49,360 --> 00:18:50,440
MEL: Mm.
404
00:18:50,480 --> 00:18:51,480
I feel like there's a real divide,
405
00:18:51,560 --> 00:18:52,800
and that there shouldn't be
such a divide.
406
00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:53,800
I agree with you on that.
407
00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:56,280
Like, I don't think anyone should
just be screamed at by everybody.
408
00:18:56,320 --> 00:18:58,400
Like, that just makes no sense.
409
00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:00,360
RHI: The group dynamic at the moment
410
00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:02,680
is very heavy on mine
and Jeff's relationship.
411
00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:06,520
I feel like I can't be
my authentic, happy, bubbly self
412
00:19:06,600 --> 00:19:09,480
because I feel like I'm trying
to keep up with what's going on,
413
00:19:09,520 --> 00:19:10,720
trying to figure it out,
414
00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:13,480
and Jeff has done
everything, everything
415
00:19:13,560 --> 00:19:17,000
to support me right now
and I'm lucky I have him.
416
00:19:18,120 --> 00:19:20,560
We see it all unfold
at these couples' retreats.
417
00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:22,560
And this is where
a lot of the issues
418
00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:24,120
bubble to the surface, don't they,
419
00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:27,000
because they're outside of
the structure of the experiment
420
00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:28,800
and things just start to flow.
421
00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:30,880
They can really vent
to each other, so...
422
00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:31,920
Mm-hm.
423
00:19:34,360 --> 00:19:35,880
Hey.
Hi.
424
00:19:35,920 --> 00:19:36,920
Hey, hey.
425
00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:38,800
Ah, Teejay and Beth.
426
00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:39,840
How you going?
427
00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:41,720
Very together.
Here's a happy couple.
428
00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:43,000
Yeah, yeah.
429
00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:44,880
How are you?
Hey, Betty.
430
00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:46,720
BETH: Yeah, I always feel good
walking in with Teejay.
431
00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:48,440
We've got such a good relationship.
432
00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:50,200
I just feel so confident with him.
433
00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:51,480
I know he has my back.
434
00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:52,800
Thank you.
435
00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:55,880
So, tonight,
I want an apology from Ryan
436
00:19:55,960 --> 00:19:59,520
'cause, at the retreat,
Ryan called me classless.
437
00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:03,120
I didn't think it was okay
to apologise to my husband
438
00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:04,840
and not apologising to me.
439
00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:06,840
I don't like that.
It just feels dirty.
440
00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:09,480
First dinner party
where I'm actually excited to go in.
441
00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:10,960
(RYAN CHUCKLES)
442
00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:13,520
(GENTLY TINKLING MUSIC,
JACQUI GIGGLES)
443
00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:14,840
You ready?
444
00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:16,200
(BOTH LAUGH)
445
00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:19,280
Mwah.
446
00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:23,000
(MUSIC FADES)
447
00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:26,200
Hi!
Hey.
448
00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:28,000
Ryan and Jacqui.
449
00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:29,120
Mm!
450
00:20:30,160 --> 00:20:32,680
They look like they've had
a good time at the couples' retreat.
451
00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:33,960
All smiles.
452
00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:35,840
RYAN: Hey, I love the red.
453
00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:38,160
Champagne, madam?
454
00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:39,360
Yes, please.
455
00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:41,760
Ryan and I
are in a really good place.
456
00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:43,840
It's probably the best place
we've been in so far.
457
00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:50,120
And I would say, in terms of
the challenges we've overcome,
458
00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:51,240
we're the strongest couple.
459
00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:53,040
(MUSIC SWELLS THEN FADES)
460
00:20:53,120 --> 00:20:55,160
Ryan, I actually want to
talk to you about something.
461
00:20:55,200 --> 00:20:56,520
Please.
462
00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:03,440
From what I heard, you
apologised to Teejay at the retreat
463
00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:04,720
for calling me classless.
464
00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:07,080
And I feel like you should
apologise to me, though,
465
00:21:07,120 --> 00:21:08,400
so I just want to get the story.
466
00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:10,760
Yeah, so, sitting down
and saying, like,
467
00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:13,200
"Oh, you'd rather go to the gym
than F your wife's (BLEEP)..."
468
00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:14,360
Absolutely.
You know?
469
00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:15,680
So, that type of thing, I was like,
470
00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:17,520
I was pretty shocked to hear it
at the time.
471
00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:20,160
But then hearing that you went
to my husband to ask him,
472
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:22,760
is he okay with my behaviour?
473
00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:25,280
I did want to ask him, as well,
like, because he wasn't there,
474
00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:26,520
how he felt about the whole thing.
475
00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:27,960
Interesting.
Yeah.
476
00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:33,040
I do find it weird that
you'd ask him about the way I act.
477
00:21:33,120 --> 00:21:36,080
I just didn't like that
because I'm not a classless woman.
478
00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:38,720
I do have a mouth,
and I know I swear a lot,
479
00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:40,440
but I didn't like that at all.
480
00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:42,880
But the thing is it was still
someone else's sex life,
481
00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:44,680
and I wouldn't...
I wouldn't dare sit down
482
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:45,920
and say those type of things,
483
00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:47,400
and I don't think Jacqui would,
either.
484
00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:49,280
That's why she kind of was like...
What do you mean?
485
00:21:51,360 --> 00:21:53,880
(PENSIVE MUSIC)
486
00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:58,200
Because, like, sex is such a... it's
a very touchy subject for me so...
487
00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:01,200
And I was trying to get some,
like, some understanding,
488
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:03,960
if he was in that spot,
how would he react?
489
00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:08,200
And, um, you know?
490
00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:11,360
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
491
00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:14,240
Well, you know what? Um...
492
00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:16,560
Yes, I apologise
for calling you classless.
493
00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:19,760
Good, 'cause that's what I wanted
because I just felt weird that...
494
00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:21,360
I felt like you'd apologised
to my husband
495
00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:22,640
for what you called me, but not me.
496
00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:24,600
I realise the words I used
were probably quite vulgar
497
00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:26,760
and that's why I apologised,
I didn't want to offend you.
498
00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:28,600
Beth and I exchanged apologies,
499
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:30,240
mine for the "classless" remark
500
00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:32,880
and hers for using that
really filthy language.
501
00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:34,880
So, yes, you know, like,
502
00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:38,000
I think it's kind of put a pin in it
for now with Beth.
503
00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:39,440
I forgive you totally, by the way.
504
00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:41,040
Like, I've forgiven you.
505
00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:44,160
Yeah.
Right.
506
00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:46,240
(DISQUIETING MUSIC)
507
00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:47,480
I'm going to be honest,
508
00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:50,440
when Jacqui speaks, it's like -
goes in one ear, out the other.
509
00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:52,160
Good. Love it.
510
00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:53,440
Love it.
511
00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:54,680
That's what I wanted.
512
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:56,000
I need to fill up my glass.
513
00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:58,480
I got what I wanted, and I got off
the couch super (BLEEP) quick.
514
00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:01,040
Thank you.
That's all I needed, an apology.
515
00:23:01,120 --> 00:23:03,480
See you later.
Do you know what I mean? Bye.
516
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:05,720
Coming up...
517
00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:07,760
(GLASSES DING)
518
00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:09,400
Dinner is served.
519
00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:11,200
An experiment first.
520
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:13,520
PAUL: Oh, no way,
they haven't showed up.
521
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:15,440
..leaves the whole group reeling.
522
00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:18,360
JAMIE: We (BLEEP) don't need them.
523
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:20,120
MEL: There's a lot of
unfinished business here
524
00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:21,480
and, without them here,
525
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:23,320
it's going to be very difficult
for any kind of resolution.
526
00:23:23,360 --> 00:23:24,520
And later...
527
00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:27,040
Jamie, it was like 'Mean Girls'.
528
00:23:27,120 --> 00:23:30,720
Don't you call me a mean girl 'cause
I won't (BLEEP) stand for it.
529
00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:32,120
As tensions rise...
530
00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:34,000
Stop, stop.
No, don't tell me to stop!
531
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:35,200
Carina, shut your mouth.
532
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:36,840
Ooh!
Ooh!
533
00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:39,240
..friendships hang in the balance.
534
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:40,400
You are my friend...
535
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:42,880
I am your friend
and I was there for you.
536
00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:44,120
No, you weren't.
537
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,400
(GENTLE MUSIC)
538
00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:53,880
BETH: That's so good.
I love that, babe.
539
00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:55,440
I love it.
540
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,280
(GREETINGS AND EXCLAMATIONS)
541
00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:00,440
Awhina and Adrian.
542
00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:03,520
A lot of disconnectedness in
the past few weeks from these two.
543
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:04,600
Yeah.
544
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:09,040
So, it is actually nice to see them
walking hand in hand and smiling.
545
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:10,120
What are you having?
546
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:12,160
Um, I'm gonna go red.
547
00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:14,600
Do you want a lot? I don't know.
No, perfect amount.
548
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:15,720
ADRIAN: Me and Awhina are good.
549
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:17,400
You know, we're at a great stage
550
00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:19,680
right now in our relationship
and, um...
551
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:22,000
if not the best
since we've been here...
552
00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:24,560
..because I've been a great partner.
553
00:24:26,120 --> 00:24:27,400
Are you feeling all right?
554
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:30,200
Ah, I've felt better,
555
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:33,240
but I'm just, like, trying to
be, like, positive, you know?
556
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:37,520
I'm probably
a little bit uncomfortable
557
00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:41,360
to be in the same, like, presence
as Jamie
558
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:45,120
because her fight style
is very intense.
559
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:47,080
Don't worry, I've got your back.
Mm.
560
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:49,560
Be yourself.
Say what you need to say.
561
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:50,680
Don't be scared.
562
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:52,280
I don't really have that much
to say,
563
00:24:52,360 --> 00:24:53,960
so I just hope it can
just go back to normal.
564
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:55,800
No, of course.
..but I don't think it will.
565
00:24:57,040 --> 00:25:01,240
To me, it's just...it's sad to see
that it's gotten to this point.
566
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:05,600
So, hopefully, tonight, Jamie
really is open to hearing me out
567
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:10,240
because, if not, I think that
would be super disheartening.
568
00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:13,280
(TENSE MUSIC BUILDING)
569
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:19,120
Let's go.
570
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:20,880
(GROUP LAUGHING)
571
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:22,520
BETH: Babe, I love it.
572
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:23,880
Jeff's like, "I wonder what..."
573
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:25,840
(GREETINGS AND EXCLAMATIONS)
574
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:27,120
Hi, guys.
575
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:29,320
Carina and Paul.
576
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:33,640
Carina seemed to have
a very uneasy look on her face.
577
00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:34,760
PAUL: How are we, guys?
578
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:37,760
But they did walk in strong
with one another.
579
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:39,480
Go sit down. Go sit down.
I'll get you a drink.
580
00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:41,360
Of course. Where's everyone sitting?
581
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:43,680
RHI: How are you feeling?
582
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:44,880
(DEEP EXHALE)
583
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:46,280
Look, I'm nervous.
584
00:25:46,360 --> 00:25:48,280
Like, I just feel uneasy.
Same.
585
00:25:48,360 --> 00:25:50,520
You know? Like, I feel...
Thank you.
586
00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:53,240
I feel, yeah, a bit uneasy
about everything
587
00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:56,120
and, like, a bit of social anxiety,
that's how I'm feeling.
588
00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:57,800
Yeah, I know exactly what you mean.
Social anxiety.
589
00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:00,440
I feel really similar
because, obviously, like,
590
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:03,760
it's just, like,
one big misunderstanding
591
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:05,760
or miscommunication, like...
592
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:07,400
One big kerfuffle.
Yeah, 'cause you...
593
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:09,000
Like, we were close with Jamie.
594
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:10,840
Jamie makes valid points.
595
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:15,720
It's just the way that
she projects it is offensive.
596
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:17,720
You literally were cornering a girl.
597
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:19,080
That makes me so sad
598
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:22,200
because I generally don't like
to be a part of that kind of stuff.
599
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:25,520
Ooh.
Right.
600
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:28,520
Jamie's communication style
seems to be an issue here.
601
00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:32,320
It's not about the content, but the
way she delivered the information
602
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:34,600
that is making
these women uncomfortable.
603
00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:38,640
JAMIE: 'Cause I'm, like, the loud
one and says it with their chest,
604
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:41,400
like, I don't deserve an apology
because I'm raising my voice
605
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:45,440
or Clint can swear at me
because my voice is elevated
606
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:46,880
compared to other people.
607
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:49,280
It's hard because you
and I are super empathetic.
608
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:50,320
Yes.
609
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:52,080
And also we were just, like,
supporting Lauren.
610
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:53,280
It's not like we were
actually standing up
611
00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:54,360
for some of the shit that she did.
612
00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:56,040
Yeah.
Like, the name calling and stuff.
613
00:26:56,120 --> 00:26:57,680
It's like, "Come on, Lauren."
Yeah.
614
00:26:57,760 --> 00:26:59,520
I don't agree with it.
I don't, either.
615
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:01,160
You're digging yourself
a hole there.
616
00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:04,320
MEL: Sounds like something has
happened between Jamie and Lauren.
617
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:07,560
And you're seeing
how affected these women are
618
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,040
by the whole entire thing.
619
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:10,040
Yeah.
620
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:12,680
It's a real tricky situation,
621
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:15,080
and I think we're just, like...
BOTH: Stuck in the middle.
622
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:17,000
..because I want to be
friends with everyone.
623
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:19,080
JAMIE: I'm hoping tonight...
624
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,640
I just want clarity
of where I stand with people.
625
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:26,360
I want to get my point across
so there's no confusion,
626
00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:30,320
and people can understand
why I feel let down,
627
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:34,480
and it gives an opportunity
for people in a group setting
628
00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:38,960
to stand up and go, "You know what,
I owe you an apology."
629
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:42,280
(UNNERVING MUSIC)
630
00:27:42,360 --> 00:27:46,080
I don't know, I just thought
even mine and Jamie's friendship,
631
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:49,840
I just... I thought
it was a bit stronger than that.
632
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:51,800
You know what I mean?
Yes.
633
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:54,680
Let's be honest, Jamie's
always been, up until this point,
634
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:59,360
a key member of the group that keeps
the peace, that gives out advice.
635
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:03,600
So, for her now to be,
in a way, against the group
636
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:06,360
or separated from them,
that is something very different.
637
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:09,560
(MUSIC BUILDS)
638
00:28:20,360 --> 00:28:22,480
(MUSIC FADES,
BOISTEROUS CONVERSATION)
639
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:24,520
WOMAN: Whoo!
MAN: Hey!
640
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:25,960
Bright orange!
641
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:28,040
(TENSE MUSIC)
642
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:29,640
Oh, Dave and Jamie.
643
00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:31,360
Yo.
644
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:33,320
Huh?
Welcome.
645
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,080
They look like
they're a little bit on guard.
646
00:28:36,120 --> 00:28:38,320
This has never happened before.
647
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:40,640
No, they're the life of the party,
usually.
648
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:41,880
Look at that, I'm sweating.
649
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:43,360
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
650
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:44,520
Hello.
Stunning.
651
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:45,560
Mwah!
652
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:46,720
I love you in yellow.
653
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:48,200
Hello, darling.
654
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:49,520
Dressed in orange.
655
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:50,680
Hello.
How are you?
656
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:51,840
Good, good, good.
657
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:53,040
Hey, babe.
Hello.
658
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:54,400
(JEFF LAUGHS)
659
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:57,280
CARINA: Hi, babe.
You look good. Mwah.
660
00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:58,800
DAVE: Hey.
VERONICA: Oh, hi.
661
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:00,960
How are ya?
Hey.
662
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,080
Everyone went, "Hi. Hi."
663
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,560
(TENSE MUSIC)
664
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:06,960
Where's my apology?
665
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:10,000
I think everyone's really like,
"Hi."
666
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,760
You don't just get
to schmooze me over,
667
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:14,720
and I hate when people think
that they can do that,
668
00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:16,640
just be nice and everything
669
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:19,440
for the sake of them not
getting annihilated at the table.
670
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:20,560
No, no, no.
671
00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:21,800
I need my sorry.
672
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:23,440
Are you feeling okay?
673
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:26,400
I'll say this, like,
it's not a good feeling.
674
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:27,680
Yeah. Of course.
675
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:29,760
I'm still, like, hurt, upset.
676
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:31,560
I haven't had anyone
reach out to me.
677
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:32,680
Okay.
678
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:36,200
My friends didn't support me
at the retreat.
679
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,160
Carina and Rhi, especially.
Yeah, yeah, of course.
680
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:41,160
More expectation with them two.
681
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:44,760
Carina and Rhi, you know I'm upset.
682
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:46,880
(GENTLE, UNSETTLING MUSIC)
683
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:50,440
You should have, (BLEEP), like,
cornered me at that cocktail table
684
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:51,720
when I'm getting a drink.
685
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:54,720
You should be like,
"Can we please talk after?"
686
00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:58,480
Unless they are saving something
miraculous for the dinner party,
687
00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:02,080
I don't know, but, like,
very surprising behaviour.
688
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:04,000
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
689
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:05,680
Lauren was being so rude.
Yeah.
690
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:08,240
And just...and pretty much
shit on everything we're doing.
691
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:09,640
That's the only reason
I'm in this argument
692
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:10,960
because I'm defending other people.
693
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:13,400
You know what, her calling me
a troll is one thing.
694
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:15,240
Her husband telling me
to shut the (BLEEP) up
695
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:17,320
like, seven times
is a whole other thing.
696
00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:19,240
And no-one said nothing.
Yeah.
697
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:21,200
Yeah, yeah.
698
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,520
By the sounds of it,
Jamie was on the receiving end
699
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:26,280
of inappropriate
and unacceptable behaviour.
700
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:31,400
She feels she deserves
to be checked up on
701
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:34,480
because she has been so proactive
in being present
702
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:38,680
and trying to have people's backs
when they're having troubles.
703
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:39,840
Yeah.
704
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:42,120
How are you feeling?
The sweat's real.
705
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:44,960
It's a really weird
atmosphere tonight.
706
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:48,400
Jamie's vibe
is definitely standoffish,
707
00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:51,640
so I think she's still upset
with me.
708
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:57,280
But I am scared to voice my opinion
and speak up to Jamie
709
00:30:57,360 --> 00:31:00,680
because she is loud
and she will shut me down.
710
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:03,360
I'm gonna get eaten, man,
I already know it.
711
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:05,840
We need some holy water.
712
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:10,840
The fact that people even speaking
up in defence of her baffles me.
713
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:12,520
Last time I checked,
she couldn't be (BLEEP)
714
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:14,120
saying hello to any of the girls
the whole trip.
715
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:15,760
She doesn't hang out with them.
She doesn't defend them.
716
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:18,320
So, why are they riding for Lauren?
717
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:22,280
It'll be very interesting
to see Lauren and Clint tonight
718
00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:25,280
because they have a lot
to answer to.
719
00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:28,080
RHI: Are Lauren and Clint coming?
TEEJAY: I don't know, I was...
720
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:29,800
I'm still speculating.
I don't think they are.
721
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:32,280
Are they the last?
One, two, three, four, six, seven.
722
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:33,760
Yeah, they're the last.
723
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:35,560
They're the last couple.
Yeah.
724
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:36,760
Surely.
Do you think?
725
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:39,160
I think, if they don't come, like,
that's going to be even worse.
726
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:42,120
Yeah, I just hope that
we can all leave as friends, and...
727
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,760
Yeah, have some sort of resolution.
Yeah, that's it.
728
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:46,200
I really want to resolve this,
729
00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:50,560
but I guess it depends on
how Lauren comes in tonight
730
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:54,480
because I feel like
she needs to take accountability
731
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:56,280
for her actions at the retreat.
732
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:02,200
ELIOT: Thanks, mate. Appreciate it.
Cheers, buddy.
733
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:03,360
Cheers.
734
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:06,120
Um, I wonder how tonight's gonna go.
735
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:09,920
All of this conflict now
amongst the group has come
736
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:11,600
because of Lauren and Clint.
737
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:17,920
I hope Rhi, Carina and Jamie
can reconcile things.
738
00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:20,440
Like, I think there's
going to be some stern words
739
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:23,680
and I hope Lauren doesn't
blow things out of proportion.
740
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:28,000
If everyone falls apart,
will you let Lauren and Clint win?
741
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:30,880
(TENSE MUSIC)
742
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:32,000
MAN: Waiter!
743
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:34,160
PAUL: Oh, no way.
They haven't showed up.
744
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:35,320
ELIOT: Oh, no.
745
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:37,280
(GLASS DINGS)
746
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:38,560
Dinner is served.
747
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:39,640
Oh, thank God.
748
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:41,440
TEEJAY: Hang on,
we're missing someone.
749
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:43,920
No way.
Yeah.
750
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:45,040
CARINA: What the (BLEEP)?
751
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:46,160
That's dinner called
752
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:48,640
and, of course, there's no sign
of Lauren and Clint.
753
00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:51,880
Waiter?
Wait, Lauren and Clint didn't come.
754
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:53,760
Waiter, we're waiting on two more.
755
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:55,880
(TENSE MUSIC, ELIOT LAUGHS)
756
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,200
Who gives a (BLEEP)
where Lauren and Clint are tonight?
757
00:32:58,240 --> 00:32:59,440
I could not care less.
758
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:01,800
No. It's okay. We can go on.
We don't need them.
759
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:03,600
We (BLEEP) don't need them.
760
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:06,960
(BLEEP), hop on your broom
and fly back to Brisbane.
761
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:08,200
See ya.
762
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:10,240
LAUREN: Oh, we're the first
at the cocktail party.
763
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:11,400
(BOTH CHUCKLE)
764
00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:13,880
This is the most peaceful
cocktail party ever.
765
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:15,960
Cheers to...
Peace.
766
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:17,400
(GLASSES CLINK)
767
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:22,600
(TENSE MUSIC, GLASS DINGS)
768
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:23,960
Dinner is served.
769
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:25,480
Hang on, we're missing someone.
770
00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:27,040
(GLASS DINGS)
771
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:28,160
Dinner is served.
772
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:30,400
Oh, they're not here.
773
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:32,880
Lauren and Clint
are missing tonight,
774
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:36,160
and I'm really sad
to see that they're not here
775
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:38,240
because they need to
take accountability,
776
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:42,760
and tonight's purely about trying
to get along again with everyone.
777
00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:45,520
Would we have even noticed? They
don't say hello to anyone, anyway.
778
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:46,720
I have no idea where Lauren is.
779
00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:49,720
You know, I really put myself on
the line there supporting Lauren,
780
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:52,000
even through the petty comments,
781
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:54,160
through her not trying
in the experiment.
782
00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:56,960
But I'm here, anxiety filled,
783
00:33:57,040 --> 00:34:00,800
so I'm questioning
mine and Lauren's friendship.
784
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:03,800
What a shame,
what a shame, what a shame.
785
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:06,200
Who gives a (BLEEP)
where Lauren and Clint are tonight?
786
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:08,240
Hopefully, on a slow boat to China.
787
00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:11,200
Did you want some salt?
No, thank you.
788
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:14,840
Salty like Jamie when she finds out
we're not there to yell at.
789
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:17,560
The group is getting smaller.
It sure is.
790
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:19,160
And they really can notice
791
00:34:19,240 --> 00:34:22,040
Lauren and Clint not being
a part of this dinner party.
792
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:24,400
They decided not to face the music.
793
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:26,200
There's a lot of
unfinished business here,
794
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:28,160
and, without them here,
it's going to be very difficult
795
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:29,920
for any kind of resolution tonight.
796
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:32,440
But it is going to
dictate the entire conversation
797
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:34,200
because friendships
have been ruined.
798
00:34:34,240 --> 00:34:35,400
I'm so relieved.
799
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:38,120
If I had to look at her face
for any (BLEEP) longer...
800
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:39,400
(FROSTY MUSIC)
801
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:42,040
Tonight, I'm 100%
expecting an apology.
802
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:44,680
I'm 100% expecting accountability.
803
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:47,160
The worst-case scenario
is if anyone doubles down.
804
00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:49,880
If anyone defends their behaviour,
805
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:51,480
then that's the end
of the friendship.
806
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:55,120
Theories on the missing couple,
Lauren and Clint.
807
00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:57,120
I couldn't give a (BLEEP).
808
00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:58,800
It's just the easy option.
809
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:00,080
Well, where's your mate?
810
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:01,280
(PECULIAR MUSIC)
811
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:02,520
Who's that?
812
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:04,240
Where's your mate?
813
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:05,640
Whose mate?
814
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:06,720
My mate?
815
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:08,400
Your mate, all of your mates.
My mate?
816
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:09,960
Well, apparently she was your mate
at the retreat.
817
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:11,520
How is she my mate?
Where is she?
818
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:13,080
No-one said anything.
819
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:14,520
Oh, we're straight into it.
820
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:16,160
So, she's on the front
foot straight away.
821
00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:17,160
Absolutely.
822
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:18,160
But how is she my mate?
823
00:35:18,240 --> 00:35:20,400
I'm just saying, where's your mate?
You two were defending her.
824
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,800
Where's your mate?
We weren't defending her.
825
00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:24,280
CARINA: We're friends with everyone.
826
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:27,960
Did I miss the part
when you came into my defence?
827
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:30,680
I...
Was I on smoke break then?
828
00:35:30,720 --> 00:35:31,880
Did I miss it?
829
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:34,640
I must have clocked off for the day
'cause I missed it.
830
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:42,000
Can I just talk on how I felt and
why it was a terrible night for me?
831
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:43,720
I am a tough bitch.
832
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:45,040
I am, I'm strong.
833
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:47,120
And I'll challenge anyone,
I don't care.
834
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:50,120
But my heart is big
and I'm super goddamn sensitive.
835
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:53,320
The one thing that's been
very clear to me since day dot,
836
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:55,880
that should be clear to all youse,
is I rally for my friends.
837
00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:58,160
I rally for my partner.
I rally for my friends.
838
00:35:58,240 --> 00:36:01,120
Loyalty is the backbone
of all my relationships.
839
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:04,720
That girls' night,
I was in defence of you.
840
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:08,040
I'm like a mother bear
protecting her cubs.
841
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:11,200
Everyone was disrespected
so I called out Lauren's behaviour.
842
00:36:11,240 --> 00:36:12,480
I heard she called me a troll.
843
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:13,920
I heard she had been talking shit.
844
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:17,200
I'm addressing Lauren,
who has been nothing short of rude,
845
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:19,560
and I've got her husband telling me
to shut the (BLEEP) up
846
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:20,720
multiple times.
847
00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:25,560
In that time, considering, again,
I'm completely in the right,
848
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:27,240
once again, I'm met with rudeness.
849
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:28,560
There was no sense of apology.
850
00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:29,760
There was no sorting out.
851
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:31,040
Everyone was silent.
852
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:32,880
Do you know what that did to me?
853
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:34,480
That broke me.
854
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:38,160
I've never felt pain like that
in a really (BLEEP) long time
855
00:36:38,240 --> 00:36:40,440
'cause when I'm sitting there
and I've got two people that
856
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:43,400
I've considered good friends backing
Lauren when Lauren's, like...
857
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:44,640
Who backed Lauren?
858
00:36:44,720 --> 00:36:47,080
When the whole attack comment
was made.
859
00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:49,000
Apparently, I was interrogating her.
860
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:50,400
Pack of hyenas, I heard.
Yeah.
861
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:53,040
I'm getting sworn at by a man,
reprimanded,
862
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,600
and I don't deserve an apology
because my noise is too loud,
863
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:56,880
I'm acting like an animal.
864
00:36:56,960 --> 00:37:00,720
I was owning an argument
'cause she slated the whole house.
865
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:05,400
She didn't, babe. She didn't...
Were you there?
866
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:06,520
She didn't.
867
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:08,360
Were you there? Are you joking?
868
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:09,640
BETH: She did.
869
00:37:09,720 --> 00:37:12,440
CARINA: First of all, I'm not
taking anyone's sides
870
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:14,040
just because I listened.
871
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:16,520
Babe, you have a strong voice.
872
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:18,840
It came across like
it was aggression.
873
00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:20,040
It was a lot.
874
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:23,200
Oh, my gosh.
875
00:37:23,240 --> 00:37:24,920
This is just stupidity.
876
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:26,960
Are you joking?
What are you talking about?
877
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:29,200
I don't understand
why you're upset with me.
878
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:31,400
If you don't understand,
don't talk to me, Carina.
879
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:35,520
Do yourself a favour.
880
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:36,880
Don't talk.
881
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:39,200
Be a (BLEEP) pot plant.
882
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:43,440
Imagine coming still
in defence of someone
883
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:47,040
who can't even be (BLEEP) rocking up
to a dinner party.
884
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:51,080
Everyone was asking the questions
and she walked off.
885
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:53,240
So, what would you do
in a group setting?
886
00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:56,680
Welcome to Married at First Sight
when we ask questions.
887
00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:58,920
Babe, it's how
you ask the questions.
888
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:03,240
Stop painting this narrative
that we were coming in guns blazing.
889
00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:04,760
She was being ambushed,
890
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:07,280
and I'm trying to say
she was being ambushed.
891
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,800
How are you going to defend Lauren?
892
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:12,760
I don't agree with the behaviour.
It was like 'Mean Girls'.
893
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:15,040
Who are you...?
894
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:17,080
Who are you calling a mean girl?
895
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:18,560
It was mean girl.
896
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:22,400
Don't you call me a mean girl
'cause I won't (BLEEP) stand for it.
897
00:38:27,240 --> 00:38:30,200
Oh, stop painting this narrative.
898
00:38:30,240 --> 00:38:32,320
How are you going to defend Lauren?
899
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:35,320
I don't agree with the behaviour.
It was like 'Mean Girls'.
900
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:37,640
Who are you...?
901
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:39,680
Who are you calling a mean girl?
902
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:41,240
It was mean girl.
Are you joking?
903
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:43,360
Exactly how you're talking now.
Shut up, Carina.
904
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:46,960
Don't you call me a mean girl
'cause I won't (BLEEP) stand for it.
905
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:48,640
Tone it down a bit.
906
00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:50,480
I'm pissed off now.
907
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:51,640
I'm pissed off.
908
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:57,600
It's such a (BLEEP) insult
to label anyone as mean girls.
909
00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:58,960
Such an insult.
910
00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:02,200
I'd say Lauren
would come the closest to it.
911
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:05,160
So, I won't be put
in that category.
912
00:39:05,240 --> 00:39:07,760
Carina, you've just used
the word "mean girls".
913
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:09,320
Who are you referring to right now?
914
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:10,600
Just me?
915
00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:12,000
No.
Then who...?
916
00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:13,080
The group.
917
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:16,880
Okay, so everyone there
but it's still everyone there.
918
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:18,280
Because it got to that point.
919
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:20,960
The questions
that were getting asked to her
920
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:22,960
wasn't the nicest way of saying it.
921
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:27,680
You girls were asking the
exact same question on repetition.
922
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:29,880
Because you went on a girls' night
and you asked the questions
923
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:31,720
that needed to be asked,
and then she didn't like it.
924
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:34,480
If you put yourself
in the situation of a girl,
925
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:37,200
one girl walking out of that room,
926
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:39,520
you would say the rest of the group
were mean girls.
927
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:42,240
Asking questions and we're
mean girls, and we're mean girls.
928
00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:44,440
If I was in that situation,
I would feel the same way,
929
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:45,760
exactly how I am now.
930
00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:47,840
I'm being defensive of myself.
931
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:52,840
You're feeding into this narrative
and you are validating delusion.
932
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:54,760
I don't validate what she said,
Jamie.
933
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:57,360
I can't fight with someone
who has no logic.
934
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:00,560
Oh!
935
00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:03,280
Is this girl for real?
936
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:05,840
What is actually going on?
937
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:09,880
I absolutely do not agree with
what Lauren said to the girls,
938
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:13,720
but how Jamie has gone about
this whole situation
939
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:17,200
absolutely has just blindsided me.
940
00:40:17,240 --> 00:40:19,360
Are you saying Carina has no logic?
941
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:21,160
This conversation makes no sense.
942
00:40:21,240 --> 00:40:23,320
Wow, and you say you're my friend.
That's really nice.
943
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:26,120
Because you're speaking
(BLEEP) stupidity, Carina.
944
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:27,280
This makes no sense.
945
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:30,640
I'm saying it's valid
as much as yours is.
946
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:32,360
No.
947
00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:34,240
No.
948
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:36,720
Right now,
your feelings are bullshit to me.
949
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:38,200
So, my feelings are not valid?
950
00:40:38,280 --> 00:40:39,760
You sat down,
you called me a mean girl.
951
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:42,640
I didn't call you a mean girl,
Awhina.
952
00:40:42,720 --> 00:40:45,560
Dave, this is like... honestly,
I'm losing (BLEEP) brain cells.
953
00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:47,920
I can't win with those girls.
954
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:50,560
Like, it's very evident
around that dinner table
955
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:53,200
that Awhina and Jamie
are just at it with me.
956
00:40:53,240 --> 00:40:54,880
I want what's in Carina's drink.
957
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:58,440
I didn't expect this
all to blow up the way it has,
958
00:40:58,480 --> 00:41:00,520
and I can't even voice my opinion
959
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:03,320
because I constantly get
shut down or undermined.
960
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:05,040
You know my intentions.
961
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:06,880
You know the type of human
that I am.
962
00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:08,120
I thought I did.
963
00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:09,840
I am an empath.
964
00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:13,600
When I see that the group's divided,
I feel like Switzerland.
965
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:14,680
You're not Switzerland.
966
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:17,680
Having both sides, that means you'd
be speaking up for Lauren and I.
967
00:41:17,720 --> 00:41:19,160
Incorrect. You didn't do that.
968
00:41:19,240 --> 00:41:23,160
Oh, my God,
how do you guys not even see it?
969
00:41:23,240 --> 00:41:26,160
Jamie's very good
at shutting people down,
970
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:29,000
and I think it's totally unfair.
971
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:31,560
If you were sorry,
you wouldn't come here
972
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:32,960
and tell me I'm a mean girl.
973
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:34,920
That is doubling down.
974
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:37,760
I think she definitely
expects an apology,
975
00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:39,480
but she's not going to get one.
976
00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:42,720
I'm going to stand up for myself
and voice my opinion,
977
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:44,920
and just purely say that that...
978
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:47,960
I don't agree with
how she was towards Lauren.
979
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:51,480
I thought, coming into tonight,
you swallow your pride and say,
980
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:53,600
"Look, I really am sorry
that I dropped the ball
981
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:54,840
"when I didn't
have your back enough."
982
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:56,240
It's a simple thing for you to do
983
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:58,080
because Jamie's been there
since the start for you.
984
00:41:58,160 --> 00:42:00,640
I just...she's known you
for so long, and it's just like...
985
00:42:00,720 --> 00:42:02,720
Your relationship's so much
more solid. I don't understand.
986
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:04,400
Obviously, I don't want to be
987
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:07,360
in this situation
with Jamie whatsoever.
988
00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:11,640
I came in tonight thinking, surely,
this woman is going to be like,
989
00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:13,200
"You know what, I (BLEEP) up."
990
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:14,920
You've doubled down,
you haven't apologised.
991
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:16,360
So, it's very clear where we stand.
992
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:18,000
You can apologise.
993
00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:19,560
I'm here to the end.
994
00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:21,240
She ain't. She's gone.
995
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:23,440
You backed a losing horse.
996
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:25,640
You're clearly not understanding
where I've come from,
997
00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:28,080
so, sorry we don't agree on that.
998
00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:29,160
I don't care.
999
00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:31,360
There's no apology.
1000
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:33,680
Anytime she speaks,
she gets shut down.
1001
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:36,320
It's like Jamie's opinion
is the only one that counts.
1002
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:39,080
And Carina, of course,
is entitled to her opinion,
1003
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:42,280
and I think has a really valid point
because she's calling out behaviour
1004
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:45,280
that really
should not be permissible.
1005
00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:46,960
Let's just drop it.
We know where we stand.
1006
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:48,880
Okay. That's it. That's it.
Simple as that.
1007
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:50,640
That's all we wanted
out of this conversation
1008
00:42:50,720 --> 00:42:52,920
is to find out who is with us
and who isn't.
1009
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:53,960
That's it.
1010
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:55,120
Wow.
1011
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:58,680
So, Dave's really driving this
black and white binary way.
1012
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,320
We want to know who's with us,
who's against us.
1013
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:05,000
You're still doubling down.
No apology. Okay, cool. Thank you.
1014
00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:09,040
My opinion on the way
Jamie handles conflict is, uh,
1015
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:11,560
she's very vocal and intense.
1016
00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:14,560
I mean, if that was me, I wouldn't
have handled it like that.
1017
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:16,560
Now it's uncomfortable.
1018
00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:19,080
I honestly feel isolated right now.
1019
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:21,240
I honestly... and it's not nice.
1020
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:22,680
I feel bad for Carina.
1021
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:25,760
I don't think Jamie really wanted
to hear what Carina has to say,
1022
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:27,720
so that was disappointing.
1023
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:29,120
Like, you know how silly it sounds
1024
00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:30,640
that you're still
backing this person.
1025
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:31,960
I'm not backing anyone.
1026
00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:34,920
I'm backing myself because
I don't want to be upset with Jamie
1027
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:37,400
or in a bad (BLEEP) riff-raff
with Jamie.
1028
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:41,440
I've said, like,
a million times, apologise.
1029
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:43,840
Sorry I cannot express
as well as you
1030
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:45,240
and some other girls in the room.
1031
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:47,760
That's just who I am. Okay?
1032
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:50,680
How are you defending this?
What do you mean?
1033
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:52,560
You're attacking me!
Stop.
1034
00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:55,720
No, don't tell me to stop.
Carina, shut your mouth.
1035
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:58,040
Ooh!
Ooh!
1036
00:43:58,120 --> 00:44:00,480
CLINT: What do you reckon's
going on over there?
1037
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:03,360
I don't know, I'd say that
there's a lot of yelling going on.
1038
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:05,880
The way you're speaking to me
is how you spoke to Lauren.
1039
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:09,120
How is anyone coming
to her defence?
1040
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:11,680
I mean, if what
we're seeing here tonight
1041
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:14,360
in terms of Jamie's
communication style
1042
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:16,840
is anything like she was
at the retreat,
1043
00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:18,400
she's got a major issue here.
1044
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:20,760
Yeah.
It's so aggressive.
1045
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:22,360
BOTH: It's so aggressive.
Yeah.
1046
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:23,720
You are my friend.
1047
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:25,920
I am your friend.
I was there for you.
1048
00:44:25,960 --> 00:44:27,040
No, you weren't.
1049
00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:29,600
You have a voice
and now I have a voice.
1050
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:31,640
I don't give a (BLEEP)
if you've got a voice.
1051
00:44:31,720 --> 00:44:33,360
Okay, so then I won't talk!
Jamie...
1052
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:35,920
I will sit back
and I will watch the Jamie show.
1053
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:39,960
Tune in, babe,
'cause it's a (BLEEP) good show.
1054
00:44:45,040 --> 00:44:47,960
(DISQUIETING MUSIC)
1055
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:49,880
(THUNDER RUMBLES)
1056
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:51,560
JAMIE: How are you defending this?
1057
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:53,760
CARINA: What do you mean,
you're attacking me!
1058
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:56,280
No, don't tell me to stop.
1059
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:57,640
Put that hand down.
1060
00:44:57,720 --> 00:45:00,280
You have a voice
and now I have a voice.
1061
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:01,880
I don't give a (BLEEP)
if you've got a voice.
1062
00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:03,680
Okay, so then I won't talk.
MAN: Come on!
1063
00:45:03,720 --> 00:45:05,000
There you go.
1064
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:08,000
I will sit back
and I will watch the Jamie show.
1065
00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:11,640
Tune in, babe,
'cause it's a (BLEEP) good show.
1066
00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:14,280
(SIREN WAILS)
1067
00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:17,800
Do you reckon that's an ambulance
over to the dinner party?
1068
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:20,840
A couple of casualties already.
1069
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:24,240
I would think so, yeah.
Mm.
1070
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:25,680
Mm.
1071
00:45:28,080 --> 00:45:29,200
I'll say.
1072
00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:33,360
Mm. Barramundi's good.
Mm.
1073
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:37,240
You are my friend!
1074
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:39,640
I am your friend.
I was there for you!
1075
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:40,800
No, you weren't.
1076
00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:43,880
Sorry, can I just have a second
to say one thing?
1077
00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:46,520
Jamie, you were
incredibly aggressive
1078
00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:49,840
in your way of communicating
at the retreat.
1079
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:51,240
It's unnecessary.
1080
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:54,560
Oh, just shut up, Veronica.
Shut up! Shush!
1081
00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:56,120
Jamie!
1082
00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:58,760
This is the behaviour
that we all won't tolerate.
1083
00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:00,920
Excuse me, I was not doing that.
This is the behaviour...
1084
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:02,240
Shut your mouth!
No!
1085
00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:03,760
You shut your mouth!
You shut your mouth!
1086
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:07,280
Veronica. Veronica. Veronica!
1087
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:12,400
Veronica's another (BLEEP) idiot.
1088
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:15,080
Oh, she's a classic.
She's a classic.
1089
00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:18,520
So, every day at retreat,
we're hanging out,
1090
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:20,600
you love me, we're besties.
1091
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:23,160
And then you want to sit there
and pipe up for Lauren.
1092
00:46:23,240 --> 00:46:26,120
You slag your husband off
to anyone that will (BLEEP) listen,
1093
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:28,000
and that is why you protect Lauren.
1094
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:30,120
I do not protect Lauren.
1095
00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:31,840
She's protecting her.
1096
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:36,560
Because she doesn't want Lauren
to rat out what she's...
1097
00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:39,320
like, whatever shit
V's talked about Eliot.
1098
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:41,480
We all know everything
you said about Eliot,
1099
00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:42,720
and why you protect Lauren.
1100
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:45,760
I don't know it.
1101
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:50,040
Veronica defending Lauren to Jamie
and adding fuel to the flames,
1102
00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:51,960
that took me by surprise.
1103
00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:55,720
Like, why is my wife
defending my ex-wife?
1104
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:58,160
Like, that's just...
It's weird to me.
1105
00:46:58,240 --> 00:47:02,640
You have obviously gone to Lauren
and spoken shit about Eliot,
1106
00:47:02,720 --> 00:47:05,040
and I think that's
what infuriates me
1107
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:09,080
because that is the only logical
reason you'd defend Lauren.
1108
00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:10,480
I've not done that.
1109
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:15,320
I just kind of want to hear,
like, your side fully.
1110
00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:17,760
Okay.
1111
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:19,320
When did I go to her?
1112
00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:21,040
I just don't think
it's going to last long
1113
00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:23,320
because I don't know how long
Eliot can keep...
1114
00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:24,760
Keep up the facade.
Mm.
1115
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:26,280
BETH: Hang on, hang on, hang on.
1116
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:28,960
Have you spoken to her about
your relationship with Eliot?
1117
00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:31,880
LAUREN: Eliot is a narcissist.
1118
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:34,280
Answer the (BLEEP) question.
1119
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:36,200
Make sure you're talking facts,
babe.
1120
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:39,160
Yeah, we've had a conversation.
1121
00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:43,920
ELIOT: Veronica admitted it.
1122
00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:47,760
She did go to Lauren
and had a conversation about me.
1123
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:50,120
I had no idea she did that.
1124
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:52,200
That's like going to someone's ex.
1125
00:47:52,240 --> 00:47:54,080
(LAUGHTER)
1126
00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:56,640
We were in a bad place,
and I needed advice
1127
00:47:56,720 --> 00:47:58,400
from the only other person
who knew you.
1128
00:47:59,240 --> 00:48:00,720
Yeah, but you're going to the person
1129
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:03,000
that only says negative things
about me.
1130
00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:04,440
Well, she didn't.
1131
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:08,080
Eliot is a narcissist
and I feel so sorry for you.
1132
00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:10,600
I feel like you can do
a million times better.
1133
00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:12,040
He's just so full of shit.
1134
00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:15,880
VERONICA: She was very much playing
devil's advocate, in your defence.
1135
00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:17,160
I find that hard to believe.
1136
00:48:17,240 --> 00:48:19,320
Personally, I really find that
hard to believe.
1137
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:23,480
Thanks so much, Jamie.
You're welcome.
1138
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:25,400
Only your feelings are valid.
No-one else's.
1139
00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:27,200
The rest of us
can go (BLEEP) ourselves.
1140
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:29,280
Do it.
1141
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:31,720
ELIOT: I don't know what she said.
1142
00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:33,880
She tried to play it off as,
1143
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:37,360
"Oh, she had good things to say
about you," like I believe that.
1144
00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:40,400
Looking at the outcome to that,
1145
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:43,360
it doesn't sound like
Lauren gave actionable advice
1146
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:45,160
on how to turn things around for us.
1147
00:48:45,240 --> 00:48:48,600
So, what do you stand
to gain from that?
1148
00:48:48,680 --> 00:48:51,120
Going to someone
that only has negative things
1149
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:53,600
to say about your partner
is going to be poisonous
1150
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:54,960
to the relationship.
1151
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:56,360
JAMIE: 100%.
1152
00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:59,760
Going to someone
that is actively disparaging me,
1153
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:01,120
how can I have your back?
1154
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:02,600
That's not having my back.
1155
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:06,280
First of all, to say that
I'm going actively, repeatedly
1156
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:07,360
is incorrect.
1157
00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:09,120
I went to her one time.
1158
00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:11,640
You can't just say...
That's semantics.
1159
00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:14,240
It's not semantics, actually,
it's fact.
1160
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:16,040
I went to her one time.
1161
00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:19,560
MEL: What's being revealed here
is that
1162
00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:22,520
he feels persecuted by both women.
1163
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:24,360
This is a pivotal time
for this couple
1164
00:49:24,440 --> 00:49:28,000
because Eliot needs Veronica
to have his back.
1165
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:30,680
And, if Veronica is
listening to Lauren,
1166
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:33,760
how do they move forward well
in this experiment?
1167
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:37,200
What do you think it's
a good idea for me to one time
1168
00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:39,880
go to your ex
when we're having a bad time?
1169
00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:41,800
She's the only person who knew you.
1170
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:44,320
ELIOT: I feel kind of betrayed.
1171
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:48,160
It just seems like the loyalty
side of things is missing.
1172
00:49:48,240 --> 00:49:52,400
It makes me question
what her motivations are.
1173
00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:55,160
If she put as much effort
into, like, making it work
1174
00:49:55,240 --> 00:49:59,640
than she did sabotaging it,
that would be a good start.
1175
00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:07,760
BETH: Shall we go
round the circle, guys?
1176
00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:09,080
MAN: No.
MAN: No.
1177
00:50:10,040 --> 00:50:12,320
Is there something you want to say?
What do you want to say?
1178
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:14,400
AWHINA: Adrian... Adrian and I are
in a really good.
1179
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:17,080
Tell us how good you're going.
Come on, let's boast, come on.
1180
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:18,520
Wine glass!
1181
00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:20,960
I'm going to the toilet,
see youse later.
1182
00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:22,920
(SQUEALS)
Adrian!
1183
00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:24,040
Sit down.
1184
00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:26,520
We know you're in love.
We know you're in love, Whi.
1185
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:29,280
Come on.
I want to hear about you two!
1186
00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:31,000
Adrian and Awhina!
I'll be honest...
1187
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:33,440
For the intruders
that haven't been here,
1188
00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:36,960
you guys walked in and you came in
on the worst time for us two.
1189
00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:41,000
We weren't in a great place
but I'll be very, very, very honest.
1190
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:44,520
When I wrote 'stay',
I actually regretted it so much,
1191
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:48,480
and I left that commitment ceremony
with so much regret.
1192
00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:53,640
But it was probably, like,
the last day of the retreat.
1193
00:50:53,720 --> 00:50:56,360
I was like,
I'm so happy I chose to stay.
1194
00:50:56,400 --> 00:50:57,360
MAN: Wow.
1195
00:50:57,440 --> 00:50:59,680
And I know we all left
feeling emotionally exhausted
1196
00:50:59,720 --> 00:51:01,160
and there was so much turmoil,
1197
00:51:01,240 --> 00:51:03,640
but we are in a really great place
right now.
1198
00:51:03,720 --> 00:51:05,320
Adrian, you got anything
to say, brother?
1199
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:07,720
No. What she said. Um...
1200
00:51:07,760 --> 00:51:09,400
(LAUGHTER)
1201
00:51:09,480 --> 00:51:11,880
No, we're both feeling the same way
and now we're good.
1202
00:51:11,960 --> 00:51:14,000
You know, you can make decisions
in the heat of the moment
1203
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:15,120
and you can regret them,
1204
00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:18,280
and, you know, we both wanted
to write 'leave' that day,
1205
00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:21,920
but, for whatever reason, we wrote
'stay' and thank God we did.
1206
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:24,560
Awhina and I are as strong as it
gets right now in our relationship,
1207
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:27,160
if not the strongest since
we've been from the start.
1208
00:51:27,240 --> 00:51:29,080
We're just having fun,
enjoying each other's company,
1209
00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:30,400
and that's the most important thing.
1210
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:33,320
It was probably within 24 hours
of him moving back in
1211
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:36,000
that we kind of connected
straight away,
1212
00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:41,640
and I didn't think we would connect
straight away, but we did.
1213
00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:45,760
We... we connected.
1214
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:47,360
(LAUGHTER)
1215
00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:51,120
And, since then, he's been
holding his testosterone.
1216
00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:53,800
(LAUGHTER)
1217
00:51:57,160 --> 00:51:59,320
The testosterone joke.
1218
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:01,320
Yeah, that seems to be going around.
1219
00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:03,520
It's hilarious, I get it.
1220
00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:09,280
Adrian's actually getting sick
of how much of a leech I am.
1221
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:13,040
I think this is the happiest
I've seen Awhina and Adrian.
1222
00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:14,480
This is progress.
1223
00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:17,160
It's actually nice to see them
happy and sweet.
1224
00:52:17,240 --> 00:52:19,000
Adrian actually loves
when I'm all over him.
1225
00:52:19,080 --> 00:52:21,360
Which is not the case
for everyone.
1226
00:52:21,960 --> 00:52:24,040
Look, we're going for walks,
and he's like, "Get off me!"
1227
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:26,760
I'm like, "I can't help myself,"
and I'm, like, all over him.
1228
00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:30,240
RHI: I feel really overwhelmed
and I've got tears in my eyes.
1229
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:31,480
Jamie and Carina,
1230
00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:36,120
the situation there was pretty
full on, but I think that situation
1231
00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:39,080
has really been blown up
into something that it's not,
1232
00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:42,400
and I'm really sad
because these girls are my friends
1233
00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:45,720
and I don't know how
they come back from this.
1234
00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:49,040
Yeah, I'm pretty exhausted
from the whole situation.
1235
00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:51,440
Well done, guys.
I'm proud of you guys.
1236
00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:53,200
So proud of you.
1237
00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:55,200
JAMIE: Where is the Rhi tonight?
1238
00:52:55,240 --> 00:52:57,280
I mean, where's my apology?
1239
00:52:57,320 --> 00:52:59,400
Where's my "Sorry, Jamie"?
1240
00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:02,320
Carina made it very clear
that there is no friendship.
1241
00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:05,360
I can't have friends that
don't take accountability
1242
00:53:05,440 --> 00:53:07,040
for when they've done
something wrong.
1243
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:09,480
Show some remorse.
Show you care.
1244
00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:10,560
Like, please.
1245
00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:15,320
Rhi, I know you didn't come
from a bad place,
1246
00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:17,840
but you really let me down
at the retreat.
1247
00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:20,320
You could have said
anything, anything.
1248
00:53:20,360 --> 00:53:22,800
I have defended you so many times.
1249
00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:24,720
This was blatant black and white.
1250
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:26,840
They were in the wrong.
I was in the right.
1251
00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:30,120
I would have... anything for you
to stand up in that moment.
1252
00:53:30,200 --> 00:53:33,240
You told me privately so many times
you're going to back me,
1253
00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:35,120
you're going to back me,
you're going to back me.
1254
00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:39,360
And then you decide to speak up
to support Lauren.
1255
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:41,840
I expect so much more from you.
I've always backed you.
1256
00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:43,800
Can I just say one thing?
1257
00:53:43,840 --> 00:53:45,480
I am sorry in that...
1258
00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:48,360
in that moment, in that moment,
I didn't stand up for you,
1259
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:54,920
but I actually have never
validated Lauren's behaviour ever.
1260
00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:58,040
I said multiple times
the night of the girls' night,
1261
00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:01,240
I'm like, "I can see how these girls
are offended by what you have said."
1262
00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:05,160
If you told me that you did not
care about my opinion or anything,
1263
00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:06,480
I would be gutted.
1264
00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:08,040
It's really hurtful.
1265
00:54:08,120 --> 00:54:11,080
I love this,
but, for a group setting,
1266
00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:13,680
when I needed you, I was drowning.
1267
00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:17,920
She looked and she saw everyone
completely let me down.
1268
00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:19,440
Do you know how that felt?
1269
00:54:19,480 --> 00:54:20,960
That killed me.
1270
00:54:21,000 --> 00:54:23,000
That (BLEEP) killed me.
1271
00:54:23,080 --> 00:54:26,160
I can't tell you how hard
I (BLEEP) cried after that.
1272
00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:31,200
I am sorry
that I made you feel like that.
1273
00:54:31,240 --> 00:54:32,400
I truly am.
1274
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:34,040
I am apologetic.
1275
00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:37,280
I should have said something
right then and there.
1276
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:43,160
And I do sometimes take a little bit
to process whether...
1277
00:54:43,240 --> 00:54:45,080
Like, I realised later, okay,
I should have said something
1278
00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:46,840
and I should have
said something then.
1279
00:54:46,920 --> 00:54:48,720
But, like,
I just want you to know
1280
00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:51,760
I've never had Lauren's back
the entire time.
1281
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:53,480
That has just not been the case.
1282
00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:58,360
But I'm really sorry I hurt you in
that moment when I didn't stand up.
1283
00:54:59,360 --> 00:55:00,840
Bingo. Thank you.
1284
00:55:00,880 --> 00:55:02,680
That's all I needed.
1285
00:55:03,240 --> 00:55:06,560
I came in hoping
that you would come like this.
1286
00:55:06,600 --> 00:55:08,640
I know you're a good person.
1287
00:55:08,720 --> 00:55:10,720
That obviously hurt me
because I expected more
1288
00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:12,960
because I'm good friends with you.
1289
00:55:13,040 --> 00:55:16,040
I'll never understand the choices
Rhi made,
1290
00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:20,560
but I appreciate that she is owning
she made a mistake
1291
00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:23,560
and she has taken accountability
for it.
1292
00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:26,520
How you came in tonight
was going to really show me, like,
1293
00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:27,680
what the hell's going on here?
1294
00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:30,920
Because, like I said, I look at you
and Carina both as genuine friends,
1295
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:34,240
but, at the same time, you're not
meeting me with this stupidity.
1296
00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:37,640
That's why I put you
in very different categories.
1297
00:55:37,720 --> 00:55:40,440
I really think we should put this
to bed but, like, I genuinely...
1298
00:55:40,520 --> 00:55:42,840
Rhi, love you, you're not going to
tell me to put it to bed, though,
1299
00:55:42,880 --> 00:55:44,760
'cause this is my feelings.
1300
00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:47,080
I'm not even given
a sincere apology.
1301
00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:49,440
Rhi hasn't doubled down.
Rhi hasn't called me names.
1302
00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:51,360
Rhi's come in
and she's genuinely sincere.
1303
00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:54,800
But I'll choose
when I put it to bed.
1304
00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:59,720
CARINA: Jamie not having any ounce
of my perspective
1305
00:55:59,800 --> 00:56:04,320
and then fully just understanding
Rhi's point of view and...
1306
00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:05,720
It's not fair.
1307
00:56:18,480 --> 00:56:19,800
Now I'm hurt.
1308
00:56:19,880 --> 00:56:22,880
She made me feel like
my words are invalid,
1309
00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:27,680
and that I am dumb for
standing up for myself,
1310
00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:32,760
and I'm not sure how I can progress
with Jamie in the future.
1311
00:56:39,040 --> 00:56:41,440
(THUNDER RUMBLES)
1312
00:56:41,520 --> 00:56:44,040
Like, I really think
we should put this to bed.
1313
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:45,120
Rhi, love you.
1314
00:56:45,200 --> 00:56:46,720
You're not going to tell me
to put it to bed, though,
1315
00:56:46,760 --> 00:56:47,960
'cause this is my feelings.
1316
00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:50,000
I'm not even given
a sincere apology,
1317
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:51,800
so I'll choose when I put it to bed.
1318
00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:57,480
So, I know where I stand with her.
That's cool. Fine.
1319
00:56:57,520 --> 00:56:58,640
Know where I stand with her.
1320
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:07,600
I think what's really sad
to watch here
1321
00:57:07,680 --> 00:57:12,480
is that Jamie and Carina
were friends in this experiment
1322
00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:14,480
until this situation emerged,
1323
00:57:14,560 --> 00:57:19,080
and now, due to a person
who's not even there tonight,
1324
00:57:19,120 --> 00:57:21,040
they've absolutely imploded.
1325
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:23,440
They will not hear
each other's point of view.
1326
00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:27,200
There is absolutely no peace
between them at all.
1327
00:57:27,280 --> 00:57:29,920
It's really sad to watch.
It is.
1328
00:57:31,160 --> 00:57:32,240
How are you goin'?
1329
00:57:32,320 --> 00:57:34,680
I mean, that was pretty heated
but needed to be done.
1330
00:57:34,720 --> 00:57:35,760
I think it's...
1331
00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:39,280
I think it's really (BLEEP) clear
right now, like, what's going on.
1332
00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:41,000
Carina has doubled down.
1333
00:57:41,080 --> 00:57:43,520
Fighting with her
is actually painful,
1334
00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:44,920
but I don't care...
I know.
1335
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:47,720
..'cause she's come in, she's
called me aggressive, mean girl.
1336
00:57:47,760 --> 00:57:48,840
She's backed it.
1337
00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:50,440
I know, she's made
a terrible mistake.
1338
00:57:50,520 --> 00:57:51,880
And you know what?
That's what I mean.
1339
00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:54,440
I don't want a friend like that
that's going to do that to me.
1340
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:55,600
That's it.
1341
00:57:55,680 --> 00:57:58,240
To me, it's not
she's let me down.
1342
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:00,400
I'm seeing the type of person
she is.
1343
00:58:00,480 --> 00:58:02,920
That is not my person,
not my kind of people.
1344
00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:04,280
It really isn't.
1345
00:58:04,360 --> 00:58:06,680
You choose your friends,
and I choose...
1346
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:08,680
I don't choose Carina.
1347
00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:19,400
I feel like I'm the dumb girl.
1348
00:58:19,440 --> 00:58:21,560
I'm not good with this stuff.
1349
00:58:21,600 --> 00:58:22,640
Like, I'm...
1350
00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:25,160
I just want to see
the best in everyone,
1351
00:58:25,200 --> 00:58:28,040
and I feel like I'm just stupid.
1352
00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:30,920
That's why we came into the night
and handled it the way we did
1353
00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:32,840
because we're going to find out
who has our back.
1354
00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:35,000
I said to you, if we have
to burn it to the ground,
1355
00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:36,720
let's burn it to the ground
and let it burn...
1356
00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:39,120
Like, that's it.
We've found out who our mates are.
1357
00:58:39,200 --> 00:58:42,960
I came in wanting clarity
and I've definitely gotten clarity.
1358
00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:47,800
I know exactly where I stand with
everyone, so I have no regrets.
1359
00:58:47,840 --> 00:58:49,680
No regrets.
1360
00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:50,920
Period.
1361
00:58:52,240 --> 00:58:53,480
I don't want to be here
1362
00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:56,440
to (BLEEP) get involved
with everyone's relationship.
1363
00:58:56,520 --> 00:59:00,480
Like, my relationship's going well
and I'm like, I'm like...
1364
00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:04,320
Like... I'm, like, a family girl.
1365
00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:08,320
Like, I wouldn't raise my children
to speak like that.
1366
00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:10,440
Like, that's just not me.
1367
00:59:10,480 --> 00:59:13,240
(ANGUISHED SOBBING)
1368
00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:15,760
Or my family.
1369
00:59:17,840 --> 00:59:21,240
(THUNDER RUMBLES)
1370
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:25,800
NARRATOR: Sunday night...
1371
00:59:25,880 --> 00:59:28,880
You're smiling, Adrian.
That doesn't always happen.
1372
00:59:28,960 --> 00:59:32,880
Awhina and Adrian's
extraordinary turnaround.
1373
00:59:32,960 --> 00:59:34,720
I'm happy, you know?
We're at a great place right now.
1374
00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:37,200
We're also talking about
our next moments together.
1375
00:59:37,280 --> 00:59:40,760
Love is on full display
at the commitment ceremony.
1376
00:59:40,840 --> 00:59:43,040
Can you see yourself
falling in love with Rhi?
1377
00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:45,040
Yeah.
And how does that feel?
1378
00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:47,800
It feels very good.
It feels very good.
1379
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:51,840
It was like
a 'Mean Girls' 2.0 environment.
1380
00:59:51,880 --> 00:59:53,760
A friendship in tatters...
1381
00:59:53,840 --> 00:59:56,600
You keep on doubling down
and insulting me.
1382
00:59:56,680 --> 00:59:59,640
..with neither Jamie nor Carina
backing down.
1383
00:59:59,720 --> 01:00:02,400
I defended you and your husband.
When? When?
1384
01:00:02,440 --> 01:00:05,000
Can the experts mend deep wounds?
1385
01:00:05,080 --> 01:00:07,720
You're embarrassing.
Please, just stop talking to me.
1386
01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:10,720
You talk as though
you're above them.
1387
01:00:10,760 --> 01:00:12,680
Lauren held to account.
1388
01:00:12,760 --> 01:00:14,520
You've thrown some words
around tonight.
1389
01:00:14,600 --> 01:00:18,360
Psycho, animals, I don't
associate with this type.
1390
01:00:18,440 --> 01:00:21,560
The experts deliver
some hard truths.
1391
01:00:21,640 --> 01:00:23,720
I think you're giving yourself
a little bit too much credit here,
1392
01:00:23,760 --> 01:00:25,720
personality-wise.
1393
01:00:25,760 --> 01:00:26,840
Oh, dang.
1394
01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:28,040
That's the problem, though.
1395
01:00:28,080 --> 01:00:29,960
That's your problem.
1396
01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:31,760
(UNSETTLING MUSIC)
1397
01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:33,200
Get it, Mel.
1398
01:00:33,240 --> 01:00:36,240
(MUSIC FADES)
1399
01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:40,280
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