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NARRATOR: Previously...
Hello!
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..Intimacy Week saw Alessandra
empower the wives with
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a brand-new task.
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I want you all
to create for your partner,
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your ultimate fantasy night.
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Some couples became
closer than ever.
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JAMIE: I'm already feeling
a lot more connected.
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RHI: I could see myself
falling for Jeff.
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While others...
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Can you do it nicely?
I am!
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..struggled.
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I don't think Billy
thought that was sexy.
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I thought he thought it was funny.
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Am I not doing a good job?
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Not really.
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How hard is to just be like,
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"Hey, I made a mistake, you're
gorgeous."?
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Like...
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For Morena and Tony...
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TONY: There's other
sides to romance.
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She was happy, I was happy.
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Laughing, that's what it's about.
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..it was a case
of one step forward...
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I made the mistake.
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You told me not to talk.
..two steps back.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
He can (BLEEP) off.
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And when it was the husbands' turn
to open up to Alessandra...
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And then suddenly, like,
the crazy eyes came out.
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(LAUGHS)
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What?
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Ryan's unfiltered comments...
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I've got to say, like,
she is awesome.
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(GASPS)
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..sent shock waves through the
experiment.
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CARINA: I'm just gobsmacked.
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What is wrong with some people?
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I have no doubt
that has to be brought up.
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Tonight...
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(GLASS DINGS)
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MAN: Dinner is served.
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..emotions run high.
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I'm not done.
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I'm not done with you, little boy.
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..as Morena reaches breaking point.
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Does your girl go home
every weekend?
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Does anyone here
go home every weekend.
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No, no, listen. Listen.
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You're delusional.
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She came in swinging.
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While Intimacy Week has worked its
magic for most of our couples...
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There is a real connection here.
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ALESSANDRA: Yeah.
There is good, deep communication.
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RHI: The more that this experiment
goes on,
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the more I realise that
Jeff is an amazing person.
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That's nice.
(BOTH LAUGH)
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That's lovely.
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..the question on everyone's lips...
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WOMAN: I'm so confused.
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Have you told her about
that comment?
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Does she know?
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I don't know.
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JOHN: Everyone at the table is fired
up and wants answers.
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NARRATOR: Will Ryan...
Um...
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..own up to those comments?
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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WOMAN: To be honest,
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you never know what's going to
come back to bite you.
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(SWEEPING ORCHESTRAL MUSIC)
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NARRATOR: It's been three weeks since
the couples entered the experiment.
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And tonight, they're preparing
to attend
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the second dinner party.
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The way you look,
I don't know even know if
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I wanna go to the dinner party
anymore.
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(LAUGHTER)
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And, after an eventful
Intimacy Week,
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Alessandra's tasks have made
some of the couples' relationships
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even stronger.
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You actually look, like, next level.
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You look so good.
Thank you.
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You look good as well.
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Look at you...
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Thank you.
..in your three piece.
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Intimacy Week has had a positive
impact on our relationship.
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It's allowed me to feel more closer
to Paul
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in every aspect.
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And the good vibes continue
down the hallway,
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at Jamie and Dave's.
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And be careful of those nips.
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You've got to tuck me in properly.
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No crazy hand gestures, OK?
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My relationship with Dave is
really good.
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I'm just really all icky and shit,
it's gross.
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I love it.
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I'll watch your nips,
you get my back.
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Always got your back.
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Rhi and Jeff, who are taking the
slow and steady approach
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to their intimacy,
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have also been seeing progression
after last week's tasks.
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RHI: Over the last few weeks,
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Jeff and I have just been
getting closer and closer.
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Intimacy
and the romantic side of things,
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Jeff and I have
been a little bit slower.
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But, during Intimacy Week,
we shared a kiss.
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It was a great kiss,
very passionate.
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That's obviously
brought us closer together.
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Everything just feels really right
at the moment.
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Like, the pace we're moving at,
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I can tell we both really
like each other a lot.
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The more this experiment has
gone on,
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the more grateful I am that
I am with Jeff.
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I'm enjoying it.
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I want the relationship to
go further.
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We're in a really good spot
at the moment.
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While Intimacy Week has solidified
many of the couples' bonds,
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for Morena and Tony,
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it's a different story.
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Kind of matching, pink and pink.
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Mmm.
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The atmosphere is tense
between the couple,
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after a fiery argument erupted
during Intimacy Week.
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You told me to stop talking.
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So I'm not going to talk.
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You then got up and walked off
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I won't allow anyone to
treat me like that.
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You should know how to treat a
woman.
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I hope you're really happy.
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Think about your words that
you say to people.
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OK. Maybe we need some time off.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
Give me a breather.
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After spending a night in his home
in Wollongong,
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Tony returned to their apartment,
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and has been trying to make peace
with his wife Morena.
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You look good today, Morena.
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Thank you, Tony.
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But despite Tony's attempts to
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bring the warmth back
to their marriage,
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the atmosphere remains frosty.
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You're so lucky you
don't need to do make-up, Tony.
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Kind of comb your hair
and you're done.
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(EDGY MUSIC)
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So, this week was very hard for me
and I took some time out and,
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you know, went home.
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I needed some space.
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But I am trying.
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I've got to
bring it back out of her again,
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the happiness and smile again.
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I want her to feel good, you know?
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So, I've got to
turn that around a little bit.
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What do you think about tonight's
centre stage there
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on the centre table?
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Who do you think's gonna get it?
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Yeah, I think it's you and me, Tony.
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You reckon?
Yep.
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(CHUCKLES)
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Oh, well.
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I feel very undervalued.
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So, they're going to probably
question that.
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Mmm.
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You've not wanted to spend time,
alone time with me.
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Why do you have to just take off?
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That's not OK.
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(FRAUGHT MUSIC)
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Why? What's on your mind?
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Where are you?
What are you thinking?
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Why do you have to just take off?
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You can't be hot and cold.
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Can't be a switch.
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I have a problem with that.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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Tony just disappears
because he can't cope.
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He didn't want to hang out with me
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and I don't know why.
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What's there not to love about me?
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I don't hammer people.
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I'm just honest
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and I'm extremely
considerate of people's feelings.
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And there's no awareness there...
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Alright.
..with Tony.
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He's got a wall this high,
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that goes way up there,
goes way up there.
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What do I do with that?
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(FRAUGHT MUSIC)
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As Tony and Morena struggle to
see eye-to-eye,
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Sierah is struggling to move forward
in her relationship with Billy.
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Billy and I have just got very much
a friendly, jokey vibe
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at the moment,
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so it hasn't progressed further.
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But it's just not enough.
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Like, I need a bit more physical
touch from a romantic partner.
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I'm just worried that if we stay too
long in the 'friends zone',
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that's all it's going to be.
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But Sierah's not the only bride
feeling
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frustrated with
the state of her relationship.
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I'm not sure.
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It's been a bit rocky.
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Adrian and I, we do have chemistry
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and there's a strong physical
connection.
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But I do have very real concerns
about
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whether or not we're compatible
outside of this experiment.
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I regularly think that Adrian's very
selfish in a relationship.
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Relationships work both ways.
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It needs to be 50/50.
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I'm doing things for him
and I'm showing him that I care,
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but I'm just not getting
that same energy in return.
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Not sure our lifestyles align.
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I know it's premature to be
thinking about these things,
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but, as a mum,
we always look to the future.
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As Awhina contemplates her future,
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Jamie looks to the heavens
for a glimpse into the other couples.
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What are you picking up
on the cards?
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That your husband looks suave
or what?
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That's exactly what they said.
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Like, I'm getting, like,
there's a strong male voice.
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It's giving me, like...
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Like, yeah, like, male kind of
coming in strong.
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But, like, devil.
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The shadow.
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Someone's shadow works,
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so I think someone's gonna
be a bit more exposed.
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I've got 'judgement' as well which
is like your revelation.
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Like judgement day is coming.
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So, like, this person can't hide
anymore.
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(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
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And conviction.
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Think it's uncle Ryan.
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(CHILLING MUSIC)
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Ask him anything and he'll just dig
himself a hole.
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The words that have come out of
Ryan's mouth, at the workshop,
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about Jacqui,
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were pretty absurd.
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And suddenly, like, the crazy eyes
came out.
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Like...
(LAUGHS)
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And, like, I was like,
OK, this is...
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I've got to say, like, she gives,
she gives awesome (BLEEP).
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I've got to say. Like, that's...
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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I think discussed in a group setting
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behind her back,
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it's not on.
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Think it's disgusting.
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That's not how you go about it.
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It's a schoolboy sort of mentality
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and it's, yeah, it's not great.
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I mean there's a lot of questions
that I think we should be asking,
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just as a group, in a whole.
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JEFF: I'm keen to get stuck into
Ryan and Jacqui's relationship.
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RHI: Yeah, me too.
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Yeah.
So...
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I struggled with a couple of
comments Ryan made
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when we had our workshop
with Alessandra.
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And, we don't know if Jacqui knows
what he said.
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And, yeah, I feel bad for her.
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But, yeah, it's gonna
come out tonight
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so we'll see how he
handles the situation.
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But Jacqui and Ryan are
coming into tonight's
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dinner party
with a fresh perspective.
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After last night,
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the pair decided to push
the reset button, following
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a turbulent Intimacy Week.
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RYAN: Yeah,
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the last two days have
been great, haven't they?
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I know. The best thing that
could have happened for us.
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Yeah, definitely, hey?
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I'm really happy walking
in with Ryan tonight.
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Intimacy Week has had moments
where we've both acknowledged
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we disagree, but now we're
like, you know what,
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like, we didn't sign
up for an easy task.
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We signed up to be here
and see this through.
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So let's just try
and do our best to make
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the marriage work.
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We've put aside our
differences and we're working
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really well as a team.
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It's going in
a positive trajectory.
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Like, yeah, we do have a lot
of foundations that we're
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working on and exploring.
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We're in the rebuild stage.
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We reset.
We're both on the same page.
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We're looking for the positives
moving forward, and we're
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really happy with each other.
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So, we're both really
enjoying each other's
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company and just feel quite
strong and united as a team.
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I'm looking forward to
the dinner party tonight,
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because I feel like it's nice
to be by your side.
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We've stitched it together,
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and tonight it's going to pop off
a little bit, but...
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You think it's going to pop?
Yeah, yeah, I don't know.
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Not necessarily with us.
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There's no big reveal for us.
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We've just had nothing to hide.
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Like, for example, if we get
questioned tonight, like
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together, we'll know what
the answer is straight away.
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Yeah.
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Might even say the same
thing at the same time.
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BILLY: How are you feeling
about dinner party?
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Yeah. I'm excited, actually.
It'll be fun.
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How about you?
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Yeah.
Yeah, I'm looking forward to it.
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It'll be good to catch up
with everyone, I think.
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I want to speak to, like,
Ryan and that,
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or air what the comment was
at the workshop.
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I'm going to go with
I don't think Jacqui knows.
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We've been very honest, which is
what the experiment asked for.
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I think we're both growing
and maturing as a result.
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Yeah.
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And, that's the advantage
of being just as a team.
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Open and honest. Yeah.
Yeah.
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Well, they say honesty
is the only policy.
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BILLY: So, I don't know if she
will like that
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Ryan shared that
with all the boys.
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I'd like to get in there and,
you know, make sure that Jacqui
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does know about the situation.
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Did you know that your that
your fella's saying that you've
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got crazy eyes but you give (BLEEP).
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I don't think you need to
be disrespectful to women.
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And I think Jacqui
needs to know about it.
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I'm sure we'll
navigate it later.
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The dinner party is the best
place to get to the bottom
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of things, and I think
tonight we're going to get
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to the bottom of a few things.
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That's the thing, like,
we've been super honest.
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We're trying so hard.
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We're working on us.
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I think Jacqui and I have really
grown this week and we've
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pressed the reset button.
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We're an open book and I can
say that honestly.
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Like, we thought Intimacy Week
was going to cook our goose,
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but instead
it made us stronger.
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(CAMERA CLICKS)
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So, if any questions
come at us, we're fully prepared.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC BUILDS)
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I'm not worried
at all right now.
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(EDGY MUSIC)
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ALESSANDRA: Dinner party number two.
JOHN: Mmm.
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MEL: Yes.
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Intimacy Week has been completed
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and we will see how
all of these couples are doing
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after all those exercises,
all of that disclosure.
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Ultimate fantasy night, workshops.
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A lot went on this week.
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And it's exciting, isn't
it, because you can see
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a change in body language
as a result of what you do
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with them during the week.
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It's one thing when they
speak to me, when they see
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me at the workshop, but then
things happen afterwards.
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They have to process back
home with their partner,
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so, you never know.
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(EXPECTANT MUSIC)
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OK, here we go.
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Oh.
Guys, you shouldn't have.
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Oh.
Hey.
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Red hot. Dave and Jamie walking in
hand-in-hand.
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Thanks for coming.
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Cocktail party for two.
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JOHN: Well, these two were pretty
solid at the Commitment
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Ceremony, weren't they?
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Absolutely.
When we last saw them.
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And they seem to
remain pretty solid.
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Oh, no, you're gonna ask to
pop the bottle.
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Can you pop it whilst
I wait over here, away from the...
360
00:14:06,760 --> 00:14:09,120
Oh, yeah, you scaredy cat.
Make it quick 'cause I'm thirsty.
361
00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:11,200
Oh, just don't...
Just be careful with it.
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Don't let it shoot off
in the air or something.
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It'll take my eye out.
(CHUCKLES)
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(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
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(SOFT POP)
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OK. Done?
It's all safe now.
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00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:23,160
I don't know, 'cause what if it
kills me or something?
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00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:25,480
It could shoot up and could
hit me in the eye.
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Oh. Thank you.
370
00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:30,040
Intimacy Week has definitely
brought us closer together.
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Dave and I have been very, like,
in a fairytale scenario.
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Babe, it's gorgeous out there.
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We are both people that value
loyalty and partnership.
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You're gorgeous in here.
(CHUCKLES)
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00:14:41,800 --> 00:14:42,720
Like he has my back, I have his.
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That was cheesy, but I liked it.
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00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:47,240
And we are the same
height laying down.
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00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:50,320
(LAUGHS)
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Like, it's been Intimacy Week,
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I kind of want to know, like,
if any intimacy has happened.
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00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:56,840
Well, there was a lack
of it, that's for sure.
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00:14:57,400 --> 00:14:59,120
Well, that's why, like I said,
if we all were getting laid.
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Not for us.
Not for us, no.
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00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:03,200
Why do you think I have a smile
on my fatch?
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00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:06,880
ALESSANDRA: They have a very nice
balance between all of
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her energy and just his
softness and kindness.
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00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:11,160
It sounds dangerous saying fatch.
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00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:14,040
It sounds, but it's just your face.
It's your face.
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ALESSANDRA: They are very connected
and how comfortable they
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are in their sexuality.
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I think that's a part of their
relationship that is really
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also bringing them together.
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00:15:23,280 --> 00:15:25,040
You have such a smiley fatch.
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I do, a little smile on my fatch.
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00:15:26,720 --> 00:15:28,320
(LAUGHTER)
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00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:32,080
(SQUEALING)
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00:15:33,680 --> 00:15:35,200
Oh, Carina and Paul.
Oh.
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00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:38,000
Thanks, guys.
Can you guys stop it?
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00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:39,960
(LAUGHTER)
Can you guys stop it?
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MEL: Very loved up.
Very relaxed, very connected.
401
00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:44,080
Very happy.
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00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:45,560
Such a gorgeous couple.
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00:15:45,640 --> 00:15:47,920
Oh, my god,
you look so good.
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00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:49,040
DAVE: How you been, man?
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00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:50,840
Yeah, man, we've been good, man.
Yeah?
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00:15:50,880 --> 00:15:52,160
How are you two going, mate?
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00:15:52,200 --> 00:15:53,480
It's rock solid.
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00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:56,560
ALESSANDRA: Both sessions of
the workshop were really
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good for both of them.
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00:15:57,760 --> 00:15:59,240
Wonderful.
They're very positive.
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00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:00,400
So, you two are in
a good place, then?
412
00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:02,600
Yes.
It's so nice to hear, honestly.
413
00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:05,440
I think I've been loving spending
time with Carina because
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00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:07,240
it's like, you know, you're
like, you just want to, like,
415
00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:08,400
you're celebrating your wins.
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00:16:08,440 --> 00:16:09,280
You're like, this is so good.
417
00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:11,240
We just want to, like,
roll around in the sun
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00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:12,760
talking about our men.
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00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:13,920
(LAUGHTER)
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00:16:15,160 --> 00:16:17,040
ALL: Hey!
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00:16:17,080 --> 00:16:18,400
Rhi and Jeff.
422
00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:20,800
What's going on?
You guys look stunning.
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00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:23,800
ALESSANDRA: I have such high hopes
for these two, you guys.
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They're comfortable
with each other.
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00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:29,480
There so many things about
them that just gel seamlessly.
426
00:16:29,560 --> 00:16:30,640
Easily.
Yes.
427
00:16:30,680 --> 00:16:32,200
They really blend in over there.
428
00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:33,640
Look, if we sat on that
couch, you wouldn't see us.
429
00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:35,200
(LAUGHTER)
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00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:37,320
JOHN: Well, for those two, they're
really trying to have
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a relationship again after
being together a year ago.
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00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:44,560
MEL: Sure, they've got that prior
experience, but they seem to
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be bringing a little,
a level of caution, I think.
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00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:51,000
Cheers.
Cheers, everyone.
435
00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:53,360
You seemed loved up walking
through the door.
436
00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:54,920
No, we're in a good spot.
437
00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:56,040
Every day really,
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00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:57,400
we're, like, sort of
getting better,
439
00:16:57,440 --> 00:16:58,520
strength to strength type things.
440
00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:00,960
We're just trying to, like, take
it slow and do everything right.
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00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:02,920
And hopefully it doesn't fizzle.
442
00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:06,200
There was part of me at
the start of the experiment
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and I thought, damn it, like
I'm matched with someone I've
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00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:11,080
already been with, but he's
done nothing but show me
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00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:14,760
maturity, respect, and I don't
know, everything just feels
446
00:17:14,800 --> 00:17:16,400
really right at the moment.
447
00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:18,680
The pace we're moving
at, I feel really happy.
448
00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:19,680
Yeah.
449
00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:21,520
Well, I will ask.
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00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:22,920
Are you guys having sex?
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00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:24,280
(RHI AND JEFF LAUGH)
452
00:17:27,960 --> 00:17:28,920
No.
No, we're not.
453
00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:29,800
What?
454
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We've already been
there and done it.
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00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:33,040
So it's just, like,
a bizarre situation.
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00:17:33,120 --> 00:17:35,480
Obviously we're building
towards that, but there is
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a little bit of pressure there.
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Like, besides that part
of our relationship,
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like, we're...
We're really good.
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00:17:40,200 --> 00:17:41,600
..going amazing.
Yeah.
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00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:44,360
ALESSANDRA: They're building, like,
emotional connection.
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00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:45,920
They already know
the sex can work.
463
00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:47,720
Yeah.
Been there, done that.
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00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:49,280
And they've had a really
good time at it.
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It's not the area for them.
Yeah, I like that.
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00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:53,560
JAMIE: But, like, I'm telling you,
once you get a bit
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freaky in the sheets,
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I think that will get
you over the hump, literally.
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00:17:55,920 --> 00:17:56,880
BOTH: Yeah.
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00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:59,480
Well, maybe after
a few drinks tonight.
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00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:00,840
(LAUGHTER)
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00:18:05,120 --> 00:18:07,360
Hello!
(CHEERING)
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00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:08,200
Hey.
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MEL: Sierah and Billy.
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00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:13,640
ALESSANDRA: And they walked in at
least holding hands for
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the first five or six steps.
477
00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:16,680
(OVERLAPPING SPEECH)
478
00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:17,880
Yeah, we'll take it.
479
00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:19,040
Oh, you're popping
another bottle, yeah?
480
00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:20,240
I'm an independent woman.
481
00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:22,720
Definitely feel like
we have made progress.
482
00:18:22,800 --> 00:18:25,840
We've found a bit more of
a deeper connection.
483
00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:27,520
(POP)
Got it.
484
00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:29,720
But it's happened more
naturally, which I was
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00:18:29,800 --> 00:18:31,720
worried that it was going
to be to be pressurised
486
00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:33,000
because of Intimacy Week.
487
00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:36,120
So, it's coming, but it's just
coming slower than maybe usual.
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00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:39,640
JOHN: Billy and Sierah are really
in a very sort of friendly,
489
00:18:39,720 --> 00:18:43,560
awkward zone, but I'm hoping
we'll see them back on track.
490
00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:46,000
I'm hoping that's the case.
Absolutely.
491
00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:50,680
Hey!
492
00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:51,840
Coming in pink.
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00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:53,760
ALESSANDRA: Awhina and Adrian.
JOHN: Yeah.
494
00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:56,360
MEL: Here we have a couple
entering, very much connected.
495
00:18:56,440 --> 00:18:58,000
And then as soon as they've
seen the others, they've
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gone their separate ways.
497
00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:00,040
What's cooking good looking?
498
00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:02,000
Nah, not much bro.
Very good.
499
00:19:02,040 --> 00:19:03,080
Give us an update.
500
00:19:03,120 --> 00:19:04,200
What's going on with Awhina?
501
00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:05,160
Yeah. We're good.
502
00:19:05,240 --> 00:19:07,360
Intimacy Week brought you closer,
do you reckon?
503
00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:09,040
Oh, Adrian's pretty much
good to go whenever.
504
00:19:09,120 --> 00:19:11,040
It's just I've got to...
Initiate it?
505
00:19:11,120 --> 00:19:12,960
Not initiate it.
Like, we joke about it.
506
00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:14,760
But if I was laying in bed
and we were just laying there
507
00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:16,080
and we were joking, I was like...
508
00:19:16,120 --> 00:19:16,960
And he'd go...
509
00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:18,520
And it's on.
510
00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:20,000
See, that really turns me on.
I'm ready to go.
511
00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:21,160
Yeah.
512
00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:23,600
Look, Adrian and I, we've had
some frustrating moments, but in
513
00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:26,880
saying that there's chemistry
and there's physical connection.
514
00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:28,000
Don't look at each
other right now.
515
00:19:29,120 --> 00:19:30,720
Do we align outside
the experiment?
516
00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:31,720
I'm not sure.
517
00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:34,320
I'm still unpacking all,
but we've chosen to be here.
518
00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:37,480
We knew what we signed up
for, so let's embrace it.
519
00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:45,520
Wonder where the conversations are
gonna lead today.
520
00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:49,960
Dude, like, last week, I heard
Morena honestly screaming
521
00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:51,360
her guts out in the hallway.
522
00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:53,720
I was like,
what the hell is going on?
523
00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:55,280
There's obviously
a lot going on
524
00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:56,520
between Tony and her.
525
00:19:56,560 --> 00:19:57,680
Oh, Tony and Morena...
526
00:19:57,760 --> 00:19:59,760
Tony and I
had a chat quite recently.
527
00:19:59,840 --> 00:20:01,560
He told me a lot
about everything that
528
00:20:01,600 --> 00:20:02,840
he has gone through.
529
00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:04,320
Like they are very distant.
530
00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:07,040
Apparently he feels a bit
pressured by Morena.
531
00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:08,640
She's quite full-on
532
00:20:08,720 --> 00:20:10,720
and Tony's not used to that,
I think.
533
00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:11,680
(EXHALES)
534
00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:13,080
The other day,
surely you've seen that too?
535
00:20:13,120 --> 00:20:14,120
Yeah, I know.
536
00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:15,560
Morena looked miserable.
537
00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:19,960
How long do we have
to the ride, please?
538
00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:24,320
I think Tony and Morena will
probably have a bit more
539
00:20:24,360 --> 00:20:26,920
of a spicier night tonight.
540
00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:29,120
Morena came in really open.
Mmm.
541
00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:31,720
But now she's shutting up.
But then she also is fiery.
542
00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:37,440
I really want to help them.
543
00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:39,360
Like, I want to try
and mediate as best as I can.
544
00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:43,400
Stop. Stop. Stop.
Bit more.
545
00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:44,640
Yeah, no, stop.
546
00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:46,680
Because that's the door.
OK.
547
00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:52,080
Hey!
548
00:20:52,120 --> 00:20:53,720
Ahh, Morena and Tony.
549
00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:56,040
Yeah.
Look at everybody. You look amazing.
550
00:20:57,600 --> 00:20:59,640
(INDISTINCT CHATTER)
551
00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:02,360
Looking straight at the group,
not touching.
552
00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:04,800
Not even walking side by side.
No.
553
00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:06,040
No.
554
00:21:06,120 --> 00:21:07,160
Hello.
Hi. How are you?
555
00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:08,240
Good, good.
556
00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:09,160
MEL: Very separate.
557
00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:10,440
Well, at the grooms' workshop,
558
00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:12,840
Tony spoke about having
a breakthrough and about
559
00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:14,440
feeling connected to her.
560
00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:16,000
MORENA: I feel like a red.
561
00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:17,960
ALESSANDRA: But I have not caught
up with them since.
562
00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:20,120
So I have no idea what
happened after that.
563
00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:23,320
So, just... Just half.
564
00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:28,520
I can't wait to hear about
your guys' Intimacy Week
565
00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:30,280
and what you've been up to.
566
00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:35,240
MORENA: It was suitable for
where we're at.
567
00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:50,600
You come better from.
the painting?
568
00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:54,640
It's gonna be worth a lot of money
one day.
569
00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:56,560
It will be, mate. It will be.
570
00:21:57,320 --> 00:22:00,560
Do you think, like, Intimacy Week
has brought you closer or not?
571
00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:17,840
Do you feel like you're
going backwards
572
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:19,080
or forwards right now?
573
00:22:19,120 --> 00:22:20,640
I think we're on...
574
00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:23,880
Right now I think
we're kind of just...
575
00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:29,440
We do have our ups and downs.
576
00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:30,640
Step by step.
577
00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:33,400
I want to get to that
comfortable place with Morena.
578
00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:35,760
It's kind of like a, it's
been a bit of a challenge.
579
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:37,920
You know, the arguing
and fighting.
580
00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:39,360
But I'm a positive person.
581
00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:41,840
We need to try and work
on communication with Morena.
582
00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:48,600
But for me to sit down and start
talking romance and shit?
583
00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:49,840
Yeah, I'm out.
584
00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:52,160
MORENA: Tony doesn't like deep
and meaningful conversations.
585
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:54,920
He just wants to have fun and to
be friends with everyone.
586
00:22:59,360 --> 00:23:01,160
So, it's really difficult.
587
00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:02,720
He just doesn't want to grow up.
588
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:04,800
(SNORES)
589
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:06,400
All I asked for in
this experiment is
590
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:07,600
give me an alpha man.
591
00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:09,840
I got Tony.
592
00:23:12,360 --> 00:23:13,680
NARRATOR: Still to come...
593
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:15,320
Has he told her
about that comment?
594
00:23:15,360 --> 00:23:16,200
Does she know?
595
00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:17,400
I don't know.
596
00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:19,200
The group want answers.
597
00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:21,520
Jacqui said that you
guys aren't intimate.
598
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,600
And then you
said to the boys you are.
599
00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:24,600
Is that true or false?
600
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:25,680
In what way?
601
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:27,040
(BLEEP) me!
602
00:23:27,120 --> 00:23:28,440
It's not OK at the end
of the day to
603
00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:30,280
talk shit about your wife
behind their back.
604
00:23:30,360 --> 00:23:33,720
But will Ryan
tell Jacqui the truth?
605
00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:35,440
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
606
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:43,840
Who are you girls excited
to chat to tonight?
607
00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:45,320
Like, you want to get
some goss about
608
00:23:45,360 --> 00:23:46,360
what's happening?
609
00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:47,640
I think, well, I think
everything's going to
610
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:49,880
be, like, a bit of a Jacqui
and Ryan show at the moment.
611
00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:50,880
Yeah.
612
00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:53,360
Adrian told me he spoke
about it quite negatively.
613
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:55,080
Oh, the sex workshop?
614
00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:58,560
He had many comments
at the workshop.
615
00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:00,640
If you went to a room with
a bunch of men and called
616
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:02,800
me crazy-eyed, for example,
617
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:03,760
but she gives me (BLEEP),
618
00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:05,080
That is not OK.
619
00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:06,440
Like, that's actually
something that's not OK.
620
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:09,040
MEL: And to say something like that
to the group of men can be
621
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:10,480
quite inflammatory, can't it?
622
00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:11,400
Yes.
623
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,240
And then that spreads
to their partners and...
624
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:16,600
That is making these
women uncomfortable.
625
00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:17,520
You can't be doing that.
626
00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:19,160
You can't you can't be
really negative about
627
00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:21,280
your partner and then
talk about them sexually
628
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:22,280
in the same conversation.
629
00:24:22,360 --> 00:24:23,920
I don't know how
they overcome that.
630
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:25,320
I couldn't come
back from it.
631
00:24:25,360 --> 00:24:26,640
I couldn't come back from that.
632
00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:29,280
If I was Jacqui, I would
honestly feel so
633
00:24:29,360 --> 00:24:33,560
offended, embarrassed,
and I would be angry.
634
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:38,040
Dave came home pissed the (BLEEP)
off after the sex workshop.
635
00:24:38,120 --> 00:24:42,400
He was like, "I regret not saying
anything and I let it slide."
636
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:44,120
That is exactly what Jeff said,
as well.
637
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:45,800
That's what Billy said as well.
638
00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:49,120
(TENSE MUSIC)
639
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:53,440
There definitely recently has
been a...
640
00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:54,760
There's been a shift.
641
00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:56,240
..turn in, turn in energy, yeah.
642
00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:58,280
The Phoenix is reborn.
643
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:02,160
How did you feel when he
sort of mentioned, like,
644
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:03,720
that crazy-eyed comment?
645
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:04,840
That was a bit...
646
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:06,440
Jake said that as an insult.
647
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:08,360
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
648
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:11,800
Oh, 100%.
Yeah?
649
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:12,800
Of course she would, yeah.
650
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:15,440
Have a fit.
Especially if it comes from him.
651
00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:17,720
Everyone's probably going to
want to unpack everyone's
652
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:19,440
relationship, to be honest.
653
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:22,760
What are we doing?
We're all turned up, baby.
654
00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:24,240
And then saying
comments about Jacqui.
655
00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:28,640
We didn't even know that
they were doing that.
656
00:25:29,360 --> 00:25:31,080
But at a workshop
with the boys,
657
00:25:31,120 --> 00:25:32,760
that's like childish shit.
658
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:33,880
Yeah.
659
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,280
For him to say that about
Jacqui, something I wouldn't
660
00:25:36,360 --> 00:25:38,640
say, like you have a lot
of respect for women.
661
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:40,640
That's something I really
pride myself on.
662
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,120
So, I think that's why
I sort of stewed on it.
663
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:45,040
I hope if we bring it up,
she goes, oh, yeah, we've
664
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:46,160
talked about it already.
665
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:47,640
No chance.
No chance.
666
00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:49,160
I think it's disrespectful.
Yeah.
667
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:51,960
Yeah, well, he doesn't say that
they're in a good place, so it's
668
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:53,520
very strange for them to say.
669
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:58,160
Are there any
outstanding discussions?
670
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:01,960
I don't think so, hey.
671
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:09,520
He said it like it was nothing
and then just moved on.
672
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:14,000
JOHN: What I'm very keen to see is
how not just the women are going to
673
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:15,960
confront him, but how the guys...
Yeah.
674
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:19,040
Because, we've seen in
the past, brotherhood is strong.
675
00:26:19,120 --> 00:26:21,480
But I'm hoping that this sort
of behaviour, these sort of
676
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:23,720
comments from Ryan, will
actually call him out
677
00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:25,240
and hold him to account tonight.
678
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:26,440
Yeah.
679
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:30,960
Your palms are sweaty.
Are you nervous?
680
00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:31,840
Just hot.
(LAUGHS)
681
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:40,160
Do you think, when Jacqui
comes in, we gotta pull her
682
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:42,400
aside and maybe, like, suss.
what's going on?
683
00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:44,920
JACQUI: Already missed it?
RYAN: Yep.
684
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:47,440
Get out.
685
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:53,600
I just hope Intimacy
Week has maybe
686
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:54,600
grown them closer together.
687
00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:58,120
My lady.
(CHUCKLES)
688
00:26:59,120 --> 00:27:00,440
Hello.
Hello.
689
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:15,800
Hey!
690
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:17,680
JOHN: Jacqui and Ryan.
MEL: Here they are.
691
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:18,560
Kids.
692
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:23,240
(SHAKY VOICE) Ahh... Hi!
693
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:26,320
And Ryan has no idea
they're talking about this.
694
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:29,600
No.
So he's clueless at the moment.
695
00:27:30,120 --> 00:27:32,360
Oh, look at this! 24 carat magic.
696
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:34,520
How are you, bro?
The golden couple.
697
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:38,120
Oh, yeah.
698
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:40,120
So, I was explaining
to all the girls, like,
699
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:42,040
just, like, some of the comments.
700
00:27:42,120 --> 00:27:43,680
And I said that, like,
obviously, like, you're
701
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:45,120
quite fired up about it.
702
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:47,200
I think everyone's
just confused.
703
00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:49,120
Like, that seems to be
the general consensus.
704
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:50,480
And that's, like, a good
opportunity to get them
705
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:51,560
both in the room
and ask the question.
706
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:53,800
Overall, overall good?
We're so good.
707
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:54,920
We're so happy.
708
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:56,600
Like, we've bonded up so much.
709
00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:57,560
(OVERLAPPING SPEECH)
710
00:27:57,640 --> 00:27:59,240
I actually want to hear that.
OK. Good, good.
711
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:00,400
That's it.
Yeah.
712
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:02,680
Reset is the theme, bro.
713
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:04,200
They say they had a reset,
714
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,120
I'm not sure I buy it so much.
715
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:07,200
PAUL: Pressed the reset button?
Yeah.
716
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:08,240
Yeah, we found it.
717
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:09,360
It was under the wreckage.
Yeah.
718
00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:11,680
It does not match, their words
719
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:13,920
and what they say about each
other behind their backs.
720
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:15,920
And there's just a lot of
up and downs there.
721
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:18,360
Jacqui! Come sit.
Come sit with the girls.
722
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:19,440
I'll sit here. Thank you.
723
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:20,920
I say come.
724
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:23,640
We need We need a filling in on
everything that's been going on
725
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:25,000
since last time we saw you.
726
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:27,040
Sure. I'm great. Yeah.
727
00:28:27,120 --> 00:28:30,160
So, Ryan and I, we had a reset
from, like, last week.
728
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,840
(EDGY MUSIC)
729
00:28:33,360 --> 00:28:34,880
Bro, reset, re-focus,
rebuild.
730
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:37,520
Yeah. Just communicating.
so much better, hey.
731
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:39,440
And, we just decided
to stop bickering,
732
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:40,480
stop arguing,
733
00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:41,360
forget about the past.
734
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:44,160
Let me tell you
something I've learnt.
735
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:46,600
If you get some of your dirty
laundry out and you're real
736
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,520
and honest about it, then you've
got all the answers already.
737
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,680
You know? I feel as if it was,
like, almost healthy for us to
738
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:54,280
do that, to be unhealthy first
and then get the petty shit
739
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:55,360
out of the way.
740
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:56,480
And then now we're
just rebuilding.
741
00:28:58,280 --> 00:28:59,760
And focus on the good
stuff we've got going for
742
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:01,400
each other and have fun.
743
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:07,960
We both are very physically
affectionate, so we really like
744
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:09,320
cuddling each other and kissing.
745
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:10,600
Are you knocking boots?
746
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:14,600
Knocking boots?
747
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:18,320
No, no, we're not having sex.
748
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:22,000
Are you doing stuff, though?
749
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:27,200
Not really.
750
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:30,160
JAMIE: Wait, what?
751
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:31,640
I'm really confused.
752
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:34,120
I just want to know
if Jacqui and Ryan are doing
753
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:35,320
the deed or something.
754
00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:36,920
Because one says
this, one says that.
755
00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:38,120
And, to be honest, that's
what I want to know.
756
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:42,000
Is there any mouth
to penises?
757
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:43,160
No! No!
758
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:45,160
Like, we're literally, like, no.
759
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:49,400
JOHN: The Ryan Jacqui
story doesn't add up.
760
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:53,000
And of course, the girls
know this throwaway line
761
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:54,280
that Ryan has made.
762
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:57,760
It'll be up to Ryan to own
up and clarify, because he
763
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:00,840
was the one who offered
the information.
764
00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:02,240
Nobody was probing
him about that.
765
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:05,440
Yeah. It's just at
the stage, we're building
766
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:06,800
an emotional connection.
767
00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:08,880
Yeah.
768
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:13,760
I know it's hard to believe.
769
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:15,680
I know it's hard to believe,
but it's the truth.
770
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:16,800
Yeah.
771
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:21,240
I'm so confused because
there's definitely
772
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,000
something going on here.
773
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:25,280
Someone's lying.
Someone's not telling the truth.
774
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:28,600
Do you want another drink?
I feel like I might, yeah.
775
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:30,200
Are you gonna come?
I'll come with you. Yeah.
776
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:34,680
(CLEARS THROAT)
777
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:39,520
I just...
That is so (BLEEP) awkward.
778
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:42,480
Just pretend that you want
a drink or something.
779
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:43,720
Oh, look at the glasses.
780
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:46,680
That's really (BLEEP) awkward,
because he's gone and announced
781
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:49,480
to everyone that they are,
in fact, doing the deed.
782
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:51,640
And now she just said
that they aren't.
783
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:53,360
The truth will come out
because if she's saying no,
784
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:54,240
he's saying, yeah.
785
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:56,560
But, like, do they have an
agreement not to say anything?
786
00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:58,440
Is that why she's
not saying anything?
787
00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:00,160
I'm super trusting.
788
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:01,800
But it's, like, half a story here.
789
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:03,840
It ain't aligning.
790
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:07,920
Jacqui expressed how
they weren't intimate.
791
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:12,760
Ryan said they are intimate,
but again in a very lads',
792
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:15,240
derogatory kind of way,
which is not cool.
793
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:17,080
And that's a whole
issue in itself.
794
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:19,520
Like, what's the truth,
because nothing makes sense.
795
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:22,440
Is she not wanting to say
it in front of everyone?
796
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:24,720
Like, is she a bit uncomfortable,
if that's the case?
797
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:28,000
Or, like, did he just make that
up just to literally look cool?
798
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:31,480
Yeah, exactly.
We'll talk about that later, right?
799
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:33,800
One of them's lying.
800
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:35,360
Regardless what it is,
own it.
801
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:36,600
I don't like lying.
802
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,200
Be honest, because you
never know what's going
803
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:41,320
to come back to bite you.
804
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:45,320
Once again, Jacqui and Ryan
have confused the (BLEEP) out of me.
805
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,080
(RINGING)
806
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:51,200
Dinner is served.
807
00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:52,840
(CHEERING)
808
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:53,960
I'm hungry.
809
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:56,520
Let's go see where
we're all sitting.
810
00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:59,240
Hope we're next to each other.
I hope so.
811
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:01,200
I know, same.
I think a lot's brewing here.
812
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:04,280
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
813
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:06,160
Jacqui and I are very
prepared for tonight.
814
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:09,280
I think we're in a healthy
place to just keep focusing on
815
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:12,840
that team energy and supporting
each other and putting into
816
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:15,200
place what we've learnt this week.
817
00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:16,160
Thank you.
818
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:18,920
Dinner party number two is
going to be scintillating.
819
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:21,360
Feeling good.
820
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:34,880
Oh, nice.
821
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:36,360
OK. Have a seat.
822
00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:40,640
JAMIE: Oh, we're on that side, babe.
823
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:43,720
MEL: There's a little bit of nervous
energy around the table.
824
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:47,080
Of course, there's a lot
that's unspoken at the moment.
825
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:49,640
TONY: Big cheers to everybody.
Yeah, cheers, guys.
826
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:50,960
Cheers.
827
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:52,200
Second dinner party.
Cheers.
828
00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:54,040
Let's go.
Let's go.
829
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:56,880
Cheers.
You haven't got wine, Ryan.
830
00:32:56,960 --> 00:33:01,040
(EVERYONE SAYING 'CHEERS')
(GLASSES CLINKING)
831
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:02,480
Mmm.
832
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:07,280
JOHN: Jacqui and Ryan.
833
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:09,760
The group is suspicious of them.
834
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:13,440
Ryan said something
inappropriate and disrespectful.
835
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:16,760
Everyone at the table is
fired up and want answers.
836
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,200
(INDISTINCT CHATTER)
837
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:24,840
(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
838
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:27,720
Ryan. Ryan, tell us
about the jacket.
839
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:30,120
The jacket.
Talk us through it, mate.
840
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:31,960
Well, I've never
worn gold before.
841
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:34,360
He was going to supporting
his wife tonight.
842
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:37,280
But she had the gold picked
out, like, two weeks ago.
843
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:39,000
I had to do something, hey.
(LAUGHTER)
844
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:40,280
Yeah, right. OK.
845
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:44,480
Ryan and Jacqui, they came
in quite confident into
846
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:46,280
the dinner party tonight.
847
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:48,440
But then there were
a few things mentioned.
848
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,600
One of the things that
he says is Jacqui gives (BLEEP).
849
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:58,240
I personally am not someone
who would speak really bluntly
850
00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:01,400
about things that my partner
and I have done, especially
851
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:03,840
considering apparently
they aren't intimate.
852
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:08,160
So, where the (BLEEP) does
that come from?
853
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:11,840
How's your week been?
854
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:13,600
How was your Intimacy Week?
855
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:15,480
Good, good.
Yeah?
856
00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:17,320
Like, a bit
apprehensive about it, hey,
857
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:18,160
but it's turned good.
858
00:34:18,240 --> 00:34:19,560
Yeah?
It's turned good, yeah.
859
00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:20,760
What did you guys get up to?
860
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:22,800
Uh, so, we, uh, had the...
861
00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:24,760
We had the honey bird
lingerie task thing.
862
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:25,960
Ooh, yeah?
863
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:27,680
We had to go there and
pick out, like, a few different
864
00:34:27,720 --> 00:34:29,120
looks and whatnot.
865
00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:30,160
And, yeah, we
settled on a red one.
866
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:31,280
Nice.
867
00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:32,720
I mean, Jacqui would
look hot in red.
868
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:35,920
Yeah.
Oh, we established that, hey.
869
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:37,560
We established that.
870
00:34:40,240 --> 00:34:42,440
WOMAN: By the looks of things,
they came in very united.
871
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:45,080
(FRAUGHT MUSIC)
872
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:46,760
Has he told her
about that comment?
873
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:47,800
Does she know?
874
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:49,280
Have they kind of come together?
875
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:50,600
I don't know.
876
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:54,520
And they left us this,
like, little, Polaroid
877
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:56,160
camera to take sexy snaps.
878
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:58,120
I had my Bonds on as well.
879
00:34:58,160 --> 00:34:59,280
That's it.
880
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:01,960
And I was like, Jacqui, do that
and get your hair down and shit.
881
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:03,680
We literally had a lot of fun.
882
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:05,640
And like, now we've got this
cute little thing next to my bed
883
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:06,920
that's, like, a private shrine.
884
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:08,360
It's so cute.
885
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:10,160
You're not feeling it.
886
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:11,160
No, I'm not, I'm not feeling it.
887
00:35:11,240 --> 00:35:13,160
He looks nervous to me.
He does.
888
00:35:13,240 --> 00:35:14,600
Is he sweating?
He is sweating.
889
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:17,760
What we saw with Jacqui
and Ryan on the couch at
890
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:21,760
the Commitment Ceremony,
they were very inconsistent.
891
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:22,960
For the group,
892
00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:26,760
they're seeing behaviours from
them again, which doesn't
893
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:28,640
really make sense to them.
894
00:35:28,720 --> 00:35:30,960
And that's why the Ryan
Jacqui story doesn't add up.
895
00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:34,280
We're so good because we
don't bottle stuff either.
896
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:35,560
We just get it out.
Yeah, we just get it out.
897
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:36,680
We don't let it
simmer in the room.
898
00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:38,840
It's always addressed
within, like, a few hours.
899
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:43,280
Hey, like, yeah, like, I believe
that you can't have 100% peace
900
00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:45,120
in any sort of marriage, you know,.
901
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:46,920
Like, the little disagreements
are bound to happen.
902
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:49,760
And I'm a realist,
you know.
903
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:52,720
I didn't come here expecting
the perfect, magical,
904
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:53,920
you know, connection.
905
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:55,480
I knew there was going
to be some turbulence.
906
00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:57,400
And there has been a little.
907
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:00,840
I feel it's healthy to
solve problems early.
908
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:03,800
She's a lawyer,
I'm a project manager,
909
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:05,720
so it's, like, hard to
give ground sometimes.
910
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:11,560
Those are, like, huge issues.
That was it. And they solved.
911
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:12,920
What was one of the issues?
912
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:14,760
Was it Ryan saying that
you had crazy eyes?
913
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:20,160
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
914
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:24,640
Yeah, I do have crazy eyes. I agree.
915
00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:27,640
I've brought my crazy eyes tonight.
916
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:34,800
No, but Ryan said
it at the workshop.
917
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:36,280
Yeah, I know. I do have crazy eyes.
918
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:38,680
I do.
(LAUGHS)
919
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:46,880
Are you OK with
him saying that?
920
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:48,440
Yeah, I'm totally fine.
921
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:50,600
Gee, Jacqui's really
minimising this, isn't she?
922
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:52,880
Yeah.
Letting him off the hook.
923
00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:56,040
Some people find that
a compliment to have crazy eyes.
924
00:36:57,800 --> 00:36:59,400
Do you think that's
a compliment?
925
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:00,760
I would love to have crazy eyes.
926
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:01,760
Why?
927
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:02,960
It's fun.
928
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:07,440
The bottom line is, talking like
that about a woman in front of
929
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:08,680
the lads is disrespectful.
930
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:10,120
It's disrespectful.
And it's wrong.
931
00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:12,880
And right now, the group
has tried to call out
932
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:13,720
Jacqui and Ryan.
933
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:15,360
They're not buying it.
They're pushing it back.
934
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:16,680
They're going to keep trying.
935
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:21,400
RYAN: You know, like, we can
see the humour in things.
936
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:22,640
Hey, Billy, do you think
I have crazy eyes?
937
00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:23,960
No.
938
00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:26,960
I think it's quite disrespectful
to call your wife and say that
939
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:28,800
she's got crazy eyes,
to all the boys.
940
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:31,200
Oh, that's OK, because Ryan
had already heard me say that.
941
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:33,440
But, Billy, that's
the difference, mate, is
942
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:35,200
it first came from Jake
and were able to turn it
943
00:37:35,240 --> 00:37:37,000
into a joke, you know?
944
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:39,240
Yeah, I just didn't
take it as a joke then, I guess.
945
00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:40,280
That was a so
valuable thing to do.
946
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:41,320
Like, honestly.
947
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:42,400
And it's helped us a lot too.
948
00:37:43,240 --> 00:37:45,920
They really seized on
the crazy eyes comment.
949
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:48,680
You shouldn't talk disrespectful
of women and this and that.
950
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:50,240
And I'm like,
I didn't say it first.
951
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:53,160
Literally, there was another
groom that said it first.
952
00:37:53,240 --> 00:37:56,320
Jacqui thought it was funny
and then I just followed that
953
00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:57,400
sense of humour through.
954
00:37:57,480 --> 00:37:59,680
I don't give a (BLEEP).
(LAUGHS)
955
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:03,840
Jacqui's playing the role
of you're all mad,
956
00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:05,160
I'm not mad.
957
00:38:05,240 --> 00:38:09,000
JOHN: Jacqui and Ryan are going to
have each other's backs here.
958
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:11,120
I actually agree
I have crazy eyes.
959
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:12,640
(BLEEP) me!
960
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:16,520
Jacqui, I think she was
just trying to have his
961
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:19,680
back, but Ryan's comments at
the workshop made me feel
962
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:22,680
really uncomfortable, and it was
a remark used to offend her.
963
00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:26,600
Poor girl, sitting at home and he's
slagging her off behind her back.
964
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:30,680
Yeah, I won't let
it slide, for sure.
965
00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:33,840
They're not crazy, Jacqui.
They're not crazy eyes.
966
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,120
I don't care.
967
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:37,800
WOMAN: It sounds like another dig.
968
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:39,520
RYAN: See what I mean?
969
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:40,720
Like, that's a very dramatic...
970
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:42,920
I think we're getting...
Oh, god.
971
00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:45,560
I think this is a really
pathetic conversation.
972
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:47,840
You know, like, we didn't sign
up to have each other's back.
973
00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:50,000
We signed up to work
on a marriage and lay
974
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:51,040
out our issues.
975
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:52,440
Like, yeah, that is a marriage.
976
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:53,720
That is a marriage.
977
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:57,480
We're happy.
We're in a good place.
978
00:38:57,560 --> 00:39:00,080
Yeah. Reset. Re-focus.
Rebuild.
979
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:01,640
That's what we're doing.
Yeah.
980
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:06,480
JAMIE: I think it's good
that you guys are forming
981
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:07,800
a partnership, I really do.
982
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:11,320
Just, the only question
I had was, Jacqui said that
983
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:13,520
you guys aren't intimate.
984
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:14,520
And then you said to
the boys you are.
985
00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:16,200
Is that true or false?
In what way?
986
00:39:16,240 --> 00:39:17,400
(HARSH MUSIC)
987
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:20,920
You said she gives (BLEEP),
on the couch in front of the boys.
988
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:21,800
Ooh, yes, you did.
989
00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:24,640
Like a bomb. Yeah.
990
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:28,000
(FRAUGHT MUSIC)
991
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:38,280
JAMIE: The only question I had
was, Jacqui said that you
992
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:39,680
guys aren't intimate.
993
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:41,680
And then you said to
the boys you are.
994
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:43,240
Is that true or false?
In what way?
995
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:49,880
You said she gives (BLEEP),
on the couch in front of the boys.
996
00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:51,040
Oh, yes you did.
997
00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:57,960
You actually denied
the fact that you had
998
00:39:58,000 --> 00:39:59,120
any intimacy at all.
999
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:10,960
Because it's a positive thing.
1000
00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:13,040
DAVE: It's disgusting.
1001
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:15,320
The way that he said it,
it wasn't (BLEEP) a positive way.
1002
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:17,280
It was a joke,
and he was making fun of it.
1003
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:19,200
(EDGY MUSIC)
1004
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:23,040
I just feel like, I don't
speak about women like that
1005
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:24,960
and I don't think anyone should.
1006
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:26,600
You know, made me pretty upset
1007
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:30,160
that he didn't recognise that
that was a shitty thing to do.
1008
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:32,760
It's not OK at the end of
the day to talk shit about
1009
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:33,880
your wife behind their back.
1010
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:35,040
And I took offence to it.
1011
00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:36,920
RYAN: I really don't appreciate you
guys drilling down on it, because
1012
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:38,320
we have an understanding that
you guys don't.
1013
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:39,720
As if you don't understand
where we're coming from.
1014
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:42,040
Dave, mate, you're speaking
from ignorance, brother.
1015
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:43,080
Ignorance?
1016
00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:44,800
It's absolute grandstanding.
1017
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:47,920
And they wanted to divide us.
1018
00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:49,800
It didn't work. Sorry, lads.
1019
00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:52,760
No-one here speaks about
their partner like that.
1020
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:54,320
Do you think he
should have said it?
1021
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:55,640
Yes or no?
1022
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:57,600
You're not making any sense.
1023
00:40:57,680 --> 00:40:59,400
You said it, and it was
uncomfortable for me
1024
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:01,080
and everyone in that room.
1025
00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:03,760
You've been at me several
times and we've barely
1026
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:05,400
even spoken between this.
1027
00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:06,760
So, where's this vendetta
come from, mate?
1028
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:08,160
Tell me.
1029
00:41:08,240 --> 00:41:09,480
Obviously you're dumb
if you don't understand.
1030
00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:10,440
You don't speak about
women like that.
1031
00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:11,640
MEL: Poor Jacqui.
1032
00:41:11,720 --> 00:41:14,680
JOHN: They've been arguing
all about her.
1033
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:17,400
I think she's taking it all in.
1034
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:19,600
It's very clear that this
is uncomfortable for her.
1035
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:21,400
I think she's really embarrassed.
1036
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:26,120
How come you didn't address it
with her in the in the last week?
1037
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:29,320
How come you haven't told
her that you said it?
1038
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:32,240
You shouldn't be talking badly
about me behind my back.
1039
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:33,880
Mmm, definitely.
Like, I do agree with that.
1040
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:36,920
It was a risky...
1041
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:38,320
It was a risky thing to say.
1042
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:41,600
The humour was my fault.
1043
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:43,640
I should not have said
that in that context.
1044
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:44,640
Yeah.
1045
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:49,400
I'm feeling pretty
humiliated and embarrassed.
1046
00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:53,880
I really don't think my sex life
is relevant to this experiment.
1047
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:56,920
This is not a topic
for discussion,
1048
00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:58,440
kind of the entire table.
1049
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:15,680
Yeah.
1050
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:17,680
No more intimacy
conversations. Done.
1051
00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:22,040
He's hopeless in this regard.
1052
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,440
Like, how can you not
consider the words that
1053
00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:26,760
come out of his mouth?
1054
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:31,360
I'm telling you, I think you
two are actually compatible
1055
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:33,320
because I think you guys
speak the same language.
1056
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:37,000
JACQUI: Like, we had an agreement to
shoot down everyone in the room.
1057
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:38,400
And you saw that tonight.
1058
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:41,600
The way I defended my husband
when it's really not called for.
1059
00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:44,920
I literally came into this
experiment saying I need
1060
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:46,360
intelligence and loyalty.
1061
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:51,320
But I think Ryan has not given
me the respect I gave him.
1062
00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:54,680
JAMIE: You guys just have to
work on the comments.
1063
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:57,200
I honestly think you guys should
be careful with the words you
1064
00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:59,560
say, because surely something
like that would trigger me.
1065
00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:01,000
I've been triggered.
1066
00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:03,360
I was triggered when he
told me I was not the most
1067
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:04,800
beautiful woman in the world.
1068
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:07,880
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1069
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:14,000
I think the ranking task
is, like, my core value.
1070
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:17,120
Like, I value loyalty
above all else.
1071
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:21,400
I'll put you third.
1072
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:22,720
(ECHO)
Third. Third.
1073
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:26,920
Tell me I'm beautiful
and find me attractive.
1074
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:28,960
I'm being taught to
lower my standards is
1075
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:29,960
really how I'm feeling.
1076
00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:33,800
I was like this (BLEEP)
triggering.
1077
00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:37,200
Like, I deserve to be the most
beautiful woman in the world.
1078
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:40,240
I'm triggered by that.
1079
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:41,280
And I deserve better.
1080
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:42,440
End of story.
1081
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:43,880
I will never settle for less.
1082
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:46,360
Ever. Ever. Ever.
1083
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:50,400
MAN: Like, well, what
the hell is going on?
1084
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:52,400
Instead of just, you know,
really talking about
1085
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:55,320
the comments that Ryan made,
Jacqui just keeps bringing back
1086
00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:58,400
the past and the fact that he
didn't put her first, you know,
1087
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:00,200
during the whole ranking task.
1088
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:04,120
But the thing is,
how much is enough?
1089
00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:05,920
Because, like, when
you feel like you're
1090
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:07,000
constantly having to...
1091
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:08,080
No, no, no, no.
But what I'm saying is...
1092
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:09,720
Enough is the best.
No, no, no, no.
1093
00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:12,280
But did you put her fourth
or third in the challenge?
1094
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:14,000
Coming back to
the line-up again?
1095
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:15,600
Did you put her fourth or
third in the challenge?
1096
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:18,080
No. Yeah. No, no, no, no,
I had her first.
1097
00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:20,720
So, that triggered me.
I'm sorry.
1098
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:25,200
So, it was a little bit
frustrating for me to see
1099
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:28,440
that our little commitment
towards rebuilding
1100
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:30,360
and letting past things go.
1101
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:33,640
Yeah, like, it wasn't exactly
honoured from her part.
1102
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:36,560
No, it's not healthy.
1103
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:38,080
Like, I put him first.
1104
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:40,280
Tonight I defended him
in front of everyone.
1105
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:42,240
I put loyalty before honesty.
1106
00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:45,840
Do you have a sister?
I'm just curious.
1107
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:46,960
Do you have siblings or...
1108
00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:48,360
I have a younger brother
and a younger sister.
1109
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:49,920
Alright. Yeah.
1110
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:52,240
And I'm incredibly close to my
parents, they're my best friends.
1111
00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:54,000
And they're my idols in
terms of relationship.
1112
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:56,600
They're celebrating their 40th
wedding anniversary this year.
1113
00:44:56,680 --> 00:44:59,400
So, like, they're the gold standard,
absolutely.
1114
00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:02,920
And what you saying to me was, like,
1115
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:04,400
that comes after trust
1116
00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:06,320
and it comes after a more
emotional development.
1117
00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:08,040
Do you think your
sister is beautiful?
1118
00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:09,560
My sister? Of course.
1119
00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:10,760
She's a beautiful,
beautiful woman.
1120
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:11,800
Absolutely.
Yep.
1121
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:13,840
If you were to rank her
in the room
1122
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:15,200
of a women here,
how would you rank her?
1123
00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:18,960
(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
1124
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:22,120
I don't think that's
the right context.
1125
00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:23,200
It is. It's a question.
1126
00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:26,000
In this challenge we were all given,
how would you rate her?
1127
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:30,560
The stuff you guys say is very,
like, it's...
1128
00:45:30,600 --> 00:45:31,600
We're not compatible.
1129
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:33,480
Like, he is nothing I asked for.
1130
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,680
Like, I asked for
someone intelligent,
1131
00:45:35,720 --> 00:45:36,960
loyal, like, you know.
1132
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:38,160
Like, I can't change that.
1133
00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:42,840
Don't patronise. Saying that is
not a nice comment to say.
1134
00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:44,000
I've given up.
1135
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:48,160
You guys have it at him because
I've had this argument five
1136
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:50,000
times with you and I'm done.
1137
00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:52,280
(FRAUGHT MUSIC)
1138
00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:06,000
JOHN: Their internal chaos as
a couple, it always seems
1139
00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:07,480
to come to the surface.
1140
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:10,200
ALESSANDRA: They said they were
resetting and moving forward.
1141
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:12,640
That clearly is not
what we saw tonight.
1142
00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:17,200
Jacqui now has
broken ranks with Ryan,
1143
00:46:17,240 --> 00:46:19,600
and it's all over the photo ranking
1144
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:23,240
and particularly her feeling
like she is not adored by him.
1145
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:25,960
Eventually it's
going to hit you.
1146
00:46:26,040 --> 00:46:27,960
Like, if she feels like she's
not the best looking person
1147
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:30,480
in the room by her partner,
that affects you.
1148
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:36,720
JOHN: We've had men, unfortunately,
in previous experiments, really
1149
00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:40,040
drop the ball on this test
of emotional intelligence.
1150
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:44,840
She is still very much
hung up on what he's said
1151
00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:46,600
about her appearance.
1152
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:48,400
She's not been able
to let that go.
1153
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:52,480
(TENSE MUSIC)
1154
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:53,520
Jacqui.
1155
00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:56,240
JACQUI: What do you want?
1156
00:46:56,280 --> 00:46:57,880
Like, this is a challenge.
1157
00:46:57,920 --> 00:46:59,200
We just saw you...
1158
00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:01,760
What, did your partner put
you first in the challenge?
1159
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:03,840
Yeah, he did.
Yeah, exactly. Done.
1160
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:05,000
Like, end of story.
1161
00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:06,200
Like, I'm never going
to settle for this.
1162
00:47:06,240 --> 00:47:07,720
Never ever, ever, ever.
1163
00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:10,240
That's the conversation.
1164
00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:12,240
OK, I'm gonna
go to the bathroom.
1165
00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:15,160
That was a great conversation.
1166
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:17,800
Coming up...
1167
00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:19,720
That stuff sticks
with me as a mum.
1168
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:21,880
Old wounds resurface.
1169
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:23,360
She needs to see him as
a potential father figure.
1170
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:25,440
Yeah.
And he's not behaving like one.
1171
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:27,320
That is so disrespectful.
1172
00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:29,040
And...
Tony's got the table.
1173
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:30,320
Tony's got the microphone.
1174
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:31,720
No, because I'm not done.
1175
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:34,520
I'm not done with you, little boy.
1176
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:37,200
Morena's emotions boil over.
1177
00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:39,200
Does your girl
go home every weekend?
1178
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:41,760
Does anyone here
go home every weekend?
1179
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:44,920
He knows how he's treated me,
and I don't deserve it.
1180
00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:54,360
(TENSE MUSIC)
1181
00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:58,320
When do compliments stop
1182
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:01,680
and when does it become like
a hollow exercise, you know.
1183
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:04,960
So, in that regard, I didn't
know how to succeed at it.
1184
00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:06,400
And then I got told I failed.
1185
00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:09,800
JEFF: Jacqui, just quickly.
1186
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:12,480
So, last night, you guys
sounded like you made a call
1187
00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:14,920
to restart your relationship,
not bring up the past.
1188
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:16,520
And then what we've
witnessed is you guys are
1189
00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:17,920
bringing up the past again.
1190
00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:19,480
Where do you go from here?
1191
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:21,240
Yeah, we drop it
and we just let it go.
1192
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:22,160
But...
1193
00:48:22,240 --> 00:48:24,280
Yeah, no, we leave it
where it is and we move on.
1194
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:26,000
Yeah.
1195
00:48:27,240 --> 00:48:28,280
What?
1196
00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:32,240
We just have to
figure it out later.
1197
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:40,680
Yeah.
1198
00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:44,320
Ryan and Jacqui, there's
a fair bit going on there.
1199
00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:46,880
Actually, I'm not sure
if they got any sort of
1200
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:48,960
way forward, to be honest.
1201
00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:51,040
They've got a lot of work to do
if they're going to continue
1202
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:52,240
on in this experiment.
1203
00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:56,400
Hopefully they do
put the effort in.
1204
00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:58,920
But yeah, there's a fair bit
going on with those two.
1205
00:49:00,960 --> 00:49:02,400
MAN: I just wanted to give it to
you. What do you mean?
1206
00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:04,920
MAN: Paul and Carina?
1207
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:07,360
I just want to ask, how is
the relationship going?
1208
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:11,320
It can't... Hey, it can't be.
It can't be that perfect.
1209
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:12,440
Hold on.
1210
00:49:12,520 --> 00:49:13,520
I don't want to hear all the
positives.
1211
00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:14,720
I want to hear some negatives.
1212
00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:17,080
PAUL: No, look, I'll be, I'll
be, I'll be, I'll be real.
1213
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:18,160
Things between Carina and I,
1214
00:49:18,240 --> 00:49:21,040
obviously, as you guys can
see, it's going great.
1215
00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:23,360
And there is genuinely
nothing major, nothing
1216
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:25,200
negative about her.
1217
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:28,600
We can we can see
it's very, very good.
1218
00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:30,440
But can you please give us
something that you might
1219
00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:31,440
have struggled with?
1220
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:36,400
Please, please, please tell us
you've struggled with one thing.
1221
00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:38,480
No, honestly, like...
1222
00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:41,280
Please just give us one thing.
1223
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:42,200
One thing.
1224
00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:46,640
He leaves his jocks when he
has a shower in the (BLEEP)
1225
00:49:46,720 --> 00:49:48,960
in the, in the...
(MEN TAUNTING)
1226
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:50,640
I would never do that.
1227
00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:53,000
Literally, as bad as it gets.
1228
00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:57,680
MEL: It's quite clear that
there is a real connection here.
1229
00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:00,320
Yes.
There is good, deep communication.
1230
00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:02,480
There is empathy.
There is compassion.
1231
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:04,520
There is understanding
between them.
1232
00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:06,440
It looks like there is
a really strong
1233
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:08,120
foundation being built
here.
1234
00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:10,320
Sorry there's nothing negative, guys.
1235
00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:11,800
I'm sorry.
Yeah.
1236
00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:14,040
Who's next?
1237
00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:15,400
I think it's Jeff and Rhi.
1238
00:50:15,960 --> 00:50:17,400
Let's get the hard
questions going.
1239
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:18,400
I'm starting to sweat.
1240
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:23,680
So, Ultimate Fantasy Night date
went really well.
1241
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:26,800
We had a nice dinner
and some nice wine, but I just
1242
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:29,800
wanted to finish it off because
on our wedding day, our wedding
1243
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:33,880
dance, I couldn't dance properly
because my dress was too long
1244
00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:35,720
and I kept tripping over it.
1245
00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:38,720
So I put the wedding song
on and I said, "Can we please
1246
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:40,120
"redo our wedding dance?"
1247
00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:43,960
JOHN: I like that.
They're being romantic.
1248
00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:45,320
They're getting to
know one another.
1249
00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:48,320
They're connected emotionally,
deeper bonding going on there.
1250
00:50:49,240 --> 00:50:51,200
It made me realise, though,
that we really can't dance.
1251
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:54,000
I thought I thought it was
the dress, but I think it's...
1252
00:50:54,040 --> 00:50:55,880
I think it's just us, actually.
1253
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:58,520
I feel like I have Jeff's
support all the time,
1254
00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:01,080
and I feel like the more
that this experiment goes on,
1255
00:51:01,160 --> 00:51:04,000
the more I realise that
Jeff is an amazing person.
1256
00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:05,000
That's nice.
1257
00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:08,400
That's lovely.
Oh, thanks.
1258
00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:11,080
Well, we're going well.
We're going well.
1259
00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:14,040
ALESSANDRA: I see a lot of progress
in them as a couple this week.
1260
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:16,240
I think they're having
the correct conversations
1261
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:19,880
and they're being very open
and very truthful and very
1262
00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:23,160
respectful of the other's
process and rhythm and timing.
1263
00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:26,320
JOHN: Going in the right direction.
1264
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:28,080
Yeah, yeah.
1265
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:31,920
WOMAN: Ryan?
1266
00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:33,160
Ryan!
1267
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:35,520
Ryan?
1268
00:51:35,560 --> 00:51:36,600
I'm not done with him.
1269
00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:37,560
Ryan?
1270
00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:38,680
Excuse me.
1271
00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:40,200
(MORENA SLAPS THE TABLE)
1272
00:51:40,240 --> 00:51:41,280
Excuse me!
1273
00:51:41,320 --> 00:51:42,160
Ryan?
1274
00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:43,720
Excuse me.
1275
00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:45,800
I want...
I'm next in line, I want Ryan.
1276
00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:48,160
Ryan!
I can hear my name. Hello?
1277
00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:49,280
I'm not done with him.
1278
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:50,160
Ryan!
1279
00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:53,160
Yes, Morena.
1280
00:51:54,720 --> 00:51:56,160
I'm going to tell you
from a woman,
1281
00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:57,880
from a 57-year-old woman.
1282
00:51:59,080 --> 00:52:02,560
You can say, you know,
intimacy was fantastic,
1283
00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:10,800
but if you were in a room with
all these boys and you speak
1284
00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:16,000
about Jacqui and she gives (BLEEP).
1285
00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:17,560
Are you joking?
1286
00:52:19,320 --> 00:52:21,680
JAMIE: I don't know what's
going on here, but Morena,
1287
00:52:21,720 --> 00:52:23,360
she's on her spicy.
1288
00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:24,640
She's coming in hot.
1289
00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:25,840
I haven't finished.
1290
00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:27,760
MAN: I think Morena's
going back to Ryan.
1291
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:33,720
Oh, god. Um. Um.
1292
00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:34,880
I thought that was it.
1293
00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:36,640
Like, the conversation
was over and done with.
1294
00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:39,360
Mm-hm.
1295
00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:41,720
Do not speak about
women like that, at all.
1296
00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:42,840
It is out of line.
1297
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:44,040
It is not good.
1298
00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:52,280
PAUL: Morena having a go at Ryan,
a little bit out of nowhere.
1299
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:54,920
There's a lot of conflict
in Morena and Tony.
1300
00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:56,560
You know, I want
to find out more.
1301
00:52:56,600 --> 00:52:57,600
PAUL: Morena?
1302
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:00,240
I've got a question for you.
1303
00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:01,640
Because you're giving,
like, love advice
1304
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:03,040
and relationship advice.
1305
00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:04,680
But talk to us about
your relationship.
1306
00:53:05,440 --> 00:53:07,080
I want to know what's going on
with you,
1307
00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:10,160
because I just heard you
screaming in the hallway.
1308
00:53:10,720 --> 00:53:11,960
I just want to know what
was going on, that's all.
1309
00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:14,120
I'm sorry?
1310
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:15,440
I screamed in the...
1311
00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:17,920
Wow.
1312
00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:20,800
I was there. Come on.
Don't lie.
1313
00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:22,560
You're hilarious.
1314
00:53:23,600 --> 00:53:24,960
I heard you and I saw you.
1315
00:53:28,440 --> 00:53:29,960
Screaming where?
1316
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:32,680
Screaming where?
1317
00:53:32,720 --> 00:53:34,200
You're delusional.
1318
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:37,440
I think Morena felt like
she was attacked and she
1319
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:38,960
came in swinging.
1320
00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:41,400
I know better than
to come at Morena.
1321
00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:43,760
You don't come for
mama Morena.
1322
00:53:43,800 --> 00:53:45,040
What are you talking about.
1323
00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:46,760
Paul, good on you,
1324
00:53:46,840 --> 00:53:49,640
but you're going to end up with,
like, a, you know, a dead fish
1325
00:53:49,720 --> 00:53:51,560
outside your door or something
tomorrow.
1326
00:53:53,240 --> 00:53:55,320
When was I screaming
in the corridor?
1327
00:53:56,120 --> 00:53:59,000
He's accusing me of being in
the hallway screaming, which
1328
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:00,920
is actually disrespectful.
1329
00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:03,200
Paul had no right.
1330
00:54:03,240 --> 00:54:04,480
He doesn't know me.
1331
00:54:04,560 --> 00:54:07,200
I didn't deserve to be
spoken to like that.
1332
00:54:07,240 --> 00:54:08,520
How dare he.
1333
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:11,480
(FRAUGHT MUSIC)
1334
00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:12,600
Paul?
1335
00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:13,760
Paul, look at me in the eyes.
1336
00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:15,040
Yeah, I'm looking at you
in your eyes.
1337
00:54:15,080 --> 00:54:16,120
Look at me right in the eyes.
1338
00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:17,920
Come a little bit closer.
1339
00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:18,960
Yeah, that's fine.
I'm close enough.
1340
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:20,640
No, no, you're actually not.
1341
00:54:20,680 --> 00:54:21,760
Come a bit closer.
1342
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:25,040
No, 'cause I'm not done.
1343
00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:27,760
I'm not done with you, little boy.
1344
00:54:27,800 --> 00:54:30,120
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1345
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:40,120
MORENA: Paul, look at me
in the eyes.
1346
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:41,360
Yeah, I'm looking at you
in your eyes.
1347
00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:42,280
Look at me right in the eyes.
1348
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:43,640
Come a little bit closer.
1349
00:54:43,720 --> 00:54:44,720
Yeah, that's fine.
I'm close enough.
1350
00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:46,160
No, no, you're actually not.
1351
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:48,120
Come a bit closer.
1352
00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:49,960
'Cause I'm not done.
1353
00:54:50,920 --> 00:54:52,600
I'm not done with you, little boy.
1354
00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:59,360
JOHN: It doesn't help that when
Morena is speaking, she ups
1355
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:02,120
the volume and she points
her finger at everyone.
1356
00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:03,160
Yes.
1357
00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:05,080
Mr.. Mr Wonderful.
1358
00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:06,320
I want an apology.
1359
00:55:06,840 --> 00:55:09,320
And people wind up
as a result of that.
1360
00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:11,000
PAUL: Since the beginning,
1361
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:13,680
you two have literally
been so disconnected.
1362
00:55:13,720 --> 00:55:15,200
You're doing everything separate.
1363
00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:17,320
Does your girl
go home every weekend?
1364
00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:18,960
Do you go home every weekend?
1365
00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:21,240
Does anyone here
go home every weekend?
1366
00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:22,600
Well, maybe ask yourself the right
question.
1367
00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:24,520
Why is Tony going
home every weekend?
1368
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:25,960
I mean, I don't know.
1369
00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:27,000
No.
1370
00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:28,360
Tony's got the table.
1371
00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:29,760
Tony's got the microphone.
1372
00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:32,360
It's...
1373
00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:36,280
At times I think she's...
1374
00:55:39,000 --> 00:55:40,200
very, very loud.
1375
00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:41,800
OK.
No.
1376
00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:43,400
But, do you know what I mean?
That's...
1377
00:55:43,440 --> 00:55:44,840
No, no.
1378
00:55:44,920 --> 00:55:48,000
I'm trying, scared to talk
to you because you've got
1379
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:50,200
to talk over me, and I'm
scared to offend you.
1380
00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:53,280
He knows how he's treated me,
and I don't deserve it.
1381
00:55:54,600 --> 00:55:56,000
I've been open to
this experiment.
1382
00:55:56,040 --> 00:55:57,000
I've been trying.
1383
00:55:57,080 --> 00:55:58,800
It's not always
going to be perfect.
1384
00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:00,600
For once, let me tell
you how it feels.
1385
00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:03,000
Would I saw, what happened.
1386
00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:04,040
You know?
1387
00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:05,680
Every morning
when I bring you a coffee.
1388
00:56:05,760 --> 00:56:07,120
I bought your kids tickets
to fly here.
1389
00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:08,880
Yes, you did.
OK?
1390
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:10,080
Why did you do that?
1391
00:56:10,160 --> 00:56:12,400
Let him speak.
Just let him talk.
1392
00:56:12,480 --> 00:56:14,840
This is my way of showing
you affection and trying to
1393
00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:16,720
make things nice for you.
1394
00:56:16,760 --> 00:56:17,960
It's my way.
1395
00:56:18,040 --> 00:56:19,520
I'm trying.
You did.
1396
00:56:19,560 --> 00:56:21,240
But you keep on talking over me.
1397
00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:23,840
I just said that I'm scared to
tell you and talk to you.
1398
00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:25,680
And now I'm the shit guy.
Listen.
1399
00:56:25,720 --> 00:56:26,680
Hang on.
1400
00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:29,120
You've done that because
you feel so bad that you
1401
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:30,440
just abandoned me.
1402
00:56:31,240 --> 00:56:32,240
I buy about your coffee.
1403
00:56:32,320 --> 00:56:34,280
I buy your kids
flight tickets here.
1404
00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:35,840
I take you to dinner.
1405
00:56:37,000 --> 00:56:39,320
I do everything I can in
little bits and pieces.
1406
00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:40,360
Buy you flowers.
1407
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:41,440
You're not happy.
1408
00:56:41,480 --> 00:56:43,320
So, I'm trying.
1409
00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:45,680
Morena's communication style,
it is aggressive,
1410
00:56:45,720 --> 00:56:46,680
it is loud,
1411
00:56:46,720 --> 00:56:47,760
it is pointy.
1412
00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:49,720
And she will not
back down.
1413
00:56:49,800 --> 00:56:51,120
And she just keeps yelling.
Yeah.
1414
00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:53,760
Which pushes everyone further away.
1415
00:56:53,800 --> 00:56:55,240
You're out of line.
1416
00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:56,560
How dare you!
1417
00:56:56,600 --> 00:56:59,000
This is where my problem is.
1418
00:56:59,080 --> 00:57:01,080
When it comes to Morena
always talking over me.
1419
00:57:01,160 --> 00:57:04,400
And I just shut down and it's
like I'm talking to myself.
1420
00:57:06,240 --> 00:57:08,760
Morena was frustrated,
but I don't agree with
1421
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:12,400
her behaviour and how
aggressive she was trying to
1422
00:57:12,440 --> 00:57:14,000
get her point across.
1423
00:57:14,080 --> 00:57:17,800
She can't see that he is
wanting to try and work on it.
1424
00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:21,160
The fact that he
bought your own kids' flights,
1425
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:24,120
that is a praise.
1426
00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:26,160
But he doesn't value
me as a human being.
1427
00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:34,040
I didn't deserve a table
of young ones to come at
1428
00:57:34,080 --> 00:57:35,800
me with advice.
1429
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:37,480
You gave me
the best advice ever.
1430
00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:39,760
And you probably understand.
1431
00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:42,400
So, we come from ethnic
backgrounds and we're stubborn.
1432
00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:44,440
We sweep things under the table.
1433
00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:45,520
OK?
1434
00:57:45,600 --> 00:57:47,400
And she said to me, you know what
she said to me?
1435
00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:49,920
She said, "Tony,
to make things better,
1436
00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:51,400
"1% of the day.
1437
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:52,880
"If you can improve on that."
1438
00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:54,480
And I thought about.
1439
00:57:54,520 --> 00:57:55,840
It made sense to me, mate.
1440
00:57:56,720 --> 00:57:57,960
Of course I had Tony's back.
1441
00:57:58,600 --> 00:58:00,400
I love him, he's the godfather.
1442
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:02,040
He's delivered the goods.
1443
00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:02,920
So...
1444
00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:06,720
He's likeable.
1445
00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:14,360
But, even though he's likeable,
they're not dating him.
1446
00:58:15,240 --> 00:58:16,800
Let's cheers to poor Tony.
1447
00:58:16,840 --> 00:58:18,520
No, don't cheers to poor me.
1448
00:58:18,560 --> 00:58:19,880
No, let's go cheers to Tony.
1449
00:58:19,920 --> 00:58:21,840
Can we all do a cheers to Tony?
1450
00:58:24,080 --> 00:58:25,080
Cheers.
1451
00:58:27,160 --> 00:58:29,080
Let's go to the other
end of the table.
1452
00:58:29,160 --> 00:58:30,680
How was Intimacy
Week for you guys?
1453
00:58:30,760 --> 00:58:33,800
Like I said, I mean,
Intimacy Week for us wasn't
1454
00:58:33,880 --> 00:58:36,680
a challenge, as everyone could
probably see, but we did have
1455
00:58:36,720 --> 00:58:38,040
a few challenges this week.
1456
00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:39,240
Look, I'll be very honest.
1457
00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:41,640
Like within this experiment,
we're very compatible.
1458
00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:43,120
We've got amazing chemistry.
1459
00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:44,920
I just... I'm unsure
whether or not we will
1460
00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:47,840
fit into each other's lifestyles
outside the experiment.
1461
00:58:47,920 --> 00:58:49,840
Like, I'm a mum, and I'm
a realist, and I'm always
1462
00:58:49,920 --> 00:58:52,000
looking to the future
because guess what?
1463
00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:54,760
I was in a relationship for
a very long time, 15 years,
1464
00:58:54,840 --> 00:58:57,600
and I don't want to do that
again where I'm wasting my time.
1465
00:58:57,680 --> 00:58:59,760
MEL: Isn't it great that
Awhina now is finding her
1466
00:58:59,800 --> 00:59:01,400
mum voice here tonight?
1467
00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:03,080
She's been really out
and proud about
1468
00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:04,040
this is who I am...
Well, yes.
1469
00:59:04,120 --> 00:59:06,280
This is the challenge
in our relationship.
1470
00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:09,200
I have to date as a mum first.
1471
00:59:09,280 --> 00:59:12,120
And whether or not you will fit
into my lifestyle with my son.
1472
00:59:12,200 --> 00:59:14,280
Of course. And I've never
disagreed with that, though.
1473
00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:18,640
Though it's hard to open my
heart up to someone when
1474
00:59:18,720 --> 00:59:20,600
I think that we might not
work out in the future.
1475
00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:23,280
But being closed off isn't going to
open it up, right,?
1476
00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:25,000
Adrian?
This is what she says to me.
1477
00:59:25,080 --> 00:59:26,480
So, I'm sitting there saying,
oh, we're not compatible.
1478
00:59:26,560 --> 00:59:27,800
But in my head I'm thinking
we are compatible.
1479
00:59:30,800 --> 00:59:32,440
And now you're saying
we're not compatible.
1480
00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:34,600
But I also feel that that's
like a front for her.
1481
00:59:34,680 --> 00:59:36,040
She's trying to
convince herself.
1482
00:59:36,120 --> 00:59:38,720
It's like a coping mechanism for
when it does come to an end.
1483
00:59:38,760 --> 00:59:40,480
But I address very real concerns.
1484
00:59:40,520 --> 00:59:41,920
Everyone here has concerns.
1485
00:59:42,880 --> 00:59:45,480
You've said certain things to
me, too, Adrian, that I've held
1486
00:59:45,560 --> 00:59:47,880
on to, that you've said about
in regards to me being a mum.
1487
00:59:47,920 --> 00:59:49,000
In regards to what?
1488
00:59:49,080 --> 00:59:50,440
It was in the very early
days of our honeymoon.
1489
00:59:50,520 --> 00:59:51,880
In regards to what?
OK.
1490
00:59:51,960 --> 00:59:55,240
When we did our honeymoon,
experts' questionnaire,
1491
00:59:55,320 --> 00:59:58,160
you made a very real comment
how you didn't think...
1492
00:59:58,240 --> 01:00:00,440
I could love another kid
more than mine.
1493
01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:01,360
Yeah.
1494
01:00:04,240 --> 01:00:07,280
MEL: She needs to see him as
a potential father figure,
1495
01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:08,520
and he's not behaving like one.
1496
01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:11,960
JOHN: I think the big problem,
though, is that on the topic
1497
01:00:12,040 --> 01:00:16,360
of will he raise her child
and step into that role,
1498
01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:19,800
he doesn't answer it.
1499
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:20,920
No.
Mmm.
1500
01:00:21,000 --> 01:00:24,840
He doesn't say very
clearly that he's in.
1501
01:00:24,880 --> 01:00:26,280
It just confirms for her,
1502
01:00:26,360 --> 01:00:29,040
"I can't let all the walls
down and let him in here."
1503
01:00:29,080 --> 01:00:30,080
Of course.
1504
01:00:30,160 --> 01:00:33,640
How you didn't think...
I could love a kid more than mine?
1505
01:00:33,720 --> 01:00:35,240
Yeah.
That stuff sticks with me.
1506
01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:36,160
Yeah, of course it does.
1507
01:00:36,240 --> 01:00:38,280
PAUL: Adrian said something really
positive, I remember.
1508
01:00:39,000 --> 01:00:40,160
I asked him the question.
1509
01:00:40,200 --> 01:00:41,040
I said to him,
1510
01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:42,720
I said, "Hypothetically, if you
guys work out, would you,
1511
01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:44,440
"Would you move out of Sydney?
1512
01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:46,120
"you know, to go live
with with Awhina?"
1513
01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:47,400
Yeah.
1514
01:00:47,480 --> 01:00:49,480
And then he said to me, he
said, "Honestly, if things work
1515
01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:52,520
"out between us, I will move
out, and then I'll just raise
1516
01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:54,200
"her kid like mine, like my own."
1517
01:00:54,240 --> 01:00:55,560
You said that to me.
1518
01:00:56,520 --> 01:00:57,600
No, I didn't say that.
1519
01:00:59,320 --> 01:01:01,720
No, I said...
You must have misheard that.
1520
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:03,200
No, I didn't say that.
1521
01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:04,760
I didn't say that, what are
you talking about?
1522
01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:06,160
Don't throw me under the bus.
1523
01:01:07,480 --> 01:01:08,560
I'm going to be very real.
1524
01:01:08,600 --> 01:01:10,040
I'm showing up for Adrian.
1525
01:01:10,080 --> 01:01:11,440
He's not showing up for me.
1526
01:01:12,160 --> 01:01:15,200
And if he can't show up
for me when we don't have
1527
01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:17,840
issues, how is he going to
show up for me outside?
1528
01:01:17,920 --> 01:01:19,600
Do I not show up
for you as a partner?
1529
01:01:19,640 --> 01:01:20,680
Yeah, 100%.
1530
01:01:20,760 --> 01:01:22,120
All I'm trying to
say is I am a mum,
1531
01:01:22,200 --> 01:01:23,360
I'm always looking
to the future.
1532
01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:24,800
And sometimes I say things.
1533
01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:28,800
Now it's their turn.
1534
01:01:29,560 --> 01:01:30,600
ALESSANDRA: He just cut her off.
1535
01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:31,720
Her wants to bounce it
to Jeff and Rhi.
1536
01:01:31,800 --> 01:01:33,320
Right. OK.
Terrible.
1537
01:01:33,360 --> 01:01:35,880
(GRIM MUSIC)
1538
01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:47,200
AWHINA: All I'm trying to
say is, I am a mum.
1539
01:01:47,280 --> 01:01:49,600
I'm always looking to the future and
sometimes I say things, 'cause...
1540
01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:54,200
ADRIAN: Now it's their turn.
1541
01:01:54,280 --> 01:01:55,800
They've had enough.
Beg your pardon, it's all good.
1542
01:01:55,840 --> 01:01:56,760
He just cut her off.
1543
01:01:56,840 --> 01:01:58,440
He wants to bounce
it to Jeff and Rhi.
1544
01:01:58,520 --> 01:01:59,840
Right, OK.
Terrible.
1545
01:01:59,920 --> 01:02:02,200
ADRIAN: It's all good.
Do not close me off like that.
1546
01:02:03,160 --> 01:02:04,880
That is so disrespectful.
1547
01:02:05,600 --> 01:02:07,560
It seems to be a pattern
with he and I when we are
1548
01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:10,600
having conversations that
Adrian doesn't want to have,
1549
01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:11,960
he shuts me down.
1550
01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:13,600
You get out of here.
1551
01:02:14,680 --> 01:02:17,280
And that hasn't happened once,
it happens all the time.
1552
01:02:20,120 --> 01:02:21,640
You did. You came at me.
It was a true conversation.
1553
01:02:21,720 --> 01:02:24,120
See the unity between everyone
else and every other couple?
1554
01:02:24,160 --> 01:02:25,400
You want to start it now?
1555
01:02:25,440 --> 01:02:27,400
(EDGY MUSIC)
1556
01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:29,760
(BACKGROUND CHATTER)
1557
01:02:29,840 --> 01:02:32,280
MEL: Adrian's just completely
shut her down here on
1558
01:02:32,360 --> 01:02:35,000
THE most important topic
in their relationship.
1559
01:02:35,080 --> 01:02:36,920
And she's finally
voicing it to the group.
1560
01:02:36,960 --> 01:02:37,960
Right.
1561
01:02:38,040 --> 01:02:40,520
Yeah, he's being really
childish here.
1562
01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:45,680
Yeah, I don't even care, mate.
1563
01:02:45,720 --> 01:02:47,920
(EDGY MUSIC CONTINUES)
1564
01:02:55,520 --> 01:02:57,960
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1565
01:02:58,040 --> 01:03:00,840
MEL: Not only did Adrian
shut her down,
1566
01:03:00,920 --> 01:03:02,560
but then going
to the other end of the table
1567
01:03:02,600 --> 01:03:04,040
is just showing that he's...
1568
01:03:04,120 --> 01:03:06,240
He doesn't have the maturity
she's looking for.
1569
01:03:07,360 --> 01:03:11,160
JOHN: He really gets very
dismissive and he detaches.
1570
01:03:11,200 --> 01:03:12,200
Yeah.
1571
01:03:12,280 --> 01:03:15,080
If anything, his behaviour
has shown that he's not
1572
01:03:15,160 --> 01:03:17,400
willing to commit
to the relationship,
1573
01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:19,640
and will sweep issues
under the carpet.
1574
01:03:21,720 --> 01:03:23,360
Are you OK?
1575
01:03:23,400 --> 01:03:25,600
Adrian shuts me down a lot.
1576
01:03:26,960 --> 01:03:29,000
I just need a little bit.
1577
01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:31,400
He's clearly just
not hearing me.
1578
01:03:31,480 --> 01:03:33,320
I think he's so used to
receiving, he doesn't
1579
01:03:33,360 --> 01:03:34,880
know how to give back.
1580
01:03:35,840 --> 01:03:37,680
There's all these things that
we're doing for him, but I'm
1581
01:03:37,720 --> 01:03:39,040
not getting my needs met.
1582
01:03:41,480 --> 01:03:43,400
ADRIAN: I wasn't saying
anything back.
1583
01:03:43,440 --> 01:03:44,680
I said, they just put the blocks up.
1584
01:03:44,720 --> 01:03:46,080
Everyone was talking their issues.
1585
01:03:46,160 --> 01:03:48,000
And that's what I said,
that's one of our problems.
1586
01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:49,480
Yeah, but she says...
No, listen, bro.
1587
01:03:49,560 --> 01:03:52,880
She says she's getting
cooking, yeah, cleaning and cooking.
1588
01:03:52,920 --> 01:03:55,400
She's up at 4:30, just like you.
1589
01:03:55,440 --> 01:03:57,480
Bro, she doesn't sit still.
1590
01:03:57,560 --> 01:03:59,440
AWHINA: I would love to know what
his love language is
1591
01:03:59,480 --> 01:04:01,040
in terms of giving,
1592
01:04:01,080 --> 01:04:02,600
because I'm not, I'm not...
1593
01:04:02,680 --> 01:04:04,400
I don't feel like
I receive on any of them.
1594
01:04:04,480 --> 01:04:06,240
JEFF: Yeah, wow.
Besides physical intimacy.
1595
01:04:06,320 --> 01:04:07,880
Yes, of course.
Yeah. But it's not...
1596
01:04:07,920 --> 01:04:09,320
It's definitely not enough.
1597
01:04:09,400 --> 01:04:11,000
But, to be fair,
Billy and I barely spoke.
1598
01:04:11,080 --> 01:04:12,960
I hung out with Adrian
most of the day.
1599
01:04:15,480 --> 01:04:17,240
But it's true...
(INDISTINCT SPEECH)
1600
01:04:17,280 --> 01:04:18,320
You were out there
1601
01:04:18,400 --> 01:04:20,320
but we were still there together
you know?
1602
01:04:20,360 --> 01:04:21,360
ADRIAN: Yeah, 100%.
1603
01:04:21,440 --> 01:04:23,280
I didn't even see Awhina that day.
Was she there?
1604
01:04:23,320 --> 01:04:24,600
Yeah, exactly.
1605
01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:31,160
As I've been addressing
our very real issues,
1606
01:04:31,240 --> 01:04:34,560
like, daily, I'm not seeing
change or action from him.
1607
01:04:34,600 --> 01:04:36,240
And he's not hearing you.
1608
01:04:36,320 --> 01:04:37,440
And he's not hearing me.
Yeah.
1609
01:04:38,040 --> 01:04:39,280
(CHUCKLES)
1610
01:04:39,360 --> 01:04:41,240
(INDISTINCT SPEECH)
(BLEEP)
1611
01:04:43,600 --> 01:04:46,760
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1612
01:05:13,320 --> 01:05:16,280
(EDGY MUSIC)
1613
01:05:20,720 --> 01:05:23,800
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1614
01:05:25,000 --> 01:05:26,880
MAN: Yeah, cheers, everybody.
1615
01:05:26,920 --> 01:05:28,680
Dinner party number two.
1616
01:05:33,560 --> 01:05:34,600
Sunday night...
1617
01:05:34,640 --> 01:05:35,840
ALESSANDRA: Sierah,
1618
01:05:35,920 --> 01:05:37,840
have you opened up to
anybody else in the group?
1619
01:05:39,840 --> 01:05:41,040
Uh...
1620
01:05:42,440 --> 01:05:44,680
Sierah's shock confession.
1621
01:05:45,600 --> 01:05:47,520
Adrian, actually, I had.
1622
01:05:49,120 --> 01:05:50,360
(A MAN GASPS)
1623
01:05:51,080 --> 01:05:52,840
BILLY: Sorry? What?
1624
01:05:52,880 --> 01:05:54,640
(FRAUGHT MUSIC)
1625
01:05:55,160 --> 01:05:56,280
Oh, my god!
1626
01:05:57,240 --> 01:06:00,240
That's a big F YOU to the face.
1627
01:06:00,320 --> 01:06:03,280
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