1 00:00:16,182 --> 00:00:17,517 I like pickleball. 2 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:18,518 Really? 3 00:00:22,939 --> 00:00:24,482 What do you say about that, baby? 4 00:00:36,202 --> 00:00:38,038 Guess what the mud does? 5 00:00:38,121 --> 00:00:40,540 I don't know. I've never been muddled before. 6 00:00:40,623 --> 00:00:42,125 what are you doing 7 00:00:42,208 --> 00:00:44,294 This comes in the face. You are Simba. 8 00:00:44,377 --> 00:00:45,962 Ridiculous. 9 00:00:46,046 --> 00:00:47,464 Lower body. 10 00:00:47,547 --> 00:00:51,051 Are you satisfied? -As happy as you can be in the mud. 11 00:00:57,557 --> 00:00:59,851 Do you want me to bring some spices from home? 12 00:00:59,934 --> 00:01:01,936 I can't think of spices now. 13 00:01:02,979 --> 00:01:05,565 I can only talk about gym stuff now. 14 00:01:05,648 --> 00:01:08,401 Are you thinking about spices during the holidays? 15 00:01:08,485 --> 00:01:10,653 I think about everything when I train. 16 00:01:10,737 --> 00:01:11,988 Of course. 17 00:01:12,489 --> 00:01:16,201 IS LOVE BLIND? 18 00:01:16,785 --> 00:01:18,453 19 DAYS UNTIL THE WEDDING 19 00:01:20,789 --> 00:01:22,373 I'm excited! 20 00:01:22,457 --> 00:01:25,668 Let's see what Chibi does. Are you ready? Clear. 21 00:01:25,752 --> 00:01:29,047 It's nice and bright. 22 00:01:29,130 --> 00:01:30,298 It has Chibi. 23 00:01:30,381 --> 00:01:32,801 Hello, little one. 24 00:01:32,884 --> 00:01:34,260 Oh that! - Do you see? 25 00:01:34,344 --> 00:01:35,345 Cold pool. 26 00:01:35,929 --> 00:01:37,847 So. Let's do it right away. 27 00:01:37,931 --> 00:01:40,350 Absolutely not. I said I would. 28 00:01:40,433 --> 00:01:42,143 I didn't say when. -So. 29 00:01:42,227 --> 00:01:43,853 It's nice here. 30 00:01:43,937 --> 00:01:46,272 Crazy that you're here. -So. 31 00:01:46,356 --> 00:01:49,400 I want to see your room too. -So. Exciting. 32 00:01:49,484 --> 00:01:52,737 There aren't four sausages here. 33 00:01:52,821 --> 00:01:56,533 Logistically, it would make more sense for me to… 34 00:01:57,117 --> 00:01:59,786 That's what I want. - I have enough space. 35 00:01:59,869 --> 00:02:03,123 You promised to try an ice bath. - I promise. 36 00:02:03,206 --> 00:02:04,999 Yeah. -I just don't know when. 37 00:02:05,083 --> 00:02:07,127 Maybe in five years. -Clear. 38 00:02:07,210 --> 00:02:10,004 I'll put it on the calendar and I set the alarm. 39 00:02:11,464 --> 00:02:13,758 Then I plead my age. 40 00:02:13,842 --> 00:02:16,177 Phooey. I told about my mother. 41 00:02:17,011 --> 00:02:18,012 I forgot. 42 00:02:18,096 --> 00:02:20,265 He winced and stormed out. 43 00:02:20,348 --> 00:02:23,601 My dad sent the video. I was that "good time". 44 00:02:24,102 --> 00:02:28,106 My parents asked your age. "Does she want children?" I answered no. 45 00:02:28,189 --> 00:02:30,984 Did it hurt them? -None. They know me. 46 00:02:31,067 --> 00:02:33,862 Good. That made me feel good. -Yeah. 47 00:02:33,945 --> 00:02:37,490 I was afraid that your family… -No. It was good for them. 48 00:02:37,574 --> 00:02:40,577 If they wanted children for their son. 49 00:02:40,660 --> 00:02:42,328 Do you know? -Yeah. 50 00:02:42,412 --> 00:02:44,873 I liked that as well. 51 00:02:44,956 --> 00:02:47,167 You said you don't want kids. -So. 52 00:02:47,250 --> 00:02:50,962 I'm fine, if I never have children. 53 00:02:51,045 --> 00:02:54,841 But if I were with a human, who really wants children, 54 00:02:54,924 --> 00:03:00,638 I wouldn't be against it at all. But that's not in my near future. 55 00:03:00,722 --> 00:03:04,017 I love you so much. I know you would be a wonderful father. 56 00:03:04,100 --> 00:03:07,520 If somewhere we want it... 57 00:03:07,604 --> 00:03:08,521 Yes. 58 00:03:08,605 --> 00:03:11,441 I wouldn't ditch it right away. 59 00:03:11,524 --> 00:03:15,445 But I don't see it for us. 60 00:03:15,528 --> 00:03:17,822 So. I don't either... - I'm excited. 61 00:03:17,906 --> 00:03:21,868 I repeat this. But it's lovely to take you to my home. 62 00:03:21,951 --> 00:03:25,330 It's one of the best things. -See you there. 63 00:03:31,044 --> 00:03:35,173 Chris has a wonderful home. The location is amazing. 64 00:03:35,256 --> 00:03:37,800 But we have three animals. 65 00:03:37,884 --> 00:03:40,595 It makes more sense for us to live at my place. 66 00:03:40,678 --> 00:03:42,805 Are you ready? -I am. 67 00:03:43,389 --> 00:03:45,183 I wiped my feet first. 68 00:03:45,266 --> 00:03:47,435 Capp. -This is a bit… 69 00:03:48,228 --> 00:03:50,647 It doesn't smell too dog-like in here, does it? 70 00:03:52,106 --> 00:03:54,943 It doesn't smell like a dog in here. 71 00:03:55,026 --> 00:03:57,695 I created the life of my dreams alone. 72 00:03:57,779 --> 00:04:01,241 I thought if I found someone lovely… 73 00:04:01,324 --> 00:04:05,286 I felt calm, when I entered here with my fiance. 74 00:04:05,370 --> 00:04:07,080 Heaven's tallow candles. 75 00:04:07,163 --> 00:04:08,581 Isn't it funny? 76 00:04:08,665 --> 00:04:11,292 There is. Here you don't know what time of day is it 77 00:04:11,376 --> 00:04:12,794 That's the goal. -Yeah. 78 00:04:12,877 --> 00:04:15,296 Cool room and heating pad. -So. 79 00:04:15,380 --> 00:04:20,385 Here comes the door, because that will be my closet. 80 00:04:20,468 --> 00:04:22,595 This would be the wardrobe. - Perfect. 81 00:04:22,679 --> 00:04:24,305 This closet is yours. 82 00:04:24,389 --> 00:04:25,390 HONEYMOON 83 00:04:25,473 --> 00:04:27,517 Good hat. -Yes. 84 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:30,270 I meant to bring it up. -Really? 85 00:04:32,105 --> 00:04:35,733 This room is crazy. - Jeez. You have a lot of clothes. 86 00:04:35,817 --> 00:04:38,653 There are some wild dresses here. -Yeah. 87 00:04:40,947 --> 00:04:42,365 This is pretty nice. 88 00:04:42,865 --> 00:04:45,118 The round is over. Did you like it? 89 00:04:45,201 --> 00:04:48,288 Look the part. You didn't lie. - Did you expect this? 90 00:04:48,371 --> 00:04:51,833 Yeah… There's a lot of gold here. 91 00:04:51,916 --> 00:04:53,668 You told me about it. - Gold. 92 00:04:53,751 --> 00:04:55,795 Lots of snakes. -Yes. 93 00:04:58,047 --> 00:05:00,133 Bedroom. -It's like a cave. 94 00:05:00,216 --> 00:05:01,426 Yes. - That's wonderful. 95 00:05:01,509 --> 00:05:05,221 Forest cave with heating pads. 96 00:05:06,806 --> 00:05:08,725 There are many of them. - It's fun. 97 00:05:08,808 --> 00:05:11,853 This feels nice. -So. 98 00:05:11,936 --> 00:05:14,522 If your back and neck muscles feel better... 99 00:05:14,605 --> 00:05:16,983 It feels like a granny thing, but no matter. 100 00:05:17,066 --> 00:05:18,776 Is it a granny thing? 101 00:05:20,069 --> 00:05:26,492 Many, I don't want to say "young", but how many non-old ones do you know, 102 00:05:26,576 --> 00:05:28,870 who uses a heating pad daily? 103 00:05:30,038 --> 00:05:31,080 One. 104 00:05:31,164 --> 00:05:33,416 Namely. -Yeah. 105 00:05:33,499 --> 00:05:36,502 Can you see us living here? 106 00:05:36,586 --> 00:05:42,300 It's quite different to be in the suburbs. 107 00:05:42,383 --> 00:05:44,927 That's all. -It's really different, but... 108 00:05:45,011 --> 00:05:48,973 It feels like it is at least in Columbus close to everything. 109 00:05:49,057 --> 00:05:50,058 That's true. 110 00:05:50,141 --> 00:05:54,729 And it doesn't matter, but… -It has it in terms of lifestyle. 111 00:05:54,812 --> 00:05:57,065 That's a big change too. -Absolutely. 112 00:05:57,148 --> 00:05:59,025 Your lifestyle will change. -So. 113 00:05:59,108 --> 00:06:03,988 You can walk everywhere. I must have a car. 114 00:06:04,072 --> 00:06:06,491 It's nice to be close to everything. 115 00:06:06,574 --> 00:06:10,453 It's probably 12 minutes for you. - I know. It's not a big deal. 116 00:06:10,536 --> 00:06:15,541 I think about it the most, that my parents organize all the parties. 117 00:06:15,625 --> 00:06:19,545 Above all, I wanted enough space. 118 00:06:19,629 --> 00:06:24,509 If I want to organize Christmas for our family, everyone can stay the night. 119 00:06:24,592 --> 00:06:28,179 I wanted three bedrooms. There happened to be four here. 120 00:06:28,262 --> 00:06:31,432 It's wonderful to be quiet and at peace sometimes. 121 00:06:32,016 --> 00:06:35,144 Great to have you here. - I'm comfortable here. Nice home. 122 00:06:35,228 --> 00:06:38,898 some people said that nothing would come of this. 123 00:06:38,981 --> 00:06:41,317 So. -It's literally… 124 00:06:41,401 --> 00:06:43,945 I use an analogy… 125 00:06:44,028 --> 00:06:47,573 Any workout requires a lot of work. 126 00:06:47,657 --> 00:06:51,744 Now I can say that if we were met 7-8 years ago… 127 00:06:52,245 --> 00:06:53,830 It wouldn't be… 128 00:06:53,913 --> 00:06:56,582 Maybe six years from now, we wouldn't work. 129 00:06:56,666 --> 00:07:00,628 Right. Even a year ago I thought, do i ever want to remarry. 130 00:07:00,711 --> 00:07:04,006 I remember when you talked about it. -I didn't want a serious relationship. 131 00:07:04,090 --> 00:07:09,137 It's absurd how many things both had to fall apart in their lives, 132 00:07:09,220 --> 00:07:10,930 for this to happen. 133 00:07:11,013 --> 00:07:13,599 I am grateful for what we have. 134 00:07:13,683 --> 00:07:16,018 I probably say the same thing to you every day. 135 00:07:16,102 --> 00:07:17,270 I know. -So... 136 00:07:17,353 --> 00:07:18,312 Thank you. 137 00:07:18,396 --> 00:07:19,480 Thanks to you. 138 00:07:19,981 --> 00:07:21,315 You are loved. -Likewise. 139 00:07:42,420 --> 00:07:43,713 Are you talking on the phone? 140 00:07:43,796 --> 00:07:45,339 No, it's… 141 00:07:45,423 --> 00:07:47,550 It goes like this, 142 00:07:47,633 --> 00:07:53,806 that once a quarter the head of the Fed Jerome Powell commented. 143 00:07:53,890 --> 00:07:56,976 It causes ripples in the market where I trade. 144 00:07:57,059 --> 00:08:00,354 How do you know about the meeting? -I check all the time. 145 00:08:00,438 --> 00:08:02,815 Are you getting a Facebook invite? - There are calendars. 146 00:08:02,899 --> 00:08:04,442 This is my job now. 147 00:08:04,525 --> 00:08:07,528 I listen with half an ear, because I can tell. 148 00:08:07,612 --> 00:08:10,156 I'm meeting my boss tomorrow. 149 00:08:10,239 --> 00:08:13,576 He knows very well that I want to advance in the company. 150 00:08:13,659 --> 00:08:17,205 When would you leave Cleveland? -It depends on the answer. 151 00:08:17,288 --> 00:08:23,878 I have openly told that I am a nomad. I'm afraid I'll end up in Cleveland. 152 00:08:23,961 --> 00:08:26,380 I know. -I'll make sure you understand. 153 00:08:26,464 --> 00:08:30,426 I don't want you to go to Cleveland. I said I like it warm. 154 00:08:30,510 --> 00:08:32,553 Yeah. - I want somewhere warm. 155 00:08:32,637 --> 00:08:37,642 I got a soccer coach, who today sends a contract… 156 00:08:37,725 --> 00:08:39,644 Okay. -…to explore Florida. 157 00:08:39,727 --> 00:08:41,771 I have no ties to Florida. 158 00:08:41,854 --> 00:08:44,190 And not in Arizona, but i like arizona. 159 00:08:44,273 --> 00:08:46,275 I am persuasive. 160 00:08:46,359 --> 00:08:48,694 Arizona hasn't been ruled out just yet. 161 00:08:48,778 --> 00:08:52,323 I can do football work there too and financial services. 162 00:08:52,406 --> 00:08:56,285 Florida is already offered soccer work. 163 00:08:56,369 --> 00:09:00,289 It answers politically both opinions. 164 00:09:00,373 --> 00:09:01,582 Nice weather and golf. 165 00:09:01,666 --> 00:09:05,044 It seems there is good schools for children. 166 00:09:05,127 --> 00:09:07,672 It seems to meet all my requirements. 167 00:09:07,755 --> 00:09:08,839 What do you think? 168 00:09:08,923 --> 00:09:11,801 I don't know what else to say. 169 00:09:12,385 --> 00:09:14,470 I'll talk to my boss tomorrow. 170 00:09:14,554 --> 00:09:18,057 We just got back. I'm still trying to catch up. 171 00:09:18,140 --> 00:09:20,268 And I got a job in that time. 172 00:09:20,351 --> 00:09:22,395 That's what I mean. -Clear. 173 00:09:22,478 --> 00:09:25,481 I will contact you and do it quickly. 174 00:09:25,565 --> 00:09:30,152 Now I'm just afraid for my part, that the move will not succeed. 175 00:09:30,236 --> 00:09:34,156 If you can't even do that. 176 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:38,202 I also like to plan, but I'm really flexible. 177 00:09:38,786 --> 00:09:40,413 And I'm not entirely sure… 178 00:09:40,496 --> 00:09:43,624 I'm worried that you are not capable of the same flexibility. 179 00:09:43,708 --> 00:09:46,335 Can we come back to this tomorrow? -Of course. 180 00:09:46,419 --> 00:09:51,007 You say a lot with your eyes, what you don't say out loud. 181 00:09:51,090 --> 00:09:52,383 I'm just listening. 182 00:09:52,466 --> 00:09:55,219 I asked what you think. - I'm listening. 183 00:09:55,303 --> 00:09:57,263 I said what I can say now. 184 00:09:57,346 --> 00:10:00,641 I ask my boss about different possibilities. 185 00:10:00,725 --> 00:10:04,020 Maybe there is a place in those states… 186 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:06,355 It depends on what's open. 187 00:10:06,439 --> 00:10:08,816 Absolutely. It makes sense. 188 00:10:08,899 --> 00:10:13,195 Do you also feel that I spoke openly about my nomadism? 189 00:10:13,279 --> 00:10:15,072 Yeah. - I just wanted to make sure. 190 00:10:15,156 --> 00:10:18,659 I wanted to talk about another thing. 191 00:10:19,493 --> 00:10:25,541 If I put things neatly in the fridge, and they are being moved, I feel… 192 00:10:25,625 --> 00:10:27,877 Have I continued it after the water? 193 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:30,129 I haven't been to the fridge since. 194 00:10:30,212 --> 00:10:35,176 It happened once and we already talked about this. You promised not to get hurt. 195 00:10:35,259 --> 00:10:38,387 I see. I'm starting to think about it more. -Clear. 196 00:10:38,471 --> 00:10:42,516 When I cut clothes, I wonder if I'm doing it right. 197 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:44,852 Cut your clothes the way you want. 198 00:10:44,935 --> 00:10:47,480 I don't want to fail at home. 199 00:10:47,563 --> 00:10:51,359 If it happens now, where does it lead later in marriage? 200 00:10:51,442 --> 00:10:54,528 If we talk openly... 201 00:10:54,612 --> 00:10:57,198 We had an intimate spa date in the evening. 202 00:10:57,281 --> 00:10:58,741 We beat each other. 203 00:10:58,824 --> 00:11:01,827 We rubbed mud on each other in the shower. -Yes. 204 00:11:01,911 --> 00:11:05,748 We got home and you left right away. I didn't like it. 205 00:11:07,083 --> 00:11:10,169 I think I took enough initiatives especially in Cabo. 206 00:11:10,252 --> 00:11:12,213 There was no sex yesterday, but… 207 00:11:12,296 --> 00:11:14,298 Are you serious? 208 00:11:14,382 --> 00:11:17,009 Didn't I come out of the bathroom and took you? 209 00:11:17,093 --> 00:11:20,596 I said I was slandered. - I have done the same. 210 00:11:20,680 --> 00:11:25,643 Here? We don't have sex. You know I appreciate physical touch. 211 00:11:25,726 --> 00:11:28,354 Then push me on the bed. 212 00:11:28,437 --> 00:11:30,022 You walked out the door. 213 00:11:30,106 --> 00:11:32,942 At night. - We had a plan. 214 00:11:33,025 --> 00:11:34,985 You talk on the phone in bed. 215 00:11:35,069 --> 00:11:37,530 Like you. -I don't. I was lying in bed. 216 00:11:37,613 --> 00:11:40,658 You did the exact same thing last night. -Wrong. 217 00:11:40,741 --> 00:11:45,830 If it's a problem, say it at night. We are sure to have fun. 218 00:11:45,913 --> 00:11:48,124 I will not force you against your will. 219 00:11:48,207 --> 00:11:53,003 I said I like it when you take the initiative. 220 00:11:53,087 --> 00:11:56,257 You said in Cabo, that there was no physical contact. 221 00:11:56,340 --> 00:11:57,925 So I thought… 222 00:11:58,426 --> 00:12:01,011 I said that… - Am I not charming you? 223 00:12:01,095 --> 00:12:03,139 You are charming. 224 00:12:03,222 --> 00:12:06,434 I said you're not my usual type. 225 00:12:07,184 --> 00:12:09,729 But you are really attractive. 226 00:12:09,812 --> 00:12:11,564 It must have become clear. 227 00:12:11,647 --> 00:12:17,069 I am also aware of your periods. 228 00:12:17,153 --> 00:12:20,072 And I don't want a baby right now. -Clear. 229 00:12:20,156 --> 00:12:22,700 I assumed you would tell me about it. -Whence? 230 00:12:22,783 --> 00:12:26,370 That they are over. I'm not going to follow it. 231 00:12:27,371 --> 00:12:29,832 I don't get pregnant during my period. 232 00:12:29,915 --> 00:12:30,958 I know. -Clear. 233 00:12:31,041 --> 00:12:34,378 It happens, I understand right after them. 234 00:12:34,462 --> 00:12:36,839 And not. -I don't know about this subject. 235 00:12:36,922 --> 00:12:40,134 So. No problem. - It would be nice to know when they are over. 236 00:12:40,217 --> 00:12:42,470 I'm not trying to trap you. -I see. 237 00:12:42,553 --> 00:12:47,057 You think you'll stay in Cleveland with the kid… I don't want a baby right now either. 238 00:12:47,141 --> 00:12:49,393 I don't understand your cycle. 239 00:12:49,477 --> 00:12:51,812 I ovulated a couple of weeks after men. 240 00:12:51,896 --> 00:12:54,940 I don't know about them running out. -I'll let you know if... 241 00:12:55,024 --> 00:12:58,694 We can follow them together, if it makes you feel better. 242 00:12:58,778 --> 00:13:01,822 You don't have to. I'll tell you when they start and end. 243 00:13:02,406 --> 00:13:04,200 That would be… Alright. 244 00:13:04,283 --> 00:13:05,910 Clear. 245 00:13:05,993 --> 00:13:08,120 Now I feel like you got angry. -I don't. 246 00:13:08,204 --> 00:13:11,832 I understand that, but… - This is frustrating. 247 00:13:11,916 --> 00:13:13,667 I am clearly lacking. 248 00:13:13,751 --> 00:13:17,838 Why didn't you put me yesterday? -Because you left. I was cursed… 249 00:13:17,922 --> 00:13:20,049 Why didn't you put me in bed? 250 00:13:20,132 --> 00:13:23,135 The passion stopped. You disappeared, so be it. 251 00:13:23,219 --> 00:13:26,430 You can't blame me and then… -Okay. The reason is mine. 252 00:13:26,514 --> 00:13:29,183 And it isn't. The reason is probably both. 253 00:13:29,266 --> 00:13:32,812 Don't stick it in its thorn, that I didn't take the initiative again. 254 00:13:32,895 --> 00:13:36,065 Yeah. - I don't understand how it's my fault. 255 00:13:37,149 --> 00:13:40,486 Clear. I'm just saying I need to a little more. 256 00:13:40,569 --> 00:13:42,488 I'm happy to offer it. -Clear. 257 00:13:42,571 --> 00:13:44,657 Are you satisfied with our sex? 258 00:13:47,660 --> 00:13:50,329 Yeah. But we put the last one in Mexico. 259 00:13:50,412 --> 00:13:51,497 Well… 260 00:13:51,580 --> 00:13:52,915 Okay. Why? 261 00:13:52,998 --> 00:13:54,959 Did your period stop? 262 00:13:55,042 --> 00:13:57,294 Yeah. -Then we can do it. 263 00:13:57,378 --> 00:13:59,380 Are my periods the plague? 264 00:13:59,463 --> 00:14:02,216 No, but it is… - You sleep with a pillow between us. 265 00:14:02,299 --> 00:14:04,593 Neither do I. I have one pillow. -Yes. 266 00:14:04,677 --> 00:14:07,555 I have taken many initiatives throughout the process. 267 00:14:07,638 --> 00:14:10,307 I'll be happy to continue it, but don't attack now. 268 00:14:10,391 --> 00:14:11,976 You attack here. 269 00:14:12,059 --> 00:14:15,479 And I'm not attacking. I wanted to talk about change. -And about cleaning. 270 00:14:15,563 --> 00:14:17,356 Didn't we talk about that before? 271 00:14:17,439 --> 00:14:20,943 Yeah. You joked about that but now it's really making you hard. 272 00:14:21,026 --> 00:14:23,237 It's about something else too. Even the clothes. 273 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:25,447 I don't want to mess around all the time. 274 00:14:25,531 --> 00:14:27,616 We did laundry once. -I see. 275 00:14:27,700 --> 00:14:30,494 What? - I feel like I have to be careful. 276 00:14:30,995 --> 00:14:33,372 Clear. Cut your towel however you like. 277 00:14:33,455 --> 00:14:36,750 You make them new. - I didn't change anything. 278 00:14:36,834 --> 00:14:39,712 It's just water bottles, but it's… 279 00:14:39,795 --> 00:14:41,755 Oh god. - I feel like I'm not answering... 280 00:14:41,839 --> 00:14:46,635 I want to go away for a while, because we are arguing about water bottles. 281 00:15:18,375 --> 00:15:19,376 Will you come back? 282 00:15:19,960 --> 00:15:21,295 Oh my goodness. 283 00:15:33,015 --> 00:15:35,684 I work on things from my side. 284 00:15:35,768 --> 00:15:40,147 I try not to pick up on cleaning, I'm a little - 285 00:15:40,648 --> 00:15:44,735 more open to my menstrual cycle and I take more initiatives. 286 00:15:44,818 --> 00:15:51,075 I'll see what I can do about my work and I apply to several companies. 287 00:15:51,575 --> 00:15:54,078 But I like my current company. 288 00:15:54,161 --> 00:15:57,748 They tend to be flexible. I would like to continue there. 289 00:15:57,831 --> 00:16:01,335 Even if it delays a bit our plans. 290 00:16:01,418 --> 00:16:04,380 I hope you understand that. -I definitely understand. 291 00:16:04,463 --> 00:16:07,716 As for intimacy, I don't want a baby right now. 292 00:16:07,800 --> 00:16:10,719 I don't want to either. I thought I made that clear. 293 00:16:10,803 --> 00:16:12,888 I want us to have time to adventure, 294 00:16:12,972 --> 00:16:16,183 our lives are together and children are born for the right reasons. 295 00:16:16,266 --> 00:16:18,519 I like your hands all over my body. 296 00:16:18,602 --> 00:16:21,230 It feels like I'm always touching you… 297 00:16:22,314 --> 00:16:26,485 I don't want to beg. - Our sex is wonderful. 298 00:16:26,568 --> 00:16:30,531 I also take more initiatives, but I think we have… 299 00:16:31,365 --> 00:16:34,743 That category is fine. 300 00:16:34,827 --> 00:16:38,330 This was only a five-day break because of your period. 301 00:16:38,414 --> 00:16:42,251 You can touch me during sex. - I don't necessarily know that. 302 00:16:42,334 --> 00:16:45,295 I was an accident that changed my mother's life. 303 00:16:45,379 --> 00:16:48,340 I'm good at tracking my cycle. 304 00:16:49,633 --> 00:16:51,677 I take it seriously. 305 00:16:52,803 --> 00:16:55,222 Hope you want this to work. 306 00:16:55,305 --> 00:16:56,348 Yeah. 307 00:16:56,432 --> 00:16:59,643 I don't want you to run away from me. 308 00:17:00,561 --> 00:17:03,856 Your lifestyle includes, that you are constantly moving. 309 00:17:03,939 --> 00:17:06,692 And I don't want you to get bored with me. 310 00:17:06,775 --> 00:17:10,237 I don't want either that you give up my relationship just like that. 311 00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:13,115 I want this to work. I'm ready to bet. 312 00:17:13,198 --> 00:17:15,909 I won't run away. I have solid self-confidence. 313 00:17:15,993 --> 00:17:22,082 I know I can handle it. I do understand that I can seem like a jerk. 314 00:17:23,459 --> 00:17:27,880 I am ready to settle down in one place and commit to such a relationship. 315 00:17:27,963 --> 00:17:31,467 Both of us are horrified. It is… 316 00:17:31,550 --> 00:17:34,386 Remember when you weren't nervous? -Yeah. 317 00:17:34,470 --> 00:17:37,431 This does make me nervous. - It was a joke. 318 00:17:37,514 --> 00:17:38,849 I'm still confident. 319 00:17:39,433 --> 00:17:41,268 Want to have fun? 320 00:17:42,061 --> 00:17:43,437 I meant… 321 00:17:44,646 --> 00:17:46,690 Do you want to spend time together? 322 00:17:56,075 --> 00:17:57,993 A decent knock. The dog was startled. 323 00:17:58,077 --> 00:18:00,245 Tonight Jordan is meeting my brother. 324 00:18:00,329 --> 00:18:02,122 Healthy. Jordan. - Nice to meet you. 325 00:18:02,206 --> 00:18:06,418 He wants my best and makes sure, that this is genuine. 326 00:18:06,502 --> 00:18:08,295 Did Amber share her cooking? 327 00:18:08,378 --> 00:18:10,380 We ate waffles at the weekend. 328 00:18:10,464 --> 00:18:12,007 Did you make them at home? 329 00:18:12,091 --> 00:18:14,176 You haven't even seen it yet. 330 00:18:14,259 --> 00:18:17,179 Did you see my waffle iron? - That's pretty cool. 331 00:18:17,262 --> 00:18:19,473 Emma likes waffles. Delicious. 332 00:18:19,556 --> 00:18:21,558 Do you cook a lot? -I love to cook. 333 00:18:21,642 --> 00:18:25,354 Do you consider yourself a skilled cook? -I would say so. 334 00:18:25,437 --> 00:18:27,648 What is your bravura? 335 00:18:27,731 --> 00:18:30,234 I make good burgers. -Clear. 336 00:18:30,317 --> 00:18:32,986 I see. - I make french fries at home these days. 337 00:18:33,070 --> 00:18:35,656 We made chicken and waffles one morning. 338 00:18:35,739 --> 00:18:38,617 We had a lineup. He made the waffles. 339 00:18:38,700 --> 00:18:42,037 I fried the chicken. -Ah. Clear. 340 00:18:42,121 --> 00:18:44,081 Is this your notebook? -Yeah. 341 00:18:44,164 --> 00:18:45,082 This is crazy. 342 00:18:45,165 --> 00:18:50,546 I've been thinking for a long time, that you would do well to find a partner. 343 00:18:50,629 --> 00:18:55,551 I always hoped for it. Your last couple of relationships were crap. 344 00:18:55,634 --> 00:18:58,303 Badass men, so… 345 00:18:58,387 --> 00:19:00,514 We don't embellish with Jacob. 346 00:19:00,597 --> 00:19:01,598 I like it. 347 00:19:01,682 --> 00:19:07,437 It is my duty as your brother to ensure, that this is serious. 348 00:19:07,521 --> 00:19:09,273 And there are feelings between you. 349 00:19:09,773 --> 00:19:11,567 I'm crazy about him. 350 00:19:16,113 --> 00:19:20,701 After getting to know Amber, I thought for the first time, that maybe I want children. 351 00:19:20,784 --> 00:19:24,705 I have not experienced such a connection with anyone. 352 00:19:24,788 --> 00:19:29,710 I was amazed that this could be my life. It's pretty wild. 353 00:19:29,793 --> 00:19:31,044 Clear. 354 00:19:31,128 --> 00:19:34,506 Emma is great of course. I love Emma so much. 355 00:19:34,590 --> 00:19:37,176 He's a firecracker, just like Amber. 356 00:19:37,259 --> 00:19:39,428 What did you think of Matt? -He was nice. 357 00:19:39,511 --> 00:19:41,555 I appreciated that we met. 358 00:19:41,638 --> 00:19:43,348 Without cameras? -Yeah. 359 00:19:43,432 --> 00:19:47,477 We had a fruitful discussion. After that I felt good. 360 00:19:47,561 --> 00:19:51,648 I support you. I hope this works. I really think so. 361 00:19:52,232 --> 00:19:54,234 I want the best for you both. 362 00:19:54,318 --> 00:19:57,988 Thanks. -We want a family again! 363 00:19:58,071 --> 00:19:59,281 Yeah. Just here. 364 00:19:59,364 --> 00:20:02,618 We want the family we didn't have. 365 00:20:12,544 --> 00:20:15,422 18 DAYS TO THE WEDDING 366 00:20:18,467 --> 00:20:20,552 Say something you see. 367 00:20:20,636 --> 00:20:22,346 I don't know. Is that a cat? 368 00:20:22,846 --> 00:20:24,890 Yeah, that's Jill. - That's Jill. 369 00:20:24,973 --> 00:20:27,017 Cat. - There's a man and a woman over there. 370 00:20:27,100 --> 00:20:29,394 Cylinder and barrel. - The man is meditating. 371 00:20:29,478 --> 00:20:31,063 That reads. 372 00:20:31,146 --> 00:20:32,731 Yes, woman. 373 00:20:32,814 --> 00:20:35,359 Did you agree with this? -Yeah. 374 00:20:35,442 --> 00:20:37,194 I sat with my blanket. 375 00:20:38,195 --> 00:20:40,739 I won't find out about this. -Whence? 376 00:20:40,822 --> 00:20:42,699 Foot? - Looks obscene. 377 00:20:42,783 --> 00:20:44,993 Foot. The man seduces… - I don't think... 378 00:20:45,077 --> 00:20:46,954 Cover your eyes. 379 00:20:47,537 --> 00:20:49,414 A small sailboat. 380 00:20:49,498 --> 00:20:51,500 Have you gone kayaking? -Yeah. 381 00:20:51,583 --> 00:20:52,584 So. 382 00:20:52,668 --> 00:20:54,920 First you learn to swim. 383 00:20:55,003 --> 00:20:58,090 I put on a life jacket. You come to save me. 384 00:20:58,173 --> 00:21:01,551 My sister makes fun of me sometimes. -Oh, because you can't swim? 385 00:21:01,635 --> 00:21:04,263 We'll take care of it. You learn to swim before children. 386 00:21:04,346 --> 00:21:05,555 Yeah. 387 00:21:05,639 --> 00:21:09,393 We set a two-year window… 388 00:21:09,476 --> 00:21:12,104 Regarding family? - Before house and family. 389 00:21:12,187 --> 00:21:15,315 Yeah. -At what point would it be too late? 390 00:21:15,399 --> 00:21:18,026 You are older than me. 391 00:21:18,110 --> 00:21:22,155 Yeah, I know. A little. -Yeah, just a little. 392 00:21:22,239 --> 00:21:24,366 As long as I can run with my kids. 393 00:21:24,449 --> 00:21:26,827 Our mothers are getting older. 394 00:21:26,910 --> 00:21:29,746 I'm a little scared... -So. 395 00:21:29,830 --> 00:21:33,500 What if my mother doesn't have time to see my children? 396 00:21:33,583 --> 00:21:36,545 But I'm not having kids for that now. 397 00:21:36,628 --> 00:21:37,671 So. 398 00:21:37,754 --> 00:21:44,052 We are of different ethnic origin. Do you have any doubts about that? 399 00:21:44,136 --> 00:21:48,682 I grew up in the countryside. I loved my hometown and my experience. 400 00:21:48,765 --> 00:21:50,684 I still don't wish my children - 401 00:21:50,767 --> 00:21:55,147 an equally narrow-minded environment like I had in high school. 402 00:21:55,230 --> 00:21:56,231 Clear. -You know? 403 00:21:56,315 --> 00:21:59,818 They must have a surface to identify with… - Yes. 404 00:21:59,901 --> 00:22:02,404 We could raise our family here. 405 00:22:02,487 --> 00:22:06,199 We find community, where our children taste different food. 406 00:22:06,283 --> 00:22:09,828 They meet children from different backgrounds. 407 00:22:09,911 --> 00:22:12,706 I grew up in Brooklyn myself. 408 00:22:12,789 --> 00:22:15,292 The same is partially true to other cities as well. 409 00:22:15,375 --> 00:22:20,672 I realized as a black youth, that not everything is… 410 00:22:20,756 --> 00:22:22,090 How do you say it? 411 00:22:23,133 --> 00:22:24,384 Well organized. 412 00:22:25,177 --> 00:22:31,141 I remember telling about the car in the agreement, who pointed at us with their guns. 413 00:22:31,224 --> 00:22:35,854 Black people are sometimes considered more mature - 414 00:22:35,937 --> 00:22:38,940 or threatening in certain interactions. 415 00:22:39,024 --> 00:22:44,529 I want to tell our children honestly about the history of our country. 416 00:22:44,613 --> 00:22:49,785 We don't teach our children about victimhood but rather… 417 00:22:49,868 --> 00:22:52,996 They understand that the world is not color blind. 418 00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:58,585 It helps them in many ways to navigate life more easily. 419 00:22:58,668 --> 00:22:59,669 Yeah. -So. 420 00:23:00,462 --> 00:23:05,550 Are you afraid of having children? with a white woman? 421 00:23:05,634 --> 00:23:06,760 No. 422 00:23:06,843 --> 00:23:09,221 I'm not afraid of it. -Clear. 423 00:23:09,304 --> 00:23:12,516 I learned a lot from you, and… -Same the other way around. 424 00:23:12,599 --> 00:23:13,767 Yeah. - Funny. 425 00:23:13,850 --> 00:23:19,398 When the parents are of different ethnicity, the children are always at two stages. 426 00:23:19,481 --> 00:23:22,317 Especially if the other is black, and the other white. 427 00:23:22,401 --> 00:23:26,154 The child does not feel that he belongs anywhere. It's a gray area. 428 00:23:26,238 --> 00:23:31,410 There is something for both of them to learn. - It's new for both of them. 429 00:23:31,493 --> 00:23:33,787 Yeah. -We do it as a team. 430 00:23:33,870 --> 00:23:36,164 I know that. I was just wondering… 431 00:23:36,248 --> 00:23:39,459 I'm not afraid of it. I don't know how to say it, but… 432 00:23:39,543 --> 00:23:46,258 This reminds of that I will never understand - 433 00:23:46,341 --> 00:23:51,179 my child one hundred percent. It's a big deal. 434 00:23:51,263 --> 00:23:53,014 So. -You know? And… 435 00:23:53,098 --> 00:23:56,268 I want to make sure we get the right attitude… 436 00:23:56,852 --> 00:24:00,147 It is love for a child. It has nothing to do with ethnicity. 437 00:24:00,230 --> 00:24:02,732 That love binds us to the child. 438 00:24:02,816 --> 00:24:07,112 So. I know you're oozing love. I don't doubt it. 439 00:24:07,195 --> 00:24:09,948 Yeah. - No doubt. 440 00:24:10,031 --> 00:24:12,117 So are both families. -So. 441 00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:13,535 Yeah. 442 00:24:13,618 --> 00:24:15,287 It will be fun. -Yes. 443 00:24:15,954 --> 00:24:17,581 I like my view. -So. 444 00:24:17,664 --> 00:24:20,208 Did you notice the flowers behind you? -Kappas. 445 00:24:22,169 --> 00:24:24,212 I can see your nose. - Do you see? 446 00:24:24,296 --> 00:24:26,006 Is there anything there? 447 00:24:26,089 --> 00:24:27,966 Is there something wrong? -No. 448 00:24:29,384 --> 00:24:32,429 i love you -Gold. I love you too. 449 00:24:33,305 --> 00:24:34,848 The geese came immediately. 450 00:24:34,931 --> 00:24:37,309 They attack someone. 451 00:24:44,900 --> 00:24:46,818 Then let's go. -Okay. 452 00:24:48,695 --> 00:24:50,530 Shall we take off our shoes? 453 00:24:50,614 --> 00:24:52,324 You don't have to. 454 00:24:52,407 --> 00:24:55,744 Today Devonta meets my parents. 455 00:24:56,453 --> 00:25:01,124 My younger brother is also coming with his wife. I haven't brought anyone home in 10 years. 456 00:25:01,708 --> 00:25:04,503 Hello! How is it going? 457 00:25:04,586 --> 00:25:10,133 I want to introduce them to a man, which I fell in love with. 458 00:25:10,217 --> 00:25:12,928 Healthy. - This is my fiance. 459 00:25:14,763 --> 00:25:17,682 Oops. The strings of Jukra. 460 00:25:17,766 --> 00:25:19,851 He chose it. 461 00:25:19,935 --> 00:25:22,437 All by myself. -I need sunglasses. 462 00:25:22,521 --> 00:25:26,066 You showed me your inspiration picture, and this is… 463 00:25:26,149 --> 00:25:28,193 Yes. -Let's see it then. 464 00:25:28,276 --> 00:25:29,819 Did you have… Oh my God. 465 00:25:29,903 --> 00:25:31,488 Are you a loan officer? -Yeah. 466 00:25:31,571 --> 00:25:34,241 Were you overwhelmed with work when you returned? 467 00:25:34,324 --> 00:25:38,620 Yeah. I had 900 messages on my phone, a thousand emails. 468 00:25:38,703 --> 00:25:43,583 When I came back and saw over 700 posts, I started to feel anxious. 469 00:25:43,667 --> 00:25:44,918 do you have friends 470 00:25:47,379 --> 00:25:49,881 I have a sister too. That's familiar. 471 00:25:49,965 --> 00:25:52,384 How many siblings do you have? -Five. 472 00:25:52,467 --> 00:25:53,552 Five? -Yeah. 473 00:25:53,635 --> 00:25:57,222 My mother had five boys and one girl. -Where are you... 474 00:25:57,305 --> 00:26:00,642 I have an older brother, then there's me and my little brother. 475 00:26:00,725 --> 00:26:03,687 I have twin brothers, and my sister is the youngest. 476 00:26:03,770 --> 00:26:05,689 We can have twins. -So. 477 00:26:05,772 --> 00:26:07,315 Yeah. -That's what Brittany hopes for. 478 00:26:07,399 --> 00:26:09,109 It hit. - I want twins. 479 00:26:09,192 --> 00:26:11,111 Do you want twins? 480 00:26:11,194 --> 00:26:13,488 That's enough crying and dirty diapers. 481 00:26:13,572 --> 00:26:16,950 Never mind. He helps. - Are you hungry? 482 00:26:17,033 --> 00:26:18,076 Always. 483 00:26:24,457 --> 00:26:26,376 What do you like about the room? - That's nice. 484 00:26:26,459 --> 00:26:31,172 We are doing so well at home, that he does not need to be ordered. 485 00:26:31,256 --> 00:26:33,967 He does things naturally. -Yeah. 486 00:26:34,050 --> 00:26:35,760 It could be something stupid... 487 00:26:35,844 --> 00:26:41,016 He took something out of the microwave before time runs out. 488 00:26:41,099 --> 00:26:44,227 He reset the timer, to show the clock. I was that… 489 00:26:45,186 --> 00:26:46,813 Lovely man! 490 00:26:48,064 --> 00:26:49,190 Yes. 491 00:26:49,274 --> 00:26:52,235 He washed and put the laundry in the closet. 492 00:26:52,319 --> 00:26:54,487 She cooks for me. Imagine… 493 00:26:54,571 --> 00:26:59,075 Look, that was my main prayer. "Please, Lord. We can't starve." 494 00:26:59,159 --> 00:27:03,663 He's been chasing that for years. "My husband cooks or we starve." 495 00:27:04,706 --> 00:27:06,249 I don't doubt it at all. 496 00:27:10,754 --> 00:27:12,339 How did the reveal go? 497 00:27:12,422 --> 00:27:15,300 I was afraid that I might die. 498 00:27:15,383 --> 00:27:20,847 "Am I giddy? Is he cute? Am I cute? What's going on?" 499 00:27:20,930 --> 00:27:24,184 I was sweating profusely. - That's true. 500 00:27:24,267 --> 00:27:28,730 I was amazed. I saw her eyes and her freckles… 501 00:27:28,813 --> 00:27:32,317 And I didn't expect such a curmudgeonly man. 502 00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:36,196 I thought that was pretty nice. 503 00:27:37,614 --> 00:27:40,575 Your eyes were ice blue. 504 00:27:40,659 --> 00:27:44,746 I thought I would still have pretty children. 505 00:27:44,829 --> 00:27:46,998 You didn't notice the sweating. 506 00:27:48,166 --> 00:27:49,793 You can see it by force. 507 00:27:51,169 --> 00:27:54,589 when did you realize that he touches your heart? 508 00:27:54,673 --> 00:27:58,259 My grandfather was a pastor. He had his own church. 509 00:27:58,343 --> 00:28:02,305 I always considered him as an example in my life. 510 00:28:02,389 --> 00:28:06,017 I just want to give back. We strongly agreed on that. 511 00:28:06,101 --> 00:28:08,645 He is a true giver. -Yeah. 512 00:28:08,728 --> 00:28:10,563 He takes care of his loved ones. 513 00:28:10,647 --> 00:28:15,694 He considers his words carefully and carries himself with dignity. 514 00:28:15,777 --> 00:28:17,821 Will it make you feel safe? 515 00:28:17,904 --> 00:28:21,700 My father was not in my life. I want to do the opposite. 516 00:28:21,783 --> 00:28:24,577 That's why I want to be a father and a husband. 517 00:28:24,661 --> 00:28:27,706 My childhood home was broken. 518 00:28:27,789 --> 00:28:33,378 When I make this life decision, I want to make sure I'm doing the right thing. 519 00:28:33,461 --> 00:28:35,755 I only get married once. It is… 520 00:28:35,839 --> 00:28:39,008 That's nice to hear. -Yeah. 521 00:28:39,926 --> 00:28:42,345 For us, the word "divorce"… -You can't escape. 522 00:28:42,429 --> 00:28:46,307 We said early on, that we don't use that word. 523 00:28:46,391 --> 00:28:47,434 So. -Yeah. 524 00:28:47,517 --> 00:28:48,977 It's not an option. 525 00:28:49,060 --> 00:28:54,774 We grow and learn. We love and care for each other. 526 00:28:54,858 --> 00:28:57,444 Yeah. -And this stays. 527 00:28:57,527 --> 00:29:00,071 So… So… 528 00:29:04,075 --> 00:29:06,870 My mother died last year. 529 00:29:08,955 --> 00:29:11,708 At the funeral my father said: 530 00:29:11,791 --> 00:29:15,044 “I kept my promise until the end of our lives together." 531 00:29:15,128 --> 00:29:16,421 So. 532 00:29:17,547 --> 00:29:18,840 He meant it. 533 00:29:20,091 --> 00:29:21,468 So. -And he did. 534 00:29:21,551 --> 00:29:25,096 And I will do it. And my boys do. 535 00:29:25,180 --> 00:29:28,099 It is your richest life. 536 00:29:28,183 --> 00:29:29,601 Do you know? -Absolutely. 537 00:29:29,684 --> 00:29:34,022 So many throw it away. Sorry for being sensitive. 538 00:29:34,105 --> 00:29:36,941 And not. I am sorry for your loss. 539 00:29:37,025 --> 00:29:38,151 The girl is my darling. 540 00:29:38,234 --> 00:29:40,361 May I say… You will agree. 541 00:29:40,445 --> 00:29:44,908 I have never seen this woman like this… She glows and sputters. 542 00:29:44,991 --> 00:29:49,120 I've been with Seth for seven years, and I have never seen you like this. 543 00:29:49,204 --> 00:29:53,291 i said that if Brittany agreed to the proposal, 544 00:29:53,374 --> 00:29:57,003 the man must be really special. 545 00:29:57,086 --> 00:29:59,506 Yes. - I'm happy for you. 546 00:29:59,589 --> 00:30:01,090 Thanks. -Yeah. 547 00:30:01,174 --> 00:30:04,302 This has been wonderful. - Shall we go to the living room? 548 00:30:04,385 --> 00:30:05,595 Yeah. - Let's go. 549 00:30:05,678 --> 00:30:08,181 I want to go upstairs if that's okay. -Yeah. 550 00:30:08,264 --> 00:30:10,058 Welcome! 551 00:30:10,141 --> 00:30:13,812 I hope you love me in another hour. 552 00:30:13,895 --> 00:30:16,981 I wanted to show you this picture. 553 00:30:17,482 --> 00:30:20,944 This is from my Uncle Keith's wedding. Brittany and Kayla. 554 00:30:21,694 --> 00:30:26,741 The girl was born two weeks early, and my life changed forever. 555 00:30:26,825 --> 00:30:32,205 He was petite. I have taken care of him more than half of my life. 556 00:30:32,288 --> 00:30:33,206 So. 557 00:30:33,289 --> 00:30:39,921 I trust him to you. It's a big deal. 558 00:30:40,004 --> 00:30:42,048 Do you think you have a crush? 559 00:30:42,131 --> 00:30:43,216 Yeah. 560 00:30:43,299 --> 00:30:45,468 do you feel 561 00:30:45,552 --> 00:30:50,807 that something would make you suspect at the altar? 562 00:30:51,391 --> 00:30:52,308 I don't think so. 563 00:30:52,392 --> 00:30:56,104 You have met better than many others. 564 00:30:56,187 --> 00:30:58,648 Better than some in a 15 year union. 565 00:30:58,731 --> 00:31:01,067 The unanswered questions are… 566 00:31:01,150 --> 00:31:03,945 This is obvious. They are the ones you don't encounter. 567 00:31:04,028 --> 00:31:05,572 Right. -And you don't ask. 568 00:31:05,655 --> 00:31:07,907 Yeah. -Ask the questions. 569 00:31:07,991 --> 00:31:10,785 So. - You will get clarity. 570 00:31:10,869 --> 00:31:12,203 Yeah. -I know my daughter. 571 00:31:12,787 --> 00:31:14,372 No one in the world - 572 00:31:14,455 --> 00:31:20,336 hasn't touched him like you. 573 00:31:20,420 --> 00:31:21,754 I trust you. 574 00:31:21,838 --> 00:31:25,717 I almost ask you to marry my daughter. 575 00:31:30,179 --> 00:31:31,681 Get ready for the wedding. 576 00:31:31,764 --> 00:31:33,266 We're getting married. 577 00:31:34,100 --> 00:31:38,563 We love hard and properly. You're welcome, brother. 578 00:31:38,646 --> 00:31:41,274 Nice to be here. This feels like home. 579 00:31:41,357 --> 00:31:45,320 It's like we already knew. I'm excited. 580 00:31:45,403 --> 00:31:47,697 I wish the wedding was already tomorrow. 581 00:31:47,780 --> 00:31:53,870 If they chose each other, the decision has already been made. 582 00:31:53,953 --> 00:31:58,124 That's what this is all about. "I want to be with you forever." 583 00:31:58,207 --> 00:32:01,794 Hesitance would be visible at this point. 584 00:32:01,878 --> 00:32:04,172 You will be my son. 585 00:32:04,255 --> 00:32:06,257 Yeah. - We're not talking about in-laws. 586 00:32:06,341 --> 00:32:08,718 We are all in this for love. -Yeah. 587 00:32:09,427 --> 00:32:10,720 do you still love me 588 00:32:16,809 --> 00:32:18,937 Acting angry? -So! 589 00:32:19,020 --> 00:32:20,229 It became difficult. 590 00:32:20,813 --> 00:32:22,190 Don't present. 591 00:32:26,736 --> 00:32:29,489 What? Dad is acting here! 592 00:32:30,531 --> 00:32:34,577 Why do you present… You planned this. 593 00:32:34,661 --> 00:32:35,954 Did you believe? 594 00:32:36,037 --> 00:32:38,164 I saw you walking outside. 595 00:32:39,916 --> 00:32:41,376 I went on a motorcycle. 596 00:32:51,344 --> 00:32:53,513 Are you ready? -Yeah. 597 00:33:00,103 --> 00:33:01,854 Wait, I'll close the door. 598 00:33:03,356 --> 00:33:05,233 Did anyone else come? 599 00:33:05,316 --> 00:33:08,236 Sorry. -How are you? Nice to meet you. 600 00:33:08,319 --> 00:33:09,278 And not. 601 00:33:09,362 --> 00:33:10,863 It says Breezy. 602 00:33:10,947 --> 00:33:12,115 Check out Breezy! 603 00:33:12,198 --> 00:33:15,868 Jeez. Welcome to my home. I forgot we were greeting my mother. 604 00:33:15,952 --> 00:33:17,245 Yeah, I don't live here. 605 00:33:17,328 --> 00:33:20,707 This is a single room so… 606 00:33:20,790 --> 00:33:23,042 We came from the student dormitory. 607 00:33:23,126 --> 00:33:26,421 I can't wait to hear more. -Oh, mom. 608 00:33:26,504 --> 00:33:30,299 You will hear about it. No problem. - It was fun. 609 00:33:31,134 --> 00:33:32,218 THE BEST DAY 610 00:33:32,301 --> 00:33:35,096 Tell me about the process. 611 00:33:35,179 --> 00:33:36,848 I met Connor. 612 00:33:36,931 --> 00:33:41,102 "Hi, I'm Breezy. I'm 33 years old. I'm from Grand Rapids, Michigan." 613 00:33:41,185 --> 00:33:45,064 And immediately... It was sudden chaos. -I couldn't believe it. 614 00:33:45,148 --> 00:33:49,110 I said my mom is from Grand Rapids and my dad is from minneapolis. 615 00:33:49,193 --> 00:33:53,406 The girl also lived in Minneapolis. -Right. It had crazy connections. 616 00:33:53,489 --> 00:33:54,782 Yes, Michigan. 617 00:33:54,866 --> 00:33:57,410 The Wolverine thing is big. -Awesome. 618 00:33:57,493 --> 00:34:02,623 I know. Mom, that was clear. "Bundles piled up, I found my husband." 619 00:34:02,707 --> 00:34:06,002 I felt that I'm in the right place. 620 00:34:06,085 --> 00:34:08,755 Coincidences began to feel like fate. 621 00:34:08,838 --> 00:34:12,050 All our conversations. Speaking of emotional… 622 00:34:12,133 --> 00:34:17,013 I wasn't always very vulnerable. - It's a big part of the whole process. 623 00:34:17,096 --> 00:34:21,267 If I can be myself, I will do everything for you. 624 00:34:21,350 --> 00:34:24,854 I can honestly say that he knows everything. 625 00:34:24,937 --> 00:34:25,938 So. -All. 626 00:34:26,022 --> 00:34:28,441 You saw all sides. -He saw many things. 627 00:34:28,524 --> 00:34:31,486 And you won't be afraid or run away. -That's it. I'll stay here. 628 00:34:31,569 --> 00:34:34,655 I have learned to appreciate Connor's takeover. 629 00:34:34,739 --> 00:34:37,617 I don't think I can thank you enough for that. 630 00:34:37,700 --> 00:34:40,036 But I teach him some things. 631 00:34:40,119 --> 00:34:43,915 He threw the stuff into his bag. I wanted to reapply them. 632 00:34:43,998 --> 00:34:46,793 "Can I pack?" -Don't you have a laundry bag? 633 00:34:46,876 --> 00:34:50,797 Mother. We take it one step at a time. He said he was malleable. 634 00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:54,133 I thought I'd look how much he flexes. 635 00:34:54,217 --> 00:34:58,429 If someone clicks, that my shirt is inside out after washing... 636 00:34:58,513 --> 00:35:00,431 You can handle it. - I don't mind. 637 00:35:00,515 --> 00:35:04,602 That's true. Can I speak to my daughter for a moment? 638 00:35:04,685 --> 00:35:05,937 Necessarily. 639 00:35:06,521 --> 00:35:07,688 Now. Tell me. 640 00:35:07,772 --> 00:35:12,443 He is sweet. He loves me madly. 641 00:35:12,527 --> 00:35:13,903 I can see it. 642 00:35:13,986 --> 00:35:16,656 He loves me. -He likes you. 643 00:35:16,739 --> 00:35:19,659 My love just keeps getting stronger. 644 00:35:19,742 --> 00:35:22,578 He's a great guy. I trust your judgment. 645 00:35:22,662 --> 00:35:25,957 I know. - Your father probably questions more. 646 00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:28,209 Yes. -The decision is ultimately yours. 647 00:35:28,292 --> 00:35:31,254 We saw each other's rooms today. We are opposites. 648 00:35:31,337 --> 00:35:33,965 Tell me now when he can't hear… - Disaster area. 649 00:35:34,048 --> 00:35:36,884 Student house. There was a barrel and a Christmas tree. 650 00:35:36,968 --> 00:35:38,010 What? 651 00:35:38,094 --> 00:35:41,097 I said it won't come to me. - Come on. 652 00:35:41,180 --> 00:35:43,474 I was just… - Did he take it well? 653 00:35:43,558 --> 00:35:44,851 He came here and… 654 00:35:44,934 --> 00:35:48,437 That's why he said he wouldn't do this... 655 00:35:48,521 --> 00:35:52,608 Without me no one would pat and motivate him. 656 00:35:53,192 --> 00:35:54,944 I motivate myself. 657 00:35:55,027 --> 00:35:57,655 He flattens and expands me on an emotional level. 658 00:35:57,738 --> 00:36:00,491 But I always… It's crazy. You know. 659 00:36:00,575 --> 00:36:03,578 I've always been very determined. 660 00:36:03,661 --> 00:36:06,956 I'm throbbing here and there and doing things. This is… 661 00:36:07,456 --> 00:36:11,002 Does it feel like he has the same drive? 662 00:36:11,085 --> 00:36:13,379 Right. And is it important? I don't know. 663 00:36:13,462 --> 00:36:17,800 Do I need the same energy or someone even more similar? 664 00:36:17,884 --> 00:36:22,263 Or does he support me with others in important ways for the relationship? 665 00:36:22,346 --> 00:36:24,098 Right. - It's really wild. 666 00:36:24,182 --> 00:36:28,227 I can't say that. He knows me like you do. 667 00:36:28,311 --> 00:36:30,521 You are my mother. -Yeah. Family is important. 668 00:36:30,605 --> 00:36:34,192 I don't need confirmation but you are my life 669 00:36:34,275 --> 00:36:39,280 I need a little extra reassurance before we meet dad. 670 00:36:39,363 --> 00:36:41,324 Yeah. Dad is a challenge. 671 00:36:41,908 --> 00:36:43,451 He came back. 672 00:36:43,534 --> 00:36:46,204 I heard about the barrel at your place. -Yes. 673 00:36:46,287 --> 00:36:48,664 It's from New Years. -Sorry? What? 674 00:36:49,248 --> 00:36:52,627 How many months has it been? -The Christmas tree was still there. 675 00:36:52,710 --> 00:36:55,254 He was reportedly waiting for me to help. 676 00:36:55,338 --> 00:36:57,924 It would be depressing to strip alone. - It was… 677 00:36:58,007 --> 00:36:59,967 What? - Did you admire it? 678 00:37:00,051 --> 00:37:03,095 He was waiting for me to help. Honey, it's Easter. 679 00:37:03,179 --> 00:37:05,932 No, I mean… -Jesus rises from the dead. 680 00:37:06,015 --> 00:37:07,934 It was depressing to do alone. 681 00:37:08,017 --> 00:37:11,437 Grandma Diane put up a tree for Valentine's Day. I'm just saying. 682 00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:14,815 So you're following in my great-grandmother's footsteps. 683 00:37:14,899 --> 00:37:16,067 Is it a coincidence? 684 00:37:16,150 --> 00:37:19,737 But yes, there was a barrel. -He's just a boy. 685 00:37:19,820 --> 00:37:22,281 A regular guy. -What about "man"? 686 00:37:22,365 --> 00:37:24,992 Yeah, he's a man. -A regular guy from Ohio. 687 00:37:25,076 --> 00:37:29,497 Look, mom. He is a man. I'm strangely fascinated by mustaches. 688 00:37:29,580 --> 00:37:31,832 He asked if he would leave just the mustache. 689 00:37:31,916 --> 00:37:33,960 I told you to wait until you meet. 690 00:37:34,043 --> 00:37:35,586 Doesn't it itch and sting? 691 00:37:36,087 --> 00:37:37,004 Jam! 692 00:37:37,088 --> 00:37:39,382 I guess you're going crazy! Come on. 693 00:37:44,804 --> 00:37:47,181 17 DAYS TO THE WEDDING 694 00:37:48,891 --> 00:37:50,518 Hello! -Hello! 695 00:37:50,601 --> 00:37:52,937 Nice to meet you, Emma. -Likewise. 696 00:37:53,020 --> 00:37:54,855 It's nice to meet you. 697 00:37:54,939 --> 00:37:56,190 Hi, Emma. -Hello. 698 00:37:56,274 --> 00:37:58,401 Nice to meet you. -Same words. 699 00:37:58,484 --> 00:38:02,029 I know my family. They can be a bit rambunctious. 700 00:38:02,113 --> 00:38:04,282 They are spontaneous. 701 00:38:04,365 --> 00:38:06,993 I hope Emma will fit in well with the family. 702 00:38:07,076 --> 00:38:08,536 I'm stressing it out a bit. 703 00:38:09,620 --> 00:38:13,165 When you said you were engaged… 704 00:38:13,249 --> 00:38:15,710 Of course your mother cried for two days. 705 00:38:15,793 --> 00:38:17,878 I cried. I was very shocked. 706 00:38:17,962 --> 00:38:20,506 I was upset because we didn't meet. 707 00:38:20,589 --> 00:38:25,469 I didn't wish this on my son or my kids frankly. 708 00:38:26,053 --> 00:38:30,599 I don't understand how did you get to the point of… 709 00:38:31,309 --> 00:38:33,686 Did you say you love each other? 710 00:38:33,769 --> 00:38:36,314 We said it. -Yeah. We said it. 711 00:38:36,397 --> 00:38:38,691 In such a short time. 712 00:38:38,774 --> 00:38:40,818 We talked about a lot. 713 00:38:41,319 --> 00:38:43,988 It's hard to grasp from the outside. 714 00:38:44,071 --> 00:38:46,365 We went through everything. 715 00:38:47,074 --> 00:38:49,243 We talked about religion. 716 00:38:49,827 --> 00:38:54,707 Trust, sex, communication. We talked about the economy, everything. 717 00:38:55,291 --> 00:38:58,461 He knows everything about me. You don't know everything either. 718 00:38:58,544 --> 00:39:02,673 Clear. Were the previous ones your boyfriend italian? 719 00:39:03,257 --> 00:39:04,884 Actually… 720 00:39:04,967 --> 00:39:09,055 I just asked so you know what you're getting into. 721 00:39:09,138 --> 00:39:11,140 Now I'm talking about cultural differences. 722 00:39:11,223 --> 00:39:13,476 I mean… - My ex was Italian. 723 00:39:13,559 --> 00:39:18,022 He had a big family. -You got used to Sunday meals as a child. 724 00:39:18,105 --> 00:39:19,482 I know. So. 725 00:39:19,565 --> 00:39:21,776 Do you like to cook? - That's wonderful. 726 00:39:21,859 --> 00:39:27,239 I'm currently cooking an eight-person recipe for myself. 727 00:39:27,323 --> 00:39:30,284 It's wonderful to eat with someone else. 728 00:39:30,368 --> 00:39:34,497 But I like to cook spaghetti sauce. 729 00:39:34,580 --> 00:39:37,333 I'm excited to cook it in front of him, but… 730 00:39:37,416 --> 00:39:39,460 You said favor. It's gravy. 731 00:39:39,543 --> 00:39:42,046 No, but… Marinara is good. 732 00:39:42,129 --> 00:39:44,673 Yeah. - There is meat in the sauce. That's the difference. 733 00:39:45,257 --> 00:39:47,885 And octopus is calamari to us. 734 00:39:48,803 --> 00:39:51,138 Want to see what I taught? Say it. 735 00:39:51,722 --> 00:39:52,723 What? 736 00:39:52,807 --> 00:39:55,101 He teaches to say "coffee". 737 00:39:55,184 --> 00:39:56,727 "Coffee." - Coffee. 738 00:39:56,811 --> 00:39:58,145 Coffee. - Say "coffee". 739 00:39:58,229 --> 00:39:59,897 Coffee. - Coffee? 740 00:39:59,980 --> 00:40:02,942 When I order coffee. -The weight is on O. 741 00:40:03,025 --> 00:40:04,276 Yeah, "coffee". 742 00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:09,573 What about in the future? Were you talking about grandchildren? 743 00:40:09,657 --> 00:40:11,575 About children. So. -Yeah. 744 00:40:11,659 --> 00:40:13,619 Do you both want children? 745 00:40:13,702 --> 00:40:15,287 I'm on stage two. 746 00:40:20,876 --> 00:40:21,877 Clear. 747 00:40:21,961 --> 00:40:24,755 I'm not entirely sure either way. 748 00:40:25,339 --> 00:40:26,882 I knew it was okay. -So. 749 00:40:26,966 --> 00:40:27,967 We talked about it. 750 00:40:28,050 --> 00:40:32,888 I want to find stability, safety and companionship. 751 00:40:32,972 --> 00:40:36,934 Communication must work, so I can say yes. 752 00:40:37,017 --> 00:40:40,980 I need more time. But I know she wants children. 753 00:40:41,063 --> 00:40:43,607 I'm open about it. 754 00:40:44,191 --> 00:40:47,695 I said at the end, that I want to see him at the altar. 755 00:40:47,778 --> 00:40:50,739 I'll see us outside the exam. 756 00:40:50,823 --> 00:40:55,744 But if you see it, how can you say, Not sure about kids? 757 00:40:56,245 --> 00:40:58,247 I don't quite understand that now. 758 00:40:58,330 --> 00:40:59,665 Keep an open mind. 759 00:40:59,748 --> 00:41:03,502 What if you get married, and he says after six months, 760 00:41:03,586 --> 00:41:06,297 does not want children. You are already married. 761 00:41:06,380 --> 00:41:07,339 I see. 762 00:41:07,423 --> 00:41:09,383 Not bad, honey. -No. 763 00:41:09,467 --> 00:41:11,719 I'm just saying straight. Sorry. -No... 764 00:41:11,802 --> 00:41:16,015 I'm not attacking you. -No. These are important questions. 765 00:41:16,098 --> 00:41:19,602 I knew when I came here, that this comes up. 766 00:41:19,685 --> 00:41:22,188 Clear. - I know you want grandchildren. 767 00:41:22,271 --> 00:41:27,943 However, I cannot deny that I will definitely make children with you. 768 00:41:28,027 --> 00:41:30,154 And I'm not even asking for it… - Exactly. 769 00:41:30,237 --> 00:41:34,158 But I understand your question, and I don't see this as an attack. 770 00:41:34,241 --> 00:41:37,786 Of course it depends on you. You sort out your own affairs. 771 00:41:37,870 --> 00:41:40,956 But we vacationed in our childhood with our cousins. 772 00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:42,583 I know. - We went to a night village. 773 00:41:42,666 --> 00:41:45,920 I want it when we have kids. 774 00:41:46,003 --> 00:41:48,672 So. -Are your parents Asian? 775 00:41:48,756 --> 00:41:51,342 No, I'm adopted. -I see. Clear. 776 00:41:51,425 --> 00:41:54,970 My family is white. My parents are white. 777 00:41:55,054 --> 00:41:59,225 My sisters are white. I am the only adopted in the family. 778 00:41:59,308 --> 00:42:01,268 Were you adopted as a baby? 779 00:42:01,352 --> 00:42:04,188 I was three years old when I was adopted. -Clear. 780 00:42:04,271 --> 00:42:09,443 I spent three years in an orphanage, and then they chose me. 781 00:42:09,527 --> 00:42:12,154 Where were you adopted from? - From China. 782 00:42:12,238 --> 00:42:14,031 Great. - So you're Chinese. 783 00:42:14,114 --> 00:42:17,117 Yes. -You have Chinese ancestry. Clear. 784 00:42:17,201 --> 00:42:19,745 I don't know anything about my family or my background. 785 00:42:19,828 --> 00:42:22,831 It is something… We were just talking about children. I… 786 00:42:22,915 --> 00:42:26,168 Yeah. It's important. - I don't know the medical history. 787 00:42:26,252 --> 00:42:31,674 I had huge birthmarks all over my body. They had a cancer risk. 788 00:42:31,757 --> 00:42:36,512 I had eight amputations before the age of nine. 789 00:42:36,595 --> 00:42:42,101 I don't know if my parents had it or will it be inherited by my child. 790 00:42:42,184 --> 00:42:44,478 I have many fears… 791 00:42:44,562 --> 00:42:46,647 That's why you're on two stages. -Yes. 792 00:42:46,730 --> 00:42:48,023 Partly. 793 00:42:48,107 --> 00:42:53,487 Selfishly, I don't wish that for my children. -Absolutely. 794 00:42:53,571 --> 00:42:58,909 We talked about it in the agreement. Mike said our burdens are shared. 795 00:42:58,993 --> 00:43:02,288 "We'll get through this together." It stuck in my mind. 796 00:43:02,371 --> 00:43:07,376 I can talk to him about everything, my fears. I know he has my back. 797 00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:12,631 Marriage is a serious matter. You can't divorce half a year after the wedding. 798 00:43:12,715 --> 00:43:14,216 That's what I was worried about. 799 00:43:14,300 --> 00:43:17,219 Divorce is not an option. - We've talked about it. 800 00:43:17,303 --> 00:43:19,013 This is your life. 801 00:43:19,096 --> 00:43:25,144 We want with your mother and siblings, that you are happy in your life. 802 00:43:25,227 --> 00:43:28,939 I know. -If it's here, then it is. 803 00:43:30,566 --> 00:43:33,777 We accept him into the family as one we own. 804 00:43:33,861 --> 00:43:35,029 I know. 805 00:43:35,112 --> 00:43:40,242 When you are with someone for a long time, and you will survive adversity… 806 00:43:41,785 --> 00:43:43,037 That's what makes a family. 807 00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:44,204 So. 808 00:43:47,207 --> 00:43:50,878 I just hope you understand that going forward. 809 00:43:50,961 --> 00:43:51,879 Yes. 810 00:43:52,838 --> 00:43:57,718 I am hopeful and excited for Mike. I am excited about our future. 811 00:43:57,801 --> 00:44:03,265 I wouldn't do this or put others at risk, unless I was serious. 812 00:44:03,349 --> 00:44:04,600 Clear. 813 00:44:04,683 --> 00:44:07,645 Thank you for telling and being honest. 814 00:44:07,728 --> 00:44:10,064 I think Emma is captivating. 815 00:44:10,147 --> 00:44:12,524 He would be a great fit for our family. 816 00:44:12,608 --> 00:44:15,444 I see a similarity in them. 817 00:44:15,527 --> 00:44:18,155 i understand why they became interested in each other. 818 00:44:18,238 --> 00:44:20,824 He would be a great addition to our family. -Yes. 819 00:44:20,908 --> 00:44:23,202 We welcome him with open arms. 820 00:44:23,285 --> 00:44:25,537 You seem nice. - You are beautiful. 821 00:44:25,621 --> 00:44:27,539 You are beautiful. -Thanks. 822 00:44:27,623 --> 00:44:30,709 Keep working hard, you will find your way. 823 00:44:30,793 --> 00:44:35,756 You met each other blindly behind the wall... 824 00:44:59,613 --> 00:45:01,240 Hello? 825 00:45:05,494 --> 00:45:06,620 how was your day 826 00:45:10,124 --> 00:45:11,750 It was prolific. 827 00:45:11,834 --> 00:45:13,544 How so? 828 00:45:14,044 --> 00:45:16,797 A lot going on when we got back. 829 00:45:16,880 --> 00:45:22,136 I'm trying to get my life back on track and schedule everything. 830 00:45:22,219 --> 00:45:23,887 Where did you go in the evening? 831 00:45:23,971 --> 00:45:25,806 Where did I go in the evening? 832 00:45:25,889 --> 00:45:27,391 To Granville. 833 00:45:28,142 --> 00:45:33,689 If you had called quickly, that you want to see your friend… 834 00:45:33,772 --> 00:45:37,693 You wanted to talk to your friend and sleep in your room. 835 00:45:37,776 --> 00:45:40,612 I wouldn't have thought so bad today. 836 00:45:40,696 --> 00:45:43,157 Clear. -Instead, I got a message. 837 00:45:43,240 --> 00:45:47,119 "I'm going for a drink with my friend, I'll stay here." And that's it. 838 00:45:47,202 --> 00:45:49,413 I don't need constant contact. 839 00:45:49,496 --> 00:45:51,582 Neither do I, but I am your fiancée. 840 00:45:51,665 --> 00:45:54,376 I see. It's only been 48 hours. 841 00:45:54,460 --> 00:46:00,507 If you need time to think or something, it would be important to communicate about it. 842 00:46:00,591 --> 00:46:03,051 I said that when I left. 843 00:46:03,552 --> 00:46:07,055 You said you were hoping for a 13 hour break. 844 00:46:07,139 --> 00:46:09,725 I didn't say 13 hours. - I wouldn't come up with that. 845 00:46:09,808 --> 00:46:11,393 It was strange. - Did I say that? 846 00:46:11,477 --> 00:46:12,853 You said. -Clear. 847 00:46:12,936 --> 00:46:15,355 I remember because it was weird. - I believe you. 848 00:46:15,439 --> 00:46:17,608 I don't remember saying that, but ok. 849 00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:20,152 When I communicate, 850 00:46:20,903 --> 00:46:24,656 it doesn't have to be continuous… 851 00:46:24,740 --> 00:46:26,283 These two days. 852 00:46:26,366 --> 00:46:28,827 Not for me either. -Clear. 853 00:46:28,911 --> 00:46:31,497 But if I say… -That's what it sounds like now. 854 00:46:31,580 --> 00:46:34,958 I sent one message about it and i said i love you 855 00:46:35,042 --> 00:46:38,378 It was nice. -You didn't answer anything all day. 856 00:46:38,962 --> 00:46:43,300 That's quite a long way to go for constant communication. 857 00:46:46,261 --> 00:46:49,181 i feel like that I wasn't always direct enough. 858 00:46:53,769 --> 00:46:56,271 Do we have a good physical connection? 859 00:46:56,355 --> 00:46:57,940 There is. Not about you? 860 00:46:58,023 --> 00:47:00,692 I think that is extremely important. 861 00:47:02,069 --> 00:47:03,362 And I just… 862 00:47:03,862 --> 00:47:06,532 I want to try and give it my all. 863 00:47:10,953 --> 00:47:13,288 I try to choose my words carefully. 864 00:47:14,039 --> 00:47:16,083 I'll start here. 865 00:47:16,166 --> 00:47:18,627 I want to see this through. 866 00:47:18,710 --> 00:47:19,837 Clear. 867 00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:23,674 Because we got engaged for a reason. 868 00:47:23,757 --> 00:47:26,176 We had a great connection. 869 00:47:27,427 --> 00:47:29,972 It was genuine. 870 00:47:32,224 --> 00:47:35,018 I didn't know what you looked like and… 871 00:47:35,102 --> 00:47:37,855 To be perfectly honest… 872 00:47:37,938 --> 00:47:41,149 Without sounding like a dick… I can't say that. 873 00:47:41,233 --> 00:47:45,904 I usually meet people who do CrossFit and stuff. 874 00:47:47,906 --> 00:47:49,950 I try to… 875 00:47:50,868 --> 00:47:52,077 I don't know. 876 00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:54,204 They worked out constantly. -Clear. 877 00:47:54,288 --> 00:47:56,874 They had a different type of… 878 00:47:58,500 --> 00:47:59,668 I don't know. 879 00:47:59,751 --> 00:48:01,712 A different body? 880 00:48:02,421 --> 00:48:08,427 For example, someone did Pilates every day or worked out every day. 881 00:48:09,761 --> 00:48:11,179 In those situations - 882 00:48:11,263 --> 00:48:17,477 it's hard for me physically - 883 00:48:17,978 --> 00:48:21,607 get fired up about it at that moment. 884 00:48:24,943 --> 00:48:27,029 I don't know if I feel it. 885 00:49:09,696 --> 00:49:11,615 Subtitles: Katariina Uusitupa