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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:03,840 NARRATOR: Previously... 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:05,120 I don't even know what to say. 3 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:07,640 ..Jake broke the rules of the experiment... 4 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:11,560 ..when he made a sudden and dramatic exit. 5 00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:14,240 ASHLEIGH: I tried so bloody hard to make it work with him. 6 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:17,440 Ashleigh and Jake's marriage was officially over. 7 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:21,400 And... ALESSANDRA: Welcome. Hi! 8 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:23,680 ..Intimacy Week began with a bang. 9 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:26,200 (WOMAN LAUGHS) 10 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:30,680 Alessandra empowered the women to create their ultimate fantasy night. 11 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:33,000 This is your chance to take control. 12 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:36,080 WOMAN: Tonight is all about showing my dominance. 13 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:38,240 (LAUGHS) Hello. 14 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:42,160 It was an incredible breakthrough for Morena and Tony. 15 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:43,760 There's other sides to romance. 16 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:46,840 It was just happy... I was happy. Laughing. That's what it's about. 17 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:49,200 Eyes are sad eyes because I let you down. 18 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:50,400 MORENA: Oh, OK. 19 00:00:50,480 --> 00:00:51,960 And the smile is where you're coming back. 20 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:53,640 (LAUGHS) That's actually really lovely. 21 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:56,240 And Rhi's ultimate fantasy night... 22 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:58,200 JEFF: Oh! How good! 23 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:00,600 ..further deepened her bond with Jeff. 24 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:01,920 RHI: What I'm feeling now, 25 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:04,960 I could probably see myself falling for Jeff. 26 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:06,480 Yummy. (LAUGHS) 27 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:09,240 Jacqui asked Ryan for words of affirmation. 28 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:10,920 RYAN: Mm-mm! 29 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:14,800 I think Ryan struggles with words on how to compliment a woman. 30 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:18,880 Tonight... Welcome! 31 00:01:18,960 --> 00:01:22,520 ..it's the husbands' turn to open up to Alessandra. 32 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:25,000 Do you feel it brought you guys together? 33 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:26,680 The painting, that really feel nice 34 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:28,480 to just have that connection with her there. 35 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:30,600 It was one of the best things I've ever done. 36 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:31,800 Mmm. 37 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:34,760 And then... I was gonna say, like, that's... 38 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:37,040 BILLY: What? ..Ryan's... 39 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:39,640 Absolutely, like... (BLEEP). 40 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:40,760 ..unfiltered... 41 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:43,360 (LAUGHS) ..comments... 42 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:45,400 And you know what, it was, like, (BLEEP). 43 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:48,360 ..sending shockwaves through the experiment. 44 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:50,000 CARINA: Stop! 45 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:51,440 What is wrong with some people? 46 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:54,520 I'm just gobsmacked, hearing that type of comment. 47 00:01:57,760 --> 00:02:00,760 (BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS) 48 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:08,480 Intimacy Week is well underway and already paying dividends 49 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:11,040 after Alessandra challenged the brides 50 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:14,960 to create their ultimate fantasy night. 51 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:18,960 As part of Intimacy Week, I set a brand-new task, 52 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:21,000 the ultimate fantasy night, 53 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:24,400 helping the brides of the experiment feel empowered 54 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:27,600 and show their partner what it is they desire in a relationship 55 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:30,480 in order to form a stronger connection. 56 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:32,080 (WOMAN LAUGHS) 57 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:34,880 Today, I'm holding a men's workshop 58 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:38,000 so I can hear if the husbands rose to the occasion. 59 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:41,560 This morning, 60 00:02:41,640 --> 00:02:44,720 the couples are enjoying the fruits of their fantasy nights... 61 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:47,360 (LAUGHS) (KISSING) 62 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:51,880 ..before the grooms depart for their turn at Alessandra's workshop. 63 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:56,080 Did you enjoy your night last night? Mm-hm. 64 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:59,120 Oooh, yeah. (LAUGHS) Oooh, yeah, I did. 65 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:00,800 PRODUCER: What happened after we left? 66 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:02,680 Oh, OK. 67 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:06,280 Well, I was definitely rushing everyone out. 68 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:08,520 I was, like, "You guys gotta go. Hurry up." 69 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:11,840 The last thing I expected today 70 00:03:11,920 --> 00:03:15,080 was me to lie down here with some Nutella on my nipples. (LAUGHS) 71 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:21,160 CARINA: I know. (BOTH LAUGH) 72 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:23,720 It's all over the bed! (PAUL LAUGHS) 73 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:25,440 Oh, I have to do the washing now. Mmm. 74 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:29,000 CARINA: Alessandra set us the task 75 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:31,440 and I'm doing things that I wouldn't normally do. 76 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:35,120 Honestly, like, I feel so great about it. 77 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:38,600 I was definitely a little timid. Like... 78 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:40,080 Mmm. I could see. Yeah. ..a little shy. 79 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:42,320 Mmm. Yeah. And I was, like, "Oh!" 80 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:45,800 Bless you. I could see last night that you were a little... 81 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:47,920 you were being a little bit shy about it. 82 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:51,760 A little bit of exotic Carina came out to play, 83 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:54,520 but also the romance is definitely still there 84 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:57,360 and I kept him on his toes and he loved it. 85 00:03:57,440 --> 00:04:01,440 So, actually, to see you doing that, that was actually a big turn-on, eh? 86 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:02,880 (BOTH LAUGH) 87 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:10,200 I woke up this morning feeling...feeling different. 88 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:11,760 But in a good way. 89 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:14,840 I feel like Carina's and I relationship 90 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:17,520 has gone another level again after last night. 91 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:21,040 I swear, I did not expect that from Carina. 92 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:23,160 She was able to really step out of her comfort zone. 93 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:25,120 That's all I was asking for, so, yeah, it's great. 94 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:27,560 (BOTH LAUGH) 95 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:30,800 NARRATOR: Over at Rhi and Jeff's apartment, 96 00:04:30,840 --> 00:04:32,480 the couple are finding their rhythm 97 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:35,160 after the revival of their wedding dance. 98 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:37,680 RHI: How did you sleep? I got such a good night last night. 99 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:39,920 Yeah, it was really fun. We did awesome. 100 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:41,920 (LAUGHS) Thanks. 101 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:43,360 I know it was your fantasy night... (LAUGHS) 102 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:46,360 ..but I'm pretty happy 'cause I would've chosen the same thing. 103 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:47,920 Yeah. 104 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:49,440 We go that way. Just don't drop me. 105 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:50,560 Ready? Ready, set, go. 106 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:52,640 (BOTH LAUGH) 107 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:54,840 Oh... 108 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:56,920 I don't even know what I'm doing. No! 109 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:59,040 (BOTH LAUGH) 110 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:04,120 It was a cute little touch, our wedding dance redo. 111 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:06,600 Thank you. (LAUGHS) A little bit of fun. 112 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:08,400 A little bit corny. A little bit corny but... 113 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:09,920 You like a bit of corn. Yeah. 114 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:11,440 Yeah, I'm feeling really good. 115 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:14,880 I'm feeling really confident in our relationship and I'm really excited. 116 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:17,320 It's all progression with the intimacy. 117 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:19,160 I think Jeff also wants that too. 118 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:20,760 That's the vibe I'm getting from him. 119 00:05:20,840 --> 00:05:24,520 I actually can't wait to hear about what the other couples did now. 120 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:27,000 There would've been some crazy... crazy things happen, I think. 121 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:29,120 I think there will definitely be some crazy stuff. 122 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:30,520 Oh... 123 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:33,280 (LAUGHS) Am I walking funny? 124 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:34,760 (LAUGHS) 125 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:36,880 We were set the task by Alessandra 126 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:39,200 to create the ultimate fantasy night. 127 00:05:39,280 --> 00:05:42,800 I feel like I got exactly that, indeed. 128 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:44,960 I didn't realise that the bed split in two... 129 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:47,920 (LAUGHS) ..until last night. 130 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:50,320 They separate. There's two. (LAUGHS) I know, I couldn't... 131 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:54,960 Dave and I had a lot of fun. A lot of fun. (LAUGHS) 132 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:58,600 I'm already feeling, like, a lot more connected 133 00:05:58,640 --> 00:06:00,160 and I think it would be good for him 134 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:03,680 to hear from Alessandra at the workshop. 135 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:05,240 Phew, boy. 136 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:06,800 Are you getting nervous or something? 137 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:08,960 Yeah. Maybe just a little bit. You can't even focus. 138 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:11,600 Obviously, she's, like, the pro in this area. 139 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:13,120 I think it'll be really informative for everyone. 140 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:16,160 But also, he should leave feeling pretty good about himself 141 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:17,600 and where we're at, 142 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:21,320 because Intimacy Week has literally started off with a bang, hasn't it? 143 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:22,160 (LAUGHS) 144 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:27,440 Don't get, like... Don't get too nervous. It's, like, a fun day. 145 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:30,240 Plus, you'll be sitting in a really nice seat 146 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:32,600 when you're hear no-one else is really having sex. 147 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:34,160 We don't know what happened yesterday. 148 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:35,520 I'm hoping some people got laid. 149 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:41,120 While Jamie and Dave left little to the imagination, 150 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:46,280 one bride's ultimate fantasy night left a lot to be desired. 151 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:49,000 Morning, darling. Morning. 152 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:53,760 My ultimate fantasy night was slightly sexy. 153 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:55,160 Not sexy enough. 154 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:59,720 (LAUGHS) Can you do it nicely? I am! 155 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:03,440 I have been! This is supposed to be sensual. 156 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:05,160 Yes, last night. 157 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:09,000 I didn't... I didn't expect anything like that, that's for sure. 158 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:11,200 I think both Billy and I are a little bit awkward 159 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:12,920 when it comes to talking about intimacy. 160 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:17,680 I think we kind of resort to humour most of the time. 161 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:18,960 (LAUGHS) 162 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:22,240 So it was kind of hard to take it seriously, I think. 163 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:26,400 Did you like giving it to me? Like the... (LAUGHS) 164 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:27,880 What? The massage. 165 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:29,880 Get your mind out of the gutter. 166 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:31,920 Yeah, no, it was... It was nice. 167 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:36,880 It didn't lead to any intimacy last night, unfortunately. 168 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:40,080 I don't have to ask for you to do that, just letting you know. 169 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:41,760 You can just do it whenever you want. 170 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:42,960 (LAUGHS) 171 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:44,240 We didn't knock boots, 172 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:48,320 but hopefully tonight, after Billy gets some advice from Alessandra 173 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:49,960 at the sex workshop today, 174 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:52,160 as in, hopefully we can have sex, 175 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:54,560 'cause I'm human, with human needs 176 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:58,080 and he's hot and I would like to have him on top of me. 177 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:01,880 Sometimes less is more. 178 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:04,520 BILLY: Going into Intimacy Week, 179 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:07,560 I just feel like we don't need to be having sex on the first night. 180 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:11,480 People take Intimacy Week as in you have to have sex. 181 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:12,520 Yeah. 182 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:16,080 Like, they don't actually know what the whole intimacy part is about. 183 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:20,360 Of course I'm attracted to Sierah, but I want an emotional connection. 184 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:23,280 You know, it would be nice to just let that build 185 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:26,800 and just get closer naturally through the activities 186 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:30,440 or whatever workshops that Alessandra's kind of giving out 187 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:34,040 and, you know, we just let that flow 188 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:35,600 and then when it happens, it happens. 189 00:08:40,560 --> 00:08:41,880 Across the hall, 190 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:45,040 Tony's masterpiece has led to a breakthrough. 191 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:48,480 TONY: Did you sleep well? MORENA: I slept like a baby. 192 00:08:48,560 --> 00:08:50,520 Well, you did drink a bottle of wine. 193 00:08:50,560 --> 00:08:53,080 (LAUGHS) With your help. 194 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:58,200 You know, yesterday, Morena showed me the fun side of her. 195 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:00,520 (LAUGHS) 196 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:04,240 This is my little fantasy. 197 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:10,760 All I want you to do is paint me like you see me. 198 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:12,800 Are you ready? Mm-hm. 199 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:15,000 (LAUGHS) 200 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:18,440 How's that? (LAUGHS) 201 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:22,120 You know, we laughed and joked. 202 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:24,000 She drank the bottle of wine. 203 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:25,640 I had a little bit. Mm-hm. 204 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:30,360 Yeah, we're actually enjoying our time together. 205 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:33,880 I mean, this experiment's not easy. 206 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:36,120 How do you get through it? Have fun at it. 207 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:40,200 You know, there's something that stood out to me in that painting. 208 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:42,920 What do you think that was? 209 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:45,200 Well, I said to you, you had sad eyes 210 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:47,240 because it was because of me. 211 00:09:47,320 --> 00:09:52,640 That was my way of saying, you know, everything will be alright. 212 00:09:56,200 --> 00:10:01,000 It kind of... I explained it through that painting. 213 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:03,080 Sometimes, you know, my words don't come out right 214 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:05,120 but, you know, in the moment of time, 215 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:07,120 you know, the eyes, I meant it. 216 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:09,360 That's a big step for me. 217 00:10:10,960 --> 00:10:12,680 I love it. 218 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:14,920 And you gave it a ten out of ten. 219 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:17,200 Like, the night. That's good. 220 00:10:18,800 --> 00:10:21,440 We had a really nice night last night. 221 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:22,960 But I need more. 222 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:26,320 I need that connection, 223 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:32,040 so I'm excited for Tony entering the workshop with Alessandra. 224 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:35,280 So, yeah, so today's your turn, mister. 225 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:40,080 Get what you can out of it. Ask her questions. Ask away. 226 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:41,480 (LAUGHS) Ask whatever... 227 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:43,560 Don't hold back. 228 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:45,000 You're gonna walk away going, 229 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:46,480 "I should've, I should've, I should've..." 230 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:48,360 It's too late then. 231 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:52,360 You won't get this day back ever. That's what you've gotta remember. 232 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:55,600 Today... Well, every day, right? I say this every day. 233 00:10:55,680 --> 00:10:57,560 "I'm not getting today back." I know. 234 00:10:57,640 --> 00:11:02,360 So, however I take it, however I behave, whatever my attitude is, 235 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:05,120 my reaction, I'm not getting it back. 236 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:08,200 So just go for it. 237 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:10,800 Don't... Don't be afraid. 238 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:14,560 Anyway, it's time for me to head out and hit the workshop. 239 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:16,000 OK. Have you finished your coffee? No. 240 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:17,680 Have another sip. That's alright. 241 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:19,320 I don't want to drink too much. 242 00:11:20,560 --> 00:11:23,440 While most brides had a night to remember, 243 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:27,800 it seems Jacqui had a night she'd rather forget. 244 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:34,080 Last night, I gave Ryan my ultimate fantasy challenge 245 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:38,160 and he started an argument about it 246 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:40,120 and just wouldn't do what I needed, 247 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:43,520 which was to make me feel like the most beautiful girl 248 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:46,200 and so we ended up getting in a fight about it. 249 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:50,440 How hard is it to just be, like, "Hey, I made a mistake. 250 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:51,640 "You're (BLEEP) gorgeous." 251 00:11:51,680 --> 00:11:52,760 Like... 252 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:57,240 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 253 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:00,560 Yeah, it was just... 254 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:03,720 I don't even know why Ryan fights about it or what the problem is. 255 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:07,040 I think he's missing the point. Like, I'm here trying to help him. 256 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:09,560 I think he's just failing to be grateful, 257 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:13,160 the fact that I'm actually spending the time trying to train him. 258 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:16,400 Like, he's gonna be a better man if he realises that, 259 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:20,280 like, this is what I want, this is what a lot of women would want. 260 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:23,240 They want respect, they want to be treated well. 261 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:25,720 So I just... I don't know why he was so upset, really. 262 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:29,600 Do you remember what the challenge for you last night was? 263 00:12:29,680 --> 00:12:35,240 I don't know, like, I considered it was more like, you know, fun 264 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:39,920 and then fulfilling... fulfilling a fantasy type thing. 265 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:41,520 Yeah. Yeah, so we went to... 266 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:42,520 Fulfilling my fantasy. Yeah. 267 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:46,280 I just needed you to swallow your pride, swallow your ego. 268 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:49,120 So I gave you a lot of compliments, 269 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:51,440 not only about your appearance, about your intellect, your skills... 270 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:53,640 And how did I feel at the end of the night and why? 271 00:12:53,680 --> 00:12:55,160 And then we got to the point 272 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:58,600 where it came back to the photo challenge again. 273 00:12:59,880 --> 00:13:01,480 Alright, last one. 274 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:05,480 OK. I'll put you third. 275 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:12,200 You were, like, "OK, so do you want to go back and change your reply? 276 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:13,960 "Do you want to go back and own up to your mistake? 277 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:15,040 "Do you want to..." Da-da-da. 278 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:18,400 No. No, alright? That was not part of the task. 279 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:22,680 When she was sort of bringing it back to what I can't change, 280 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:24,880 which is the line-up challenge again 281 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:27,160 and, like, honestly, I'm sick of talking about that (BLEEP) thing. 282 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:28,840 (LAUGHS) I am so sick of it. 283 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:31,360 I'm not changing my answer. It wasn't a mistake. 284 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:34,080 I believe she made a mistake by putting me first 285 00:13:34,160 --> 00:13:37,600 because consistently she's shown that I'm not the most attractive. 286 00:13:37,680 --> 00:13:40,400 I gave you a task last night... Mm-hm. 287 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:42,320 ..and you didn't show up for me. 288 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:44,120 No, I showed up for you. No, you didn't. 289 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:45,560 I showed up for you... You didn't. 290 00:13:45,640 --> 00:13:48,240 OK, how do you think I felt at the end of that task? 291 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:53,920 See, Jacqui, if you don't get 100% your way all the time, 292 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:56,200 you are unhappy, right? 293 00:13:56,280 --> 00:13:57,760 That was the challenge. You don't compromise. 294 00:13:57,840 --> 00:14:00,520 Stop changing the topic. Because the task itself... 295 00:14:00,600 --> 00:14:02,040 How do you think I felt at the end of that task? 296 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:04,640 Neither of us felt fantastic, alright? 297 00:14:04,680 --> 00:14:06,120 And whose task was it? 298 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:10,160 Yeah, the crux is that Ryan doesn't listen and doesn't understand. 299 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:12,880 Ryan is almost a waste of breath 300 00:14:12,960 --> 00:14:15,520 and I can't say much to change his mind. 301 00:14:15,560 --> 00:14:16,600 What do they say? 302 00:14:16,680 --> 00:14:19,640 A man convinced against his will is of the same opinion still. 303 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:21,000 That's Ryan. 304 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:23,600 Bring it on. This conversation is done, alright? 305 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:25,480 And I'm looking forward to getting to this workshop 306 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:27,440 to just get away from your energy for a moment, alright? 307 00:14:27,520 --> 00:14:31,400 Seriously. Like, you are so impossible... 308 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:32,320 (SCOFFS) 309 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:35,120 What you wanted yesterday was constant validation every day... 310 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:36,360 What is wrong with that, Ryan? 311 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:39,680 What is wrong with a woman wanting constant validation? 312 00:14:39,760 --> 00:14:41,560 Because... (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 313 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:44,960 ..I'm not here to fix you, OK? I'm not needing you to fix me. 314 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:46,000 I'm needing compliments. 315 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:48,480 Well, why would you need me to say that constantly, right? 316 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:49,760 I'm gonna give you compliments 317 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:53,040 if I feel they're going to be productive. 318 00:14:53,080 --> 00:14:54,960 So, your job as a partner 319 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:58,200 is to make your other partner feel good about themselves. 320 00:14:58,240 --> 00:14:59,720 You've made me feel terrible 321 00:14:59,800 --> 00:15:00,960 ever since we got into this apartment. 322 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:03,960 It's not about you. It's about me. You just had to do the task. 323 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:05,920 What you told me to do, 324 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:08,520 that was exactly what I was doing in that moment, OK? 325 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:10,760 At the same time... You're all talk, no walk. 326 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:11,920 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 327 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:14,760 You cut me off twice. This is over. Alright? 328 00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:16,800 I'm gonna see it go see what this shirt looks like. 329 00:15:16,840 --> 00:15:18,560 (SIGHS) 330 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:33,800 NARRATOR: Intimacy Week is designed to bring couples closer... 331 00:15:35,080 --> 00:15:38,800 but for one couple, a crisis is unravelling in their apartment, 332 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:43,480 a crisis that threatens to tear their marriage apart. 333 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:47,480 AWHINA: There was, like, three dishes in the sink when I left. 334 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:49,120 Those exact three dishes were still there. 335 00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:50,560 No, they weren't. Absolutely not. 336 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:53,040 I literally did them when I walked in! 337 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:55,800 I made lunch and I did it. You cleaned your dishes... 338 00:15:55,880 --> 00:15:57,640 Anyway, that's irrelevant. ..but you left my three. 339 00:15:57,720 --> 00:16:00,280 I'm not getting...falling down to your level right now. 340 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:04,240 I'm just gonna put in as much effort as you put in from now on. 341 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:05,640 OK. Cool. Cool. 342 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:06,840 Effort. 343 00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:12,720 No, no, I just don't feel like I'm getting much from you at this point. 344 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:14,560 Do you want me to do backflips off the balcony for you? 345 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:16,040 Why would I ever ask you... Make you feel better? 346 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:18,040 I don't know, like, what do you want me to do? 347 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:21,840 What more could I have done for you? What DID you do for me? 348 00:16:21,880 --> 00:16:23,440 I asked, did you need anything? 349 00:16:25,200 --> 00:16:26,880 How about empty the bin? 350 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:28,880 This is so dumb, even having this conversation. 351 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:31,320 And I literally done everything I could... 352 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:32,760 It's not dumb when I'm not feeling great. 353 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:34,680 OK, end of conversation. I'm not even going into this. 354 00:16:34,720 --> 00:16:35,760 OK. 355 00:16:38,720 --> 00:16:40,760 And I think I've emptied it more than he has. 356 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:45,320 So I really don't feel like I ask for a lot from a partner. 357 00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:47,520 I don't care if you think it's dumb. 358 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:49,080 It is stupid and it's something for you to sort out. 359 00:16:49,160 --> 00:16:52,320 ADRIAN: Obviously she's in a bit of a mood. 360 00:16:52,400 --> 00:16:54,640 I don't know exactly why it was such a big deal. 361 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:57,520 She keeps talking about taking out the bin, blah, blah, blah. 362 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:01,440 It's nothing to do with me. 363 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:05,200 She's having a moment and I'm giving her that moment. 364 00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:08,840 I don't feel like you do anything. I don't feel like you do anything. 365 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:10,520 Of course you say that, 'cause you're in a bad mood. 366 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:11,760 But it's true. 367 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:14,360 I don't need a minute to reflect, Adrian. 368 00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:17,880 I have to be 100% for us to work and any time that I make... 369 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:19,880 Of course you need to be 100% for us to work. 370 00:17:19,920 --> 00:17:21,280 I need to be 100% for us to work. 371 00:17:21,360 --> 00:17:23,440 I don't feel like I get 100% from you, Adrian. 372 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:26,400 (TENSE MUSIC) 373 00:17:31,120 --> 00:17:33,240 Yeah, I wish I just got a little bit more. 374 00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:37,280 For us to work, like, for us to truly work, 375 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:39,520 I have to keep giving so much. 376 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:42,280 Adrian, do you think you actually do more than me around here? 377 00:17:42,360 --> 00:17:45,280 It's not a competition. I do what I can and you do what you can. 378 00:17:45,360 --> 00:17:48,560 But Adrian's very selfish in a relationship. 379 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:51,320 I'm not getting anything in return. 380 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:56,480 I am worried 'cause, like, I do have very real concerns 381 00:17:56,560 --> 00:17:57,960 about whether or not we're compatible 382 00:17:58,000 --> 00:17:59,880 outside of this experiment. 383 00:17:59,960 --> 00:18:02,520 I'm a mum and I have a son to think about 384 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:04,160 and I came in here for a partnership 385 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:05,960 and I didn't come here to be Adrian's mum. 386 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:10,240 This is the dumbest conversation I've ever had, talking about dishes. 387 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:13,000 (LAUGHS) Don't laugh at me. 388 00:18:13,080 --> 00:18:15,960 I'm not actually getting caught up in that stupid conversation. 389 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:19,120 Adrian, you're not hearing. 390 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:21,400 I'm in a bad mood and you can't handle it. 391 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:25,920 What are you doing to help bring me out of it? 392 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:28,760 Instead, you're encouraging that bad mood because you've just... 393 00:18:28,800 --> 00:18:31,440 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 394 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:35,640 And once again, he leaves and the bin needs emptying. 395 00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:40,320 I want a new husband. 396 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:45,560 TONY: I'm out. Off to the workshop for me. 397 00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:47,360 MORENA: Have fun. Ciao. 398 00:18:47,440 --> 00:18:50,560 NARRATOR: The grooms are off to Alessandra's intimacy workshop... 399 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:53,640 DAVE: I'm gonna go grab Billy's hand and hopefully he can comfort me. 400 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:56,200 JAMIE: Don't get too excited 'cause Billy's there. 401 00:18:56,280 --> 00:18:59,600 ..where they will have the chance to open up about their relationships. 402 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:02,720 Don't cuddle Dave too much. BILLY: I will. I mean, I won't. 403 00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:07,640 (UPLIFTING MUSIC) 404 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:14,720 ALESSANDRA: Hi! MAN: Hey! 405 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:16,240 Welcome. Alessandra. 406 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:19,040 Welcome. Grab a seat. 407 00:19:19,120 --> 00:19:21,680 After my intimacy workshop with the ladies, 408 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:25,200 I asked them to create their ultimate fantasy night 409 00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:26,640 and share that with their husbands. 410 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:29,680 MAN: How are you today? I'm well. How are you? 411 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:31,880 Hi. (LAUGHS) 412 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:33,720 MAN: We haven't met you before. I'm good. Grab a chair. 413 00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:38,600 I designed this exercise to help empower the women of this experiment 414 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:41,800 and it was my hope that their husbands would be enthusiastic 415 00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:44,880 about fulfilling their partners' desires. 416 00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:48,640 How are you guys doing today? BILLY: Nervous as hell. 417 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:50,360 (LAUGHTER) Nervous? No. 418 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:52,520 You're not nervous. Why are we here? 419 00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:55,640 As you very well know, Intimacy Week is well underway. 420 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:56,560 Mm-hm. We know. 421 00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:58,280 Your wives were all here yesterday, right? 422 00:19:58,360 --> 00:20:00,520 MEN: Yes. Did you reap the benefits of that? 423 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:02,360 Yep. (LAUGHTER) 424 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:03,600 MAN: Tough work. 425 00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:05,920 For Intimacy Week, really, 426 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,520 the most important part of it is not sexuality. 427 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:14,520 It's all about generating a safe space and comfort and real trust. 428 00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:20,040 So, throughout the week, you're gonna be exposed to a variety of tasks. 429 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:24,880 One of them was yesterday directed to your wives 430 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:28,120 and that is, I guess, all the smiles that I'm seeing... 431 00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:30,080 (LAUGHTER) ..beaming back at me today. 432 00:20:30,120 --> 00:20:32,400 I want to hear all about it. 433 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:34,520 So, who are we going to start with? 434 00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:37,320 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 435 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:39,960 Paul. 436 00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:42,680 (CLEARS THROAT) MAN: Oh, here we go. 437 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:45,000 Mr Frenchman loverboy. (LAUGHTER) 438 00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:48,080 How was it? 439 00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:51,680 Now, when it comes to sex, like, I'm very dominant. 440 00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:55,320 Now, the thing is, last night, the roles were reversed. 441 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:57,400 Yes. So, she took full charge. 442 00:20:57,480 --> 00:21:00,000 You know, yeah, it was electric in there. 443 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:03,840 BILLY: Electric! Oh, greased lightning! 444 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:05,160 (LAUGHTER) 445 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:08,120 That's a beautiful, hot and heavy description. 446 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:12,320 The bonfire that seems to have ensued. (LAUGHS) 447 00:21:12,360 --> 00:21:13,440 Honestly, it was great. 448 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:15,160 And the thing is, because I know 449 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:16,560 this is something that she's not used to... 450 00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:19,240 and I could see she was being a little bit shy 451 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:20,960 and then, you know, a little bit hesitant, 452 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:22,800 but I could see, you know, she did her best 453 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:25,440 and she went all in and it was really... 454 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:27,080 Yeah, it was awesome. (LAUGHS) 455 00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:29,520 So, was this your absolute favourite task that you had to do 456 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,000 since you began the experiment? (LAUGHS) 457 00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:33,600 The ultimate fantasy... Yeah. 458 00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:35,480 ..with Carina? It was Paul's ultimate fantasy. 459 00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:37,360 (LAUGHTER) 460 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:38,680 Carina and Paul, you might as well... 461 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:40,680 Cupid, stick an arrow through them. 462 00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:43,600 They're just... Wow, you don't need to say anything on them. 463 00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:45,320 They just, like, in love, aren't they, really? 464 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:49,160 And I can see it, so, fair play to them. 465 00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:50,720 Really happy for them. 466 00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:53,480 Tony. TONY: Yeah. 467 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:54,640 Ah! Hello. 468 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:56,960 Hello. (LAUGHTER) 469 00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:59,120 Let me tell you what happened to me. 470 00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:01,080 What did Morena come up with for you guys? 471 00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:03,800 She had some set-up, I don't know. 472 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:06,240 I walked into the room... You know when artists paint? 473 00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:09,000 She had the set-up of a canvas there. 474 00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:10,240 Oh, wow. 475 00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:12,800 She was sitting there, wearing lingerie 476 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:15,240 and she told me to paint her. 477 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:18,560 Tell you what, guys, it was one of the most beautiful things 478 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:20,000 I've ever done in my life, man. 479 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:23,040 So, there I was, painting. 480 00:22:23,120 --> 00:22:25,480 I love that. 'Titanic' vibes. 'Titanic' vibes. 481 00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:27,760 "Paint me like one of your French girls." 482 00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,160 (LAUGHTER) 483 00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:32,440 Why was it good for you? What was it about the experience? 484 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:34,000 Because I was comfortable doing that with her. 485 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:35,160 You were comfortable? 486 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:37,720 I'm not the most romantic guy in the world. 487 00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:38,960 You can be. 488 00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:42,720 That really felt nice, to just have that connection with her there. 489 00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:46,480 And I like to laugh and joke, as you all know, 490 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,520 but it was really cool, man. 491 00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:51,200 JEFF: For her, showing that vulnerability too, 492 00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:52,520 like, coming out in lingerie, 493 00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:54,200 like, that takes huge courage for her to do that. 494 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:56,880 Like, was that the first time you, like, saw her like that? 495 00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:58,160 Well, pretty much, yeah. Yeah. 496 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:00,920 And it brings out something different of you. 497 00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:02,280 When you're actually looking at someone, you think, 498 00:23:02,360 --> 00:23:04,400 "She actually looks beautiful there, man." 499 00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:06,440 She really put effort and time into it 500 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:09,160 and I'm thinking to myself, "Tony, you're a shit guy, man. 501 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:11,360 "Just, you know, paint it, man." 502 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:13,600 It's quite the intimate experience 503 00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:16,120 because you really have to look at her. 504 00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:17,760 Yeah, and I drew something on that picture 505 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:21,600 and I kind of said to her "These eyes are, like, sad eyes" 506 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:22,880 and she goes, "What do you mean by that?" 507 00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:24,440 I said, "Because of me. That's why you're sad." 508 00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:27,320 And I said... And that was my way of apologising to her 509 00:23:27,360 --> 00:23:28,680 and saying, you know, this is... 510 00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:30,840 Oh, I'm sure that meant a lot to her to hear that. 511 00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:32,080 Yeah, so... That's really sweet. 512 00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:37,360 TONY: Oh, well, the painting, that was my way of saying sorry. 513 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:39,040 I let her down at the beginning. 514 00:23:39,120 --> 00:23:42,520 She wanted to find romance and I didn't give her that. 515 00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:45,400 Being in here, I mean, you're doing a lot of different things 516 00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:47,400 out of your comfort zone, you know. 517 00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:49,760 You're telling... You're vulnerable, this and that. 518 00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:52,520 And it's hard. It's hard. 519 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:55,560 So, you know, it's my fault, not hers. 520 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:57,760 But, you know, she's a good lady, mate. 521 00:23:57,840 --> 00:23:59,920 She's, you know... I don't want to let her down 522 00:23:59,960 --> 00:24:02,440 because I do care about her, man. 523 00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:04,680 MAN: Well done. Look at you, Tony. 524 00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:06,800 Eh? Leaps and bounds, mate. Leaps and bounds. 525 00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:08,440 So, you know, it was a beautiful night and we enjoyed it. 526 00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,400 She drank all the wine. I had one glass and... 527 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:11,800 (LAUGHTER) 528 00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:14,760 Do feel it brought you guys together? 529 00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,120 Alessandra, I want to say, I get it now. 530 00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,040 But I tell you what, man, it was good. It was fun. 531 00:24:19,120 --> 00:24:21,440 It was one of the best things I've ever done. 532 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:22,720 Mmm. 533 00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:25,960 I've learnt intimacy can come in different ways and, yeah, you know, 534 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:28,320 that's the Morena I like, the one that's laughing with me 535 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,200 and joking with me and having a good time with me. 536 00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:32,920 But, yeah, it was really, really nice. 537 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:35,120 Excellent. I'm really happy. 538 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,280 I think that was a great task for you guys 539 00:24:37,360 --> 00:24:39,120 and I'm really glad that Morena thought of it. 540 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:42,320 I called the picture 'Morena Lisa'. So, you ARE a romantic. 541 00:24:42,360 --> 00:24:43,720 MAN: That's pretty romantic. 542 00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:45,840 That is my special way, you know what I mean? 543 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,280 Yeah! I'm happy. We're all happy for you. 544 00:24:48,360 --> 00:24:51,000 DAVE: So I'm really glad that Tony's taken this big step. 545 00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:55,080 You could see it in his eyes and the way he, you know, spoke about it. 546 00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:57,800 He was pretty bashful and I think he was a bit excited, 547 00:24:57,840 --> 00:24:58,920 so that was cool to see. 548 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:00,320 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) Really, really happy. 549 00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:03,080 Look at his face, though. He's smiling! 550 00:25:03,120 --> 00:25:04,240 Excellent. I'm really happy. 551 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:08,440 NARRATOR: Coming up, 552 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:12,720 Ryan's jaw-dropping comments at the workshop... 553 00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:16,160 Some things I just wouldn't say. 554 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:19,680 ..send shockwaves through the experiment. 555 00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:21,480 Oh, my goodness. JEFF: I know. 556 00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:25,480 I'm just gobsmacked by hearing that type of comment. 557 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:37,720 Jeff, tell me how you went last night. 558 00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:41,080 Yeah, last night was great. 559 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,120 Rhi organised a nice, intimate dinner for us 560 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:46,160 and it worked out pretty well. 561 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:47,600 I know it was her fantasy night, 562 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:49,440 but it was basically my fantasy night, 563 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:52,160 so I couldn't have been happier. 564 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:54,120 Obviously, our situation's so different 565 00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:56,720 because we've, like, basically done everything you could do. 566 00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:58,560 Everything? No, no, no... 567 00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:02,040 Wow. Jeff! Oh, please, do tell! 568 00:26:02,120 --> 00:26:04,560 No, no, no, no, no. (LAUGHS) 569 00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:06,800 As you guys know, we obviously dated 570 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,200 and we've been there and done all that stuff, 571 00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:11,200 so it's a friendship now 572 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:14,160 and then we're trying to turn it back into a romantic relationship 573 00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:16,200 and I think we're moving in the right direction. 574 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:17,320 You're in the right direction. Yeah. 575 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:21,480 Like, at the start, on our wedding day, I was in my head thinking, 576 00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:24,120 "I don't know if this is ever gonna happen." 577 00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:25,400 'Cause it was... 578 00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:26,720 You friend-zoned yourself, didn't you? 579 00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:28,480 Dead-set friend-zone. Yeah, yeah. 580 00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:30,160 DAVE: It is a hard situation for Jeff. 581 00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:32,320 I think it's if not harder than what we have. 582 00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:34,560 Yeah, it's a situation we were not expecting 583 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:37,480 because we had no idea that they had ever met before. 584 00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:38,600 Yeah. 585 00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:40,720 We matched them on compatibility, which, by the way, 586 00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:45,840 the level of compatibility that you guys have is really off the charts. 587 00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:48,720 Yeah. I got everything I wanted. It's just we dated before. 588 00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:50,680 Yes, I've seen it happen in the experiment 589 00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:53,840 and in life a variety of times in my life, 590 00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:57,080 where, you know, things that you think are not gonna turn up the heat, 591 00:26:57,120 --> 00:26:58,680 the heat suddenly appears. 592 00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:01,480 There is a little spark and it can grow. 593 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:04,000 I'm willing to do the work, she's willing to do the work 594 00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:06,400 and that's all I can ask for. MAN: Mmm. 595 00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:08,640 That sounds really, really good, Jeff. 596 00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:10,560 Billy. 597 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,560 Whew. That's a long kind of... 598 00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:16,360 (LAUGHTER) ..inhale. 599 00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:18,280 BILLY: Where do I start? Where DO you start? 600 00:27:18,360 --> 00:27:23,000 I feel like this was a snippet of Sierah's fantasy. 601 00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:24,000 Oooh. 602 00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:25,840 Yeah, as in there's a lot more to come. 603 00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:32,040 Sierah was facing out on the balcony with her legs spread on a chair. 604 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:37,360 She dropped the gown and let's just say there wasn't too much on. 605 00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:42,800 Every part of her body was touched. 606 00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:45,960 I'm really glad that she had the courage to do that. 607 00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:48,560 Yeah, it was really, really nice. It was, um... 608 00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:52,320 Um... 609 00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,400 But we didn't, like, have sex or anything last night. 610 00:27:58,040 --> 00:27:59,600 My sense the other night 611 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:01,520 is that maybe you're in different levels 612 00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:03,440 of being ready for that intimacy, 613 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:07,000 so I'm wondering how you gauge it or how you view it. 614 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:08,680 I know that we can have sex now. 615 00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:10,640 Like, we've done it and I know that can then happen. 616 00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:14,120 But for me, this is where I've gone wrong in the past before, 617 00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:16,000 where it's just been all about that. 618 00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:18,920 And, well, look where I am now. 619 00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:20,840 I do want to have sex with Sierah. 620 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:24,800 I just want to know that the emotions are coming with it still. 621 00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:27,160 It's about building our connection, and we are. 622 00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:30,120 I don't just want us to be all over each other and it being about sex. 623 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:31,560 Yes. That isn't why I'm here. 624 00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:32,840 You don't want to be good friends either. 625 00:28:35,360 --> 00:28:37,640 Because you can absolutely maintain physical contact 626 00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:39,120 while also getting deep. 627 00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:41,120 You just have to not stop having the chats. 628 00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:42,120 Yep. 629 00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:43,920 If you're having the chats, if you're being curious, 630 00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:47,400 if you're spending time, if you're laughing with each other, opening up, 631 00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:49,280 those are all things that are gonna help you be connected. 632 00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:50,520 Yeah. 633 00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:53,360 But you can also have a little 'uh-uh'... 634 00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:55,040 Yeah, of course. 635 00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:58,440 So, it's about now finding that... Balance. 636 00:28:58,480 --> 00:28:59,600 ..that balance. 637 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,440 Oh, look, I think it will happen in the very near future. 638 00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:03,600 I really do. 639 00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:07,720 We're taking each challenge as it comes, each task as it comes 640 00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:10,320 and it is helping us build closer together, 641 00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,120 so, look, I wouldn't be surprised that within a few days, 642 00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:13,520 if I do say that we have. 643 00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:16,400 Yeah, but it was a nice night. Sierah looked great. 644 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:19,600 Yay, Sierah! Yay! Sexy Sierah. 645 00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:21,360 Thank you. 646 00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:22,960 And Ryan. RYAN: Hi. 647 00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:24,200 Hi. 648 00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:26,800 Jacqui. Jacqui wants to feel adored. 649 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:28,600 Tell me about that. OK. 650 00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:30,520 Well, her task for me was 651 00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:33,920 "I want you to make me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world." 652 00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:35,480 OK? Yes. 653 00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:38,320 Yeah, like, she wanted to get, like, a lot of compliments, 654 00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:40,240 a lot of reassurance. 655 00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:41,440 So, I'm, like, "Yeah, sure." 656 00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:44,120 Like, I complimented her on her appearance. She looks amazing. 657 00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:47,040 "You're career-driven, you're intelligent..." 658 00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:48,560 I find intelligence very sexy. 659 00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:51,360 So I was, like, lavishing all this praise and compliments on her 660 00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:54,040 and I could see it was making a difference. 661 00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:56,920 Towards the end, though, she said one line 662 00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:58,720 which, like, made me sort of pull back a little bit. 663 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:01,480 She said, "I want to give you a chance to atone for your mistake." 664 00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:05,840 Was she referring to something in particular? 665 00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:07,520 It came back to the photo challenge again. 666 00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:13,800 OK. I'll put you third. 667 00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:15,440 But I was just telling her, 668 00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:17,240 "Look, I'm not gonna take the answer back, alright?" 669 00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:21,160 And then, suddenly, like, the crazy eyes came out... (LAUGHS) 670 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:22,600 Like... (LAUGHS) 671 00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:25,080 BILLY: What? (LAUGHS) 672 00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:29,080 Try living with it. (LAUGHS) 673 00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:32,320 (RYAN LAUGHS) 674 00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:34,960 Saying 'crazy eyes' like that, like, that's a comment that Jake made 675 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:37,840 to make her look bad. 676 00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:42,680 JAKE: Jeez, I don't know. I'm not vibing Jacqui. 677 00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:46,360 (ASHLEIGH GASPS) 678 00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:49,680 To bring that up in a group setting, when we're in Intimacy Week, 679 00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:50,680 like, it's not great. 680 00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:51,720 (RYAN LAUGHS) 681 00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:53,920 DAVE: You don't say these things to put women down. 682 00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:59,000 (LAUGHS) Um... So... What do you mean 'crazy eyes'? 683 00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:01,160 Well, like, when she wants to discuss something 684 00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:06,000 that she's kind of not happy with, then, like, it gets quite intense. 685 00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:10,880 And I was, like, it's kind of disrupting the whole fun mood of it. 686 00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:15,600 It didn't end on an ideal note, 687 00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:17,240 but I didn't know what else I could've done. 688 00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:18,720 Like, I was telling her 689 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,600 so many different beautiful things about her, so genuine, whatnot. 690 00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:23,720 And then she, like, brought up the past again... 691 00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:25,560 I do kind of think I get it, though, 692 00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:27,560 because she was very emotional on the couch 693 00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:30,520 about you not finding her attractive. 694 00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:32,560 That's her whole thing. 695 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:36,200 It was so clear, she wants to feel adored by her partner. 696 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:37,280 She wants to feel beautiful. 697 00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:39,280 She wants to feel like they're really into her. 698 00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:42,720 Well, to be honest, I was actually a little bit disappointed 699 00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:45,120 that it was purely based on beauty. 700 00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:46,840 Like, why couldn't we play a fun game? 701 00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:49,320 Why couldn't we do something that connects on a different level? 702 00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:53,960 I think I've made a pretty clear that the task is not about any of you. 703 00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:56,000 It was simply about her, 704 00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:59,280 so your opinion on whether that was the best task 705 00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:01,000 or you could've done something different, 706 00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:04,160 again, it's something you can bring up at a different moment 707 00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:06,160 to let her know what is important to you. 708 00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:11,200 Obviously the task yesterday was for the partners to go away 709 00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:13,080 and it was their ultimate fantasy night 710 00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:15,240 and I think everyone understood that it was their fantasy, 711 00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:16,280 not our fantasy. 712 00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:19,720 I don't think Ryan picked up that it was Jacqui's fantasy, not his. 713 00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:21,720 It didn't go the way either of us wanted. 714 00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:24,360 But, uh... We, um... 715 00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:27,320 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 716 00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:31,120 I've gotta say, like, she gives... she gives awesome (BLEEP). 717 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:32,680 Like, I'm just gonna say... Like, that's... 718 00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:33,800 (GASPING) 719 00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:35,800 JEFF: (BLEEP) hell. 720 00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:37,440 (BLEEP). 721 00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:39,040 Oh, man. Like... 722 00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:42,640 It was just a throwaway comment and it was disrespectful 723 00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:45,320 and all of us guys were just a bit, like, 724 00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:46,760 "Mate, like, you can't be saying that." 725 00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:49,560 And you know what, it was like... It kept getting better every round. 726 00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:52,480 BILLY: You just want to go shake him up. 727 00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:56,360 Ryan, just stop! Just... (LAUGHS) Stop! 728 00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:59,000 Like... (EXHALES) Absolutely, like, hot. 729 00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:00,720 You know, like... Alright. 730 00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:03,760 Some things I just wouldn't say out loud, 731 00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:06,800 so I think he's dug himself another hole 732 00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:08,720 and no doubt it's gonna get back to her. 733 00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:09,800 (LAUGHS) 734 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:25,600 NARRATOR: After finishing up at the men's workshop, 735 00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:29,160 the grooms are returning to the apartments. 736 00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:34,080 SIERAH: Are you right, darling? Good afternoon. 737 00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:38,120 RHI: (LAUGHS) How did you go? I've got a surprise. 738 00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:40,040 Do you? You have to wear this. 739 00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:42,320 (LAUGHS) No, I'm just joking this time. 740 00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:43,840 (LAUGHS) 741 00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:47,920 JAMIE: What are you... (LAUGHS) Are you OK? 742 00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:50,560 I'm dishevelled. (LAUGHS) 743 00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:52,920 How? You came from Alessandra's workshop. 744 00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:54,120 What a day. 745 00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:55,560 Oh, shit. 746 00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:57,040 Who put that there? 747 00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:59,920 The brides are eager to hear what they took away 748 00:33:59,960 --> 00:34:01,400 from Alessandra's workshop. 749 00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:04,840 How was it? Well, it was eventful. 750 00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,880 However, the grooms have been left reeling 751 00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:10,400 after an unexpected revelation. 752 00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:14,040 Ryan's conversation of what he did was... 753 00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:16,400 Oh, god. Don't... Oh, no. ..um... 754 00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:18,840 Jacqui and Ryan. 755 00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:23,440 So, Jacqui wants to feel like... Adored. 756 00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:25,120 ..she's the only one in the world. Mmm. 757 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:28,560 Long story short, it was going alright, but then... 758 00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:32,120 This was, like, a pretty shocking moment. Um... 759 00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:36,360 Oh, god, it was so hard to listen to! 760 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:39,000 So, he's talking about Jacqui and stuff... 761 00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:43,840 And then he was explaining how angry she got last night 762 00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:45,840 and sort of joked about saying, 763 00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:48,240 "Yeah, then the real crazy eyes came out." 764 00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:52,680 So that, you know... Stop! 765 00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:56,640 He's taken Jakey boy's line? Yeah. 766 00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:58,000 Yeah, you can't go calling... 767 00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:00,120 You can't be saying your wife's got crazy eyes 768 00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:01,200 in front of a group of men, 769 00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:04,920 especially when that was the comment old Jakey boy used 770 00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:07,280 to, you know, slag her off behind her back. 771 00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,320 He said the same comment that Jake said. 772 00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:11,360 Oh, my goodness. I know. 773 00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:14,080 That was a comment that hurt his wife's feelings. 774 00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:15,640 Like, that really hurt her. Yeah. 775 00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:17,120 And then he goes and repeats it. 776 00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:19,640 Especially when Jacqui even said on the day... 777 00:35:19,720 --> 00:35:21,000 She's, like, "I don't want to hear about it." 778 00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:22,240 Yeah. 100%. 779 00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:26,760 I'm pretty surprised that Ryan has repeated that again 780 00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:30,040 considering it upset his partner in the first place. 781 00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:31,880 And it would upset me too. 782 00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:33,800 It was like he just said it like a throwaway line. 783 00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:37,080 And all us guys were just, like, "Mate, what are you doing?" 784 00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:39,920 You know, sort of wish I pulled him up on it on the spot. 785 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:43,400 To say it in a setting when she's not there just to the boys 786 00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:46,880 to joke about her is, you know, pretty shit, so... 787 00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:48,960 Knowing that's their sore spot, 788 00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:52,840 knowing her whole aim of the task was to feel good about herself 789 00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:54,320 and get fed compliments, 790 00:35:54,400 --> 00:36:01,240 to go to the workshop to then talk poorly about your wife's appearance 791 00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:04,200 is just, like, wild to me. 792 00:36:04,240 --> 00:36:05,640 Like, it's wild. 793 00:36:05,720 --> 00:36:08,240 Did he not get the point of the task? 794 00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:10,640 But that's not the worst part, 795 00:36:10,720 --> 00:36:12,720 which is still a head-scratch for me. 796 00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:18,000 He just goes, "Yeah, but she gives great (BLEEP), though." 797 00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:19,760 Stop. 798 00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:24,760 It was hard to listen to. 799 00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:27,080 He just kept going and, like, we were all just, like, 800 00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:28,360 "Mate, like, you can't do that." 801 00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:30,120 What is wrong with some people? 802 00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:31,880 How does that... Yeah. 803 00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:33,240 I don't know how he thinks that's OK. 804 00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:35,080 JAMIE: These boys have got balls. 805 00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:38,120 They wouldn't last a minute with me because I'd (BLEEP) annihilate them. 806 00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:39,640 (LAUGHS) Absolutely no way. 807 00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:40,920 Yeah. 808 00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:43,160 JAMIE: Ryan's comments he made about Jacqui, 809 00:36:43,240 --> 00:36:47,240 for him to say that while them two are obviously in a tough spot, 810 00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:51,080 it sounds like Ryan just kind of made this comment at the end, 811 00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:53,360 like, "Oh, well, at least she pleasures me at night," 812 00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:54,400 kind of thing. 813 00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:58,400 Like, that's not appropriate. 814 00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:01,040 The more he talks, the more he just digs. 815 00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:03,480 It's like... It's really strange. 816 00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:06,400 He just dug himself, like, five foot deeper tonight. 817 00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:10,040 Like, I have no doubt that has to be brought up 818 00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:12,120 and I'm just sort of, yeah, pretty annoyed at myself 819 00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:15,400 that I didn't pull him up on the spot then with everyone present. 820 00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:17,440 Well, babe, we've gotta say something at the dinner party. 821 00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:19,240 Yeah. 822 00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:21,280 I think Jacqui should absolutely know 823 00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:23,720 that Ryan's making comments about her behind her back. 824 00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:29,440 I don't think that's acceptable and my husband ain't happy, 825 00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:31,160 so I feel like the next dinner party is gonna be interesting. 826 00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:35,080 NARRATOR: Coming up... JEFF: Uh-oh. 827 00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:37,800 This is it. This is the task! 828 00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:39,640 ..Intimacy Week continues... 829 00:37:39,720 --> 00:37:40,960 Yes. Surprise task. 830 00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:44,080 ..bringing the couples closer... (JAMIE LAUGHS) 831 00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:48,240 ..before one couple takes their relationship to the next level. 832 00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:49,920 RHI: We're like children. I know. 833 00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:51,240 I can't stop laughing. We've kissed before. 834 00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,000 I know. It's OK. 835 00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:55,680 But first... You told me, "Stop talking." 836 00:37:55,720 --> 00:37:56,840 So I'm not gonna talk. 837 00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:59,920 ..disaster strikes Morena and Tony. 838 00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:02,280 Sometimes just let me tell you how I feel. 839 00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:04,160 You told me to stop talking. 840 00:38:04,240 --> 00:38:05,440 You don't get to do that to a person. 841 00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:08,720 I don't (BLEEP) think so. 842 00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:10,560 He can (BLEEP)... 843 00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:12,600 (DOOR CLOSES) 844 00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:26,600 NARRATOR: As Intimacy Week unfolds, 845 00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:30,560 Morena and Tony find themselves closer than ever. 846 00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:33,560 And after a positive session with Alessandra, 847 00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:39,520 Tony is brimming with excitement to return and tell Morena all about it. 848 00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:42,200 TONY: Morena and I are in a good place at the moment. 849 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:45,160 I really had a good time at the workshop, 850 00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:47,560 so, excited to come back here 851 00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:51,640 and tell Morena about what was happening and have a laugh, 852 00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:54,280 'cause I like doing that with her. 853 00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:56,840 (SING-SONGS) Morena! Hi. 854 00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:59,520 Morena! Ciao. 855 00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:02,040 What's happening, 'Morencha'? I'm reading a book. 856 00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:03,800 Yeah? Are you good? Yes. 857 00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:05,120 Yeah? Welcome home. 858 00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:08,680 When Morena's happy, it brings the better side out of me, you know. 859 00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:11,680 I'm more happy, I'm more relaxed, I can joke around with her 860 00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:16,160 and, you know, enjoy the time that we have here. 861 00:39:16,240 --> 00:39:18,560 I'm excited to tell you about my day. 862 00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:23,000 MORENA: Tony, this book is just, like, amazing. 863 00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:27,040 You just open it up and... Mm-hm. 864 00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,120 ..and for that moment of the day, it gives you an affirmation 865 00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:31,600 and it just tells you a quote that you need to hear. 866 00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:36,280 I just opened it now and it just said, "It's OK not to be happy..." 867 00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:38,240 Just a second. I just walked in. Deep breaths. 868 00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:39,720 I'm just gonna say it. It's only short. 869 00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:41,640 OK. 870 00:39:41,720 --> 00:39:45,080 "It's OK not to be happy with how your story is going, 871 00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:48,520 "even if everyone else is saying it's going well." 872 00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:50,080 It's amazing. 873 00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:53,320 (SIGHS) 874 00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:56,320 TONY: Here she goes again. 875 00:39:56,360 --> 00:40:00,240 This is something that I don't like. 876 00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:01,840 I'm excited to come back here 877 00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:05,280 and, you know, tell Morena about what was happening 878 00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:06,880 and she hits me with her book. 879 00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:08,080 Negative, right out of a book. 880 00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:10,200 So, the fact that you got that today... 881 00:40:10,240 --> 00:40:11,960 Just give me a second. 882 00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:14,080 Sorry, sorry... I'm just getting tired. 883 00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:15,760 (SIGHS) 884 00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:17,120 Did I... Did I say something? 885 00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:23,200 OK. Just... Just... Just checking. 886 00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:27,720 You know when someone comes home and you've worked... 887 00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:31,040 a big day out working and you just want your wife to say, 888 00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:33,840 "Hey, how are you? Talk to me about today." 889 00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:37,600 Because sometimes it's our turn to talk, 890 00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:38,760 you know, and their turn to listen. 891 00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:40,360 Mmm. 892 00:40:42,720 --> 00:40:44,760 Let me open up a page. 893 00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:46,920 And she just hit me straight away. 894 00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:50,800 Straight into her book. (LAUGHS) 895 00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:53,680 Let me talk to you, man. Let me tell you how I feel. 896 00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:56,600 You know, as soon as that happened, I lost my train of thought. 897 00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:57,800 I was, like, done. 898 00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:00,800 Wow. I've just opened the page again, Tony. 899 00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:04,240 Huh? I've just opened the page again. 900 00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:10,920 Tony, "You can't yet see the light at the end of the tunnel 901 00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:14,680 "because the light is in you." 902 00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:20,080 That's, like... How could I have opened it to that? 903 00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:26,080 I just want to take a little break for a while, man. 904 00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:29,080 Sometimes you've just gotta take a step back, 905 00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:31,440 let me talk, let me enjoy myself talking to you. 906 00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:34,760 And it's happened a lot and it's happening... 907 00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:36,800 It's just how Morena is and she's... 908 00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:39,000 (SIGHS) 909 00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:40,880 It's a little bit frustrating sometimes. 910 00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:42,840 I've been there all day 911 00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:45,200 and I'm coming back here and you're hammering me. 912 00:41:45,240 --> 00:41:47,680 I need some time. 913 00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:50,880 What do you mean I'm hammering you? Chill out for a minute. 914 00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:53,200 You're amazing. 915 00:41:56,680 --> 00:41:57,840 (SIGHS) 916 00:41:57,920 --> 00:41:59,920 I don't know why you're getting angry at me. 917 00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:02,440 I'm not angry, but, you know, when I come here to talk to you, 918 00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:05,200 I'm talking to you about what I was doing over there. 919 00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:06,960 And you just lose my train of thought. 920 00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:09,040 And then, OK, well, here it is again. 921 00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:11,760 It's the Morena show again. Tony... Tony... 922 00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:13,320 You're talking to me about books and things like this... 923 00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:15,720 Tony... Tony, you walked away. Tony, you walked away. 924 00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:17,400 This is what the problem is, Morena. 925 00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:19,720 You walked away, so I'm entitled to read... 926 00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:22,880 I was excited to walk in here and talk to you about my day 927 00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,880 and here you are, hitting me with questions in books and stuff like... 928 00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:28,360 (BLEEP), man, sometimes I just don't get it. 929 00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:31,680 OK. I'm not talking. I don't have to talk. 930 00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:35,760 Well, sometimes you just gotta stop, let me have my say. 931 00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:38,640 Sometimes I just... 932 00:42:38,720 --> 00:42:41,040 I just like some time to Tony, man, when it gets too much like that. 933 00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:45,600 I kind of feel rude that I walked off on her, 934 00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:47,840 but sometimes you just gotta step away before... 935 00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:49,120 You know what I mean? 936 00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:54,160 MORENA: Nobody gets to tell me to stop talking. 937 00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:59,480 Nobody has the right to shut me down. 938 00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:01,440 So, no, I don't think so. 939 00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:03,600 That doesn't get to happen, not on my watch. 940 00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:07,280 I put up with that for 29 years. 941 00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:09,760 I'm not doing that now. 942 00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:16,080 So, when someone storms off and then tells me to stop talking, 943 00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:17,960 it doesn't sit well with me. 944 00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:19,880 I don't (BLEEP) think so. 945 00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:21,200 He can (BLEEP)... 946 00:43:21,240 --> 00:43:23,160 (DOOR CLOSES) 947 00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:25,320 He... He needs a break? 948 00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:26,960 Let's give Tony a break. 949 00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:29,880 I'm with a child. 950 00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:33,840 You don't get to walk off, tell me to stop talking. 951 00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:37,480 I asked for an alpha man. 952 00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:40,160 I didn't ask for a child. 953 00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:54,080 NARRATOR: As Intimacy Week continues, 954 00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:57,760 Alessandra's latest tasks are arriving at the apartments. 955 00:43:57,800 --> 00:43:59,360 (KNOCK AT DOOR) 956 00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:01,640 Oh, shite. (LAUGHS) 957 00:44:01,720 --> 00:44:04,040 JEFF: Uh-oh. RHI: This is it. 958 00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:07,440 This is the task! Yes! Surprise task! 959 00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:11,640 This year, I've created tailored tasks for each couple 960 00:44:11,720 --> 00:44:15,160 to focus on their specific areas for improvement. 961 00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:16,280 CARINA: Oh! 962 00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:18,880 OK. There's a few things in there again. 963 00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:20,160 Boom, boom, boom, boom. (LAUGHS) 964 00:44:20,240 --> 00:44:23,000 These exercises are designed to invite them 965 00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:24,800 to explore outside their comfort zones... 966 00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:27,120 Here we go. 967 00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:29,560 ..and help improve their sense of closeness. 968 00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:31,760 What sort of task do you reckon it'll be? 969 00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:33,920 I don't know, but I might go and brush my teeth. 970 00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:35,520 (BOTH LAUGH) 971 00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:39,120 It's probably a kissing task. Good idea. 972 00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:42,000 CARINA: I've got so much to learn. PAUL: Absolutely. 973 00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:45,120 I'm a vanilla cupcake with a bit of sprinkles. 974 00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:48,520 I'm gonna come here and then add all the chilli flakes on top. 975 00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:50,200 Oh, chilli flakes! (LAUGHS) 976 00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:54,640 JAMIE: Oh, (BLEEP), there's more questions. 977 00:44:54,720 --> 00:44:57,960 I'm excited about today's challenge with Dave 978 00:44:58,000 --> 00:45:00,520 because he hates talking about sex. 979 00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:02,960 Hates it. And I can see he gets uncomfortable. 980 00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:06,080 But at the same time, Dave has come a long way, 981 00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:09,040 so I think we've kind of both got some more exploring to do. 982 00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:14,680 "Where was the most public place you had sex? What happened?" 983 00:45:14,720 --> 00:45:19,560 (LAUGHS) Um... (LAUGHS) 984 00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:22,600 I was at the zoo once. (LAUGHS) 985 00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:26,440 You're kidding me. That's... Oh, god. 986 00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:29,000 But, like, the toilets had, like, a bird aviary over it, 987 00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:30,840 so I remember, like, looking 988 00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:32,720 and, like, this bird is full looking at me. 989 00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:35,840 I mean, Jamie doesn't give a shit. 990 00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:37,840 She'll just tell you whatever she wants. It's great. 991 00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:40,160 It's good. She's leading the way for me. 992 00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:41,880 It's... Yeah, it's helping. 993 00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:44,960 Like, one was, like, going... (CAWS) 994 00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:46,440 (LAUGHS) 995 00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:48,480 I think they knew what we were doing, the birds, 996 00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:50,280 'cause they were, like... (CAWS) 997 00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:52,440 (LAUGHS) 998 00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:54,520 Maybe that's why you're scared of birds. 999 00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:57,040 (LAUGHS) Let's go to Taronga. 1000 00:45:57,080 --> 00:45:59,040 On a day trip. 1001 00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:02,560 (BOTH LAUGH) 1002 00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:08,640 Over at Rhi and Jeff's apartment, 1003 00:46:08,720 --> 00:46:11,400 the couple are hoping Alessandra's tasks 1004 00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:14,680 will help them take their intimacy to the next level. 1005 00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:18,000 Eh! Are you nervous? No, I'm alright. 1006 00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:20,400 (CLEARS THROAT) Are you nervous? 1007 00:46:20,440 --> 00:46:21,600 A little bit. 1008 00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:25,080 Alessandra, she said she's ramping it up this year, 1009 00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:28,560 so it'll be safe to say that I'm a little bit nervous. 1010 00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:32,120 "Gaze into your partner's eyes for three minutes without looking away. 1011 00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:34,920 "Allow yourself to be vulnerable and be present in the moment. 1012 00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:36,960 "Set a timer and enjoy the intimacy." 1013 00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:38,600 Oooh. 1014 00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:40,920 The things that she's given us, like, 1015 00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:43,480 we are obviously intimate, like, we kiss. 1016 00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:45,760 FEMALE VOICE: Three minutes. Counting down. 1017 00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:48,240 But, yeah, staring at each other's eyes and things like that 1018 00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:51,920 added a little bit of difference to what we would normally do. 1019 00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:04,240 JEFF: I was just staring at Rhi 1020 00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:05,720 and I was just sort of, like, taking in her energy 1021 00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:08,240 and just started looking straight in her eyes 1022 00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:10,800 and it felt like I was sort of like looking deep into her. 1023 00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:12,560 It sort of feels like you're in a little bubble 1024 00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:15,240 and nothing else matters in that moment. 1025 00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:16,960 Yeah, it was intense but it was nice. 1026 00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:23,160 RHI: I think, like, one thing I always said 1027 00:47:23,240 --> 00:47:25,320 was I wanted to walk down the aisle to someone 1028 00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,280 who had really kind eyes 1029 00:47:27,360 --> 00:47:29,520 and obviously I knew Jeff when I walked down the aisle 1030 00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:33,560 but he has really kind eyes and he's a very good person, 1031 00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:35,280 so it was nice staring into his eyes. 1032 00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:36,680 Yeah. 1033 00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:39,720 There it is. 1034 00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:40,840 Gazing does feel intimate. 1035 00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:42,920 Yeah, I guess it's kind of what you do before you kiss someone, 1036 00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:45,880 so especially when it's for three minutes, you start to... 1037 00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:49,400 You see people's souls, I don't know. (LAUGHS) 1038 00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:53,240 JEFF: (LAUGHS) "Share a two-minute make-out session." 1039 00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:57,760 (BOTH LAUGH) 1040 00:47:57,800 --> 00:47:59,600 Oh! 1041 00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:04,080 Yeah, the two-minute... Yeah, the two-minute kissing... (BLEEP). 1042 00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:05,640 I can't even speak. 1043 00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:07,400 The two-minute kissing task, 1044 00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:08,960 you know, it was a bit nerve-racking. 1045 00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:10,720 Like, it might not sound like a big step 1046 00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:12,280 but for me personally it is. 1047 00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:14,960 We've had that first kiss last week in confessions week, 1048 00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:16,800 but I guess with this task, 1049 00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:20,240 I just hope that we will see the spark between me and Rhi. 1050 00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:24,240 You know, I'm gonna be open because hopefully sooner rather than later, 1051 00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:26,480 maybe we progress to the next stage. 1052 00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:28,000 (BOTH LAUGH) 1053 00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:29,880 We're like children. Oh, I know. 1054 00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:31,680 We've kissed before. I know. 1055 00:48:31,720 --> 00:48:33,640 It's OK. 1056 00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:36,680 (UPLIFTING MUSIC) 1057 00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:48,800 (LAUGHS) OK. 1058 00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:51,200 It's good. (LAUGHS) 1059 00:48:51,240 --> 00:48:55,080 (LAUGHS) So, the... 1060 00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:56,920 (LAUGHS) 1061 00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:59,240 (LAUGHS) Oh, wow. 1062 00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:00,960 JEFF: It was a nice kiss. It was a nice kiss. 1063 00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:02,880 It was nice and passionate. 1064 00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:04,480 We were feeling it. 1065 00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:07,560 It's given me a bit to think about. 1066 00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:10,680 I do like kissing Jeff. 1067 00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:14,080 Everything just feels really right at the moment. 1068 00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:16,040 I can tell we both like each other a lot. 1069 00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:18,640 The spark's definitely there now. 1070 00:49:18,720 --> 00:49:21,440 Yeah, it just feels like we've just taken that next step, 1071 00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:23,720 but it feels good. 1072 00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:27,680 He's honestly, like, such an amazing partner to do... 1073 00:49:27,720 --> 00:49:29,160 like, to have in this experiment. 1074 00:49:29,240 --> 00:49:31,320 The more this experiment has gone on, 1075 00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:34,080 the more grateful I am that I am with Jeff. 1076 00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:36,160 (LAUGHS) Nice. It was nice. 1077 00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:37,600 I forgot what question you asked 1078 00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:39,400 but I just went on about Jeff just then. 1079 00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:41,040 But, yeah, it's all true. 1080 00:49:44,240 --> 00:49:45,920 Next... 1081 00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:48,880 You told me to stop talking. 1082 00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:51,000 You don't get to do that to a person. 1083 00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:53,040 Sometimes just let me tell you how I feel. 1084 00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:58,120 ..tensions rise as Morena and Tony butt heads. 1085 00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:00,800 You told me "Stop talking," so I'm not gonna talk, 1086 00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:03,080 so, go ahead, finish what you want to say. 1087 00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:05,920 No, you said don't talk. You're becoming aggressive to me. 1088 00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:07,960 No... I apologised to you, didn't I? 1089 00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:09,720 (SIGHS) 1090 00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:20,360 NARRATOR: After tempers flared, 1091 00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:23,400 Morena and Tony have returned to their apartment. 1092 00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:26,840 Yesterday it was really good 1093 00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:29,520 and in such a good place that I was, you know, excited. 1094 00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:30,840 We had a good day. 1095 00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:34,160 You know, we painted and talked and chatted and drank and ate food. 1096 00:50:34,240 --> 00:50:35,920 We laughed it off. I thought it was great. 1097 00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:39,600 I even went to Alessandra with excitement 1098 00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:40,920 to tell Alessandra what happened, you know. 1099 00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:42,880 I thought my story was the best story from all of them. 1100 00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:47,560 I got back here with excitement to tell her 1101 00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:48,800 and she's...you know, the book... 1102 00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:51,120 It just did my head in. (LAUGHS) 1103 00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:53,120 Take a seat. 1104 00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:55,800 I'm good standing, thanks. 1105 00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:57,000 You are? 1106 00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:01,320 She doesn't mean harm. It's just how she is. 1107 00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:03,800 Sometimes she's just gotta take a step back and listen to me. 1108 00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:06,480 (SIGHS) 1109 00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:08,600 Yeah, I was a bit rude to you, wasn't I? 1110 00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:12,200 But wait, though. Let me explain myself, OK? 1111 00:51:12,240 --> 00:51:14,000 When I walked in here, 1112 00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:17,560 I was so happy to tell you about what happened at the day, OK? 1113 00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:20,600 I saw you sitting there with a book in your hand, so I sat next to you 1114 00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:22,280 and I asked you, "What are you reading?" 1115 00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:23,880 You didn't tell me the book you were reading, 1116 00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:25,840 you told me a quote out of that book. 1117 00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:28,720 I was so excited to talk to you about my day 1118 00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:31,160 that you read me a quote, not one, but two out of there. 1119 00:51:31,240 --> 00:51:33,200 That spun my head and I thought to myself, 1120 00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:35,840 "I just spoke to someone who was so wise." 1121 00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:37,320 You know, I want to learn something. 1122 00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:39,600 I didn't come here to get peppered by you as well. 1123 00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:42,280 But sometimes you just gotta let me talk 1124 00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:43,960 and tell you how I felt on the day 1125 00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:45,400 and how excited I was to talk to them 1126 00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:47,280 about how I told them what we did with you. 1127 00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:50,800 Me and you, you know, painting and on the lounge and everything. 1128 00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:54,440 Sometimes just listen to me talk. That's where I... 1129 00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:56,400 You know, and then I just thought to myself, "Here we go again." 1130 00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:58,160 I'm just talking in riddles again. 1131 00:51:58,240 --> 00:52:01,040 I've lost my train of thought and I thought... (BLEEP). 1132 00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:03,760 I just didn't want to talk anymore because I just didn't... 1133 00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:05,880 Sorry, man. That's how I felt, so... 1134 00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:08,480 Sometimes just let me tell you how I feel. 1135 00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:11,480 It was my day today. We went to Alessandra today. 1136 00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:13,280 I do apologise, yes, 1137 00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:16,760 with getting up and walking off on you and stuff like that. 1138 00:52:16,840 --> 00:52:21,600 Sometimes just let me have, you know, a conversation with you. 1139 00:52:29,720 --> 00:52:33,000 You told me "Stop talking," so I'm not gonna talk, 1140 00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:35,200 so, go ahead, finish what you want to say. 1141 00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:38,000 No, you said don't talk. You're becoming aggressive to me. 1142 00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:39,360 No... I apologised to you, didn't I? 1143 00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:42,840 I did. I said I'm sorry for my reaction. 1144 00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:46,200 You told me to stop talking. 1145 00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:48,240 You don't get to do that to a person. 1146 00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:51,760 I hope you're really happy. This was all unnecessary. 1147 00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:53,400 I was actually enjoying reading the book. 1148 00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:54,760 I wasn't hurting anyone. 1149 00:52:54,840 --> 00:52:58,680 You then got up and walked off, you came to make a coffee 1150 00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:00,440 'cause you're going "I don't want to talk anymore." 1151 00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:03,440 I thought, "Alright, I'm just gonna read something from my book." 1152 00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:07,120 I did, I said I'm sorry. I said that to you. 1153 00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:08,600 I know how I was feeling... 1154 00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:10,760 But I can see you actually don't mean it. 1155 00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:14,480 Actions, not words. 1156 00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:19,280 So, what are my actions? What do you want me to do? 1157 00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:24,920 I'm not gonna tell a grown man of 53 what to do. 1158 00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:28,920 You should know. That should be automatic. 1159 00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:31,480 You should know how to treat a woman 1160 00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:34,040 and you should know how to speak to a woman 1161 00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:36,560 and tell her again to stop talking... 1162 00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:39,240 I had that for three decades, Tony. 1163 00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:41,600 But I've worked on myself for seven years. 1164 00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:45,360 From the day I left my ex, I've worked myself inside and out. 1165 00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:48,360 So if you're wondering why it upsets me, 1166 00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:52,240 I won't allow anyone to treat me like that. 1167 00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:58,320 Anyone. Not my friends, not my family, nobody. 1168 00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:02,560 Just calm down a little bit, Morena. We can talk. 1169 00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:04,960 Sit down. I made the mistake... 1170 00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:06,680 You told me not to talk, 1171 00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:08,320 so I don't want to talk to somebody... 1172 00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:10,560 I said that before! ..that tells me not to talk, Tony. 1173 00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:14,240 So, I don't want to talk. 1174 00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:16,760 Think about your words that you say to people, 1175 00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:18,760 people that don't deserve that. 1176 00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:22,640 I talk from my heart, I don't talk from my rear end. 1177 00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:25,160 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1178 00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:35,560 (GULPING) 1179 00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:43,680 (SIGHS) You know, I tried to apologise. 1180 00:54:43,720 --> 00:54:44,840 I spoke about it. 1181 00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:48,080 I... I explained myself. 1182 00:54:48,160 --> 00:54:51,440 She said, "Don't ever say that again," you know, and... 1183 00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:53,440 She was angry. 1184 00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:55,360 There's sadness in her voice all the time. 1185 00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:58,240 I'm causing it, I know, 1186 00:54:58,320 --> 00:55:00,200 because if she met someone that she's happy with, 1187 00:55:00,240 --> 00:55:01,560 she wouldn't be like this. 1188 00:55:01,640 --> 00:55:04,280 But I keep, you know... I'm letting her down. 1189 00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:06,200 I'm happy not to talk, 1190 00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:08,480 because that's what you would prefer. 1191 00:55:08,520 --> 00:55:10,480 OK, maybe we need some time off. 1192 00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:12,600 Maybe I need to get away from you for a day or two. 1193 00:55:12,680 --> 00:55:13,760 No, no, that's fine. OK? 1194 00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:16,000 You do that. 1195 00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:19,400 Yeah, alright. I'm just gonna go. 1196 00:55:19,440 --> 00:55:21,720 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1197 00:55:26,480 --> 00:55:28,680 "If they make you feel like your love is too much, 1198 00:55:28,720 --> 00:55:31,560 "then tell them it is. 1199 00:55:31,600 --> 00:55:33,680 "It's too much for them." 1200 00:55:33,720 --> 00:55:35,360 Boom. 1201 00:55:36,680 --> 00:55:38,000 Are we done? 1202 00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:39,640 Perfect. 1203 00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:44,240 Good. Un-mic me and we're done. 1204 00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:52,720 NARRATOR: As Intimacy Week draws to a close... 1205 00:55:52,760 --> 00:55:55,080 WOMEN: Hi! 1206 00:55:55,160 --> 00:56:00,640 ..Jamie is stopping by Carina's apartment. 1207 00:56:00,720 --> 00:56:04,760 So, obviously when Dave came home from the workshop with Alessandra, 1208 00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:06,160 he did bring me tea. 1209 00:56:06,240 --> 00:56:08,680 Oh, stop! Making us a tea or a coffee. 1210 00:56:08,720 --> 00:56:09,800 What would you like? 1211 00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:11,760 Obviously it seemed the most shocking part 1212 00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:14,280 was Ryan's comments he made about Jacqui. 1213 00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:17,400 I just, yeah, don't think that's acceptable 1214 00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:19,680 to be doing behind your partner's back. 1215 00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:22,320 Oh, my god. I love talking about tea whilst drinking tea. 1216 00:56:22,400 --> 00:56:25,840 Yeah. (LAUGHS) Like, my nipples are elated now. 1217 00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:27,480 (LAUGHS) 1218 00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:29,600 I've actually formed a really good relationship with Carina, 1219 00:56:29,680 --> 00:56:32,560 so I want to see what she thinks is going on there. 1220 00:56:32,640 --> 00:56:36,080 I haven't told... What? What? What? 1221 00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:38,760 I need to know. I don't know shit. Like... 1222 00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:41,920 So, the hot topic... to Jacqui and Ryan, 1223 00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:45,360 because I know Dave definitely was left pissed off... 1224 00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:47,320 Oh! ..and wants to bring up things. 1225 00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:48,760 He just didn't like how he spoke about Jacqui. 1226 00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:51,320 What did Ryan say? 1227 00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:54,640 Ryan told the group that she has crazy eyes. 1228 00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:56,840 (GASPS) Oh, my god. (BLEEP). 1229 00:56:56,880 --> 00:56:58,800 Like... 1230 00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:01,120 I just don't think he thinks at all. He doesn't. 1231 00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:04,040 Like, why would you use a comment someone was saying 1232 00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:05,640 in a negative way about your wife... Yeah. 1233 00:57:05,720 --> 00:57:07,920 ..and you're using that in a group of men... 1234 00:57:07,960 --> 00:57:10,360 The thing is, like, the crazy eyes, 1235 00:57:10,440 --> 00:57:12,440 it's, like, you could be a lot more creative 1236 00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:14,000 because like, I think I've got (BLEEP) crazy eyes 1237 00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:15,760 at the best of times. 1238 00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:18,000 But what, like, really pissed Dave off 1239 00:57:18,080 --> 00:57:20,960 is that, like, he made the comment about physical appearance, 1240 00:57:21,040 --> 00:57:23,560 which is just not on, but then he said, 1241 00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:25,680 "Well, at least she gives really good (BLEEP)." 1242 00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:30,320 Imagine saying that in front of Jacqui. 1243 00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:34,840 I'm, like... 1244 00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:40,280 I'm just gobsmacked by hearing that type of comment. 1245 00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:45,400 If someone said that about me, I would've decked you... 1246 00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:46,800 Yeah. ..and I would've just legged it. 1247 00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:48,120 Yeah. Like, what the (BLEEP). 1248 00:57:48,200 --> 00:57:49,560 I think he was just, like, peacocking. 1249 00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:53,400 Now I'm, like... It's like the baton keeps getting passed on 1250 00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:56,040 from, like, just shitty husbands and he's just, like... 1251 00:57:56,120 --> 00:57:58,480 "I'll take the stick." .."I'll take it." 1252 00:57:58,520 --> 00:57:59,320 Yeah. 1253 00:57:59,360 --> 00:58:00,360 Like, 'cause I think I was, like, 1254 00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:02,400 "Oh, it's gonna be quite peaceful, actually, now." 1255 00:58:02,440 --> 00:58:03,680 And he's, like, yoink. 1256 00:58:03,760 --> 00:58:06,640 Because I'm, like, "What's he thinking?" 1257 00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:10,160 Ryan did say a lot of disrespectful things 1258 00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:11,720 behind Jacqui's back, which is not on. 1259 00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:17,160 And, like, my husband ain't happy with the things Ryan said. 1260 00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:19,800 Is he trying to act cool? Is he trying to act... 1261 00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:21,680 Well... ..superior? 1262 00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:24,080 So, Dave was eager to pull him up on it 1263 00:58:24,160 --> 00:58:26,440 and honestly, like, I'm gonna let my husband do his thing. 1264 00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:31,800 But I'm really keen to see what Ryan has to say. (LAUGHS) Yeah. 1265 00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:34,080 Yeah, this dinner party's a bit of a shit-show already. 1266 00:58:34,120 --> 00:58:35,520 Like, it really is. 1267 00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:41,120 Following a heated exchange with Morena, 1268 00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:45,920 Tony has left the apartments and gone to his home in Wollongong 1269 00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:47,800 to collect his thoughts... 1270 00:58:47,880 --> 00:58:51,560 MORENA: Oh, my god. He... He needs a break? 1271 00:58:51,600 --> 00:58:53,240 I don't think so. 1272 00:58:53,280 --> 00:58:55,600 ..and Morena is not happy. 1273 00:58:55,680 --> 00:58:59,360 At the moment, right now, I'm gutted. 1274 00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:03,240 I'm gutted 'cause he doesn't even want to spend time with me, 1275 00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:04,280 even as a friend. 1276 00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:07,720 He's got lots of friends in Sydney. 1277 00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:11,280 He wants to spend time with everybody else, even his dog, 1278 00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:12,440 but not me. 1279 00:59:12,480 --> 00:59:14,760 Goodnight, Tony. 1280 00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:20,360 Goodnight, Tony. 1281 00:59:22,440 --> 00:59:27,400 Oh, that's right. Tony needs a break. 1282 00:59:27,480 --> 00:59:31,400 I really want to try and learn how to build a connection 1283 00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:33,760 with someone I don't know. 1284 00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:37,240 He's making it really difficult 1285 00:59:37,320 --> 00:59:39,400 because he behaves like a five-year-old. 1286 00:59:39,440 --> 00:59:41,280 I just don't get it, 1287 00:59:41,320 --> 00:59:43,200 I just don't get it, 1288 00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:48,320 why...why you would want to be with everyone else... 1289 00:59:50,600 --> 00:59:52,720 except for the person you've been matched up with. 1290 00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:54,640 I don't deserve to be shut out. 1291 00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:58,760 Goodnight, Tony... (VOICE ECHOES) Tony... Tony... Tony... Tony.. 1292 01:00:00,320 --> 01:00:02,320 NARRATOR: Tomorrow night... (BELL RINGS) 1293 01:00:02,360 --> 01:00:03,800 MAN: Dinner is served. 1294 01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:05,640 ..emotions run high... 1295 01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:08,560 I'm not done. I'm not done with you, little boy. 1296 01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:11,440 ..as Morena reaches breaking point. 1297 01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:13,560 Does your girl go home every weekend? 1298 01:00:13,640 --> 01:00:15,600 Does anyone here go home every weekend? 1299 01:00:15,680 --> 01:00:17,960 MAN: So, from all this... No, no. Listen. Listen. 1300 01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:19,200 You're delusional. 1301 01:00:19,240 --> 01:00:20,360 She came in swinging. 1302 01:00:20,440 --> 01:00:25,160 While Intimacy Week has worked its magic for most of our couples... 1303 01:00:25,240 --> 01:00:27,440 There is a real connection here. ALESSANDRA: Yeah. 1304 01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:29,600 There is good, deep communication. 1305 01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:31,480 RHI: The more that this experiment goes on, 1306 01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:34,440 the more I realise that Jeff is an amazing person. 1307 01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:37,560 That's nice. (LAUGHS) That's lovely. 1308 01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:40,520 (LAUGHTER) 1309 01:00:40,560 --> 01:00:43,040 ..the question on everyone's lips... 1310 01:00:43,080 --> 01:00:44,360 CARINA: I'm so confused. 1311 01:00:44,440 --> 01:00:47,640 Has he told her about that comment? Does she know? I don't know. 1312 01:00:47,720 --> 01:00:50,520 JOHN: Everyone at the table is fired up and want answers. 1313 01:00:50,560 --> 01:00:52,160 ..will Ryan... 1314 01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:56,000 RYAN: Uh... ..own up to those comments? 1315 01:00:58,200 --> 01:01:01,800 Be honest, 'cause you never know what's gonna come back to bite you. 1316 01:01:03,680 --> 01:01:06,640 Captioned by AI-Media ai-media.tv 99745

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