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NARRATOR: Previously...
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I don't even know what to say.
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..Jake broke the rules
of the experiment...
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..when he made a sudden
and dramatic exit.
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ASHLEIGH: I tried so bloody hard
to make it work with him.
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Ashleigh and Jake's marriage
was officially over.
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And...
ALESSANDRA: Welcome. Hi!
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..Intimacy Week began with a bang.
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(WOMAN LAUGHS)
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Alessandra empowered the women to
create their ultimate fantasy night.
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This is your chance to take control.
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WOMAN: Tonight is all about showing
my dominance.
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(LAUGHS) Hello.
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It was an incredible breakthrough
for Morena and Tony.
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There's other sides to romance.
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It was just happy... I was happy.
Laughing. That's what it's about.
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Eyes are sad eyes
because I let you down.
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MORENA: Oh, OK.
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And the smile
is where you're coming back.
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(LAUGHS)
That's actually really lovely.
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And Rhi's ultimate fantasy night...
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JEFF: Oh! How good!
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..further deepened her bond
with Jeff.
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RHI: What I'm feeling now,
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I could probably see myself
falling for Jeff.
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Yummy. (LAUGHS)
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Jacqui asked Ryan
for words of affirmation.
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RYAN: Mm-mm!
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I think Ryan struggles with words
on how to compliment a woman.
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Tonight...
Welcome!
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..it's the husbands' turn
to open up to Alessandra.
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Do you feel
it brought you guys together?
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The painting, that really feel nice
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to just have that connection
with her there.
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It was one of the best things
I've ever done.
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Mmm.
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And then...
I was gonna say, like, that's...
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BILLY: What?
..Ryan's...
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Absolutely, like... (BLEEP).
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..unfiltered...
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(LAUGHS)
..comments...
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And you know what,
it was, like, (BLEEP).
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..sending shockwaves
through the experiment.
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CARINA: Stop!
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What is wrong with some people?
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I'm just gobsmacked,
hearing that type of comment.
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(BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS)
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Intimacy Week is well underway
and already paying dividends
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after Alessandra
challenged the brides
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to create
their ultimate fantasy night.
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As part of Intimacy Week,
I set a brand-new task,
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the ultimate fantasy night,
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helping the brides
of the experiment feel empowered
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and show their partner what it is
they desire in a relationship
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in order to form
a stronger connection.
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(WOMAN LAUGHS)
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Today, I'm holding a men's workshop
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so I can hear if the husbands
rose to the occasion.
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This morning,
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the couples are enjoying
the fruits of their fantasy nights...
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(LAUGHS)
(KISSING)
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..before the grooms depart for
their turn at Alessandra's workshop.
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Did you enjoy your night last night?
Mm-hm.
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Oooh, yeah. (LAUGHS)
Oooh, yeah, I did.
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PRODUCER:
What happened after we left?
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Oh, OK.
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Well, I was definitely
rushing everyone out.
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I was, like, "You guys gotta go.
Hurry up."
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The last thing I expected today
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was me to lie down here with some
Nutella on my nipples. (LAUGHS)
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CARINA: I know.
(BOTH LAUGH)
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It's all over the bed!
(PAUL LAUGHS)
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Oh, I have to do the washing now.
Mmm.
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CARINA: Alessandra set us the task
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and I'm doing things
that I wouldn't normally do.
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Honestly, like,
I feel so great about it.
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I was definitely a little timid.
Like...
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Mmm. I could see. Yeah.
..a little shy.
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Mmm. Yeah.
And I was, like, "Oh!"
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Bless you. I could see last night
that you were a little...
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you were being a little bit shy
about it.
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A little bit of exotic Carina
came out to play,
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but also the romance
is definitely still there
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and I kept him on his toes
and he loved it.
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So, actually, to see you doing that,
that was actually a big turn-on, eh?
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(BOTH LAUGH)
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I woke up this morning
feeling...feeling different.
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But in a good way.
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I feel like Carina's and I
relationship
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has gone another level again
after last night.
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I swear, I did not expect that
from Carina.
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She was able to really step out
of her comfort zone.
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That's all I was asking for,
so, yeah, it's great.
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(BOTH LAUGH)
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NARRATOR: Over at
Rhi and Jeff's apartment,
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the couple are finding their rhythm
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after the revival
of their wedding dance.
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RHI: How did you sleep?
I got such a good night last night.
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Yeah, it was really fun.
We did awesome.
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(LAUGHS) Thanks.
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I know it was your fantasy night...
(LAUGHS)
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..but I'm pretty happy 'cause
I would've chosen the same thing.
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Yeah.
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We go that way.
Just don't drop me.
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Ready? Ready, set, go.
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(BOTH LAUGH)
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Oh...
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I don't even know what I'm doing.
No!
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(BOTH LAUGH)
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It was a cute little touch,
our wedding dance redo.
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Thank you. (LAUGHS)
A little bit of fun.
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A little bit corny.
A little bit corny but...
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You like a bit of corn.
Yeah.
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Yeah, I'm feeling really good.
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I'm feeling really confident in our
relationship and I'm really excited.
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It's all progression
with the intimacy.
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I think Jeff also wants that too.
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That's the vibe I'm getting
from him.
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I actually can't wait to hear about
what the other couples did now.
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There would've been some crazy...
crazy things happen, I think.
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I think there will definitely be
some crazy stuff.
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Oh...
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(LAUGHS) Am I walking funny?
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(LAUGHS)
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We were set the task by Alessandra
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to create
the ultimate fantasy night.
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I feel like I got exactly that,
indeed.
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I didn't realise that the bed split
in two...
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(LAUGHS)
..until last night.
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They separate. There's two.
(LAUGHS) I know, I couldn't...
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Dave and I had a lot of fun.
A lot of fun. (LAUGHS)
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I'm already feeling, like,
a lot more connected
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and I think it would be good for him
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to hear from Alessandra
at the workshop.
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Phew, boy.
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Are you getting nervous
or something?
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Yeah. Maybe just a little bit.
You can't even focus.
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Obviously, she's, like,
the pro in this area.
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I think it'll be really informative
for everyone.
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But also, he should leave
feeling pretty good about himself
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and where we're at,
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because Intimacy Week has literally
started off with a bang, hasn't it?
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(LAUGHS)
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Don't get, like... Don't get
too nervous. It's, like, a fun day.
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Plus, you'll be sitting
in a really nice seat
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when you're hear
no-one else is really having sex.
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We don't know what happened
yesterday.
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I'm hoping some people got laid.
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While Jamie and Dave
left little to the imagination,
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one bride's ultimate fantasy night
left a lot to be desired.
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Morning, darling.
Morning.
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My ultimate fantasy night
was slightly sexy.
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Not sexy enough.
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(LAUGHS) Can you do it nicely?
I am!
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I have been!
This is supposed to be sensual.
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Yes, last night.
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I didn't... I didn't expect anything
like that, that's for sure.
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I think both Billy and I
are a little bit awkward
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when it comes to talking about
intimacy.
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I think we kind of resort
to humour most of the time.
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(LAUGHS)
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So it was kind of hard to take it
seriously, I think.
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Did you like giving it to me?
Like the... (LAUGHS)
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What? The massage.
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Get your mind out of the gutter.
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Yeah, no, it was... It was nice.
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It didn't lead to any intimacy
last night, unfortunately.
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I don't have to ask for you to
do that, just letting you know.
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You can just do it
whenever you want.
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(LAUGHS)
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We didn't knock boots,
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but hopefully tonight, after Billy
gets some advice from Alessandra
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at the sex workshop today,
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as in, hopefully we can have sex,
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'cause I'm human, with human needs
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and he's hot and I would like to
have him on top of me.
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Sometimes less is more.
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BILLY: Going into Intimacy Week,
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I just feel like we don't need to be
having sex on the first night.
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People take Intimacy Week
as in you have to have sex.
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Yeah.
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Like, they don't actually know what
the whole intimacy part is about.
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Of course I'm attracted to Sierah,
but I want an emotional connection.
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You know, it would be nice
to just let that build
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and just get closer naturally
through the activities
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or whatever workshops that
Alessandra's kind of giving out
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and, you know, we just let that flow
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and then when it happens,
it happens.
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Across the hall,
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Tony's masterpiece
has led to a breakthrough.
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TONY: Did you sleep well?
MORENA: I slept like a baby.
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Well, you did drink
a bottle of wine.
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(LAUGHS) With your help.
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You know, yesterday, Morena
showed me the fun side of her.
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(LAUGHS)
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This is my little fantasy.
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All I want you to do is paint me
like you see me.
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Are you ready?
Mm-hm.
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(LAUGHS)
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How's that? (LAUGHS)
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You know, we laughed and joked.
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She drank the bottle of wine.
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I had a little bit. Mm-hm.
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Yeah, we're actually enjoying
our time together.
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I mean, this experiment's not easy.
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How do you get through it?
Have fun at it.
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You know, there's something that
stood out to me in that painting.
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What do you think that was?
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Well, I said to you,
you had sad eyes
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because it was because of me.
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That was my way of saying, you know,
everything will be alright.
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It kind of... I explained it
through that painting.
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Sometimes, you know,
my words don't come out right
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but, you know,
in the moment of time,
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you know, the eyes, I meant it.
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That's a big step for me.
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I love it.
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And you gave it a ten out of ten.
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Like, the night. That's good.
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We had a really nice night
last night.
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But I need more.
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I need that connection,
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so I'm excited for Tony entering
the workshop with Alessandra.
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So, yeah, so today's your turn,
mister.
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Get what you can out of it.
Ask her questions. Ask away.
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(LAUGHS)
Ask whatever...
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Don't hold back.
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You're gonna walk away going,
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"I should've,
I should've, I should've..."
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It's too late then.
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You won't get this day back ever.
That's what you've gotta remember.
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Today... Well, every day, right?
I say this every day.
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"I'm not getting today back."
I know.
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So, however I take it, however
I behave, whatever my attitude is,
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my reaction,
I'm not getting it back.
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So just go for it.
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Don't... Don't be afraid.
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Anyway, it's time for me to
head out and hit the workshop.
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OK. Have you finished your coffee?
No.
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Have another sip.
That's alright.
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I don't want to drink too much.
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While most brides
had a night to remember,
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it seems Jacqui had a night
she'd rather forget.
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Last night, I gave Ryan
my ultimate fantasy challenge
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and he started an argument
about it
246
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and just wouldn't do what I needed,
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which was to make me feel like
the most beautiful girl
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and so we ended up
getting in a fight about it.
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How hard is it to just be,
like, "Hey, I made a mistake.
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"You're (BLEEP) gorgeous."
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Like...
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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Yeah, it was just...
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I don't even know why Ryan fights
about it or what the problem is.
255
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I think he's missing the point.
Like, I'm here trying to help him.
256
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I think he's just failing to be
grateful,
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the fact that I'm actually spending
the time trying to train him.
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Like, he's gonna be
a better man if he realises that,
259
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like, this is what I want, this is
what a lot of women would want.
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They want respect,
they want to be treated well.
261
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So I just... I don't know why
he was so upset, really.
262
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Do you remember what the challenge
for you last night was?
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I don't know, like, I considered
it was more like, you know, fun
264
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and then fulfilling...
fulfilling a fantasy type thing.
265
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Yeah.
Yeah, so we went to...
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Fulfilling my fantasy.
Yeah.
267
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I just needed you to swallow
your pride, swallow your ego.
268
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So I gave you a lot of compliments,
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not only about your appearance,
about your intellect, your skills...
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And how did I feel
at the end of the night and why?
271
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And then we got to the point
272
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where it came back
to the photo challenge again.
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Alright, last one.
274
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OK. I'll put you third.
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You were, like, "OK, so do you want
to go back and change your reply?
276
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"Do you want to go back
and own up to your mistake?
277
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"Do you want to..." Da-da-da.
278
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No. No, alright?
That was not part of the task.
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When she was sort of bringing it
back to what I can't change,
280
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which is the line-up challenge again
281
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and, like, honestly, I'm sick of
talking about that (BLEEP) thing.
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(LAUGHS) I am so sick of it.
283
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I'm not changing my answer.
It wasn't a mistake.
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I believe she made a mistake
by putting me first
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because consistently she's shown
that I'm not the most attractive.
286
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I gave you a task last night...
Mm-hm.
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..and you didn't show up for me.
288
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No, I showed up for you.
No, you didn't.
289
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I showed up for you...
You didn't.
290
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OK, how do you think I felt
at the end of that task?
291
00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:53,920
See, Jacqui, if you don't get 100%
your way all the time,
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you are unhappy, right?
293
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That was the challenge.
You don't compromise.
294
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Stop changing the topic.
Because the task itself...
295
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How do you think I felt
at the end of that task?
296
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Neither of us felt fantastic,
alright?
297
00:14:04,680 --> 00:14:06,120
And whose task was it?
298
00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:10,160
Yeah, the crux is that Ryan doesn't
listen and doesn't understand.
299
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Ryan is almost a waste of breath
300
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and I can't say much
to change his mind.
301
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What do they say?
302
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A man convinced against his will
is of the same opinion still.
303
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That's Ryan.
304
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Bring it on.
This conversation is done, alright?
305
00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:25,480
And I'm looking forward
to getting to this workshop
306
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to just get away from your energy
for a moment, alright?
307
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Seriously.
Like, you are so impossible...
308
00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:32,320
(SCOFFS)
309
00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:35,120
What you wanted yesterday
was constant validation every day...
310
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What is wrong with that, Ryan?
311
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What is wrong with a woman
wanting constant validation?
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Because...
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
313
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..I'm not here to fix you, OK?
I'm not needing you to fix me.
314
00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:46,000
I'm needing compliments.
315
00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:48,480
Well, why would you need me
to say that constantly, right?
316
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I'm gonna give you compliments
317
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if I feel they're going to be
productive.
318
00:14:53,080 --> 00:14:54,960
So, your job as a partner
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is to make your other partner
feel good about themselves.
320
00:14:58,240 --> 00:14:59,720
You've made me feel terrible
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ever since we got
into this apartment.
322
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It's not about you. It's about me.
You just had to do the task.
323
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What you told me to do,
324
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that was exactly what I was doing
in that moment, OK?
325
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At the same time...
You're all talk, no walk.
326
00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:11,920
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
327
00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:14,760
You cut me off twice. This is over.
Alright?
328
00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:16,800
I'm gonna see it go see
what this shirt looks like.
329
00:15:16,840 --> 00:15:18,560
(SIGHS)
330
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NARRATOR: Intimacy Week is designed
to bring couples closer...
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but for one couple, a crisis
is unravelling in their apartment,
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a crisis that threatens
to tear their marriage apart.
333
00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:47,480
AWHINA: There was, like, three
dishes in the sink when I left.
334
00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:49,120
Those exact three dishes
were still there.
335
00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:50,560
No, they weren't. Absolutely not.
336
00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:53,040
I literally did them
when I walked in!
337
00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:55,800
I made lunch and I did it.
You cleaned your dishes...
338
00:15:55,880 --> 00:15:57,640
Anyway, that's irrelevant.
..but you left my three.
339
00:15:57,720 --> 00:16:00,280
I'm not getting...falling down
to your level right now.
340
00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:04,240
I'm just gonna put in as much effort
as you put in from now on.
341
00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:05,640
OK. Cool.
Cool.
342
00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:06,840
Effort.
343
00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:12,720
No, no, I just don't feel like I'm
getting much from you at this point.
344
00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:14,560
Do you want me to do backflips
off the balcony for you?
345
00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:16,040
Why would I ever ask you...
Make you feel better?
346
00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:18,040
I don't know, like,
what do you want me to do?
347
00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:21,840
What more could I have done for you?
What DID you do for me?
348
00:16:21,880 --> 00:16:23,440
I asked, did you need anything?
349
00:16:25,200 --> 00:16:26,880
How about empty the bin?
350
00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:28,880
This is so dumb,
even having this conversation.
351
00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:31,320
And I literally done everything
I could...
352
00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:32,760
It's not dumb
when I'm not feeling great.
353
00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:34,680
OK, end of conversation.
I'm not even going into this.
354
00:16:34,720 --> 00:16:35,760
OK.
355
00:16:38,720 --> 00:16:40,760
And I think I've emptied it
more than he has.
356
00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:45,320
So I really don't feel like
I ask for a lot from a partner.
357
00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:47,520
I don't care if you think it's dumb.
358
00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:49,080
It is stupid and it's something
for you to sort out.
359
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ADRIAN:
Obviously she's in a bit of a mood.
360
00:16:52,400 --> 00:16:54,640
I don't know exactly why
it was such a big deal.
361
00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:57,520
She keeps talking about taking out
the bin, blah, blah, blah.
362
00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:01,440
It's nothing to do with me.
363
00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:05,200
She's having a moment
and I'm giving her that moment.
364
00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:08,840
I don't feel like you do anything.
I don't feel like you do anything.
365
00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:10,520
Of course you say that,
'cause you're in a bad mood.
366
00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:11,760
But it's true.
367
00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:14,360
I don't need a minute
to reflect, Adrian.
368
00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:17,880
I have to be 100% for us to work
and any time that I make...
369
00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:19,880
Of course you need to be 100%
for us to work.
370
00:17:19,920 --> 00:17:21,280
I need to be 100% for us to work.
371
00:17:21,360 --> 00:17:23,440
I don't feel like I get 100%
from you, Adrian.
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(TENSE MUSIC)
373
00:17:31,120 --> 00:17:33,240
Yeah, I wish I just got
a little bit more.
374
00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:37,280
For us to work,
like, for us to truly work,
375
00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:39,520
I have to keep giving so much.
376
00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:42,280
Adrian, do you think you actually do
more than me around here?
377
00:17:42,360 --> 00:17:45,280
It's not a competition. I do
what I can and you do what you can.
378
00:17:45,360 --> 00:17:48,560
But Adrian's very selfish
in a relationship.
379
00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:51,320
I'm not getting anything in return.
380
00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:56,480
I am worried 'cause, like,
I do have very real concerns
381
00:17:56,560 --> 00:17:57,960
about whether or not
we're compatible
382
00:17:58,000 --> 00:17:59,880
outside of this experiment.
383
00:17:59,960 --> 00:18:02,520
I'm a mum
and I have a son to think about
384
00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:04,160
and I came in here for a partnership
385
00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:05,960
and I didn't come here
to be Adrian's mum.
386
00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:10,240
This is the dumbest conversation
I've ever had, talking about dishes.
387
00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:13,000
(LAUGHS)
Don't laugh at me.
388
00:18:13,080 --> 00:18:15,960
I'm not actually getting caught up
in that stupid conversation.
389
00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:19,120
Adrian, you're not hearing.
390
00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:21,400
I'm in a bad mood
and you can't handle it.
391
00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:25,920
What are you doing
to help bring me out of it?
392
00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:28,760
Instead, you're encouraging that
bad mood because you've just...
393
00:18:28,800 --> 00:18:31,440
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
394
00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:35,640
And once again, he leaves
and the bin needs emptying.
395
00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:40,320
I want a new husband.
396
00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:45,560
TONY: I'm out.
Off to the workshop for me.
397
00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:47,360
MORENA: Have fun. Ciao.
398
00:18:47,440 --> 00:18:50,560
NARRATOR: The grooms are off
to Alessandra's intimacy workshop...
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DAVE: I'm gonna go grab Billy's hand
and hopefully he can comfort me.
400
00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:56,200
JAMIE: Don't get too excited
'cause Billy's there.
401
00:18:56,280 --> 00:18:59,600
..where they will have the chance
to open up about their relationships.
402
00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:02,720
Don't cuddle Dave too much.
BILLY: I will. I mean, I won't.
403
00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:07,640
(UPLIFTING MUSIC)
404
00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:14,720
ALESSANDRA: Hi!
MAN: Hey!
405
00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:16,240
Welcome.
Alessandra.
406
00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:19,040
Welcome. Grab a seat.
407
00:19:19,120 --> 00:19:21,680
After my intimacy workshop
with the ladies,
408
00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:25,200
I asked them to create
their ultimate fantasy night
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00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:26,640
and share that with their husbands.
410
00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:29,680
MAN: How are you today?
I'm well. How are you?
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Hi. (LAUGHS)
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00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:33,720
MAN: We haven't met you before.
I'm good. Grab a chair.
413
00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:38,600
I designed this exercise to help
empower the women of this experiment
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and it was my hope that their
husbands would be enthusiastic
415
00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:44,880
about fulfilling
their partners' desires.
416
00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:48,640
How are you guys doing today?
BILLY: Nervous as hell.
417
00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:50,360
(LAUGHTER)
Nervous? No.
418
00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:52,520
You're not nervous.
Why are we here?
419
00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:55,640
As you very well know,
Intimacy Week is well underway.
420
00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:56,560
Mm-hm. We know.
421
00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:58,280
Your wives were all here yesterday,
right?
422
00:19:58,360 --> 00:20:00,520
MEN: Yes.
Did you reap the benefits of that?
423
00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:02,360
Yep.
(LAUGHTER)
424
00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:03,600
MAN: Tough work.
425
00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:05,920
For Intimacy Week, really,
426
00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,520
the most important part of it
is not sexuality.
427
00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:14,520
It's all about generating a safe
space and comfort and real trust.
428
00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:20,040
So, throughout the week, you're gonna
be exposed to a variety of tasks.
429
00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:24,880
One of them was yesterday directed
to your wives
430
00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:28,120
and that is, I guess,
all the smiles that I'm seeing...
431
00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:30,080
(LAUGHTER)
..beaming back at me today.
432
00:20:30,120 --> 00:20:32,400
I want to hear all about it.
433
00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:34,520
So, who are we going to start with?
434
00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:37,320
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
435
00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:39,960
Paul.
436
00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:42,680
(CLEARS THROAT)
MAN: Oh, here we go.
437
00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:45,000
Mr Frenchman loverboy.
(LAUGHTER)
438
00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:48,080
How was it?
439
00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:51,680
Now, when it comes to sex,
like, I'm very dominant.
440
00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:55,320
Now, the thing is, last night,
the roles were reversed.
441
00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:57,400
Yes.
So, she took full charge.
442
00:20:57,480 --> 00:21:00,000
You know, yeah,
it was electric in there.
443
00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:03,840
BILLY: Electric!
Oh, greased lightning!
444
00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:05,160
(LAUGHTER)
445
00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:08,120
That's a beautiful,
hot and heavy description.
446
00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:12,320
The bonfire that seems to have
ensued. (LAUGHS)
447
00:21:12,360 --> 00:21:13,440
Honestly, it was great.
448
00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:15,160
And the thing is, because I know
449
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:16,560
this is something
that she's not used to...
450
00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:19,240
and I could see she was being
a little bit shy
451
00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:20,960
and then, you know,
a little bit hesitant,
452
00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:22,800
but I could see, you know,
she did her best
453
00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:25,440
and she went all in
and it was really...
454
00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:27,080
Yeah, it was awesome. (LAUGHS)
455
00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:29,520
So, was this your absolute
favourite task that you had to do
456
00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,000
since you began the experiment?
(LAUGHS)
457
00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:33,600
The ultimate fantasy...
Yeah.
458
00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:35,480
..with Carina?
It was Paul's ultimate fantasy.
459
00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:37,360
(LAUGHTER)
460
00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:38,680
Carina and Paul,
you might as well...
461
00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:40,680
Cupid, stick an arrow through them.
462
00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:43,600
They're just... Wow, you don't need
to say anything on them.
463
00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:45,320
They just, like, in love,
aren't they, really?
464
00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:49,160
And I can see it,
so, fair play to them.
465
00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:50,720
Really happy for them.
466
00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:53,480
Tony.
TONY: Yeah.
467
00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:54,640
Ah!
Hello.
468
00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:56,960
Hello.
(LAUGHTER)
469
00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:59,120
Let me tell you
what happened to me.
470
00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:01,080
What did Morena come up with
for you guys?
471
00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:03,800
She had some set-up,
I don't know.
472
00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:06,240
I walked into the room...
You know when artists paint?
473
00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:09,000
She had the set-up
of a canvas there.
474
00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:10,240
Oh, wow.
475
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:12,800
She was sitting there,
wearing lingerie
476
00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:15,240
and she told me to paint her.
477
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:18,560
Tell you what, guys, it was one of
the most beautiful things
478
00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:20,000
I've ever done in my life, man.
479
00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:23,040
So, there I was, painting.
480
00:22:23,120 --> 00:22:25,480
I love that.
'Titanic' vibes. 'Titanic' vibes.
481
00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:27,760
"Paint me
like one of your French girls."
482
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,160
(LAUGHTER)
483
00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:32,440
Why was it good for you?
What was it about the experience?
484
00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:34,000
Because I was comfortable doing that
with her.
485
00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:35,160
You were comfortable?
486
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:37,720
I'm not the most romantic guy
in the world.
487
00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:38,960
You can be.
488
00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:42,720
That really felt nice, to just have
that connection with her there.
489
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:46,480
And I like to laugh and joke,
as you all know,
490
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,520
but it was really cool, man.
491
00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:51,200
JEFF: For her, showing
that vulnerability too,
492
00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:52,520
like, coming out in lingerie,
493
00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:54,200
like, that takes huge courage
for her to do that.
494
00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:56,880
Like, was that the first time
you, like, saw her like that?
495
00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:58,160
Well, pretty much, yeah.
Yeah.
496
00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:00,920
And it brings out something
different of you.
497
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:02,280
When you're actually
looking at someone, you think,
498
00:23:02,360 --> 00:23:04,400
"She actually looks beautiful
there, man."
499
00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:06,440
She really put effort and time
into it
500
00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:09,160
and I'm thinking to myself,
"Tony, you're a shit guy, man.
501
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:11,360
"Just, you know, paint it, man."
502
00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:13,600
It's quite the intimate experience
503
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:16,120
because you really have to
look at her.
504
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:17,760
Yeah, and I drew something
on that picture
505
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:21,600
and I kind of said to her
"These eyes are, like, sad eyes"
506
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:22,880
and she goes,
"What do you mean by that?"
507
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:24,440
I said, "Because of me.
That's why you're sad."
508
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:27,320
And I said... And that was my way
of apologising to her
509
00:23:27,360 --> 00:23:28,680
and saying, you know, this is...
510
00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:30,840
Oh, I'm sure that meant a lot to her
to hear that.
511
00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:32,080
Yeah, so...
That's really sweet.
512
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:37,360
TONY: Oh, well, the painting,
that was my way of saying sorry.
513
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:39,040
I let her down at the beginning.
514
00:23:39,120 --> 00:23:42,520
She wanted to find romance
and I didn't give her that.
515
00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:45,400
Being in here, I mean, you're doing
a lot of different things
516
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:47,400
out of your comfort zone, you know.
517
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:49,760
You're telling...
You're vulnerable, this and that.
518
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:52,520
And it's hard. It's hard.
519
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:55,560
So, you know, it's my fault,
not hers.
520
00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:57,760
But, you know,
she's a good lady, mate.
521
00:23:57,840 --> 00:23:59,920
She's, you know...
I don't want to let her down
522
00:23:59,960 --> 00:24:02,440
because I do care about her, man.
523
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:04,680
MAN: Well done. Look at you, Tony.
524
00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:06,800
Eh? Leaps and bounds, mate.
Leaps and bounds.
525
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:08,440
So, you know, it was
a beautiful night and we enjoyed it.
526
00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,400
She drank all the wine.
I had one glass and...
527
00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:11,800
(LAUGHTER)
528
00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:14,760
Do feel it brought you guys together?
529
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,120
Alessandra, I want to say,
I get it now.
530
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,040
But I tell you what, man,
it was good. It was fun.
531
00:24:19,120 --> 00:24:21,440
It was one of the best things
I've ever done.
532
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:22,720
Mmm.
533
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:25,960
I've learnt intimacy can come in
different ways and, yeah, you know,
534
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:28,320
that's the Morena I like,
the one that's laughing with me
535
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,200
and joking with me
and having a good time with me.
536
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:32,920
But, yeah,
it was really, really nice.
537
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:35,120
Excellent. I'm really happy.
538
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,280
I think that was a great task
for you guys
539
00:24:37,360 --> 00:24:39,120
and I'm really glad
that Morena thought of it.
540
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:42,320
I called the picture 'Morena Lisa'.
So, you ARE a romantic.
541
00:24:42,360 --> 00:24:43,720
MAN: That's pretty romantic.
542
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:45,840
That is my special way,
you know what I mean?
543
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,280
Yeah!
I'm happy. We're all happy for you.
544
00:24:48,360 --> 00:24:51,000
DAVE: So I'm really glad
that Tony's taken this big step.
545
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:55,080
You could see it in his eyes and the
way he, you know, spoke about it.
546
00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:57,800
He was pretty bashful
and I think he was a bit excited,
547
00:24:57,840 --> 00:24:58,920
so that was cool to see.
548
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:00,320
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
Really, really happy.
549
00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:03,080
Look at his face, though.
He's smiling!
550
00:25:03,120 --> 00:25:04,240
Excellent. I'm really happy.
551
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:08,440
NARRATOR: Coming up,
552
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:12,720
Ryan's jaw-dropping comments
at the workshop...
553
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:16,160
Some things I just wouldn't say.
554
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:19,680
..send shockwaves
through the experiment.
555
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:21,480
Oh, my goodness.
JEFF: I know.
556
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:25,480
I'm just gobsmacked by hearing
that type of comment.
557
00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:37,720
Jeff, tell me
how you went last night.
558
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:41,080
Yeah, last night was great.
559
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,120
Rhi organised
a nice, intimate dinner for us
560
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:46,160
and it worked out pretty well.
561
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:47,600
I know it was her fantasy night,
562
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:49,440
but it was basically
my fantasy night,
563
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:52,160
so I couldn't have been happier.
564
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:54,120
Obviously, our situation's
so different
565
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:56,720
because we've, like, basically
done everything you could do.
566
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:58,560
Everything?
No, no, no...
567
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:02,040
Wow. Jeff! Oh, please, do tell!
568
00:26:02,120 --> 00:26:04,560
No, no, no, no, no.
(LAUGHS)
569
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:06,800
As you guys know,
we obviously dated
570
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,200
and we've been there
and done all that stuff,
571
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:11,200
so it's a friendship now
572
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:14,160
and then we're trying to turn it
back into a romantic relationship
573
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:16,200
and I think we're moving
in the right direction.
574
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:17,320
You're in the right direction.
Yeah.
575
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:21,480
Like, at the start, on our wedding
day, I was in my head thinking,
576
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:24,120
"I don't know
if this is ever gonna happen."
577
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:25,400
'Cause it was...
578
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:26,720
You friend-zoned yourself,
didn't you?
579
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:28,480
Dead-set friend-zone.
Yeah, yeah.
580
00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:30,160
DAVE: It is a hard situation
for Jeff.
581
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:32,320
I think it's if not harder
than what we have.
582
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:34,560
Yeah, it's a situation
we were not expecting
583
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:37,480
because we had no idea
that they had ever met before.
584
00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:38,600
Yeah.
585
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:40,720
We matched them on compatibility,
which, by the way,
586
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:45,840
the level of compatibility that you
guys have is really off the charts.
587
00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:48,720
Yeah. I got everything I wanted.
It's just we dated before.
588
00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:50,680
Yes, I've seen it happen
in the experiment
589
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:53,840
and in life
a variety of times in my life,
590
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:57,080
where, you know, things that you
think are not gonna turn up the heat,
591
00:26:57,120 --> 00:26:58,680
the heat suddenly appears.
592
00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:01,480
There is a little spark
and it can grow.
593
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:04,000
I'm willing to do the work,
she's willing to do the work
594
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:06,400
and that's all I can ask for.
MAN: Mmm.
595
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:08,640
That sounds really, really good,
Jeff.
596
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:10,560
Billy.
597
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,560
Whew. That's a long kind of...
598
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:16,360
(LAUGHTER)
..inhale.
599
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:18,280
BILLY: Where do I start?
Where DO you start?
600
00:27:18,360 --> 00:27:23,000
I feel like this was a snippet
of Sierah's fantasy.
601
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:24,000
Oooh.
602
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:25,840
Yeah, as in there's a lot more
to come.
603
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:32,040
Sierah was facing out on the balcony
with her legs spread on a chair.
604
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:37,360
She dropped the gown and let's just
say there wasn't too much on.
605
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:42,800
Every part of her body was touched.
606
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:45,960
I'm really glad that she had
the courage to do that.
607
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:48,560
Yeah, it was really, really nice.
It was, um...
608
00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:52,320
Um...
609
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,400
But we didn't, like, have sex
or anything last night.
610
00:27:58,040 --> 00:27:59,600
My sense the other night
611
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:01,520
is that maybe
you're in different levels
612
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:03,440
of being ready for that intimacy,
613
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:07,000
so I'm wondering how you gauge it
or how you view it.
614
00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:08,680
I know that we can have sex now.
615
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:10,640
Like, we've done
it and I know that can then happen.
616
00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:14,120
But for me, this is where
I've gone wrong in the past before,
617
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:16,000
where it's just been all about that.
618
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:18,920
And, well, look where I am now.
619
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:20,840
I do want to have sex with Sierah.
620
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:24,800
I just want to know that the
emotions are coming with it still.
621
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:27,160
It's about building our connection,
and we are.
622
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:30,120
I don't just want us to be all over
each other and it being about sex.
623
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:31,560
Yes.
That isn't why I'm here.
624
00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:32,840
You don't want to be good friends
either.
625
00:28:35,360 --> 00:28:37,640
Because you can absolutely maintain
physical contact
626
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:39,120
while also getting deep.
627
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:41,120
You just have to not stop
having the chats.
628
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:42,120
Yep.
629
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:43,920
If you're having the chats,
if you're being curious,
630
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:47,400
if you're spending time, if you're
laughing with each other, opening up,
631
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:49,280
those are all things that are
gonna help you be connected.
632
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:50,520
Yeah.
633
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:53,360
But you can also have
a little 'uh-uh'...
634
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:55,040
Yeah, of course.
635
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:58,440
So, it's about now finding that...
Balance.
636
00:28:58,480 --> 00:28:59,600
..that balance.
637
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,440
Oh, look, I think it will happen
in the very near future.
638
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:03,600
I really do.
639
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:07,720
We're taking each challenge
as it comes, each task as it comes
640
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:10,320
and it is helping us build
closer together,
641
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,120
so, look, I wouldn't be surprised
that within a few days,
642
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:13,520
if I do say that we have.
643
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:16,400
Yeah, but it was a nice night.
Sierah looked great.
644
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:19,600
Yay, Sierah! Yay!
Sexy Sierah.
645
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:21,360
Thank you.
646
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:22,960
And Ryan.
RYAN: Hi.
647
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:24,200
Hi.
648
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:26,800
Jacqui. Jacqui wants to feel adored.
649
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:28,600
Tell me about that.
OK.
650
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:30,520
Well, her task for me was
651
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:33,920
"I want you to make me feel like the
most beautiful woman in the world."
652
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:35,480
OK?
Yes.
653
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:38,320
Yeah, like, she wanted to get,
like, a lot of compliments,
654
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:40,240
a lot of reassurance.
655
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:41,440
So, I'm, like, "Yeah, sure."
656
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:44,120
Like, I complimented her on her
appearance. She looks amazing.
657
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:47,040
"You're career-driven,
you're intelligent..."
658
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:48,560
I find intelligence very sexy.
659
00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:51,360
So I was, like, lavishing all this
praise and compliments on her
660
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:54,040
and I could see
it was making a difference.
661
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:56,920
Towards the end, though,
she said one line
662
00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:58,720
which, like, made me
sort of pull back a little bit.
663
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:01,480
She said, "I want to give you
a chance to atone for your mistake."
664
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:05,840
Was she referring
to something in particular?
665
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:07,520
It came back
to the photo challenge again.
666
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:13,800
OK. I'll put you third.
667
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:15,440
But I was just telling her,
668
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:17,240
"Look, I'm not gonna take the answer
back, alright?"
669
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:21,160
And then, suddenly, like, the crazy
eyes came out... (LAUGHS)
670
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:22,600
Like... (LAUGHS)
671
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:25,080
BILLY: What?
(LAUGHS)
672
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:29,080
Try living with it. (LAUGHS)
673
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:32,320
(RYAN LAUGHS)
674
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:34,960
Saying 'crazy eyes' like that, like,
that's a comment that Jake made
675
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:37,840
to make her look bad.
676
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:42,680
JAKE: Jeez, I don't know.
I'm not vibing Jacqui.
677
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:46,360
(ASHLEIGH GASPS)
678
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:49,680
To bring that up in a group setting,
when we're in Intimacy Week,
679
00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:50,680
like, it's not great.
680
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:51,720
(RYAN LAUGHS)
681
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:53,920
DAVE: You don't say these things
to put women down.
682
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:59,000
(LAUGHS) Um... So...
What do you mean 'crazy eyes'?
683
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:01,160
Well, like, when she wants to
discuss something
684
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:06,000
that she's kind of not happy with,
then, like, it gets quite intense.
685
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:10,880
And I was, like, it's kind of
disrupting the whole fun mood of it.
686
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:15,600
It didn't end on an ideal note,
687
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:17,240
but I didn't know what else
I could've done.
688
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:18,720
Like, I was telling her
689
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,600
so many different beautiful things
about her, so genuine, whatnot.
690
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:23,720
And then she, like,
brought up the past again...
691
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:25,560
I do kind of think I get it, though,
692
00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:27,560
because she was very emotional
on the couch
693
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:30,520
about you not finding her attractive.
694
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:32,560
That's her whole thing.
695
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:36,200
It was so clear, she wants to feel
adored by her partner.
696
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:37,280
She wants to feel beautiful.
697
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:39,280
She wants to feel like
they're really into her.
698
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:42,720
Well, to be honest, I was actually
a little bit disappointed
699
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:45,120
that it was purely based on beauty.
700
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:46,840
Like, why couldn't we play
a fun game?
701
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:49,320
Why couldn't we do something that
connects on a different level?
702
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:53,960
I think I've made a pretty clear that
the task is not about any of you.
703
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:56,000
It was simply about her,
704
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:59,280
so your opinion
on whether that was the best task
705
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:01,000
or you could've done
something different,
706
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:04,160
again, it's something you can
bring up at a different moment
707
00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:06,160
to let her know
what is important to you.
708
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:11,200
Obviously the task yesterday
was for the partners to go away
709
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:13,080
and it was
their ultimate fantasy night
710
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:15,240
and I think everyone understood
that it was their fantasy,
711
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:16,280
not our fantasy.
712
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:19,720
I don't think Ryan picked up that
it was Jacqui's fantasy, not his.
713
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:21,720
It didn't go the way
either of us wanted.
714
00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:24,360
But, uh... We, um...
715
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:27,320
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
716
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:31,120
I've gotta say, like, she gives...
she gives awesome (BLEEP).
717
00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:32,680
Like, I'm just gonna say...
Like, that's...
718
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:33,800
(GASPING)
719
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:35,800
JEFF: (BLEEP) hell.
720
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:37,440
(BLEEP).
721
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:39,040
Oh, man. Like...
722
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:42,640
It was just a throwaway comment
and it was disrespectful
723
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:45,320
and all of us guys
were just a bit, like,
724
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:46,760
"Mate, like,
you can't be saying that."
725
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:49,560
And you know what, it was like...
It kept getting better every round.
726
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:52,480
BILLY: You just want to go
shake him up.
727
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:56,360
Ryan, just stop! Just...
(LAUGHS) Stop!
728
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:59,000
Like... (EXHALES)
Absolutely, like, hot.
729
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:00,720
You know, like...
Alright.
730
00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:03,760
Some things
I just wouldn't say out loud,
731
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:06,800
so I think he's dug himself
another hole
732
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:08,720
and no doubt
it's gonna get back to her.
733
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:09,800
(LAUGHS)
734
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:25,600
NARRATOR: After finishing up
at the men's workshop,
735
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:29,160
the grooms are returning
to the apartments.
736
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:34,080
SIERAH: Are you right, darling?
Good afternoon.
737
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:38,120
RHI: (LAUGHS) How did you go?
I've got a surprise.
738
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:40,040
Do you?
You have to wear this.
739
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:42,320
(LAUGHS)
No, I'm just joking this time.
740
00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:43,840
(LAUGHS)
741
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:47,920
JAMIE: What are you... (LAUGHS)
Are you OK?
742
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:50,560
I'm dishevelled.
(LAUGHS)
743
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:52,920
How? You came from
Alessandra's workshop.
744
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:54,120
What a day.
745
00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:55,560
Oh, shit.
746
00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:57,040
Who put that there?
747
00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:59,920
The brides are eager to hear
what they took away
748
00:33:59,960 --> 00:34:01,400
from Alessandra's workshop.
749
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:04,840
How was it?
Well, it was eventful.
750
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,880
However, the grooms
have been left reeling
751
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:10,400
after an unexpected revelation.
752
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:14,040
Ryan's conversation
of what he did was...
753
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:16,400
Oh, god. Don't... Oh, no.
..um...
754
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:18,840
Jacqui and Ryan.
755
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:23,440
So, Jacqui wants to feel like...
Adored.
756
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:25,120
..she's the only one in the world.
Mmm.
757
00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:28,560
Long story short,
it was going alright, but then...
758
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:32,120
This was, like, a pretty shocking
moment. Um...
759
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:36,360
Oh, god,
it was so hard to listen to!
760
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:39,000
So, he's talking about Jacqui
and stuff...
761
00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:43,840
And then he was explaining
how angry she got last night
762
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:45,840
and sort of joked about saying,
763
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:48,240
"Yeah, then the real crazy eyes
came out."
764
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:52,680
So that, you know...
Stop!
765
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:56,640
He's taken Jakey boy's line?
Yeah.
766
00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:58,000
Yeah, you can't go calling...
767
00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:00,120
You can't be saying
your wife's got crazy eyes
768
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:01,200
in front of a group of men,
769
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:04,920
especially when that was
the comment old Jakey boy used
770
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:07,280
to, you know, slag her off
behind her back.
771
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,320
He said the same comment
that Jake said.
772
00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:11,360
Oh, my goodness.
I know.
773
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:14,080
That was a comment
that hurt his wife's feelings.
774
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:15,640
Like, that really hurt her.
Yeah.
775
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:17,120
And then he goes and repeats it.
776
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:19,640
Especially when Jacqui even said
on the day...
777
00:35:19,720 --> 00:35:21,000
She's, like,
"I don't want to hear about it."
778
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:22,240
Yeah. 100%.
779
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:26,760
I'm pretty surprised
that Ryan has repeated that again
780
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:30,040
considering it upset his partner
in the first place.
781
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:31,880
And it would upset me too.
782
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:33,800
It was like he just said it
like a throwaway line.
783
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:37,080
And all us guys were just, like,
"Mate, what are you doing?"
784
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:39,920
You know, sort of wish I pulled him
up on it on the spot.
785
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:43,400
To say it in a setting when
she's not there just to the boys
786
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:46,880
to joke about her is, you know,
pretty shit, so...
787
00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:48,960
Knowing that's their sore spot,
788
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:52,840
knowing her whole aim of the task
was to feel good about herself
789
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:54,320
and get fed compliments,
790
00:35:54,400 --> 00:36:01,240
to go to the workshop to then talk
poorly about your wife's appearance
791
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:04,200
is just, like, wild to me.
792
00:36:04,240 --> 00:36:05,640
Like, it's wild.
793
00:36:05,720 --> 00:36:08,240
Did he not get the point
of the task?
794
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:10,640
But that's not the worst part,
795
00:36:10,720 --> 00:36:12,720
which is still a head-scratch
for me.
796
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:18,000
He just goes, "Yeah, but she
gives great (BLEEP), though."
797
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:19,760
Stop.
798
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:24,760
It was hard to listen to.
799
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:27,080
He just kept going
and, like, we were all just, like,
800
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:28,360
"Mate, like, you can't do that."
801
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:30,120
What is wrong with some people?
802
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:31,880
How does that...
Yeah.
803
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:33,240
I don't know how he thinks
that's OK.
804
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:35,080
JAMIE: These boys have got balls.
805
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:38,120
They wouldn't last a minute with me
because I'd (BLEEP) annihilate them.
806
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:39,640
(LAUGHS)
Absolutely no way.
807
00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:40,920
Yeah.
808
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:43,160
JAMIE: Ryan's comments
he made about Jacqui,
809
00:36:43,240 --> 00:36:47,240
for him to say that while them two
are obviously in a tough spot,
810
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:51,080
it sounds like Ryan just kind of
made this comment at the end,
811
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:53,360
like, "Oh, well, at least
she pleasures me at night,"
812
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:54,400
kind of thing.
813
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:58,400
Like, that's not appropriate.
814
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:01,040
The more he talks,
the more he just digs.
815
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:03,480
It's like... It's really strange.
816
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:06,400
He just dug himself, like,
five foot deeper tonight.
817
00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:10,040
Like, I have no doubt
that has to be brought up
818
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:12,120
and I'm just sort of, yeah,
pretty annoyed at myself
819
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:15,400
that I didn't pull him up on the
spot then with everyone present.
820
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:17,440
Well, babe, we've gotta say
something at the dinner party.
821
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:19,240
Yeah.
822
00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:21,280
I think Jacqui
should absolutely know
823
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:23,720
that Ryan's making comments
about her behind her back.
824
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:29,440
I don't think that's acceptable
and my husband ain't happy,
825
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:31,160
so I feel like the next dinner party
is gonna be interesting.
826
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:35,080
NARRATOR: Coming up...
JEFF: Uh-oh.
827
00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:37,800
This is it. This is the task!
828
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:39,640
..Intimacy Week continues...
829
00:37:39,720 --> 00:37:40,960
Yes.
Surprise task.
830
00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:44,080
..bringing the couples closer...
(JAMIE LAUGHS)
831
00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:48,240
..before one couple takes their
relationship to the next level.
832
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:49,920
RHI: We're like children.
I know.
833
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:51,240
I can't stop laughing.
We've kissed before.
834
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,000
I know.
It's OK.
835
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:55,680
But first...
You told me, "Stop talking."
836
00:37:55,720 --> 00:37:56,840
So I'm not gonna talk.
837
00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:59,920
..disaster strikes Morena and Tony.
838
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:02,280
Sometimes just let me tell you
how I feel.
839
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:04,160
You told me to stop talking.
840
00:38:04,240 --> 00:38:05,440
You don't get to do that
to a person.
841
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:08,720
I don't (BLEEP) think so.
842
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:10,560
He can (BLEEP)...
843
00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:12,600
(DOOR CLOSES)
844
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:26,600
NARRATOR:
As Intimacy Week unfolds,
845
00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:30,560
Morena and Tony find themselves
closer than ever.
846
00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:33,560
And after a positive session
with Alessandra,
847
00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:39,520
Tony is brimming with excitement to
return and tell Morena all about it.
848
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:42,200
TONY: Morena and I
are in a good place at the moment.
849
00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:45,160
I really had a good time
at the workshop,
850
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:47,560
so, excited to come back here
851
00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:51,640
and tell Morena about what was
happening and have a laugh,
852
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:54,280
'cause I like doing that with her.
853
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:56,840
(SING-SONGS) Morena!
Hi.
854
00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:59,520
Morena!
Ciao.
855
00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:02,040
What's happening, 'Morencha'?
I'm reading a book.
856
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:03,800
Yeah? Are you good?
Yes.
857
00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:05,120
Yeah?
Welcome home.
858
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:08,680
When Morena's happy, it brings
the better side out of me, you know.
859
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:11,680
I'm more happy, I'm more relaxed,
I can joke around with her
860
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:16,160
and, you know, enjoy the time
that we have here.
861
00:39:16,240 --> 00:39:18,560
I'm excited to tell you
about my day.
862
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:23,000
MORENA: Tony, this book
is just, like, amazing.
863
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:27,040
You just open it up and...
Mm-hm.
864
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,120
..and for that moment of the day,
it gives you an affirmation
865
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:31,600
and it just tells you a quote
that you need to hear.
866
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:36,280
I just opened it now and it just
said, "It's OK not to be happy..."
867
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:38,240
Just a second. I just walked in.
Deep breaths.
868
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:39,720
I'm just gonna say it.
It's only short.
869
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:41,640
OK.
870
00:39:41,720 --> 00:39:45,080
"It's OK not to be happy
with how your story is going,
871
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:48,520
"even if everyone else
is saying it's going well."
872
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:50,080
It's amazing.
873
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:53,320
(SIGHS)
874
00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:56,320
TONY: Here she goes again.
875
00:39:56,360 --> 00:40:00,240
This is something that I don't like.
876
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:01,840
I'm excited to come back here
877
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:05,280
and, you know, tell Morena
about what was happening
878
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:06,880
and she hits me with her book.
879
00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:08,080
Negative, right out of a book.
880
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:10,200
So, the fact that you got that
today...
881
00:40:10,240 --> 00:40:11,960
Just give me a second.
882
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:14,080
Sorry, sorry...
I'm just getting tired.
883
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:15,760
(SIGHS)
884
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:17,120
Did I... Did I say something?
885
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:23,200
OK. Just... Just... Just checking.
886
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:27,720
You know when someone comes home
and you've worked...
887
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:31,040
a big day out working
and you just want your wife to say,
888
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:33,840
"Hey, how are you?
Talk to me about today."
889
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:37,600
Because sometimes
it's our turn to talk,
890
00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:38,760
you know, and their turn to listen.
891
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:40,360
Mmm.
892
00:40:42,720 --> 00:40:44,760
Let me open up a page.
893
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:46,920
And she just hit me
straight away.
894
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:50,800
Straight into her book. (LAUGHS)
895
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:53,680
Let me talk to you, man.
Let me tell you how I feel.
896
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:56,600
You know, as soon as that happened,
I lost my train of thought.
897
00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:57,800
I was, like, done.
898
00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:00,800
Wow. I've just opened the page
again, Tony.
899
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:04,240
Huh?
I've just opened the page again.
900
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:10,920
Tony, "You can't yet see
the light at the end of the tunnel
901
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:14,680
"because the light is in you."
902
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:20,080
That's, like... How could I have
opened it to that?
903
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:26,080
I just want to take a little break
for a while, man.
904
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:29,080
Sometimes you've just gotta
take a step back,
905
00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:31,440
let me talk, let me enjoy myself
talking to you.
906
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:34,760
And it's happened a lot
and it's happening...
907
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:36,800
It's just how Morena is and she's...
908
00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:39,000
(SIGHS)
909
00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:40,880
It's a little bit frustrating
sometimes.
910
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:42,840
I've been there all day
911
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:45,200
and I'm coming back here
and you're hammering me.
912
00:41:45,240 --> 00:41:47,680
I need some time.
913
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:50,880
What do you mean I'm hammering you?
Chill out for a minute.
914
00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:53,200
You're amazing.
915
00:41:56,680 --> 00:41:57,840
(SIGHS)
916
00:41:57,920 --> 00:41:59,920
I don't know
why you're getting angry at me.
917
00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:02,440
I'm not angry, but, you know,
when I come here to talk to you,
918
00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:05,200
I'm talking to you
about what I was doing over there.
919
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:06,960
And you just lose
my train of thought.
920
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:09,040
And then,
OK, well, here it is again.
921
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:11,760
It's the Morena show again.
Tony... Tony...
922
00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:13,320
You're talking to me
about books and things like this...
923
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:15,720
Tony... Tony, you walked away.
Tony, you walked away.
924
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:17,400
This is what the problem is, Morena.
925
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:19,720
You walked away,
so I'm entitled to read...
926
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:22,880
I was excited to walk in here
and talk to you about my day
927
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,880
and here you are, hitting me with
questions in books and stuff like...
928
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:28,360
(BLEEP), man,
sometimes I just don't get it.
929
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:31,680
OK. I'm not talking.
I don't have to talk.
930
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:35,760
Well, sometimes you just gotta
stop, let me have my say.
931
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:38,640
Sometimes I just...
932
00:42:38,720 --> 00:42:41,040
I just like some time to Tony, man,
when it gets too much like that.
933
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:45,600
I kind of feel rude
that I walked off on her,
934
00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:47,840
but sometimes you just gotta
step away before...
935
00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:49,120
You know what I mean?
936
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:54,160
MORENA: Nobody gets to tell me
to stop talking.
937
00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:59,480
Nobody has the right
to shut me down.
938
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:01,440
So, no, I don't think so.
939
00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:03,600
That doesn't get to happen,
not on my watch.
940
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:07,280
I put up with that for 29 years.
941
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:09,760
I'm not doing that now.
942
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:16,080
So, when someone storms off
and then tells me to stop talking,
943
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:17,960
it doesn't sit well with me.
944
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:19,880
I don't (BLEEP) think so.
945
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:21,200
He can (BLEEP)...
946
00:43:21,240 --> 00:43:23,160
(DOOR CLOSES)
947
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:25,320
He... He needs a break?
948
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:26,960
Let's give Tony a break.
949
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:29,880
I'm with a child.
950
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:33,840
You don't get to walk off,
tell me to stop talking.
951
00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:37,480
I asked for an alpha man.
952
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:40,160
I didn't ask for a child.
953
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:54,080
NARRATOR: As Intimacy Week continues,
954
00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:57,760
Alessandra's latest tasks
are arriving at the apartments.
955
00:43:57,800 --> 00:43:59,360
(KNOCK AT DOOR)
956
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:01,640
Oh, shite.
(LAUGHS)
957
00:44:01,720 --> 00:44:04,040
JEFF: Uh-oh.
RHI: This is it.
958
00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:07,440
This is the task! Yes!
Surprise task!
959
00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:11,640
This year, I've created
tailored tasks for each couple
960
00:44:11,720 --> 00:44:15,160
to focus on their specific areas
for improvement.
961
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:16,280
CARINA: Oh!
962
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:18,880
OK. There's a few things
in there again.
963
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:20,160
Boom, boom, boom, boom.
(LAUGHS)
964
00:44:20,240 --> 00:44:23,000
These exercises are designed
to invite them
965
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:24,800
to explore
outside their comfort zones...
966
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:27,120
Here we go.
967
00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:29,560
..and help improve
their sense of closeness.
968
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:31,760
What sort of task
do you reckon it'll be?
969
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:33,920
I don't know, but I might go
and brush my teeth.
970
00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:35,520
(BOTH LAUGH)
971
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:39,120
It's probably a kissing task.
Good idea.
972
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:42,000
CARINA: I've got so much to learn.
PAUL: Absolutely.
973
00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:45,120
I'm a vanilla cupcake
with a bit of sprinkles.
974
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:48,520
I'm gonna come here and then add
all the chilli flakes on top.
975
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:50,200
Oh, chilli flakes!
(LAUGHS)
976
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:54,640
JAMIE: Oh, (BLEEP),
there's more questions.
977
00:44:54,720 --> 00:44:57,960
I'm excited about today's challenge
with Dave
978
00:44:58,000 --> 00:45:00,520
because he hates talking about sex.
979
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:02,960
Hates it. And I can see
he gets uncomfortable.
980
00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:06,080
But at the same time,
Dave has come a long way,
981
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:09,040
so I think we've kind of both
got some more exploring to do.
982
00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:14,680
"Where was the most public place
you had sex? What happened?"
983
00:45:14,720 --> 00:45:19,560
(LAUGHS) Um... (LAUGHS)
984
00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:22,600
I was at the zoo once. (LAUGHS)
985
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:26,440
You're kidding me.
That's... Oh, god.
986
00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:29,000
But, like, the toilets had,
like, a bird aviary over it,
987
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:30,840
so I remember, like, looking
988
00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:32,720
and, like, this bird is
full looking at me.
989
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:35,840
I mean, Jamie doesn't give a shit.
990
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:37,840
She'll just tell you
whatever she wants. It's great.
991
00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:40,160
It's good.
She's leading the way for me.
992
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:41,880
It's... Yeah, it's helping.
993
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:44,960
Like, one was, like, going...
(CAWS)
994
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:46,440
(LAUGHS)
995
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:48,480
I think they knew
what we were doing, the birds,
996
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:50,280
'cause they were, like... (CAWS)
997
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:52,440
(LAUGHS)
998
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:54,520
Maybe that's why you're scared
of birds.
999
00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:57,040
(LAUGHS)
Let's go to Taronga.
1000
00:45:57,080 --> 00:45:59,040
On a day trip.
1001
00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:02,560
(BOTH LAUGH)
1002
00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:08,640
Over at Rhi and Jeff's apartment,
1003
00:46:08,720 --> 00:46:11,400
the couple are hoping
Alessandra's tasks
1004
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:14,680
will help them take their intimacy
to the next level.
1005
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:18,000
Eh! Are you nervous?
No, I'm alright.
1006
00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:20,400
(CLEARS THROAT)
Are you nervous?
1007
00:46:20,440 --> 00:46:21,600
A little bit.
1008
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:25,080
Alessandra, she said
she's ramping it up this year,
1009
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:28,560
so it'll be safe to say
that I'm a little bit nervous.
1010
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:32,120
"Gaze into your partner's eyes for
three minutes without looking away.
1011
00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:34,920
"Allow yourself to be vulnerable
and be present in the moment.
1012
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:36,960
"Set a timer
and enjoy the intimacy."
1013
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:38,600
Oooh.
1014
00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:40,920
The things that she's given us,
like,
1015
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:43,480
we are obviously intimate,
like, we kiss.
1016
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:45,760
FEMALE VOICE: Three minutes.
Counting down.
1017
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:48,240
But, yeah, staring at each other's
eyes and things like that
1018
00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:51,920
added a little bit of difference
to what we would normally do.
1019
00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:04,240
JEFF: I was just staring at Rhi
1020
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:05,720
and I was just sort of, like,
taking in her energy
1021
00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:08,240
and just started looking
straight in her eyes
1022
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:10,800
and it felt like I was sort of like
looking deep into her.
1023
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:12,560
It sort of feels like
you're in a little bubble
1024
00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:15,240
and nothing else matters
in that moment.
1025
00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:16,960
Yeah, it was intense
but it was nice.
1026
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:23,160
RHI: I think, like,
one thing I always said
1027
00:47:23,240 --> 00:47:25,320
was I wanted to walk
down the aisle to someone
1028
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,280
who had really kind eyes
1029
00:47:27,360 --> 00:47:29,520
and obviously I knew Jeff
when I walked down the aisle
1030
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:33,560
but he has really kind eyes
and he's a very good person,
1031
00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:35,280
so it was nice
staring into his eyes.
1032
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:36,680
Yeah.
1033
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:39,720
There it is.
1034
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:40,840
Gazing does feel intimate.
1035
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:42,920
Yeah, I guess it's kind of what
you do before you kiss someone,
1036
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:45,880
so especially when it's for
three minutes, you start to...
1037
00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:49,400
You see people's souls,
I don't know. (LAUGHS)
1038
00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:53,240
JEFF: (LAUGHS) "Share a two-minute
make-out session."
1039
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:57,760
(BOTH LAUGH)
1040
00:47:57,800 --> 00:47:59,600
Oh!
1041
00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:04,080
Yeah, the two-minute... Yeah,
the two-minute kissing... (BLEEP).
1042
00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:05,640
I can't even speak.
1043
00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:07,400
The two-minute kissing task,
1044
00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:08,960
you know,
it was a bit nerve-racking.
1045
00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:10,720
Like, it might not sound like
a big step
1046
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:12,280
but for me personally it is.
1047
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:14,960
We've had that first kiss
last week in confessions week,
1048
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:16,800
but I guess with this task,
1049
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:20,240
I just hope that we will see
the spark between me and Rhi.
1050
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:24,240
You know, I'm gonna be open because
hopefully sooner rather than later,
1051
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:26,480
maybe we progress to the next stage.
1052
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:28,000
(BOTH LAUGH)
1053
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:29,880
We're like children.
Oh, I know.
1054
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:31,680
We've kissed before.
I know.
1055
00:48:31,720 --> 00:48:33,640
It's OK.
1056
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:36,680
(UPLIFTING MUSIC)
1057
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:48,800
(LAUGHS)
OK.
1058
00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:51,200
It's good.
(LAUGHS)
1059
00:48:51,240 --> 00:48:55,080
(LAUGHS) So, the...
1060
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:56,920
(LAUGHS)
1061
00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:59,240
(LAUGHS)
Oh, wow.
1062
00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:00,960
JEFF: It was a nice kiss.
It was a nice kiss.
1063
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:02,880
It was nice and passionate.
1064
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:04,480
We were feeling it.
1065
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:07,560
It's given me a bit to think about.
1066
00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:10,680
I do like kissing Jeff.
1067
00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:14,080
Everything just feels really right
at the moment.
1068
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:16,040
I can tell we both like each other
a lot.
1069
00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:18,640
The spark's definitely there now.
1070
00:49:18,720 --> 00:49:21,440
Yeah, it just feels like
we've just taken that next step,
1071
00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:23,720
but it feels good.
1072
00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:27,680
He's honestly, like,
such an amazing partner to do...
1073
00:49:27,720 --> 00:49:29,160
like, to have in this experiment.
1074
00:49:29,240 --> 00:49:31,320
The more this experiment
has gone on,
1075
00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:34,080
the more grateful I am
that I am with Jeff.
1076
00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:36,160
(LAUGHS) Nice.
It was nice.
1077
00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:37,600
I forgot what question you asked
1078
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:39,400
but I just went on about Jeff
just then.
1079
00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:41,040
But, yeah, it's all true.
1080
00:49:44,240 --> 00:49:45,920
Next...
1081
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:48,880
You told me to stop talking.
1082
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:51,000
You don't get to do that
to a person.
1083
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:53,040
Sometimes just let me tell you
how I feel.
1084
00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:58,120
..tensions rise
as Morena and Tony butt heads.
1085
00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:00,800
You told me "Stop talking,"
so I'm not gonna talk,
1086
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:03,080
so, go ahead,
finish what you want to say.
1087
00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:05,920
No, you said don't talk.
You're becoming aggressive to me.
1088
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:07,960
No...
I apologised to you, didn't I?
1089
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:09,720
(SIGHS)
1090
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:20,360
NARRATOR: After tempers flared,
1091
00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:23,400
Morena and Tony
have returned to their apartment.
1092
00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:26,840
Yesterday it was really good
1093
00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:29,520
and in such a good place
that I was, you know, excited.
1094
00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:30,840
We had a good day.
1095
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:34,160
You know, we painted and talked
and chatted and drank and ate food.
1096
00:50:34,240 --> 00:50:35,920
We laughed it off.
I thought it was great.
1097
00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:39,600
I even went to Alessandra
with excitement
1098
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:40,920
to tell Alessandra what happened,
you know.
1099
00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:42,880
I thought my story
was the best story from all of them.
1100
00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:47,560
I got back here with excitement
to tell her
1101
00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:48,800
and she's...you know, the book...
1102
00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:51,120
It just did my head in. (LAUGHS)
1103
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:53,120
Take a seat.
1104
00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:55,800
I'm good standing, thanks.
1105
00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:57,000
You are?
1106
00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:01,320
She doesn't mean harm.
It's just how she is.
1107
00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:03,800
Sometimes she's just gotta take
a step back and listen to me.
1108
00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:06,480
(SIGHS)
1109
00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:08,600
Yeah, I was a bit rude to you,
wasn't I?
1110
00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:12,200
But wait, though.
Let me explain myself, OK?
1111
00:51:12,240 --> 00:51:14,000
When I walked in here,
1112
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:17,560
I was so happy to tell you
about what happened at the day, OK?
1113
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:20,600
I saw you sitting there with a book
in your hand, so I sat next to you
1114
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:22,280
and I asked you,
"What are you reading?"
1115
00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:23,880
You didn't tell me
the book you were reading,
1116
00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:25,840
you told me a quote
out of that book.
1117
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:28,720
I was so excited to talk to you
about my day
1118
00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:31,160
that you read me a quote,
not one, but two out of there.
1119
00:51:31,240 --> 00:51:33,200
That spun my head
and I thought to myself,
1120
00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:35,840
"I just spoke to someone
who was so wise."
1121
00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:37,320
You know, I want to learn something.
1122
00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:39,600
I didn't come here to get peppered
by you as well.
1123
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:42,280
But sometimes
you just gotta let me talk
1124
00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:43,960
and tell you how I felt on the day
1125
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:45,400
and how excited I was
to talk to them
1126
00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:47,280
about how I told them
what we did with you.
1127
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:50,800
Me and you, you know, painting
and on the lounge and everything.
1128
00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:54,440
Sometimes just listen to me talk.
That's where I...
1129
00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:56,400
You know, and then I just thought
to myself, "Here we go again."
1130
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:58,160
I'm just talking in riddles again.
1131
00:51:58,240 --> 00:52:01,040
I've lost my train of thought
and I thought... (BLEEP).
1132
00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:03,760
I just didn't want to talk anymore
because I just didn't...
1133
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:05,880
Sorry, man. That's how I felt, so...
1134
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:08,480
Sometimes just let me tell you
how I feel.
1135
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:11,480
It was my day today.
We went to Alessandra today.
1136
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:13,280
I do apologise, yes,
1137
00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:16,760
with getting up and walking off
on you and stuff like that.
1138
00:52:16,840 --> 00:52:21,600
Sometimes just let me have,
you know, a conversation with you.
1139
00:52:29,720 --> 00:52:33,000
You told me "Stop talking,"
so I'm not gonna talk,
1140
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:35,200
so, go ahead,
finish what you want to say.
1141
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:38,000
No, you said don't talk.
You're becoming aggressive to me.
1142
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:39,360
No...
I apologised to you, didn't I?
1143
00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:42,840
I did. I said I'm sorry
for my reaction.
1144
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:46,200
You told me to stop talking.
1145
00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:48,240
You don't get to do that
to a person.
1146
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:51,760
I hope you're really happy.
This was all unnecessary.
1147
00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:53,400
I was actually enjoying
reading the book.
1148
00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:54,760
I wasn't hurting anyone.
1149
00:52:54,840 --> 00:52:58,680
You then got up and walked off,
you came to make a coffee
1150
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:00,440
'cause you're going
"I don't want to talk anymore."
1151
00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:03,440
I thought, "Alright, I'm just gonna
read something from my book."
1152
00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:07,120
I did, I said I'm sorry.
I said that to you.
1153
00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:08,600
I know how I was feeling...
1154
00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:10,760
But I can see you
actually don't mean it.
1155
00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:14,480
Actions, not words.
1156
00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:19,280
So, what are my actions?
What do you want me to do?
1157
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:24,920
I'm not gonna tell a grown man of 53
what to do.
1158
00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:28,920
You should know.
That should be automatic.
1159
00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:31,480
You should know how to treat a woman
1160
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:34,040
and you should know
how to speak to a woman
1161
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:36,560
and tell her again
to stop talking...
1162
00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:39,240
I had that for three decades, Tony.
1163
00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:41,600
But I've worked on myself
for seven years.
1164
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:45,360
From the day I left my ex,
I've worked myself inside and out.
1165
00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:48,360
So if you're wondering
why it upsets me,
1166
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:52,240
I won't allow anyone
to treat me like that.
1167
00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:58,320
Anyone. Not my friends,
not my family, nobody.
1168
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:02,560
Just calm down a little bit, Morena.
We can talk.
1169
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:04,960
Sit down. I made the mistake...
1170
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:06,680
You told me not to talk,
1171
00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:08,320
so I don't want to talk
to somebody...
1172
00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:10,560
I said that before!
..that tells me not to talk, Tony.
1173
00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:14,240
So, I don't want to talk.
1174
00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:16,760
Think about your words
that you say to people,
1175
00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:18,760
people that don't deserve that.
1176
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:22,640
I talk from my heart,
I don't talk from my rear end.
1177
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:25,160
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1178
00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:35,560
(GULPING)
1179
00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:43,680
(SIGHS) You know,
I tried to apologise.
1180
00:54:43,720 --> 00:54:44,840
I spoke about it.
1181
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:48,080
I... I explained myself.
1182
00:54:48,160 --> 00:54:51,440
She said, "Don't ever say that
again," you know, and...
1183
00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:53,440
She was angry.
1184
00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:55,360
There's sadness in her voice
all the time.
1185
00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:58,240
I'm causing it, I know,
1186
00:54:58,320 --> 00:55:00,200
because if she met someone
that she's happy with,
1187
00:55:00,240 --> 00:55:01,560
she wouldn't be like this.
1188
00:55:01,640 --> 00:55:04,280
But I keep, you know...
I'm letting her down.
1189
00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:06,200
I'm happy not to talk,
1190
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:08,480
because
that's what you would prefer.
1191
00:55:08,520 --> 00:55:10,480
OK, maybe we need some time off.
1192
00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:12,600
Maybe I need to get away from you
for a day or two.
1193
00:55:12,680 --> 00:55:13,760
No, no, that's fine.
OK?
1194
00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:16,000
You do that.
1195
00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:19,400
Yeah, alright. I'm just gonna go.
1196
00:55:19,440 --> 00:55:21,720
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1197
00:55:26,480 --> 00:55:28,680
"If they make you feel like
your love is too much,
1198
00:55:28,720 --> 00:55:31,560
"then tell them it is.
1199
00:55:31,600 --> 00:55:33,680
"It's too much for them."
1200
00:55:33,720 --> 00:55:35,360
Boom.
1201
00:55:36,680 --> 00:55:38,000
Are we done?
1202
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:39,640
Perfect.
1203
00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:44,240
Good. Un-mic me
and we're done.
1204
00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:52,720
NARRATOR: As Intimacy Week
draws to a close...
1205
00:55:52,760 --> 00:55:55,080
WOMEN: Hi!
1206
00:55:55,160 --> 00:56:00,640
..Jamie is stopping by
Carina's apartment.
1207
00:56:00,720 --> 00:56:04,760
So, obviously when Dave came home
from the workshop with Alessandra,
1208
00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:06,160
he did bring me tea.
1209
00:56:06,240 --> 00:56:08,680
Oh, stop!
Making us a tea or a coffee.
1210
00:56:08,720 --> 00:56:09,800
What would you like?
1211
00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:11,760
Obviously it seemed
the most shocking part
1212
00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:14,280
was Ryan's comments
he made about Jacqui.
1213
00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:17,400
I just, yeah,
don't think that's acceptable
1214
00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:19,680
to be doing
behind your partner's back.
1215
00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:22,320
Oh, my god. I love talking about tea
whilst drinking tea.
1216
00:56:22,400 --> 00:56:25,840
Yeah. (LAUGHS)
Like, my nipples are elated now.
1217
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:27,480
(LAUGHS)
1218
00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:29,600
I've actually formed a really good
relationship with Carina,
1219
00:56:29,680 --> 00:56:32,560
so I want to see what she thinks
is going on there.
1220
00:56:32,640 --> 00:56:36,080
I haven't told...
What? What? What?
1221
00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:38,760
I need to know. I don't know shit.
Like...
1222
00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:41,920
So, the hot topic...
to Jacqui and Ryan,
1223
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:45,360
because I know Dave
definitely was left pissed off...
1224
00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:47,320
Oh!
..and wants to bring up things.
1225
00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:48,760
He just didn't like how he spoke
about Jacqui.
1226
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:51,320
What did Ryan say?
1227
00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:54,640
Ryan told the group
that she has crazy eyes.
1228
00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:56,840
(GASPS) Oh, my god. (BLEEP).
1229
00:56:56,880 --> 00:56:58,800
Like...
1230
00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:01,120
I just don't think he thinks at all.
He doesn't.
1231
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:04,040
Like, why would you use
a comment someone was saying
1232
00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:05,640
in a negative way about your wife...
Yeah.
1233
00:57:05,720 --> 00:57:07,920
..and you're using that
in a group of men...
1234
00:57:07,960 --> 00:57:10,360
The thing is, like, the crazy eyes,
1235
00:57:10,440 --> 00:57:12,440
it's, like, you could be
a lot more creative
1236
00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:14,000
because like, I think I've got
(BLEEP) crazy eyes
1237
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:15,760
at the best of times.
1238
00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:18,000
But what, like,
really pissed Dave off
1239
00:57:18,080 --> 00:57:20,960
is that, like, he made the comment
about physical appearance,
1240
00:57:21,040 --> 00:57:23,560
which is just not on,
but then he said,
1241
00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:25,680
"Well, at least she gives
really good (BLEEP)."
1242
00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:30,320
Imagine saying that
in front of Jacqui.
1243
00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:34,840
I'm, like...
1244
00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:40,280
I'm just gobsmacked
by hearing that type of comment.
1245
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:45,400
If someone said that about me,
I would've decked you...
1246
00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:46,800
Yeah.
..and I would've just legged it.
1247
00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:48,120
Yeah. Like, what the (BLEEP).
1248
00:57:48,200 --> 00:57:49,560
I think he was just, like,
peacocking.
1249
00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:53,400
Now I'm, like... It's like the baton
keeps getting passed on
1250
00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:56,040
from, like, just shitty husbands
and he's just, like...
1251
00:57:56,120 --> 00:57:58,480
"I'll take the stick."
.."I'll take it."
1252
00:57:58,520 --> 00:57:59,320
Yeah.
1253
00:57:59,360 --> 00:58:00,360
Like, 'cause I think I was, like,
1254
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:02,400
"Oh, it's gonna be
quite peaceful, actually, now."
1255
00:58:02,440 --> 00:58:03,680
And he's, like, yoink.
1256
00:58:03,760 --> 00:58:06,640
Because I'm, like,
"What's he thinking?"
1257
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:10,160
Ryan did say
a lot of disrespectful things
1258
00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:11,720
behind Jacqui's back,
which is not on.
1259
00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:17,160
And, like, my husband ain't happy
with the things Ryan said.
1260
00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:19,800
Is he trying to act cool?
Is he trying to act...
1261
00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:21,680
Well...
..superior?
1262
00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:24,080
So, Dave was eager
to pull him up on it
1263
00:58:24,160 --> 00:58:26,440
and honestly, like, I'm gonna let
my husband do his thing.
1264
00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:31,800
But I'm really keen to see what
Ryan has to say. (LAUGHS) Yeah.
1265
00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:34,080
Yeah, this dinner party's
a bit of a shit-show already.
1266
00:58:34,120 --> 00:58:35,520
Like, it really is.
1267
00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:41,120
Following a heated exchange
with Morena,
1268
00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:45,920
Tony has left the apartments
and gone to his home in Wollongong
1269
00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:47,800
to collect his thoughts...
1270
00:58:47,880 --> 00:58:51,560
MORENA: Oh, my god.
He... He needs a break?
1271
00:58:51,600 --> 00:58:53,240
I don't think so.
1272
00:58:53,280 --> 00:58:55,600
..and Morena is not happy.
1273
00:58:55,680 --> 00:58:59,360
At the moment,
right now, I'm gutted.
1274
00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:03,240
I'm gutted 'cause he doesn't even
want to spend time with me,
1275
00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:04,280
even as a friend.
1276
00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:07,720
He's got lots of friends in Sydney.
1277
00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:11,280
He wants to spend time
with everybody else, even his dog,
1278
00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:12,440
but not me.
1279
00:59:12,480 --> 00:59:14,760
Goodnight, Tony.
1280
00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:20,360
Goodnight, Tony.
1281
00:59:22,440 --> 00:59:27,400
Oh, that's right.
Tony needs a break.
1282
00:59:27,480 --> 00:59:31,400
I really want to try and learn
how to build a connection
1283
00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:33,760
with someone I don't know.
1284
00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:37,240
He's making it really difficult
1285
00:59:37,320 --> 00:59:39,400
because he behaves
like a five-year-old.
1286
00:59:39,440 --> 00:59:41,280
I just don't get it,
1287
00:59:41,320 --> 00:59:43,200
I just don't get it,
1288
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:48,320
why...why you would want to be
with everyone else...
1289
00:59:50,600 --> 00:59:52,720
except for the person
you've been matched up with.
1290
00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:54,640
I don't deserve to be shut out.
1291
00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:58,760
Goodnight, Tony... (VOICE ECHOES)
Tony... Tony... Tony... Tony..
1292
01:00:00,320 --> 01:00:02,320
NARRATOR: Tomorrow night...
(BELL RINGS)
1293
01:00:02,360 --> 01:00:03,800
MAN: Dinner is served.
1294
01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:05,640
..emotions run high...
1295
01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:08,560
I'm not done.
I'm not done with you, little boy.
1296
01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:11,440
..as Morena reaches breaking point.
1297
01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:13,560
Does your girl go home
every weekend?
1298
01:00:13,640 --> 01:00:15,600
Does anyone here
go home every weekend?
1299
01:00:15,680 --> 01:00:17,960
MAN: So, from all this...
No, no. Listen. Listen.
1300
01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:19,200
You're delusional.
1301
01:00:19,240 --> 01:00:20,360
She came in swinging.
1302
01:00:20,440 --> 01:00:25,160
While Intimacy Week has worked
its magic for most of our couples...
1303
01:00:25,240 --> 01:00:27,440
There is a real connection here.
ALESSANDRA: Yeah.
1304
01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:29,600
There is good, deep communication.
1305
01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:31,480
RHI: The more that this experiment
goes on,
1306
01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:34,440
the more I realise
that Jeff is an amazing person.
1307
01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:37,560
That's nice. (LAUGHS)
That's lovely.
1308
01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:40,520
(LAUGHTER)
1309
01:00:40,560 --> 01:00:43,040
..the question on everyone's lips...
1310
01:00:43,080 --> 01:00:44,360
CARINA: I'm so confused.
1311
01:00:44,440 --> 01:00:47,640
Has he told her about that comment?
Does she know? I don't know.
1312
01:00:47,720 --> 01:00:50,520
JOHN: Everyone at the table
is fired up and want answers.
1313
01:00:50,560 --> 01:00:52,160
..will Ryan...
1314
01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:56,000
RYAN: Uh...
..own up to those comments?
1315
01:00:58,200 --> 01:01:01,800
Be honest, 'cause you never know
what's gonna come back to bite you.
1316
01:01:03,680 --> 01:01:06,640
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