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NARRATOR: Previously...
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He just makes me a better person.
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NARRATOR: Love was in the air
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at the very first commitment
ceremony.
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I am happy, content, feeling safe.
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"Stay."
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I'd be so silly to say anything
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but "Stay."
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I ain't leaving!
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There's core elements of healthy,
successful intimate relationships
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that you two have.
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NARRATOR: Our three experts gave
our couples much needed perspective.
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There are different levels
to communication.
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There are different levels
to communication.
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And if I do fall in love,
those problems won't be so big.
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NARRATOR: But following
some tough questions...
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I was hopeful.
Tim, hold on a minute.
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Of what?
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I don't know, to be honest.
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I don't know either.
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"Leave."
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..Katie and Tim left the experiment.
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He said Jacqui had crazy eyes.
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NARRATOR: And...
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He said he's not racist or anything,
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but he's more of a Caucasian
girl guy.
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NARRATOR: Jake's comments
left the room speechless
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before he revealed he wanted
to leave the experiment.
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before he revealed he wanted
to leave the experiment.
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"Leave."
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Step up, mate, and stay.
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NARRATOR: Tonight...
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A shock decision.
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Which of our couples will leave
the experiment?
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And then...
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Hello!
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..Alessandra's Intimacy Week
begins...
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I want you all to create
for your partner
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your ultimate fantasy night.
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..and tonight, the ladies
will be calling all the shots.
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..and tonight, the ladies
will be calling all the shots.
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Ooh!
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Dave is going to have
a heart attack.
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NARRATOR: Can the men rise
to the occasion?
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Tonight is all about
showing my dominance.
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Yummy. (CHUCKLES)
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NARRATOR: And Jacqui and Ryan's
attempt at intimacy...
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Mm-hm!
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JACQUI: I think Ryan struggles
with words
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on how to complement a woman.
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..takes a dramatic turn.
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How hard is it to just be like,
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"Hey, I made a mistake.
You're (BLEEP) gorgeous." Like...
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That's right.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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(GRAND SWEEPING MUSIC)
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How did you sleep?
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Actually good.
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I love my eggs.
(CHUCKLES)
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I love my eggs.
(CHUCKLES)
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What the (BLEEP) happened
last night?
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NARRATOR: It's the morning after
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an eventful first commitment
ceremony...
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..and the couples are reflecting
on the dramatic final departure
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of Katie and Tim.
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I'm so surprised that he came.
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Endless high-fives for Katie.
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Considering how jarring
that would have been
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for her to see Tim
come through those doors.
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Yeah, no, she is...
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She definitely deserves better.
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It's mind-boggling to me that
you come in, you sacrifice so much
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It's mind-boggling to me that
you come in, you sacrifice so much
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to be in this experiment,
and then you don't try.
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Yeah. Like, sometimes sparks
happen later.
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Like, look at you and I
for an example.
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Yeah.
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You know, on the day I walked
down the aisle,
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I thought that, like, we were
completely in the friend zone
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and now, we're slightly
out of the friend zone.
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Yeah.
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NARRATOR: With most of the couples
still reeling
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from the after-shocks
of last night...
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..Morena is up in arms
about something else.
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I didn't like last night
being called senora.
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I didn't like last night
being called senora.
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NARRATOR: A throwaway comment
made by groom Paul
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as he was bidding her good night.
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Oh, my god.
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That's something you call someone
who's 90,
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she's got a bun in her hair,
she's got a couple of warts
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and hair on her chin.
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(CHUCKLES) I don't think
he meant it in a bad way.
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Paul called Morena senora.
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In my eyes, that's not a bad thing.
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In my eyes, that's not a bad thing.
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I think that's a nice cute thing.
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But she's not happy.
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I'm... I'm... I'm the senior
in-house.
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And then you say, "Senora"?
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I would have much preferred,
"Good tonight, signorina."
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Oh.
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Yeah, see how pretty it is?
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That's the problem there, you know?
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If something bothers her, she
just goes on and on and on about it.
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So, it's pretty tiring.
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I don't know. "Good night, darling."
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Or "Good night, sweet."
Or "Good night..."
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Or "Good night, sweet."
Or "Good night..."
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But you don't know me.
Don't call me senora.
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When I get hit with stuff like that,
I zone out.
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Just "Good night, Morena."
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Oh, man. I'm tired.
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NARRATOR: With the fallout
from the first commitment ceremony
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is still fresh in their minds...
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..a dramatic gear change
is about to take place...
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Do you want a coffee?
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(KNOCK ON DOOR)
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Oh, my god!
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Oh, my god!
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..as the couples embark
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on one of the most exciting,
meaningful, and confronting phases
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of the experiment.
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Oh! There's another letter!
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They're doing this to us again!
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NARRATOR: Intimacy Week.
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For Intimacy Week this year,
I am upping the ante
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with some brand-new exercises
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so our couples can take the next
step in their relationships.
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I actually didn't know
we were getting one of these.
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Some people assume intimacy
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is just purely physical
and sex focused,
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but this is not the case.
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but this is not the case.
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Alright, "Jacqui and Ryan."
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I love this!
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These are the most exciting thing
of the week for me.
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I want them to feel safe,
allow themselves to be vulnerable,
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and find the courage to step outside
their comfort zones
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in order to help forge
lasting connections.
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"Ola, couples."
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It must be Alessandra.
Alessandra, yep.
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I'm glad you're reading this one.
(LAUGHS)
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Ola!
Ola!
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"This next phase of the experiment
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"is about building trust
with your partner
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"is about building trust
with your partner
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"and strengthening your
understanding of connection,
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"romance, and sexual compatibility."
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(CHUCKLES)
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"Later today, I will be hosting
a workshop with all the brides
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"and then all the grooms."
(LAUGHS)
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"Be prepared to learn some
home truths about intimacy
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"that I hope you can explore
with one another.
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"I'll see you soon. Alessandra."
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Ooh, OK.
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(LAUGHS)
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Just reading her name
is like intimacy full stop.
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Just reading her name
is like intimacy full stop.
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Like...
Alessandra.
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It's so sexy.
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Like, she would say...
She's just...
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It's going to be...
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NARRATOR: With excitement building
amongst the group
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for Intimacy Week...
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..one couple is facing
a shock turn of events...
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..as Ashleigh has awoken to news
husband, Jake,
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is breaking the rules
and quitting the experiment.
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is breaking the rules
and quitting the experiment.
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(PENSIVE SOUNDTRACK)
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After the commitment ceremony,
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Jake and I spent the night apart...
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..and then I woke up this morning
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to him coming and packing his bags
and saying he's gone for good.
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He's going back to Perth.
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Honestly, I don't know
if I wasn't here,
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in the room at the time,
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I don't know if he would have
actually told me he was leaving.
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I don't know if he would have
actually told me he was leaving.
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I think after last night,
he thought it was just done,
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he could just scooch
on out of here.
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So, what specifically did he say?
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He said, "Jacqui had crazy eyes."
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NARRATOR: Last night,
Jake was called out
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for comments he'd made
about several of the brides...
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He said he's not racist or anything
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but he's more of a Caucasian
girl guy.
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..comments Ashleigh
had also previously shared
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with fellow bride, Sierah.
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with fellow bride, Sierah.
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What else did Jake say?
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The comment that I've heard you say
about my wife
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is, "She looks like someone
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"that stands at the end
of your bed...
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"..with a knife."
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I don't think Jake's a bad person.
No.
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I think he's very ignorant
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and I don't think he's got
much self-awareness.
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It's just the maturity levels.
Yes. Yeah.
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But he also said
really shitty things
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and that's exactly why I called it
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because I ain't having someone
speak about my wife like that.
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because I ain't having someone
speak about my wife like that.
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Yeah.
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I do want Jake to understand
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that I would never stand
at the end of his bed
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while he's asleep and murder him.
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I would do it while he's awake,
so I can stare him in the eye.
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I hope they stick around
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because yeah, Ash deserves love
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and Jake could obviously have
a lot of personal growth
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and stuff like that
from this experience.
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ASHLEIGH: If it's the last time
we are going to like see each other,
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what happened? Because like...
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Did... Like...
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Did... Like...
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From last night, like...
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Like...
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I think at the commitment ceremony,
he decided he was leaving.
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I think he was just hoping
I'd write, "Leave", too.
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You said you wrote, "Leave",
because you don't trust me.
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I lost a bit of the trust in you,
Ash, if we're completely honest,
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and that really hurt.
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And, like, you know, Billy
and Sierah
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And, like, you know, Billy
and Sierah
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knew virtually bar for bar
what I said.
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Last night was a lot to take in.
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You know, I learned a lot about Ash
last night on that couch.
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A lot of things I actually dislike.
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Last night was a lot.
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That whole situation,
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like, no one made you say anything
that you didn't want to say.
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I'm sorry. I just don't.
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We're just getting further apart
at this point.
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And I came into the experiment
saying,
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"I'm going to be selfish
with what I want
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"and I don't want to change",
and I am sticking to that.
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Not how I want and things...
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..with you, having a bit of a tiff.
I'd rather not.
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I do think the blaming the trust
issue now is a bit of a cop-out.
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I think it was just his best out.
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I think it was just his best out.
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Catch ya.
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He doesn't want to face it.
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He doesn't want to face
the repercussions of his actions,
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what the group would have to say
and what would be said about him.
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Alright, Ash.
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I'm done packing.
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I don't know even what to say.
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Um...
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The one thing I do
is have a vent to my friends
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The one thing I do
is have a vent to my friends
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'cause I had an awful time
here with you
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and I tried so hard
and I pushed so hard
255
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to keep trying to communicate,
256
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and keep trying to, you know,
give you time
257
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and give you everything you needed.
258
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It's not like I ran off
with another groom.
259
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(LAUGHS) Like, you know,
260
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and you carry on
like you can't trust me.
261
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Like, 'cause I bloody had
to just talk my feelings out
262
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about some things
that you did and you said.
263
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(EXHALES)
264
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So, you know what? Thanks for that.
265
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I'm actually not going
to feel guilty anymore
266
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I'm actually not going
to feel guilty anymore
267
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because I'm glad... I'm glad
I spoke to my friend.
268
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Well...
269
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NARRATOR: Jake's decision
to break the rules...
270
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..brings his marriage to Ashleigh
to an abrupt end.
271
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With no choice left
but to leave with him,
272
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Ashleigh will now have to pack
her things
273
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and the couple will exit
the experiment for good.
274
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and the couple will exit
the experiment for good.
275
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Disappointed how the last
interaction with Ash ended.
276
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Very disappointed
that she just didn't try
277
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and make it a pleasant experience.
278
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I tried so bloody hard...
279
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..to make it work with him.
280
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And then he just, like, cracks it.
281
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I think...
282
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I think Jake is a 30-year-old man...
283
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..with the maturity of a teenager.
284
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It's pretty disappointing.
285
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NARRATOR: Coming up...
286
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Adrian and I are intimate.
287
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I mean, we were intimate
just before I came.
288
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(LAUGHTER)
289
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NARRATOR: The brides open up
in Alessandra's intimacy workshop.
290
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Girls, I don't want
to dampen anything,
291
00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:56,480
but Tony sleeps on the couch
and he's asleep by five.
292
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You can't even imagine
what that feels like.
293
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
294
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NARRATOR: After the shock departure
of Ashleigh and Jake,
295
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the remaining brides have arrived
at Alessandra's workshop.
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Ah!
297
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Hello!
298
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NARRATOR: With the grooms' workshop
soon to follow...
299
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Welcome!
300
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..it will be an opportunity
301
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for the group to check in
on each other's progress
302
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as Intimacy Week unfolds.
303
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as Intimacy Week unfolds.
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Grab a seat. Make yourselves
comfortable.
305
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I'm already excited. I'm already
aroused.
306
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(LAUGHTER)
307
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Welcome, ladies,
to our Intimacy Week workshop.
308
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I'm so excited to have you all.
309
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This year, I am upping the ante.
310
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I want you guys to really dig deep
311
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and be able to truly communicate
yourselves
312
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and build a strong foundation
with your partners
313
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to then explore
314
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or to simultaneously be exploring
your pleasurable sexual sides.
315
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or to simultaneously be exploring
your pleasurable sexual sides.
316
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We're you all thinking
317
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it was just going to be,
like, sex toys and whips?
318
00:14:08,200 --> 00:14:09,400
Just hoping?
319
00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:11,040
(LAUGHTER)
320
00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:13,000
I'm feeling pretty good
about Intimacy Week.
321
00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:15,600
I want to know everything,
so I'm just keen to hear
322
00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:16,920
what's going on with everyone else.
323
00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:18,640
I want all the details.
324
00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:21,920
So, I do want to understand
where you're all standing
325
00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:23,720
in your relationships currently.
326
00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:27,640
Awhina, give me a picture
of what's happening with you guys.
327
00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:29,720
Well, Adrian and I are intimate.
328
00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:32,880
I mean, we were intimate
just before I came.
329
00:14:32,920 --> 00:14:35,400
(LAUGHTER)
330
00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:37,560
We still have work though.
Like, I will be so honest,
331
00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:40,240
but we are enjoying the ride there.
332
00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:42,440
Not sure if there's much tea
with me and Adrian.
333
00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:44,280
Quite boring vanilla, baby.
334
00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:46,080
(LAUGHS)
335
00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:50,120
Are you normally confident
regarding your sexuality?
336
00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:51,400
Usually, I am...
337
00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:53,320
I would say I'm usually more
confident in the bedroom.
338
00:14:53,400 --> 00:14:56,240
I have some insecurities
within myself being a mum.
339
00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:57,520
My body, I'm kind of like,
340
00:14:57,600 --> 00:14:59,400
Adrian hasn't been with a mum
before,
341
00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:00,000
and I get a little bit insecure
in that aspect.
342
00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:02,520
and I get a little bit insecure
in that aspect.
343
00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:05,280
When I'm having sex with someone,
it's less about what they look like
344
00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:06,320
and it's more about how I feel.
345
00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:08,000
I can relate.
346
00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:10,320
I think it's all about
how you feel.
347
00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:12,880
For me, it's like an ego boost,
like, having sex.
348
00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:14,440
Like, I want to be told
how amazing I am
349
00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:18,440
and men don't understand
how hard it is on us sometimes.
350
00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:19,880
You can get better sex from us
351
00:15:19,960 --> 00:15:21,400
by really telling us how... Yeah.
Yeah, validating us.
352
00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:23,280
Like, tell me how amazing I am.
353
00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:24,680
Like, I'm big on words.
354
00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:26,520
I'm actually really deep.
355
00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:29,800
Well, I think Dave is a man
who can go there...
356
00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:30,000
Yeah.
..and for him,
357
00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:30,880
Yeah.
..and for him,
358
00:15:30,960 --> 00:15:32,560
probably it has to do with building
the trust
359
00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:34,280
and really connecting more.
360
00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:35,360
Yeah.
361
00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:36,640
What about you, Jacqui?
362
00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:40,120
I want to always be connected
to my partner, all the time.
363
00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:42,800
I'm like a passionate person.
364
00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:45,160
Like, I just love intimacy so much.
365
00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:46,600
You would always
be connected?
366
00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:48,720
(LAUGHTER)
367
00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:50,120
If it were up to you for you
368
00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:52,800
to feel, like,
"Mmm, I'm like satisfied and good",
369
00:15:52,840 --> 00:15:54,520
how many times per week?
370
00:15:54,600 --> 00:15:56,600
I think like every day. Yeah.
Every day?
371
00:15:56,640 --> 00:15:58,080
Oh, that's a good time.
372
00:15:58,160 --> 00:15:59,760
Wait, so are you and Ryan
having sex?
373
00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:00,000
No, no.
No.
374
00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:01,320
No, no.
No.
375
00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:02,840
I know with Ryan and I,
376
00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:04,760
we could very easily be very intimate
377
00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:06,040
and it be amazing.
378
00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:09,200
Like, there's definitely been moments
of attraction
379
00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:13,200
but Ryan and I are working
on a companionship at the moment.
380
00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:15,040
We're trying to find things
in common.
381
00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:18,040
Do you feel that you're confident
in the bedroom when it comes to sex?
382
00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:21,120
Yes. Yeah, definitely.
383
00:16:21,200 --> 00:16:24,080
Where does the confidence
come from for you?
384
00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:27,240
I think I've always been with, like,
very loving and respectful partners
385
00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:30,000
who have been very emotionally
attuned to me and what I need,
386
00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:32,960
who have been very emotionally
attuned to me and what I need,
387
00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:34,600
saying they think I'm the most
beautiful girl in the world
388
00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:37,880
and, like, you know, I'm so gorgeous.
389
00:16:39,200 --> 00:16:41,680
"I love your hair, you've got,
like, a beautiful arse."
390
00:16:43,520 --> 00:16:45,760
Saying, "I love your body", like,
just always giving me compliments.
391
00:16:49,160 --> 00:16:55,320
I think from Ryan, I need him
to keep up the, like, consideration
392
00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:56,920
of my physical needs
393
00:16:57,000 --> 00:17:00,000
and also admire me
a little bit more.
394
00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:02,960
Like, tell me I'm beautiful
and find me attractive.
395
00:17:03,040 --> 00:17:05,280
Yeah. So, that's what I need
from Ryan.
396
00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:09,800
You respond well to being
worshipped and adored.
397
00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:12,240
I wouldn't say worshipped.
I would just say adored.
398
00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:14,560
Validation is important
399
00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:17,040
but, like, I think it has
to continue both ways.
400
00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:18,600
It's not only on them to do this.
401
00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:21,200
It is also on us to give
that feedback back,
402
00:17:21,240 --> 00:17:23,200
so that they can feel like peacocky
403
00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:26,240
and, like, fabulous
and want to come and seduce.
404
00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:27,840
And Rhi, I want to go to you
405
00:17:27,920 --> 00:17:30,000
because as ex-partners, your case
is unprecedented
406
00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:30,920
because as ex-partners, your case
is unprecedented
407
00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:32,880
and it's interesting because
you did have a sexual relationship
408
00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:34,800
that was ongoing for, what was it,
a month or two,
409
00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:36,920
a couple of months last year.
Yeah.
410
00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:38,720
And you were concerned,
if I remember correctly,
411
00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:39,840
you're scared now
412
00:17:39,920 --> 00:17:41,240
because you don't want it
to fizzle out.
413
00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:42,200
Again.
414
00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:43,800
Because you felt
it fizzled out once.
415
00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:47,440
Jeff and I have done more
than touching feet on the couch.
416
00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:48,960
Yeah. (CHUCKLES)
417
00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:50,960
We're very affectionate, I think,
418
00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:53,240
like, we hug but we are taking it
quite slow.
419
00:17:53,320 --> 00:17:56,200
Like, a lot of the other couples
are being romantic and intimate.
420
00:17:56,280 --> 00:17:58,600
I have voiced
I don't want to rush it.
421
00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:00,000
I want it to feel right.
422
00:18:00,000 --> 00:18:00,240
I want it to feel right.
423
00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:01,440
I don't want it to fizzle out
424
00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:03,800
and I think, I don't know
if he has that in his head.
425
00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:06,520
Well, if he's respectful,
he's going to consider that
426
00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:08,880
and maybe will be holding back...
Yeah.
427
00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:10,000
..not to make you feel
uncomfortable.
428
00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:13,360
If he wants to connect and you've
said, "I don't want to rush it",
429
00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:15,600
then he's going to be, like, "I'm
listening and I'm not rushing it."
430
00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:17,680
And if you're thinking,
"Why is he not doing?",
431
00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:19,120
then the signals are mixed.
432
00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:21,200
Our sex life was really good
last year.
433
00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:22,920
Like, I kept coming back for more.
Well, that's always good.
434
00:18:22,960 --> 00:18:24,560
You've tried before you've buyed.
435
00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:25,720
It can't have been too bad.
436
00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:29,920
But I just - a really don't want it
to fizzle, that's all.
437
00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:30,000
Like, I just want to do - yeah.
438
00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:31,480
Like, I just want to do - yeah.
439
00:18:31,560 --> 00:18:33,800
It's really interesting
with the fizzling.
440
00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:36,000
There is a difference
between desire and pleasures.
441
00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:39,240
The desire is not necessarily
maintainable.
442
00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:42,760
Desire you have over things
you don't have already.
443
00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:45,760
But when you're married, you have
that person, you've conquered them,
444
00:18:45,840 --> 00:18:48,520
that's why so many people,
I think, fall into traps.
445
00:18:48,600 --> 00:18:50,600
The keep wanting
to feel that desire.
446
00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:52,280
It's not going to be desire.
447
00:18:52,360 --> 00:18:54,000
You want to be able to focus
on the pleasures
448
00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:55,080
you can explore together
449
00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:58,800
once you've already conquered
the person you have next to you.
450
00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:00,000
And I'm going to go to you, Sierah.
451
00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:01,040
And I'm going to go to you, Sierah.
452
00:19:02,360 --> 00:19:04,720
Give me a picture of what's
happening with you guys.
453
00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:07,560
It's like, I don't know. I just
don't know if we're just mates now.
454
00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:10,680
Like, Billy and I have only had sex
once a couple of weeks ago
455
00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:13,240
and the fact that we have had sex
and then now nothing,
456
00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:15,480
and now we're mates, I'm, like,
how do we actually get back there?
457
00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:16,720
Why do you get the impression
458
00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:18,560
that he doesn't want to be intimate
again?
459
00:19:19,880 --> 00:19:21,240
Well, 'cause he doesn't do anything.
460
00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:23,240
I mean, just like little kisses.
He's like, really, it's cute.
461
00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:26,240
We're cute, but, like, that's all.
462
00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:27,720
I want to be sexy not cute.
463
00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:30,000
I walk around completely naked too.
464
00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:30,920
I walk around completely naked too.
465
00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:32,200
It's like, "Don't you want
a piece of this?"
466
00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:33,880
Touch it, touch it.
467
00:19:35,160 --> 00:19:37,640
I don't know how many times I can
say, "Just (BLEEP) touch it."
468
00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:43,120
I just want to be touched.
Spank me. You know?
469
00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:45,800
Sorry, you walk around naked?
470
00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:48,640
Yeah. Like, not all the time.
No, which - nothing wrong with that.
471
00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:50,160
Yeah.
And he's just got what?
472
00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:52,600
A blank look on his face?
He's just like...
473
00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:56,000
You need to let him know you don't
want him to be so respectful.
474
00:19:56,080 --> 00:19:58,680
But you're giving him a sign,
you're in the nude.
475
00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:00,000
That's - so, you're saying...
476
00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:00,400
That's - so, you're saying...
477
00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:01,400
"Bite my nipples."
478
00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:02,960
(LAUGHTER)
479
00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:08,080
When you're not seen, you're not
heard, you're invisible... Shit.
480
00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:12,520
I'm shocked actually.
481
00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:16,520
I just presumed everyone
was having sex except for me.
482
00:20:18,360 --> 00:20:19,880
But obviously not the case.
483
00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:23,400
Look, girls, without harping on
too much,
484
00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:26,080
and I don't want to dampen
anything,
485
00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:29,400
but it's been a long time,
it's been seven years
486
00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:30,000
since anyone has slept
in my bed.
487
00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:31,360
since anyone has slept
in my bed.
488
00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:33,880
That's a long time, girls.
489
00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:37,400
I don't know if - you can't even
imagine what that feels like.
490
00:20:40,360 --> 00:20:46,960
Tony, he sleeps on the couch
and he's asleep by five.
491
00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:49,840
I just go to the bedroom
and I think...
492
00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:55,360
I just look at the stars
and I think, "Someone talk to me."
493
00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:57,640
Oh, that's sad.
494
00:20:57,680 --> 00:20:59,440
Do you guys ever kiss or anything?
495
00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:00,000
Like, do you have
any kind of affection?
496
00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:01,240
Like, do you have
any kind of affection?
497
00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:02,640
He doesn't touch me.
498
00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:06,400
No, put your hand on mine.
499
00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:07,320
That's what he does.
500
00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:10,520
Now, see how you put your hand
on mine?
501
00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:12,920
Oh, and then he moves.
Oh, that's horrible.
502
00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:14,160
And it's like...
503
00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:15,320
He recoils.
504
00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:19,760
It sounds horrendous.
505
00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:23,840
Like, I know if I put my hand
on Dave's hand
506
00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:25,240
and he - if he did that,
507
00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:28,600
like, I'd be gutted, but like,
I'd be furious,
508
00:21:28,680 --> 00:21:30,000
but I'd be like absolutely
gutted inside.
509
00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:30,640
but I'd be like absolutely
gutted inside.
510
00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:33,720
He's so uncomfortable and that's OK.
511
00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:36,200
I told you I want to learn patience
512
00:21:36,280 --> 00:21:38,240
but he's afraid that I'm going
to jump him.
513
00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:41,840
I'm shocked by that.
514
00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:43,240
She's a beautiful woman.
515
00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:48,960
Yes, she's got her big personality
and she's very flamboyant
516
00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:50,760
and, you know, that's who she is
517
00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:52,480
and that's what makes her the woman
that she is.
518
00:21:53,120 --> 00:21:55,240
I keep saying to him,
even as a friend,
519
00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:57,920
even my friends today hug me.
520
00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:02,320
What I hear when you explain
all this
521
00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:05,640
is he's not even giving you space
to show up and be.
522
00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:06,840
Correct.
523
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:10,680
He's not affectionate,
he's not present with me.
524
00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:15,400
You know, it's been so long for me
personally
525
00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:20,120
and I really did come here
to try and bond with a human being.
526
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:26,320
It would be really nice
to be getting to know Tony
527
00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:30,000
on a deeper level and connecting
with him with touch.
528
00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:30,520
on a deeper level and connecting
with him with touch.
529
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:36,320
A warm fuzzy feeling internal,
that's not a big ask.
530
00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:40,840
It's really interesting
what you're saying.
531
00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:44,600
I think it does bring me to - I was
going to wait until later
532
00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:46,560
but I think it's the perfect time
to let you guys know
533
00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:49,120
what I - my task for all of you is.
534
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:54,560
The first task for you
for Intimacy Week starts today
535
00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:56,760
right after you leave here.
536
00:22:56,840 --> 00:23:00,000
I want you all to create
for your partners
537
00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:01,840
I want you all to create
for your partners
538
00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:04,800
what your perfect date is.
539
00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:06,800
Oh, I love that.
540
00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:09,960
So, this is to be your ultimate
fantasy night.
541
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:13,640
You get to choose,
you get to decide.
542
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:17,880
Morena, this is your chance
to take control.
543
00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:20,200
He is not allowed to be asleep
at five
544
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:21,960
if that's not what you have in mind.
545
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:24,720
You take control
of time with a partner
546
00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:26,720
and having that be sexy.
547
00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:28,680
However that manifests,
however you create it.
548
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:30,000
What makes you feel special.
549
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:32,080
What makes you feel special.
550
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:35,880
You know, Intimacy Week,
it's actually perfect timing.
551
00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:38,520
Yes, I'm taking Alessandra's
advice, definitely.
552
00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:41,440
Ladies, you have a lot to think
about, a lot to figure out.
553
00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:45,360
Tonight is about you showing
your partners who you are
554
00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:46,680
and what your fantasies are.
555
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:51,240
Mine's going to be a bit sexy.
Yeah.
556
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:52,840
It's so good to see you guys.
557
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:54,200
Thank you so much.
558
00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:57,320
I'm going to sit
maybe on the couch in...
559
00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:59,480
I'll surprise him
with what I come out in.
560
00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:00,000
Have fun!
Thank you!
561
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:00,680
Have fun!
Thank you!
562
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:04,280
Even though I know he doesn't want
me to but I'm going to.
563
00:24:05,120 --> 00:24:08,720
And let's see where it goes.
564
00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:11,720
NARRATOR: Coming up...
565
00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:14,400
I bought a little something.
566
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:16,960
..Intimacy Week gets started
with a bang.
567
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:18,360
OK, boys!
568
00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:21,920
I might have an orgasm.
569
00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:24,120
Who knows?
570
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:27,160
NARRATOR: But not all the grooms
are embracing their tasks.
571
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:28,320
There's two rules.
572
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:30,000
I don't know, I feel like
I'm going to be attacked
573
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:31,720
I don't know, I feel like
I'm going to be attacked
574
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:33,960
by a very horny Sierah.
575
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:35,480
NARRATOR: And later...
576
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:38,600
How hard is it to just be like,
"Hey, I made a mistake.
577
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:39,880
"You're (BLEEP) gorgeous."?
578
00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:41,320
Like...
579
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:52,160
(LIVELY MUSIC)
580
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:54,680
I'm so excited!
581
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:56,240
NARRATOR: With the workshop over,
582
00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:59,400
the brides are getting started
on Alessandra's task,
583
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:00,000
to create their own ultimate
fantasy night.
584
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:03,440
to create their own ultimate
fantasy night.
585
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:05,640
Oh, little shopping.
Oh!
586
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:06,840
OK, you've got to help me.
587
00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:10,640
NARRATOR: Jamie and Carina
are hoping their existing sex lives
588
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:13,560
can be spiced up with sexy lingerie.
589
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:15,960
I feel like if we're going to put
a bra on,
590
00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:18,440
like, I'd want my boobs
to be up to my chin.
591
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:24,000
We want to look hot
but, like, in a chic, sexy,
592
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:25,800
conservative...
Empowered...
593
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,400
Not conservative in a lingerie shop.
No? No. OK.
594
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:30,000
It is to help us find something
that makes us feel,
595
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:33,760
It is to help us find something
that makes us feel,
596
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:35,320
I guess, our most sexy,
our most desired.
597
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:39,760
Oh! I love it!
598
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:42,320
Your body looks insane.
599
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:44,080
I'm so glad I put tan on
this morning.
600
00:25:44,120 --> 00:25:45,800
Your body looks so good.
601
00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:50,120
Honestly, Dave is going
to have a heart attack.
602
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:51,720
In my previous relationships,
603
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:53,960
I have always played
more of the submissive role.
604
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:56,080
Have fun. Let me know
if you need a hand.
605
00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:59,400
But now, I'm going to have full
control which I'm excited about.
606
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:00,000
I'm shy! (LAUGHS)
607
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:03,320
I'm shy! (LAUGHS)
608
00:26:03,360 --> 00:26:05,800
Stop! Stop!
609
00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:08,160
I want to have sex with you!
What the hell?
610
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:09,400
I love this!
611
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:12,320
We are ready to experiment,
try something different.
612
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:14,240
But do it in our way,
like, do it our way.
613
00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:15,840
This is giving the dom vibes.
614
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:18,120
You know how you said you wanted
to be more dom?
615
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:19,920
I just need a whip.
This is giving dom vibes.
616
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:21,400
How do you feel?
How do you feel
617
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,120
with, like, the whole body
and everything.
618
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:24,600
Yeah, I feel strong.
619
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:26,600
Like, I feel confident.
620
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:27,760
It's giving, it's giving...
621
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:29,400
It's giving ready to succeed.
622
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:32,360
You might have your first MAFS baby
in this one.
623
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:33,680
(LAUGHS) Oh, my god!
624
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:36,320
OK, I'm going to go try
the other ones on.
625
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,960
NARRATOR: While Carina and Jamie
are embracing the chance
626
00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:41,040
to take control in the bedroom...
627
00:26:44,120 --> 00:26:46,440
Billy always said that he wants
to be put on a leash.
628
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:50,680
..Sierah is hoping to find a way
to make Billy take the lead.
629
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:54,480
I'm getting soft boy vibes.
Yeah.
630
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:56,120
Soft and fluffy boy vibes.
631
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:57,680
I wouldn't mind
being put on a leash.
632
00:26:58,360 --> 00:27:00,000
I actually kind of - that's
one of my fantasies, I think,
633
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:00,200
I actually kind of - that's
one of my fantasies, I think,
634
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:01,680
bondage, is being tied up.
635
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:03,880
Yeah.
But I've got to, like, start slow
636
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:05,080
and just be touched.
637
00:27:05,120 --> 00:27:06,280
Yeah. You need a cuddle first.
638
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:07,600
Yeah, I want to be touched.
639
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:11,240
Um... I'm still a bit apprehensive.
640
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:14,000
These are all for the men.
We ain't about the men today.
641
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:16,000
I think the best starting point
for Billy and I
642
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:19,920
for this task specifically
is probably just massaging.
643
00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:22,480
So, like my idea
of, like, what I want
644
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:25,120
is someone to take control
and take the initiative
645
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:27,200
so, I guess, him having
to touch me all over,
646
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:29,400
like, he's kind of taking
the lead which is what I want.
647
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:30,000
Yeah, and you're hoping
it will turn him on enough
648
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:31,400
Yeah, and you're hoping
it will turn him on enough
649
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:33,720
to kind of be like,
"Ooh, I'm gonna bridge that gap
650
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:35,120
"and touch where I want to touch."
651
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:36,120
Yeah.
652
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:37,800
Hopefully, that touch
is inappropriate.
653
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:39,160
Yeah, I hope so. (CHUCKLES)
654
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:42,520
NARRATOR: As the brides
work on the finishing touches
655
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:45,760
for their ultimate
fantasy night tasks,
656
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:47,720
for the first time in the experiment,
657
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:51,320
the grooms have spent
a full day home alone
658
00:27:51,360 --> 00:27:53,560
trying to keep their nerves in check
659
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:57,000
about the upcoming
Intimacy Week tasks.
660
00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:58,240
What I'm worried about
661
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:00,000
is just doing things
that I'm not comfortable with.
662
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:00,880
is just doing things
that I'm not comfortable with.
663
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:03,120
Doing cupping
and stuff like that.
664
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:06,320
That's not good to happen.
665
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:13,040
No. The only cup I need
is a cup of coffee, mate. (CHUCKLES)
666
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:16,360
Hello?
667
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:21,040
Hello.
Morena, what's happening?
668
00:28:21,120 --> 00:28:22,760
I'm home.
I can see.
669
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:25,640
How are you?
Yeah, good.
670
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:27,520
Just doing some housework.
671
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:29,080
Very sexy.
672
00:28:29,120 --> 00:28:30,000
Whoa!
673
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:30,600
Whoa!
674
00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:33,000
It's very sexy watching a man clean.
675
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:34,400
(LAUGHS)
676
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:35,560
Hang on a minute.
677
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:39,760
He's absolutely pooping his pants.
678
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:43,520
God knows what he thinks
I'm going to do.
679
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:46,240
Are you hot?
(LAUGHS)
680
00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:49,760
You came in and...
Far out, you're sweating.
681
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:52,640
"It's very sexy to watch
a man clean."
682
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:54,920
You're sweating and I've just walked
in the door.
683
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:56,920
You've come in and you're
all different and...
684
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:00,000
Just your face has changed.
You look happy.
685
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:00,360
Just your face has changed.
You look happy.
686
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:01,360
You look nice.
687
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:03,280
I might've had an orgasm.
You look like you...
688
00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:06,160
Who knows?
689
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:12,200
(LAUGHS) The air-conditioning
got turned up a little bit.
690
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,000
(LAUGHS) This is...
691
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:16,360
(LAUGHS) What's happening?
692
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:19,800
So, Alessandra has set us
a challenge
693
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:23,080
and she's called it
the ultimate fantasy night.
694
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:26,320
I have organised something.
695
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:28,840
I will surprise you
with what that is.
696
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:30,000
It's my fantasy, not yours.
697
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:30,320
It's my fantasy, not yours.
698
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:32,160
I'm sure you've got your own.
699
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:34,120
You'd tell me about it?
Can you tell me about it?
700
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:36,280
Do I need to get dressed for it?
Do I...
701
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,520
I mean, I've got no leaves
to put here or anything like that,
702
00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:39,720
that's not happening. You know that.
703
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:40,840
I might've got a leaf.
704
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:44,040
(LAUGHTER)
705
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:46,160
I'm not walking around
serving you in a leaf, mate.
706
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:48,000
No chance. (LAUGHS)
707
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:50,720
Well, if that's what the task is,
you will.
708
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:59,000
Oh, I'll be out. (LAUGHS)
709
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:00,000
I'll make sure I have a cold shower.
710
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:01,000
I'll make sure I have a cold shower.
711
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:03,520
(LAUGHS)
712
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:08,600
So, if it's OK with you,
I'll get you to leave
713
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:10,360
because I need to set up.
714
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:13,080
You don't have to get anything?
You can go.
715
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:15,400
You need to really go.
I need to...
716
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:17,800
The door's that way.
717
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:20,440
See, I'm even confused.
718
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:21,680
You're confused.
The door's this way.
719
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:23,360
Let me show you to the door, Tony.
720
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:24,800
The door's this way
721
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:26,840
and the leaf might have just been
smaller now.
722
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:28,040
(LAUGHS)
723
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:30,000
Bye-bye. Bye.
724
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:30,640
Bye-bye. Bye.
725
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:31,800
Bye-bye.
726
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:36,640
(BLEEP) I'm sweating like crazy.
727
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:37,880
I haven't sweated like this
for a long time.
728
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:46,440
(GRAND SWEEPING MUSIC)
729
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:50,520
NARRATOR: The brides
are wholeheartedly embracing
730
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:53,640
Alessandra's ultimate
fantasy night task.
731
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:00,000
For Carina, it's an opportunity
to step outside of her comfort zone
732
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:04,040
For Carina, it's an opportunity
to step outside of her comfort zone
733
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:05,920
and try something empowering.
734
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:11,960
God damn, Jesus Christ.
735
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:13,400
(BLEEP) me.
736
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:15,240
(LAUGHS) Oh!
737
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:16,720
Wow.
738
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:20,560
Tonight is all about showing
my dominance
739
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,600
and really trying to take
the approach
740
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:24,840
of not being submissive
towards Paul.
741
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:27,080
I feel like this
is the most romantic
742
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:28,280
I've pretty much ever been.
743
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:30,000
I'm definitely out
of my comfort zone.
744
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:31,840
I'm definitely out
of my comfort zone.
745
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:34,040
That's a big one.
746
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:36,360
I might need to heat this up.
747
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:39,320
But I'm happy about it.
748
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:40,600
I'm comfortable
749
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:43,160
and I'm doing it with someone
that I really care about.
750
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:45,520
Honestly, it's a really
nice feeling.
751
00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:55,280
So, I actually read it.
It actually sounds like fun.
752
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:56,920
I don't know if you want
to read it.
753
00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:58,720
Adrian and I are going to play
a game.
754
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:00,000
Oh, that's cute.
755
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:00,320
Oh, that's cute.
756
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:03,000
They're really great things
to create intimacy.
757
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:06,560
We are setting up a date
where we meet out
758
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:09,240
and we're meeting as strangers
for the first time.
759
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:10,280
I mean, we are intimate.
760
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:11,600
We get physical.
761
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:14,400
But there's so - like, physical...
762
00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:17,760
There's sex and then there's sex.
763
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:21,520
I just haven't been as adventurous
with Adrian
764
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:23,400
as I would like to be.
765
00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:24,720
We've got an emotional gap
766
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:29,880
that's blocking me for being
completely comfortable with Adrian.
767
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:30,000
"Bend your partner over
and roll the dice.
768
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:32,240
"Bend your partner over
and roll the dice.
769
00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:34,640
"That is how many spanks
they will receive."
770
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:36,000
(LAUGHS)
771
00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:43,040
"Your partner gives you a foot job."
What the (BLEEP)?
772
00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:45,400
This has got a bit of foot fetish
in it.
773
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:47,160
You don't like feet?
(EXASPERATED GROAN)
774
00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:52,000
But yeah, we have fun.
775
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:54,160
I'm not touching your damn feet.
776
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:55,080
Why not?
777
00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:56,160
I'm not into feet.
778
00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:57,120
Don't care.
779
00:32:58,080 --> 00:32:59,680
Adrian!
780
00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:00,000
(FOOTSTEPS IN HIGH HEELS)
781
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:02,080
(FOOTSTEPS IN HIGH HEELS)
782
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:07,360
I bought a little something.
783
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:09,400
(JAZZY MUSIC)
(GIGGLES)
784
00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:11,600
OK. You guys gotta go!
785
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:14,920
Jesus! Holy shit!
(LAUGHS)
786
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:19,320
See you, guys! Pack up, boys!
787
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,400
(LAUGHS)
788
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:23,640
NARRATOR: As the brides'
ultimate fantasy night
789
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:25,720
gets under way with a bang...
790
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:28,320
Tony!
791
00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:30,000
Come in!
792
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:30,520
Come in!
793
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:33,640
..in Morena and Tony's apartment,
794
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:35,120
the sweaty groom
795
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:39,240
is about to learn exactly
what his wife has in store for him.
796
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:41,640
Well, I've chosen this task
as my fantasy
797
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:44,160
because we're not intimate.
798
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:47,040
You know, it's been so long
for me personally.
799
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:50,880
I am going to do what I want to do
for this challenge.
800
00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:55,640
If that makes Tony uncomfortable,
too bad.
801
00:33:56,520 --> 00:34:00,000
The ball is in my court
and it's my show.
802
00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:00,480
The ball is in my court
and it's my show.
803
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:03,440
He has to just play by the rules.
804
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:08,520
Tony!
805
00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:11,280
I have a leaf for you!
806
00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:17,520
(LAUGHS)
807
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:20,600
Hello!
(LAUGHS)
808
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:23,040
How are you?
(LAUGHS)
809
00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:25,120
Jesus Christ.
810
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:27,480
How are you?
811
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,400
(LAUGHS)
812
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:34,400
Hello.
813
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:37,440
(SULTRY MUSIC)
814
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:40,880
This is my little fantasy.
815
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:43,720
Did you ever watch
the movie, 'Titanic'?
816
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:45,480
Yeah.
817
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:48,160
Well, we're going to redo it.
818
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:49,280
'Titanic'?
819
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:51,160
Well, my version of it.
820
00:34:51,240 --> 00:34:53,720
OK.
I need you put your leaf on.
821
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:55,960
I'm not putting any leaf on.
822
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:57,800
You can't put a leaf on like that.
823
00:34:57,880 --> 00:34:59,880
Geez, you look nice though.
You look very beautiful.
824
00:34:59,960 --> 00:35:00,000
It's amazing.
I am...
825
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:01,160
It's amazing.
I am...
826
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:02,560
Tony, Tony.
827
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:03,760
You look amazing.
828
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:05,240
Let me give you at least a hug.
829
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:06,800
You do.
That's lovely. Thank you.
830
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:07,960
You look and you smell good.
831
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:08,920
Now, now...
832
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:10,840
No, let me get that leaf
out of your hands.
833
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:12,280
(LAUGHTER)
834
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:15,280
Alright, so, you shouldn't be
nervous, Tony.
835
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:22,800
Tony, all I want you to do
is paint me like you see me.
836
00:35:26,240 --> 00:35:28,760
He got a bit... flustered.
837
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:33,280
Tony, you're going to have
to drink slowly.
838
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:36,760
But feeling extremely
empowered.
839
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:38,640
So, Tony, all I need from you...
840
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:40,760
Tony.
841
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:43,000
I got this.
842
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:46,520
..is for you to paint.
843
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:48,720
That's for the brushes.
844
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:51,120
I'm already drunk
on that quarter of a glass.
845
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:52,720
The water is for the brushes.
846
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:56,840
Oh! I drank it. (LAUGHS)
That's OK, that's OK.
847
00:35:56,920 --> 00:35:58,800
Walking in and seeing her
sitting on the lounge
848
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:00,000
with her lingerie
and stuff like that and...
849
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:01,800
with her lingerie
and stuff like that and...
850
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:03,800
Hello?
851
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:06,200
She had something even nicer.
852
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:08,720
She had a canvas with some paint
and I kind of...
853
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:10,320
How cool is that?
854
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:12,080
How cool is that?
855
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:14,760
Oh, that's big strokes.
856
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:16,080
Excuse me?
857
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:18,560
(LAUGHTER)
858
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:23,920
So, whatever your eyes see
is what I want you to paint.
859
00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:26,080
But just so you know, Tony,
I've never done this.
860
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:28,640
That's OK. This is why it's cool
861
00:36:28,720 --> 00:36:30,000
because I've never done it.
But what - I had to think...
862
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:30,640
because I've never done it.
But what - I had to think...
863
00:36:30,720 --> 00:36:36,200
I had to think of a way to try
and build a connection with someone.
864
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:39,320
I mean, I could have lap-danced you.
865
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:45,200
Better than a lap dance, actually.
866
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:47,240
It was cool.
867
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:49,200
You know, there's other sides
to romance.
868
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:52,280
Like, you can do things,
as in stuff like this.
869
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:54,760
You can't make mistakes.
There's no rubbers.
870
00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:57,760
And as you said, you see
a different side of a person,
871
00:36:57,840 --> 00:36:59,640
she'll smile because she was happy,
I was happy.
872
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:00,000
Laughing. That's what it's about.
873
00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:01,000
Laughing. That's what it's about.
874
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:04,440
I let her down at the beginning.
875
00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:06,720
She wanted to find romance.
876
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:10,560
And I'm not used to that
sort of stuff. I've been distant.
877
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:13,560
Today, I just snapped out of it.
878
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:15,880
I was like, "Tony, man, wake up."
You know?
879
00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:19,600
Just have some fun,
make - let her have fun.
880
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:22,160
You can have fun together
and that's how I feel.
881
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:27,120
So, welcome to the 'Morena Lisa'.
882
00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:29,760
That's what you're seeing right now.
883
00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:31,840
Are you ready?
884
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:35,040
(LAUGHS)
885
00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:38,120
How's that?
886
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:40,800
(LAUGHS)
887
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:43,720
Your eyes are sad eyes
when I first met you
888
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:45,160
because of what you'd been
going through,
889
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:46,200
so I painted them.
890
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:50,080
Your smile is the Morena I meet
today and that's going on.
891
00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:54,080
So, I don't understand
my sad eyes.
892
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:57,600
That's 'cause you've got your past,
like things have happened,
893
00:37:57,640 --> 00:37:59,160
but also, I let you down.
894
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:01,320
Oh, OK.
And the smile
895
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:02,680
is where your coming back.
896
00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:07,400
And so, it's nice to see the
different side of Morena come out.
897
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:08,720
I've said some bad...
898
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:10,560
I've said some things
that are out of place.
899
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:15,640
That's OK, that's OK.
And I'm here to make you smile.
900
00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:21,280
He apologised in his own way.
901
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:23,480
That's huge.
902
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:26,160
What you did romantic-wise,
that's a ten out of ten.
903
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:28,000
That's lovely.
904
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:30,000
You know, that was really sweet.
905
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:30,320
You know, that was really sweet.
906
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:33,440
That's actually - thank you.
That's actually really lovely.
907
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:36,560
Tonight, we definitely enjoyed
each other's company.
908
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:38,920
We had a ball. He giggled,
he gave me a ten-out-of-ten.
909
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:43,080
All in all, he was really happy,
and so was I.
910
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:44,120
Thank you.
There you go.
911
00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:45,400
I really enjoyed that.
912
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:46,560
That's lovely. Tony...
That was cool.
913
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:48,880
That was fun. You did good.
914
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:58,880
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
915
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:05,560
(LAUGHS)
916
00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:08,160
Please don't put that on there.
917
00:39:08,240 --> 00:39:10,880
NARRATOR: With Intimacy Week
now well under way,
918
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:13,720
Alessandra's ultimate fantasy
night task
919
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:16,160
still has everyone on edge.
920
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:18,000
I'm not normally a clumsy person.
921
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:20,200
NARRATOR: So, bride, Rhi,
922
00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:23,640
has decided to take
a gentle approach to the task.
923
00:39:23,720 --> 00:39:25,960
From what I heard from that chat
with Alessandra
924
00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:29,680
and the brainstorming
of this task with the other girls,
925
00:39:29,720 --> 00:39:30,000
lord only knows what they are doing.
926
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:32,040
lord only knows what they are doing.
927
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:37,000
Yeah. Whips, chains... lingerie.
928
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:41,680
But I think my biggest takeaway
from the workshop with Alessandra
929
00:39:41,720 --> 00:39:43,160
is just a reminder
930
00:39:43,240 --> 00:39:45,400
that, like, intimacy
isn't just always about sex.
931
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:47,080
It's about so many other things.
932
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:50,160
So, I just kind of wanted to make
a fun memory
933
00:39:50,240 --> 00:39:51,960
of redoing our wedding dance
together.
934
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:56,280
But also, I used to take Jeff,
and when we dated,
935
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:58,960
we went to lots of Asian fusion
restaurants.
936
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:00,000
So, yeah, probably the most romantic
thing I can think of
937
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,360
So, yeah, probably the most romantic
thing I can think of
938
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:05,880
is a really nice, intimate,
like, candlelit dinner
939
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:08,560
and that's just so me
and so him, to be honest.
940
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:12,080
Oh, what?
(LAUGHS)
941
00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:14,040
Come in. (LAUGHS)
942
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:16,360
Here's something I prepared earlier.
943
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:19,840
Have a seat.
Oh!
944
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:22,000
How good?
945
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:24,360
We've got a Japanese feast
ahead of us.
946
00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:26,760
Oh! This is unreal!
947
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:29,120
Yeah.
You've done well.
948
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:30,000
Thank you.
949
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:30,320
Thank you.
950
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:31,640
It's just funny 'cause obviously
Japanese food,
951
00:40:31,720 --> 00:40:33,480
like, we both have that
as our favourite.
952
00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:35,720
Yeah.
Both love a red wine.
953
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:38,640
And yeah, like, I guess
how we show romance
954
00:40:38,720 --> 00:40:40,360
is pretty much the same, yeah.
Yeah.
955
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:41,760
I was a little bit...
956
00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:44,200
I was little bit worried, I didn't
know what I was walking into,
957
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:47,680
but her ultimate fantasy night
is basically the same as mine
958
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:50,040
and I guess that's why
we're so compatible
959
00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:52,240
and we get along so well
is we're very similar people.
960
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:54,400
The things that were running
through my head.
961
00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:55,480
(LAUGHS)
962
00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:57,840
You probably walked in here
and was like, "Oh, phew!"
963
00:40:57,920 --> 00:40:59,560
(LAUGHS)
"She's normal."
964
00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:00,000
I honestly thought
there was going to be, like,
965
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:01,720
I honestly thought
there was going to be, like,
966
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:04,880
something happening on the bed.
I wasn't sure what was going on.
967
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:09,080
Was it funny in the workshop today,
968
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:11,480
like, hearing everyone else's
different version of romance?
969
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:14,040
Yes. I feel like mine
is very vanilla.
970
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:15,800
(LAUGHS)
But I'm happy with that for now.
971
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:16,840
No, vanilla's good.
972
00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:18,320
If I was describing
my perfect night,
973
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:20,840
this would be basically it.
You've absolutely nailed it.
974
00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:26,080
I'm pretty happy with the pace
we're moving at at the moment.
975
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:27,680
Every day has been better
than the last.
976
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:30,000
I feel more comfortable,
like, holding Rhi's hand
977
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:30,080
I feel more comfortable,
like, holding Rhi's hand
978
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:32,560
or giving her a cuddle,
giving her a kiss,
979
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:34,040
but it's very slow
980
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:36,360
and I think that's the perfect
pace for us the moment.
981
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:38,960
So, there's one more thing.
Yeah?
982
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:40,560
So, remember when we did
our wedding dance,
983
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:41,800
we couldn't really do it properly.
984
00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:44,480
(LAUGHS) Yeah.
985
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:46,440
Because my dress was in the way...
Yes.
986
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:48,520
..it was really, like, like a robot.
Yep.
987
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:51,240
I was thinking we can put the song
on now
988
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:53,960
and just redo the wedding dance
just for a moment
989
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:55,000
in the lounge room.
990
00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:56,400
That's cute.
Is it?
991
00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:57,480
Yeah, I'll do that.
OK.
992
00:41:57,560 --> 00:41:58,960
Yeah.
Alright.
993
00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:00,000
I think at the start, obviously,
994
00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:00,200
I think at the start, obviously,
995
00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:04,080
just that big shock of walking down
the aisle to someone I knew
996
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:06,040
who I wasn't expecting,
997
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:08,480
yeah, I'm just really happy
we get to redo it again.
998
00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:11,280
Just because we are so comfortable
with each other now.
999
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:14,840
Shall we dance?
1000
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:16,480
(LAUGHS)
1001
00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:17,920
And that makes all the difference.
1002
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:21,840
I'm dead!
1003
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:23,880
(LAUGHTER)
1004
00:42:24,720 --> 00:42:26,000
(CHUCKLES)
We need the music.
1005
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:26,840
There we go.
1006
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:30,000
(LAUGHTER)
1007
00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:30,320
(LAUGHTER)
1008
00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:32,080
Here, do the spin.
Oh, you're doing the spin.
1009
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:33,440
Oh, you were supposed to spin.
1010
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:35,040
Ready, come back.
Spin the other way.
1011
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:36,800
Oh, that's (BLEEP).
1012
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:38,560
(LAUGHTER)
1013
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:41,800
The pace that we're going now
1014
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:43,720
and, like, what I'm feeling now,
1015
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:45,480
I could probably see myself
falling for Jeff.
1016
00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:46,400
I think so.
1017
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:49,840
Come back. Oh, yes!
1018
00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:51,800
(LAUGHS)
1019
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:53,480
I looked over at Jeff
1020
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:55,040
and he was looking at me
1021
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:56,560
and I could see like in his eyes,
1022
00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:58,840
he was looking at me, like, "Are you
good? Like, I hope you're OK."
1023
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:00,000
Like, it's almost like he's like,
"I've got you."
1024
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:00,840
Like, it's almost like he's like,
"I've got you."
1025
00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:03,240
I love that about him.
1026
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:07,360
What about a dip? Ready?
1027
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:09,440
We'll go that way.
Just don't drop me.
1028
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:10,600
Ready? Ready, set, go.
1029
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:14,720
(LAUGHTER)
1030
00:43:15,720 --> 00:43:17,280
I don't even know what I'm doing.
1031
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:19,360
(LAUGHTER)
1032
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:22,080
It's too funny.
That was nice.
1033
00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:23,160
That is nice.
Thank you.
1034
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:31,800
Mm-hm.
NARRATOR: Coming up...
1035
00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:34,720
At this point, I'm waiting for him
to complement me.
1036
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:37,040
NARRATOR: Alessandra's
ultimate fantasy night tasks...
1037
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:38,080
Snack.
1038
00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:40,040
(CHUCKLES)
I'm not a snack!
1039
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:42,200
..take a turn for the worse...
1040
00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:45,640
Can you do it nicer?
1041
00:43:45,720 --> 00:43:48,680
..as the grooms struggle
to deliver the experience
1042
00:43:48,720 --> 00:43:50,680
their wives were hoping for.
1043
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:52,600
Am I not doing it's nice?
Not really.
1044
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:55,080
(SIGHS) I don't know
if there is a spark.
1045
00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:03,600
(LIVELY MUSIC)
1046
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:07,520
NARRATOR: Having returned
from the adult toy store...
1047
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:09,760
I've had a busy day, babe.
I bet you have.
1048
00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:11,080
I've not had a busy day.
1049
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:15,720
..Sierah is yet to reveal her plans
for the night to husband, Billy.
1050
00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:17,400
(LAUGHS)
1051
00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:18,960
Do you know what I thought
was going to happen?
1052
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:20,120
I thought what was going to happen
1053
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:22,320
is I was going to see an octopus
with eight swinging dildos
1054
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:23,960
coming through the door.
(LAUGHS)
1055
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:25,760
That's actually a really good idea.
I wish I'd thought of that.
1056
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:28,120
I feel a bit awkward
about this task actually
1057
00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:30,000
because I'm not an instigator when
it comes to affection or sexuality.
1058
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:32,680
because I'm not an instigator when
it comes to affection or sexuality.
1059
00:44:32,720 --> 00:44:34,160
I'm very receptive of it,
1060
00:44:34,240 --> 00:44:36,960
but I would never kind of
be the one to start it.
1061
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:40,240
Go on then. What are we doing?
1062
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:41,400
No, we just had a...
1063
00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:43,640
(LAUGHTER)
1064
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:45,200
Be serious, Billy.
1065
00:44:45,240 --> 00:44:46,400
Well, I...
1066
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:48,080
I'm very attracted to him
1067
00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:49,960
and I hope he's very attracted
to me as well. He says he is,
1068
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:51,120
but he's not touching me.
1069
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:52,800
You need to do what you're told
tonight.
1070
00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:56,400
Yes, boss.
1071
00:44:56,480 --> 00:45:00,000
So, I need you to go to your room
like a naughty boy.
1072
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:01,040
So, I need you to go to your room
like a naughty boy.
1073
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:03,880
(LAUGHS)
1074
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:06,600
And then I'll call you back
when I'm ready.
1075
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:10,080
There's two rules.
1076
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:11,920
(LAUGHS)
1077
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:15,400
The first one, it's all about me.
1078
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:16,480
Right.
1079
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:18,880
The second one is you can't wear
clothes. (LAUGHS)
1080
00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:20,040
As in no clothes?
1081
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:22,320
Yeah, you can wear knickers, but...
Knickers?
1082
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:24,360
I don't want - I want to see
some skin.
1083
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:28,120
Right.
1084
00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:30,000
I don't know, I feel like I'm going
to be attacked
1085
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:30,200
I don't know, I feel like I'm going
to be attacked
1086
00:45:30,240 --> 00:45:32,600
by a very horny Sierah.
1087
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:37,560
Your eyes, they've got a twinkle
in them, and it's worrying.
1088
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:46,080
I hope this is a turning point
for Billy and I.
1089
00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:49,120
I would like to be there more
of a romantic sensual connection
1090
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:50,120
with Billy, obviously.
1091
00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:53,720
That's why I've done this tonight
and organised everything.
1092
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:56,440
I kind of want to massage Billy,
1093
00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:58,000
but I think in this case,
he should probably massage me
1094
00:45:58,080 --> 00:46:00,000
because he's not touching me
enough.
1095
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:00,400
because he's not touching me
enough.
1096
00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:03,680
But I hope it's sexy
and it's not weird
1097
00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:06,200
or we're, like, making funny jokes
to each other.
1098
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:08,800
Humour's my coping mechanism
1099
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:11,760
but yeah, we're in the friend zone
at the moment
1100
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:15,720
and if we don't kind of progress
from where we're at,
1101
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:16,920
this is all it's going to be
1102
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:18,720
and I think there is going to be
a point
1103
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:20,760
where you can't really move
beyond that
1104
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:23,040
if we don't kind of start making
progress.
1105
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:26,320
Billy!
1106
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:27,760
Yeah?
Come here.
1107
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:41,440
(LAUGHS)
1108
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:44,320
(BLEEP) hell!
1109
00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:45,920
(BLEEP)
1110
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:48,360
Who's covered up the fish?
1111
00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:50,600
Don't let the fish see this.
1112
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:51,800
(LAUGHS)
1113
00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:53,440
OK.
1114
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:55,160
Do you want me to squirt this
all over your back or something?
1115
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:56,080
Yeah, something like that.
1116
00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:57,080
(LAUGHS)
1117
00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:00,000
Don't! You'll get it in my hair!
(LAUGHS)
1118
00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:00,320
Don't! You'll get it in my hair!
(LAUGHS)
1119
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:01,600
Is that what you want me to do?
1120
00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:05,000
You've just ruined
a really nice moment!
1121
00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:07,840
Yeah, I was surprised.
Yeah, yeah, I was surprised.
1122
00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:13,320
I guess I didn't think she was going
to be facing the other direction
1123
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:14,320
with her arse out.
1124
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:17,840
Can you get on your knees
and do that a little bit nicely?
1125
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:19,240
On my knees?
Yeah.
1126
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:21,880
OK.
1127
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:23,560
That was kind of
what I wanted, yeah.
1128
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:27,640
Do it nice?
1129
00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:29,200
I am... Am I not doing it nice?
1130
00:47:30,080 --> 00:47:31,360
Not really.
Why am I not?
1131
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:32,760
You're just slapping it around.
1132
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:34,080
Well, what am I supposed
to do with it?
1133
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:35,440
Give me a massage!
1134
00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:36,400
What am I doing?
1135
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:40,080
I'm a bit more of a slow burner
in these kind of situations
1136
00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:43,320
and Sierah is quite full on.
1137
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:44,640
Harder.
1138
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:50,840
I'm attracted to Sierah but I don't
just want it to just be about sex.
1139
00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:52,120
I want it to be about everything.
1140
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:54,360
That's really nice.
Can you go a little bit harder?
1141
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:56,280
We've still got to remember,
1142
00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:59,000
let's keep this at a good pace
that works for both of us.
1143
00:48:01,120 --> 00:48:02,840
God, you complain a lot,
you know that?
1144
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:04,040
Do I? Sorry.
Yeah.
1145
00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:05,840
You could seem a little bit more
enthusiastic.
1146
00:48:06,440 --> 00:48:07,760
Oh, god.
1147
00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:09,520
I don't think Billy thought
that was sexy.
1148
00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:10,760
I thought he thought it was funny.
1149
00:48:11,840 --> 00:48:13,960
Can you do it nicer?
I am! I am being...
1150
00:48:14,520 --> 00:48:16,560
This is supposed to be sensual.
1151
00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:17,520
Yeah, it did it did kind of feel
1152
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:19,640
like Billy was rushing
through it quite a bit.
1153
00:48:19,720 --> 00:48:22,040
I don't know if it's 'cause he felt
uncomfortable
1154
00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:24,120
or it's 'cause he just didn't want
to do it.
1155
00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:26,600
(SIGHS) I don't know
if there is a spark.
1156
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:28,800
Like, I want there to be 'cause
I'm really attracted to him
1157
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:30,000
and I want it to progress further
and I like him.
1158
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:30,560
and I want it to progress further
and I like him.
1159
00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:33,200
But yeah, I don't know.
1160
00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:34,720
I don't know if we can get
to the point
1161
00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:36,880
where we're kind of serious
about this stuff.
1162
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:38,120
You are confused.
1163
00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:39,360
Yes, I am!
I can see that.
1164
00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:41,480
I wasn't expecting
to do any of this today.
1165
00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:42,920
I think he just missed the point.
1166
00:48:56,920 --> 00:48:58,280
Hey!
Hello!
1167
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:00,000
NARRATOR: Keen to get her ultimate
fantasy night started...
1168
00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:02,680
NARRATOR: Keen to get her ultimate
fantasy night started...
1169
00:49:02,720 --> 00:49:04,520
So, what should I start trying on?
1170
00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:05,840
(LAUGHTER)
1171
00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:08,400
..Jacqui has invited husband, Ryan,
1172
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:12,000
to a private shopping session
at a lingerie store.
1173
00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:13,120
What would you love to try on?
1174
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:15,200
What are you gravitating towards?
1175
00:49:15,240 --> 00:49:17,320
Ooh, Champagne?
1176
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:19,600
(CORK POPS)
1177
00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:21,680
I chose to come here
and go lingerie shopping
1178
00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:26,760
because I think from Ryan, I need
him to admire me a little bit more.
1179
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:28,120
Thank you.
1180
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:29,440
Alright.
1181
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:30,000
Now, we're getting in the mood, hey?
1182
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:31,440
Now, we're getting in the mood, hey?
1183
00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:36,320
In the past, Ryan's expressed
that I'm not his physical type
1184
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:39,720
and I really want him
to have a second chance
1185
00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:43,120
at making me feel like I'm really
beautiful and attractive to him.
1186
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:46,600
NARRATOR: During their recent
photo ranking task...
1187
00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:48,480
OK, I'll put you third.
1188
00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:51,920
..Ryan placed Jacqui equal third
on the line-up.
1189
00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:54,040
I was very honest.
1190
00:49:54,120 --> 00:49:57,080
I'm not here to hurt feelings
but I'm also not here to bullshit.
1191
00:49:57,160 --> 00:50:00,000
NARRATOR: A decision his wife
did not take lightly.
1192
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:00,800
NARRATOR: A decision his wife
did not take lightly.
1193
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:04,080
(CRIES)
1194
00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:09,280
We're toasting to, um,
you making me feel
1195
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:11,720
like the most beautiful girl
on the planet.
1196
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:13,080
OK.
Cheers.
1197
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:16,320
And also toasting to Intimacy Week.
1198
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:18,360
Yeah, time to get...
1199
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:19,840
Time to get intimate.
1200
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:21,520
Yeah.
1201
00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:26,720
Time to get down
and a little bit dirty.
1202
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:27,920
I don't know how dirty yet.
1203
00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:29,400
You know? Gonna need
a shovel maybe.
1204
00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:30,000
(LAUGHS)
1205
00:50:30,000 --> 00:50:30,600
(LAUGHS)
1206
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:34,840
Ooh, they've got the classiest
looking paddle I've ever seen.
1207
00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:37,200
I almost don't want to use it,
it's too nice.
1208
00:50:37,240 --> 00:50:38,920
"Use at your own risk."
1209
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:40,800
(MAKES WHIPPING SOUNDS)
1210
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:42,400
Oh, my lord!
1211
00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:48,240
That's like a weapon
of mass destruction right there.
1212
00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:49,560
Alright.
1213
00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:51,680
Hey, Jacqui?
1214
00:50:51,760 --> 00:50:52,880
Yeah?
How are we doing?
1215
00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:55,080
Coming!
1216
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:56,480
Drum roll.
1217
00:50:59,160 --> 00:51:00,000
Ooh!
1218
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:00,480
Ooh!
1219
00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:02,440
What do you think?
Shit!
1220
00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:04,960
Yeah?
1221
00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:06,080
(LAUGHS)
1222
00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:10,120
Mm-mm.
You like the red?
1223
00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:11,560
That's hot, eh?
Being red.
1224
00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:13,520
Just come over there
and put my hands around you.
1225
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:16,480
Lingerie shopping with Ryan is fun.
1226
00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:17,880
Is the air-con on in here or...
1227
00:51:18,720 --> 00:51:19,880
(EXHALES)
1228
00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:23,160
But like, he doesn't know
what to say.
1229
00:51:23,240 --> 00:51:27,200
He's, you know, outside
of his comfort zone, for sure.
1230
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:30,000
Hello! (LAUGHS)
Ooh!
1231
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:31,920
Hello! (LAUGHS)
Ooh!
1232
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:33,600
Shit!
What do you think?
1233
00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:35,360
Mmm! Yeah!
(LAUGHS)
1234
00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:38,680
I think Ryan struggles with words
on how to complement a woman.
1235
00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:40,880
Mm-mm.
1236
00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:44,680
So, at this point, I'm waiting
for him to complement me.
1237
00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:47,200
Oh!
1238
00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:49,960
What about me?
1239
00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:52,360
Yeah. Oh, you look great. (CHUCKLES)
1240
00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:55,600
Yummy. (LAUGHS)
1241
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:57,640
Mm-mm!
1242
00:51:57,720 --> 00:51:59,040
(LAUGHS)
Snack!
1243
00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:00,000
(CHUCKLES) Snack!
I'm not a snack!
1244
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:00,600
(CHUCKLES) Snack!
I'm not a snack!
1245
00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:02,240
No, I'm not a snack.
1246
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:03,400
That's a compliment.
1247
00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:05,760
I know it's a compliment. I know.
Yeah, yeah.
1248
00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:07,120
That's why I'm saying, "Yummy."
1249
00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:09,080
(BOTH CHUCKLE)
1250
00:52:09,160 --> 00:52:10,720
That's not what you're supposed
to call me.
1251
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:12,240
Yeah, yeah.
1252
00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:14,920
I think he needs
to increase his vocabulary.
1253
00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:16,400
Mmm!
1254
00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:20,280
He could maybe do some research
into some more words.
1255
00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:21,920
(LAUGHS) Yeah.
1256
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:24,000
Mmm.
1257
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:26,360
Yeah, wow.
1258
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:30,000
NARRATOR: Coming up...
1259
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:30,200
NARRATOR: Coming up...
1260
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:31,800
Today, I really wanted you
to tell me
1261
00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:34,480
that I am the most attractive
girl in the room.
1262
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:38,360
..Jacqui's mission for compliments
steps up a gear.
1263
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:41,240
Like, give you a second chance,
I guess, to tell me.
1264
00:52:41,320 --> 00:52:44,160
NARRATOR: But can Ryan deliver
the goods?
1265
00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:48,880
OK. No pressure, no pressure. Um...
1266
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:57,640
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1267
00:52:58,240 --> 00:52:59,880
RYAN: Yeah, Polaroid, baby!
1268
00:52:59,920 --> 00:53:00,000
Ready?
1269
00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:01,280
Ready?
1270
00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:03,480
(CAMERA CLICKS AND WHIRS)
1271
00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:04,520
Uh-oh.
1272
00:53:04,560 --> 00:53:06,080
NARRATOR: Following Ryan's inability
1273
00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:08,600
to deliver compliments
in the lingerie store...
1274
00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:10,480
(LAUGHS)
1275
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:13,360
..Jacqui has suggested
a sexy photo shoot...
1276
00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:17,000
..as an opportunity
for him to try again.
1277
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:18,520
Yes, yes!
1278
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:22,960
My ultimate fantasy
is for my husband to want me,
1279
00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:25,360
like, I want to feel wanted,
1280
00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:26,680
and I'm trying to help him.
1281
00:53:26,760 --> 00:53:29,200
Like, and appreciate
that he's got a lot to learn.
1282
00:53:29,240 --> 00:53:30,000
So, this is about intimacy.
1283
00:53:30,000 --> 00:53:30,920
So, this is about intimacy.
1284
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:33,280
But not about sex.
1285
00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:37,440
I really want him
to have a second chance
1286
00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:39,680
at making me feel
like I'm really beautiful
1287
00:53:39,720 --> 00:53:41,000
and attractive to him.
1288
00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:45,560
For me, it's EXTREMELY important
that no matter...
1289
00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:46,960
Extremely!
Extremely!
1290
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:49,360
No matter whether or not it's true
1291
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:51,840
that I am the most attractive girl
in the room,
1292
00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:53,840
that my partner at least
makes me feel
1293
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:55,960
like I am the most attractive girl
in the room.
1294
00:53:58,240 --> 00:54:00,000
So, like, today, I really wanted
that from you,
1295
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:01,120
So, like, today, I really wanted
that from you,
1296
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:03,480
is for you to tell me that...
1297
00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:05,360
Like, give you a second chance,
I guess, to tell me...
1298
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:06,840
Second chance.
Second chance.
1299
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:14,280
OK. No pressure, no pressure. Um...
1300
00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:17,880
How can I do that?
1301
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:20,240
With your words.
1302
00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:24,520
So, you can find things
to complement me on.
1303
00:54:24,600 --> 00:54:27,600
So, you can say,
"You've got very nice hair."
1304
00:54:27,680 --> 00:54:29,240
OK, yeah.
Like, I - I don't -
1305
00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:30,000
I'm not short of things
to complement you on.
1306
00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:31,240
I'm not short of things
to complement you on.
1307
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:33,720
You've got massive biceps,
huge pecs,
1308
00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:35,720
your eyes are gorgeous.
1309
00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:37,440
You know, like, I can say
all of that stuff
1310
00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:39,120
and actually genuinely mean it.
Definitely.
1311
00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:41,960
Yeah, I love your long hair.
1312
00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:46,320
Um... You go running
all the time and...
1313
00:54:47,240 --> 00:54:48,640
Yeah.
Yeah?
1314
00:54:48,720 --> 00:54:50,080
You do so much to take care
of yourself too.
1315
00:54:50,160 --> 00:54:52,440
You really look after your body
and...
1316
00:54:54,680 --> 00:54:55,880
I think...
1317
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:58,080
I think, yeah, it's really,
really attractive
1318
00:54:58,120 --> 00:54:59,120
that you value your health.
1319
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:03,080
Really attractive.
1320
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:07,200
That was shit.
1321
00:55:07,240 --> 00:55:08,720
Like, Ryan's pretty clueless.
1322
00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:11,400
Like, he's 30 - how old?
1323
00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:16,800
36 and he doesn't know how to make
a woman feel good.
1324
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:19,560
It's... Like it's no wonder
he's single.
1325
00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:24,880
I need from you to tell me
or make me feel
1326
00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:26,720
like I am wanted by you...
1327
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:28,480
Yeah.
..and that you do care about me,
1328
00:55:28,520 --> 00:55:30,000
you do want to be with me.
1329
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:30,040
you do want to be with me.
1330
00:55:30,120 --> 00:55:34,240
I'm pretty sure he still doesn't
think that I'm his type.
1331
00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:36,880
We did the challenge
of physical attraction
1332
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:38,600
and he put me, like,
third on the line.
1333
00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:43,080
Like, yeah. I don't feel
desired at all.
1334
00:55:44,400 --> 00:55:48,000
The feedback I'm delivering
is out of a place of wanting,
1335
00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:50,200
like, of the needs I need.
1336
00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:53,840
When I say something,
it's because I'm -
1337
00:55:53,920 --> 00:55:55,800
I want to have a conversation
about it, right?
1338
00:55:55,880 --> 00:55:58,920
So, like, today, I'm not, like,
I could've just hold my grudge
1339
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:00,000
about the fact that you put me
third on the line-up
1340
00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:02,040
about the fact that you put me
third on the line-up
1341
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:05,640
and just been so mad about it for
the rest of our experience together.
1342
00:56:05,680 --> 00:56:06,880
I could've been equally as mad...
1343
00:56:06,960 --> 00:56:10,080
Or I could've brought it up
and said, "Hey, look, Ryan,
1344
00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:11,880
"I am upset about this.
1345
00:56:11,920 --> 00:56:14,240
"I'm struggling to get over it."
1346
00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:16,600
The whole line-up challenge to me
1347
00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:19,240
was just kept purely
in the physical realm.
1348
00:56:20,320 --> 00:56:23,840
It was basically a personal view
of everyone's aesthetics
1349
00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:25,080
across the board, right?
1350
00:56:25,840 --> 00:56:27,920
So, there was nothing malicious
in it, there was no...
1351
00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:30,000
I get it, Ryan, but what I'm saying
is that, like...
1352
00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:30,120
I get it, Ryan, but what I'm saying
is that, like...
1353
00:56:30,160 --> 00:56:31,640
I delivered the truth.
1354
00:56:31,720 --> 00:56:33,440
Yeah, like was it...
Don't... Just don't...
1355
00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:34,560
Just listen, OK?
1356
00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:39,960
The wrong way of doing the task,
in my view, is to sugar-coat it.
1357
00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:43,720
The experts on that bit of paper,
said, be honest,
1358
00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:46,000
don't be disingenuous, you know?
1359
00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:47,040
And I followed the instructions.
1360
00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:51,120
And meanwhile, she did it
more of a gesture.
1361
00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:55,000
Obviously, it's a little bit
of a sticking point.
1362
00:56:55,080 --> 00:56:58,240
I'm just telling you
that I was 100% real through it...
1363
00:56:58,320 --> 00:57:00,000
Yeah.
..and you took a different path.
1364
00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:00,520
Yeah.
..and you took a different path.
1365
00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:05,480
I think we're just on two different
maturity levels in some ways.
1366
00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:08,160
I would like more compliments.
1367
00:57:11,240 --> 00:57:13,520
For me, the man that I am,
I've done a lot of work
1368
00:57:13,600 --> 00:57:17,160
and I will compromise
when it helps us as a team.
1369
00:57:17,240 --> 00:57:18,800
However, when it comes
to my values,
1370
00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:21,880
when it comes to expressing myself,
not gonna happen.
1371
00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:24,360
Today's challenge is for you
to make me feel
1372
00:57:24,440 --> 00:57:26,280
like the most beautiful girl
in the group.
1373
00:57:26,320 --> 00:57:27,560
Or - and the world.
1374
00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:28,480
Go on.
1375
00:57:29,240 --> 00:57:30,000
We are - OK. Well...
1376
00:57:30,000 --> 00:57:30,520
We are - OK. Well...
1377
00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:32,680
It's a challenge! Come on!
No, I...
1378
00:57:32,760 --> 00:57:34,480
No, I know that, but we're
kind of getting off topic
1379
00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:36,040
because you keep coming back
to that.
1380
00:57:36,120 --> 00:57:37,840
You keep talking about
the other brides in that challenge.
1381
00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:39,760
It's the point of the challenge!
1382
00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:41,840
If your wife doesn't look good
for the date,
1383
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:43,880
you don't tell her
she doesn't look good.
1384
00:57:43,920 --> 00:57:45,600
You've got to sugar-coat things.
1385
00:57:45,680 --> 00:57:48,440
That's what - that's called
kindness.
1386
00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:50,160
I'm talking about the challenge
in particular
1387
00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:51,360
because you keep
coming back to that.
1388
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:53,560
So, why don't we just
address it now?
1389
00:57:53,600 --> 00:57:54,720
And calmly as well.
1390
00:57:57,680 --> 00:58:00,000
We're not arguing, we're discussing
it maturely as two adults.
1391
00:58:00,000 --> 00:58:00,680
We're not arguing, we're discussing
it maturely as two adults.
1392
00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:02,960
Yeah.
Can you do that?
1393
00:58:03,000 --> 00:58:04,280
Yeah.
1394
00:58:04,360 --> 00:58:06,040
Can you?
Yes.
1395
00:58:06,120 --> 00:58:07,800
OK, good, good.
I'm trying to with you.
1396
00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:09,960
When she started talking
about the line-up again
1397
00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:12,600
and she's like, "This is your
opportunity to fix your mistake."
1398
00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:15,960
Come on. Come on, that's...
1399
00:58:16,040 --> 00:58:17,600
That's an ultimatum,
that's a demand.
1400
00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:19,280
I don't respond to those.
1401
00:58:24,080 --> 00:58:26,720
(TENSE SOUNDTRACK)
1402
00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:29,800
I'm someone who's very organic.
1403
00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:30,000
I need to feel
like it's happening naturally.
1404
00:58:30,000 --> 00:58:32,120
I need to feel
like it's happening naturally.
1405
00:58:32,160 --> 00:58:34,800
I don't force anything, OK?
1406
00:58:34,840 --> 00:58:36,640
So, you giving me ultimatums
1407
00:58:36,720 --> 00:58:38,440
and forcing me into saying
this and that.
1408
00:58:38,480 --> 00:58:39,800
I'm not forcing you into anything.
1409
00:58:39,880 --> 00:58:42,800
I'm just telling you what I need
to be a happy wife.
1410
00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:44,480
Mm-hm.
1411
00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:45,920
Happy wife, happy life.
1412
00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:46,800
I hate that saying.
1413
00:58:49,320 --> 00:58:52,040
I don't need compliments
in order to feel happy.
1414
00:58:53,160 --> 00:58:54,920
OK? Because I've done a lot
of work on myself.
1415
00:58:54,960 --> 00:58:56,080
That's great, that's for you.
1416
00:58:56,120 --> 00:58:57,080
For me, I do.
1417
00:58:57,160 --> 00:58:59,920
I know, but for me,
intimacy is a two-way street,
1418
00:59:00,000 --> 00:59:01,960
so I need to feel
listened to as well.
1419
00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:03,280
And you will have your opportunity.
1420
00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:06,920
I think with every - I think
all the time is an opportunity.
1421
00:59:07,000 --> 00:59:08,440
This is an opportunity for me
to say...
1422
00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:09,520
We're relating to each other.
1423
00:59:12,360 --> 00:59:14,760
Tonight was supposed to be
a night for me.
1424
00:59:14,840 --> 00:59:19,120
I tried my hardest to set up
exactly what I needed from Ryan.
1425
00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:21,480
I made it so obvious,
I even told him.
1426
00:59:22,200 --> 00:59:23,960
Like, I don't know
what else I can do.
1427
00:59:24,040 --> 00:59:27,400
I (BLEEP) showed up,
put lingerie on.
1428
00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:28,720
I sat him on the couch and I said,
1429
00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:30,000
"Hey, look, like,
this is how I'm feeling.
1430
00:59:30,000 --> 00:59:30,520
"Hey, look, like,
this is how I'm feeling.
1431
00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:33,720
"All I need to do - I know
it's not true, it's a white lie.
1432
00:59:33,760 --> 00:59:35,400
"Just say it."
1433
00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:36,920
This is not a conversation
about you.
1434
00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:38,880
This is a conversation
about my needs.
1435
00:59:38,960 --> 00:59:41,000
Yeah, but just maybe use
another example
1436
00:59:41,080 --> 00:59:43,080
rather than physical appearance
if you can.
1437
00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:50,200
OK, so I am offended that you don't
make me feel beautiful.
1438
00:59:51,920 --> 00:59:55,600
OK, so is that just today
or overall?
1439
00:59:55,680 --> 00:59:59,080
'Cause remember, you haven't put
any of your standards aside.
1440
01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:02,480
I am interested in balance...
1441
01:00:03,600 --> 01:00:05,080
..and you haven't been with a man
like me before
1442
01:00:05,120 --> 01:00:07,000
and it's really challenging you.
1443
01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:09,560
OK? But I'm not going to change.
1444
01:00:09,640 --> 01:00:12,040
I didn't come here to compromise
my character.
1445
01:00:12,120 --> 01:00:14,120
Well, I did come here to compromise
and I am compromising.
1446
01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:17,040
I came here to learn
and be a better man through it all.
1447
01:00:18,800 --> 01:00:20,320
You're asking me to take back
something I did.
1448
01:00:20,400 --> 01:00:21,600
I'm not asking you
to take that back.
1449
01:00:21,680 --> 01:00:23,360
I'm just saying, this was your
opportunity...
1450
01:00:23,440 --> 01:00:27,440
I want you to never ever bring
the line-up up again
1451
01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:29,440
if that's the way you're going
to approach it, alright?
1452
01:00:29,480 --> 01:00:30,000
I'm not bringing up the past.
1453
01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:30,760
I'm not bringing up the past.
1454
01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:32,760
I am giving you
a present opportunity.
1455
01:00:34,680 --> 01:00:36,840
How hard is it to just be like,
1456
01:00:36,920 --> 01:00:39,760
"Hey, I made a mistake.
You're (BLEEP) gorgeous."
1457
01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:40,760
Like...
1458
01:00:44,040 --> 01:00:45,240
NARRATOR: Tomorrow night...
1459
01:00:45,280 --> 01:00:47,120
Welcome!
1460
01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:49,840
NARRATOR: It's the husbands' turn
to open up to Alessandra.
1461
01:00:50,840 --> 01:00:53,240
Do you feel it brought you guys
together?
1462
01:00:53,280 --> 01:00:54,880
The painting, that really felt nice
1463
01:00:54,960 --> 01:00:56,720
to just have that connection
with her there.
1464
01:00:56,800 --> 01:00:58,840
It was one of the best things
I've ever done.
1465
01:00:58,880 --> 01:01:00,000
Mmm!
1466
01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:00,080
Mmm!
1467
01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:00,920
NARRATOR: And then...
1468
01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:03,000
I was going to say, like,
that's...
1469
01:01:03,040 --> 01:01:04,040
What?
1470
01:01:04,080 --> 01:01:05,320
..Ryan's...
1471
01:01:05,360 --> 01:01:07,720
Absolutely, like, (BLEEP).
1472
01:01:07,760 --> 01:01:09,000
..unfiltered...
1473
01:01:09,040 --> 01:01:10,680
(CHUCKLES)
1474
01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:11,600
..comments...
1475
01:01:11,680 --> 01:01:13,640
And you know what?
It was like (BLEEP).
1476
01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:15,760
(GASPS)
..sending shockwaves
1477
01:01:15,800 --> 01:01:17,360
through the experiment.
1478
01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:18,240
Stop!
1479
01:01:18,280 --> 01:01:19,680
What's wrong with some people?
1480
01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:20,960
I'm just gobsmacked
1481
01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:22,760
hearing that type of comment.
1482
01:01:22,840 --> 01:01:25,800
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