1 00:00:27,460 --> 00:00:32,168 I think... I'd like to believe... 2 00:00:32,918 --> 00:00:37,043 I want to see myself as a giving person. 3 00:00:38,293 --> 00:00:43,376 And I probably just can too like the idea of, - 4 00:00:43,543 --> 00:00:47,168 - that there is a part of me out there somewhere. 5 00:00:50,210 --> 00:00:53,043 Should I say something to them? 6 00:00:55,085 --> 00:00:56,751 Hello! 7 00:00:59,668 --> 00:01:02,460 I hope you are loved. 8 00:01:02,626 --> 00:01:05,043 You probably are, - 9 00:01:05,210 --> 00:01:09,960 - for your parents went through a lot to get you. 10 00:01:14,751 --> 00:01:17,168 Life will be good. 11 00:01:18,668 --> 00:01:20,876 And bad. 12 00:01:21,043 --> 00:01:23,293 So... 13 00:01:24,168 --> 00:01:25,876 Good luck! 14 00:01:56,085 --> 00:02:00,043 {\an8}Hello, Edith! Sigurd is outside. 15 00:02:00,210 --> 00:02:04,501 {\an8}- Okay. I was just thinking about… - What did you say? 16 00:02:04,668 --> 00:02:09,460 {\an8}Have you distributed the books I gave you? The Karla books. 17 00:02:09,626 --> 00:02:13,376 {\an8}Karla? Yes, I have. 18 00:02:14,335 --> 00:02:17,168 {\an8}Good. Have you read them? 19 00:02:17,335 --> 00:02:20,376 {\an8}Yes. Thus, I don't have an overview of... 20 00:02:20,543 --> 00:02:23,585 {\an8}... how far the others have come. 21 00:02:23,751 --> 00:02:26,585 {\an8}But I guess they are on the case. 22 00:02:26,751 --> 00:02:28,585 {\an8}But you have? 23 00:02:30,460 --> 00:02:34,001 {\an8}- Not yet. - I'm going to make so many of them! 24 00:02:34,168 --> 00:02:37,835 {\an8}So do I! Yes, like that! 25 00:02:41,751 --> 00:02:46,168 {\an8}Can I have one of these from you? Wow, is that your cake? 26 00:02:47,001 --> 00:02:49,793 What do you fancy today? 27 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:53,710 - Salmon and sweet potatoes! - Yes! It sounds delicious. 28 00:02:53,876 --> 00:02:58,085 Why is it always you who fetches Sigurd? 29 00:02:58,251 --> 00:03:01,460 - Is his father dead? - No. 30 00:03:01,626 --> 00:03:03,210 Is he in jail? 31 00:03:03,376 --> 00:03:08,918 No, but since I wanted to make Sigurd, there were no fathers available. 32 00:03:09,085 --> 00:03:13,251 - So I was at the hospital... - Everyone has a father. 33 00:03:13,418 --> 00:03:16,043 Children screw up what is normal. 34 00:03:16,210 --> 00:03:20,626 I thought so too but they must have a language for it. 35 00:03:20,793 --> 00:03:26,626 If adults don't explain how things are, the child creates pictures himself. 36 00:03:26,793 --> 00:03:30,960 It's about time you hang out more with adults, Edith. 37 00:03:31,126 --> 00:03:34,251 You can date well, even if you have a child. 38 00:03:34,418 --> 00:03:40,085 What is the book about? “Karla has no father and that's great!" 39 00:03:40,251 --> 00:03:44,126 Yes, there you summarize the whole book on a dot. 40 00:03:44,293 --> 00:03:51,918 It should be about how nice it is is to avoid being two people about everything. 41 00:03:52,085 --> 00:03:56,710 Did you poke me a little there? Maybe you should just do everything alone? 42 00:03:56,876 --> 00:04:01,710 - Why didn't I realize it before? - Now it's too late. 43 00:04:01,876 --> 00:04:05,085 But speaking of donors… 44 00:04:05,251 --> 00:04:09,626 you never told what you were told about your 45 00:04:09,793 --> 00:04:13,501 - If I may ask? - Yes, of course. 46 00:04:13,668 --> 00:04:17,168 - That's a boring question. - No. 47 00:04:17,335 --> 00:04:20,501 - I am asking completely without prejudice. - That's fine. 48 00:04:20,668 --> 00:04:24,876 There are diary-like fields about, how they see themselves. 49 00:04:25,043 --> 00:04:28,085 - Hobbies, life... - You have the audio recording. 50 00:04:28,251 --> 00:04:32,751 - A sound recording? - The donor in conversation with a psychologist. 51 00:04:32,918 --> 00:04:37,251 - I didn't know that. - Can you see him as anonymous? 52 00:04:37,418 --> 00:04:40,918 i don't know what his name is or where he lives. 53 00:04:41,085 --> 00:04:44,043 And I don't want to know either. 54 00:04:44,210 --> 00:04:51,043 - But a sperm donor can only lie. - No one will do that. 55 00:04:51,210 --> 00:04:56,085 If I wanted to be chosen, I just came up with a lot. 56 00:04:56,251 --> 00:05:01,043 "I was number one in the class and ran 60 meters in seven seconds." 57 00:05:01,210 --> 00:05:05,126 The psychologist who interviews, would intercept if they lied. 58 00:05:05,293 --> 00:05:10,043 Psychologists... If you're smart, you can get around it. 59 00:05:10,210 --> 00:05:15,543 Imagine a young guy who wants to spread his genes and make some money. 60 00:05:15,710 --> 00:05:18,710 Are you thinking of becoming a sperm donor? 61 00:05:18,876 --> 00:05:23,335 Some of them are 18. Yours frontal lobes are not fused. 62 00:05:23,501 --> 00:05:26,710 Is it the same wine as before? 63 00:05:26,876 --> 00:05:32,126 It is sick to think about, for Sigurd is after all 50% of this donor. 64 00:05:32,293 --> 00:05:34,626 But who would do that? 65 00:05:34,793 --> 00:05:40,918 I watched a video on YouTube. Remember I told you about it? 66 00:05:41,085 --> 00:05:45,126 A lady in the US found out, the donor was schizophrenic. 67 00:05:45,293 --> 00:05:50,168 - Thorbjørn. Now that's enough. - You should probably ask about it. 68 00:05:50,335 --> 00:05:54,001 - There's mom! - Hello, Trine! Hello, my friend. 69 00:05:54,168 --> 00:05:58,501 - Can I have pizza? - Not before I get a good hug. 70 00:05:58,668 --> 00:06:03,085 - I'm sure you're having a good time. - Yes. It's Marie and Thorbjørn. 71 00:06:03,251 --> 00:06:06,918 - You probably remember Selma. - Hello. Thanks for last. 72 00:06:07,085 --> 00:06:11,460 Trine and I found out that Sigurd and Amanda are half-siblings. 73 00:06:11,626 --> 00:06:13,876 - Have you had a good day? - A lot. 74 00:06:15,626 --> 00:06:17,293 So cozy. 75 00:06:17,460 --> 00:06:21,168 There is no room for the bicycle wheel, I found. 76 00:06:21,335 --> 00:06:24,793 That's why I want a new box. Amanda has one. 77 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:30,418 But she doesn't use it for that to collect something in. She just has it. 78 00:06:31,668 --> 00:06:33,751 Mother! 79 00:06:35,293 --> 00:06:41,710 When Karla's mother wanted a child, she had no father for the child. 80 00:06:41,876 --> 00:06:45,626 So she went to the doctor and asked for help. 81 00:06:48,751 --> 00:06:54,210 The doctor found a sperm donor. Karla don't know what a sperm donor is, - 82 00:06:54,376 --> 00:06:59,335 - but he must be nice, because he helped her and mother to get each other. 83 00:06:59,501 --> 00:07:02,710 Albert Åberg knows where his father is. 84 00:07:02,876 --> 00:07:07,085 Yes, but he doesn't know where his mother is. 85 00:07:07,251 --> 00:07:10,751 - Amanda has got a father now. - Yes. 86 00:07:10,918 --> 00:07:14,918 - You like Amanda, right? - Yeah. 87 00:07:19,418 --> 00:07:20,835 Look at him! 88 00:07:21,001 --> 00:07:24,710 - I want to read another book. - Yes. 89 00:07:27,085 --> 00:07:30,251 Good idea. We are reading another book. 90 00:08:12,918 --> 00:08:15,251 - Hello. - Hello. 91 00:08:17,085 --> 00:08:19,293 Aren't you going to bed? 92 00:08:20,918 --> 00:08:22,793 Yes. 93 00:08:23,876 --> 00:08:26,251 The clock is many. 94 00:08:29,918 --> 00:08:31,876 Let me see you. 95 00:08:33,293 --> 00:08:36,960 Have you completely stopped to go to the hairdresser? 96 00:08:39,585 --> 00:08:43,335 Now you must go to bed. The clock is many. 97 00:08:44,293 --> 00:08:47,335 - Go to bed now. - Yes. 98 00:08:49,210 --> 00:08:51,376 Good night, mom. 99 00:09:10,585 --> 00:09:14,376 Donor number 24897: Inuus. Welcome. 100 00:09:14,543 --> 00:09:16,085 Thank you. 101 00:09:16,251 --> 00:09:19,001 Tell us a little about yourself. 102 00:09:19,168 --> 00:09:21,418 I am from Norway. 103 00:09:22,876 --> 00:09:26,585 I live in Copenhagen now because of my job. 104 00:09:26,751 --> 00:09:29,210 May I say that? 105 00:09:29,376 --> 00:09:33,043 Yes, that information will appear in your profile. 106 00:09:33,210 --> 00:09:37,460 Can you tell us about your current job situation? 107 00:09:37,626 --> 00:09:42,043 What are you doing? You are self-employed? 108 00:09:42,210 --> 00:09:45,376 It sounds like like I'm unemployed. 109 00:09:45,543 --> 00:09:49,710 No, I am a contractor. Tech developer. 110 00:09:49,876 --> 00:09:52,835 Why did you choose that industry? 111 00:09:53,001 --> 00:09:56,918 That was enough, because I'm good at it. 112 00:09:57,085 --> 00:10:03,585 I love fermentation. Kimchi, kombucha, sourdough bread. 113 00:10:03,751 --> 00:10:10,126 I just bought a mountain bike. I enjoy cycling in the forest. 114 00:10:10,293 --> 00:10:14,001 And I played tennis for a while. 115 00:10:15,043 --> 00:10:17,460 But I wasn't very good. 116 00:10:17,626 --> 00:10:20,585 What kind of people is your type? 117 00:10:20,751 --> 00:10:26,585 People who share my interests. Shares my values. 118 00:10:26,751 --> 00:10:29,918 I was on the computer a lot as a child. 119 00:10:30,085 --> 00:10:34,626 So why not use the experience I already had? 120 00:10:34,793 --> 00:10:40,001 Then I can use my knowledge and the technology in a positive way. 121 00:10:40,168 --> 00:10:43,501 To help children learn for example. 122 00:10:43,668 --> 00:10:48,126 {\an8}I also want to help people to have a better life. 123 00:10:49,126 --> 00:10:54,251 I am curious. I like to observe others. 124 00:10:54,418 --> 00:10:56,460 It's a passion. 125 00:10:56,626 --> 00:11:02,085 Better to ask questions and listen than talking about myself. 126 00:11:02,251 --> 00:11:07,376 - And Edith? What are you signing? - Not a big deal. 127 00:11:12,043 --> 00:11:17,210 I'm finishing the interview with her the researcher in Trondheim. 128 00:11:17,376 --> 00:11:19,001 About genetic engineering. 129 00:11:19,168 --> 00:11:23,251 And then I have an interview with a 17-year-old in custody. 130 00:11:23,418 --> 00:11:25,501 Is it ready for Thursday? 131 00:11:25,668 --> 00:11:29,293 Yes, or... We lost the source in Nesbru yesterday. 132 00:11:29,460 --> 00:11:33,668 He withdrew during the quote check, so I have to start over. 133 00:11:33,835 --> 00:11:36,168 Petter, are you at the royal house? 134 00:11:36,335 --> 00:11:39,668 She gets most confused at night. 135 00:11:39,835 --> 00:11:44,751 She isolates herself more and more and does not want to meet with friends. 136 00:11:46,460 --> 00:11:48,126 Thanks! 137 00:11:48,293 --> 00:11:51,210 So you have two children at home? 138 00:11:51,376 --> 00:11:54,251 - Yes. - Maybe you can call Kari. 139 00:11:54,418 --> 00:11:57,168 Make her air Dorte. 140 00:11:57,335 --> 00:12:02,418 - What does Sigurd say to that? - I guess he doesn't understand. 141 00:12:02,585 --> 00:12:06,293 It will probably scare him, that she changes. 142 00:12:06,460 --> 00:12:11,085 - Maybe she needs to see the doctor again. - I'm considering it. 143 00:12:11,251 --> 00:12:16,460 - Selma! Look what I got! - A Zippo! How beautiful it is. 144 00:12:16,626 --> 00:12:20,751 We can polish it and get in your set box. 145 00:12:22,501 --> 00:12:25,918 - He's a type. - An old soul. 146 00:12:32,376 --> 00:12:35,043 I was an easy child. 147 00:12:35,210 --> 00:12:39,210 I sat and watched, that my older siblings played. 148 00:12:39,376 --> 00:12:43,626 I wasn't that interested in children my own age. 149 00:12:43,793 --> 00:12:46,543 What do you think caused it? 150 00:12:46,710 --> 00:12:49,460 You probably know better. 151 00:12:49,626 --> 00:12:52,710 I like to observe others. 152 00:12:57,418 --> 00:13:02,168 I'm not shy, but... I'm sensitive. 153 00:13:02,335 --> 00:13:05,460 They actually called me Buddha. 154 00:13:06,793 --> 00:13:12,168 I don't get possessed, but I immersing myself in my interests. 155 00:13:12,335 --> 00:13:15,210 Are you planning to start a family? 156 00:13:17,668 --> 00:13:21,293 It depends, what is happening in my life. 157 00:13:21,460 --> 00:13:26,126 Better to ask questions and listen than talking. 158 00:13:26,293 --> 00:13:31,418 I want to see myself as a giving person. 159 00:13:31,585 --> 00:13:37,085 I am a turbo reader and the outdoorsy type. I thrive in other people's spaces. 160 00:13:37,251 --> 00:13:40,668 If you could change anything by yourself... 161 00:13:40,835 --> 00:13:43,751 There are probably many things. 162 00:13:43,918 --> 00:13:48,460 I would have liked to have greater self-confidence as a child. 163 00:14:04,418 --> 00:14:07,376 Do you ever think about dad? 164 00:14:12,835 --> 00:14:16,418 Why do you want to talk about him now? 165 00:14:19,835 --> 00:14:25,501 I remember thinking, it was my fault that he... left. 166 00:14:27,918 --> 00:14:31,251 It's strange to think about now. 167 00:14:34,793 --> 00:14:39,835 I tried to make myself invisible, so he wanted to come home again. 168 00:14:41,293 --> 00:14:43,293 But... 169 00:14:43,460 --> 00:14:47,335 Aren't we two getting along fine? You and I. 170 00:14:48,793 --> 00:14:51,335 Yes, yes. We had a good time. 171 00:14:51,501 --> 00:14:55,168 - Had? - We're fine. 172 00:15:04,668 --> 00:15:07,918 I went out and met him, when I was twelve. 173 00:15:08,085 --> 00:15:12,043 Did you meet him, without me knowing? 174 00:15:12,210 --> 00:15:14,085 Yes. 175 00:15:16,085 --> 00:15:22,210 I couldn't call him father. I think he was relieved about that. 176 00:15:23,085 --> 00:15:25,001 There you can just see. 177 00:15:26,376 --> 00:15:29,335 He was never a father, Edith. 178 00:15:32,293 --> 00:15:36,126 - Pancakes and... - Hey hey! 179 00:15:36,293 --> 00:15:40,210 - Have a good time! - Hey, hey, Jens! 180 00:15:54,835 --> 00:15:57,876 Don't you have any? proper birthday wishes? 181 00:15:58,043 --> 00:16:01,251 Those are proper birthday wishes! 182 00:16:01,418 --> 00:16:04,793 - No, not things from the street. - Yes! 183 00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:08,501 - But there is still some time left. - Yes. 184 00:16:08,668 --> 00:16:11,876 You don't want Pokémon cards or something? 185 00:16:12,043 --> 00:16:15,501 Only if it's not from a store and is old. 186 00:16:15,668 --> 00:16:20,251 We'll go to the toy store later and find a present for your brother. 187 00:16:20,418 --> 00:16:22,585 No, it has to be special! 188 00:16:22,751 --> 00:16:27,501 Baby, it's so nice that you want something special. 189 00:16:27,668 --> 00:16:32,460 But you're making it a little difficult for Amanda. Should it be from the street? 190 00:16:32,626 --> 00:16:38,210 - She asked what I wanted. - Do you want to join in the ring game? 191 00:16:38,376 --> 00:16:41,960 - Then you two can have a little break. - Thank you. 192 00:16:47,043 --> 00:16:49,668 Sigurd looks more and more like Amanda. 193 00:16:49,835 --> 00:16:53,585 I don't really have that now thought about. 194 00:16:53,751 --> 00:16:56,668 I googled collector mania the other day. 195 00:16:56,835 --> 00:16:59,543 It seems to have something to do with OCD. 196 00:17:01,001 --> 00:17:05,376 Okay. I also googled. It certainly isn't. 197 00:17:05,543 --> 00:17:07,835 It's probably genetic. 198 00:17:09,168 --> 00:17:11,085 Were you like that? 199 00:17:12,335 --> 00:17:16,085 - I don't remember that. - It could be from Inuus. 200 00:17:18,751 --> 00:17:24,043 - Shouldn't we just relax now? - Yeah. 201 00:17:25,793 --> 00:17:28,376 It's so nice here. 202 00:17:36,793 --> 00:17:39,168 I have found Inuus. 203 00:17:41,168 --> 00:17:43,501 - I have his name. - What? 204 00:17:43,668 --> 00:17:48,501 I had to find it to put it out of mind. 205 00:17:53,668 --> 00:17:56,335 But it's totally... 206 00:17:57,501 --> 00:18:01,460 Jens also doesn't like I think of him. 207 00:18:01,626 --> 00:18:06,335 It's hard for him, for me already had Amanda when we met. 208 00:18:08,501 --> 00:18:12,335 But he likes to hear about you. Us "sisters". 209 00:18:13,501 --> 00:18:17,001 That Amanda and Sigurd are like siblings. 210 00:18:20,835 --> 00:18:22,960 I just want to… 211 00:18:23,126 --> 00:18:26,043 He lives out here on Nesodden. 212 00:18:26,210 --> 00:18:27,876 - Here? - Yes. 213 00:18:28,043 --> 00:18:31,668 His name is Niels Krohn. Isn't that a sick name? 214 00:18:31,835 --> 00:18:36,710 Or maybe not sick. But it suddenly becomes so concrete. 215 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:43,001 - Hey hey! - Hey hey! Thank you for today. 216 00:18:45,376 --> 00:18:50,126 I think we'll just go. I kind of want to go. 217 00:18:50,293 --> 00:18:54,668 Can we take a picture first? We always forget that. 218 00:18:56,168 --> 00:18:57,543 Smile! 219 00:18:57,710 --> 00:19:01,710 - Say cheese pop! - Cheese pop! 220 00:19:03,043 --> 00:19:05,001 Take two more. 221 00:19:07,251 --> 00:19:09,293 Cheese pop! 222 00:19:11,626 --> 00:19:14,626 - Cheese, cheese! - Smile, everyone! 223 00:19:16,668 --> 00:19:18,168 Whey cheese! 224 00:20:32,418 --> 00:20:35,085 Game developer reaching over 20 million users 225 00:20:38,251 --> 00:20:41,751 Game developer faces criticism from the Minister of Science 226 00:21:28,710 --> 00:21:33,626 - ... had more confidence... - If you could change one thing... 227 00:21:38,460 --> 00:21:42,085 Hello! It's your donor. 228 00:21:44,001 --> 00:21:46,501 Mom, what was that? 229 00:21:46,668 --> 00:21:48,918 It's just grandma. 230 00:21:50,751 --> 00:21:53,251 She is strange. 231 00:21:54,043 --> 00:21:55,543 Hello. 232 00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:20,501 - Hello? - Niels Krohn? 233 00:22:20,668 --> 00:22:21,918 Yes? 234 00:22:22,085 --> 00:22:26,168 Hello! It's Edith Westerlund from Aftenposten. 235 00:22:26,335 --> 00:22:28,710 Do you have time for a chat? 236 00:22:29,710 --> 00:22:32,668 What is it about? 237 00:22:34,293 --> 00:22:38,210 I am writing a story about Norwegian game developers. 238 00:22:38,376 --> 00:22:41,835 - And you want to write about me? - Yes. 239 00:22:46,168 --> 00:22:50,751 I can't stand another article about, that I make children addicted to games. 240 00:22:50,918 --> 00:22:52,960 That's not the angle. 241 00:22:53,126 --> 00:22:57,918 I write about Norwegian game developers with success abroad. 242 00:22:58,085 --> 00:22:59,835 Okay. 243 00:23:00,001 --> 00:23:03,918 - Well... Yes ... - Yes? 244 00:23:04,085 --> 00:23:07,043 Where do you usually... 245 00:23:07,210 --> 00:23:10,751 I can get out... come to you. 246 00:23:11,626 --> 00:23:14,918 I live on Nesodden. It's probably a bit of a hassle. 247 00:23:15,085 --> 00:23:17,626 I love Nesodden. 248 00:23:18,918 --> 00:23:22,668 - If it's not too difficult? - No, no. 249 00:23:22,835 --> 00:23:26,126 That's my trick to make you relax. 250 00:23:26,293 --> 00:23:32,126 I can send an SMS with dates and time of day. Then we'll take it from there. 251 00:23:32,293 --> 00:23:35,460 - Okay, fine. - All time. 252 00:23:35,626 --> 00:23:39,918 - See you then. - Yes, fine. Okay. 253 00:23:40,085 --> 00:23:42,835 - Hello, so long. - Hello. 254 00:25:07,335 --> 00:25:09,043 - Hello! - Hello. 255 00:25:09,210 --> 00:25:11,168 - Are you Edith? - Yes. 256 00:25:11,335 --> 00:25:15,626 Was it difficult to get out here? Come inside! 257 00:25:20,501 --> 00:25:24,001 It's cold here, so take a pair of slippers. 258 00:25:24,168 --> 00:25:25,585 That's fine. 259 00:25:25,751 --> 00:25:29,251 You must wear slippers. It's really cold. 260 00:25:31,585 --> 00:25:34,626 - Let me see. These ones? - Yes. 261 00:25:37,501 --> 00:25:39,335 Such. 262 00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:44,043 cozy, that you would come out here. 263 00:25:47,710 --> 00:25:51,251 Would you like coffee or tea? 264 00:26:11,751 --> 00:26:15,710 I probably should have asked on the phone, but... 265 00:26:15,876 --> 00:26:18,710 My daughter wants to be a journalist. 266 00:26:18,876 --> 00:26:23,293 I said she must be a fly on the wall today. 267 00:26:24,668 --> 00:26:26,876 - Does it matter? - No. 268 00:26:28,543 --> 00:26:29,835 Such. 269 00:26:30,001 --> 00:26:35,668 I think it was a bit random. I wasn't much of a gamer. 270 00:26:36,543 --> 00:26:40,751 But are you a permanent employee? somewhere in that role, or ...? 271 00:26:40,918 --> 00:26:47,293 Now I guess I'm a consultant in one's own company, one might say. 272 00:26:47,460 --> 00:26:51,168 And then I teach a little next to it. 273 00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:56,001 So... yes. 274 00:26:57,293 --> 00:27:03,251 It was a little strange that you contacted me. There are so many other experts. 275 00:27:04,626 --> 00:27:08,293 Which might be more... current. 276 00:27:09,501 --> 00:27:13,251 But that's cool. It's fun to... 277 00:27:13,418 --> 00:27:17,835 After all, Fruit Hippo was a very big success. In his time. 278 00:27:18,001 --> 00:27:20,501 And you got a lot of criticism. 279 00:27:20,668 --> 00:27:24,460 It is exciting to hear how you got on. 280 00:27:24,626 --> 00:27:26,585 Yes... 281 00:27:28,585 --> 00:27:33,418 Of course I have myself backed by the ethical dilemmas. 282 00:27:33,585 --> 00:27:35,460 It can... 283 00:27:38,376 --> 00:27:41,293 What about the programming of the game? 284 00:27:41,460 --> 00:27:46,668 Were the ethical guidelines something, Did you think about that in the process? 285 00:27:46,835 --> 00:27:51,543 It was such a great success, much faster than expected. 286 00:27:51,710 --> 00:27:54,876 And much bigger than expected. 287 00:27:55,043 --> 00:27:57,168 Naive Smug 288 00:27:57,335 --> 00:28:00,043 I was responsible for the creative. 289 00:28:00,210 --> 00:28:04,668 Not so much the programming because of my dyslexia. 290 00:28:04,835 --> 00:28:09,960 We had discussions around the launch period. 291 00:28:10,126 --> 00:28:15,460 We were aware of it, but no one expected such a great success. 292 00:28:15,626 --> 00:28:18,168 So you have dyslexia? 293 00:28:20,418 --> 00:28:23,585 I don't have dyslexia. 294 00:28:23,751 --> 00:28:29,960 - No. Because it's not hereditary, is it? - Yes, I think so. My father has it. 295 00:28:30,126 --> 00:28:33,835 So... I need something to drink. 296 00:28:34,001 --> 00:28:36,460 - Do you want something? - No thanks. 297 00:28:36,626 --> 00:28:39,543 - Something to eat? - Otherwise, thank you. 298 00:28:48,668 --> 00:28:51,293 Why are you interviewing him anyway? 299 00:28:52,418 --> 00:28:54,085 Yes... 300 00:28:55,168 --> 00:28:58,043 - What do you mean? - No, no. Not... 301 00:28:58,210 --> 00:29:01,168 Don't listen to her. She is totally… 302 00:29:02,376 --> 00:29:04,668 ...completely confused. 303 00:29:11,543 --> 00:29:14,001 - Can I borrow a toilet? - Yes. 304 00:29:14,168 --> 00:29:16,335 If you go up... 305 00:30:40,376 --> 00:30:44,335 - Then it's no worse. - It's not normal. 306 00:30:44,501 --> 00:30:48,460 It doesn't happen every day. Then it's not worse. 307 00:30:48,626 --> 00:30:51,293 Yes, because now I had to... 308 00:30:51,460 --> 00:30:57,001 You act like it's happening every day. The world is not ending... 309 00:30:57,168 --> 00:31:01,876 - He went to school without food! - And then what?! Typical you... 310 00:31:02,043 --> 00:31:05,001 - Now we have to go. - Hey, hey, Silas. 311 00:31:15,585 --> 00:31:19,501 Molly picks up a pencil sharpener. We can just keep going. 312 00:31:19,668 --> 00:31:24,751 If it doesn't fit, can we take it another day. 313 00:31:26,293 --> 00:31:33,085 In step with technology rapid development, new... 314 00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:37,210 ...ethical issues... 315 00:31:37,376 --> 00:31:41,460 I want to see myself as a giving person. 316 00:31:41,626 --> 00:31:45,293 And I probably just can too like the idea of, - 317 00:31:45,460 --> 00:31:49,501 - that there is a part of me out there somewhere. 318 00:31:52,835 --> 00:31:55,001 - And then... - Piss. 319 00:31:57,126 --> 00:32:01,376 - What is there? - I have to pick up my son from kindergarten. 320 00:32:02,418 --> 00:32:04,918 - Sorry. - All right. 321 00:32:05,085 --> 00:32:09,626 They have called many times. He must be really sick. 322 00:32:09,793 --> 00:32:15,335 - Has thrown up all over the place. - Did you get everything you need? 323 00:32:15,501 --> 00:32:18,710 We'll just have to look at that. Sorry. 324 00:32:18,876 --> 00:32:22,001 I know what it's like to have children. 325 00:32:22,168 --> 00:32:26,335 Thanks. You don't have to follow me out. I'll find out myself. 326 00:32:26,501 --> 00:32:30,085 - So can we just talk? - Yes. 327 00:32:34,418 --> 00:32:36,043 are you going 328 00:32:36,793 --> 00:32:39,626 Sorry, but my son has fallen ill. 329 00:32:39,793 --> 00:32:43,793 I have a school assignment with some questions for you. 330 00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:46,335 It takes no time. 331 00:32:46,501 --> 00:32:50,251 For example: “What does it take to become a journalist?" 332 00:32:50,418 --> 00:32:54,293 “How many hours in a day Do you work as a journalist?" 333 00:32:54,460 --> 00:32:56,835 "Do you get an internship?" 334 00:32:57,001 --> 00:32:59,710 Molly. Edith has to go. 335 00:32:59,876 --> 00:33:03,168 Maybe we can continue another day. 336 00:33:05,043 --> 00:33:08,001 - Is it fine? - Can't we write by? 337 00:33:18,918 --> 00:33:22,835 It's the most fucked-up, you ever did. 338 00:33:23,001 --> 00:33:28,126 Yes, but now I can put it behind me. Now the case is out of the question. 339 00:33:28,293 --> 00:33:32,876 If he asks, I just say, that the story came to nothing. 340 00:33:33,043 --> 00:33:36,460 But you didn't finish at all. 341 00:33:38,210 --> 00:33:43,210 Then I say I got fired. I'm not going over there again. 342 00:33:44,126 --> 00:33:48,835 - But what did you find out? - He has a wife and two children. 343 00:33:49,001 --> 00:33:53,085 No! Has he donated sperm, while he was married? 344 00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:57,585 - Does the wife know? - I haven't thought about that. 345 00:33:57,751 --> 00:34:00,626 Do you think he lied to her? 346 00:34:02,876 --> 00:34:06,960 What does he look like? Send me a picture. 347 00:34:10,168 --> 00:34:11,835 Like that. 348 00:34:15,001 --> 00:34:18,501 - I see Sigurd. In his smile. - Yes. 349 00:34:18,668 --> 00:34:22,460 - This is insane! - What am I doing wrong? 350 00:34:22,626 --> 00:34:28,501 Trine is sick of giving you his name. She must not know you met him. 351 00:34:28,668 --> 00:34:30,751 What's up mom? 352 00:34:36,793 --> 00:34:40,168 - With what? - You are strange. 353 00:34:40,335 --> 00:34:42,376 Am I weird? 354 00:35:18,626 --> 00:35:22,376 - It's the red one. - I know that well. 355 00:35:30,168 --> 00:35:34,043 Have you got any better birthday wishes from Sigurd? 356 00:35:34,210 --> 00:35:38,751 - What do you mean better? - He is so busy with his collection. 357 00:35:38,918 --> 00:35:44,085 I can't go out into the street and find an old stick for him. 358 00:35:45,251 --> 00:35:50,418 - He just wants something special. - He is very concerned about it. 359 00:35:50,585 --> 00:35:54,085 I can take him with out shopping, - 360 00:35:54,251 --> 00:35:59,293 - then he can choose himself a decent thing, he thinks it's nice. 361 00:36:00,501 --> 00:36:02,001 Yes. 362 00:36:03,418 --> 00:36:07,168 there is something I would like to talk to you about 363 00:36:07,335 --> 00:36:08,918 Okay? 364 00:36:12,876 --> 00:36:16,960 So try to say something. Now you're in over your head again. 365 00:36:17,126 --> 00:36:19,293 It's a little hard to talk about. 366 00:36:20,126 --> 00:36:22,043 I... 367 00:36:22,210 --> 00:36:26,501 It's probably best that you don't go out with Sigurd... 368 00:36:28,335 --> 00:36:30,335 ...going forward. 369 00:36:33,418 --> 00:36:35,293 Yes... 370 00:36:35,460 --> 00:36:40,085 He is at an age where he is difficult to keep track of. 371 00:36:41,043 --> 00:36:45,085 It is best that you two are only together at home. 372 00:36:45,251 --> 00:36:49,793 That you are playing with him here. You're really good at that. 373 00:37:04,501 --> 00:37:09,293 - I go to myself. - May I ask something else? 374 00:37:09,460 --> 00:37:12,585 I also collected strange things as a child? 375 00:37:12,751 --> 00:37:16,626 I don't remember that. Maybe, maybe not. 376 00:37:20,835 --> 00:37:25,335 {\an8}Hello Niels! Thanks for last. Sorry for my late reply. 377 00:37:25,501 --> 00:37:29,001 {\an8}Now my editor has... 378 00:37:39,918 --> 00:37:41,585 Excuse me. 379 00:37:43,751 --> 00:37:47,918 Edith? There is a Niels Krohn here, who will talk to you. 380 00:37:49,710 --> 00:37:52,376 - Here? - He says you write about him. 381 00:37:52,543 --> 00:37:55,126 - Is he here now? - Yes, in the lobby. 382 00:37:57,126 --> 00:38:00,876 - Have I heard of that story? - No. 383 00:38:01,793 --> 00:38:07,626 - I haven't gotten that far yet. - Shall we take it during the lunch break? 384 00:38:29,001 --> 00:38:33,376 Sorry we're just showing up but we were close. 385 00:38:33,543 --> 00:38:38,626 And Molly wanted to hear, if you could tell more. Not? 386 00:38:38,793 --> 00:38:43,376 At first I said no. You are probably busy. 387 00:38:43,543 --> 00:38:48,168 But you were very insistent. So we wanted to hear about… 388 00:38:49,626 --> 00:38:52,001 ...if it were possible. 389 00:38:52,168 --> 00:38:58,460 Let me think for a moment. We have an evaluation meeting now, - 390 00:38:58,626 --> 00:39:02,293 - and I have quite a few things, I have to reach before that. 391 00:39:02,460 --> 00:39:06,960 Just forget we were here. Don't think about it. 392 00:39:07,126 --> 00:39:10,293 But I want to talk to you more Molly. 393 00:39:10,460 --> 00:39:14,376 I wanted to ask if you can look at my assignment. 394 00:39:14,543 --> 00:39:19,668 And if there were more to come in relation to the interview, - 395 00:39:19,835 --> 00:39:23,085 - so don't hesitate to speak up. 396 00:39:23,251 --> 00:39:27,335 I have not heard from the editor, if it comes to anything. 397 00:39:27,501 --> 00:39:31,085 I'm waiting for his final approval. 398 00:39:31,251 --> 00:39:33,751 Okay. But... 399 00:39:34,668 --> 00:39:39,751 Okay, so just say when you know if the article turns into anything. 400 00:39:39,918 --> 00:39:42,918 Yes. I have to run now, but... 401 00:39:43,793 --> 00:39:47,918 - We'll talk. - I apologize for the disturbance. 402 00:39:49,001 --> 00:39:52,126 We don't follow another success story. 403 00:39:52,293 --> 00:39:56,043 Agreed. But I don't know if we can use him for anything. 404 00:39:56,210 --> 00:40:01,543 - Didn't you mention a game? - Yes, he was behind Fruit Hippo. 405 00:40:01,710 --> 00:40:05,585 Was it him? My kids were obsessed with that game. 406 00:40:05,751 --> 00:40:10,168 Didn't get them planed for to swindle a lot of money from children? 407 00:40:10,335 --> 00:40:14,001 Yes, but it's been a long time and not so current. 408 00:40:14,168 --> 00:40:17,418 Ethics and mobile gaming is quite relevant. 409 00:40:18,376 --> 00:40:20,918 Yes, I agree with that. 410 00:40:21,085 --> 00:40:25,335 Simon can take over. He has done a lot of research on the subject. 411 00:40:25,501 --> 00:40:27,001 Yes. 412 00:40:27,168 --> 00:40:30,293 I'll have him contact Krohn. 413 00:40:35,418 --> 00:40:38,751 You know what? I'll take it. You are right. 414 00:40:38,918 --> 00:40:45,335 - I have met him. It is the best. - Okay. Are you sure? Well. 415 00:41:09,460 --> 00:41:12,043 Would you like something to drink? 416 00:41:12,210 --> 00:41:17,210 We had a birthday, so we have a lot of good sodas. 417 00:41:17,376 --> 00:41:19,960 No thanks. That's fine. 418 00:41:23,335 --> 00:41:27,085 Why Copenhagen? Several illnesses in the family? Siblings? 419 00:41:34,793 --> 00:41:40,585 - Shouldn't we go out? - Yes, we can do that. 420 00:41:42,543 --> 00:41:47,793 Nothing is flawless. Many things may occur during such a process. 421 00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:49,960 There are so many joints. 422 00:41:50,126 --> 00:41:53,376 The server may crash, there are errors in the software, - 423 00:41:53,543 --> 00:41:57,751 - and there is a great risk of human error. 424 00:42:00,460 --> 00:42:05,585 - Is this boring? - No. It's exciting. 425 00:42:05,751 --> 00:42:10,210 Especially considering your own personal experience, - 426 00:42:10,376 --> 00:42:13,168 - which we talked about last time. 427 00:42:13,335 --> 00:42:17,501 - Would you like to elaborate? - There was a lot... 428 00:42:22,751 --> 00:42:26,418 There was a lot of fuss about that game. 429 00:42:30,126 --> 00:42:32,251 I came out in a... 430 00:42:34,085 --> 00:42:36,960 ...personal crisis after that. 431 00:42:42,085 --> 00:42:44,043 I understand. 432 00:42:44,210 --> 00:42:47,918 i think Molly could come any minute. 433 00:42:49,001 --> 00:42:54,960 It's just the two of us today. Mia works late, and Silas is with his father. 434 00:42:55,126 --> 00:42:58,876 Okay. So he... He is not your… 435 00:42:59,043 --> 00:43:03,668 - He's not your... - No, I'm bonus dad. 436 00:43:04,876 --> 00:43:08,043 Yes. And Molly...? 437 00:43:08,210 --> 00:43:11,293 - So you don't have children of your own? - No. 438 00:43:13,251 --> 00:43:17,751 - I didn't mean it that way. - Not biological, no. 439 00:43:25,001 --> 00:43:28,460 Now I'm craving a soda. Is that okay? 440 00:43:28,626 --> 00:43:33,751 Yes yes! We have so many. There are really many kinds. 441 00:43:37,043 --> 00:43:39,126 Now we will see... 442 00:43:39,293 --> 00:43:45,710 Kiwi, raspberry... lemon, pineapple... It is really good. 443 00:43:45,876 --> 00:43:49,835 - Lemon is good. - Lemon? Also for me. 444 00:43:52,626 --> 00:43:54,543 Thank you very much. 445 00:43:57,335 --> 00:43:58,585 Bowl. 446 00:44:02,418 --> 00:44:03,918 That's good. 447 00:44:06,668 --> 00:44:08,668 Oops! Halløjsa. 448 00:44:09,793 --> 00:44:12,960 - It's okay. - It's really good. 449 00:44:14,001 --> 00:44:18,585 - Is it fermented? - No, I don't think so. 450 00:44:20,585 --> 00:44:24,543 I'm so excited about everything which is fermented. 451 00:44:24,710 --> 00:44:30,668 I've dabbled in kimchi, kombucha and sourdough bread. 452 00:44:30,835 --> 00:44:33,626 I dive into all that. 453 00:44:33,793 --> 00:44:38,418 Funny you say that. I was very preoccupied with it for a period. 454 00:44:38,585 --> 00:44:43,126 - I was on YouTube and reading blogs. - Same here. 455 00:44:43,293 --> 00:44:46,168 I miss it. Everything had to be fermented. 456 00:44:46,335 --> 00:44:49,626 - The fridge was... - That sounds like me. 457 00:44:49,793 --> 00:44:54,501 If I'm interested first for something, I go all in. 458 00:44:54,668 --> 00:44:58,460 That is probably why I am a journalist. But ok... 459 00:44:58,626 --> 00:45:01,960 - Have you always lived in Norway? - Yes. 460 00:45:02,126 --> 00:45:06,043 - No, also a little in Denmark. - Why Denmark? 461 00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:10,876 I was offered a job there, so it was... 462 00:45:11,043 --> 00:45:14,543 It became my base for a few years. 463 00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:21,126 I love Denmark. 464 00:45:23,085 --> 00:45:27,835 You have mentioned that you will use your experience - 465 00:45:28,001 --> 00:45:32,960 - to help people with to have a better life. 466 00:45:33,126 --> 00:45:36,126 Teaching at school... 467 00:45:36,293 --> 00:45:39,418 Do you feel you have achieved that goal? 468 00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:44,835 - Did I mention it? - Yes. 469 00:45:46,001 --> 00:45:53,210 I admire people who work towards an overarching goal in this life. 470 00:45:54,335 --> 00:45:57,293 I think it is very… 471 00:45:57,460 --> 00:46:02,001 I have great respect for that. People who don't give up. 472 00:46:04,418 --> 00:46:07,585 i don't know if i have achieved any… 473 00:46:08,501 --> 00:46:10,918 ...target, or... 474 00:46:14,501 --> 00:46:16,293 But thanks. 475 00:46:20,668 --> 00:46:23,668 What should I do? Smile? 476 00:46:23,835 --> 00:46:28,876 Enter the shadow with the face. Try to find the shade from the trees. 477 00:46:29,043 --> 00:46:32,793 Like that, yes. That's fine. Stand there. 478 00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:35,001 Completely relaxed. 479 00:46:37,835 --> 00:46:42,418 - I'm always bad at pictures. - The pictures in the hallway are beautiful. 480 00:46:44,335 --> 00:46:46,751 It was Mia's idea. 481 00:47:00,210 --> 00:47:03,126 - Are you finished? - Yes. 482 00:47:03,293 --> 00:47:05,668 Then I'll come down. 483 00:47:09,043 --> 00:47:11,501 No two days are the same. 484 00:47:11,668 --> 00:47:15,793 But it is, in a way, which is the fun part. 485 00:47:17,043 --> 00:47:22,835 I like writing in the office. And then there are editorial meetings. 486 00:47:23,001 --> 00:47:28,585 And then I'm out interviewing people. Just like today. 487 00:47:31,293 --> 00:47:34,376 What is required to become a journalist? 488 00:47:34,543 --> 00:47:39,085 It is not a protected title. Anyone can start writing. 489 00:47:39,251 --> 00:47:43,376 But it is an advantage to be curious about people. 490 00:47:43,543 --> 00:47:46,585 Do you have any role models? 491 00:47:46,751 --> 00:47:53,501 I admire people, who achieve their dreams. 492 00:47:54,751 --> 00:47:58,335 Who doesn't give up, which are dedicated. 493 00:48:05,251 --> 00:48:06,960 Thanks for now. 494 00:48:08,335 --> 00:48:10,710 It was really nice. 495 00:48:13,835 --> 00:48:17,876 - Maybe you want to have dinner here? - That... 496 00:48:19,501 --> 00:48:21,543 No, I don't think so… 497 00:48:24,876 --> 00:48:29,876 It's sweet of you to ask, but my little boy is waiting for me. 498 00:48:30,043 --> 00:48:31,460 Otherwise, thanks. 499 00:48:31,626 --> 00:48:35,376 Would you like to bring something? A banana, or...? 500 00:48:35,543 --> 00:48:37,835 No, that's fine. 501 00:48:39,376 --> 00:48:42,335 - Well, hey, hey. - Hey hey! 502 00:48:43,543 --> 00:48:46,085 So are we just listening? 503 00:48:47,418 --> 00:48:49,960 Nothing is flawless. 504 00:48:50,126 --> 00:48:54,668 Many things can happen in the course of such a process. 505 00:48:54,835 --> 00:49:00,210 ...your own personal experience, which we talked about last time. 506 00:49:00,376 --> 00:49:03,293 There was a lot to that game. 507 00:49:04,543 --> 00:49:10,043 I came out in a... personal crisis after that. 508 00:49:24,876 --> 00:49:27,668 What about your mother and father? 509 00:49:27,835 --> 00:49:31,710 Do they have any salient features? 510 00:49:31,876 --> 00:49:35,543 I think my mother is very caring. 511 00:49:35,710 --> 00:49:38,126 I don't see her very often. 512 00:49:39,293 --> 00:49:40,793 So... 513 00:49:45,543 --> 00:49:49,543 My father is enough a little more reserved. 514 00:49:51,751 --> 00:49:53,418 I found one! 515 00:49:59,418 --> 00:50:03,960 Which of your parents do you most identify with? 516 00:50:04,126 --> 00:50:09,835 I've thought about that a lot lately. 517 00:50:13,793 --> 00:50:15,210 Enough... 518 00:50:17,001 --> 00:50:18,293 ...my father. 519 00:50:50,376 --> 00:50:54,251 - How old is your daughter? - She is 43. 520 00:50:55,293 --> 00:50:58,293 How do you feel about this? 521 00:51:00,835 --> 00:51:02,418 That's fine. 522 00:51:03,543 --> 00:51:08,293 I'm just thinking about whether it will happen more often in the future. 523 00:51:08,460 --> 00:51:11,710 Stress worsens the course of the disease. 524 00:51:11,876 --> 00:51:15,835 So you just have to try to take it easy. 525 00:51:16,001 --> 00:51:22,001 You said it was still important to be social and meet friends. 526 00:51:22,168 --> 00:51:24,585 I try to push a little. 527 00:51:24,751 --> 00:51:27,668 But I'm a little worried about… 528 00:51:27,835 --> 00:51:32,751 We have a child's birthday soon. Maybe she shouldn't join? 529 00:51:32,918 --> 00:51:38,543 It's hard to say, but if there is many children, it increases stress levels. 530 00:51:38,710 --> 00:51:41,168 Maybe it's not so smart. 531 00:51:42,210 --> 00:51:46,668 But what you said was, that I can assess it myself. 532 00:51:46,835 --> 00:51:48,751 Both and. 533 00:51:48,918 --> 00:51:52,876 Is there anything that has changed at home? 534 00:51:54,418 --> 00:51:58,210 No. The situation is as it usually is. 535 00:51:58,376 --> 00:52:01,835 And it is… You live together, is that right? 536 00:52:02,001 --> 00:52:04,918 With your four-year-old son Sigurd. 537 00:52:05,085 --> 00:52:07,168 Yes. Almost five. 538 00:52:07,335 --> 00:52:09,918 Edith was in a relationship for many years - 539 00:52:10,085 --> 00:52:14,751 - and thought they were going to have children, but then he wouldn't. 540 00:52:14,918 --> 00:52:18,543 And she had waited too long. 541 00:52:18,710 --> 00:52:22,876 I got Sigurd alone, and he is doing very well. 542 00:52:23,043 --> 00:52:26,793 Except he can be difficult to get in touch with. 543 00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:28,918 Like all children at that age. 544 00:52:31,043 --> 00:52:32,168 Yes. 545 00:52:34,251 --> 00:52:39,168 The situation is as it is. I see no cause for concern. 546 00:52:39,335 --> 00:52:42,710 As I said, we are doing just fine. 547 00:52:42,876 --> 00:52:47,210 But now we have to learn to adapt the framework to you, mother. 548 00:52:47,376 --> 00:52:52,876 When you chose to have a child alone, you had to Dorte stay with you and help more, - 549 00:52:53,043 --> 00:52:55,543 - than she is capable of now. 550 00:52:55,710 --> 00:52:58,085 Yes, that was the idea. 551 00:52:58,251 --> 00:53:00,876 That plan has changed a bit. 552 00:53:01,043 --> 00:53:03,876 In step with that Dorte's dementia develops. 553 00:53:04,043 --> 00:53:07,585 - Yes, but we manage as I said. - Yes. 554 00:53:07,751 --> 00:53:12,126 The important thing is that I do the exercises I have been given. 555 00:53:12,293 --> 00:53:15,918 You must keep calm. That is the most important thing. 556 00:53:17,793 --> 00:53:21,251 you say that as a single mother I stress the home? 557 00:53:21,418 --> 00:53:23,835 You say that, Edith. 558 00:53:24,001 --> 00:53:27,251 It's not my fault you're sick. 559 00:53:27,418 --> 00:53:32,210 - I can take care of myself. - No! You can't! 560 00:53:32,376 --> 00:53:36,293 You don't take it seriously. And then we're talking about me? 561 00:53:36,460 --> 00:53:41,876 You get mad at me because you are unsure of your role as a single mother. 562 00:53:42,043 --> 00:53:44,918 - What are you saying?! - That's how it is. 563 00:53:45,085 --> 00:53:50,501 - You were a single mother yourself. Dad slipped. - Now we just have to drop down a bit. 564 00:53:50,668 --> 00:53:55,793 I think that was really brave of you. You just need to know that. 565 00:53:55,960 --> 00:53:59,918 Brave? It's not brave it's completely normal! 566 00:54:00,085 --> 00:54:03,376 Do you say to pregnant couples, that they are brave? 567 00:54:03,543 --> 00:54:07,501 Now fall down and listen to her. Now you must listen to the doctor. 568 00:54:07,668 --> 00:54:08,835 No! 569 00:54:20,585 --> 00:54:23,460 But maybe a game? 570 00:54:23,626 --> 00:54:26,876 Various games, we could play together. 571 00:54:27,043 --> 00:54:33,043 {\an8}No. I want something old, which no one in the whole world has found. 572 00:54:33,210 --> 00:54:35,751 {\an8}I just have to see him one more time. 573 00:54:35,918 --> 00:54:42,126 {\an8}Just like the lighter I got of my friends on the pétanque court. 574 00:54:46,793 --> 00:54:48,293 Yes. 575 00:54:50,126 --> 00:54:55,876 But when we were in the store, we saw one lots of games we could play together. 576 00:54:56,043 --> 00:54:59,585 - No, I said! - Are you absolutely sure? 577 00:54:59,751 --> 00:55:01,751 That's what I said. 578 00:55:01,918 --> 00:55:05,585 What exactly do you want? 579 00:55:17,626 --> 00:55:21,876 I want one more try with the same donor. 580 00:55:24,210 --> 00:55:28,835 - With the same donor? - Yes, that has always been the plan. 581 00:55:29,001 --> 00:55:32,335 - Got it? - What's the matter with you? 582 00:55:33,460 --> 00:55:37,001 There is nothing wrong with me... 583 00:55:37,168 --> 00:55:41,293 I just think about Jens. Isn't it natural that you ...? 584 00:55:41,460 --> 00:55:45,710 Jens doesn't know what he wants, and I have no time to lose. 585 00:55:45,876 --> 00:55:50,751 If Amanda is going to have siblings, should it be now and with Inuus. 586 00:55:52,960 --> 00:55:55,460 Yes. Sorry. 587 00:55:56,543 --> 00:56:00,251 I had a long night with Sigurd. 588 00:56:00,418 --> 00:56:03,626 But it is very good news. 589 00:56:03,793 --> 00:56:06,835 - So good for Amanda. - And for Sigurd. 590 00:56:07,001 --> 00:56:11,376 - He's getting another brother or sister! - Yes! 591 00:56:11,543 --> 00:56:15,543 Stop it. He will be super happy about that. 592 00:56:20,751 --> 00:56:25,293 Thanks for taking him on Saturday. I appreciate that. 593 00:56:25,460 --> 00:56:27,501 Of course. 594 00:56:27,668 --> 00:56:31,710 But I thought that Jens can take them on Saturday. 595 00:56:34,043 --> 00:56:37,501 - Yes? - Then I can go into town with you. 596 00:56:37,668 --> 00:56:43,501 Yes! You can do that. Yes, maybe. We just have to talk about that. 597 00:56:43,668 --> 00:56:45,335 Sigurd! 598 00:56:46,835 --> 00:56:50,085 Sigurd! Leave the lady alone. 599 00:57:01,418 --> 00:57:05,001 No! Seriously. I don't understand anything. 600 00:57:05,168 --> 00:57:07,918 - I have calculated it. - Then come. 601 00:57:08,085 --> 00:57:11,460 - No... - Then show us. 602 00:57:13,043 --> 00:57:16,710 - It's the index finger. - What? 603 00:57:16,876 --> 00:57:20,210 Can't you just say it? 604 00:57:20,376 --> 00:57:25,335 - No! But I give the next round. - I have to catch the plane at six o'clock. 605 00:57:25,501 --> 00:57:27,918 We have a drink for you. 606 00:57:29,251 --> 00:57:33,293 Take something home to Sigurd. You know his taste. 607 00:57:33,460 --> 00:57:35,960 Some Japanese garbage. 608 00:57:37,710 --> 00:57:39,460 - You? - Yes? 609 00:57:39,626 --> 00:57:43,210 I think I saw him Inuus in there. 610 00:57:45,126 --> 00:57:48,543 - Are you sure? - Yes. 611 00:57:51,001 --> 00:57:56,001 - So maybe you're also going home now? - No, why? 612 00:57:56,168 --> 00:58:01,376 No, right? You do as you want. But don't do anything stupid. 613 00:58:01,543 --> 00:58:03,751 - No! - No. 614 00:58:03,918 --> 00:58:09,043 Now I have warned you. You're going home with the others, right? 615 00:58:11,001 --> 00:58:13,626 Good trip. Relax. 616 00:58:15,751 --> 00:58:19,418 - New round, new round. - On the way. 617 00:58:22,251 --> 00:58:24,835 Three beers and three Fernet. 618 00:59:18,585 --> 00:59:22,751 - The evening post? - You remember me well. 619 00:59:23,918 --> 00:59:26,960 Molly hasn't spoken otherwise for several weeks. 620 00:59:27,126 --> 00:59:30,793 - Are you doing well? - Yes, it's going well. 621 00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:32,293 Thirsty? 622 00:59:35,210 --> 00:59:38,251 You look different. 623 00:59:38,418 --> 00:59:40,710 Is that a compliment or not? 624 00:59:43,418 --> 00:59:48,210 No, but... It's going well. Or... I've been feeling better. 625 00:59:48,376 --> 00:59:51,751 - Did you not like the article? - No, no. 626 00:59:51,918 --> 00:59:56,626 It was super nice. You stay Of course, a little self-conscious... 627 00:59:56,793 --> 00:59:59,168 Shall I help carry? 628 00:59:59,335 --> 01:00:01,793 - Hello. Thorbjørn. - Niels. 629 01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:04,001 Niels lager. 630 01:00:05,126 --> 01:00:07,293 - Sorry. - No, no. 631 01:00:08,126 --> 01:00:09,626 Yes? 632 01:00:11,626 --> 01:00:16,585 - Good to see you, Edith. - In the same way. Regards Molly. 633 01:00:16,751 --> 01:00:20,918 - She will be a cool journalist. - Yes. Agreed. 634 01:00:24,460 --> 01:00:26,418 Who was that? 635 01:00:26,585 --> 01:00:29,668 One I wrote about a while ago. 636 01:00:29,835 --> 01:00:34,835 Cool. You can do so much. Child alone, and... 637 01:00:36,126 --> 01:00:39,126 What does that really mean? 638 01:00:39,293 --> 01:00:40,960 What does that mean? 639 01:00:41,126 --> 01:00:46,418 - It wasn't meant to be. - It came out completely wrong. 640 01:00:47,335 --> 01:00:51,543 Why does it do that? Why do you always come to it? 641 01:00:51,710 --> 01:00:55,793 You. Eddie. 642 01:00:55,960 --> 01:00:59,960 Now you get a hug, okay? 643 01:01:00,126 --> 01:01:02,418 - You. - Yes? 644 01:01:04,168 --> 01:01:10,001 Is it because you are self-employed woman and I would wear the glasses? 645 01:01:10,168 --> 01:01:12,501 Will you wear them yourself? 646 01:01:12,668 --> 01:01:16,126 Now we have to go home to the nanny. 647 01:01:16,293 --> 01:01:18,293 Are you going to go? 648 01:01:21,460 --> 01:01:22,918 Do you want to go with us? 649 01:01:23,085 --> 01:01:26,626 No, I drink straight out. Just go, you two. 650 01:01:26,793 --> 01:01:29,418 - Are you sure? - Yes. 651 01:01:29,585 --> 01:01:32,210 - Greetings Dorte. - She's in a summer house. 652 01:01:32,376 --> 01:01:34,626 It will be alright. 653 01:01:34,793 --> 01:01:36,960 With what? 654 01:01:37,126 --> 01:01:39,085 are you ok 655 01:02:17,251 --> 01:02:19,210 Hello, Edith. 656 01:02:20,210 --> 01:02:22,835 Hope you enjoy yourself. 657 01:02:23,001 --> 01:02:27,335 Not to create bad mood or something... 658 01:02:28,835 --> 01:02:33,001 I've been waiting all evening for, that you should call. 659 01:02:33,168 --> 01:02:38,293 Sometimes I feel like you're watching me more like a nanny than a friend. 660 01:02:38,460 --> 01:02:41,585 It's not a very nice feeling. 661 01:02:45,585 --> 01:02:51,876 When we found each other, it was mine hope we would become more like... 662 01:02:53,751 --> 01:02:55,835 Yes, or... 663 01:02:56,001 --> 01:03:00,168 No, no matter. The kids are fine. 664 01:03:00,335 --> 01:03:03,585 Did you get the pictures I sent? 665 01:03:03,751 --> 01:03:06,710 Well, but I'll see you tomorrow. 666 01:03:14,543 --> 01:03:17,335 - A beer. - You must have that. 667 01:03:28,085 --> 01:03:30,293 - Go ahead. - Thank you. 668 01:04:07,085 --> 01:04:09,751 {\an8}Looking for an available car 669 01:04:09,918 --> 01:04:13,251 Niels Krohn: Are you going now? 670 01:04:20,335 --> 01:04:25,501 - It's Celine. It's not me. - I know that well. 671 01:04:31,460 --> 01:04:33,501 - Hello. - Hello. 672 01:04:35,251 --> 01:04:38,585 - I ordered a cart. - Yes. 673 01:04:40,626 --> 01:04:43,501 Maybe I can… 674 01:04:43,668 --> 01:04:47,001 Shall we share it? I'm not going that far. 675 01:04:47,168 --> 01:04:49,793 Nesodden is not exactly on the road. 676 01:04:49,960 --> 01:04:54,210 I'm not going to Nesodden. Mia and I have separated. 677 01:04:54,376 --> 01:04:57,126 - What? - So... 678 01:04:57,293 --> 01:05:02,085 Now I live with a friend, while I get things under control. 679 01:05:02,251 --> 01:05:03,710 Shit. 680 01:05:04,751 --> 01:05:09,501 It's going okay. It feels right. For both of us. 681 01:05:09,668 --> 01:05:14,501 You were the perfect family. It'll be alright. 682 01:05:14,668 --> 01:05:17,793 No. Not this time. 683 01:05:28,418 --> 01:05:33,126 - Where is the glass? - There are wine glasses above the sink. 684 01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:41,293 Have you read it here? 685 01:05:42,543 --> 01:05:46,168 No, not yet. Have you? 686 01:05:46,335 --> 01:05:51,168 - No, I've heard it as an audiobook. - Then you have read it. 687 01:05:51,335 --> 01:05:53,751 Does it really count? 688 01:05:56,001 --> 01:05:58,876 - Campari? - I had nothing else. 689 01:06:00,293 --> 01:06:02,418 Absolutely delicious. 690 01:06:11,793 --> 01:06:16,793 You have a really cool apartment. Would you like to show me around? 691 01:06:16,960 --> 01:06:19,418 It's actually my mother's. 692 01:06:19,585 --> 01:06:24,751 I plan to shine it up. But I haven't got my finger out. 693 01:06:24,918 --> 01:06:29,085 - There is not much to see. - Otherwise, I would like to. 694 01:06:31,043 --> 01:06:33,251 Yes. 695 01:06:33,418 --> 01:06:35,585 - Cheers. - Cheers. 696 01:06:47,001 --> 01:06:51,251 - No, you mustn't! - It's a bit like this... 697 01:06:52,251 --> 01:06:56,043 - Add a little more juice. - More apple juice. 698 01:06:56,210 --> 01:07:00,918 Or more Campari. I think it's better. 699 01:07:01,085 --> 01:07:04,210 As a child I wanted to be an architect. 700 01:07:04,376 --> 01:07:07,626 So did you marry someone instead? 701 01:07:15,543 --> 01:07:17,918 Now I understand much more. 702 01:07:18,085 --> 01:07:23,251 - I said, shines up here. - Now I'm all in. 703 01:07:23,418 --> 01:07:25,835 What's in here? 704 01:07:26,001 --> 01:07:29,210 - There are many things here. - This is my son's room. 705 01:07:29,376 --> 01:07:34,543 This is what my children's room looked like. How nice it is. 706 01:07:34,710 --> 01:07:36,293 Thanks. 707 01:07:40,918 --> 01:07:45,960 - I just continue. Is that okay? - Yes. Just keep talking. 708 01:07:46,126 --> 01:07:49,710 - Watch your head! - It happens all the time. 709 01:07:50,585 --> 01:07:52,501 Okay! 710 01:07:55,835 --> 01:07:58,210 This is where it happens. 711 01:07:59,918 --> 01:08:04,126 Now the tour works as a "move" on my part. 712 01:08:04,293 --> 01:08:08,835 - A childish move in that case. - I am incredibly young. 713 01:08:09,001 --> 01:08:11,918 You're not that young. Or? 714 01:08:14,710 --> 01:08:17,210 - One more? - Yes. 715 01:08:19,793 --> 01:08:23,501 We never really were made for each other. 716 01:08:24,918 --> 01:08:26,501 Not at all. 717 01:08:26,668 --> 01:08:31,501 But it can be hard to realize when you have children and family. 718 01:08:36,418 --> 01:08:40,751 I just think I am afraid of losing the children. 719 01:08:44,210 --> 01:08:47,085 Especially since they're not... Yeah. 720 01:08:50,043 --> 01:08:53,501 - But do you think you want to? - No, so... 721 01:08:53,668 --> 01:08:56,126 After all, they have a father. 722 01:08:56,876 --> 01:08:59,793 But they are really happy for you. 723 01:08:59,960 --> 01:09:06,418 Yes. They are. But I'm afraid if I've been there long enough. 724 01:09:06,585 --> 01:09:10,710 They are lucky to have so many, who love them. 725 01:09:12,585 --> 01:09:15,585 But I understand what you mean. 726 01:09:15,751 --> 01:09:18,501 The feeling of not striking. 727 01:09:18,668 --> 01:09:21,293 - Do you feel that way? - Of course. 728 01:09:22,835 --> 01:09:24,876 Where is the father now? 729 01:09:27,293 --> 01:09:29,876 We don't need to talk about it. 730 01:09:30,043 --> 01:09:32,585 Niels, I... 731 01:09:34,668 --> 01:09:38,501 He no longer lives in Norway. 732 01:09:40,626 --> 01:09:45,960 He moved back to New York, when Sigurd was two years old. 733 01:09:46,126 --> 01:09:49,876 He is an artist and didn't want this. 734 01:09:50,043 --> 01:09:54,085 Having a child was something I wanted to. 735 01:09:54,251 --> 01:09:56,793 Is he in contact with Sigurd now? 736 01:09:57,793 --> 01:10:01,043 - No. - Not at all? 737 01:10:46,626 --> 01:10:49,960 It's insanely beautiful, that dress. 738 01:10:50,126 --> 01:10:53,293 Is it red? Is it brown? I don't know. 739 01:10:53,460 --> 01:10:55,876 It suits you very well. 740 01:10:57,668 --> 01:11:01,251 - How is the color on you? - On me? 741 01:11:01,418 --> 01:11:02,960 Yes. 742 01:11:03,126 --> 01:11:06,876 I'm just going straight down to the fitting room. 743 01:11:31,543 --> 01:11:33,876 Take it here. 744 01:11:34,043 --> 01:11:38,043 No, damn it! Sorry, sorry. 745 01:11:39,335 --> 01:11:42,960 - I spilled Campari on... - It's okay. 746 01:11:43,126 --> 01:11:47,626 - I didn't hit the dress. - All right. Take a towel. 747 01:12:04,376 --> 01:12:08,585 - I found this one. - How beautiful you are. 748 01:12:08,751 --> 01:12:12,001 - Is it fine? - It's so nice. 749 01:12:17,335 --> 01:12:20,293 You must start wearing a dress. 750 01:12:52,168 --> 01:12:55,501 Is it a drunken tattoo? 751 01:13:00,626 --> 01:13:04,085 Yes. Do you have any tattoos? 752 01:13:04,251 --> 01:13:09,001 No, I dare not. And Mia hates tattoos. 753 01:13:12,210 --> 01:13:15,460 I wasn't allowed. Or, well... 754 01:13:17,668 --> 01:13:20,043 I have a needle. 755 01:13:20,918 --> 01:13:24,585 - And ink. - Is that how you got yours? Come on! 756 01:13:27,210 --> 01:13:31,835 - Will it look like yours? - Yes, it's the same one. 757 01:14:08,376 --> 01:14:10,043 Good morning. 758 01:14:17,043 --> 01:14:21,376 - I go out and buy some breakfast. - The cheater. 759 01:14:23,085 --> 01:14:25,293 Don't go anywhere. 760 01:15:48,251 --> 01:15:53,210 Can you tell us about your work situation? 761 01:15:53,376 --> 01:15:57,043 What are you doing? You are self-employed? 762 01:15:57,210 --> 01:16:01,251 It sounds like like I'm unemployed. 763 01:16:01,418 --> 01:16:06,085 No, I am a contractor. Tech developer. 764 01:16:06,251 --> 01:16:09,418 I made a game for some... 765 01:16:19,585 --> 01:16:24,001 ...years ago, which did quite well. 766 01:16:24,168 --> 01:16:28,501 - Should I say the name of the game? - No, leave it at that. 767 01:16:28,668 --> 01:16:33,168 Is it something you want to continue with? 768 01:16:33,335 --> 01:16:36,001 Now I work with... 769 01:17:57,626 --> 01:17:59,960 Juhu! 770 01:18:02,168 --> 01:18:03,876 Hello! 771 01:18:04,043 --> 01:18:06,793 Did you have a little too much yesterday? 772 01:18:21,835 --> 01:18:24,376 Do you like those? 773 01:18:30,335 --> 01:18:33,543 Where did you say Sigurd's father was? 774 01:18:35,293 --> 01:18:37,210 I said that yesterday. 775 01:18:37,376 --> 01:18:41,376 - He... - Hello! Here we are! 776 01:18:42,418 --> 01:18:47,876 - Can I play pétanque with Amanda? - What are you doing here already? 777 01:18:48,043 --> 01:18:51,418 - We're going out again. - I want to play pétanque. 778 01:18:51,585 --> 01:18:56,251 Edith has a visit from a colleague, so we go out into the yard a bit. 779 01:18:56,418 --> 01:18:59,376 We're rounding off here. 780 01:19:02,793 --> 01:19:07,210 Excuse me. They weren't supposed to come until later. 781 01:19:13,793 --> 01:19:20,126 I think you better go now. If that's okay? 782 01:19:20,293 --> 01:19:24,001 You didn't answer... I need to know… 783 01:19:25,501 --> 01:19:28,376 You are not in contact with Sigurd's father? 784 01:19:29,376 --> 01:19:31,293 No. 785 01:19:34,960 --> 01:19:36,960 Not at all? 786 01:19:37,793 --> 01:19:41,626 - No, he left. - To paint? 787 01:19:49,501 --> 01:19:51,376 You have sought me out. 788 01:20:07,751 --> 01:20:12,668 - I was just thinking about who you were. - What do you mean? 789 01:20:12,835 --> 01:20:16,126 I wanted to know if you were a good person. 790 01:20:18,168 --> 01:20:22,001 How ...? How are you...? 791 01:20:22,168 --> 01:20:25,835 I googled you and found a lot of information. 792 01:20:26,001 --> 01:20:29,668 And then I just wanted to know a little more. And then... 793 01:20:29,835 --> 01:20:33,876 You have been at my house. You have met my family. 794 01:20:34,835 --> 01:20:37,460 What is it you want? 795 01:20:37,626 --> 01:20:42,876 I wanted to meet you once. So you showed up at the office with Molly. 796 01:20:43,043 --> 01:20:46,585 - Wait. - And then you insisted on... 797 01:20:46,751 --> 01:20:48,543 What should I do? 798 01:20:48,710 --> 01:20:52,668 So it's my fault? Is that what you say? 799 01:20:52,835 --> 01:20:54,585 Is it my fault? 800 01:20:56,501 --> 01:21:00,876 - I don't know. - It's not me who... 801 01:21:02,835 --> 01:21:05,376 Don't look at me like that. 802 01:21:05,543 --> 01:21:08,751 Don't look at me like that. It is you who is sick. 803 01:21:12,126 --> 01:21:14,418 I have not... 804 01:21:18,126 --> 01:21:20,085 Now please go! 805 01:21:20,251 --> 01:21:25,085 I'm just trying to understand it. You sought me out. Not too? 806 01:21:26,460 --> 01:21:28,835 Do you realize how sick it is? 807 01:21:29,001 --> 01:21:32,793 What is it that you don't understand? Go now! 808 01:21:32,960 --> 01:21:34,960 Is he...? 809 01:21:36,751 --> 01:21:39,460 Are you serious? Edith, let... Wait! 810 01:21:39,626 --> 01:21:42,293 We have to talk together. 811 01:21:44,001 --> 01:21:46,335 Are you serious? 812 01:21:49,293 --> 01:21:52,626 do you have everything or have you forgotten something? 813 01:22:16,210 --> 01:22:18,126 We wash the floor. 814 01:22:18,293 --> 01:22:23,751 Do you want to say something to the child, which will be created with your donation? 815 01:22:25,876 --> 01:22:29,001 Hello. I am your donor. 816 01:22:30,918 --> 01:22:34,210 I hope you are loved. 817 01:22:34,376 --> 01:22:36,876 You probably are, - 818 01:22:37,043 --> 01:22:42,585 - for your parents went through a lot to get you. 819 01:22:44,335 --> 01:22:48,460 Life will be good. And bad. 820 01:22:48,626 --> 01:22:51,710 So... good luck! 821 01:22:58,710 --> 01:23:01,251 are you sure do you want to delete the audio recording? 822 01:23:30,168 --> 01:23:32,251 I can't sleep. 823 01:23:36,043 --> 01:23:38,168 Surely something. 824 01:23:39,085 --> 01:23:41,501 Can I lie here for a while? 825 01:23:44,835 --> 01:23:47,793 You must sleep in your own bed, Edith. 826 01:23:55,001 --> 01:23:59,168 You've gotten so good at it. To sleep alone. 827 01:24:50,460 --> 01:24:53,418 Amanda hasn't asked any more about it. 828 01:24:53,585 --> 01:24:57,043 That's good. Neither does Sigurd. 829 01:24:57,793 --> 01:25:02,085 Do you think he understood that Amanda is his too? 830 01:25:02,251 --> 01:25:04,668 I hope not. 831 01:25:09,460 --> 01:25:12,960 I don't understand that you could go that far. 832 01:25:14,001 --> 01:25:17,918 I felt a need to to know a little more about him. 833 01:25:18,085 --> 01:25:20,751 Now if Sigurd were to ask. 834 01:25:21,501 --> 01:25:24,376 That I had answers ready at hand. 835 01:25:25,293 --> 01:25:31,085 And then I felt that I knew him, before I had met him. I became... 836 01:25:32,293 --> 01:25:35,835 After all, I was the one who gave you the name. 837 01:25:36,001 --> 01:25:39,710 I'm sorry about that. I shouldn't have done that. 838 01:25:39,876 --> 01:25:41,460 No. 839 01:25:44,460 --> 01:25:48,751 But there was my limit. I hope you know that. 840 01:25:48,918 --> 01:25:50,835 Of course. 841 01:25:53,460 --> 01:25:56,585 I don't want to have more children with Inuus. 842 01:25:56,751 --> 01:26:00,918 Or Niels, or whatever I should call him. 843 01:26:02,585 --> 01:26:05,085 He simply gets too specific. 844 01:26:09,960 --> 01:26:13,793 But you... What you said in your voice message. 845 01:26:15,293 --> 01:26:20,210 You are absolutely right. I don't see you as a friend. 846 01:26:23,085 --> 01:26:25,835 We are family after all. 847 01:26:26,001 --> 01:26:29,460 You are the mother of Sigurd's sister. 848 01:26:29,626 --> 01:26:34,001 I am incredibly happy to have you two in our lives. 849 01:26:34,168 --> 01:26:37,710 I hadn't made it all this without you. 850 01:26:48,001 --> 01:26:52,543 Yes yes. They have too ten thousand other siblings out there. 851 01:26:57,960 --> 01:27:01,585 Can we go to the park after dinner? grandma? 852 01:27:01,751 --> 01:27:04,085 I think we'll stay inside. 853 01:27:39,501 --> 01:27:42,126 May I ask for a coffee? 854 01:28:02,251 --> 01:28:04,876 I felt misled. 855 01:28:05,793 --> 01:28:09,376 You set me up in a difficult situation. 856 01:28:10,960 --> 01:28:13,793 It was a great violation. 857 01:28:13,960 --> 01:28:15,960 For me. 858 01:28:16,126 --> 01:28:17,710 Yes. 859 01:28:18,918 --> 01:28:21,043 I am very sorry about that. 860 01:28:23,085 --> 01:28:25,001 Really. 861 01:28:31,585 --> 01:28:34,793 What were you hoping for? that would happen? 862 01:28:37,501 --> 01:28:39,960 What was I hoping for... 863 01:28:46,335 --> 01:28:48,793 I thought maybe I… 864 01:28:51,335 --> 01:28:56,960 ...would understand my boy better, if I knew who his father is. 865 01:29:02,543 --> 01:29:05,876 You must have calculated then, that it would... 866 01:29:08,418 --> 01:29:12,251 ...go wrong... at one point or another. 867 01:29:12,418 --> 01:29:15,001 I let myself get carried away. 868 01:29:17,126 --> 01:29:19,168 I liked you. 869 01:29:23,001 --> 01:29:26,501 I stayed too very impressed with you. 870 01:29:34,751 --> 01:29:39,543 Having a child alone was a plan B for me. 871 01:29:47,376 --> 01:29:51,418 Sometimes I get unsure, whether I am enough for him. 872 01:29:56,376 --> 01:29:59,085 I would like to suggest... 873 01:30:00,001 --> 01:30:02,501 ...that me and Sigurd meet. 874 01:30:03,293 --> 01:30:06,001 In a proper way. 875 01:30:09,626 --> 01:30:14,126 It's 100% up to you. You decide. Sigurd is your son. 876 01:30:15,751 --> 01:30:17,501 But... 877 01:30:33,376 --> 01:30:37,210 can i ask Why did you choose to become a sperm donor? 878 01:30:44,376 --> 01:30:46,918 It was actually quite spontaneous. 879 01:30:49,251 --> 01:30:54,335 They advertised a sperm bank, when I was in Copenhagen. 880 01:30:55,960 --> 01:30:58,876 It was completely impulsive. 881 01:31:00,460 --> 01:31:02,960 I actually think... 882 01:31:03,126 --> 01:31:07,460 Mia and I had a hard time, and she didn't want children. 883 01:31:07,626 --> 01:31:10,918 Or she didn't want more. 884 01:31:11,710 --> 01:31:15,876 Maybe it was my way of feeling, that there is something... 885 01:31:16,876 --> 01:31:18,710 ...of me out there. 886 01:31:26,168 --> 01:31:30,543 I thought I could solve it by tearing it off in a cup. 887 01:31:32,876 --> 01:31:35,126 I have to go to the toilet. 888 01:31:36,751 --> 01:31:39,793 - Speaking of which. - Yes. 889 01:33:25,960 --> 01:33:31,043 Does this look good? Is it too far down? 890 01:33:31,210 --> 01:33:34,376 I think it looks fine. 891 01:33:36,335 --> 01:33:38,251 Just look! 892 01:33:39,668 --> 01:33:44,460 I know I have put you in a difficult situation. 893 01:33:45,585 --> 01:33:51,876 That you want to learn Sigurd to know, now you know that he exists. 894 01:33:54,251 --> 01:33:57,960 But what now, if you change your mind? 895 01:33:58,793 --> 01:34:03,710 I'm afraid to create a lack in him who is not there. 896 01:34:05,626 --> 01:34:09,043 To him, you are a nice man somewhere in the world, - 897 01:34:09,210 --> 01:34:12,501 - who helped me get him. 898 01:34:12,668 --> 01:34:14,585 And that's it. 899 01:34:22,668 --> 01:34:25,168 If he is going to meet you, - 900 01:34:26,126 --> 01:34:31,085 - he must decide it himself, when he is big enough... 901 01:34:31,251 --> 01:34:33,710 ...to make that choice. 902 01:34:35,793 --> 01:34:39,376 And I hope he will. 903 01:34:49,918 --> 01:34:55,876 It was probably a small thing for you to tear it off in that cup, but… 904 01:34:56,043 --> 01:34:58,835 It's my whole world. 905 01:39:00,585 --> 01:39:03,585 Translation: Malene Hollnagel Scandinavian Text Service